My Boyfriend Hates My Outfit 🙄

[@BillieRaeBrandt]

Wait is it Mike or Matt? I forget names when I'm angry 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@PyroMiniYak]

Does it matter, this is just one of your many acted out BS conversations between women that never happen. Wouldn’t surprise me though. You probably grew up having to talk to yourself because nobody liked you. That’s one thing you and your audience have in common.

[@ArnoldsDesign]

It's Brad. And she's driving me nuts.

[@suryasingh9738]

It's Tyrone, or maybe it was Chad. Can't tell the difference between them these days.

[@JohnFourtyTwo]

It doesn’t matter because you’re not going to remember his name anyway when you’re mad.😉👍

[@rajmathew6220]

It could be me

[@gtcam723]

Yep. She’s marketing herself for the next guy.

[@AltezzaGang15]

And gaslighting her way out of accountability

[@gtcam723]

@@AltezzaGang15 essentially.

[@legessi]

Women don't like hearing that.

[@urexpensiveopinion]

Ikrrr... none of her content say it should be applicable both ways... feels like she is trying to be the dignified pick me girl I'm different from other girls

[@gtcam723]

@@urexpensiveopinion oh? And how YOU different? Because nearly every time I hear that statement from a woman, she’s the ringleader of those “other girls” And “pick me” seems to be any woman who dares go against the sisterhood of fuckery

[@Grizzy98639]

These sketches really showcase the things guys try to say that get brushed aside and dismissed. Thank you Billie.

[@angeldiaz762]

If you've been together for three months and she's acting single, drop her and move on

[@shieldwolf65]

You only Think you're in a relationship Broskis, have you had the discussion about *"Exclusivity"* yet? The fact you *Have to have that discussion* is the very reason your shouldn't be involved with modern Western women at all. Bc until she says you're *Exclusive* she's still hoeing around but expects YOU to be behaving like a traditional guy involved only with her. A good response to her having the *Exclusivity* talk is to tell her you'll stop sleeping with other women if she will stop sleeping with other men, Deal!. Expect shocked confusion.

[@AltezzaGang15]

@@shieldwolf65you described them as “modern” and “western”. You don’t get to talk about women

[@erikkonstas]

​@@shieldwolf65WTF is a "discussion about exclusivity" 😂😂😂 we now have to say it out loud to our partners they're not to cheat or some??? 😂😂😂

[@shieldwolf65]

@@AltezzaGang15 Que? Why not, they get to talk about us. Getting them to stop talking is actually the biggest challenge. Most traditioñal non Western cultures still follow the basic relatioñship norms, unless they're so extreme traditional norms are you marry who your parents tell you too & if the groom doesn't like your looks after he gets your bhurka off he'll get you stoned for adultery or impurity. Actually thats beginning to sound like a really g......

[@theprogram863]

He was probably wasting his time giving her a warning, but he must really like her. Smarter to just break it off and be vague about why. (Obviously this is a skit but we've all seen this situation many times. If she's still doing stuff like that even in a committed relationship, she isn't relationship material.)

[@xSkysilver]

" ah, understood" meanwhile in her head she's contemplating wether or not to take him when he's free

[@yourgrandpa2539]

fellas, you do not need to explain yourself or have an argument for your boundary. if she goes out dressed like a streetwalkerand you are not comfortable with it, end it. if she goes out at night for "girls night" with her single friends and you are not comfortable with it, end it. if she posts pictures on social media that you are not comfortable with, end it. also please read "the manipulated man" and "the rational male" for your sake.

[@Hasse_Hansson]

​@@yourgrandpa2539🗿

[@EA7Ryan]

@@yourgrandpa2539finally someone with a brain, kudos to you sir 💯

[@emant8396]

@@yourgrandpa2539keep ending everything? No communication. Wtf

[@JayBigDadyCy]

​​@@yourgrandpa2539this is honestly spoken like someone who's never actually been in a long term relationship. Or a real relationship at all tbh. As the person above me said "no communication?" Exactly. I have to tell her first. If she gets uppity and insists that looking like a whore is "who she is" then she clearly isn't for me and that's just fine. No need to be a controlling prick or even get in a fight about it. The last thing I want is to convince someone to stay with me who isn't being themselves, or for me to stay with someone that makes me feel like I'm being disingenuous to myself. Read all the books you want, but the best advice is from men in actual healthy relationships. Men and women are all different. Every person and every relationship has its own uniqueness.

[@jjalexg82]

These are the women that see dating as their "entertainment"- when a man establishes healthy boundaries, she gets bored because she is denied that outlet. She lacks the ability to read a book, engage in a sport, or otherwise entertain herself.

[@halleffect5439]

I have a female friend which does that. She had a toxic relationship with a guy she dated him because he was a lean calesthenics guy. But she always flirted with other men on parties on a weekly base. He broke up. It took her 2 years to realize that she is going for casual hookups. She thinks she can fix that later somehow and get easily into a stable relationship. But since i know her better then the men around her, i know she is selfish in character and very egoistic. Still, she comes across as cute and pretty to other men. I currently see no big development torwards this problems. She is doing it for the attention. Picking always the highest guys, even if they dont look good. Yeah in the end, this is not my problem. And i hope it gives you inside. Because she is very insecure and needs this kind of confirmation by male attention. So think of it, its not always your fault, if a women is not interested in you. Some women (and also some men) cant get their life together, and i say this with no hate, but pity.

[@tegathemenace]

I blame men who are thirsty for love. Giving titles to someone they met last month.

[@mrfinlay7516]

​@tegathemenace in the video it said 3 months. Significant difference.

[@janslife92]

I wish women spoke to each other like this, from what I've experienced even if they disagree they will still support whatever bull crap is being spoke about

[@theprogram863]

"you go girl" syndrome. Agreeing with everything just to agree.

[@ayoisthataspiderbiteonyopp9381]

The hivemind

[@drawmanbr7008]

Honestly, I feel like the everyone has engaged in this absolute "non confrontation" approach, where everyone pretends to agree with everyone on everything because people feel upset and get angry when someone disapproves them.

[@steyraug96]

It's a feminine thing, from when women were more feminine. Female mating strategy, because she is pregnant and vulnerable for months before giving birth, and months after, and the child for years after: she MUST HAVE community. That means food and protection even if her mate dies. ​So they are reassuring to each other's faces, but sniping and backstabbing and playing politics inside the group, always jockeying for position. Mean Girls Club. But they won't openly fight, most of the time, because they could be hurt, and not long ago, that was a death sentence. Modern drugs and surgical techniques are truly MODERN - most happened after 1950, even, not even as a direct result of the war, but the boom following the war, and were built on techniques and findings from the war efforts. We are still far from being much more than apes with nukes, too. MUCH MUCH MUCH more to learn yet. 😉

[@geoffreyokrongly916]

And that’s why you can’t trust any of them.

[@noahlarson1861]

I've always told my daughters... if you're not for sale, don't advertise.

[@j915winterking9]

Sale?

[@noahlarson1861]

@j915winterking9 Yes. As in, "Are you a 🪝er?"

[@LetholdusKaspyr]

​@@j915winterking9 Metaphorically "on the market." Essentially, if you're not seeking a mate, do not engage in mate-seeking behavior.

[@krn2683]

Yeah shockingly I don't give a shit about other people's issues with my clothing.

[@LetholdusKaspyr]

@krn2683 Which is funny, because the only reason to dress in the way being criticized is to influence the opinion of others.

[@sethsorrell8925]

A video I saw a long time ago, person asked the girl would you be ok with your man looking at girls on insta, she said no, then they asked do you post bikini pictures on insta... makes you think of double standards

[@theperfectbeing]

It's never equally applied either, those type of women lose their minds when you even talk to another woman in a friendly tone. I dated one who did exactly this and refused to see it my way, that was until she came to the gym one day to find me and realized half the women training with us were bikini competitors. Of course she didn't admit this but her attitude/attire did a 180 after that once she knew there were other women just as attractive or more attractive than her around me all the time.

[@therubydude2117]

I do think its something to take into account. Some people are comfortable with certain things. Like IMO its fun to both dress up sexy if you're going out, or even when you're going out on your own as long as you both are okay with that. Like what if i wanted to go out partying with that half-shirtless style? If she got upset about that while doing something similar, then yes, that's a red flag. but if one person isn't comfortable with it, maybe thats just not the right relationship. People are different and have a right to feel what they do, sometimes that just makes you incompatable. Just because you want to dress sexy doesnt automatically make it bad, but it can be if thats notnthe kind of relationship youe other half is looking for. I'm not about to police what my Partner wears, but if i feel like they're acting a certain way that i'm not comfortable with, im going to bring it up. I dont like the whole "just dump them and move on", communicate, and if they refuse to aknowledge your feelings on the matter then move on.

[@danielwhitman2255]

This woman would literally be the best girlfriend ever

[@cpmow831]

For real. This is the “bring her home to meet grandma” type of girl

[@livingweaponnightmare]

I love how great an actress she is, very convincing in both roles

[@Drainage_Eli]

Lol, I was fooled at first as well. That’s her identical sister, Bobbie Rae. They both make great content and my daughters look up to them. We got to meet them both in Vegas at a KZbin event. They were both so sweet and signed autographs for my daughters.

[@lastguardianofthedyinglight]

​@@Drainage_Eliwait WHAT I thought they were the same

[@livingweaponnightmare]

@@Drainage_Eli you for real

[@Drainage_Eli]

@@livingweaponnightmare nope, identical twins. Each as beautiful as the other. Billie Ray has a slightly fuller bottom lip. They were both incredibly nice to my daughters. I of course, could not stop staring at them as they were so pretty and sweet.

[@AlexSanchez-gd7wb]

Lol,this a bunch of bs,you can Google her family

[@innovalegal7230]

Men, do not try to change someone. End the relationship and start a new one. We are not her phycologist to expect she will change. People do not change unless they want.

[@EmilyW-2000]

Me and my sister was raised by our parents to wear conservative clothing, my mom would have a fit if we wore revealing clothes. We have respect for ourselves and our husbands not to do that. We wear revealing clothes at home with our husbands when we're making love to each other because only they could see our bodies and access, not the world. We both love our nerdy personality which is what attracted our husbands to us.

[@shieldwolf65]

Are we talking jeans & t-shirts are conservative or bulky dresses with collars to the chin & hems around your ankles

[@blandcranston5439]

She isn't gonna tell you, as that's not knowledge for you to know, it's only for their husbands.

[@arman4chok]

I feel love towards you already

[@krn2683]

Girl I have plenty of respect for myself even in revealing clothing. They're breast's, everybodies got em, you don't need to make a production of it. 😂

[@214.suburban4]

Walking W 👍

[@roflzmycopter]

One of the things I appreciated about my ex is that she would ask me if I thought what she's wearing is appropriate.

[@craigquann]

If you want to act single, then be single.

[@truet1296]

It’s actually really healthy to have a live independent from your relationship. Makes it a lot easier to heal from heartbreak and it doesn’t feel like your entire life’s falling apart when they break up with you. I was destroyed after my ex broke up with me because I made my life revolve around him.

[@marissa8245]

The one thing thats weird to me is going and having fun without your spouse being bad. Like we hang out together and also do our own things without each other like you are still allowed to live your life

[@poeticeclipse]

Agreed. Being glued at the hip with your partner and not being allowed to have friends outside your partner is actually really controlling and unhealthy.

[@aaduwall1]

True, but there's a difference between having fun hanging out or pursuing interests outside your partner vs having fun pursuing romantic or sexual relationships outside your partner. My ex and I never had any issue going out on our own with different friends and interests. Our problems started when she decided to entertain herself during the pandemic by going off alone and flirting with and sexting other guys. This became a habit and progressed to IRL sex until she finally decided she would rather divorce than give up having sex with strangers.

[@AL-Doody]

Yeah but the single girl party chick going out is not the same as going out

[@poeticeclipse]

@@AL-Doody you’re right, but Billie’s example wasn’t “party chick” and she even said “why go out without your partner?” There are instances in which it is appropriate to invite your partner and others where it’s not. My boyfriend is allowed to hang out with his guy friends without me, but he knows full well to not get wasted and go to a strip club.

[@JohnGramer06]

At what point did Billie say "spouse"?

[@God.Jr_TheTruthSerum]

*Word, she's lookin' gorgeous in that dress. Billie Rae, we've saved you air time and mad food for the cookout.*

[@dreamagery]

Matt wants to know how the mother of his daughter will behave in public.

[@shieldwolf65]

Poor odds she'll ever reach that standard.

[@reissoliver8853]

Weird to me that you only look at women as “potential mothers”

[@John-Jay-Allen]

The Masculine-Feminine contrast in modern women is Spot on! Keep Up the good work!

[@chrisomalley1105]

Love the ending " why do you want to go out anyway,when you could be alone with him?" Ohh so You're " independent"!!

[@roxyd1965]

So you're saying she should just stop going out with her friends just because she's in a relationship?

[@rickymartin859]

​@@roxyd1965 it's more about the attention seeking behaviors, acting single to flirt with guys. The 304 types use the word "independent" as an excuse.

[@hamishyoung6671]

​@@roxyd1965Exactly, there's nothing wrong with enjoying going out, id say it's only a problem is she refuses to let you come occasionally.

[@subtonicsprite]

Welcome to 1950, jeez. Healthy relationships require independent fun. If he’s upset about you going out with your friends here and there and thinks your outfit means anything about your fidelity, drop him. It only gets worse from there. But hey, what do i know? Ive just been happily married for a decade to a man who smiles and says “have fun” when i go out without him, because he thinks independence is sexy. All my friends who think like this are divorced or still single, so good luck!

[@amarpreetkaur4760]

Wow thanks for putting the record straight

[@victoriajordan2505]

The only issue i would have with Mike or Matt bringing this up would be where and when he did it. If it came up naturally at a dinner like what she's explaining, that's one thing. If he purposefully waited to bring it up until they were out in public, that's another. If you want to encourage someone to respect themselves, then respect them enough to speak to them in private about things like this

[@Oi-mj6dv]

Good point

[@WiseWordsbyWiki]

Oh that doesn't matter, in this girl's head everything a guy does is good. This is why I'm multiple videos she says that if a girl expects a guy to get her home safety she should be getting dressed up for him constantly, putting out, (but sleeping with multiple people is bad so idk how that works) doing all the chores, being his mommy, etc. Girls have to be a perfect accessory for a guy's life, and just be grateful for any scrap tossed their way.

[@millyrobinson1530]

This goes against everything ur last video stood for please I’m not trying to be passive aggressive and correct me if im wrong but in ur last video the guy is allowed to go out with his friends and he’s the good guy (which I agree with) but in this video the girl can’t go out aside from what she’s wearing let’s not get into that it’s a different thing and I agree for the most part because otherwise she thinks “going out is more fun that hanging out with her boyfriend” and the look u gave means that u think she doesn’t value her relationship with him. Am I missing something I would love to see ur take on this am I mistaken

[@richardsiemion5903]

I don't fully agree. I believe it really depends on the couple. I have no issue with anything my wife wears when she goes out with her friends. Doesn't bother me the least. It would if I didn't trust her but I never would have proposed if I didn't. "Relationship Protection" can be a form of insecurity. This again is contingent on the individuals. Life is grey. Sounds like Mike and her are not compatible and don't see eye to eye on this. They either need to evolve or call it.

[@RapK-fu2sh]

I don't believe in people dressing "single" or "taken". I'm single as heck and I don't wear short skirts. So does that mean just because I dress modestly, all the men are going to assume I'm married? I think people are being stupid and forcing context on things. Just because it's cool to make content and push narratives, doesn't mean the audience should stupidly believe it. I've seen lots of married women wear short and sexy dresses and I've also seen a lot of single women wear baggy jeans and sweatshirts. It's just style, some women love dressing up for their figure. If you have nice legs, wear short skirts, if you have great arms, wear something sleeveless, if you have perfect teeth, smile more! Nothing to do with your relationship status. And somehow, nobody is talking about men behaviours that suggest they are single. If a married man constantly goes the gym to workout and takes a jog at the park, shirtless.. does that mean he's showing the world he's single and is trying to cheat? Why are we so quick to criticise, judge and d*mn women?

[@kanish9390]

Finally, sensible people.

[@jakelugenbeel2666]

@@RapK-fu2sh if thats what her instagram looked like and how she dressed when you met her, trying to change her after you start dating to be a more ideal girlfriend to you is totally going to ruin the relationship and reeks of insecurity. If you meet a girl at a swing dance night and then dont let her go swing dancing an hang out with her friends anymore you should seriously pick up a girl that doesnt like dancing or bars. changing people for yourself doesnt work, find someone you dont have to change to be comfortable with dating. bars/clubs arent just for single people, crazy concept.

[@meherbagchi533]

This makes no sense. I wear revealing clothes and go out all the time alone. My boyfriend and I are very very happy together. years and the only complain he has is that I’m terrible at cooking pasta. Find yourself a man who suits your sensibilities and lifestyle choices. Don’t adjust but coexist and love unconditionally

[@CyclingMartialartswithMusic]

Question: does your "revealing" parts for your bf only or for everybody?

[@terristhompson9860]

Nah. You’re crazy lmao.

[@Wandderer]

What if your man thinks very different than you think, he tried to tell you but you just ignored it

[@OriginalPuro]

Your boy is just that, a boy. You're walking all over him and you will most likely never get past girlfriend stage. Enjoy the carousel.

[@RapK-fu2sh]

@@Wandderer then no one is "forcing" the man to stay in the relationship. Women don't like men who still at home and play videogames all day.. yet I see so many women compromising and tolerating it. I have a friend who is allergic to smoke, dust and strong smells. Her husband is a chainsmoker and she actually earns more at her job than him. If women can compromise, then men can too. Maybe they just need lessons on how to do so. Marriage isn't about you, it's about you AND her.

[@woodshed_moments]

This girl is good, if she knows better, spread the wealth - and she may find the man she's looking for in the process.

[@classyrebel2939]

People are still allowed to have friends and have fun outside their Partners.Wearing insanely revealing clothing.Is a different thing but I don't think we should hate on people for wanting to have fun with just their friends or a different group of friends than their partner..

[@mariepowell3749]

Actually, I disagree with this stance, and I do wear more conservative clothing in general myself. If a chick enjoys wearing revealing clothing and getting dressed up to go out with friends, she needs to find a man who trusts that she will come back home that night to him. As long she'll wear clothing like that while going out with her boyfriend, I see no problem here with the clothing. The reason I say this is unless I am sitting next to my boyfriend, even when I'm wearing jeans, a flannel buttoned down, boots, and a jacket, men will assume I am single. Doesn't matter how you dress what matters is do you as a woman have the integrity when you want to go out to tell your significant other where your going, when you expect to be back, and who's going in the group. Most importantly, are you capable of turning down men who are flirting with you. If not, then you are the problem. If you can communicate like mentioned, then show up naked for all I care as long as you and your partner are comfortable with it.

[@tigre9271]

1. Dating for 3 months does not automatically mean it's an "established" which I assume means exclusive relationship. Unless It was discussed. 2. If they are exclusive, then she can decide which is more important...him or her freedom.

[@RapK-fu2sh]

Even if it's exclusive, it doesn't mean the guy is in for the long-term. He might not want to marry/settle down etc. So it doesn't make sense for him to expect her to act wifely if he's not going to make her the wife. Ladies don't waste time on losers who expect so much from you, only to tell you 5, 10 years later that he doesn't want to marry, or have kids or settle down. It just means he's seeing other women on the side, without telling you.

[@Lurklen]

Whoa, whoa whoa. So women dressing in revealing outfits aren't in a relationship? That sounds like it sucks for whoever they're with. Like, why should her being with someone mean she stops dressing sexy. It'd be weird if she never did it before, but the idea that we only look good or look sexy while we're looking for someone, but stop doing that when we get someone, is what contributes to so many relationships where people feel like their partner "stopped trying." or they "lost attraction." Of course they do, a major thing that attracted their partner was all the effort they put into looking attractive. Wtf does being dressed like you're "taken" even mean? How hilariously regressive.

[@simontmn]

"Like, why should her being with someone mean she stops dressing sexy" I agree, I like it when my gf looks good. My ex stopped trying & it was the worst thing.

[@Lurklen]

@@simontmn Happens a lot, and from both men and women. People forget that a relationship doesn't end when you get together, it's really just beginning. Desire, and the evolution of it in the relationship is part of that.

[@simontmn]

@@Lurklen IME it's a vicious cycle - if one person stops trying, the other does too. They start thinking that's normal.

[@Lurklen]

@@simontmn And I think they take it as an unconscious signal. People forget we are still animals in a lot of ways, and we pick up on what those around us are doing, even if we don't realize it, or they don't intend it. Getting the signal someone else isn't interested in capturing your attention can make you feel the same way (or make you become needy, or short tempered) and because it's all subconscious stuff, nobody really knows why they are unhappy, but they are. Like you said a vicious cycle. It's why communication and intention are so key. Pay attention to your partners, people! They are supposed to be the most important people to you. If they start changing their behavior, they might need something, or you might be doing something worth investigating. Some times just asking why they have started or stopped doing something without judgement is all it takes, sometimes people just want to feel their partner still notices.

[@YourWickedPixie]

If he’s not your best friend that why are you with him? 😂 I’m his best friend and he’s mine. Do we go out without each other? Yeah, but rarely, and we would literally always prefer the other be there with us. Not for any weird possessive bs, but cuz we’re best friends so we’d rather hang out together 🤷‍♀️

[@Jeffthedude15]

Run 🏃‍♂️‍➡️ for your life, Mike 😂

[@TempleoftheSon]

I still say this woman's husband/boyfriend is the luckiest man alive.

[@Kethubim2323]

Coming from the guy's perspective, I can say that this is true to a point. It can become controlling and I was that guy before I met my wife. What this woman says is true, but guys also need to be careful about how much say they have in what their partner does.

[@Kyrin_Taylor]

Depending on the guy it can be but just like you wife expects you to be her husband at all times you need to expect her to be your wife at all times

[@RichardLeslieWhereat]

No man, you need to have boundaries. If you dont want your girlfriend to be going out getting drunk and acting single, tell her. If that's a boundary she doesnt want to abide by, move on.

[@halleffect5439]

true

[@halleffect5439]

@@RichardLeslieWhereat You cant force that. If she/he does that, then maybe the relationship doesnt work...

[@hamishyoung6671]

​@@RichardLeslieWhereatI mean sure that's a boundary but a big part is age. If you're in your early 20s then going out purely to have fun is ok. I'm 18 and im not going to stop my girlfriend from going and having fun because I trust her. Shes with her friend, she texts me when shes home and stuff and that's ok. I get the revealing clothes part but other than that going out is not a problem

[@Long_Machine]

For a moment there, I forgot it’s the same sad woman in both videos.

[@erikkonstas]

Another one who hasn't found the X button yet...

[@puppilull7830]

Really? Going out with friends is a no? Should couples only hang out together? That would be smothering. Also, if guys don't even respect you telling point blank you have a boyfriend, why would a modest dress do the trick? Women aren't left alone even in burkas...

[@devaughnsalter6264]

You missed the point. If you leave your door unlocked, you have the responsibility when you get robbed.

[@jmeds94]

Men are salesmen, women are advertisers. It’s unethical/disrespectful to your bf to use your attire to give strangers the impression that you’re open for business.

[@puppilull7830]

@jmeds94 So what is acceptable clothes in your eyes?

[@puppilull7830]

@@devaughnsalter6264 So you never go out? Sounds boring...

[@jmeds94]

@@puppilull7830 That’s totally circumstantial and subjective from guy to guy. There are definitely degrees to it though. I’m sure some Amish guys would throw a fit if their women went into town with exposed knees. And if that’s a boundary for them, the girl should be respectful of that. There aren’t hard lines drawn for it. But it used to be the case that skirts could be considered too short. There was such a thing as showing too much cleavage. So like, maybe don’t go into Trader Joe’s right after your gym class wearing your tightest pair of yoga pants? Maybe when you go out with your girlfriends for one of their birthdays, don’t dress like a whore? Don’t play coy and act like you don’t know what that means, people are aware of cultural norms and what is generally provocative. Wearing tight leather pants and a low-cut leopard print top that exposes your midriff is not girlfriend attire. It’s single-person attire. There’s no concrete definition for what an Instagram thirst trap is, but again, you know it when you see it. If my girl posted a pic where she was in a thong with her ass to the camera, looking over her shoulder winking and sticking her tongue out- I would personally consider that crossing a line.

[@ma-jp8bf]

If she's marketing herself for the next guy, you're not in a relationship. Don't behave as if you're in an exclusive relationship if she's not. Keep dating other women non-exclusively. No commitment without reciprocal commitment.

[@averysentertainmenthub7052]

One thing I agree with is that, you can dress however you like, but it has a limit and that limit changes according to the change in your situation. And another thing I don't agree with you is that, just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean that you should only go out with your partner. You can and should also go out alone or with your friends. So that last question was absolutely unnecessary. Otherwise, great points.

[@snjezanakristo6048]

Now let's see his following list and who he's been following and liking!

[@hornetguy9063]

If you see your woman dressing like that at the 3 month mark, run, don’t walk, away.

[@zobanpreetsidhu3746]

Bros before you lock it down, check if she has friends like this or not. A sensible friend is a the physical confirmation of self control

[@stromlot1627]

Finally a logical women ❤️

[@Putitinputitin]

Go watch her videos. She's fake af, contradics herself constantly

[@maelysgenoud503]

Or she is just posting a picture she feels good and confident in it, and she will just reject them if other guys try to make a move on her (which is probably going to happen no matter what she puts on instagram) in the end it’s not something that should be discussed like that with a right and a wrong answer it just depends from one couple to another and you need to discuss this with your partner

[@theperfectbeing]

Doesn't matter, that's still a crutch. It's like drinking too often because you have social anxiety, works in a pinch but it's a horrible habit to get into because of the long term impacts. If your habits routinely put you into compromising positions, then it's time to change your habits.

[@maelysgenoud503]

@@theperfectbeing it most likely don't put you into a compromising position, most people just don't care about what you post on social media and no matter what you post men will try to DM you for sex...

[@AndyViant]

Nah, she'll just start DM'ing anyone she feels is a better catch or gives more attention to her. Which is guaranteed to happen as their relationship settles and they start to focus on career or buying a house. This relationship is ALREADY over before it's even begun. Basically this is the last hurrah to try and save it.

[@maelysgenoud503]

@@AndyViant she can DM these people even if she doesn't post revealing photo ... Looks like you don't know how many DM from men interested in sex we have as women on these platform, and this no matter the photo we posted

[@moose6869]

​@maelysgenoud503 "it's gonna happen anyways so it's ok that I invite more of the same!" - you, being the equivalent of a teenager in your perspective and thought process

[@sleepyflowers1305]

I 100% agree with the girl in the blue dress.

[@terrasculp]

Since you’ve been doing this id/super ego thing, I bet your rating has went through the roof! Very clever way of relaying sage and on point messages. Great job!

[@erikkonstas]

It's not an "alter ego" technically, it's two characters acted by one Billie.

[@WiseWordsbyWiki]

It's not that deep, it's a strawman done by a girl with no friends.

[@bradkroboth5490]

U nailed it, thanks for displaying a convo to prove it

[@williammouri1096]

Mike and Matt??? You go, girl!!😊😊😊😊

[@TempleoftheSon]

You want to have fun "independently", you will indeed be having fun independently.

[@brettperkins5750]

I think we need to see this picture and judge for ourselves, for research purposes.

[@abkarga]

Riggghhhhht😏😏 "research"🤓🤓

[@Sheriff_K]

I concur. 🧐🥸

[@deantodd8103]

🤣

[@linkskywalker5417]

Three months? That's not enough for an "established relationship"

[@ezero0929]

I couldn't agree with this more. I had a girlfriend who pulled that kinda crap and acted single even when she was dating me.

[@mimiSMj]

But both have their point right. Some just make their partner their whole world and some just include their partner in their world there's nothing wrong with either of it just make sure your partner feel the same way. Cz relationships are meant to bring happiness and peace not frustration or any other negative emotions.

[@juanignaciogaleano5934]

Amazing how well she portraits the character, it'd make a lot of memories come back...

[@kayosipoff6423]

I bet Freddy the Fazzbear wouldn't ever wear clothes that show his cleavage because he is an animated matronic

[@tomaliothetomato439]

I feel like a lot of people have forgotten the basic fundamentals of dating, and I am exhausted.

[@lizzallen7670]

This is making my blood boil. People have the CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHT to wear whatever the hell they want. It is so unbelievably disgusting and shameful to judge another person by their appearance and make such horrendous assumptions about them, all because you don't agree with their 'lifestyle'. Please stop encouraging this, it does more harm than you could ever imagine.

[@mcarrowtime7095]

Yeah, don’t judge me just because i choose to walk around with a shotgun and a ski mask

[@AndyViant]

I think you need to share with us which constitutional amendment you feel gives you this right?

[@mcarrowtime7095]

@@AndyViant I'd imagine they'd say first amendment, although the preamble is a good choice.

[@MachineMan-mj4gj]

Negative IQ take. You absolutely can and should judge a person by what they choose to wear and when.

[@TKDBoy1889]

People have the right to dress how they please, and people in a relationship have the right to not appreciate it. There is only one single solitary reason to dress up in the way implied in this video, and that is to advertise yourself.

[@kcraulston]

Quick question... What sound does a duck make?

[@BrotherTree1]

When it gets to this point and she's not being considerate and kind, it's time to end it.

[@kanish9390]

Firstly, if this is the first time he's expressing that he feels uncomfortable with her dressing. Then it means they are not compatible. I wouldn't want my partner dressing revealing clothes, because im not a fan of it, i have the right to not like it, and i will find someone who doesn't like dressing in revealing clothes. There are men who feel comfortable with their partners dressing in revealing clothes, and she can date them. Its all about how both feel in the relationship. Let the couple decide what they want and dont want. If you wanna help, just point out when someone is Gaslighting tbe other. We are all subjective beings, we think and do things subjectively. There is nothing fixed. So to fix something, and make it objective in the relationship, the people in that relationship should communicate and come up with boundaries that they wish the other person doesn't cross. But if the other person values the act more then the supposed partner, they should have the right to walk away from that relationship.

[@ShawninRI]

I love your “good cop - bad cop” routines.

[@domvasta]

I'm not going to tell a girl what she can or cannot wear, but I am going to tell her that if she does wear something that seems like it's designed solely to get male attention to a location where there are single men, then our relationship will be over.

[@Putitinputitin]

That would be telling a women what she can and can't wear. Just cuz u reformat the words doesn't mean ur not telling them what to wear. If ur giving an ultimatum, then ur telling them what to wear. Sorry to break the news to u. Just stop being a weak person and admit u do it. There's nothing wrong with doing it either, it's ur preference and right to do so. Only weak people would make u feel bad for it.

[@karenvargas3392]

​@@Putitinputitinit's not setting an ultimatum, it's setting his boundaries. If he doesn't feel comfortable with his girlfriend dressing like that and he wants out of the relationship because they can't come to an agreement, then he has the right to leave. Just like she has the right to wear what she wants, but she can't expect to keep a relationship with someone who doesn't have the same morals. It's just preference at this point.

[@Putitinputitin]

@@karenvargas3392 I absolutely 100% agree with u with everything u said. Except the fact that a hard preference is still in fact an ultimatum. The social world has made the word ultimatum into a bad thing, which it's not. Ultimatum: a final demand or statement of terms, the rejection of which will result in retaliation or a breakdown in relations. Preference: a greater liking for one alternative over another or others. Preferences are negotiable. Ultimatums are not. So if the comment is, do this/do that/don't wear this or I'm out. That's an ultimatum. I'm not arguing one bit that he shouldn't be setting these boundaries. I only came back to mention that the word preference isn't the best word of choice. Boundaries is a great choice, but when u chose a word that says something other than what ur trying to say u leave the listener hearing something else, making it much easier for them to attack what ur saying in bad faith. That's all SET UR BOUNDARIES BOYS!!!

[@carpe_poon5761]

Entitlement and competing for attention is more important than holding down a relationship with a real man. It’s tough dealing with “oppression”

[@alextunneyware]

I agree with the message, but the end part just seems odd, you can have fun with or without your significant other, if you can't do anything without them or they can't do anything without you, then you as a couple have to work on those boundaries, people need their space sometimes

[@christophergreen3538]

You're a great woman, enjoy these very much!

[@aviation3530]

You were out with both Mike and Matt on Friday night 😳

[@erikkonstas]

Yeah would explain the risqué shit am I right 😂😂😂

[@anthonys5568]

Social media does not wreck relationships, but acting single on it does.....

[@schutzadful]

Guys love when the women they worked so hard to approach and attract hands out eye candy to other guys for free.

[@dantereinhardt6911]

Honestly, don't see the problem here. If she has a nice body, no issue showing it off. If she wants her own time, good because I also like my own time.

[@hmcpimpslap480]

Oh damn, she killing it with that black suit! Girl, they need to clone you cause I want one!😏🇺🇸

[@salvatorebonsignore1019]

I set up my ex years ago.I have a good looking friend she never met and I got him to hit on her.He asked her for her number at the club and she gave it to him.The next day morning I broke up with her and call her a cheating B.The falling week I hooked with her friend and she found out and WAS FURIOUS

[@TheBlueExiles]

Boss lady is the worse. The one in the dress is a cutie 😂😂😂

[@LuchOutsider]

The little detail: the hairstyle is different on the twins! xD

[@bilstein2410]

My conversations with my female work wife is exactly like this everyday of the week.

[@DraQinn]

I wouldn't date someone like in the first place, even if she's single.

[@Breezie1213]

While you dont need to do EVERYTHING with your bf, there is a good point here. Dont go giving off vibes that youre single when youre not.

[@db9944]

To paraphrase Dave Chapelle. "You are not easy, but you are wearing the uniform of someone who is."

[@masantahelperkiller7797]

I feel like there also needs to be a line. You can and should go out and have fun with friends outside of your relationship. It's recommended by a lot of people because you still should remain an a separate person in your relationship because you're an individual with wants, needs, and dreams that are separate from your own. In a relationship you bring those aspects together with another person who might have similar interests, or not, and it allows you both to grow together because you're a team. So go out and have fun, have friends outside of each other. However, dress appropriately for your relationship.

[@darkkrenify]

and the best thing is she will want to go out independently but yet expect him to call her every 30 minuets on the dot and ask him questions like its the spanish inquisition when he gose out for for a night with the lads

[@T-rexisthebest]

Oh joy, now we have to give up life when we get in a relationship. Vile video

[@shanekeenaNYC]

Those videos of girls in like manchester or something.

[@johnc1014]

I've come to believe that just about any lady that calls a man "controlling" is really just not willing to "control" herself. Stop blaming others for things you should have control over.

[@racheal4186]

No, it was the wrong time and place to have the conversation.

[@user-zm9hg6gk6l]

so just three months of dating is considered established relationship now? and the "i know guys who dont allow their girls at all" this is a competition babe, first of all regulating where you choose to go out, what you wear is your fundamental right which doesnt need to given up in relationship, and a relationship built on trust and faith doesnt need protection by changing materialistic things

[@matiekae0414]

How about if you're seeing someone special regularly, maybe just don't post thirst traps?

[@tomaliothetomato439]

Boys, we found one ☝️

[@gaurdiangaming4603]

Yeah independently singles and ready to mingle with the next dude

[@jeffreyjohnson7359]

I wouldn't tell her what to wear, because I'm not her boss. I would just move on.

[@mikekuhn214]

This video says a lot folks!!!

[@Meowlover3rd]

YALL SHEE ATE THOSE PEOPLE!!! /j

[@gallowsongs]

The thing is, you can check the important points on date 1, 2 or 3. Your want kids? Monogamy and commitment? What are you spiritual beliefs? Where do you see yourself on in 2 and in 10 years?

[@askbrettmanning]

This shows a great perspective

[@giyuutomioka6974]

I would also say the same thing if I had a girlfriend. Mainly because women and girls who wear revealing clothes make me uncomfortable.

[@iansandoval818]

Wow, it's like two different actresses. Bravo.

[@Gatzlocke]

Jeez, just break up with him.

[@Jessica-td3ep]

Him and his female bestie manipulating me be like:

[@johnsexton4352]

Ahhh, “Independently” 😂

[@RealQueenBowsette]

well thats saying something, i mean i never understood those outfit choices because 1 i dont have to see a revealing outfit to like her because there are normal clothes who makes her look great. 2 i get wanting to spend time alone i mean being with each other all the time isnt really great but that doesnt mean go out to a club and get drunk or high or both because when i get high on weed i will have less inhibitions due to increased dopamine in the reward pathway which messes with your prefrontal cortex and since alcohol or ethanol is a depressant it will make it worse than THC. so not a good idea but would be a good idea to smoke or take edibles because intimacy is enhanced and more fun. and last but not least lets go exercise together go out to eat or drink or just going for a walk and enjoy each others company. i mean there is so much to do you will never get bored. oh and if there is something just communicate and be direct, because than i know the problem and than i can solve it. oh well i guess thats just a dream nowadays.

[@glennvanosdale7509]

It blows my mind how women dont understand this

[@avennoronha7081]

She nails it once again