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@haphakthetransformingone85058 күн бұрын
Can't wait
@OnekamaProducts8 күн бұрын
I have been so patient waiting for this content!
@MariaMeliora7 күн бұрын
Omg I love love love this guy! He was such a boost of sanity during covid years! Thank you for bringing him on the show guys!
@code4reps7 күн бұрын
Been waiting for this for a couple weeks. He mentioned being on your show in one of his recent vids. Beyond stoked to listen!
@christianortega55106 күн бұрын
Thanks for doing this, Chris! Was so excited to see DeWayne as a guest. Might need a spell check in the description though, brother 👍🏼 Again, thanks for consistently putting out content that helps us grow as people, Chris! Excited to watch when I have time
@korodski6 күн бұрын
"This country is falling apart because people fail to hold others accountable."
@michaelcope23296 күн бұрын
Holding one to account is one of the foundations of Christianity as taught in the scriptures.
@keithstewart9346 күн бұрын
Women held accountable?!?! Perish the thought!
@KFrost-fx7dt6 күн бұрын
keithstewart934 I'll bet you have at least one kid that you never even see or talk to.
@beksinski6 күн бұрын
I disagree. I think the difficulty is we are very eager to hold others accountable but reluctant to hold ourselves accountable.
@keithstewart9346 күн бұрын
@beksinski I regret that I have but one up vote to give for this comment.
@user-id8ng9eq9h6 күн бұрын
I always tell my kids....'there's a lot of love in the word no". I am very comfortable being the bad guy for what I feel is my family's best interests. "Best Interests" means; security, self-sufficiency and resilience.
@Mypplz5 күн бұрын
Love that!
@l7fsl1238 күн бұрын
This man is one of few the real ones on the entire internet.
@JEEDUHCHRI8 күн бұрын
Real? He’s talking about Adam and Eve out the gate. LOL
@fernandopoo82118 күн бұрын
@@JEEDUHCHRI simple minds want simple answers. The boy in the cowboy costume seems pretty simple to me.
@benschilling5468 күн бұрын
Look up the statistics of how kids turn out with versus without a father. All the major problems in our country are because of the fatherless epidemic in our country. It’s just facts.
@LostPilgrim8 күн бұрын
@@JEEDUHCHRIRespectfully, authenticity and having a worldview you believe in are not the same thing. I don't believe in Biblical Literalism, but Dewayne does seem like a very heartfelt person, and he is a well-read man with a ton of life experience if you ever listen to his channel.
@hungryspleen55858 күн бұрын
@JEEDUHCHRI and I suppose you believe in your feelings and yourself alone? Lol
@addressingtheelephant7 күн бұрын
He's mostly right. Unfortunately if a man puts his foot down, he's called an abusive narcissist, she divorces him, takes the kids, half his wealth, etc. The authority of the man has been subverted by poppa government. So if the law stays like it is, it's going to be up to women to find appreciation for such a man. I knew someone who put his foot down (as he describe) and his woman left him for an emasculated man, and threatened him to never see their child every again. The leverage is now in the hands of women.
@James_367 күн бұрын
so he is flat out wrong then and living in delusion to the current times we are living in
@addressingtheelephant7 күн бұрын
@@James_36 Well, we live in times when being "good and righteous", is punished. So he's right but completely out of touch with what suburbia and most populated areas go through.
@ANotoriousBLT6 күн бұрын
Yeah problem with taking everything elders say at face value is that in reality, things change. In today’s world you can be a great husband or a terrible husband and get taken down all the same. A lot of women (especially western ones) are very self destructive when it comes to relationships. Especially because social media has inflated so many peoples egos into thinking they are better than they really are, and that goes for guys and girls. That’s what happens when relationships are less about actually caring for one another and more about feeling good in the short term.
@AM-mp7ug6 күн бұрын
@@addressingtheelephant Simply telling men to "man-up" for the 100th time isn't going to change the ridiculously unfair divorce laws that incentivise women to break up their families.
@smokingcrab22905 күн бұрын
Yeah my wife left me and she's been gone for 4 months. Why? Because we disagreed on things. And those disagreements made her mad and mentally abusive. And her mental abuse made me angry. And she'd use my anger against me to tell everyone im a psycho. I paid for counseling and coaching and she did none of the work. She just blamed everything on me and took my son and ran. Were now getting divorced.
@Sub0Kate8 күн бұрын
Controversial, I know, but I actually think both people in a marriage are responsible for making it work. And you can't force the other one to be decent if they don't want to.
@BoostedPastime8 күн бұрын
Absolutely.
@Pakorengo7 күн бұрын
How would this be controversial! You are exactly right. This man deletes completely the duty, thoughts and responsibility of 50% of the marriage, which is the woman (if hetero couple). It’s a team effort and he is happy saying out loud that half of the couple, just because is a man, needs to make all the decisions , specially the tough ones… “even if your wife is mad at you”. So he thinks only Man can rule the world… come on! Life is more complex than that, thank ‘God’ Come on, some
@mr.mensch15577 күн бұрын
True, although he was answering the question, which was on the role of fatherhood specifically.
@Micmoves7 күн бұрын
You are absolutely right. The controversial part is that the man is absolutely the head of the home, so the responsibility and burden of the family's success ends with him. That is why the man is more to blame.
@marqueskates58736 күн бұрын
Not true at all. Single fathers raise kids just as well as a 2 parent home. But a single mother does not. So whenever a man is around kids are better.
@samcarrs7 күн бұрын
Family courts have failed men
@NevisYsbryd5 күн бұрын
They have not failed them. No fault divorce was invented in Soviet Russia explicitly to destroy the family. It is malice, not incompetence.
@justinv35123 күн бұрын
As a man, that sounds like an excuse
@Sweetcorn973 күн бұрын
@@justinv3512Have you ever been through family court?
@gedwardnelson3 күн бұрын
@@justinv3512 It's an excuse if it ends there, but the statement is 100% factual. Family courts by and large are against the man.
@PineappaPres143 күн бұрын
@@Sweetcorn97 Of course he hasn’t
@empiricalscout45378 күн бұрын
I get the idea that young men need to step up etc. But where are the women calling out women who are actively Misandrist and filling for divorce at 70-90% ??
@katwaugh16867 күн бұрын
True. Women also need to step up.
@WarsmithThanatos7 күн бұрын
Accept the things you cannot change. Have the courage to change the things you can and have the wisdom to know the difference
@dahliaherrod43016 күн бұрын
In algorithmic hell. I watch their content but they get low views. Wonder why? 🤔
@kateruterbories26926 күн бұрын
We call them out, believe me, but they don't listen anymore then men do now. No one wants any responsibility, at all.
@BVEE-j3q6 күн бұрын
Or maybe can take responsibility and think and empathize with why women don't like men and why they break up the marriage. It's not just because like so many men who lack accountability like to spin. You're not being logical, you lack empathy.
@daveoschann15387 күн бұрын
I think one major problem is the women canceling the men who are real men.
@whatname46136 күн бұрын
Stop playing a victim.
@j.p.57166 күн бұрын
@@whatname4613 - Open your eyes to the truth. Proverbs 14:1
@christopherlamott93516 күн бұрын
Basically, real men ignore all that crap, don't care what other people think of them, and do the right thing no matter what.
@nrvna_cheer6 күн бұрын
Nailed it
@KFrost-fx7dt6 күн бұрын
Then cancel those women. Not everyone has to like you.
@PostMillMan6 күн бұрын
This man lives in a world of marriage 1.0 where men had actual authority in their marriage and family. We live in a Marriage 2.0 society where men have no actual authority in their marriage…. Just responsibility
@JC-ez8ic6 күн бұрын
totally agree!
@-eg2no6 күн бұрын
Be the man of a marriage 1.0 and your wife will shed the programming and follow suit. Women always follow whatever is the strongest influence in their life and what makes them feel safe.
@PostMillMan6 күн бұрын
@@-eg2no I can tell you are not married
@isaacengineer22806 күн бұрын
Well said
@IkeCreed6 күн бұрын
Exactly, older men will never fully understand. It sucks because younger men are just left to fend for themselves, all the while being blamed for the world’s problems. We don’t have anybody pointing out problems on both ends. Not older men, not women, not the church, nobody. Hell, I’ve never even been past a first date in my 25 years on earth and somehow I’m blamed for the relationships between men and women.
@RavenTeamCharlie8 күн бұрын
I found Dry Creek on accident and i never left. Words cannot describe how much I love this man. So many nuggets of wisdom and I found him when I was most down. I thank him for picking me back up. It’s amazing what this platform called KZbin is capable of.
@Iceman198520038 күн бұрын
Same here bro, I found him completely on accident. And I haven't stopped watching him since. This man is saving lives, mine included. Thank you Dewayne
@JimMorrison-py6tf6 күн бұрын
The things he says are so relevant to my life as a man, father and husband that sometimes it’s like he is speaking directly to me
@WilderRoadtrip6 күн бұрын
Same here
@Dahhwoo6 күн бұрын
Amen 💯
@jasonbeedon98676 күн бұрын
There is wisdom here. Even if you don’t agree with every point, you cannot deny there is a lot of wisdom.
@IzzyWhiskers8 күн бұрын
This was the podcast we have been waiting for a dad with 7 kids
@290revolver2908 күн бұрын
💯
@yasminogbu89298 күн бұрын
Exactly
@SombraLocs6 күн бұрын
Tough love is hard to give when you're a parent. It is always easier to say to give your kids tough love when you don't have children.
@stonefox91245 күн бұрын
😂 a dad who had a farm handed down to him and he never had to work to gain any of it... No thanks. Great guy and all but from what I can tell he had it easy.
@TheFabFarmer6 күн бұрын
I am a woman, but I blame women! We are supposed to choose who is allowed to create the next generation with us. Many are not choosing wisely!
@user-dg2pg5vh6e6 күн бұрын
Spot on.
@crystalparker1003 күн бұрын
Can you think a little deeper on this? Why are there so many poor options?
@alexisc75652 күн бұрын
You talk as if the majority of men would make good life partners lol
@Ssyphoned8 күн бұрын
Claiming the marriage is solely dependant on the ‘worth’ of the man absolves women of responsibility to marriage. You can put your foot down all you want, but she can just walk away and is in some cases highly incentivized to.
@Gidget-b8s8 күн бұрын
Not to mention she could say he "hurt" her to get him dealt with, if she took the notion.
@Photakk8 күн бұрын
We live in a country where parents are having their children forcefully taken from them because they won't "gender affirm" their kids. CPS shows up, and the kids are gone. This guy would pull out a pistol, and either end up in prison or dead if he was to carry out the words he speaks in that scenario... If we're in a country that allows that, I'm sorry... Fathers and husbands haven't failed... They've lost. Against whom? The ones we were supposed to lead, provide for, set examples for, and discipline... They cried out saying Men are the victimizers, and people started to LISTEN IN MASS. Men have lost their hold on this country... I just pray we can get it back one day.
@newme15898 күн бұрын
In the Christian faith, the man is the leader, but this doesn't mean the woman is "a useless object", this means the leader NEEDS a follower, and the follower NEEDS a leader. Is it commonly said that the woman is a representation of the quality of man, because at a s*xual level, the woman chooses the best man. So a good marriage is represented by a good man, but that's because he is the leader. If the woman is bad, then the marriage is bad, which means the man is bad (and vice versa). It's all connected, in marriage, the man and woman become one.
@Photakk8 күн бұрын
@@newme1589 Hm... Based off of modern American society, how well do you suppose that idea is working out? "woman only bad because man bad"... I'm sure there are many amazing fathers that lost custody of their kids that would severely disagree with you... But don't worry. Your bible has nothing to say about no-fault divorce, feminism, birth control, or abortion either... We are not one nation under god anymore... And applying blanket Christian principles to a society that is falling away from Christianity is a bit out of touch with the reality we face today.
@matthewlee79088 күн бұрын
Not if men change the laws and culture.
@timothy81428 күн бұрын
I get what he's saying. But the blame isn't on fathers or husbands. The blame is on a lack of morals and ethics across the board. I heard someone once say, "The business of business, and the business of life are the same". And that is very true. If you carry yourself with morals and ethics inside the home, it will carry into all other aspects of your life including your job, business, or career. If you lack morals and ethics inside the home, it will have a negative impact.
@urhunn77787 күн бұрын
The blame is with the Feminist system that disempowers men and sets them up to fail in all capacities, including as fathers and husbands. The real question is: why are men allowing this?
@eduardoguzman-lw4ct7 күн бұрын
And who establishes “morals and ethics”? A toddler in the home maybe? The woman? The pet dog? If you’re a God fearing man which it sounds like you might not be this is plain and simple. Foundation is God. And as he said in this video God gave dominion to the Man and the woman was made to help man.
@danielquintieri6 күн бұрын
Yea and fathers are suppose to teach their kids morals and ethics, and theyre not
@JenniRedeemed6 күн бұрын
Yes but you've not heard him all the way. Those morals and ethics are supposed to be established by the father and everyone held responsible by the father. This is a man who is taking complete responsibility for his family. That should be commended
@dahliaherrod43016 күн бұрын
Ethics and morals don't exist in a vacuum. They are created, carried and upheld by people, men and women alike.
@MrCharchar138 күн бұрын
Another win for the internet. Found Dewayne because of a short he did on why he smoked cigars....been watching ever since. He speaks truthfully, not a "lived truth" but truth. The truth resonates differently and I am happy to see his acceptance from the interwebs. I hope he writes his story. So glad to see him on your podcast.
@beebee43346 күн бұрын
I’m so happy to see this guy on the show!!! I’ve caught him online a few times and it’s hard to deny some of the real talk he spits out. Running a rancher school is a hard task; he’s working with young men everyday. Hard work.
@biasedknowledge5 күн бұрын
Dwayne, what a commanding and unapologetic defense of fatherhood you've presented here. It’s rare to hear such clarity on the role of men as the backbone of family and society. You speak of responsibility not as a burden but as a privilege-a duty to be carried out with strength and resolve. One thought strikes me: beyond discipline and protection, a father’s role as a builder deserves more recognition. A good father doesn’t just shield his children from harm; he builds their character by showing them how to live with honor, purpose, and grit. A man’s ability to create a foundation of principles-integrity, respect, and resilience-is just as crucial as his ability to enforce them. It's not just about saying, "No, you can't," but also about showing, "Yes, this is how you thrive." Your methods may ruffle feathers in this soft-hearted age, but the proof lies in the strength of the men and women your children become. Bravo for holding the line, my friend. Society needs more men unafraid to lead with courage.
@frontdeskstaff93594 күн бұрын
You are right but he touched on this. Being an example and being a leader both require a father to be involved and be a teacher/ "builder"
@dancereaper7 күн бұрын
This guy operates under the assumption that the females are always operating honorably with a high degree of self accountability. That is almost never the case. His methods are outdated.
@user-dg2pg5vh6e6 күн бұрын
This is TradCon 101, and why the Republican Party and churches are dying. Ezekiel 16:15.
@DeaconNorton5 күн бұрын
His method worked in my father's home and it's working in mine. It was my wife that suggested this kind of house, the man leads.
@NevisYsbryd5 күн бұрын
Less outdated and more 'patently insane.' That has never described most women (or men).
@IridescentW5 күн бұрын
@@DeaconNorton"My wife suggested the man leads." Lol it's kinda funny you can't see the contradiction in that.
@bryangormann2145 күн бұрын
@@IridescentWthat's actually hilarious lmao
@akarayan5 күн бұрын
This guy reminds me of my grandfather. Growing up in the 80’s and 90’s, there were still patriarchs like this. My grandpa was a big hulk of a guy who rarely spoke, but when he did everyone within earshot shut the hell up and listened. When he passed away >2500 people came to his funeral
@doodnauthsarjoo80132 күн бұрын
What a legend
@0num48 күн бұрын
I do not agree with everything Dewayne says. But I do see value in his words in most cases, regardless of my personal opinion. He's spot on when it comes to the plight of families. Without the bedrock of a stable mom & dad, kids are very likely to go down terrible paths, with no one to guide them through their trials. Everyone makes mistakes, but too few have a repository of wisdom from which they can draw in times of need.
@dontbelieve218 күн бұрын
same, one of my fav podcast is "The loudest man in the room"
@mesosoupify8 күн бұрын
Yeah, I wanted to interrupt him by saying it's not the old days...if you come down hard on your wife or make her resent your decisions she'll just vent her anger to the nearest nice guy stalker on FB just waiting to DM her some shade about you. And your children can call you abusive and hide at school while getting se change.
@UncleGo673 күн бұрын
Men can Learn A lot about Themselves, by Hearing another man Older and More Respected
@johnroberson89578 күн бұрын
You cannot lead any partnership or organization when your partner or followers in an organization are taught from birth to diarespect you and are incenticized to break the partnership up for monetary rewards and social clout.
@boomshroom51188 күн бұрын
Yeah, nobody really acknowledges this. They just blame men for being too weak, the problem is we'll go to jail for being strong raising our voices to say, "no we're going in this direction" or divorced if we don't do whatever our wife says. There is no hope until this is addressed.
@kylelay68587 күн бұрын
Sadly, it doesn't matter. It is the man's responsibility. The blame will always be put on men, and credit will always be deflected away.
@zillobeast52576 күн бұрын
@@boomshroom5118these are some pathetic excuses. Your not gonna go to jail and if you married a woman like that thats your fault
@j.p.57166 күн бұрын
@@zillobeast5257 - Not that simple. Many women are great actresses until they get that ring on their finger and then the truth comes out.
@zillobeast52576 күн бұрын
@@j.p.5716 im well aware of the covert narcissists out there and again it’s entirely your fault if your too dum to pick up on it
@AlchemistJR3 күн бұрын
As a man, here is just a brief description of what a real man should be. A man is a protector of the weak. He has honor, dignity, and compassion. He spends time with his family. Leads by example. He puts his life on the line for others. There are very few men in this country today. Little boys with bloated egos.
@dansamson70815 күн бұрын
The last 5 generations of men have been sent to overseas wars. Lots of brave men lost to someone else’s cause. There is a price to be paid at home, and this is one of them.
@ErinSmith-jo8td2 күн бұрын
Women too. I choose to serve in place of my ex-husband. My daughter and son are likely to join to start their own lives, because it’s how I paid for college and gained experience for the teaching career I have now. I ended up leaving him after I realized how foolish I was for choosing someone who didn’t choose me-in the form of porn addiction, Ashley Maddison, etc., it still took me seven years, as I fight for our marriage in therapy. I would have left service if I felt we could have survived on his income. He’s remarried to another sugar momma, and I don’t time or energy. I’d rather spend it on my kids, especially my sons. I wish my dad had protected me, but he took my ex’s side at first due to his own trauma dealing with divorce, and I remember how bad it was for him. He remarried my mom 6 years later, after a brief failed marriage to an alcoholic crazy woman, with sons I loved as brothers. I’ve learned I can only count on myself, and be there for my kids.
@Hairitage202318 сағат бұрын
Realest MAN I have seen in years!!!
@ContentEnthusiast8 күн бұрын
"Be respectful to your elders, even if they're not respectable they've still been through life enough. Their position earns them what their behavior won't." The man must be a saint or a fool, because a lot of monstrous people get old. Our society is so amazing that it allows it to happen. Getting respected because you lived long enough in a time when it's easier than it's ever been in history to get old is wild. There's a difference between not treating someone poorly and Respect. I'm an older guy and my grandfather told me "Respect is something you earn, and you KEEP earning it the rest of your life." I think he's right, and he lived and died a respectable man.
@DryCreekWranglerSchool8 күн бұрын
You respect people in a large part because of who it makes you. You don’t always respect them for who they have made themselves.
@y04a8 күн бұрын
@@DryCreekWranglerSchoolHave you ever been in a position of having to respect an authority figure who makes you feel sick with anxiety and dread? Do you have a suggestion for dealing with the sense of powerlessness? I agree I'd think more of myself if I could hide my disgust (sorry to admit that's how strongly I feel), however I don't know how to keep myself calm enough to get through it. Maybe I answered my own question. I need to learn how to stay calm even when being affected by an authority figure I deeply dislike and cannot honestly respect. I guess that's life for mature adults. Do you have any thoughts about maintaining composure with difficult people who have power over you (in my case, a teacher)?
@Maorawrath8 күн бұрын
@@DryCreekWranglerSchool Well, respecting people who don't respect you will make you into their door mat.
@francestaylor91568 күн бұрын
Ain’t that the truth. Just because you’re old, it doesn’t make you a wise elder. It just means you’re old.
@uthurpendragun84168 күн бұрын
@@Maorawrathrespect doesn’t mean being a door mat.
@3chunter3075 күн бұрын
Women get cash and prizes for breaking marriage. State governments (least in Texas) use 4d and 4e statutes to match money proceeds to judges and government for levying child support. This creates no win situation for a man in this day and age.
@kimberlyjean22485 күн бұрын
We need more men like him, who are not afraid to hold the line and be seen as the bad guy sometimes
@zeroinblack73176 күн бұрын
Lots of men don't get the opportunity to be present in their children's lives.
@stonefox91245 күн бұрын
Yup... For a man to have a kid is a instant 10-15hr job mandatory.
@LibanDayib3 күн бұрын
To expand a bit further on that, the reality is there are systems in place that are designed to destroy the family unit point blank period. Fathers didn't just forget how to be fathers. Good men with morals are being fought against because that is not good for the agenda of the corrupt institutions ruining the country. Financialy you will be bankrupted at every turn. Hard working Americans are being punished for simply being themselves all of while all types of wickedness is being supported and shoved down your throat. America isn't the America of old. God help it and restore it to its rightful place and it starts with competent and honest leaders. C'mon president Trump we are hopeful.
@barelyillegal795 күн бұрын
This is the tired old fake “man up” line where we’re expected to take responsibility despite having pretty much zero authority over a family in the current legal environment. Assuming responsibility without having actual authority is a fool’s errand. The one thing fathers and husbands must do is FIGHT the system that gives women all the family authority and DEPRIVE the system of OUR labor until our authority is restored.
@mistergormsby5 күн бұрын
If you have 'zero authority' over your family it's not the legal or cultural environment's fault. Instead of 'fighting the system' I tried to do my best to raise four boys into men. That was more important than the system. It was not a fool's errand.
@alkalize4 күн бұрын
@@mistergormsby Congratulations, you got lucky in a time when there were not as many bad influences.
@reaccionapr3 күн бұрын
You missed the whole point
@mistergormsby3 күн бұрын
The oldest is 26 and the youngest is almost 18. Hardly a different time free of bad influences.
@alexdavila13566 күн бұрын
Nice, another old guy that takes women completely out of the equation and simply blames 'men' explicitly. Congrats on having 7 children when that was feasible and people could define what a woman was.
@daphnesuarez59243 күн бұрын
My husband left when I was 4 months pregnant & we already had a baby girl that was 10 months old. I had to become the bad guy for my 2 girls because it what was I had to do because the man of the family ran off with another woman. I love this man, he is EXACTLY like my Dad in so many ways. I come to find out years later that when guys would come to my house looking for me my Dad would first take them into our basement & show them his gun collection. He would say, this is my friend Remington & Winchester...if you hurt my daughter, they will hurt you. Now I know that it is wrong now today but back in the late 70's in Canada it was happening. To be a protector of your family isn't easy, it's tough I know, I had no choice but to be that for my daughters. When guys came to the house for my daughters I didn't show them my gun collection but I did tell them at the door that I have 2 friends that would help me if you ever hurt my daughter. I also spanked my daughters & whatever cloth this man was cut from, I as a woman have some of that same cloth cut in me too because I will do whatever I have to do to protect my daughters, that's my responsibility & I take it seriously. A lot my daughters friends got pregnant & the common denominator was that there was Father in the house that didn't care what his daughter did or an absent Father in the house where the Mother wasn't able to do the right thing for her daughter. I am happy to say that both my daughters are still virgins today & they thank me for protecting them from the "boys" because they don't want to marry a boy, they want to marry a man! Bless this man, I agree with him 100%! I'm still a single Mom living in Toronto & holding down the fort as they say. God Bless everyone!
@MotherFriendSon3 күн бұрын
Sorry, can you please make your point clear. Is it good or bad that your father controlled who his daughter dating with? Was it the case that your husband forced to marry you by Remington & Winchester and then used first chance to leave?
@TheFireFlyStudio672 күн бұрын
👏👏👏👏 I listen to this man at 57 because as a woman growing up without a mother and having a father who was emotionally absent I can still learn life lessons from Dwayne. How much I wish I had a father like him. His children are blessed to have been guided and protected by this man.
@MissCandy3504 күн бұрын
THIS is a REAL MAN and FATHER! This is what’s missing in America.
@silentaces7322 күн бұрын
lol I know guys like him. I bet his wife runs the household
@just_lurking48335 күн бұрын
The fact of the matter is: we have a maturity crisis. And it affects both men and women. For women, it manifests as "oh, since it's socially acceptable, I will be highly promiscuous because it gives me status, money, attention, etc." with no regard to the issues that causes. For men, it's "why should I even try, nobody values me so I'll just let my body deteriorate and over-indulge in video games and drugs/alcohol". Sure, it'd be great if men were "men" but we're not giving men a future with a good wife, so why should they "grow up"?
@Johnnycassshhhh6 күн бұрын
My father was a very absent businessman. All he really told us children was that "I want you to be happy". Pretty horrible advice.
@Sweetcorn973 күн бұрын
Sounds like his heart was in the right place and he loved you guys, but yes being happy and doing what feels good all the time leads to failure.
@Johnnycassshhhh3 күн бұрын
@@Sweetcorn97 He really didn't set any of us kids up for the future. He wanted to save money for college for us but my mom said no because that wasn't how she was raised. I think it's the parents responsibility to teach their children how to be successful. To get them out of the house by hopefully, 18.
@jasonolinger75853 күн бұрын
@@Johnnycassshhhh Don't go down the road of victim hood, take responsibility in knowing that it is up to you and you can do it if you want it bad enough. Make yourself disciplined in every aspect of your life and find people you can draw inspiration and knowledge from.
@Johnnycassshhhh2 күн бұрын
@@jasonolinger7585 You're right.
@javb1152 күн бұрын
@@Johnnycassshhhhjudging by this response u have - “your right” You’re on the right path and all those around you will be positively affected by it. You could have defended your pain but you didn’t. You owned it. Tells me and all readers where your intention was when you posted that. Thank you for sharing
@Kmauve221 сағат бұрын
Every girl needs a father like this man but some of us aren’t so lucky. My dad failed me at a young age but still to this day has not admitted, I have forgiven him but I had to be a solid person for myself. And for that I thank him
@walterp10286 күн бұрын
My follow-up question would be, do you blame the men that marry someone who divorces them over "Not being Happy", takes half the man's stuff, and takes his children for not raising his own kids right, or do you blame the fathers of these women for not raising their women right?
@IkeCreed6 күн бұрын
They will blame the fathers for not raising their daughters right. It’s a shame; it's not even worth arguing with these people; they already know everything in their minds. My sister divorced my “ex” brother-in-law because they changed as “they grew up, and he wasn’t funny or into sports.” These were literally her exact words.
@walterp10286 күн бұрын
@IkeCreed yeah, my follow-up to the follow-up would be, when do you think these women take accountability for their actions instead of just blaming the men in their lives?
@teerav42psu6 күн бұрын
@walterp1028 never in a society that doesn't require it and enables their behavior
@dipsuny3 күн бұрын
Yeah he’ll call men the Whoosies like scam Dave Ramsey..say his di$k or paycheck wasn’t big enough..he didn’t dodge enough ieds in Ukraine, Iraq etc-..they are liars..coming from a veteran..and a dad..been married for 23 years but I know these liars..
@Abeuss2 күн бұрын
The first lie in history was basically “Eve, you deserve better”.
@AndrewKrivtsov2 күн бұрын
A “Christian” person says he’s ready to commit murder is someone offend his offspring. The balance of reasonability is skewed for sure.
@josec.63948 күн бұрын
When he started talking about his daughters... I knew I was gonna love this guy.
@KAM03278 күн бұрын
Man, I wish I had this growing up..and yes, I'm one of those girls that wish I had that kind of protection growing up.
@PostMillMan6 күн бұрын
I have 2 daughters and his advice is toxic. To tell women they can do whatever they want with no consequences is why we have 1 out of 3 women in society who have terminated a pregnancy. Wrong WROng WRONG!
@dotcomadvertising5 күн бұрын
This guy is 100% spot on. My father was incredible and my wife’s dad was an alcoholic excuse for a father. It damages kiddos when dad is a male but not a man.
@johngrantland6807 күн бұрын
The lack of God in the home is another failure point. People go to church but have no Holy spirit/aim to God in their home. It's not even a topic point of the church or family structure today. Madness.
@labandonaldhock802 күн бұрын
This guy is right, 60 years ago.
@Rome_226 күн бұрын
Its sad that society teaches that he would be a bad parent now days. But its what we all needed as kids. America would be a better place if Fathers stayed and raised their children this way. Its just a fact. But also Women need to be held accountable as well.
@j.p.57166 күн бұрын
If fathers stayed? What against the court order that tells them they have to leave?
@monztermovies5 күн бұрын
The lighting crew on this channel are the absolute TOPS!
@davidcope19438 күн бұрын
Appreciate you having Dewayne on. There are not enough outspoken common man philosophers today with common sense who'll help younger people navigate life.
@caseyriggs26335 күн бұрын
American women need to start respecting their man first off all… They’ve lost complete sight of it!
@MrSaxojes4 күн бұрын
From Experience, Respect is Earned in a loving marriage. A loving marriage requires sacrifice and humility and safety. If your wife doesn’t respect you…maybe you are not a husband that needs to be respected. I understand there is a progressive feminist vein in our culture that can be toxic to a marriage that conflicts with a Gospel Centered marriage. I’d recommend not marrying a women that doesn’t share a Gospel Centered world view in the first place. Without truth and humility, you will experience chaos. Notice how he started his response first with God. If your worldview is relative…well, good luck…you will live a life that is always in unbalance and chaos.
@theNash6194 күн бұрын
Women don’t disrespect real men
@silentaces7322 күн бұрын
@@MrSaxojesblame the men lol no wonder the church lost the men
@MrSaxojes2 күн бұрын
@@silentaces732 you obviously aren’t a member of a local church, the church is just fine. Why don’t you visit and learn alittle bit before you comment from the sidelines…
@BIGGELATO6 күн бұрын
A LOT of fathers that have daughters just let them raise themselves, without guidance. My mother's partner for over two decades is exactly like this. And because of this, it ruined them mentally, it wasted years of their lives, it caused them to make incredibly vast amounts of bad decisions through life, and he isn't doing anything but suffer the consequences, all together. And these people all believe that they are doing just great, and they are above others. Their lack of ego development, they don't even know what it is. Ignorance is bliss to ignorant people. So many DO NOT deserve to build families because they build families over unfinished foundations, and this causes nothing but hard ache in the long run.
@JayK305Күн бұрын
Been watching this guy for a long time, while he always has great things to say and wisdom, he lives in a long gone world in a small corner of the us that stayed simple. Put this guy in the big city and he wouldn’t last a second with those women and economics.
@Rufio19758 күн бұрын
The problem is many things. Not just men not being men. Its also greed and lazy parents not teaching their kids to be good people that are willing to work. Then you have the extremists on the political spectrum. On both sides. Not just one.
@BoostedPastime8 күн бұрын
I would say that the real problem is single mother households or broken homes. I believe that an intact family, a healthy family with a healthy relationship and marriage are what we need. Yes men have a responsibility to be strong and to be able to control themselves and their lives. That being said I do not believe that this is inherently a male problem. I believe that this is a societal problem.
@Rufio19758 күн бұрын
@BoostedPastime Agree there also
@mr.mensch15577 күн бұрын
Bingo! His answer does implicitly address this tho, in that so long as men become more responsible, they are in turn more responsible fathers; And thus, better family conditions.
@theNash6194 күн бұрын
No, the problem is Democrats. The bothsides bs isn’t helpful
@Rufio19754 күн бұрын
@@theNash619 Look here buddy. I've been all over the US and was in the military, so I have spoken to many different people. Both sides have extreme views so don't give me that crap, "we are good,they are bad".
@dougg10752 күн бұрын
This is the kind of men I was raised around. Thank God
@chizle8828 күн бұрын
So, what makes a good woman? Is there anything that they could possibly do wrong? If they do, is there any possible punishment? Seems we just give them a free pass for any behavior and go looking for a man to blame instead. Also, if you need a strong church to make strong families and strong families to make a strong church, that seems paradoxical.
@MRW217835 күн бұрын
You completely missed the entire point.....
@PBEl-mj4en5 күн бұрын
I LOVE this guy! What a man! Wish I had a dad like this. I did unwittingly marry a man-baby and the next 29 years were very difficult. We are divorced now and I am NEVER getting married ever again!
@Flyingcircustailwheel8 күн бұрын
Man I disagree with so much of this, fathers and husbands have been completely robbed of their “ability to put their foot down”.
@angryox31028 күн бұрын
Yeah, his rules were perfect for how society used to be. Won’t work now.
@BoostedPastime8 күн бұрын
He is about 100 years too late with his world view.
@Alazar6547 күн бұрын
I'm glad you guys see through this guy lol A lot of people can't.
@BoostedPastime7 күн бұрын
@@Alazar654 yeah I completely agree.
@James_367 күн бұрын
@@DeepDishPeteza yes the guy is about 70 years out of fckin date
@eskeletoallah81325 күн бұрын
It’s so funny to see Chris interview anyone other than Rollo on this topic
@choojooo85315 күн бұрын
Damn that dude is rough. I'n surprised his daughters didn't go crazy living in his house
@simpleman41962 күн бұрын
As a small child my father was very strict with me he beat my butt when I needed it. He was always hard on me no matter what I did. I remember my mom telling my dad that I was gonna grow up hating him. I remember my dad saying he doesn't care if I hate him he wanted me to grow up and be respectful and do the best I can at everything I do in life. My father to this day is my best friend and iam glad he raised me the way he did.
@bethannsmith49696 күн бұрын
Wise words. Boy is it hard sometimes to follow when you want something different than what your husband decides. However, the weight of that is to fall on the husband. I appreciate that protection and provision.
@mmillercarter4 күн бұрын
Makes me so happy yall sat down together man
@astroborne6 күн бұрын
Kids need guidance and boundaries set, but most importantly they need freedom and responsibility as the get older. Parents neglect teaching their kids how to become active problem solvers. How can you expect a kid to navigate the world on their own when they're older if they have never been taught to become their own guide?
@Watusifarm5 күн бұрын
I’m a father of three sons. I’m a great father and great husband to their mother. But this guy is right. Men can be better and should. We’ve just been screamed at by pop culture that we should shut up and sit down. But I can see the tide turning and men realizing their greatness.
@paulhillegass77388 күн бұрын
My own dad is just like Dwayne and I’ve never been able to stand him.
@skyhappy8 күн бұрын
why
@BoostedPastime8 күн бұрын
I don't blame you.
@sitka496 күн бұрын
@@skyhappy Because My dad was the same way. it was either the wrong way or his way - and growing up as kid it seemed I could never do anything right - But when I got older and started working people appreciating me. and then realizing how wrong he was at times ( and not every word he spoke was gospel). Year's later I got into augment with him, and after a little bit I said " You know what problem is, you never think your wrong." he said " who says I 'am - I walked away.
@j.p.57166 күн бұрын
Sad you were such a rebellious child.
@theNash6194 күн бұрын
@@sitka49I bet you voted for Kamala
@cindybrown56624 күн бұрын
My husband is like this good man - willing to be the bad guy for the right reason.
@JPLPizJPL8 күн бұрын
Jesus Christ man to man I respect this guy so much, these are the TRUE family values we need to fight for. Across social classes and race. We need men and fathers like this.
@natalier.67758 күн бұрын
🙏 ❤
@Abeuss2 күн бұрын
Yeah…I was raised by a father a lot like him… “just wait until your dad gets home” was a time of deep reflection on my actions. Lying got me double. My father-in-law questioned me on the porch before I was allowed to enter the house eat with the family. I can say “it works”; if you have a Christian household.
@javb1152 күн бұрын
I would challenge that a bit. It doesn’t work with a “Christian” household. As there are some pretty messed up Christian households and non Christian households. It works with households whoms values are in order
@livingrickroll15768 күн бұрын
Two of the biggest and wisest men on the internet sitting down and talking together. Phenomenal
@Rufio19758 күн бұрын
I don't know about that. One very wise yes. The other is working on it. He's still young and I would consider him smart but not yet wise.
@phil_jc_dev3 күн бұрын
Aye men 🙏 That’s a good father. And that’s for love because parents have the experiences and we need to help our children. Give them what you weren’t taught not what you “weren’t” given.
@Joefest996 күн бұрын
They’re being pushed out.
@AMAR-ym7sz3 күн бұрын
One key ingredient that made this all work. He maintained a fully intact family and marriage with their mother. Tryng to be this effective of a father outside the home of your daughter is not likely to produce this result. You guide your daughter, but unfortunately she is influenced by the mother she lives with more than you who leads her against your advice and ruins her decision making in your absence. Plus the hole in your daughter's heart over the break-up and the fact that you're not there all the time anymore has a negative impact that in many cases drives he into the arms of the wrong guy. Keep it in your pants and don't EVER create children with a woman who is not your wife and never will be.
@natalier.67758 күн бұрын
Sooooo happy you had this wonderful man on your show. He's a real gem! ❤
@coloradoguns4 күн бұрын
OG need to be in more interviews , I catch one of his videos from time to time. He gives wisdom that young men need to hear who don’t have much guidance ! 🇺🇸
@Franchise_Revival6 күн бұрын
The first boy my daughter brought around never introduced himself or shook my hand, I didn’t approve and expressed that to her immediately. Of course her mother (my ex) had the opposite sentiment. Well, didn’t long before she realized who was right. She made sure the next boy I met properly introduced himself.
@Pr3d4tor995 күн бұрын
As a guy whose father expected me to be just like everbody else but thought me nothing and i turned nothing like he wanted the only thing that i can add to this video is that the truth couldn't be told more clearly!
@carosidra8 күн бұрын
While I'd love to have a dad who is deeply "committed to my safety and future", I would hate to have a husband who doesn't speak about marriage as though it's a partnership. He makes it sound as though the success of a society is dependent on men/husbands/father alone.
@josec.63948 күн бұрын
Yeah. I agree. Women have a lot of responsibility for the moral framework of a society. Much like men allow infrastructure, the economy, and law enforcement to work.
@dahliaherrod43016 күн бұрын
Hr actually made a beautiful tribute video to his wife about her role as mother. You should watch it. It gives a great view on his perspective on the power of a mother
@beebee43346 күн бұрын
His channel has a fair number of videos praising his wife and the powerful role of women. It’s just that his channel is designed for men, so his content typically focuses on that
@NevisYsbryd5 күн бұрын
Unfortunately, some of the bad faith claims of feminists are compelling because they happen to have some merit. This perspective does not consider female agency.
@SoloDoloToker3 күн бұрын
Family and society collapse without strong good men
@jeff57212 күн бұрын
Imagine facing your new father-in-law on your wedding day and being met, not with encouragement, but with a death threat. And that's AFTER he concluded that you were a "good man" and had grown up. If someone told me "If you hurt her, they will never find your body," I'd be thinking "I haven't earned his trust, because he still has doubts." I'd be thinking, maybe I need to prove myself a little bit more so he doesn't have to say something like that.
@2815marionwood8 күн бұрын
I agree, but as a divorced man your wife is a person. A husband cannot control his wife. My ex-wife decided to leave and, "find herself," meanwhile destroying a family. Ironically my Ex would call me controlling.
@angryox31028 күн бұрын
Yeah his advice of being the bad guy with good intentions is a quick way to get divorced. You’ll be labeled as toxic and controlling.
@BirdDogey18 күн бұрын
Happens all the time. I tire of lectures on being a good father/husband. I was both and it didn't matter.
@2815marionwood8 күн бұрын
@@BirdDogey1 I hear you brother
@mysterion96868 күн бұрын
The father of your ex wife might be the man that failed here.
@citytrees17528 күн бұрын
No, she didn't 'destroy' a family. It's up to you to step up, be the leader, and make things good. If you continue to whine and say 'our family is destroyed', it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Be the leader of your life, not the victim of someone else's problems.
@thomasjorge4734Күн бұрын
He looks so much like Royal Dano!
@xm85538 күн бұрын
GD this show/podcast is seriously one of the best things out there. I’ve seen a couple of Dry Creek Dave’s videos, he’s interesting. But the variety of great guests you have is amazing. The fine line of having variety and good guest but not having wackos on is hard, and you guys have done it right. Love the show
@UnluckyFatGuy6 күн бұрын
"Where am I?" -Chris Williamson probably
@nicholasfrisch2448 күн бұрын
This episode is gonna go so hard
@spocksdaughter96418 күн бұрын
What plz do you mean?
@brandonmiller57662 күн бұрын
If one takes a step back, it is easy to see that we’re falling apart because most everyone is thinking emotionally not rationally.
@BradWetherby8 күн бұрын
Yeah, women don’t have much reason to listen to their men no more things have changed quite a bit. I think it’s a bit deeper than just men failing
@tcgtplКүн бұрын
@6:30 - First off, I agree with this man’s viewpoint that fathers need to protect their daughters. But if she’s marrying a good man, why make such a bold threat to the husband? What would be this guy’s reaction if the soon-to-be husband made the same statement in reverse, like if your daughter ever disrespects me, cheats on me, or divorces me you won’t be able to find her body. And since you’re the man vouching for my wife being a good woman, I’m going to hold you responsible and they won’t be able to find your body either. Hmm…..
@JoseRodriguez-el7jqКүн бұрын
I made a comment about what you said, and i think it got taken down. And I tried making another one. But all in all I'm happy to hear other people's viewpoints like Dry creeks(whatever his name is), but oftentimes, people forget to be careful not to end up in a situation where the blind follow the blind. Just like any human, he only has some wisdom but not all of it. I need to rewatch this video because I disagree with 3 points he made and a few more. I still think he's a good guy, but i think he does what a lot of influencer do. They get lost in their ego. When you have a channel and a following like Dry Creek, you're an influencer whether he likes it or not. And shout out to chris he did a good job. He's only here to interview him, not debate him.
@1nonstopsherri8 күн бұрын
His children are blessed! The kind of Dad I had. My hero!
@brob-zy8zi3 күн бұрын
I agree with this.... if it was 60 years ago. We live in a different environment today where if you try to hold a woman accountable she'll have 4 other men in your bed by the end of the week and a court system and society standing behind her for it. It shouldn't stop you from doing so but the feeling that "The battle has been lost" runs high among men today. You cannot expect to take a young woman who has never been held accountable by family or society or even to the same extent as men by the law and expect them to all of a sudden fall in line just because you're a good leader and father.... That's not going to happen. They've been taught to take advantage of that by society, not respect and support it. 50 or 60 years ago a marriage could exist like this. But except for a few fleeting examples, that's just not going to happen today. I got incredibly lucky in finding my wife who was raised like this but it took me from the age of 17 all the way to 34 years old to find a woman who wanted to have a partnership and marriage based on morals, values, and commitment to one another. It's a very real struggle for young men today and good character and morals are considered a weak point by most women, not a strong point.
@eunicebediako67493 күн бұрын
It depends on the woman, there's good bit of women put there who honestly want a family. But unfortunately, these women may not be the drop dead gorgeous women men today desire!
@attgogattgog86208 күн бұрын
Alexis de Tocqueville said: “America is great because she is good. If America ceases to be good, America will cease to be great”. 🙏🇺🇸
@lambertyoga10878 күн бұрын
Can you define "good"? Something we can easily understand for the masses? What makes something good?
@attgogattgog86208 күн бұрын
@ Lambert, Id say morally good, the golden rule at a minimum. Keeping crime and draft to a minimum.
@danielbrown93688 күн бұрын
"Good" and "Christian" are different words. For a reason.
@lambertyoga10878 күн бұрын
@@attgogattgog8620 people hurt themselves all the time. If people don't know how to treat themselves it's no wonder why they don't know how to treat others. I bet we can come up with a solid definition
@ThyCorylus7 күн бұрын
No nation is good before God. Look at the founding and the following two centuries. American soil is soaked in blood.
@JalassiКүн бұрын
Teach your sons, and daughters what common sense is, teach them what a Job really looks like, teach them to own their own business, teach them to respect other people.
@paulofurtado49258 күн бұрын
Another one always blaming the men and never the women?
@BoostedPastime8 күн бұрын
I agree with both points, the men need to be held accountable however so do the women. There is a LOT of blue pilled thought in this take although he makes some solid points.
@dudeguybro-bb1wg6 күн бұрын
Yes. Thats the status quo
@JC-cv3up5 күн бұрын
It’s better to hear it from our own. If you are married or have a girlfriend have them watch The happy wife school or Pearl if you want them to learn accountability.
@paulofurtado49255 күн бұрын
@JC-cv3up i know both of those, (some are just cashing in) but how many women will actually listen and take accountability? A good trick for therapists to cash in on women is to always agree with the woman and never with the man, otherwise they will lose them as a costumer. Been single for years and keeping it that way.
@stonefox91245 күн бұрын
Yup. Title alone I'm hitting the do not recommend button.
@HunterOfTheBass3 күн бұрын
Men are stepping up. Women have pushed us away, and we are giving them their space. I work around women, and a lot of them don't see the point in (and this is an actual partial quote) "giving someone else their time". We need to start talking about real women. You can't expect us to just start snatching these ladies up. Maybe you need to get momma to start a channel for these ladies, before you come for us.
@jc-jg9pp8 күн бұрын
Absolutely so excited for this episode to come out, two people I look up to in one room
@akhalif684 күн бұрын
GDay - This fellow reminds me alot of how fathers were expected to deal with raising kids the old school way (fairness, toughness & lots of love)...Travelling Thru remote parts of Eastern Europe, Russia & Asia you can still meet men with this type of attitude...
@lexisparents6 күн бұрын
This is my Dad, my grandfathers…THIS is exactly what we are lacking today! A MAN amongst boys. If we had just a small percentage of men like this raising this generation, we wouldn’t be seeing the crap that is going on today! Thank you Chris for bringing a spotlight on him. I have been watching him for a while and he always makes me feel at home. He makes me miss my grandpas so much but i guess thats why i love to listen to his wisdom!
@alyssamuck7294 күн бұрын
I love this so much! We need more men like this, more husbands like this, more dads like this! We would be so much better off as a society with men like this ♡ God bless this man
@MorganYTHaha8 күн бұрын
My surrogate dad and life coach are talking omg
@mr.mensch15577 күн бұрын
This is good stuff!
@TheNate2065 күн бұрын
Resoundingly agree with that last part. Lying is the worst thing you can do to others and yourself. Truth == Integrity.
@stonemoney84308 күн бұрын
Been really waiting for this drop!
@Scarlett_Horror5 күн бұрын
I can't wait for this episode
@ka92028 күн бұрын
I could listen to Dwayne talk all day. Been watching his channel for the last 3 years.