Narcissistic Future SIL Said I'm Not Pretty Enough To Be a MOH at Her Wedding, So My Brother Call...

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@Maninawig
@Maninawig 9 ай бұрын
Story 1: "Heather claims he was so drunk that he was passed out for most of it" so.... they are admitting to r@ping him?
@tatkkyo9911
@tatkkyo9911 8 ай бұрын
Yup that would seem to be the crux of the issue.
@Bunny_queen143
@Bunny_queen143 8 ай бұрын
SUE.
@rynieryarom4277
@rynieryarom4277 8 ай бұрын
The problem is some places does not recognise male SA. Even it is some judges doesn't believe in it
@Daeneiracorn
@Daeneiracorn 8 ай бұрын
@@rynieryarom4277 which is so dumb. like guys look up the DEFINITION. "sexual intercourse without consent" HE. DID. NOT. GIVE. CONSENT.
@denis3208
@denis3208 8 ай бұрын
Most people can't get the tool to work when they are that drunk, or so I heard, so it might even be impossible.
@NotAnIlluminatiSpy
@NotAnIlluminatiSpy 9 ай бұрын
What's kind of hilarious to me, is that AAALLLLL of this would never have happened if OP was the best woman.
@Star-bk1qj
@Star-bk1qj 9 ай бұрын
Fr ☠️☠️☠️
@Maninawig
@Maninawig 9 ай бұрын
Probably not directly, but I doubt the racst bride could actually keep quiet anyways
@mrsw2923
@mrsw2923 8 ай бұрын
Do you see now why it is BAD to have us women in charge?!?! This here is woman fighting. A man will punch you in the face and all will be fine. Not so with women. We are ruthless and vicious. I’m a real feminist. So I’m a senior citizen. We never denied who we are. We embraced it. Understand your weakness and proceed accordingly.
@laetitiac9890
@laetitiac9890 8 ай бұрын
Then the brother would be married to a psychopath
@LadyMysanthrope
@LadyMysanthrope 8 ай бұрын
omfg ... 😧
@trashotaku
@trashotaku 7 ай бұрын
"I never expected you to be this jealous or vindictive" says the girl who got her grunt to physically assault two people with A EFFING BRICK and showed up to her ex's place where she not only damaged his property but also physically assaulted him all because he got into a new relationship (albeit a fake one)
@xXSetsuaiXx
@xXSetsuaiXx 8 ай бұрын
"You wouldn't want me as an enemy, young man." "We have a Zara and a Xena. Bring it."
@theodorebarton4256
@theodorebarton4256 4 ай бұрын
gives the same energy as "I have an army" "we have a hulk" or "I am a god" * gets destroyed * "puny god"
@Exe_gaming030
@Exe_gaming030 9 ай бұрын
I know I should comment on the story but every now again, I’m looking at the video, and I just see the Minecraft gameplay in the background and I just find it amusing, from how they tried to craft arrows with string instead of sticks, their discovery of different apples, and them being confused on why they couldn’t craft a copper shovel despite clearly having made one before
@ericacano9057
@ericacano9057 9 ай бұрын
😂 I'm glad I'm not the only one. They could even use the crafting bench to help but they just give up and I'm like "it's there! Click it! It will tell you how to make the copper axe!!" Interesting to see them building what looks to be a storage space, probably going to be an automatic redstone one from the looks of it. At first I had been focusing on how nice the texture pack makes the cobblestone look, then I started looking at the build and trying to figure out what they were building.
@chriiiiis
@chriiiiis 8 ай бұрын
Dude, the minecraft game play is so ass I'm distracted. Like why doesn't bro have a weapon or more food while mining????
@robertfaucher3750
@robertfaucher3750 7 ай бұрын
I was like tf is going on here when I mistook the goblin trader as a baby zombie and jumpscared myself
@Poopick
@Poopick 7 ай бұрын
Yeah the arrow crafting sure was so funny, it caught my attention from the main subject. I was like "what is player trying to do exactly? Oh he tries to make arrows? Funny error in recipe"
@lorinash9283
@lorinash9283 6 ай бұрын
The game is so weird i was like ok what weird mincraft mod is this
@AfraidCrawdad
@AfraidCrawdad 9 ай бұрын
“YoU dOn’T wAnT mE aS aN eNEMy YoUnG mAn” last time I heard that they were gunned down by the police. Oh well
@nonebusiness7723
@nonebusiness7723 9 ай бұрын
I would ask for further context?
@Nerdbookworm
@Nerdbookworm 9 ай бұрын
@@nonebusiness7723same like wtf is homie smoking
@Maninawig
@Maninawig 9 ай бұрын
RIP to your grandma
@cookiecrumbs2840
@cookiecrumbs2840 9 ай бұрын
@@Maninawig Ain't no way xD
@AhmadSmith-kd9pt
@AhmadSmith-kd9pt 9 ай бұрын
The thing is she was running from the law and that's also against the law😂😂😂😂😂
@GoldyOs
@GoldyOs 8 ай бұрын
OP NEEDS TO ACCEPT THE GODDAMN HELP! She has no sense of self worth even though she sounds like an amazing woman! Your counselor needs to help her grow a spine in a healthier way.
@sweetblaquewine
@sweetblaquewine 8 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@MrDoreius
@MrDoreius 8 ай бұрын
And the therapist seems to be crap, did not catch op having depression
@gogodance5244
@gogodance5244 6 ай бұрын
Honestly her lack of spine caused so much problems at times it got frustrating
@gavinwilliams1288
@gavinwilliams1288 6 ай бұрын
You see the same too! I mean damn she says she doesn’t want help but then complains about not knowing what to do. She wants to go places only when she knows it’s safe. Lady she’s on the run and could be anywhere, basically nowhere is safe. You have to protect yourself at all times. Plus she doesn’t want any protection but still doesn’t feel safe. Bruh what the?
@ryangooseling
@ryangooseling 9 ай бұрын
The OP has the wickedest sense of humor. I wish her and her family only the best.
@akaony
@akaony 9 ай бұрын
To think nothing of this would've happened hadn't Heather outed herself by calling her best woman tacky
@trashotaku
@trashotaku 7 ай бұрын
Fr, but of course someone as entitled as Heather would never hold themselves accountable since it's clearly everyone else's fault that her life spiraled so violently down the drain and into the sewer 😮‍💨😑🙄😒
@lauriemeyer7030
@lauriemeyer7030 7 ай бұрын
The letter from Heather, text back. Hope you figure out you did it to yourself. PS, I am positive Heather is not on the street! PPS, your boss is a pr!@k.😅
@avencree
@avencree 8 ай бұрын
After that long, stupid, completely self serving, text from Heather trying to be the “bigger” person, I’d just text back “Sucks to suck.”
@yopoxikeweapescai9066
@yopoxikeweapescai9066 8 ай бұрын
For me it would be "projection lol"
@trashotaku
@trashotaku 7 ай бұрын
I would've just sent "😢"
@Kuromicbc.
@Kuromicbc. 6 ай бұрын
For real
@Kuromicbc.
@Kuromicbc. 6 ай бұрын
I would’ve sent « 😂 »
@luciferphoenix301
@luciferphoenix301 5 ай бұрын
Now I see why people send "womp womp" these days. Perfect opportunity.
@olipq
@olipq 8 ай бұрын
ITS STILL UPDATING HOLY SHITTT but also aaron and zara are now officially a couple so 🥳🥳🥳
@buttersaltedpopcorn
@buttersaltedpopcorn 8 ай бұрын
no bc i looked it up and op legit hust updated
@misslovely9727
@misslovely9727 8 ай бұрын
Where can I see the update? 👀
@Kiracainvlogs666
@Kiracainvlogs666 7 ай бұрын
I NEED A LINK
@TTSteve
@TTSteve 7 ай бұрын
YEEEES
@KatSheep
@KatSheep 7 ай бұрын
Wait still?! Im not even half way done with the video now I gotta read it
@SilveryBlue1010
@SilveryBlue1010 8 ай бұрын
That Francesca message is so hilariously self-victimize and delulu if I'm OP I'd reply to that with one clown emoji 😂
@khaleesireyna731
@khaleesireyna731 7 ай бұрын
OMG yes! Like, I've got a family that has several professional victims (ie NOTHING is ever their fault and the world is just out to get them. Any argument against this version of reality for them is futile. My mother is the 1st one of these that comes to mind) and I don't think I've ever heard anything quite so delulu.
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 8 ай бұрын
Adopted is a wedge word. It's meant to separate like "real" family. If she says it often enough she hopes it creates a distance
@CharlieApples
@CharlieApples 8 ай бұрын
Nah, it was a relevant detail.
@zoeb3573
@zoeb3573 7 ай бұрын
@@CharlieApples I think they mean the fact the SIL kept pointing out he was adopted, trying to create distance between the siblings because they're not "reaaaaally" siblings. which is bs.
@mgnruth
@mgnruth 5 ай бұрын
Agree ❤
@liztewliztew
@liztewliztew 7 ай бұрын
47:05 - OP didn’t ruin her brother’s relationship. The wannabe bride-to-be is the one who ruined her own relationship with OP’s brother.
@adya7958
@adya7958 9 ай бұрын
Aaron told op not to give details on where she is staying. OP: Gives a fake name but proceeds to give all details about Zara.
@Zminator1986
@Zminator1986 9 ай бұрын
Especially when she makes a big deal that she's the other black woman in the old job, has her own business, owns a specific breed of dog, is a mil brat, rents an apartment I'm like, "OP, you are an idiot and making it easy for to expose who Zara is."
@lunaphoenix1785
@lunaphoenix1785 8 ай бұрын
She explained Zara in the next post
@nicholaszikos3851
@nicholaszikos3851 6 ай бұрын
Zero chance if you know them you can’t find Zara she’s the only other black lady at the theater in leadership
@mr.halfright
@mr.halfright 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, with the details she gave, basically anyone who knows her somewhat well could easily find whoever Zara is
@Kati_P
@Kati_P 6 ай бұрын
"You chose to make me do all of this" is such a telling statement. This is a person who can't take responsibility for their actions. Everything they do is someone else's fault, never theirs. This is NOT someone you want to have around you, if you can possibly help it.
@Jasmine-gb6uq
@Jasmine-gb6uq 9 ай бұрын
This should be made into a horror movie. H is psychotic.
@TiffWaffles
@TiffWaffles 9 ай бұрын
Not just Heather but her best friend Kim as well. Both of them are psychotic. Can you imagine having somebody like Kim smashing you in the head with a brick just because you wouldn't entertain her bullshit?
@funtimegenshin6973
@funtimegenshin6973 9 ай бұрын
The moment she called me tacky she would of gotten thrown out by her hair and the whole family would know why
@SenatiaA
@SenatiaA 8 ай бұрын
Amen
@zekova
@zekova 5 ай бұрын
Hell yeah 🙌🏻💯
@mgnruth
@mgnruth 5 ай бұрын
Oh for sure I ain't flying that shit 😂
@skinnyguy4180
@skinnyguy4180 8 ай бұрын
“There is a brick on my desk.” OH SHIT! 😮
@rosevalety3408
@rosevalety3408 7 ай бұрын
This is like a thriller book, except these are real people... My god I hope they all heal from this. Han and Aaron are keepers, you guys are just family for each others, be safe sister, truly hope it's behind you.
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 8 ай бұрын
If Heathers dad doesn't have her in a mental asylum, then she's not as sick as he's pretending she is
@southernflight5078
@southernflight5078 8 ай бұрын
That message to Francesca is wild. She clearly is messed in the head. Someone failed to take Heather to some hospital visits when she was younger. That woman is so unhinged that I'm surprised that her mask didn't fall immediately.
@yopoxikeweapescai9066
@yopoxikeweapescai9066 8 ай бұрын
Average dnd player i guess lol
@Toonwalla2010
@Toonwalla2010 7 ай бұрын
​@yopoxikeweapescai9066 ugh! don't lump her in with the average DnD player. 😂 The crappy insecure players are not the norm but are the loudest so they get the most attention and give us a bad rep. Even we stay would stay away from Heather's level of crazy
@yopoxikeweapescai9066
@yopoxikeweapescai9066 7 ай бұрын
@@Toonwalla2010 average population perception tbh. Happens to all the the "kinds" of ppl xd +idk, maybe some crazyness helps the psycotic character be more accurate xd
@dalekayataiga
@dalekayataiga 7 ай бұрын
She probably is a narcissist
@nicholaszikos3851
@nicholaszikos3851 6 ай бұрын
Sith magic keeps others from seeing her true face
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 8 ай бұрын
You and your brother need an attorney. It's important. They know all the steps that go into a court case. For instance you can ask to be reimbursed for medical expenses and even lost wages. And the lawyer can make sure the restraining order get tied to the sentence which extends the restraining order
@liamcordery114
@liamcordery114 6 ай бұрын
hey if your wanting OP to see this you may want to comment on the original post just in case they don't know about this video nothing against the creator of this video it's just sometimes somethings get on YT without the OP knowing.
@TrentReeves-c2k
@TrentReeves-c2k 8 ай бұрын
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it...
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 8 ай бұрын
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@TrentReeves-c2k
@TrentReeves-c2k 8 ай бұрын
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 8 ай бұрын
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
@SS-nl2qf
@SS-nl2qf 8 ай бұрын
Scammers! This comment is a scammer.
@TiffWaffles
@TiffWaffles 9 ай бұрын
120 pounds isn't overweight though... Especially for someone who is OP's height. I am early in the story and I just feel so bad for her. I know that she's absolutely beautiful. Can you imagine telling somebody who had body issues before that they need to lose weight which will only put them back in that negative mindset? I am getting some racist vibes from SIL, too.
@lindsay1989
@lindsay1989 9 ай бұрын
Right? That’s actually super slim at 5 7”
@RylieRiddle
@RylieRiddle 9 ай бұрын
120 at 5'7 seems a bit too slim. She should be closer to 130, 135 if she's super active.
@ARcinder
@ARcinder 9 ай бұрын
Yeah 120 at 5'7 is a BMI of 18.8, that is just barely above underweight. OP must have been "too" curvy for her exSIL liking. Most likely some mix of racism and jealousy.
@Maninawig
@Maninawig 9 ай бұрын
​@@ARcinder I got mixed up with kilograms, so I looked it up and this is right. The lowest number I could find for a healthy weight of that size is 122lbs... lowest. So she is still underweight.
@smsff7
@smsff7 8 ай бұрын
She sounds underweight at that. I think a healthy weight for a woman that tall is 122-149 pounds
@Maninawig
@Maninawig 9 ай бұрын
Got to say that OP's nerdiness in Story 1 is quite endeering... maybe as it joyfully contrasts the horrors of her story and is super well placed.
@hadencross
@hadencross 9 ай бұрын
Im 58 mins in and still locked in
@austinfowler2707
@austinfowler2707 8 ай бұрын
Story 1: So im gonna go with the likelyhood that she cheated and got the abortion. Given her personality, she would have jumped at the chance to baby trap him. Thought the only defense i can give her is: 1) her father is highly religious and finding out she got pregnant out of wedlock would have run the risk of losing access to the family money/didnt want the ire of her father. 2) theres a slim...slim chance that she didnt want to be pregnant at that time so did it. Which would have been her right. But this is the least likely imo. This lady is crazy regardless so it could be any reason.
@daylightbright7675
@daylightbright7675 7 ай бұрын
Dude, either she cheated or SA'd her fiancè? There is no defense for her. One possibility is already pretty fucking bad, and the other is even worse...
@S_047
@S_047 7 ай бұрын
100% a cheater.
@jaredcastro579
@jaredcastro579 5 ай бұрын
Option 3.) She cheated on the brother with a man of a completely different race, and she knew the baby would be obviously a mix of something that isn't OP's brothers race.
@nope_118
@nope_118 9 ай бұрын
I dont care if it's fale or not, it's so well written
@nunyabizness6113
@nunyabizness6113 7 ай бұрын
Not really the nerdy references felt forced and all of it sounds like a wattpad story
@tracygardner6318
@tracygardner6318 8 ай бұрын
Kim threw a brick at OP, I’m glad you stayed over the night. Your brother was right siblings we have a language of our own.
@_Cursed_Queen_
@_Cursed_Queen_ 8 ай бұрын
‘I’m just tired, not physically but mentally and I just want to sleep all the time’ I just sighed to myself and went ‘that’s depression, babes.’ I also felt offended at first when my doctor said that I might have depression and should get it checked out, because I didn’t feel sad or suicidal or whatever like you would expect when you first think of depression. Perhaps years ago I was closer to that stereotype but it was labeled as anxiety. Now it’s mostly revolved around energy and motivation, which is hard ontop of my adhd lol
@randomfan4521
@randomfan4521 7 ай бұрын
That's how I feel. It's hard because all I get is medicine and get asked how that is working and it's helping, but I still have anxiety and no energy to do anything. I can't draw or play games without feeling like I don't have the energy for it and just stare at my phone. Sometimes, I get a smell burst of energy, but it never lasts long.
@ernestpadilla-je3rk
@ernestpadilla-je3rk 8 ай бұрын
there's been dozens of weddings where the "best man, maid of honor" roles were broken. they had a man of honor and best woman
@_Cursed_Queen_
@_Cursed_Queen_ 8 ай бұрын
Aaron: don’t tell who you are with so they can’t track you down Op: so here is their info down to their dress size-
@khaleesireyna731
@khaleesireyna731 7 ай бұрын
OP did say they changed details, so even if they're giving stuff like a dress size or dog breed, they could literally have just picked a random dress size/dog breed that looks intimidating and irl Xena is actually a very aggressive chihuahua or is actually a Cane Corso. Who can say?
@nanadiaries9189
@nanadiaries9189 7 ай бұрын
She didn’t update while it was happening. This update is after the fact . Didn’t you comprehend that when op said it
@britnymichelle4245
@britnymichelle4245 7 ай бұрын
@@nanadiaries9189um no, because this story is confusing as hell and honestly irritating with the AI voice. So how about you stick your head back up your own ass with the attitude
@ravenfox926
@ravenfox926 3 ай бұрын
Love how Heather is saying, "LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO!" after destroying her OWN life by bieng a walking toxic dumpster fire. Bet nothings ever her fault.
@MistressOP
@MistressOP 9 ай бұрын
I love a saga :). Aaron just DATE ZARA and marry her! :) lol midway through this.
@X_Shadow_Wolf_X
@X_Shadow_Wolf_X 8 ай бұрын
Some of the comments are saying they started dating and the post is still updating after this vid was published 👀👀👀
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 8 ай бұрын
I think you should assume that Heather met some guy at a bar and let him pick her up and she's staying with him. She's not the type to sleep in a car. She's not that clever
@jokerzbabe13
@jokerzbabe13 8 ай бұрын
After listening to the entire story, I believe her fancy lawyer daddy was hiding her somewhere, as he insists she was diagnosed but that she 'cant go get treatment bc she is a fugitive.' So how would she get the diagnosis in the first place?
@CharlieApples
@CharlieApples 8 ай бұрын
Weird assumption considering Heather has a family and friends to stay with 🤨
@CharlieApples
@CharlieApples 8 ай бұрын
@@jokerzbabe13 Earlier in life
@NoelleNaturally
@NoelleNaturally 6 ай бұрын
She should actually apply for Worker’s Compensation. She was physically assaulted on the job, resulting in a psychological disability.
@nybotheveg
@nybotheveg 4 ай бұрын
Oh yeah, good point that happened at work due to a failure of the security.
@donnamason938
@donnamason938 9 ай бұрын
Wow, Heather is batshit crazy.
@sweetblaquewine
@sweetblaquewine 8 ай бұрын
🦇💩🦇💩🦇💩 💯
@marrero8100
@marrero8100 8 ай бұрын
1:00:46 Heather guilt tripping and still blaming, and even apparently pitying OP for her own shit. This disgusts me so much.
@ToriBelle96
@ToriBelle96 9 ай бұрын
My brother and I are close, now and then I remind him that if I ever date someone and they say/do anything, I'll always take his side and believe him. I'd much rather find out if a partner is being mean to him because I could never date someone who is cruel to my family
@heartsmyfaceforever8140
@heartsmyfaceforever8140 6 ай бұрын
If you get called tacky, that’s not a perceived slight.
@marinadamn5813
@marinadamn5813 7 ай бұрын
I feel for her and Aaron. I have an adopted brother who is older, yet we aren't even a year apart. This relationship hit home and I'm so happy they are as close as they are. I'm sure for her that it's the same, but I couldn't imagine going through life as an only child. Despite the drama and trauma, she's been so lucky with her friends and brother. We all have trauma, but she has a great life that I know she appreciates. Thank you for sharing
@JeneenRose-Osborne
@JeneenRose-Osborne 7 ай бұрын
I truly hope things have gotten better for all of them. 🥺 I really hope Aaron n Zara start dating because they sound like they’d be a great couple. 🙏🏻💖
@Tryagainwithdiffernetname
@Tryagainwithdiffernetname 5 ай бұрын
They do
@chadiusthundercock6283
@chadiusthundercock6283 9 ай бұрын
Really hard to focus on when the chest organization is so abysmal.
@Sharutoka.
@Sharutoka. 7 ай бұрын
Oh damn, this story is still developing, she's still updating on reddit
@heyyitsjanea
@heyyitsjanea 9 ай бұрын
i’ve heard the first part a few times but sweet jesus the edits???
@samoea19
@samoea19 9 ай бұрын
Wow i didnt know this story had more updates
@skyscoutgaming2345
@skyscoutgaming2345 8 ай бұрын
Me too. Usually watch these in TikTok and they only have 1-2 parts. So now I search for them on KZbin to get the full story.
@1Scimetar
@1Scimetar 9 ай бұрын
I just googled it, and OP would be, by numbers alone, considered actually slightly underweight at five foot seven inches and 120 lbs, as the recommended weight range for a woman of her height is between 122 and 149 pounds.
@CharlieApples
@CharlieApples 8 ай бұрын
Yeah 120 at 5’7” is very thin for most women. She probably wears a size 0-2
@loycebruley9023
@loycebruley9023 8 ай бұрын
Love all the Star Wars/Trek references! You are a true Senator, 🖖
@AngelusNielson
@AngelusNielson 7 ай бұрын
Family is family, family is beyond blood. And those people are horrible, OP really didn't need to take care of someone who brought her depression on themselves. And that psychopath blames everybody but herself, of course.
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 7 ай бұрын
Interesting thing. Lawyers have hidden well paying clients in asylums before. They just have to get the dr to agree
@askhermit586
@askhermit586 8 ай бұрын
I envy your friends. Good friends are a blessing
@bluediamond3248
@bluediamond3248 8 ай бұрын
I have Clinical Depression and I can say this depression is a chemical imbalance, your body isn't creating enough serotonin, also known as the "Happy chemical" some days no matter how good a day you just feel sad, alone, and unmotivated. There are different types of depression but they all are painful. Medication is good for some people, I for one am on medication, but if you don't want to take medicine I suggest therapy or journaling is very therapeutic. Whichever the case depression is not your fault and you are not alone. It's normal to feel sad when you have depression even though good things are happening around you. Finding coping skills, therapy, or sometimes medication is very important. Isolation is sometimes good but not for long periods of time, just know you have people who love and care about you and that you are not alone. It'll get better my depressed baddies 💙 keep your head up because you can't let that crown slip 😊 God bless. Good luck OP I wish you and your family the best 💙
@donnamullins1676
@donnamullins1676 7 ай бұрын
I’m doing none of that, have just been hoping for years now it would just go away, I’m 61 too old to fix it now, people should get help asap, this stuff ain’t no joke
@bluediamond3248
@bluediamond3248 7 ай бұрын
@@donnamullins1676 I agree 💙 but I also believe it's never too late for anyone, I hope you are doing alright I'll be praying for your peace my friend 💙
@khaleesireyna731
@khaleesireyna731 7 ай бұрын
​@donnamullins1676 please know it's never too late. I kept telling myself for years that it wasn't *that* bad when it came to my depression/anxiety. It took talking to my therapist to finally actually get on meds and I'm glad I did. It's never too late and you deserve to feel well in all aspects. Mental health included.
@lorianabanana6066
@lorianabanana6066 8 ай бұрын
I can't believe the Evil ExSIL was calling OP heavy at 5'9" 120lbs!! I'm 5'1" 115lbs and I usually wear a small or extra small. Yes I have curves and carry all my junk in my trunk lol. But I'm very petite and people constantly call me tiny, little and someone even called me 'puny' at work. I have good muscle tone and work a very physical job so I'm very fit. OP is about the same weight as me but EIGHT INCHES TALLER!!! Even now she must be very thin. ExSIL is delusional and obviously very jealous. She just wants to bring OP down so she feels more confident, typical bully narcissist. Bye Felicia lol. Btw all bodies are beautiful and gawd knows I love a curvy woman. Just saying that it's legit ridiculas to try and body shame anyone ever, but especially when it's obviously not true. It be like calling me too tall and insisting I wear flats lol- like girlfriend needs some glasses lol.
@tanakasensei3450
@tanakasensei3450 8 ай бұрын
It always feels like the majority of society thinks that, if a woman wears anything bigger than a small, she's overweight. Granted, I also learned the hard way that a large in one country could be a 2XL in a different country (ordered a cute 2XL hoodie from a website, and found out it was a size 14 - which is smaller than what I wear).
@lunarkaia3964
@lunarkaia3964 7 ай бұрын
Seriously! I’m not quite 5’4” and like 110lbs and it’s a nightmare finding clothes that fit- I’m an XS, sometimes 2XS!
@smsff7
@smsff7 8 ай бұрын
I hope letty is doing well. She and sophie deserve to be happy.
@NeonNuanceGaming
@NeonNuanceGaming 7 ай бұрын
Go-lly Heather's a trip man! My ex sister in law was like Heather. They had their wedding on a holiday weekend. I wasn't even in the wedding party until one BM cancelled. She told SIL two weeks in advance. SIL made me a BM the day of...The wedding was beautiful (my brother paid for everything) and in return, she ran his start-up company into the ground by talking crap to customers on FB. She micro-managed EVERYTHING! Including the relationship. It lasted about a year an a half. He ended it when she started getting mean to our mom.
@KaityPea3
@KaityPea3 5 ай бұрын
5'7" and 120lbs??... Am I missing something? I am 5' 2 and the lowest I have ever been as an adult was 133, and I was considered skinny-average. This woman has to be slim to be that size/weight...how does she need to lose weight???
@bicbiro1116
@bicbiro1116 5 ай бұрын
I’m a 5’7” woman and was thinking the exact same thing…I’m overweight as I am, and I’m aiming for 150lbs eventually as a healthy weight…120 sounds dangerous
@AbbieWells-r6v
@AbbieWells-r6v 5 ай бұрын
Seems like Op's brother dodged not a bullet, but a whole entire fucking nuke. The way Heather called op 'Adopted sister' though she knew the two were close is really strange, especially because we established Heather was limiting the time Op and her brother spent together during the planning of the wedding. It really seems like she was trying to distance them, not only physically but planting the seed in his head by reducing the value of Op and her brother's relationship by reminding him they are not biological. It's something that's really easy to overlook, but definitely a warning sign of a narcissist. And the way it all spiralled so quickly after Heather was confronted- it was literally explosive. Even though she had been mean with calling op tacky and insulting her and their friends, it wasn't as explosive or violent as the rest of the story. It's really freaky.
@maxwellmukwevho1383
@maxwellmukwevho1383 9 ай бұрын
this was intense
@ac9448
@ac9448 7 ай бұрын
"I'm wordy and nerdy!" 🤣 Me too girlie.
@minadoherty9419
@minadoherty9419 9 ай бұрын
Anyone else shipping Aaron and Zara?
@Una1
@Una1 9 ай бұрын
I was going to comment the exact same thing! 😂
@Maninawig
@Maninawig 9 ай бұрын
Just got to the part where cops showed up at Zara's house. And they do look like they could be cute together. A special shoutout to Han, though, as he just met this girl, was thrown into her chaos, and stayed to weather the storm.
@kittyKatfish
@kittyKatfish 9 ай бұрын
​@@Maninawig He is all the green flags.
@shinatina2466
@shinatina2466 9 ай бұрын
All the shipping right here
@Justahobbylife
@Justahobbylife 8 ай бұрын
Yeahh
@VeerPurohit
@VeerPurohit 7 ай бұрын
Zara sounds like a great friend to have. Especially when she comes with Zena ❤
@vincentcleaver1925
@vincentcleaver1925 9 ай бұрын
There would have been a stampede for the door if anyone had ever stood up to the bride
@Poopick
@Poopick 7 ай бұрын
Heather sounds like a bitter person. Takes her own faults and blames it on others. How shameful
@3.cstasy
@3.cstasy 7 ай бұрын
im stuck on how she’s 5’7 120lbs but “needs to lose weight”??? that’s a healthy, normal weight for her height…
@gavinfarris7624
@gavinfarris7624 4 ай бұрын
Yeah it kind of takes away from the credibility of the whole story when someone contradicts themselves like that.
@tartlynerdy
@tartlynerdy 7 ай бұрын
These updates were wild. Somebody needs to get on op to improve that survivor's instinct. I'd also really wish op would stop saying she ruined her brother's relationship. She didn't ruin anything. I'm very stunned the police would seriously investigate any allegations from a psycho that went after someone with a brick. A brick. Kim deserves everything that's going to happen to her. I had no doubts in my mind Heather set this up since her flying monkey seems incapable of independent critical thinking skills. I'm very happy Heather kept digging that hole she was stuck in. Heather is an idiot to still keep texting op and especially for the fact she blamed op for her abortion. She aborted because she cheated and didn't know who knocked her up. Her long text was pathetic but especially the last touch. I guess Heather is going to become a born again Christian. I was hoping Heather's dad would be reasonable but shame on me for that assumption. The apple never falls far from the tree. Heather isn't sick lol.
@wot4922
@wot4922 7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to experience all of that but I'm also sorry you had to go on meds for depression. Then again anyone would break under this kind of stress. I'm concerned about the meds because I'm on them and can't leave it unless weaned of it at an hospital. I tried many years ago to get of the depression meds but nearly ended up in a mental institution. Be careful, be safe and find everlasting happiness.
@Reggieprince6363
@Reggieprince6363 5 ай бұрын
I have to say the references to “lol” and 911 and ass was killing me 😂😂😂
@ghoste3991
@ghoste3991 5 ай бұрын
Bro went THROUGH it. Your fiance turns out to be an ass, everything goes to shit, and then you find out you might've been sa'd???
@tracygardner6318
@tracygardner6318 8 ай бұрын
Drop the charges against Heather is he crazy as her father he should be punishing her and telling her what she did is wrong.
@BreannaTorres-ms9sn
@BreannaTorres-ms9sn 5 ай бұрын
The letter that Heather sent OP triggered me. I had received a similar message like that from a family member. This just confirmed that she is a narcissist like Heather is.
@zekova
@zekova 5 ай бұрын
Yes yes yes, exactly!
@BreannaTorres-ms9sn
@BreannaTorres-ms9sn 5 ай бұрын
@@zekova It still bothers me. like they really believe their own lies
@queenofnightmares
@queenofnightmares 6 ай бұрын
if it were me getting that text and in this situation, after heathers text, i would have said "That's not your car" and "Godspeed"
@LadyAmdis
@LadyAmdis 8 ай бұрын
I keep thinking 'Okay, it's gonna end soon, right?' and checking the time stamp. Nope. Still another half hour to go!
@wolflovernumber1
@wolflovernumber1 8 ай бұрын
Being a woman who suffers from anxiety and depression, it sucks full stop, Francesca. It is a long, hard sloug to get to somewhat an even kheel.
@RepellentJeff
@RepellentJeff 9 ай бұрын
“I’m no bridezilla.” Yeah, so that was a f***ing lie. Edit: Sometimes I wonder if I should try getting in a relationship, then I hear a story like this and just go “Hmm… *_Naahh.”_* 🤪
@sinbadwilliams7186
@sinbadwilliams7186 9 ай бұрын
Exactly why I dont do relationships. Plus out of the 4 I had when I was younger 2 cheated on me with the 2nd sending her brothers at me who put me in the hospital for calling her a cheating whore. O dont care for relationships anymore
@Maninawig
@Maninawig 9 ай бұрын
Technically, I believe bridezilla is a term where sane women go crazy frim engsgement to honeymoon... and Heather was madder than a hatter even before getting engaged.
@anyjen
@anyjen 8 ай бұрын
Sometimes you get lucky and find a good one. The problem is that most of the good ones tend to get into relationships quickly and stay in them, so barring a tragedy or a betrayal they don't go back to the dating pool, and by that time they have emotional baggage, and might become one of the bad ones...
@yopoxikeweapescai9066
@yopoxikeweapescai9066 8 ай бұрын
Tbh, same. But will keep being an idealist in secret lol
@yopoxikeweapescai9066
@yopoxikeweapescai9066 8 ай бұрын
​@@sinbadwilliams7186seems like an skill issue (did the loser got jail or you revenge)
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 8 ай бұрын
You need to talk to your therapist. Because, laughing when you feel "trapped" is one of those fight or flight reactions. Don't feel bad about it. A part of your brain that isn't conscious made the response for you
@nathengriffiths-holland7038
@nathengriffiths-holland7038 8 ай бұрын
Story one- I love it when people talk nerdy lol makes me hopeful to find someone as nerdy as me one day 😂
@personwithaquestion1800
@personwithaquestion1800 9 ай бұрын
H is a can of crazy
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 7 ай бұрын
Children of racists don't suddenly stop being racists
@carseann
@carseann 7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry, 128 lbs is not a healthy enough weight at 5’7? Dude, I’m the same height, a little curvy, and I’m five pounds lighter and it’s healthy! That doctor concerns me.
@edene.4870
@edene.4870 7 ай бұрын
Considering there are doctors who literally say a woman having leg hair at all is unnatural and unhealthy? There's a reason you're always told to get second and third opinions on important medical issues.
@deeannamorrison8587
@deeannamorrison8587 7 ай бұрын
Loved this story! Very well written. Great plot, twists and turns!😊
@ljh5141
@ljh5141 4 ай бұрын
Love this OP! This tight little family is something special. Keep being there for each other and get lots of garlic to keep the vamoires of happiness away! ❤
@skittlemilks1614
@skittlemilks1614 8 ай бұрын
Tf I’m 5’7” and I was near skeletal when I was 120. Bride has issues.
@qine6559
@qine6559 5 ай бұрын
«SIL Got engaged on OPs bday party»… Having listened to a ton of reddit stories I realize this is a red flag! Never would I have realized if not for such stories😅
@bobsanders8682
@bobsanders8682 8 ай бұрын
Yo it's crazy I'm only halfway through this story and it feels like there isn't more crazy to be had from Heather
@cornbread12987
@cornbread12987 9 ай бұрын
A group of redditors in the drama department of a college. Oof, this is dramatic.
@MikeSVZ
@MikeSVZ 9 ай бұрын
Keep your real world logic out of my Reddit fantasy please
@impishrebel5969
@impishrebel5969 8 ай бұрын
You say that but I had a toxic dumpster fire of a SIL that constantly had emergency vehicles at her house and it was drama after drama with her. Real life doesn't pull punches like fiction does. The brick was enough to convince me because it's too absurd to be fake. I moved 4k miles away because of that b, for the record.
@LadyMysanthrope
@LadyMysanthrope 8 ай бұрын
I heard this story awhile back but the story hadn't gotten to the Odie part. So I'm really thrilled to get all the good updates on people's lives.
@trashotaku
@trashotaku 7 ай бұрын
I agree with the people saying that Op's sperm donor was only trying to get back into her life so he can get money from her
@green2703
@green2703 5 ай бұрын
Heather learned the guilt tripping and gas lighting from her father. The whole situation is F*d. I do have to say, I really like Zara! I can visualize her so well and I am thankful there are ppl in the world !ike this!
@BirdMarcel98
@BirdMarcel98 8 ай бұрын
(Edited to specify that I’m not quite done watching thru the video, lolz.) OP should probably just move jobs. Like I know there’s a TON going on that I could have commented about, but y’all have p much said it all. But her bf finding her other jobs is a sign, and tho she apparently can’t get into those ones, perhaps it’s time for a positive change in scenery. Switching jobs could be the thing OP needs, bc it sounds like that depression is hitting hard and making her feel irritable and refuse help. Trust, I’d know from personal and ongoing experience (as do many others), not to mention the hellscape OP’s life has become. I left my old job bc something traumatic happened there, and what used to be a peaceful place of employment became an anxiety-spiking prison. Day in and day out, your head is on a swivel, and you can’t work like that. It’s no one’s fault but Heather’s, tho in my very humble opinion, OP just might feel better if she accepts that the company is shitty and doesn’t want her. It’s not admitting defeat to leave and redirect your life. I’m only 25 and learning in every hard way possible, and I have empathy for her attitude towards change given everything that’s happening. It’s shitty. Ofc I don’t know quite what the deets are regarding her job and work experience are, so at the end of the day I’m just some chucklefuck in the comment section. Hopefully OP and Co will figure out something that works for them and OP can build up a safe and satisfying new life.
@redbear4350
@redbear4350 7 ай бұрын
01:02:00 wait wait wait.. H ruin3d her life with her own hands and now writes down this HILARIOUS text just to play with poor F. Mind? 😂😂😂😂 how ridiculous she is? Damn! I started laughing at such ridiculous message!
@watersoluble5871
@watersoluble5871 8 ай бұрын
Thing is wild animals aren’t always guaranteed to be on the hunt and don’t really have ulterior motives. Running into a man, or anyone in the woods, would be more terrifying somehow depending on context. Like the bear is supposed to be there you know?
@s.a.munknown4300
@s.a.munknown4300 6 ай бұрын
They got engaged at ops birthday? That shouldve been the first major red flag
@GMWILD87
@GMWILD87 7 ай бұрын
Story 1 OP says we were raised not to hate soooo no one told grandpa that since he disowned OP I think it's perfectly fine to hate someone especially one who hurts you or a loved one.
@LoganRogue1
@LoganRogue1 9 ай бұрын
Wow this chick heather is a full blown narcissist. Wow
@francinetitherington4060
@francinetitherington4060 8 ай бұрын
She passed Narcissist miles ago and her behaviour if flat out PSYCHOTIC.
@MsRee713
@MsRee713 7 ай бұрын
Quick fact: The Ring camera was a Shark Tank program project.
@MizzShortai
@MizzShortai Күн бұрын
I love how Kim thought she could assault someone and get away with it. No wonder she's Heather's BFF.
@mismatched0socks_722
@mismatched0socks_722 9 ай бұрын
Is the Luke and Space Mom joke around the 20:51 mark reference Star Wars? What does it mean?
@randomness3979
@randomness3979 9 ай бұрын
I think it’s kind of an Alabama-ish joke
@NotAnIlluminatiSpy
@NotAnIlluminatiSpy 9 ай бұрын
Luke and Leia are siblings but they kissed one time before they knew. Ex-GF was implying incest hentai fantasies.
@mismatched0socks_722
@mismatched0socks_722 9 ай бұрын
@@NotAnIlluminatiSpy ah thanks for explaining
@mismatched0socks_722
@mismatched0socks_722 9 ай бұрын
@@randomness3979 thank you for explaining
@markn1485
@markn1485 2 ай бұрын
Is it just me or does this feel like a Shakespeareian tragedy.
@crystalh4016
@crystalh4016 8 ай бұрын
Me at 5'2 look sick at 120. I cant imagine being that weight at 5'7
@QueenJuliana89
@QueenJuliana89 8 ай бұрын
I’m 5’5” and I would look sick at that weight.
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