my subscribers answer your questions about ASEXUALITY (& the ace spectrum)

my subscribers answer your questions about asexuality (& the ace spectrum)
hiii besties!! in today’s wholesome vid, I am joined by some fellow Dutchy fam to highlight and answer some of your burning questions re: the asexuality spectrum! This was super wholesome & would love to do more videos like this in the future!! Thanks again to Freja, Jay, Gretchen & Agathe - you’re all so sweet and I couldn’t have made such killer content without all of you. Big love to all. Can’t wait to chat in the comments!! XxxBUY MY PRIDE MERCH COLLECTION HERE:
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[@brettcarruthers8838]

Big love to all of our asexual members of the Dutchy fam.

[@mars_starz420]

Thanks ^u^

[@briannalikesbooks]

it's time for a joke once more: i've asked so many people what lgbtq+ stands for... so far i haven't gotten a *straight* answer

[@MsDickerz]

this wins

[@briannalikesbooks]

@@MsDickerz * my work here is done *

[@_anna-c_2298]

Hehehe this is good also hi again

[@dollinabox6602]

@@briannalikesbooks lol 😂

[@briannalikesbooks]

@@_anna-c_2298 hi again lol

[@majesticwyrm]

We like cake, dragons, and garlic bread

[@MsDickerz]

Hehe yassss 👏👏

[@alexrose20]

sounds like a wild night at Olive Garden

[@otterdog102]

Can't believe I FORGOT garlic bread- Grey

[@nadia.1177]

Thank you to everyone who took participation in this video and to Dutchy for this great idea! I enjoy learning about this amazing community :) (and the time this premiered suited me much more, thanks!) 💖

[@MsDickerz]

you’re so welcome 💗💗

[@elinehegrand5487]

Thank you so much for this video sweetie!! Also thank you to those who was so brave to send you vids of themselfs. We all love you all ❤❤❤❤

[@MsDickerz]

❤️❤️❤️

[@shaynemetchek7614]

thanks duchy! i was wondering if you would do a vid on agendered people. Love you queen ❤❤

[@MsDickerz]

definitely can ❤️❤️

[@shaynemetchek7614]

@@MsDickerz thanks!! love you girl 💗

[@marquisdelafayette3333]

(I mean this in no disrespect I’m truly curious) what is the difference between agender and non binary

[@callumdunn4426]

Thank you so much for this video. I only came to terms with my sexuality 6 months ago and I have been incredibly scared about where I fit in as an asexual so this video has really helped me

[@Jay-bb5oo]

thank you for including me in this video dutchy!!!! it was super fun :))

[@RekindledBibliophile]

Thank you so much for this video! As a fellow ace, it can sometimes feel like we’re not recognised or accepted within the LGBTQIA+ community so seeing content like this is so reassuring and uplifting. Thank you Dutchy and to all of those that contributed to making this video 💜 P.S. Hit the like button if you’re on the ace spectrum. Where my peeps at?

[@callumdunn4426]

I have noticed that recently and sadly in my admittedly small amount of experience it has been some fellow Ace’s causing the lack of acceptance which has left me hesitant when talking about it

[@frozenlillypad2070]

Me be ace, feeling gooooooood 💕

[@frozenlillypad2070]

@@callumdunn4426 That's sad to hear 😔

[@liasavvi6475]

Can you make a video about aesthetic vs sexual attraction sometime? Love ur videos btw ❤❤❤

[@MsDickerz]

I can definitely look into it 💗💗

[@liasavvi6475]

@@MsDickerz thank you very much!

[@frozenlillypad2070]

This helped so much! Thank you to all of these people and Dutchy for organising it. ♥️ This made me sure that I am on the Asexual spectrum. 👍🏻💕

[@hannahmonsoon659]

Thank you for making this video and thank you to everyone in this video for sharing your experience. You're really brave. Lots of love from a fellow asexual 💜🌈.

[@MsDickerz]

You’re so welcome! Yass they’re the best! Love you 💗💗

[@laurenhuerta]

we love you dutchy! happy pride month!

[@MsDickerz]

Love you!!💗💗

[@thebiggestweirdoever8484]

Love the video! I’ve been questioning if I’m asexual for a while (but I also thought I was bisexual so I was confused lol) bc I’ve always, ALWAYS been grossed out by the idea of sex and I’ve never had a desire for it, but I’ve always wanted a romantic relationship. This really helps. Thank you!! I also think u should do one of these but for transgender people or other gender identities. I’d be happy to send in something!

[@Stephss77]

This is the type of video I needed when I was figuring out my sexuality... I now know I'm demisexual ...but for a long time I was like is there something wrong with me... but for other who are in that boat now this is a wonderful tool to help them🙌 Thanks Dutchy!!

[@kisskiss6866]

I'm always here to learn more about the LGBTQ+ community 😁 thanks Dutchy, and thanks to the wonderful people who helped with the video 💜🖤🤍

[@J.L.Nelson]

I can’t remember when I truly enjoyed a video discussion as much as this one. I know I am Ace but since I’ve never felt an attraction toward someone, I don’t know yet if Demi applies to me as well. Great video!

[@otterdog102]

Thanks for letting me take part in this video Dutchy! I've shared it with my fellow Aces and they think it's absolutely wonderful GREY

[@fake.it.flowers]

yay I’ve been waiting for this video 🖤🤍💜

[@niamhokane5980]

it’s nice to see somebody educating people on this :)

[@marcusreuben4865]

Great video Dutchy, I would love to watch a similar video on pansexuality

[@stevie_M]

Wonderful vid, I’m AGender different again, it’s an amazing time learning about are beautiful people ❤️

[@nalanibelvin251]

Love your eye shadow Can you do one for the demi community Happy pride❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@kiefinity162]

Learning and understanding, great content ✌️

[@MsDickerz]

Thank you ✌️✌️

[@talkswithchloe]

This video helped me a lot as a fellow demisexual and learning more about the ace spectrum

[@mylacollins9473]

Oooo great video. I have been thinking that I might be demi-sexual so this video actually helped a lot!

[@MsDickerz]

I’m so glad this helped!

[@dollinabox6602]

Heyyy luv the video! Ok so I’m asexual to just guys but bisexual I hope that makes sense and is a thing lmao 😂✌️🏳️‍🌈

[@wendiwasden7088]

Biromantic homosexual it seems to be

[@covexmallak]

Heyyy I think that's me too!! And I thought I was completely alone because I didn't think that was a thing. Thanks for sharing that!

[@dollinabox6602]

@@covexmallak yes ofc! Nice to know there r others like us!!💜🏳️‍🌈

[@dollinabox6602]

@@wendiwasden7088 oh ok thank you!!!!

[@cheezpuffg0rawr]

I'm also a biromantic homosexual ☺️ My fiance is a man and we are polyamorous. I love to see fellow biromantic homosexuals!

[@findysal6946]

Hii beautiful ❤️

[@MsDickerz]

Hiyaaaa!!

[@cathalreilly6579]

Ye should listen 2 to your heart whatever your heart tells you to do and your feelings and the way you feel and never mind listening to a website didn't you find somebody but wait till after the virus to be safe

[@studywithharu1301]

Hey Dutchy! Are you going to do a video on the gender non-binary?

[@cathalreilly6579]

There is some people in society and the talk about a sexual people and that claim did they have no feelings well that's wrong because every human being in the world has to have feelings and nerves in their bodies was in an accident or in a crash

[@user-rv4rk7it5t]

i've been asexual/transgender for about 2 years and i got hit in the eye on monday and i can't see out of that eye- .......did i do something wrong-? i was coming to my best friend man-😤 🌺🇬🇧🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️happy pride month!🌺🇬🇧🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍🤎🖤

[@MsDickerz]

Happy pride month!! 💗

[@user-rv4rk7it5t]

@@MsDickerz thank you dutchy!

[@tsehayrabinowitz-vonohlen7401]

Can you pleas do one on non-binary? Pleas? I love you so much❤❤❤❤❤

[@MsDickerz]

Yesssss it’s on the way 💗💗

[@tsehayrabinowitz-vonohlen7401]

@@MsDickerz Thank you so much!

[@mars_starz420]

Lesbian ace here, any more questions you have u can ask me :3

[@cathalreilly6579]

You kiss people when you feel like it so you are on the right track so he must have feelings of course you have feelings

[@tessamuddle5008]

Hey 2 questions: can u be bi if u are attracted to the opposite gender and non binaries? 2: how do you know u have she/they pronouns?

[@otterdog102]

Hello, Grey here! I think yes to the first question though because nonbianry encompasses alot of genders I think polysexual may be more fitting? Second question: If you like both then you use those pronouns

[@joshyy6804]

Ahhhh love u

[@cathalreilly6579]

I always you dad I was different I could feel it and a yurt

[@cathalreilly6579]

Duchy will you tell them people that just passed or Max that are people saying about because that's where the whole thing is coming from it's just tell them yeah that cost of feelings everybody has feelings

[@nalanibelvin251]

Ok so my sexuality is really complicated. I'm acesexual or demisexual towards girls and like bisexual towards guys? Does this make sence or is a thing? Please help

[@madalynmiles]

yes! you can be sexually attracted to one gender and romantically attracted to another.

[@G.D.G.]

So... almost none or very minimal sexual attraction towards women and sexual attraction towards men? OF COURSE! Please look up: Bisexuality and Pansexuality (and maybe even Queer, a lot of the community just use the umbrella term) And most importantly: please don't stress on figuring out your "lable" All the love on your journey of self discovery!!💖

[@frozenlillypad2070]

Very interesting 💖

[@sophiescott6926]

I love u I just realised that I’m pan sexual I realised bc I have a crush on Kate in castle( u should watch it it’s on Disney

[@MsDickerz]

That’s great 😍😍

[@user-bv5sq9dy7w]

Hey Dutchy!❤️ discord link?

[@jonawakens]

I'm demisexual and demiromantic

[@MsDickerz]

That’s great!

[@jonawakens]

@@MsDickerz thank you and never stop being awesome

[@frozenlillypad2070]

Amazing 💖

[@cathalreilly6579]

Oh touchy so watched stranger thing can I have funny one more episode The Watch

[@cathalreilly6579]

Well if you're thinking about it you're surely right you're right for the job then if you're thinking about it hi everything can about your surely be meeting with somebody

[@cathalreilly6579]

Greys are you a telling you about an old woman but the road and she's either bisexual bisexual or a tomboy neighbours or Neighbours is called grays grays that still like their first name so that's the name of her sister name of her family lyric

[@cathalreilly6579]

With two mistresses are a guy

[@cathalreilly6579]

My pronouns duchies would be she her because I am a transgender and a bisexual that's just the way I see it

[@onedirectionfan9451]

Bro I would cry of happiness if duchyyy liked my comment and said hi to E

[@MsDickerz]

Hiii

[@onedirectionfan9451]

@@MsDickerz omfg I just seen this I love you so much omg I am going to cry I love you so much you have made me feel happier being lesbian and you have made me accept my self more I love you so much🥺🥺🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@onedirectionfan9451]

@@MsDickerz omg I am making a vid about this I am so happy I live your vids so much you don’t even know how much you have made me feel happier being lesbian

[@cathalreilly6579]

That website didn't people are looking up duchies how would I know about out oh goddess this you're still website and human feelings at all

[@cathalreilly6579]

I'm going to try on my my swimming my little girls swimming togs now I can go swimming I can't swim I can do the doggy paddle but I'll be alright

[@cathalreilly6579]

Don't be listening to that website website and just words and it's a British website and don't creation and do it they think I know everything about everybody

[@cathalreilly6579]

He's course you're feel you have feelings and sexual desires everybody had sexual desire your that makes your human being a course you have feelings and nerves in your body it's Society the saying that

[@presleecarson532]

All of y’all look hot and amazing keep being you I love you so much I need friends who wants to be mine I’m 21 Gemini here?

[@stephenholland4441]

Sexuality is in the brain (apart from heterosexuality, because that is the way of nature, and the way God designed it), so the entire life of a person should NOT be dictated by one thought. People only think they are asexual (or homosexual) because they listen to what their brain is saying, rather than what their body is saying. People may lack feeling attracted to others, but the body still yearns to be with a person of the opposite gender to procreate. That's why men have wet dreams, and women ovulate. When two people fall in love, they are supposed to be two people of the opposite gender. This should be obvious! People might say they lack attraction, but that is NOT what their body tells them. So to all LGBTQ+ people, stop listening to the delusions in your mind, and start paying attention to your body. (Why are you people celebrating asexuality, when it basically represents extinction?)

[@siobahnholahan2722]

People who dont want to breed aren't going to cause extinction. There are many other factors that could possibly cause human extinction, maybe go research some of them to go advocate and spend your time trying to preach that. The world is over populated anyway and we have actual problems to worry about. Peoples sexual attraction and sexuality isn't something people should be concerned about, it does no harm to anyone.

[@stephenholland4441]

@@siobahnholahan2722 It does no harm to anyone?! So have you forgotten about AIDs, HIV, and what the Bible says about sexual immorality?

[@markobagara8791]

Hello! :D Aroace person here- means I dont personally feel any romantic or sexual attraction. All your saying is bull. A few asexual people wont make humans go extinct, please educate yourself and open your mind a little bit. Have a great day.