GRWM Natural Hair Chat: When You Think Your 4c Natural Hair Is NOT GROWING

Growing long natural hair has a science to it. Our natural hair grows monthly. Average hair growth is 6 inches a year that is 1/2 an inch monthly. When you're not noticing that 1/2 an inch each month nor the 6 inches each year is it because your hair is simply not growing? Or could it be other factors? In today's chat, I speak a bit about my growth setbacks and what I am doing to overcome them. I also discuss my theory as to why it seems as if the hair is not growing.
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00:00​​​​ Intro
02:25 I want hair down to the ankles
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04:37​​​ Seems my natural hair is not growing
08:19 Five inches overnight?
08:39​​​ Wash day
10:58​​​ My plan to improve
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[@NaptuRo90]

PREACH! I’ve slowed down watching natural hair KZbin videos because some of these vids about…” grow 2 feet of new growth in 6 hours” are killing me 🙄🤦🏿‍♀️😩🤣

[@flamingoparrish8215]

🤣😂😂😂😂gurrrrrrrrrl 🤣

[@Mochi_chan737]

silent night, I so agree with you, it makes me a bit angry to see those kind of vids where they promise extreme growth in 24 hrs, like😫😒

[@NaptuRo90]

@silent night 😩🤣💀💀

[@JennJackson]

Girl this video is NEEDED in the hair community! We all want long hair but we also need patience and good hair practices. I know for me and the way my shrinkage is set up, it seems like my hair doesn't grow at ALL! If I wasn't creating videos and filming my hair, I would seriously think something is wrong with my hair. You are so right, retention is where the problem is. I know I be ripping through my hair lately and then I'll complain that my hair isn't growing haha. These 5inches of growth overnight irritates me as well but these videos get MILLION of views so... I can see why people keep making them.

[@digitallocations1423]

You, Jenn, ripping through your hair? I could not imagine it! I watch your videos too and strive to be as gentle as you when handling my hair. The worst thing I've done to my hair is let it get blowdried with the comb attachment. Any sort of comb and a blowdry is a bad idea for my wet hair. Now let me leave my protective style alone. I was going to disturb it coz I wanna look cute. 😁

[@jalesapowell]

I have learned that my lack of exercise and not eating enough wholesome foods like leafy greens, fruits, and healthy meats was the cause of my hair not growing to it's full potential. Eating the more alkaline foods( overall raw vegetables) caused more nutrients and oxygen to get in my hair follicles. The exercise help my skin as well as my hair and actually putting this into practice helps saves money because my body is now functioning like it suppose to with having to buy products to do the work. Also I stop idolizing other people hair and fell in love with my own! And one more thing ladies don't become discourage! Just because your grandmother or mother hair length wasn't long doesn't mean yours won't be long either. They probably didn't know about healthy hair care practices either. Grace Thank you for your tips and input on what really matters when it comes to natural hair!

[@christinawong2973]

My 4c hair struggle is keeping my silk cap in throughout the night. I wake up 3am and my silk cap is on the floor or in at the foot of the bed. Not sure who I’m wrestling with at night 😅

[@consciouslynatural1276]

Get a satin or silk pillow case instead. 😉

[@CrownedAndFitNFaith]

Girl! I have a satin pillow case just because if this😂🤣😅

[@shionajoseph3248]

Wear a bonnet over your scarf & use a satin pillowcase

[@KylaeighA]

I use the bonnets from CeeCee's Closet NYC and I've never had a problem since starting to use them

[@kapparhotau181]

I like the silk bonnets from Humble Glow which has 25% off this week. It has a tie so you can keep it on becuz I have you same issue 🤣

[@glowschannel5012]

Wow NappyFu really woke up and decided to drag us and our unhealthy ways today

[@NappyFu]

L😀ol I'm right with yall sis. We in this together and will overcome it together.

[@callygirlstewart]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣✔️

[@joannamelanie]

@@NappyFu facts

[@5pctLowBattery]

I left my hair in 4 plaits since quarantine lockdown. It’s grown a lot. Just leave the hair alone works...and wash your hair every week (I do a wash hour, 10 mins to shampoo, 10 mins to deep condition, 30 mins to detangle and re-plait) That’s it.

[@sweetcoz]

gurrll my natural hair struggle is a whole damn struggle.. period!! and so now i gotta workout too??? lawd have mercy on my soul.. lol

[@NappyFu]

😂😂💪🏾

[@LuckyyLEVEN]

THANK GOD SOMEBODY FINALLY SAID IT ! There’s so many videos on KZbin and Ig saying “fast hair growth” where the person making the video is always showing some magical “hair growth oil” telling ppl to buy it so they’ll get 7 inches by the time they wake up . Not knowing that growing hair comes from a healthy scalp ! You have to do more than just apply an oil overnight , you have to do the work. Are you clarifying your scalp ? Are you trimming your ends ? Hydrating / moisturizing ? Deep conditioning ? Are you limiting the tight hair styles you get that’s causing so much tension to hair and scalp ? Are you eating properly ? Drinking water ? NO … but you want to listen to these ppl who probably have the length they have due to genetics etc . Please just stopppp

[@tiffanyi524]

When I was studying for a big exam, my edges fell out, my nails and hair was breaking. At that time, I was taking vitamins, eating healthy yet not sleeping. My stress levels were so bad, I had other health issues that occurred. After the exam, I gave myself two months to recover (started sleeping and exercising) and I stopped taking vitamins just cause I got lazy. Within the two months, my hair breakage decreased and my hair grew longer and my nails got stronger and longer. I say all of this cause you are right. Our hair grows but if we are not taking care of ourselves, chances are we are losing length. Also the point of a natural hair journey is acceptance and I am learning to accept the highs and lows of my kinky 4c hair. Sometimes when I do feel negative of my hair, I just pray and thank God for my crown and my love for it is renewed.

[@janacianix5039]

My biggest struggles are single strand knots, my hair locking and getting in/retaining moisture. I thought I had my key products down and then all of a sudden my hair switched up. I’m trying new techniques to see if I can get my hair in a better state

[@sunnyj7424]

My natural struggles were breakage and retaining length. I found out that those struggles were within my control by having a consistent hair routine and treating my iron deficiency. For years I neglected my iron deficiency, and I didn’t know it caused breakage on the back of my head. Now I take iron pills and include iron rich foods in my diet. Your health could be a reflection of your hair, so I’d suggest if you haven’t already to check with a doctor!

[@lesegod8051]

My skin and hair are the FIRST to take a dip whenever I'm not eating healthy or exercising regularly. So I'm trying to improve in this area :)

[@teejack8108]

I give you full credit for me not giving up on my natural hair journey. I have seen all of your videos, most more than twice. I am not caught up into hair growth obsession because I don't wear my hair out. I am focused on health and edges.

[@quartzzhuit]

😌💪🏾👌🏾

[@KeenBeanz40]

I have been natural for almost 5 years. What I notice is my hair isn't as long and full as I would like it but it's definitely 100 X's healthier.

[@xxblackbellexx]

Yes I leave my hair alone and don't wear weaves and it grew 4-5 inches when I went for my annual straightening for length check

[@jxssi_311]

Do you leave it alone by doing protective styles with your natural hair or just leave in out without touching it?

[@NappyFu]

Nice!!! So inspiring!!

[@nattylew5058]

Same here. I kept it in braids and left it for 3mths at a time, washing every 2 weeks and doing over the edges every 2 to 3 weeks as needed. Now I'm bra strap length and want to enjoy it so now I do loose braids and I'll leave them in for about 2 mths at a time. My go to hairstyle is just 2 cornrows, 1 on each side, and I'll tuck the ends into each other. So I turn my low manipulation style into a protective one. Edit: I'm leaving them in for a mth instead. I've noticed strands trying to be free so they could live their best lives lol so to lessen my anxiety of breaking them i'll do all the braids over monthly

[@Meme.612]

It’s so annoying… why we got to leave our hair alone for it to grow though?? Our Hair should be able to withstand combing & styling LIKE EVERYONE ELSES 😩😩😩😩. It’s too much y’all 😞

[@Belltuck]

@@Meme.612 Should it though? Perhaps it's delicate and meant to be handled with care - unlike everyone elses.

[@NaptuRo90]

My natural hair struggles is laziness, when I’m on point… my hair growth is retained! It’s Not super Doper fast but noticeable. I have to keep my mental health in line and myself accountable to avoid careless mistakes like not mosturizing my hair on daily or every other day basis. That what works for me ☺️

[@RabielleParfait]

Same with me. I could have had longer hair the past 5 years after my second bc but laziness and high stress levels did their work. Now I try to be consistent as possible and if I leave a washday out, I do it the next day. As she said, a healthy hair habit is key. ☺️

[@ramenheadx3]

It's especially harder to tract growth with natural hair because of shrinkage. I big chopped 3.5 years ago and see a major difference in density more than length. I'm only past shoulder length even though most people can grow APL or BSL in that time. I keep up with quarterly trims and take excellent care of my hair so I know I'm doing everything I can. We have to accept that some of us have slow growth and there's but so much we can do to accelerate it.

[@NappyFu]

Yes so true slow growth is still growth! 😍

[@tabithathewholistic]

Girl!! I chopped my hair last October, and the DENSITY of all this new growth is off...the....walls!!!

[@quartzzhuit]

Your hair is growing in layers. It's ok. 😘

[@michelle_ajema]

I relate to the more density instead of length thing.

[@alkahinat4558]

This is my hair story, there’s way more density than length now which honestly, I don’t mind because I like my hair to look full. It’s around armpit length and I do want to see how long I can get it, but...it’s much more important that it’s healthy Been natural for almost 4 years

[@rosynatural]

Sounds very much like you “reap what you sow”. Healthy habits, healthy hair. Love your tips 💞

[@Angeleyes805]

Hi these are some of the things I started doing and noticed my hair is growing longer and thicker 1. Drink 8 cups of water daily 2. I included Salmon, Kale, Spinach, Sweet potatoes, blueberries, Walnuts, Sunflower, Chia, Pumpkin and Sesame seeds in my diet. 3. I use black strap molasses 1 tablespoon in 1 cup of water in the morning this also helps with gray hair. 4. I take my vitamins daily - Vitamin D3, Vitamin C, Iron (Megafood Blood builder), Zinc and Magnesium 5. Exercise daily 6. Protective style - Braids 7. Wash my hair with water filtered using an Aqua Bliss High Output Revitalizing Shower Filter. I use a clarifying shampoo first then follow-up with a moisturizing shampoo then deep condition using heat. 8. I am protein sensitive so I removed coconut oil from my product list and I check the product labels for protein. I only use Aphogee protein products every 4 to 6 weeks. 9. You have to look for products that work for you. My hair loves Argan oil products I use the Creme of Nature Argan Oil Moisture & Shine Sulfate Free Shampoo and the Perfect 7-in-1 Leave-in Treatment (I dilute this with filtered water. I also use products containing Shea Butter. I usually make my own hair butter using raw Shea butter, Jamaican Black Castor oil, and Olive Oil and Vitamin E oil. 10. Trim ends as needed using a hair cutting scissors and use the scissors for cutting hair only.

[@aissahobbs]

It’s definitely me ...once I started paying attention to my hair I realized I needed to protect my ends as much as possible. for example when I would wear weaves and not touch my hair my hair would grow. whereas if I have my hair out and constantly touching it it would grow less, as in more split ends and single strand knots.

[@marjorieb6754]

My problem is density...that never seems to be something addressed other than length. I can grow hair but who wants long stringy locks?🥺.

[@Latriise]

Ditto. Getting my hair to be thicker is my struggle.

[@greedy14u]

I'm not sure there's much that can be done about increasing density, more genetics...I just focus on holding on to the density I have, by trying to avoid breakage

[@nattylew5058]

Unfortunately not much can be done on density so I just focus on acceptance

[@yerlenjonson6124]

there is no product that add more folicules to your scalp if you meant density.

[@marjorieb6754]

@@yerlenjonson6124 Thank you for your input. While my statement partly asking for help..I do realize that no product will add follicle. In my case my problem is further exacerbated by hypothyroidism. NappyFu is totally correct...nutrition is the key. However, my point is while length is a goal, having low density may offset the look of long hair

[@adwoamk8918]

I do believe in the growth cycle. I think genetics determine the cycle, how long the cycle is going to last and how fast the hair grows. Our hair is not going to be in the growth phase forever. Some people's hair grow 1/4 in he a month for 3 years that may be all the hair they can retain. There's no point stressing yourself If your hair isn't breaking and you are doing everything you should be.

[@digitallocations1423]

If that was true many people would go bald every three years, but they don't because hair isn't all naturally supposed to be at the same growing phase. Some strands should still remain even when it sheds.

[@ElegantPaws01]

Well said. Respecting your elders (ends...keep them moisturized, protected and loved). Head massages, blood flow to your roots to encourage growth in the anogen phase etc. Exercise and nutrition because it has always been an inside job way more than the topical.

[@psr076]

I don’t really have hair struggle. I know that when I do not take care of what I eat or my water intake it has a negative effect on my skin and hair growth. I try to do better. Sticking to a hair routine has helped retain my hair length (wash, condition and style for the week and leave it alone ). Grace you are so right about taking care of our inside.

[@AllThingsBeautywithMishkaPK]

Omg the point you made about some youtubers promoting fast hair growth is so true. Those videos are so annoying. I had someone tell me in my comments that I should speak more on hair growth shampoos and I gave her the same response you did, it's not product based, it's about your health as well.

[@NowIAmNappy]

Girl yes!! This video was everything. Its the consistency in my routine that allows my hair to thrive. Also using ingredients that keeps my hair moisturized and happy. For me that’s including Ayurveda to help deal with some scalp issues

[@faithbankole4851]

I did a little experiment. I installed a temporary loc at the back of my head to see if my hair wouldn't grow past a certain length genetically, or I was the cause. Turns out I'm the cause. That loc is currently about 3 inches longer than the rest. That's 6 months of growth I threw away. I really thought I was taking good care of my hair, but apparently not. I need to get into protective styling, because manipulating my hair everyday is not it!

[@RochelletheRealtor]

Wow!

[@doxxed4796]

I thought about doing this before🙌🏾

[@faithbankole4851]

@@doxxed4796 I definitely recommend it. It's taught me a lot so far, it requires almost no maintenance, and it's hidden, so it doesn't disrupt anything.

[@iamjordyn_17]

I have a question when protecting styling do you still shampoo and deep condition?

[@faithbankole4851]

@@iamjordyn_17 I do. I try to wash every two weeks if in a long term protective style.

[@donnacooper6335]

Excellent…my hair journal revealed that I wasn’t moisturizing enough!!

[@jalisastevens429]

If you’re looking for another “no makeup makeup foundation product” try colourpop hyaluronic tinted moisturizer

[@sabrinar.purnell3869]

For me, I was iron deficient. My hair was thinning and lackluster. Falling out. Six months later, all is well. Diet and water makes a huge difference over time.

[@DH-uw3us]

Starting a new healthy hair journey.

[@reecoles8130]

You giving straight FACTS!.. OK!..I admit it... everythg she said is so true I fell off with my haircare routine and my Healthcare routine and saw a major difference in my hair and body.. when I stayed on my hair I saw more length better control moisture and sheen and when I worked out consistently my body felt off when I didn't.. and because I was eating healthier I noticed my hair felt better as well.. ladies in our busy lives it's hard to stay consistent with our care and I get it but we gotta start somewhere.. baby steps and every step counts 💕

[@pearlljewels7330]

Appreciate this. I must eat right to just feel good and be at my best. I've learn the protein moisture balance for my hair so that helps too.

[@norcrosscaduceus8344]

Sis!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, you have helped me so much with my natural hair journey thank ya!! Also the Mary kay foundation or whatever that us that's the one my mom uses!! 😊😝😝

[@CrownedAndFitNFaith]

Girl you all up my Avenue today! I have the journal but I haven’t been writing everyday. Thanks for the extra tip

[@melvinagdavis6870]

Always a pleasure! Thank you ❤

[@cfoBROOK.]

I, unfortunately, suffer from trichotillomania. My mother told me my paternal grandmother used to pull her hair out, too 🤦🏾‍♀️. I currently have a small, but noticeable bald spot at the left front side of my head 😞. I know this is the reason why I can’t retain length, as well as not exercising (which I have been trying to do more often). While I don’t eat unhealthily, I haven’t been eating as much greenery as I usually do. Oh, and I’m TURRble when it comes to getting the proper amount of sleep. For the past two years, at least, I’ve been going to sleep at 1 and 2am and even later. I honestly can’t even remember when I consistently went to sleep prior to 12am 🤦🏾‍♀️😩

[@eems6859]

I think the best state for 4c hair is for it to be loc'd up. It's protective. It allows hair to grow long and it's simple. I always recommend people with 4C hair watch ingrid Hart's channel.

[@digitallocations1423]

It definitely seems to thrive in locs.

[@pretoriaafro5074]

Hello NappyFu, I tested my hair by locing it. To my surprise it really grew! I definitely can see my hair growth when i braid my hair (no hair added/ box braids). I see the new growth for sure. I am learning everyday through your vids. Thank You for your help.

[@faithbankole4851]

I did the same! Except I only did one loc, and the length difference is so obvious. I really need to revisit my regimen.

[@Rashana1031]

I’m soooo happy I watched this video I was watching it as I was doing my own hair

[@AKUBARIKI]

For me it was buying a ph meter and ensuring all my diy ph 4. I no longer use shampoo. Past 5 months I have been covering my strands with sebum. Before I wash I cover strands with coconut oil. My hair is thriving... Edges are constantly sealed and covered with silk fabric.

[@marvinandjosh1]

This was timely. I have been trying to get past WL for a year and I’m now rethinking my regimen/routine and my trimming schedule. Instead of trimming on a schedule, I’m going to do it only when it is needed. I also need to rethink my wash day routine. I need to minimize breakage on wash days.

[@kathatten9241]

Sis, today u have been a blessing to me. From ur chosen scripture to ur sage advice of being our best to give God the glory❤

[@NappyFu]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@bowiesmama9096]

I wish I could thumbs up this video 1000 times!

[@AmakaN.]

For style; I can’t cornrow to save my life 🥺 I struggle with length too. My ist 3 years of being natural I saw length... now it seems I have given up lengthwise; no. I just decided I’d choose health over length.

[@digitallocations1423]

It's probably growing and breaking off when you style it.

[@AmakaN.]

@@digitallocations1423 I’ve resolved to start wearing my hair in its shrunken state... I’m looking for ways to retain more length.

[@kryptseae]

Oooh a hair journal 📔 gotcha

[@lovergirl9668]

I wish u tubers in the Hair community would understand everyone's hair is different, I am doing my own thing and not following anyone's routine. Some maybe most use too many products that I can't afford.

[@joannamelanie]

Definitely because of me so I decided to stop touching my hair so often leaving it in this mini twists for 2 months and oiling it once a week each week hopefully I can be consistent also eating healthy foods taking mane choice and drinking plenty of water

[@urowtanmw3247]

Unfortunately, my immune system is under attack and my hair follicles have been greatly affected. My soft texture 4b hip length hair felt worst than straw and no conditioner I've used has helped. Frustrated, I shaved a few times after the big chop. Now, letting it grown to 4" for braiding. 😨

[@Ossouko]

My downfall is mechanical damage. And I think my maximum length is mid back. I don’t think my genes are set up for waist length. So I am just trying to have healthy hair and get my density back. There was a time when people were scared to deal with my hair because it was so much.🤣😂

[@lesfleurs9369]

Listen to Mercy Gono. She will tell you to let go of that genetic thing. You can make it to waist length. I promise

[@CJ-zs1uh]

Really enjoyed the REAL info in this video.. I became a product junkie in 2020. I decided to pick one herb at a time and use it ( can’t throw away my money😂) consistently to see if it improves my hair health and eat more greens. That is one think I am lacking in. I want length but most of all I want hair health. Love your content

[@amcgee0668]

... Like the hair and makeup🌼thanks for sharing.

[@NappyFu]

My pleasure. And Thank you!!

[@is3472]

Hi Grace! My hair does grow. I neglected it for a few months by not trimming before multiple protective styles. Cut off quite a chunk yestetday, because I feel like getting rid of it altogether 😬

[@BlackRose370]

Finally an honest woman

[@benitasamson9353]

Thank you so much. Because of you my hair has grown so much. My natural hair struggles are single strand knots and splits (not even at the ends of my hair). Since the beginning of my journey, my hair has always been in twists and a satin bonnet. I don't manipulate my hair a lot and my moisture game is on point but I still get knots and splits. This led me to cut my hair regularly in multiple attempts to get rid of all the knots and splits but it didn't work. I've come to accept them as part of my natural hair journey and my life is easier.

[@savinggift158]

Single strand knots is when you use natural oils or no oil To get rid of them you need to apply HAIR GREASE at least to the ends as a sealant Blue magic and Dax

[@faithbankole4851]

@@savinggift158 I was literally about to comment this!

[@afrocareprincess4685]

Those recepies work for some people maybe not others, I follow one of those u posted and saw her journey step by step, her recepies worked for her, so maybe try other options 👌👌

[@kierstencunningham5835]

Girl I’m restarting with you!!! Idk why we keep playing ourselves. Our hair can grow so beautifully #teamkinks

[@cheshiredj]

I think I have a combination. Sometimes I'm not consistent but extreme stress makes my hair fall out - I've had to start over at least 2 times in the past 7 years. It grows back, but I do have to cut it all down so that I don't have strange patches of hair and everything is pretty even.

[@Waridi23]

This is why I went the microlocs way, I get to enjoy my hair wearing it out 'manipulating' it with braid outs etc. I never liked buns cause of the tension however I couldn't wear my natural hair loose consistently without shrinkage, knots and breakage😕. I have fragile strands. It seems just touching it would cause breakage.....So now I am seeing my growth and really enjoying this natural journey with low maintenance . At the end of the day it works with my preference and my lifestyle!

[@mamzoremza4418]

I love your content sis, a lot, but I also love Delly Bie's tips a lot. I've never heard her say our hair can miraculously grow overnight, even when she shows us diy hair sprays to apply overnight, she always shows that consistency is key. My humble opinion is that she doesn't deceive her viewers...I have learnt so much from her and her hair tips work wonders. Everyone's journey is different, and different people benefit from all you great natural hair You Tubers, I just wish you could all uplift and support one another. You are all great at what you do. I loved your tips though.

[@lyndak3269]

Yep Ive asked myself this very question

[@ClaimedQT]

My hair journal does reveal all. I can pinpoint everything with it. That's how I realized that my hair responded better to full strength henna treatments as opposed to henna rinses, mini twists weren't my friend, and that my ends prefer Shea butter sealing over oil sealing.

[@thisiselodie]

Also to your point at 9:50 I think we maybe need to look at, are we forcing a hairstyle that isn't suited for length retention? I started my loc journey about a year and a half ago and a lot of people achieve longer lengths that loose naturals because our breakage prone ends are not impacting the hair in the same way and the tangled prone hair is actually beneficial to the process. Sometimes it's not the hair, but the hairstyle. So knowing that going in can maybe give peace to people who hit a ceiling.

[@BlueberryFundip]

Finally get to sit down and rest to catch up🥰

[@MsFrankiesMusic]

So true!

[@deloiskincaid3092]

Hello

[@stephanie4337]

I used to struggle with tangles. I keep it stretched and am dusting the stragglers. So my hair is hip length and I guess I'm just maintaining that length. Idk if I'll let it grow past that.

[@moonhoneymami]

That’s amazing that you have been able to maintain your beautiful hair so well. Any tips for stretching or length retention?

[@dmndangel]

It is literally always me!

[@kittyskid1]

Grace, you came with facts at 8:34. Thank you for calling the deceivers out. Speak the truth.

[@mayasevelen]

Delly bie doesn’t say overnight if you watch her vids

[@mamzoremza4418]

If you watched Delly Bie's videos you'd know that she doesn't deceive her viewers. By the way, her tips are very helpful and I can't thank her enough for her content!

[@leahk8555]

I noticed my hair was tangling and getting snagged on my collars. I got it trimmed to help w/ tangling. I'm going to be more aware of clothing that makes my hair snag so I can get past chin length & shoulder length.

[@havinesun720]

You are sooo funny!!! Empua!!!

[@Trinatime]

I see a knot! Wow🤩

[@87883]

If you are constantly messing with your hair in it’s natural state it will not grow! No Matter how many videos you watch of natural hair which they upload weeks and months later and the only ones that upload close to daily have reached their length goals! Natural hair is not complicated some women with natural hair have no patience. Just braid it or twist it for weeks at a time a month even better then watch how much it’s grows! It will blow your mind when you finally leave it alone and allow it to do it’s job your hair does not need you to do to mess with it everyday! Protective styling is to protect it from you!!!

[@chanreka]

When I'm lazy I see it in my hair so it checks me about every other month 🤣. Life be lifeing

[@maryclarke4208]

I feel us 4 type girlies feel the pressure to have long, luxurious hair. It's not realistic for some of us. I also feel us kinky girlies go out to buy wigs, weaves, etc. to avoid dealing with our natural hair. The goal should be health and wellness from our head to toes. Everyone's hair journey is different. Be grateful for what you have and work with it!😀

[@naturally_eesha6523]

Right, do healthy things.

[@DellyBie]

My Only happiness is that i did my big chop on camera and my Subscribers saw it. I have carried them along since then and they know whatsup. I keep it real in my channel and that is what matters to me. To Think you featured my videos saying crab does not border me. You are obviously not my day one subscriber. You can make your video without dragging others just to prove your point. Never knew am growing this popular, you should have mentioned our names and the number of People We have killed. Sis get a life. I share my journey how am growing my hair, provided its working for me it will work for others.

[@callygirlstewart]

My hair is happiest and grows best when I Moisturize it with water every other day and use Blue Magic oil. I’ve tried gels on my hair and it makes my scalp crawl and my hair extremely dry so It’s a no for me.

[@ebonyy5248]

are you high or low porosity?

[@callygirlstewart]

@@ebonyy5248 low

[@urowtanmw3247]

Blue magic oil?? I familiar with Magic hair grease.

[@callygirlstewart]

@@urowtanmw3247 It grease…. Sorry we just use to call it oil when growing up🥰

[@urowtanmw3247]

@@callygirlstewart ... 😂. For a sec, thought it was something new.

[@aprilracine]

I’m in my 40s and half of my hair strands have a short growth cycle, around 12 inches or less. The other half is 20 inches so far. It makes my hair look like it has broken off when it hasn’t. I’m currently using green tea every week to extend the growth cycle.

[@digitallocations1423]

Did it work?

[@naeemahkennedy7119]

My struggle is a combination of a couple of things definitely my diet and not having time to take care of my hair! But, want to get into a better routine of taking care of myself. Toddlers make it difficult to have time for self so any other momma's out there have a great routine working full time and doing it well share your secret!

[@mylynnj3792]

It's hard for me to determine how much growth I've achieved. My shrinkage is real real. I prefer to have my hair straightened when getting my ends trimmed, only then am I able to see the growth.

[@Meme.612]

Sometimes I just want to shave it all off!!! What’s the point of having it if it doesn’t like ANYTHING AT ALL 😩 So sick of it if the maintenance, I really am.

[@kapparhotau181]

It seems like I have length set backs every single year 😫. And wash n gos are just super short on me compared to my flat twist outs or twist outs

[@naturallyfocus5330]

My natural hair struggle is to comb my own hair. I am not good at combing my hair, all I do well is to comb my hair in one whether it maybe high are low and protecting my ends. I normally keep that in for a week or two depending on how I feel. However, I ensure that I mositurize during the week when it feels a bit dry. If I really need my hair to comb in a style other than having it in one, I will have to go to the hair dresser. This is what I really want to improve on learning to braid and put my hair in other styles that really looks good.

[@ErinGrime]

One really good detangling method for me is combing my hair with steam, you can do the q-redeem steamer, or get you a headed steamer that also comes with a like face hose so that way it’d make it easier for your hair. If your low porosity, you hair will love the steam as well.

[@Trinatime]

Thanks

[@libfuzzy4629]

I encourage you all to look up black girl curls , please stop putting concoctions on your hair . Wash , condition and use a herbal gel or foam to style your hair and get trims when needed your hair will thrive.alot of black women over complicate the hair regimen keep it simple and you'll be fine also like nappyfu said eat healthy meals

[@VidWatcher01]

My hair broke off about 5 years ago & was shoulder length & not seeming to grow. Hell, the back of my hair just started to reach the beginning middle of my back this year while the front is at almost chin length (That'salways taken the longest & hardest to grow). I'm trying to get it to the lower middle of my back.

[@jadawelleeele8882]

My struggle is motivation. Probably because of some other factors in my life. For me, once I reached a certain point of hair growth i kind of see it as a chore lol.

[@dmoiten491]

My hair grows but specifically the middle is so easily tangled and I do all that is required but that section is always breaking because I have 4G fine strands so it seems like it the only part of my hair stuck at a specific length and I actually don't know how to remedy the issue. I am over it sigh.

[@igbaniliz2878]

Growing back my hairline/edges has been the BIGGEST challenge of going natural for me. It was the damaged hairline that set me on the path of becoming natural since from 2016 when I transitioned from relaxed hair to February 2017 when I did the big chop. This is my 4th year and I'm just beginning to see some change/improvement on my hairline. Length has never really been my focus as I believe healthy hair will ensure growth But like I have noticed, my hair is presently at its healthiest yet the hairline remains an issue. I really don't know what more to do. BUT I must say (with a smile) I really love my natural hair now. I'm NEVER going to relax my hair ever again. I will be grateful for tips that work well to grow back edges.

[@somethingspecial1415]

Hi,you should try using onion juice for at least 1 hr or more before you shampoo.You can use Sunnyisle jamacian castor oil as well

[@igbaniliz2878]

@@somethingspecial1415 thanks. I'm already on the onion rinse régime. I hope it works. JBCO gives me little red bumps along my edges. So I mix just a little in my oil blend. I hope it works too.

[@somethingspecial1415]

@@igbaniliz2878 No problem,your welcome!I thought my edges were never gonna grow back,but i been trying alot of beauty supply products with failed results and this is what worked for me...1st i was using the garlic oil which i made myself as a prepoo then i graduated to the onion juice-it really strengthens my hair.Well i still make my oil blend with onions and garlic..i use about 4 different oils. My focus was never on length just healthy hair and successfully regrowing these edges.August i will be 2 years natural- I have only used onion juice for 2mths and i am happy with the results...just follow up with a moisturizing conditioner or deep conditioner(no after smell).

[@_stickmin]

Your name is Grace? So fitting. 🤗

[@lizexox]

I checked the description and I can’t find we’re you got your hair from pls lmk! Also my biggest hair struggle is dryness I have to learn to moisturise way more

[@indriadrayton1132]

Those scalp closeups was getting me itchy!!!!!

[@treetoptreetop2730]

I really listen to your advice and drink more water, keep hair moisturized using your diy penetrating oil and wear a protective style such as 2 strand twist.

[@consciouslynatural1276]

🤔?!? What is happening ?!?🤔 When I found your channel, I binged watched your videos, charting the 10 years you have posted of your hair journey. Thankfully I have figured out how to best care for my hair now and love doing it, after years of not knowing how to properly manage it. A few pieces of information that has helped me, has come from this channel. It has always been fun and informative to watch your videos. Watching this one though, is a different matter entirely. I have notice more recently, several people comment under your videos, that despite all of the knowledge you are sharing, and being natural for more than 10 years, your own hair journey is not producing results in terms of hair health and retaining length. Now it’s like everything you have been saying over the years and all the science, suddenly doesn’t apply, because you haven’t been taking care of your hair. Not saying setbacks can’t happen in all aspects of life, but it would have been more honest to simply say you are struggling with knowing how best to manage your hair and the aspirations you have for it. This video comes across as resentful, not only of the failings of your own journey, but that of the success of others. This was disappointing to see. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@devinanthony-johnson6228]

I big chopped late January of this year and to me it seems like it’s growing slow and it seems like it’s growing faster in certain parts than others so it’s been a struggle😭.

[@quartzzhuit]

It's normal. I will be 3 years post big chop in July. When I began my journey, the top of my head grew differently than my sides and back. Learn to work with your hair at every stage. 😘🤗

[@trinandrealewis001]

I need your info on the wig you were wearing in the video, please.

[@lyndak3269]

💯💯💯💯

[@diannefrancis4652]

Hi Grace I have baddd shrinkage do you have any videos on this topic

[@lesheawhite1870]

I ask myself that right now. No length change. I tried moisturizing, protective styles, and I get trims. Nothing works for 😥😢