My Girlfriend Broke An Item Of Mine For Social Media, It's Made Me Question All r/relationships

[@kimberlyterasaki4843]

I don't think Story 1 has any positives. Everyone got out of that situation worse than before; GF is dumped after finally comprehending the seriousness of her actions and knows it's all her fault, OP may never game again! She literally traumatized him so badly that his main hobby, the thing he did to keep himself sane and happy during this time, is now poison to him mentally and emotionally and he may not ever game again. Mark, not every story needs to be spun in a positive light.

[@AnymousScreams]

That was my thought, too. I don't console game, but I have my PC. I spent a lot for a laptop with a disc drive, and that would kill my writing and gaming hobbies. No one won in story one.

[@Gondorian04]

While i do find Mark's habit of trying to find the positive in a situation admirable (seriously Mark i do.) I agree whole heartedly with you on this. I'm a PS4 gamer, matter of fact i have my PS4 right next to me as we speak while waiting for some friends to come on and game. I still have my old PS3 and PS2 somewhere in my house, i don't play those two anymore but i keep them for the sentimental value they represent to me. (i got my PS2 back when i was still very young and would spend HOURS playing the PS1 versions of Phantom Menace and Harry Potter and the Philosopher's stone.) If i was in OP's situation i'd have booted them both out and filed for damages for the destroyed PS4, that's hundreds if not THOUSANDS of hours of OP's life lost because his girlfriend thought it would be a great idea to do something she saw on TikTok and wanted to emulate like a kid watching Jackass for the first time. I hope OP does eventually regain his passion for Gaming, and finds someone who treats him and his passions with respect and empathy and IF they decide to surprise OP with a PS5 they have the good sense to do a nice non-destructive way of doing it. (like i don't know... gift wrapping it like a normal SANE person? or if they want to go the extra mile, get some Playstation themed lounge wear and use them as little "hints" as to what OP's hypothetical future partner bought.)

[@MarkNarrations]

Yeah to be fair you're likely right. I think the positive for me was that he was out of the relationship now rather than still being in it with these "events" happening around him, although I know this seemed to be a one-off. It was the doubling down in the story for me though, trying to justify what they had done so in my head it kind of felt like "well least you're out of that relationship that's caused this trauma in the first place". Not arguing with your opinion on things just badly laying out my thought process here but yeah I do agree with you.

[@MarkNarrations]

Had a few comments with a similar answer so thought it would be easier to pin(hope that's ok Kimberly) so I can have a good roasting 😀❤️

[@LunaMane]

I'd say that OP breaking up with her is a definite positive. If the ex-girlfriend was stupid enough to break something for a social media trend if he married her she'd be doing more stupid crap with his money and his property. He spared himself years of pain.

[@loris1620]

Smashing a partner's belongings is a form of abuse, and shows both control and violent tendencies. RUN

[@One.DeSanctis.]

Sadism, too

[@AndyyWithAY]

This isn't about gaming systems. This is about respect. I don't game at all, but I completely understand OP. Gf completely lacks empathy. She's very immature. It's shocking how immature she is at 26

[@lisadgingersnaps9843]

This!

[@GrassJelly101]

It's even more frustrating she disregarded his feelings over yet another stupid TikTok trend AND still uploaded the video!

[@yamairad1]

GF is sheeple. She does whatever she needs to be approved by others.

[@lily-zg6io]

she cared more about views than about her boyfriend. I'm a gamer and my partner really isn't, but it would never come to my partner's mind to ever make a video destroying something geared to my interest, let alone one where I spent thousands of hours just for some views.

[@MarkNarrations]

Like Grass said I was shocked later, after everything that happened, the video still went up! ooof

[@WhiteWolf-lm7gj]

That's like burning a precious hand made blanket, or dress, or whatever that someone made, and then just going "well, I bought you some new material, so you can just do it again, no big deal"

[@TheNormExperience]

Exactly! This post reminds me of the guy who stole his girlfriend’s family heirloom diamond ring from her closet to have the gems taken out and put in a new engagement ring without anyone’s permission; fully ruining the old ring, and not understanding why literally everyone was PISSED when he proposed...

[@WhiteWolf-lm7gj]

@@TheNormExperience Sorry, he *what?* That's just... wow.

[@thexiaolinwatcher2820]

@@TheNormExperience I remember this story and this enraged me and if it’s a family heirloom you don’t temper with it or ruin it.

[@impishrebel5969]

@@WhiteWolf-lm7gj It made the rounds on these videos about a month or so ago, it shouldn't be hard to find but I don't have a link offhand. But it was super effed up.

[@lillithherondale1972]

@@TheNormExperience oh my god I remember that story. I was furious for her.

[@squeakybb]

Story 1: Imagine you're a painter, and you spent years of hard time and skill painting one single master piece, to then have someone destroy it and replace it with a blank canvas or even a Van Gogh or Picasso to replace it. It's awful, it's disrespectful, and it's demeaning to you skills and effort.

[@Fete_Fatale]

That's happened to me - twice. Once with a sculpture I'd made, partially with wire coat-hangers ... a flatmate decided her need for my coat-hangers was more important than respecting my art-work. The other was some [experimental/animated Super8 & 16mm] ... several reels of cine-film I'd shot in NYC, back in the day when phomecams weren't a thing. It was that long ago (about 30 years this week) that I managed to "cast" Eddie Murphy in the background while I was interviewing a homeless Vet, and Eddie was shooting a scene for "Boomerang". Back home in London a friend 'borrowed' my film and supposedly lost it somehow. I'm still salty about it, all these years later. I also never touched film (cine or still) again. The worst part was both these friends were involved in the arts, and you'd presume they'd have far more respect.

[@TP-bw5jx]

@@Fete_Fatale i hope you found a far more inopportune place where she can find her hangers, and im sorry about your film.

[@NoOne-fo1di]

I told my wife of 13 years about this and she was like who the fuck would think that would go over ok lol I mean I get it for people who aren't into games it probably seems stupid to get upset for a free upgrade at the cost of his data from games he probably won't ever play again but if youre not a gaming enthusiast you wouldn't understand. I had my 360 stolen 1000 years ago and it took me a couple years to get another one because, like OP, I didnt have my data backed up and couldn't recover the gamertag so I lost over 100k in gamerscore on top of all my digital games.

[@dodgyyoutuber9560]

Well you could just repaint it 😜

[@YG_GLeeKo]

You know if you have a Playstation plus account you can get all those data and games back

[@mindyschocolate]

S2: woman, shut that crap down. That’s sexual harassment. Your boyfriend doesn’t deserve that. Tell her to back off.

[@alexaisintheinternet157]

I seriously don’t understand how people can have the audacity to do something like that. Imagine if the roles were reversed?

[@επιθετικόακτινιδιο]

​@@alexaisintheinternet157 aggressive and entitled people everywhere. OP and BF were kinda doormats so things escalated. They should have never allowed her to come to their bedroom (WTF?) or go out with them in the first place. Of course maybe that s unfair cause they are not responsible for her behavior. Cass has serious issues, can't take "no" for an answer like rapists, although BF told her to her face that he is not HER BF

[@Misspellednumbers]

Story 1: "I think I'm done with gaming." That line honestly broke my heart. I really don't believe that Liz will ever understand what OP feels. Even the phone analogy wouldn't correctly work here. She destroyed his passion for his hobby. She and Kat destroyed a part of a person for a TikTok.

[@amelianekomimi1936]

someone compared it to picasso or van gogh making paintings. destroying those would be similar. all of them,

[@alexaisintheinternet157]

Hmm maybe not her phone but deleting that tik tok account and all of the videos in it would get the message across? It’s not exactly the same but I’m sure that would be an eye opener for her.

[@greyscalesx]

Ah yes and the crazy B actually ended uploading the video to tiktok. She clearly has no empathy or regrets at all. Any normal person wouldn't post the mistake that ruined their 4y relationship on social media. That's where her prioritied lie, insane.

[@shells500tutubo]

@@alexaisintheinternet157 Not just tiktok, but all of her social media. Wonder if he has the passwords.

[@επιθετικόακτινιδιο]

She didn't have to understand. It was somebody else's property, she had no reason to do that. In front of him too, which was abusive. The other boyfriend should have broke up with Kat too Imagine explaining to your next relationship how you broke up with your previous BF. She is nuts

[@Ospyro3em]

Not only did Liz wreck the PS4, their trust and their relationship, but she wrecked his passion for gaming completely. Even if you're not a gamer, you should know wrecking someone's property is a complete no-go. This craze of wrecking stuff for Tiktok has got to stop. That video she got the idea from was likely scripted anyway and it's extremely worrying that her excuse was "but... but... the guy in the video was happy". Being raised by social media has made her incredibly clueless and immature

[@25Erix]

I was reminded of the reason I had to step away from Star Wars, at least as far as the films go since I still watched/enjoyed The Mandalorian and am watching The Book of Boba Fett. I get the sequels made a lot of controversial choices but it was so annoying when people wouldn't stop bitching. It was doubly so coming from people who gave the prequels shit 20 years ago but act like they didn't when the sequels came around. It's even more stupid when the sequels made some choices that the Legends continuity ALREADY DID. Got a problem with Luke running away saying he would never do that? I recall him saying he would never turn to the Dark Side in ROTJ. Guess what a Legends book did. Made him turn to the Dark Side. So much for your hero. All this to say that the Star Wars fandom managed to do what other fandoms have consistently failed to do: kill my passion for the franchise for the time being. I can't even look at the movies without thinking about the undeserved Golden Calf status the original trilogy has among the die-hards and the fact the prequel trilogy backlash was why Lucas sold his company to Disney IN THE FIRST PLACE. So honestly, the die-hards can take some responsibility for the sequels existing at all. They hated when Lucas had full control with the prequels. That wasn't going to change if he had full control of the sequels.

[@thethirteenthroyal9491]

This whole ordeal made me feal sad. I wish OP and Girlfriend had gone to couples counseling or something, or (at the very least) OP should get some therapy.

[@alenasenie6928]

20yo were not raised completely in social media, so that is not even rational, at this point only 15yo are raised in social media, because it was between 2005 and 2010 when it started cranking up.

[@Ospyro3em]

@@alenasenie6928 I'm not generalising and saying all 20 year old were raised by social media, i'm saying SHE seems to have been raised on social media- that's the only explanation I have for how she could be so easily influenced into copying it

[@kmechwarrior1684]

TikTok, Instagram, all this crap is a mental illness for a lot of people

[@alyzu4755]

She's 26? She's acting like a spoiled toddler. Why do people think it's OK to destroy someone else's property, especially someone they claim to love? And something that was so important to them? TikTok is a fu*king nightmare!

[@kmechwarrior1684]

Agree, but it's people that are the problem. I'm sure there are plenty of sane TikTok and Instagram and KZbin users but these idiots that throw common sense and basic human respect out the window for "fame" need to vanish from the planet's face....

[@locusxe1411]

@@kmechwarrior1684 she is a person so

[@pippo17173]

@@kmechwarrior1684 Social media trends should put in the list of red flags for partners. I'm sorry but if you hear how much your partner wants to join a trend that involves shit like this, dump their ass.

[@greyscalesx]

Ah yes and the crazy B actually ended uploading the video to tiktok. She clearly has no empathy or regrets at all. Any normal person wouldn't post the mistake that ruined their 4y relationship on social media. That's where her prioritied lie, insane.

[@itsjustmaddisen]

@@kmechwarrior1684 I mean… I only upload memes on TikTok and people seem to be happy with that lol 😂

[@83gemm]

GF walks in room. OP greets her warmly. GF violently destroys one OP’s most prized possessions. First thing out of OP’s mouth, “Did I make you mad?” That, my friends, is a learned response of abuse victims. I really hope OP can regain his love of gaming.

[@RaidenB]

Story 1 is effing horrible. Honestly, even if not many hours of saves was just suddenly gone, I'd still press charges for destruction of property at the very least. I feel so bad for the op of that story

[@raggarbergman]

One of the reasons I like the old memory card system PSX and PS2 had.

[@jamesn0va]

@@raggarbergman they were worse. Saves get randomly corrupted on them when overwriting or removing them. This post is a reminder to all to cloud back up

[@thewielder3445]

@@jamesn0va Yeah, I think Xbox backs up saves on the cloud by default. When I upgraded from my One S to my Series X, all my saves carried over. Makes me glad that we have this tech now. Hopefully Sony implements similar features in their PlayStation's soon

[@thewielder3445]

@@jamesn0va Soo, I only found this out recently. But it turns out with the PS4 and 5, if you don't pay for the online services, you can't back up your saves on the Cloud. So, it actually might not have been an option for OP if he didn't pay for PS Plus

[@greyscalesx]

Ah yes and the crazy B actually ended uploading the video to tiktok. She clearly has no empathy or regrets at all. Any normal person wouldn't post the mistake that ruined their 4y relationship on social media. That's where her prioritied lie, insane.

[@michamocha]

S1: For a 26 year old the gf is a big freaking idiot. Most tiktoks are rehearsed and everyone reacts to things differently. She should've known her partner enough to know whether or not this would never be a good idea. It's makes it worse that she not only damaged his trust but she destroyed his love for gaming. I hope that one day Op can revisit the hobby with a lighter heart.

[@hananahbananah]

That’s exactly what I was thinking. Most of these type of tiktoks are staged with everyone knowing what’s happening ahead of time

[@amelianekomimi1936]

common sense aint so common

[@nonchalantsavagery]

That was exactly what I was thinking.

[@Barlmoro]

@@amelianekomimi1936 this is the reson YT videos need the label advertisment :D

[@photofreak56]

So I'm 25 and when I was 24 I was lucky enough to get my boyfriend a PS5 during one of the restocks. Not once did it ever cross my mind to destroy any of his other gaming consoles even after seeing a bunch of tic toc's and social media posts of girls doing the same thing that the girlfriend in the first story did mostly because why would I do that why would I want to take something that means a lot to my boyfriend and destroy it? That would be like if my boyfriend decided that my Canon AE-1 film camera needed to be destroyed because he got me a Pentax Honeypot I would be pissed that he destroyed something that was important to me just like I think anyone would be pissed if you destroyed their things intentionally

[@damien678]

his first response being "did I do something to make you upset?" is genuinely tragic and sweet. he deserves so, SO much better, and she doesn't deserve a relationship at all. this is also why I'm glad my bf and I share gaming as a big hobby of ours

[@user-pi3hd2bt3f]

It seemed a bit wierd and suspicious to me. Like idk maybe im wierd but my reaction wouldnt be "what did i do to deserve your punishment" It would be 'What the hell are you out of your mind?!" I wonder if OP's girlfriend didn't guilt trip OP about bad things she did to him before Or if he had other toxic people in his life do anything similar

[@TheBlueDsc]

@@user-pi3hd2bt3f Trauma can be a "fun" thing. Due to many things I've had happen in my life, if someone is mad at me my immediate reaction is to think what I did to "cause it".

[@lrock48]

OP is in an abusive relationship and didn't realize it. The first thing he thought was if HE did anything wrong to make her mad. Probably because he is used to the gaslighting.

[@HubiKoshi]

That was my first thought as well. This reaction suggested that he was used to her getting violent with him.

[@Project_KN1GHT]

Exactly. The minute I read that I died a little… how long has she been doing this to him??

[@KaitoKiara]

Not really, that would be my first thought, when someone came in and broke my stuff...Right after WTF 😂

[@Carlosww11]

Ya, I gotta say the sadist part of story 1 is the OP losing his passion for gaming. Hopefully, it comes back, but I can't blame him for walking away from it after losing so many hours. It would be like someone deleting my steam account and expecting me to jump back on after they give me all the games before.

[@vivianwalters1329]

I agree 100%. So sad. :(

[@SkyEcho751]

The fact is the video was likely staged makes it even worse. Like they might have gotten an old PS4 that didn't have any of the games, yet some people of the new generation haven't grown up to realize this mentality is wrong. I've had a device break and cause me to lose a big chunk of a game's progress because I hadn't attached an account to the game. Stopped playing the game for months afterwards because of the lost progress. I hope OP can get his passion for a hobby back at some point.

[@xPxDx3]

Yeah my computer once blue screened in the middle of a digital art project and I didn’t draw anything for like a year

[@MarkNarrations]

Too true, as a gamer I felt that pain of losing those saved files. :(

[@vivianwalters1329]

@@xPxDx3 Yep! I have had the same kind of thing with different video games. Having a marathon session and the computer dies and I had turned off auto save because I wanted control over my save file... Eugh. Several games that I really liked abandoned because it was just ruined.

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

STORY 2:……. I get that when you have a roommate you are required to share certain things…… But not everything. She’s being a creep…. It doesn’t matter if “it’s her thing to make people uncomfortable and say stuff for shock value“ that’s just an excuse. If the genders were reversed and it was a guy making all these comments towards a girl, people will be ready to castrate him. It’s not “cute and quirky“ for a girl to do that stuff.

[@FriedaMMartin]

Story 1:honestly break up with her. What’s next? If she saw something like replacing your adult dog by putting in the shelter and then getting you a puppy in it’s place despite the emotional attachment? It’s messed up. Who destroys stuff for fun?

[@MarkNarrations]

It died down these days but there was a HUGE trend of videos at one stage where people were breaking everything. It was madness

[@xientau9028]

@@MarkNarrations Makes me damn glad that I'm single. I wouldn't hesitate to copy their video to use as evidence before I called the cops on the person in question for destruction of property.

[@indianspartan76]

Story 1: Do people not realize that most tiktoks and Instagram reels are rehearsed? Edit 2: Damn Mark. Great minds I guess haha

[@jackiehuff7736]

I was thinking the same about the tik tok. That video had a shell probably or a old system just bought.

[@xelectrix]

Exactly; in those vids, they probably already backed up their game files and everything. Smh I would be so hurt.

[@Swirllies]

Breaking a PS4 to gift a PS5 is like cutting up an artists sketchbook to give them a new one. All that progress and money is down the drain now Edit: ouch, shame he lost interest in gaming over this. But it’s understandable, playing that ps5 probably just reminds him of the situation and his lost saves

[@mindyschocolate]

If he does want it, he can give it to me. I rarely play my old games. It’s a game console. Would he mope if he had a fire and lost that too? I think this whole thing is stupid. Back up your games, and be grateful you’re the rare guy with the PS5.

[@dreamhubproductions753]

@@mindyschocolate it's not just games or just a console the guy literally explained this. Be grateful? For what destruction of property? Hell no.

[@Splatoon_Kirby]

@@mindyschocolate Good lord of course he'd be emotional if he lost it in a fire, there are hundreds of families that have lost their homes to a fire do you call their saddness over loosing their homes 'moping'? Do you call the children crying over their lost toys 'stupid'?

[@markchang2]

Story 1: When OP explained there are some games he didn't want to put effort into restarting I completely understood. I instantly thought about how there's a part in Fallout 4 I'd rather do anything than have to redo it again. Also for some games you have to grind and that's no fun.

[@bunnyslippers191]

I don't console game any more, but I play a MMORPG. i have combat level 138 (not because I'm a good fighter, but just because I'm fucking *stubborn/persistent*) and all my skills are over level 99 (mastery) and two at 120+ (120 is True Mastery) with a couple more heading there. If I live until the first week of August this year I'll qualify for the 15 year Veteran's Cape. If somehow I had to go back and do all that shit all over again I don't know that I could. Honestly, the idea of have to do all that again makes me feel nauseous. I really think if I were that guy I would have committed violence upon that bitch. I'm totally against a man hitting a woman, but for someone to do that to another human being just so they could make a video and post it on the internet....That bitch is vile! Oh, and, yes, I'm female and will turn 70 next month. Not only would it break my heart, there's probably no way I would live long enough to do all that again. I also have relapsing/remitting Multiple Sclerosis, so there have been times when my coordination hasn't been the best and my reaction time isn't all that great between the MS and just my advancing age. Jeeze, my heart breaks for that guy.

[@RedReaper666OG]

@@bunnyslippers191 internet fist bump to you! I'm gonna show my mother what you said so that she can see that gaming isn't just for kids and she could possibly enjoy it too! My mom's in her 80's and I'm 30's (adopted) if you're curious.

[@bunnyslippers191]

@@RedReaper666OG My old clan sort of faded away because our clan owner had a thyroid storm which triggered a heart attack and he wound up with a Traumatic Brain Injury and had to stop playing. His wife-used to be the Deputy Owner-tried to keep it going and it lasted another like 7 years, but it gradually slipped away. Because of becoming a one income family they couldn't replace her computer and she had to try to keep going with just her phone. Plus their kids all got married and started having grandkids for them and my old clan just sort of faded away. I was the next to oldest clan member, though, with the oldest-also female-about 8 years older. She also left the dying clan, but I still see her ingame and we're Facebook friends. We had people in the clan from high school through to their 70's in the clan. Anyone can game at any age as long as they can see and can move their fingers. I'm now in another clan, mostly younger than I am, but quite a few people with teenagers themselves, so they are in their 40's and 50's. Shoot, there are even flash games I've purchased and have on my computer just for fun. I've got a few of the Playrix flash based games. I have a few of the Fishdom games and Ranch Rush 1 and Royal Envoy. Those last two are time management games and I swear rather a lot playing them, especially in Expert mode. Maybe if your mom tried some of the Match Three type games she would like them, especially if she plays in Relaxed Mode (not on a timer). The timed ones are the one that trigger my bad language LOL

[@bunnyslippers191]

@@RedReaper666OG I know rather a *lot* of people in their 40's and 50's who play the same MMORPG i play. I was in a clan with more over 40 than under 40 for years until it gradually faded away after the clan owner had a thyroid storm with triggered a heart attack and consequent a bit too long without oxygen and he came out of it with a Traumatic Brain Injury. His wife was Deputy Owner and took over, but he could no longer work and with only one income they couldn't replace her computer when it died and the clan just faded away. The oldest in the clan is about 8 years older than I am, but I was the next to the oldest. She still plays. I see her ingame and we are still Facebook friends. Maybe your mom would like to play some of the flash games. I have some of those I've bought and have on my computer to let me win something fairly quickly compared to the long haul of a MMORPG. I have some of the Playrix flash games like Fishdom and also Ranch Rush and Royal Envoy. The Fishdom series is a Match 3 series and the others are time management games. The Fishdoms nearly all have "Relaxed Mode" so you play without a timer if you choose that option. The time management games are the ones I swear at while playing.

[@KG-VanityInKnickers]

@@bunnyslippers191Woohoo!!! Another older female player!! I have been a WOW player since 2005 and I'm 59. I remember there was a trend quite a few years back of girlfriends deleting their boyfriend's WOW characters on KZbin. It broke my heart because I knew how much time and effort went into building those characters. Keep on gaming, sister.

[@stephenlundy5082]

Story 1: Well the GF got exactly what she deserved. She cared more about validation from strangers then she did about her own BF. And when OP was upset by her actions, her response was to gaslight him. Even in the update, where they had the long conversation about their relationship, she gaslit him again by saying "I just wanted to record your happiness." No this was about her being popular on social media. She just didn't respect him. It was a tough lesson, but it was better that he learned it now, then after a marriage and a couple of kids.

[@TiffWaffles]

Breaking belongings is a huge dealbreaker for me. I had to witness my bio dad breaking mine and my mother's belongings when he was in a rage. I lost my entire Christmas Nutcracker collection because of this, along with him deciding to sell our belongings to get cigarettes. If I had a partner that did what Liz did to anything of mine, it would have been a huge deal and Liz would be gone. No way would I tolerate that shit. I'd even force her hand and get me a new PS4 and since it was for social media, I suspect she filmed it and posted it to social media. Even most teenagers know that this is wrong. So why is it that Liz as a grown 26 year old thinks that this is funny? ETA: So girlfriend got a PS5, but still decided to destroy the old gaming system? I feel that the video that Liz and Kat got inspired from was edited and the boyfriend in that video knew what was going to happen because girlfriend in that video probably asked him if she could destroy it. Liz should have known better. Still a dealbreaker, though.

[@reptiqueen7275]

I'm sorry you had to go through that. My dad breaks stuff when he's mad too. It's gotten better as he's gotten older and mellowed out a bit. I agree that it's a total deal breaker though. I hope you're happier now!

[@ceeshnia]

For the second story, I get it, I don't like confrontation at all either. However, the roommate was sexually harassing the guy and that should NOT have been allowed to continue, period. At first it was creepy, and then it was harassment. Not okay. Also, anyone who deliberately makes others uncomfortable just for "lols" is not a good person to have around. It's immature and shows how little they give a shit about anyone else. Not friend material, not roommate material, not "in my bubble" material. When you don't call these people out for it, consistently, they are being enabled to be assholes. It's the same story as the "I'm just a brutally honest person" or "It was just a jOKe" bullshit; no, you're just an asshole. Call it out for what it is, and don't sugarcoat the behavior. We have enough entitled hellions wandering this earth, we don't need more.

[@eowyn8340]

My favorite excuse for the 2 narcissists in my family is “that’s just the way they are.” Well, then they can be that way far away from me. Ticks me off when they play the victim after being called out for their behavior. I refuse to engage, and if they think I’m cold that’s just too bad.

[@ceeshnia]

@@eowyn8340 I understand. One of my siblings and their SO are like that, and everyone's excuse is just as you said. I told them that excusing their behavior like that was enabling it, and I wasn't going to be a part of it. I stay cordial for the sake of my nieces but don't engage them otherwise. Tried keeping them in the loop in regards to bringing my mom in for a possible stroke, and they played their games so they will get their information through a different sibling if it comes to that again, although hopefully, it won't.

[@alezot6141]

Story #1: neither the girlfriend nor her friends sound like keepers. OP and the friend's bf should run before putting a ring around their fingers

[@Mewse1203]

Story 1: saw this on best of Reddit updates. How does a 26 year old not know Tik tok shit is usually staged? I wonder if the friend asked her boyfriend how he'd feel in the same instance? This is such nonsense and the total lack of care for his time, energy, and property is disgusting. Yeah it may be games but it's still a ton of time he spent that was ruined. This was a super immature thing to do. "Just do it again" is super disrespectful. It is incredibly sad that he quit gaming due to her nonsense.

[@philwill0123]

Exactly. If she hid OPS ps4, put a replacement imitation (faulty one) , and broke that, that would at least have a "phew, I was suckered" element to it. But OP was denied opportunity to keep/sell/give away his own property on his own terms. As commenter said, bet Kat put her up to it, because she weren't risking her boyfriends xbox on that tiktok shit.

[@ophilianecr]

I've zero interest in gaming and zero gaming skills. Even I know you don't just break an older console despite purchasing a new one. Especially with the reverse compatibility aspect of older PS models. It shows a total lack of respect, and forethought on OPs girlfriend, that she couldn't take a god-damned second to think anything through. That kind of impulsive behavior and lack of accountability is the kind of thing you shouldn't have to negotiate and ask for in a relationship. Good riddance to that waste. The trash took itself out. OP has new opportunities to have a real relationship with compassion and respect for his autonomy and property.

[@MPbmfm]

This fact bugles me too, but I bet the girlfriend complained about OPs gaming and her friend suggested this "little prank"

[@christianrosario9414]

Story 1: Man, I feel bad for OP at the end. A hobby that he loved doing, just gone now. Honestly, the whole situation is kind of sad. Story 2: The chick is Koo Koo for cocoa puffs, further solidified by her choosing Sinister 2 for a "date night" that was never going to happen.

[@HowToPnP]

Story 1: Why does the GF sound like everyone's mom? Honestly, my mom is on her mid 50s and thinks uploading videos to KZbin is some kind of witchcraft. She has more empathy for my gaming than this 20-something girl has. (Also smashing a $300+ item for a joke is abusive AF!)

[@MarkNarrations]

Haha I still get that. "You do youtube videos?! EVERYONE LOOK AT THIS GUY!!!"

[@marybrown6756]

Baby, I’m 54 and bought myself a Switch for Christmas. Please don’t lump us all together!!!!

[@HowToPnP]

@@marybrown6756 Let me tell you a story: When the Pokemon movie (2017) came into cinemas I sat next to a father with his son. The kiddo was excitedly talking about the movie while his dad looked like he was dying inside. The dad's crowning achievement was the following sentence: "Is Agumon one of them pokimans too?" And thus my "Agumon is my favorite pokiman"-shirt was born. That guy is "everyone's parent" the parent who has no idea what is going on, but needs to have a (mostly negative) opinion! They exist in every generation. No matter if it's gaming, disco or D&D.

[@babette1762]

@@marybrown6756 older than you, not a gamer but when I was in college and working at a bar I was high score on space invaders! Harmless fun at any age! The main point is not so much his gaming as her total disregard for such an important part of who he was as well as his property. And hopefully he will find fun in it again. Or something else.

[@anikanele7958]

Can we please appreciate how amazing the roommates are in story 2 (not the crazy one obviously) for backing OP up? they could very well say they wanna stay out of the Drama, but instead they stand up for op AND still try to help the crazy roommate by getting her a place to stay (first at a friends, then at the parents) where she can get help/talk about it. Absolute Queens!

[@hyperplaguerat]

Cass's behavior was so gross. I'm glad OP & her roommates started standing up for Will.

[@huh4963]

Dude, just because someone else did it (social media etc) doesn’t mean that it will end well. His girlfriend is dumb and should have thought about it more. Seriously, just because an old console may seem useless to them doesn’t mean that it’s not sentimental to op Edit: it’s like people destroying an old phone then giving them a new one. I’d literally be pissed if someone did that to my phone (iPhone 6s, I know old model but still) it has sentimental value to me because my mom bought it for me. A new phone just wouldn’t have the same value this one does

[@jesperstoringgaard8367]

My desktop has little to no sentimental value, but if my partner/one of my roommates busted it up whilst i was playing and then present me with a new computer? i'd still be pissed majorly.

[@GrassJelly101]

Even without the sentimental value, the old consoles and phones still have monetary value even if it's much less than the new ones. It's so illogical to destroy electronics when you can resell them or sell parts relatively easily these days

[@markchang2]

This so much. I believe there was Reddit story about a similar trend but it was distorying puzzles. I recently saw a video of guy buying his aunt the Titanic Lego set and asking if he should film himself destroying it. I cannot imagine going through all that effort whether it be playing a game, putting together a puzzle, or building a kit just for someone to destroy it for likes on the internet.

[@nanidafaq7626]

reminds me of a tiktok my sister showed me. this girl had put a positive pregnancy test in her dude's food as a surprise and was shocked he was pissed at her. BRUH YOU PEE ON THAT. WHAT MADE YOU THINK THAT WAS A GOOD IDEA?

[@tinygabriel9760]

S1) Notice how the recording friend didn't follow through with that crap on her own bf..smh... S2) GF shud have shut that shit down from the beginning .. instead of letting it get to that point .. roommate has no respect and is disgusting.

[@patronofdragons]

when he said "Kingdom Hearts games" my gut sank further. If he played the whole series then that 150 or so hours on a casual run and 500 if he did completionist run.

[@AndyyWithAY]

I'm not a gamer, but I use my phone and tablet for stuff. I love to watch anime, love to paint. If anyone destroyed my property, I'd be so pissed. It doesn't matter what the property is, you don't destroy it

[@lily-zg6io]

also since there's a video, I'd almost hope it gets posted because the girlfriend and er friend deserve to get sued for the consol, and even possibly the games lost

[@SLTheOneAndAwesome19]

Story 1: My PS4 hard drive died a year ago. My boyfriend had just started God of War and was annoyed to start over. I lost all my progress in Horizon Zero Dawn and Red Dead Redemption 2. We were incredibly frustrated, but that was circumstantial and no one *caused* it. Also, why *smash* the PS4? You can sell it. You can donate it or give it away. Maybe OP would have wanted to keep the PS4 as a backup. This is such a disgusting thing to do. I'm glad OP broke up with her, I wouldn't be able to trust someone who intentionally broke my property. She didn't want to "capture his happiness". She wanted to prank him and thought that the PS5 would make him forgive her.

[@jacquelinewithac8668]

Oh my god that first story absolutely horrified me…I’m not a huge gamer (mostly an animal crossing/persona 5 type gal) but my fiancé is VERY into gaming. The thought of ever doing something like that to him makes me sick.

[@TheZMage]

One thing I think you misunderstood: they didn’t edit the film and post it online, they sent him the original video that inspired them to copy it

[@razeredgerose]

Story 2: Will should've just consistently insulted Cass everytime she even looked like she was gonna say anything in his direction. Some people just need to be practically traumatized to get the hint

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

STORY 1: As a gamer that would’ve royally pissed me off, a newer system is not 100% replacement for the previous one. Especially considering backwards compatibility and not every game gets re-released for the next Console you’re still gonna need your previous one. Not to mention all the saved data that’s on the destroyed console. Especially since the hard drive was destroyed….. If he went to grab her favorite make up palette and took a screwdriver completely destroying it, then wiped out a brand new one that didn’t have the same colors she will probably be angry and think about the destroyed pallet. (The comments phone example was a better example) ……When I heard devil may cry I cringed, those games are not exactly the easiest to beat and 100% completing them is a massive pain. “Why can’t you do it on the new system“ The same reason why you can’t give him another hundred hours to his lifespan. The fact that they edited the video and posted it online…… Wtf. That seems like something a 15-year-old would do, not a woman that’s pushing 30. Honestly it’s not overreacting/irrational to break up with someone that destroys your personal property. It doesn’t matter what the intention is, it’s just blatant disrespect. It’s really sad that he is completely done with the game because his girlfriend was such a dumb ass.

[@Mr.2Dirty]

I felt a personal pain when OP mention FFVII Remake, and the DMC games.

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

@@Mr.2Dirty especially with devil may cry. As a huge DMC fan, those games are such a pain in the ass to complete. Especially if you’re trying to 100% the game and those harder difficulties are absolutely murder.

[@kratkartan1486]

Story 1: OP's Ex is an idiot. THIS is the reason people hate that app. What people usually see is scrippted, and this stupid trends hurt EVERYONE involved. I hope she deletes that app and live by herself for a while knowing that She lost a wonderful relationship over views. Story 2: That girl had a psychotic break she desperately needs to get help.

[@Barlmoro]

i hope the boyfriend of her friend had a long talk with his gf too or this is his fade too.

[@LunaMane]

I truly feel bad for OP in Story #1. I was sad and angry for him. You know the ex-girlfriend would be pissed if he did that stunt to any of her stuff. He's better off and I hope he gets a new PS4 one day. With Story #2, I think OP and Will should change their minds about not filing for a restraining order. Cass sounds like she'll do something lethal if she's not properly inhibited from doing so. Precautions should be taken in a situation like this.

[@Barlmoro]

hopefull he find a new hobby that fills the emptyness she gives him, cose he lost the fun on gaming.

[@Russman67]

Story 1: How did an adult woman think that was a good idea? She violated his trust in a way that he can't reconcile it. And don't tell me that she wanted to record this moment, just to see his happiness. This just screams bullshit.

[@yandereskitty]

For the bf one. Tell her to eff off. She's got no right to him. If she is hostile. Move in with Will and don't tell her where you both move. She is acting like a creep.

[@RedReaper666OG]

Story 1: fucking hell, I felt this in my soul. My spouse and I have several retro consoles (Genesis, N64, etc.) along with Nintendo Switch, PS2, 3, and 4. If someone smashed ANY of them under the guise of gifting us the latest console there WOULD be blood!

[@bennyd.1862]

I would lose my shit if my partner destroyed my art supplies and recorded it.

[@jinxonyx4066]

My finance collects watches. What the girl did in story 1 would be like of I smashed one of his sentimental watches or one he spent time repairing to wear and bought him one of the ones he wanted and was like, "well it tells time the same". Jesus this is insane.

[@karenlloyd945]

First story - OP is mourning his loss, he put in his time & passion into his gaming (something I personally don't understand but life would be dull as funky if we were all the same) & his girlfriend was the person who destroyed something he loved. I'm so sorry this happened to him, I really hope he recovers his enthusiasm for gaming again & that something that bought him so much happiness is once again part of his life

[@luckyassassin1]

For the first story. I'm a gamer and i understand exactly how the op feels. One of my exs tried to smash my laptop when we broke up because and i dived on cement to catch it because it doesn't matter if i get a new one, the old saves are gone. All my settings are gone, all the work i put into is gone. You spend hours playing games and completing them and with consoles its worse because not all games transfer over or are even compatible with the new system.

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

Story 1: Some people really need to stop get on social media. Destroying someone's PS4 because of social media is infantile and abusive.

[@jazzyg7202]

story 2: if Cass acted like this with her ex boyfriend no wonder he dumped her.

[@MiraTheWarlock]

When you go dating someone, always make sure to ask them if they're a frequent poster on tik tok if they are RUN

[@2Ten1Ryu]

There once was a story about a 40 year old woman who got introduced to tiktok by her daughter during lockdown. she pranked her husband by putting ice in his bathwater. he was startled, slipped, fell, hit his head and now is in a wheelchair and has to be taken care of. I swear, tiktok actually kills braincells. I hate that app so much.

[@MiraTheWarlock]

@@2Ten1Ryu It's a hellsite where happiness goes to die

[@2Ten1Ryu]

@@MiraTheWarlock That's the greatest description of tiktok I've ever heard!

[@ravenID429]

I can’t get over the licking toilet seats trend

[@Doggypaddle8]

​@@ravenID429 Right? That answers the question; "If every1 else is jumping off a bridge, would you jump off too?" Yes, yes they would. Anything to be like every1 else.

[@browhattheactualfu-2659]

Ofc Cass is a "Where's my hug?" person

[@KatonNeko]

This is like spending hours setting up a domino formation, then someone else decides to just knock it down for fun, and doesn't get why you are upset by it. It's literally hours of emotion and focus just gone like that and normally it's hard to summon the emotional capacity to just "re do it".

[@toysruskid5074]

Story 1: If anyone actually wants to pull this prank without the s hitting the fan, go by a local thrift store or put a wanted ad out online for broken systems. Get the broken system and swap it out with all cords - spray paint it if its the wrong color. The thing is broken anyway. Pull your stunt with the broken system and then reveal afterwards that you aren't enough of a moron to actually destroy someone else's property.

[@dear.p8n]

Disrespect on its own, what she did is kind of traumatizing I had a kid I babysat try throw a laptop I had just bought for school after saving for months to get it. It didn't break but I literally felt may heart drop the same way it did after losing one of my sketchbooks to bully as a kid. It's the cost, the effort, and time put into it that makes it so precious.

[@Itzelhaim]

Story 1: That's not okay. All the save files all that work gone. He didn't even have a chance to save. She has the damn nerve to destroy the system.

[@rmhartman]

she captured forever the moment she destroyed her relationship.

[@kreuger2062]

Gah, hearing the first story brought back memories of the person that always racked their dads ghost in a racing game. Imagine their partner just walking up and destroying the only thing that that person has to connect to their father. Absolutely disgusting. I have no words to describe how disgusted I am towards that, hopefully ex, girlfriend.

[@rinpaisys]

“She likes making people uncomfortable” I think I figured out why her relationships don’t work.

[@justine8387]

Or friendships by the sound of things.

[@Mrs.Fezziwig]

My husband threw away tens of skeins of yarn that I bought to make a specific blanket and I was LIVID. He ended being able to get them back from the charity shop but I don't think I would have been able to forgive him if he hadn't.

[@dustysimpson7864]

S1- now she learned about boundaries. Maybe she will respect her next boyfriend.

[@oldschoolman9878]

For the first story, I would have broken up with her on the spot. Then told everyone I knew including her own family and friends what she did and how she had no remorse nor understood the gravity of the act she committed.

[@rmhartman]

the not comprehending what was bad about that is worse than the act itself.

[@helstok178]

3:05 If everyone cheered and the person with the broken property was happy with it and not mad, then it was clearly staged and they knew what was happening/going to happen

[@jamiewulfyr4607]

She didn't stop for a second to consider that the video that she saw may have been scripted...

[@pixiechick05171971]

Tick Tock has gotten WAY out of hand and it's mostly women that are doing this sh*t!!!! I would never in a million years do something so horrible!!! Not only is my hubby and son gamers but so am I. These women doing this sh*t need to be held accountable. They should be arrested for destruction of property!!!!

[@Barlmoro]

i can´t remember if she upload the video or not, but if you could sue her for using your picture without permission. maybe that is the wacke up call she really needs. (and hopfule the bf of her friend had a long talk wit his girfriend to make clear that this was not OK )

[@impishrebel5969]

"Well, can't you just do it again?" CAN'T YOU JUST GO THROUGH CHILDHOOD AGAIN AND MAYBE BECOME AN ACTUAL PERSON??

[@impishrebel5969]

Yeah so if my husband did that to me while I was playing the ps4 he''d be in Trouble. And it's *his* ps4.

[@kaneki18-d1t4]

To be honest the OP of the first story should've pressed charges because what his girlfriend did is actually illegal. No one has the right to break other people's belongings and she didn't just destroy his console she also violated his privacy and uploaded a video with him in it without his consent which is even a bigger crime where I'm from and she would've faced legal actions for this here

[@TsukiKageTora]

To the roommate story, the fact that you have to lock your bedroom door at night when you’re with your boyfriend so your roommate can’t sneak in is cause to consider moving out. Yeesh, breech of trust and privacy

[@jackiehuff7736]

Even if gf didnt understand gaming, she should at least understand op is upset. Instead of taking responsibility, she tried to brush it off

[@madisonl3401]

Yay for more relationship videos! Thank you so much! Hope you and Poppy are having a wonderful new year!

[@MarkNarrations]

You're very welcome thanks for staying involved :)

[@madisonl3401]

@@MarkNarrations Of course! We all use this channel to relax and unwind listening to stories so you have a huge part in our mental well being! Thank you 😊

[@ShatoraDragondore]

Story 1: Police report for the system, and gamed that where on the systems value. That was abusive as hell and flat out felony destruction of property.

[@HackiePuffs]

Honestly I hate the whole “I destroyed someone’s belongings and surprised them with something that I personally feel is a better version.” Similarly I saw one where they destroyed headphones and gave them AirPods. Like if I wanted one of those new flashy things I would’ve bought it myself you could’ve just surprised me without destroying my belongings!! Just because you feel like it’s better doesn’t mean I think it is. I like having wired earphones they don’t fall or get lost as easily!! I’d be pissed if I was one of these people who got pranked like this. Oh and if you dare touch my favorite plushie only to give me 100 brand new ones I would throw those plushies right at your face!! Ok maybe not the plushies because I still like to pretend they have feelings BUT STILL I WOULD HATE THEM FOR IT!!!

[@desmond_craddock_5226]

Lol she now has a record of the thing that ruined her relationship

[@GIChiyo]

Story 1: yeah no she is totally lying...she did not do that to see you happy, she 100% did it for clout

[@TheBirdManOfAzkaban]

When a partner does something horrible, and the upset party's first response is "Did I do something to make you mad?" then that tells me a lot about that relationship and how healthy it is. Somebody doing something awful to you, seemingly out of nowhere, should not immediately make you feel like YOU must have done something to deserve it. I'd have been questioning that relationship a lot sooner. 🤷‍♂️

[@AndyyWithAY]

Well story 2 is what happens when you avoid conflict. You have to be direct with people or this continues.

[@philwill0123]

This, she let this crap go on for months. To me this is a esh except will for that reason.

[@princesspanda12012]

@@philwill0123 I would have shut that down on the FIRST time. I'll be the biggest B you'll ever see 😂

[@aikikaname6508]

Story 2: it isn’t even about the console or the lack of respect; it’s about the poor jugement

[@alenasenie6928]

When mark said "perhaps a gaming pc" it hit me, if he didn't trashed it then it is likely that everything is salvageable, if the hdd is ok.

[@MarkNarrations]

Think they said at a point of it(might be wrong) a friend of his had a look at they couldn't recover anything.

[@alenasenie6928]

@@MarkNarrations It might have been in the comments or i just didn't register it, this is really sad, games are how i have kept some friendships, it is sad that one selfish and stupid act has cost him his hobby, he basically has ptsd about it if he doesn't feel like playing anymore.

[@ayanaatthrivebewhole]

That last story is crazy. They are so young, and didn't recognize how serious this was. She was sexually harassing her boyfriend for months, and it was evident that it was going to escalate. If people can be that brazen with their behavior, it absolutely can and we'll get worse if you don't make a strong statement and shut it down early.

[@bruuh0_0]

He should've at least get the money for the ps4 She broke his property

[@metamorphstorm]

My fiancé has poured hundreds of hours into saves on his system, too, and I can't imagine anyone EVER ruining that for him. When he plays a single-player game I sit nearby and help. Even when he plays 'alone', we play together. Even I see tons of value in his saves. I can't imagine what OP is going through and I'm not even 3 minutes into the video. I really hope he dumps her. I thought the girlfriend tried to show OP the original video that inspired her to copy it, but am I wrong? Did she try to show him the actual thing she did to him, the video she made of him, and his horrified expression? That seems almost sadistic to me. Like making a video of someone breaking up with someone else, and showing that video to the person who got dumped. I'm glad OP is out of that relationship. If the ex-GF wasn't mature enough at 27 to know better than to break someone else's belongings, she probably won't ever be. I really hope OP can get his love of gaming back eventually, though I can only imagine how devastated he is. And I hope she learned a lot from this too and stops being such a crap human being.

[@KateTheCrimsonwolf]

Story 1: I'm deeply disappointed with how people are, as someone who enjoys her games and is super protective of them so yeah i can understand why he's upset. (Though op tried to save his progress with his bud and failed that adds up to my disappointment) But destroying something someone loves just to replace it with something better and new doesn't fix the damage done, his gf had a friend (Kat) who knew it was a s**t move and didnt attempt to change her friend's mind and didn't do her bf the same way bc she KNEW yet didn't do anything about it but record it.

[@maranathaschraag5757]

"i don't understand why you're upset i destroyed the car you spent 5 years and hundreds, if not thousands, of hours rebuilding by hand. Look at the new car I bought you!" life advice: don't destroy stuff that isn't yours. just stop it. juvenile af. I'd break up too.

[@laurakinnunen6941]

Hi from Finland. I like your videos and the podcast. It's nice to listen these stories while knitting, gaming, out on a walks etc. Sometimes it's just hard to beleave there is people like these out there.

[@MarkNarrations]

You're very welcome. It can be hard to believe for sure but I also like(probably bad way to phrase this!) that these stories do remind of there is events happening like this.

[@jesterbrown90]

Story 1: This boils my blood. You can't get those hours back and no, it's not so simple as "just do it again". Trying to get back that investment is painful from beginning to end. For instance, i once lost my copy of Monster hunter 3 Ultimate for 3DS. I bought another copy thinking i could just pick up where i left off. Turns out 3DS games save to the cartrige, so my data was lost forever. I tried to "just do it again", but i was burned out and walked away after just a few hours. Screw people that do this crap for ANY reason.

[@icantchange.youtubesaysine7338]

I love keeping the older consoles. I’ve done it with every console I’ve had. DS, 3DS, Xbox one, Xbox 360 (R2D2 one), switch, PS4, Game boy. I have never destroyed it and if someone even thought about destroying my old console I would flip. I would cry. I’ve collected these over the years and have seen the price rise in some of them. I hate how the GF didn’t understand the time and effort that goes into those games. I’ve played a lot of them (The Witcher 3 took me hours to complete and I literally cried when the power went off and I hadn’t saved it, I had to do a certain task over again). I hope the guy gets back into gaming. Hope he finds the passions again. (I stopped, and still haven’t, played Minecraft since one of my worlds that took me hours got destroyed. I’ll one day get back into the game but for now I can’t because all my hard work is gone) (I’ve been playing the Resident Evil video games instead)

[@annewilliams5527]

Story 1 :- if anyone were to rip up my favourite books and then hand me a Kindle, saying “this is better than those old books.” they would end up wearing the Kindle

[@Avrysatos]

I suppose it’d be okay if she had gone in and made sure all his stuff is backed up in the cloud. Well not okay but forgivable. Nope. Not even then. She’s definitely too immature for a relationship and op is better off without her. I wish this hadn’t soured gaming for him so much.

[@eldritchthorne]

The moment I read that she ripped it out of the wall and took a hammer to it, a part of me died. I have several consoles that have hours upon hours of gameplay on and would be devastated if I lost. I like going back to old saves to see what a younger version of me was doing at any given time. Each save has memories attached to it of what was going on around you or in the world in general. It's hard for some to understand and easy for them to write it off, but you NEVER touch a gamer's consoles. You wouldn't mess with stamp or crystal collections, why would you do that to a gamer?

[@AnnaK101]

Story 1. I'm sure a few of us would like to know where Liz lives, so we can go there and record us destroying her stuff. because its "funny". Just hearing it, I am so angry that I have gone completely still. So happy to hear that OP broke up with that fe-male (said the way Ferengi say it) Story 2: Sounds like the housemate tried to "steal" the BF. I've seen girls acting like this in my social groups. Usually the guy takes the bait and fools around with the girl, and then the GF is gaslighted. Either one of two things, it's a challenge (like your usual soap opera drama) that purely feeds their ego, or they are obsessed and have lost sight of reality. Either way, you need to remove that girl from your social circle.

[@SWeeks698]

100 hours on W3! Makes me want to cry with him! That game takes days to complete.

[@yuniesan]

As a gamer, I just can't imagine losing that much time and effort because someone destroyed my PS4 for a tiktok video. Some gamers collect consoles, they like being able to go back and play on those consoles. Geez break up with her and download the video and sue her in small claims court.

[@BraveryWing26]

Cass turned out to be UNHINGED. That was SCARY

[@captainclown2718]

I literally found out today that my old xbox one is broken (nobody destroyed it) and despite playing most my games on PC these days I am still kind of sad. I am also not looking to replace it with the newest model but instead with an older one so I can play all of my old games on it again. Glad OP broke up bad sad he lost his interest in gaming. If I imagine someone doing this to my PC I don't think I would handle it as well as OP. I would probably handle it really badly... I am talking about taking the hammer and committing a felony levels of bad handling...

[@crem-crem4070]

Story 1: Kudos to op for not grabbing his gf’s phone, destroying it and just saying “I’ll buy you a new one”. Cause that’s what I would’ve done

[@jessicadelgado8553]

This is not about a video console, this is about a new trend of atrocious behavior that should not be normalized. He is a human being with emotions and feelings, had the roles been reversed, someone would have recognized the abuse for what it is.

[@2Ten1Ryu]

people think that it's marketable to first show something shocking and then resolve it with a happy end. and because it's the internet, people think they will end up like in a romcom. our society is dumbing down by the minute

[@katelovell625]

My favorite thing about you is how you sincerely thank us at the end for watching your videos. You sound so genuine. And I greatly appreciate the time you spend making these videos for us! Thank you!

[@SakdineeRattana]

S1: The gf might not be malintent but she clearly is too stupid for her age of 26. To believe everything in social media is real. To be okay with destroying one's properties without permission. OP did fine to break up with her. She needs some lessons. As for OP, I'm sorry for him. It can be any period of time before he can get back to gaming. Give yourself time to heal.

[@aconvowithcrissee222]

Story 1: the WORST person is Kat, beacuse she KNOWS shes wrong as hell and thats why she didn't do it to her own bf

[@Josku2411]

Oop a lil late and i got strawberries(my grandparents brought some while bringing us groceries) i am happy