Never Chase A Man Who's Not Contacting You, Acting Distant Or Pulling Away. Do THIS Instead...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

UPDATE: Follow my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214 If you want to learn the secrets to attracting the man you want and inspiring his love, devotion and commitment, get my free "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/

[@feliciac8828]

😢 tried to join but it says it’s not available in the uk. 😭

[@tanjao.4312]

It's not available in Germany either...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Right now it’s available in the U.S., Canada and Australia, as it’s difficult to get apps started in other countries (since the laws are more strict) without starting in these countries first. Hopefully it will be available worldwide soon, and I’ll see what I can do to get the content out another way in the meantime too. ❤️

[@johmsb4139]

Its also not available in the Philippines. How I wish I could listen to your podcast, but your videos are amazing already Helena 💖

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@johmsb4139 Thank you! My podcast is now available on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@hunny585]

"The right man does not need convincing. I promise " Needed this

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you, Hina! 💞

[@PhaMa1002]

Absolutely!

[@Diana-qx6sp]

I’m not chasing him 3days he didn’t text me or called me... Life continues without them. Thank you, Helena. 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Maddie! These videos should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M and kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc.

[@Diana-qx6sp]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you 😊

[@MsAvenger14]

This is so true. Once I learned to just focus on healing and building myself he started coming to me even more. A bit a distance really helps

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I’m glad this worked for you. 💞

[@dianneciresi6324]

I had 7 months of distance & that didn't do anything cause I assume he was done or bored with me or found some one better to his liking.

[@patriciabrown8660]

I’m putting my masculine energy on me by working out on the gym, working extra shifts at work as a nursing assistant, hiking with the meet up group, attending Zoom meetings with ladies from church.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Awesome, thanks for sharing! 💞

[@taleens11]

Me too - renovating my apartment and clearing the energy to bring more harmony

[@kimgordon3695]

"don't have to Figure him out! Don't have to Be something you're not; Don't have to get his attention" 2:22

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your takeaways here, Kim! 💕

[@xuxabelle1524]

I expressed my feelings to my boyfriend about boundaries. 1.) more daily communication 2.) following each other on Instagram and he hasn’t contacted me in a week. I text him yesterday to see if we can talk and he still ignored me. I feel numb and I’m grateful for these types of videos. I am enough and I am worthy of true love. Going to step back and see what unfolds.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here - this video should also be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2K1qYNuba-nq5o

[@claire-uk2ef]

I put my masculine energy into changing careers and going back to school, connecting and caring for my family, and meditating. Thank you for everything Helena. You’re healing your community through wisdom and allowing us to shift the conversation and attitude toward love to be positive and enlightening rather than it being full of fear. We all deserve to experience this!! I can’t thank you enough!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome, Claire! I’m happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here. ❤️

[@Pamela_Lopezs]

I like this type of videos. We women need to be reminded constantly that we should never chase a man who is pulling away from us no matter how strongly we feel about him. When we chase we are loosing our dignity and self respect.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Pamela Marie! These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M.

[@staceyrhodewalt2134]

I feel I show high value in all my actions, texts, talks, etc with guys. I find that they are always looking for the next one. Is it just me? They seem to be so distracted, worried they will miss out on something better? I just haven’t met the right one I guess? I sometimes can’t help but feel inadequate even tho I work on my inner self all the time, great job and personal life. I get compliments from so many on how great I look. I feel great too. Best I’ve felt and looked in years. I am humble and blessed with where I am in life. Why can’t I find the guy that sees the real me and values me? So disheartening in the dating scene. Been dating for over 2 years and I’m trying not to be jaded but it is soooo hard Helena. Thank you for all your positive influences. You always hit right at home and keep me staying positive. Please keep doing what you do!! Take care.

[@deannawillet3139]

I'm right there with you. I have worked so hard on myself and it is still difficult

[@staceyrhodewalt2134]

Well if anything we all have each other. Thank you for the replies. It’s nice to know I’m not alone but I sure wouldn’t wish this on anyone. It’s just heart wrenching, confusing and soul sucking all at once. I remain positive most days but I have my moments. Lol Happy Holidays! I’ll keep marching on. 😘☃️🎄

[@Maureen-ht7cr]

I can relate, as can many of my HV friends. We seem to have it together or if not working towards being the best version of ourselves. The men I meet seem to be floundering and looking for the next shiny toy to distract them. It’s like they are looking for instant gratification or the high one gets in a new relationship. Once the dust settles, they check out. Just keep being awesome ladies and our time and partner is sure to surface. Cheers to 2021 for all of us! 🤸🎉🤸🤗

[@azurito03]

Stacey Rhodewalt, trust me when I say you're not alone. I can honestly say I relate to your comment a 100%. And just like you explained is hard not to feel disheartened or jaded. Most men are only looking for something easy going- Netflix & Chill type of situation, and when you tell them you're not down for that they just walk away. :/

[@adriandaniels1]

@@azurito03 or they try to convince you that they do want you but keep pulling the same shit

[@kristinb7488]

You are so right! I have just been kind of ghosted, and it did make me little sad - not gonna lie - but i keep reminding myself, that it won't happen with the right guy, one day ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, the right guy absolutely WON’T disappear! 💞

[@johelka7901]

Please trust me he will look for you if you don’t do anything but of course In your heart you will know if he has interest for you or some attraction from him

[@kristinb7488]

@@johelka7901 interesting that you're saying this, because lately i have been feeling like he was thinking about me. Can't explain it, but i just knew.

[@Valoelify]

@@kristinb7488 How did it all end?

[@kristinb7488]

@@Valoelify you mean with the guy who ghosted me? Never seen him again 😅

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

Trusting the right man will come will help you not waste time with the wrong men. Be yourself, because eventually he'll meet you anyway. You cannot make a real man do anything. They lead, they choose where relationship goes, but you choose whether you want to go. Love your advice Helena. Merry Christmas!

[@nikij83]

Well said. I completely agree! ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💜

[@ananeixon]

I need to surrender more about the healthy leadership of masculine man and to the timing and flow of life

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

@@ananeixon it's not easy... to be good at anything takes practice. Thinking, speaking and doing. I'm right there with you.

[@luminousbeingsemily]

Love this video! I have been super focused on learning to love myself as well as when I’m feeling super masculine energy- figuring out what I need! I’ve been doing puzzles, painting, making crafts, watching a show, dancing....I’ve stopped chasing completely- when I feel the need to chase, I go straight to my feminine energy strategies 😍

[@luminousbeingsemily]

@War Ter yes, anything that helps me slow down. If I feel like I’m about to start chasing lol I’m like nope and I’ll pop on some music and dance or start crocheting or text with a friend, take a shower or bath with nice scents, do my nails.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Love these Emily, thanks for sharing! @War Ter - This video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc

[@elizacathleen2916]

Wow ur so smart! I need your creativity

[@luminousbeingsemily]

@@elizacathleen2916 you have it! Just start trying things out! You’ll find things you enjoy! Just have to invest in yourself.

[@liahknowsbest5092]

💡This just happened to me after 2 days my text wasn't replied to and I was the only one reaching out . I sent him a positive message told him I pray he finds a women he wants to give his attention to. Be blessed✌🏽I blocked and delete. I felt great after😁 Next 👏🏽🙏🏽She values herself👏🏽👏🏽

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💕

[@SimplypaperDIY]

We ladies tend to give too much in a relationship and end up being taken for granted. I loved that you said to put the focus and energy back to ourselves. I did this too recently. And the moment I brought my attention towards my internal self, I realised that I was so scared of losing my boyfriend that my life started revolving around him. And the only way I can stop all this is to become a kind of person who cannot be taken for granted. Not even for a single day! And this mindset will naturally let you pull away from a man and be in your feminine energy, rather than playing mind games with him. I wish happiness to all the ladies out there! 🎉❤ 3:20

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love what you said here too, thanks for sharing your experience and insights! 💞

[@SimplypaperDIY]

@@HelenaHartCoaching My pleasure! Keep up your good work! 👏❤

[@lindatoscano3148]

I’m super lonely right now during this dark winter lockdown. Trying to be strong and find interesting projects. My favorite thing you’ve been saying lately is this. My hot and cold guy (he works in my building so I see him a lot) is starting to BORE ME. I’ve tried to be a supportive friend to him if nothing else, but he becomes less attractive and more annoying by the day.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, that’s definitely a sign that you’re on the right track! These videos should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M.

[@dianepopnick5850]

I value myself so much after cutting off all communication with a guy who played me. I invested in myself and after a long time realized I am so much happier without a man. Most of them are more trouble than it is worth. Lots of great things make life rich. You don't need a man.to be happy.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Diane.

[@newbeginnings3859]

I love that you validate masculine energy in a woman. We have both elements in ourselves. I think I was hesitant to pair up because I was scared of losing what my masculine energy could create for me. I mean, women can do anything including become president 💯 I like how you make it clear that we can use that masculine energy to take care of our feminine side and refocus on ourselves. So many femininity channels advise women to be damsels in distress. But when you consider a woman like, for example J Lo, it’s clears she’s used her masculine energy to be a success on many levels without losing her femininity.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Absolutely! I love what you said here, thanks for sharing your insights! I talk more about stepping into your EMPOWERED masculine and feminine energies in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hqm6nmVjaNWdpqM

[@milasalinas4629]

Thank you for i am enjoying and learning so much from you. This year my relationship with my husband is getting healthier and healthier and getting juicy because I see so much changes in his action like today He asked me if I want to go with him to buy his tools to fix his car which he never ask me before. Yes, since the day that I started watching and listening your KZbin channel, my relationship with myself is totally changed and my relationship with my husband.Everything is going so well for me and my relationship . Yes loving myself is the most important that I am doing and it is works. I feel like we are starting a new relationship just like when he was courting me for the first time that I can’t believe that it is really happening. I can’t explain my feelings at this time. My feminine energy is at work and I love it. Yes, I am putting all the attention to myself at this moment. Eager to wake up in the morning to do the things I love to do and I feel so good. Once again thank you, thank you.😘😘😘❤️❤️🌲🎄

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Mila! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I’m so happy to hear that my videos have been helpful for you! Keep me posted on how everything continues to go. 💗

[@deannawillet3139]

I struggle with self love and valuing myself, i have always put others ahead of myself. I am having a hard time changing these habits

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Deanna. I know many women can relate (myself included!). This video should be really helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hH_Ne3aDaqutZtU

[@maytayable]

Great advice, Helena! I've struggled with anxious attachment since a really brutal heartbreak, and it's been a long journey to embodying the mindsets you're explaining here. It's been teachers like you who have totally turned my dating life around so thank you! I've been focussing my masculine energy into my spiritual journey, doing lots of courses and journalling and spoiling myself with the love I used to think I needed to get from a partner. I can't wait to check out your podcast!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. Hope you enjoy my podcast, and this video should also be really helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGOxnHiGjruirKM

[@anjuupadhyay6510]

Dear Helena I think better to believe in yourself keep yourself busy and move ahead for him keep thinking.

[@Sapphire-xp8ub]

It is good when the Dating Coach is pretty and smart ! Happy Holy Days to you Helena and your gorgeous guy ! 🎈🎈⛄⛄❄❄😁😁🥂🍾🥂🍾

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@JuanitaELCameron]

And married. She's a practical example of what shr shares/teaches. Congrats @helenHart

[@yayalabrujita777]

Hearing u say that really showed me how much I’ve truly grown

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, Yadira! 💗

[@ramonafingersh4039]

I have been divorced for a while. I decided that I will not let a man take my power. It is amazing that there are so many men who start a relationship and never finish. I am trying really hard not to chase any man. I go away and do something I like when I want to chase. I hope this helps him realize he needs to work harder and not that i don't like him.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Ramona! These videos should be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M.

[@s.g2604]

You are a cool breeze for a burning soul Helena! May you never face a moment of pain or hurt , stay blessed 🙏🏻❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! 💗

[@mjmendes4246]

Really need to hear this, thank you. Need to step back and put my focus on my career

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJXPe3iMibSgasU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/anTFgGynh9Kpeq8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hJTWiZWmmpamjpo, kzbin.info/www/bejne/iJXdl6OmaKZrfKc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nqvLoIdujt-Cic0.

[@melatimohdsalleh1880]

Great advice as it sounds feminine. I Sis exactly that. Been together for 3 months. I leaned back, believe The right man will come for me, and embody that I’m enough when he pulled away from me. No Contact used by me silence. Then he returned after 3 weeks. He wants To be platonic friends so I said okay.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Melati! 💕

[@melatimohdsalleh1880]

@@HelenaHartCoaching you are welcome. We were romantically intimate (emotional connection), but Now we are platonic friends. Do you feel its possible To be friends after once as a couple?

[@anitachamberlain3391]

@@melatimohdsalleh1880 Well I'm not the professional here, but it's good to take the lead too. If you can both communicate about it as adults, and be adults about it, there really shouldn't be a reason why you can't be friends if that's what you want.

[@AC-Empress]

Thank you so much Helena. I kind of feel you’ve paid close attention to my cries for help. I don’t know if you are religious but I think you are being used as an instrument of healing. Bless You. You deserve your new love 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️

[@elizacathleen2916]

I feel the exact same way! I feel so blessed to have found these feminine energy coaches

[@rox3ana]

You being yourself is what makes the right man know you are the one for him. So let’s relax and be yourself

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, I agree - thanks for sharing! 💞

[@meganwildhood3893]

One way I'm using my masculine energy is finishing my novel and building community with other writers as well as doing reading and research on my changing political beliefs - I've learned that my brain needs a lot of stimulation and, when I give it what it needs, I drastically lower my anxiety and feel much calmer and much more in my feminine. :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Awesome Megan, thanks for sharing! 💕

[@irishkisses3]

I'm working out more. The kids are even saying "well have fun" as i'm leaving. Spending a couple hours jam skating is so much fun. It's a great cardio workout, and helps with balance lol according to google. That's as long as when it's not to cold out. For in doors Hula hooping, and dancing is something I recommend as well. Oh and just for some extra, i'm working on getting back into my gymnastics from when I was younger. This too is also helpful. I recommend to find what you love doing use it as a workout and stress reliever.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Love it, thanks for sharing! 💖

[@starrhall8160]

Thank u...it's like, " next...." and don't waste ur time fretting

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Yes, this video should also be really helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc

[@vandaalmeida5919]

Hi Helena. Thank you so much for all your very helpful content. Over the past months I have been trying to disengage from a relationship with a man that I loved (and still love...) deeply, but who doesn't really accept me how I am and has caused a lot of harm to my self-esteem and feeling of worth. I have, in the meantime, met a truly wonderful man, who treats me in the best way I could imagine. I see how lucky I am and I really want to value him and feel free to invest in this relationship, but I find myself still thinking about my ex and our relationship all the time and "secretely" wishing that things could work out between us. I feel like Im constantly fighting with myself because on one side there is the me that is conscious about the fact that the man I'm seeing now is a blessing and I should take it and on the other side there is the me that still longs for my ex, despite knowing that he has done me much harm and does not really understand/value me the way I am. I dream about my ex all the time, sometimes the memories hit me so strongly, it's really painful and exhausting. Can you give me any advice on what I can do to really free myself from my ex and find the space inside of me to love and value the new man I"m seeing?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Vanda! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. I’ll keep this in mind for future video topics, and in the meantime this article I wrote might be helpful: helenahartcoaching.com/do-you-still-feel-attached-to-a-man-whos-no-longer-there/

[@vandaalmeida5919]

Thank you for the suggestion Helena! I'll read it carefully. I look forward to seeing a video on this from you:). I recently had a session with my therapist who told me that, due to my family history, somehow I (subconsciously) feel more comfortable loving someone who is not fully there for me and keeps me in a "waiting" position than loving someone who is already fully there. That it feels more familiar to love some who is constantly absent than someone who is constantly present, even if the absence hurts me, because it's what I (subconsciuously) identify with true love. It makes a lot of sense, but it's very tough to see how conditioned I am in my feelings of love by these deep underlying patterns that come from my relationship with my two absent and sick parents. Just wanted to share this with you, maybe it can help for the video:).

[@divinedigitalpro]

I've been focusing on my health & wellness blog, dancing, my wellness KZbin channel, painting and perfecting my voice. I use to sing in the choir. Next, I want to learn the guitar to sing on stage again. This is how I'm using my masculine energy.❤😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Love it Andrea, thanks for sharing! 💖

[@2wyn379]

Helena,thanks for your genuine care. I have used your tools and they have worked for me.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m so glad this worked for you, thanks for sharing! 💗

[@wildwoman4911]

Helena, Thank you for reminding me "I am enough". And, I do know in a lot of ways I would be an asset to a man... that knowing can be obscured in this world and with my internalized parental messages. Because of reading "The Aquarian Conspiracy" by Marilyn Ferguson, about facilitating our brain to evolve to a higher level and what brings about paradigm/worldview shifts, I do needlepoint, practice meditation, took up sailing which resulted in me getting my own 14' sailboat and become certified to skipper a 32' sailboat with crew on Lake Superior...life changed so I am not sailing currently...sing Karaoke, and started going to the 12-step meetings of Alanon and Adult Children of Alcoholics to recover from dependency learned in my childhood. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. 😉

[@AC-Empress]

I also had the help of Alateens growing up. So life changing to know that some things aren’t our fault.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💗

[@sharieguyhabana9347]

Hi Helena, I have been a subscriber of yours since July this year. I must say your videos about leaning back and feminine energy helped me so much with my relationship. This video of yours is just right on time since my guy has going through a lot of personal problems and is again unsure about the relationship. 😔 But these advices cheered me up today. I love you and I’m finally you have a podcast!!! More power to your channel! ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m so glad my videos have been helpful for you, Sharie! ❤️

[@fraulein_farah]

I don’t know how it is in the US but men in Canada do not really pursue... they fall back fast or don’t try, too intimidated ..and the ones that might pursue are usually overly-confident ladies men, players ...the culture is already dispassionate and with metoo, only became even more regulated...

[@shannon7545]

Us Men pursue but with no intentions for anything genuine. Just sex. They're hot and cold here too girl.

[@nikij83]

I think is a cultural problem for sure! But if you slowly let him lead, he will lead by nature. Real men are leaders and example setters through actions (not so much words) as expression. :)

[@Singinbluebird]

These are so feminine and wonderful steps, thank you helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Bee! ❤️

[@SoulInFlames]

Really nice video. I guess really liking someone makes you go all the way in and try so hard to make it work. But I'm in the "getting bored of this" phase so we'll see what happens in the next couple of weeks :) Now I just backed off, see if he contacts me first. If not - dodged a bullet.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing your experience here, too. These videos should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M and kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc

[@yourguardianangel6849]

NEVER CHASE ANYONE. WHOM YOU SHOULD BE CHASING IS GOD. GOD IZ FIRST ALWAYS. AND CHOOSE SOMEONE WHO CHOOSES YOU. ❤🧿 YOU SHOULDN'T CHASE ANYONE BUT GOD. ❤🧿

[@maysaraali5772]

I love watching you growing and flourishing Helena with your latest videos! Thank you girl ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Maysara! 💗

[@ashleyoverholt449]

Could you please do a video like this, on how to stay high valued, within your feminine energy as well.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Ashley, I actually just recorded a video on that topic that I’ll be posting soon! In the meantime, these ones should be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJXPe3iMibSgasU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/anTFgGynh9Kpeq8.

[@suzanneribas3746]

Right there and confused. But no contact from me or him. The putting my masculine energy to work is still a work in progress....

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Suzanne, these videos might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M and kzbin.info/www/bejne/iJXdl6OmaKZrfKc.

[@rosewiseman9801]

Hi, from p. E. S. A. I am a widow have to start a new life for my self really enjoy ur 3 ways to stay high value with a man. Rose

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed this, Rose! This video should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M

[@melissajohnson7252]

I love Helena! I’m a new subscriber and told all my girlfriends about this page 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, Melissa! ❤️

[@marthamatemwa1550]

I have been following you Helena, greetings from Namibia

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for watching, Martha! 🧡

[@Jellybeanjam1991]

All of this works ! It’s like magic 🤩 Helena you are a gem! Thanks for sharing your valuable knowledge

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m so glad this worked for you! These videos should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M.

[@lisavargas471]

You are the very Best! Helena ! Thanks 🙏 so very much ! It’s been challenging in finding the right match but I’m in no rush ! Me & my children come first! We are staying healthy & safe , Thank you 🙏! God . Happy Holidays! To you & your family ! 😘❤️😍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome, Lisa! ❤️

[@lovetodaylisa3967]

I m trying my best to have faith

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Lisa! 💗 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y5yphYConsego5Y, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/mH-Um62IhcSmh5o and kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc.

[@KAhandle]

I really love your videos❤️ Thank you for lifting us women up and give us the confidence we need.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you’ve been enjoying them! 💚

[@KimberlyTubbs6851]

Let the Church say.... Amen ‼️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Kimberly! 💕

[@annamarie3288]

Great information as usual Helena. Thank you ! 💜

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Anna Marie, I’m glad you enjoyed it! ❤️

[@kayuhfainweh8716]

I wish i knew these like three weeks ago... I have really messed up trying to put on masculine energy... God bless u Elena

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Sandra, these videos might also be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nH61qpmhp5eBd5Y and kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6vUgIl5eZytqq8.

[@loredanamunteanu5834]

Amazing Helena 🤩🤩🤩 thank you ♥️ kisses from Italy 🌺

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💖

[@sassywinchy]

Thanks Helena!! Your videos are great reminders to me & helps me to move on. I will refocus on my aerial dancing and learning in stock market. Cheers & Merry Christmas!! ❤❤❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad they’ve been helpful! Thanks, you too! 💞

[@kar3n35]

Im at a point in life where I DONT CARE if a men comes or goes calls or not text or not. I really dont care. If someone text me to say hi. I replay. If they dont... i dont. I belive inside me. Im the best. I know and if a guy wanna play hard to get. i see it like "he is confused😂" it makes me not wanna take him seriously. Like he a joke.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I’m happy to hear that! 💕

[@madeinhisimage3447]

I’m also at this point now, not sure if peri menopause has anything to do with it Lol but I have really changed a lot and find all the nonsense boring and I just don’t find myself fretting anymore. It’s a turn off now when someone seems confused or playing games.

[@Maryottmanspeaks]

I like these short videos you’ve been doing :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you Mary, I’m glad you’ve been enjoying them! ❤️

[@liezelablespadayao529]

Thank you Helena😊 Merry Christmas😘

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Merry Christmas to you, too! 💞

[@selfhealingessentialswithc664]

Love the App! Thank you for introducing it! Love your videos and podcasts too ❤️❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m so glad you’ve been enjoying them! ❤️

[@laurashields7482]

Brilliant advice, ty Helena, my man is exhausted working 6 days a week, he said he'd see or call me yesterday but no contact, I not contacting him again till I hear from him, will give him space 😏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Laura! ❤️

[@jennimorian581]

Love your compassion, Helena 💓💓💓

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Jenni! ❤️

[@ikin3301]

This was in my feed , perfect time for me .. thank you 🙏 ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad this came at the right time for you! 💗

[@TanyaP822]

Thank u HH.I receive this session 👍❤learnin..good job.Workin on. Me never ever thought Id e gettin help on Datin or myself.Very helpful Workin on Intuition n not walkin pass Red Flags Getting to kno myself sounds strange..But as a new journey in my life came without warning.I must learn me over tooThank. U HH.How is the weddin comin.🎉🎉🌹

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! It’s coming along, I’ll try to post an update soon! 💗

[@anithafiltane4087]

Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLcsi=-5UkGZXFzcbN9M23 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7Msi=oqJIB45BrbBmVEfx.

[@betaren21]

What do you do when you can tell he is interacting with another woman via social media? Sometimes I wish we didn’t have so much information...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It depends on the situation, but this video might be helpful in terms of how to talk to him about it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZyYiIKmpK-pkM0

[@GoodThingsEtc]

I am not an option!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes! Love it! 💖

[@GoodThingsEtc]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thanks! its feels really good to be empowered now!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! 💗

[@lyndamcmullen9410]

Thanks Helena. Great video. ♥️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Lynda! 💕

[@kristenglamour4023]

Your so pretty and wise.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Kristen! ❤️

[@georginabrigs1891]

Couldnt agree more! Thanks helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Georgina! 💕

[@karent4424]

Hi Helena, I truly appreciate all your videos, I've learned so much. I'm curious to know how long after you met Tom did you delete your dating app?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, Karen! I cant remember the exact timeframe but it was definitely within the first couple months.

[@mariaburgess7545]

I know..she is good

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Maria! 🧡

[@InnerBeautyTVbyNicoleMichelle]

🌺great advice as always Helena💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Nicole! 💜

[@Singinbluebird]

Isn't she great ?

[@angierodriguez78]

Wish I had heard this a month ago.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M.

[@dawnaurora7291]

It’s never too late 😘😘

[@NicLove1019]

Great video!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Nicole! 💕

[@johelka7901]

I did a lot researching and bought many books to learn more about this issues!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos should also be really helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M.

[@susanholmer7667]

Fantastic episode Helena! Also I would love to hear your podcasts! I will check out Voiceweb for sure!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Susan! Awesome, looking forward to seeing you over there! 💕

[@yayalabrujita777]

That’s crazy because it’s true the more he does that the more I loose interest because I know I’m a really interesting person and I want to do big things I want someone who matches me and I feel good even withoutnhim

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I actually talk more about that in these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/iamXpad7gLp_has, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc.

[@cynthiachall]

So disappointed as voiceweb isn’t available in the Uk! 😆

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Right now it’s available in the U.S., Canada and Australia, as it’s difficult to get apps started in other countries (since the laws are more strict) without starting in these countries first. Hopefully it will be available worldwide soon, and I’ll see what I can do to get the content out another way in the meantime too. 💜

[@ultravioletspirit]

Helena I already opened the door and gave him the hint that I would get back together but all he does is msge me on WhatsApp every day about what he is doing and his projects and so on but still no getting together intentions. I am tired i just stopped answering. It's boring! It's all about himself as if seeking approval or praise and I don't get it. I am bored and tired 😫

[@laurelmalinowski1676]

Time for YOU to pull away. Move on girl.

[@ultravioletspirit]

@@laurelmalinowski1676 I don't get what is he trying to get out of al this messaging if I am not even answering

[@nikij83]

You need and deserve more. Take care of you first despite your attachments. I think you did the right thing!

[@ultravioletspirit]

Update, he called and asked to meet on the weekend to exchange books we had discussed we would give each other. However am not happy because I feel the guy doesn't make me a priority and it feels like he wants to keep me a a friend because supposedly he has no money because of covid.. seems like a sore loser and is such a turn off

[@andravilea25]

Hello Helena . Can you please give me an advice about what to do if he loses interest and attraction in me , he is now distant, take me for granted, and then he stopped to texting me and don’t want to talk or see me like before , he stop chasing me or to make efforts , he doesn’t care about me , he ignores me , we don’t talk for days and weeks and it seems to be ok for him , and he never text me first . When I text him first , he is very cold , reply in one or two words and he don’t ask nothing about myself , he said everything is ok between us , I am a ok girl and he is just busy with work , and then he stop replying my text . He is online but he ignores me and I am sure he talk with other women . I found out on his profile he give hearts of a women pics , but he never give me this at my pics and we are together for 6 months, he give me just likes at my pics, , and he is talking with other women and I guess he is behave like this with me because he begin to fall in love with another women , and he doesn’t find me now attractive and a interesting , just a boring women with feelings for him . I guess he doesn’t have feelings anymore and he want to dump me because I can feel this in his actions . I really love him and I am scared to lose him because of his behavior for me and I don’t know what to do anymore to bring him back to me . I want everything to be like before between us .I stop chasing him , to text him first , I don’t show him interest and I am cold and distant and I behave like him , I give him space but nothing happens, he doesn’t do nothing to chase me or being interested again , he doesn’t realized I am not behave like before , or he doesn’t care I am not around , anymore. Thank you , if you will answer me!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this. I would drop this man immediately and move on - he’s showing you very clearly that he’s not the right man for you. 💜

[@andravilea25]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you ! ❤️

[@anjaliprasad5916]

Never chasing …

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that! 💜

[@melmel7011]

I think I got a big ego🙈, the only thing that hurts me when a man is not giving me attention is to know that I don't have any control over his feelings. I like it when the man can't control himself over his love for me. I know this is a bad personality I have but I'm honest, I know I'm not the only one who loves this... I'm a Scorpio too🙈

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmPVmaaDg7atgbc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmqun5aNjc-qras and kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZnvMcp97iLWgjNU.

[@nkiikpeama5611]

That's why you should ignore him! And act like you don't care and level up more!

[@melmel7011]

@@nkiikpeama5611 Wasn't saying I'm in that kind of a situation. We all have been with people who didn't give us as much attention as we would like. I was just saying for me its not the lack of attention that hurts... but to know I'm not in control. Scorpio people will understand me better😉

[@baibakrievinadenmark]

Is VoiceWeb not available in Europe?😔

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Right now it’s available in the U.S., Canada and Australia, as it’s difficult to get apps started in other countries (since the laws are more strict) without starting in these countries first. Hopefully it will be available worldwide soon, and I’ll see what I can do to get the content out another way in the meantime too. 💜

[@kathywhite8798]

I just lost someone recently to what I did invertingly. He just disappeared completely 😥 I asked for forgiveness, not sure if he chose to or not.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now, Kathy. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b4bMdI2pg6-tpNE and kzbin.info/www/bejne/kIeZamebd9uebJI.

[@kathywhite8798]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you very much for your concern and the videos you recommended that I watch. Appreciate it a lot !!

[@theepiphanyplaybook9969]

Helena, I am bored with the hot and cold…. So now what? Just ignore him? Tell him it’s over? Now sure how to handle the fact that I am unfulfilled in this situationship

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It depends on the specifics of your situation. This podcast episode should be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/4X0QHejFTKLJAiXhPR9OdY?si=-GvHMEcIRVSgdCJiBdTl2g …or an Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000535607362

[@katereaves8710]

Hey I just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas I hope you have the most amazing Christmas time ❤️✝️🎄🦌

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Kate, you too! 💞

[@klaudialacayo2333]

But if I am being high value and notice a change in behaviour and it starts to get me bored, should I not point that out even though it's "masculine energy "? It's about to be the 3rd day I noticed a change in someone I thought was different and I just feel less effort from them. I was planning to wait a week to bring to let him bring that up or if not then I would bring it up.. I get that I should use my masculine energy for my favorite distractions but I'm also just harboring these feeling of anxiety and being mad towards him as well and just want an answer if I should start talking to someone new. Mind you hes the one who wants a relationship and initiated everything with me. He had me meet his mom so I'm just confused and want to be liberated with the truth.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It really depends on the situation (I definitely wouldn’t “wait“ for him, especially if you’re not exclusive), but this video might be helpful if you do want to say something: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fmHIiZKhasqfi7s

[@klaudialacayo2333]

@@HelenaHartCoaching you're so sweet! Thank you. I patiently told him how I honestly felt when he asked if I was ok (I was mostly ignoring him) and surprisingly enough.. (to summarize things) he admitted he was pushing me away a bit bc he wants to make sure hes with the right person since people in general can choose to hurt the other person whenever they want and he knows how hard he can fall 😳 I included how I was feeling the past couple of days prior to that and he was really sorry and has put in the work with me to put the fire back in this relationship we are creating and it's so amazing, he's very sweet Helena. Hes so patient and backs up his words with actions in even the smallest gestures and ended up meeting my mom on xmas lol.. totally did not expect that from past experiences and what's best is I believe in him.

[@discussionswithdamara3224]

I love your content! My boyfriend of 4.5 yrs told me he would like a poly relationship eventually..another woman joins our relationship. He said he doesn't know when or if forsure it'll happen but he wants it to happen in the future. I feel torn...do I not stress over it because it hasn't yet happened. Or break up and move out since he's basically saying it will and that is not what I desire for my life. Please help!

[@discussionswithdamara3224]

@@selfhealersdiary so well put. Thank you so much for your advice and feedback 🧡

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I agree - it’s so important to choose yourself and put your OWN heart first in a situation like this. ❤️

[@lifeisbeautiful6686]

When I want the same man and when you say this man or the right man, I'm worried because I want this man as I loved him for 22 years. Any suggestion please

[@anitachamberlain3391]

I would educate yourself as much as possible on emotions, relationships, and psychology, and ask him to learn about it all with you. Everything on the table. You're not alone in this and you don't deserve to feel like you are. You take it one step at a time and don't just sit back down because you see something you don't like. You move forward towards what YOU want one way or the other. Again, one step at a time, even if you feel embarrassed at first. All the power to you!

[@lifeisbeautiful6686]

@@anitachamberlain3391 thank you so much for your support and reply. It's helpful. Much love to you.

[@QKira-gh2ji]

What’s constant pulling away? This is the first time he pulls away, he tried to tell me and tried to explain why but I panicked. I now understand what went wrong, me being very low value for no reason except my past experiences. I’m now being patient and let him figure things out on his own. I see him at work twice a week and we flirt and talk and laugh. I’m not pushing or asking questions and try to be the best version of myself. No contact is not possible because we work together. Every day I read and learn more and more about myself and men. He’s just sitting at home doing nothing. Is there really a period men have to reload there testosteron leven after a period of intense being together? He doesn’t want his stuff back and said he wanted to do something fun but he’s still insecure at the moment 💔

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Every situation is different, but these videos might help give you some clarity (and I’d recommend getting in touch with what feels good to YOU, and whether or not this is going to work for you): kzbin.info/www/bejne/bKOQoH5rZ56em9U, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHbOq2CFiLt3mNE, kzbin.info/www/bejne/anTFgGynh9Kpeq8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/bpavkGmspb2em7s, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJXPe3iMibSgasU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pnO9ZamMbNtkeZI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc.

[@QKira-gh2ji]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you so much for thinking with me but I just saw him kissing his ex 💔

[@vickimudro4647]

We had already slipped into this place. Hot and cold. Distant and pulling away. I wish I could have seen this weeks ago. He has now broken up with me 2 days ago because of it all. And I’m unsure how to change it and have him come back.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Vicki, these videos might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fNgHqajMSWbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKu4mKmpgaapg68, kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6vUgIl5eZytqq8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs.

[@vickimudro4647]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you

[@jelovibes2039]

Hi Elena,i just want a shorr advice,last dec.17,2020.my bf for 6 months had a fight,he took down his whatsapp and viber he blocked in his fb. I sms and called him but dont pick up instead he switched off the phone.i tried to contact him and ask if he wants a space,do ill wait or i move on but he dont reply at all,i ask forgiveness because its my fault that i hang up the phone when we had argument.i had a trust issues,but im fighting of it to get rid.he knows that.i knew he loves me,i felt and i saw it as he pursuing me constantly.but before that fight we had an earlier fights dec 7,and we resolved it quickly. I msg him last dec 24 that i will give space for us. Helena do i need to apply the 3 months rule in our situation or i need to move on?actually im on half way of moving on. Hope you can read my comments and reply for it.thanks❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video might help give you some clarity: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6iafZajiM9-atk

[@estherJ67]

Voiceweb is not yet available in my country, im in the Netherlands...😏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Esther, right now it’s available in the U.S., Canada and Australia, as it’s difficult to get apps started in other countries (since the laws are more strict) without starting in these countries first. Hopefully it will be available worldwide soon, and I’ll see what I can do to get the content out another way in the meantime too. ❤️

[@dianneciresi6324]

What if u know or think there isn't a right man for u after the one u met & fell in love with had everything u were looking for except his behavior was emotionally unavailable cause of his childhood wounds & adult traumas. Many of us have have that in some way or another..

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

In my opinion, if you believe there’s not a right man for you out there, you won’t be able to attract him. From what I’ve experienced and seen in SO many women, you have to shift that belief first before you’ll start seeing results on the “outside.” I used to only be attracted to emotionally unavailable men - but once I made some shifts on the inside, that’s when my amazing husband showed up! 💞

[@acmb6763]

I love you and your guests but I just love to hear you talk. I even want to pursue you because of this amazing feminine energy you exude!!! And Im a woman 😂😂😂

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Haha 😂 Thank you so much!

[@katemate1034]

I've been taking care of myself and making positive changes in my life and trying to focus on me and my own wellbeing for the first time ever in my life, but I'm still in love with the man who broke up with me a few weeks ago. I am trying to not contact him and let him come to me, but I feel I need to accept he might not be the right man and that there may be others out there who are better suited. I am struggling to do that. I am not giving the right energy when I do speak to him because I'm so heartbroken. Long distance so I can't see him in person. That's probably for the best, but it doesn't feel that way.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Kate. These videos might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pXfZl4GjjLKom6c and kzbin.info/www/bejne/b4bMdI2pg6-tpNE.

[@katemate1034]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you x

[@lilokmz6141]

Tqqq

[@svasianfilipiname6603]

I break up with people who don't value me.