Thank you so much! ❤️

Thank you so much! 🌞❤️

If I clarify I use it before or instead of shampoo. If I use clay as part as the conditioning routine, I use it after conditioning. 🥰

Thanks for sharing, sounds like a great hair routine! 🥰 I‘m yet to try chebe.

Thanks 🥰, but it didn‘t stain. Hibiscus can’t stain that well unfortunately. The colour is coming from henna!

You can do a protein treatment. Not in the same week of course. Henna isn’t a protein treatment so your hair will still need protein. Of course it depends on how damaged your hair is. Some people do well with only using a conditioner with some protein in it on occasion. On the other hand some people need a strong protein treatment like once a month. Henna does strengthen the hair but it’s not a protein treatment.

Wow! Thank you so much! I‘m happy you‘re having a positive experience with my videos! ❤️❤️ Drying takes forever unfortunately. But if you can master your wash&gos to last 7-12 days without experiencing dry hair, I’m sure it’s worth the drying time. Often, you can activate the gels (+ leave-ins) when your hair is lightly moist from the shower steam. 😇

Thank you so much! ❤️ I guess I‘ve to put more energy, effort and weekly uploads for this to happen. I’m working on it 🥰

Hi, thank you so much! I don‘t clay wash every wash day. It really depends on the season. For example in summer time or just warmer seasons, instead of using too much shampoo, I would opt for clay washes a gentle alternative. Also when I want to give my hair a boost and better curl definition I would do more clay washes. When I start my frequent clay wash series I can walk you through with updated videos. ❤️

@@RabielleParfait thank you! I’m interested in clay washes because I have the same experience when I detangle my curl pattern is brushed out. My hair clumps nicely when I shampoo and after applying conditioner but once I brush it they leave and don’t come back and it takes longer to style and get them clump back up. I don’t want to use brushes to style. I tried detangling in the shower before shampoo which worked but I felt like my shampoo wasn’t getting the conditioner / pre poos out but I think that’s because I wasn’t using the best products (they had bisaminopropyl dimethicone and copolymers). Now I have 2 more washes with the K18 and then I’m going to try pre detangling again with the Nature’s Little Secret prepoo (no silicones or copolymers) and see how that works. I may wait to try the clay until you release your videos. I’ve also done a lot of research and may buy kaolin and bentonite. I already have rhassoul. I did it once but never tried again because I ended up doing the BGC method but didn’t like the high ph cleansing products. I kept the principles that worked like cleansing weekly with shampoo and conditioner and understanding styling products. I appreciate you sharing your experiences because they’re so helpful! We have similar hair but I think my curls are a little bit wider. Your hair looks so good after the clay wash and I know my hair can do that too because it looks that way after shampoo and after conditioner, the detangling just brushes it away.

@@YahushaIsMyKing8 Thank you so much! I’ll do my best in releasing new videos, but will take a bit more time! ❤️❤️

@@RabielleParfait No worries! I'm patient :)

@@YahushaIsMyKing8 Those ingredients you mentioned usually wash out with regular (all purpose) shampoos, especially when you cleanse twice. But I’m sure the Nature’s Little Secret prepoo will do a great job! Innersense products are very balanced but the clarifying shampoo Malibu C is high in pH and when it comes to our hair, my opinion is that it should be followed up with a deep conditioner or at least a highly & thick moisturising (rinse out) conditioner to balance things out again. When my hair is open (not protective style) I mostly detangle my hair before shampoo. Once you find a “pre detangling” product that you’re happy with, I’m sure you won’t be needing to clay wash in between as often. Just make sure whatever conditioner or deep conditioner you use, it should enhance your natural curl pattern and not make it totally frizzy even if you don’t use a brush. You can watch one of my recent clay wash videos “How to condition afro curly hair & clumping issues” where I mention ingredients we could look out for enhanced curl clumping. 🥰

💯%! Would be amazing if we could make impact and move DIY KZbin tutorials to a place where it still makes fun to do own hair remedies but much more safer. I used to not check the pH and wasn’t aware how alkaline and acid ingredients affect the hair strands. But now since I know better, I try to make people aware. ❤️

Thank you for sharing, I love it when I hear it‘s possible to grow the hair out while doing wash&gos. I‘m now at a slightly different journey because my hair is twisted. It’s gives me the freedom to not detangle my hair for a bit. 😇 We also do have winter season here, so I’ll just do it like you do and wear washngos once it gets warmer. I love the observation about your hair touching thick jackets and coats, that’s why I mostly walk out with head bands or satin beanies, so that I have least friction with my hair, even if it’s twisted. ❤️

Thank you! ❤️❤️

Thank you! 💖💖

Thanks, It’s all over KZbin if you use the search bar on how to edit videos depending on what kind of gear you use. There are also different editing apps.

@@RabielleParfait yes of course. Just thought you might have some references

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No, I didn’t dampen it but I do both ways. If I want to moisturise with no hair wash I dampen first. If it’s a pre hair wash, I apply it on dry hair and let it sit for at least 10-30 minutes or overnight.

It’s all in the video, worked amazing 😀

Haha thanks 😅, I guess I’m not consistent enough.

Thank you so much! It’s been real fun. That’s what I basically did last year 🤣🤣. Experimenting, failing and learning from my mistakes and failures. It’s just hard to film, edit und upload in time. ❤️

Thank you so much! 💖💖 It truly is and it’s fun to finally understand how different ingredients and whole formulations make the difference inside my hair.

Thank you! ❤️ Twisted updos look always beautiful! I can’t wait to grow my bangs and top layers of my hair out. Right now my mini twists mostly poke out if I don’t pin them or braid them in. Once it gets longer I’m here for the updos. 🥰

Yaas hooded dryer 🥹😭, I’m glad you made the same observations. I wonder if those professional degrees hooded dryers are better

@@RabielleParfait My stylist had the ones they all used and my hair was never dry. I always had wet roots during the cut

@@rosieamelia5955 😮‍💨😧ok

Wow, thank you for sharing this in depth information! Your hair is thriving totally 😍. Do you cut your own? And I love how you bring your hair length in relation to your height! Oftentimes people say their hair has reached a certain length like waist but usually we don’t know how tall they are. Because what could be long for me, could be long for you!

@@RabielleParfait I cut my hair myself. When my hair was relaxed I got professional cuts as well as cutting my hair myself so I got used to cutting my hair using the technique my stylist used.

Sorry if your brain cells can’t listen to long talking anymore. 😅 I’m glad others can and you should go watch short content to gain whatever you want to gain there❤️

How do you mean it? There are time periods where I henna a lot to less. I’ve been hennaing my hair for over a decade at least once a year. It depends on how much time I’ve got and how fast my hair grows out. Now, I try to henna at least twice a year. If I henna more frequently like every 1-2 months, I now focus more on henna glosses with conditioners and my roots. I’ll share an updated henna routine soon, right now my hair is twisted❤️

Thank you so much! ❤️ Exactly that’s why I’ve been talking about it because people are still out there doing the baking soda/acv rinses without realising it could be damaging the way they did it. Nobody warned me when I did the mhm for the first time. The mhm rather played it down, but we should have known it better. I got terrified after reading about white people’s hair being damaged with the no poo method of cleansing with baking soda and conditioning with acv rinses. And luckily jumped back to mild shampoos.

Thank you so much! I use different products, I’m not very consistent unfortunately, so I’m still in the process of figuring out staples. 🫣 Brands with their cleansers I love: Dermalogica, Cetaphil & Dr. Jart. I love the Milk Hydro Grip Primer over face creams. I currently make my own face lotions and body butters. Butters and oils I don’t miss: Murumuru butter, shea butter, coconut oil, aloe vera gel, cupuacu butter and cocoa butter. ❤️

Wow! 🤩 It totally changed my life too. The MHM was the only reason I even did the second big chop. My first big chop adventure was a failure because I did not understand enough about afro textured hair (I used to comb it dry with grease or pink/ors lotion😅) those wash&gos we saw loose afro texture haired women did was an unsolved puzzle and access to products was a nightmare in the 2009/10s 😩