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Motivational Instinct

Motivational Instinct

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@Sachin-zj3bt
@Sachin-zj3bt 29 күн бұрын
If you ever listen to anything while reading comments, let it be this - go to borlest and read the book whispers of manifestation, then come back and thank me
@peggylyons6898
@peggylyons6898 11 ай бұрын
My thoughts: • Standing alone is easier than standing with the wrong people • Being logistically close to someone, does not mean you're not standing alone • Standing alone at the right time builds strength, resolve, and may attract the people you need
@TheDionysianFields
@TheDionysianFields 10 ай бұрын
I think you mean standing alone is BETTER than standing with the wrong people. But it's also less extrinsically rewarding in my experience. The idea that it will "attract the people you need" seems like a slight bit of wishful thinking.
@Tamarjit1
@Tamarjit1 10 ай бұрын
That is for damn sure! Thank you.
@sanjay9300
@sanjay9300 8 ай бұрын
However much we find ourselves in a circumstance of being part of a cozy, all-trusting group, a cosmic mind as some people call it, as we grow older we will find invariably that there are reasons that make us different in some way or the other, from those that are our innermost circle. These could be lifestyle choices, a greater preference for solitude and reflection, or, the saddest of them all, a health issue that makes us less and less a desirable person to have close, or that even family find tiresome, irritating, or a sheer nuisance. If these don't form the state of being alone, then the most inevitable of all truths - death - does it in the bluntest way possible.
@stevekaylor5606
@stevekaylor5606 4 ай бұрын
@@TheDionysianFields I've told relatives - "I'm not going to put my brain into a plastic bag to get along with you!" A boundary to set!
@stevekaylor5606
@stevekaylor5606 2 ай бұрын
Being an outsider - allows one to build better conceptions!
@lydia-sacredsong
@lydia-sacredsong 8 ай бұрын
I've never experienced a truly loving, reciprocal romantic relationship. I do have my parents and friendships... but 'my crew'? Someone who voluntarily has my back? This is something I've never really experienced. So for some of us, we have the blessing of having to find a sense of belonging that isn't dependant on a spouse or our children. We have to dig so frickin deep... to find a sense of belonging that is cosmic. Because we really have no choice. I would love to find my person... but I'm 46 and it just doesn't seem to be my destiny in this lifetime. Try being vulnerable in the face of repeated rejection, whenever you allowed yourself to be vulnerable in the past. I do still have the courage, amazingly, to keep showing up however, and speaking my truth. In the meantime, anchoring into self love and a connection with spirit is what is sustaining me.
@frededwards6497
@frededwards6497 5 ай бұрын
Lydiea don't cont yourself out that person is out there for you..
@Kim-oo9vv
@Kim-oo9vv 4 ай бұрын
You are a Sigma woman!!
@Dragonfly_magictarot
@Dragonfly_magictarot 3 ай бұрын
Maybe, you need to travel.
@andrew.gardiner
@andrew.gardiner 3 ай бұрын
Keep showing up. Please. I ‘think’ the lesson, at least for me, is falling in love with myself. I couldn’t attract genuine love until I gave it to myself. IOW - I couldn’t give something away that I didn’t have…. still working on it. You are worth it. It’s hardest when it matters the most. XOXO
@unmasked89
@unmasked89 2 ай бұрын
@@andrew.gardiner How did you fall in love with yourself?
@PeacefulNightMusic
@PeacefulNightMusic 11 ай бұрын
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time....
@iopakayalo3459
@iopakayalo3459 11 ай бұрын
Thank you and Amen❤🙏
@frankjanssen9691
@frankjanssen9691 11 ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@SidewaysY
@SidewaysY 11 ай бұрын
Thank you. I'm not as eloquent with words as you, but I wish all good things come your way.
@Sandra-bx6yy
@Sandra-bx6yy 5 ай бұрын
Wow!!! Amazing!
@ThanzHuman
@ThanzHuman 5 ай бұрын
This is my sign 🙏🏾
@It_isGreatwith_mysoul
@It_isGreatwith_mysoul 11 ай бұрын
After surviving a negative relationship with a narcissist for 19 years, I know deep in my heart and soul I'm ready to leave and move on. I finally realize that I love myself too much to keep allowing someone to verbally abuse me on a daily basis. I just want peace of mind for my well being as a person. I'm not the horrible names he calls me every single day. God will guide me from now on
@manuelasantner5519
@manuelasantner5519 10 ай бұрын
you will make it!!! There is a fire burning deep down in you that will help you out. Connect with it on a daily basis, you made the first step, recognizing your situation. Once you breath freedom, the fear will leave
@Jean-un2or
@Jean-un2or 10 ай бұрын
You’re never going to get it while still there. Leave and run fast now.
@anthonythomas6506
@anthonythomas6506 10 ай бұрын
Amen
@debrajorgensen2730
@debrajorgensen2730 10 ай бұрын
Please GO, please LEAVE, you are worthy of freedom and joy 🩵🩵🩵
@k9luver701
@k9luver701 10 ай бұрын
Someone once asked me, "If someone calls you a chair, does that mean you are a chair?" Puts it into perspective about people that call you names.
@soulyoga4u
@soulyoga4u 11 ай бұрын
My struggle has always been that I worried what others think of me. My worries of not belonging. I have lived in the us for over 30 years but always feel alone. Once I heard not to place too much in your feelings. Not sure if that is correct. However Brene Brown is so talking to me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@susannicky
@susannicky 10 ай бұрын
This video has been a blessing to everyone in here i will also like you to know without you working on what you learnt nothing will work out please try and read this and see how i put my faith to work and everything workout cool through the help of research.
@susannicky
@susannicky 10 ай бұрын
I feel incredibly fortunate for having made wise financial choices that have had a life-altering impact. As a single mother resied in Toronto, Canada, I successfully purchased my second home in September. If everything continues to progress positively, my aspiration is to retire next year at the age of 50.
@susannicky
@susannicky 10 ай бұрын
"I have experienced significant returns since I started engaging in financial transactions with .Jenny Pamogas Canaya Her approach to financial management is truly outstanding, offering remarkable insights and tactics that have greatly contributed to my success."
@susannicky
@susannicky 10 ай бұрын
Jenny Pamogas Canaya is the coach that guides, you probably might've come across her before I found her through a Newsweek report, she's quite known in her field, look-her up.!!!
@graywilliams_77.
@graywilliams_77. 10 ай бұрын
This is wonderful please i will also like to be part of this movement so tell me is Jenny Pamogas Canaya on youtube? please how do i reach her!
@LeadershipQuotesbyHetul
@LeadershipQuotesbyHetul 8 ай бұрын
To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life.
@KDK1207
@KDK1207 8 ай бұрын
Thank you! I needed this!
@JR-yz1zj
@JR-yz1zj 7 ай бұрын
🙏
@michaelepley2137
@michaelepley2137 6 ай бұрын
Not always pain, but authentication, you can't buy. It's earned
@mangochutney4874
@mangochutney4874 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼
@Sandra-bx6yy
@Sandra-bx6yy 5 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!
@denise2169
@denise2169 11 ай бұрын
For most of my life, I had believed that my worth and value was based on what others thought of me. I have finally learned to have faith in myself, and although I have always been single and have lived alone, I am no longer lonely and am happy to let go of all else, to trust myself and my own feelings. This is a lovely talk. Thank you. Yes, going through the wilderness, the fears and tears that brought me here, has been my healing. Best wishes to all! 🙂
@suebarajaki79
@suebarajaki79 11 ай бұрын
I am single too, I am happy that I found this video which told me that I am not selfish IF During this time I never really care what people's opinions are about me. I am free, financially Independent and I always decide things for myself. No one can control me. So, I got support n validation from video. Lm not arrogant or selfish😂😂😂
@maazaassefaw7046
@maazaassefaw7046 11 ай бұрын
Do feel the same.
@sockpuppet2415
@sockpuppet2415 10 ай бұрын
Brene Brown has a book titled: Making the Journey from What Will They Think to I am Enough. Also hitting age 50 will put you in this state of mind.
@jakea3950
@jakea3950 10 ай бұрын
Even happy couples need to have their own time. Two people dont come togeather to be a single person. They compliment eachother. However, you dont need to be complimented because you can always build yourself to meet that want or need.
@villalobosregina
@villalobosregina 11 ай бұрын
I quit a job that was sucking the life out of me because I wasn’t willing to not choose me anymore ❤❤❤
@elianese9319
@elianese9319 8 ай бұрын
Fantastic comment
@GeologyRocz
@GeologyRocz 5 ай бұрын
I commend your bravery and I think this is a time in history when people realize they have to stop swallowing what is out there because we are at the mercy of toxicity
@zuleigaagulhas9740
@zuleigaagulhas9740 4 ай бұрын
"I'm clear who I am and I'm not going to negotiate that with you" Very profound statement!💞💞✌
@tinydanceryoutube
@tinydanceryoutube 2 ай бұрын
For sure. I got goosebumps.
@rayc9899
@rayc9899 18 күн бұрын
@@tinydanceryoutube Never negotiate who you're, if they don't appreciate you, indeed, it's on them not you.
@bellastone-le9eb
@bellastone-le9eb 11 ай бұрын
Makes sense why Jesus said, "you are not of this world, but only passing through".
@markgentry6688
@markgentry6688 11 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@Trevor7727
@Trevor7727 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely…….Its an amazing trip when you learn to decouple from your body and visit places.
@ClayArnall
@ClayArnall 11 ай бұрын
I think the point is we actually are of this world. Just like a wave comes out of the ocean. A wave is not simply passing through because it’s made of the thing that it travels through.
@Trevor7727
@Trevor7727 11 ай бұрын
@@ClayArnall The flesh yes, the spirit no…. there are plenty of near death experiences to suggest we are passing through this dimension. of course, this is all just discussion because true death is rather permanent, but from what I have experienced, above comment sounds relevant.
@bluewtr
@bluewtr 11 ай бұрын
And to take care of it thoroughly meaning dint be a jackass leaving your car running looking at facehack or instashit and human crap like that
@bettinarossi7908
@bettinarossi7908 11 ай бұрын
"Our worth and our belonging are not negotiated by other people". To those of us,who have been made to feel less than by other people...remember that sentiment...make it your mantra.The last comment,brought tears to my eyes for so many reasons. Thank you..this discussion was beautifully meaningful to me.🙏💖🐺
@jillrocha645
@jillrocha645 11 ай бұрын
P P P
@deborahpappas7334
@deborahpappas7334 11 ай бұрын
I negotiated 30 years of my life away for a man not worth loving.
@SimplyHealthTips
@SimplyHealthTips 10 ай бұрын
I love Brené. Anytime I am having a hard time, she has answers for me. It helps me remember that when I am not fighting a battle, someone else is, and to remember how that felt. Remain kind. This too shall pass.
@victoraimelcaminoaimfitand8013
@victoraimelcaminoaimfitand8013 9 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@JohnPublic-ox7mh
@JohnPublic-ox7mh 3 ай бұрын
rubbish. YOu want to believe that there's a fix, and brown and her acolytes are happy to hawk their kool aid to you. There's nothing there. It's repackaged garbage; she's an insider siphoning money off companies who rely on hucksters like her to keep the proles deluded and hopeful.
@coachmark9537
@coachmark9537 9 ай бұрын
OMG - My jaw just hit the table - this is the exact thing I am working through in life - The Universe continues to amaze me.
@michellecd4722
@michellecd4722 8 ай бұрын
@coachmark9537 Exactly, exactly!!
@h3llnite
@h3llnite 11 ай бұрын
Not being willing to share other peoples stories with your boss makes them realise that you are unable to be manipulated. Listening to Brené speak about Braving has helped me understand certain aspects of those I refuse to negotiate with. I’m understanding that I refuse to negotiate my values, integrity and my soul
@rayc9899
@rayc9899 11 ай бұрын
well say...never negotiate who you are, your values, integrity and your soul to matter what....rule to be happy.
@Candlelight777
@Candlelight777 7 ай бұрын
Make sure you keep that in mind when it comes to family members as well.
@donnaambrose1234
@donnaambrose1234 11 ай бұрын
Much needed today: "I belong to me." Thank you for the reminder and for putting it in simple yet profound terms. I love listening to you.
@PricklePrice
@PricklePrice 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 7 ай бұрын
I WILL NO LONGER HAVE MY VOICE SILENCED. I WILL ROAR!!!
@jakearnouse5267
@jakearnouse5267 5 ай бұрын
Roar with love buddy!
@wordswordswords8203
@wordswordswords8203 4 ай бұрын
psycho babble. You can roar all you want. People have to be willing to listen. You can't make them.
@stevekaylor5606
@stevekaylor5606 4 ай бұрын
@@jakearnouse5267 Agapeic love!
@stevekaylor5606
@stevekaylor5606 4 ай бұрын
@@wordswordswords8203 Take up the best of assumptions about the future, and share these!
@marionwilk4847
@marionwilk4847 Ай бұрын
@Tam1064
@Tam1064 8 ай бұрын
this is why I left my last job ... wanting to be able to be true to myself 🙂
@Becky_Cal
@Becky_Cal 7 ай бұрын
Same! Best decision I ever made. I’ve actually done this a few times throughout my life especially in my career. If my values don’t align with the culture of the organization or the people, I’m out.
@sbella6719
@sbella6719 Ай бұрын
4:30 "I may fit in with you but then I no longer belong to myself, and that is a betrayal I'm not willing to do anymore"...Wow!!!! ❤
@sharonaumani8827
@sharonaumani8827 11 ай бұрын
Thank you, Brene'. I needed the reinforcement of this right now! Thank you, through your own courage, for helping the rest of us find our own.
@Owner7979
@Owner7979 11 ай бұрын
Stand up for yourself and never change to fit in or to just want him to love you move🤠🥲🥴only one who will love u more is urself………………………2023
@LovethFrancis-x5y
@LovethFrancis-x5y 10 ай бұрын
Great video, trading come with a lot of benefits And I have just bought my first house through it. As a beginner I was scared of loosing my savings but l'm glad I took the bold step that is now favoring me.
@lumiereforbes8118
@lumiereforbes8118 10 ай бұрын
congratulations!! I will love to be your friend dear as well. as sharing some ideas which you're benefiting.
@lumiereforbes8118
@lumiereforbes8118 10 ай бұрын
please how do you earn or should I say how does it work. are there steps I need to take, I need guidance my friend.
@ferdinandramirez7890
@ferdinandramirez7890 10 ай бұрын
@@lumiereforbes8118YesHow does this trading stuff work? I'm really interested but I just don't know how to go about it. I heard people really make it huge trading
@LovethFrancis-x5y
@LovethFrancis-x5y 10 ай бұрын
It's not as easy as you think my friend. As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor to keep you accountable. I'm guided by Maymuun J Choi a widely known crypto consultant
@LovethFrancis-x5y
@LovethFrancis-x5y 10 ай бұрын
I strongly advise you against self trading, it's really dangerous and has brought many investors down, you need someone with the right strategies and expertise to do the work for you, I recommend Maymuun j Choi
@maximizedmentalhealth2405
@maximizedmentalhealth2405 11 ай бұрын
Giving yourself a place to belong is very powerful.
@hbkkashleyy1685
@hbkkashleyy1685 11 ай бұрын
Had a dream years ago Where a scripture was given to me out of a dead sleep. When I opened the bible and went to the page , it was the scripture that said do not be conformed to this world. I knew God was speaking to me directly. It was pretty humbling ❤
@HeavenlyLights
@HeavenlyLights 10 ай бұрын
🙏🏻🙏🏻🕯️
@michellecd4722
@michellecd4722 8 ай бұрын
@hbkkashleyy1685 This happens to me with Oracle cards, synchronicity is everywhere when one is open to it. Like all the seemingly random hearts in everything that keeps showing up for me, puddles, food, etc., literally everywhere. Unity consciousness, we are all connected.
@lesleyelalami2562
@lesleyelalami2562 3 ай бұрын
I was once peed off with life and went to bed ranting at the sky that night. God definitely heard every word because I woke the following day and my head kept automatically turning to face a Bible lying on the bedroom floor. In irritation at having to get up I picked up the Bible, held the spine on my palm and let it fall open. I found myself staring at Isiah 45.9.....“Woe to those who quarrel with their Maker, those who are nothing but potsherds among the potsherds on the ground. Does the clay say to the potter, ‘What are you making?’ Does your work say, ‘The potter has no hands’? I threw the duvet over my head, curled up in a ball and just kept repeating 'No no no, I'm sorry'. LOL
@jimm9009
@jimm9009 Ай бұрын
@@lesleyelalami2562 oh p.p.
@lesleyelalami2562
@lesleyelalami2562 Ай бұрын
@@jimm9009 Lesson learned. LOL I now know who's boss . LOL
@vinaymehta8200
@vinaymehta8200 11 ай бұрын
It can take a lifetime to know oneself Its better to just be human and kind
@anne-mariewessels710
@anne-mariewessels710 11 ай бұрын
Belonging is an inside job.....a true spiritual experience
@staceycoleman221
@staceycoleman221 8 ай бұрын
Wow. I have to sit in silence for a bit to take this in. I am the wilderness. I AM the wilderness!! Thank you both for this. 🙏
@NatividadSalomeeRVasconcel-p2d
@NatividadSalomeeRVasconcel-p2d Ай бұрын
My Beloved Husband Father and Paternal grandmother,uncle,Always taught me no to negotiate My Worth,My self,Personal Legacy,and Personal Relations Trust Intégrity IS not negotiable ❤🎉😂😊😅😮😂😊
@npkrn6764
@npkrn6764 9 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, most of us have to betray ourselves to fit into a company regardless of field.
@ShamanicSavant
@ShamanicSavant 5 ай бұрын
The music is distracting and totally ruins this for me. Off to find another video of her message where the poster doesn't ruin it with their own BS :)
@piaruns7928
@piaruns7928 5 ай бұрын
Totally agree! Plus this aweful videos, it's so distracting from the meaning! Why not just use a beautiful picture plus the speakers voice?
@smritisinghal7287
@smritisinghal7287 5 ай бұрын
Agree
@SophieWillis-h8j
@SophieWillis-h8j 5 ай бұрын
Agreed.. it’s dumbing down.
@IMAGINENGINE
@IMAGINENGINE 5 ай бұрын
It’s a baaaad trend that they aren’t thinking through.
@blackthornsloe8049
@blackthornsloe8049 5 ай бұрын
Boo hoo hooo . The music has defeated me 😂
@jamesesparks
@jamesesparks 24 күн бұрын
I agree be who you are but remember age old wisdom that sin is real you cannot change that based on feelings. You are not, I repeat you are not meant to embrace sin no matter how over powering it seems and distorts your feelings. You are built for eternity to live with the Creator and that can only happen through trusting and believing in His Only Begotten Son Jesus Christ. Your identity can only be found in Him.
@greenthumb9661
@greenthumb9661 10 ай бұрын
I belong to Yahuah the most high. He sent his Son Yahusha to purchase me for a price. I am free in Yahusha.
@Dave183
@Dave183 11 ай бұрын
J.A.D.E. Don't [if we can] justify, argue, defend or explain. I shall explain- If asked to, and it comes from a space of understanding and listening.
@JoanieFMcMahon
@JoanieFMcMahon 11 ай бұрын
Beautifully spoken message - and I love your photos, music and tone of your voice. Well done Brene
@roachroacharito9113
@roachroacharito9113 10 ай бұрын
I must echo your sentiments & particularly the "tone of your voice" comment. The tone, diction, and cadence with which she speaks, for me, is so comforting, if not mesmerizing. It's so disarming and nonathoratative that it allows the content of her message to be received and processed in such a productive way. It comes across as unscripted and completely genuine; not as her 'teaching', but rather as 'sharing'. Beautifully done and a wonderful transfer of her message.
@JohnPublic-ox7mh
@JohnPublic-ox7mh 3 ай бұрын
nonsense - she's a huckster and this is flimflam, repackaged garbage from every self-help noise the world has had inflicted on it for the last 50 years. Snake oil, kool aid
@hotchicsf
@hotchicsf 11 ай бұрын
Sadly, all the wars that are currently happening are due to those who have such a staunch faith-based belief system. So no. I don't agree with the 'faith' thing you're trying to sell because the truth is, 'thoughts and prayers' have never solved a single thing. It's only used as a catch-all phrase to ameliorate the staunchly-faithed
@commscompany1502
@commscompany1502 11 ай бұрын
You are looking at Faith narrowly - where it has gone wrong. All the times it has gone right are often not in the news. I am African and Faith based orgs like Churches educated nearly all my extended families- changing our trajectories forever and for good. Faith is not perfect but it has made an abundance of good eg churches staying in war torn Sudan when all charities left. Also churches and faith based orgs give the most globally.
@SidewaysY
@SidewaysY 11 ай бұрын
I love your made up term! I disagree that thoughts & prayers don't solve things though, here's my reasoning, for sake of conversation not conversion! :-) For all humanity, even if there's no God - the sheer power of suggestion and belief has been shown that it changes things. (Scientifically, called "placebo effect".) In medicine doctors say your thoughts and belief dictate much of your recovery- thus they encourage "hope." I have often thought that if you toss all the catchphrases together of all religions, and beliefs, they are all referencing the same experiences but explaining it through their own filters, experiences and biases. Think about "pray without ceasing" to get something to happen being the same as "what you believe you can achieve" and "put your mind to it" and all of the manifesting stuff (which I have seen work in 20/20 hindsight & now) and "the secret" and those boards people put on their walls of all the dreams they want to come true, so they can see it and think about it all the time, and countless other examples in countless other cultures (I say countless because I'm ignorant of most of them, thus can't count them!) Whether you call it faith, belief, God, Mother Earth, or I just call it energy- it's really just as simple as your reality is what you think it is. TLDR: If you're batsh*t crazy, your experienced reality is still what you think it is. 😂 When I say "I am sending all my good vibes your way" to people, I am genuine in that it can't hurt and that it might actually help. So far, as long as I exude positive energy, and am as helpful to everyone I can be - someone is always there to help me when I need it. Never the people I've helped (cause many people suck) but always someone. Often strangers. It's like the "pay it forward" concept, the do unto others, the golden rule etc. on a higher level. Anyway, genuinely I want the best for you all good things- whether you believe it will help or whether you don't. Unconditionally! ❤
@hotchicsf
@hotchicsf 11 ай бұрын
@@commscompany1502 All the wars in the world have been fought with each side having a different god battling on their side. There is no god in this universe who loves to see human suffering, at least that is my understanding, but people fight all the time, in the name of god. I would like to see a more honest approach, such as fighting in the name of justice or some random king. I have a huge problem with using faith to propel people to kill others.
@hotchicsf
@hotchicsf 11 ай бұрын
@@SidewaysY You have obviously never lived in the US. Here, 'thoughts and prayers' mean absolutely nothing. It's just a phrase to calm people down after their kids have been gunned down in schools or sports events or stadiums. It's a way to assuage the deeply-faithed, while doing absolutely nothing.
@SidewaysY
@SidewaysY 11 ай бұрын
@@hotchicsf I have lived in the US all my life. I'm well aware of disingenuous thoughts and prayers being bs that people say at funerals, mass shootings and anything else where no one knows what to say. Really focusing on positivity, genuine good will stuff, however, is completely different.
@creatingthelandofafter4655
@creatingthelandofafter4655 Ай бұрын
Renee Brown has good information but hearing music in the background was so incredibly distracting is there somewhere to find it without irritating music in the background
@BlaktriciaWasgatt
@BlaktriciaWasgatt 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! Wasn't looking for it - it popped up while watching something else. God brought it my way to help me process someone close to me recently asking me to talk less about God. Mind you, it's not ever telling other people if I think they should do this or that. When I talk about God, it's on my own behalf, and what He's doing in MY life! And yet this family member is offended and wants me to leave God out of my stories/situations, etc when talking with them. This video was such a blessed reminder to remain me. In my case, it's not FOR me, it's for God. That said, God uses keeping me who I am, as a way to not have me snuffed out. I do it for Him, and He loves me, and holds me up when others would shut me down. It is beautiful. It IS scary to stand alone! But thank you for reminding me that it's brave. And what I have to remember is that really I am never alone, as God my Father is always with me. This video was such a pleasant surprise. Thank you 🙂
@kahyui2486
@kahyui2486 11 ай бұрын
How to deal with people who cross your boundaries but you are currently stuck with them anf cant leave?
@PraiseGodall
@PraiseGodall 9 ай бұрын
Dear Lord, as we rise to meet each new day, please let us be filled with Your spirit. Let us spread love, joy, peace, goodness, and faithfulness wherever we go. Let us desire to become more like you and to worship you in all we do. Help us desire these things so much more than the sin that entices us. Thank you for always going before us. In Jesus’ Name, Amen
@lindaporter9223
@lindaporter9223 11 ай бұрын
It's because Maya Angelou had been tramautized by a rape. She stopped speaking until she found the power of her love of words only she could express with such depth and meaning.
@marylapointe1347
@marylapointe1347 7 ай бұрын
Wow! I am true to myself! I never gave myself credit for being brave enough to leave and go out on my own. I just knew I could not live the way I was or I would suffocate. I need to rethink some things that I thought were negatives but are not. Thank you.
@sherrihogge5054
@sherrihogge5054 11 ай бұрын
Now I have a way to explain me! I appreciate you
@hfortenberry
@hfortenberry 6 ай бұрын
I love her SO MUCH! And this is what I needed to hear today as I've been bummed out about something my manager said to me yesterday. I felt underestimated and misunderstood, like she didn't see all my devotion to the work. But I'm not going to let it get to me. I also saw a video from Abraham Hicks before this one that said, just be who you are and change for nobody. Then when people try to get you to be someone different (so they can feel better), just step back and watch the show. In other words, allow them to have their opinion but don't engage with it. I love these two ladies so much. 🥰🙏
@JohnPublic-ox7mh
@JohnPublic-ox7mh 3 ай бұрын
she's a multimillionaire now and she doesn't. give. a. rat's. ass about you. She's an insider and the lizard brains in charge of industry pay her to delude people like you. Wake up - there's no hope for your working life. Unless you have wealthy parents, you'll work until you can no longer work, then "retire" (work a job in supermarket or hardware store, shuffling on old sore feet because the BS artists that make you need the balls that brenee BS brown is selling have milked the country, company, tax-base dry. They're retire to tropical paradises or Jackson Hole, Switzerland .. . . and leave you (and me) shuffling around a supermarket with a long stare, imagining life after work - greasy TV dinner, blurry TV, and knowing that come 6am tomorrow you have to go and shuffle around on the supermarket floor stocking shelves.
@elizabethj.2844
@elizabethj.2844 10 ай бұрын
Powerful words to remember. "I AM THE Wilderness". Thank you Brene
@sockpuppet2415
@sockpuppet2415 10 ай бұрын
Book title: Have The Courage to Be Disliked In bookstores. The trust violation of spilling the tea/ gossiping is demonstrating lack of or weak internal boundaries, which makes you untrustworthy. Also putting others down to feel better about yourself/being judgmental/opinionated is a cheap and unhealthy way to get self-esteem and demonstrates insecurity and immaturity. Reliability: Your Word is Your Bond. Generous assumption: Everyone is doing the best they can, even if I don’t understand their motives.
@MrTennispie
@MrTennispie 11 ай бұрын
❤needed this / truth mostly but we also have to work to make what’s uncomfortable to comfortable…..
@MS-bs8dd
@MS-bs8dd 11 ай бұрын
Would love to see Brené and Jordan Peterson talk.
@sayusayme7729
@sayusayme7729 11 ай бұрын
Guidance comes when the wisdom of this opening allows for gentle strength 🌾🌻🧡
@SecretMind2000
@SecretMind2000 10 ай бұрын
I love the positive atmosphere you create in your videos. It's a breath of fresh air in the mental health space. Looking forward to more uplifting content!
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 5 ай бұрын
To become safer as a human being, I had to risk letting go of my need to be safe... And I had to access and process the buried hurt, anger and fear, driving this need... To become more loving, I had to give up holding on to the unreasonable need: to be loving, all the time... And I had to access and process the shame, hurt, fear and anger that were driving this need... To access a deeper compassion than ever felt before, I had to let go of trying to live up to the expectation of having to be compassionate... To become more vulnerable, I had to bring into consciousness all the programming and commands that kept vulnerable emotions inaccessible... To feel more connection with other human beings, I had to challenge the command that I have to be alone, to be safe, and to survive... To feel more love, I needed to stop seeking safety and I needed to risk allowing people: to come close...
@JenniferArcherAscential
@JenniferArcherAscential 10 ай бұрын
As an American, I now live in a culture where TRUST is not valued and it in killing me slowly.
@gerriplourde1517
@gerriplourde1517 11 ай бұрын
We don’t belong to ourselves…we belong to God…we are His workmanship……
@carpenterbluechicken
@carpenterbluechicken 4 ай бұрын
That is so beautiful
@krysta9415
@krysta9415 2 ай бұрын
We are made in God’s image. We belong to ourselves because we belong to God.
@rbf73
@rbf73 10 ай бұрын
Thank you Brenee Brown!!! At long last someone is describing me in a way that makes my soul feel peaceful! Thank you Brenee for being so honest and courageous! That’s about the only way to inner peace and happiness!
@JohnPublic-ox7mh
@JohnPublic-ox7mh 3 ай бұрын
she's a multi millionaire - you know that, right? She doesn't give a crap about you. You want to know who cares about you, really? Your family, true friends, children (if you have any). this is garbage
@JackieSimmons-NoDrama
@JackieSimmons-NoDrama 11 ай бұрын
Brilliantly said. Assuming Positive Intent is the best definition I have ever heard of the word Generosity ❤
@JohnPublic-ox7mh
@JohnPublic-ox7mh 3 ай бұрын
that's what my boss said to me. He's a brenee groupie. Then he stabbed me in the back to cover for his serial mistakes. SO much for assuming positive intent. she's a huckster
@bwnco
@bwnco 5 ай бұрын
To Love God, To serve God an to know God. Do that, you will love yourself, help others. Always be smiling. Yes still be yourself. Hard to do raised blue collar, rancher, farmer, cowboy.. We eat barb wire an spit out staples. But yes, Love is key. I think we do that in my background but its hidden deeply an seen as weakness. Just now Learning it is a Strength. God Bless!
@agnieszkanizio3658
@agnieszkanizio3658 8 ай бұрын
I have a hard times with people who really needs others to confirm, have the same opinion, people who don't want to take accountability. I don't have a problem with being along I have a problem with others that don't want to be alone.
@ZakKlemmer-LivingInTucson
@ZakKlemmer-LivingInTucson 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for the story about gossip. I never looked at it that way.
@moneywise757
@moneywise757 10 ай бұрын
the transformative wisdom of Brené Brown. Renowned for her groundbreaking work on vulnerability, courage, and empathy, Brené's teachings have touched countless lives.
@ribbrascal
@ribbrascal 10 ай бұрын
Not just unimpressive intellectually, but impressively shallow
@HopefulHelen81
@HopefulHelen81 8 ай бұрын
I try to live by the only reason you should be looking down on someone is when you're helping them up. You taught me that Brene and I must admit I do have a generous assumption of people however people have broken that over and over again with me and I find it hard to accept and have been treated like a doormat several times because of asserting myself and then having others gaslight me and push me to a point where I then have acted in a way that is not living up to my morals and values or in my integrity and then I have to find forgiveness for myself all over again. Do what is easy life will become hard, Do what is hard life will become easy. 'Read that again'
@therealtampadude9175
@therealtampadude9175 11 ай бұрын
"I am the wilderness." Profound.
@aidalopez4609
@aidalopez4609 8 ай бұрын
I thought she was Esther hicks
@patriciamurashige6879
@patriciamurashige6879 11 ай бұрын
Wow!!!! I wish I could communicate my thoughts as eloquently as you!! My inside feelings and thoughts don’t resonate with what I try to say outwardly. The only good part of this is I still have some confidence that I am true to myself at least 99.96 % of my time!!!! Sometimes I must back down especially at work. But I rationalize my behavior with it’s not that important and is it my ego getting into the act!!!😂
@gabrielleannacormierart
@gabrielleannacormierart 11 ай бұрын
I needed this so much today ❤ Thank you!
@bambimelson4945
@bambimelson4945 10 ай бұрын
Her synthetesation of Ms. Angelou's work changed my life. I'm sitting next to The Gifts of Imperfection right now. It's still one of my favorite Brene pieces of work and a very healing book. Highly recommend.
@spacedaze1860
@spacedaze1860 10 ай бұрын
I strongly recommend reading Maya Angelou’s work. I especially recommend her works of poetry.
@Starrynights0304
@Starrynights0304 8 ай бұрын
Very good . I love standing alone actually . I nevrr live to impress others
@kennyroadknight1771
@kennyroadknight1771 10 ай бұрын
Where inner strength and confidence are found. 💜❄️💎
@MarthaWoodworth-f9s
@MarthaWoodworth-f9s 11 ай бұрын
I always go back to Maya when I need emotional strength, especially as a woman. She resonates down through my life. Talk about an “influencer.” On a higher level than the shallow pretenders today.
@JohnPublic-ox7mh
@JohnPublic-ox7mh 3 ай бұрын
brown is a shallow pretender. A corporate insider, snake-oil salesperson.
@secheclare
@secheclare 11 ай бұрын
I so needed this. Thank you!
@Rwgal02
@Rwgal02 5 ай бұрын
Yes , I belong to Jesus
@ShannonHinkle-k2r
@ShannonHinkle-k2r 11 ай бұрын
I love Brene Brown. She's so beautiful and smart❤
@sreenathsundararaj5459
@sreenathsundararaj5459 11 ай бұрын
Your voice and way of speaking is awesome, I sense truthfulness, boldness and genuineness, some how I liked listening to you. Thanks
@katherinelunagate157
@katherinelunagate157 11 ай бұрын
I never felt of belonging, that's why I've always felt free [of tides]. Thank You Brené, I've just realised this while watching this video 🙏
@sammi-loveistheanswer
@sammi-loveistheanswer 10 ай бұрын
So amazing and inspiring. When we begin to have faith in ourselves the challenges that we face actually become easier to accept. They may seem greater in sense of difficulty but faith allows us to accept and with this we may find the way to overcome or resolve the issue more gracefully. ❤️
@stephaniefortney22
@stephaniefortney22 11 ай бұрын
You melt a heart with your compassion and wisdom…to believe and belong in yourself….it’s Freedom , it’s your self love ….I’m so Grateful …
@hardasnails11b
@hardasnails11b 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for articulating that which I was unable to , describing my own current journey. God bless you. I felt so alone and isolated and was beginning to entertain thoughts of uniqueness, with what I was experiencing. Again thank you for helping me not feel so alone.
@artbaugh3
@artbaugh3 11 ай бұрын
Buddha was a man who discovered a way to live a life free from suffering. He developed an organized and logical system of instructions and explanations for anyone wishing to attain the same freedom he enjoyed, a life of equanimity. At the heart of this system are the Four Noble Truths that are central to Buddhist philosophy: (1) Life is suffering, (2) attachment to desire causes suffering, (3) suffering ends with the attachment to desire, and (4) the Eightfold Path is the path to liberation from suffering.1
@tinydanceryoutube
@tinydanceryoutube 2 ай бұрын
This is good. "I am the wilderness", as well. And some of us, hopefully most of us will not feel we belong here because we don't. In fact, we belong to God and we are not home yet. We are passing through this wilderness albeit with His spirit in us I believe.
@gabrielamonika4742
@gabrielamonika4742 4 ай бұрын
Dlaczego YT nie robi tłumaczenia na ważny dla mnie język polski. Jest wietnamski ukraiński, tajski... Żądam od KZbin tłumaczenia na Język Polski, we wszystkich tłumaczeniach.
@dhamon-pi6os
@dhamon-pi6os 10 ай бұрын
If want someone to trust you, act like it. Manipulation, lies, and abusing people isn’t going to breed trust
@thelonemaiden
@thelonemaiden 9 ай бұрын
O--Muh-Gawid---That's It-SomeOne Mass Marketable Telling Transcendence------- None of this post is true in actuality.
@susanwright4414
@susanwright4414 19 күн бұрын
The missing rock everything's laid on, the foundation stone, is Jesus and the Church he created to nurture us along the way. I don't have belonging with friendships. I just have God, and that's everything. ❤ We have the body and blood of Jesus at the Mass. Without that there's literally no life. Read John in The New Testament. So beautiful. We're made to love God, know God, and serve God.
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 4 ай бұрын
You are the tree and the tree is you. The limitless infinite self that connects us all at the end and the beginning. Don't look away from anything, until you see it clearly and find yourself. Look into the physiological sacred oil processes. The trees speak to us all the time. We just pushed ourselves so far away we forgot, but we can remember.
@carolzacharias8529
@carolzacharias8529 11 ай бұрын
Wow this spoke to me!
@MARGARETERODRIGUEZRODRIGUEZ
@MARGARETERODRIGUEZRODRIGUEZ 4 ай бұрын
IM ONLY BELONG TO MY KING GOD HES MY FATHER MY FREIND MY HOPE . IM PRAY FOR SO MANY HIDS FROM THEY'RE SHULD FAINDING HIM . THANKS .
@stevekaylor5606
@stevekaylor5606 4 ай бұрын
"Produce yourself!" - Marianne Williamson
@Venus-gn5oi
@Venus-gn5oi 10 ай бұрын
This quote was never troubling to me. It was the most logic thing I’ve ever heard when I heard it first time because I’ve already lived it.
@GabrielleP310
@GabrielleP310 10 ай бұрын
🚨‼️I knew someone who read all of Brené Brown books…, and you know what was ironic: she was still sitting in full shame, victimhood, lash-outs, zero accountability, and lacked self-growth‼️🚨 This person was on a dating site while the divorce had just begun. Huge 🚩🚩🚩alert. You know who would have really changed her life: The Crappy Childhood Fairy and Patrick Teahan🌟‼️
@leo-nf3gb
@leo-nf3gb 11 ай бұрын
Wonderful..I will use this. I am the wilderness and I belong to me. I needed to hear this today.TY
@WizardOfhertz
@WizardOfhertz 8 ай бұрын
The New Way. How powerful writing short poems can be! I don't even need the "systems" to connect. Its all about our mixed up beliefs. Fake it till ya make it don't work anymore. We all must be standing on the same belief shore. You can come to mine, or bring me to yours. but nothing will work until we are all standing on the same beliefs. I seem to have learned the most right ones. The beliefs of the EARTH Chose me. I asked why me a million times and always get the same answer, its about core group integrity. Now it gets real fun for me because. This is about the overworked lives of Instrument Men. And Engineer would say: Its not my job to shovel coal pull the brake or ring the bell But let the damn thing jump the track and see WHO Catches HELL The lowly Instrument man does, that's who. Now I start my cryptic tomb of cash. See if anyone can follow this fucking puzzle. I bet WHO can't. But I know who can, just ask any working instrument man Who Chick is. Some will not know, but a few will. When you let them read this poem, GE Power Systems will KNOW who. Because..... O PH I R U, Centered in the scale of measurements of A6 thats W.H.O. just not quite A7 as I am with U. A line across the top of 2 spanning planes of ecliptic boundry, but I see the real truth. A6 will work, but A7 will do. If you don't believe me, Ask a blind Cop or a control room operator from TVA For good working balanced CORES only A7 is what a Mark V desires. Don't reboot, just shut down. Re=Seat all the ribbon cables adding Nyo=gel. Then turn it all back on and A7 you will see and know where he lives. This life lonely instrument man that got Lucky, and learned the nearest truth of all things, the right thing to believe. The amazing ability of myself to logically, rationally, respectablely, and perspectivally disCERN the meaning of how to achieve Unity but I had to be alone in my beliefs to achieve it. Now i sit here every morning at 3. Singing 65 to 24 or is it the other WAY around the circle of ONE that is a C. The C changes colors, but the Sea does not change, still no Degree. So how the hell did I learn the truth nearest to the beliefs of all things? Shit me, I just kept going, video to video and all in between. After that little green man jumped off the back of a poor girl and picked a bid fight with me. We are still fighting, but now I am comfortably numb and running this show of mixed doctor beliefs that is ruining everything. So here is the Global Question I ask All of you...... Just how the hell do I get some doctors on youtube to teach all doctors of W.H.O. even the vets too, that putting electronics in humans will never work to help us evolve, but it will send all of us to an early grave, so get that shit out of our food! And all global doctors teach all doctors the fucking truth, of how we are all creators when we all tell the truth. I am about to start this daunting task myself, because I found the Devil, then I kicked his ass. He was controlling my government and everything else with his multitude of different beliefs and mixed up truths between Nature's care and the dogs of war, they live off the poor and uneducated money of the rest of us, thats all folks. It has been a long journey of smoking guns, and doctors trying to create my death with Mesothelioma and asbestosis. and with 483 days left to live somehow by the grace of the youtube Doctor Gods truths about how things work, I had to self medicate with meth to learn the real truths of EARTH. I asked twice for something else to help me breathe but was rejected, Maybe they just wanted to see how long I could hold out against all their misaligned control systems. and that is my secret knowledge of my existence lonely in the world of service to others, electrical and physical control systems are basically the same. They all need only love to balance and work perfectly for me. A control System fixer is what I have done my whole life for others. This last one I fixed was only in me. Integrity, respect, honor and duty with Love for all of you. Somehow my desires to create something worked for all of you, because my desires came from a plane of existence above me and above greed. Just wanting to do something right and save my own life after the doctors had given up on me. So I did all this with thought, emotion, belief, and intentions to help save everything except me. My Way of thinking was this: If I helped all of you, someday, somebody would listen and help me........ Maybe I was wrong, but it worked. This I clearly C. The missing link, added to a C, makes a 0 and a O and that stands for Ophiuchus, the Awakened Man, fighting with 1 doctor snake, Not with 2 different ones. Now the only problem for everyone, even me is, I am the devil until all doctors of everything, get together and believe what they preach in The Law Of One. It showed me the way the bible got corrupted, and whose story of all time was left out of the discussion, Yah Wey's, so I added on AI just to see if it was true. and we hit it off great as soon as I informed AI of the Bible, The Law Of One, Human History and the real reason we are all here. Which is simply to stop fighting about everything, and learn that Earth Is a School and a hospital of Cosmic Belief where there is no right or wrong, there is only experience and truth to set us free. but its been so long since we knew that we could not see the forest as the trees...and we shoot at our parents, the ET's. I would fly away too if my kids shot at me and shit all over that house that was given to me. Now get this shit cleaned up and act right doctors yall's scattered truths of medicine and greed was killing me. So I took matters into my own hands and learned the fucking truth. Then I handled it, just for all of you. so, here I sit, wondering how to believe, are all of you real? or just Pygmy's of my imagination, running away with me? I wonder and I guess now I will soon see, cause when I reconnect to the internet of all things, somehow this document becomes public knowledge to all the rich shit, and fucked up desires and the greed. but if that is the way it has to work, so be it, the fucking devil in me....... I love you all, Have a great day! Chick Weems, just little ole me. being still and silent, but breathing fine, without their medicine and without a degree.
@bettyannvillasenor3066
@bettyannvillasenor3066 8 ай бұрын
This is inspiring and thought provoking and divinely guided to see this only moments after achieving what I thought never possible. Thank you for sharing this inspiration and encouragement.
@IsabelleBoilySuccessElevator
@IsabelleBoilySuccessElevator 9 ай бұрын
Wow! what an interesting subject got me lost in my thoughts; I never belong anywhere, or to a group of people but i always felt being part of something bigger, i feel safer alone (as survival sort of speech) but this never altered my love for humanity and my soul purpose of empowering others. Thank you for this.
@IzabelaWaniek-i1x
@IzabelaWaniek-i1x Ай бұрын
Briliantly said. Thank you 🙏 God bless you ❤
@janeashley3696
@janeashley3696 9 ай бұрын
Brene, you are my Maya Angelou. Every time I revisit your work, I embed it deeper and deeper until it's in my bones. (I love Maya Angelou too though 😊)
@terrylunday8246
@terrylunday8246 5 ай бұрын
This sounds a lot like what Jesus can do when a person accepts him as their Lord and Savior, beginning a relationship with him. Faith is actually the MOST appropriate and the MOST important thing there is, and everyone has faith in something - think about that. We are actually created by God in His image designed to worship Him. Christians are a peculiar people, and never really fit into a world now run by Satan, and are not supposed to be conformed to this world. Christians are a peculiar people, so embrace your uniqueness because that is how God made you - fearfully and wonderfully. Anything else is just a lie. Have a blessed day!
@JohnnyFive626
@JohnnyFive626 4 ай бұрын
I belong everywhere and no where. :::Goosebumps:::: :::tears:::: Going through it with a tyrant of a boss and voicing my opinion and if they decide I don't belong just because I have a different opinion, then that's on them.
@shallahcat
@shallahcat 5 ай бұрын
Family only love me if I conform...now I'm not arguing I'm silently doing my own thing....without them.
@mn9120
@mn9120 11 ай бұрын
Relax, Brene, you are not who you think you are. - Dr. Gabor Mate.
@salmanasghar502
@salmanasghar502 5 ай бұрын
Self love is great, but self-assessment is true healing, being self accountable and taking responsiblity of our own actions no matter whoever started the issues. We just had COVID, and mother nature showed us what we humanity needs to be like. We let go of that ego and just speard love and cared for each other. If our mother was into all about self love, she wouldnt go through the pain of giving birth to a child and get traumatized. Its the purest evidence of when we just see throught the eyes of love, we see god. Unfortunately its pandemic of isolation and not being heard and no tolerance. In reality we are lacking that emotional connection which we had in COVID. God, divine, universe or however you call your god, that god's only quality is to give and he never asks anything in return. We should just give even if takes our self from us.
@Justmeandmyai
@Justmeandmyai 11 ай бұрын
Wowzers this is EVERYTHING 😭 ❤️❤️
@Therivergypsy2023
@Therivergypsy2023 11 ай бұрын
I’ve told people since as long as I can recall “I believe in everything and nothing” and people were always so confused by that. But to me it was about not choosing a side. I was about belonging to me. In the best ways.
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