OUR OBSESSION WITH LONG HAIR & PROTECTIVE HAIRSTYLE STRUGGLES

Why are you so obsessed with length?! Why is everyone with long hair is being accused to have fake hair? Let's do a curl chat and let me show you My 2022 thoughts on why sacrificing length over health is not doing you good. Especially we tight curly 4c & 4b, with the micro curls & waves situation going on need a deep talk because genetics play a minimum role in if your hair will pas through your shoulders.
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[@RabielleParfait]

Here's another Curl Chat! We often make it too easy by degrading others who actually have mastered their own hair & length retention. But genetics is not the entire answer, it's a regular hair care. I'm not promising your hair will reach to the floor one day, but It can definitely get to waist & classic length, If you're willing to put in the work. Because not everyone wants long hair. Other a happy with a pixy cut or bob, it doesn’t mean they can't grow it long.😉

[@LethalLemonLime]

I love your accent and tone of voice so much!

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you! ❤️❤️

[@adediranonaopemipo245]

This is so true. i just want to enjoy my hair, length is secondary.

[@RabielleParfait]

Exactly!

[@Gmail.com12-f6q]

May i just say youre such a sweet honest young lady ❤

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you so much! ❤️❤️

[@sheilagrayman7147]

Incredible, here!🎉

[@FoAdunni]

This is a great video. You made so many great points. Chasing long hair can be really exhausting.

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you! ❤️ Especially when it gets to the point where people are just desperate for long hair and have zero confidence. 😕

[@FoAdunni]

@@RabielleParfait whew I know what you mean

[@sheilagrayman7147]

Excellent information!🎉 Stay beautiful!🌹

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you so much! ❤️❤️

[@LethalLemonLime]

I don't wear wash n gos in the winter because my hair *will* touch my hoodies and thick jackets and coats but in the summer they're perfect because of the shrinkage. I grew my hair long wearing wash n goes mainly in the past so I don't believe it's impossible. I think the key is using humidity resistant products with high high hold. 11:25 that line about density. so many naturals are obsessed with retaining their shed hair and showing off how little hair they "lost" when detangling. Like regardless the hair has already exited the root so I don't get why they want to retain it in their hair... it's fallen out already and like you said can contribute to knots and tangles.

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you for sharing, I love it when I hear it‘s possible to grow the hair out while doing wash&gos. I‘m now at a slightly different journey because my hair is twisted. It’s gives me the freedom to not detangle my hair for a bit. 😇 We also do have winter season here, so I’ll just do it like you do and wear washngos once it gets warmer. I love the observation about your hair touching thick jackets and coats, that’s why I mostly walk out with head bands or satin beanies, so that I have least friction with my hair, even if it’s twisted. ❤️

[@rosieamelia5955]

I really enjoy your videos ❤

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you! ♥️😘

[@LashonDCampbell]

You did such a great job❤ Thank you for sharing this journey ❤ You have a lovely channel ❤

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you! ♥️♥️

[@Chromagens]

Genetics def help with length retention (more durable strands) and how fast you can grow the hair but yeah some people overuse the term. I don’t think genetics is keeping most people at chin length 🤷🏾

[@RabielleParfait]

Exactly! Especially when their strands are on the coarse side.

[@FoAdunni]

​@@RabielleParfait it depends. Coarse hair strands can be prone to dryness and splits. I experience this.

[@RabielleParfait]

@@FoAdunni That’s true but scientifically speaking, coarse hair strands consists of all 3 layers of the hair shaft: Cuticle, Cortex & Medulla. So it’s more resistant than fine hair strands, that doesn’t contain any medulla at all. Pair it with dryness & brittleness when dehydrated. Fine hair will likely break & split faster, since it doesn’t contain that much protein layers that also supports the strength.

[@fungaimvindi3847]

The long hair illustration killed me 😂😂😂

[@RabielleParfait]

Lol I’ve got no wigs so I had to come up with something 🤣

[@abrakongo9366]

Great video! Lots of good information 👍🏾

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you! ❤️

[@abrakongo9366]

@@RabielleParfait you are honestly the first and only KZbinr I have found who has the same type of hair as me and you just popped up in my feed lol. feel like I'm looking at my hair when I see yours. It's so inspiring, keep up the amazing work 👍🏾👏🏾

[@RabielleParfait]

@@abrakongo9366 Aaww thank you! I totally appreciate your comment! 🥹 It’s definitely time that we get seen! There’s more of people owning hair like us! Many just don’t realise or don’t know how to care for or just simply don’t like these coils. But it’s so unique and beautiful! ❤️

[@fungaimvindi3847]

I don’t care about long hair personally l just want something easy to maintain that suit my face.Those videos on how to grow hair fast are scam😂😂

[@RabielleParfait]

Definitely! 💯 If there would be a real secret hair remedy to maximum and hair growing at a fast rate, it would have been already patented and fabricated into pills 😂

[@fungaimvindi3847]

@@RabielleParfait 😂😂so tru even injections for people who hate pills.

[@Zee-dp1jm]

I know what you guys mean like there be videos showing how to grow hair overnight or an inch in one week that is impossible or hard to actually achieve. However I do find interest in the diy hair care videos that use ayurderic remedies, coffee, teas or fenugreek because there are actually scientific research to back up some of the claims.

[@RabielleParfait]

@@Zee-dp1jm Me too! I’ve been watching those videos for years and follow many diy channels that have informative videos on this! 🥰If we look into commercial formulations, we usually find a lot of those ingredients as extracts (so more concentrated) also. ❤️

[@miniminott48]

Really enjoyed this video!!!

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you! ♥️🌹

[@fungaimvindi3847]

Someone today me that lm destroying my hair by wearing it out in winter.the still people out there who thinks that wearing hair out its bad ,its so sickening

[@RabielleParfait]

I so agree, many so fixed on getting their hair done in Winter, and then you see straight or other curly haired people just wearing the same hair 365 days 😅

[@fungaimvindi3847]

@@RabielleParfait they believe straight hair better 😭😭😭

[@RabielleParfait]

@@fungaimvindi3847 Once they see you not responding to them anymore because you’re too confident with your hair, they will leave you alone and start asking questions how you get your hair to curl 😉

[@ElegantPaws01]

Well said.

[@RabielleParfait]

Thank you! ♥️♥️