Mom of 3 Quits Her Job To Be An Influencer... Becomes Homeless

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[@Vivacious_Chaos]

Wow!!! So all of our parents never made mistakes, and some that left us scarred for life? Our parents take risks all of the time. She messed up, and she called for help, realizing she messed up. Stop it yall

[@EGreeneConversations]

With this mindset, I really pray that you don't have children.

[@claudetourreau1326]

Pin Of SHAAAAAMMMMEEEE

[@butterygudness7577]

Pin of ignorance

[@bloodydove5718]

"So all of our parents never made mistakes, and some that left us scarred for life?" Quitting your job to go to a whole nother state in hopes of figuring it out and becoming an influencer... Thats not a mistake, thats a series of dumbass decisions with very forseeable consequences for not just herself but also her kids. Yes people (including parents) make mistakes. Not all mistakes are equal, but what she did sounds more in line with.. "engaging in conduct, through negligence or by malice, that creates conditions that place a child in danger of physical or psychological injury" aka child endangerment.

[@zangana3052]

You should call for help too for being this goofy.

[@germains79]

Y'all hear about the woman in Ohio who left her baby girl at home in the crib while she went on vacation for 11 days? Like she expected to just come home & her baby was just gonna be ok not hungry or anything. The baby passed & she had the nerve to say in court that God & her baby girl forgave her. It makes me sick that that baby girl had to suffer that way.

[@daveblackman816]

Yep I heard about that. Absolutely disgusting!

[@Quest1luv]

That story infuriated the hell out of me. At first, I thought to myself, this can't be real, but as the story grew I just got more and more sick to my stomach and, sorry to say, wished the absolute worse for her.

[@n1rvana_]

Its like they don't have brains

[@CrazyHLady]

I saw that RIP to the baby😢

[@taumafipouvi8306]

Yeah shit had me sobbing as a mother myself

[@RyanSavour]

Does that woman not know that you can be on social media from ANYWHERE?? 💩

[@ebi6544]

Exactly!!! And the worst part is that she’s going to have a lot more competition now.

[@javiruiz8365]

I dunno! That’s why I’m confused about this story!😂😂😂

[@CurliFox]

There are so many people who become famous from streaming and making skits in their own home. "Moving to make it," and expecting toget rich quick is a childs mentality.

[@samholdsworth420]

😂

[@combatduckie]

Does she sound and look like she would be smart enough for THIS?

[@schwarz8614]

Social media has deluded multiple generations. People want to be rich quick, or think that anyone can make it, but in reality, luck is the deciding factor more than ever now.

[@carlycrays2831]

It isn't just luck, though that is a huge part of it. You need discipline and reasonable goals. It's a business and you need to treat it as such.

[@combatduckie]

@@carlycrays2831 AND you also need a "business plan" - and if that should not work, a Plan B!

[@peacelove7437]

Delulu

[@andraconstantin9459]

being a social media influencer is a 24/7 job. Its not luck. It takes effort, work, creativity, consistency, ability to learn to pivot and improve and it requires managing teams. Its a flat out business. People that make it have put countless hours in BEFORE quitting their day job. They quit their day job when they were consistently making 30-100k per month from social media.

[@anderskronquist9750]

Luck, persistence, a bit of skill - you need all three. You can compensate for luck, partially, if you have enough money to keep trying such as rich parents bankrolling you or saving up before doing something like moving to a different state/quitting your job. As your persistence and skill increases, the amount of luck needed to succeed reduces - but it never really goes away, and bad runs of luck can screw you over no matter what (planning and renovating a restaurant only to open with Covid slamming the door, for instance). One reason why people want to be rich quick is rather understandable, and it is because they see no path to becoming rich slow, only barely managing their current lifestyle until a bad enough event strikes them down.

[@SharonL92]

I’m with Preach. You can’t be irresponsible like that with kids! I can’t imagine taking risks like that as a mom! Those kids need stability.

[@peacelove7437]

Hmmm. Look at all the title 1 schools around the US. Most if not 95% shouldn’t have kids. Sad , not saying if you’re poor you can raise a child because my parents were beyond poor. Just observed

[@SharonL92]

@@peacelove7437 I’m not saying poor people can’t raise children. I’m saying take the kids because she’s being irresponsible and is now HOMELESS because of her irresponsible actions. There’s a difference in being poor and being homeless. Children shouldn’t be raised on the streets, and if their caregivers can’t be more responsible than that, then they aren’t prepared to be caregivers. It’s that’s simple. You don’t get to take risks like that when you’re a parent.

[@alexanderthegreat5649]

​@@SharonL92 yup! I agree and it's nothing about "poor" we weren't well off at all, but 1 thing that was constant is we ALWAYS had a roof over our head nor were we always on the move. My mother when she got pregnant with my older brother she was living at granny house she was 18, and didn't have to leave but just had it in her mind she should get her own place and she did and never since had she had to move back, with any of her sisters, friends, or any of that we always had our roof, and never forced pops to do anything meaning never was he on child support or alimony or anything I even asked once why she never did she said you shouldn't have to force a parent(mom or dad) to do anything what they do for their kid be it spend time or money shouldn't be because a court "ordered" them to and I was always going to take care of y'all. So even if pops wasn't giving financially constantly(though he did later on start on his own) we couldn't tell we were poor. We could never even pretend to say we starving, we got clothes/shoes at the the start of every school hear and Christmas, always had a car to get us from A to B. never an expensive 1 a Mitsubishi, and later Nissan both used. I couldn't imagine now she would ever make a decision like leaving with 2 of us let alone a 3rd far away to a new state with a plan of "hopefully I'm going to be really famous and riches will roll in in a few days from now."! I was born in 91 by the time I was 18 we moved 3x and each place was better than the last even if slightly. This decision making of hers I'm not big on using this term because it's overused as an excuse nowadays and hardly actually applies but I think she's mentally skewered. I mean Social Media has obviously messed with her brain a lot and to even have the thought process she did says she wasn't all there in the head to begin with. I've seen negative influences of social media, but I've never actually seen it this bad where a wannabe thought success would come so quick. Metaphorically overnight yes like within a year maybe months hell maybe even 1 month..... but she thought success would quite literally happen overnight w/o any kind of game plan at all. Even people who did fo viral overnight actually were trying before and had worked and produced products of some kind for a while. No one said "I'm going to do this." then just absolutely immediately the very first thing they did was instant success and fame.

[@user-yc2ic4rp6z]

Dont take kids from parents unless ABUSE is involved. You dont know where those kids will end up....they love their mother taking them away is trauma.....I realize kids belong with their families unles there is abuse. IF Mom and dad are trying to get it together let it be., ​@SharonL92

[@SharonL92]

@@user-yc2ic4rp6z Abuse is more than just beating your kids or physically harming them. Putting them in harms way or making irresponsible choices like that that prevent you from providing their BASIC needs (I.e. food and SHELTER) also constitutes abuse. Neglect IS abuse. Being so irresponsible that you quit your job on a whim and end up HOMELESS is a level of neglect (aka ABUSE) that warrants removing the kids at least until she can get her shit together. If you can’t even keep a roof over their heads, then they need to be given to someone who can. CPS always tries to place kids with other family members first, which would be the ideal situation if another relative who is actually responsible could take care of them. Leaving kids with a neglectful parent because the system is broken isn’t better than removing them. If she’s homeless, she doesn’t know where her next meal is coming from and where is she staying? Homeless shelters are not safe for kids! You really think that’s an ok environment for children??? Come on now… This situation absolutely warrants having them removed. I’m not saying she can never get them back, but this situation is FAR from suitable for children.

[@reshie]

Becoming an influencer is the new "I'm going to Hollywood to become an actor". The outcome is the same, but at least she wasn't diddled by a shady producer

[@Sassyglbeauty]

I mean, but now you don’t NEED to move to a specific place. So, I don’t understand “moving to become an influencer”…. I mean influencers live everywhere.

[@whatzittooyah]

“….. to become a STAAARRR”

[@MangoPop]

Naw if she lived here and pulled that, CPS giving her 30 days before they come take her kids. 🤦🏾‍♀️ She’s highly irresponsible and delusional.

[@DaaClaptain]

Its almost the new version id say. At least before we had all these people contained in a area. You only had to interact with them when you wanted to go to the circus. Now they are all over, and a dime a dozen.

[@polivepea]

Your absolutely right

[@RayTheomo]

Every child deserves a parent. Not every "adult" deserves children.

[@MiaDraws]

Well said. 100% agree!

[@johnjames7289]

That phrase came from abortions.

[@Superbatmanbro]

Preach 👏🏿

[@garrynewman6211]

Why the quotation marks on adult?

[@PathIsntReal]

@@garrynewman6211come on man use your context clues.

[@evanalmighty5554]

My brother moved to LA with a couple hundred dollars, a dream of being an actor, and no solid plan. It worked out for him in the end. I always respected the leap of faith he took. But I would slap him so hard that Chris Rock’s PTSD would be triggered from hearing the echoes; if my bro planned on doing that while having 3 kids.

[@carlycrays2831]

Yeah, nothing wrong with following your dreams and throwing caution to the wind when you don't have kids and it's just you.

[@ashleyneco]

Is he a actor now

[@evanalmighty5554]

@@ashleyneco thanks for asking🙂 He’s gotten some roles but stepped back from it. Overall he did what I thought was foolish. We supported his decision; yet anticipated him asking for a flight back home lol. But he pursuit his dreams, lived it, never came back home, and lived his best life/20s in LA. You can do these kinds of things when you don’t have kids in the mix. When you don’t have to live for anyone but yourself. I hope her kids get taken.

[@ashleyneco]

@@evanalmighty5554 good for him, and yeah what she did was very stupid.

[@brianaguilar8283]

@@evanalmighty5554what’s his IMDb

[@JujuGurgel]

As a parent of four, this pisses me off!!! At least leave the kids with someone who will put THEM first.

[@beeniecat9411]

There's a reason why we have the phrase "don't quit your day job." We need to say it more frequently again when someone says a bad idea. Edit 4k likes damn thanks for the upvotes.

[@Superbatmanbro]

Yup and also there's another saying "have a backup plan Job "when the thing Influencing thing doesn't work so you don't end like this mother of 3

[@TantricBioHacker]

@@Superbatmanbro There is also the saying made famous by 50 Cent "Get rich or die trying" I think that is more prevelant and romantic that what you guys are spouting

[@teh0wnz0r76]

@@TantricBioHacker yea cuz its romantic n prevalent to prioritize greed n material things over safety, health n well being... not only of urself, but of other ppl ur responsible for

[@rogueknight5984]

@@TantricBioHacker Me personally I find it much more romantic to NOT be a complete idiot

[@TheMeanmarine13]

​@@TantricBioHacker There's nothing romantic about starving kids on the street because they're bum ass mom made a bad choice. Can get rich or die trying while still making some scratch and handling your business.

[@sjb5169]

The way she said "3 little munckins I love em, they're so sweet" sounded soo fake. 😂 That's how I sound after a day of babysitting my friends 3 little terrors. Lol

[@stephaniepantalonie]

She might not be all there...and may not have the capacity to care and provide for 3 toddlers. Cos yeah she sounded FORCED saying that

[@j.m.8545]

It was super creepy.

[@TheRealSyrett]

Agreed. She was lying and thise boys know they arent really loved

[@skullcandy5411]

Yea my immediate response was, you don’t love them.

[@keonkla]

@@TheRealSyrett hopefully when these boys get older they "take care of her"....for good.

[@MadamKaiju]

Who does all that with 3 children and NO PLAN? This was a choice. That's the problem. She wasn't pushed into it by other factors. She made the decision to do this... Didn't have savings, didn't have something to fall back on... And had the nerve to chuckle on the news about it...

[@briantoebben3095]

Heck she's influencing everyone to keep a job instead of hopes and dreams!

[@neoloanderson6676]

Facts 😑

[@maskedcolector7640]

Mission complete: she influenced people on what you should NOT do

[@kaimobley5324]

That's why I say let others be your Personal Crash Test Dummy. It sounds harsh at first but we all do it at one time or another and we don't stop doing it. You think it's ok to be having reckless sex until you meet someone who got a Life Permanent STD or 11teen kids at a young age. Now you don't want to do it anymore. You thought it was going to be a breeze selling Drugs until you see someone get robbed or worse killed for their product. Now you don't want to do it anymore. You thought Toxic Relationships is how you know the other person loves you until you someone who ended up with Stab wounds,destroyed property and Trauma/PTSD. Now you don't want to have that anymore. Let others be your Personal Crash Test Dummy bcus unfortunately there's always someone willing. Don't pay attention to the "success" stories as those are too far in between and even then it still comes around to bite them in the Ass.

[@kaimobley5324]

​@@RoyalCryptlet others be your personal crash test dummy

[@DamitFeelsGoodtobeaRaider]

when did they start being called "influencers"? sounds so stupid. when did they stop being called what they actually are; CONTENT CREATORS!?

[@wtfdtreats]

oh don't worry, plenty of ♀ will follow her path, if they're not already.

[@dmo848]

Bet😂

[@ArchThaBoss]

She is single with 3 TODDLERS. she doesn’t have/get the luxury of taking risks with 3 young lives depending on her. She should be playing it as safe as possible. It seems like she’s used to making bad decisions.

[@501Labs]

100% chance she has multiple baby daddies and non of them are in their children's lives.

[@banyakakal4299]

She is the definition of bad decisions. Why do you think she has 3 small kids?

[@bambi3106]

HARD TRUTH!!!! I only have 1 child & I have a lot of goals, but guess what? My child comes 1st. I chose to become a mother, so I have to play it safe for now and plan… I really wish ppl had this mind set when having kids, it would save the children so much traumatic experiences smh

[@zionjoseph1056]

@@bambi3106respect👊🏾 ,sadly women dont know how to close their legs now(fk contraception,shit happens) moral of the story behave modestly n if you dont take accountability

[@flowerbloom5782]

I mean she has 3 kids and is single. That doesn’t happen out of nowhere. I’m not surprised.

[@SinematicClips]

if more adults realised that they're just not cut out to be parents then there would be less broken homes, single parents and traumatised kids/ kids in the horrible foster system, its always the kids who pay for mistakes they didnt even make

[@khanhnguyen-tt3ff]

How would they know they cut out to be parent without having a kid first, a pet and a kid is in a different leauge

[@SinematicClips]

@@khanhnguyen-tt3ffjust basic self awareness, some people have kids for the sake of it or in more extreme cases to attempt to fix an already broken marriage or even just for the child benefits it’s just selfish people being selfish and likely isnt a problem that’s going away

[@sissysovereign1294]

​​​​@@khanhnguyen-tt3ff​ I heavily disagree as some people just know. I vividly remember at 12 years old, I knew for a fact that I never wanted children. I knew for a fact that I would never be a good mother. I was heavily parentified and forced to play second mother to my two younger sisters, while our actual mom either worked or did whatever the hell she wanted. This amplified even further when she went through her mid life crisis and started going on dates with strange men, acting younger and partying. This lasted until the day I was finally emancipated and moved out of her house into my own apartment with my current boyfriend (seriously God bless him!).This kept me trapped in the house, and HEAVILY stifled my social skills with people my own age. And while I never blamed my sisters for any of this as they had no say on being adopted by mom, I do heavily resent her for destroying my chance of having friends or a normal childhood because of it. When she adopted seven of my younger cousins because of their neglectful father a few years ago, she would immediately try turning to me for free child care again and try shoving them onto me when I had no part in contributing to their existence. She would do this in hopes of it "fixing me" and "changing my mind about kids" which caused me to only push back and be child free harder. Some people don't even need a story such as mine to know that they're unfit to be a parent. Sometimes a simple "because they just don't want to" is reason enough to know they're not cut out for it.

[@destinyjackson9930]

Pleasssseeee don't come for my cousin you definitely don't know her situation or circumstances this a video don't let social media get you caught up

[@EE-iy9rq]

Exactly

[@alexo5190]

Where is the father? If the father is the better and more stable parent financially, he should get FULL CUSTODY. Take away all kids from moms that are unstable and put their kids in danger

[@wesleyhudson2028]

You mean baby daddy right?

[@sheliamccullough9505]

Be right there with that blue hoodie on hiding his face from the camera down there with them kids. U ain’t see him?

[@kiowah231]

The likelihood of black children having an active father in their lives is embarrassingly low.

[@thisnameisnotfake517]

Same shit?

[@emme2141]

Absent father household I think

[@AlexanderSkinnerVids]

“I love ‘em” People like this make that word mean absolutely nothing.

[@maltheri9833]

Loves her kids she says. What an absolute failure

[@tijgertjekonijnwordopgegeten]

It depends, if she was actually not capable of judging that this was not going to work then she can still love her kids and have done this.

[@i-yell-a-lot4906]

ALSO ALSO .......... NO MENTION OF THE FATHER. 💀

[@pabloescobarschanclas]

@@tijgertjekonijnwordopgegetenwhen you love your kids, you don’t jeopardize their wellbeing like this. come on, now.

[@Kate-is5mz]

Fish love...

[@johnstamos5948]

if you're only supporting yourself, okay chase your dream and take risks but when you have kids relying on you? insane

[@armandhuman7700]

Yeah I was actually thinking the same thing... Its not a problem if you take the risk all by yourself... But its just dumb to take that kinda risk with Kids involved...

[@tippytoe1250]

I agree. She needs to think about her children and make sure their needs are met. I know people who hate their job but would not quit because they have little mouths to feed.

[@ajd8558]

The problem with "take her kids" is that the foster system is a shambles and kids end up in terrible circumstances that are worse than what they're in now - moved around, abuse, etc. If all foster homes were awesome, for sure but there's a very high chance of them ending up effed up by the system. I don't know what the solution is, really.

[@elgatomoscato230]

I had to take a good hour to really process this video, because the topic hits really close to home with me when I went through almost 3 years of homelessness just like these kids. I see Aba's heart and how he wants to see a family stay together and I see Preach's protection for the children's wellbeing, it's a hard spot where there is no right answer. Ultimately I agree with Preach for the reason that she chose to gamble with her children's wellbeing, the number one thing a parent shouldn't do. Going through homelessness is especially hard on kids, because the only way you survive in an environment like that, is to normalize it. I had to live in a car and share rooms with tweakers in homeless shelters, which are rife with addiction and mental illness. When that is the state of "normalcy" with children, they may believe that abusive/destructive behavior is normal or even rationalize it later in their lives. The hardest part is that the kids' allegiance will lie with their mother UNTIL they're taken out of the environment to get an outside perspective of how messed up things were. But then there's the pain of feeling unwanted/unbelonging in foster care, especially with older kids. The only saving grace in this situation is if the kids temporarily go into forster care, mom shapes up and gets back custody of the kids. But if she chooses not to, it's the kids that bear the consequence of her negligence. Much love to you Aba and Preach

[@evelynsoriano45]

OMG, I pray your Soul find the contentment that it was deprived of when you were a child. 🤍

[@juggle_g7579]

Thanks for your honesty, this was well written.

[@wardiya3arbiya]

❤❤❤

[@cayapov]

​@@juggle_g7579 Very. I second this

[@elgatomoscato230]

​@@evelynsoriano45 I appreciate your kindness and I dont want it to seem like Im throwing a pity party, but I dont think its possible. Having to grow up so fast and seeing how ugly the world can be has made me immensely distrustful of people. During our time of crisis, we were turned away by friends, family and even the church. People looked at us with disgust and it gave me the realization that people don't stand firmly on their own beliefs, that when the time comes to practice what they preach, they turn away. The world feels hollow to me and I feel like I was robbed of my innocence. Like the venom still surges through my veins, making me hyper-aware of how people can really be and I can't close my eyes. That's why I feel for those kids, because I see the pain in their future if things don't change. I hope they find kind souls like yours and others

[@CagedRyno]

Preach is right. This mom is putting her kids at risk with her poor life choices. People like her are literally why CPS is a thing.

[@lilylokaria7323]

Only that often times children who are put into CPS end up with worse conditions

[@HFFCANADA]

​@@lilylokaria7323 Thats wild to say. You ever seen the streets bud? Having 3 small children when you're homeless you can't even rely on the most basic safe space for them to be while you work.....But even if you trusted the person watching them, their health risks are so high on the street. Even a small bit of hard drugs can kill if ingested and can also kill children from touching and sweating as you leak it through youre pores (like acid). All of those drugs most homeless people use. The risk in so many areas is so much higher. Both are dangerous yes but someone whos already made horrible choices and is on the streets already is faaaar more likely to be dangerous and potentially do something then a person who regularly has the government check on their foster homes... You gonna trust the 12 dudes in the alleyway with fentnyl, acid and cocaine on their hands and bodies to chill by ur kids or you gonna be more suspicious of the old couple who had to interact and pass tests from the government......

[@seanwoolsey6787]

​@lilylokaria7323 I've been in foster care, only for a short time, but homeless is generally worse. At least foster care provides basic life necessities.

[@fitzwaren]

@@lilylokaria7323Worse condition than living in the street ? Stop saying that CPS is always worse than staying with terrible parents

[@phantomzxro1]

​@seanwoolsey6787 I get that but breaking up families could have long term effects. I just think there should be steps taken to allow her and the kids to rebound. Work with family members, get in.a job recruitment program and get under some living arrangements. Try that before just taking the kids away.

[@maracarlisle]

I dont think she realises those are actual children. VERY disturbing

[@Damita3272]

Sadly she prob sees them as accessories

[@calistafalcontail]

This is what alot of Gen Alpha kids have as parents.

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

This is what happens when social media makes it look so easy to be one something and that's the crazy part. She should have realized that not everyone is gonna make it like that.

[@MammaKush88]

Yea.. it does seem like she doesn't see them as people. But I've noticed a lot of ppl do this. They don't realize that children grow up and affect the world with the terrible traits we raise/ didn't raise them with,

[@greed42o]

their welfare

[@wayentruoc]

I wanted to be a cop, but at the time, my ex-wife was in the military, and I recently moved; I had my daughter most of the time. So I became a teacher so I was always available to her. A cop isn't nearly as outlandish, but i wasn't going to risk someone not being there for my daughter. Parenting

[@bgood8299]

Respect for being a real parent and a teacher.

[@hamlet557]

Nothing but RESPECT!

[@Hardawayfits]

So sad😢

[@wayentruoc]

@@Guyintheworld-bw3wg 33

[@wayentruoc]

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[@gardrew]

she could've just tested her 3 day theory over the weekend

[@maddhatter3570]

1:35 the number ONE rule of doing something you love: don’t quit your day job.

[@marlom7882]

I don’t understand why people don’t understand you use your job as much as it uses you. You use your day job to fund what you really want to do. You’re not supposed to have loyalty to your job as much as it has no loyalty to you. Everything corporate or even working at a gas station is all just a means to an end. You’re not supposed to take a leap of faith with no safety net beneath you. That’s how you can fall to rock bottom!

[@Superbatmanbro]

Exactly and number second rule is have brain

[@jhonnycubero21]

@@Superbatmanbro You need the brain first to remember the rule ;)

[@ABIGPLAN]

I am very lucky. I quit my job, but succeeded in art.

[@djchromatix4640]

@@marlom7882You sound extremely naive and immature. Do better

[@joshdillon9637]

Once you have kids, it ain't about you anymore.

[@user-yc2ic4rp6z]

Tell that to their daddy also

[@emayan06]

That poor little boy had to hide his face.

[@davidazure1539]

The naivety of this woman to think it was gonna be that easy.

[@t0ny_708]

I have NEVER heard of a single KZbinr I've randomly seen or follow that quit their 9-5 BEFORE they developed a strong STRONG SM following. That is absolutely crazy to do as a single person, let alone being a single mother of 3. Im with preach, she cannot be trusted with kids

[@varsityreviews707]

As someone who's trying to build up a KZbin career, I would never, EVER quit whatever job I was doing just to try to make it big on KZbin. Even if I did get to the point of being able to make a living off KZbin, I'm not 100% sure I'd quit my job just to do KZbin in case something happens to KZbin.

[@lilliebobson3146]

They're there. You'd be surprised. Not all duh. But some exist. You've just never heard of them.

[@ryanmcclosky3312]

​​@@varsityreviews707good luck to you homie, I subbed.

[@thenonexistinghero]

@@varsityreviews707 You quit your main job(s) after obtaining success, not quit it to become successful. But yeah, there are some who do manage to make it. Is it worth the risk when you have others to take care of that rely on your income and care? Definitely not.

[@varsityreviews707]

@@ryanmcclosky3312 Thanks man, hope you enjoy what I make.

[@Mustang_Dan]

Y’all didn’t even finish the video. It gets worse. She left her husband at home to go do all of this with the kids and now is homeless in a shelter. You know damn well she hasn’t gone back yet because of her pride and it’s her pride alone that is causing the kids to suffer. They ended up giving her some money and supplies to get her and the kids home to her husband/their dad and I wouldn’t be surprised if she just blew the money where she’s at and is right back in the situation we found her in. EDIT: After going back and finding a longer version of this video, I need to point out that I was wrong about the husband. She was living with her mom, not the husband/BD. But the situation is still the same and she can go back home if she wants.

[@Sassyglbeauty]

That’s why you make arrangements for her!

[@timborski1210]

WTF? Thats even worse!! She has to have mental instability

[@craziebarbietalks692]

I feel sorry for her husband.

[@shaleesal.2060]

Wow.....

[@guccimane3731]

@@timborski1210it just stupid. People forget about stupidity these days.

[@sebasstuff8847]

Look at Preach steaming mad towards the end while Aba is trying to defend it. Then they bust out laughing!!! The best part about these guys is their honest friendship and brotherhood. They keep it 100!!

[@bre1730]

Her going to that shelter was all apart of her marketing plan

[@ChickVicious237]

Something about the way she said "three little munchkins, I just love them." told me she is putting on a face to get sympathy.

[@cam0x195]

Shut up

[@sim8908]

O let's be fr you don't know

[@trent2kg813]

How’s your comment a month old bruh😂 there’s no way they had this in the vault for that long, crazy💀

[@untitled795]

@@sim8908 oh let's look at the facts, he's so right.

[@meerkatphantom5499]

To be fair it does sound a little fake. I dont think a parent cares about their kids would risk this type of move. They would try to find a stable job first. ​@sim8908

[@ObeyDaqSwaqq]

I’ve lived in a homeless shelter multiple times when I was a high school and my mom put me out and I lived in a foster home. My grandma was the foster parent but it still was way better than being at that homeless shelter. You have nothing at a shelter. You don’t know what bed you’re going to sleep in when you get back from school. You have to carry The few items you do have everywhere with you - so the kitchen when it’s time to eat, to the bathroom when it’s time to shower, you have to have them hung on your bunk when it’s time for you to sleep. You can’t leave anything down because you don’t know if somebody else is going to take it. That feeling of insecurity and the lack of stability still haunts me and I’m 25 years old

[@howareyoualiveifyoudonteatbeef]

Same here. I'm 37 years old now and I still feel the anxiety, the fear, the insecurity, instability, etc. I've been homeless 3 times. I was homeless twice as a kid thanks to my horrible mother. I was homeless once as an adult thanks to my horrible mother. I refuse to be homeless again. The fear never leaves.

[@BrainBurnStudios]

God damn, I'm sorry you went through this

[@summer5586]

Damn that’s awful and I’m truly sorry you’re still dealing with that to this day. That’s the kind of detail people don’t always hear about when talking about shelters.

[@TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm]

Most people don't bother to look deeper into those institutions. It's even if you sleep there can be attempted theft, if you shower you need to be quick and not leave your belongings unguarded. You don't know who slept on the bed you get, and what they had. It really is turning all your defensive instincts on and evrn years after its not so easy to lower them again. Especially with high rates of drug use they constantly need money, so they steal what they can to sell and get drugs from.

[@NanaJet2K14]

25, fml...

[@maryw4069]

I don’t think she’s working with a full deck, bless her heart ❤️

[@Nylon_riot]

This broke Aba😂...and I am right there with him with the same response.

[@leviticuscornwall9631]

As someone from Houston, I’ve never heard anyone refer to it as an “influencer town”. Ironically, if anything, people only move here for the jobs themselves

[@missyTL]

Exactly I live in Houston

[@Jellybane411]

Exactly! In Houston there are real jobs why would you come to be an influencer? You have oil and gas, medical center, the ship channel and you chose to come to be an influencer! I’m saying this as a native Houstonian!

[@sophritoh]

Bruh I’m a New Yorker but I’ve never heard of Houston being some kind of influencer hub, I’m glad to know I wasn’t the only one confused by that… where is girlie getting her info from? Or who..? Maybe there’s like one big influencer who she’s obsessed with who lives there, so she equates that in her mind to being a whole industry

[@sagestrongbear]

Bruh I I’ve seen a lot of shootings caught on tape and a good 70% are placed in Houston. That place is a pvp zone in my mind

[@danilejai7801]

Was looking for this comment! Never have I ever in the slightest heard of houston being an influencer hub.

[@darkdork1012]

Those poor kids are screwed no matter what. I was homeless under my single mom when I was 14, but she got a state job and got us out of the shelter. I was friends with a lot of foster kids growing up, and there are tons of pedos and child abusers that become foster parents to have access to kids in vulnerable situations. I feel for those kids and hope they have the resilience to overcome their obstacles.

[@catstac2542]

Wonderful that you mom was able to pull you guys out of the situation. She seems like a strong woman.

[@purplelove3666]

Where was your father,?

[@SaiquanCanty]

​@purplelove3666 Dude that's a pretty fucked up question to ask him. Instead of just congratulating him for overcoming childhood challenges, you make a backhanded insult.

[@lionelkolambi8814]

No matter how bad my parents messed up and how angry i was with what they did, they were still around and i still had them in my life. They weren't the wisest people around and made a lot of painful mistakes but they were still present and cared for us. We learned to love them with their mistakes. Now I'm an adult in my 30s and i can see that they just didn't know any better back then and were still trying to figure things out the same way I'm doing right now and didn't have all the right answers on how to live a good life. So for someone to just come out of nowhere and take us from them when we were still kids, i believe would have done more harm than good.

[@MilesGar]

As a child who’s currently in foster care, I don’t want them to be taken away, because I know the pain and trauma of being taken away from your mother at a young age and sent to a random place with people you don’t know. But, as a child who had an irresponsible teen mother, I know that it is in their best interest to be removed (at least temporarily) from her care, and (based on what I saw from my own mother), it should be traumatic enough for her to get her stuff together. She should hopefully realize the consequences of her actions and get back on her feet. Take them away until she gets a place and holds a job for several months. Then allow visitation, and if she has shown genuine change, give them back. Let the kids go to a family member so it’s not a legal battle in court and so money doesn’t get involved. I believe in giving people grace, but if she can’t show any change in maturity and responsibility, then take them permanently. She has unfortunately put their well-being and safety at the bottom of her priority list. Don’t even think about going all in on social media until you’re making more than double your annual salary. Edit: After speaking to my mom on her experience, taking the kids away permanently without a plan is not beneficial. There's needs to be a structured rehabilitation. My mother said after I was taken away she just gave up on life, and it wasn't until she had the possibility of getting me back that she got on top of it. So, I believe it does nothing for anyone to just remove them without hope of getting then back. She'll likely end up sinking into a worse situation.

[@SilverbackE12B]

Irresponsible. Insanity at its finest

[@ivoivic2448]

selfish actually. extremely selfish.

[@buffgarfield3231]

Whats insane is how working a normal job makes you feel like a sucker because all these other people make easy money.

[@wtfdtreats]

*single mother behavior* 🤦🏼

[@StanHowse]

@@buffgarfield3231 Is that really though? I'd have to say, that would ask to Shine a Brighter Light on ALL of Humanity, if that's the case. Because I CERTAINLY feel like a Sucker, at my Min. Wage job, while others do Fuck All, to be Rich.

[@coddfam3]

Listen, I am a single mom of 2 boys. When their dad left 4 yrs ago and COVID destroyed everything about my life. I made my life only about my kids. My sitter retired, I had to leave my good paying job to find something close to home and be able to put my kids on and off the bus. To this day my kids are in sports and other activities I have to find ways to afford and work a crappy pay job. Now when they get older and can take care of themselves I will go back to what I went to school for. This woman does NOT deserve her kids. I would never be homeless no matter what it took nor would I do something to risk my kids safety. Being homeless puts all of them in harms way! My kids well-being is the only thing that matters. If I were to pull some shit like that I would hope someone would take my kids til I was in the right mind frame.

[@summer5586]

Good job mama 👏🏻 Same here! Single mom happy to put off any dreams I had to make sure my son feels stable and secure at home. Sports costs have a line-item on my monthly budget because that’s what makes him happiest and does so much for him mentally. Too many people seem to forget making sure their kids’ safety and wellbeing is supposed to always be top priority no matter what our wants are.

[@pineal0ptics928]

I remember my mom doing near the same for me and my brother and sisters when I was younger. She went back to school too, turned everything around. Your kids will definitely remember your hard work and effort .

[@avenomizedmind5256]

So being homeless is a choice?

[@AmaniBlu]

For the lady in the video yes @@avenomizedmind5256

[@caleighhraee]

@@avenomizedmind5256it quite literally was for this woman the video is about. Did you listen? She wanted to be an INFLUENCER… not a real job. Shes delusional thinking that would work out. She screwed her kids over big time. They don’t have a HOME anymore. wtf are you even asking this question for?

[@askajk5895]

“Your dreams are on the back burner”! This is what real parenting is!!! Stop having children if you want your dream and priorities first…. If your children aren’t first you aren’t ready, STOP!!!

[@sarahmcfadden8990]

I don't understand why some people quit their job and THEN start trying to be an influencer. Yes it's possible to make it, but there's so much competition that it takes years to build an audience.

[@Nylon_riot]

This is like trying to become a professional baseball player at the end of the season in the 7th inning.

[@worldinperson]

I wonder how she wanted to become an influencer. Sell out her children's privacy like so many other family vloggers? She herself doesn't seem to be interesting in any way.

[@theharbingerofconflation]

Maybe this was the stunt to get famous, would not be surprised if she’s on Dr.Phil next week

[@arw1985]

Well, she's now homeless and made it to TV, so maybe there's some 4-dimensional chess playing going on in her head. 😅

[@ANUBIS.911]

​@@theharbingerofconflation We already know woah Vicky Got famous that way

[@MixedChick1]

@@theharbingerofconflation Is it a smart stunt?. I would have preferred that she didnt get 911 involved.

[@British_Cocoa]

@@ANUBIS.911But she didn’t have rent to pay or three children to take care of plus she was a teenager not grown woman 😂

[@napsb1]

As someone who grew up in the system i fully recognize that sometimes kids will be better off in foster care. Not always, but sometimes.

[@howareyoualiveifyoudonteatbeef]

I've seen so many kids absolutely thrive in foster care. So many kids do so much better in life, in every way, when they are removed from their parent/s. The majority I've encountered, have thrived within a week of being aware from their parents. My experience is anecdotal, I know... But that's still my experience.

[@lamour-md2ph]

​@@howareyoualiveifyoudonteatbeefthat's just plain false , I worked with enough foster kids and foster homes to not , no matter where you are , which country you live in, this is psychologically incorrect . It is better than the parent they have but it is not inherently better

[@JaxJenks]

Adults sometimes have no family to jump in and have to do stuff where kids can't be around and for those times foster care can be amazing.

[@howareyoualiveifyoudonteatbeef]

@@lamour-md2ph ok, so you think that a kid is better off with their drug-addicted mother who pimps out her older kids... Then that kid be with a safe, secure foster carer? Tell me you've not worked with foster kids without telling you've never worked with foster kids! Fostering isn't 100% perfect but it's a far better situation then just leaving the kids with their destructive families and hoping for the best!!

[@howareyoualiveifyoudonteatbeef]

@Keep300 you only hear of bad cases because that's where all the media focus. No money to be made from happy foster stories.

[@baronghede2365]

I'm thankful i never had a mom like this, Blessed Be.

[@Priinsu]

Never ever ever in my life would I ever think to just drop everything and move somewhere then call 911 when I run out of money. Only ♀️😂

[@wilfisi588]

I’m 32 yrs old and was in foster care from age 3 to 18, im grateful to have been in that situation, I was lucky to have a kind caring foster mother that raised me as her own with love. the women in this video is a negligent fool, much like my own birth mother, I agree with Preach take those kids

[@purplelove3666]

Blessed

[@wilfisi588]

@@purplelove3666 Blessed indeed especially when one considers that not everyone had the same experience that I did unfortunately

[@user-yc2ic4rp6z]

Glad you got lucky, and had a kind family to raise you. ,most are not so lucky. Those kids need to be with their mother, unless she abusing them in other ways.

[@dafnenoel9825]

Beautiful am 34 and I was in Foster care age 17 to 18.❤

[@elitegenoside]

I'm an actor, and early on my coach told us that "there will come a point where you will have to choose between your day job and your acting career." At SOMEPOINT she said. My friend quit his job the next day and told our coach. She told him she meant when he can't balance auditions and bookings with a 9-5. That is very unlikely to happen in your first 10 years of acting, and this man just heard "quit your job." 😂 That said, he was single with no kids. He ended up starting his own business in the meantime, and now he has three successful companies. We all laugh because my friend COULD be "irresponsible." Yeah, his Haitian mama might have an opinion, but he has no responsibility outside of himself. If he ran out of money, then he's the only not eating. You can't do stuff like this if you have children. You have a responsibility. Not just to the child but to your community in raising a responsible future member.

[@oz_jones]

And you may never get that break. Im not even talking about megastardom. Break a leg!

[@ChocolateTy007]

I think some people watch and don’t realize how much work it is and don’t know how long established channels have been on before any money started flowing, just watching it looks easy, but that’s because we watch the finished product and not the work it takes to get there. I also agree once you have kids they come first your dreams come second and need to be well planned out so as not to put your kids in messed up situations like that

[@agentrussco]

Preach preaching brother

[@The1987Allise]

No responsible parent would ever do such a thing she definitely needs a psych eval I went from having cancer at 19 to a mother at 23 here I am 36 and I'm just now starting to have friends and a social life because I gave my life to my kids

[@davidcoelho9241]

True but you don’t have to make it about you

[@ryanmcclosky3312]

Good job Mom! I do the same for my 9 yr old son.

[@gamingwithgoldi]

How is this posted 1mo ago? Lol yt is trippin

[@marcrose3403]

@@davidcoelho9241 the point is the moment someone have kids it’s about the kids . She quit her job move to another state across the country with no support to pursue a dream with no backup n no plans

[@MmmYumYum.]

​@@marcrose3403I don't think u need to explain the point to a moron. Ur gonna lose braincells

[@diddy2612]

So she made bad decisions on becoming a single mom of 3 kids. After all of that she still hasn’t learned about making bad decisions, smh

[@Werewolf.with.Internet.Access]

Goofy is as goofy does, right

[@ll2323]

U also have to blame the fathers of these children. Where are they? They can at least help the kids.

[@kelleygreengrass]

You dont know if the father is any good. Get off your high horse, you're pathetic.

[@diddy2612]

@@ll2323 that’s a given but I’m addressing her propensity to continue making bad life changing decisions

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

​@@ll2323deadbeats. They can create them but don't want to take care of them, and they the same ones that complain about child support.

[@sarita5572]

I was a single momma of 3...I worked 3 jobs to make ends meet and make sure they had a nice home, food, and clothes. There was no way I was going to let my kids have a bad life or live on the streets. My kids are adults now and work hard, too. This woman is lazy and wants things handed to her. Get off your butt and go to work! This woman should be ashamed of herself. Saying she loves those babies while sitting on her butt is such an insult.

[@nikkolaus91]

I had 1 cool foster parent out of the 8 I was juggled between when I was a teenager. And she was only cool because she was lax enough to let me have a friend over to her house. Most of them use us for labor and god help you if youre a girl in there with a foster father in the home. Some of these foster parents just arent vetted properly. Props to those who make it out of there and havent ended yourself already. Keep that strength, were going to need it for the future.

[@ronswanson1410]

The problem is she is competing with mostly well off rich kids with no responsibilities who have the financial cushion to fail at being an influencer if it doesn't work out.

[@crabcrab6350]

The problem is she thought being an influencer was a achievable goal while offering no talents of her own to an audience. It's not a class thing.... Its a common sense thing and not being a narcissistic person thinking your life is worth viewing.

[@NappturalElegance]

I live in a Houston suburb and I remember when this happened in January. The month of January hadn’t even ended and her new year plan had already fumbled. She was working at Denny’s trying to figure stuff out along with getting a disability check for one of her kids. She was shocked when the mayor told her that the city planned to have everybody out of the center by the next day. The center was only open to be a warming center for the cold temperatures that came that day. She should have left her kids at home with her mom in Florida and came by herself or tried to become an influencer in Florida before moving to Houston. She clearly did not plan and I can only hope that CPS didn’t take her kids and that she took her behind right back to Florida.

[@SpicyPlur]

Yeah, she also cashed out a disability check ment for her child to make the move SMH

[@quekumber]

Man, seeing him go off like that right at the beginning. Respec.

[@sydsyd655]

"Mental Health" I knew it was coming 🤣🤣 By all means, preach Preach!

[@dudepool7530]

Ive experienced both. Foster care was better than being a homeless child.

[@macbethsbmolatole6409]

Yep,,when put in a position to choose between those 2,,,foster care is the better option,, being a homeless as a kid is the final and highest level of difficulty

[@spilleraaron4748]

I feel if you quite your job without a backup plan and people to provide for, the end result is warranted. I feel sorry for the kids but not for her.

[@andrewferguson8032]

I don’t want her influencing ANYONE. She is a bad influence

[@Mendyshahan]

I totally agree with you. That lady crazy. Poor kids!!

[@BigMac785]

“Take them kids away” 😮😮😂😂😂

[@BenjiBoi696]

She didn’t realize those influencers mostly made it first then moved out there 😂

[@SmickyD]

As someone who was in and out of foster care. My mother had a long list of personal problems. I was never more scared for my life than when i was in my mother's custody. She has borderline personality disorder and she was a stripper. She brought strange men home every other night. The worst part about the whole thing is she was sober. She doesn't drink or do drugs but she decided to subject us kids to that every day. She was worthless and will always be worthless. They should have never given us kids back to her.

[@TheRealSyrett]

Being a stripper isn't bad but bringing men home is. Is dancing is treated just like any other job then it's fine. You leave to work. You come home 4-8 hours later. You pay the bills, grocery, cook and clean like anyone else... No one even needs to know what to do for work. If there are children then they are left with a caretaker while the parent is working... Anyway stripping is fine. Sorry your mom brought men home and didn't prioritize her kids :/

[@SmickyD]

@@TheRealSyrett being a stripper is fine. Having kids with 4 different men who paid for sex is not fine. Leaving your 3 kids home alone ages 6,4,2 while you go get your holes filled is not ok. She didn't even do it for money. We barely ever had food. She just fucked for the attention and an escape from her kids. Not only that but my mother blamed me and my brother for having to strip. She told us that when I was 15 and he was 13. Stripping is fine but there is no way to be a functional mother when you are selling your body and not giving a shit about anything but yourself. A stripper is not a mother it's an inherently selfish "profession".

[@dddd2319]

⁠being a stripper isn’t bad? God help us all.

[@SmickyD]

@@dddd2319 yeah IDK. I went to a strip club once for my buddies bachelor party and it's honestly pretty sickening. It takes a really depraved mind to stoop that low for money. And an even more depraved mind to actually pay for it.

[@drink.juice.]

@@TheRealSyrett moms shouldnt be strippers isnt a hot take

[@arleenperera7019]

I am so amazed by these young men and their way of thinking

[@itsasherzzz]

I went through homelessness living in a car with my mom for weeks. Lived in two homeless shelters. I also been in foster care where my sister was sexually assaulted by my uncle. It’s honestly all shitty, bless those three kids.

[@kthomas120109]

When Aba paused for second and then said "take those kids away" I lost it 😭😭😭

[@sebasstuff8847]

Classic!! Preach always seems to get it first. Aba tried so hard to defend it but the more he talked the worse it got. 😂😂😂

[@BelmonteCowgirlUp]

👀😬👶👶👶🤭😆

[@kthomas120109]

@@sebasstuff8847 facts bro it was too funny 😂😂

[@songbird_originals]

lol Aba at the end realize the only option to ensure these kids are okay “--Take those kids away.” Lmao 🤣

[@Familytoyreview426]

Exactly!! I have three kids. I’m had my first at 23. Ever since I’ve busted my butt as a nurse, picked up extra shifts, and done whatever is needed 100% for those kids! Everything is about them. When I became a parent I cared about myself soooo much less than I cared about them immediately!

[@Zensei79050]

6:01 "Quick rich get screams"???

[@bruhhmomentumm]

When you have kids, you’re comfort and passions are no longer the top priority. Your children are. If you cannot understand that basic concept, you should not have kids.

[@rebekahdavis5935]

Well said. PERIOD

[@darkspartan806]

A girl I dated put everything on the line to become a model even though she had a kid as well. I told her to be realistic and go to school, instead she let some "modeling agent" lead her around. I feel so sad for these children, they deserve so much better.

[@oz_jones]

She thought it was Lululemon, but it was Delululemon

[@kathydelarosa1286]

Women that do this are thinking my about themselves and aren’t putting their family first unfortunately. That’s something that you do when you are SINGLE 😂

[@Hardawayfits]

So sad she can't do what she really wants to do. She has to be miserable at a job she doesn't. Exactly why some people committ suicide 😢

[@whathappenedtofreethinking6902]

What’s her only fans handle? 😆

[@darkspartan806]

@@whathappenedtofreethinking6902 Sadly she became a land whale so Onlyfans is no longer an option. 😆

[@Tirado777]

Love preach’s out rage 😊

[@KB-iv5dz]

If you are single and no kids and want to try that, go ahead. Not when you have 3 kids that deserve better.

[@myriadhues457]

I'm on the same page as Preach. Woman made HORRIBLE decisions leading up to her being homeless. Putting her in a home WITH the kids will not stop her bad decision making.

[@brettstarks1846]

Like most prestigious and lucrative lines of work, only a small minority of people can actually succeed. One of the biggest problems with our society is our inability to accept being average. Most people are - and will be - average. It’s like telling 100 people running a race that they can all finish in the top 10, which is both unrealistic and cruel.

[@oogatz1917]

I mean yeah, but theoretically, any of those 100 could be in the top 10

[@springheeledjack165]

Everybody thinks they are "special," yet society is only functional from the everyday man. Parents used to teach people how to be productive for the good of society.

[@brettstarks1846]

@@oogatz1917 Theoretically, yes. But in practice, no, which is the problem. Also, we’ve tried self-improvement, self-help, hustle culture for a while now - and it clearly doesn’t work outside of a small number of anecdotal success stories. People today are lonelier, more financially precarious, and so on than ever before. It’s time for a different mentality.

[@sheerbeauty]

@@brettstarks1846 Is the mentality "I'm not special and I'm OK with that"?

[@brettstarks1846]

@@sheerbeauty Yup, exactly. A little Stoicism and Marcus Aurelius would do some good.

[@laurenharris9832]

I couldn’t do it to my daughter. It’s one thing if I’m homeless or gotta live out of a car but I can’t imagine doing that to my kid

[@kimh8749]

Once you become a parent EVERYTHING about you becomes about them . I raised three on my own. My baby is now grown so now i do what i want

[@rollingcoaster6445]

No kid deserves to be placed in a position of instability. I don’t give a shit what the parent wants to do.

[@ight300]

I'm not in debt but I am bad with my money and these types of stories are motivating to continue working on teaching my money better. I don't have a credit card currently and honestly I don't trust myself with one.

[@Doritoboy200live]

Get a capital one card, you need one to help build credit and its better than other cards lol

[@SmickyD]

I used to think the same way. Didn't get a credit card so I couldn't ruin my credit. Turns out having NO credit is just as bad as having bad credit. I recommend talking to a banker about your options. Even if it's just a 200$ max that you use like a debit card. Start building credit.

[@Satsaru]

No credit is actually terrible to have, and depending on your age is actually worse than having bad credit. I would advise you to get a credit card with a low limit and just use it for gas or groceries and make sure to pay it before interest hits.

[@peachykeen799]

you still need a card to develop credit! You cant rent without a good credit score. I waited a long time like an idiot, but you dont need to spend much money a month to build credit. I only put 25-50 dollars on the card every month and paid off the balance after every purchase so I didnt have to pay interest. After a year they gave me a card with points and now my credit card has paid ME nearly $100 in rewards points and Ive never paid them a lick of interest. After doing this for 2 years I had an 810 credit score. I just have the credit card to build credit mostly BUT ALSO a great side benefit of having a credit card is you can dispute fraud far more easier then a debit card. Or any disputes for that matter I also use my credit card for ANY online purchases instead of my debit for that reason. If someone steals your credit card number the worst they can do is destroy your credit for a short period of time compared to draining out your literal bank account leaving you completely empty handed.

[@disregard7275]

You might not appreciate it now but getting a credit card early to build credit is a smart move. Just keep a smart head and know your own income

[@beastio3583]

Thumbnail had preach looking like hesfrom the village hidden from beef

[@existinginaspace8347]

Im planing a move but i have no friends or family out in the area. Its not exactly easy to find places to crash. But i also got no kids and a years worth of expenses set asside in case things go wrong right away... Plus a van to sleep in.

[@lindseymapouno415]

7:04 when I explain to some people that, I want to do art via SM, they told me that I was a coward for having a 9/5, that working at a 9/5 is a symptom of "scarcity mindset"... that if I work hard enough, only my passion will be enough... turns out, I don't like being poor and unemployed... and that "Passion" quickly disapear after your abilities get reduces by lack of money. When you're a creative person who wants to live of content, Creativity runs out as soon as no dimes is coming into your pocket... and it's a tough reality you have to come to terms to. I'm glad that I can at least have a 9/5 to have my back! Best decision I ever made. And yes I still continue creating for fun! I hope that this lady will have the chance that I have, 'cause she need it more than me...

[@kingmanga8575]

Ur friends were talking out of their ass. Anybody who thinks passion is enough in the social media age shouldn’t be giving advice 😂😂😂. Skill, talent, work ethic etc all mean nothing. For the most part social medial is about luck and marketing. Especially art. Considering how much short form video content has taken over the internet it has become incredibly more difficult to gain a following as a visual artist. I agree 100% with ur comment. As an artist myself I’d never think about becoming a full time artist without making sure that my income from art meets or exceeds my 9/5 first. I’m not really in a rush tho I’ve heard too many horror stories about people making it big with their art but then losing the drive and passion due to their hobby becoming a job. When I draw It’s because I like to not because I have to in order to put food on the table.

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

But If like to add, staying relevant.

[@Damkids012]

Having multiple incomes is Very important nowadays. Plus if you enjoy your job and you don’t gotta solely depend on your passion to feed you. I call that a win in my book. Keep doing you.

[@Kre-pq5lp]

This! I am an artist as well and yup, the creativity Flys away once your on the edge of being poor 😒

[@V0ltron]

This is why people stay poor.

[@DadsCigaretteRun]

100%

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

Yep

[@H3adph0ne]

Naw it’s an example of being wealthless. Desperation mixed with being wealthless is what causes this outcome. On top of people being dumb or not mentally there.

[@deleted_account_0530]

@@H3adph0ne Whatever bro. Not everything needs to be "corrected".

[@ajphillips3152]

Someone needs to get those kids…what the actual fuck is wrong with her?!!!!

[@pacificdream690]

The floor was sassy as fuck this video lmao

[@JK-dv5is]

As someone who went into foster care I can genuinely say depending on your state and county they care and treat those children VERY WELL! My agency even created a program so that the 16 and up the old could practice driving to get their license. My county also pays for college if you are still in care after 18.

[@joshuabertrand9277]

One of the biggest issues with society is that any criticism given, is instantly rebuttled with "you're judging".

[@Jeremy-wp4yh]

Although the woman was irresponsible and crazy, I do understand the jealousy that goes into social media influencers. They get paid so much for contributing nothing to society.

[@DopeDevastation]

An adult responsible for 3 kids should not be worrying about jealousy, why are u caring that much about influencers anyway, 100% selfish, nothing about that decision is understandable

[@beeniecat9411]

Some folks want the glamour without the minimal amount of work.

[@letsgetdoing]

No they don't. It's amazing how WOEFULLY dumb "eductaed" people are. All this typing and guessing instead of asking questions and researching on the same device.

[@venomking3602]

​@@DopeDevastation exactly

[@GLockandGas]

@@DopeDevastationexactly grown people dont have time to be Jealous

[@ashj0]

6:00 "quick rich get screams" was too funny to me

[@jetz_0749]

“She called 911” and told them what?😅😅😅

[@nme2nv194]

A hard-working good man who’s a single father is less likely to have custody of his kids than this woman who made a very bad decision like that. WOW!

[@mrmarcus8772]

😂

[@Luci-pz8xx]

They would probably in jail for child abuse/neglect in this situation

[@keonkla]

Be careful a few women who are defending her are going to get egos broken from this lmao.

[@darrius3022]

Foster care will always be better than a narcissist who is mentally unstable as a parent. Because that dark thought of things being the kids' fault creeps in their head instead of the parent taking accountability. This is why we have so many kids physically abused, treated as meal ticket by parents, treated as tool to spite exes, k3lled by parents or at minimum mentally abused because the "parent" feels the kids belong to them like a bad product and treats them terribly when in a bad mood. There are terrible parts of foster care system and terrible people, but the number of people abused, mentally scarred, and k!lled by their own parents who are f*cked up is underreported.

[@Letstalk295]

I always thought if I had kids and couldn’t feed them or have a home for them I would give them up, then I remembered I would never be stupid enough to even have a child when I don’t even have a car.

[@SubliminalVerde]

Very dark sad truth the devil on their back whispering evil things like blaming an innocent child that didn’t ask to be here

[@lookathim7738]

As someone who was in foster care they probably better off their than with a lady that throws her life away and leaves them homeless she's not a mom she's a person that happened to have kids

[@JLeeurbancouture]

The way Aba look at Preach when he’s trying to make a point it’s hilarious😂😂😂😂.

[@slagnut415]

As a person who grew up in foster care and experienced homelessness, I can say with a 100 percent certainty that a roof over your head and food on the table is better than not knowing what tomorrow holds. Some of the families were assholes, but it was still better than the outdoors.

[@lanouek]

I live in a low income area in Canada it takes alot before you are held accountable. I have addict neighbours whose kids live in constant chaos. I don't judge I help out the kids as much as I can. Parenting and mental health is a hell of a combo

[@mattbec]

You get more of what you tolerate. Communities need to start holding its members accountable. And y’all need to vote in politicians that will change the law to facilitate that.

[@themaccabee8469]

The problem is there’s no humble beginnings start from the bottom… start off just with a small platform while you work and take care of your kids… this drop my life to chase a dream over the weekend is 😜