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5 Strange Walking Styles of a Narcissist

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Danish Bashir

Danish Bashir

Күн бұрын

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@narcabusecoach
@narcabusecoach 7 күн бұрын
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@llulu8516
@llulu8516 7 күн бұрын
One question if may I, would narcisist, change while on long term with the new supply? Thanks in advance
@Anna-Rose-
@Anna-Rose- 4 күн бұрын
​@@llulu8516 I, personally, have never seen it. Interesting question.
@eagleeye2300
@eagleeye2300 7 күн бұрын
The man that I was married to would go to the mall with me and then ditch me, especially at furniture stores so he could be on his own. And yes, most often walked in front of me. We visited friends of his in California and we went on a hike...I have allergies so I was struggling to keep up, some shortness of breath...He left me all the way behind and walked ahead with his friends. I ended up leaving him, and then unfortunately ended up finding another narcissist who was way, way worse. Now I'm on my own, still healing from the narc abuse eight years later.
@llulu8516
@llulu8516 7 күн бұрын
The same here sister❤
@yolipurpleflower9784
@yolipurpleflower9784 7 күн бұрын
Several years ago, I went on a date with someone who refused to stop walking at least six feet ahead of me. I was recovering from a hysterectomy at the time and, therefore, could not walk fast. I knew from this guy's behavior that I wouldn't be dating him again.
@lamarkagwe1870
@lamarkagwe1870 7 күн бұрын
May you heal and thrive
@prairrie
@prairrie 7 күн бұрын
That Is shocking im.so sorry . My ex now deceased Marc walked ahead and also pushed me beyond my a stamiina. He cycle ahead too and forecasted and help other female riders but not Me his wife.
@belle8i
@belle8i 7 күн бұрын
If my husband ditched me in the store, I would go to all of the sections in the store I love and just take a little me time. I might put something in the cart for myself and then if he was in any particular hurry to leave he could come and find me. If I'm going to get abused either way I might as well make it worth it.
@hollyhopalong7405
@hollyhopalong7405 5 күн бұрын
My ex would stop walking and if I didn’t notice Within 5 steps we “weren’t really married”, the drama would begin, and he would stalk off either to a bar or would follow me, stalking like a spy, to “catch me” somehow cheating. So Much Drama! He dumped me and my 5 year old son in key west, took the car and drove home (400 miles), canceling my credit card to “ show me”. Abandoned me and a 5 year old in a strange city. There is a special place in hell for him. He did this because I had told him my mother used to “loose” me at the state fair for the free baby sitting (lost child center), and that was why I was so conscientious about where my young son was. I am happily alone now.
@Hawaiiansky11
@Hawaiiansky11 4 күн бұрын
Yes, they absolutely use Any and Every vulnerability you show them as fodder with which to further abuse and attack you. I hope you've learned that you deserve so much better!
@MM-kt4is
@MM-kt4is 3 күн бұрын
He didn't know at the time that he was throwing Brer Rabbit into the Briar Patch! 😂😊❤ all the best!
@GeriRogers
@GeriRogers 7 күн бұрын
This explains why he always walked so far ahead of me. Could barely catch to him. Horrible people! Cruel..mean..unbelievable behavior! So glad for this video. Thank you. ❤
@afsheenqadir5322
@afsheenqadir5322 7 күн бұрын
Yes true❤
@joannturi3968
@joannturi3968 5 күн бұрын
They're like a galloping cancer.
@NoreenNoor-r7g
@NoreenNoor-r7g 5 күн бұрын
Same my husband
@audrablue515
@audrablue515 5 күн бұрын
My narc ex would always walk fast and I couldn’t keep up. He’s 6’ 3” and I’m only 5’ 7” so there’s a big difference in height. He also walked ahead of me. I always complained and he would slow down but always had a smirk when I complained. If I had my time again, I would have just turned around and walked away every time just to give him the shits 😂😂😂
@danaeiremo1379
@danaeiremo1379 4 күн бұрын
Wow- exactly what I went through.. walked way ahead of me- said it was a good workout for me to try to keep up. He is 6'1 and me 5'1" . Cant believe I went along with this for 35 years. Ive been free now for 7 years .
@michelleelfazzate178
@michelleelfazzate178 7 күн бұрын
He took me to the hospital,all the time walking way ahead of me,I had my procedure done and was told I have a cancerous tumor,when I got out of the hospital I broke down in tears,he didn't even hug me and say I'm sorry
@ritadyer9295
@ritadyer9295 7 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry. I understand. I flew to Florida for surgery and my sis went with me. When my husband picked me up at the airport, he didn’t even get out of the car to put my suitcase in the trunk after I just had surgery a couple of days earlier! My brother in law had to do it. It hurts. That’s just one example. I had half my liver removed and he didn’t touch me for three months. I mean he didn’t hold my hand kiss my cheek or stroke my hair. He didn’t want to get turned on. My list goes on and on. So I understand.
@joannaheart8167
@joannaheart8167 7 күн бұрын
What a monster, hope you are healthy now and that he gets the worst in life.
@michelleelfazzate178
@michelleelfazzate178 7 күн бұрын
@@ritadyer9295 what an evil man,I hope you divorced him
@Sunshine-uo8nv
@Sunshine-uo8nv 6 күн бұрын
OMG! When I found out I had cancer. He replied was “what about me?” No hug, no words of sorry about the sad news, that I should be okay.” Or something in that regard that would sound sincere and care like normal people’s response hearing the verdict someone is having cancer. And about walking, why it’s like they all went to school for walking ahead of us. I asked why always walked so far in front of me! I told him he needed to walk beside me. Period. If he walked far ahead of me, I would purposely stop walking and waited for him to come back to walk next to me.
@specialk8927
@specialk8927 6 күн бұрын
@@Sunshine-uo8nv❤🙏
@Mary-t2p6p
@Mary-t2p6p 5 күн бұрын
Yes it’s humiliating loving a narcissist. Always sending the message in public that you are nothing to them, that they are available for an upgrade.
@kathym6603
@kathym6603 5 күн бұрын
Well dear person, do you know the definition of masochist? "A masochist is a person who derives sexual gratification from their own pain or humiliation." HUMILIATION IS YOUR WORD, NOT MINE! I could be wrong here but you would have to prove it by creating a new life and leaving this "loved one" behind.
@Hawaiiansky11
@Hawaiiansky11 4 күн бұрын
This makes me wonder if they sometimes go for a 'downgrade' on purpose, just to show their former how low they actually see us.
@Lordhavemercy24
@Lordhavemercy24 4 күн бұрын
well said
@damianlopez7630
@damianlopez7630 3 күн бұрын
Then do not love them💪👍😡
@anthonyforbes9657
@anthonyforbes9657 6 күн бұрын
Such a subtle thing that the world cannot pick up on but is soul destroying to those trapped in their web
@shivanihr5879
@shivanihr5879 4 күн бұрын
💯
@kbbrown8154
@kbbrown8154 4 күн бұрын
Especially when every word from their mouth is "I do this for you, because I know you were being abused before." Nothing like a "nice guy" who has to control your every move, thought and word while brainwashing you that it's kindness for your betterment.
@susanlatham224
@susanlatham224 4 күн бұрын
Sad for children who have them for parents-very damaging and hard to get past!!
@Pam-u2n
@Pam-u2n 7 күн бұрын
I always had to day “wait up!” When walking. He was 6 ft and I’m 5 ft. The last times I walked with him I just let him go and he would be a block away before looking to see where I was. I didn’t care at that point, go for it, I’ll stay behind and laugh at you. So much better being away from that. Single and walks alone are better!
@trishs4503
@trishs4503 6 күн бұрын
It’s a good sign that you can laugh now!! It is humorous in a dark way.
@Pam-u2n
@Pam-u2n 6 күн бұрын
@@trishs4503and I was married to him for 40 years! Now I have a peaceful joyful single life
@joannturi3968
@joannturi3968 5 күн бұрын
Much more clarity.
@christinalw19
@christinalw19 5 күн бұрын
“Single and walks alone” sounds like an Indian warrior. I like it. 😉👍🏼👍🏼🤍
@claudiabutts5301
@claudiabutts5301 5 күн бұрын
I agree! I fly solo too!!
@triciacarolkilbride2993
@triciacarolkilbride2993 6 күн бұрын
Here's a good one...my ex walked quickly and in front of me too. On our honeymoon, unknown to me, he hadn't booked anywhere as he intended to just find a B&B or sleep in the car! Yes our wedding night. Well I had long hair down to my waist, which was frizzy and a bit unkempt so I put my hair into a plait, which hubby didn't like. He said he wouldn't walk down the street with me with my hair in a braid...so he took a brown paper sack from the shops, cut eye holes, and put it over his head and had the audacity to say that people were looking at MY braided hair! Nobody would believe me but unknown to him, his Partner's in laws lived in that wee town and witnessed the spectacle. I was in tears , humiliated and only married a day! 😮
@jodirose922
@jodirose922 5 күн бұрын
So glad you got rid of that one !!
@MD.orion1
@MD.orion1 5 күн бұрын
Thank God, you didn't give him one more day of your life!
@donnasanford3970
@donnasanford3970 4 күн бұрын
That would have been the first and last day married
@SandyCheeks63564
@SandyCheeks63564 4 күн бұрын
his partner's in-laws? You mean your parents / family?
@barbarawenda55
@barbarawenda55 4 күн бұрын
@@SandyCheeks63564 Exactly, I was wondering if it was just me who didn't understand that ( I am not native English speaker)or was he a polygamist?
@remarkable937
@remarkable937 5 күн бұрын
OMG. In New York, my step father, a few times, left my mother to walk home - which was a good 15 min drive, because she disagreed with him (when they were first married). And he always walked way in front of my mom. The last time he did this she was in her 70's, walking with a cane, had Alzheimer's and he was way in front. She tripped and fell, had to have hip surgery, and the anesthesia made her Alzheimer's worse. She was dead 8 months later. I hate him for that.
@readysetgo8706
@readysetgo8706 4 күн бұрын
I’m so very sorry. What a monstrous man.
@remarkable937
@remarkable937 4 күн бұрын
@@readysetgo8706 Thank you.
@Alpinewild444
@Alpinewild444 4 күн бұрын
😢so awful
@jcook2433
@jcook2433 4 күн бұрын
They are monsters.
@FayeClimenhaga
@FayeClimenhaga 4 күн бұрын
It's always about them and making the spouse look unworthy of their time. I'm so sorry for your loss.
@afsheenqadir5322
@afsheenqadir5322 7 күн бұрын
I suggest every one not to get involved with someone who doesn't respect you ,its better to be single rather than ruining our self-esteem and destroying own short life
@rde4017
@rde4017 7 күн бұрын
It is astonishing that narcs all do the same infantile thing, deliberately walking in front of you. They really are the most pathetic of creatures, aren't they?
@regineheine5707
@regineheine5707 6 күн бұрын
Narcissists aren’t Born this way, they are Made this way. A matter of fact is they feel no Need for changing, they won’t. The Sooners you get this the faster you get Away from this.Stay there wont help anybody but will destroy you.
@victoriousjoy9338
@victoriousjoy9338 5 күн бұрын
Yes!!
@ZeCahli
@ZeCahli 4 күн бұрын
To everyone that is suffering you ARE loved and you CAN get away from this. Please leave discreetly if you can. I know the feeling.
@smoothtwh
@smoothtwh 4 күн бұрын
... and go NO CONTACT!!!
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer 7 күн бұрын
My sister wags her butt from side to side when she walks alone! Will you do one on how narcs drive? When I recognize a painful narc behavior, I laugh and it FEELS GOOD! Bless you, Danish!
@TheFitnessKelly
@TheFitnessKelly 6 күн бұрын
Agree on the driving suggestion. Seems to be a pretty common shared experience for us. I have flashbacks of how terrifying it was to be in a car with him. He was worse if he drove my car. And he wrecked my car and ran it into everything when he would drive it by himself. He never paid for the damage either. But if I so much as tracked a tiny bit of dirt in his car, he was very angry with me.
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 5 күн бұрын
butt wagging....yes, so many. Just open fakebuk!!
@Hawaiiansky11
@Hawaiiansky11 4 күн бұрын
agreeed, agreed!! I wondered who in their right mind gave ex-narc a CDL, when he couldn't even drive my car (because his was a clunker) without almost getting into accidents. I guess that was probably on purpose.
@TheFitnessKelly
@TheFitnessKelly 4 күн бұрын
@ Mine was a cop. They go through extensive driving training as well.
@MM-kt4is
@MM-kt4is 3 күн бұрын
my ex-narc husband always walked way out in front of me. Sometimes, when he wanted someone to see him with his wife, he'd hold out his hand, his fingers spread, his elbow stiff, behind him. That was my que to catch up and clasped his hand. To my shame, sometimes I would reach out and take his hand, to keep the peace and I actually thought he loved me at that moment. The times I wouldn't take his hand, I'd have to pretend to be looking at something else then I'd have to beg forgiveness and explain that I didn't see his hand. I was always supposed to be reading his mind and be at his beckoned call. I'm completely free now, but this brought back memories I had forgotten. This is such a lovely and thoughtful channel! ❤
@bobbyoldsmith9425
@bobbyoldsmith9425 14 сағат бұрын
So very sad isn't it. Sad and pathetic.
@faithevolution552
@faithevolution552 5 күн бұрын
My ex always walked ahead of me or behind me, but never besides me...he loved chaos... The grocery store games ...everything that you said is on point
@camisnyder3460
@camisnyder3460 5 күн бұрын
My husband generally walks ahead of me, as if he’s not even w me or wants to wait for me. One time our daughter fell as we were walking and instead of helping her up he acted like he was embarrassed and walked away!!!!!!!! I’ll never forget that. He’s the embarrassing one, what kind of father does this??
@SkyBlue-nv2tb
@SkyBlue-nv2tb 4 күн бұрын
A narc
@margareth1504
@margareth1504 5 күн бұрын
I knew one who rushed off with the trolley at the grocery store leaving his wife behind. He was so kind to want to help doing the groceries 😊 but only the items he wanted, were allowed in the trolley. She ended up getting her own trolley to put her things in. Soon, he had already gone through the checkout indicating she could not have any goods. He went mad at her at the checkout saying 'what! You cant buy all this stuff! . And the check out girl looked frightened. The woman said to put the items through and it was only a few things amounting to about $25. On previous weeks he was supposed to get these items saying he would do the shopping for her, so kind. Then he returned home without them saying they ran out of those items so he couldnt buy them.
@uffda
@uffda 5 күн бұрын
Exactly what my narc would do to me. He would take off in the store when my back was turned and I’d be looking for him with things to buy and he’d be already through the cash register - sometimes even in the car and not communicate with me. It was like hide and seek. He rarely would be with me in a grocery store - only when traveling or on the way home from an event.
@AlEdJedLee
@AlEdJedLee 7 күн бұрын
I figured this out quite a while into my relationship and decided I would NOT attempt to catch up with them. Told myself, “You are entering this [place] alone, stand tall and walk at a comfortable pace, you’ll catch up with them when you do.” Another grievous habit of theirs is to “peel off” to see what they want, or hit the customer restrooms without a sliver of a thought to letting me know where they’re going. If I am the driver on that outing, I just carry on. If they have driven, I have carried my set of keys to the vehicle to be able to go there, rather than wait anxiously or wander fretfully in search of them. If only I’d known their quirks were part of an untreatable condition, I’d have NEVER continued the relationship. Now, I lean on Danish and the other narcissism survivors for daily encouragement! “Since I can’t go, I just take it slow - and practice self-preservation!”
@eph2vv89only1way
@eph2vv89only1way 5 күн бұрын
Another example of him not caring about my needs was when I was in labour. There was only one chair by the registration desk at the hospital and he sat in it, forcing me to stand with contractions only 1 minute apart.
@sylviealexandris6696
@sylviealexandris6696 5 күн бұрын
That’s horrible! The level of entitlement is unreal.
@danaeiremo1379
@danaeiremo1379 4 күн бұрын
Mine went and got coffee and breakfast when I was in the last hour of labor- many times- once he sat and read a newspaper when I was ready to go in for surgery.
@C21agent1
@C21agent1 Күн бұрын
OMG what an ass, Im so sorry 💔
@eph2vv89only1way
@eph2vv89only1way Күн бұрын
@C21agent1 ty. I'm just glad we are divorced and I am nc now
@tracysmith3363
@tracysmith3363 7 күн бұрын
Danish! Your channel is getting better and better all the time!
@SuperChristine000
@SuperChristine000 7 күн бұрын
I like the smart professional background
@VeilCrossing
@VeilCrossing 6 күн бұрын
My husband used to walk ahead of me, and I couldn’t keep up with his pace. Meanwhile, my mother-in-law would always walk behind me, and I could feel her eyes on my back the entire time. It made me so uncomfortable back then when I was young and hanging out with her-it was horrible, and this video brought those memories back.
@janelle76
@janelle76 5 күн бұрын
Mine did the same. My mother-in-law tried to walk behind me with my kids. I felt like I was walking alone.
@Egh0127
@Egh0127 4 күн бұрын
@@janelle76monster in law smh
@michaelfrank5239
@michaelfrank5239 2 күн бұрын
Wow you sound paranoid.
@VeilCrossing
@VeilCrossing 2 күн бұрын
@@michaelfrank5239 Perhaps you're exactly the type who constantly disregards others' feelings, behaves rudely, and thrives on being toxic. If that's the case, it's no wonder you're facing backlash.
@VeilCrossing
@VeilCrossing 2 күн бұрын
@@michaelfrank5239 Perhaps you're exactly the type who constantly disregards others' feelings, behaves rudely, and thrives on being toxic. If that's the case, it's no wonder you're facing backlash.
@northerngaltrue
@northerngaltrue 5 күн бұрын
This is good stuff. Yup. They will slouch or sigh or sound tired or weary or sad to make sure that everyone is attentive to them. Other times when it suits them they behave with dominance. It’s ALL about control. Very difficult to spot.
@steveharbin3642
@steveharbin3642 7 күн бұрын
I have witnessed the fast style, my ex used to do it to me all the time ! We would go for a walk and soon she would be out of sight. The last time I took a walk with her she did it and I met her at the bottom of the hill (2 miles) didn’t say a word to her and proceeded to run up the hill, needless to say when she arrived back home , she was pissed, laughed at me for running and insulted me for doing so, I just smiled, but I think it said something to her, and that’s when the discard began , how dare I give her the same treatment she had given me every time we walked, they don’t want a shared experience, you are not worthy of that, it’s all about what you can contribute to their experience or not, depending on what twisted phase of their game they are in.
@regineheine5707
@regineheine5707 6 күн бұрын
This had always hurted me and I didn’t know why he did this( my husband). Now I know. My parents were narcissits, Handled me like an object, I was always wrong. No matter which effort I Made. I was meant to bê the adult in the Room when needed and the Baby as well. Uncomfortable.My First husband was an over one, my second one a covert one.Unfortunately I took the critic Inside of me until I realized what this was all about. I divorced my second husband and thanks to Danish and others I now know I Chose what I was familiar with. I still struggle but improving Seven years later.
@trishs4503
@trishs4503 6 күн бұрын
You were already in the discard if she was literally leaving you behind on a walk! Good for you to go for a jog when you did! That’s hilarious. Glad you’re free.
@cefcat5733
@cefcat5733 7 күн бұрын
THEY RUN FROM ONE CORNER TO THE OTHER, IN THE HOUSE. THEY CANT FIND ANYTHING. IS MY SHIRT IRONED? WHERE IS THIS AND THAT? THEY LET YOU HELP THEM GET READY AND THEN THEY SAY, I AM GOING ALONE, YOU ARE TOO SLOW, YOU ALWAYS MAKE US LATE. HEY, IT SEEMS THAT THERE IS NO US. OUT IN COMPANY, THEY ARE THE MOST CHARMING PERSON YOU EVER MET, LAUGHING, HAVING EYE CONTACT AND AT HOME…NOTHING LIKE THAT.
@specialk8927
@specialk8927 6 күн бұрын
I would of left him along time ago, he had every intention on going by himself to look for new supply
@cefcat5733
@cefcat5733 6 күн бұрын
@@specialk8927 That is wonderful. You are very smart and it is healthy to do so.
@scientist3149
@scientist3149 5 күн бұрын
Narcissists are “street angels and house devils “.
@Toni-ck1oi
@Toni-ck1oi 5 күн бұрын
Yes, everyone thought he was entertaining and so kind. Not like that at home.
@shweetiepetina1563
@shweetiepetina1563 4 күн бұрын
@@scientist3149I’d say walking ahead of their spouse is no street angel, correct?
@lecoramassamba
@lecoramassamba 7 күн бұрын
My ex always walked behind to “see who I was looking at” and who was looking at me! And then accuse me of flirting and threaten me and their target. He even hit me a few times when I didn’t admit to the flirting he just KNEW I was doing…that I never actually did 😢
@brokenbuthealed5652
@brokenbuthealed5652 6 күн бұрын
I went thru the same exact thing. One night, after accusing me of looking at men in the casino, he started beating me in the car while he was driving.
@specialk8927
@specialk8927 6 күн бұрын
I hope you left him before it gets worst
@vannarooski8730
@vannarooski8730 6 күн бұрын
I hope this story is past tense. As in you left
@sloanmagnum5009
@sloanmagnum5009 5 күн бұрын
They're extremely insecure and jealous. They will literally convince themselves through delusional hallucinations that you're cheating and all the ways you would cheat and who you would cheat with. It's an obsessive fanatasy of theirs. They will always watch you and stare at you, trying to imagine what you would do, who you would do it with and how you would do it. Because that's how THEY would do it. The most absurd narcissists will cheat on you because they fantasized about you cheaten on them first. Their insane ego can be challenged through pure imagination. They're sick people who cause nothing but misery in the end.
@hadlii
@hadlii 7 күн бұрын
my mom ALWAYS walks ahead of me and my dad. It’s like her superiority of “follow the leader” unlike My dad that always walks with me (thankfully) She did this to me when I was little trying to keep up with her as well, I constantly got lost everywhere and was an anxiety filled child. That caused me so much stress I shouldn’t have had at that age. There’s only so fast you can walk (without RUNNING) when you’re 5-10 years old with short legs
@sandances
@sandances 5 күн бұрын
My mom did that too. I remember losing sight of her when I was little and I was so scared. When you're little you can't see over the tops of the clothing. It's only in recent years that people have been talking about narcissism that I realized she's a narcissist. Now she's 88 and has bad pain in her legs and needs a walker.
@leemckenzie3509
@leemckenzie3509 5 күн бұрын
My husband would walk way ahead of me and our daughters at an amusement park or something- so we just sat down on a bench to see how far he would walk until he realized no one was behind him. 😂.
@ValiantMom
@ValiantMom 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. Somehow, I never connected that his walking behavior was narcissistic! It seems extremely clear now. He always walks ahead of me - unless walking with me will give him supply for some reason. We would go to the grocery store and I'd catch up, then stop to take something from the shelf and he would be around the next isle with the cart. I was always losing him, chasing him around the store with my arms loaded with groceries to put into the cart. Hiking, cycling, airports, everywhere, I'm left trailing 10 feet behind. I'm not slow, he just plows ahead quickly - and goes faster when I about catch up.
@jnorway7295
@jnorway7295 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for posting this. NOW it makes sense to me too. My EX husband did the same thing to me for 18 years, everywhere. I felt so disrespected & humiliated by his actions. We're BOTH fast walkers, but he always insisted on walking 10 paces ahead of me. One time I finally said, "Wait up! It's NOT a competition!" His response, "You have to KEEP UP", as he looked back at me. Yet, when walking with guy friends, he was always walking shoulder to shoulder. For our 3rd anniversary, we went to dinner in San Francisco with another couple. It was dark & after parking the car, my husband walked shoulder to shoulder, next to THEM, to the restaurant for 3 city blocks, leaving me walking BEHIND them. He never once looked back to see if I was there. He was/is a self righteous ass & actually told me once that HE thinks HE'S better than other people 😮. I don't miss that dictator.
@sheryl6043
@sheryl6043 5 күн бұрын
Wow! I have been harassed, stalked and everything evil by a tenant in my building. Malignant, cruel and deceptive. YES, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT SHE DOES! Grandiose, head up marching like a General with hands behind her back and, yes, with that smirk on her face. Intruding on people. No boundaries, she bullies and subjugates others. She either follows me or blindsides me to block my access. Both of which require watching me and planning her attacks, changing her routine and direction exactly as I change mine in trying to avoid her. I carry my phone to document as this has done much harm to me and my health. 😢
@nelliemotey1969
@nelliemotey1969 7 күн бұрын
I have experienced all
@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih
@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih 6 күн бұрын
Me too!❤❤❤
@joannturi3968
@joannturi3968 5 күн бұрын
From day one. My family, friends, boyfriends....I call it surround sound.
@ceridwynnhaven6236
@ceridwynnhaven6236 5 күн бұрын
Oh, the walking ahead makes sense 😢 and none of them showed empathy when I asked them to wait up.
@joanbaczek2575
@joanbaczek2575 3 күн бұрын
Or they purposely walk unreasonably slow then scold you for walking to fast! Like if you can’t walk normal tell me before hand a walk isn’t a beneficiary walk if it’s less than 3 miles an hour dottling is pointless!
@ceridwynnhaven6236
@ceridwynnhaven6236 2 күн бұрын
@joanbaczek2575 Or their legs are a lot shorter and/or they aren't in shape compared to the person walking faster than them and they are upset because of the lack of consideration from the taller/more fit person.
@ceridwynnhaven6236
@ceridwynnhaven6236 2 күн бұрын
@joanbaczek2575 If you are walking with an elderly person ; it's going to be really slow. You walk with them for the company and take time for exercise on your own time. My grandma used to walk painfully slow but I always showed her respect and patience.
@GeriRogers
@GeriRogers 7 күн бұрын
Many times walked around with his hands in his pockets. I know all too well about these monsters. Married to one for 50 years sad to say. Life of torment. RUN AWAY PEOPLE. NOTHING IS WORTH PUTTING UP WITH THEIR ABUSE!!😢
@joinahmukanangana2993
@joinahmukanangana2993 5 күн бұрын
You are spot on. Mine walked with hands in his pockets or with sunglasses all the time. 😂
@shirlythadevuse7934
@shirlythadevuse7934 6 күн бұрын
Each and every word you are telling is true. My husband never allow me to walk in front of him. He push me side and walk in front. His body language is so arrogant. When we walk, he always try to push me on the side of the road and walk in front giving me no space to walk. Shame on him.
@trishs4503
@trishs4503 6 күн бұрын
Damn Shirley. Are you going to tolerate that?
@shweetiepetina1563
@shweetiepetina1563 4 күн бұрын
😡 No more!!!
@Little_L1133
@Little_L1133 5 күн бұрын
Omg, the puffed up polar bear. Love it 🤣 That's sooo him. It's embarrassing. But I used to think it was a competition thing. He always had to be first, or the smartest, the biggest, the fastest, had to win at everything. Makes me feel sick to think I tried too see the good in that monster.
@myboringpowerpoints7782
@myboringpowerpoints7782 5 күн бұрын
He has walked ahead of me for 11 years. I’ve talked about it since we met and he still does it. I started noticing when I catch up to him, he turns to see me out of his side eye and speeds up. It makes me feel like I’m constantly chasing him or we’re racing. I’ve also noticed he will walk right past other women who are waiting in lines without asking if they’re waiting or whatnot. I called him out on it once when it was painfully obvious he jumped in a line because I didn’t want to be seen as so rude. He also yells at women in public when social faux pas happen. He only acts this way with women, never men. I hope I don’t make it to 13 years with this man.😢
@susancrawford5927
@susancrawford5927 4 күн бұрын
He's a coward and a bully.
@simonpegg1196
@simonpegg1196 7 күн бұрын
Nothing with these monsters can ever be normal. When I was 10, I wouldn't walk near narc mother, as she has this tendency of tripping people with her feet just walking. But the irony is that they can wield the power of pretense of appearing to be more than normal to others. Just go no-contact and run!
@russellanddeborahrichardso9213
@russellanddeborahrichardso9213 7 күн бұрын
Yep..I did
@susanl698
@susanl698 5 күн бұрын
Now who would have thought that "walking" would be a topic attached to a narcissist? Danish you have detailed and explained this so well. Mine did it always ahead and walked as though he had some important matter to attend to. Even walking the dog together. So irritating. Or he walked behind so I couldn't see his beady snake eyes taking in the people around us, scoping them out, to zero in on which one he should impress or ego stroke the most. It was physically impossible for him to walk beside me. When I started asking him about his behavior and odd habits walking he would answer No I'm not! Or Yes I am! Like a defensive little brat. Lord have mercy!
@shweetiepetina1563
@shweetiepetina1563 4 күн бұрын
Ughh, goodbye
@martinecoyle8223
@martinecoyle8223 4 күн бұрын
I went out with a Narrcissist for 3 years. He was a teacher. What I noticed about his walk is he had a corridor in his house, wooden floor and he used to walk up and down it making his feet sound like those old school teachers on the corridors of schools back in the day. I told him he liked the sound of his own feet, authoritative he's the boss. He was an insecure wimp really, he could never win an argument with me. I left him, he died a year later.
@theresaturner5193
@theresaturner5193 3 күн бұрын
Usually its the narcissist that wins the arguments 🤔
@Mr2blue2
@Mr2blue2 3 күн бұрын
Your comment has good rhythm and cadence. Reads like a sad poem.
@michelleford7392
@michelleford7392 5 күн бұрын
You’re right on with the walking ahead. I’ve known, seen, and heard of many a narcissist doing this.
@readysetgo8706
@readysetgo8706 4 күн бұрын
At a restaurant, he took up the width of the sidewalk, forcing me behind him and off the edge. I turned my ankle in the landscape gravel, stumbling into the parking lot and onto the pavement. I had sprained my ankle. He kept saying, “Get up, what is wrong with you, you’ll get run over!” He grumbled as he helped me to my feet, and I limped alone to his Jeep, climbing in as best I could alone. He just said, “Hurry up”. In that moment I knew I was done with him. I still wonder why it took me so long.
@leilanidow1
@leilanidow1 5 күн бұрын
I had a casual long distance situationship off and on for 10 years with a man that I went to see while he was working. I drove 4 hours to stay the night. When I arrived he asked if I wanted to go to the mall because he wanted to buy something. I struggled to keep up as he walked purposefully, barely noticing that I was about 20 feet behind him the entire time. Internally, I told myself I was the problem because I couldn’t keep up. He and I didn’t see each other for 7 more years until he drive thru my city on his way to his next job site and he reached out. I went to see him and stayed the night and the next morning he walked significantly ahead of me until we parted ways in the garage with a quick hug and kiss. I’m the kind of person that thinks I have to accept what little I can get. My mom use to tell me that I needed too much love and always made me feel bad for wanting.
@Hawaiiansky11
@Hawaiiansky11 4 күн бұрын
Your mother set you up for failed relationships as an adult, as did my own.
@SuperChristine000
@SuperChristine000 7 күн бұрын
Visiting my daughter in Australia (from NZ) we walked to the local shopping centre. On leaving, each of us carrying 2 bags loaded with groceries, she strode on way ahead of me. I ran across 4 busy lanes of traffic up the hill and proceeded on in front of her as she waited to cross at the lights. When she finally caught up, she asked incredulously 'were you running?'
@kathybrem880
@kathybrem880 5 күн бұрын
Mine always walked ahead of me, when I was dying from bleeding ulcers, he did that as we were walking into the ER
@rowenabanerjee100
@rowenabanerjee100 7 күн бұрын
My ex narc husband walked hand in hand with his mother every time, leaving me to follow..... and the horrible thing I was towards the last few weeks of my pregnancy. Yes the cult always walked together either ahead or lagged behind.
@belle2154
@belle2154 5 күн бұрын
I just want to say thank you. Your posts are so powerful and healing. I love that you can covey so much wisdom and affirmation in a reasonable amount of time. Just sooooo helpful. THANK YOU
@marijanemorales-quinonez7769
@marijanemorales-quinonez7769 7 күн бұрын
The narcissist will never move over to allow you to go first.
@heathereagleson1098
@heathereagleson1098 5 күн бұрын
My dad.😫
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 5 күн бұрын
unless to show the 'show' to others.
@margomcguire7167
@margomcguire7167 5 күн бұрын
Walking down the middle of the sidewalk, so the other person has to walk in the gutter, on the shoulder, or behind. They also walk a lot faster than the other person can comfortably do.
@thereallisa1
@thereallisa1 7 күн бұрын
My toxic extreme narc brother saunters with this sway back and belly out. As a teen, the family used to comment on how he always walked 50' ahead or behind the rest of us.
@frankieoz8350
@frankieoz8350 5 күн бұрын
The "sway back and belly out" had my howling! I totally recognize that walk!
@garymcmanus9946
@garymcmanus9946 5 күн бұрын
I think he is just trying to keep.up or get ahead tbh....😅
@aparna1170
@aparna1170 7 күн бұрын
Next time let us all choose someone we don't need to adjust to
@SimplyD4
@SimplyD4 6 күн бұрын
Say that again
@joannturi3968
@joannturi3968 5 күн бұрын
It should come naturally.
@aparna1170
@aparna1170 5 күн бұрын
@@SimplyD4 did u mean u can say that again. Or say that again to understand. Like joanne said it has to come naturally. Like idiots we are understanding them and understanding them they pretend like we are not getting them. All are pretense to make us run from one goal post to another
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 5 күн бұрын
that can only happen when we heal from root wounds.....it leads us too 'choose' wrong as it's sadly and scarily familiar :(
@aparna1170
@aparna1170 5 күн бұрын
@@Jennifer-gr7hn very true. Danish is giving us perspectives. Till we realize we won’t accept what is being said. 2 years b4 I married ex itself someone told me u hate yourself do u know that. I didn’t understand I kept choosing people who treated me like shit while being overconfident about my likability
@ericacecchini3998
@ericacecchini3998 7 күн бұрын
Hello Danish! I always wondered why when we were walking together he ALWAYS had to be ahead of me and he was moving at a fast pace . Thank you for the clarification ❤️
@ritadyer9295
@ritadyer9295 7 күн бұрын
My husband doesn’t go anywhere with his mom but all of his attention is always toward our daughter in public. He gives her the attention he should be giving to me. Unless it’s inappropriate. He will do stuff to me like grab my behind or nibble my neck. My 11 even told me it’s inappropriate. I see the narcissist now. He is definitely one.
@garymcmanus9946
@garymcmanus9946 5 күн бұрын
The ministry of funny walks has a whole back catalogue that can be aligned to narcissistic behaviours...i remember my dad walking in front of my mother and us kids and been very proud of how fast he walked.😅....we had great days out without him.
@b.a.7270
@b.a.7270 5 күн бұрын
After my third c section he came to pick me up( the second child he didn’t show up) the nurse asked if I wanted a wheelchair, he said no. Walked way ahead of me and picked a fight about how the car seat was supposed to go. Another occasion he hit himself in the face, until black and blue wore his worn house clothes insisting we go to the store after I got out of work ( full dress and make up) hold the kids hand and walk far enough behind to make it look pitiful
@Savannah-v4o
@Savannah-v4o 6 күн бұрын
During chemo, one day we had to to sams. Coming out of the store, he raced ahead of me, it's what he does, I saw a teenage Chinese boy and his grandfather pushing their cart, I asked the boy if I could hold onto his arm to walk to the car, which he nicely said yes.
@louloustreasuretrove2122
@louloustreasuretrove2122 5 күн бұрын
My husband does that with his mother! Always goes in front of me until it comes to checkout the items!!!! Then I go in front to pay for everything every time … been going on for many years.
@minasaint9992
@minasaint9992 5 күн бұрын
OMG my husband is a former marine, he always has walked ahead of me and ate his food so fast never savoring or enjoying the meal as if he was shoveling his food in his mouth I would ask him why? He said in the Marines you had to eat fast on the go all the time and it’s been a habit since, but the walking ahead nah ah don’t think it’s a veteran thing now that I watched this, it makes so much sense, and his bullying, tormenting, ghosting, punishing slights, gaslighting, invalidating, lies and talks over you doesn’t give you a chance to talk, a conversation he thinks is an argument, chaotic 33 yrs of marriage and substance abuse and alcohol also, although he no longer drinks or does substances because his body could no longer tolerate it or it would be detrimental to his health, that in itself is another story yrs and yrs of that, he’s moody, mind games, no empathy, walking on egg shells that’s the word of who he truly is a NARCISSIST wow!!!!
@pepperhill
@pepperhill 5 күн бұрын
Why are you still married to him?
@NinjaMaxHaven13
@NinjaMaxHaven13 5 күн бұрын
You need to leave him. I'm an ex marine, and that is NO excuse to act like that towards you. He's using that as an excuse for his behavior.
@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih
@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih 6 күн бұрын
Oh Boy- i needed this: it sooo made me laugh & chuckle 😂. Childhood trauma survivor from covert religious community narc mom! Sometimes laughter trully IS the best medicine. Id say "marching style"- We constantly got our marching orders.
@ganaraskagirl3432
@ganaraskagirl3432 5 күн бұрын
Upon leaving the hospital with our newborn he took off ahead with the baby and no thought to staying with me let alone helping me (they don't make you leave in a wheelchair after giving birth in ontario). Needless to say I was in pain and needed support. It's interesting and helpful to learn these common behaviors. I left 13 years ago but he is still abusive at every opportunity.
@michaelfischer-xp4cw
@michaelfischer-xp4cw 5 күн бұрын
Cool video, Danish. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@elladonaldson-lh6nc
@elladonaldson-lh6nc 5 күн бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@michaelfischer-xp4cw
@michaelfischer-xp4cw 5 күн бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him or her?
@elladonaldson-lh6nc
@elladonaldson-lh6nc 5 күн бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@michaelfischer-xp4cw
@michaelfischer-xp4cw 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@seanhammer6296
@seanhammer6296 5 күн бұрын
You have to just know that eventually you will be over her. Time will heal this wound. I know because I've been through it more than once. If she was a narcissist, then you are not thinking straight right now. She lied to you and betrayed you. Why would you want her back? You don't need a "spiritual counselor" to help get her back. That is ridiculous. You need to move on. Occupy your mind with other things. It will be hard but you'll get there.
@Erindawn711
@Erindawn711 5 күн бұрын
Lol😂 Narcs love the chase! Im reading comments and i just got the biggest confirmation, they love the feeling of being pursued. They're wired to want to be wanted and if they have a trail of people behind them trying to keep up, in their mind, they're in control in that moment. It's not competition It's a sense of being chased or wanted.
@trishs4503
@trishs4503 6 күн бұрын
I married my ex in part because he was so affectionate towards his elderly mother. I was taught that that was a good sign! I later came to call her “the only woman he ever loved.”
@heatherpeci2909
@heatherpeci2909 5 күн бұрын
Mine walked like a slippery shoulders hubched and just looked nervous 24/7. Then depending on the situation he would switch to super confident. Its like i could see the wheels turning to manipulate ppl depending on who he was around.
@AngelaGrant-uf9go
@AngelaGrant-uf9go 5 күн бұрын
Next time they walk so far in front of you, just turn around and go somewhere else..home, perhaps..I'm sure I've done this before..summising that they were not comfy walking with me, I gave up x
@Kat_Rose
@Kat_Rose 7 күн бұрын
My narcissist father would always walk behind us, they never walk with you, they either walk ahead of you or behind you.
@regineheine5707
@regineheine5707 6 күн бұрын
Being in a car with Someone like my father used to bê a Cage, no escape. Like sunday Morning breakfasts, so I Skipped this in my teenage years.His favorites were to ask me questions Not meeting my age and Knowledge, só he was the brilliant one the who had the Right answer.
@babylonisfallen5142
@babylonisfallen5142 6 күн бұрын
Me too. My ex walked far behind. They’re watching you and any interactions with other people. I found out to my horror, he made gestures and mean faces behind my back when I was talking to someone.
@shellyscholz1256
@shellyscholz1256 4 күн бұрын
I have traumatic brain injury and we make videos for other people who have it. I tried to stay out of the relationship video because of my past with a narcissist but I was encouraged to offer something so I spoke about how much you can learn about a person when you’re holding hands. They could try to control where you go, give in to wherever you go or they can discuss their direction. A narcissist, or at least mine, doesn’t hold hands for the same exact reasons you have highlighted in your video, so thank you so much!
@caobita
@caobita 5 күн бұрын
I am a fast walker, but when I don't walk alone or with people who walk the same pace, I adapt to the velocity of the other one(s), even though it gives me sort of anxiety when I have to walk much slower than usual
@PaigeSquared
@PaigeSquared 6 күн бұрын
Repetition compulsion survivor; scapegoat in family system. Every single one had some way of holding their body in the world to compensate or to send a specific message. They work to normalize their own mental biases and want to believe in that normalization, they believe most of the public judges individuals in petty ways like they do. It is a painful way to live! It means they must be self conscious even with the way they walk in public. My first ex bf (grandiose, thinks he's a lawyer type) coached me, "Do not make space for others on the sidewalk. Keep walking and looking perfectly straight, and they'll make space or go around you." This was because I put one foot off the sidewalk to allow a family with a few kids to pass on the sidewalk. He said it again during an event a few months later. It took me the second time to grasp that he really believed people are assigned actual meaningful value and social power, all based on their posture and gaze when they pass each other on the sidewalk. My LORD their worlds are so teeny tiny!! Imagine being so limited that the way someone passes you on a sidewalk could seriously set you off for the entire day. 😂 The first layer of deconditioning, I learned I didnt have to fear all that stuff. I thought my mom was anxious and trying to help me, in her own way. The second layer, I learned that she wanted me to be afraid of those things, but actually wasn't scared of them herself. I really didn't get it until i understood the character disordered vs neurotic spectrum from George Simon.
@mnkeeme
@mnkeeme 5 күн бұрын
The narcissist in my little world walks all puffed up like she is the most important thing in the room. She stops and talks to everyone and fills them full of flattery because she needs to be the best, the favorite, the most popular., and better than anyone else in the world. She walks over the top of people whom she sees as inferior and when she causes enough havoc in their life, she swoops in, wanting to be their savior.
@lindasnyder2774
@lindasnyder2774 4 күн бұрын
We got to the check out line in the grocery store when he says he forgot the milk. Which happened to be in the farthest back corner of the store, knowing I would have to run all the way to retrieve it because we were holding up other people. All this is so true. It’s over now. 🙏🏽♥️🤗
@KarenCrouch-d3k
@KarenCrouch-d3k 5 күн бұрын
I love your podcasts. You are spot on.
@BhavikaPathre
@BhavikaPathre 5 күн бұрын
My narc ex would walk faster than me and I had to catch up to him, but also he would constantly judge me about the way I walked. At the grocery store he would waste a hell lot of time in deciding what he wanted and did not care what I want, he wouldn't let me buy anything and would judge my every decision in buying things.
@DJPeachyful
@DJPeachyful 5 күн бұрын
Are you free of him now? 🙏
@DJPeachyful
@DJPeachyful 5 күн бұрын
I'm finally free of mine. After telling him a few home truths about his diabolical behaviour.. Give him both barrels & he went silent He's lost interest now he knows he can't control me. Just proves it was never about love because they're incapable. Control is all they want. Well I'm worth more than that & so are you.. 🙏
@BhavikaPathre
@BhavikaPathre 4 күн бұрын
@@DJPeachyful Yes I'm free from his control. Those days with him were exhausting. I felt huge sense of relief the day he left.
@BhavikaPathre
@BhavikaPathre 4 күн бұрын
@@DJPeachyful I'm glad you are free and you called him out. Yes they definitely lose interest when they see you stronger and happier. When I texted my ex saying that I'm doing good n with a smile, he just blocked me lol.
@BhavikaPathre
@BhavikaPathre 4 күн бұрын
@@DJPeachyful Thank you, yes we are worth more and we deserve much better.
@obiwanknomie1983
@obiwanknomie1983 4 күн бұрын
I so agree with this! My narc walks behind me everywhere. I see him smiling at everyone, if I turn around or slow down he stops smiling immediately! He smiles so much many people don’t even acknowledge me, they only look at him. Even men give him all the attention. They stare at him right past me. I’ve asked him about it but he denies what he does! Yet he will attack me if someone happens to talk to me or notice me!
@victoriousjoy9338
@victoriousjoy9338 5 күн бұрын
At 1st my narc hub walked ahead of me by 5 feet or so. But since I like to walk fast, he resorted to walking 5 feet behind me. After church, he was the last to leave even when i said that I needed to leave right afterwards because I had something to do. A couple of times he ran the car off the road on purpose so I stopped riding with him. Eventually, he filled up his car with trash so that there was no space for anyone to sit!! 😅
@linkrules123
@linkrules123 7 күн бұрын
I always walk beside people in public. I let people know that they’ll only get honesty and truth out of me. The one narcissist I communicated with claimed the same but couldn’t stand by it. I called them out on it because they have a group that attempts to hide the fact. She would literally claim that doing her job to help others is selfless even though she’s paid by them to do it; when I would go out of my way to help anyone that needed help expecting nothing in return.
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer 7 күн бұрын
Me too. If they lag I attempt to even it up.. I like to be equal. Both get respect!
@Amelia-v2p
@Amelia-v2p 6 күн бұрын
My ex boyfriend would do this, walk very fast ahead of me while hiking and I would ask him why he did this and he would say that I'm walking too slow when I wasn't 🤔. I would think even if I did walk slow why wouldn't he walk with his girlfriend 🤔🤔. Great video, thanks!.?
@rypo4097
@rypo4097 5 күн бұрын
Spot on. They are exhausting. Hard that people believe their gaslighting of victim.
@nothingmakessense2
@nothingmakessense2 5 күн бұрын
Sport on with covert. It was an observation i had with my ex wife. She played everyone! She made false allegations , but, someone so shy / nice couldn’t possibly be lying. Different person at home. Finally 3 years of family court battles , she was found malicious , all her false allegation come to light and I now have 50/50 shared care of my kids.
@cefcat5733
@cefcat5733 7 күн бұрын
I HAVE A FRIEND WHO USED TO DITCH ME AT THE FURNITURE STORE…IT MAKES ME SUSPICIOUS AND THEN SHE WOULD CALL ME AND COMPLAIN TO ME ABOUT NOT BEING ABLE TO REACH ME, BECAUSE OF THE BAD RECEPTION, IN THE STORE. I GUESS SHE IS ONE TOO. IT IS A CRUEL WORLD.
@sylviealexandris6696
@sylviealexandris6696 5 күн бұрын
I experienced the walking ahead, my ex would get mad at me for trying to keep, he said I always had to race him. Getting out of the car not fast enough. I was constantly lectured about being to slow on purpose.
@Rosalie-gv5bi
@Rosalie-gv5bi 4 күн бұрын
Can't believe what I am hearing about the walking patterns and even eating patterns of a narrcissist......it explains so much of what I experienced.....always wondered what made him tick ??? The biggest of these is the love and attention he gave his Mother.....which I thought was a good sign......SOOO WRONG WAS I. I found out the hard way.....his Mother was his ONE TRUE LOVE !!!
@BonnieBumgartner
@BonnieBumgartner 2 күн бұрын
I’m a recovered victim. The person had every walking style except the hands behind the back. This just helps me know how true all of this is thinking back. Thank you.
@NgoziKOka
@NgoziKOka 5 күн бұрын
Oh Mr Danish you know these monsters so well😂! Thank you so much for exposing them aoul vampires ! ❤ from Nigeria
@crystal9189
@crystal9189 6 күн бұрын
He always walked ahead of me, even when I was very pregnant. Such an asshole
@SusyQ8228
@SusyQ8228 5 күн бұрын
My husband and a female friend of his raced out ahead of me at the shopping center. I’d recently had spinal cord surgery and needed a walker to get around. I couldn’t even attempt to keep up. They loudly discussed how dramatic I was being. She said the epidural she’d had years prior was the same as the procedure I had undergone. He agreed with her calling me a drama queen, knowing that she was wrong. I quit trying to catch up and went into a cafe. Of course when they finally found me I was berated for not considering the needs of the group. I was not allowed to turn my head or reach for any reason at that point in my recovery. That was the moment I realized I had married a narcissist. But at least his friend had a lovely vacation during my recuperation period .
@jaynestarrett7779
@jaynestarrett7779 6 күн бұрын
The walking fast ahead ,I know that one, not putting up with it with someone again. Also, the one where you make a suggestion about something, they do the opposite, so immature.
@neeluswar
@neeluswar 4 күн бұрын
So spot on. Every single word resonates with what I faced. The person in my life had every single character you mentioned, every type of display in different scenario.
@seekerofgrace2058
@seekerofgrace2058 6 күн бұрын
Bravo! Another home run! So true!! It always puzzled.me! Alsays walked far ahead or behind! Never hand in hand or as a couple /family!
@connieheitz8982
@connieheitz8982 4 күн бұрын
I was married to a narcissist for 25 yrs. Now I know why he always walked ahead of me and when I would ask him to slow down it always caused a problem. Thank you!!!
@paulinetayen9559
@paulinetayen9559 7 күн бұрын
Im not married to a narcissist; however, my daughter is. I can see right through him and he can’t stand me. I tried to speak with my daughter but doesn’t believe me. I am now looking for a place. If she had told me the truth before I retired and moved in with her, I would have never retired and moved out of California.
@paulinetayen9559
@paulinetayen9559 7 күн бұрын
He is one creepy dude,a true sicko. If these videos did not exist, I would be lost.
@jbuntine1255
@jbuntine1255 7 күн бұрын
My brother hates me to the core because l can't tolerates his rubbish.. No marriage will last .
@paulinetayen9559
@paulinetayen9559 7 күн бұрын
@@jbuntine1255 It’s too bad. Gosh, it’s so hard to leave my daughter. And now he’s turning her against me. I guess I’ve gotta think of my sanity.
@jbuntine1255
@jbuntine1255 7 күн бұрын
@paulinetayen9559 yes it gets bad other wise look after you.
@paulinetayen9559
@paulinetayen9559 7 күн бұрын
@@jbuntine1255 thank you.
@merauble6658
@merauble6658 4 күн бұрын
Thank you for your videos. They help me 3 years after managing to divorce my covert narc. He ALWAYS walked ahead of me....
@shivanihr5879
@shivanihr5879 4 күн бұрын
My sister is an evil narcissist. Whenever she is out with me and mother she would always walk fast, separate from us, ask us to hurry up (for no reason at all), try to dominate our pace, wouldn't help us carry the bags, even ask us to spend money on everything we all eat or buy together without contributing anything at all. Confusion for me is that she wants to go out with us but is frustrated or angry with us the whole time. And this has happened more than 50 times. We started thinking it might be work stress. But it can't be. Your work cannot be stressing you out every time we go out shopping/hangout.
@seaneendelong8065
@seaneendelong8065 3 күн бұрын
Oh dear. My older sister is just like this too. And has been every single activity, event, trip, even private homes if moving around or doing something like cooking. She does it to our mother when no one else is around, and actively hunts for things to criticize or make about her constantly. And if it is a special time for another and she cannot make herself part of the center she will suddenly be hurt or weak or otherwise require special distracting attention for the entire time. When her life was busy, short on free time, broke, relationship failing. And when her life was relaxed, tons of free time, financially good, solid relationship. It never stopped. This has been true our whole lives, and I am 64. It will never stop.
@MISSSUPERNOVA-
@MISSSUPERNOVA- 7 күн бұрын
Oh my Gooooooodness!!!! THAT'S WHAT MY NARC HUSBAND AAAAALWAYS DO!!! He and everybody consider me too beautiful or too young for him. When I'm at home he loves it, when we go shopping he seems to hate it! He aaaalways goes faster and ahead of me!!! He is a macho man and he acts like a brat little girl and make me run after him!!!
@wl9365
@wl9365 6 күн бұрын
I had no, & I mean NO idea these twisted sick evil souls existed...until feeling the "Something just feels so OFF" in this so-called relationship. I could NEVER put my finger on it to figure it out. Years later, Heavenly Friends appeared around me, where after self-examination, relationship evaluation, & careful listening, observing, praying for peace, insight, intuition, & guidance, I AM NOW CONFIDENT where the "OFFNESS" has come from. No empath deserves this brutal, coveted, blindsided trickery. NO EMPATH. Give time get to really know ppl. This wicked behavior is damn near invisible to spot. They hide it to reel you in. Your GUT WILL inform you. Pay close attention. Protect your peace. REMEMBER: God's Love is ALWAYS Pure. ❤
@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih
@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih 6 күн бұрын
Spot On! Never let them rush you / push you about. I find they are excessively pushy with gifts & timing.... It's the Narcissistic entitlement. On Their timing.
@SierraNovemberKilo
@SierraNovemberKilo 6 күн бұрын
There are numerous textbooks explaining how "the body reveals". There are physiological reasons for the postures people adopt and thus why they can be "read". Being an empathy, bybthe way, doesn't absolve you if "doing work" on yourself ". Life will teach you that you have to learn how to use your empathy with discernment.
@cefcat5733
@cefcat5733 7 күн бұрын
MINE WALKED AHEAD. WAY AHEAD. THAT WASNT VERY ROMANTIC. 😅
@garymcmanus9946
@garymcmanus9946 5 күн бұрын
Did you go on the pier board walk and slow down just enough? 😅
@monongahelacats
@monongahelacats 6 күн бұрын
My ex always walked ahead of me. He’d also disappear from me in stores. He also parked his car at the furthest possible point from the other cars. It’s ridiculous.
@saluma1447
@saluma1447 4 күн бұрын
This is so true!! OMG!! I could not believe the slow walking bothered me so much, cuz i knew he was doing it on purpose to be late and steal time. I also noticed him putting on breaks with his shoes
@ninjacat508
@ninjacat508 7 күн бұрын
They want to walk a quarter mile ahead of you, go for it narc. That's what I say. The one I recently escaped from did this all the time. We never ever looked like a couple. I one time asked him "why do you want to give other men the impression I'm a single woman"? He wasn't expecting that. He brought up that comment several times. It obviously bothered him. I knew he looked at it the other way around, until I brought to his attention that I appear single, I appear free to meet and mingle. He would walk at such a fast pace, it was almost a 'trot'. No way was I going to 'gallop' just to try to keep up. We would walk our dogs daily and his dog is bigger and half my dogs age. My dog is a 10 pound Maltese with heart disease. The only possible way to keep up would be to pick up my dog, carry him and jog. Nope, never happened 😅😅😅. So go ahead narc, trot down the park walkway in work boots and jeans. You won't be getting attention or looking available. You just look foolish to the rest of us who actually walk our dogs, or ourselves.
@uffda
@uffda 5 күн бұрын
Wow! So very true’ I could tell many stories!
@princesshall8229
@princesshall8229 6 күн бұрын
My ex partner 3years i was with him but he wasn't with me. He only took me out to dinner once. That's when we first met. This horrible man called me so much horrible names any special day he would spoil it my birthday Christmas .he always goes missing for 3 months then comes back like nothing happened Evil people
@lizstraub6621
@lizstraub6621 6 күн бұрын
ONCE, my ex-husband agreed to 'help' me do the weekly grocery shopping. We had a sitter stay with the 3 children that I usually had to bring with me! Well....ex-husband refused to lower himself by bringing the shopping cart down the aisles. He stayed with the cart at the END of the aisle, and co-dependent that I was, ran up and down the aisles to put things in the cart! It was more exhausting than food shopping with three little kids! I never asked him to help me ever again ! Arrogant Narc also walked "Shoulders First" pushing his shoulders out left, then right, a very cocky gait. He also jutted his chin and almost unconsciously touched his genital area like some kind of Alpha Male signal! These people are so sick....
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