People Who Felt DEVASTATED

[@js8303]

Hey everybody, it’s my birthday!! (in America time) :)

[@silverspoon7761]

🥳 happy birthday

[@hannahforeman]

Happy Birthday! 🎉🎂

[@js8303]

@Ba Gawk thank you! They were awesome!! I had a lovely dinner and I got some great gifts and of course birthday cards (my dad always picks out the most special one. Gets me every time!) 🥳😁

[@js8303]

@@silverspoon7761 thank you!! 🥳🫶🏻

[@js8303]

@@hannahforeman thank youu!! 🥳🫶🏻

[@libby8717]

The fact that the first guy spent the first half of his day with his aunt grieving, another quarter of it working, and then got yelled at for being even a little happy that somebody appreciated him on the night of his birthday is insane to me

[@liamorrison4484]

Exactly! I heard that some people grieve by blaming others, so maybe Denise just needed to blame someone, and since he had something nice on his birthday, obviously he was the perfect candidate. It doesn't excuse it at all, it's just the only reason I could think of for someone to be angry at them.

[@samgnz3n530]

it's his sister whose son passed on his birthday, so that date was important for at least a decade or 2, maybe 3 or more, previously to his younger nephew's death and the family which has big traditions of celebrating b-days are more heartless for not only forgetting it but just abusing and gaslighting him over the facts that 1. it's his birthday he's allowed to celebrate cause he's alive (therefore friends and SO's can too) 2. it's the day the family lost someone dear: both facts being something no one can change...and they need family counseling, or he need to go LC or NC to escape their toxic mindset....even if it the 1st anniversary to attack someone over this is way too self-centered, grief is not an excuse to being horrible to others.

[@beatrixthegreat1138]

Yeah they are being ugly doing that to him.

[@gratuitytucci4]

She didn’t even had a big celebration, it was just between her and her gf

[@lilylily2069]

The least they could have done is at least celebrate it on another day or something I mean it's not as special but it shows you still care honestly I'd cut them off if I did all that to help her and get yelled at for celebrating my birthday.

[@cottoncandye]

i realized smth from the first story: the girlfriend is more loyal than the family 💀

[@chloeeng6811]

Yes

[@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou]

She’s a keeper ! 💕

[@yumekou6619]

Yup , that's a good girlfriend right there

[@Am_._]

Honestly he hit the jackpot with the gf

[@lysanderstan9234]

No, more like loving and caring

[@E7XEE]

Imagine telling a person ,who is about to die, that it’s effecting everyone too and not to be selfish. Like, THEY MIGHT DIE OF COURSE THEIR EMOTIONS ARE COMING FIRST RIGHT NOW

[@nancyomalley6286]

Clearly the brother is the Golden Child!

[@yumi_cloud]

@@nancyomalley6286 and his wife's new baby is more important than SOMEONE WHO HAS CANCER

[@yumi_cloud]

Ikr like they gonna die in a few Years and you expect them not to care about themselves? I would've broken down on the spot!

[@TweSunshine]

@@yumi_cloud I hope the person survives.

[@yumi_cloud]

@@TweSunshine me too

[@zebnemma]

The cancer story: Sister in law: "I was just trying to lighten the mood". Basicaly what the entire family said is that they think OPs cancer anouncement is an inconvenience to them so that's why they can't show them support in their hard times, instead just says "you made our family gathering awkward, go away you party pooper". WTF this is that persons family... Not giving a shit that they are dying... Wooooooww they just showed their true colors didn't they? They treat OP like a stranger that is trying to fish for sympathy/attention. This is your family!!!! Yeaaaahhhhh I wouldn't fault OP if they never want to speak to their family again honestly, cuz they give zero shits if they die it seems. And then if they end up dying they will be at the hospital door trying to force themselves in to see them at their death bed I bet... But then it would be too late.

[@AvaActsOut]

The hell?! If I had cancer, and my brother announced his child after I announced my cancer, I would have CLOBBERED him.

[@AvaActsOut]

I got a heart from Kyutie 😯

[@honeybeethehybrid9516]

thats something MY brother would do. not the same situation, but he doesnstuff similar and eveyrbody forgets me and focuses on him.

[@AvaActsOut]

@@honeybeethehybrid9516 I have a brother that's like that too. He wants to claim I don't work hard enough for his liking, but I babysit every day of the week, and I get paid for it. He can't even get up in the morning. Me, not working enough? Lol nope.

[@Justyouraveragechaosenjoyer]

The family in the second story are so out of pocket. So if things go wrong, how are they going to live with themselves knowing they scorned their sick family member for being upset that their life is on a timer? If that person passes away, they will have to live with that guilt for the rest of their lives. And for acting like that? They deserve it. So absolutely awful. My heart is broken for that poor person

[@yumekou6619]

They won't live with guilt , I've seen these types of people , they don't have a conscious

[@Justyouraveragechaosenjoyer]

@@yumekou6619 Gosh,, I couldn't imagine living a life that empty

[@minisamuri2]

tbh if I was op I would make sure that the bf is aware that if I don't make it I don't want any of them at the funeral, because if they don't care about the fact there's a good chance I won't make it and are calling me selfish and a butthole for deciding that they should know, then I don't think it's right for them to be able to mourn my death properly.

[@spiritsofwolves]

Like i know that when someone says something bad happened it’s often hard to figure out what to say but to just ignore it completely is so very disrespectful and the conversation afterwards like sheesh these people clearly dont have hearts

[@spiritsofwolves]

Like i know that when someone says something bad happened it’s often hard to figure out what to say but to just ignore it completely is so very disrespectful and the conversation afterwards like sheesh these people clearly dont have hearts

[@flawfuljinx]

(TLDR: ranting about inconsiderate people) 2nd story: Knowing that you might die soon is such a horrible feeling and I hope op gets the support she needs. Her sister might've tried to lighten the mood but the timing was so gut-wrenching, basically saying that a new life is being born for the dying years of another. If her family feels like op is guilt-tripping them then they need to reconsider their priorities: apologize and make op feel comforted and heard OR keeping accusing op in her literal dying years to save their own pride and ego. Feeling awkward isn't a reason, it's an excuse, because eventually they'll need to have these talks when other family members are nearing death too. Last story: op is NOT wrong here. She and her family were disrespected and yet her ex-friends accuse HER of being selfish and weak instead of apologizing for what THEY did. It might be too far to say she cried and tattled on them to her husband but so what? Her husband would've known when op suddenly didn't feel like hanging out with them, especially on the trip planned. Her sister should also consider empathy lessons since she didn't consider that maybe op needed someone to lean on after literally having a friendship betrayed like that.

[@nancyomalley6286]

Sister-In-Law!

[@thebonitaart2023]

I would've slapped that sister in law out of existence lmao

[@softfairy_xo_]

1st story: poor dude... that's a rough situation but the misfortune shouldn't mean he has to be more miserable 2nd story: the SIL DEFINITELY owes OP an apology! How heartless are OP's family?! They have cancer, how the actual (quack) does that make OTHER people awkward?? How is that guilt tripping!? OP should just cut them off and spend however long they have left with people who make them happy and feel good❤️❤️❤️❤️ 3rd story: the husband is a *king!* The 'friends' have no right to say such things. Your SO is supposed to be your immediate support system. You are each other's rocks❤️❤️ Have a good day/night everyone and stay hydrated lovelies❤️

[@Kyutie.]

well said!! i cannot agree more!!

[@roserain7034]

Forreal. The irony when everything they said to her is literally them b*tching, whining and crying over a trip. Her husband did great! Who wants to go on a trip with people who are shit talking you? She should never let these people guilt her. Better find some new friends who will get along with her family well not being two faced.

[@cuteghost5368]

Real friends don't go around talking bad stuff about your kids and you. Not even as a joke, which was clear they weren't joking. They were 'joking' cuz they got caught and, OH WOW! LOOK! IN THE HORIZON! IS THAT.... *THE CONSEQUENCES FOR THEIR ACTIONS?*

[@channie7679]

The friends insult OP for marrying a rich man and expect OP's rich husband to pay for their vacation because they failed to marry a rich man? Sounds like jealousy to me lmao

[@sha78962]

Definitely jealous, it's coming from the sister too !

[@loosilu]

I actually agree with OP's siter. The friends are horrible. But if women are having a problem with friends, it looks bad if their husband steps in. She should have said something to them first.

[@channie7679]

@@loosilu however, the friend's are talking about the husband's child as well. Not to forget that the husband is the one paying for the vacations of the friends' families. Why should he not be allowed to talk when he's involved in the situation. If the husband is able to stand up for his wife and child, that's great. She should stand up for herself, sure. But if she's unable to, for whatever reason, that doesn't mean her loved ones shouldn't step in.

[@sha78962]

@@channie7679 very well said , I think op did right telling her husband first because they were directly insulting her behind her back and if op confronted they would just brush it off as a joke and that op is too sensitive.

[@Silencer796]

@@sha78962 excuse me? Too sensitive? What if someone insulted you and your child? Huh? Tell me how you would react? So having feelings is sensitive? Emotions are suddenly sensitive?

[@jacksonstorm13]

When my father passed away we had to do his funeral without any help from my father's own family. We didn't expect them to pay for the funeral or anything but they didn't help around during the funeral with anything they just came, sat around like it was a normal day and cried only during the funeral to show as if they cared. His own brother told us not to buy the coffin box for the funeral and kept ordering my mom to give him food and stuff even though my mom was devastated that her husband passed away. I literally hate them with all my gut and never talked to them since that day.

[@random20000]

omg I am so sorry for your mom and your loss, your uncle is so heartless, I understand that not all familys are close so they might not care too much about someone's death but in this case its just straight up rude and heartless to order food from someone on the day of their so funeral, I hope your uncle comes to his senses and apologises to your mom I had a similar situation, my grandpa passed away a few months ago and my cousin brother was giving orders to our grandma (grandpa's wife) to bring food for him??? my grandma is old and cant walk, she needs a wheel chair to go anywhere, and despite knowing that + knowing about grandpa's death he still commanded her to bring him food was so ??????????? I can't believe him, in the end his mother gave him food and nobody said anything

[@dannythekingofchaosandkitt4892]

I'm so sorry to hear that. Good for you to cut them out. They don't deserve your or your moms' time. Hope you both doing well.

[@indiechick05]

I am so shocked at that second one. I just recently lost my grandpa to a rare cancer. Not one of my family members reacted that way when we learned of his diagnosis 2 years ago. These people will regret so much if she doesn't survive and they don't apologize. I really hope she does survive though.

[@KellyBKuhns41803]

Cancer is such a sensitive topic for me. These Cancer stories made me sad, and mad, especially the second story. I would give anything to have my family members back that I've lost to Cancer, especially my Grandpa. That family is so wrong for what they did, and I hope they regret the way they treated her for the rest of their lives.

[@honeybeethehybrid9516]

Its so sad :(( cancer always has and will be a sensetive topic to me. never lost a relative to cancer, but so many others die form it. the thought of people dying makes me so sad. i have a fear that while im out in the world, living my normal life people are in pain and dying. but the fact they they said she was being selfish, and trying to guilt trip them, THAT IS *SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WRONG!* they clearly dont care about her AT ALL!

[@Scarlett.Granger]

Gosh whats wrong with the second family?! Oh I'm so sorry dear family that my DEADLY ILLNESS comes at an inappropriate time for you, why don't we see if i can reschedule my SUFFERING so you can fawn about your new baby without any cares? Hell no, Shame on them.

[@almi8151]

Imagine finding out your mother announced she was pregnant with you to divert attention away from your dying aunt... Wtf

[@jansmith1226]

First story: Yes, because he is heartless for celebrating his OWN birthday. And it’s not like they threw a huge party. And just because his sister is miserable (she has a right to be) doesn’t mean he can’t try to be happy. Second story: ummm... WTF, so somebody in your family is dying and when they tell you your just going to sit there and not say anything, BUT then congratulate someone else when they announce something? What? I understand not knowing what to say because it’s shocking and you need time to process, but they could’ve given her a hug or something, just show that they care. And the sister in law definitely needs to apologize, she could’ve announced that at another time, or could’ve waited a bit and then asked “Hey, can I announce some good news?” Or something like that. And what the hell is “Typical sibling.” Like, I didn’t realize having cancer was a trend. And how is it awkward. It’s not awkward, why was the family like “you’re so weird for having cancer.” Like, what? She should just cut them out of her life. Life the rest of her life happily and her family can regret that they never supported her after. This makes me mad because they have so much time. She might not even live five years and they’re like “whatever, your sister in law is having a child, that more important than you.” Like, shut up Third story: This just makes me mad. Like they were sh*t talking about her and her son and then they’re like “No, it’s a joke we were just joking.” And if someone said “oh wait, are you going to cry to your husband again?” I would just be like “yes, exactly how you’re crying to me.” Because they were honestly just crying to her because they wanted to go on the trip. And I don’t think she was crying to her husband. I didn’t realize that you weren’t allowed to tell your partner that your so called “friends” were sh*t talking on you and your son. Like, that’s just talking. I just don’t get why they (sister included) think that telling your partner about things is crying? Like, are you not supposed to tell your partner about things? But they’re probably just saying that because what she’s saying is true and it makes them look bad.

[@jenniferagu6590]

For the third story - you never take the piss out of other people's children! You can shit talk your own children, but never someone else's kid

[@philraymond2543]

My grandmother was laid to rest on my sister's 21st birthday. Sad day all around. BUT, rather than make it even worse for my sister, we had a huge birthday party with the whole family because everyone was already there. We made a good memory and no one was harmed. It's called taking lemons and making lemonade. Don't wallow in your sorrows, especially if you are going to drag others down with you.

[@sparkyblue7016]

Wow, I can't imagine the hurt the op must be feeling in the second story. I mean I'd cut off everyone, like she's about to die and they have the nerve to call her a typical youngest sibling and not care about her? Like does she not mean anything. I'd go far as barring them from coming to my funeral.

[@Loaves_of_Cat]

In the last story, op should tell those two’s husband instead and just tell them straight up that if they look down on op being married to a rich man, y do they even want to hang out with someone like her? If *they* wanted money that much, *they* should’ve married into riches like her though it’ll probably be pretty hard considering how ugly they are.

[@Kyutie.]

HAHAHAHA the last sentence has me ded

[@hhgnggnjngnmnnh5291]

i learned today that my grandma’s cancer came back. hours before that news, i found out that a friend of mine who moved away a few years ago (we rode the bus together in middle school, i’m graduating high school this year) also just got diagnosed. i can’t imagine treating a family member like that, just brushing it off. sounds like none of them have had to deal with cancer or any loss related to it. sickening.

[@priyamelbi7979]

To the girl in the second story: I hope you are doing well now and you have all the love and support you need from me. Don't think about anything in this world just live your remaining life to the fullest and you have an amazing boyfriend who is there for you as well. I wish you you all the happiness and wonderful things things this world can offer. You can do this 👍

[@B.K.S01]

1st Story: I mean I get it's a sad time but that doesn't mean you can't celebrate your birthday, so their not wrong. 2nd: the SIL should have waited until maybe you left or the next day but not right after you confessed about your cancer, but they are guilt tripping just a little bit. 3rd: Their in the wrong for insulting your son but you probably should have handled it with them face to face, then told your husband about it.

[@dannythekingofchaosandkitt4892]

OH boy. All of these made me SOOOO upset. Especially the last one. As someone who is finally diagnosed with ADHD after many years of being shamed by parents and brother ( especially mom), it hits harder than a truck. I hope all of them are doing better now without those shitty people around them.

[@abirail493]

My grandpa passed a few years ago the day before my father b-day we all still celebrated his b-day and always do. Ps everyone loved my grandpa

[@roserain7034]

The second story pissed me off so much that I genuinely wanted to pull the hair of her brother and sister in law at the same time. She is your sister and a daughter to her parents and none of them thought her news was more important? She might die within the next 5 years.... 💀disgusting is what y'all are

[@cadennemcdaris788]

I love you Kyutie :) Had a crappy day at school and this made it infinitely better.

[@Kyutie.]

awww :( hope you feel better!!

[@duaaouznali1176]

Same here

[@cadennemcdaris788]

@@Kyutie. I found out my big sibling is visiting so my day definitely got much better!! Ty!!

[@lunarialoonatic]

If I was the girl in the second family I would totally cut them off. I better not see them crawling to me when I’m about to die bc they wouldn’t there when I actually needed them. If I have little time left I’m going to spend it with the people that actually love me

[@storm6447]

the last story.. „oh now something troubled me and I told my husband! How awful of me! How dare I tell my husband about my feelings!!“ are these people for real?? There’s nothing wrong with talking to your significant other about your problems!

[@RMHB-N]

Hi Ellen, I am one of your silent subscribers. The first story was really close to my heart and what I've emotionally gone through. I'm a cancer survivor. And I have lost my younger brother & sister to this disease as well. So I know very well how she felt atm she shared her pain/fear. Not everyone of my family understood. Or wanted to understand what cancer meant. So I felt the pain on another level because I went through similar experiences. I still remember that I was flabbergasted & disgusted by the family that were to dumb to comprehend, that cancer isn't something you control. They told me that I should've taken better care of myself that this was something I should've been able to prevent. It's sick to think that something serious like cancer is something you can prevent, yes you can get treatment before you get really sick. I was lucky. I didn't get to the last ages. I was somewhere in the middle fase. I was often referred to as a ticking time bomb by my doctors, because we (me & siblings )had a very rare type of cancer. And if I had waited a little longer... I could've died because this cancer is very advanced when it starts... it's very difficult to kill once it's activated. And I still remember when I lost my super long hair... My hair was thick curly and extremely long. It was almost to my ankles. And I think that if you don't know how to react to something like that it's better that you don't say anything if you don't have anything positive to say to to me or anyone else with this disease. Because excuse me for my language but BEECH shut up!! And I also think not everyone has the brain ability and the mentality to understand what that word actually means for someone who's going through that hardship. I'm very blessed that I had the right people around me my mother and a few other family members. And even though not all of family members understood, some still helped with what they could do and that's all I ever could've asked for. And like I always say I don't expect anything from people because I have seen what expectations does to you but I'm still the same a person that loves unconditionally and I love all of you. Take much care of yourself Much love Mariam ♡~

[@breannesmith8580]

A partner's job is to protect their partner and stick up for them. Yes, it would've been nice if she had the courage to say something to them but knowing people like that they just would have gaslighted her. Good on the bhusband for sticking up for his wife. I swear some people never grow up and get out of that stage of being mean and bitter.

[@wizsunshine]

Ellen is amazing for reading these and discussing them calmly, i just get too mad at these

[@AikoLov3]

Been watching this girl ever since I was younger I am in 8th grade now WTH she’s still the same and so pretty 😭

[@Kyutie.]

awww, ur so sweet!!

[@AikoLov3]

@@Kyutie. thank you, you are too 😁💗

[@jenguiix]

The second one made me ANGRY! HOW DARE THEY THINKING IT WAS A PERFECT TIMING TO ANNOUNCE A PREGNANCY AND JUST ANNOUNCED YOU MAY DIE?! HORRIBLE YOU SHOULD BE TREATED RESPECT GUILT TRIPPING?? PROBABLY DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS YOU CAN DOE AND THEY SAID GETTING CANCER DOESN’T MEAN YOU CAN GET BE TREATED LIKE ROYALTY?! CANCER IS NOT A JOKE YOU SHOULD BE COMFORTING HER INSTEAD OF BEING ABOUT IT?! People are so so selfish! 😔

[@WarriorLionstripe]

4:23 I really hate saying this, but I guarantee that their family is going to start caring the moment things begin to get worse, and they *suddenly* value their time with them.

[@H0r53f7y]

Hope OP from the second story falls into the 40% that survive🙏💖! Also hope that regardless her family and SIL get karma (not the baby though, they're innocent🙏💖)

[@acecawley4311]

Dude I can’t believe Denise wants him to be miserable and he just wants a little loving, the gf is a g frfr

[@maniac745]

oh my god you were literally my childhood, watching your videos again made me feel better

[@Kiwi_Cat-mv6sp]

You're hair looks so good!

[@Kyutie.]

aww thank u~~

[@Kiwi_Cat-mv6sp]

@@Kyutie. of course

[@the_epicice_bear9524]

1st story: ;-; dang that sucks IT WAS HIS BIRTHDAY it’s not fair that they treated him like that for wanting to have fun on his special day. 2nd: That was like a horrible time to mention a baby, saying that it’s akward is not an excuse =/, trash fam. 3rd: Personally I think what an awesome husband! Secondly trash friends =/. Thx for reading! :>

[@go1d3n.nightmare]

With the 1st one he has every right to celebrate HIS birthday. Even if he did actually go out and celebrate with friends or whatever I still don’t see it as wrong. It’s the simple fact that he still took the time out of his day to be there for his sister. He still mourned with her and acknowledged what that day meant for her and their family. But that doesn’t mean he can’t go out later on without them and celebrate him. As crappy and heartbreaking as it is for his sister going through that loss, that does not mean his life has to be paused. I relate to that in a bit of a different way and it honestly infuriated me. I dated a guy in HS that was my best friend. After HS he joined the Air Force and we did long distance for 2 years. Upon coming back home one time he asked my parents for permission to marry me and got permission from his parents as well. Everyone was okay with it. He custom designed a beautiful ring for me and a week later he proposed to me. His mom was PISSED. She cussed me out and spread nasty lies about me to her sister and friends and blocked me. Told me I have no respect for her and I’ll never be part of her family. Bashed my now husband out for doing such a thing. And why TF was SHE angry when she was okay with it a week ago? Because inbetween the time my husband asked for permission and the day he proposed (literally a week) she had decided to get a divorce (for the 3rd time) with her current husband. She was furious saying she couldn’t believe we’d do something like that when she was going through that. You know what I said? Ma’am you were okay with this A WEEK AGO. And you know what else? As much as it sucks with going through a 3rd divorce, MY life and MY happiness WILL NOT be put on hold for you. I waited 2 fucking years of long distance to finally be back with my love. We’re gonna move forward with OUR relationship with or without you. I did NOT deserve to be treated like shit like that when I honestly had no part in any of it other than saying yes to her son. #ToxicMIL (after 3 years of dealing with her bs I’m completely cutting myself off from ties to her. She ain’t worth my time and my happiness especially if she has no respect for me or my husband because all she uses him for is for bragging rights that her son is in the military. Can’t even remember what rank he is and constantly calls him a “soldier” when he’s not in the damn Army. Air Force = Airman. If you’re gonna brag then at least know what the hell you’re bragging about).

[@chrollosforehead]

Thank you so much kyutie for bringing joy to my day, my older sister and I always watch your videos after she returns from work its become like a routine thing for years now you truly are a great person so thank you

[@watchingYoutube224]

The fact that she just told her family she might die of cancer and then her SIL someone who ain't even family that married into the family announces that she pregnant and everyone acts like THEIR DAUGHTER ain't DYING!!! That's f up! I'd be upset as well! I'd cut them off and won't talk to them ever again and if I'm lying on my death bed I'd tell the hospital to call them and tell them that they'll never see me again and that I hope they one day understand how they hurt me and that I forgive them but I'll never forget it! The guilt will eat them alive!!

[@hwariveee]

In the 2nd story it feels like they literally want her to die. What a family,wow

[@Xxxxvzfl]

I can relate a little to the first story. My grandpa died on my birthday last year and even tho none of my family kept me from celebrating my birthday this year, I still felt guilty knowing that I’m celebrating on my grandpa’s death anniversary:(

[@sophiaisabelle01]

Hi Kyutie. I hope you’re having an amazing day or night wherever you are currently. Your content has been one of the best I’ve encountered in a long time. Cheers to doing more content.

[@Nicholaspimpinsohard]

How are you doing my friend? How are you feeling? First off, his girlfriend was the one who threw him a nice little intimate birthday celebration because he probably didn't even want to celebrate. Secondly, that was also his nephew so of course he's grieving too. His mom and sister got some nerve to think that he isn't grieving. In this second story, her family can go straight to hell for that. They should've rushed to her side and started consoling her instead of the brother's wife. In the third story, those are just some very cruel and mean women disrespecting her son like that just because he had ADHD. I am at least happy that she finally found out the truth about how they really feel about her. Honestly, a year is nothing I thought that she was going to say five or six years. I love you Kyutie!! Stay safe!!

[@Nates_anime_artwork_yt76]

Thank you for making my day Ellen with your awesome content. Lysm✊️❤️‍🔥🌸

[@Nates_anime_artwork_yt76]

@Ba Gawk yes they are so precious😆

[@autisticdancer]

FINALLY SOME STORIES WHERE THE SO’s AREN’T PIECES OF TRASH!

[@juliebiggerbear7300]

The first story is some thing that my family knows about to the certain extent. My brother was born in the 70s, on September 11. We almost forgot his birthday that day in 2001, and when I did remember and called him, I couldn’t wish him a happy birthday. I told him I wanted to but today was so sad, and he totally understood.

[@karaelzexceed666]

lol the sister was like "yeah, anyways..."

[@meloetta7157]

Yeah, your hair looks so pretty! Love you and you doggie!!

[@krystalirvine5171]

My family lost my one uncle in 2004 and as sad as it is in 2012 we welcomed a beautiful girl (my sister) into the world on the Uncle's day he passed.... we've silently mourned the loss and remember him everyday but as my mom says "someone will pass on everyday of the year so just celebrate the days as best you can" so I can understand where the guy in story one is coming from you wanna remember the nephew but also lowkey celebrate your own day too

[@andrewvega5567]

The thumbnail omg, they would get these hands✊👊💥💨🤸‍♂️

[@dhy5342]

first story - the biggest problem is that people think that EVERYTHING has to be shared on the internet. Spoiler alert - some things should just be kept to yourself.

[@diasuresh1133]

I honestly cried for the lady with cancer. Man what kind of family is that. Now what will happens If she dies. They gonna shed crocodile tears. Cancer shouldn't be taken so lightly

[@WittyRoseKoi]

Thanks kyutie I’m a huge fan of you

[@Dreamingtothestars89]

I tell my husband EVERYTHING! The good, the bad, and the ugly.

[@momouwu1937]

I think people need to realise that those alive should be prioritized over those already dead or unborn yet. They are breathing human beings with feelings.

[@aspiring_pilot]

In the last story, avoid such worthless friends . You're not weak,it's ok to tell your husband stuff coz he's your husband bruh

[@qbbi]

Happy birthday J S! 🎂🎉🎊🎁🥳

[@js8303]

Thank you so much bee brain!! (love your user btw 😁)

[@breannesmith8580]

The first story reminds me of my birthday and how it's a little tainted now 😢. Four years ago one of my close male friends died in a motorcycle accident 2 days before my birthday and then 2 years ago on my birthday my favorite basketball player died but when my birthday rolls around each year I still try to have fun and celebrate because I know that's what my friend would have wanted..he wouldn't have wanted me to be sad the rest of my life when he was such a positive happy person.

[@MissYurikoSenpai]

For the cancer one: I would have lost my shit. I'd be like "So a 3rd child is more important than you're OWN blood related daughter slowly dying to cancer? That's beyond disrespectful and honestly quite disgusting. If this is how I'm going to be treated after basically announcing my slow pace death then y'all can kindly piss off." I would then begin writing my will, nothing will go to anyone but my boyfriend or to those in need (clothes, etc) I'll set rules to my funeral where my family is not allowed to attend because I don't have a family besides my boyfriend and his family. They didn't care then, they don't care now.

[@DailyThingsInSCPFoundation]

same I would do that too

[@richardcao8195]

1. NTA, but I can understand why OP's nephew passed away. Birthdays are supposed to be a best day ever, but why the anniversary of it on OP's birthday? OP's gf did something grateful for him, only cause family drama? 2. NTA, why don't the whole family support her when she's having cancer? I hope OP gets the support from her in-laws. Getting cancer isn't the way to getting attention 3. NTA, just because they're joking doesn't mean they have to hurt them, and OP has the right to cry to her husband over insults on her son who has been struggling at school! If you don't like my opinion, I'd. I do, thx!

[@yowatt3279]

For the first story, you really don't get to choose the death anniversary. It just happens to be the death date of the nephew.

[@JustAPerson64]

What does NTA stands for?

[@richardcao8195]

@@JustAPerson64 not the a-hole

[@Tytan626]

Not the asshole

[@betsysanders4524]

My cousin passed away this year on Cousin’s Day, also our niece’s birthday. In our culture, it is also traditionally important for a memorial prayer service, novena do be done 40 days after the death, which actually falls on his birthday. It will be a difficult memorial.

[@rudeTXTmoa]

Kyutie I love youuu I been watching since the Come Over Nick game or whatever it was called, still love you!!!

[@shyanne9344]

last story: she wasnt in the wrong for being upset at all, no questions asked. i think it would have been a sweeter revenge tactic if she audio recorded it on her phone, brought it up at the end of the night, and if it was denied play the recording and then told them to get the hell out of her life, sounds fun watching people deterioriate as they keep trying to lie their way out of trouble

[@gamergirlmimi263]

Oh my god here come the tears 🥺🥺🥺

[@Nkivvxi]

Omg these stories made me sooo mad. Now you know their true colors of these people smfh

[@T_Cup]

1st story: As sad as the nephew's death was, it should've been a lesson to celebrate life and the living more. 2nd story: They're insensitive and are only considering their feelings regarding someone else's news, not even caring that it's not just a story, this is someone's literal life. Hope the person cuts them all out and enjoys their last years, leaving the family with long-time regrets. 3rd story: Good riddance, thank them for taking off their masks and showing how ugly jealousy can be, then forget they exist.

[@bernice9828]

all of these stories are just so sad what the heck :(((

[@lysanderstan9234]

Listen, Ik the loss of that small boy (from 1st story) can be painful but there is no use not letting a person celebrate their bday just bcuz your son died... Lets love the people around us while we still have them.... Gosh ppl use your brains

[@littlered8060]

That's sad that everyone gets big birthdays but this guy can't even have a private dinner

[@Yer_blue_angel]

First story, wtf man. I’ve lost many people and animals, it’s not like we spend the whole day crying about it. I’m sure they wouldn’t want us to be upset, so instead we get together and go to dinner at their favorite restaurant and watch a movie. Happy things like that. I can’t imagine telling someone they can’t celebrate their birthday just because someone died that day. People die on birthdays all the time but it’s not like you just won’t celebrate because someone else is grieving.

[@shontaysmith9268]

To the woman who has cancer, first of all I'm sorry and I hope you get better ASAP. Second of all keep every message and voicemail so you can use them to call your family out later

[@TheCatMomma]

Last story. Your husband is your life partner, your mate, your lover, your touch stone. F the others.. Wait. Don't. You might catch a "social disease."

[@yumi_cloud]

That second story was just so awful how could the family be so heartless?! She's literally going to die and they are calling her selfish?! Even if i wasn't on good terms with someone I would still care if they announced such heartbreaking news! I would delete their stupid group chat and ghost them forever they don't deserve her

[@bayonettaswig]

Damn, I completely forgot about you, you were one of my fave childhood youtubers 😭😭

[@solargomez2490]

I was devastated today as I humiliated myself at my own job by accidentally hitting someone while bringing the pager basket back and I ran into the bathroom and cried my eyes out for an hour straight

[@keerthanasrinath5251]

Oh no! Don’t feel down. It was an accident and just hope you apologized! Don’t worry about it.. things like that happen all the time.. have a lovely day/night!!!! ♥️

[@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou]

You know what? It was an accident. Guaranteed this will no longer matter next week. No one will remember, it’s all in your head, don’t worry too much. Mistakes and humiliation make us human. Don’t stress about it, you didn’t mean it.

[@roserain7034]

I'm sure you apologized? If you didn't, muster up some courage to do. Most people know it's an accident and nobody will care as long as you apologized.

[@senoir.]

If I were the second person I'd genuinely start crying after all of that :(

[@Hana-vh1om]

I need a link to these cause I wanna see if the comments are advising these people to cut off the families cause wtf. Especially the second story. They are awful. She shouldn't be dealing with such while coping with cancer

[@poorna8409]

I'm happy that the partners atleast had their backs...

[@karasanchez9720]

Hii Ellen sorry I'm late the video was amazing and hope that you and coco stay healthy and coco is adorable but I just got some bad news that i tested positive for COVID it sucks but I'll pish through it love y'all 💜💜💜

[@alisonsmith7162]

Yeh, no...'behaving like the youngest child' doesn't normally involve dying first at a young age.

[@btjhlp]

I love your sweater Ellen!

[@atransdragonwithaflamethro7255]

…. I should sleep now. But I’m not going to.

[@lee-hy7vs]

YO I USED TO WATCH U EVERYDAY WHEN I WAS A KID I LOVE YOU

[@aaliyahst]

I am shook! Hearing you curse is giving me life🫣🤣

[@fadeddescent]

i hope u guys have a good day!!

[@amateurflor13]

i saw the thumbnail and didn't even know what to say

[@Kyutie.]

:(

[@dd3056]

I normally don’t comment on these videos but these stories made me a lot more angry than they usually do

[@CatLoverX74]

Yeah handled it herself by slapping the taste out their mouths!! 😂 Her husband is a good man and he was right, bitter mean girls is what they are! She was not wrong telling her husband he wanted to know what was wrong they’re just mad they’re not getting free vacation off of em 😑 Hope she never talks to them again!

[@justaydontstray2002]

Damn the second family, I never wanted to slap someone so bad

[@dodgyyoutuber9560]

Man Cancer OP should rewrite her will IMMIEDIATELY.

[@ihavetwoturtles8166]

About the 2nd story: they obviously don't care about you girl cut them off

[@金色子供]

This stuff was heavy

[@imaddictedtoizzes]

i just realized her name is ellen...

[@AK-vj3oi]

The first one was wrong tbh NTA, okay sure the nephew passing away was a bit tragic but like it's his birthday what do they expect? I mean they probably all know he's also sad and it's not like he threw such a big party either on top of that if he refused the surprise that would also be messed up so I don't really know why it's his fault when everyone is obviously in pain

[@mariamelmy]

Gosh aren’t I thankful that the second story’s family is not mine wth

[@mani._0239]

the thumbnail made me so sad