Mom Invited My Sister to My Wedding Behind My Back - She Gave a Speech About a Nasty High...

Mom Invited My Sister to My Wedding Behind My Back - She Gave a Speech About a Nasty High School Incident, So My Husband Kicked Her Out.
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[@jsullivan649]

“My husband went too far” No he didn’t, he was well within his rights and owes no one an apology, in any form.

[@stardustdeath2497]

“Need to be taught a lesson about family loyalty” coming from the mom that never had her own daughter’s back

[@TheOneWhoSimps]

I mean, she did 🤣

[@areszeudion5153]

It's also ironic in applying it to OP , when her mom is siding with a straight-up ungrateful backstabber.

[@ephemeral2552]

She has the knife in her back all along

[@jbcroos918]

You don't understand,"family loyalty" only applies in the "us" kind of way not in the "we" kind of way

[@IndiraRose2000]

No

[@ChinoMegan]

The comments told her husband he was wrong???!? GURLLLL. byeeeeeee

[@SteveMichael]

Yeah, Reddit is full of a bunch of woke radical people. I live in normal Amercia and it is so funny to see people that come from large cities on the coast to our area. It is like they have never heard a different opinion and they have to defend their opinions they melt down. As they say snowflakes melt when it gets hot.

[@MrArielK]

This story is not on Reddit, what do you think it means?

[@athrunmoza8996]

The commentors are all feminist

[@f687sNFM]

Reddit hates men alot so expect double standards

[@BurghFinsFan]

Exactly, how they thought he was wrong in any way is ridiculous.

[@doomedfromthesmart]

Never apologize for defending your wife. This is endgame status.

[@melody_melon_73]

Exactly! I'd give anything to have a man who'd protect me like OP's husband did for her.

[@LordBison98]

"If they would be uncomfortable they would've told me" is a pretty common phrase used by sexual assaulters

[@Maninawig]

I was thinking delusional people, but you are right.

[@f687sNFM]

As a person who hates non confrontational people, ops partner needs to suffer the consequences of being weak

[@tiah5881]

Yeah, her sister belongs in prison

[@shortangel333]

@@f687sNFM As a person who hates confrontation, may you always suffer wet socks, blistered feet and never truly feeling love from another person.

[@BrightElk]

@@shortangel333What she said was harsh but your comment is even worse. You’re no angel.

[@alext9320]

How in all the nine hells is the OP's husband in the wrong in any conceivable way? You show up to a wedding, without an invitation, with the express intent of ruining it? What was the husband supposed to do? Ask her politely to leave? You don't capitulate to narcissists by apologizing to them for how you reacted to their bad behavior. They're not asking for an apology to mend any sort of bridge, they're doing it to feel power over you. Whoever recommended an apology in the comments should feel ashamed of themselves for their spineless advice.

[@BrownLove7562]

I think that’s what they were expecting. For him to kindly ask her to leave. It’s bull shit. He didn’t drag her by her hair or dress, he wasn’t being aggressive, so how in tf was he wrong. From how OP was explaining the situation, no one jumped in RIGHT AWAY to escort the sister out, so he respectfully took matters into his own hands. Mom has a lot of nerve talking about loyalty when she couldn’t be loyal with OP.

[@fishfossils8858]

Its Reddit. The fems believe touching a woman is the wprst.

[@itz_kim.]

SO TRUE

[@JBTFan124]

It's reddit. What do you expect?

[@Mernom]

​@@BrownLove7562 He literally dragged her by her arm.

[@f687sNFM]

And now that op and husband apologized, the sister thinks shes completely in the right. Way to go reddit, once again too immature to handle a situation well

[@worfsonofmogh1154]

Yeah this story takes a turn at the point. Husband did nothing wrong. You hear Monica's considering a lawsuit so you admit liability and apologize? Bad move. That said, I really do think OP went too far revealing the affair. She went nuclear too soon. You can hear the vitriol related to that random other girl because of some high school bullshit. Yeah her sister is entitled and in the wrong the whole time. Then at the end we see that OP wants to rub it in with Chris. Btw, I don't believe for a second they were "just friends" and the only reason he didn't attend the wedding was a stomach flu. Idt that Chris did anything wrong really. He can hold hands with whomever he wants. But I guarantee he had feelings for OP.

[@Haze_d]

this is y reddit has a bad rep, it's full of braindead extremely offendable ppl in their 40s acting like 12 year olds

[@f687sNFM]

​@@worfsonofmogh1154 you say that as if op did something bad, op has full right to ruin monica

[@adamryan977]

What crazy people are on reddit. He didn't beat her up. He dragged her out of the venue for making a scene. He did everything right and there was absolutley no reason for an apology.

[@MrArielK]

It’s fake

[@f687sNFM]

​@@MrArielKas is nearly all of reddit stories

[@MrArielK]

@@f687sNFM fair enough, but this story is not on Reddit, I’ve looked for it

[@zainanwar6075]

@@f687sNFMUnfortunately

[@kossettereaditte7552]

It's just because he's a man and she's a woman. Let's just be honest here. Assuming the person who owns the channel didn't spawn this video from chatgbt

[@atiqahdiyana5665]

Husband shouldn’t have apologized

[@ngohailong3732]

Actually,if he hadn't apologized,we wouldn't have saw the downfall of her,so ye-

[@ngohailong3732]

But yes,WHY THE F*** DOES THE HUSBAND HAVE TO APOLOGIZE?

[@timboll1]

Here's another reason why I would never go to Reddit for advice. Husband does NOT owe an apology.

[@Jerseybytes2]

for the most part reddit is a joke where women do no harm and men are a-holes

[@Seek1878]

This story was never on reddit. Its made up. And in stories lik this actually on reddit, they take the OP's side.

[@TelManothHexperax]

Wtf ? The comment was on the sister side againt the groom ? Wtf is wrong with people ... she wasnt invited, she tell lie and make à mess so she was kick out ... He was already kind to not slap her . Sometime à good slap is necessary to teach uneducate people some respect like op did in the past . She and the mother both deserve NC here and HE WASNT IN THE WRONG TO.KICK HER OUT . And plz tell me how you kick someone out without using force ...

[@Aurorossmc]

Yea that's why I find it hard to believe that this is real

[@Istringflk]

Link to og post?

[@Maninawig]

Depending on the subreddit, you can get some who think a man who uses a physical response, even in self defense, is wrong cause, as the mom said, men shouldn't hıt women.

[@vesnal7536]

⁠@@Maninawigto each and every one who thinks that, I hope they find the nastiest, abusive, and controlling partner imaginable. They deserve nothing less.

[@bhaminibhanot3028]

Self defence, be it a man or woman is not wrong 🗣​@@Maninawig

[@Maninawig]

If the mom wants an appology, then why not do it chronologically? Sis needs to appologize for starting rumors, for being vile at school, for trying to steal OP's boyfriends, for trying to sleep with OP's fiancé, for maliciously showing up go the wedding, for trying to embarrass a bride on her wedding day, and for spreading lies. Mom needs to appologize for ignoring her golden child's bad behaviors, puting all the onus on OP, supporting Monica's attempt at stealing a married man, supporting Monica's attempt at hijacking the wedding, and calling her husband names. After all those individual and heart-felt appologies, then OP and Adam can appologize for stopping Monica's antics when her mother goaded her on.

[@BrownLove7562]

Man you hit the nail on the coffin!!! Cause I smell hypocrisy coming from the mom about “loyalty”. I smell jealousy, envy and anger coming from the sister, and misery is coming from both the mother and sister.

[@rogueshark23]

The mom is a hypocrite and is in denial that her favorite daughter is a ho.

[@80m58]

In the original post, I was kind of skeptical about the innocence of OP, because of how she described slapping her sister. But the next paragraphs really made it clear that her sister is a ----. Shouldn't have apologized either.

[@lilylou4693]

Whats the name of the OP, please?

[@Black-Rose12]

WOW so a human trying to save their wedding day getting ruined because of a crazy human, who tried to defame their partner, by dragging them out is too far in the eyes of redditors? Do they think everyone is wealthy enough to have high level security at their wedding?

[@Eccentrix-fg6le]

it's the Reddit's ugly double standards showing through. It's A GUY having to physically remove a female, so he must be wrong regardless of the reason. It's safe to say that these are the same kinds of people who would be OK with a female striking her abusive bf, but if the gender roles are reversed, then he's in the wrong bEcAuSe ThErE's NeVeR a ReAsOn To PuT yOuR hAnDs On A wOmAn, BuT wE aRe FoR eQuAlity. what an effing joke.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Don’t apologize! Sometimes physical violence is all that people such as Monica understand, it’s not as if she wound up in the hospital or the morgue. Monica was trespassing, not welcome, and should have known that. The mom should have known this as well, but for sneaking in Monica she is an accomplice to trespassing.

[@zeekay3205]

Shouldn't have apologized for shit! She trespassed to crash a wedding and rightfully got thrown dafuq out! 🎉 As I had read in a previous comments' section, "You shouldn't try to destroy someone else's life with lies when yours can be destroyed by the truth."

[@jessicacarrillo1634]

The comments about the husband grabbing Monica by the arm were wrong....

[@adelapitakova7592]

I'm actually surprised that the sister didn't come to the wedding in white or even wedding dress.

[@lindah3803]

That B wanted to make sure that she had that chance to get ahold of the mic.

[@RepellentJeff]

Everything that happened after Reddit convinced them to send that stupid apology: *_And that’s why you don’t apologize when you’re in the right._*

[@worfsonofmogh1154]

The husband is only one in this story who takes action proportionate to the circumstance so naturally Reddit who pretends he's violent is bad but this revenge spiral is fine. Then she goes nuclear where at least some restraint was needed. I'm going to predict OP will cheat with Chris. OP is petty like her sister overly invested in high school crap. "I'm still friends with him--he didn't attend my wedding because stomach flu." Yeah right. She never fully progressed passed high school so she'll end right back in there.

[@captaingramcrackergrams5990]

That's because Reddit has one simple belief that they will die in order to protect. And that's man. Bad woman good. A woman could literally stab her husband and if he so much has grabbed her wrist. Hard enough to leave a mark so she would stop stabbing him. Reddit would be saying he's the abusive POS 🤦

[@DarkEinherjar]

Don't try to ruin someone's life with lies, when your own life can be ruined by the truth.

[@ChaplainRaziel01]

So Reddit was more upset that Aaron dragged out Monica despite the fact Monica was not originally invited, disrespected OP and a patient and quiet man literally defended his own wife???

[@isaackinsley1662]

Welcome to the internet. It must have been a day where more idiots saw it than sane people.

[@ChaplainRaziel01]

@@isaackinsley1662 yeah, I often forget that this is the internet, sanity was checked out the instant people logged onto their computers…

[@captaingramcrackergrams5990]

​@@isaackinsley1662well that's the thing about Reddit a pretty simple motto Man bad woman good and if woman bad it's because of an even worse man🤦 and the mental gymnastics they will go to to try and justify their position is honestly comical

[@silentdestroyer]

That's some bs. I could die, they could get a Ouija board and I still wouldn't apologize. Reddit must have been off their game.

[@mimiwhite1963]

Op needs to be no contact with her Mom and Monica. And they did not owe an apology

[@anthonyleong4238]

Never go to the same Highschool as your sibling if you’ll be there simultaneously. My brother and I were competitive through middle school, and it was low key toxic. I am 2 years older. However, when high school came, we ended up going to different school when I was a junior. The competition died at that point.

[@ix7958]

Uh... i think that is a you issue, my brother and i never were toxic to each other in school, we also didn't see it as a competition, and we were vibin.

[@sarahreaume6659]

I’m glad that the father was on ops side during this

[@misterghen287]

"She had a really hard time in high school after that incident" "She was really popular in high school" Pick a lane pls.

[@BrightElk]

I was confused about this as well! How can you have a hard time in high school but be very popular in high school at the same time? Perhaps her infamy drew some people to her but I doubt that. 🧐 Then again some of the most morally bankrupt people in my school had a lot of “friends” but it seemed they were just kissing up out of a toxic combo of fear and loneliness so maybe it’s not inaccurate. idk

[@lindah3803]

That could have been meant maliciously.

[@aidanthornton173]

Don't seek advice from people on Reddit. The lifeforms that dwell there are... *Unique.*

[@MrArielK]

This story is not on reddit

[@athrunmoza8996]

True . Your moral compadsion might be lost in there

[@f687sNFM]

Most sensible people dont ask reddit. Plus 99% of the stories are fake. Ive myself made many fake ones with different unique situations to see how the echo chambers react

[@BrightElk]

I’ve been thinking this for years but it’s a relief to see someone actually say it. Naive I need to rethink my friends. They seem to spend a lot of time obsessively on this platform. It would be nice to find some like minded people to be friends with.

[@BrightElk]

@@MrArielKWhat platform is it on might I ask? Facebook or insta maybe?

[@MW-zz3mv]

Note to the young folk: Don't air your family drama publicly. They know all the skeletons.

[@janapeterson5967]

I don’t understand why people stand quiet and let people misbehave. It’s being stupid. Go NC to mom and sister. OP is absolutely stupid about having husband apologize. She is aboneless idiot. Protect your husband and marriage.

[@BM-mk3sv]

What do you mean the husband apologized? Wtf is wrong with the Reddit comments

[@mistysimmons2232]

You guys should not apologize to anybody your mom and sister are both in the wrong period

[@boatthere867]

WTF woman you made your husband say sorry for defending YOU ! . So if your sister turns up one day out the blue and starts to slap or fight you. your hubby might just let it happen as you've just kind of told him he can't defend you from her or any woman from now on.

[@lindah3803]

The B is all mouth. Besides,she already knows OP will hold her own with her. One of the hardest things is for a man to try to break up a cat fight. Grabbing a woman in a cat fight to separate,you don't know what you'll get a handful of.

[@Freda61557]

He shouldn't apologize for anything!

[@DwayneTheSquidJohnson]

Noooooo your husband didn’t go too far, the thing is that you’re allowed to lay your hands on someone if they’re causing a scene and are allowed to take them out of your event, if you weren’t allowed to do that, then anyone would be allowed anywhere, your husband didn’t drag her by the hair or some shit so you didn’t have to apologize

[@aleksandarvil5718]

The World's Smallest Violins 👌🎻👌🎻👌🎻👌🎻👌 for Monica and OP’s enabler!Womb Donor

[@Animez4321]

Seriously? Defamation and trespassing from the sister? The husband was 100% NTA

[@hotdogkid9015]

Who Actually believes that he needed to apologize I’m so tired of people getting soft when a woman gets physically touched in anyway that is slightly violent when they do something wrong it’s actually such a stupid idea that women shouldn’t ever be put in a situation of voice even when they are the abusers like men aren’t supposed to defend themselves

[@NessieNice]

Who are those people who think the husband went too far? He was a solid gentleman! They shouldn't have apologize from the beginning and if those people really have been lurking in reddit for a while it's common knowledge what do you get for apologizing to this kinda people

[@joshschave6376]

"Family loyalty"

[@smorphous8928]

So she tried to ruin Ops reputation because she thought Op was dating him, when in reality they had no actual love for each other but were just friends. The sister could’ve avoided all of that if she just talked to the guy instead of spreading rumours. 😂

[@ulrikanorton6090]

So the jealous sister Monica can make Arron uncomfortable and bad mouth her sister and him but he was in the wrong for takin out the trash in a non violent way?

[@TheGreyParse]

All apologizing did was throw gasoline on the fire. As soon as it became apparent what kind of people these two witches are OP should've just immediately cut contact. Huge respect to her father though for supporting her and her husband, knowing what kind of shit people his wife and younger daughter are.

[@jacearmor5274]

S1: NTA. You never owe anyone an apology for defending yourself. She wouldn't have gotten dragged out if she had just not gone to the wedding and made herself look like a fool.

[@jessicathompson236]

You should just go no contact with your mother and her homewrecker daughter. You need to sue them for the ruined wedding.

[@jemase7931]

No apologies by you are needed. Let your mother know that she has a heck of a lot of gall in inviting your sister, and until you and your husband receive an apology from HER, she is cut off. Yeah, you should have known better than to send that email

[@SilveryBlue1010]

OP, I don't think someone like your mom can bring joy to anybody right now. Your dad is right to want to separate from that mess.

[@rihannaandhihannah408]

such a nice girl still calling them my mother and sister

[@MWB18]

I sure love my boring family! No drama, just love!

[@AnaMoss-mr8hq]

Aaron is a keeper, and A real one

[@itremore]

I have a feeling that Mother had an affair and that Monica is the product of said affair.

[@devhxh1558]

First school incident, thn Thanksgiving incident, ruining marriage speech, after all that she has guts to post abt the OP apology, and didnt take it down even after complaining.... How many pass someone needs before they put them down in their place..

[@jdavis7613]

There is no need to apologize for husband to apologize to op sister. People need to stop asking for and thinking an apology will clear the air and stop people like op sister would stop doing awful things. It won't and an apology is just words. Actions not words speak to me. Time to cut people who don't wish you well out of your life.

[@MikeyCh09]

Husband is absolutely NTA. No apologies.

[@Mia-dt3gl]

I’m calling it now; Monica’s an affair baby.

[@boatthere867]

odds good as mum was fine about the golden girl having an affair and birds of a feather and all that jazz.

[@laquietagray9323]

I think so too daddy needs to divorce her and live a peaceful life.

[@Aurorossmc]

I really REALLY wonder if these stories are fake or real like its hard for me to believe theses types of siblings exist

[@xRavenBlackRosex]

Most are

[@paaaaaaaarruuull]

Might be fake. Might be real. Real because there are very different kinds of people who actually exist and that's pretty hard to believe. Fake because it's VERY hard to believe and "huh is that even possible ?".

[@jackchop1576]

I've got siblings like this.

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

You can usually tell by the way they’re written. The fake ones often use the same types of phrases or are written like you’d write a book

[@allomorpwi1925]

just because you have a great bond with your sibiling/parent doesn't mean it will always great.

[@annahawthorne4904]

I've given my sister more than one slap when we were teenagers and got into trouble but it never stopped me when she needed it

[@simeonyeager2135]

the dad was actually asking "would you be mad if I divorced your mother" at the end

[@yuvrajagarwal6816]

At this point, I believe, every adult should at least go to therapy once every two weeks

[@russelldavis1539]

Is anyone else hearing bowling for soups high School never ends? 😂

[@paulmorgan1009]

Husband should've gone farther and had her ass arrested for not leaving instead. No shade against him forcing her out that was acceptable as well. Entitled person tryna trespass after being told to leave. Sister and Mom are insane. And husband is a great dude.

[@melody_melon_73]

Are you kidding me?!??? The husband did NOT do anything wrong! If you honestly think dragging someone to the door and telling them to leave is "violent", we have a problem here..... Especially, if that person is intentionally ruining someone's wedding and telling a one-sided story.

[@chetlajackson9060]

She did not deserve an apology. He did nothing wrong by dragging her out. Seems it's the only way Monica was gonna leave. Mom should be ashamed of herself

[@Nightowl_s]

Reading the comments this is the perfect example of Reddit comments being WRONG

[@kianna2530]

I can’t believe sisters can be so unkind to their own sibling

[@user-es2vf4qn3h]

When the mom said violence was not the answer first thing that crossed my mind was it’s the question and the answer is yes

[@Abimations7]

If the sister sued the husband, they should’ve sued for trespassing

[@jessicathompson236]

She ruined her own school years by being a lying, jealous wannabe. No one wants to be friends with that.

[@brianarnold8666]

Your husband had absolutely nothing to apologize for

[@JB_2779]

Monica went petty, Op don't need to use violence, just social media and dirty secrets. That's all.😅😅

[@MG-es2no]

If Monica did not want to be dragged out, she would have left when TOLD to leave. And SIS WENT NUCLEAR in the revenge department. GOOD FOR HER! And maybe a good smaking from sister was what she needed. Although did not do any good. Hubby had done nothing that needed an apology. Monica is JUST PLAIN NUTS! I think the councilor would need one after dealing with her AND mommy. 😐

[@AlmightyAphrodite]

Are you kidding me? OP and husband have absolutely NOTHING to apologize for. Don't put anything in writing and give Monica more ammo 😬 God. And I absolutely can't believe there were comments saying they should apologize, thats insane.

[@matthewjohnston7071]

Who the hell said that the husband is wrong! He is well in his rights!

[@miguelarias5193]

Can we put like contracts in with wedding invitations stating " Don't bring uninvited guests, or estranged family member" and put a stupid high penalty or fine or something?!?

[@MacClay8]

So OP's mom talks about Monica suing OP's husband for grabbing her, and OP's husband's immediate reaction is to admit to and apologize for the 'offense' in writing?

[@Michellee970]

So, because the husband was the only person with a spine and escorted the wedding crasher out, people don't like it? Screw that! He was correct! Apologizing was the wrong decision.

[@darpmosh6601]

10 bucks says that the sister is an affair baby.

[@denis3208]

OP shouldn't have invited her mother to the wedding in the first place.

[@Mernom]

The comments here seem very weird: physically grabbing the sister is ASSAULT and is illegal and wrong. There was no actually life threatening situation that warrants ignoring that. Their apology to sister was ONLY for the grabbing part. NOT for escorting her out.

[@christopherbull7856]

The husband shouldn’t of apologized given the sisters track record and what crazy things she would do

[@kiatequila424]

What's the different in your husband dragging her out and secretly! Never say sorry when you're right.

[@jas6940]

Husband had nothing to apologize for i hope from the deepest pettiest part of my soul that that letter was full Of back handed dipping with sarcasm Edit- 😮guess it was real dang OP

[@chung2055]

With Friends like Monica, who needs enemies.

[@TriciaT2407]

I was not apologizing. She's lucky all that occurred was her being "dragged" out.

[@laquietagray9323]

Don't beva doormat by apologies.

[@Bijecarli]

Why would OP say she didn't want to expose the girl who got cheated on, do it anyway, just to say something like"Oh well it's okay because she did ot to me, so i don't feel bad."

[@lindah3803]

Well OP did say that everyone knew who her sisters BFF was. So she didn't have to give the name. OP got back at the gal for treating her badly in school.

[@GryplaysMC]

crazy bruh

[@ComeliaO7]

The husband didn’t need to apologize for shit!

[@ikahloayza3530]

It was stupid of them to apologize. The sister had it coming at the wedding

[@alexdale2387]

You should've disowned the pair of them from the start. They're hypocrites

[@aspiraal]

I would comment "Even after what I did, i'm ashamed about this Monica", but i changed my profile to Lucky so i cant make any ddlc jokes

[@olivestuffedgarlic4901]

HE WAS NOT WRONG WHAT

[@TheGrandy123]

Who could say your husband was wrong ? He was not. She was not leaving by herself. He didnt harm her. It is ridiculous. You should not have apologize. You are enabling her and your mother.

[@rhudy64]

Seriously you need to ghost both your mom and sister.

[@PhobicEra]

It was his wedding too and she was trying to ruin it. He had every right to set her out of there. He didn’t hit her he just took her out n

[@pervysage606]

I think the word your looking for is addiction

[@Moodyman90]

"Family loyalty". Ah yes, just another "rules for thee, not for me" situation because both the mom and the sister have shown so much of that "loyalty" themselves. The dad should will everything he has to OP and let the mom will her part to the sister. Also wonder how many people other than the mom are on the sister's side or is everybody going "Well maybe if you wasn't such a bitch you wouldn't be in this situation."

[@nathansteele4358]

She ruined his wedding too

[@joy4themightydonutchainsaw620]

The whole is my husband the asshole and making him/convincing him to apologized really made me mad. Like chill out on him also that apology was definitely going to blow up in there face that was unwise so many ways to use that against them.

[@benitomartinez2106]

The people that told her the husband was wrong where stupid af

[@JBTFan124]

The comments were against the husband? Reddit is ridiculous