My Porn Addiction Is Destroying My Life

My Porn Addiction Is Destroying My Life
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[@iiJaRhonNaDeS]

99% of grown men and woman would never have this level of self awareness, honesty, and accountability as this 18 year old kid. Respect.

[@perry6712]

Women regardless of all ages never take accountability

[@imshaunnurse]

speak for yourself

[@dtulip58]

@@perry6712 who hurt you

[@terrycrews1760]

Self awareness is great but offers little value if you do not have solutions in place to your problem and the self discipline to consistently apply those solutions as seem in this example. It’s almost as if all the awareness in the world meant nothing since he still has not managed to overcome vs a guy who has little self awareness but has the self discipline and consistently applies it. The guy with self discipline but little self awareness is better off.

[@Passportbros8]

@@perry6712 you are speaking the truth.

[@ChromeMan04]

I feel like this is an addiction not talked about enough

[@livelovely4681]

Sex sells. Anyone who talks about it is called a "prude" so that's one thing 💀

[@GetFitPhil]

You get called weird if you talk about it... and who are you really gonna tell this to. Not nobody you know.

[@djentisnotagenre_]

yeah theres lots of reasons. it goes against the “sex positive” narrative, a lot of people dont believe it’s possible or think you’re a creep for experiencing it, it mostly affects men etc. the last one isn’t really true because it affects a lot of peoples relationships and there are women that are porn addicts ofc but men are the main consumers of porn. there definitely needs to be more awareness on porn addiction because its way too prevalent and too dangerous to not talk about.

[@eggyeggbean]

Yeah man. I joined a support group and there’s literally waves and waves of guys coming in with a similar story of being hooked to porn. But no one really talks about it out in the world.

[@FLAM1nWaffl3x]

If it's talked about, it's in a miserably positive light

[@sabrinay9430]

Loneliness fueled my porn usage. I finally stopped but my guard is up. Whoever says porn can be healthy is fooling themselves. It's never okay. Never.

[@melanieok1100]

My heart goes out to you. You are not alone

[@ChicagoMillingCo.]

How did you solve your loneliness?

[@meows8603]

Truth. It's a sickness and harms our spirit. I still struggle sometimes but have mostly overcome the addiction. It helps so much to stay active, have healthy interactions, find things that really bring joy to your heart and you won't feel you want or need it anymore.

[@perc3136]

Anything is okay in moderation

[@meows8603]

@@perc3136 sorry but that statement is just wrong and you're in denial apparently. According to you smoking in moderation is ok when it's obviously not, even eating babies in moderation would be ok according to that statement lol. Por n changes the way people view each other and causes some sick fetishes. It's not ok idc what any one says. It's an epidemic and even children are being exposed to it. It shouldn't exist. You're honestly sick for thinking otherwise and not considering how other people are affected by actions.

[@JJJ-zf8ri]

Porn has absolutely destroyed my generation. It’s heartbreaking. It has destroyed real relationships, and any inclination for people to better themselves. It is truly vile and evil and I commend anyone that frees themselves from it, myself included.

[@LBgravystreams]

a crime agaisnt humanity

[@SD-pi9co]

🤣

[@quasardude]

@@SD-pi9co what’s so funny? If you’re laughing at this you’re probably someone who’s caught amongst porn addiction yourself and don’t even realise it. Or at least you’re too immature to realise the gravity that pornography has now on entire generations. Sad.

[@SD-pi9co]

@@quasardude 🤣🤣🤣🤣Porn addiction 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Porn is the devil 😂 You're funny

[@Mrs.TJTaylor]

Yikes! I hate to hear that.

[@Ajay4kay]

I’m 37. It took me years, a divorce and intense accountability and recovery groups to finally overcome my porn addiction. I’m now fully sober and leading other men out of their bondage.

[@DominickSpano]

I am the same age. I don't have a porn addiction, but got into it to much at various points. When we were younger porn wasn't accessible. Playboy magazine whatever. Not is it like a cup of coffeee it isn't hard to get at all. That is a big part of the reason.

[@davidjd123]

she divorced u over porn? can u elaborate?

[@abemartinez9623]

I’m struggling now at 31. I agree it was harder to get as a kid. But it’s insanely easy to see the most vile stuff now. I did calm down from my 20s . But it has ruined my sex life an even started to affect my wrist from all the years. It’s embarrassing an I try to cut it. Been telling myself this is the last weekend I watch it . For the last ten years I’ve been saying that. How’d you overcome it??

[@F59x]

Did someone say... Bondage 😏

[@Tomlin80iu]

Art. Honest question. Because I have issues as well. I’m assuming that you still masturbate, just not with pornography? That’s always been my concern. I can’t imagine cutting off everything cold turkey.

[@JoshHitti]

Quitting porn will change your life, there is ZERO doubt about that. My life drastically changed after quitting for good and I will never go back again. It will help reshape your view of women and yourself, increase your drive and determination, and bring you so much more satisfaction in life. To the person being interviewed, you got this, bro. You’re so young, conquer it now and your life will be incredible.

[@toma3447]

Did it improve the quality of your relationships?

[@JoshHitti]

@@toma3447 100%, especially romantic relationships.

[@perry6712]

Shouldn't say this but after you said beat it now you should say no pun intended lol

[@JoshHitti]

@@perry6712 touché 😅

[@007Nox]

Pls help me

[@QueenMspeaks]

As a young woman, pornography addiction is also among women. I’m overcoming my pornography addiction and I salute everyone else that’s overcoming their addiction!

[@ilizhof]

Same. I’m proud of you!

[@turtels6764]

I'm with you, sister!

[@QueenMspeaks]

@@turtels6764 We shall overcome!!

[@Dark_Angel555]

still dont get how pornography addiction works with women ... if you find a guy who can give you multiple orgasms and have sex with you 3 times per day or however long you want ... would you still watch porn ? cause so far I imagine only girls who for some reason don't want sex from guys/girls anymore become pornography "addicts" ... not the ones who have non stop sex and fullfil all their fantasies in real life

[@outseteddy6306]

Yes I think right now, sadly, women are hardly mentioned in this addiction. Slowly though I think those who are recovering are understanding women are suffering from it too. I guess I understand why women are hardly focused on because the majority of porn addicts are men but still. Anyway, God be with you and I hope you’ve made progress.

[@Matt-nq4du]

I was addicted, I quit cold turkey when I got with a real woman and couldn’t get it up. It took months to get to normal but now feel better than I ever have before. It suppresses your masculinity in so many ways. Never again!

[@keemoify]

How did you fix it if i may ask? Nofap and no porn and over time it got better?

[@Cymricus]

this is when most people realize it i think

[@jamesdecker4166]

@@Cymricus Yea this was me too. Beating it a few times a day is enough to completely destroy your sex drive

[@Theman-mk6xt]

This happened w me and my ex. Currently working it out bc there’s a lot of love. But couldn’t get it up when it was our first time, embarrassing, we’ve had sex a few time but it keeps happening so I’m on my mission to stop masturbating

[@C-Rod7x]

This is why I stopped porn too! After going thru with 2 girls, and not being able to get it up for either of them. I knew the porn viewing had to stop!

[@calibrial]

His level of self-awareness and insight is beyond what some people ever get to in life. Way to go.

[@nt3833]

Agree. He did not sound like an 18 year old.

[@nchinth]

heck it took me 25 years! but i quit cold turkey 2yrs ago. he can do it; it takes discipline.

[@ireneangelucci3733]

Yeah, literally. Impressive

[@terrycrews1760]

Self awareness and insight is great but offer little value if you do not have solutions in place to your problem and the self discipline to consistently apply those solutions as see in this example. It’s almost as if all the awareness in the world mean nothing since he still has not managed to overcome vs a guy who has little self awareness but has the self discipline and consistently applies it.

[@pottersmiles7238]

*never

[@nt3833]

I think porn is one of the most destructive and difficult addictions to overcome. This young man has a lot of personal insight and is well spoken for only being 18. He recognizes he has a problem, which is an important first step. I wish him the best.

[@williamerazo3921]

Lol. Drug addiction is worst. No one is stealing money and property for porn

[@rickysantana5658]

@@williamerazo3921 You have no idea

[@williamerazo3921]

@@rickysantana5658 show me porn related crimes

[@mikemayo4812]

@@rickysantana5658 Porn is free. If you're paying money for porn, you're a fool.

[@missourivalleyrails]

@@williamerazo3921 there’s been study’s that your brain reacts to porn the same way as drugs as it is just as destructive as drugs.

[@richardclark2495]

A lot of addicts are watching this video. My addiction started almost 13 years ago, when I was 11. I just hit my one year anniversary of being sober on February 6th, 2024. Here are several things that I had to learn in order to live healthier and begin true recovery from this addiction. Hopefully this helps somebody. 1) The opposite of addiction is true, human connection. In order to kick this, you can't do it alone. You need to open up to a few people you trust. Every time you struggle, you need to tell them about it, even if you've already relapsed. Learn to truly connect with them. 2) Bad habits thrive in the dark, but die in the light. Look at every aspect of your addiction. Write it all down. How are you relapsing? When? Where? How often? How much time and money have you spent on it? You need to then read what you have written down to one or more of those people you trust. You gotta kill all of the secrets. Addicts frequently do other dishonest things to support their addiction. You have to share anything else immoral you've done that relates to the addiction. 3) Every time you relapse, afterward you need to write down what happened. Write down what happened in the minutes, hours, or days before the relapse. You need to write down what you told yourself to justify the bad behavior. For me, I frequently told myself that I deserved to have a terrible life, so this relapse would only help my life be terrible. I told myself I deserved the pain and anguish. Look for patterns in your thought processes and relapses. Is there anything there that you can avoid or fix? 4) You're an addict. Frequently, addicts of pornography have other addictions, like to food, spending money, video games, online videos, etc. Do you? Start to avoid those. Misusing those things will only lead to relapses with pornography. 5) Instead of telling yourself, "I don't want to relapse," tell yourself "I want to be healthy." If you tell yourself "Don't relapse. Don't relapse. Don't relapse," over and over again, your mind will only hear, "Relapse. Relapse. Relapse." Instead of focusing mentally on what you don't want to do, focus on what you do want to do. 6) Find things about yourself that you are proud of. Make a written list of them. And this isn't pride in the Biblical sense. This is looking for the good that God has put in you. For example, some of the things that I first saw in myself were that I kept on striving for good, that I could make people laugh, and that God had blessed me with an interest and talent in poetry. You've repeated the things that you hate about yourself over and over. It is time to balance the scale with the good things about yourself. 7) Make it a goal to live healthy physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, spiritually, socially, and intellectually. Anything unhealthy about those aspects of your life? Strive to remove them from your life. Strive to live healthy. I'm still struggling with this one. I eat still impulsively eat like garbage sometimes. Just before writing this I ate some brownies with a couple scoops of ice cream, and I probably shouldn't have. 8) Don't white-knuckle it. If you're feeling vulnerable or triggered, reach out to your support team and then do something else, even if it's 2 am. I lost so many battles because I told myself if I would just lay in bed long enough I'd fall asleep and wouldn't have to worry about it anymore, but it's difficult to get your mind to shut up. Find a way to resolve the trigger in a healthy way. 9) Look at the next few days. Are there any situations coming up in which you might be more vulnerable, like under extra stress or being alone for long periods of time? Those are survival days. You have to make a plan that you can keep for that day (or days). What time will you wake up? What will you eat? What will you do? How often will you check-in with your support team about how you're doing? What unhealthy habits do you need to especially avoid? Then, share your plan in a written/typed out form with your support team so that you're accountable to them. And this is only scratching the surface. But, just know that there is hope. You've got a lot of work to do. You're not broken. You're wounded, but you're still alive. Also, you're not alone. There are millions of us fighting alongside you, your brothers and sisters. I love you. You got this. God is with you.

[@evameeks5346]

So good! I’ve been sober from Alchohol for three years and I’ve white knuckled majority of my sobriety and it’s been so hard. Just recently I’ve started going to a support group and it’s changed my life! And once I switched my perspective to wanting to be healthy vs not relapsing it changed so much.

[@iandouglas4992]

Great comment, thanks.

[@ifgenia]

So much wisdom at only 24yo. Suffering can bring the best (or sometimes the worst) in people. And you sir have many insights that cloud be life changing for others.

[@wonderPonel]

Thank you for your comment. I can now see some Patterns in my day to day Life that leads me right back to porn. I can go two weeks without it and "out of knowhere" I ended up watching it for hours everyday again. You're right, I've been using videogames, foods and videos for many hours and hours everyday as an escape. I thought they're separeted problems to porn, but they're not. It's can be a rabbit hole where one addiction leads you right back to the other. I have to find fulfillment outside of that. I'm in a bad moment in Life where I'm Alone most of the time, everyday, and even going out for a walk feels hard. But I'm sure I will stand above my addictions soon. Thank you for your comment again, it gave me a lot to think.

[@iandouglas4992]

@@wonderPonel hang in there brother you got this!

[@numero-_-uno]

28 virgin ,broke and living at my moms house .... trauma n bullying led me to porn addiction .... but i came out of it and in less than a year i ll start an awesome life !!!!

[@ChromeMan04]

I’m in the same boat brother 😢

[@gastonangelini8352]

Keep fighting it's worth it. I started at age 33 my recovery and trust me , it will change your life for the better

[@jesusuvalle]

You are gonna wait a year to start an awesome life? Start now and you will get far in a month and become unrecognizable in a year step it up

[@nathanhensn8717]

30 now, kicked it at 28, thanks to God/Jesus for me. Changed my life on a whole. You'll be amazed on how your life changes.

[@Wardelicious]

What did you do?!

[@eldin8910]

I came forward with my dad 19 days ago and broke down and told him the real reason behind my mental breakdowns and depression. I told him about my porn addiction. He used to be a youth pastor and proceeded to tell me he has helped hundreds of guys since the early 90s with this addiction and he told me that he’s going to help me. I’m on day 19, li fest streak i’ve had since the summer. He has come into my room every night and prayed with me and asked me how i’m doing multiple times throughout the day. I’m going to beat this! Porn has ruined our society, never forgive them for what they’ve done, destroy everyone who is feeding this poison into our society and help rebuild all the people who seek help. We will overcome this!

[@007Nox]

Ur lucky to have a father like that 🙏🏾

[@Wickedtingzz]

Why do you like porn so much ? I like looking at sexy women to but it’s not real it’s fake : why don’t you go to a rub and tug or get a hooker . Or even go find ugly Chicks and hang out with them .

[@JJJ-zf8ri]

I agree porn has absolutely destroyed an entire generation. Instead of wanting actual relationships with real people they’d rather just sit at home and watch porn. It is terribly sad.

[@em77775]

Fill yourself with God's Word and listen to lots of worship music. For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life. Galatians 6:8

[@vklkg5486]

Man powerful stuff right here. My people aren’t that supportive I wish they were though

[@GodSaveTheClothes]

Much respect to this guy for being open and honest!

[@mark.daniel]

YES. To have the courage to talk to ANYONE about this at 18, and ask for help, is next level bravery right there.

[@zeal4god402]

FOR REAAAALZ, SHINE THE LIGHT ON THE DARKNESS

[@martinjones8544]

very much so, porn has wrecked my life esp since i got the internet ruined two relatiosnhips ........ poor lad 30 times a day he must be knackered and sore.

[@HiAnthonyA]

It’s what it takes to help start to get better. Being open is the start of the path of the beginning of healing

[@tedtod4489]

Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️

[@SonjaUnapologetic]

This young man is the most self aware 18 year old. He will be okay. He doesn’t realize how well he’s doing. His parents should be very proud.

[@alexbekkala1718]

Proud he is beating his meat with other men watching him.

[@IBZI7]

It’s extremely hard to escape pornography addiction. It literally becomes part of your identity and it’s so easy to get triggered because there’s other addicts online that enable this behavior and make you relapse and also so much is being sexualized now a days and it’s every where, it’s on Facebook , Instagram , Reddit , and Twitter especially. Porn is too easy to find and too accessible.

[@brightpage1020]

Agreed. I feel for men and women struggling with this. You all are vulnerable. This stucky is everywhere in today's world, you must feel like you can't escape. Understandable. I've seen porn and sex trafficking ada in Facebook stories and KZbin shorts. It's crazy nuts. Whenever you see a trigger online, let it trigger this thought, "Someone is trying to get something from me with this lift that I wouldn't normally give. That's why they call it a trick. There could be more to it. Do I really want to be the type of person who participates in this? What could this cost me now? Down the line?" Money, self respect, STD spread, arrest, jail time...? When I think about the fun of something unhealthy it seems like a great idea in the moment, a good way to let out steam or break from tension... But if I can remember the trouble it'likely to at least later get me in, then that helps lower the volume on it's call to me. And it becomes easier to refrain from. The quicker you train yourself to move on past temptation, the easier it will be.

[@arturohull14161]

And there is implicit forms of it which makes it worse.

[@vectorx777]

Start with deleting all social media like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. That helped a lot in the beginning of my journey to stop watching porn. I did something drastic though to stop. I made a deal with God almighty through prayer and said God I won't watch porn or masturbate for a whole month. Then he would give me my blessing. Be very careful if you do it this way though. You must keep any promise that you make with God. Do not slip or your blessings will be pulled from you. It's hard the first 2 weeks but it gets easier. Especially when your mind resets and your brain literally doesn't crave porn anymore. And to Men Especially when you do not masturbate and "lose your semen" women are drawn to you. Like they stare at you. You have the confidence to finally look at those women in the eyes. Keep your semen, keep your power. I'll pray for you. God loves you, God bless

[@thegorgeousoutdoorsman7983]

30 times a day?? I'm 26 and once a week feels like too much to me. Not shaming at all, this young man is intelligent and sounds like a good honest guy. Power to you buddy. All men should stop watching porn, there's 0 benefit.

[@perry6712]

He's definitely over exaggerating

[@Xanderohh]

He has to be. Doing it more than once a day is exhausting in itself. Couldn’t imagine 30 not judging

[@MithosDagon]

Yeah, there was a brief period that I was doing it 2x a day and that wore me out. I had to quit for a while and felt much better.

[@bigisrick]

I don't think that's even possible without doing damage

[@C63Bez]

Maybe he said 13

[@9liveslisa]

I wish this young man all the best and that he makes it to the other side of his addiction.

[@martinjones8544]

me too........ its so hard for younger people (im 57 so an old fart) the issue for me is the extreme porn they see at such a young age.......... there is no progression its str8 to hardcore stuff at a stupid young age..... he has a long road ahead of him, I have been there and its ruined my life, my issues not his!

[@juniorgod321]

By making it to the other side, you mean he should use the other arm as well?😂😂😂

[@9liveslisa]

@@juniorgod321 Oh....You're funny, you're clever.....not.

[@mpayne8206]

@juniorgod321 i want to be very clear.... you're not good at telling jokes. Your jokes aren't funny. You shouldn't tell jokes anymore!

[@blobbafetta8532]

He won’t. Women are very low quality today. They will take everything from a man.

[@Lilac914]

This young man’s testimony shows how incredibly painful it is to be a young person in today’s world. Porn is all around us, it’s probably harder to avoid it than not.

[@jeremyvanb821]

Well that’s addiction. You don’t avoid it. It’s more easily accessible than ever before but it’s still a choice you’re making. It still takes the action of the individual so it’s not really that it’s hard to avoid, it’s just easy to find if you go looking.

[@bratzboyz]

@@James-gp5cw Porn is way more powerful than your sermon. There is no way out anymore...you are all in for the long haul it seems. 😄😁😆😅🤣😂🥳🎉

[@user-yp8gg7gw2n]

​@@jeremyvanb821so holier than though. What a strong powerful soul that we should all look up to. What a joke.

[@claudiaclutch1958]

Damn the question about child pornagraphy almost made my heart drop...😢best of luck to this guy

[@ShiestyApe]

Fr I was honestly relieved when he said it was just very hardcore but consensual videos, instead of with children. He can be fixed for sure

[@Siel-bm7gx]

Yes, it's hard journey. If you don't guard yourself, you keep falling harder.

[@wolvezy]

He hesitated. I think he's into kiddy porn

[@coxrocks25]

Porn is the greatest evil in this world right now.

[@JC-gi6jf]

No it’s not everything in life needs balance

[@Feliciations]

@@JC-gi6jf are you an addict? Lot's of men are right now, unfortunately.

[@gbear34]

It's one of them!

[@REGDORTNARG]

@@JC-gi6jf 😂

[@REGDORTNARG]

@@Feliciations so are many women

[@jonnyw82]

Never thought I’d say this but Jesus freed me from porn and alcohol addiction. It feels amazing to no longer be a slave to all that darkness.

[@michael9659]

Christian to Christian, here. I’m 37 and decided to finally quit porn cold turkey about a month ago. Currently going through a bit of depression because of the sudden cut-off. Did you experience the same?

[@jonnyw82]

@@michael9659 can’t say that I did, but I already had depression so it’s hard to say. It’s extremely difficult to quit addictions long term I suggest replacing porn with a “healthy addiction” to replace that dopamine hit your brain is likely having withdrawals from. INTENSE exercise is a good one or healthy hobbies like mountain biking, hiking, ultimate frisbee etc. Dive into the Bible and prayer too. God bless you!

[@michael9659]

@@jonnyw82 I’ve been praying more than I ever have been before. I feel like this is a trial that I need to go through to humble myself and get back on track with the Lord.

[@jonnyw82]

@@michael9659 That’s good brother, Jesus loves the repentant sinner. What specifically can I pray about for you?

[@michael9659]

@@jonnyw82 Thank you so much, Jonathan. Just for my depression to eventually subside and go away while I allow for my brain to rewire back to normal. 🙏🏻

[@purple_badassery8240]

This level of self-awareness can make you lonely simply because most people can't understand it.

[@vklkg5486]

Yea and it’s hard because you’d want to meet others and let them know stuff but the sad reality of society is, most people aren’t gonna respond well to personal issues like these, not everyone can look at someone in a vulnerable state and NOT judge them. That’s probably why most people just suffer in silence. You’d have a better chance opening up about this stuff to strangers than to those close to you. Not saying you shouldn’t, you should definitely try to explain your troubles and such with family and such. But keep in mind that no matter what happens and who leaves you on your journey. You will commit and change yourself once and for all. That’s all that matters.

[@nonyabeeswax6372]

The problem with a severe porn addiction is that it destroys your motivation to do pretty much anything besides partake in those pornographic activities. It's all about dopamine, the brains reward chemistry.

[@evat2945]

Can it destroy the motivation to go towards women ? Especially women you like ? Can it prevent you from liking women ? Like having no interest in real women around you ?

[@mistym0rning]

@@evat2945 -- yes! Porn addiction makes a lot of men way less motivated to meet real women in real life. Even having real sex isn't interesting anymore because it won't be as stimulating as the stuff they watch in porn. It's a real neurological issue where, after a while, a lot of porn addicts can't even get it up anymore with a real woman and/or can't cum without watching porn. If that sounds familiar to you, I would say talk to a doctor and/or therapist. For real.

[@willieverusethis]

@@evat2945 That's the worst part. It makes real people and real sex feel like second best, like a let down. And once those images are in your brain, it's almost impossible to get rid of them.

[@Girlgonewise]

I’m so proud of this young man. I have high hopes for him. He’s very insightful and self aware.

[@sharktoof1]

Indeed! Very mature and perceptive. Good young man right there!

[@mikesmith-wk7vy]

This generation has such a burden being exposed to so much internet so young. I didn’t have a computer until I was 15 and that still led to the addition I couldn’t imagine not knowing a life without constant internet in my face.

[@johnfrench9328]

I just been trying to get clean, honestly I’ve been battling mine since 8th grade. It’s been my first month clean because of my ex girlfriend. Hopefully when I’m better I could be in a relationship with her again. The access in today’s world is a reason I’m now advocating for the ban of this because it does destroy more than what we can’t imagine. Honestly, I’m ashamed of mine addiction, I’ve started to workout again when I have an urge.

[@ChickenDude12]

I got addicted at 11 years old, I tried many times over the years to quit, and i turned 18 a couple of months ago and still watch daily 😭

[@StarSurvivor1585]

Porn addiction ruined my marriage. It wrecked our lives and we divorced...stole our intimacy, he couldn't stop, and at the end of it all exposed our Son bc he wasn't being responsible where he watched it. It rewards the same receptors as cocaine and the material gets so graphic that it's SOOOO bad

[@kimmccarty940]

So much truth here!! My ex exposed our kids to things they should have never seen and it has scared them. Selfish behaviors as he never could own up to it saying all me do it. Ruined so many things in my kids and my life. But he has friends who support him and his behaviors, including his own father. Just makes me sick!!!

[@lalala1813]

As someone who is currently dating a man whose ex wife left him die to his porn addiction, this is really sobering to hear. I’m so sorry you went through this and I’m trying to figure out if I’m making the right decision.

[@Tragedy59]

I struggle with this everyday and I’m 27 now. Well here is to another day 1 of being “sober”. I pray you have better luck with this than I do brother !

[@maaz87]

Switch to the flip phone

[@charlottechristian1]

I'm sorry this is your life.. This is my life as well but I'm on the other side. The wife, the love of his life that he can't stop hurting. It's been 30 years since our first kiss and 20 that we've been married with this addiction between us. You are still young with your whole life ahead of you. Now is the time to quit because every single day you wait it gets more difficult. Please think about your future and those who will be in it. You will not want to but you will eventually treat them the way you get off now. Good luck to you and GBY ❤️

[@jsfueston1]

You are not alone, my friend. Get up every time you fall. Eventually you'll stop falling.

[@HondaHMC]

I really respect this caller’s willingness to discuss his addiction on a live radio show. Also to acknowledge this addiction at 18 years old! As someone who has also struggled with PA for over 25 years, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Surround yourself with the right people, and ask the Lord for help.

[@perry6712]

Ask a dude you has never met before for help now does that make any sense whatsoever?

[@justabunneh6490]

He's very mature! He's more self aware than most adults.

[@evat2945]

Has it modified your view of women ? If yes, how ?

[@starlingswallow]

So much respect for this guy calling in and talking about such a sensitive topic! I don't know you, sir, but my husband and I are praying for you. Just to give you some encouragement; my husband had an addiction problem with porn when he was younger and God completely freed him from it! God restored all his natural affections and we have a wonderful marriage that includes the most wonderful and beautiful intimacy. Thank you for calling in to Dr. John! Much love and big hugs since your way.

[@blueseptember2174]

Wow that's amazing to hear. My husband's let it rule his life and caused the end of our marriage(he even admits it led to cheating). So I always happy to hear the opposite. It's an evil insidious thing that will lead you where you don't want to go if you don't get a hold of it.

[@Siel-bm7gx]

That's awesome to hear, your husband freed from it, I hope for the caller it's the same result.

[@trendkill3333]

I feel like I’ve kicked the addiction now but I really still feel like it’s still with me and effecting me. Like a big giant scar on my life in a way.

[@darksu6947]

I'm a drug addict. I would imagine being a porn addict is much of the same. Being an addict will follow you through life. Don't ever think you're over it or it will bite you on the ass.

[@vklkg5486]

@@darksu6947 Not a very optimal approach, Not everyone walks away 100% addiction free, but some do. Without any problems

[@fucuszullanti7877]

@@vklkg5486 Yeah I never cared for the whole "you will always be an addict" nonsense. It's all learned behavior, it can be kicked. If it still "follows you" you haven't gotten to the root of the problem, you just disciplined yourself enough to quit

[@betterlife4169]

I wanted to ask you as a dug addict, did you notice a similarity between withdrawal asymptos of drug and porn addict, or porn withdrawal outweighs cocain ?

[@sydoly123]

Porn addiction is the only addiction that has zero withdrawal, you only gain benefits freeing yourself from that trap. Check the ebook easy peasy

[@ryanmccrary1880]

Huge shoutout to this dude. This kind of vulnerability and self-awareness is incredible, especially at the age of 18.

[@gym_rat__]

as an addict i can fully relate myself to that guy his every single word is true

[@ithinkigottalent4047]

Kudos to him for calling Dr. John! That's a huge first step!

[@qmoorman]

It was very brave of him to share this. First step to a full recovery. Excellent video.

[@Ss-dz6cm]

My heart just breaks for this young man. What courage! What self-awareness! I really really hope this kid keeps fighting for himself. GREAT CALL!

[@89jonh]

Thank you for coming out and talking about it. It’s really hard to do. We love and accept you man. I’ve struggled so much and so deeply for a long time. I found SAA a year and I’m sober now. Your healing is here, it a journey of success and failure. But a journey worth while.

[@jaypos444]

So proud of this young man. You did very good Dr John!!

[@zareeftashfique8168]

The courage it took for this man, I can feel it in his words as he speaks! Much love buddy!

[@Von.Juan.]

I’m really liking these interviews and how real and upfront you are with your callers, asking the tough questions that the audience is also wondering 💯

[@Mateoffvii]

Prayers to this young man. May God bless him and guide him through this difficult journey.

[@TheGayStoic]

I’m in awe of how mature the caller was in spite of his age. I have no doubt in my mind he’ll make it out. I’ve made it out myself, and I can recognize the ingredients in someone who’s ready to put this addiction behind. His life will be a powerful testimony. We’re all rooting for you my friend 💯🙏🏾❤️

[@angeloayala2136]

I remember 1 year ago i decided to try and end my addiction, best thing i ever did, still struggle a bit but now 19 and feeling better than before

[@mgd4327]

You're the man Joseph. There are too many men struggling with these demons.

[@zizabrand6281]

You’re YEARS ahead of me, kid. Good on you and more power!

[@20Moody00]

Such a good Dr. Good job. Pray this guy recovers. Porn is destroying so many people.

[@Chosen302]

This is a grown conscious man and I am SOOOOO proud on him. ❤ Praying for your recovery. You got this!!!!

[@hassankhan]

Amazing Call 🙏🥰 Thank you for sharing your perspective for all of us young parents. I may have been just like your parent and not given car to my son till 18 or even 20 , but now I've to give him at 16. This has been a very productive learning episode!

[@herfirstmate]

I struggled with this too. I know a lot of women do. Look up a 12-Step program on this if you're struggling. I have and it's saved my life. The disease of porn addiction is really progressive and will lead to a super dark path and you can find grace from this, but white-knuckling or even sometimes therapy doesn't work for everyone. I'm now 3 years "sober" from this destructive lifestyle.

[@perry6712]

Congratulations

[@C63Bez]

Exactly same for me. Couldn’t do it alone. Almost 2 years now

[@herfirstmate]

@@C63Bez great job!

[@herfirstmate]

@@perry6712 thank you!

[@cormackillileacoaching]

Well done 🙌

[@BagsNBaguettes_327]

Joseph, my heart and prayers are with you.

[@missykitty6579]

Wow, a brave call to make. I hope this young man is able to get the help he needs. I know he felt shame talking about it, but I'm glad he was able to talk to an understanding and compassionate man who showed no judgment to him.

[@youcanbefree9698]

This was my first time seeing this channel but I got a lot of respect for this guy trying to help someone he doesn’t even know.We need more men like this in the world willing to try and help this younger generation

[@audralong6067]

This was amazing. His awareness and your response. Thank you. 🙏🏻

[@RealThunderberg]

WELL HANDLED Dr. John!! Seriously bro good job helping this kid, possibly even saving his life 👊🏼

[@kristinecrowley8321]

You are so perceptive, compassionate and articulate and I’m so glad I found you! You have a remarkable ability to get to the core of an issue and deliver honest, direct feedback and a course of action forward. And you do it in a way that is sensitive and clearly makes people feel heard, understood and supported. I think many people are likely silently struggling and it’s probably so therapeutic just to be validated in that way. Thank you for sharing your time, your knowledge and your compassion to help callers and those of us just listening and learning! As for this particular caller....it breaks my heart that he’s always felt so lonely and unlovable. He sounds so intelligent and mature and self aware and I’m certain that many people would be honored to be his friend or partner. He is still so young. He has his whole life ahead of him and I hope he realizes that he has so much to offer and that his future could be so bright and fulfilling if he accepts this. I wish the best for him!

[@jalenwright3777]

Huge respect to the gentlemen on the phone. I myself deal with addictions, not to porn, but to certain vices that really seem to control my life (thc and nicotine). Glad I found this channel

[@ceciliavillatoro9068]

Props to this guy! Hope he stops putting women on a pedestal. Women want to be treated like a person first and foremost. Talk to a woman like you would to any human being. With respect and dignity.

[@subjecttochrist]

Well, the problem is beyond that… he’s masturbating with other guys online. This is a sin problem. He’s in the snares of the devil, and needs the power of Jesus to realize it and break free! Hopefully this call is step one, bringing it to the light!

[@johnmoore1495]

@@subjecttochrist no offense but not everyone believes that, yet it’s still an issue.

[@subjecttochrist]

@@johnmoore1495 you can disbelieve in gravity, but it ain’t going to stop you from smashing into the ground when jumping off a building.

[@johnmoore1495]

@@subjecttochrist gravity is provable, religion is not.

[@subjecttochrist]

@@johnmoore1495 sure God is provable. Take a look outside. The order of creation: look in the mirror: your very existence. There is a creation, therefore there is a creator. You don’t really believe in the scientific impossibility that “nothing” created “everything,” do you?

[@Cookieboy70]

I was bordering porn addiction for several years. Every private moment I had I used to watch porn and for masturbation. I actually didn't do anything, one day I just stopped. I think my libido finally just dropped, thankfully. I hope this guy finds peace.

[@southwestxnorthwest]

You werent "bordering" addiction, you were addicted. Your libido dropped because the excess dopamine production and consumption causes your brain to stop producing it as a self protection mechanism. This is why porn addicts experience erectile dysfunction, depression, loss of motivation, and low libido.

[@Cookieboy70]

@@southwestxnorthwest ok that might be right. I thought one of the defining points of addiction is that it affected your day to day life. I functioned at work, with family, and socially ok, it didnt prevent me from living normally like the caller’s situation. Although it did prevented me from finding new hobbies and interests outside of those things, but I wouldn’t describe that it ever “destroyed” my life.

[@smartsavage6877]

Did it stop you feeling pleasure with women?

[@SD-pi9co]

Think of how much money and heart ache you saved yourself.

[@hannahhensley8497]

John, the way you lovingly guide people is so uplifting as an almost therapist (in a few months).

[@Nyobi09]

Alot of respect for this young man! I pray that he is successful in overcoming.

[@whitleypittella3139]

I’m so proud of him! He’s so young and actively seeking therapy, trying to get better, seeking information. It’s a beautiful thing to see!! I hope you heal

[@Ajjoy.]

I know for a fact that social media is the number one trigger of every porn addiction. I hope this guy actually listened and deleted his social media accounts, cuz my 27 year old husband thinks I'm crazy when I tell him that when he ends up on porn hup is because he's been watching a marathon of instagram and snapchat reels.

[@L.J555]

So bloody true.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

You’re 1000000% correct. I’d even add that even if someone never watches porn, if they’re spending hours SOO scrolling, it’s destroying their dopamine receptors just the same.

[@Tails-ec5ft]

It's true

[@coryanderson5210]

I’m glad I watched this. Praying for all my brothers out there. God helps, and we can lift each other up through accountability.

[@Nonsense116]

I'm cheering you on dude!!! I quit porn about 2 years ago or so after using it for nearly 13 years. It doesn't magically change your life and make it better. But it shows you that you have agency over your life and enables you to make other changes that are lifechanging. It's the first domino that falls that can escalate to bigger and bigger change.

[@lolashay219]

The devil is after our men’s minds, he loves filling them with so much shame. Lord shine your face upon this young man and deliver him from these demonic addictions

[@buttcheeksmcgee4272]

Wow....... first of all, you are extremely brave and very self-aware for an 18 year old. It takes a lot of guts to admit you even have a problem. You are in Vegas as a young man, going to college, who has access to porn. This is a struggle for a lot of young men in our current age. I am wishing you all the best in your life. Learn self discipline and respect and through time, it'll get better.

[@guittadabe5214]

Thank you Dr. John for helping this young man, and through him, helping so many others in the same predicament, people who are much older, and have way less time to get their life back into shape.

[@quasarsavage]

Just seeing my own 18 year old self right after HS and how I have changed now abt to graduate Uni at 22, I have come so far. Bro you got this, change is hard but whatever is weighing on you don’t give up.

[@starrjohnson1327]

I know an 18 year old man who struggles too. He said he does not do well with women. He clings onto women so they run. His mother abandoned him so he's looking for mom. He's open about his addiction. I pray both of these guys beat their addictions.

[@theshunnedBandersnatch]

Is the young man you know in therapy or seeing a mental health professional? Parental abandonment is significant attachment trauma that should be addressed in tandem with his other concerns.

[@starrjohnson1327]

@@theshunnedBandersnatch He's part of a group I'm in. We all talk about our lives. He said the group is helping him a lot. The group was formed to help people connect with others and make life improvements. He was seeing a therapist but could no longer afford to go.

[@theshunnedBandersnatch]

@@starrjohnson1327 Oh good! Sad he couldn't continue therapy but it can be prohibitively expensive, and with rising cost of living, it's easy to cut it out. I'm glad he's connecting with others and I hope he thrives with you all 😊

[@carloferretti8956]

My issue as well, therapy helps a bit I guess. Still doesn’t heal 27 years of abandonment trauma, most porn addictions start from abandonment/trauma from unattuned or absent parents.

[@skincareceo]

This is one of the best calls I have seen John take, because this guy has a high level of insight and that is rare.

[@DominickSpano]

I agree, but Dr. John shines in crises. True crises. This is a crisis of sorts, but I heard grown men cry on there who lost their child. Dr. John is a crisis expert.

[@MegaPlucas]

Praying for this young man. He's so mature. I'm confident he can overcome this.

[@maryperrysmith5815]

I hope we hear how Joseph. Gets better. ❤❤❤❤. I’ll pray for him.

[@nishalnandwani]

I pray for this young man. May he be lead to redemption and a good responsible life where he is certainly happy about himself. Great job for being honest and courageous Joseph!

[@brightpage1020]

🙏 amen

[@hamhi98]

The important part is this guy recognizes there is a problem and refuses to be in Denial, respect

[@user-wn7wc3xm2y]

Thank you Joseph for your sharing! Dont quit after fall, it s not important how many times we falled because we are still on the road, remember what you really need and go for it again, again, again,again , PERSISTANCE, PERSISTANCE, PERSISTANCE!

[@gregulm7507]

First step is being able to admit it brother. Good for you!

[@chiliconnorcarne]

This is the most amazing thing I have watched in a long time. This poor lad's shame has led him down this route. He has made an incredible step by identifying this so early and seeking help with John. He now needs to tell people close to him, as many people as he can. Take the power away from it. I am speaking from experience. 30 times a day is no joke. I've been there. You're a brave lad Joseph. I hope you're doing well.

[@loladollypop]

I uuuqu😊u😊😊😊 kk😊😮😅😅 u uii

[@zanedalrymple8418]

Brother your the most masculine man there is. Your 18 and you just poured your heart out and completely opened up to every problem and you were completely honest even though it’s against your values . So much bravery brother fr I’m 25 and not sure I am that emotionally strong and I’m a father . Respect bro

[@j24601valjean]

That was a very powerful interaction. Joseph's bravery and your wisdom was an extraordinary listen.I hope that Joseph gets to make a follow-up call because He has found an ally in his quest for resolution. I am a little saddened personally that I didn't find my way to such valuable and necessary company in dealing with similar magnitudes of difficultly, as a child, but even as a 63 year old I am questing resolution.

[@soreaspop4191]

We need more channels like this to make KZbin the best place

[@5thdimensionliving727]

Brilliant segment Dr Delony 👍 you offered some excellent guidance on helping this young man with his addiction..I really question the integrity of people who supply this online porn - it’s devastating our younger generation who are very impressionable..👍🙏 I know it’s a sensitive subject but it needs to be addressed in schools - this man has been doing this since he was a child

[@addiskassa5165]

You are right! It should give the student as a warning from school this addiction destroyed their life! Help us God! " My people destroyed the lack of knowledge! Hosea 4:6🙏🙏🙏

[@theshunnedBandersnatch]

When it comes to actors in the mainstream industry, some were trafficked, others abused and forced into it and more. It's very shady and predatory, and actually quite a few Gen Zers and millennials have discussed the ethics of the industry at length and refuse to consume content from those mainstream companies because of its dubious origins.

[@beebbeec280]

The power of prayer is your greasiest weapon against this evil. You have to turn to him in every moment those thoughts enter your brain. This will be your greatest battle and you can overcome.

[@jacocilliers2145]

This was incredible, listening to this in 2024. Thanks so much for sharing, I truly hope that things are going better.

[@tonycampanella4597]

Awesome. I have tremendous hope for this kid. I hope to hear a follow up call. I’d love the honesty in his voice. I see great things ahead for him, which include helping other people once he gets the help he needs.

[@megalopolis2015]

This poor young man. At least he, unlike too many psychological "experts" in the field, is more than a little aware that he has a very large issue that must be resolved in order to live a normal Life. Sex and pornography addiction are one of the greatest banes in our society. I hope he follows through with his treatment, especially with the fellowship he needs and deserves.

[@sherriflemming3218]

Well said

[@breeeque]

awh, i broke a different addiction by going to the gym. If u dont work out at all the first months will suck, but eventually u will enjoy the endorphins working out releases. I suggest you start that. i wish u luck. ur a strong person, stronger than u think to even make this call.

[@DikButte]

I actually teared up. John you are helping me alot too, thanks for what you do.

[@dr.sue_n]

You are way more mature than so many so-called grown ups! Good for you and all the best!

[@Maelu-op9gf]

Wishing you all the best! You got this...and you have a bright, bright future ahead

[@carloferretti8956]

Damn this hits home, similar situation to this kid. I’m 28, not the 30 times a day but I can admit I have an issue. Thanks for giving me some Optimism joe and john. You got this kid, we got this!

[@Loder222]

30 times.. For me max was 3 but still doing that with porn for around 20 years( not sure when I exactly started) now I am 29 and huge part of life was wasted and now being close to 30 it's making this even harder. Glad for people who discover so early and will be able to kill that addiction.

[@innovationsSol]

What if i say i can end porn addiction of any men in 5 mins forever 100% permently, not only this i can make men ambitious, hard working, good after women. I can decrease rape & hatred towards women around the word in one month by 80%.

[@emilyk.5664]

Wow, I'm honestly very proud of this young man for being so introspective and honest. I hope that he finds a good group of friends that are a positive, supportive, and active. Some people live in denial for DECADES before they face the truth and get some help! He can overcome.

[@mohamedh9248]

Very brave man. Takes a lot of courage to speak openly about such a personal problem.

[@terriesmith2616]

I hope this guy calls the show back in 6 mos/ 9 mos to give us an update on his porn addiction. Dr. D did a great job on this call. I give him props.

[@Bmw-Hk]

From 30 times a day to only 5 times a day would that be ok for awhile?

[@TheWoWBane]

@@Bmw-Hk Progress is progress. Sure, the goal is to stop and not watch porn at all, but Rome was not built in a day.

[@skyscout3]

imagine he calls back and says he's going at it nothing changed lmao

[@slite2k59]

@@skyscout3with how addicted this guy is I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s like this to this day

[@batemanlife]

Dr John was amazing here.

[@racheljames7]

Bless this young man. He's only 18 and he is so wise. He's going to be alright. Bless you Dr John for being so kind and helpful to him.

[@albertblum1187]

Thank you for sharing Joseph, i'm cheering for you, and thank you for this video John! The last quote: "there are brighter days ahead brother" made me tear up from pure motivation. Cause there is definitely brighter days ahead and I'm so exited to live and experience them all to the fullest. Although I haven’t watched in just two days, I can already feel myself again. I've become so much happier and motivated about everything. I have started to adapt new and strict daily rutines which includes getting up early, take a cold shower, I do boxinge-exercise a couple a times a week (where I let all my aggressions out about porn) and I meditate for 15 minutes every day. I've also installed pornblocking software my router, computer and phone and every time I get triggered, which happens all time, I take a deep breath and do something else. Keep fighting, and most important, keep believing you can overcome this.

[@MaddyReactions]

I am so happy that John volunteered to take the journey towards recovery with this young man…I’m rooting for him!!! 👏👏👏👏

[@braziliannigga]

30 times? Man, I always thought these were urban legends.

[@dontworry1568]

i...i... dont understand how. I'm thinking for physical at the moment but I can't finish more than 4 times a day with my wife and the 4th is as much of a chore as it is pleasure. lol but i am glad this guy understands he is staring at a huge moment in his life and it needed changes.

[@taylorb6469]

@@dontworry15684 times a day? You have a real problem. Sex should only be used for procreation.

[@jeffb.4800]

Sex takes way more energy. But yeah 30 times a day is insane haha

[@andrewjackson9948]

Joseph is sounds like such a good kid. This call will serve as a serious driver for change that inside he has already begun. Create a life you will be proud of Joseph

[@user-bo3hd9vh7t]

I feel like I am watching my life on Broadcast...I don't feel so alone anymore. As someone way younger than Joseph with similar life experiences, I don't feel alone anymore. thank you, Dr. John, and thank you, Joseph, my brother, for being true to yourself, it takes the courage of others to stand before great demons, I am truly grateful.