My Going Gray Journey!

[@BethTessier]

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[@shirleyharris2251]

I love your hair! Starting now. 75 and been coloring 60 yrs lol. I have beautiful silver under this color. Going to own it.

[@BethTessier]

@@shirleyharris2251 good for you!!

[@SoulfulVeg]

I'm giving myself one more month of gray growth, then I'll cut inyo a small afro (4 months in total) . It looks a bit of a mess now, but it's temporary. I started hating dying my hair, and I took out the color and then just threw everything in the trash! Going grey will be my birthday present to myself!

[@BethTessier]

SoulfulVeg love this!

[@kathybuckley2338]

I'm 2 months in.... cut blonde hair up to shoulders at Christmas......another inch off today, another off next month. So yes cut cut cut is the only way xx

[@godblessyou7376]

You go, girl! The color God has given you will look beautiful!

[@mariatrujillo7759]

I lost my hair from chemo. I have been debating growing it out or going back to coloring. I would not be able to handle the demarcation line so this is my chance. Wise me luck.

[@BethTessier]

maria trujillo GOOD LUCK!

[@homeontheranger7025]

maria trujillo I hope you decided to go natural. I just started another chemotherapy treatment and I’m looking forward to never coloring my hair again. 🌸❤️🌸

[@jackierohm]

You got this Girl!

[@Penny-bt4gc]

After chemo my hair came in thick, white and beautiful. Unfortunately I let my hairstylist talk me into colouring my hair. Fifteen years later I have decided to let my hair go back to my natural white/gray hair. My current hairstylist is on board with me and will help me transition into my natural hair. Yes I do have a definite demarcation but I don’t care. I am so looking forward to completing the transaction. Good luck to you.

[@ramblingrose9919]

I recommend you use this moment because it takes a long time to grow your hair back to where it was. Years ago, it took me over 2 years. Then when I got divorced my friend/stylist talked me into coloring it again so I would be more attractive to men at 58 years old. Ugh. What a dumb reason. I really regret coloring it again because I am starting to go natural now, after 10 years and it’s going to take another 2 years. Ugh.

[@proverbs31elpaso8]

Hi Beth just came across your video. You are beautiful! I'm in my 4th year and would never go back to the hair dye. I get so many compliments especially from complete strangers to include men. Who knew that they would even notice. My husband and family were very supportive. I believe that going gray, silver, white shows confidence and that's what men like. I never received compliments when I was dyeing my hair. I feel that the dye was like an old carpet covering hard wood floors. God bless you and keep up the great videos.

[@BethTessier]

Proverbs31 El Paso oh I like that visual a lot! Thank you for sharing!

[@SingingForTheCreator]

I can't wait till mine gets longer and I can cut off more of my dyed hair!

[@theastewart6721]

Proverbs31 El Paso Your profile picture shows beautiful white hair! That’s the color mine is. I just need to find the courage.

[@generationx9294]

@Proverbs31 El Paso Great comment❣💕 I'm a small, petite, athletic almost 52yr old with long, all one-length medium/golden brown hair and I stopped coloring cold turkey 14 wks ago... I'm probably only actually like 20 % gray - not much, but looking forward to whats to come and digging the cool silver tones at my forehead, temples, etc.. its a very brave new way of life quite liberating to be honest. Cheers to us 💛🌼🧡💫🌺

[@catherineclark8156]

Wow, thank you for this. I'm at 2 1/2 months of growing out and I just told my husband this morning, I don't think I can do it any longer. I was feeling everything you spoke of. I was ready to make an appointment with my stylist to color my hair. Then I came across your video, just sent an invite to join the FB group. I'm hanging in there for now. Your hair is beautiful as are you!

[@BethTessier]

Catherine Clark thank you for sharing your feelings Catherine! It’s good to know you’re not alone, right? Congratulations on your journey! And thank you for watching..I’m so glad it was helpful! Xoxo

[@fouseklh]

You and your hair are beautiful. I’m just starting my journey to no more color and growing out the gray and this video was a huge inspiration for me. Thank you!

[@BethTessier]

Lisa Fousek I’m sooo glad you found the video helpful! Congratulations on your journey!

[@lanapoulliot7682]

I really enjoyed this video! A couple years ago I was letting my grays have their way. I got to about the 5 month mark and I chickened out. I wish I had just kept going. I'm 53 and I'm seriously considering doing this again. I've noticed more and more women at my work that seem to be doing it.

[@BethTessier]

I’ve noticed more and more women are doing it also… Not only in the real world but on commercials and such too… It seems like they are promoting real life women more than ever!

[@stewartandbonniecampbell94]

Thanks for the encouragement! Today I was feeling old and pale. Your video perked me up and gave me hope. I'm 62 and colored my hair for over 30 years. Stopped this past February. It is very freeing and I really am having a good time watching to see what color gray it will eventually be!

[@BethTessier]

Stewart and Bonnie Campbell I’m so glad you found this encouraging! Keep up the good work!

[@ktrudy1]

Cut mine to a pixie too. Still have 2 month to go according to my stylist. Glad I'm doing it. I'm 46. 25 years of coloring over. Yay

[@BethTessier]

Trudy Ann congratulations!! 🙌🏻👏🏻

[@ktrudy1]

@@BethTessier ty😍😘

[@faithhall7806]

One thing about coloring is, you just star over. So keep your new attitude and RELAX... it’s only hair.

[@silverlining1469]

Hi Beth!!!! I’m in my 8th month of growing my hair out I’m 47 and been dyeing my hair since I was 18. Struggling a bit only because I have long hair and don’t want to cut it short. Thank you so much for inspiration. You’ve earned yourself another subscriber. Your hair is amazing. Well done!!! From Manchester, UK 🇬🇧 X

[@BethTessier]

Silver Lining oh I love this!! I’m from Manchester New Hampshire! ♥️♥️ good luck with your transition!!

[@prayingkoala]

I am so glad to have found your video , and to see gray on someone else with brown eyes! ...I was told gray is not good for brown eyed women , but that is so wrong !!! You are so lovely ! I am letting mine grow in too ! Thank you !!!

[@BethTessier]

Tina Hill We are told lots of things about gray hair that is not true! Right? Congratulations on your decision! And thank you for your encouragement!

[@joniheisenberg6691]

Love my grey. I get so many compliments. I wish women were more confident. I hear compliments like “ I wish I could look good with grey.” You have to embrace the journey.

[@BethTessier]

Joni Heisenberg I completely agree with you. A lot of women say they could never look like me… I reminded them that I am nothing special, I am just a woman who had to go through the same process. I think a lot of women can’t stand how they look during the transition so they jump ship. I totally understand those feelings… It is definitely hard!

[@Europa1749]

One year dye free this month. I can't believe how good it's looking now and how much I love being rid of all the hassle and expense of dying my hair.

[@BethTessier]

Europa 17 I agree that it is such a relief!

[@betty91706]

I decided to go for it. I’m going to be 65 this year. It is what it is, and I don’t need to pretend I’m done with dying my hair. What a relief , I already feel weight lifted off of myself. I’ve dyed my hair for 30 years. I recently dyed it dark grey and I love it but want it natural.

[@BethTessier]

Betty R congratulations on your decision!!

[@NikkiG127]

I'm 38 and I am still in the contemplation stage of going gray. I'm looking for inspiration to go all in, and girl, your hair is GORGEOUS! I so appreciate the honesty you shared. Thank you so much!

[@DamelzaJane]

Nikki G go for it. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I look so much healthier (I think!) having stopped colouring my hair. I let it grow out at 37, started having a lot of grey at 18. It became a massive chore to colour it every 2/3 weeks.

[@Janetl62]

Thank you Beth. You are beautiful! I am just turning 57 and have decided to go gray. 😊

[@BethTessier]

Janet Coker/aneedleintime thank you! Congratulations!

[@yvonne5657]

That’s what I’m doing cold turkey! It’s only been 3 months but I can’t wait to be free.....Thank you for sharing

[@BethTessier]

Congratulations on your decision!

[@Alphacentauri819]

Love your hair, your authenticity and beauty radiates. Thank you for being you and standing up against much of our social conditioning! Your voice is so soothing too! So nice to listen to. I’m in my 40’s, my youngest is an 8 year old, but I also have a grandchild! I’m getting greys and feel like I have earned it! My hair has been growing out since November 2019...no dyeing, due to covid. Haven’t been out anywhere for a year, due to child with health issues. It was a forced grow out! I do need the ends cut off, but I feel like I’m coming into my own. Bless you! So glad I came across this💫

[@BethTessier]

What a sweet reply. Thank you so much for your kindness and encouragement. Congratulations on your journey!

[@Maria8280W]

Thank you for making this video, I'm in my first month without dying my hair, your words really encourage me. Going to take photos during this journey, as you suggested.

[@BethTessier]

I’m so glad you feel encouraged! Thanks for watching my video. It’s such a journey and it’s so helpful knowing we’re not alone!

[@ancientstarqueen]

I’m 41. Have always loved silver hair on others and decided since young that I wouldn’t cover it or fight it when it started to come through for me because I always thought it looked magical on everyone else! Now, I’m so thankful I never dyed it. It’s been coming in naturally since mid thirties. The salt & pepper looks great with my olive skin tone. I have happy and healthy hair!

[@BethTessier]

Ancient Star Queen love this! Thanks for sharing!

[@tracyguenther4547]

You are beautiful, a great choice to let your natural hair shine through. I'm just starting out, 1 month in. I'm excited to see how mine looks.

[@BethTessier]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@aliciahuddleston3971]

I would love to stop dying my hair. Your hair looks absolutely gorgeous. Grey is the new black!!!❤️❤️

[@BethTessier]

Alicia Huddleston It really is wonderful being free of the dyeing cycle… Thank you so much!

[@missct64]

I am so glad I came across your video. I also found my first grey in my early 20s and I dyed my hair for over 30 years. I stopped cold turkey this year dying my hair the last time in December of last year. That line of demarcation is the thing that horrifies me when I look in the mirror. I will take your suggestions to heart. Great video.

[@BethTessier]

Cheryl Talley aw I’m glad Cheryl! Thanks for watching! Good luck! ♥️

[@vilmasclosett]

Its so true what you say about looking brighter with the grey hair. You look lovely x

[@BethTessier]

Vilma Martins it really is true!

[@abranasing]

This is one of the best going gray videos that I've seen. What I like the most, and was very helpful is that she described how she really felt in the growing process. It really is a horrible feeling looking at yourself in the mirror. I look so washed out! Lol Its nice to know I'm not alone in feeling this way. Thank you

[@BethTessier]

Abrana Standley thank you Abrana! Your encouragement means the world! I feel it’s very important for women to not be set up for failure! If ladies can be prepared ahead of time that the journey will be a rough one, but that it is worth it, and on the other side is freedom, then I think women will be more likely to stay the course!

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

I tolally agree.Iv tried 3 x ,maybe ITS TIME NOW with the summer coming .my hair grows VERY fast and I love hats :) will see AKA "over 70 still glamorous" :) connie

[@suziej2796]

I'm so encouraged by you. I'm 3 months without dye and when it's long enough I'm getting the chop. Thank you for sharing your journey💞

[@SerenaLewis]

Great video, Beth! I found the ‘Gray and Proud’ Facebook group so inspiring and encouraging. It made my transition to grey so much easier. Loving my white silvers!

[@BethTessier]

Serena Lewis we are so blessed to have this community!! ♥️♥️

[@greenfunkymonkey]

Thank you so much for sharing! I’ve decided to start my journey and this helped so much! You’re beautiful and youthful looking... I was afraid I’d look so old.

[@BethTessier]

Anita Vergara It’s a real fear! One that we are showing the culture is a myth!

[@lneild55]

Thankyou for recommending your video in the fb group, Gray and Proud.Everything you said could have been me! You have inspired me to carry on and fulfil my journey.Lisa x

[@BethTessier]

Loopylisa36 Wilkinson I’m so glad you found the Facebook group and you feel inspired! That makes me so happy! It’s a process that I for sure could not have done it alone… We need each other!

[@fionacoombes8747]

Wow, you look fabulous. I was so close to dyeing my hair silver to try and blend with my roots to go to my grey, but seeing your video I have decided to stick it out and let it grow out naturally. I am 47 and have been colouring my hair for years and I am so tired of touching up my roots to see the grey again within 2 weeks. Wished I done it last year in the 1st lockdown but I love your hat idea. I have a few of those 😀 thanks you for the inspiration and tips on clothes and make up palettes. Think I will keep watching this when I find the transition hard and are tempted to dye it again. Thank you

[@BethTessier]

Thanks for watching!! Congratulations on your decision!! You’ve got this!

[@lrb1651]

This is one of my favorite "going gray" videos!:) Thanks for the wise, truthful advice. (Your hair is beautiful!) I'm in "Month 9" of going gray. My hair is almost shoulder length. I, too, have been going "cold turkey". I haven't gotten it cut very short. You're right - the transition isn't EASY to go through. There are days I've looked in the mirror and thought "what am I doing? I feel so old". And it's true - you just don't know what your natural color is until it's grown out! Give it time. I'm 53, and I have a lot of white, mixed w/ some streaks of salt & pepper. I've recently realized - I think i'm going to love this!

[@BethTessier]

lrb It really was very eye-opening for me to realize that once the process was completely done how different it looked compared to the grow out process. It taught me to have patience not only with my hair but other things in life as well! Who knew going back to our roots could teach us all these things ha ha

[@lozzer6644]

lrb ....you could be talking about me ...I’m same age /9 month in../same tones of grey /cold turkey/have long hair ..cutting it not for me .....and I’m loving it ...only a few random feelings of uncomfortableness with it ...I’ve had nothing but compliments...not one negative comment off anyone anywhere !!!...

[@OGLYASDI]

Oh my gosh! I also started going gray in my early twenties and started coloring my hair. But as I got older, the grays were more prominent and I was coloring my hair more often. I finally couldn’t take the line of demarcation at my part any more....my hair would look great except for that telltale white line. I think I was in my forties when I quit cold turkey and cut my hair really short. I’ll be 59 this year and my hair is collar length, gray and curly too! I can honestly say I love my hair now! Great video Beth! Thanks for sharing! 😘👍🏼

[@BethTessier]

I love your story!

[@erinobrien8793]

OGLYASDI - similar story to mine! I started getting white hair when I was 15. Colored it in my 20’s - 40’s dark brunette to hide the white. When I turned 50 I realized I was coloring my roots every 2 weeks which was expensive and probably not healthy. So started transitioning to blonde. For the past 8 years I’ve been getting highlights and lowlights to attain the wheat blonde. The past 1.5 years my stylist was blending in the large portions of white with the foils. I had my last color in March 2019. I have used purple shampoo a few times a week to keep my shoulder-length hair bright without any brassiness or yellow tones. Last week a woman commented on how pretty my hair looks.

[@m1mars]

Thanks for sharing. I'm 52 and going on 6 months without coloring my hair. I feel fine, just a little impatient but I know the end result is coming. :) Just today I had a women say I had beautiful hair. It was kind of her and I noticed she was going gray and thought she too looked beautiful. Nice to know there are people out there who respect/support the decision to go grey. Thanks again!

[@BethTessier]

m1mars you’re welcome! Thanks for watching!

[@janiceestes9518]

What a beautiful person you are! Inside and out. I am 67 years old, and my last hair color was Feb 4th, 2022. I decided to go gray because I too found no joy getting my hair color. I have a blonde color now which does not really suite my face where I have dark brown eyes. I am excited to continue this journey. I think I will be a salt and pepper color. More salt around my face. This is what my hairdresser has told me. You have given great suggestions. I joined a support group two weeks ago called Going Gray Gracefully. They seem to be very supportive. I am from Hollis NH but now living in the South. I will be checking out your other videos. Thank you for making videos.

[@BethTessier]

Thank you for watching!! Congratulations on your hair journey! I appreciate the kind words!

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

Hi Beth! I'm 57 and almost 6 months into my transition. This is the second time watching this video for me. It's nice to have a reminder as the months go on. In the beginning I was so desperate for my hair to grow. I kept obsessing over it and looking in the mirror. Now I've relaxed a bit and am actually enjoying the journey. I even caught a glimpse of my hair (pulled back) in the car mirror and appreciated the contrast of my S&P against my fading dye. I can't say I loved it but I like where I'm heading. I don't think a pixie is in future for me but I'll probably do a shorter funky cut at say the 12 month mark. Thanks again for making the videos.

[@BethTessier]

Kimberly Berlin So welcome Kimberly! Probably for the first year I was obsessed with checking out my reflection! I totally understand where you’re coming from!

[@isabelazanardi]

I have so few white hair yet, but the first ones I saw on me made my heart beat so strong! I was so glad I've made it! I've stop dying my hair about a year ago because I couldn't bear it anymore, neither could my poor and thin hair. It's been years fighting major and very, very severe depression, several hospitalizations, strong medicines that made my hair even thinner than it is already. I was so near to death for so many times... I've gained a lot of weight in such a short period of time because of the treatment I couldn't recognize myself, lost all of my clothes all of a sudden, and couldn't stand look at myself in the mirror. The times when I was worst, I didn't want to live at all. The better times, i didn't care to live, nor how I was, nor anything. Those last two months, though, the medicines have changed again, for the zillionth time, and I felt some improvements in my feelings. Then I looked at me at the mirror for the first time in months. I was just there, standing, seeing that half dyed hair, very thin, shapeless, full of baby hair and broken hair. I saw my very pale skin, dark circles, very rounded face (I used to be very slim before), prominent belly, you know? Everything had changed so much! Wrinkles around my eyes too. It felt to me the change was from one day to another. And then I saw. I saw that little white baby hair right on the front. And then I've realized there were a few others. Do you understand what I mean? I was getting older (I'm 35), I've survived this all and I even have gray beautiful hair!!!! And those wrinkles, marks of my fights, they were like prizes, not like these loose of youth like people say. I'm Brazilian, and Brazilian women are very careful about their looks, there are soooooo many beautiful women, and they make a lot of procedures to stay young as far as they can. But suddenly I've realized I was not one of them. Suddenly I've realized I wanted more than anything to enjoy my process of getting older, feeling the change of my skin, anxious about seeing my hair grayer soon, accepting and taking care of my body and how I am today. I'm sorry the long story. I truly understand everyone's different, that's beautiful and important. But sometimes I feel sad about the women that will never feel the freedom of being who they really are, embracing that, taking real care of that. For me, it means I've made it. And I'm making every single day. I'm really happy about it, and happiness is something I haven't felt for so long.... I'm really glad you're in this path too, and to know there are a lot of women doing that too. It's more than just have gray hair. It's about a kind of value we share. I loved your video and you look amazing in this gray beautiful tone! 😘

[@BethTessier]

Isabela Zanardi yes I understand what you are saying... aging is a beautiful part of living, and it is not a gift all get to enjoy. We need to cherish living and aging. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s absolutely lovely ♥️

[@isabelazanardi]

@@BethTessier ❤

[@curlsavenue1035]

Your photos and your end result are so encouraging! Thank you for this video!

[@BethTessier]

Curls Avenue I’m so glad you are encouraged! Thank you so much for watching!

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

I love your video and your advice Beth. Thank you! I'm 8 weeks in and feeling really empowered and excited. I'm like a kid on Christmas morning...I run to the mirror and checkout my daily growth LOL. I've actually watched it twice.

[@BethTessier]

Haha love it! I felt that way too!

[@PatriciaMuirMaestroQ]

I can relate. What I love about my natural colour is that it changes everyday. “Liberated” is my mantra.

[@Europa1749]

I do that too even after a year! It's exciting, all these different shades, so much prettier than the flat, matte dye.

[@4musikable]

Just started my journey, 2 months ago was my last hair color appointment, since then we have been under quarantine and my salon has been temporarily closed. I'm seeing quite a bit of regrowth and like what I see. Thank you for your tips, your expressed journey and your encouragement. I see a lot of cute silk hair wraps in my future for several months but I'm going to make this time a new beginning. Thank you so much.

[@BethTessier]

Sheila Gutowski Congratulations on your decision! Thank you for watching! Good luck with your journey!

[@annmarie3520]

Starting my journey 4/14/19 day after my daughter's wedding. Actually looking forward to both (wedding and hair journey)! Your video was one of the best I've seen and I've watched many!!! Thanks for the encouragement to start my journey. I'm also taking the cold turkey approach, wish me luck!!! Ann Marie

[@BethTessier]

Ann Marie good luck!! 🍀 I’m excited for you to begin!

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

Ann Marie, I just ditched the dye a couple of weeks ago and I'm so excited about it. I colored my hair every 6 weeks and for 25+ years, it's a surprise every morning when I run to the mirror to check my roots. The color is way darker than I remember and I have way less grays than I thought I had but they're coming in nicely. I can't believe I'm wishing for more grays LOL. Good luck on your journey! Best wishes to your daughter on her upcoming wedding.

[@pianowithaimee9626]

Hi Beth, you are 3 days older than me. I’ve watched hundreds of going gray videos, but yours has been my favorite! You and your hair are gorgeous! And I love your personality and way of expressing yourself. I’m 3 months into the grow out process. It’s not been as horrible as I imagined. I’ve thought about all the ways to do this, but I think I’m going to cut into a pixie in a few more months like you!

[@BethTessier]

@@pianowithaimee9626 thank you for your encouragement! This video is several years old and I’m glad it’s still providing some encouragement to people! Good luck with your journey! It’s so worth it!

[@vilmasclosett]

Omg what an inspirational video!!! I started my journey on 30.09.2017 and so far i have been loving it. My greys are similar to yours. Ive done 2 videos on it too !!! Thank you for sharing xxx

[@BethTessier]

Vilma Martins love this!

[@janfox2596]

Hey Beth, you did such a great job here! Love all the pics! I joined Gray and Proud. Thank you so much!

[@BethTessier]

Love it! Thanks for watching! I’m glad you joined the group. It was a huge source of comfort for me.

[@ccut1955]

Love your video, and your sharing of your experience. I am 65 years old, and have dyed my hair for over 30 years. We were on a RV road trip for 3 months, and 1/2 way through, I HAD to touch up my roots. I had been toying with the idea of stopping the madness for a couple of years, but a special event would come up, and nope. My husband said to take this opportunity to stop dyeing, but I couldn't. Bought the dye, did it in the rv park restroom (because we didn't want the dye running down RV drain tubes into the tank. While in the process, I was so embarrassed as women came in. So, after that moment, Sept. 13 2018, I was done. And I stuck with it. I am going cold turkey also, and boy, it has it's challenges. My hair was long, just above my bra line. When we returned home, I had 4 inches trimmed off, just touching my shoulders. Next cut in 6 weeks, I am going for a shorter bob, about an inch below the front of my jaw. My hair grew like crazy the first 3 months, and has seemed to slow down. I have blorange near my gray, and auburn brown at the ends. I always say, it's like a box of chocolates; you never know what you are going to get. And, I am glad I adopted that mantra, because it seems to change all the time. Your hair is beautiful, and I will look for that facebook page. Thank you! Priscilla

[@BethTessier]

Priscilla & bob Melton thank you for sharing your story! I love it!

[@sojourner6972]

You are absolutely stunning! Thank you! I'm well on my journey...my photo is the last time i colored my hair...that was Christmas 2018....so I am nearly halfway there. I will feel so relieved when the color is completely GONE for good!

[@BethTessier]

Shirley Harrill thanks for your kind comment! Good luck with your transition!

[@karenfaulkner5319]

I'm done! Been covering for 27 years. My daughter has been asking me for 2 years, "When are you gonna let that silver mane grow out?" I couldn't figure out how to do it with out the "skunk" line on my head. I called my hair dresser of 20 years this afternoon a few hours ago. I looked at some videos and stopped here. You are beautiful! I have a. lot more gray/silver. First gray hair at 16! Not sure how, but I'm starting today! You have encouraged me greatly!

[@BethTessier]

Karen Faulkner it means the world to me to hear that my journey has encouraged you! Congratulations on your decision!! Xoxo

[@alexisworst2568]

Thank you!!!!🙏 I started this process 2.5yrs ago but after about 8months I changed my mind. I'm 35 I'm so sick of dying but I don't think now is the time for me to go grey, yet. But your video is so helpful!! More so than others I've found while researching the topic. Thank you so much!🙏 When I do start the process I will definitely document it with lots of pictures! Thank you again!!

[@BethTessier]

Alexis Best you’ll know when you are ready!! And I’m so glad you found this helpful! ♥️♥️

[@beverlymusclow5691]

The best video I've seen yet, and I feel very encouraged! Thank you

[@BethTessier]

@@beverlymusclow5691 wow! this video is so old but I’m glad it’s still encouraging people! Thank you so much!

[@amyschubach1997]

Love this video! I have been toying with this idea and researching through these videos! I am starting now. I am a hairdresser and a color educator for a haircolor company, so this will be interesting. I have had grey/white hair since I was a teen. I love how women look with natural grey hair. You are beautiful. Thank you for this video, so well done.

[@BethTessier]

Amy Schubach I love that you are in that industry and you are contemplating going natural. I think it is so crucial for women to know they have options. Like I said in my video, I am not against hair dye whatsoever but there are so many of us that are tired of it and want to know what our options are… Good luck with your decisions!

[@amandakeats4871]

Really useful advice. I'm just three weeks in but I've decided No More Henna. I've been a vibrant red head since 15years old. I'm 57 now. I look forward to Freedom and Authenticity. xx

[@BethTessier]

Amanda Keats I’m so glad you found this useful! Good luck with your journey toward freedom!

[@tinamocci9809]

You are absolutely beautiful with your grey! Thank you for the inspiration! I'm 1 year in and soon I will be totally grey! It's quite an adventure, but I'm so happy I did it👍

[@BethTessier]

Tina Mocci I am so happy I did it as well! Thank you!

[@rekkerfamily3469]

I will be 49 this spring. I've had lots of 'silver' for many years and have constantly coloured. Always feeling self-conscious about my greys and worried about appearing older than I am by letting myself go grey. I am honestly so done with colouring and I only do it b/c I begin to freak out about how much silver I have at such a 'young' age. I want to be brave and stop colouring. It's been 7 months since I've been to my salon due to CoVID lockdowns so I have some pretty serious silver at this point!. I'm like, well, it's been 7 months (and likely 8 before I get in) so why don't I just go with it? And then I get scared again!!! I love this video in terms of your authenticity and talk of self-confidence. You are gorgeous with silver at your age. So why can't I just 'let go'?

[@BethTessier]

I understand your thoughts completely! It’s not an easy decision to make… Our culture makes it harder. Just keep in mind, it’s only hair! Whatever you choose to do, it will be fine!

[@irmasfavorites8238]

Your video was providential to me since I have been watching different testimonies related in this transition to let our gray beautiful natural hair show. Thank you for sharing your testimony since I have decided to go color free finally!

[@BethTessier]

Irma's favorites Congratulations on your decision! And for watching my story! Good luck with your journey!

[@karenthomas7082]

Thanks!! I needed encouragement today especially, as my journey to Gray is well underway. Sometimes I feel unkempt. I committed four months ago, and my differentiation line is about three inches... I’m waiting just a few more months for a shorter haircut, and silver, salt, and pepper natural hair. It’s pretty liberating. I love my silver peeking through. I can’t wait to cut off the dyed part!!

[@BethTessier]

Karen Thomas yup! I totally understand your feelings! ♥️♥️

[@sandyhafenbrack141]

I've been dying my hair since I was 23, I'm 56 now, and I have given thought over the years to letting it go gray. I never had the nerve and thought I'd do it after retiring but as luck would have it all salons are closed so I've made the choice to just do it already. I'm excited to see where this journey takes me. I'm going to take your advice and take pictures. Wish me luck!

[@BethTessier]

Sandy Hafenbrack Congratulations on your decision! This is the perfect time to dive in!

[@vernettawoods9804]

OMG!!!! Thank you!!!!! I love your view on it’s just not fun anymore. I’m on my journey right now. It’s HARD!!!!! I would love to talk with you more!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!❤️❤️

[@BethTessier]

Thanks for watching! ♥️

[@carolcarr7867]

At 54 I decided today I want my natural colour, which is really grey. I want my hair to match my skin tone, I want to be my age and I'm sick of chemicals, i am so glad I found this post today. Your hair looks lovely.

[@BethTessier]

Carol Carr congratulations on your decision!!

[@melissamaggioncalda242]

Love this! Just made the decision to go gray. I too am feeling the chore of dying. I ALWAYS told myself that 50 was my year to stop. At first I hesitated but my youngest son pushed me to commit to going gray. So my journey has begun and I am super excited.

[@BethTessier]

Melissa Maggioncalda Congratulations on your decision!

[@mistysmith300]

I LOVE your hair. I am just getting started but have been thinking about it for the past couple of years. My hair is naturally dark brown but is now getting pretty gray. My husband is full gray and I am excited to finally match him. LOL I would really like some tips on makeup as well. I don't wear a lot but usually lean toward the neutral browns so I'll have to switch it up a bit I'm sure.

[@BethTessier]

Thank you so much for watching! Join us over at my private beauty group for make up tips!facebook.com/groups/327589424818925/?ref=share

[@jillhazlip]

I stopped coloring my hair about a year ago and started getting low lights in my hair. I started getting the blonde highlighted areas toned grey about 6 months ago and now I am ready for my pixie cut! Your hair is so pretty!

[@BethTessier]

Jill Freeman sounds like a great plan! Good luck! Thank you!

[@carolzabel8234]

I'm going through the grow out right now, same reasons, also couldn't see me coloring my hair the rest of my life. My journey started at the end of summer and I just realized it might be great for hats and hoods in the winter months. By the time the cold weather is gone should be much further along in the grow out process. Thanks for the encouragement.

[@theastewart6721]

This is a great video! I am 62 and my hair is naturally white, not gray. I have been dying it for 41 years and I’m so sick of it! I have weight to lose so my face is heavy in the chin area. If it weren’t I’d cut it short and let it grow out. I am watching all these videos and I really think i may be able to finally take the leap. As I professional I worry that I’ll look ridiculous during the process. Thanks for the encouragement! Your hair looks lovely!

[@BethTessier]

Thea Stewart Thank you! You’re welcome and I hope you have great success with whatever you choose!

[@theastewart6721]

Thank you! I think the plan for me at this moment is to do a full highlight, not do the roots and let it grow out! I, excited by my decision!

[@BethTessier]

Thea Stewart sounds like a great plan!

[@theastewart6721]

Thank you!! I was going to wait until after a family wedding in October but then I thought “why waste 2 months? I’m not the bride” lol. We shall see! Thanks for the encouragement!!

[@BethTessier]

Thea Stewart there is always something that will come up!

[@lindasmith9769]

You are and look amazing. What an uplifting experience and I am ready to dive in! I'm at the cutting it off stage and it was refreshing to see you show us - that isnt the end of the story- just a stage- Thank you so much❣

[@BethTessier]

Linda Smith Thank you so much for watching and for the encouragement!

[@chiaroscuroamore]

I’ve just started on the long process to growing my natural hair out from bottle black. I’m about 5 weeks in I think. I’ve got a lot of silvers, but also I think my natural mousey brown will still feature too. More of a cinnamon and sugar rather than a salt and pepper lol. But as I haven’t seen my natural hair colour in 25years, let alone seen it with the silvers in, I’m sure it’ll be different to hope I imagine it as it grows. I estimate it will take my approximately 4-5 years to grow my hair out as I refuse to cut it above my shoulders. I’m looking forward to the journey as I already have the time, now I’m just putting it to good use! Plus I’m extra lucky that I’m employed care for my grandparents 24/7 365, so I don’t have to worry about looking professional in the workplace. I’ve got the freedom to go completely cold turkey and not face any issues in the workplace.

[@BethTessier]

Chiaroscuro Amore thanks for sharing your story! Good luck with your journey!

[@godblessyou7376]

What a sad commentary on our society if anyone is facing issues in the workplace due to their growing in their natural hair color. Wow-if that were the case, I think I would start looking for a new workplace!

[@lindar6151]

So helpful! I just decided to grow out my hair today. Cold turkey. Wish I could get a cut but not with the self quarantine situation. My hair stylist always tells me not to grow out my color cause it will "add 10 years to you" but I'm ready. I can't wait to see what the color will be. I hope it's a pretty silver and not too white.

[@BethTessier]

Linda Romanowski That’s a typical thing that stylists say. You have to remember that you are no longer going to them for a service that generates income for them… They are very incorrect in saying that women look older with their gray hair. Personally I think women look softer and more their age when they have their natural colored hair. My hairdresser was shocked at how soft and beautiful my hair was and how it looked against my skin. You have to do what feels right to you!

[@virginiabritton742]

Thank you Beth. I have just made the decision to let my natural hair colour start to show through. I will be 55 next month and I have been fighting my gray hair all my life. I was born with jet black hair with a large patch of gray at the back. I have always had to have the 'runway streak' dyed every 4 weeks. It has not been an easy decision to make but I feel now is the time and your journey has shown me it is possible. If I can look and feel even half as good as you do in a year or so, I will be very happy. Thank you for suggesting the fb group, I have already sent a request to join. Thank you for the inspiration.

[@BethTessier]

Virginia Britton hi Virginia! I love hearing your story! Thank you for sharing! Your words are very kind and encouraging! I look forward to getting to know you!

[@debbierogers5096]

I can’t believe you have some thumbs down on your video! I thought you represented the journey in an honest and beautiful way. I’m just beginning the process but look forward to completing the transition. 🌻

[@BethTessier]

Debbie Rogers thank you for the encouragement! Congratulations on your decision!

[@SajeevaniKumarathilKe]

I love your hair. I stopped dying from July this year. I love it. Two of my sons and my husband are ok with it. But my elder established son keeps telling to colour it. But I do really want to embrace my very own gray. I'm 44.

[@BethTessier]

@@SajeevaniKumarathilKe thank you so much! It’s important for you to do what you want with your hair!

[@GrayHairTransitionandBeyond]

I got a pixie cut too because I wanted to hurry up the process. It was a long process but worth it in the end. Your hair looks amazing!

[@BethTessier]

Thank you so much! For me, the pixie was the only way to go because I couldn’t stand the two toned hair on my head!

[@thebeautyinbalance]

I love this. I'm sick of dyeing my hair. This is the longest I've gone and keep going back and forth on if I should dye it. Thanks for the inspiration 🥰

[@BethTessier]

The Beauty in Balance you’re welcome! ♥️ good luck with your decision!

[@chantellemonroe5664]

Great choices Beth, your hair looks incredible in it's natural gray.

[@BethTessier]

Thank you!

[@chantellemonroe5664]

@@BethTessier You are welcome!

[@lindachristie6060]

I just found your video and loved it! I started my journey to gray just this month so I am only 8 weeks since last color. I am so excited to have made the decision to stop coloring. I am 71 and have been coloring my dark hair since I was 40, too long but I wasn’t ready until now. What a great video, you explained what to expect and to be strong. Thank you for your honesty and supportive message. I have subscribed to you channel for further videos. Be well, you are a beautiful woman and I thoroughly enjoyed this video. ❤️

[@BethTessier]

Linda Christie such kind comments! Thank you so much Linda! Congratulations on your journey!!

[@laikathunderchild5746]

Thank You so much for your honest and realistic perspective. I’m 3 months in but am seeing encouragement everywhere. Perhaps the lockdown has provided the opportunity for many to consider the journey. I’m scared but my Mom has a gorgeous head of thick white hair, so each time I waver I look at her and hope mine will be half as lovely. I adore your channel and can’t wait to follow your clothing and makeup tips for you are a very classy lady. Thanks again.

[@BethTessier]

Laika Thunder Child congratulations on your decision and thank you for your kind words! ❤️

[@susandestefano1820]

I am feeling drab, it’s been almost a year...still not grown out. Hoping when I am through I will be happy with it!

[@BethTessier]

Susan DeStefano I felt like that sooo often! But I reminded myself that I also felt like that occasionally when I dyed my hair LOL ... Maybe it’s time for a fresh cut, some new make up, retail therapy etc.!

[@shamuchauhan7581]

You’re look so beautiful. I’m transitioning to grey. 3 months and going strong. Lots of support from my family. I’m so excited about it. I did do highlights, using purple shampoo to get rid of the yellow tones. It’s looking good and getting lots of compliments. Thanks for the tips.

[@BethTessier]

Shamu Chauhan congratulations! Thank you for sharing!

[@cindyzemke7813]

Thank you for sharing your journey. I have decided to begin my own journey and embrace my grey!

[@BethTessier]

Cindy Zemke congratulations!!!

[@renepena3024]

You’re so cute! Thanks for this video! I’m just 3 months in and people like you are so helpful 🤗

[@BethTessier]

Rene Pena I’m so glad you found this helpful! Congratulations on your decision! Good luck!

[@doriecronin]

Rene Pena can you tell me how long it took you to grow it out?

[@katsohal]

Thanks for sharing your journey, I’ve just started mine and I’m excited about it! BTW You have lovely skin!

[@BethTessier]

Congratulations!! Thanks for watching!

[@peggyjean6366]

Gosh Beth, thank you for sharing your story. I loved your honesty and your unassuming way of telling us how it will go and what to expect. I am ready to go gray. I know it will not be an easy journey but I'm ready to go.

[@BethTessier]

Congratulations on your decision!! You’ll be so glad you did it! And thank you for the encouragement. You are too kind.

[@graceinhawaii]

I love your hair! Thanks for the video ! And I honor your choice to go gray!

[@BethTessier]

@@graceinhawaii thank you!

[@dorsiaeubanks572]

Beth, this is so uplifting. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@BethTessier]

Dorsia Eubanks aw what a kind thing to say Donna! Thank you!

[@PatriciaMuirMaestroQ]

I loved the comment “rebellion against my insecurities”. I feel like a different women every time I show up in my network of fiends and colleagues. I love their surprise and comments....all positive. My mantra is “liberation” (at 66)

[@BethTessier]

Patricia Muir love it!

[@pafcaf]

Jewel tones: Those were probably always your colors, you just didn't realize it before. You're a "winter" I absolutely believe in color analysis. Every woman should do it. I only wear brown if I want to convince everyone at work I don't feel well so I can leave early :) I love your inner strength and your hair looks gorgeous.

[@BethTessier]

pafcaf Yes I’ve always been interested in color analysis too! And you are right that I’ve always been a winter… But when I was dying my hair I could get away with beige and tan colors for jackets or sweaters… Where now I can’t at all! It’s been very interesting! Thank you for the encouragement!

[@ginnylorenz5265]

Wonderful video!!! Beth, you are so beautiful and likable. My problem is different. I'm 77 and stopped dying my hair.......BUT! it's mostly dark, dark, dark brown. White, silver, or gray is flattering......but this dark hair with my older face??? I'm hoping for more silver one of these days. However...I'm determined to be the authentic ME, and that includes no more (toxic) chemicals on my head, and just let the chips fall where they may. I never hear of other older ladies like me with hair being much darker than their dyed hair. Thank goodness for baseball caps!!! Thank you again, for sharing your story and journey. Your support is so valuable to to many. Love from San Diego, CA.

[@BethTessier]

Ginny Lorenz Thank you so much for your sweet comments! Yes that is a different sort of problem isn’t it! I know my sister who is 60 years old had this issue as well. The older she got the darker her hair got. She did continue to highlight hers, but that is definitely a personal choice!

[@jackierohm]

I really enjoyed your video! I am starting my gray journey now about a month now so I have the wonder narrow skunk patch. I was gray years ago but I let a girlfriend insult me into dying my hair. Really wish I didn’t do it but now it’s time to return to gray.

[@BethTessier]

Jackie Rohm I’m sorry someone was rude to you about your hair. That’s sucks. Good luck with your decision and your journey!

[@Musika1220]

I am 11 months in transitioning. If I had only one thing to say and that I say to everybody : you cannot judge the end result until you go all the way. I decided to go cold turkey. Obviously, that way is testing our patience and determination. It is hard to deal with the demarcation. Horrible. For me, the best way to make it sustainable is to wear my hair in a ponytail. That way, when people look at my face they see gray... with a dark brown ponytail sideways. I can't wait to cut the dye part but it won't be until the 18 months mark because I want it to be a certain Bob hairstyle - chin lenght. So, 7 more months to go. I can do this! Wearing it in a ponytail makes it very much sustainable. Thank you for sharing your journey, you are part of my support team :-)

[@BethTessier]

AIWATE I loved hearing your story!! Thanks for sharing! Support is the best isn’t it?! ♥️

[@abranasing]

I find it better also to wear a ponytail too!

[@theastewart6721]

AIWATE What a great idea. I can do that too! I always wear it up,anyway! Thanks for the tip!

[@yb4388]

You look so bright and lovely with your gray hair. I'm making the decision now, I've toyed with the idea of letting my gray grow out. This video is so inspiring and the insecurities about it are just that, insecurities. Thanks so much for making this video. I think I'm actually going to go gray!!! Side note: When my mother decided she was going to stop dying her hair and just go gray, I thought she looked the prettiest she ever did in all the later years of dying hair and running from the gray. I will probably be contacting you about the color matching!

[@BethTessier]

Y B I’m so glad you found this video inspiring and helpful! I look forward to connecting with you in the future! Good luck!

[@lisagross6965]

I think I will just watch this video every month for inspiration!

[@BethTessier]

Lisa Gross Hey… Whatever it takes to get you through, right?!! Thanks for watching!

[@annbrier391]

I'm ready to make the transition. Your video is the most inspirational & helpful that I've watched. Thank you!

[@BethTessier]

ann brier oh my gosh I love that! Thank you and congratulations!

[@theadster2702]

I've been mulling this over for 2 years also!!! Two weeks before Easter (2019) I colored my hair. When it was done I regretted it and said to myself, "What am I doing??!!" I am DONE!!! I am now on the journey!!! I am not doing highlights...just going to let it grow. So many ladies here on KZbin actually look better grey. I do just want it to be over!!!....3 weeks in!!! lololo

[@BethTessier]

Addie Rogers your joy of dyeing is gone and it’s time to start the journey! Congratulations! And welcome!!

[@lin2thez341]

6 months in and it's finally starting to feel "real"

[@lf9341]

How is it going?

[@theadster2702]

@@lf9341 GREAT!!! My hair grows very fast so I was done in one year. It was shoulder length and when it was half and half I got anxious and got a pixie cut. I did that 3 times and done!! I found out 4 things....I look better with grey hair then fake dye color, I look better in shorter hair, I love the easy no hassle hair AND saving $$$$ !!!! A total win!!!! I feel free and really being me!!!!

[@jrpacer6355]

Yes it is all to familiar 😊ladies listen to what is being said I’m 20 months in this and all she is saying is right on target ...

[@BethTessier]

JR Pacer thank you so much!

[@Musika1220]

I totally agree with you.

[@luanacarabajal3831]

I got my first gray hair at 14. It runs on my moms side of the family. I had to color it because I was a hair dresser! I was so excited to let it grow. And love my gray! So do others, I do believe it is out crown of glory and wisdom comes in with all the gray 💕

[@BethTessier]

Thank you for sharing your story!

[@carolynharris5902]

What a great video. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.. I have just started. My grays no longer want to be covered. They don't stay covered for very long anymore. Again thank you!

[@BethTessier]

Carolyn Harris you’re welcome Carolyn! Congratulations on your journey!

[@kathrynwilson6159]

Beth, what you said about the comment "you're too young to go grey!" being ridiculous is MAGIC for me! I have tried this once already, and now when I (inevitably) hear that statement again I will be mentally ready to ignore it. THANK YOU! ❤

[@BethTessier]

Kathryn Wilson haha! Love it! 👏🏻👏🏻 One of my biggest soapboxes is that our culture has taught women to dye their hair the second they see gray so we don’t actually know and understand that gray hair does not equal elderly… Women of all ages get gray hair… It is simply a change in hair pigment. I was in my 20s when I started getting gray hair… Brunettes tend to gray sooner than other hair colors… This doesn’t mean I am “old“ it just means my hair pigment is changing. But because our culture has taught women to dye their hair we don’t realize that young women do in fact go gray.. *steps down off of soap box*

[@sandrinejambert210]

Very inspiring video, thank you! Starting on my journey to gray... Can't wait to see what it looks like!

[@BethTessier]

Sandrine Jambert congratulations!!

[@nancyalex2001]

So this is my 2nd try at going grey and staying grey since I originally started my journey in Jan 2017 and was completely finished with the journey as of the beginning of this year. But in May of this year I caved and dyed it I don’t think I was ready then but definitely feel stronger and more sure now emotionally about this. It’s been almost 2 mos since I last colored. Thank you for the encouragement and tips. 🌻

[@BethTessier]

nancyalex2001 you are so welcome! Thank you for sharing! Good luck! ♥️

[@tonicorley6874]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I am contemplating going gray. I’m in the season of life where I am not enjoying getting my gray covered every 6 weeks. I’m going to talk to my hair dresser of 20 years tomorrow.

[@doriecronin]

Toni Corley It only gets shorter in time. I’m at every 3 weeks (64 yr.s old) can’t wait to do this

[@babysonographer9891]

I’m 54and have decided to stop dyeing my hair. I’ve been doing it since I was 26! I’m tired of spending the money, time, and of all the chemicals. I was diagnosed with RA 5 years ago and have spent the last 3 years getting healthy by eating well (going WFPB), exercising, learning g to de stress, and looking for alternative ways to manage my symptoms and it occurred to me this summer, that I was putting horrible chemicals on my hair every 2 weeks!!! I’m not going to lie - I’m very nervous. I’ve always worn makeup, jewelry, cute outfits, latest hairstyles etc so this will be a challenge. Your video is so inspiring and I hope my hair looks as fantastic as yours does once I grow it out. I’m starting off with shorter hair and don’t have any issue cutting it shorter so that might make it easier 🙏🏻. Thanks for the tip about the Facebook group - I’ve already asked to join. My husband (just got married 3 weeks ago 👏🏻👏🏻) is very supportive but my friends are about 50/50. I work with the public daily so hoping not to get too much flak from my male bosses 🙄😬.

[@BethTessier]

Babysonographer98 Thank you so much for sharing your story. If you are fashion conscious you are going to rock your natural hair color! You will find so much support in the Facebook group! Congratulations on your decision!

[@faithhall7806]

Loved your story. I have been dye free for 4 years. I turned 50 and thought, now is the best time. I too had to change my colors. I always loved blue, purples, and reds and now that my hair is natural. Those colors make ME feel beautiful!!! Thanks for sharing your journey!

[@BethTessier]

fede hall Have fun!