MY MUG MELTDOWN | Why Is It So Difficult to Declutter 3 Shelves?! | My Decluttering Journey

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

We are nearly 12,000 strong, not 1,200. My silly brain... 🤣

[@lsheffield6205]

Mira!!!!! Congrats 🎉. And you’re wearing those jeans you found and kept. They look good.

[@leahsjovold8296]

I'm sorry you are struggling and grieving. Remember, this is YOUR house. If you want to get rid of matching mugs, do it. You can serve your guests your other fun mugs. Keep the ones that make you smile instead of the ones that hold you in guilt. 😘 You are doing great, inspiring people and have a whole herd of people behind you cheering you on

[@garmstrong4872]

Exactly! I have never been offended by a host offering me a different mug when I visit them. I am visiting them not their mugs.

[@uhohlilbit09]

I’ve been battling horrible depression and anxiety. I appreciate the last part of your video so much ❤😢

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I'm so glad! Love and hugs to you.

[@silver_csmith]

Oh man I SO feel you with the depression. It’s tough and exhausting!! So glad to see you being so open and realizing your situation and helping yourself. Keep up the good work and keep going Mira! You got this!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🫶🏻❤️🙏🏼

[@yettawat1564]

Way to go! As a mental health therapist, I just want to say that it is perfectly normal to still be grieving two months later. Plus you had two big losses within a short time. You are exactly where you need to be and are taking very good care of yourself. So glad you have a great "off button" for unhelpful thoughts ❤.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much!

[@labradorite8256]

When my Mum passed a friend told me it takes so much longer than you think. My Dad said it too, years and years later, people expected him to "get over it". I would think well fortunate them, they've not lost someone yet, to not know that it takes time.

[@capercat9785]

Grieving takes as long as it takes. There’s no road map or rules. Take your time.

[@fluidartbymdm267]

Mira, you keep me going. Thank you for being so open and willing to talk about the monster in the closet that someday keeps me covered in blankets and cats. When I'm depressed or stuck, I turn to your videos and draw strength from you. ❤❤❤ I know it's only through KZbin comments, but when you are in a meltdown, lean on us for strength. Thank you. Your mug meltdown got me up and moving.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

What a lovely comment. Thank you so very much. I'm glad my videos help you!

[@rebeccasireneimi4551]

Thank you, Mira. You’re not a train wreck at all. You’re a totally relatable and delight inspiration. I am so grateful to be on this journey with you. When I see you do an area, I often will find a similar area within a day or two. I watched your book shelf video a few days ago. Today, I conquered my own bookshelf! Thank you for sharing your journey and helping me along mine.

[@pjenkins733]

Decluttering is a sort of crafting project. And as you progress, you can design and decorate each space with your creative skills, making your home reflect your very own personality.

[@bethirwin7445]

This! Empty space makes room for different projects in a grander scale

[@sflasaint811]

Love this idea.

[@LunarFirefly25]

Indeed! I love to redecorate because of this

[@LC-38338]

SO True!

[@amandasnailtasticnails9657]

I’ve never thought about it this way. 💜

[@manuelakippes806]

You are doing amazing: 2/3 of mugs are gone and you don't need to take care of those anymore. Less stuff means more time for yourself and some crafting. Enjoy your free time with something you love to do. 💖🌹👍

[@beerzzz]

So true

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Yes! Thank you!

[@RaeInTime]

3:25 Thank you for articulating how depression feels so well ❤️❤️❤️ It makes the rest of us feel less alone 🤗🤗🤗

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I'm so glad. Thanks for watching!

[@RitaVernoy]

yes! I let my husband listen to it, he has heard me try and articulate depression to him. You brought us both to tears with your accurate description.I’m glad you crafted! Honestly, if I were in your stage of grief, I would not be attempting any decluttering, I would be happy if I could just manage the areas already done. You are amazing!😊

[@happyluv]

Its so interesting that you feel the need to reach out and share your depression journey. I would think it takes a tremendous amount of inner courage to not only face this battle, but to do it publicly. Bravo to you Mira. One day at a time...one step at a time. I see you getting stronger and more confident with each video.

[@vzimmer1951]

You will never be alone again! You have a whole you tube community!!!!

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so, so much!

[@COLDLAKER]

Truth. Im so glad i am watching your journey!! Keep going warrior!! Youre surrounded by a big circle of love!!

[@michellewanner3921]

“Depression fights dirty”- that just got me. It sure does. Mine ebbs and flows since teens and I’m 50. Meds and therapy helped me. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I'm glad it helped you. Meds and therapy have helped me too. Best wishes.

[@hollyedmiston3332]

What a powerful and inspiring video. A master class in depression/self-care.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Wow, what a huge compliment. Thank you.

[@lindabourcet1349]

Crafting your way through depression sounds like a great healthy, coping mechanism. You are doing so well. Getting out of the house to tour thrift stores is also a good strategy. You hardly bought anything and you got the dopamine hit by looking and handling items.

[@debralaforest9274]

Mira, you are doing so well. Grieving a loss makes even those without clinical depression depressed. Keep working. Also, you are such a creative girl. If you have mugs, wine glasses or jars that please you aesthetically arrange them beautifully, photograph them, then donate them. You can do all sorts of projects with the photo. Your KZbin community does love you and are cheering for you.

[@Hechete]

It's okay, Mira. You're doing great, even though you feel terrible a lot. We're really proud of you and we're glad you know your brain is lying about being unloved! Clearly your KZbin community loves you!!! Also, you totally have permission to break apart sets if they're not serving you or you don't like them. Your space, your rules! Buuuut I have the same problem with my inherited china set. Less the memories, more the familial significance. I'm still building up the willpower to get rid of part of it - the set is too big and I'm not entertaining a party of 12 with china that needs to be dried with a blow dryer, breath, and a white kitten. Especially since it only came with 4 teacups, one of which doesn't hold water... There's a reason they do macrame in therapy centers. Good job crafting your way out of it and not buying much more than your intended purpose!! It feels good to visit your friends, your 'stuff' in the store, but not needing it in your space with you! It's there, but it doesn't need to be too close in your space. I use embroidery/cross stitch for my therapy. It's not as fast a dopamine hit as hitting 'buy', but if you've already got the materials, it feels SO GOOD to MAKE something. And as a bonus, not to spend the money.

[@jackpotdreams2954]

Hi Mira, I hear your pain and it’s hard to think you feel this way. Your videos are so enjoyable and your laugh one of the most infectious. You have a great sense of humor as well! You have lit a desire in me to get rid of stuff that serves no purpose to me. I guess I just wanted to let you know that. I saw another person’s videos and they suggested a box labeled goodwill and just keep it there. When you touch a thing that you know you don’t really want or need, put it in the box. So every morning, I have been clearing out one drawer, one box, or one surface before going off to work. You are the reason I started and I was so happy I did. I feel happy each morning feeling accomplished. Anyway, thank you Mira, for being my inspiration. Just wanted you to know I so look forward to your new videos for more inspiration. Thank you 😊

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Wow, I can't tell you what this comment means to me. Thanks for taking the time to write it!

[@aggieterraglio213]

What a beautiful message you gave us all at the end of your video today. You are so loved too ! Don’t ever forget that .

[@MissFlutterGirl]

Absolutely agree! You matter too Mira, we are here for you! Sending a huge hug your way.

[@smilingjacks83]

❤ both comments, seconding it 😊

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thanks so much! Hugs.

[@gingerjones830]

😂 “the matching police” 😂 Seriously though it is ok to break up sets and only keep what you use. I just learned this too. 😊❤ 2:42

[@jocelynknight9843]

I’ve had clinical depression for years & years and have discovered that crafting is sooooo cathartic & therapeutic 😊 You go, Mira! Thanks for your gentle words of wisdom & encouragement to others with how you do stuff. You are not alone.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

I have been looking forward to the rest of this video since you sent me the first part to watch, so I'm super happy to see it's here and that you are sounding so much happier in it! I cannot wait for our lunch together tomorrow!😊🫶

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Me too! So excited!

[@ritatharp5238]

I love crafting too! I believe it does help with depression.

[@RaeC5280]

I am so impressed with your vulnerability and honesty! I hope this wave subsides soon ❤ As far as the mugs go, definitely do what you feel is best. That said, when I'm a guest at someone's house, rather than getting a matching mug, it is so much more fun to pick out a unique one.

[@LC-38338]

I really LOVED this video because it is so real. I appreciate that yours is NOT one of those videos with a perfect outfit, perfect hair, perfect make up in a really clean house! I identified with everything you said in your gentle, caring voice. Thank you for sharing the reality of your process. For me I find I can go to a zen place when I am sewing, gardening, or painting on wood. The hours pass by very joyfully and I don't even realize I have missed a meal. There is something very therapeutic about making something with your own hands. I was especially touched by your kind words at the end, while you were brushing your hair, you were speaking to my soul. So grateful for your channel!

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Love and hugs to you!

[@toniabarrett7920]

Praying for you. I lost a pet November 2022. My heart aches for you. My mugs don't match. Keep what makes you happy 😊

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much.

[@angeladavenport40]

You are just the most lovely person and you make me feel peaceful as you share your journey! Thank you for being so authentic and vulnerable!!

[@johnwolfe2616]

Sue Wolfe- Hi, Mira! I understand what you're saying about crafting. Actually, we use another part of our brain when we create. I think that's why it helps to "shut off" those negative things that creep into our minds. The focus I use to be creative takes precedence over other thoughts. Plus, I'm accomplishing something positive! Don't worry about breaking up sets, keep what is useful for You, and get rid of the rest. Keep moving forward and give yourself a big pat on the back! 👍💪😁❤

[@jillh.9617]

Thanks for your insight about depression. I’m learning more and more about it in hopes of being able to understand those around me who struggle with it.

[@kidjayjay2772]

Yes, I craft too😊 I make cards, books, jewellery actually I'd rather craft than do anything else because it gives me that happy high, and my grief fades away for a while. I made my dining room into a craft room 😂😂 my favourite room in my home.

[@kathyaakananabluebird]

Adjust you mug shelving to fit your most used larger (Stanley?) mugs within easy reach and off the counter. Loved your crafting time! Good totake a creative break. Bravo for keeping going on the declutter.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I didn't even notice they were adjustable, LOL. Thanks for pointing it out!

[@cassyharrison3592]

I think stepping away and doing a little crafting, with a purpose for it too, was just the right thing to do. And congrats on going through the mug cabinet...it looks good!

[@Raxx777]

Thank you for sharing all the ups and downs- stay strong and best wishes

[@kerry0411]

Lovely Mira, you're such a generous soul with your postscript, even though you're finding life tough. You did great on the mugs!! 2 shelves cleared! Take care, sunshine. We're all rooting for you 🎉🎉🎉

[@debfrysinger]

So glad you were able to go to the store to help pull yourself up. In addition to your decluttering videos (very inspiring and motivating), I would like to see your crafting. I am not crafty at all and am so impressed with your creativity. P. S. The mug cupboard looks great! Most importantly of all, over the crafts and even the decluttering, is your compassion in helping others who are struggling.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much!

[@AprilJohnson34]

walking or going outside is my "therapy". I do that when I get "stuck" like you are talking about. Thanks for such an honest video. It made me tear up at the end... we have all been through this and you are giving a voice to it. 💜

[@lorettalouvros207]

The fact that you mention your hair made me smile so big. I have also given up trying with my hair due to depression. My go to is putting it in an elastic and leaving it for a week. Yes showering is hard as well. Depression sucks the life out of you. Who cares what your hair looks like? Anyway it’s nice to know that I’m not alone. Thanks Mira❤ And good job on the mugs and the craft project👏👏

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you. Hugs to you!

[@nataE-845]

Dear Mira, Your sentiments near the end of this video really stand out to me. You are helping so many, while at the same time healing yourself. You’ve got such wisdom to share, and it’s lovely to see you becoming braver. Sending out love when you’re in the midst of a struggle is one of the most healing things you can do. Thank you!!! 🤗💐

[@hannahkennedy2259]

Hang in there. You’re doing good.

[@kayvandermeer8994]

Iam convinced that crafting is hugely beneficial for depression. I crochet myself and it has been a lifesaver for me. I have huge respect for how you are handling yours. It is ok to throw in the towel when you need to and pick it up later. You are so incredibly insightful when it comes to mental health. Just keep swimming! ❤

[@kathrynkress9573]

What an amazing description of depression! You are not alone! You are doing the best you can and that's all you can ask of yourself! 💜

[@AlexisHiemis]

I totally get why not being able to decide about the matching plates and cups got you down so much. To me, these matching sets represent a lot. For once, my mother always valued 'the good dishes' and every woman in my family has a set of matching cups and plates for whole family dinners (12 pieces of each). So I took on this idea that it's necessary from my family. I also feel that my mom enjoys it and this was always something to impress her even though I don't actually need a set of extra dishes. I also kinda don't want them. I just want to feel loved for doing what my family expects of me, and since I was never really valued in my family, I tried to project a likeable version of myself to them. Also, matching plates and cups seem adult, sophisticated, upper class, something I have often dreamed of being. Someone who is confident and happy and well-adjusted. But I am nothing of those things and it was hard to get rid of that idea that if I just had the right stuff, I could be that person. But actually, I like pretty things, but I just don't care that much if they are matching. I can't bring myself to always dress well and ooze confidence and portray myself as sophisticated and cool. I'm just a silly human blob, and no dishes will change that. So I slowly started to abandon that feeling that I need them and have been selling and donating pieces. But it's hard. And when I give away the things, it seems like I'm admiting that I'm not that person that people would rather see. I'm giving away the many possible ways to portray myself to stick to one version. And as someone with ADHD who really loves all the possebilities, being stuck to one version of myself feels frustrating. But I can't be all of those versions of myself and better to shed the ones that are not me then the ones I am. The people who REALLY love me don't expect me to be this picture-perfect version of a human. I have a hard time accepting that (also live-long depression, recovering from alcoholism ect.) but the people who love me will still do so when they only get served fast-food on paper plates. Thanks for letting us see that part of you, even if it's a sad and exhausted and depressed part, it's still you and we like you as you are. Maybe it's weird, but I don't worry about you because I have a feeling you are on a difficult journey where there are downs and ups, but you are still on that journey. You are not stuck, you are still going forward, learning about yourself, and processing. I think it's good that you are not just keeping away from stores. Maybe it seems counter-intuitive to some, but for me, if I forced myself to not do something at all, it always backfired. Instead, if I drink alcohol or browse for stuff online, I try to tap into my feelings. It's okay to browse and admire all the pretty things. It's okay to realize that I'm sad because there are so many versions of me and my home out there and I just can't have them all. It's okay that I'm upset and I'm soothing myself right now if it's temporary. By testing my limits, I see where I am and where I am not, what I'm still struggling with. As long as I don't slide back fully, I have progressed from where I was.

[@smilingjacks83]

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[@sassyslsgrl]

Great comment...I too am a silly human blob with ADHD that had to let go not just of stuff but the mental junk tied to the stuff that had more to do with other people and unrealistic expectations I had of myself than what actually served me.❤

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I appreciate this wonderful comment. I love it. Thank you for taking the time to write it.

[@LadyPelikan]

Yes, why can't I just choose one style and be that person? It's exhausting to have enough things for all me:s and know what goes with what and which day I want to put on what (plus, I hate shopping, which has saved me so much money and space, but leaves me with just jeans and t-shirts...)

[@beverleytaylor5859]

This video was such a help to me in recognising my own depression that I have been denying and reassuring others that ' I am ok' just to keep them happy. Thanks Mira. Sending love to you xxx

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Wow, I am so glad! I also relate to being in denial. I have done that a lot too. I will tell myself I'm not that bad and later realize I was that bad. Hope you are doing better. Hugs.

[@jenniferlashley2081]

I appreciate your vulnerability and honesty in your videos. It helps to have someone put into words what depression feels like and show what it looks like. Your loving words of affirmation are a gift to your viewers. I'm so proud of you!

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Wow, thanks so much!

[@Minimadaa]

“Toddlers are really cute, but…” I really appreciate the long pause after a rough morning getting 2 toddlers out the door. One is screaming at me while the other has their hand in the toilet 😅 you are right, they have a lot to learn!! And don’t we all. Wishing you energy and positivity in these dark times, I know them well myself and I am amazed at all you do amidst depression.

[@pattiefulton4111]

I recently faced the same quandary of whether or not to keep cups and saucers that I don’t like the shape of and will NEVER drink from. I decided to break up the set so someone else can enjoy them and I can get them out of my space. It was a breakthrough moment for me! And I haven’t run out of cups to drink from since.😊

[@ddcjenn]

Such a beautifully vulnerable vlog Mira. I admire you and your ability to put into words what it’s like to have depression. I (and many) unfortunately know what you mean. I’m glad you have some tools to help you through, we’re all here for you to support you with likes and comments when you’re down ❤

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much. I can't tell you what your kind comment and encouragement means to me.

[@joannephillippi4274]

Ps: "precious " cracked me up!!!!

[@lilianagwinn294]

I admire you so much ! You are so very intelligent. The way you express yourself makes it very easy to understand about depression and the journey you are going through

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you!

[@morgynegarber8003]

You come across as real and genuine. That is what draws me to your channel. No one cares if your cups match your plates. Grieve how you need to grieve. Can't wait to see how far you go.

[@KarynDavis-vg4nm]

I'm just here to say that I am in awe of the way you are able to notice what is happening, and to know something you can do to make yourself feel a little better. I wish 2 months was long enough for the grieving process. It definitely is not. I lost my mom and a beloved dog within 4 months of each other, in 2008. I am now at a point where I can talk about the dog without crying, and laugh at some of the memories he left me with. I doubt I will ever stop missing my mom, but the grief is not as stabbing and debilitating as it once was. Happy memories come along all the time. I love that you are giving yourself grace, and time, and doing some crafts on that beautiful table. And look at all that space in your cups cabinet!! Awesome! And, just a possible note that may help you as you work on your mom's house. My sister and I cleared out our mom's house to sell, and from the looks of it she hadn't thrown anything away since 1965. We talked ourselves through the guilt associated with donating or trashing her things by remembering that these were things she wanted to keep for her entire life, and she had achieved that. Once we realized that, it was so much easier for us to deal with it all. I wish you the best, as always dear Mira, and continue to send you loving vibes. Looks like you are receiving that from so many people. You have inspired more people than you realize!

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much! I appreciate your kind words.

[@mariaj7322]

You did all that in ONLY 5 months??!!!! Wow you are doing an amazing job, truly. I appreciate that you let us in when you are not feeling well, sometimes is hard to share but I appreciate that you see us as your community a safe place ❤

[@malanegallagher2219]

Just watching you crafting and painting was relaxing for me. I am so glad you have something that allows you to move through your depression a bit. Creativity is such a great coping tool.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Way more than 1200. More like 12,000!!! You'll probably want to do a pinned comment to correct that because I'm sure a lot of people will be confused. You need to give yourself all the credit you deserve. Almost 12,000!!! That's incredible! Goooo Mira!❤❤❤

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

OMG, why is my brain like this. 🤣 Thank you!

[@colettenewell4634]

Oh my goodness i laughed at the heinous crime comment for not keeping matching cups. I got rid of my matching cups because i was not using them ever. You are astonishingly honest. Thank you for sharing your journey. I know you are helping us by being so open and honest about your challenges and feelings. Hoping things look better for you soon.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you!

[@lucindalincoln2956]

You are always making progress !

[@andeebee2530]

Sweet Mira, I love you right back 🤗

[@supermariokartful]

I’ve found that folding/hanging and putting away my clean laundry helps my brain shut off a little bit.

[@catheriner2615]

You've come on so much since I since you first started your channel Mira. I know you're had an extremely hard time lately and I think you're handling things really well. You've continued your journey of decluttering, and gone with the flow on the low days, which is admirable. They come and go for us all, some are more prevalent than others but it's all part of the grieving process. I think you're amazing for sharing your personal details with us and I hope things become easier for you as the year proceeds. I also like that you are still finding time to do the things you enjoy too. Live to you at this difficult time. I'm sure you feel the support you have behind you from your KZbin family. ❤❤

[@kristinapersson2313]

Dear Mira!, sorry because of my bad Englisch 🙏🙏🙏. I send to you a lot of greatings from my ❤️🥰. I am sitting in my kitchen and See you nice film.Thank you , that you speak about your situation!I would say, that I am be to understand a lot of your situations ,because my Situation is nearly like yourself ! I wish you a very nice day and Step by Step for all what you will do !🙏🙏🙏🇩🇪👏👏👏👍👍👍🥰🍀🌈🙏🙏🙏🌸🌻🌼🌺

[@carolynreed2688]

Sewing shuts my brain off BUT my room is such a mess. The room causes me a lot of stress BUT not enough to compel me to do something!

[@Cathleen-jo7vu]

​@@carolynreed2688Hi 👋 dare you to set a 20 min timer and work on it, you don't have to get anything done even if you just touch the things and see what you have, the hardest part is getting started. I am about to set a 20 min myself and work on something I've been putting off.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much. I appreciate all of your support!

[@judithclughen8955]

Exactly what I wanted to say to you Mira much more articulately than I could have managed. I also think you are amazing. Love to you x

[@dianneperry2903]

I just read all your SWEET comments and you have 100% of ALL of our support. Jesus, we ALL LOVE MIRA and we know that YOU LOVE HER MORE than all of us put together. We ask you to be with her, let her feel your LOVE today and all of the days that she feels unloved. Mira, you just take your time on this decluttering journey. We ALL SUPPORT you. You're doing a GREAT job!!! We all look forward to many more inspirational videos!!!

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you!

[@sallieredman7349]

I’m so sorry. Depression sounds terrible. Crafting sounds like a great thing to do. Creativity soothes us. Thank you for being brave.

[@annarussell3751]

Mira, I love your videos. I know what you are talking about. I don’t craft enough, either. I’m working and trying to help my parents.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much! I wish you all the best. I know it can be hard to manage your life when helping your parents too.

[@dianawells1308]

Mira, you are a beautiful human being. Thank You for sharing both your vulnerability and strength. You are an inspiration for us all. One Step, one layer at a time❤️‍🩹

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much!

[@ericaparten8332]

Get rid of them if you don’t use them. No one cares if you have matching mugs

[@marystrenke3050]

I agree 😊 there is no matching police except in our heads❤

[@sflasaint811]

I prefer different mugs as long as they are the size I want.

[@Smittenhamster]

Agreed. - Signed by someone who doesn't have matching mugs either.

[@Conval-wi5eh]

I once heard the phrase "Don't be afraid to break up sets." If you are not using parts of a set, it's okay to let them go :)

[@vicm7870]

I don't think I know anyone with matching mugs. Maybe two that match at the most but yeah, no one cares. Just keep the ones you like.

[@suerogerts4330]

mira don't apologise for talking about your losses we're here and happy to be you sounding board will listen and not complain its far healthier to talk about it than to bottle it up and if we can be a small part of your healing then we'll feel we've done a bit to help you can talk the hind legs off a donkey as we say in the UK but we'll just listen god bles stay strong and if you need to talk then we'll be here 😊😊😊😊😊

[@marybethtozer7660]

YES!, Mira keep sharing.❤

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much!

[@giuliabersellini7070]

I am so incredibly proud of you, Mira!

[@carolynwardle6913]

Painting is my therapy..The feel of the brush and the mix of the paint is very soothing. Creating something with my hands is very relaxing. Well…when it goes right!

[@michelleperea7407]

Hiking and walking with my dog and family are therapeutic activities for me. Nature seems to be what makes me happy. A little sunshine 🌞 on those hikes does wonders for my body and soul.

[@carolynbulson2081]

I hope you know how amazing and brave you are. Showing your depression allowed me to let go of some of my sadness over having to move my mom into assisted living. I also have depression and an anxiety disorder. Actually, a number of anxiety disorders. You give me hope and strength that I can come out of bad spots and, like you, take pleasure in my crafts and find it in me to laugh sometimes too. Thank you SO much for posting this.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Wow, thank you!

[@bicho.cosmico]

Thank you for the courage to be transparent and let us identify with your vulnerability. I already had meltdowns too 😢

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Hugs to you. Thank you so much for watching and commenting.

[@shurryma]

Can't wait for your to reach the stage of painting or staining your front door! 💪

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

At the very least it needs a good scrub! LOL

[@livinginmynow6380]

I'm so proud of you for making progress. It doesn't matter if it's a little or a lot of progress as long as it's progress. Keep going Mira❤️.

[@alexandrahunt8895]

Well done on decluttering your cup and mug cupboard. The shelves are adjustable. It might be a good idea to move a shelf so you have height enough for your taller Stanley type mugs that you’ve put on the counter beneath that cupboard. xxx

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I didn't even realize they are adjustable, LOL. Thanks for pointing it out.

[@alexandrahunt8895]

No problem! Like so many of us here, I’m glad to be a tiny bit of help on your very worthwhile journey.

[@rhondap8683]

Thank you for this video Mira. We see you and we love you too, you matter! ❤

[@TypicalTGreen]

You accomplished a lot! 👍 Music and burining candles are very "out of my head, in the moment" relaxers for me.💜

[@mjbh1962]

Everything you said today rang true with me. I'm climbing out now. Try to remember that it's only temporary! Today might be dark but tomorrow could present some unexpected brightness! Make sure to keep yourself open to those joys--however small they might be. I must tell you that mentioning Cupid's favorite food was a corn dog made me smile :) Please give yourself credit for all the 'passes" at the thrift store! I think the busy hands of crafting can be great therapy. Your insight continues to inspire me. Be impressed with YOU!

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much. You're lovely to reach out even in the midst of your struggle. Keep on climbing!

[@biancaprior]

Great job gorgeous Mira! Another inspiring video. Another full trunk too.🥰

[@dianerichard5237]

❤❤❤you can keep plates with no mug. I had the entire dish set. My mom and I bought. (She is pass.) I finally let the tea sets go to Goodwill. It is fine now I have extra space.

[@marije8562]

Crafting and reading are what my psychologist and my best friend's psychologist recommended to us. I think they also cited what you mentioned about your brain being able to focus on one thing, but I also think it's so incredibly human to just sit down and make something. We are an old species, and our ancestors made tools to survive and later made toys for their kids and art for themselves and their community and told stories around the campfire. We need food and water to live, but art and stories and human connection are what makes life worth living.

[@laurawilson6389]

❤❤ You are loved❤❤.

[@nivianb9936]

You are so brave to show us this and i want you to know that you ARE LOVABLE and if we were in the same country I would love to come over and just sit and read with you or talk about crafting. I don't experience depression but my brother does and you talking about it makes it easier for me to understand him. Thank you

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I'm glad I can help you understand your brother more. Thanks for commenting!

[@PLem573]

I try to get busy when I start feeling stuck. I’ll clean house, organize, or make crafts! It just feels good to create!

[@melaniemonai5234]

Thank you for the message at the end, I needed it ❤ I love you too Mira

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Hugs!

[@Aloha4Maui]

Oh, the matching police has come into my head, too 😬😂 I send them on their way🥳

[@ashcraft555]

Thank you for your honesty. I'm where you are in many ways and I'm working very hard on being kind to myself when I do something to ease my depression in the moment even though I know I shouldn't. I know I'm still making progress but I beat myself up for every purchase, every bag of Doritos, every time I sleep instead of doing the 70,000 things I know I should be doing. It helps to see you and know that I find it really reasonable for you to do something like this. It puts it in perspective that I should give myself the grace that I give one of my parasocial besties. We are getting there and it is ok to stop struggle and to still do what we need to do to cope sometimes. 💜

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Yes, I identify so much with this! I'm in a self-rebuking loop and have been telling myself that I would not have an ounce of judgement for any friend doing the same in my situation. One of my goals is to treat myself like I would treat any friend. We'll work on this together. Thanks so much for commenting.

[@mixmix3499]

I love to crochet. It gets me through. I wish i lived close, i want to be your friend. We are friends. Give yourself grace, dont be hard on Mira if she has a small moment of breakdown. As you said, visit but dont stay. That is the best advice ive heard in a long time. Love love that outfit you had on at the end of the video. Youre beautiful, and you are a beautiful person. 😊

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you so much! Love you!

[@AgnesVandenBosch]

I have 7 grandkids and they each have a scrapbook that I am working on. When they graduate from high school they will get their scrapbook. I can easily lose track of time when I am in ‘scrapbooking’ world 😊. That is one of my creative outlets. I also like to refurbish items to sell and work in the garden. You are doing great Mira! It is important to take time to do something that gives you joy. I’m thankful you have the wisdom to know that that is what you needed to do.

[@sarah3941]

Amazing decluttering today, and the frame and jewellery holders look amazing. You are amazing and beautiful and you matter to I us too. Love to you xxx

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

Thank you! Hugs.

[@DesireeDAlessandro]

I cannot believe your final note on hair. It hit me so hard... I'm losing hair like crazy and have had abnormal bloodwork come back and have numerous doctor visits scheduled... It's been weeks of losing clumps in my hair brush, shower, etc. Im so scared but I'm doing the best I can to get in a path of recovery.. I'm so afraid I'm going to be bald or patchy.. It became worse after Flop, my sweet little rabbit died 2 weeks ago. I feel like grief is destroying my body.

[@smilingjacks83]

❤❤

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I am so sorry, Desiree. I hope the doctors are able to get to the bottom of this for you. You'll be in my thoughts.

[@amygriff00]

Oh dear Mira. Crafting is healthy. I try to make it a goal to craft 2 hours a week. Crafting actually helped me to seek out help for my depression. Even my therapist helps me to promote the crafting time because it is self care.

[@libbyecheverria730]

That ending was one of the most comforting and loving things I've heard. I've struggled with pretty bad depression for most of my adult life, and I'm going through profound, debilitating grief right now. I love you too. You matter, deeply. ❤

[@MultiCatPass]

Love your videos, Mira. I consider there are vast legions of crafters who are staying sane and coping with stress by doing our hobbies. I've been a needlepointer for about 35 years, and additionally started beading and crocheting for the last 20 years. And my crafting supplies de-cluttering has been on going for the past 3 years! We just gotta keep going.

[@jenniferthurman1282]

One day at a time. The journey is hard. Do what you can, when you can. We are here cheering you on.

[@jillneer7305]

A year ago I started watching KZbin tutorials on watercolor painting. Bought myself some inexpensive supplies & I have had such fun painting!!!!

[@margaretmcnarry4298]

Mira, you are loved, you are not alone. As a fellow lifelong depression sufferer I feel for you. I wish I could just reach out and give you a big hug, however these words will have to suffice. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable, bringing mental health issues out into the open is so important for you, me, fellow sufferers, everyone! I find when it’s so hard to carry on that painting helps me - whether on ceramics or on canvas. It’s almost a zen feeling, getting lost in the creative process, isn’t it? And when you emerge with a renewed energy, it’s amazing what we can accomplish! I have now scheduled two days a week for these activities so I always have something to look forward to, but when I need more than that I just sit down and do. Mira, you keep on being you, and you are loved as you are. You are not alone, never, never.

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I appreciate your comment. Thank you!

[@0497311]

Du bist nicht allein, fühl dich verstanden. Die Beschreibung der Depression ist sehr zutreffend. Auch das Kaufen von Dingen, die ich nicht wirklich brauche, kenne ich gut. Es hilft mir, wenn ich die Sachen zurückgeben kann. Oder auch spenden. Dann kommt nicht noch das schlechte Gewissen dazu, wieder schwach gewesen zu sein. ❤ Gaby

[@PeelingAwaytheClutter]

I appreciate this lovely comment. Thank you!

[@jenniferbaker5167]

I love that you showed the full circle here. You didn't give up, you just moved on to something to lift you up a little, then went back to it. Crafting does that for me too. A little creativity and sense of accomplishment. Are you enjoying some of your new found clothes? I rediscovered some of my old clothes recently and it really lifted my spirits (and I didn't have to buy anything new!). Sending love to you today! January is a tough one for many. It snows here too and I am missing my garden this time of year and am feeling very confined inside. Looking forward and daydreaming of what I will be planting this year makes me feel hopeful.

[@LWin-ps8jp]

I would give up anxiety and panic attacks. Depression is horrible but the anxiety makes it worse for me. Hopefully you'll feel better soon.❤ Distraction is my go to also. Sometimes it helps and other times it doesn't. Keep going love your not alone. ❤

[@hannahheavens4932]

Thank you so much for sharing your struggles, i have been through some dark times in my life too and also have ADD so understand some of your pain. Sending love and hugs xx

[@gnomeoneshome]

I’m so proud of you for taking the time to rest and recouperate with some crafting! It was lovely to listen to your thought processes while you did it as well - from what you were making, to the struggles you were having about the frame left behind, and at the end when you were being kind and loving to yourself and others. You’re doing such a great job! As for the mugs, one of the best bits of declutering advice I ever saw was that it’s allowed to split sets! You do not need to keep things just because they match. So go ahead and split those mugs and plates! Whoo! Also, as a fellow depression-haver, I really appreciated the time you took to show yourself on the couch and explain what was happening. I feel like that’s very informative to others, and also validating for people who may be experiencing the same thing. That blanket looked so cuddly too! Have you ever tried a weighted blanket? I have one for when I get over stimulated or burn out and find it really helps me. My dog also loves it cause it has glass beads so is quite cool (but not too cool!), so she loves lying on top of it while I’m underneath it. Only pain is that it’s so heavy if I ever want to move it from the couch to the bed! Oh! And you asked about ways to share pictures. One way I know of, that a few youtubers I follow use (mostly gamers and crafters), is Discord. It’s sort of like a forum in the sense you can set up different Tabs for different themes, and different threads too. For example, a lot of youtubers discords I am in have a tab for pet pictures, crafting updates, Cooking/food pictures etc. And also, of course, an update channel for when new videos are posted on youtube! That way both you and viewers can post in the same place :D