Narcissists Are Educating Themselves About Narcissism

[@noelhoffmann6057]

Which proves narcissists know exactly what they are doing and it IS deliberate. Don't ever doubt how evil they are.

[@sunnyclouds1372]

Agreed

[@mycasualchic]

YESSS! The common assumption in narc literature that their evil behaviour is unknown to them can't be true. All the narcissists I grew up with were actually proud of how they could manipulate, control, betray, finesse people etc. So they ARE aware of what they are doing!

[@dying101666]

I think some narcs know they have a problem and don't know what it is but want to fix it. It must be shocking not knowing you are a narc only to read about narcissism and find out you may be one.

[@pearlsdaughter2281]

I agree

[@kathyaudreegenemorris3659]

We Empaths have been studying them! I am no longer a narcs supply!

[@bluemoon3699]

I am not too worried about the narcs adapting to our education. If they were capable of change, they wouldn't be narcs. My ex could only behave for 2 weeks at a time.

[@Elanjdriab23]

No narc is ever “BEHAVING” They are ALWAYS misbehaving in one way or another

[@user9201]

They are capable of change but they do not WANT to change, unless it’s for their own benefit (eg learning to be better manipulators).

[@alainvosselman9960]

That's so true but also, they can still cause a lot of damage during the time the victim hasn't become aware of their situation.

[@hissyfitz7890]

@@alainvosselman9960 - That would happen regardless.

[@daringgreatly8473]

If a narc accuses you of being a narc just tell them there is only one solution, they must grey rock you and go no contact. 😂👍🏼

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Interesting twist😅

[@len1045678]

Lmaoo i love that one

[@lisarochwarg4707]

Yah! Good one! If I'm so bad, then leave me.

[@overseaoversea6602]

Absolutely! So much of narcissistic inconsistency when they stalk you yet tell how bad you are. When you address this behavior they go blank and evaporate, they are not capable to foresee such response.

[@vaish1161]

Hilarious

[@MrCryptler69]

Narcissists learning about Narcissism is like a Narcissist looking at their own reflection in a mirror......they see nothing!

[@janicemurphy4373]

Rapture ReadyAnd they forget who they truly are !!!!M

[@toidean633]

They will never see themselves as a Narc! So they can't learn anything! Just continue being themselves because in their minds we're the abusers!

[@magisterhpp]

Narcissists/psychopaths (100% narcissistic) kind of usurp or gobble up knowledge. They will *not* use that knowledge for anything good/altruistic that really serves mankind. It will however serve their (abnormally energetical) craving for POWER AND CONTROL (to be misused) and (thus) will be used *against* normal humanity. Study, at least within a *sound* system = not organized to be extremely advantageous to THEM, should be stricktly forbidden for them.

[@lingbex]

When i watch narc videos and my narc hears something that calls him out, he throws a tantrum. But only sometimes he can't see it most of the time.

[@elenafeliciano1853]

7

[@benbuda5857]

Narcissists learning about narcissism does nothing to their delusional minds

[@AustraliaUnmasked1984]

Exactly

[@tooakki]

Correct.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

Also, narcs work in the mental health field and this explains why some therapists side with the narc over their victims--marital and relationship counseling

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Exactly!

[@marciaheadley9933]

Currently experiencing two covert narcissists and if this is not hell, I don't know what is. Looking forward to going No Contact. Blessings

[@pearlsdaughter2281]

Do it-go no contract. It is a blessing to your self. You will love it ❤.

[@dobler51]

That is a very good topic. My dad is as narcissistic as it can be like my siblings. I encountered so many narcissists that I’m grateful to not have become declared insane by now.The best way to piss off a narcissist is to have a personality and be as genuine as possible because that can’t be faked and keeping your cool because he or she thrives on emotion,thus provoking an emotional reaction that makes us look bad. Sarcasm is awesome,because they are not intelligent enough to pick the nuances and watch them get pissed.Insulting them in a very calm way actually works.In reality,they’re weak POS.However,like you said,narcissists are excellent at adapting like vermin and are harder to detect.My dad is an overt narcissist who can go covert.He alternates between the two!One sibling has moved on to completely covert and I have to give it to him,he is pretty good at it. If anyone wants to overcome narcissistic abuse,he or she has to realize that narcs are cowards and it’s not worth it giving them importance.Give it to kind people and they exist and don’t worry about pleasing people that don’t really know you,the cream will rise at the top! Btw,it is essential to survive their anger phase.In my experience,they want to manipulate so that he or she can control the situation.In most cases,it’s posturing.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Thanks for sharing. Yes they can be like chameleons, changing to match their surroundings.💞

[@xyzct]

Whew! Perfect timing. I was hours away from making the mistake of telling a narc she's a narc, and showing her educational material.

[@deetrout7623]

xyzct 😂😂😂

[@naomiwest9622]

That had me laughing.

[@strictnonconformist7369]

Perhaps more useful would be showing them information and telling them “Hey, you must be an empath, watch this!” Admittedly, I’m not certain how that’d work out in practice, but it may be very entertaining watching them twist themselves into knots trying to play the part, but failing hard. My thoughts here (again, not tested) is to use reverse psychology in gaslighting them to fake it until they make it, or… explode trying.

[@universe2198]

This is concerning. Thank u for explaining 🙏.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

You are welcome💞

[@bad_egg000]

even if the narcissists knew about narcissm, they will never change still. make your boundaries high and be mentally and emotionally strong. 💪💪💪 fragile egos will still crack with the slightest negative comments on them.

[@gracious6461]

So true

[@Lyrielonwind]

I just had a response of a apparently empath woman who wants to heal my trauma puppy, just recently adopted, to do some magic cuantic from distance (Tesla) to heal her and when I told her I don't believe it she scowled me for not accepting her free services and called me narrow adoctrinated mind...so, she unmasked herself. I told her I wouldn't get offended by someone who doesn't know about narcissism and she answered: "bah, psychology...I'm talking about science and quantum physics... I was about to tell her about how much my late ex husband despised psychology but I got bored...why trying to convince someone who got hurted because I don't share her beliefs?

[@bad_egg000]

@@Lyrielonwind sorry you have to deal with that kind of person. narc has a fragile ego even the slightest criticism, they can't handle. And they believe, nothing is wrong with them. Save your energy and dismissed arguing or talking with those kind of people. take care

[@hissyfitz7890]

@@Lyrielonwind - Its like spitting into the wind.

[@thabomuso6254]

Great topic. Ironically, I started listening about lectures on narcissism when my former narcissist boss sent me a link to such a lecture. She liked to talk about how she is constantly the victim of narcissists. In a way she is, because there are others who are more ruthless than her and successfully seek to exploit her. Narcissists learn about narcissism because they want to learn hot to hide their personality disorder, while also trying to cure themselves. But just like with alcoholics and drug abusers, they can't hide just because they study their own behavior. And they aren't honest enough to themselves to see the problems, nor patient enough to study deeply enough.

[@rhondawalker2020]

This is very concerning! Since he got served with divorce papers, I've been not engaging much with him so as not to provoke him whatsoever! He's trolling for a new secondary source, poor woman 😱. Keep your videos coming, God bless you 😇

[@Lyrielonwind]

Recording whatever transaction you have will guard you from more bs and gaslighting, especially if he comes up with any trick or false accusations on Court.

[@NateMatthews]

I think it was actually a blessing in disguise that my narc called ME the narc. I had actually never even heard of the word before until then. Initially when I watched videos to see if i was the narc I didnt see many of the traits. Then months later, when I wasnt watching for things in common about myself, I realized SHE was the narc the whole time. Tricky thing is both of her parents are narcs & she can agree that at least one of them is . . . but is still in denial about her mother. By the time I learned about all this Im already in no contact though so I've never accused my narc of being one. Hope I did the right thing by just educating myself & staying away. Still trying to heal myself 🙏🏽

[@t.twashington4001]

Time reveals all things. We have to take our time with people & practice/ maintain boundaries. I’m not really worried about it but I do see danger or vulnerability in a person not knowing or understanding narcissism or someone knowingly returning back to 1 convinced they’ve changed.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

I believe it because narcs want to do all the things that are the opposite of narc characteristics. However, it all changes once the relationship is stable, and they feel comfortable with their partner. At this point, there is no need to wear an acting mask, and narcs remove it. Sad, that most narc victims become trapped and confused and can't simply walk away. The narc has full control over their minds, and what is believable or not. My ex narc boyfriend told me that his ex told him he was a psychopath in the beginning of our relationship, but I hadn't seen his dark side until later. Also, I noticed in this relationship he would bring up past occurrences at a later time about something I did that I wasn't aware was a problem. I found myself always apologizing for trivial things, but as it kept coming, I began to reflect to determine the seriousness of them. It was then that I realize there was control and humiliating factors on his behalf and broke off the relationship. I just could not deal with. Being that I have a Master's in Psychology, I knew what I was dealing with

[@donnaparks1919]

I pray GOD send his angle strip the narcissist of all there influence and power from them amen

[@zedradio3162]

These people are not going to watch this stuff, for too long. This is the Narc devalue channel, not Netflix..)

[@thabomuso6254]

You are right. They do watch this but not for long. they don't have the patience to and it becomes too painful to study it too deep. They just seek to learn some catchphrases that they can use to appear smart and aware of their victimhood.

[@Lyrielonwind]

They would get bored because each of them think they know better like the criminals who blame themselves for being caught, not for doing evil. Is their arrogance that would bore them and would make them think unbeatable.

[@AZDC99]

I was almost agreeing with the other side, but you're right! Let's not give these marca too much credit for being brilliant SUPPOSEDLY. I concur with you on this Grand slam point

[@jeffreybarton9758]

Yeah this is how I discovered , that I was with a narc , I didn't know anything about it , I just new something was wrong and I was seriously hurting badly

[@theraven1850]

Let them learn, if i was a Narcissist and reading these comments that people put about Narcs and how they are hated, I would feel a serious injury. It can't be nice to read these comments and watch these videos, If Narcs do not wonder if they are a Narc, why watch these videos and give a thumbs down, surely nobody other than a Narc would do that.

[@Lyrielonwind]

15 dislikes, so far.

[@5dprocess515]

What happens when there are Many Empaths now know their tactics? What happens to their supply

[@theraven1850]

@@5dprocess515 Well, i exposed mine to many of my friends and before she met me she knew very few people, she would like to have gone on to date some of my friends and associates, but i believe her supply has been cut off, by me exposing her. she will have to look elsewhere and there are always people who can be taken in by their lies and deceit.

[@christopherwoodward806]

Oh my goodness, thank you so much for this video. So many times I have been accused of being the problem, I often doubted myself. It drove me witless, was it me, no it wasn’t, why was everything thrown back at me. I was 100% sure that it was not me but the hold was so strong That I was questioning myself every time there was disagreements. I still find it hard to believe the nightmare. Despite all this I still hold on to the illusion, the love that was false, the dream. Life can be so shi**y. I want the pain to go away but at the same time I know that when the pain has gone the love has also gone. Even though it was just a charade it was everything and the thought of it being gone is so heartbreaking. It is hurting so much acknowledging and writing this. I take a little comfort in knowing that so many of you understand how I am feeling. Good luck and love to you all.

[@supermichaelssecondchannel4342]

Self awareness is a start.

[@NarcissistChronicles]

MGTOW has been my best decision. Enough is enough, my life and mental health are worth more to me than playing Russian Roulette. And with more than 50% of the masses having STD's it becomes a no brainer for me.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Exactly! 💞

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

Oh hey jessie.

[@lis853]

My narcissist sister (narcissister lol) has accused me a number of times of being a narcissist and the fact that I’ve thought “shit, maybe she’s right” is a big clue that I’m not. Also, I can’t bring myself to to take any action for my own benefit if I think it might hurt someone else... so that kind of cancels me out lol

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

You don't sound like one. Narcissister😅. I like that.

[@lis853]

@@ExposingtheNarcissist It's bloody good lol "narcissister"... I wish I could say it's mine but I was venting to a girl I work with and she came up with that lol

[@Lyrielonwind]

@@lis853 I like friendnemies...if I spell it right.

[@lis853]

@@Lyrielonwind it's good... doesnt have the same ring as narcissister lol... If you want an update on my narcissister; I opted to cut her out as her toxicity was just a bit too much... like there's this guy I'm really into and she asks me about him (cos I'm good friends with him) and of course being my sister I get all giddy and tell her about him and cute things he does and she's saying "he'll come around" and things of the like and she goes back to our mum telling her I've got an unhealthy obsession with him, and I don't, I'm just infatuated with the guy, its a completely normal human experience. Thats just one of many examples i can give you. Ask if you'd like to know more lol. Of late, she was using for a long time there but claims shes been clean for a number of weeks. She's reached out to me several times but I've ignored her... I just don't trust her anymore. Plus, you cant treat me like shit for years and years then expect me to forgive her unconditionally and blame the drugs. No, I've had my own issues with drugs but never, did I ever make my struggle with addiction anybody elses problem.

[@Soothsayer937]

@@lis853 Still funny. I have a narcissister also.

[@warrenl4186]

There's nothing new they can learn from studying narcissism. Evil is just plain evil. 10% evil is no less than 100%evil. These videos are demonstrating to us who the narc is, what they do and how they do it. It's be pleased if I knew my ex narc wife was watching these videos because I know she'd be so anxious about not being able to pull the wool over my eyes any more!

[@d.radford273]

You can be a narc and still be abused by another narc. The abuse is real and I try to not act on my own narc traits.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

That is true. I have mentioned that in another video. They do it all the time because they all think they are better than the other.

[@lisarochwarg4707]

They were all over Quora, doling out bad advice and misinformation, attacking victims, defending narcissists, etc. I'm sure narcissists email the creators of channels like these and tell those people that they're "being too hard" on narcissists. What they want is for people like Clarice to shut up. They don't like their strategies being exposed, and they don't want their strange inner world being broadcast all over the internet. I will give some narcissists credit for being pretty honest (believe it or not!). Some of them have accurately described their motives and their inner world. A lot of these people were in therapy.

[@Star17venus]

My narc nemesis straight up said, "I AM INFALLIBLE!" That was a defining moment for no longer giving the benefit of a doubt (enabling).

[@hissyfitz7890]

My NEX became a psychologist & increased his knowledge of MINDFUCKERY.

[@TheNorthernHouse10]

Their deeply rooted dysfunction prohibits them from keeping the monster under control beyond the temporary. The textbook narc is a “victim” of their own destructive devices.

[@moonseed209]

Thank you...You have just confirmed what I’ve felt about my ex. He was so skilled on covering his disorder. He had everything just so perfectly planned out. Once I figured out what I was dealing with and who he was looking back on my relationship with him. All I could think about was... he had to of watched, listened and educated himself on who and how to target his victims. He had it so calculated and planned out. I can’t even explain just how disguised his abuse was. There was no way he could of been so skilled and perfectly set... he had to of diffidently educated himself. People....beware of these very toxic abusive dangerous damaging people

[@grantking6393]

If we go No Contact, nothing they do matters.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

True! But what about the ones you haven't met yet?

[@J3robi]

The usage of the word "No" is a good way to spot them quite fast.

[@jonie4619]

I figured out about narcissism and started talking about this to my sis who's a narc btw, and you know what she did? she started calling me as the one who is the narcissist and blamed me for my bf's cheating, and why he's taking me for granted it's because I'm the one who's faulty in the relationship. My sis is on my bf side and she even gaslighted me and I felt so down with her words. She even made up things I didn't even done to her. Narcs are unbelievable!

[@gracious6461]

They are listening real good they need to be exposed some more people need to preach on it

[@brandonvanlieshout7303]

Thank you so much for this. My friend(lady friend) said I was a covert narcissist. All because I defended myself from her attack. I get mad sure, but I don't blow up, I'm pretty honest. Very empathic. In fact people have asked me if I'm am make empath. I believe also the best apology is changed behavior. Now I can sleep and breathe a little easier lol.

[@kathybriggs8902]

I was thinking..🤔 it doesn't matter if they are educating themselves or not. Because the same rules. On educating yourself. Against the narcissist. The same rules still apply. 🤔

[@Eye58Farms]

Blessings on this work you are doing! Yes, these predators could not have missed the buzz about them by now, that’s for sure. It’s probably just made a lot of covert NPD’s out of overt NPD’s. If I’m not mistaken you’re from the same place my Narc ex is from and I’m glad to know this awareness is growing there as well as everywhere else. Unchecked narcissism is a blight on any people but perhaps even more so on as lovely a culture as your own. In my time I worked with every psychologist, psychiatrist and pastor on the island that would lend a sympathetic ear. In the end it was thanks to international warriors like yourself that I ended not one but two marriages to the same Narc. I mean it sincerely when I say, Keep up the good work!

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Thank you very much for the encouraging words. Peace and Blessings💞🌷

[@mariebella26]

I enjoyed all of your brilliant, heartfelt and enlightening videos I've had the privilege to watch so far! What I loved the most was the simplistic and straightforward way you're using in your explanation! Also, the fact you're taking into consideration not all the audience is native speakers! I've had so many friends telling me they were unable to understand the videos I was sharing with them in English because people are speaking too fast for their level! So, your videos are just amazing! Thank you so much for all the efforts and your gem 💎 of heart! Stay blessed dear Clarice! YOU ARE LOVE 💜🧚‍♀️💙

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. It means a lot to know as some people have an issue with me speaking slowly. Your support means a lot! Peace and blessings🌹

[@mariebella26]

@@ExposingtheNarcissist you are ABSOLUTELY and wholeheartedly fantabulous ! Those words were directly delivered from the bottom of my heart full of gratitude for this treasure of channel which will help thousands if not millions of abused good folks! So, again, many thanks for who you are 💙

[@Lyrielonwind]

I agree. I'm not native speaker and many channels goes way to fast-speech.

[@dianebergschneider4028]

Thankyou for bringing this topic our for reflection. My 42yr old daughter recently was divorced and claimed he was a narc as I heard from family that she has, indeed, studied up on the topic!! And, she plays the victim card and goes through rages of anger riddled with profanity of me!! She makes me the narc!! It's insane the abuse I have experienced...she is a lost soul...Yes, she is seeking out validation that she is the right one!!

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

This is exactly why they do it so that they can play the victim and accuse others of being the narcissist. Many thanks for your comment. Peace and Blessings!💞

[@funlovinbloke6266]

My covert narcissist ex partner doesn't educate herself about narcissism because she doesn't feel that she is one! She doesn't search for information about this topic. The only thing she does is trying to perfect her act for her new victims. I found out what she really is. She is a frustrated, angry, immature, insecure and damaged person. A little child in a mature body. I saw her flaws, discovered her lies. I am happy that I have my life back. I feel better and I learned a lot about this fake and toxic relationship, a lot about myself. I know that life will only get better after an abusive relationship with a covert narcissist.

[@lafonizodunlap4299]

What is not UNDERSTOOD is Narcissim is a coping mechanism for all the cluster B dramatic disorders (Antisocial, Histrionic, Borderline and Narcissistic personality disorder traits). Another misunderstood fact is they overlap with each other. That can result to a fluctuation between coping mechanism from external stimuli from their environment. I don't think it will make them better narcissist. Good theory perhaps, but the patterns with emotional deregulation, compulsively, lying, manipulation and exploitation of others with still be easy on the surface to detect. The video is duly noted. Thank you for the insight

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!💞

[@michaeljackson7361]

They aren't smart enough to retain much. It's trickery and misdirection they use. That's hard to hide

[@alainvosselman9960]

In retrospect, the person who abused me mentally... insinuated that i was a narcissist. He used words and terms of which i now know that he researched the topic frequently. But he only took that which he could try and use against me and left out all the others stuff that he could have used to confront himself. The abuse went on for 15yrs and i didn't know. Thank you for spreading practical insight. I feel better but this video came in my feed and glad to have watched it. It's very good information !

[@privateprivate8366]

Yes, I’ve come across a few narcissists, in the comments area, of some YT channels. One in the past couple of days and one that, a few months ago, was definitely messed up. Got into an exchange with me, projected his/her issues onto me and, when all was said and done, they were saying, “See everyone. Now, we know who the real narcissist is. They felt they had me because I didn’t follow victimhood rules of being afraid of the narcissist. That me saying that I’d back one into a corner was proof that I was the narcissist, when the woman I backed into a corner at work had tried to smear me in a meeting. I don’t feel bad at all for doing so, she told me she’d never bother me again and another coworker had noticed that she seemed to test each person, to see what she could get away with. But, this poor person who projected onto me? I felt nothing but pity for them. I let them go nuts trying to smear me. No one else seemed much to either notice or, perhaps, understood what that person was doing. The only reason I didn’t bother is because they don’t know me so, they’re smearing someone who couldn’t even care. If their life was as bad as they’d said and their head that jacked up, with no consequence to me, let them have that invisible win. Poor thing. But, if we were face to face? Poor nothing.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Yes narcissists are all over the place. Doing youtube videos pretending to be victims or authority figures on the subjects and in comments projecting and harassing people.

[@Lyrielonwind]

When I meet one in social media I tell them they bore me to death. Probably the worst you can say to them is that or "I don't feed trolls" and 😘 They don't get the fuel 😀

[@privateprivate8366]

@@Lyrielonwind she didn’t come off as a narcissist at first, like so many. Then, bam. Had I known initially, I’d have ignored her or cut her off, like a hangnail.

[@catlady6938]

Before I realised my ex was a narcissist, I described what one is, as he was complaining about his ex, unbeknown to me I had described him, but he turned around and said his ex was one, which I doubt very much now I know the truth.

[@CHEFROASTANDGAG]

Damn am I the narcissist? (Then I finished the video.)

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Lol😀💞

[@richardmiller700]

My name is Richard Miller: I never hear any of the narcissistic experts discuss the subjects of when someone take the experts information and employs the concept of narcissism to destroy someone’s life...

[@Lyrielonwind]

I know of Sam Vaknin and H. G. Tudor who are narcissists and have many followers in KZbin. Do you mean those ones?

I'd say that a good half of the narc abuse videos are made by narcissists. not this channel, but a lot of the top ones out there seem to be made by people with some cluster b personality disorder.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

My thoughts exactly. I don't want to appear judgemental but I now have a sixth sense for narcs. Even some of these Drs. in the field are.😒 Thanks for sharing your thoughts💞

[@ServantStatusMinistries]

@isaac clarke j Jesus alone can be trusted for He can not lie

[@KC-sb2sm]

Totally agree. They never look at their learning humbly. Always to use against someone else. I know a certified counselor who is an overt narcissist. He does know about narcissism. Makes it impossible for me to even talk to him without him turning it back on me. Never takes responsibility and always has an answer(not an honest answer but is smart enough to know I can’t immediately answer). Come back again with evidence to prove him wrong and he shifts to something else, not addressing the first. Titus 3:10 reads to give a divisor(narcissist) one warning and two, then have nothing more to do with them. I think there is great wisdom in that verse whether one believes scriptures or not.

[@Ruby0465]

Moral of the Story: NO CONTACT

[@robertl7239]

I have a sibling, a sister, who is a Narcissist/Sociopath. Her life revolves around deceiving her "friends" on social media, primarily on Facebook. She plays the part of the confidant, the victim, the oppressor, the strong independent woman, the vulnerable female, the poor pitiful abused child, the hero who has to constantly save the day for others. She's very good at projecting the image that she "cares about people" but it's all just a series of illusions. What she cares about is gaining the upper hand over the people she identifies as weak-minded potential targets. I put her on notice over 11 years ago, refusing to accept the gifts, the favors, and the phony caring. To this day she still tries to weasel her way back into my life so she can continue playing the same games, insisting to others (behind my back, of course) that I'm an out-of-touch with reality narcissist. I prefer to keep a comfortable amount of distance between us because, as far as I'm concerned, she's dangerous.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Good job remaining no contact. Peace and blessings!💞

[@robertl7239]

@@ExposingtheNarcissist Thank you. It can be challenging because the Narcissist/Sociopath is relentless in their pursuit to befriend and gain control over people.

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

I have exactly the same kind of sister and brother and mom and dad and it has been an absolute living hell most of my life. Till I went total no contact.

[@haihai5293]

This what you are saying is very important.

[@skippy5712]

Nothing more difficult to do than analyse yourself. I recall a Psychology Student who was requested to do a Final Paper on herself. He did not word it that way. He very skilfully worded the assignment. It was her! A very clever Lecturer. It took her months and months and in the end submitted something. Ended up passing but never practised Psychology. She was a monster who shared accommodation with my son. He laughed about the struggle she had. She must have gained some insight into herself.

[@robertyoung1045]

I'm sure my ex (narcissist) is educating herself about her behavior, because she is an expert at using her behaviors. She is a retired educational administrator that researches everything. As my devaluation began, she would ask what I knew of devaluation, manipulation and gaslighting. Followed later by her starting to exercise these tactics and then, of course, shifting the narrative on me. No contact is only option.

[@len1045678]

The covert Narc i use to know ask me if i knew the difference between and sphycho and a sociopart. It say people put all sorts of stuff in their head about it and miss-understanding it/him. Smh,They 💯 fully aware of what they are doing

[@ritastc7604]

Thank you for posting your videos ... very helpful indeed 💕

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

You are so welcome!

[@williamcastilla1963]

Rule #1 -Never tell a narcissist they are narcissists (this is hard, and I'm guilty of falling for this, so just try to avoid it), but even more importantly, NEVER EVER tell a narcissist you are doing research about narcissists. But again -if you do, NEVER EVER EVER call them out on things they specifically do and then explain/inform them of what you have specifically learned regarding their behavior. Some narcissists will be either too lazy or too arrogant (or both) to follow up, but some will be provoked in engaging in some research and then proclaim themselves to be experts on narcissism and then use the knowledge against you to get an upper hand. It is vital to be covert with them.

[@Lyrielonwind]

You named all my screw-ups... 😐you are right

[@niamhwrafter1498]

They're just the biggest jokes on this planet 😂🤣👏

[@Lyrielonwind]

And biggest trolls 😁

[@mariusmatei2946]

A couple of months ago, someone, here, on KZbin, called me "a moron", because he didn't like that I pointed out how detrimental the ever-growing population in his country is to the flora (and fauna) of his country, and when I stood my ground, he called me "a narcissist"!

[@likitadevi]

I complained a group of people to teachers because they were gossiping about me but then they counter attcked with telling the teachers that I disturbed a lot like how can one person disturb everyone without them doing anything?

[@joan6839]

They are predators. They evolve as we do

[@PrettyToez07]

Fourteen (14) narcissists disliked this video.

[@sulsimsn0579]

No matter how much they learn about THEIR ILLNESSES.......THEY ARE ONLY CONSISTENT WITH BEING INCONSISTENT. If they continue to do it more then they WILL BECOME EMPATHETIC. Then they'd have to deal with the MONSTERS THEY'VE CREATED 👹👹

[@Lyrielonwind]

I don't think is possible. I mean, they might get into these channels but just for laughs or pick up new ideas but they will grow bored and thinking they cannot be fooled so why listening to channels that only give them methods they are artist at since childhood. They will think no channel can teach them anything they have not mastered already. They cannot be constant because they-know-it-all. In order to learn you need a bit of humbleness, exactly what they lack.

[@ServantStatusMinistries]

God says that fools despise wisdom and instruction and narcissist are fools. So don’t expect them to listen to instruction from narcissist resources or from ways to tell how to recover from narcissist abuse. A person who doesn’t have an identity and who lives in the dark are easily exposed and seen by those of us who choose to live in Jesus in the light and exposes all darkness

[@lilpinkbubbles6592]

My ex- Narc and his new supply accuses me of being the narcissist. He is trying to keep her from figuring it out. May the new supply enjoy. Especially since she slept with a married man to get him.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

I'm with you. May she gets what's coming! Peace and Blessings for the future💖

[@Lyrielonwind]

I have known narcissists trying to fool one another; maybe that is karma 😉

[@Elanjdriab23]

I learned about narcissist in psychology classes in college… when i told my ex he definitely seemed like a narc , his response was … “We all have narc traits so you’re a narc!” My first thought as a psychology level was “Mmh youve already read up on this bc someone has already called you this word before.. ah ha ! Anyone else i say the word “narcissist” to,half the time never even heard it before.. but my ex narc ALREADY KNEW the traits it consisted of and all. 😣🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Don't believe the lie about everyone being Narcissistic though.

[@truemaster77]

This was a very interesting topic. I dated a woman for only 3 months and she had many of the symptoms of NPD. Constant nitpicking, gas lighting, belittling, magical thinking and incredibly passive aggressive behaviour. She even told me that she felt that something was not right with her. Interesting thing was, she was only like that about 60 to 70 percent of the time. It was really perplexing. I began studying her as I was dating her and she actually looked physically different to me when her mood changed. I found her incredibly attractive but her features would take on a sinister finish when she was in "narc" mode. When I finally walked out after the 3 months, she called me a narcicisst and that prompted me to research the term because no one had ever called me that before. About a week later I tried to ask her out again after her birthday and I was discarded. Now that I watched several hundred hours of video on the topic and read multiple articles, I am pretty certain that she has NBD and I feel very bad for her. How do I convince that she should get help? I have not made any contact in over a month but I do still think of her, especially now that I understand it is a mental illness.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

It's best to leave her alone. Please see this video kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqukaXaHg6eLZ6s

[@truemaster77]

@@ExposingtheNarcissist thank you for the feedback 🙏🏽

[@gregorynicholls9991]

Don't worry a Narc will always be predictable they only have 3 weapons in their arsenal and when those are exhausted they have no choice but to start over trying the same failed weapons. Looks pathetic to me,I call them basket cases.

[@nancyk7954]

Being educated on narcs, just knowing their cookie cutter predictable patterns. Know yourself and be confident in who you are. I am not perfect, but I also know I'm not a narc. I did not lie, cheat or steal from him, like he did to me. My desire is to have good relationships based on trust and truth, to care and be there for others and them for me. I'm not needy and I don't ask for much. That is all I need to have the strength and confidence to protect myself when it comes to dealing with the narc. I know the narc who was recently in my life has enemies. And his enemies are slowly becoming my allies. Not necessarily my true friends, but sort of like shadow angles. They are my kryptonite to the narc because he knows I'm not like a small lamb grazing in the meadow unaware the wolf is watching and waiting. The wolf is concerned that I'm a trap and to stay far away. Find their Achilles heel and aim for it when you need to. Find a way to stay a step ahead. When I speak to the enemy of the narc I know, it's in public, and the flying monkeys become my tool to report to the narc which should trigger him to become paranoid. There are subtle ways that show the narc not come near. I'm 100% gray rock and 100% no contact but I am also aware that he and his flying monkey are around.

[@tomdarco2223]

That's what they Need to being doing to Fix themselves

[@jonesfredrick94]

Sir let me help you can you change satan? Then you can't change his spawns either

[@edwardfarrar8879]

That will never happen

[@Aa-ls4kd]

Makes them worse.

[@reesedaniel5835]

Yes they will just continue to accuse the true victims of being "narcissists" or anyone they don't like until nobody takes the true victims seriously when they expose a REAL narcissist. There is literally no way to win with these demons short of Jesus Christ Himself returning and destroying them with the Word of His Mouth.

[@vanessamorey3812]

Easy response would be .....I CANT BE A NARCISSIST... because I don't have a BITCH FIT WHEN I DONT GET MY WAY!! Lol! Simple!

[@Rose-dl6xg]

Excellent message towards the end of this video. The hideous laugh they laugh is topical of the narcissist. And yes, even though they think they've won, because of how crafty they are at wearing their mask, in the end it will be a loose, loose for them, and sadly their soul is in serious jeopardy to.🙏😑🤔

[@fayceedat670]

You are so helpful. Thank you 💜💜💜

[@FrostSoul-qs6kq]

Yeah , my ex did this to help her go against her Narcissistic behavior to avoid the weaknesses and continue getting better at ruining lives .

[@SavedbyGrace19]

Yes he accused me of narc behaviors before I even knew what it was..they are getting more clever and patient

[@asdwasd5823]

its same like they learn "empathy" simple as that.

[@d.radford273]

Narcissism is contagious that's how we become a narcissist.

[@d.radford273]

@Pat Coco I believe I have some low level narc traits that are brought out when around another narcasisst. And I think that I have repeatition compulsion so I either take on the codependent role or the narc role. I don't do alot of things narcs do like cheat and have all these back supplies I stay to myself mostly but have been targeted recently by a narc at work I'm doing no contact now. It's been really tough the trauma bond is hard.

[@Lyrielonwind]

Yes, that's why we have to stop giving them fuel. Indifference is their kryptonite.

[@haihai5293]

They are inside very fragile, just say them the truth it will hurt them - very hard to the core and leave them.

[@htpm325]

I think it is naive to underestimate this phenomenon. I watched a marriage of two grandiose narcs end badly within the first year. He went into therapy a broken man and came out as an even stronger controlling narc as he was now armed with clinical terms and relationship building models. All put to excellent use in his third marriage.

[@yellowbird9132]

Do you think they really know deep down that they are narcs? I've wondered about the possibilities of them learning more about it so they can use it. This is really something to be aware of. Thanks again Clarice!

[@vyebey8934]

Gosh... my mom is a covert and completely projected her traits onto me and called me a narcissist when i was explaining some suicidal mental behavior sje said i was looking for attention and sympathy as usual... i never knew about the term then so went down the rabbit hole and wow.... this explains a lot. Im the scapegoat in a narc family and no wonder she hates my guts! Calling me a narc how disgusting. I used to wonder why she said bad comments and talked badly and acted disgusted around me then found this out. A horrid woman.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Knowledge is power. I am glad you have come this realisation. I hope you are able to break free and heal🌹

[@Lyrielonwind]

My NM doesn't know the meaning but she and all my siblings have been telling me I'm crazy since I remember...and that was when I was 4 years old. Do you remember the "normal girl" in the Monsters Family? Everyone felt pity about her and how ugly she was 😀

[@williamsnow3991]

Still can't hide!

[@Tablahands]

Yes I've noticed this too. They'll comment on trying to heal themselves. I highly doubt that.

[@yeswing10]

They are upping their game.

[@melissacole1821]

My ex called me and everyone he didn't like a narcissist. They always blameshift and name-call anyway, so it doesn't really matter, unless their new target is uneducated about it and then they can gaslight that person into believing they are. I know my ex is capable of doing that and that's what's so dangerous about it.

[@sheiladay365]

I do not need to be in a relationship with a man to be happy. I am an artist, have animals and grandchildren, am healthy and have a relationship with Jesus Christ. Life is good. Thank you so much for this enlightening information.

[@thunderenriquez255]

narcissisists learning about narcissism, do they becone covert narcissists? or do they start their journey of self realization towards empathy

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

They learn about it then accuse others of being narcissists. Projecting/gaslighting their craziness onto others.

[@JohnDoe-fz7hz]

That's a very interesting Point! Everyone who is self-reflecting may ask him- or herself if they are the problem, they are the narc? How will you figure out if? Is there a self-defense mechanism

[@robinmurray5266]

Just gotta go no contact. There's no other way.

[@katarinatibai8396]

They learn haw to be more covert and better predator - 😨😨😨 Sad bat thru...

[@purpleserenity137]

But even if you don't think you are a narcissist, would that still make you a narc? I mean, I would like to think I'm a good person but at the same time, I question if I have been good to others. I question if I had displayed narc behavior. So, can you truly know if you're a narc or not? Yes, the narc may not think they are a narc but doesn't everyone do that? It's just confusing when you think about it, at least from my point of view it does. Does anyone else understand or feel the same way when this is thought about?

[@judddarguedarbyshire1977]

if someone tell us that the narc is calling " us " a narc,,, we should reply with this : narcs are not cable if taking criticism or blame / accountability, so, do the maths and you will see the truth of it.

[@theballadeer2017]

Can you explain to us why sometimes we doubt ourselves of being the Narcissist???

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Yes sure. This is actually something I have covered in this video kzbin.info/www/bejne/qIbdqqmsp7xop8k

[@indimusiq]

When we want to pass a test most likely we study for it! Why should the narcissist be any different.. questions to ask (if anyone wants to be bothered) is are they researching for personal growth OR to find new ways to deceive their source 🤔.. I say, focus on you're own growth, and be aware of your surroundings.. let's all live our best lives!

[@aliciasteward8463]

Also due to mirror/copy cat repeat everything!

[@patrickjohnson8741]

That would be both wonderful & incredible if it were possible.

[@noelhoffmann6057]

They sure are. Had one following me on the narc channels. Disgusting creepy POS.

[@carolineharbour1673]

I agree with what she's saying But I also think.if the narsist calls the victim a narsist That can also be a positive The victim then will probably go online and Google the word and be able too understand what he's doing These videos are fabulous for healing And working out what these people are doing Narsists can get cleverer with knowledge and age but trust me there madness and crazy behaviour will Always show through eventually They are there own worst enemys If I look back there was 4 clear signs before I even went on the date with him That this person was not healthy except I hadn't watched the videos too make the connection They are always bad feelings in your gut as well that are ignored These videos are fabulous for helping vulnerable people get free of these toxic individuals If enough people get educated on the subject these toxic wasters will have no where too go anymore too play there games When they leave your life gets happier fuller and richer from being out of there spiders web and out of the prison sentence that they bestowed upon you They are there own worst enemy and there poison always surfaces people feel them and no they don't feel right Big kisses and hugs everyone

[@russellj.s.257]

The pot calling the kettle black