I would get my act together overnight if I discovered my wife called a national show about my behavior within the family. I can't think of a bigger wake up call. This is a dedicated woman and very family oriented, hoping her husband is brave enough to meet the challenge she is requesting from the other adults in the home.
@Jeremy-wp4yh9 ай бұрын
@@jonsmith8746sounds like you're an absent father. You know your own kind.
@87alock8 ай бұрын
That would piss me off more than anything
@HollyTheTwisterSister7 ай бұрын
Mine would be furious if I put our issues out on the internet for everyone to know. It would be unforgivable to him
@fornx85747 ай бұрын
I think the show uses alias names and locations but I could be wrong. I know this is not the focus of your argument but there is same level of anonymity to help maintain privacy, I suppose lol @@HollyTheTwisterSister
@missk255919 күн бұрын
You’re a good man for seeing this! Whenever I hear calls like this, no matter how broken and angry the person sounds.. they wouldn’t be calling unless they cared SO much and were truly trying to salvage the relationship
@tristamarie7115 Жыл бұрын
This is good insight into how to approach a man.....I'm a woman with workaholic tendencies and if my husband approached it that way, I would be extremely overwhelmed. For me, it's another thing on a to-do list and I would do it just to appease him vs. asking him the best way to approach the situation. For example, 'I miss you and feel like we don't spend enough time together, any ideas on how we could fix it?' and giving him the time to formulate a solution that he can maintain/provide him some solutions if he asks vs. telling him.
@jennteal5265 Жыл бұрын
Not to mention there's nothing wrong with having different interests. The best point in marriage is when you both can be in the same room together doing different things and just enjoying being near each other with no expectations. She's got a _lot_ of expectations. He may be exhausted with her expectations of him.
@mariahconklin4150 Жыл бұрын
I'm the opposite of my ex. He is a workaholic and I hate working because of the gossip, back stabbing, unnecessary drama. I find staying home working on myself is better or watching a documentary online is more appealing who wants to be around drama all day that's what I grew up in with my family no thank you. I'm finding out now thats a trauma response but I just find all of that annoying I have better things to do.
@mariahconklin4150 Жыл бұрын
Oh this is good advice I need to start doing this!
@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933 Жыл бұрын
I question that "doing the same things" is not the real issue. I have been married to my husband for 27 years and he no longer emotionally engages with me. The only things we engage about now is our rescue dog. Your speaking on "not having the tools" resonated to me. He is age 78 and I believe he does not have the tools and honestly, he does not care to get them. I realize that we both have health issues and our energy is limited and I try to empathethetic and understand his needs too but it ends u always being about his needs. I tried suggesting weekly weekend meetings, he agrees with them but they never happen routinely for a variety of reasons. All we get is coordinating our calendars. when we met we camped, fished, danced and bird watched etc. He just wants to sit on the couch and play with his phone or laptop and I like to do fun and social things from time to time. He would rather stay at home and take care of the dog because there are no demands on him that way.. I tell him exactly what I need. He agrees but then does not follow through. Honestly, my patience is gone after 27 years of his not following through. Now I just give up and go to our local senior center for socialization and lunch and let him sit on the couch and veg.
@BrendaBaBoom Жыл бұрын
He’s strongly utilizes PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE strategy to buy time and remain unaccountable while ignoring your needs …. him, the dog and couch are what really matters. Take good care🌸
@mariahconklin4150 Жыл бұрын
That's how my ex boyfriend is and he's 40 years old. But staying home all the time isn't healthy it can lead to alzheimers. Why not go on a vacation with your dog? lol! That may work for him! I know down here in CA they have resturaunts you can take your dog to. I"m also noticing that my ex dad is older in his 70's and he does nothing he doesn't want to go out ever it's really scary to see that that could be my future. He is single though.
@KatieLHall-fy1hw Жыл бұрын
My husband is like this and we are 36 and 38. It is hard. Granted, my family is a LOT to handle sometimes (all in each other’s business but always there to help and provide love and support. And I am the oldest of 5, with an extended family of more). My husband is the oldest of 2, being the prized boy (though his mom is hesitant to admit it, but she has before), so he gets upset if things don’t go his way. He is unable to see how truly blessed we are with our friends and family
@punkrockgirl48812 күн бұрын
Hope all of you are doing well today. Read these comments and I’m thinking of all of you. ❤ sending love from NY
@joesillamanrs7189 Жыл бұрын
The dude is checked out
@dbtech4562 Жыл бұрын
Probably wants out of marriage but trapped. It is a terrible experience but in a few years, it will eventually end and mutually accepted.
@c.edales740 Жыл бұрын
Infortunately he has. Not being negative its not going to get better.
@thejakelegion Жыл бұрын
Some of you don't know what it's like to have little kids, work 80 hours a week and feel so stressed you can't connect with your wife. It can pass and it can be hard to do, but to say he's checked out and wants out of his marriage is unproven.
@GardenerEarthGuy Жыл бұрын
It happens, she sounds real passive aggressive, with a heavy dash of controlling confrontational- not sure the John map list is the right approach. I kinda feel like she'll have a pad and pen with her...
@c.edales740 Жыл бұрын
@@thejakelegion I know too Well and to have a kid with delays does not help.
@aimeerebecca1 Жыл бұрын
John is missing the boat on this one. The husband isn’t just clueless, he’s CHECKED OUT, he’s disconnected. And she KNOWS it!! She feels it!!! Sure she could communicate more directly and bravely, like he said in the end. But it sounds like he is completely tapped out and is dissociating.
@SaystheTruth3 Жыл бұрын
💯 Agree!
@aprilchow-chee5281 Жыл бұрын
Been there done that. He was cheating
@brown_eyed_girl Жыл бұрын
I think John is suggesting this bc it is either going to reconnect the relationship OR identify to the wife that her hi and no longer wishes to work on it. Either way, it will help the husband and wife identify things more clearly with one another
@mariahconklin4150 Жыл бұрын
Wow that makes sense my own father did that I think and it led to him cheating. Not a very healthy coping mechanism. He basically fell out of love with my mom cause he was cheating. Hopefully that's not her case though. Yikes. I've noticed to that I also check out and dessociate and I have to snap out of it.
@kcourtney6826 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, and she probably feels vulnerable even more so because she’s pregnant.
@giantfatberg5 ай бұрын
My wife was pulling away from me and practically dating a coworker. I went to Jewel, Kenny Chesney, Zac Brown, and others just to be with her. I went to midnight showings of Twilight movies. I desperately hung on. She ditched me in multiple cities where I stayed in quiet, lonely hotels. I went to 5 concerts all alone. In our 22 years together she has never watched The Shawshank Redemption, my favorite movie. Is that love or what? It sticks with you and hurts forever This stuff is so important. Even if you are not interested in the activity, take part in it and watch your partner’s response. Their happiness can be enough to pull you into their world of interests.
@brittneydavis86624 ай бұрын
I’m really sorry. You deserve to be valued and have someone invest interest into you as well
@ludwigvonsowell53474 ай бұрын
She outright ditched you in cities?
@giantfatberg4 ай бұрын
@@ludwigvonsowell5347 yes she didn’t bother to travel there with me even though we had two tickets. I went to the shows alone
@user-pt4xx4wu2i3 ай бұрын
Why are you with her? It’s a genuine question. You need to let her go.
@missk255919 күн бұрын
This is me currently… and I feel so stupid because I’m just starting to realize it after we had our baby… I’m on maternity leave and still paying half the bills.. I have to tell a story 3x for him to listen to me, and the things I get excited about I can tell he just thinks are stupid…. I was 8 months pregnant on my birthday and he canceled my dinner because he was too tired after work. :’( What have I done :( this is my baby’s dad
@crystalduque7559 Жыл бұрын
My brother does this to his wife , and around my family. It’s quite odd to watch. I haven’t seen him in nearly 2.5 years and he barely had a reaction to my existence during Christmas… like no reaction . Don’t know what is going there
@anneshirley9560 Жыл бұрын
My husband started doing this to me after I gave birth. He's also made eveyone at work mad and his family. All of a sudden he's becoming self destructive. I wonder if your brother and my husband might be depressed? It's hard, because he won't even talk to me, so I can't help if he won't tell me what's going on or try himself. It's been hard. I hope your sister in law and brothers marriage heals.
@zlol_ssbm Жыл бұрын
They are depressed because he wants to be left alone and she demands 100% of his attention
@blueseptember21742 ай бұрын
P@rn addiction zombies
@DudePlays Жыл бұрын
We don’t enjoy doing the same things… Let’s get married!
@joannahepworth2230 Жыл бұрын
😂
@emmarose6590 Жыл бұрын
My parents don’t enjoy the same things and they’ve had a happy and healthy marriage.
@pnwpariah8691 Жыл бұрын
@@emmarose6590 this! Couples don’t need to enjoy all of the same things, they need to be a team and build a life together. Give space when space is needed and support when support is needed. It’s healthy!
@todd2324 Жыл бұрын
@@pnwpariah8691You don't need to enjoy all of the same things, but you should enjoy doing some things together.
@pnwpariah8691 Жыл бұрын
@@todd2324 completely agree!
@Whatorwellsaid21 Жыл бұрын
There is no way these phone calls happen without any prior red flags long before. They had to know they were different and the desire to commit emotionally wasn’t there.
@vickimerritt2832 Жыл бұрын
People do not have imbeded crystal balls in their brains. Should they have had a trial run baby then sent it back to the " stork" if it didn't work out for him? One expects a reasonably evolved and mature partner that can adapt and improvise as the situation warrants, not run away from it. Geeze.
@CaToRi-10 ай бұрын
@orwell you will be surprised of how many people hide their true personality before marriage (consciously or not) and after a couple of years they can’t continue faking and then take his/her real personality, putting their partners in a difficult situation.
@iomis2001 Жыл бұрын
This is my parents. They love each other, but they never do anything together. Somehow it works for them though. So I guess it depends on what you want.
@tokelomphahlele15446 ай бұрын
Same here 😂😂😂
@patriciaalbertson51835 ай бұрын
OR, they just pretends it works
@patriciaalbertson51835 ай бұрын
As, in they settled.
@chiiix335 ай бұрын
No they don't. They might appreciate, even respect, each other but they don't love each other
@iomis20015 ай бұрын
@@chiiix33 You can love someone and not get along. People are complicated.
@BassBwoy3 Жыл бұрын
Wow...I love this marriage/relationship advice. I used to think the best couples liked doing a lot of the same things, but a couple can like very different things and still be very intentional to do what the other is passionate about, whether they themselves like it or not. Guess opposites/different people can still attract.
@mariahconklin4150 Жыл бұрын
huh. That's how me an my ex are but we are so stubborn. lol! We like different music, different movies, different everything now. Then people will say odd things I've heard, "You look like brother and sister" or "Oh you two are so cute" and we aren't even together. lol!
@Matt-cr4vv Жыл бұрын
It’s a challenge I think. For me when we dated we both did whatever the other wanted and didn’t really object because that’s kinda how dating can be. When we got married and communicated it we learned how many things we didn’t enjoy the same. But that doesn’t doom you it just means working to find some common interests but still carving time for each other to do the things you like doing but the other doesn’t. For example, for a time in my younger 20s I was at the bar all the time. She enjoyed that for maybe an hour. So the solution there was if usually carve thsh time for evenings she was working so that was time to get my “fix”. Or we’d compromise on that and have dinner and drinks for a short time period and it worked for both. But other things we either go along or let them enjoy it with a friend. She enjoys Broadway so she takes a friend to tnah. I enjoy football I take a friend to that. But we also developed things we both like. For example we both love concerts so we go to a ton of them together because it’s something we both love so she’s mh concert buddy. Or we find stuff at home to do like play a game etc. Whag people often ignore us that it takes some intentionality to find commonalities over just saying we don’t have a common interests and giving ups
@janestephens7062 Жыл бұрын
Wow ,I was city girl growing up husband of 49 years a country boy 100%thought ride horses, hunting, fishing, mudding was 100% Was totally gross. As he saw it going to the opera, museumsThings like that are stupid. We had to come to a compromise. And I do find riding horses, Fishing kind of relaxing. Not So much on the hunting, Or the other country stuff. He also learned to like some things I like to do. Marriage is a give and take every moment of the day. This girl needs understand people grow and change everyday. I sure if he was the one on show he be saying he doesn't know were girl he married went also. Yes children changes things alot but you need to make space for each other. Are after children are grown up they look at each other like they two strangers. Then they'll end up getting a divorce. In my 67 years I've seen it many times. People who live in their life like robots Go to work 5 days a week I'm home clean house hall weekend go shopping for groceries. Then go back to work for 5 days a week. I have very short quality of time together what if you put the kids to bed 1 or 2 hours together. The Warriors one of them either playing video games or watching TV. I have 3 son in laws And believe me I've seen this happen. My daughters busting their asses cleaning up get kids off to bed a were are their husband's play video games are watching TV. Not cleaning or helping with kids. I've never been a troublemaker but I did get ahold of their mom's until their mom's the way their sons were acting Believe me that got them motivated. But I'm not a doctor I'm not a psychiatrist I'm just a woman who's lived my life married for 49 years have 3 daughters and 6 grandchildren .
@sarahalderman3126 Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more with you here, especially on the quality time together during those “little kid years”. As a mother of 9, 22-10 years old, soon to be grandmother and wife of 23 year’s all I can say is the husbands ability and effort to take part in the “hustle” can make or break a marriage and family. ❤
@patriciaalbertson51835 ай бұрын
Wow, way to go!
@luminous6969 Жыл бұрын
2:11 "Have you told him that?" *Long pause "Um, I feel like I've tried." That means she sat in the corner and sent smoke signals for him to interpret.
@maybug88 Жыл бұрын
Oooor, she explained every way she could think of and he still didn't get, so it made her question if any of those atempts event count. Ask me how I know.
@dbtech4562 Жыл бұрын
Wow, two different prospectives.
@nicolcacola Жыл бұрын
She communicates in a way he doesn't understand. Obviously its the same way on his end. Calling them "smoke signals" is dismissing delivery issues.
@luminous6969 Жыл бұрын
@@nicolcacola It was a pretty obvious metaphor tbh 🙄
@lot2196 Жыл бұрын
100% Agree.
@sharonamadi8656 Жыл бұрын
I'll never understand people who can't bring themselves to open their mouths and actually say what they mean or want to say. It's mind boggling to me.
@ireefree20246 ай бұрын
It's a thing which some people need to learn. I'm end thirtys and learned it a few years ago. Today, I'm totally on your side. Growing up, I learned to keep my needs down and just hoping my environment will do things I like without asking for it. In a relationship it's catastrophic. I have to learn telling exactly what I want to my husband. Still once in a while I "forget " it.
@spursfan5742Ай бұрын
Usually it's because whatever you say is turned against you.
@maddiec.3061Ай бұрын
Sounds like you grew up in a functional household lol
@sharonamadi8656Ай бұрын
@@maddiec.3061 actually I did. I worked to improve myself. I don't see the point in blaming your childhood for things you can easily fix
@strawberykiri Жыл бұрын
Underoath is my favorite band I'm so happy to hear that you like them too!
@diggernash1 Жыл бұрын
He's thinking about all the other stuff he would rather be doing...so do the things he wants to do.
@aliolivi Жыл бұрын
What you're asking her to do is what women are craving in terms of leadership from men.
@rebeccaoprea9917 Жыл бұрын
He can just be a busy dad and she’s a hormonal pregnant women . No fire here , just real life .
@em77775 Жыл бұрын
No, she's being neglected. This is how it started for me. Over the years it got worse and worse. He cheated, got super abusive and completely abandoned me. I started off trying to say hey, let's spend time together and he just said no.
@anneshirley9560 Жыл бұрын
@@em77775 oh that's awful! I'm so sorry that you went through that! I hope that you'll find or have found somebody who loves you.
@em77775 Жыл бұрын
@Anne Shirley95 HI and thanks 😊. I'm happily divorced. Met an amazing man at church and we're getting to know each other 🥰
@anneshirley9560 Жыл бұрын
@@em77775 that's awesome! I'm so happy for you!! 😁😁
@Spaceman999662 ай бұрын
@em77775 things are usually simpler than they seem. And your protecting your experience onto that situation
@emmanuelale48687 ай бұрын
To be honest with you, this is the reason why I'm not going to get married because I'll probably end up doing the same thing
@athenag7455 ай бұрын
I've been married twice. I find it a bit suffocating tbh. I am very independent love my own company, sometimes men need to feel needed and I'm not that. I'm not a nut 😂 and open to love, but he would need to have his own stuff going on.
@somethinggood-sy1ed4 ай бұрын
Thank you for staying single
@emmanuelale48684 ай бұрын
@@somethinggood-sy1ed lol 😆. Is that meant to be a caring response or is that meant to be a snark response?
@athenag7454 ай бұрын
@@somethinggood-sy1ed thank you for taking the time to watch a generic advice giving expert 👍
@GoKU-xx2vg3 ай бұрын
@@athenag745at least your honest. The best marriage for you is where both of you agree to be like roommates.
@MariNic8 Жыл бұрын
As someone who LOVES Dr. John, this is HORRIBLE advice. I’ve seen this with some of his other videos, where he essentially gives women the training seminar to “teach” their husbands. You’re teaching wives to be moms…. Recipe for resentment and men continuing to not be better. 🤷🏻♀️
@kristinrichmond8185 Жыл бұрын
Wives shouldn’t EVER see their husband as another child. When she has to “teach” him something about their relationship, that’s what begins to happen.
@elfascisto65493 ай бұрын
@@kristinrichmond8185 he should just be expected to know ? And if he doesn't then resentment grows anyway
@documentariesbycategory1483 Жыл бұрын
UNDEROATH!!! Yesssss
@umiluv Жыл бұрын
My husband is like the Dr. He loves loud music and going to live shows. I’m the opposite. I actually prefer to read and do things in the quiet, like embroidering while listening to audiobooks. We do things together like watching movies/shows and eating dinner together. We have kids now so he finds friends to go to shows with while I stay at home with the kids. He leaves me alone and plays with the kids while I enjoy my quiet time. As a family, we go out hiking or to the museum or to the playground together. The kids need dates from the both of us too. =)
@kahrhoshe Жыл бұрын
i freakin love john. hes my music spirit animal. love metal AND folk.
@saraojala6283 Жыл бұрын
Being a parent of a special needs child is mentally and physically draining. 80% of marriages with handicapped kids end in divorce. I think this couple needs to get in counseling ASAP or they won't make it.
@KennedyIvy Жыл бұрын
I dont know about other men. But the last thing i want to do is "sit down and be vulnerable", lol
@David-wo9un Жыл бұрын
It’s a safe bet that most men feel the same way you do; I don’t believe women actually want to see their man being vulnerable.
@thaneros Жыл бұрын
@@David-wo9un There noting wrong with being vulnerable, its not weakness. Weakness and vulnerability aren't the same thing.
@davidjonburke2729 Жыл бұрын
Agreed..i can, but..Anytime I do it ends badly lol
@CoffeeSA96 Жыл бұрын
The woke mob is trying to make men feminine, watch out and don’t fall for it
@erismana2105 Жыл бұрын
Big ego hides weak men
@janicajohnson9727 Жыл бұрын
My daughters husband wants her to always watch sports with him. She wants to crochet too. He won’t allow her to do that, so they don’t share that.
@Jane5720 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@rejectionisprotection4448 Жыл бұрын
@@Jane5720 .....just wow.
@starlingswallow Жыл бұрын
He doesn't _allow her_ to do that?!?! Mom, please get your daughter to get OUT of that marriage! QUICK. That is controlling and abusive. She is an adult and is allowed to do what she wants!!!!
@pnwpariah8691 Жыл бұрын
@@starlingswallow or maybe recommend therapy/couples counseling instead??? Tearing apart a marriage is the last thing that should happen.
@CrystalM1917 Жыл бұрын
Wth?
@flyandshy00 Жыл бұрын
Working so much? He has an affair 100%. She served him only as a sex machine, now she cannot give him that, so he goes elsewhere, I bet he was never engage emotionally with her from the beginning, just settled for her. Women, observe red flags and do't settle, or will end up like this.
@RespekfulFungus Жыл бұрын
No phones until they are driving to work. No compromises , ever.
@tacooflove6175 Жыл бұрын
I wanna see that DO NOT ASK LIST sounds like a good laugh especially for obgyn doctors
@gmoney0987 Жыл бұрын
Stressing this hard with 1 kid. Oh boy. Life is going to be hard for these people.
@louklein3916 Жыл бұрын
Kid with special needs. Maybe they care more about their one child than you do your many.
@carylhalfwassen8555 Жыл бұрын
Developmentally delayed kiddo and pregnant.
@chez07883 ай бұрын
Saw Underoath Live in Calgary two different times! Oddly enough, I live in just outside of San Antonio now 🤣I know this has nothing to do with the video just that he mentioned Underoath lol
@danilaroche1156Ай бұрын
My ex-husband completely checked out. Never spoke. Never was home. Turned out he was sleeping with other men. For REAL.
@Aloha4Maui4 ай бұрын
Dr. John missed the boat on that one. This marriage is already in trouble, she is already alone and overwhelmed with the care of their older child.
@GoKU-xx2vg3 ай бұрын
Thanks professor!
@sneakerfreak2002 Жыл бұрын
Time 2 power up the baloney slicer! I sense there’s a giant delivery 2 process real soon!
@vickimerritt2832 Жыл бұрын
no fun to be tied to little kids needs and find out you married an escape artist
@Deans-jm3uf Жыл бұрын
Excellent advice
@christywilson21778 ай бұрын
I think she means he is checked out which is a whole other level other than “putting a 60 day calendar “ together. There’s a lot bigger issues here. Superficial answers on this one. 😢
@nunyabusyness762 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I have completely different interests. I wanna hang outside all the time, he's a ginger that wants to play video games all day and bursts into flame when exposed to sunlight. I like hunting and fishing, he sometimes passes out when he sees blood. But there's one interest we always connect on. Sex. I enjoy the space, I don't like discussing feelings in general so I guess it's easier for me. I hope y'all figure out something in common that interest you both. Sometimes I'll ask about his video game and his progress and he willingly talks about that in detail. But in general we both do our own thing, I enjoy that space. I don't like going out to eat or shopping, but if I had any inclination, that's where I would try to connect. Or the bedroom.😉
@Hiddenplace414 Жыл бұрын
Lol u said he's a ginger
@user-rr3yw9dn1l11 ай бұрын
Is this guy an actual doctor or just some guy that likes to hear himself talk like dr phil?
@Hatbox9486 ай бұрын
Not sure!
@user-qg6rf5ec3n2 ай бұрын
Delony spent two decades working in crisis management and higher education, and has earned two Ph.Ds.
@user-ky8je2qj3z10 ай бұрын
His name is Pacey
@ritamerringer2173 Жыл бұрын
Playlist is a mixed tape 😂
@michaelhutchings6602 Жыл бұрын
Why doesn't my husband want to behave like my women friends?!
@erismana2105 Жыл бұрын
They have a special needs kid If he cant be there for her he is a dead beat. Hope you didnt reproduce
@sarahalderman3126 Жыл бұрын
Why would you want him to? Screw that, my friends don’t do crap for me. My husband on the other hand is always there and willing.
@blueseptember2174 Жыл бұрын
No one wants their man to act like a girl friend. Just communicate is all all. Not hard. That is literally it. People overcomplicate it.
@carylhalfwassen8555 Жыл бұрын
Mapping out the next 60 days includes child birth and poor sleep.
@sherryd3299Ай бұрын
Do people not look at their partner honestly while they are dating or do the pretend while dating they are one way and once they are married their real they meet the real person? Or once they are married one of them think they don't have to try any longer?
@mariahconklin4150 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like her husband has ADHD if not maybe he's just not intersted in what she likes I don't think my boyfriend's were into what I was into that's when you just go find a lady to hang out with.
@Mudpaws4 ай бұрын
Should go on Drumeo one day
@Spaceman999662 ай бұрын
The comment section is always just full of women projecting their cheating stories to every women that calls in with a problem with their man. Yall are sad , problems can happen in a marriage without cheating or demonizing the man
@mikesalas26835 ай бұрын
What happens John if the other spouse does not participate in planning activities
@mikesalas26835 ай бұрын
ESP when the kids are grown out of the house and even when they where home I hit a wall and we have been married 26 yrs and we are young 57
@exceedinglyaverage1179 Жыл бұрын
Beej goes a long way
@Nah-ah Жыл бұрын
Eh that’s what my girlfriends are for if I need emotional support.
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
Be happy he's providing for you and not abusive or cheating. Amazing how so many people are just never satisified especially women.
@axmaciel7 Жыл бұрын
So be happy he’s doing the bare minimum ??? Lol not being abusive or cheating should be the min expectation
@appgirl25 Жыл бұрын
Be happy he's not physically kicking her ass? The bar is in hell.
@Chet_24 Жыл бұрын
Yeah. It's almost like the husband is working more because the wife won't have an income for a while, and they'll have an extra person to provide for. Apparently, the wife lives in fantasy land where none of that is being taken into account.
@rejectionisprotection4448 Жыл бұрын
@@appgirl25 What bar?
@Toomies08 Жыл бұрын
This thread of comments from men! 😂 I'll guess you're either not married, or your marriage is lifeless. It must be SO horrible for a man to have a wife that loves him so much that she misses him and wants to connect. My God, the horror! 😂
@AtlasZero13 Жыл бұрын
My wife goes to my metal shows and football games and i dress up and go to taylor swift concerts with her. Give a little take a little
@lissettementado87443 ай бұрын
John listens to underoarh??? Yoooooo DOPE
@jaqueitch Жыл бұрын
Poor baby husband can't deal with his emotions.... What an f-ing baby. Man up
@SaystheTruth3 Жыл бұрын
Typical story.... Mom is at home sad with the kids yet wanting more... while dad is working mad hours to provide for his family. Give the guy a break when he comes home... I think she needs to get her own hobbys and stop dragging her husband to things he doesn't want to do... I think she depends on him too much for her own happiness.
@dominickmoura165 Жыл бұрын
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@colindavidson64837 ай бұрын
Underoath… how old is this guy?
@wonka4Ай бұрын
45ish
@tdgdbs1 Жыл бұрын
Sit down and be vulnerable??? What a load of manure, that is the reason he checked out. Good luck with your cats lady!
@braziliannigga Жыл бұрын
That "sit down and be vulnerable" is just boring and pointless. I'd rather just do something fun...
@appgirl25 Жыл бұрын
Probably why your wife or gf always has a headache....it's boring and pointless
@Twistingmp4 Жыл бұрын
@@appgirl25 at least we know your man's is gonna get clowned on lol.