Yes. He walked out during our child’s chemo and he was off chasing tail.
@danielskyles6184 Жыл бұрын
Truth
@annettedevries7559 Жыл бұрын
@@StandingInMyPower So sorry for you. I hope it,s going good with you,re Child.. 🙏🙏🙏
@StandingInMyPower Жыл бұрын
@@annettedevries7559 My child is good now. We will have check ups every 2 months. My heart is deeply broken but I take solace in knowing my child is cancer free.
@annettedevries7559 Жыл бұрын
Thats good news. Absolutly. And take good care of yourself also. You deserve that. Greetz from Holland ❤️🙏🙏
@Joe-hf3cn9 ай бұрын
Ghosters are cowardly & disrespectful
@jaydeeguti3341 Жыл бұрын
The Bible says that cowards will be thrown in to the lake of fire to burn
@skychanges9197 Жыл бұрын
The narc is bitter and angry… they envy their victims capacity for love. They then resent their victim… when they do find “the one” they will never let them know outside of love bombing. Miserable bunch.
@soul-syclassic-productions3202 Жыл бұрын
The reason this man is in the position he is, comes down to self awareness and brutal honesty and probably a whole lot of pain when he lost his partner. It really boils down to one thing. Have the courage to face up to who you are. And most people cannot. Everyone's shit stinks some just don't want to admit it basically.
@RawMotivations Жыл бұрын
Admitting it is the first step for sure.
@soul-syclassic-productions3202 Жыл бұрын
@@RawMotivations Good for you friend, not only did you fix you're situation but you put yourself in the position to have an impact on others. Shows true character that. And the unfortunate truth is that most people just don't possess this quality. Narcissists lack such character rendering the perpetual loop of avoidance to play out until the end.
@tathe3786 Жыл бұрын
@@soul-syclassic-productions3202 so Strong words exact my Heart Beats you speak truth!!!! 🎉
@PITTSBURGH06 Жыл бұрын
BUT THESE SELF AWARE NARCS ARE VERY DANGEROUS!!
@annettedevries7559 Жыл бұрын
Absolutly thrue
@plushie.fans.inc.toy-reviews. Жыл бұрын
When my ex was leaving I actually called him a coward several times to his face. He just ran away. He also never denied he was a coward
@danielskyles6184 Жыл бұрын
Good video. Narcissists run from themselves
@hibbertsh5 ай бұрын
They can run but they cannot hide. Their past will catch up with them as they get older. They will deteriorate into a sad and lonely person.
@stingylizard Жыл бұрын
The integrity it takes to face your own demons is beyond measure...Salute!
@lissysue Жыл бұрын
They can use “vulnerability” as a way to avoid having to face the truth.
@susanmcmahon4733 Жыл бұрын
My narcissist ex husband is the BIGGEST BIGGEST COWARDS i have ever came across.
@monikaspissak41566 ай бұрын
My narc is still my husband. I depend on him and I hear it all the time. Getting ready to save my life and some money. I have to leave this hell. We have a great daughter and she understands all of this. I saw signs but didn't know what it was. I watch the videos every day. Learning how to survive. I have a nervous breakdown. I have no family here. I think he wants me dead. I did a lot for him and this is him paying me back. Wishing all of you the best and be strong and safe.
@HomeFrendsten3 ай бұрын
True, when they sense some of the truth is being exposed , they start fearing and worrying
@RawMotivations3 ай бұрын
Start your healing here www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough
@nancyhjort534811 ай бұрын
The first time my husband physically abused me...why? He just came home an asshole. One thing he did was shove me in a corner and was screaming in my face with his lips and spit flapping and spraying in my face. I felt claustrophobic and bit his lip and then escaped, only to be further abused. I realized that he has separation anxiety, so I said nothing and went on like nothing happened. The next morning, I removed the kids from school, and he came home to an empty home. I started counseling and he joined by first stating, "Good, we're going to fix Nancy." When the counselor confronted him, "You know that is abuse." He dropped his jaw is disbelief. She then scolded us both and said there should be no further biting, slapping, or mutual abuse! This was self-defense on my part. We got back together, mostly because we have 4 kids and it wasn't just about me. Furthermore, the counselor, whose husband is a psychiatrist, agreed that we had made good progress. All looked good. As we left the counselor's office his emotional abuse started on steroids, and I was so unraveled by this new abuse, that I got in my first car wreck in my 40's. It was my fault. He removed the kids from my van and drove off. In a private moment with him, yet in public for safety, I said, "You are a coward." His jaw dropped in disbelief. When I divorced him, his jaw dropped in disbelief, and my life after divorce became a nightmare on steroids. Twenty-one years later, he has not stopped his revenge against me. Learn from my experience. God be with you. Stand up to your asshole, uneducated counselor, and your kids who believe his lies, and even the church who doesn't condone divorce. Be alone and stand alone to fight to leave, go no contact, and heal with healthy relationship.
@edgreen8140 Жыл бұрын
You can't work through issues if you must be superior to the therapist. Your character should speak for itself you shouldn't have to say"i am a good person" that is a red flag when people say this nonsense.
@johnholmes6741 Жыл бұрын
They are ashamed of themselves because of the way they treat other people that’s why the vast majority of them have substance to abuse and alcohol problems. Their conscience is so dirty they need something to shut it off. It’s not because they were abused. It’s because they abuse everybody else your conscience is not dirty when somebody abuses you but it is dirty when you abuse somebody else.
@johnholmes6741 Жыл бұрын
That’s why the steps work. They force you to look at what you did in step 5 and to who in step 8 then make amends in step 9. There are no steps for what others did to you because you have no bad karma from that. Millions recovered thru the 12 steps. Find me something else that has done 1/100th of that in 2000 years. You can’t. Bc there isn’t anything else. It’s all about your conscience and keeping it clean vs dirty. Narcissist have the dirtiest consciences and taking accountability rather than placing the blame is all that works
@IsabellaPiesch Жыл бұрын
It all lies in their childhood. ... And sure there was something wrong (abuse in the childhood). Maybe also genetics is involved.
@chellotrevino73234 ай бұрын
Wrong the lack a conscience as well as empathy you guys are so slow narcissist lack empathy why would they care in order to care and love u must have empathy they don’t have it therefore it’s all about them they sleep better at night knowing they abused someone and exploited them
@MakeAmericagreatAgainEVH16 күн бұрын
Yes!!! 🙌
@dianewerner2304 Жыл бұрын
Tread lightly, as they will take their anger out on your children
@khaledbejdough2694 Жыл бұрын
Been with her for 4 years. She lies, cheats, steal. Tried to get her therapy , backfired.
@Lbf5677 Жыл бұрын
Yeah they charm the therapist and consider it to be a game
@joniangelsrreal6262 Жыл бұрын
Demons …..😱
@gailschwindt8970 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I’ve been dealing with my narcissist husband for 33-34 years. I didn’t know that was what I was dealing with. He convinced me, it was all me. I am a standing up now and moving forward. He is no longer my mirror/ reflection of my worth. I’m interested in how you came to know you were narcissist, and how you stopped being one. Thank you so much for your instruction and insight. I’m learning so much! Thank you so much! Taking back my power!
@obi1holyoliver798 Жыл бұрын
You can't stop being a narcissist 🤷♂️
@robinchilds7492 Жыл бұрын
He told his friends he got a good one this time. Now I know what he meant
@rockybalboa4593 Жыл бұрын
This was one of your most direct and powerful messages yet. I think even narcissists watching could possibly benefit from this. Great content Ben.
@Peruvian_Sky Жыл бұрын
Yes, my ex narc was a coward. He alwaya says things that sound good but that he doesnt mean. He got engaged before but didnt mean it and had his mom break it off for him. With me, he told me he was breaking up because i didnt want kids but there was no mention of wanting kids prior to this. It was a cop out. He really just didnt want to be with me anymore because i wasnt praising and validating anymore because of his explosive anger outbursts
@joannbecker2638 Жыл бұрын
28 years I gave him. I just keep trying to find out why? Everything about Narcissists I read listen to. I'm devastated.
@sodonewithit4370 Жыл бұрын
Owww. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that for so long. I hope you're rid of him and enjoying your life now
@MC-cz5qd Жыл бұрын
That is heartbreaking. I hope you are getting professional help to get through the grief and so on. Remind yourself, that his ill treatment of you does not reflect your worth; it reflects only the magnitude of his own problems. Lots of love to you. ❤
@StandingInMyPower Жыл бұрын
19 years and I am devastated. I want to look at it as God took him out of my life because he knew my suffering. Live. That is the best revenge. Live and be happy.
@joannbecker2638 Жыл бұрын
I'd had to involve authorities. He's been out of the home since July. It's been a long road. Our professional help waiting lists are extensive. I've been full no contact since January with a full stay away. This is the absolute most challenging time. It's one day at a time. I seek knowledge and understanding. As I've had time to rehash and the what ifs are relentless. I created so many coping mechanisms. I loved him I stopped loving me.
@tathe3786 Жыл бұрын
@@joannbecker2638 yes you Stopp Love Yourself … so you have to let him Go, but that breakes you Heart! I think He has to take responsibility for his behave…. Or we have to leave Heart Broken!!!!
@Hopper119 ай бұрын
Your courageous and succinct video is GOLD. I almost didn’t watch the video, because I actually already knew my ex narcissist was a coward and that he was very weak inside. I could see it. I could feel it. I just always covered for him, and it was an unspoken truth. This video is a humongous help to me, because you explain everything, and now I understand the full truth. I have been no-contact for 3 1/2 years. I’ve grown, saved assets, fought the good fight. My brain just couldn’t understand this evil that was perpetrated on a good, loving devoted and loyal person- ME, and I have suffered from the confusion. I did not know people like this existed, and something like this doesn’t happen to someone like me. My family and friends were all shocked and fooled by this narcissist. He was a dangerous, covert narcissist- full of charm. You explaining your truth to us is validating, freeing and brings peace to me and others. I wish I would have had this video sooner, but I have it now. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I had the thought as I am writing this that I don’t want to express TOO much praise to you, cuz you are a self professed narcissist, LOL. I don’t want to feed the monster and give you a big head. That’s what I did to my ex narcissist. Let me just say, I admire your brutal honesty with us. It helps me SO much. I know that you have suffered and hurt too as you’ve had the courage to face the truth about yourself -just as all us humans have to. You’ve removed the curtain and exposed the ugly lies. Good job. We’re all more free as a result. Praise God.
@aizzamoque5569 Жыл бұрын
Why did you do things that brought you shame? Seems like narcissists know right from wrong very well, hence having a double personality.
@lizlois7772 ай бұрын
You nailed it again! You described my husband to a "T'!! Thank you for your truthful and inner faults you're admitting to in order to help others that need your straight talk, as hard and hurtful as it is, it gives me real understanding for his and my behavior. I need and want to know hos to handle our next round or barage of abuse cheating, stealing my inheritance in ordee to keep me wirhout. Ugh.. You've helped me so much, and so very grateful for your help and your support. He's nothing but smoke and mirrors!! I see, saw the light! Sincerely, Liz
@nleativa Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I'm pregnant and see the narcissistic and cowardice of this person.
@plushie.fans.inc.toy-reviews. Жыл бұрын
Yes I would defend him and he would wear different masks in public.
@LoriDaniels-tx4pd Жыл бұрын
My husband does not like 'airing dirty laundry ' around people when I would slip my husband accused me of speaking purposely to embarrassed him
@DianeMatlock5 ай бұрын
Narcs live in castles built on SAND...
@alisonjones97513 ай бұрын
As I listened it was like you had watched my 30 year + relationship/marriage play out. He says he loves me but doesn’t want to be married, a committed relationship. He wants unemotional sex, he doesn’t like to kiss, or give in intimacy. He doesn’t want intimacy. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@Itsmeandthatsok22 ай бұрын
No, he loves how you cook his meals, wash his clothes, Suck his **** but, he doesn’t love you, you just make him look good That’s how awesome YOU are!!! Don’t buy into his shit!
@TheAppaloosa147 ай бұрын
Awesome video The acceptance of the coward I was with has allowed me to let go
@emmamonroe3311 Жыл бұрын
When we were still together after the accident I text him and told him he was a coward! No response of course and that was prior to me figuring him out. I was spot on he is a coward. I told him when he was 50 he was 34 at the time I told him. You need to look in the mirror. Having no idea what was going on. I get it all now. I have came full circle thank you Ben! It’s so messed up what happened to me and them not being able to tell me due to HIPAA. It’s very super sad. But that is the dirt road I walked down. Their was no dirt on the road but thank you for helping me understand so he didn’t destroy me all the way until the end. I get the model. I figured him out.😢
@veral2274 Жыл бұрын
My ex covert narc was the very definition of cowardice. Never thought it possible for an alpha male like him to use several women simultaneously hiding behind lie after lie in the face of all irrefutable evidence.
@lzrlzrlzr Жыл бұрын
I can see myself in so many things you said in this and in other of your videos. You really pinned it down. I am in a new relationship with my partner, with whom I already had a relationship last year. She broke up, when I wasn't there for her when she was in a bad phase, unable to break free from my self absorption. She came back after months of zero contact to tell me she still has feelings for me. So we're back at it again. I made some progresses in comparison to last year, but some core problems are still there: lack of interest and empathy when needed, accountability, you name it.. Two weeks ago I came to a point, were I just had to admit how much of a coward I am. It was a clear moment. And my partner said to me, that this was probably one of the most honest things I ever said. It's kind of a paradox, but it takes so much courage for us to admit that we are in fact cowards and not the brave, ideal, great guys that we think we are. And like you said, we resent the empaths for how easily they can show their vulnerability. I got phrases in my head like "Oh, how lucky you are, that you can show your emotions, your vulnerability and your truth. I can't. And that makes me inferior." And as we can't stand this feeling of being inferior we continue to mask and lie and manipulate, so we can feel great again. It really is a sad and viscous circle. And I got so much respect for you for really working on breaking this circle!
@prietagarcia1155 Жыл бұрын
Have you thought of getting any professional help? Do you feel you love your current partner.
@lzrlzrlzr Жыл бұрын
@@prietagarcia1155 Yes, I am currently looking for therapy and at the same time I'm trying not to focus to much on being a narc, bc I am not diagnosed and should be careful to put myself into that category. I definitely have feelings for her, but it seems that a profound and deep love doesn't come naturally for me. My lack of self compassion gives me a hard time to give myself the feeling of security so that it's even harder to make my partner feel secure. But at the moment I try to put effort into it. Like a child that's maybe not naturally gifted with musicality but tries to overcome that lack with hard work and effort.
@prietagarcia1155 Жыл бұрын
@@lzrlzrlzr God bless and help in your journey. I hope you lead a lot others to follow your example of acceptance and looking for help. Please don't give up!!!
@lzrlzrlzr Жыл бұрын
@@prietagarcia1155 Thank you very much for your kind words! I appreciate that very much! Good luck and much blessings to you and your loved ones!
@irinaparker86573 ай бұрын
Right on point 👉👉👉💯 every time I need it his help he was no where to be found. and he said he is Christian??? I thank the Lord Jesus Christ son of God 🙏 for delivering me 🙏 and my family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
Only way is run 🙏🏽🙌💯
@emmamonroe3311 Жыл бұрын
All that is so unbelievable but I know it is the truth. Normal people don’t catch onto his regrets when they tell us lies that are never true about their past partners and the partners don’t reach out to us. What’s right is right, what’s wrong is wrong. I could have changed the outcome if someone would have told me any of this, but they didn’t so here we are.🤡🤡🤡👈🏻
@lindaliestman43977 ай бұрын
Congratulations on how far you have come in healing your life and of those around you! You provide important information and do it in such a meaningful and eloquent way. Our family is going through confrontations now with a family member who has abused her husband for many years, and the rest of us too. It has just become very clear to all who have loved this person for so many years, and could never quite figure out why she was so different and said and did some of the things she did. The husband and wife are beginning therapy next week with different psychogtherapists. We hope positive changes will come for both of them, but know it will be a long shot that the narc can and will make any changes and for the right reasons. Thank you for your important work!
@edenjennings8395 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for validating my feelings by telling your story.
@RawMotivations Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@emmamonroe3311 Жыл бұрын
Covert vulnerables don’t belittle you, but they are cowards. I told him that via text. No answer, so I assumed he must have already knew this lol.🤡🤡🤡👈🏻
@Fiery.Queen. Жыл бұрын
I have a friend she has a narcissist father & sis she told me “Narcissists never heal, I tried a lot to heal them, I just wasted my time” I do believe that it’s hard for her. But I also think that it’s hard for narcissists to heal do they really ever heal??????
@crystalclear5397 Жыл бұрын
Freaking A......you just described the whole 7ish years I put up with. And so many idiots believed Him, my own freaking family! Since I left that man I still have to communicate for certain reasons yet his childish ways still occur but yet he still thinks he's 'somebody' just because he makes more $$$ vs actually Maturing and facing reality, other life situations involved. There's more to life than just making money, like ones emotion's, health, legalities etc. As I have been doing everything the legal way since then but him on the other hand still acts like an immature teenager at the age of 41.
@RawMotivations Жыл бұрын
Would love to help you on your healing journey. If I can be of help feel free to grab a time here at www.rawmotivations.com
@crystalclear5397 Жыл бұрын
@@RawMotivations Um thank you but....I don't need anyone's help. I'm just sharing my thoughts and experience. I know Exactly what I'm doing but I won't reveal that on this silly web world. I just appreciate the way you found the right words to describe things and situations.
@tathe3786 Жыл бұрын
Oh boy we Talkes This over and over in the beginning… He Wants to Break Free of This coward and Bully thing…. Now 5 years later, i am the one He blames…. And He is Running away the third Time to the Next, to Expect her to be the one to rescue him… my Heart is Kind of Broken… but i have to let him Go!!!! To Save me…. 😢
@dianaalyssa8726 Жыл бұрын
Someone was always amazing or awful according to him and whomever would listen. Before me it was Sarah. A few times it's been me, despite our non-physical dealings. I think I have had a lot of narcissists in my life, in relationships over the years, just the last one hit more than the others.
@TheGoldenYears515 ай бұрын
It wasn't necessary...
@munchey99508 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty.
@linalg105 ай бұрын
Phenomenal Video! As a man watching this video to see if my attractive mistress is a narcissist! 😅 Let that sink in! 🤦🏾♂️ This video forces me to raise the mirror to myself because I may very well be the narc! I’ll be watching this video daily…maybe twice a day to expose and address the coward inside daily.👍🏾
@star3006 Жыл бұрын
Spot on 💯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏼. Thanks Ben for being soooo truthful. . Your gut feeling Screams this At you the more you’re around the narcissist. Spot on .
@daniellecowley7922 Жыл бұрын
You have to look at how it transforms you-you do gain you do get lessons look at the positive and the grace and let them go with compassion
@elkrutarth26 күн бұрын
The defence mechanism is also different from a person to a person. Overall toxic people have unhealthy ways to vent out, cope and dealing with their problems. I mentioned some of defence mechanism 1) Projection. 2)Displacement. 3)Sublimation. 4)Repression. 5)Denial. 6)Identification. 7)Introjection. 8)Undoing. and so on...
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
Sad we are not doctors to diagnose but we will be after goi g through something like this absolutely sad mental health has let 🇺🇸 down sad sad
@robinchilds7492 Жыл бұрын
He spent 20 years in a high security prison. We got together a few years after he got out. He was great the first 3 months and then he started gaslighting me. He was ways the victim in relationships and life in general
@sirg-had8821 Жыл бұрын
All I know is that I need to do my prayer work, meditation, and exercise to fix myself up because I'm apparently a narcissist magnet. I always wind up being the emotional punching bag for some spineless woman that can only argue via text.
@obi1holyoliver798 Жыл бұрын
I left them alone they cowards🤷♂️
@lyareys5434Ай бұрын
Your courage is amazing.
@Brittiney-917 күн бұрын
Exactly show up.
@nanettesimon9388 Жыл бұрын
Thank you you are genuine about this
@wildrose12.47 Жыл бұрын
Great video Ben. You are dead honest and manly. Thanks.
@rebekahjette6304 Жыл бұрын
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for sharing this truth Ben!
@Andypandieful Жыл бұрын
I’m really enjoying your content and voice. I have years under my belt on this. But it’s always a great refresher. With empathy we have to remind ourselves and keep it in the forefront of our life unfortunately. They definitely throw a wrench in life plans, goals, energy. Etc..
@RawMotivations Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@user-yk3qm4zf5o5 ай бұрын
Because they're gone, it's like they're lost their way of life and time. Don't know how to get back that's all it's. 🌎 Back To REALITY ✌🏼☺️. SHAME/ HUMILIATION or SUFFERING/SUFFERED SURE😮. It's a Behavior we just need to listen to understand them and have some patience, have the capacity acceptance - accept😊👍.
@anewchapter1336 Жыл бұрын
HI thanks for your videos...do you have any videos about male narcs and enmeshed relationships with their mothers?
@jenni3035 ай бұрын
❤ Sad but true!
@fenlandwildlifeclips Жыл бұрын
There are lots of female narcs btw.
@nobodynowhere21 Жыл бұрын
My mother says hello 👋
@annasmith5130 Жыл бұрын
He was my kryptonite …
@charmee404516 күн бұрын
Have no idea why your wife stayed with you.........unreal.
@cherylfarrington6906 Жыл бұрын
Your a very brave man.🌷🌷
@shawnareign Жыл бұрын
I'm just confused because he would tell me the way he proved his love was real is the fact he chose to get a house with me and do our life together. The things he bought the money he spent... even while he's taking all of that away now that he's done with me, he says that proves he lives me. The problem was that I apparently couldn't appreciate him and I had too many needs? Just makes me feel like telling him he hurt me or that I need things, I'm just terrible
@deborahyarborough108010 ай бұрын
Good Video
@toucheturtle3840 Жыл бұрын
No shit…😂
@PITTSBURGH06 Жыл бұрын
YOU WIFE SHOULD HAVE LEFT AND NEVER COME BACK.. IJS
@IsabellaPiesch Жыл бұрын
Why do you write that? He admits that he is a narcissist. And he is willing to work on himself. So what exactly is wrong about that?
@cherylfarrington6906 Жыл бұрын
Love all of your videos. This one is more insight.🌷🌷 Thank you
@lilaclavender1989 Жыл бұрын
Great video
@gillianwalsh3525 Жыл бұрын
Hi. Thanks for your content. I think it is helpful. However, why is it that there is so much content about how survivors of narcissistic abuse should change their attitudes and behaviors and none directed at the narcs themselves? As a self-aware narc maybe you should consider making content that can enable narcs to recognize it within themselves and make an effort to do personal work and change instead of just asking abuse survivors to do all the work.
@MC-cz5qd Жыл бұрын
I love that idea! \o/ It might also be interesting for non-NPD people that have but truly despise their own narcissistic traits/behaviors and want to learn to understand and better manage them. 🤔
@rockybalboa4593 Жыл бұрын
He did fairly recently do a video about what he would say to narcissists. He was very blunt in it.
@wendiworshamdavis4876 Жыл бұрын
Reality is that 99.9 percent of narcissists really believe their lies and they do not want help. They must believe the lies that support their good guy false narrative. Image is a life or death matter for them because image is all they have. They do not have a true authentic self. It’s a trauma response to abuse at a very young age. They create a false self to protect and eventually bury their authentic self. It seems it usually comes from mentally unstable parent who sees the child not as separate but as an extension of themselves. The child is abuse for just being a childish or trying to get seek help for a genuine need , but at the same time praised and put on a pedestal for good performance that makes the parent look good or feel good about themselves. So the child learns that his humanity is not accepted but their performances gives them power and praise. So you could show the narcissist physical evidence from printed emails and accounts that prove they are a liar and a thief or a recorded voice audio proving they are cheating but they will reject it , and be mad at and punish you for wanting them to embrace reality. This man probably knows he is one in a billion of narcissistic that actually wanted help and got help…that’s what makes his content unique and probably why he doesn’t offer help for the narcissist except maybe in private for those very rare cases who want help. Unfortunately I keep trying to help my narcissist which is much like banging your head against the wall.
@RawMotivations Жыл бұрын
Sure find me one that wants to change and willing to do the work. I coach narcissists but I don’t chase after ppl that don’t want help
@sunnybein1 Жыл бұрын
Full blown NPD need years upon years of therapy not a couple of you tube videos(most are unaware they even have NPD).Try not to shoot the messenger he’s not responsible for others with NPD…they are..but most never will be.
@KAILLANCE69THEGAMER1 Жыл бұрын
some narcissist can change themselves but some of us love as how we are, sometimes it can be complicated but some narcissist can have care or empathy for some and not for others.
@prietagarcia1155 Жыл бұрын
So you are one of those that don't want to change?
@Zoe9559110 ай бұрын
Narcissism has nothing to do with being a man... Women are held to the same standards of having the courage to be honest and vulnerable. Why would you put these standards down to how masculine you are? I'm not trying to insult you, but shaming men doesn't make them act better, it will just cause them to avoid you and rightfully so.
@JasonGRichards Жыл бұрын
Your content is good but your intros are way too long. Please take this feedback without being defensive or upset it’s meant to make your good channel better
@TheGoldenYears515 ай бұрын
Why you don't care 🤔
@taraQcoo7814 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness he was terrible.. bottom line.. coward to the 14th power
@Jessica-ju1rm Жыл бұрын
💪💯
@maj-brittgronholdt1579 Жыл бұрын
❤🙏
@kaitlynek11 ай бұрын
Would this video help a narcissist to change?
@Ariela-ApostolicA238 Жыл бұрын
💯
@obi1holyoliver798 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@split_jcgg9613 Жыл бұрын
The real coward is the person being abused by a known narcissist. Let’s take accountability for what we choose to put up with. I’m sick videos blaming the narcissist. It’s a joke now
@macnchessplz Жыл бұрын
That can be true to an extent for some people.Some people choose to put up with things and remain connected to a disordered person. However, others don’t want to put up with it. Take steps toward boundaries or no contact ,etc. And the disordered person or people (such as a family, maybe a group of co workers or other similar groups of people) FORCE themselves on to their target. Such as situations like stalking, hacking, smear campaigns that can last years, regardless of steps someone has taken to remove themselves from the situation. Those situations are no joke and extremely difficult to resolve (even if a person takes steps to involve law enforcement). It’s not always a simple matter of what you’re willing to put up with.
@alondraacosta-mora6504 Жыл бұрын
Wtf!? You sometimes don’t even know you with a narcissist, they show their true colors after years sometimes.
@IsabellaPiesch Жыл бұрын
@@alondraacosta-mora6504 Thank you ... That is true - narcissists are perfect actors... And sadly you don´t learn in school about narcissm. So really the most of us simple don´t know. Some of us grew up with a parent who treated us like them... (So we were used to this behavior)...
@teesahurt207410 ай бұрын
Every one must take accountability for their actions. One is causing severe pain abuse and the other is trying ti defend her/his lies…
@nycstarport854210 ай бұрын
Narcissist red flag.....they like to use the word 'stupid'.
@tobiaslewis82859 ай бұрын
This Video is Brilliant, especially when you actually admit that you are one....🪙✨