Nate by NF. Welsh Psychology Professor Reacts. So much MENTAL HEALTH wisdom in this song.

Psychology lecturer Dr Nic ANALYZES and REACTS! Subscribe here:
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[@anthonya1912]

As a reactor you are going to see a huge boom of NF fans if you stick with it. NF is a masterclass in beats, production, cinematography, and lyricism.

[@dennisr.4918DennyDesigns]

And therapy.

[@nichooper7]

I haven't quite figured that out you know. As in, if a by product of looking at NFs music is more subscribers for me then great, but I think I'd go through the journey without that because of the qualities you mentioned in your message. Thanks for taking the time to comment! Nic

[@leitm3912]

@@nichooper7 NF is one of my favorite artists of all time, and seeing other people react to and digest his music really digging into it is so nice to see.

[@zoethebfe]

You don't find NF...he finds you when you need him the most. I've been here since 2017.

[@nichooper7]

Oh that's a lovely sentiment! Im looking forward to hearing the rest of his stuff!

[@thetreasurefine75]

Love this reaction! And, so you know, it wouldn't be "weird" for you to react to all of NF's music -- many reactors have done just that (and seen their channel blown up as a result)! The "NF Journey" is long, but incredibly rich and rewarding; the 2 songs you've done only scratch the surface of what's in his catalog! Whatever you decide to do, I'm here for it! #nfrealmusic

[@nichooper7]

Thanks Jon for the encouragement here - In time, I'm looking forward to getting beneath the surface : )

[@Internation-VC]

Dear Nic, I thoroughly enjoyed watching your reaction to NF's song "Nate." I found your commentary on the symbolism of the black balloons in NF's song "Nate" quite intriguing. If you're curious about their significance, I would highly recommend exploring NF's other songs, as they provide further insight into the meaning behind the black balloons. I believe it would greatly benefit your understanding and interpretation of his music if you watched his videos from the start. NF's songs are deeply personal and autobiographical, serving as a window into his life, struggles, and emotions. By following his journey chronologically, you will witness the progression of his artistry and the evolution of his storytelling. Starting from NF's early songs, such as "Mansion," provides crucial context for understanding his background and the foundation upon which he builds his music. "Mansion" introduces us to the concept of his mind as a metaphorical mansion, representing his internal battles and demons. Moving forward, songs like "Intro" and "Outro" from the "Therapy Session" album delve into his childhood, highlighting the raw pain and trauma that shaped him. "How Could You Leave Us" and "Real" from the "Therapy Session" album are emotionally charged tracks that explore the devastating loss of his mother and the challenges he faces as an artist. By progressing through his discography, you'll witness the growth and maturation in NF's lyrical prowess and production value. Each album adds new layers to his story, such as "The Search" and "Clouds," where he confronts fame, self-doubt, and the pressures of the music industry. In essence, watching NF's videos in order allows you to appreciate the depth of his journey, connecting the dots between his songs and gaining a comprehensive understanding of his life experiences. It enhances your ability to analyze his artistry, appreciate his vulnerability, and grasp the overarching themes that define his music. I hope you find this suggestion valuable and consider exploring NF's discography from the beginning. It will undoubtedly provide you with a richer perspective on his work and deepen your appreciation for his unique storytelling abilities.

[@nichooper7]

Wow! Thanks for taking the time to tell me all that, it has convinced me about how to go about this, even if going from the beginning takes me a long time! Many thanks again, Nic.

[@HaraQuinn]

16:20 .. or perhaps a black balloon? It's funny bc it never occurred to me how someone new to Nate would connect the balloons to the birthday songs b/c the balloons are literally the metaphor for his "burdens" for the entire album (The Search) this track is on. And as some others mentioned.. he did, in-fact, write this song as part of his time being treated by therapists.. very impressive notation. I'm both a therapist myself, but also with my own diagnosis.. i share similar distate for labels as you do due to glamorisation, self hatred due to stigma, or tools for self victimisation some use it for.. especially people who self diagnose. I always try to teach my patients about the wonderful side of their differently ordered brain. The wording in the DSM for symptoms are just awful b/c I know that every curse can also be a blessing. An example i always remind myself of is how some people might be able to go from A to B.. whereas for others like me, might have to go A to G to D etc to finally get to B. If you always keep moving, you will eventually always get to B. The beautiful side i really try to teach people is how lucky we are to make those multiple stops b/c we get to see and experience so much more Life, whilst simultaneously exercising our minds into Warriors. Positive reinforcement and positive language needs to be employed in therapy much more than it currently is. I absolutely hate the beating our profession is currently taking due to diff legislations on how we (in the US) are even allowed to address our clients in certain situations. I teach DBT so i fortunately get a pass and have much more room to use different methodologies in Alternative Therapies to help clients learn how to accept and learn to control their "demons" instead of being a victim to them. Positive wording holds so much power I wish future therapists would be taught to utilise more b/c i truly believe the amount of medication people have been given for things they could easily learn to cognitively change under a positive therapist is insane. #NFRealMusic You're doing a wonderful job.

[@nichooper7]

Hey Hara (?), thanks so much for reaching out! Yea I think that there is probably a lot that I will miss with Nate because I haven't looked through his catalogue yet - I'm looking forward to working my way through it though! It sounds like your clients are lucky to have you. DBT is great but the level of analysis and humanity in your words probably make you a wonderful tool for change in your clients. Thanks for taking the time to comment and for sending over this positivity! Nic

[@jelezoglo]

I read somewhere that his therapist asked him to write a letter to his younger self. He turned that letter into this song. Great reaction!! I think you’ll find “Just like you” very insightful.

[@nichooper7]

Yes I've only found that out since doing the video, which is very cool! Thanks for the positivity and Ill check our Just Like You in time! Nic

[@damanbollyhop]

I am a huge fan of NF songs. His music helped me to get through my depression phase and showed me that m not alone. It will be really great if u can go through the songs in his Journey catalog in sequence order as I m sure all NF fans would love to see ur take on those songs as his other songs r also compelling and as powerful as these 2 songs u reacted to. And m sure ur channel will blow up as NF has a huge following and we love to see the take of new people on his journey. Thank u.

[@nichooper7]

Thanks so much for taking the time to comment! I think NF is a bit of a genius and so I'm looking forward to seeing the rest of his stuff. Might take me a while though!

[@dennisr.4918DennyDesigns]

Thank Dr. Nic, I was one of the guys who suggested this. This is a good way to start the journey.

[@nichooper7]

Dennis!!! Yes, your comment was the one that made me look this way and I'm really happy that I did now - this song is incredible! Thanks loads for the steer! Nic

[@Chris-rh9ej]

I believe NF was doing a therapy exercise like you mentioned when he decided to make this song

[@nichooper7]

How mad is that! Im delighted that he got such insight and created such a song as a result of therapy!

[@Iamandymccabe42]

I have also been on my on Search for someone willing to do a complete work analysis. The man does NOT miss

[@juliananelson475]

I like your definition of winning at life.. looking forward to your NF song analysis

[@nichooper7]

Thanks for taking the time to comment Julia, and Im glad I said something that resonated! Nic

[@Iamandymccabe42]

You're already picking up on so many things others who React to his music would miss, or not mention. You've started perfectly, I can link you a Playlist that perfectly covers The Journey, it's ~6.5 hours of listening. I'd recommend listening through. Then analysing. You'll piece SO much together. Thank you for sharing. Keep it up.

[@Chris-rh9ej]

I used to have such a bad fear of abandonment, back when I met the criteria for BPD. I still do, but it’s lessened a lot over time, with a stable relationship the last few years and stuff. I’ll never forget that feeling. It’s the worst

[@nichooper7]

When context changes, so do we. Im delighted that you've found that stability in your context! Nic

[@topdoggjb]

Such an insightful reaction, thank you. I hope you continue to post more NF soon because I really enjoy your comments and analysis. A few of my song suggestions that are hopefully on your list are... Paralyzed, The Search, Change.

[@nichooper7]

Thanks for sending over the encouragement, I really appreciate it! I've add those songs to my list! Nic

[@ajclifford53]

@23:00 you talk about winning at life and wondering how hes getting along now. Nate answers you in his newest album Hope on the track "Hope". Some of the lyrics: "What's my definition of success? (Of success) Listening to what your heart says (your heart says) Standing up for what you know is (is) Right, while everybody else is (is) Tucking their tail between their legs (okay) What's my definition of success? (Of success) Creating something no one else can (else can) Being brave enough to dream big (big) Grinding when you're told to just quit (quit) Giving more when you got nothin' left (left) It's a person that'll take a chance on Something they were told could never happen It's a person that can see the bright side Through the dark times when there ain't one It's when someone who ain't never had nothin' Ain't afraid to walk away from More profit 'cause they'd rather do something That they really love and take the pay cut It's the person that would never waiver Or change who they are Just to try and gain some credibility So they can feel accepted by a stranger It's a person that can take the failures in their life And turn 'em into motivation It's believing in yourself when no one else does It's amazin'"

[@nichooper7]

That's exactly what I meant! Thanks for pointing me towards this! Nic

[@drumm3rjo3]

❤❤❤ "A lot of people think that 'Winning at Life' means being happy little bunny rabbits-that's not what I mean by 'Winning at Life'. What I mean by 'Winning at Life' is managing to act in a way that you can be proud of and have a positive impact in the world while you take your mucky, horrible mud and crap with you."❤❤❤

[@nichooper7]

I'd love more people to understand that sentiment - it helps me a lot when I feel low.

[@cme4me]

Just found you cause NF! He saved my life! True Story. I honestly believe you find him exactly when you need to in your life. 🔥🔥🔥

[@nichooper7]

Im so happy for you that NFs music had this positive impact for you! Nic

[@MCP920]

Love this song. I’m a Pugh and have been to Cardiff. Great reaction/analysis. Thanks. Fight or flight. He fought. I ran.

[@nichooper7]

Thanks loads for taking the time for commenting! In my time, I've known Pughs from Cardiff : )

[@sbizarro1077]

Love your reactions. NF's music is a therapist's gold mine. Give us Outcasts more. Peace.

[@nichooper7]

Thanks so much for the encouragement! It's going to take me a couple of years but I'm excited about working my way through his stuff because I'm sure there'll be loads there to reflect on!

[@kristinpugmire-cr4kv]

I'm so glad you reacted to this song! It's one of my favorites, and so powerful. Apparently NF wrote this song after a therapist asked him to do the type of exercise you mentioned. 🙂

[@SuzanneO707]

Great result. Very emotive and defiant. Got to bight back at the black dog and recognize that its a natural response but finding creative ways to express it and share common experiences can't be a bad thing?

[@nichooper7]

Yes I only found this out after but it's pretty cool that therapy inspired him to do something so meaningful! Thanks for taking the time to comment Kristin!

[@louannlang7471]

Stop and chat all you want...we're here for it. Otherwise we could just look at the original video, right? Thank you for your genuine reactions. 😌

[@nichooper7]

Yes that's a good point actually - the point of these videos is to stop and chat : ) And no worries at all, thanks for taking the time to comment!

[@noahglomski915]

I believe he actually wrote this song as an exercise his therapist recommended

[@HaraQuinn]

yes he did.. was looking for this comment, lol #NFRealMusic

[@nichooper7]

Yea I just found this out, which is very cool! Thanks for taking the time to comment!

[@FishermanMike253]

This was definitely worth the 25+ minutes of listening! Thank you. I needed this. ( I've heard this song a few hundred times) I think of my mind as a different part of me..

[@nichooper7]

Really glad you got something from this Mike! Thinking of oneself as separate from one's mind isn't a bad thing at all sometimes!

[@Spot-t]

Thank you, I truly can take something away from these videos and it means alot to my life.

[@szshz]

As a person that probably relate the most with this song, thank you a lot for you insight, love your work, might go into psychiatry specialisation myself who knows

[@nichooper7]

You should go for it! But go for psychology and not Psychiatry. My gut says that drugs aren't the answer. Thanks for the lovely support! Nic

[@williamalexander7481]

I don't know if you are the first person i have heard say it or just the first i could hear, but i appreciate you saying a person can't make you feel safe.

[@nichooper7]

The right person can, but if there is trauma in the past, it can be a long road to find that person. Thanks for the comment William, Nic.e

[@tafinzer]

I really love your insight. I'm so happy that you're still doing this. And extremely happy that you found NF. Keep going.

[@nichooper7]

Thank you! I really appreciate the positivity!

[@Dragonartykay]

Don’t we all wish we could go back, to when we were a 6 year old child, but I wonder if we did. Would we change who we are today. I have had a lot of trauma in my life, being more prepared for it may change me. I don’t love who I am, but I know others do, my family, people I help and support. How I bought up my children, different from my own.

[@nichooper7]

Yea, great questions! We dont have access to an parallel universe where we get to see how it would have worked out otherwise. But what I will say is that I am happy you have those people around you now : )

[@Pjasonmullins]

My Nf friend! Wow, just found you Mr Nic and subbed and loved both reactions. And I just have to say that I normally don’t do reactions by therapists or doctors to Nf because I’ve tried so many before and couldn’t handle their breakdowns but you’re breakdowns seem to be very not clinically retro so I really enjoyed that aspect sir and I’ll actually be here for future Nf sir, again great job brother!!

[@nichooper7]

Nice to meet you Phillip! Thanks loads for the positivity and the encouragement! Glad my videos landed well and I'll defo be doing more NF as he seems to be pretty special. Nic

[@proudmoon3]

Great reaction! As others have said, you will get a loyal following of NF fans in doing reactions to his music. From here I would suggest doing a list of several of the "must-listens" suggested in the comments, then after that you could go back and dig deeper through each album if desired. Grouping songs in chronological order is not necessary, but might make it easier to understand certain references and see his personal progress from one album to the next. I'd like to add a couple of must-listens from his newest album, Hope: "Happy" (great tune & insightful song--perfect to check out any time) and "Running" (which will make more sense when you're much further along on this journey).

[@nichooper7]

Thanks loads for taking the time to send over that information, it is really helpful for me as I make decisions about which videos to go with in the future! Nic

[@nichooper7]

Thanks also for the positivity and encouragement!

[@matthewdavis418]

yeah you dont have to listen to all the songs. but it helps to listen in order to some degree, because his music is all connected. NF Cinematic Universe.

[@matthewdavis418]

there are lyric videos for this on KZbin. i subscribed for NF

[@SuaveSlick19]

Loving these NF videos I’m here for it👌🏽

[@nichooper7]

Thanks so much for the encouragement!

[@savdbygracethatwrks6850]

Great reaction, cannot wait for the next NF breakdown!!

[@nichooper7]

Thanks so much for sending over the encouragement!

[@ForWhyTho]

The song Hope is something that builds on exactly what you said how taking giant leaps of faith is necessary in healing. I'm excited for you to explore his catalog ~ do it in any order you feel is comfortable but I believe you're doing such insightful work by reacting to these songs. Thank you so much for taking the time to do so. I appreciate you !

[@mattleahy]

Word. I agree I wish more fans would allow someone to explore his catalog in any order they want. Or maybe I am anxious for him to see how much our guy NF really took from a combination of his own personal therapy in confronting his demons thru music, him confronting his mental health with "traditional therapy" and his personal relationship with God/faith in present day.

[@nichooper7]

Oh that's very kind of you to say. I really do appreciate the warm energy you just put into that message, it means a lot to this person who is probably half way across the world from you! Nic

[@nichooper7]

Lovely stuff. Therapy plus Music plus Faith (not in that order I'd guess) has resulted in something quite special it feels.

[@joshuaanderson1197]

Here for more NF. He just dropped a new album called “Hope” Been a huge fan of his for years. His journey is incredible and I have subscribed for more.

[@nichooper7]

Thanks Joshua - Im looking forward to hearing more of his stuff, and hope that my videos are interesting for people!

[@angee6737]

OH... WOW! I just stumbled upon your channel and reaction and this song. It's somehow what I needed right when I needed it and I am experiencing for I don't know how manieth time the feeling that some sort of Providence out there is sometimes sending things my way to pick me up and nudge me along. Thank you for doing what you do! I don't know much about you, but, if you ever have moments of doubt about this channel, its reach and what you do here, remember that there are the likes of me, for whom even just "that-one-video-that-one-time" can mean an "aha" moment that changes many, many things. In the spirit of paying back, or paying forward, I'd like to recommend another artist that you may appreciate. It's a mindblowing Chinese singer that I discovered a few years back, Hua Chenyu. Whether it's the more recent, original songs, or older ones, that include covers that he made his own, there are plenty of powerful, thought provoking performances. My all time favorite is "Fake Monk", from the 2018 edition of the show Singer. I recommend the subbed version, the lyrics are always worth it. A few others: Ordinary Path, Child, Qi Tian, Sacred Tree, I really want to love this world and many, many more. Enjoy!

[@nichooper7]

What a lovely message to read! Firstly, thanks for the recommendation - I rely on them because I dont have time to do a load of research into the cool stuff out there, so I really do appreciate the steer. Thanks also for the positivity. My motivation for the channel is for it to do exactly what it did with you, to include some bit of information that makes a small difference to someone out there. Thanks so much for letting me about this impact. Nic

[@Jksmilez]

I love your Reactions!!! You should listen to Hope next then go back to the older stuff.

[@nichooper7]

Thank you! I'm in! Going to start on the weekend! Thanks for commenting! Nic

[@Noridaii]

Really loving your insights with NF. New subscriber here!

[@nichooper7]

That's brilliant - thank you for taking the time to let me know! Nic

[@Spot-t]

Thank you, I can truly take something away from these videos and that means alot.

[@nichooper7]

I make the videos in the hope that they're useful and so thank you for taking the time to let me know that Im doing a decent job : )

[@The_outcast30]

Love the reaction! Watched the first one as well. Enjoy the NF journey… it’s an absolutely beautiful progression watching from where he started to where he’s at in life with his newest album. 😊 🎵

[@nichooper7]

Thanks for taking the time to comment Heather! Im looking forward to making that journey! Nic

[@mjfseven]

Really enjoyed that. Thanks man. I learned allot.

[@nichooper7]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for commenting! Nic

[@alexklarin]

love your take on the song! keep doing nf songs!

[@nichooper7]

Thanks loads for the encouragement! I defo will, he seems to be a wise fella!

[@alexklarin]

@@nichooper7 He really is! I've listened to everything he has made and he has kept his depth through it all, with some development of course! Love your take on other stuff too of course, but NF is a favourite so of course those are favourites. (excuse my spelling, from Sweden so might get some wrong)

[@troyfraser2138]

It’s funny I wrote a song like this years ago. Never had it recorded but the same idea same vibe

[@nichooper7]

Maybe have a look at it again Troy! These type of songs are so powerful I think.

[@duelvtr5718]

its probably already been said but if it has not, the inspiration for the song was because he went to therapy and they had him do that exercise of speaking to your younger self

[@hollyryalsgrubb1273]

Being able to build relationships......connecting with other people is the single biggest predictor of happiness." Yes. And it's really hard to get there. And, as an aside, you stopped and discussed at very appropriate and appreciated points. Keep doing you. That's what makes your delivery worthwhile.

[@nichooper7]

Ah thanks for the encouragement holly, it means a lot to me as I'm basically winging it! I hope all is well! Nic

[@matthewdavis418]

he has had many tell him that wouldn't make it, even his grandparents and teachers

[@SuzanneO707]

Bon soir, Dr Nic, love the way you have such an open mind. I'm pretty new to NF too, just listened here and there. Its quite dark and intense, but the same time uplifting ,empowering and defiant. Benefit of hindsight? We can pass on what we have experienced and turn it around for the greater good. When you get outside of it. I'm reminded of a song by The Smiths, Ask Me. I liked when I was younger. Shyness is nice, shyness can stop you, from doing all the things in life you'd like too. I don't know if you have seen Rens live performance of Hi Ren yet, not surprisingly I found it great. Best wishes.

[@nichooper7]

I haven't seen that live performance actually but when I get a chance I will! Thanks for your thoughts here Suzanne, lots of good points in there! Im shy, but it doesn't stop me. I guess that's what you meant there!

[@SuzanneO707]

@@nichooper7 Cheers! It was the first line, in the song. It said a lot to me at the time. People think shyness is nice, and endearing. but often its masking lack of confidence, sensitivity & self doubt. Like a sort of shield, often when your young and still working things out. Things that can really stop you realising your potential and doing things you like to. Asking for help or reaching out feels like a massive hurdle when it looks like from your standing, noone feels the same. Oh yes they do, even the people around you that seem confident and accomplished. I found when first started Higher Education , was so self possessed and full of ideas and potential, but I didn't have the background knowledge, and toolkit to sail through it on a practical level ecspecially. That said, I connected with people who were like minded, other students and some teaching staff and they connected with me. So it wasn't so bad. It was much better than, shrinking my world and not experiencing things that can give you some strength , hope. Sure enough, it takes some trust, conviction , self belief. And there will be some embrassment, pain and disappointment. But I think overall its worth it if you can or your selling yourself short. Who wants to look back and think, I wish Id did this or didn't do that? Your right Dr Nic, you are where you are and sometimes you can't change negative things going on and the obstacle course of life. I'm waffling again, but I think its so important for people ecspecially the Young to have a feeling they are okay, and have understanding place to to get by and unburden themselves, but also have a realistic toolkit to get beyond the things that are holding them back.

[@Chris-rh9ej]

I’m sure others have mentioned it but the balloons are his burdens

[@nichooper7]

Yes I had no idea about that - thanks for letting me know as I'll keep an eye out for them in future vids.

[@matthewdavis418]

Nf is not a fan of fme, but he is happier now. he is married and has a son now.

[@karalangenberg1124]

Some great NF songs for you to check out would be.. ONLY JUST LIKE YOU I MISS THE DAYS THERAPY SESSION LET ME GO DRIFTING

[@nichooper7]

Added to my list! Thanks for taking the time to send me those suggestions! Nic

[@SPARTANSx11]

Stick with NF. Do the Journey, then go back and hit every other song. I’ll be here for it!

[@gable354]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@elizabethCorkins83]

🖤

[@svvital2141]

I subbed for NF but also because you know what you’re talking about. But if you say men can have babies that’s gonna be a problem 😂

[@nichooper7]

Appreciate the sub! I doubt very much that I'll be saying that.

[@Lifeisrife]

I know that he's angry here, and there usually is a degree of anger in his vocal performance. On the other hand I would love you to listen to NF - Let You Down or NF - If You Want Love. He sings a lot more, its the more emotional side of that same coin..

[@nichooper7]

Great recommendations there, I think seeing that angle of NF will be really interesting. Thanks for taking the time to comment, Nic.

[@antoineherbert48]

Great reaction, new sub can you do Dax's Depression and To be a man very deep #mental health

[@nichooper7]

Thanks so much for sending over the positivity. Thanks also for the recommendation, I really appreciate it - I've added those songs to my list!

[@martynelson3013]

🩸🗝

[@cbs5742]

Do the Search

[@nichooper7]

Yes, it's on the list! Thanks for the comment!

[@random7112]

This is too far of a jump but still good. Do them in order from the beginning for a better experience