Obsessing Over Having the Perfect Relationship

[@moulee7448]

When you get diagnosed after 5 yrs of breaking up with a person. You din't know you had rocd and other themes of OCD included. You lost someone who also truly loved you. It sucks. I thought I didn't love him. I thought I was not attracted to him anymore. I felt intense guilt for not confessing that I lost feelings for him. Í told him but he was totally confused. He and even my friends reacted in a really confused way. Even I didn't have any reason other than telling them "I don't feel he is the one for me". Everything makes sense now. But I can't go back. I have never been in a relationship since i broke up with him. I was toooooo scared to hurt another person again. I thought I can never be in a relationship. I will end up hurting them. I feel so sad that I lost someone. It could have been a healthy good relationship if I had known all this. Its sad. I miss him. But it's over. It feels unfair to have this .

[@liljemark1]

All the best to your husband for sticking it out with you! 😂 This is a comment from another husband with a wife with OCD. It's been a rough ride for over 11 years and she is nowhere near OCD management, but me learning about OCD and teaching myself about boundaries has helped tremendously.

[@missyrissy1110]

Wow wow wow, I’m so happy I found this video. I have been making huge strides in my ROCD, and this video has helped me take another. Thank you!

[@rainystone3]

You are an inspiration! Your story- thoughts, feelings, irrational beliefs, fear etc all mirror mine. This is great motivation. Self and life acceptance is something I’m beginning to incorporate in my OCD treatment. It’s slow rolling but I hope to get underneath the fears.

[@jonathanfuenzalida2925]

Thank you Jade, I love all of your videos. Obviously, everything you say resonates so so much with me.

[@missl1586]

I love your videos Jade! You are full of pragmatism and it is a pleasure to listen to you. Would you talk more about your journey with ROCD and how you navigated that with big life decisions such as getting pregnant?

[@son9213]

Thank you so much for this vidéo ! It was so helpful !! Hello from France

[@lovelysweet74]

Thanks for this video, also I love your accent!

[@olivep7920]

Thank you for this video.

[@anonymousbee]

This video is so so helpful.

[@vialamarie1506]

Thank you so much for this video 😭🤗🙏

[@StillWatersRunDeep101]

I know a couple who got married for political match reasons. They were kind to each other. They had nine kids. They were never in love but she said life got really good after she married.

[@maha_chalawi]

So goooood✅✅✅🙌❤️

[@mervehanm2696]

Ok, i am watching myself🤣

[@amystratton4144]

You are so funny and I don’t think you’re trying to be lol 😂 “Oh that’s it, I’ve gone way too far...”