Older Single Women in China Struggle to Marry！Matchmaking agencies reject women over 36！

[@teamvjmckblah1436]

Just imagine a poor man who is 4 foot 11 saying he wants only a Victora Secret model just because he used to be rich.

[@JohnDoe-qh5xg]

Nice analogy 🙌

[@briansantosa8079]

The analogy is hard even for men. But still funny 😂😂😂

[@pauldwalker]

sounds reasonable to me. also, you should allow for him to be an extra 200lbs overweight.

[@alaypatel6050]

Date he 😂😂😂

[@luckywong2840]

Women in china at the age time for women is begin of live 36 to 45 there are the princess live in china like wise in us men begin there are..

[@jimmypark3224]

The woman who kept talking about how beautiful she is = completely delusional.

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

you mean the one at 10:30 ? hasn't bought new clothes in 15 years? Wow ! what a catch ! wonder what she looks like without the filters ?

[@MukadisAymen-ui8fy]

I really don't understand this women men have been telling them what we look in a woman one of those qualities it's not your PHD or master's degrees and your money this women just don't listen 👂🏼👂🏼👂🏼 I don't know why 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@markuchiha7737]

Old beauty bro but intertile.

[@joreladams5719]

She is thu... not through, THU!.....like old school black folks say.

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

@@MukadisAymen-ui8fy it is because they don't ask a man. but they ask each other. PhD's, and dying their hair some weird color, getting perms done.......you can judge how frigid a woman is by how small her curls are. while gals at the beauty salon assure her that it looks great ! Meanwhile, I want an in-country woman that knows 3 things: 1>rice patty 2.kitchen 3>he good man

[@Nomad-XA]

They want men with money to buy old vegetables when he can afford fresh 😂

[@RenakoAmaori]

Nice one 👍

[@chl8302]

Best comment!

[@chl8302]

Best comment

[@shanesmith5198]

Brutal😂😂

[@akshaysali007]

😂😂

[@sharkl11]

over 35 with extreme high standards = single for life

[@surajkolhe8268]

Hi

[@batman3217]

Over 25+ For me. 🤣

[@ivanlarin86]

And that's really good!

[@kaiserpuppydog7174]

If they lower their standard, pity the man who marries them because he will be reminded of that daily.

[@F510C]

Means time to get some cats or dogs.

[@havoc23]

saying "a beautiful girl like me" makes her look less attractive instantly

[@keithadams2368]

100%

[@wongcheephang5452]

I think she has no mirror in her house😂🤣

[@F510C]

Even with beauty filters they look average at best...without filters one can only imagine what they really look like.

[@blackbelt2000]

her voice alone was enough to make me run away

[@Dilley_G45]

Wanna see all those ladies WITHOUT filters.

[@pastapomodoro9106]

The moment someone says, "I am a high-quality person," run! It's a red flag. Both men and women, run!

[@giornogiovanni5655]

Usually, someone is high-quality when others are able to recognize their quality, not because they self-declare it. These mid-30s women need to try Western democracies, where they can find a sucker to marry them.

[@jonvicmamon2529]

Women talk in reverse remember that it old but gold

[@khokhosh]

What they really mean is 'I use high quality filters'.

[@Flamechr]

She is desperate

[@mikeg3439]

High quality is displayed, not asserted, I agree. No one would glance at me and think "high value". I get invited to companies to analyze them and work out multi-departmental plans to succeed. My success rate is 100% (Success = the company increases profit more in one year than they paid me, AND they maintain it for at least two additional years, giving them a minimum 3X ROI from hiring me). I am quiet usually, I listen and observe more than I speak. I shop for clothes at Costco, I drive a Chevy Bolt EUV. I live in a 3500 square foot house with my wife and two dogs, in a gated community, my back yard looks out over fairway 6 of a PGA golf course in So-Cal. I got to Europe with the wife once a year, first class all the way. I only tell you this because I'm nobody on YT :O). I don't say anything about any of this on FB. I even had a friend once say "only poor people like us would even understand this" and I was proud of it (and I did not bother to correct them of course).

[@jonc718]

You can never fixed entitlement issues

[@LordHollow]

Not ever.

[@giornogiovanni5655]

Only harsh reality can, when it is too late.

[@BO-mb8rr]

You can't fix stupid or women.

[@billyjaya7542]

I understand why most of the men avoid women over 30

[@chuachua-hj9zd]

Y

[@anthonyju6392]

@@chuachua-hj9zd We will give you a hint. While age is a factor, age is the least of these women's concerns in finding a husband.

[@bs8350]

They are in a rush for a baby? Very frustrating

[@VonGoldfinger]

These women want to cash out the game while you get nothing in return.

[@clam4597]

All women will become over 30, even the married young ones.

[@asolaris6470]

Pay attention, if a w0man CONSTANTLY gives EXCUSES for not meeting up, then you MUST AVOID her like a plague. Remember: NEVER, EVER, trust their WORDS, TRUST their ACTIONS.

[@jimnjele.bean-dayone3505]

T R U T H

[@mikeg3439]

Yep, you are in reserve for when they are bored and want a free restaurant meal, nothing more.

[@chethaynes5802]

You are Dead On !

[@stevec3526]

High Quality women can easily get a boyfriend, or find a husband. When they describe themselves they sound like they are describing a successful MAN. Men want feminine, supportive, submissive women.

[@Arejen03]

These man will date woman half her age lol

[@starspaceschool587]

There are millions more men than woman in China. If millions of men choose being single over being with you then you would think you would look inward and change.

[@mrxiong2567]

Near 40 and still picky? She waiting for a grandpa-husband?

[@hv3115]

But she refuses to be with an older, balding man.

[@Redjoker96]

@@hv3115 Meanwhile she herself is losing hair as she gets even older.

[@caryandrae9952]

She still waiting for some young handsome rich man to take her😂

[@kito1san]

As long as they have money and wealth. Age is nothing to them.

[@lkhbhydroponic6858]

Even 50s have their delusional demand as well .

[@mstp14]

That 36yo woman really gave him the “for loop”. For “each interaction” 1- Him: pick a date and place. 2- Her: any time, any place 3- Him: This time and this place 4- Her: Both will not work 5- Him: then, (loop to step 1) If you are a programmer you would understand the joke.

[@DD2799]

😂😂😂 yes the looping condition

[@psychronic8327]

More like a while loop that doesn't have an exit clause

[@cacildeasa]

More like while=TRUE, because she can't be satisfied with anything and won't take iniciative.

[@見義]

I think she did not find him suitable for some unstated reason and started that loop to make him drop out. It would have been simpler for everybody if she rejected him outright and avoid all the aggravation. For sure, the matchmaker will not propose any other candidate and terminate her as a client.

[@squ34ky]

The loop wasn't infinite, but had a high iteration count. In fact, it was a test of his persistence which he failed. She was trying to test his sincerity with the loop.

[@NewNew-cp7wn]

That woman calling herself beautiful and high quality over and over needs to have a more clear serious look in the mirror

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

They wont' judge themselves, yet loves to judge others. That is why they are argue, saying those handsome, tall and successful men dont want them. They are playing the victim, saying, men are to be blamed. They say, why wont high quality men, want high quality women. They beleive they are perfect match. They clearly do not understand men. THey only know how to demand and demand.

[@geneoakley]

With some makeup and dress up, she can look above average. Her real problems are 1. She's almost hitting the wall. Most men with qualities she seeks also wanna have children, and want a good mother, which leads us to no.2... 2. Bitch is a narcissist. She keeps repeating how beautiful she is because deep down, she knows that looks are the only thing she can offer to a relationship.

[@hortehighwind8651]

for real, she giving off real weird vibes.

[@hyperteleXii]

If all the mirror navel-gazing hasn't clicked yet, I don't think more of it will do it for her 😂

[@halleffect5439]

My last date asked me if she looked like 16. That was a 30 yo woman, which is a dentist. I told her, she looked mid 20s, which she did. And i didnt dated her for looking young or so, but life skills. But she repeadetly asked me, if she looks like 16....

[@ASLAGL]

Dating in 2024 is like going to a Junkyard 2.0 everything is used beyond repair

[@Temboz]

Lmao😂😂

[@MrHwilRRR]

Jesus Christ... hahahaha. 😂

[@rustyt115]

Sold as is

[@namelesssomebody2557]

Leftover women. Be honest.

[@EB-jf5oi]

There are lots of men they could couple with, but they want a certain level of man

[@Labyrinth6000]

They’re better off getting married after high school and not going to college. No man ever has looked at a woman and be like, “WOW! Look at dat Masters degree!” 😂

[@blume0121]

Well, in Germany are many men who would not date a woman without university degree. They are very proud and thats one of their expectations

[@user-yb6tk1ru6x]

These women live in China and the advice of not going to college is sound for Chinese women. Chinese culture focuses on traditional gender roles in marriage e.g. women produce, raise children. That's their main role. In Western cultures that are not obsessed with babies, these women would be seen as catches.

[@MrFreeman0179]

​@@blume0121Bis jetzt bin ich noch keinem Mann begegnet, der in Gegenwart seiner männlichen Arbeitskollegen/Freunde etc. mit dem Doktortitel/Uni-Abschluss seiner Freundin/Ehefrau andere Männer geprahlt hat. Hingegen gibt es genug Professoren, die entweder ihre Sekretärin, die Krankenschwester, Sprechstundenhilfe oder die Putzfrau geheiratet haben.

[@MrFreeman0179]

​@@blume0121Mir sind nur wenige Akademikerinnen (Grossverdienerinnen) bekannt, die mit einem Handwerker glücklich verheiratet sind. Hypergame Ehen sind deutlich weiter verbreitet als hypogame.

[@blume0121]

@@MrFreeman0179 Also ich bin schon mehreren Männern begegnet die mit ihrer Frau geprahlt habe weil diese z.B. Germanistik studiert hat und Kinderbücher veröffentlicht. Oder eine andere hat mit Wein gehandelt und Seminare gegeben, wodurch sie in der Community beinah wie ne kleine Berühmtheit war. Wurd auch mit angegeben das sie in teure Restaurants geht, weil sie es sich ja leisten kann

[@wolfganghuhn7747]

Telling us 20 times, that you are beautiful is not making it happen

[@lizxu322]

That was quite self centred of her

[@jhfearon1052]

Completely separated from reality. Her other qualities were admirable, to be sure, but to also declare herself a stunning beauty (repeatedly) makes her look mentally unsound. If she wants to know what true Chinese beauty is, she would do well to search images of Liu Yifei or Shu Qi (who are about her age or older.)

[@nerdlingpodcast5639]

50% or more of these women are to heavy on the filters, it is laughable

[@drcggj]

It’s chronically a problem in China. You don’t know what a Chinese girl looks like until you meet her in person.

[@jewii3824]

It's sad and pathetic that they can't even stand their own face and need layers and layers of filters (on top of makeup) to feel secure enough to show their face online

[@khokhosh]

I think that's what they're referring to when mentioning 'High quality'.

[@Kyle-u8e]

They aren't wearing their glasses and can't see how unrealistic it looks.

[@caalawyer9599]

Look for a woman who wants to be a wife not a woman who is looking for a husband.

[@BryanKeith01]

It’s not just the age of single 35+ year old women, it’s the attitude and delusion that comes with it!

[@SingaporeUntold]

And trust me. They are either lying or lying to themselves that they will do traditional housewife work.

[@Jaco3688]

Once a woman is set in her ways, it’s “game over”

[@Chronoic]

These matchmaking agencies are learning what us men go through with woman. How many time I have ask a GF "Are you hungry, and where do you want to eat" for her to say "Yes, anywhere is fine". Then I proceed to take her to a certain place and she rejects all the location we goto, and end up driving around for a hours, till we finally find a place she wants to goto. When all she had to do was just tell me that place at the start. Mind games these woman play.

[@retno.s.wibowo]

They just enjoy your pursuit. Left them alone. Don't waste your time. A woman that really serious to make a relationship will tell you where and what she want to eat to examine your reaction. and when she said up to you she isn't complain and just follow because she will use that to examine your preference of place or what food you like. Woman who accepted to complain where you bring them to eat is only your wife, and the best complain is since the resto you choose is too expensive and she think it's better to cook and eat at home to save money 😂😂😂

[@aidoist]

Nah bruh, every car I own is a V8 lol, gas cost too much, I’ll eat, she can watch haha

[@jasmines.6325]

Decision fatigue is a thing, or maybe she just wanted to spend time with you

[@garfield2742]

Legend said if a man can decipher the answer if that sacred question to woman. He will be the greatest King of the World. But Bible also teach us the other way. If a man let the women dictate what we should eat , he will be cursed forever

[@dannylo5875]

Just ask her if she wants a particular type.

[@kobemamba4641]

Guys , find a woman who will stay with you even if you are broke. She's a treasure so work hard and cherish her.

[@sschneider8568]

What the difference between a progressive white woman and and a progressive Chinese woman- nothing, lmao

[@anthonywatson2318]

Progressive Black women (in the US) are much, much worst! They take entitlement to a much higher level!

[@polysporin8332]

In todays China 1st tier cities, Chinese women have become more greedy, and cunning than western women.

[@pauldwalker]

ethnicity?

[@jimnjele.bean-dayone3505]

T R U T H

[@lhw.iAviation]

The difference is Chinese Matchmaking agencies decided that Progressive Chinese Women ain’t worth scamming anymore…😂😂😂 You can still scam a Progressive White Woman 🎉

[@rcnightlife9611]

I found a wife that will stay with me even though I am just getting by. Priceless.

[@JoeShenanigans]

Congratulations.

[@Incog05]

U won this life

[@jimnjele.bean-dayone3505]

Damm....luck son of a ....Does she have a sister ???

[@samuellu7610]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣fkn ded lmfao

[@navyman4]

Does she have sisters, aunts, or nieces? Do they like black men???? You won the lottery! You are living the dream we all wish we had brother!

[@Follow.Jesus.Christ]

Men don’t care how much money you earn or what degree you have, what we care about is if you can be a good loving wife, give us some kids and make us happy, not make our lives hell.

[@jimnjele.bean-dayone3505]

T R U T H

[@klkh2002]

That is so well put

[@rustyt115]

They don’t teach that in college unfortunately

[@bert8373]

Unrealistic standards by these single,leftover women😮😮

[@bert8373]

By the time they reach 40,Adios!!

[@keithadams2368]

@@bert8373 They have been westernized😅

[@ninjainnameonly-6902]

@@keithadams2368 it's not Europeans controlling the media.

[@moonlambo5229]

Ooohh a new China channel. SUBBED! Thanks for the great video.

[@jarrodwilson2382]

Not one of these women ever mentioned the word love an marriage To them marriage is a business transaction which they want to benefit from

[@CharlieWingate1]

If that woman is so beautiful and a good catch, then why is she still single at 38 years old?

[@Arejen03]

Chased career in her 20s thinking that will make her high value woman in her 30s. Delusional

[@lizxu322]

​@Arejen03 not even that. She's literally narcissistic. She's crazy. Men can sniff that out.

[@nealcaffrey4432]

agreed

[@yokanshree4621]

And also she is picky and also after that time most of them is not virgin

[@graphicsgaurav]

For Chinese they are average looking women!

[@poodlescone9700]

That first example was nuts. It is women like that that ruin the dating scene for every other woman.

[@nickbellomo3362]

This channel is the best for entertainment of dalulu

[@JF-vw9lv]

If you are 36 y/o, that means you have been dating as an adult for 18 years. During your peak years of physical attractiveness 18 - 25...not one tall, rich guy took you off the dating market? Now you're 11 years past your prime physical attractiveness years and you still have the same demands? Add to the fact you are now at higher risk for infertility compared to women younger than you. Your 36 y/o male counterpart...the one you ignored when you were younger. He now makes a decent income...why would he choose a 36 y/o woman over a 26 y/o especially if he wants kids?

[@andypaulocelli109]

Woman: because it's me! I'm special!..😂😂😂

[@ActiveAussie2024]

Yes, it's just basic biology. Men in their mid and even late 30 s want fertile, fit, and pretty gals, in early to mid 20 s, late 20 s maximum. The older women can still find men to marry them also, but not with the idiotic and unrealistic requirements and conditions they have. The realistic women, even the 40 year olds, they can still find men in late 40 s or early to mid 50 s, but not the gals with all that buy me a house and car crap

[@BlackPill-pu4vi]

The curse of too many choices. Wmmnn with too many choices will never pick one because she thinks the next thing will be better. Take away the choices and take away the special♀ rights and see how quickly sanity will return.

[@jimnjele.bean-dayone3505]

T R U T H

[@jasonanderson425]

Sounds like women on a dating site full of Chinese women. What's laughable is i can receive 100 messages a day... when I realized that they received a few... i made sure to tell every woman I replied too... a few started taking me serious... the rest pretended until I caught them still entertaining the next big thing. I wouldn't trust 99% of Chinese women.. love is business, love is status... you can make 20 times their income and they still thinking the next guy will make more. Women like this will leave if a better option comes along!

[@Oak__]

The 38 yr calling herself beautiful over and over was just plain sad. The delusion is real.

[@gekko505505505]

not sad. but disgusting, repelling

[@77loneranger]

It says a great deal when matchmakers turn down business.

[@Ahoooooooo]

They are looking for men who do not exist. It's a waste of time 😅

[@anatolyloegering547]

It's amazing the level of arrogance humans can aspire to. 😮

[@mikeg3439]

It's a newer thing. In Gen X, we were always surprised if we encountered it, and those who were like that were usually mocked or disliked.

[@gekko505505505]

*women

[@anthonyju6392]

These women are not truly desperate or anxious. Never feel pity for these women. When you hit rock bottom that usually elicits self reflection and eventual change and NONE of these women have hit that point yet. By feeling pity and showing these women kindness is just enabling their own entitlement issues and self delusion. Instead think about all the men who unalive themselves every year. NONE of these women are even close to that point so save your time and compassion for someone who really deserves it.

[@hv3115]

Yes, they are all single and unmarried by choice because of their unrealistic high standards.

[@jonvicmamon2529]

There friend are fake friends too. Not telling them the real hard truth on their face. I'm that type of guy. They may get angry at first but after a week month year they will be the most loyal friend I know hahah

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

Totally agree with the match maker's new business model.

[@leehongjin6884]

I think its a red flag if someone unironically calls themselves "high-quality" I mean, those who are truly high quality don't need to say it with their mouth. They may not even be aware they are "high quality"

[@Mappster]

Dating scene died as very soon as we began calling it dating market.. No longer feelings, just interests..

[@IOADESTOYER]

Im a 35+ woman, bachelor degree, high quality women = Im a homeless 18 year old man, no job but handsome top quality Men don't want women to settle or feel like settling. Women need to understand, no matter the story is, men are settling for you when getting married.

[@fialee8]

No, it's not hard to describe... you summed it up quite well. They are crazy.

[@TMM-N]

Girl on 10:00 minute is delusional “Beautiful like me”😂😂

[@lizxu322]

'girl' when she is 38... She would be a grandma 100 years ago

[@Amen7801]

All women are like that

[@JORGINHODONASCIMENTO]

I can see a lot of women with cats/dogs around but it's nothing compared to what I'll see in the future.

[@MrHwilRRR]

Hahaha.. and it's already pretty bad at present day 2024. Imagine 2030, 2035!

[@vincewhite5087]

Even with far more men then woman. The men are standing on business.

[@poodlescone9700]

The surplus Chinese men can find a wife in Central Asia, Russian Far East, South East Asia and North Korea. There is no need to compete for overpriced arrogant local women.

[@EB-jf5oi]

They want a certain level of men but it's unrealistic

[@grnt1976]

Not sure how it can be so difficult for women in China given demographics/large surplus of men. Maybe just overly greedy hypergamy. If women want to stand out, turn off the beauty-cam. Nobody likes a liar.

[@bs8350]

They are notoriously greedy. Rudely demanding it too. Stay away

[@poodlescone9700]

100% of women want the top 10% of men. These older women do not realize they priced themselves for failure. They are at a disadvantage with lower fertility and men do not care about their accomplishments. They also have a terrible arrogant attitude. The education, earnings, physical things and perceived confidence they consider as "high value" is of no value to men.

[@squ34ky]

It's basic supply and demand. There's an over-supply of men and an under-supply of women. Hence, they are in high demand and are able to set these unrealistic expectations.

[@bs8350]

​@@squ34kytherefore the men should see through all their lies and stop pursing those kinds of women. They will receive no attention and the market turns the other way. Don't tolerate women!

[@bs8350]

​​@@squ34kyI think that is why many religions teach self control to men. It isn't to take our fun away, but it is to moderate women's bad behavior because men are being too easy with giving up their cards.

[@samuelbonsu5863]

My Uncle used to say Son, who last married grama ( women from 35 to 50) will definitely going to be the one to buries her. Secondly, marring to old woman, its like buying a USED CARS WITH HIGHER MILEAGE. And just be ready to make friends with mechanics shops around your communities😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

[@tiendang7531]

Then some time later you bitterly realize that it’s not even worth paying for insurance as it is already higher than the actual value of the car……😂 dump it for the newer one straight out of the dealership with 3 year warranty

[@vaguincolombia]

Message to all old women in China: "The man that you are looking for, indeed, exist but the only problem is, that man is looking for a woman not older than 25".

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

The women that earns 600k RMB. How can see be a mother if she is 100% devoted to her work. Also, how can she have a child at that age. Unless both parties do not want children, which is rare in China. And she still dont understand why she is single? These Chinese women, do they have any understanding of men? The 38 yr old women, say she is beautiful. Yes, to her, she is. Bc her statment is her only. Men when knowing her true age, will NOT have the same opinion as her. She will never argue with her partner. This sounds like an ad show on tv...a big juicy burger, full of fries and nice cold drink, only to find the burger looks like shit, fries are cold and cola is flat. All these women say, they are a good catch/buy, just like ads on tv.

[@Talus-hallux1]

That man introduced to the girl by the first speaker could be the tallest in the whole of China! Average male height in China is 1.58! If true, as she said he was 1.78 tall, then it shines light on the unrealistic attitudes that Chinese women have about potential matches!

[@leefster1]

The average height for 19 years old male in China is 1.75m.

[@havoc23]

@@Talus-hallux1 no, can't be right. I would say average around 1,75 in the north and 1,65 in the south (men)

[@florianm9693]

@@havoc23 i think the average is skewed by older men who grew up in poorer conditions with worse access to high quality food impeding their growth. now that people have suitable nutrition the younger men are a lot taller than men from earlier generations

[@gurumeditation8911]

Why only post 1 of these "single women in China" videos a day? You should post one every hour, especially since each video brings so much news that is different from your previous 500 videos.

[@SuperNovaRider]

It's typically childish of women to state that "they are high quality women". As if that were for them to decide. They are incapable of understanding that it doesn't matter what they tell themselves or others about their "worth" or "quality". It's 100% up to the men to decide what he thinks about her. If she wants to date herself, sure, she can decide her own worth.

[@LuKaZz420]

So arrogant, “I’m high value, the most beautiful in the village, two MAs,”. No man has ever married because of your degree

[@peterhuang1431]

a girl after age of 28 shouldnt be trying to find a boyfriend when 18 - 27 is their BEST years and should NOT be rejecting every man they see, partying and taking their time

[@Chronoic]

Lets be honest, its not that woman in their 35+ are wrong for wanting men with all that standard, the issue is, men with those standard can get woman in their 20's and so why get an old cow when you can get a young cow. The demand for woman 35+ isn't there, and will never be there for men with those standards. The rule is always this. (1) For a woman, if your older you need to lower your standard, because your competition is against Younger, hotter, more fertile woman. (2) For a man, if you broker, your stand of a woman should be uglier woman, but most men kinda know this, and so they just go for any woman they can get. I'm in my 30's and I make around 100k a year (single Man), my family keeps trying to hook me up with this girl my age, and you know what they tell me? She has a PHD and is a Dentist... Why would I care about that? I have a buddy whos in his early 40's who is trying to get me to date woman in their 20's, in China because that who he dates and he makes alot less than me and I turn him down because I prefer to keep my money for me. But if I wanted to date, who's offer do you think I would take? Easy answer.

[@kaiserpuppydog7174]

I disagree about one thing. They are wrong having high standards at their age. They need to be reminded of it daily.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

These mature women wont lower their standard, as it is seen as losing face. When they lower their economic standard, they are thinking, what is the point of getting a master or PHd.

[@tiendang7531]

Rooster likes young hen 😂 biological imperative, look at all these old cranky demanding chicks. Also high quality men are not stupid, they tend to be very selective because they understand the financial risk of divorce & everything they stand to lose marrying a gold digger. Rest assured, Pride & Prejudice states the famous factual first line that high quality men all want wife & think about sex & procreation everyday. If they’re single for so long, the female pool is problematic.

[@flashlight5287]

Go to Thailand… those girls will suck the soul outta you for $50 usd.

[@polysporin8332]

yes men with those qualities don't want old cow. but old cow want men with those qualities. Two realities that don't match. Now you have many old cows. 🤣 Old cows are now a headache for the Government. 😱

[@maynotbe]

over 35 with degree, if men even bother talk to you, they can tell whether you're family oriented, family supportive within a few minutes of conversation. if you don't believe in traditional family structure. you will automatically be rejected.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

Family is number 1 in China. If the daughter who isn't married, the father/mother will lose face! Relative will criticism them, saying, how did you raise your daughter. So, the parents also feel pressure from their side of their family. When the daughter is 35 and still not married, family members will judge the mother and father, saying and thinking, you failed to raise your child well, if she is still single. SO, i totally understand the father's side. ANd he most likely wants grand children, which being single cant give to her parents. Failed!

[@tiendang7531]

Social taboo against single parents & children born out of wedlock. Also the housing registration system effectively prevents single people from having children. The Chinese shot themselves in the foot

[@jimbennett3788]

Material needs - house, car, huge dowry, big expensive wedding ceremony should NOT a priority in a married relationship. Compatibility - the willingness to work together for mutual benefits and happiness with each other is much more important. My wife and I are 74 and 73 years. Just celebrated our 42 wedding anniversary.

[@Dilley_G45]

Still going on about their degrees

[@Arejen03]

Yet the high value guy she wants will pick 18yo cute McDonalds cashier rather than her.

[@Alellas]

Hm. O.K. And how can I find the contact of the last one girl in the video? Wanna try my luck

[@Charvo75]

Men and women should have distinct roles in a marriage. These older, single women have too many overlapping traits with that of a traditional husband.

[@stream1entertainment]

I found my wife overseas and never been happier. Even though I'm just starting my life and it's difficult she's helping and is none judgemental. Couldn't ask for more.

[@franklopez-fw5fm]

I know a Chinese lady doctor, she spent 3 years in the US earning her PHD at cancer research center. 40s very nice. She told me when she returns to China, she feels no need to get married.

[@SingaporeUntold]

I have a similar friend. Her complaints would be people asking about her family or children which she has none

[@ActiveAussie2024]

That's fine, staying single into 40 s and helping people with cancer is a noble cause. If someone dedicates their life to that, good for them. It's the women who get to 45 and say "time for a husband and kids now" who are the delusional ones. And there are quite a few like that.

[@coinsadventurer]

yes no matter how old we are we could find a faith. however, seems face of 30 years old look like 40 years old, same 25 years old look 30yrs old plus.. man is no problem..stand still strong

[@jeffcee9457]

We men want younger girls under 25yrs no negotiation.

[@Reachland02]

I used to think the same. Some women look good in their 30s so the limit of girl I wanna date is under 35

[@jonvicmamon2529]

Date but not marry. Few of those 30 35 women are married material

[@ezioauditore5616]

Limit should be 28, because all those 30 plus rejects men

[@astralclub5964]

That guy dodged a bullet on that barren branch!

[@jstreets1983]

I’m still waiting to see this very beautiful woman that one delusional lady was talking about.

[@AzureBat]

"high quality wahman"🤮 Wahmen will ruin every word in the dictionary, before admitting fault😒

[@Incog05]

Good saying

[@suacm3223]

A high quality sheng nu is like a restaurant selling stale food. No matter how grand a restaurant maybe, no one eats stale food.

[@LordHollow]

Hasn't bought new clothes in 15 years, but she thinks she's high quality... Wow.

[@Shootingfoul]

She wants people to think she's someone that is modest and doesn't waste money. Little did she know, beauty is important to guys, she can't look pretty in old clothes.

[@HankChang]

old clothes not so much the issue... how she thinks she's more beautiful and quality than people perceive her to be (she mentioned it herself, can't compare to 18 yr olds).

[@Luminousplayer]

"to be honest i am indeed high quality" , no easy way down for this one folks...

[@mrjavascript]

I love this channel, everything cuts to the bone

[@harmony318]

"I'm a high standard women who is 35 year old single women. I am so beautiful that sometime i wonder why am i single yet." High standard, beautiful,...who decided that? You look down on your potential partners and judge them based on their physical and ecinomical attributes. If women have guts, they can handle the major financial responsibilities like men do and can marry a less earning men than them.

[@Mystyx-Sama]

Saying you're a "High-quality, older, single woman" is not a flex

[@guyguyver7552]

Its funny how I see over and over footage of the same women discussing very different topics in different videos...😂🤣😂🤣

[@BassClef-i4r]

😂😂😂

[@_JackNapier]

When your standards are superficial and materialistic, you will either* receive someone that views you as not important or an accesory and it also means your personality type is the exact opposite of someone that has a nice personality. It makes me sick how the common standards are the things that don't matter in a relationship.

[@michaelcalder9089]

Exactly...no passion or sense of humor or fun loving attitude Yuk. Everything only couched in terms of money about their delusional self.

[@msairs]

me being a single woman over 40 and cringing. lol. I've accepted that guys i like dont like me, and I'm just living my own life now.

[@philippeschilliger6636]

This is pathetic to hear that woman repeating she is beautiful...almost a ten whereas she is not even a three!

[@NeptuneKnives]

10:16 is she serious? Mentally ill?

[@Truth-and-freedom365]

In the west, there is this phrase called the wall. This basically means your prime is gone. Every single woman will hit it, because their looks, beauty, and fertility which is their most valuable assets to any man are finite. For men however they start at the wall as their most valuable asset to a woman is their ability to procure resources and this does not peak until they reach 35-55. So at the same time a woman's value is decreasing, a man the same age, his value is increasing. That being said, women have to ask themselves this question. Why when they rejected men in their 20s should those same men accept her in her 30s?

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

It depends as not all men want kids and you can be young and infertile too. Plus, with so many other options to have kids if you can afford it, some don’t worry about it as much.

[@djblame8954]

Empty egg cartons!!!

[@franciscolopez6031]

Dude, you nailed it !😂

[@reatcas]

10:00 These women are so out of touch that they go online like they're reading a resume that may match a man's list of requirements, but all those things you're quoting are just what's expected from you as a basic, and it is by no means a "highlight" and doesn't make you special or deserving of a man.

[@lencox2x296]

Most women heavily overestimate their fertility at the age ranges 35-39 and 40-44 and 45+. Where at 35 the fertility has dropped to 52% from 86% at 20, it keeps dropping event at faster rate to 35% at 40 and a mere 5% at 45+ rendering it to very unlikely to even become pregnant let alone giving birth to a healthy baby. Of cause at 35% or 5% it is not impossible to have a baby. But all they see are those celebrity mothers at 45+ ignoring the fact, that most of them had medical support or even IVF to even pregnant in the first place. Men on the other side just look at those numbers and use their common sense to implicate: It is just easier for younger women to reproduce. That is maybe the ONE reason why men would pick a younger woman to marry instead of an older woman.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

They dont understand biology 101. Men can still have children at 45, but not women at 45.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Not all men want kids believe it or not which is why the worldwide birth rate is so low now. Plus, if you can afford it ,there are many other ways to have kids. There was this one single Chinese guy who was wealthy had triplets through a surrogate. He just had to have his kids even without a woman.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj There aren't many wealth guys that can afford this type of children using surrogates. And it is true, if the couple is barely surviving, having a child is a BIG drain on their finances.

[@BritishEcho]

It's also the fact of do you really want to be in your 50's when your kid is in their middle to late teens? Don't know about anyone else but I would want to be physically able to do fun things with my kids while their growing up not be half dead with retirement around the corner.... Having kids young just makes sense from all points of view.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@BritishEchoMy second brother had his only son at 53 and they are doing great. My nephew is calm and can play by himself and is easy to take care of. My grandma lived until 100 so we kind of have the longevity gene.

[@defaulltmake]

happening in a place where there's 30 million men excess.

[@bert8373]

By the time they reach 40,Adios!!

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

Finally, these match making are NO longer helping these selfish and high standard women. These agents are like real estate, matching buyers with sellers. The chances of earning commission from these 35+ mature women is NOT profitable, since they are very picky. These agent...err...match maker, would rather spend time and effort on those less 28 yr old. Im glad, these match making companies are understanding that it is mission impossible. Why are these mature/luxury women are angry at guys who don't want to chase these mature women. It MAKE NO sense. MEN have choices too, not just women. It makes TOTAL sense for handsome, successful men to chase 18 yr old. They are really angry (and self fish and stubborn) at THEMSELVES for waiting, being a career women and maintaining their high standards. Now they are blaming men! Yet, they don't blame themselves. They are playing the victim.

[@grgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgr2592]

introduces as high quality and still need love brokers help them find a suitable partner, sound something isn't right :)

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

@@grgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgr2592 That is why these Chinese women think they are better than men in everyway. And they are stubborn. So lm glad these agent NO longer help them, and money isn't the issue.

[@ActiveAussie2024]

Great comments. Basically, they just waited to long and were too fussy. Even at their age they could still find men interested in them, but not good looking, wealthy, and tall men in mid 30 s. Some Western men in late 40 s or early 50 s would probably marry them, but I m betting those men would end up miserable.

[@PFG888]

9:11 - when your lies are obvious to others, but not to yourself then you are delusional.

[@stealthtomcat4739]

Iam an Indian man in my 20s tall with acquiline nose and I like older fair skinned Chinese women with button noses with model like physique.

[@robertcampos933]

marriage without love is not marriage at all. marriage for filling criteria? good luck.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly and I have seen those marriages, they are doomed from the beginning.

[@barbaralanders6049]

Requesting a very high dowry in cash, just after saying 'hello' on a dating app, probably doesn't help... 😆

[@mightT1]

These women are all Eleanor Rigby... the Chinese version. The song is written for them... the line... lives in a dream is apt. All the lonely people where do they all come from... leaving it too late and forgetting about being a traditional wife... no one cares about your money or degree.

[@eXclusive1]

35 minus 10 is the ideal time to look seriously for a partner. Women have a clock for a reason. Men get better with age, more resources.

[@salamaleiko007]

A maioria dessas mulheres não podem oferecer o básio, que é dar um filho para seu marido,e ainda querem pedir que seja rico,tenha casa, seja musculoso,inteligente,bonito e a lista continua... ela não tem nem a coisa mais básica de todas,a capacidade de gerar um filho para esse marido,qual o valor dela como esposa?

[@bdtn342]

Wow. What pressure, over the hill at 35. These ladies need to chill and if you're single at 50 so be it.. Im single at 55 and love it this way.

[@urbanfarmer8483]

Maybe remove the filter . Then you can find a suitable partner.

[@latoyathunderstar9585]

Yes. The joys of being in your 40s and remaining single. Just existing for 2D men now. Kazuha Kaedahara is my comfort husbando.

[@stevec3526]

Universally as women age their requirements go up, and not down.

[@Arejen03]

And their dating market value goes down

[@vipondiu]

"I was born in 1985 and I'm already 40 this year?" How? It's 2024

[@zoerpm6493]

I just google it. She was right. Chinese has a different calendar and years system. She is 40 years old and 6 months.

[@squ34ky]

Counting time spent in the womb. Yes, the clock really does begin there.

[@NM0047]

Thank you.

[@Patrick-s1c4p]

Women over 35 is game over...... buy a cat and see a therapist for antidepressants

[@lizxu322]

😂😅😅

[@ActiveAussie2024]

😂