More older single women in China regret, lower their standards, yet still no one wants them

[@justdl]

I dont need a castle anymore, i only require a mansion now. I lowered my standards.

[@ZxSpectrumplus]

And from a Ferrari to a BMW. Not too much.

[@jessicathompson236]

She wanted a partner who had the same qualifications as she did.

[@jessicathompson236]

It's ironic that even older women are having trouble finding men, considering that there are so many Chinese males per one Chinese female. (Mostly due to the one child policy) But males there are just going for women outside of China now. Mostly Slavic women I hear.

[@counsela9240]

😂

[@enhancedutility266]

@@jessicathompson236 Men don't pursue higher education due to it being expensive in time consuming that's why most men join the military or do trades

[@TuxBearlux]

As a man 👨… I’m looking for a Super Model GF who is a Billionaire but I will settle for Millionaire … IS MY STANDARD TOO LOW ?? 🧐🤨

[@YourHineyness]

Know your worth King! Don't settle! You deserve that billionaire supermodel!

[@johnnazzy6038]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Kinglaowai]

Too low King!!!!!!!! Drizzle Drizzle!

[@salguodrolyat2594]

Low?🤣

[@rudyrodriguez7301]

Me first bro

[@DreamerzSoul]

She lowered her standards from 1.8m to 1.78m 🤣

[@exvex5108]

from 1.800.000 to 1.799.999 you mean.

[@Garanon5]

Bruh, I came to comment on that. Absurd!!

[@krnpop5153]

And she's just 1.55m tall. Smh

[@MeidoInHebun]

@@krnpop5153 And chubby

[@Pericalypsis]

@@krnpop5153 In heels!

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

The Great Wall of China is undefeated🤣🤣🤣

[@Billy-vi8nu]

Lol

[@smcdonald9991]

Hahaha good one!

[@MiguelDLewis]

[Mongolians have entered the chat] "Not *that* Great Wall guys" 🤣🤣

[@charliela1844]

fukin chill bro, your about to start an international incident lol

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Ok, that is hilarious!😂

[@donnyyong]

Old single women can all group together and grow old.

[@gxr7777]

Yup and blame all men for their BS choices that keep them single.

[@calilavello4979]

They all want to buy homes together and be miserable 😅

[@armandoq.p.7291]

Women cannot get along to each other

[@RJM1971]

The Golden Girls

[@salguodrolyat2594]

Geriatric lord of the flies.🤣

[@wallacewong5374]

as a man , if a woman saids she will date me because she needs to lower her standards , I would find that very insulting and the relationship would be problematic. So the issue is , you do not need to lower your standards. The issue is your Standards are unrealistic because of how you were raised by social media, TV and other worldly standards , and you will need to retrained your Brain to understand what a good man means , and what a long term relationship mean . Thats why Asian men are saying , forget it " and finding traditional wives elsewhere. So Men , do yourself a favor , there are traditional wives all over the world, let the spoil Chinese women figure it out on their own. Keep your Money and other assets safe .

[@YourHineyness]

If a woman lowers her standards she will hold it against the man she "settles" for, always considering him beneath her and she will point it out to him every chance she gets. The man is in for a living Hell. If a woman lets you know that she's settling for you just walk away.

[@nexusdrop7863]

No, it is she has no idea what men want and finds that concept offensive to her on a deep level. HE -needs- to meet her expectations. When she lists reasons to marry her it is stuff she is looking for (but better). They don't see men as human - only tools. How dare a tool refuse to be used.

[@Tonyrg1988]

Problematic? The relationship should be over at that point.

[@mrjones4249]

Why deal with a female who believes you are something lowly?

[@kokomo9764]

Most women around the world do not want a Chinese man. I have asked several women if they would ever consider a Chinese man, and all I got was laughter.

[@eleanorcospina3051]

None of these women look this good in real life. The camera filters make them look nearly flawless.

[@bronkonovak6555]

💯% facts, they look like trolls in real life. 😂

[@furyberserk]

Why are you lying? It's just makeup. I'm fond of the shape shifter brands personally. They look so good, but it costs so much.

[@gaconc1]

After 25 women’s looks go downhill fast 😂

[@Yggdrasill8]

Or a cute version of a gremlin or goblin

[@JapanReels]

@@furyberserk gobbledygook

[@meddlingmage23]

"by 40, she knew her chances were even slimmer." Bruh... that's like if I was getting destroyed by 40 pts in the NBA and I'm still holding onto hope that I can come back in the next 5 minutes. She ran out of time a decade ago.

[@funkychicken2119]

While trying to play defense with 5 personal fouls.. 😂

[@gxr7777]

A rich man will not care if a woman doesn't have money or an education. A rich women wants the rich man and he has to be tall with an education. Who is going to find a mate?

[@zan0997]

LMAO what an analogy. ITS OVER.

[@smcdonald9991]

Imagine not being to find a man in a market where there is a shortage of women and an oversupply of men.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@smcdonald9991Yes, that is where it is sad.

[@JoeCebu]

Most of these women will never be happy. How could you feel happy if you feel you settled for less? The problem was and is what they think they are entitled to.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@JoeCebu Yup, and it is their self entitled attitude that is disgusting and a big turn off.

[@bonnielovely]

most of these women are happily unmarried because they refuse to settle for less

[@manrightchea]

​@@bonnielovely Is that why they consume huge amounts of anti-depressants?

[@mrjones4249]

They would always look at their man with disgust.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

correct, enough is never reached, so men better be ready to take the flack and emotional blackmail that ensues marrying these types

[@helahola]

my uncle once told me that "great power comes with great responsibility", women between 18-24yo had their greatest power given to them for free and those who screw it have to shoulder their own consequences. acting like a hero to rescue pitiful ran through old women that can't even lay an egg is the dumbest thing a man can do in 2024.

[@salguodrolyat2594]

You underestimate the power of simp.🤣

[@helahola]

@@salguodrolyat2594 i believe the Great "Wall" of China is undefeatable 🤣

[@salguodrolyat2594]

@@helahola 🤣👍

[@zuckthebetacuck2789]

@@salguodrolyat2594 With epidemic scaled simping comes great humiliation says no simp ever 😂

[@trydowave]

Lay an egg 😂

[@Chronoic]

Anytime you demand a man to make 2x what you make, you fail already.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

anytime you demand anything its flags and sirens going off! whatever happen to building with him and not wait at the finish line for the goodies/

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

Red flags and Sireens of WW11 run for cover!

[@marecare77]

If you jack up the price of something by 200% and then lower the price by 50%, you still heavily overpriced that item. Life is about people/relationshps not Iphones...

[@naturalLin]

Just like real estate market right now 😂

[@naturalLin]

They are just like overpriced homes

[@Kinglaowai]

Well they can always financially support a man in his soft guy era. There will always be 20 year old men who will f’ a 40 year old woman who pays all his bills and gives him a nice allowance. It’s funny. When they were in their 20s, they refused men who were willing to financially support them. Now those men want nothing to do with them and their best hope is to financially support men. Karma.

[@nexusdrop7863]

50% of 200 is 100, meaning it would be the same price. You mean 150% but are still referencing the base 100% price the whole sentence. This reads like one of those logic puzzles. example 75. 200% - 150. 50% of 150= 75.

[@zweizs]

@@nexusdrop7863 if you jack up the price of $10 by 100% its $20. 200% it will be $30. half price of $30 will be $15 which is still 50% overpriced.

[@stevec3526]

Men aren’t looking for another man or a masculine woman.

[@safffff1000]

Bingo

[@smcdonald9991]

Exactly. We're looking for someone different from us.

[@lowspender147]

They won't listen, they refuse to believe that, they have too much pride, many of them even have master's degree

[@andrewmildenberg4210]

Some are. Men aren't a monolith. Tastes vary from guy to guy.

[@safffff1000]

@@lowspender147 I like dream of Jennies master degree.

[@MabusTiefsee]

Notice how nearly every one of them mainly talks about height and money

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

yep, its gotta be something, women look to dicsount men, while men look to build women, can you change your height? no ask them to loose a few pounds and you are toxic. hows that for equality?

[@boratlion8613]

Stay sharp

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

yep they covered everything else in the past these ar the last bastions of Masculinity to destroy for ordinary men

[@ericdeadmon401]

I thought women here in America were delusional....

[@salguodrolyat2594]

Females are delusional EVERYWHERE.🤣

[@thomasauslander3757]

Just as Oprah..

[@lowspender147]

It's everywhere, not just China an US

[@kgjung2310]

The disease of modernity.

[@exvex5108]

Nah man, No matter where you go women are the same... with same Delusion.

[@bchompoo]

I'm so sick of face filters women wear in (and every) video.

[@donaldryan4876]

Omg fk yah!!! They don't even remember what they look like... mirrors are outdated... dont add to kweeeeen konfindence

[@donaldryan4876]

Yes I spelled confidence wrong

[@donaldryan4876]

Meanwhile unfiltered mirror as I shave

[@fnckbook]

Holy scheiße, you do not want to see them without filters. Verry verry scary 😨

[@kaczan3]

Imagine if we put fake money in our wallets and painted on muscles on our body.

[@ActiveAussie2024]

Nothing at all about sharing common values/interests, kindness, reliability, loyalty. Just a lot of superficial, materialistic BS

[@mrjones4249]

Just imagine how miserable you would be if you married a woman like this. The good thing is that they are not smart enough to hide it.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

it's all about what I can acquire, and keep for my personal use, after all, your money is ours and mine is MINE!!

[@HugoL.-uy4mw]

leftover women should live together and help each other

[@pandereodium]

> women > help each other )))

[@ManhNguyen48119]

True, because they are having a same dream about theirs lifestyle.

[@bhson95]

Actually women together cant build an organisation

[@RizkiMaulana-kl8gi]

women can't help each other as a team. They'll be gossiping and hating each other for nonsense things

[@Susan-z7m]

Even in her grave there are still standard that only relative with a house and car can visit her grave

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

HA HA DAMN RIGHT WHAT ELSE?

[@mrjjthor]

By lowering their standards they're only gonna be resentful towards their husband. The men there are smart enough to understand this.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

reality or epiphany for these cheese males, the penny has fallen, and the juice isn't worth the squeeze

[@Pattayaman999]

I like these "older single left-over women" series. It makes me feel wanted.

[@unChurch-rr9xs]

Married 45 years

[@bonnielovely]

it’s more the men leftover i thought. so many women are single by choice but it’s the men complaining about it & crying about it and begging for recognition online about it

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

so true buddy, its therapeutic to me, cause and effect is a bastard

[@Ahoooooooo]

😊

Aside from their absurd standards, they have a bigger mountain to move. And that is their attitude and character. They are very disrespectful and harsh. They need to work on themselves seriously.

[@shmayazuggot8558]

Spot on.

[@anthonyju6392]

As one of these matchmakers in another video put it, "despite being older 'AGE' is the least of their problems."

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly! Even if they were young or whatever, look at their attitude. Who can stand that?

[@zuckthebetacuck2789]

Can't be redeemed I'm afraid. It's over for them. There's no coming back from their high horses.

[@MeidoInHebun]

Too late for that.

[@timjones9962]

I think the men in china lost interest in these women 20 years ago.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

yes dejected and embarrassed in public is not uncommon way back

[@nerdiloo9863]

You can't help women who self-proclaim they are "high quality" and have "standards". FATE is their ultimate silent matchmaker.

[@YourHineyness]

"High-quality older woman" is a contradiction. A woman is either high-quality or older, but not both. As usual, women think that they can brow-beat men into accepting what we don't want.

[@fnckbook]

🤮

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly which is why they are still single.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

When they hit 100 they are still valuable and deserved of the best man LOL

[@thewhopper411]

The older we men get, the more money we have, the more mature we become, the more women we have to choose from. The older women get, their beauty go down, their fertility go down. From 18 to 29, women after the power to pick a spouse. From 30 to forever, it flips and men have the power.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

It depends if the guy wants kids or not. Plus, if you are wealthy then there are several options for having kids as long as you can afford it.

[@kgjung2310]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Except any man that can afford that kind of option would never choose it over simply getting a woman in her 20's who can already bear children. Even if doesn't want kids, they're still going to choose younger and prettier.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@kgjung2310 It depends as my man chose me. I am in my 40s and never married but luckily look younger than my age. My man is young and attractive too so it’s not like he is desperate. He looks like a Kpop idol. Maybe I am an exception. My man is only 22 and I was worried about the children issue due to my age. He straight out said he doesn’t care about having kids. But I don’t know if he will change his mind or not. Plus, having kids is more than age. My uncle married at 20 and he was the one who was naturally infertile. Therefore, he could not have kids so just adopted. In several cases, it is the man who has fertility issues not the woman.

[@RJ-jx3dy]

Womens fertility and potential for healthy baby has signicantly decreased by 35 and likely of even getting pregnant is so low by 40. Men can can kids well past their 60s. Yes , some men are infertile well before that, but pretty much all women can not have a kid in their 40s. Also if you are planning to have kids, the longer you wait the less energy you will have to raise them.

[@DejanM-bd2mo]

​@@RJ-jx3dyThere are exceptions though.My mother gave birth to me naturally at 41 and I was her first child.But she was non promiscuous.It runs in her genetics too that the women enter menopause at late forties.My greatgrandmother gave birth to her fifth child naturally at 46 so I guess it can be individual.

[@perma45ACP]

I have a couple of chinese/asian friends. They all tell me in their country, if a woman isnt married by 24-25, that they consider her spoiled goods. Ouch

[@ericinla65]

SADDEST STATEMENT - Her mother tells her that you must get married and have children for one thing "To have the children take care of you when you grow old". We know this doesn't happen anymore in the U.S.. Children don't even bother to visit their parents. Much less, take care fo them.

[@jasonreviews]

i told my mom i'll buy tesla robot to take care of you.

[@fallskjermjeger.]

Mom shouldn't have broken the family.. my father will not be left to go alone

[@Garanon5]

Yeah. In China, children are basically people’s retirement plans. Taking care of your parents is part of the culture. Who knows what that will Be 20-30 years from now with so many childless people.

[@trydowave]

Its also a very selfish statement.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

sadly, that is not new it's a tradition to have children to preserve the elder's life, i saw a video where at the wedding ceremony, the parents of the bride demand the groom either drink his bride's foot water or pay them 400k dowry, the groom emptied the bowl of water on his head and walked off dragging the bride, who clung to his leg, pleading to the family to stop this wants. wtf!

[@fallskjermjeger.]

Filter use in China is wild

[@vectorm4]

If not having children, why is height such a big deal?

Aren't they silly?

[@stevec3526]

Because tall men don’t want short women. I am 6’2”. I wouldn’t date a woman who was only 5 feet tall.

[@polaris1985]

tall men have big package

[@VonGoldfinger]

They see men like designer bags.

[@Talus-hallux1]

This is exactly what I thought about the woman nearing forty, who just wants a man as a companion in old age and not because she's in love.

[@albajgurd]

I hope such women will never compromise on their standards and criteria and will eventually end up alone

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

thats the way it is heading, and saying they are prepared for singledom and loneliness is totally BS They are not built for IT as men can

[@shmayazuggot8558]

It is unfortunate many from this region are very disrespectful, harsh, abusive and oblivious to what love, kindness and emotional depth is.

[@specopsbarton]

Matchmaker: What kind of a man you are looking for? Chinese Women: He must have a car, a house and earn thousands of yuan a month. Matchmaker: Oh ok, but what you have in exchange? A castle? Chinese women: ... xD All those chinese womens high demand really make me shocked - only money and money. Where is need for love?

[@andrewmackenzie325]

Women cannot love. They are incapable of it. They only have respect for their husband (love) or they will divorce him.

[@MrHwilRRR]

I am the table. 😂😂😂😂

[@counsela9240]

They are based and cold hearted, only seeking superficial things. Not one of them mentioned loving a man!

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

Love and affection 'Joan Armatrading', yep, it was never the ingredient in this agenda in fact, it's not what they really want, or they would seize that earlier in life by seeing the ordinary guy. Women dont know what they want, so how TF can they decide on anything?

[@harishramprasadv299]

Life is so valuable. If we miss the right opportunity at right time is gone. If we feel regret after missing that opportunity is of no use.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

i would add that there is a limited window period when a woman is at her peak, and these MO have expired, and still expect to have kids? its stupidity or just plane I WANT

[@anthonyju6392]

It is kind of strange. Usually the thing that triggers these women to want to get married or to seek out a husband is usually seeing someone with a good relationship, a family or children, companionship and genuine care for each other all of which have little to nothing to do with money. Yet that is what each one of these women lead with as a requirement. Time to wake up and realize what is important in life. To get more realistic for each requirement women put on the man she wants to marry she should be able put something on her side she will add to the relationship.

[@catfoodmillionaire7838]

it was just how she felt at that moment (jealous). the day after, her emotions will be different and she's *not wlling to settle- she knows her worth*

[@antoniolima1068]

they are tainted and momentarily awakened by deep emotional human needs, they can not help themselves.

[@MeidoInHebun]

@@catfoodmillionaire7838 Love your username lol, I'mma go with "boxedwinemillionaire"

[@nenesimone]

I think they of marriage/having a family as a phase in life. They do it because they have to not they want to.

[@fialee8]

If someone cannot or won't comprise, they will not stay married long-term. Life is always about compromise, as no one is perfect. Everyone will get old, and beauty will fade... so good looks doesn't last long.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@fialee8 Exactly!

[@funkychicken2119]

I love watching these videos. It makes more and more sense for MGTOW.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

feminist personified, welcome to the devastation of family core and relationships, supplanting for future generations is now on a precipice, good old Feminism, give a woman freedom without regulating it is Chaos

[@thisismonitor4099]

Women need to understand that you need to meet a good man and support him so that you grow together into a family that meets your expectations then. Instead they want to marry someone who already went through that journey and succeeded. But here is the reality. MOST men need a wife to help them succeed - they need the emotional support of that family set up. Hence its very unlikely she will meet that super successful man who never had a wife. Those men DO exist but they will ONLY go for the absolutely most beautiful (without makeup) women in their 20s. They can get those women because those types of men are so rare. Therefore unless you are in the top 1% in looks and in your 20s its extremely unlikely you will get that sort of man. Marry a GOOD man and help him grow to be that sort of man that you always wanted.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

It definitely depends on your luck because my second brother is very successful and never had a wife. He married late to an average looking woman who was already divorced with a kid. Of course my family was highly against it so he eloped. She basically is now sitting back and enjoying the fruits of his hard labor. She refuses to contribute financially even if she has money which is totally messed up. I am now older and my man is way younger than me, so I help him as much as I can. It is important to always be supportive of each other and to help each other out in every way possible. If there is not a balance then there will be big issues down the line. My man is not successful yet but I promised to be with him through it all. That is a true partner and not someone who is with anyone just to reap benefits. What if anyone experienced financial difficulties? Would you just leave them? There is saying which is so true. A man’s true character is tested when he is rich and a woman’s character is tested when she is poor.

[@bragiodinsen4604]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj stop coping.

[@bobh9492]

Who are we looking at? The filters are ridiculous.

[@haowenchooi1198]

what happened to the strong and independent women

[@kieragard]

That's an American thing.

[@ActiveAussie2024]

weak and flimsy.

[@RjBro11]

​@kieragard No. It's worldwide.

[@jstreets1983]

Women go from the pickers to waiting to be picked and that wait can be longgggggg.

[@hyperteleXii]

For some, it's terminally eternal.

[@jstreets1983]

@@hyperteleXii life sucks lol

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

It is karma.

[@kgjung2310]

Waiting for a train that isn't coming.

[@jstreets1983]

@@kgjung2310 yep.

[@Demochose]

This is why they’re still single. Love means NOTHING to them. The man could be an absolute pos, but as long as his conditions are right they’ll be happy. Until they understand what’s REALLY important, expect to see WAYYYY more of this happening.

[@kgjung2310]

Men can love women for their personality. Women ultimately can only love that which they think they need. If you're a guy with no money or status, they don't need you. There might be some exceptions, but those are few. Maybe that's why guys have a need to be needed. Otherwise, they know they won't be "loved."

[@freeagent.87]

Why does her partner's height still matter for the lady in the first story? She probably isnt planning on having kids anymore at that age, so why does the guy's height still matter. 😂

[@1bbasket]

In America, we call this phenomenon “hitting the wall” 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️

[@stevec3526]

If a woman is single and 30, men know there must be a good reason for that.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I was single I until my late 30s but it was not because I had high expectations and standards like these shallow women do. It was because I had other priorities in life. Romantic love is only a part of your life and not your entire life. It is dependent on fate too.

[@exvex5108]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Im 38 dude that NEVER had relacionship, Im just unable to have one by now... since i been single to long, i just see women as liability now.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@exvex5108 Yes, that was how some of my brothers are so they decided to stay single. They are scared of women like these gold diggers.

[@Moon42069]

These old overachiever single women need to understand that men do not care about achievement, status or wealth men just want the loyalty and relationship.

[@wilsontay5323]

maybe they try to be in touch of their humanity? Instead of talking about how he can provide you, why don't think how they can be a team player? If you notice, these women only have themselves to blame.

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

so true, if I even once hear a woman here say I WILL give everything to my man, submit to whatsI best for the relationship, i WOULD MARRY HER MYSELF!

[@Gruffydom]

It’s not their standards that are a problem but it’s them.

[@desmondlau4632]

Not sure about everyone else , but every "Chinese women" ended up with " I expect , I want " , and none of it has anything to do with feelings and needs. And while she thinks she's bringing more to the table by "lowering her standards" , within her she still look down upon whoever ended up with her, which is unhealthy to begin with. Got a friend that married a women cos they had a 1 night stand and hit a jackpot. And she would constantly tell him how she's too good for him. Whereas in fact he makes 20x more money than her, has a house in Hong Kong and Canada, physically fit and decent looking. They have reached the tipping point getting a divorce a few times just because of that mentality. So ya, keep telling yourself that you are "settling" for less, maybe Disney would take over the world magically.

[@MrHwilRRR]

😂😂😂 Wait. That sounds hella unbalanced. He makes 20 times what she makes and SHE says SHE is too good for him? She needs some psych meds.

[@nathanielgasper]

Chinese women wanting men at least 1.8m tall is crazy. From American standards it’s 6’4 or 193cm. Im 1.81cm tall in India. I’m taller than 95% of the population. And china is even shorter than India.

[@hyperteleXii]

Chance of stillbirth at 25yo: 10% Chance of stillbirth at 45yo: 75%

[@Kinglaowai]

Not only that the older the parents the higher the chances that their children can develop things like autism.

[@ActiveAussie2024]

There are a lot of of single never married Chinese women at 45 who want to have kids. Just delusional!

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

It depends on your luck too. My sister in law had my nephew at 43 naturally and he is perfectly healthy. My brother was 53 too.

[@DewTime]

Funny one girl said she’s willing to “settle” for any guy with a car and a house. With the house to income ratio in China, having a house is no easy task. She makes it sound like she’s not asking for much but she’s actually asking for a lot.

[@MeidoInHebun]

And yet she's making around $300 USD a month.

[@fialee8]

That 43yo woman is still delusional. In what world does height is the top criteria for a partner? That's insane.

[@ZxSpectrumplus]

Somehow its seem very common in all these videos.

[@smcdonald9991]

I lived 6 years in China. It's purely transactional. Height and salary. Apartment and car. Sometimes degree. Never love.

[@fialee8]

@@smcdonald9991 I'm sure much of it is transactional... but having height as the top requirement in pretty stupid. I could see maybe family money, owning a successful business/multiple rental properties, politically connected, famous celebrity, or even having a big wee wee... but height? There is minimal value in height compared to those other things.

[@smcdonald9991]

@@fialee8 Agree with you. I'm 5'6" so dating is pretty much impossible for me too. I had this discussion with many work colleagues in China who said they will never get married because they are below 1.7 m. They seem to accept it and move on much to their parents chagrin.

[@os2958]

Its okay to be single whether you are a man or a woman. You can have a great single life. And even still have a child if you want one. You can also adopt a family and be an aunt or grandmother. If you help them now, they will take care of you later.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly and marriage is not everything as we can see with the high numbers of divorces.

[@rexkenley]

Enjoy living alone with your standards.

[@AllisonGT]

Don’t settle! Just be single. Women have to respect a man to love them and if we don’t we treat them terribly and no one is happy. Being single seems much better.

[@returningtoperfection]

They are willing to lower their standards. But as the saying goes; too little too late.

[@SeanSoraghan]

Good conditions means money. Like all women everywhere. Its all about the $$$$

[@ZxSpectrumplus]

Good condition=300k dowry, 1000sqft PAID OFF property in Shanghai, 300k/pa salary, a Ferrari, no brothers and wealthy parents. Not too much right?? 😂

[@lowspender147]

The problem is, even when they find rich man, they still refuse because they think he is not handsome enough, not tall enough, he is not from royal family, he is fat, etc. They always think he is not good enough, they're all still inside their dream

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

oh yes play on words brings us back to MONEY WEALTH, eXCELLENCE IS ANOTHER ONE, MEANING POSITION AND STATUS

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

flavored words same meaning, status, wealth money, not in that order

[@Calamity_Leo]

They want the package, but not to put in the effort

[@henryweaver-g9b]

If these women ever washed their face….guys, run the other way….

[@fnckbook]

You just took the words straight out of my mouth 😅

[@KaiEmblem]

Even if those older woman ask for nothing and are willing to fully support the husband and give him a house. A lot of men would still choose younger woman

[@Yt-user65000]

Overinflated estimate of market value meets reality…

[@robertnoble6661]

Just marry each other

[@SeattlePioneer]

In the United States, the phenomena of the "single mother" is ubiquitous. But in China, you never hear of "single mothers." Instead, you hear about divorced single fathers who have custody of their children. And guess what? Single women DON'T LIKE the idea of dating or marrying single fathers! I'd like to see some videos discussing this....

[@salguodrolyat2594]

China doesn't pay single mothers, America pays them a fortune.🤣

[@MrHwilRRR]

😂😂😂 Yet, if the shoe is on the other foot, you will be called meh soggy knee ist. 😂😂😂😂

[@TheVlog-S]

women over 30 are not even in list of an average man... just keep waiting until you are 40...after that life will pay you even more for your unrealistic standards that you set for men in your 20s... best of luck...

[@Schopenhauer69]

Imagine thinking you can earn the trust and respect of people u treated like garbage. How r these women so goofy?😂

[@shanesmith5198]

40? What do a woman hope to achieve family wise at that age?

[@BlueBirdgg]

It is not that all hope is lost. You can still adopt.

[@kub1353]

​@@BlueBirdggbabies are like farts. You can only tolerate your own. 😂

[@BlueBirdgg]

@@kub1353 I didn't say it was the best decision.

[@salguodrolyat2594]

Just a care taker.🤣

[@RjBro11]

​@@kub1353That's hilarious. I'm using that one.😂

[@dulanjala]

more listen to these women explaining their minds, i feel as men we are crazy to do what we did in the past, without education and money making these women show their true colors, we would have had such flowery opinion on women. AND don't ever take one of those women, no matter what you do they will never be happy, will always look down on you because they think they deserve better, that mind never changes, say you make her life better she won't view it as you're loving her, no... she just getting closer to what she deserve. but not good enough.. so don't ruin your life by marrying these women.. Thank you Feminism for freeing us...

[@PinoyHolyGrail]

women are social creatures and they developed black belts in manipulation from an early age, men have finally collectively started to exchange experiences and walla! start growing and appreciating the game the real purpose of women's ways

[@francoistombe]

Standards........or demands?

[@edheldude]

They try to make themselves sound grandiose. They all have a "career" and a "degree". It's just a job, and years wasted in an institution.

[@andrewridewood614]

The wall is undefeated.

[@Jasonsmith-xs8vq]

It’s amazing to me how cold and businesslike Chinese women treat relationships. It’s a checklist of benefits they look for not once have I heard them mention love or affection or attraction like in western culture. Quite shocking really

[@chamamemestre]

The wall has no language barriers. Stay strong Chinese bros. The don't want love, they want a business transaction.

[@EdiTheDon]

There is no such thing as the one. Find someone early that is untainted for the most part and stick with them. Else, when you are old, your job will hold you tight at and toss you out the door.

[@ericastier1646]

This channel is really satisfying to watch for single men who have been unjustly rejected by women who ten years later will still be single and regret their arrogance on men and should lower their standards that did not match their value. I want to thank you, this channel kind of restores the pride of men, it's a pleasure to see these women suffer, they probably rejected many eligible men. This channel gives amno to men on the dating market, it shows that women aren't these entitled princesses that they pose as who have a right to only accept rich princes, that even if a woman turns you down, you don't have to feel rejected. This restores my manhood confidence and strength. Also this makes me realize that when you feel a woman is making a mistake rejecting you and your instinct tells you it would work for her and you (don't fool yourself, don't try this on a woman who has no interest in you) , it's okay to use a bit of a conquering romance attempt, by that i mean steal a kiss from her or hug her against her will for a moment. She'll fight it in the moment and probably leave you. But often this will make her think a lot and her irrational demands for materialism will have to fight her own instinct and need for romance and love. You'll be surprised the next time you see her, she will not have a face of anger but of confusion because she'll be fighting herself for resisting you. Now she is romantically weaken and that is when you can approach her gently be nice to her don't touch her, offer her to go for lunch or just for a walk. If she accepts, you know you have done it and you can just wait until you can really feel she is watching you steadily directly in the eyes and you watch her back, then make your move she will not reject you that time and it will end good for you. You might still not get married but you have overcome her irrational demands for materialism and made her realize love is important.

[@madbug1965]

Being 5'5" and MARRIED I find their prejudice against height offensive. 😂

[@santorhardwork]

In the tale of Beauty and the Beast. Despite being physically hideous, the Beast owned a castle. I imagine he wasn't poor. But he fell in love with a young and beautiful woman. A very wise tale.

[@Wabu1]

women are exhausting

[@owusuphilipable]

Women have “Hell” in them 😂 u have to help and teach or else they become exhausting 😂

[@smcdonald9991]

#MGTOW !

[@samlim7071]

Love unconditionally if you trust and believe that you have find the right one..

[@jamescollins6347]

In America we think Chinese women are great to date , but this just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Not everything is about status or money. Watching this makes me want to try dating here at home again. This is dismally bleak.

[@michaelpalumbo2416]

Why do they list their resume as qualities for a mate.

[@salguodrolyat2594]

They think like men.🤣

[@bobzeepl]

"living single is cool, no cooking or laundry" I am like "how"? -lives with her parents, uses them. she will never get a man.

[@MKA63]

I have only watched about 3 minutes into this video and can already see the problem. For her it's all about me, me, me. This attitude will not make a partnership. When can these women stop thinking of males as a resource and a commodity? Whatever ... go right ahead. It will be to your own detriment.

[@PlateletRichGel]

I no longer insist house is in the city center! LOL

[@nazarioponce3053]

My advice to them would be.... Good luck with that!

[@PricefieldPunk]

Why women got all these money standards still if they make their own money lmao wasnt that the point of sacrificing your youth for a career?

[@donkeykong516]

It’s a global phenomenon including in the US & Europe. Youthful child bearing age women is a women’s greatest gift to humanity

[@abbqamar]

Love these days have price hence this problem, I felt love is blind and has no boundaries, it happens it is not forced. You just cannot buy it doesnot ends well when money and meterial comes in between. Love means working together hand in hand and sacrifice no matter what.

[@waiwai5233]

"Unfair reality" ... oh its very fair.😅

[@thealonewarrior6698]

In a heart without women a man's life naturally become peaceful.

[@keepcreationprocess]

NOOOOOO --- WE DON T REGRET AT ALL MEN REFUSE TO BE IN A SERIOUS LOVING GOOD COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE WIFE AND TAKING CARE OF HER......WE ARE NOT LOOKING FOR MONEY

[@warriorklan8444]

Kevin Samuels told you the wall is undefeated 😊.

[@williamtell5365]

Yep, American lawyer, ivy educated, plenty of money, 180 CM, very fit, loving in Asia. Wouldn't touch these women. Why? They look at dating as if they are buying a car. If someone gets to be with me, it's because they care for me as a person, not an ATM

[@ar3ee62]

I would never date a woman who only looks for companion and to take care of them when getting old. Die alone, you chose that path now live with it. Falling in love is one of the best experience and your greed made you missed it.

[@wolfgangpagel6989]

They are hard to want. Who would have thought that men want younger women?

[@asia1924]

How can u expect a Man to have a house and a car before u marry him??? Isn’t it sth u both must fight for? Save for?sacrifice for?

[@enhancedutility266]

They've been watching too many reality TV shows that don't reflect the average economy they think everybody is rich The average Chinese male and female make around $9,000 a year That's hardly enough to buy car and a house

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I agree but these women just want a free meal ticket.

[@Military_Equipments]

They don’t want to “suffer” 😂

[@putmynameontheinternet8133]

I feel like if your looking for love only to have someone to help you in old age, then you’re in it for the wrong reasons

[@fadilvi]

This woman is never realized that man only need woman n their gratitudeness not their materialistic or their career..man feel happy even if the woman from the dump and she she show her love n gratitude , man will even work hard for this kind of attitude..man love woman smile n support , patient is the key..but now ,woman with their equality agenda, choose materialistic and carrer..man give up on them because they are pain in the arse to support n deal with, no gratitude, no love and only demand..its big no no for man

[@BheeOrgh]

They can love in their 40s, 50s, 60s even 70s but the man may not be who she wants and such women would rather die alone - in seclusion - than lower their standards

[@walterkreuzman3802]

These women are nuts. The whole thing about marriage is to work as a team and achieve the goal of house, children etc.. That's what bonds a man and woman together though the life of love and marriage..Of course there will be hiccups and fights etc.. but that life with your partner.

[@sreed8570]

When will women get it into their heads that masters degrees high wages and owning homes and cars DOE"S NOT make them more desirable to the men they want. To men with money homes and education only youth fertility and cooperativeness have value to them. They're like children, want to have it all. You get a choice when you're young, marry and have a family or college and career. You can't have both, that's why the divorce rate is over 50% and the marriage rate is 5 per 1000.