The Most PATHETIC Man on 90 Day Fiancé | Scott

[@Michellemcd543]

3..2..1. the passport bros are gonna threaten me by leaving the US...lol check out more 90 day fiance vids! kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZoXIXoeJl8dnask

[@tanjak.7828]

🫶🏻

[@0ursou1a]

Are they truly leaving? oh no!!! Anyway.

[@dawnmccarthy1]

You hear of the female officer that pulled over one of her OF subs? XD

[@usman5140]

Why is there so much hate for men who seek relationships abroad, very strange to me. In America, men and women are less serious about marriage than the rest of the world. Far less actually care about faith and belief in God. For many men, it’s simple about extending their options rather than hating American woman. A woman would do the same thing as well

[@258Loures]

​@@usman5140they are trying to book a individual that can be easily entrapped in their lifestyle, most of them use their passport/nationality as way to buy into the marriage quickly.

[@idontlikehavingnumbersinmyname]

if guys want a traditional woman why wouldn't they expect the woman to want a traditional man? that's the whole point. if you want a woman to cook and clean and be in the house most of the time, you have to be out working most of the time and pay for literally everything. there's nothing wrong with a person wanting to follow traditional or religious roles, but you have to follow them yourself first before wanting that from another person.

[@boosqueezy2418]

exactly!!!!

[@HereIAm247]

Exactly! Joan from Mad Men had it right; most men are looking for a mix between a mother and a waitress. Someone who worships them unconditionally, without them having to do any work.

[@criticalmoss]

Do what I say, not what I do.

[@criticalmoss]

@sparingharbor2600 yeah women wanting to not be legal property was never "the problem". Men thinking of women as property was "the problem".

[@sindelscat9336]

Because that's the problem a lot of those women, the ones who say they want traditional values in a man, don't want to be traditional themselves either, they want those man to be the sole Financial providers paying for their every meals, and paying their every bills, however they themselves are not ready to be homemakers. Really the problem isn't the Passport Bros, and more so about people who want Traditional Values in their partner, but don't want to be traditional themselves, and this is applicable to both men and women.

[@cameron30333]

The daughter killed me 🤣 she’s right though, hispanic culture says you don’t give a purse or wallet without AT LEAST a dollar in it or it’s bad luck 😅

[@angelabeninger2298]

I'm in Canada and that's the same here!

[@pamelaibanez4608]

i'm in chile and i have never heard that 😂

[@monie2193]

Yeah, I was definitely taught you don't give a gift like a purse or wallet without putting money in it. It doesn't have to be a large amount but something.

[@Jkjoannaki]

In greece we do that for perfumes as presents. You have to also give some money (like a cent or some change) bc otherwise "you and the person you gave the perfume to as a gift will stop talking after a fight".

[@aylenvillarreal5439]

@@monie2193 Here in Argentina is usually like that. Not everybody has that belief, but MANY do, specially older people

[@daswookie79]

I dated a woman from Venezuela for almost 7 years. She spoke English exceptionally well, but I still worked on learning Spanish because I wanted her to know that her culture was important to me. I couldn’t imagine dating someone that speaks little to no English and not even trying to learn their native language so you can communicate with them.

[@etourdizzy]

that’s definitely important plus it’s too hard to connect with someone on a deep level if you can’t even speak to them also what part of venezuela is she from? i’m also venezuelan!

[@d-1381]

That's what you actually do if you care about each other. This is the type of guy who wants everything to be easy and low effort, expecting him to learn the language or at least enough to communicate is too much.

[@CocoisLiving]

I found him infuriating like good god theres so many apps books like some of these words are words you'd learn on duolingo in like the first five lessons and google translate is so easy. Does he not have a cellphone

[@daswookie79]

@@etourdizzy She was from Maracaibo, but she went to university in Caracas. She’s married and living in Canada now, we’re still friends. What area of Venezuela are you from?

[@skigraphic3247]

@@daswookie79 I’m also from Maracaibo! Is so cute to see these things. Love a good Venezuelan + Gringo relationship, they are usually really cute 🥹🫶🏻🇻🇪

[@munchablemoth]

these passport bros want a woman that upholds traditional standards and is a housewife but they arent willing to fulfill their traditional duties in turn. I love the shock on their face like theyve never considered the idea that theyd have to meet any standards 😂

[@KirraTheCleric]

Because they think women are going to be grateful for their interest in them for some reason. Like everyone’s dream is to come to America and these guys think by providing that, it’s somehow enough.

[@gardenscapeNastya]

⁠@@KirraTheClericmost people don’t wanna come except for opportunity and mort women who do this and go to America use them for their green card and leave them. I heard a story a man did that the women got the green card worked some jobs and brought her family over from South America and led the guy and moved in with her family it’s not everyone’s dream I guarantee that

[@princessmarlena1359]

Exactly, it goes both ways.

[@Tsukiyumi3]

@@KirraTheClericthey watched too much Hollywood movies that it’s a complete cultural shock when they discover that non Americans are not interested in Americans lmao

[@librarianontheloose]

"If I was ugly and fat would you be dating me?"....that girl reverse Unoed him so quick. Like yeah, that's pretty much the trade off, dude. She has expectations out of this relationship too and it's not for an actual relationship, just like you.

[@roreo1612]

“I want a super model that loves me for me and not my money even tho I won’t date ugly women around me”

[@E.C.Animation]

"Or work on myself or my financial situation or bother to learn their culture or language." 🤪🤡

[@HereIAm247]

@@roreo1612 This! Men will complain non-stop about how picky women are. But they will turn up their nose of an unattractive woman. Apparently, those women don't count. (not saying it is wrong to look for someone attractive, just be honest about it)

[@jolandafrijlink6103]

He did that to him self by acting as if he was loaded that is why she was with him.

[@CocoisLiving]

😂😂that was priceless

[@angelm795]

I knew a girl in highschool who was very dumb, she was actually not even in regular classes, she was in the classes for troubled kids. Anyways she met a Mexican guy and became fluent in Spanish over a summer. It was so shocking to hear her rapidly yelling at her bf on the phone in perfect Spanish. That's real love 😂

[@nullskey8370]

she needed to scold him in the right language

[@alb91878]

Okay that's funny as hell! That is a cute as s***! You know a lot of people say that if you want to learn a new language you have to be motivated. if she didn't do well in class and she didn't even attend all the classes, then she wasn't motivated. Having to yell at her boyfriend is the perfect motivation, LOL.

[@QUEERVEEART]

thats so adorable lol

[@mysurfing3550]

She wasn't dumb, she was a secret genius realizing getting out of homework made life better 😂

[@Lyagani]

Seems like she wasnt dumb after all, maybe she has other issues(mental, familar, congenital etc)

[@bambi7237]

Man that looks for traditional wife and says he didn't sign up to be the sole financial provider is an idi0t. He signed up for it when he wanted a traditional relationship.

[@criticalmoss]

Yeah I'm entertained when people use that word these days. "Traditional". It's like a get out of jail free card to essentially state you want a bangmaid with no autonomy and no burden. But if you call it traditional It's cool bro. Because tradition.

[@dreamiinotdream730]

He wants a woman to cook his meals, clean his house, bare his children and have her legs open for him 24/7 but also wants her to work??? Then men like him wonder why they can’t get dates.

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

Exactly! They throw around the word "traditional" but that's ONLY for the woman..... what they really mean is "I want a woman to do all the daily housework, domestic labor and childcare...... But also work, pay bills and she has to give up the 😺 before marriage!“ They're NOT traditional men!

[@zofyrose]

@@sparingharbor2600 You sound like a pasport bro, you keep commenting misogynist shit, why are you even on Michelle's video?

[@teejay197]

​@@sparingharbor2600True. Because women don't like to marry down. It shows we are not equal in not only finances but also mentally. Men are ok with beautiful/pleasant maid's. Because men want sex, and comfort from their relationships and stagnation. Women want growth, excitement and protection. You might not see real house husbands of Atlanta but you do see women of all types of backgrounds trying to build the wrong type of man. 🤔

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

I will never understand men who expect women to jump into bed with them when they just met. Texting online is not getting to know someone. It’s so awkward to share a room right away

[@widget0028]

Yeah they want tradition but not for them. They want a homemaker that also pays half the rent. #boymath

[@randomlyswatching9481]

😂😂 exactly. I knew a Romanian dude who wanted the woman to cook everything but also pay rent.

[@gardenscapeNastya]

I’m not trying to be rude but the majority of these passport bros are black men, and the black men that look like they give nothing to the relationship only expect. They look extremely irresponsible, and they wonder why no women wants them. Yet demand so much!

[@Stealthy_Mouse]

@@randomlyswatching9481 so he wanted a mom? 😂

[@twocathome399]

@@Stealthy_Mouse literally that’s exactly what they want !! 😂😂

[@Tsukiyumi3]

@@Stealthy_Mouseexactly 😭😂😂 they are not traditional men they are babies !!

[@kirikakirikakirika]

These "traditional" men just don't get it, do they? My estranged cousin is in a traditional marriage, and I've never seen a man more stressed out. He was one of these passport bros. He travelled the world for the sole purpose of finding a wife, and never stopped to consider that the reason he couldn't find one in Canada was because of his sht personality. Well, he found a wife. In Hungary. They've been together for three years and he's _admitted,_ publicly, that he's overworked and completely regrets it. Only problem is he's locked in now. He's working all day, every day to pay for her, their house, her dog, and their upcoming child. What does she do all day? Well, exactly what a traditional wife is "supposed to do": cooks his breakfast and dinner (lunches on the weekends), cleans every now and then, and watches TV. Maybe goes and hangs out with her friends while he works all day. Often goes shopping on his dime, and she only buys the healthiest groceries even though he doesn't like them. But too bad, he works all day and he's gonna be a father soon, so he has to eat healthy. That's how it works. She's a good little chef. He also didn't seem to understand why she refused to sleep with him until _after_ they got married, but that's what traditional women do! They have sx for one reason and one reason only: to procreate. That's those good ol' traditional family values.

[@karmAnonymous]

I absolutely LOVE your comment and your cousin ❤ us women need to keep it up 🎉

[@ttthecat]

Lol be careful what you wish for, you might get it!

[@simsimah]

The don’t want a traditional wife . They want a sex doll ,maid ,mommy .

[@ChrystalFitness]

Men that want a traditional wife, must be a traditional husband. A traditional husband is a provider and protector. Also; don’t expect a physical relationship until a real commitment is made.

[@Samantha2209]

Yup

[@abarairukia]

So true! It's funny that he wants a traditional woman and yet had the surprised Pikachu face when she wanted to sleep in her own room.

[@Tsukiyumi3]

Yeah , they also forget that in traditional relationships you don’t segs until after marriage

[@vcorkleth]

There's always the distinction of how traditional marriages are glorified and how they actually were. I knew way too many Boomer dads that were the stereotypical couch potato that would drink a beer while watching tv after work. Eventually, when the wife left their loser ass, they discovered they didn't have basic life skills to take care of themselves (even though self-reliance is considered a traditionally masculine trait). I think it depends how you grew up and what you were exposed to that defines your view of what is traditional marriage.

[@abarairukia]

@@vcorkleth Self reliance as a provider of money... not self reliant in the kitchen! (Haha)

[@nans531]

I'm dominican and I can tell you, there are a lot of foreign men (especially from the US) coming here thinking that all women will like them. It had happened to me almost every time I go to touristic places. I remember a time in a very popular place in my city, I was waiting for a friend to pick me up and two men were watching me and talking across the street, so weird. One of them came to me and started talking about how much money he makes in the US and how he didn't like american women because all they care about is money 🤡 I was 20 yrs old and he was in 50's, I was so uncomfortable because he was very persistent. Thank god my friend came and I leaved. We know that most man that come here JUST wanting to date, are losers in their countries so the only women that would date them are the ones who just want their money. I also don't get why those men complain about women just thinking about money when the first thing they talk about when meeting a female is how much money they make 😂

[@kaylabean3693]

I’m so sorry that happened to you love. And yes they lead with money and also by blatantly stating how much they hate whichever group of women. Which is why they usually can’t date the women around them. Because if you hate any kind of woman odds are you’re probably gonna come up with a reason to hate me too, and some of them get dangerous. So it’s just best not to even interact with them. And even if someone did get with them, they would see why they were single

[@marknewton6984]

These guys are Losers.

[@sau2949]

They want a young woman who wants a old man and also share bills with the old man😂. I'll go share bill with a young man that I'm attracted to

[@kaylabean3693]

@@sau2949exactly! And they swear that young women are begging to be with them. Like maybe some but definitely not all of us

[@sau2949]

@@kaylabean3693 the few who do are never with broke old men. They are realistic some young women don't even want to share bills with young men they really think a woman in their twenties is looking forward to pay for her meal with him

[@lisahance]

They'd known each other for A YEAR, and he didn't realize she didn't speak any English? And he thinks SHE is not smart?

[@crestfire8008]

Men 🍼

[@pinkLeopard580]

Boy math

[@monimoo88]

Fun fact Michelle Hispanic cultures do actually believe that when you gift someone a purse or wallet you need to out cash inside as good luck, even if it’s just a dollar. Lidias daughter was not joking about the money in the purse. It’s considered bad luck to give someone an empty purse or wallet as a gift.

[@joywebster2678]

That isxa custom in Canada and with my 4 UK grandparents too. Even a quarter in a little coin purse from Grandma was a great gift.

[@youallneedjesus7430]

Same in Russia

[@melissamoonchild9216]

same in Asia

[@janerecluse4344]

This is just fascinating to me, seeing how much of the world agrees on this one, because my Southern by way of England family usually does this, too.

[@valerieandrews283]

This is a thing in America too. Maybe he just wasnt raised right.

[@DecoraGarfoid]

I love how he wants like.. A trad wife or something but expects her to bang him the first day they meet 🤣

[@JAM661]

Yea that was my first thought.

[@DecoraGarfoid]

@@JAM661 no logic..

[@ItsOKtobeNormal]

These people don't know what it's like to be in a traditional relationship, they want all the good parts but to put none of the work in. I sometimes watch those red pill guy channels because they're entertaining but man, some of those guys Are as bad as the women they complain about. Honestly, they belong with each other!

[@DecoraGarfoid]

@@ItsOKtobeNormal 🤣

[@xysarenottheprize]

⁠@@DecoraGarfoid But men are the lOgIcAl SeX 🤡

[@melt2947]

“Once women understand what he’s saying..they just leave” 😂

[@ElaineLoyd]

It's weird that men who can't get one woman are always talking about being polygamist. Why continue with the fraud of wanting a meaningful relationships just pay for it and be happy.

[@E.C.Animation]

Or at the very least be transparent about it in the beginning so no one's time is wasted and expect to have a lot of resources to bring to the relationship.

[@taniamejia5359]

Is the lie that the red pill/man of sphere guys have sold them.

[@A.l.a.c.]

😂😂😂😂😂 good point.

[@teejay197]

facts

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

It’s like how people who can’t drive have the biggest SUVs 😂

[@fresalinasaint]

I was in a relationship with a Swedish man for 2 years. At the begging he didn’t knew a thing about Spanish nor I speak any Swedish but we both speak fluid English. After two years of relationship we both learnt the basics of each other language and were able to have a polite conversation with each of our families in their native language.

[@gravyz2cute4u]

That's so sweet! One of my relatives went to Brazil for a few months and ended up meeting a nice girl. He flew over a few more times and stayed longer and longer each time. He started learning Portuguese and she started learning more English. Now they are married and can communicate with each others families. I think it's so respectful and heart warming when each partner learns a bit more to communicate with family just like you guys both did :)

[@fresalinasaint]

@@gravyz2cute4u I’m happy that they married 🥰 My ex bf had I knew from the begging if our relationship was going to be serious our families would get involved and honestly, learning Swedish from him and teaching him Spanish was fun!

[@E.C.Animation]

This episode is so relatable for me since my dad did this and married a lady from China. He didn't know the culture or the language at all. I tried to tell him it's a bad idea but he told me the women there were demure and good housewives. Wrong! They fought all the time and couldn't understand each other. She spoke very limited English and hated it here and especially with him. She didn't even stay at the house after the first year and would stay with other Chinese for work most of the time. They got divorced after 2 years and she got her green card. I don't blame her, she knew what she was doing, while my dad chose to be ignorant.

[@crestfire8008]

Chinese women do make good housewives but they are not submissive at all! They are the dominant force in the household. Her decision goes. This is why you normally see Chinese husbands are quiet but the wives seem to have a lot to say. Same way, all financial decisions go through her. Child disciplining is also her job and kids are far more obedient to the mother than the dad.

[@t-.-t.]

Chinese women are the opposite of submissive. 💀. It's the men who are submissive there. 😂

[@dawnelder9046]

My friends brother did the exact same thing. I remember saying if he thought Chinese women were passive, he never walked threw a Chinese grocery store. Ended in divorce when she got her citizenship.

[@RandomName-my2uo]

Queen

[@jellyrolly]

Chinese women, submissive??? Hong Kong films alone should make one see how they can outpower a Karen!

[@j.l-w9959]

This man is a perfect example of person who says all his intrusive thoughts.

[@melissamoonchild9216]

lol fr

[@wondernore]

OFF TOPIC: I've been following you for a longbit. Insightful and funny. I've lost about 40 lbs, still going. I appreciate you.

[@Wait..WHAT24]

This is freaking awesome and you are awesome! You got this!! Blessings on your journey ❤️❤️❤️

[@AriElite111]

Congratulations 🎉 That's amazing!! More power to you on your journey cause that's inspiring as hell!

[@andar37]

I’m also down 40lbs recently! Congrats :)

[@ohjinmyoung7350]

Wow congrats!

[@Ala-wo1pv]

Congratulations ❤

[@HaleyJo1992]

I will give Scott a microbe of credit for at least dating in his age range instead of a girl barely out of her teens. That credit amounts to nothing, but I'll let him have it.

[@Khnole6619]

The way she keeps circling back to “the kayak conversation” 😂 I’m dying

[@SarasHotandDangerous]

DOS kayaks😂

[@l.h8249]

Getting a weird vibes about him focusing on that the whole time.

[@l.h8249]

@@SarasHotandDangerous I almost chocked on my breakfast.

[@BlackBettyCheesedic]

Lol over here playing charades….poorly. 😂😂😂😂

[@crazyratlady3115]

I'm from Scotland and it's also a thing here that if you gift someone a purse/wallet, you put money in it for good luck. That's not even an entitlement thing, it's just a cute little superstitious thing.

[@Faith-ix2ef]

Yes! My mam always gave me money in my purses, even if it was only a couple quid

[@StArDragonB]

wow THAT is super cute

[@дарюша-к9й]

We do the same thing in Russia

[@catcoffee7958]

True,,,,

[@scottmoering9810]

its actually quite rude to ask for money from a stranger.

[@LibraInSeattle]

I’m bilingual. I speak German and some Dutch. I went to college in Germany. I remember watching Americans in the tourist areas of the city I lived in and I would sometimes be embarrassed by the way some of my fellow English speakers behaved when traveling. It’s not that hard to learn to say “Do you speak English” in several languages if you’re traveling through Europe before just starting to speak English to someone. I was at the bus stop one time and an older British man asked me in English what time it was. I didn’t realize what he said. I was thinking and dreaming in German by that point so it caught me off guard. He then yelled at me “What time is it?” I asked him how he knew I spoke English and he replied “Everyone speaks English.” I told him the time and that he should learn some manners and not assume everyone knows English. For example the family that I was an au pair for, the mom didn’t speak any English. I helped teach her the language and she helped me with my German. These men need to put in some effort if they really want a relationship. But it doesn’t seem like that’s what this is about.

[@melissamoonchild9216]

as American, I am definitely embarassed by Americans

[@chiaracarlotta3884]

Ich hätte nicht gedacht, dass derart ignorante Menschen existieren. Die ältere Generation meiner Familie (Großeltern, Urgroßeltern) spricht kein Wort Englisch und soweit ich weiß lernen die Menschen in der DDR damals Russisch anstatt Englisch als zweite Sprache. Wie kommen manche Menschen bloß darauf? 😂

[@Moonless87]

True. Many English speaking people just assume that literally everyone knows English. It is a mandatory school subject in many countries true (like in Finland where I live) but there are a lot of places where that's not the case. And even in countries where it IS a mandatory school subject there are still people who are not good at it. And when traveling to a different country it's only polite to learn even just some basic greetings/questions. Another thing english speaking people (mostly americans) almost always assume is that literally everyone who speaks in english online is american etc. I have had a LOT of american's ask "oh, which state do you live? 🤔" Or other questions about USA. And they always seem to be surprised when I reply that, lol, I don't live in USA. It's bizzarre.

[@manderly109]

@@Moonless87 do you see the irony in your comment, lol

[@AmbrielSJoy]

I’m 59 and have been single for almost 20 years. My experience with middle aged men is that they don’t EVER stop talking. The last guy I went out with had potential bc he at least acknowledged my presence but he told me how he likes to treat women. If I could have gotten a word in I would have mentioned that perhaps he needs to check in on what how she wants to be treated. I have more conversational exchange with my dogs….

[@pamelahaze3211]

I'm 60 and would rather have a cat or a dog. Men my age seem to think they are some kind of prize. Ha!

[@qesther1241]

He is the kind of man who will unalive her if she decides to leave.

[@wormitha]

They definitely see these women as disposable. Just look up John Poulos, most recent one of these I can think of.

[@charlyhop]

Absolutely !

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

People need to stop using the word “unalive”. It desensitizes people to murder and suicide. Just say murder or suicide. These are real things people need to be allowed to discuss instead of ignore that they occur

[@h0rriphic]

The word is murder.

[@ManokJanik]

I was gonna say! I think the young girl realised that this is a potentially dangerous situation and her flight response kicked in without realising it.

[@la1bella82]

I was born in Puerto Rico and my parents are Dominican. My husband who is from Brazil had to meet my dad first. The first thing my dad asked is what he did for a living. My dad made sure I was taken care of. Because my husband is from Brazil, these questions did not surprise him, it was expected. Most Latin woman have traditional values but these values are also placed on the men.

[@voodoochild7533]

Scott looks like someone drew a whoville character from memory.

[@guinealove3744]

Yes! Was thinking the same thing. But thought all the Who's were sweet and cute so I didn't want to offend them. lol

[@Barbieinawheelchair]

Yeah the Grinch

[@kl6902]

😂 spot on

[@Listening_Books12345]

🤣🤣🤣💀 Too accurate

[@maryqualls5086]

Thank you for this!😂😂

[@mariapqvalvi14]

You killed me with “I’m not a gambling woman but I’m gonna bet my whole life savings that she is not going to sleep with him” 🤣🤣🤣

[@lrm223]

Whenever I get a new purse, I always put a penny in it because my aunt told me it was good luck - that "your bag will never be empty."

[@ditzygypsy]

My mother always does that too. She’s Ukrainian. 😊

[@mamawray]

So wait. Scott internet talks to this woman for a year and he doesn't know if she works out, or goes on walks, or likes to fish, or kayak or even know the word "kayak". What the hell did they talk about that he's got nothing but questions when they first meet?

[@heloramos82]

As a Latin woman I can say that we see American guys to be naive and soft (Latin guys are tough and very masculine, we came from real hard places). This guy is going to get ripped off and even though I want to feel sorry for him... I am really not sorry at all because he deserves it lol He is not putting any effort into meeting a woman (American or not) for who he is as a person, to share a life with. All he wants is someone who tell him he is amazing and sleep with him, but he is not all that...

[@Queenbbyj]

They deserve everything coming their way, they think they can take advantage of the less fortunate because of the American dollar I can’t wait until their governments puts out warning if they already haven’t.

[@A.l.a.c.]

100%

[@AnaGalloL]

para nada, en mi país vemos s los gringos como cochinos, ruidosos y maleducados así q no , no en todos los países latinos los vemos inocentes osea para nada al contrario ls mayoría de los latinos los vemos como turistas insufribles 😂

[@heloramos82]

@@AnaGalloL naive es inocente en el sentido de que son credulos y despreparados no que son como niñitos

[@kristinahernandez564]

He is super cringy! Yes! He deserves every bit of what he gets because he brings it all upon himself!

[@SquiddyBonneBouche]

The way that dude said “access” when talking about women just made my stomach flip.

[@sponggiexoxo]

These so-called passport bros are a joke. They literally go to these foreign countries to pick up these women and know little or nothing about their culture, or ways of life at all. It's so insulting and I'm not even affiliated with their culture. I would just be so humiliated having some random man coming to my country and can't even speak my language. But, I digress. Some of these women literally do it for the money and the attention. Then these dudes fall for it, just like he did 🤷🏾

[@dawnelder9046]

Many want the citizenship. So a few years of living hell is the price.

[@abarairukia]

I'm happy to see both women walked away from a man that is clearly a walking red flag. Really wish Liz would have even half the amount of self respect and walk away from Ed the same way.

[@hippiebaelala]

When men want a traditional woman it’s annoying to think they don’t even try in the country they live in. I am personally a traditional woman and my husband and I BOTH dated around and seeked for what we eventually found. We are now married 8 months after officially dating and happier than ever. And guess what, we didn’t leave the country. We didn’t even leave the city. It’s not that hard. You just have to put in effort and have a clear idea of what you want lol not that hard!!

[@leamechin6261]

Yes because they will profit of women not speaking their language to hide their nonsense. Because they want all the benefits of the traditional but don't want to put the effort...

[@boosqueezy2418]

effort is the key. you have to be compatible but it still takes work. men who want a traditional woman who splits the bills 50/50 makes no sense to me

[@boosqueezy2418]

like the guy on the matchmaker show who wants a housewife-but one who works full time. ummm there is no such thing. being a housewife is a full time job.

[@hippiebaelala]

@@boosqueezy2418 yes definitely . Our goal is for me to eventually be a housewife full time. Right now I’m still working but he’s very adamant about paying all the household bills and I just take care of the groceries, house decor and our adventures/travels. We just got married September 9th and we have a clear vision of what our future will be and we’re working everyday towards that! So excited 💜💜

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

Well the thing is, THESE passport bro's don't want to be traditional men! Amd they don't want an actual traditional woman. They want a woman to do all the daily homework, domestic labor and childcare..... But also work, pay bills and give them 😺 before marriage 😂

[@pumpkab00]

Men when they don't get sex: I'm just wondering where this relationship is going.... The women who are expected to cook, clean, be a mother all with $0 given to them: .......👀

[@abumuad]

I honestly think, as long they're consenting adults, to each their own. I do find it a bit strange that they don't take the time to learn the language and culture.

[@kuroichan101]

i think as long they are both consenting and one is not in a super pooorrr horrible situation. Because alot of passport bros go to the worst areas in poor countries to find women that would feel forced to chase an american to escape. It allows ends badly

[@abumuad]

​@@kuroichan101people get married for many reasons. Historically people were married to solidify alliances, strengthen family ties, financial security and many more. Love was great, but, not required. I honestly don't care

[@abumuad]

@@mxxn6605 not every man deserves that title. There are many older men that have not matured. The example you give is proof. A man in his 50s that has no financial discipline has not matured. Despite being in the military he still hasn't matured. Many young women in these countries are far more mature than western woman their age. I am not supporting the "passport bro" movement. I'm just saying that (imo of course) people will be people. Let them live their lives. As long as they're of legal age and are both consenting adults....live and let live.

[@reneepierce569]

Lol Michelle! “He didn’t even finish the Kayak conversation!” The perfect Segway to all the other Kayak comments! My fave is when he meets up with the young chick, ..”and he’s still talking about those damn Kayaks!” 😂 Thank you for cracking me up today! You are hilarious! 😂😂😂 😂😂👏👏

[@nenufairy1929]

I can't even watch them interact, it's so cringey. What do these people expect? How do they expect to find actual love from a person they baited with a passport and money and with whom they can't even communicate? I will never get these people, I swear.

[@andergarcia4953]

A lot of them view dating mainly as a transaction. So they attract others with that same mindset.

[@alb91878]

It may be completely wrong in this case, but I think it's a chronic problem that a lot of North Americans have that they think that just because English is spoken around the world that everybody should learn it and everybody should know it. I guess he just expected to show up and have to make no effort and that she would have already taken care of everything. (Even though he knew she wasn't trying to learn English either)

[@LinnieCat]

I had to skip some parts because it was too cringey too watch 😅

[@woodside4life]

I’ve had to come back to this video four or five times. The second-hand embarrassment is too much for me.

[@LadyChubbyBlueberry]

Men: I don't know what women want Women tells them exactly what they need. Men: It doesn't make sense! I can't read minds!

[@tomsnowden6201]

lol yeah okay.

[@scottmoering9810]

youre a foooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

[@rknight56]

I died when she said.”I don’t care what people wear unless I don’t like them.”

[@_Dark222Angel_]

this is my biggest issue with dating: they dont even know you but they're so desperate for love that they invent a connection in their head and ruin it

[@karmAnonymous]

I love the way you worded this... Because this is in conjunction of the root of the problem time and time again. I believe that EQUALLY the other problem is a deep-seeded disturbing entitlement narcissism... Straight up.

[@thesimmer2612]

This video needs to be trending because you are serving it! What kills me about the passport bros is a majority of them are broker than the Berlin Wall and expect these foreign women to fall at their foot cause they're waving a US nickel in the air. If you're poor in the US you're still poor in a 2nd and 3rd world country. 🤨

[@Ca11MeMayb3]

I mean it depends. My dad doesn't make a lot of money but in his home country he has enough money to build a house.

[@sendmorerum8241]

Bro has the smile and charm of a naked mole rat and he managed to get these woman to talk to him more than once?!

[@catcoffee7958]

😂😂😂

[@Katlego-py6cj]

I literally love Michelle's opinions

[@emilyrosefunk1342]

The hot takes are always giving

[@AldWitch]

I literally love Michelle's forehead

[@VocalSpiritPresents]

Samesies

[@stunod05]

same

[@Ra3mart]

​@@AldWitchme too😂

[@Sofiaalexandrino]

I'm Brazilian and I can say that at least in my social environment, this traditional thinking is not normal. Quite the contrary, women are looking for their independence and emancipation with each passing day. And all the women I know from other Latin American countries follow the same line of thinking. It's not that it's wrong to want to stay at home while your husband earns money, but like I said, at least in my reality, that's very rare. I love your videos, I look forward to watching them, keep up the fantastic work, breaking these paradigms and saying things that many people don't have the courage to say.💚💙💛🇧🇷

[@nikothegoddess]

Another banger, sis. Maybe if the passport bros and ladies focus on fixing themselves instead of manipulating and terrorizing others they might find someone local

[@mariaarzeno9251]

As a native spanish speaker, I feel flattered when foreigners take the time to learn my language. It shows that they care, so the fact Scott doesn't bother to learn her language speaks VOLUMES. Also, I KNEW I RECOGNIZED THE SPANISH! (I'm Dominican as well)

[@cantalope123]

I saw too many videos of "Passport bro?" that ended up in them complaining on how high the standarts woman in other countries have lol. When on a first date the girl would be like "How much money do you make? Whats your job? Do you plan on keeping the same job? What are your aspirations" and the ment complain about it lol.

[@MsBatbird]

I think what it comes down to is this. Most of these guys can't get a woman here in the states because, well if they're like Ed, they're so full of themselves, have ridiculous expectations, feeling like they deserve so much more and want a woman they can mold into what they think is gonna be a devoted wife that treats them like the God they think they are when in reality, these women are so desperate to get to the U.S. that they're willing to overlook things like looks, behavior, smell, pretty much anything they can tolerate long enough for that green card, then they can run like hell and find someone they're actually attracted to. For Ed to think that he even deserves a good, decent, beautiful woman is, well, ridiculous.

[@bigmeaniemem]

This man forgot about his Duolingo Spanish lessons lol

[@SydneyAustralia222]

I'm loving the daughter. She knows what this man wants so she's helping her mother get what she should in return.

[@Antolynch1000]

Gotta say I feel sorry for Scott. He seems like a very unhappy person, and he thinks a relationship will make him happy, but it never will, because you have to be happy in yourself. A relationship will make you happier, but not happy.

[@_Dark222Angel_]

i can smell his desperation from here

[@ditzygypsy]

@@_Dark222Angel_ And there are few things more unappealing than a desperate, needy, clingy, insecure person. Eww.

[@kristinahernandez564]

He hit up multiple women from 90 day franchise trying to find a hookup so he is fame chasing on top of his desperation for validation. Super unattractive behavior.

[@randdiamond8090]

that’s why he keeps going back to his “security topic”: the kayak. he literally has no other hobby, nor an interesting internal world.

[@ditzygypsy]

Scott is icky, but Lydia is a notorious grifter, and so is her daughter 🙄, and both have been annoying audiences for quite a few years. Lydia and Scott probably deserve each other. Edit: Also, Scott looks like the Grinch

[@fadiasaid5410]

I was looking for this comment

[@kara.g.]

Omg I was like wait isn’t this Pedro’s mom??? I’ve only been following 90 day from a distance 😅 so thanks for the confirmation! Edited to add: I was too impatient to wait for the sister’s appearance but that def confirmed it too- unforgettable face!

[@paulacostescu1041]

Ya... but we already know Lydia and her daughter... everything is staged for TLC cameras 😂

[@1IIiII1]

eh, the passport bros deserve grifters lol...

[@lfuentes8950]

This thread validated all my thoughts 😂 thank you

[@alterego2978]

Lmaooooo “are you asking for 2 kayaks?”

[@thebowandbullet]

Normal relationships all involve both parties having responsibilities and commitments. Passport bros seem to think they can get a woman from another country to give all she has, her time, her labour, her body, children, and they think she'll accept this for nothing in return. No one wants to be in a one-way relationship and if that's all you have to offer, you're the problem.

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

It's still a mystery to me how ANYONE could actually be attracted to Ed, or even just like him as a friend 😂 Or why you don't a million subscribers! You're videos are hilarious AF 😂

[@agirlhasnoname1472]

AHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA😂😂😂😂

[@TenThumbsProductions]

In Colombia when you find true love we say *el amor de mi vida* but when it is a gringo, we say *amor de mi visa* and I see these passport bros get robbed ALL THE TIME in Colombia off of tinder, and it is so funny. I wish they wouldn't come here, but it is a lot of fun to watch them get robbed here 🤣

[@thevillainousqueenofhearts4976]

15:15 my response to him if he asked me that. “How do you feel about me being a polygamist with three other husbands?” 🤨

[@just.R.A.]

Yes, exactly. I also want to know his income/asset situation for 4+ wives.

[@Rechtauch]

And still, the translation was bad, he was saying he has had 3 wives, not that he currently has 3 other wives. According to the translation, he is currently single.

[@thevillainousqueenofhearts4976]

@@just.R.A. I bet he has none…. He does not look like he could support one let alone 4…

[@yasminchan7425]

I'm just thinking don't try and make a joke like that with someone who does not speak your language.. usually the person does not get the joke, the one who made the joke has to explain and everything gets awkward

[@Kovitlac]

I traveled to meet a man I had been talking to online for quite a while (still in my country, but something like 3k miles away). While I never suspected he'd do anything I wasn't comfortable with, I still stayed in a hotel that first visit because I didn't want to risk being really uncomfortable. I was already way out of my comfort zone just by traveling so far to visit him. For subsequent visits I stayed with him at his apt, but I have no regrets staying in a hotel that first time. I don't blame her one bit!

[@Kovitlac]

@@mangosteena It could cost the other person that too, though? Everyone's circumstances are unique, so I wouldn't say one way is always better than the other. But I was in a better financial position to travel and I have the ability to work remotely. Plus he just just plain loves in a more interesting place than me, lol.

[@Wait..WHAT24]

The way she holds him when they’re dancing 😳😩😂😂🤔

[@blueblue1508]

😂

[@guineatte]

My husband is a French speaker and I am a German speaker, we communicate without any problems in English because like that we are on equal footing and we live in an English speaking country. Also he learned some German and I can understand and speak some French which we throw in the mix here and there but mainly to be able to talk to each other’s families. Language isn’t a hindrance but an opportunity. It’s so interesting how culture and language shape each other. But then again, my husband and I didn’t meet on 90 Days Fiancé 😄

[@LittleKikiBear]

The polygamist joke 🤣 does Scott think he's Kody Brown?

[@maryqualls5086]

Noooot the "PBS brand cyborg "!😂😂😂 My sci-fi soul cackled loudly!

[@hippiebaelala]

So glad to see you post and great job for the amount of videos you’ve been posting!! 👏🏾👏🏾 I know it’s not easy and I commend your effort and creativity girl ❤

[@jadem6706]

My (white Australian) Chinese gf and I LOVE watching 90day fiance for these pathetic attempts at a cross-cultural relationship. It's not easy and we fumbled a lot in the beginning oursleves, but damn it's hard to watch these idiots not even try a little and expect all the results 😂

[@MECHALINA_6702]

Another great video Michelle! Any true crime coming? I love when you do that stuff. Conspiracy theories maybe? You’ll get to wear a tin foil hat!

[@soundmind69]

Yes conspiracy theories But deep ones Not these surface level Mandela, alien, bs

[@sharaineroberts8537]

OMG! Michelle! I can't believe Lydia is on 90D hooking up with Scott. There's history. Ok, her son was on 90D. And a whole a$$ series called "The Family Chantel" was a spin-off. So Chantel and Pedro lied about why he came to the country, and Chantel Family started to accuse him of wanting to marry her for a green card. When the families met fire works. Not in a good way. Her daughter was on the show because she also got involved with a man who lives in the US, but he was married. Claiming his was getting a divorce. Lydia was furious because Lydia never married because her children were from the same man who was married and still married to the same woman. Pedro finds this out because his marriage is falling apart, and he wants to go to know his father. At a reunion, he tries to tell his sister to dump the guy, but she says she loves him, and Mommy did the same thing Not only that, but his grandmother and great-grandmother all never married because they all had kids from married men. He is discussed and can't believe Chantel family was correct when they said his mother just wanted him to marry a green card. So he gets a divorce and stops talking to his sister and mother. When the series ended, I believe he began the communication with his family, but he was still pissed by the generations of cheaters. And the fact that he and his sister are the products of that affair. So, seeing that Lydia is on the show because of her own story. Girl, I am shocked. Sorry, I just ramble on. Again, congrats on 700K subs. I hope you make 800K by Christmas.

[@crystalmurray351]

Did a double take when I saw the thumbnail. Didn’t think I’d see Lydia and her daughter again. It’s like they pick the most toxic ones to come back. But Scott made them look perfectly well-adjusted

[@sharaineroberts8537]

@crystalmurray351 I know, right?

[@jeffwoods4406]

Holy crap that was a roller coaster

[@Sawautha]

I was wondering for a second if that was Pedro’s mom. Until i saw the daughter, IT IS!!!

[@A.l.a.c.]

They are terrible ppl btw!

[@ThouSwell-zx3fd]

I *knew* they looked familiar 😄

[@primadonna2819]

This was the BEST description and depiction of passport bros. You did a phenomenal job, Michelle! This coming from a foreign woman. 😘

[@DeadLkeMe]

I've spent months in Colombia over the last few years. When I was first there, I had Peggy Hill Spanish and took the 5 minutes to download the English and Spanish database for Google Translate. I'm sure I sounded like a short bus kid attempting conversations but my Spanish improved and now I'm at an intermediate level and can even make terrible corny jokes in Spanish. This guy didn't even meet the absolute BARE MINIMUM of traveling to a foreign country. ☠️ it's really not that hard, my dude.

[@bbhdd6181]

😂 Michelle flaming weird men is my favourite genre on KZbin

[@Cantetinza17]

Yes a few of them are learning the hard way that it is not greener on the other side. Scott at first I was rooting for, but inviting his former girlfriend to the DR was such a screw up and then to later ask Lidia to come back. I was like, "You can't be serious"! In other countries these men need to also know that in certain countries there is a bride price that you must pay.

[@Spooky_Sister]

“Grande Problema”🤣 gets me every time🤣

[@luciealonso7075]

No link with the video but : I started going to the gym and have taken a coach to guide me through the beginning. I cut liquid calories and try to portion control. Your channel has inspired a lot to finally start doing what I was only dreaming to be doing. I'm having fun lifting ! Thank you a lot !!

[@CAthRIn4200]

Yesss!!! I was hoping you’d talk bout this couple! Love the video and your content☺️! You’ve inspired me to really take my health into my hands and become disciplined to where I’ve dropped from 310lbs to 258! Thanks for all you do!

[@lisarodriguez6966]

That's awesome! Great that you can see how strong and determined you can really be!

[@ditzygypsy]

Fantastic! You should be very proud of yourself!!

[@idk-wm5kb]

The fuuny things is that most of the time these man do not offer anything. Like if you want trad wife you need to be a trad husband (making enough money to suport the entire family). It is just so annoying

[@jmicha91]

And they expect women to fall at their feet because they're American men, as if there was anything impressive about it.

[@KimandKamJam]

Exactly, SOME of these passport bros don't want wives, they want housekeepers they can have sex with

[@randomlyswatching9481]

​@@Jumpyman_thegamerYTwhat does it even mean. The comment was simple. If you want a trad wife BE a trad man. Your comment makes no sense

[@randomlyswatching9481]

True these men want a homemaker who pays the rent too😂😂😂. The gamer dude who responded to you took that personally 😂😂😂 and made a comment without any sense

[@randomlyswatching9481]

​​@@Jumpyman_thegamerYTmate are you always stoned. Funny you are from UK too😂 and i still don't understand why you wrote that comment which made no sense in respect to the main comment. Lol

[@heatblair]

My mom used to do that too! Whenever you give a gift of a purse or a wallet, you have to put money in it. That keeps the abundance flowing towards it.

[@ThaPettiestPossum]

Bestie you fucking SPOIL us!!! ❤🎉

[@Beliarvs]

My boyfriend is American and I'm Latina. He did research about what dating culture is here and what women of my country expect of their husbands so he was prepared to be 100% provider. He doesn't speaks Spanish but he always asks me about my culture and the history of my country, he is fully respectful. Idk how these passport bros are unable to do their homework and investigate about the country they wanna go to get a chick.

[@mlamarana]

I am from west Africa and traditional wife system is very common but the man has to be able to be the main breadwinner of that family by providing for the wife and kids. Some of the women would have a job or a small side business when the kids are at school. You can’t want traditional wife and then be a lazy bum who can’t afford the lifestyle bro!! Nope don’t work like that. I cannot live like that but if you are a man and that’s what you want then get WORKING pal🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Likelyfairy]

That’s the part they forget, my Dominican grandmother showed me to do house chores and be traditional but she wouldn’t ever tell me to be with a guy like scot. Traditional Hispanic women need providers, my grandma would do the chores and stay at home but because my grandpa was out there working and paying everything. Lol they still want women to pay the then bills and do house work 😂

[@mlamarana]

@@Likelyfairy SAME!! My mom taught us how to do housework but she also teach us to be independent women so that we can be whatever we want to be and not depending on a man be our only option in life. These guys are looking for the easy way out 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Likelyfairy]

@@mlamarana these guys really want moms but with sex thrown in lmao

[@Nithinithinith]

I am from east Africa and it is like this. Some of the men still have to pay dowry. Imagine telling an American man he has to gift your family money, livestock and even land ? They would throw up 😂😂 These men are arguing with women over the price of chicken nuggets and fries and who pays on the first date .

[@mlamarana]

@@Nithinithinith he would die!🤣🤣🙄🙄

[@ivanaandric5703]

The passport bro devil 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂 You just killed me

[@nyx6903]

LMAO these guys are not going to have happy marriages 😂💀💀💀

[@Jo-razz]

I discovered your videos this year & haven't stopped watching them since. I love your opinions on stories and situations you show. Sidenote - you did inspire me to take better care of myself. I was always an athlete and worked out. Then life kicked me in the ass, made me give up. Feeling sorry for myself. Your honesty about being overweight, and then unhealthy, was the push I needed. You do it in such a way that I never felt like you were fat shaming. So I started watching what I eat and working out. Maybe the first couple weeks were tough but, afterwards it reminded me that working out actually gives you more energy. Watching what you eat doesn't necessarily mean, trying to eat itty bitty. Just healthier choices and in moderation. Even losing my first 3 lb, not only I felt better physically but mentally. I always like when I am surprised where I find my inspiration. It wasn't me feeling like crap, LOL, but a total stranger, talking common sense. Plus I saw your muscles, & it reminded me, that was my favorite physical Me 😁. ( That is going to take a while but it is a goal;) Just want to say thank you.

[@AnUninfluentialLife]

Not me clicking as soon as i saw the title hoping for more of Muchkin Man's downfall. 🤣

[@666lbss]

I did when the daughter was laughing after the purse 😂😂

[@idkwhattoput6054]

I love your channel you inspire me and my family to be healthy and the best version of ourselves so thank you and god bless

[@owndamnhero3414]

As a person who is from a Central American country and has seen this happen, I’m low key happy that they get bad things happen to them. They messed around and found out 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@shinothelobster]

Man I hate people like them. It's not hard to take some time to look into another culture. Love you Michelle ♡!

[@aenjgeal]

My favorite thing in 90 Day Fiance is watching people realize that you have to actually speak the same language as your significant other and you can't just Pocahontas "Listen With Your Heart" your way out of that problem

[@martli86]

I always click the like button immediately after starting to watch cause I know I'll love the video 😂 also amazing how many viedoes you're producing now yaaay 🥳

[@mechi20]

Nice video Michelle, I almost forgot a out Scott and Pedro's mom 🤣🤣🤣. Scott was funny AF and probably still to this day doesn't know what went wrong 🤣🤣🤣

[@tarotreadingsbysteven8545]

Yeah I always thought it was weird people think talking louder and slower would suddenly make people understand. Like the problem isn't how fast you're talking it's literally that they don't speak your language 😂

[@cosmonaut6810]

My dads favourite is to say it in English but in THEIR accent. 🙄

[@irairod5160]

Correction: The "problem" is that YOU don't speak THEIR language.

[@youallneedjesus7430]

Sometimes it works, if the languages are close enough. For example, i can't speak slavic languages other than my own, but if they speak slowly and basic, I can get the general idea

[@melissamoonchild9216]

​@@youallneedjesus7430right or like if you are learning a language it definitely helps if people speak slowly. When I was in Japan I could mostly understand old people because they used very proper grammar and well..spoke slowly 😅

[@sarahill4111]

Michelle is so verbally elegant and crass at the same time 😆

[@Kaykdoa]

Just here to thank you Michelle! Not actually watching this video (cuz I wanna catch up first) but definitely appreciating you by letting it play while I go do something.

[@HarvestMoonRuri]

He reminded me of Rush Hour "DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE WORDS THAT COMING OUT OF MY MOUTH??" 😂😂😂

[@mssdrstrange4176]

God, i want to be this waiter so bad!!! Could you imagine the opportunity to make their conversation more cringe 😂