New Rule: White Shame | Real Time with Bill Maher (HBO)

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In his editorial New Rule, Bill asks white liberals to stop hating on themselves and proposes a "Honky Tax" to offset their white guilt.
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[@drumjod]

"You can't be more offended than the victim." Excellent quote.

[@nkiru61]

Drumjod ...tell that to Amber Guyger. 😒

[@Artofcarissa]

But if one victim isn’t offended while thousands are that doesn’t mean that what was said wasn’t offensive

[@Gablesman888]

Maher got that comment from Rush Limbaugh.

[@sallyforth2955]

But it's Bill himself who seems the most offended. Poor thing, the liberals have really hurt him.

[@srkh8966]

sally forth No, they’ve bored him.

[@Dennis-zf7jr]

The crowd was hesitant to cheer because they know they're the people Bill is talking about....

[@mtb416]

That’s what always makes it so foolish. Liberals constantly complain about rules and behavior they perpetuate and invent. That’s how stupid they are.

[@FiremarshalM1]

Just like Dave Chappelle's second joke on Sticks and Stones. Tweeting this out to the #ChurchOfWoke 😂🤣😂 👌🏼 . It's gold. .

[@jashanestone]

Nice observation 👍🏽

[@forresthunsinger6837]

Hahaha, EXACTLY!!! I love when he goes after white apologist/white guilt.

[@mrshanevicious498]

Hit dogs

[@bramcurtis6900]

When I was just a little kid (born in 1960) my dad taught me "don't be prejudiced....assholes come in every color." I have never forgotten the crystal clarity of that. Thank you and R.I.P dad.

[@g.victorpaulson8836]

"You're not with a 'person of color'; you're with a person." I learned this lesson in about 1968, when my small-town public school hired one of its first black faculty members, to teach 4th grade. My mom was a teacher's aide, and came home and related this story over the dinner table. She had been in the teachers' break room when a white fellow teacher asked the newly hired staffer, "Do you prefer to be called 'black', 'negro', or 'African-American'?" The new 4th grade teacher looked the woman right in the eye and replied, "I prefer to be called Mrs. Humphries." I never forgot that lesson, and I am grateful that in 1968, my mother saw fit to bring it home to my two younger brothers and me.

[@frankmarsh1159]

I don't think anybody said African American in 1968. I never heard it until the 90s.

[@DrCruel]

@@frankmarsh1159 You had to be a special kind of liberal idiot to use the term "African American" in the 1960s.

[@MrJimheeren]

@@frankmarsh1159while negroes was definitely the more used term. African American was definitely used in 1968

[@frankmarsh1159]

@@MrJimheeren According to several articles on the Internet the term African American was proposed by Jesse Jackson in December 1988 at the New Black Agenda conference in Chicago. I never heard it until well into the 1990's. When I was growing up in Atlanta the term that older people used was "colored". By the late 1960's "black" pretty much became the dominant term. In fact "colored" and "negro" quickly became unacceptable (at least for younger people) .

[@MrJimheeren]

@@frankmarsh1159 oh I thought it was a black panther thing. My bad

[@walkerk5729]

I'm a black man and I approve this message

[@anthonyitaliano7316]

You're just a person, bro.

[@popireal3628]

Chi town Truth White liberals are fools to think black people, especially men, respect their self-loathing. It’s seen as a weakness. It’s like looking at a punchable face.

[@justinchristian1926]

I think the point is; it doesn't matter if you approve it or not..

[@jimbob3030]

"Your penis size is intimidating, and creating white supremacists who fear a white genocide, where women might not choose to fuck white men. In other words, stop causing white supremacy." - Tucker Carlson

[@K1ckpu5h2]

I second this approval

[@tdubbed_]

90% of Twitter is offended by this.

[@richardkidwell4134]

Good one.

[@shavonegranville7961]

And Reddit

[@user-kb1hw2yq2f]

100% of college students are offended by this. 100% of minorities are offended by this. 100% of white kids, who never had to deal with racism in their life, are offended by this. 2020 is offended by this.

[@agarykane2127]

Thepussygrabber I’m not

[@yuka-youtube]

that's why liberals nowadays lose ... add i get a lot replies from here. very strange.

[@menning28]

I never thought Bill Maher would become the only voice of reason on television, but that's exactly what he is. Lots of liberals out there that once loved Bill, but can no longer tolerate him because they can't handle the truth.

[@starlaminde8436]

I don’t think that’s true because he’s always been this genuine and articulate and not politically correct so I think maybe gen z and some millennials don’t like him but not normal liberals

[@menning28]

@@starlaminde8436 , I'm glad you confirmed that some liberals aren't normal....lol

[@starlaminde8436]

@@menning28 just like some repubs aren’t and some libertarians or independents

[@starlaminde8436]

@@menning28 they are many things I as a liberal disagree with bill m on I think before wokeness he could be a fat shaker and sexist but he’s a comedian also so other things I do agree with him he’s not always normal either no one is

[@DrCruel]

@@starlaminde8436 No, woke people are completely tactical and without scruples. They'll use someone who sucks up to them, then throw them under the bus for fun. They'll be more than happy to flatter Bill Maher if he's saying what they like.

[@audradaniels4161]

He’s sooooo good. I’m convinced humor is the best way to get people to reconsider an alternate viewpoint and Bill Maher is an excellent example of this

[@onelife7247]

Exactly.

[@angusdog22]

I'm white and I feel zero guilt...I mean zero, none, zilch

[@benjamincrew1949]

@Wolf3500 Yet he stills says white privilege is real and white people have it easier.

[@registereduser6542]

Whites should be proud for creating the modern world and all the tech we use to express these sentiments.

[@angusdog22]

@@benjamincrew1949 white privilege is bullshit and only weak minded individuals buy into its existence

[@steveo1413]

@@benjamincrew1949 white privilege is absolutely real. And the people that commit it the worst are white liberals.

[@byLizee]

Bryan O yes.

[@fyaworx]

I wont apologize for being 2 things; 1. A male 2. White

[@LilRon757]

That's the 2 things they want out of this country right now. Supposedly white males are the enemy. Crazy azz left steadily running this country into the ground. God bless america

[@georgewilliamsiii4677]

Noones asking you too. Least noone I know. The thing is white males literally. And I know you’ll probably disagree but quiet literally have it easier. Even just being brown is harder than white and black harder than that. I was born here, speak perfect english and was raised by a marine. But still yearly I get called illegal and people have talked about my status and da da da. Thats why all lives matter is a protest to the black lives matter protest.

[@9mwood]

George Williams III it’s none of your business to lecture other people about how much easier their life is than yours. It’s condescending and annoying. Stop crying and figure out how to make your life great.

[@Sal3600]

@@georgewilliamsiii4677 NPC. Knew exactly what you were about to say.

[@dgitlripplz]

@@LilRon757 remember the Holocaust.

[@nakamakai5553]

I can only catch this on YT now and then, and every time I end up in stitches and in awe of Bill and his writers - they are so ON POINT with social commentary, this should be required viewing for several academic majors

[@moormanjean5636]

For real, where else do you get this kind of wake up call

[@athletico7707]

As a black man this is exactly what I’ve been thinking but unable to articulate

[@jaymacgee_A_Bawbag_Blethering]

Takes a real man to say that out loud , total respect to you sir 👍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@tobe1207]

"Oh so you're saying blk people are inarticulate"? 🤔

[@BenGurskyMusic]

"can't be more offended than the victim" --- wise words

[@kenmcapple2872]

Philol o Except the majority of white women that are with minorities are fat though. Because the hot ones want white men though. Though though though

[@andreasiversen3440]

@monokhem Its a fairly accurate observation. It's mainly golddiggers and unattractive white women that are with men of other races.

[@BenGurskyMusic]

@Inebriatd okay but still doesn't take away from the truth being stated in that one very specific line from Bill

[@kenmcapple2872]

Cadillac Kadafi yes those are the few exceptions of white liberal women trying to prove to you and themselves they aren’t racist with their trophy. But hot ones that don’t need to prove that are with a white man eating mayonnaise all day in their Kia.

[@SvendleBerries]

@Cadillac Kadafi Theres a reason why stereotypes exist, and theres often more truth to them than people would like to admit. Just because you find it offensive doesnt make it wrong. - "and out here in Chicago" So, because its not true in the immediate area that you live in, its not true? How small the world must be to you.

[@atruth805]

His audience is so "woke" that they dont know he's mocking them.

[@ProudZionist12]

No, they knew, which is why they didn't clap or laugh nearly as hard as they normally do during his monologues.

[@DaggeroftheMind]

@Me Exactly

[@Dinosaurs_with_laser_guns]

Humor/irony infinity loop

[@cd5148]

chained2it Exactly. The people who watch Bill are fans of him and agree with most or all of what he says. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t watch/attend. Pretty much every media source is an echo chamber now

[@Tommy1977777]

@chained2it it's called "Demographics"

[@kevinmccabe7263]

That last minute should be required viewing in schools. It exactly sums up how we move past racism in this country!

[@goingoneight]

“You’re not with a person of color… you’re with a PERSON.” Understood in the proper context, this quote is absolutely amazing.

[@cockroachv]

What other context would that not be true and amazing?

[@cioccolateriaveneziana]

Yes, I'd like to know too.@@cockroachv

[@peterpierre1442]

This is by far one of the best monologues of Bill Maher. As a black man, this is exactly how I feel. Well said every word.

[@carolvidal4920]

Every single word he says is gold. He is elegant, smart and comical all at the same time!

[@spirit5228]

Good one

[@beardohickritiquetm8096]

Buddy, my other half has different color skin than me. Sharing differences with food, language, thinking about the world, beliefs, jokes, movies, games, recreation and more over years. We are together because of love. We understand each other more because we chose to listen to each other's personal experiences and truths. I hope other people are fortunate to find that good and true family or friend or mate. Joy is realized when you can share that with someone else. Peace brother 👍🏼

[@TheTimplatte]

I 1000% agree. Just acknowledge that the past has impacted the present and work on fixing it for the future. That’s it.

[@BryonLetterman]

As a white guy, I hate woke ass white liberals almost more than I hate people who are actually outwardly racist. Those two groups of people constantly and only see everything in life through the prism of race.

[@sanghoonlee5171]

Humility is an attractive quality. Self-loathing isn't.

[@mikey_vengenz]

@Sherman neither is using offensive stereotypes to insult people.

[@pepozuniga6495]

@@mikey_vengenz Neither acting on a high horse for others as if you were in the right, yes it was something offensive but leave that to those who should feel offended about it. In this case. Bill.

[@robertpiver6280]

Yeah so true I strive for the humility and struggle terribly with the other..

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

“Self-loathing“ or “self flagellation” could actually be a form of pride without a clear form of intent, if it means you hate yourself but don’t want to take responsibility for your actions and you want to place that responsibility on others

[@ahnrho]

Attraction not their specialty.

[@Jennifer-vq5zu]

You freaking NAILED IT!!! TY Bill!!!

[@vartanshakhoian9606]

"You can't be offended more than the victim" - So true and so insane.

[@0mnicide]

“I’m with a person of color.” “Youre with a person.” THANK Youuuu...

[@awesomejb9646]

Exactly!! This was amazing and so true!!

[@loffel1700]

@Joe Gallop I wonder, do you care as much when Bill Maher shits on Christians? Because he does, and I notice you don't ask whether or not Bill Maher has any Christian friends. You know, he only *made a whole documentary on Christianity and Mormonism called Religulous where he mocked and insulted them to no end* I just wonder why this doesn't register on your radar at all, seemingly.

[@ikannunaplays]

I have friends that need to stop that shit, slightly different "I'm with a white person" "You're with a person" You know cause some people don't know how to mentally swap out "person of color" with "white person" themselves and realize it's a two way street.

[@tomasstraka5244]

@Joe Gallop he thinks Islam is a bad ideology, which it is. He never blamed all muslims on being something.

[@loffel1700]

@Jessica H I'm not in the offended camp. I'm talking to someone else who seems to be in the offended camp, showing them that no one cares when literally everyone shits on Christianity, so why should anyone care if anyone shits on Islam?

[@pm71241]

It's impressive how much people claiming not to be racist caring so much about the color of peoples skin.

[@TGNXAR]

That's the thing, if you are concerned with skin color, then you are racist. If you don't give a damn, you are not.

[@TGNXAR]

@Mr Olonzo Racism is the belief that one race is superior to others and deserving of special privileges. Babies are not racist. What you are describing is *preference*. People tend to prefer their own group. This doesn't mean they believe their group is superior, it means they like being around people similar to them. This is an evolutionary trait that allowed gene groups to propagate themselves better. Preference is not racism.

[@TGNXAR]

@@pl2585 To be fair, you're a racist bigot who believes weird things. Nothing you said is true.

[@b3at2]

John Kek That’s not true. You’re racist when you judge someone negatively based on their skin color. Seeing skin color is seeing the whole person. It is true that often times we do not think about a persons race interacting day today However to ignore a persons race when a situation occurs that involves race is ignorance

[@pm71241]

@@b3at2 Well... some people seem to want everything to be about race.

[@Redhotlugnut]

I mostly smile at Bill's monologues but I was literally laughing out loud. The best is the last 2 mins.

[@khattiko6362]

What a great monologue! Funny and wise. Literally every minute contains a nugget of wisdom, a quotable quote. Bravo!

[@kdilli6426]

"Hating all things white is just tedious virtue signalling". Literally see this all the time on social media.

[@GoblinGirl]

And practically all of those virtue signaling, white haters are white liberals.

[@alexisjankowski3281]

K Dilli It’s also racist....

[@thomasrainbow]

Sounds like Portland, Oregon

[@bennieknape4857]

And wrong!

[@paultardspambot]

From left leaning people, or from right leaning people though? Or people who aren't clearly either? (The tern "liberal" can mean different things. In modern american parlance, it usually equates to "left wing" but it can also mean somewhat who supports classical liberalism, which could be seen as right wing, libertarian, or left wing, depending. Radical left wingers who lean towards communism/socialism often use "liberal" as an insult, i.e., someone who is on the american left but still supports capitalism to some degree, or someone who doesn't fully oppose it, or someone who is a moderate "reformer" as opposed to a radical revolutionary.)

[@spitfirekid1]

“You can’t be more offended than the victim”. Wise words!

[@loganstolberg2743]

It’s the classic victim hood mentality

[@JaIch9999]

“You can’t be more offended than the victim”. Not sure if this is always true. Sometimes victims suffer from the Stockholm syndrome.

[@ron88303]

@@JaIch9999 Agreed, not always true, but I think true most of the time. Of course, percentage-wise there could be a few exceptions (e.g. Stockholm syndrome).

[@paulinegallagher7821]

@@JaIch9999 that makes no sense at all.

[@JaIch9999]

@@paulinegallagher7821 Yes, it does.

[@soap2770]

That's a big issue though, is people constantly pressured to feel guilty because of their skin color, because they are constantly told by others around them that they should feel bad for being born said color. It's a never ending cycle that just leads to more unnecessary hate and shame.

[@chanceneck8072]

This is probably still one of my all time favorite Bill Maher clips.

[@23RedTechno]

"Finally someone is calling out this White guilt BS ,

[@23RedTechno]

@Skeptical Slim No need my friend !

[@stefanross8129]

...... Such, total NONSENSE. Insecure nonsense.

[@lancairw867]

Average white guy here. The real people who have advantage in life are hot girls !! They really don’t have to do anything!! 😆

[@stefanross8129]

@@lancairw867 .... Yes some hot girls can get some stuff for free and get grear treatment by the lil boys! Haha!

[@DarkCloud3000]

@@lancairw867 That's because there's too many simps in this world.

[@AfroVibez]

Quote of the week "... you're with a person" - Bill Maher

[@Kevdogma72]

This in a nutshell is everything that is wrong with identity politics!

[@ksquare81]

Absolutely right.

[@MrRsj84]

Yes you're a person, but if you're a Marcus Garvey, a Malcolm X, a Nat Turner, a Patrice Lumumba, a Steve Biko, an Amílcar Cabral, a Toussaint L'ouverture, a Samora Machel, a Kwame Nkrumah, an Elijah Muhammad, a Fred Hampton, a Julius Malema, a Chris Hani, a Khalid Abdul Muhammad, a Malik Zulu Shabazz, or a Jeremiah Wright, then you're a "monster". These people were not preaching separation or segregation, they were not preaching anti-white bigotry or hatred they were preaching self-determination. Equality is not the absence of barriers are limits, equality is the ability for the black man woman and child to do for themselves just like any other race including white people can do for themselves! We do not preach "black supremacy", if anything, we preach supremacy over our own lives; but no! white folks don't want true equality! They are such a neurotic people, they feel like they should have DOMINION over everything! We do not believe in dominion over others, but they do! 😤

[@DaveyBrasco]

I have never agreed more with Maher than in that line.

[@Competitive_Antagonist]

Damn, who's the woman?

[@christopherwharton6022]

I’m a white man, and I realize we have a wonderful history of inventing everything and creating all of the wonders of the modern world, but you left your light on.

[@kevinmccabe7263]

That last minute really is the best reflection of reality. I work in a professional department of analysts and developers. Our boss is a black woman, one of our developers is a black man, and half my remaining coworkers are of east Asian or south Asian descent. We're a very diverse department but have never once brought it up because it's frankly never occurred to us to do so. We don't notice each others' races when we're on calls with each other, or spending hours at a time trying to solve problems together. We like each other, work well together, occasionally argue, but ultimately respect each other and our boss is the biggest reason for that. Racism will only go away once we've spent decades working together, hanging out with each other, marrying each other, and just generally living together. It won't be solved by flagellation or trying to tip the scales the other way.

[@jefflombardi7763]

This must have been awkward for the crowd because that’s who he’s talking about!

[@rn6710]

Agree!

[@Jeff-Vader_head_of_catering]

LOL! And yet they all applauded, as if Bill WASN'T talking about them.

[@Orisni]

Like Chappelle in his new special. “ITS YOU” 😆

[@battleready3706]

@MARK PEARSON SAD, BUT TRUE!!👍

[@xGaLoSx]

He hates his crowd, he said it's one of the main reasons he'd rather do a podcast.

[@baileycash6196]

“It puts the burden on black people to absolve you.” WHOA.

[@isexuallyidentifyasukraini5407]

Reminds me of that time Eric Cartman kept on asking Token for a fistbump after saying a bunch of "woke" shit.

[@realtruenorth]

@Regina Buttons history revisionists like to change known history. That's all I was talking about.

[@thomasrainbow]

Fucking epic and spot on!

[@phukyu1491]

Regina, what will it take for justice to be served in this matter, any suggestions?

[@forgesmith5650]

@@phukyu1491 go back and listen 6:33

[@nathansohm991]

As a conservative this had me rolling🤣

[@BassSongPlayer]

"You're with a Person". Bravo Bill

[@Johnny-xj5qu]

I love that a guy who has a lot of liberal leanings, is willing to call out the woke mob on their virtue signaling BS. They aren’t helping race relations, they’re stirring up animosity, and adding awkwardness to the equation.

[@shanekeenaNYC]

It's like this fault line in Scotland that literally came to be loch ness over time. The best thing to do is just let these kinds of divides fizzle out over time. Eventually they themselves become something to laugh at and create new legends out of.

[@TagSpamCop]

Bill is a classical liiberal. Definition per: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liberalism Woke is explicitly _illiberal_ . Intentionally. It just occurs on what the US regards as the politically "liberal" ("progressive") side of the aisle (in Australia, the Liberal party is actually the conservative/right-leaning party). But liberalism (again, above definition) spans both sides of the aisle. Marxian critique of liberalism (again, definition above) is a core pillar of Critical Theory, including Critical Race Theory. They see liberal ethics, neutral principles of law, freedom of speech, etc, etc, as part of a grand conspiracy to keep minorities in their place. Not a joke. "Critical Race Theory: An Introduction" (Delgado/Stefancic) says this explicitly.

[@mikeesernia4281]

Agreed. I’m generally a liberal person but I find this virtue signaling nonsense irritating as hell, and I’ve called people out on it.

[@MyUserTubeAccount]

It's cause he's a classical liberal like someone else commented, having a calm-rational-discussion and opening a dialogue between opposing minds is actually possible with people like Bill, they actually resonate with fact and logic and aren't just mindless-brick walls with an 'all or nothing-I only want to be heard' petulant mindset.

[@thatguy22441]

Of course they are. Racial tension is big business. A lot of careers, in both the public and private sector, have been built on it.

[@MrValz0]

Remember the world before social media? Wasn't it great.

[@richardkidwell4134]

Sorry people , but the world was better before internet and social media. Period.

[@lynv6464]

Social media has led to mob control.

[@mamenamamena]

Rrrright, the world with Hitler’s Nazis was better. Also no mob control those days, surrrre

[@SuperZippyzippy]

Amen

[@LUC1FER_R1S1NG]

Yup

[@julial1610]

A voice of reason, as always.

[@Jen7867]

This clip was recommended to me by the YT algorithm. I saw it when it first aired, and I really enjoyed watching it again tonight because everything still holds true. I loved everything about it: the way Bill skillfully organized his thought processes, the hilarious cringe-inducing clip from "Bad Teacher", the reactions from each of his guests, the fact that Bill took up for Noah Rothman (They have different political views, but so what?? It was rude for the director to tell the cameraman to focus on him at that specific moment, so I'm glad Bill called it out). I haven't laughed this hard all day today! 🤣 I don't remember the exact situation, but I have heard Bill say that he writes the final New Rules himself. He has penned a lot of great ones over the years, but for me, this is one of his best.

[@Slaphappy1975]

As a Thai person born and bred in Thailand, the first time I remember coming across this phenomenon was the criticism the movie The Impossible received. I watched it in a Bangkok theatre with a thai audience and the overwhelming consensus was that it was a deeply powerful movie that treated its subject (an English family experience of the 2004 tsunami disster), Thailand and Thai culture with respect and reverence. Only when I went online did I see the hate the movie got for showing only the white experience. As if human pain and suffering isnt universal.

[@ekathe85]

Classic "how come you made the movie you made, and not the one I would have made?" criticism. Bill Maher has called out bullshit like that in other segments.

[@mokiloke]

Yes and movies are typically made that focus on their target audience to be more relatable. It was a great movie and i thought also treated the Thai culture with dignity, and people i know in Thailand were directly effected, but i understood that a movie is not a social justice showcase, but a powerful story. Progressive "liberals" are making the country go backwards.

[@TheFourthWinchester]

Impossible had mostly positive reviews and I was bored out of my mind.

[@martinpospisil3747]

Because they think white people are not humans so hence we cant feel pain.

[@user-hq3lk5np4x]

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[@jesseh5084]

Imagine growing up in the nineties watching reading rainbow and being taught not to see or judge people based on skin colour, only to live in 2020 and be taught the exact opposite, to judge everyone based on skin colour? It’s confusing as f**k lol

[@dmb1995ta]

They've been planning this for decades. Welcome to the party.

[@stephenbunting3143]

Thats so smart

[@katiestans2824]

Imagine being a kid in the 60’s and 70’s listening to Joe Biden’s foul mouth saying things that will get you a jail sentence today and now he’s President. Talk about messed up.

[@willsweat5413]

Shit; I'll go one better! Imagine growing up in the 70's - 80's watching Good Times, the Jefferson's, Facts of Life, Chico and the Man, Sanford and Son, Welcome Back Kotter and having your cassette deck filled with Prince, Kool and The Gang, Jimi Hendrix, Santana as you idolize Tony Dorsett, Sugar Ray Leonard and Tony Gywnn. Then imagine you marry a black woman and have three beautiful children only to learn that at 53. . .you're nothing but a bigoted, racist, homophobic white guy that has caused all the worlds problems! Yeah. . .weird.

[@Tierneil]

Yeah calling it that liberals will cancel MLK soon because his dream of a colorblind society is racist

[@seancovert8320]

“That’s like your mother prefers the neighbor’s kid”!! 😂😜

[@Antuan_the_Swan]

Hahaha!! “You left your lights on.”

[@soundsfromthestreet]

wonder if his audience knows he's talking about them

[@philiptumilty9765]

Wasn't the Klan created and endorsed by the Democrats so shouldn't we band that first, and what about plan Parenthood? Plan Parenthood was created by Margaret Sanger a devoted Klan member. One of alinsky's rules is to make them live by their own rules, so it's time we canceled Planned Parenthood and the Democrats. These aren't our rules These are their rules but it's time we made them live within their own rules, right? So hashtag #theklanaredemocrats, #stoptheklanstopdemocrats #PlannedParenthoodMadebytheKlan

[@417altavista]

Thumbs up X100 !

[@connorjohn5013]

They are paid to be there aren’t they?

[@letsgetlit2829]

Fuck no...

[@aoisora1445]

@@EJY318 remember the moment when only one person clapped for one of his lines, not everyone agrees with everything...

[@arborinfelix]

Actually this is the best Bill Maher segment in years.

[@princeoftheves1549]

For real. He's not supposed to be so logic.

[@Sal3600]

It's an easy pick though, wouldn't you agree?

[@daniellarson9810]

I couldn't agree more. This is the Bill Maher I loved to watch.

[@1jidion]

bill maher is only saying what conservatives have been saying for years, its just hes finally realizing how far left the left has actually pushed, and by todays standards he could be considered a conservative

[@arborinfelix]

@Apostate Prostate What does my skin color with Bill Maher's words todo?

[@sullythedoc]

One of his best monologues ever 🐐

[@donavanfrea6768]

2:19 that reaction 😆

[@jasontodd4801]

I am a brown man, and I approve this message 👍🏾

[@i-v-l9335]

I'm a snowman and I approve this message

[@phillipdaugherty1486]

Same

[@abc456f]

@fatrat22 Lol!

[@michellemayfied3132]

I am a brown woman and I approve this message..lol

[@paulowen637]

I am a computer programmer and I approve this message.

[@crystalwesternford7255]

He nailed this. I appreciate this so much. No one should be made to feel guilty for their skin color. We're all human.

[@mikehankins4513]

@Albert Gront no I think she's talking about people like you that perpetuate racism at every turn.

[@tumid1371]

I agree. I go like this “if you’re nice I will respect you, if you’re an asshole than I will treat you as such”

[@anacom4238]

I've seen some progressive black yt channels where there's a lot of condescension and bigotry toward whites. Since I respected the host's opinions on other issues I started excusing the white hate. I quit watching when I realized I always left a video feeling bad about myself. It was like I was slowly getting brainwashed.

[@catrissia]

@James G In a perfect world that might be feasible, but that would cause more harm then good. People already distrust the government, and I don't think they would take kindly to taxes they had nothing to do with. Also their are the Native Americans who would need compensating, to be fair.

[@veloran]

You're taking this too far... And unfortunately you are not alone! This is just in your head, you are making yourself feel like that, people have the right not to like you...

[@lucassurita6136]

“You’re with a person.” Thank you Bill Maher!

[@leesher1845]

It is not a crime to know all the words to sweet Caroline. 😂

[@graceandglamor]

Okay, I wasn’t expecting to like this as much as I did 😂😂😂

[@Iburn247]

Me too lol😂

[@glennporter6378]

@@Iburn247 Same! Not a big fan of Bill Maher but he is so right on this one

[@rollingthunder1578]

Because you've been brain washed to hate us.

[@haimb2623]

Its great

[@graceandglamor]

Rolling Thunder if you think someone who doesn’t unequivocally adore Bill M is brainwashed...you are brain washed lol. And who is “us”?

[@okeyoku]

“You’re with a person” best Bill quote

[@SGGCREATIVES]

@@whiteyonthemoon1193 What's a neocon? Too many titles and acronyms these days. Don't know this one. Also is the moon made of cheese?

[@Rachel-gv6hw]

Okechukwu Oku 👏🏽👏🏽

[@ThePepper67]

Whitey On The Moon No need to qualify “conservative” with “neo” which is generally a foreign policy issue. Really it’s just the GOP and mainstream US conservatism post 1965. To be honest neocons would use identity politics when it suits them, if it’s a tool they can exploit to fight a war. For example our foreign policy towards Israel relies on white Evangelicals who think we need to have Jews in Jerusalem for Jesus to return. That’s explicit identity politics.

[@gram440a]

It was also good when every white person I know said it for the last 25 years, and got accused of racism for doing so.

[@KevinWidesouls]

PaintedWOLF I mean yea, as they should. There’s nothing wrong with being proud of one’s self, especially if your people have been deemed the “other” for generations on end.

[@rickjensen2833]

I'm a redheaded stepchild twice over/bastard and i approve of this message also.

[@ibbilalian4337]

This is hands down his best one.

[@nadinadi8385]

“You’re with a PERSON!” 😊

[@MrRsj84]

You're with a person who is not a genetic, economic or political threat to you you acknowledge them as your equal they have the right to self-autonomy, self-determination and self definition. They need not be subverted subjugated dehumanized and dominated. They have the right to do for themselves just as other races can and they have a right to defend themselves whenever they are unfairly encroached upon! ✊🏿❤🖤💚🇱🇾😤

[@theartemisgland]

Gee, I wonder how fast they forgot to treat others and themselves by the content of the character... im telling you dems were always racist... now its just sneaky.

[@Blah3210]

It's gotten so bad that intersectional leftists will tell you that 'colorblindness', or not seeing race, is in and of itself racist because it perpetuates white supremacy. These people are insane and would try to cancel MLK if he were still alive today.

[@theartemisgland]

@iconoclast i assume you are too ideaologically possessed to see world in anything other than black and white. A clear case of american idiotism. America, you are the Florida man of the world.

[@theartemisgland]

@iconoclast at least you figured out how to use ad hominem fallacy...

[@CesarGarcia-tl7eh]

“I’m with a person of color. No. You’re with a PERSON.” Thank you for saying this Bill. More people need to watch this video.

[@NYYBBTeam]

Yes, you are with a person. Color, religion, sex, etc. are irrelevant.

[@Duckster8769]

@@NYYBBTeam unless describing a person. In a crowd you will describe someone with the most distinguishable characteristics that make tyem easy to spot and sometimes that might be skin color and there is nothing racist in that.

[@tidefanyankee2428]

@Regina Buttons The Republicans started as an anti-slavery party. The KKK was almost exclusively something from the Democrats. So saying "historically neither has done anything to deter racism" isn't accurate. Now, if you want to talk about how each as evolved then that might be a bit more accurate....but in the scope of time the Dems have only turned themselves around recently....like the end of the 1960's. We can point fingers at both parties with specific instances, but your "historically" quip again isn't accurate.

[@tidefanyankee2428]

@Regina Buttons Oh, I DO get it, I have a degree in history. But you used the word "historically", which accounts for a LOT of time. You might want to read up on the respective histories of each of the two major political parties.

[@tidefanyankee2428]

@Regina Buttons The history of the different political parties are their origins. Some of the principles within each were seen up until not so long ago. Where did I say there isn't any racism today? There are some instances where being racist is illegal, but like it or not, people get to feel/believe as they wish, as stupid as their belief's may be. People make up political parties btw.....and attitudes in each have changed over time. I'm not arguing with you, all I've said is when you use the word "historically" you need to first go back and look at a party's record.

[@brandyunknown9196]

Perfectly said! Bill Maher should run for president. No matter which party he represents, I'd vote for him based on his qualities that I like, as I always do of course.

[@assurdo8888]

"You're with a person". Praise to thee Bill.

[@healthfadsfade]

I love how the people clapping are guilty of every charge

[@Hirnlego999]

How do you know? Are they all twitter fighters?

[@soulrevolution07]

truth!

[@philiptumilty9765]

Wasn't the Klan created and endorsed by the Democrats so shouldn't we band that first, and what about plan Parenthood? Plan Parenthood was created by Margaret Sanger a devoted Klan member. One of alinsky's rules is to make them live by their own rules, so it's time we canceled Planned Parenthood and the Democrats. These aren't our rules These are their rules but it's time we made them live within their own rules, right? So hashtag #theklanaredemocrats, #stoptheklanstopdemocrats #PlannedParenthoodMadebytheKlan

[@Hirnlego999]

@@philiptumilty9765 Stop spreading misinformation and actually factcheck before you spread your BS. And we all know why the south remains red, and why Trump and others want the wall. And there's only one party that is focusing tons of time to block mostly black voters.

[@gtitboij2586]

They're guilty of something ?

[@mikeesernia4281]

“You’re with a PERSON!” - Amen.

[@SighNaps]

I was at a party once talking to a group of friends. The boyfriend of one of the girls in the group discussion came over to join in and immediately started talking to our friend Ishmael (a Nigerian man) about slavery (Ishmael came to the US in 2004. I doubt he has many American slaves in his family legacy. The boyfriend didn't care to ask though). He kept trying to emphasize how aware he was that slavery was wrong and presented himself to be on "Ishmaels side" as a white guy. Ishmael interrupted him after about 2 straight minutes of self aggrandizement and said in his thick accent "It's ok man. Honestly, trying this hard not to be racist makes you look racist. Just be nice. We're cool".

[@bigtakeshi]

You remember that during the 2020 protests, a famous quote was "I am not black, but I see you, I hear you, I mourn with you, I will fight for you." I heard the story of a friend of a friend who was black, and he said that during the protests, white people were COMING UP TO HIM IN THE GROCERY STORE and stopping him saying "I see you, I hear you, I mourn with you, I will fight for you." He got super annoyed at their virtue signaling and told them to stfu!

[@estanford826]

Thank you !!!!!

[@BradenWBarty]

"Forgetting the past can be dangerous. Dwelling on the past can be disastrous." - Billy Barty

[@remmymafia3889]

Billy Barty? the midget from that 60's television series Wild Wild West?

[@workct4102]

I like that

[@xTwinVipersx]

Yes!!!

[@stupoc6715]

Thats why racist facts and fiction from the past must all be erased. lol Laura Ingalls Wilder's diary. The Civil War. Hot Cheetos. Mayonaise. Rodney King. The fact the U.S. bought most of this country from other countries who had ALREADY taken it from native Americans. Ect.

[@philiptumilty9765]

Wasn't the Klan created and endorsed by the Democrats so shouldn't we band that first, and what about plan Parenthood? Plan Parenthood was created by Margaret Sanger a devoted Klan member. One of alinsky's rules is to make them live by their own rules, so it's time we canceled Planned Parenthood and the Democrats. These aren't our rules These are their rules but it's time we made them live within their own rules, right? So hashtag #theklanaredemocrats, #stoptheklanstopdemocrats #PlannedParenthoodMadebytheKlan

[@Sidekick_Snowman]

Sometimes Maher has some winners. This is one

[@FriedrichBarb]

I dont really agree with Maher most of the time, but yea, this is one of those episodes where he's nailed it

[@Phobophage901]

@Dusk Dawg Strawman much?

[@lefttheleft8934]

@Dusk Dawg hell yeah we'll head over to Alondra and Atlantic and pick up a 20 fat sack and roll on down to find an ocean and register up some Republicans..

[@mic7reaper]

yup, last time i checked doing a few online tests for my place on the political compass, i was center and slightly on the left so im guessing a moderate lib. I dont always agree with the guy but this is definitely something that needs to be addressed. Although im sure a lot of people who on the left arent necessarily too far gone down the progressive path, probably just not as vocal seeing how this whole new self flagellating and racism of low expectation is making it's way on media outlets and even some universities and colleges. Like he said at the end, the focus on race( hell, anything regarding identity really) when around other people is the problem, their character and personality is what matters. Basically the argument that we shouldnt "see" race, or atleast not let thoses things change how we act around others. Next step would be encouraging people to realise that pushin to change with a tribalistic and aggressive actions doesnt work, the best way about it and really that should be a given regarding living together and working together, is an open discussion and possibility to debate to make everyone's actual position clearer and encouraging people to tolerate those that arent mirror copies of themselves. (well, live and let live would be a good start.) All and all, i miss when the term liberal and the western left wasnt being tarnished by radical progressives and what seems to be a fringe but almost encouraged authoritarian left. We can't work through shit when everyone is at each others throat, we need to chill and learn to laugh a little more.

[@alexvalin9085]

haven't laughed that hard since Christopher Hitchens was last on his show

[@leticiasandoval8273]

First time I hear you… love your humor!! I’m on a row watching every one of your shows… gracias 🙏 for making me lough.

[@reasonslogicc4039]

When the king of liberals sounds like a conservative.... you know there is something wrong

[@keith536]

@@Hirnlego999 Uh huh.... Come on man. Divorce yourself from the loons. You'll be happier..

[@Hirnlego999]

@@keith536 Ignorance might be bliss, but I'm not into that. But you can do it.

[@keith536]

@@Hirnlego999 I did your version of ignorance for years and fought anyone that questioned that ignorance. I was so unhappy being a liberal. BILL is very miserable.

[@Hirnlego999]

@@keith536 " BILL is very miserable." You'd be right if you spoke about O'Reilly. Also, you have never heard Trump laugh. Rightwingers can't do facts or comedy, but they are great at fear and hatred. Doesn't matter where you do the IQ tests, the conservatives always are among the bottom. When Colbert Report was one a lot of you on the right didn't even know whether he was joking or not, can't grasp the sarcasm. Now, the rightwing bozos embrace just about every damn dumb conspiracy theory there is, QAnon, birtherism, stop the steal, acorn stole the election, masks don't work, the virus is hardly deadly, capital violence was antifa, pizzagate, Bill Gates will microchip ya...etc etc..

[@maplesyrupminer437]

@@Hirnlego999 funny enough conservatives are the only ones who understand comedy without being offended!

[@WorldsOkayestSorcerer]

What's weird is how hard his audience is clapping when they're literally the people he's talking about. 😐

[@richardlug6139]

And most if not all his liberal white guests. Example: Ben Assflex

[@tymck9694]

You see hw short the laughter is?

[@TeamPill]

I mean, they support his idea, why should they not clap?

[@josev7417]

I think most of the people there agree with him, most people he's referring to.. are too busy being offended by him .

[@BunnyCentauri]

No. Those people are a very small subset of the population.

[@doct0rnic]

I think what makes Bill so commanding is the chair, it looks so cool sitting in a high back chair

[@gilpolanco1514]

Bravo. Brilliant way of saying we're all human.

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

As a black male, this is accurate as hell. Especially at parties, drunk white people make it real awkward

[@lefttheleft8934]

Just tell them youl want to have their old lady give you head and it's all cool.. freaky white people be like okay

[@energeez]

u chose ur friends bruh

[@duustincrawford2945]

@@energeez you've never been to a party with strangers?

[@DONNALANDS]

I don't think that's true...because not all black people can dance and have fun...They just think they can. Like the ignorant man who thinks he is smart but doesn't know how to do jack schit. Having an high IQ and being wise are two different perspectives. It all depends on who is viewing and taking notes. A great mind observes and then looks, listens, and smells.

[@suckmysilencer747]

Please share us examples

[@larrypilgrim12]

We did use to laugh and hang out in the 80s, what is happening today is a mental disorder!

[@davidkelley5839]

Politically correct has screwed everything up!! Blacks are so sensitive and the media blows everything out of proportion!!

[@richardkidwell4134]

You may be right....strange how both sides suffer from it.

[@jamesdettmann94]

@@davidkelley5839 I don't find blacks to be the sensitive ones necessarily. The most common group of people who live on identity politics are white girls who think they know what liberalism and racism are

[@brucem4813]

You're with a person. That spoke volumes.

[@jamesmaxdavissands]

At 6:15 I realized that this is my favorite episode - Go Bill, Go!

[@linemanone628]

The most true statement ever said. " Your not with a person of color, Your with a Person ".. We are all human, let's start treating each other the way we want to be treated..

[@deanne1671]

Perfectly said. Xoxoxo

[@nbtoppers2]

Yup. Same red blood from my veins(white) as black or other poc. Same blood.

[@hypolyxa7207]

YOU'RE*

[@vandal_prime9934]

Everyone is a person of "Colour" unless you're f*** transparent :D

[@anonymousstout4759]

Bubble buddies: Hey!!!

[@tomreilly6376]

"I'm not with a person of color. I'm with a person." My throat tightened up right then. God bless Bill Maher--Tom Reilly

[@danieljones3364]

No one cares about you Tom Reilly

[@NihilistAlien]

I'm not sure he'd like the god reference but I'm sure he appreciates the feeling.

[@guadalupeskitchen3734]

Thank you for the truth

[@DarrenMarsh-kx8hd]

Probably Bill's best New Rule.

[@grimmmaster7189]

Am black and i agree with Bill,self loathing doesn't help anyone

[@erikandrus4387]

And it's mainly those "so offended" who aren't even black who have put the screws to everyone.

[@chuckfriebe843]

Watch out. You're gonna get cancelled.

[@albafioralba1264]

Like Andrew Yang, you're racist and I'm offended on your behalf!!!

[@grimmmaster7189]

@@albafioralba1264 acting like Black people should feel offended every time something is said,is actually racist thinking,Calling me a racist cause am not falling to you victimization category please,shut tfu...

[@andrzejfilip4913]

@@grimmmaster7189 i think he was joking :)

[@terencehammonds3041]

Bill talking about most of his audience and they eating it up.

[@king-emperorbotolfzainisem730]

Well they love it because theyre anti white turds

[@zapkvr]

He calls himself Jewish. Yeah right

[@drewmurdaugh424]

I think that's called a laugh track. They use it in TV shows all the timenot that he wasn't absolutely hilarious but a white guilt liberals would never laugh at that

[@wreagfe]

NPCs that make noise and clap when they see a sign in a TV studio.

[@mschuman1953]

@@zapkvr He refers to himself as a lapsed Catholic. His mother was Jewish but he was raised as a Catholic, went to Catholic school.

[@pupyherrera3178]

This bid makes me laugh harder each time

[@PatHand-og9yd]

If only Canada had a Bill Maher!!!!!!!!

[@chancebrown106]

I’m biracial and went on a trip with some left leaning white coworkers last year and somehow I’ve got to send them this video.

[@Mausju]

please do!

[@bourne2crimson397]

Please tell me you sent it! 😀

[@dnznznfjsnsnsms9996]

Yes please do and report back!

[@chancebrown106]

Update: funny enough I actually quit the job 3 months before even posting this. I had a line of communication thru Snapchat with them but as expected, out of sight out of mind.

[@evablue1717]

There is only one race (human) and different ethnicities. You are bi-ethnic not racial man !

[@TravisIsaacson]

"You can't be more offended than the victim."

[@sammavacaist]

Bill should take that advice himself whenever a black person suggests he's racist. All he does is get defensive. Never self reflects or listens to others' opinions.

[@jasellerodrigues233]

@@sammavacaist I’ve never noticed that

[@msole06]

@@jasellerodrigues233 @Sammavacaist hasn't either.. he's just a moron...

[@dcincdsr301]

This is the line that really got me too. So many experiences seeing that

[@jpsarver5514]

Yea Bill seems to forget Andrew Yang isn't all the Asian people

[@mdon419]

The justin timberlake thing was great 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@adambartlett2780]

One of the best monologues I’ve seen him give.

[@zbitykieliszek9358]

This is Bill's lane. He's the funniest and most accurate on this topic out of all of them

[@tracieyudichak2315]

I totally agree

[@cqueen44]

Douglas Murray is good too.

[@paulpeterson4216]

This is Bill's shtick, he pretends that this overblown straw man of "political correctness" not only exists but is epidemic across the country. I get making a caricature, but it only spreads a stereotype that the white-supremacists and Ku Klux Kristians benefit from.

[@tracieyudichak2315]

o probably, Bill changes his rhetoric as he matures. I like him better now.

[@cqueen44]

@@paulpeterson4216 I would argue that the behavior itself does more to empower bad actors. Turns out, people don't like being assumed to be racists and bigots en masse without cause. No shortage of ignorant projection with neither investigation nor apology in either party. Altho Bill calling it out probably won't do much good. Because people are way better at dishing out criticism than hearing it about themselves. "Oh, he's just an asshole"...hear that all the time. Maybe. But tf does that have to do with the validity of his argument?

[@boysdontcry5487]

“Black Panther is so meaningful to me.” 😂😂😂

[@NoName-oq9bx]

Munray Greighton nigga it was in Africa 😭

[@NoName-oq9bx]

Munray Greighton thats like me watching WW2 movies and being mad there’s no black people

[@boysdontcry5487]

XsuzzX love how black people throw the n word around when it suits them but get all offended and use it as an excuse to burn shit down and steal when Whitey uses it. Black Panther just a middling movie at best.

[@justinhuskey335]

That was a terrible movie. To be fair all of Disney/Marvel's movies are bad, but that one in particular was WAY overrated because of the political agenda attached to it.

[@justinhuskey335]

I agree. If it's an offensive word why use it at all? It's idiotic.

[@logike77]

This is such a great clip. One of his best.

[@dpbrightful3526]

i often find myself with different opinions that Bill, but man did he nail this one! preach bro!

[@idlingdove5217]

Hilarious. And right on point. The "Caucasian Offset Tax" was priceless.

[@alanstuart4646]

@idling dove I agree! I'm still giggling at that!

[@konoko1002k]

For me, that was the only part that wasn't dunny, but that was because I heard it said many times before , and most of that was without sarcasm.

[@jamesa6494]

That was a strawman joke. He should have suggested if those White progressives he criticized really felt badly about past discrimination, instead of tweeting about their guilt, they should go out to vote for candidates who support investing in inner city communities. If White progressives showed up at the polls with the same enthusiasm as groups like White Evangelicals, Democrats would win comfortably.

[@southerncomfortblack3408]

just a small anti reparation speech bill threw in. don't mind it

[@terrencemyers1033]

@@southerncomfortblack3408, Although so-called Black people are born with a nationality like most human beings reparation cannot be given to so-called blacks because they are not seen as a nationality, only property.

[@EWUFBIiswatching]

For the first time in a while, I agree with this guy.

[@jacquesblaque7728]

That's so white of you.

[@lifemusic1980]

He's been surprisingly on point lately. Even he can't stand the Contemporary Liberals. His audience is clueless as usual. They never know when to clap. They have always been that way. Bill tells them to shut up regularly. Lol

[@jed-henrywitkowski6470]

@@jacquesblaque7728 Lol!

[@eniasojos2846]

Bill is always right l love him

[@eneveasi]

Thanks Bill, you’re like the lone standing sane nightly show.

[@MrAkifusion]

EXCELLENT !!! ❤

[@mralanmcbride]

It’s funny how many of you don’t realize he’s actually talking about you.

[@madhatter9001]

True Alan but then again, you can't fix stupid and that is why they think he is talking about someone else.

[@ajwtube]

@@madhatter9001 says the guy thinking he's talking about someone else...

[@blt4life112]

It's funny to see a white person hating on white people because they hate white people.

[@jermholio]

@@blt4life112 he looks more violet than white tho.

[@Darkfyreofthezenith]

@sean grant You do realize that the USSR and Russia are two different things, right? Also, who exactly is carrying around a "communist" flag? And which one?

[@monicamichelle2391]

EXACTLY.. I'm half Hispanic and have white people telling me how I should feel about Racism. Like REALLY?

[@stevebeave9252]

Some* your not all that famous.

[@monicamichelle2391]

@@stevebeave9252 wow dumb ass

[@monicamichelle2391]

Way to respond months later. You must lead an amazing life. Not

[@stevebeave9252]

@@monicamichelle2391 ha once again but your not all that famous. No but seriously just say some white people i hate blanket statements just as much you im sure.

[@ekathe85]

@@stevebeave9252 You could have a point if OP said "All white people tell me how I should feel", but that's not the case. There's no blanket statement in the wording used.

[@warofnoise5394]

"Every thought needs a disclaimer now" lol... yeah... that's true

[@johncaputo9965]

This is brilliant! Let us all laugh together at the inanity of our mutual humanity!

[@Neoquaker1]

That was really big of Andrew Yang for not demanding the comic be fired for that personal slur. Every other politician would want the comic crucified. Yang's on a whole different level.

[@Games_and_Music]

It is kinda ironic though, to point to Yang as the token Asian guy to speak on behalf of all Asians, if that was the case. But i still agree with the overall sentiment, if the affected aren't that offended, then just let it slide.

[@tenacious645]

I've seen plenty play their race card. It gets old fast.

[@tbd]

Yang2020.com/policies He practices what he preaches about "Humanity First."

[@MrSamMaloney]

Yang is so woke he has transcended to another plane of existence and has no need for petty human squabbles.

[@Charleroi92]

Yes, Yang is on a whole other level.... It's called basic self respect