My Final Farewell Before I Die

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@OGS.Official
@OGS.Official 7 ай бұрын
We’d like to thank Mike & her family for allowing us to preserve this intimate moment of their lives. Though death is a difficult topic to tackle, Mike taught us to never shy away from it, but to look it straight in the face so it has no power over us. Stories like hers remind us of why we do what we do. If you’d like, share your well wishes for Mike’s family in the comments, and we’ll pass it on to them. - Stef (OGS Producer)
@ccandmore
@ccandmore 7 ай бұрын
Rarely ever comment, but this was... sobering. It's a shame that our society has lost such a brave soul who knowingly stared into the abyss and didn't blink. Just like to thank her and her family and you for sharing this with all of us. Condolences to the family and all strength and power to them.
@RonLarhz
@RonLarhz 7 ай бұрын
​@@ccandmore Huh? As if unaliving oneself isnt a thing.
@MichelleGoh-hf7ir
@MichelleGoh-hf7ir 7 ай бұрын
:(
@JLYU99
@JLYU99 7 ай бұрын
Moved by this video and moved by Mike for the incredibly strong person she was, even in her final moments. Rest in peace!
@delongangchannel1387
@delongangchannel1387 7 ай бұрын
So touching story and sorrow sadness last wish to have family friend gathered together last time RIP Michelle hope u doing well with jesus without pain and free💐💐❤😢😢
@RickyIcecubes
@RickyIcecubes 7 ай бұрын
Anyone else think this is so much better than mourning someone in a casket? I think a final send off like this is a beautiful thing.
@Whippy99
@Whippy99 7 ай бұрын
I agree, wholeheartedly.
@Wonwonssi
@Wonwonssi 7 ай бұрын
Nah. Grief is grief. There's no such thing as "this way of griefing is better than that way of griefing". Grief is grief. Everybody deals with it differently.
@Whippy99
@Whippy99 7 ай бұрын
@@Wonwonssi Horses for courses 😊
@annaheart7731
@annaheart7731 7 ай бұрын
The funeral grief is not for the dead, it's for alive people who cared about him. they support each other by their presence and expressing good feelings towards the deceased. So, no way "living funeral" is ok. It's a last gathering of close people, then there's a funeral. And since now funerals is a big business, than it's reasonable to procede a small funeral.
@tanyabrown9839
@tanyabrown9839 7 ай бұрын
and has the bonus that the person could really enjoy the flowers people have brought for them for it. It seems strange that we usually buy flowers for dead people.
@jackieg7261
@jackieg7261 7 ай бұрын
My husband just passed away a few weeks ago from cancer. He wanted a wake after his death. I changed it up and gave him a "how did I meet you party". He got to see all his friends, reminisce and just enjoy their time together. No one was allowed to say cancer and I am so sorry statements. It was really beautiful. He was gone less than two weeks later.
@loumona76
@loumona76 7 ай бұрын
I am so happy you got to enjoy this beautiful moment. ❤️ RIP :( Stay strong, you did something amazing. ❤️
@Darci3333
@Darci3333 7 ай бұрын
Such a wonderful beautiful thing to do😢❤❤❤❤
@kimbrobst3601
@kimbrobst3601 7 ай бұрын
@uniniversalstar1974
@uniniversalstar1974 7 ай бұрын
That’s Awesome!
@Jade-Phoenix
@Jade-Phoenix 7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@HaroldBalls777
@HaroldBalls777 3 ай бұрын
I have terminal colon cancer with a life expectancy of less than 12 months. That diagnosis was given to me 1 month ago. So I part of my journey now is to use the next 2 months to say my goodbyes to my friends, colleagues - so I can devote my remaining time with my 2 boys and my wife who are involved in every aspect of this emotional journey. I find myself in a race against the clock to download as much of my experience and love into my family and leave no doubt in their minds. My boys are my legacy and the single greatest gift and accomplishment of my time here on earth. My wife gave me the gift of Fatherhood for which I am eternally grateful. Live, love, and repeat. Listen to your heart, move into action today, don't let days slip by. Be open with the ones you love, share in your joys and console in moments of sorrow. Leave behind memories of joy, laughter, sorrow, and love with others around you. God Bless you all.
@Thanos-ce5jh
@Thanos-ce5jh 3 ай бұрын
Sad for u brother may u spend rest of ur time happily
@PositiveVibes360
@PositiveVibes360 3 ай бұрын
God bless u too bro. we all are going to the same direction one after the other. May your journey be painless, both physically and emotionally. Ameen
@alexale5488
@alexale5488 3 ай бұрын
Keep fighting brother ! I will pray for a miracle !
@jong5124
@jong5124 3 ай бұрын
What a beautiful paragraph under the umbrella of such unfair awfulness. I am so sorry @haroldballs777 that you are going through this. Just know you have touched so many people with what you have written. I pray for you - to have peace, love and tenderness around you for the upcoming months. Your boys and wife I'm sure are just as lucky to have you.
@lydienoadia6705
@lydienoadia6705 3 ай бұрын
May God strengthen you my dear🙏🏾
@ratelhoneybadger
@ratelhoneybadger 6 ай бұрын
To have a room packed with THAT many people who love you, is true wealth.
@NiNitosix
@NiNitosix 6 ай бұрын
Amen. 💯 true
@jamespos8210
@jamespos8210 6 ай бұрын
Yeeeesireeee...
@DeadHandX
@DeadHandX 5 ай бұрын
Nahh fck that give me money
@grapefruitsyrup8185
@grapefruitsyrup8185 5 ай бұрын
you know they are just pretentious christians being there to make themselves look better right. If you dont know the church scene in singapore and how cult like it is then its easy to see why you are easily fooled. what im saying is the reality here unfortunately.
@PichaPie_L
@PichaPie_L 4 ай бұрын
A life well lived.
@dlnnyc64
@dlnnyc64 7 ай бұрын
“Death is not scary. The dying part is terrifying.” Profound in its clarity and simplicity. RIP Mike.
@samia6888
@samia6888 7 ай бұрын
My dad died on March 3rd 2024 and he was in the hospital for a month. Let me tell you, we went through it that month. The scariest and most heartbreaking thing. When he died it became taking care of the logistics. Our hearts grieved tremendously till the moments before but once it happened, we still cried but was relieved in some way that he isn’t going through the agony that was visible to us. We watched his condition deteriorated, he died of many complications but I think the main thing was that his kidneys failed and dialysis was not working well for him, it gave him a brain bleed. He was so emaciated that it haunts us till now when we remember how skinny he was because he was always a muscular and big man. His body just gave up and wasn’t taking in any nutrients. We did all we could. We are Muslims and we believe in God (Allah) so we believe in the afterlife and that comforts us. I remember the time we freaked out the absolute most, when he went to the hospital for water in his lungs (which we didn’t think much of it because he had it a year before and got out alive) and stayed for a few days before getting dialysis, he became completely delirious and was screaming random things, then his oxygen which was 100% dropped to 70%, my sister called me crying and I was grocery shopping for the family and ran back home sobbing and whole body shaking. Our whole family went to the hospital and we seen about 50 to 100 people (friends and family) waiting to see him (they let us go before them because we were direct family), we seen that he was intubated and sedated and nothing at all could have prepared us, we were SOBBING and thought he would be gone that day. Thank God that He kept my daddy around for another month for us to be close to him till the end and spend as much time with him before He took his soul. Another really traumatic sad part was when one of the nurses changed him and was a bit too rough with him (I guess he got annoyed of my dad’s delirious rants) and he kept asking my mom “why did he hurt me?”, dad was the strongest person I knew till this day and and to hear him say someone hurt him kills me and makes me want to die💔 Sorry for this rant, I got emotional when I read “the dying part is terrifying” because I definitely can relate.
@moon_mint
@moon_mint 7 ай бұрын
​@@samia6888sending you and your family so much love. It's so hard to watch those we love pass away.
@CSI426
@CSI426 7 ай бұрын
@dlnnyc64 - I totally agree, I witnessed my parents' slow, painful death. I am terrified of the dying process more than death itself.
@jessicawilson2772
@jessicawilson2772 7 ай бұрын
​@samia6888 I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know exactly what you mean... I lost my mom at 8 and my dad to brain cancer in my 20s. He passed within 7 weeks of diagnosis. He entered the hospital within the first 7 and was only discharged 40 hrs before he passed. I was a caregiver to him and was the one to find him in my childhood bedroom after he succumbed to the disease. The hospital stay was brutal. He was never able to walk without total support again. I commuted 3 hrs multiple times a week just to be able to sit bedside, despite having a 2 yr old, only bc my in laws helped financially. He was only capable of a (maybe) 2-4 sentence convo, at most. He suffered a couple of life or death complications, one of which had me flying to the hospital immediately after the clock struck midnight on New Year's Eve. But my struggles to be with him were nothing in comparison to what he endured. I know the slight relief you might have felt at the end, knowing he was no longer suffering, had little impact on the trauma/grief it brings. The grieving process is about your loss, so relief for him doesn't alleviate your pain. Having to come to terms with the brutal battle you witnessed was traumatizing enough, let alone the loss. So please know you are not alone. My heart goes out to you. I am sending you loads of love.❤
@mytruthmylife8725
@mytruthmylife8725 7 ай бұрын
Death is a consequence of sin, it Is appointed that ever man should die, we just need to pray we've made it to repentance by then 😢❤
@ErnestJay88
@ErnestJay88 7 ай бұрын
Honestly, this is better than traditional funeral since the dying one can hear how much her friends and families love her before her time came up, she can really gone in peace. 🌸
@ChaosSpectator2020
@ChaosSpectator2020 7 ай бұрын
​@@Killertails666 Awwe, poor child. You'll be truly happy someday 🐧
@Billyandnebby
@Billyandnebby 7 ай бұрын
⁠@@Killertails666 aww sorry your mommy made you clean your room 🐧
@MSBOOOYA420
@MSBOOOYA420 7 ай бұрын
Some don’t get this … some commit suicide..
@Typeofsucks13
@Typeofsucks13 7 ай бұрын
​@@Killertails666Hope you find some peace of mind and the warmth of love🐧
@jessygt4414
@jessygt4414 7 ай бұрын
Funeral is for the mourning of the living, not for the dead person.
@monicaluketich6913
@monicaluketich6913 7 ай бұрын
A couple of years ago, a very funny, smart friend was diagnosed with cancer in November. The doctors didn't think she would live a week. The family got a hospital bed that they were able to put in the living room ( old house with very small rooms). She LOVED Christmas and all the decorations. We realized that we didn't have room for her normal tree, so I got a 3 foot tree and decorated it with flashing lights and jingle bells - she was basically blind, but could hear the bells and see the lights go on and off. The whole house was decorated inside and out. We all came and visited her for the 3 weeks before she left this earth. The first week or so, the doctor had her on morphine because of the pain, and she told stories about her life. The last days, she seldom woke up, but we stayed there and talked in hopes that she could heard us. Charlotte, I hope you know how much your life touched our lives.
@lukechinedu3620
@lukechinedu3620 6 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss, ma'am.
@jasonkaltenbaugh4270
@jasonkaltenbaugh4270 6 ай бұрын
So grateful that she's a Christian ✝️. The confidence of her going to Heaven is the best gift she can leave her family.
@karencrazy5106
@karencrazy5106 Ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope one day Charlotte and her loved ones can reunite. May she rest in peace.
@PC_TV_73
@PC_TV_73 29 күн бұрын
That sounds like what happened to my mom her last two days, she had a special brown bag. The doctor said to only use if she did not feel good unknown to us. The medicine in the bag basically knocked her out so her last two days of life she was out. I just wish I knew that was going to happen as I was there. I would’ve told her how much I loved her again and that I hope to see her again one day.
@Dravasky
@Dravasky 7 ай бұрын
I’m in my second battle with brain cancer and after watching this, if it comes to a point where there’s nothing else they can do for me, I really like the idea of a living funeral. Her timing was perfect, ten days after her living funeral. So sad but she went out the way she wanted, and got to spend time with friends and loved ones.
@koreeni_
@koreeni_ 7 ай бұрын
oh no :( i will pray for you.
@MaeveLabsU
@MaeveLabsU 6 ай бұрын
we will pray for you 🙏
@Sandymodest_
@Sandymodest_ 6 ай бұрын
Get well soon ma👏 Sending you a virtual 🫂🤗❤
@ginlv8
@ginlv8 6 ай бұрын
❤ 🙏 ❤
@vampy6779
@vampy6779 6 ай бұрын
I hope you also spend your time surrounded by your loved ones- praying for you ❤️
@stutisrivastava5298
@stutisrivastava5298 7 ай бұрын
I’ve just bawled my eyes out for someone I didn’t know 20 mins ago and I’m forever changed.
@fidadefoe
@fidadefoe 7 ай бұрын
Same. Just cried like a baby over someone whom I've never met. Life is wild
@LaivernFrerichs
@LaivernFrerichs 7 ай бұрын
Me too! May she rest in peace in the arms of Jesus. ❤
@_Wanh_
@_Wanh_ 7 ай бұрын
Omg same here 🥺
@GenZareNPCs
@GenZareNPCs 7 ай бұрын
Same except I'm not forever changed and realistically neither are any of us.
@rita187
@rita187 7 ай бұрын
Me too .. n i sent this to my girls friends
@GreySkyLady
@GreySkyLady 7 ай бұрын
My biggest WTF after my husband died is that he didn’t hear the wonderful things people said about him. While I liked hearing about his impact, he needed to hear that himself. This is absolutely glorious and kind.
@swedeheart214
@swedeheart214 7 ай бұрын
Exactly! Why have we been doing a celebration of life service and saying special things about the deceased! It now makes total sense to celebrate the life of the living while they are still living! Intimate, loving, some humorous memories to lighten everyone's heart. ❤
@ST4R3Y
@ST4R3Y 7 ай бұрын
Awww, Im sorry for your loss.
@princessraj5921
@princessraj5921 7 ай бұрын
I definitely believe the deceased can hear what we say about them at their funerals so I am sure you husband heard ❤. But I understand having the assurance of telling them while they are still here ❤. I am so sorry for your loss. My family just had a tragedy with my sister in law but she was too sick and too much pain for this type of thing 😢
@healer81
@healer81 7 ай бұрын
Love transcends, time, space, and even death. The important thing is he lived a meaningful life and he is loved.
@klutzyorangeconfetti1017
@klutzyorangeconfetti1017 7 ай бұрын
Because some people still have hope that they will make it, in their eyes it’s like giving up
@feministiqe
@feministiqe 7 ай бұрын
“I want to get well… I want to go back to Jesus.” I cried. May Her soul forever rest in peace. She was ready to be with God.
@EquinoXReZ
@EquinoXReZ 7 ай бұрын
My sister, I only want goodness for you and that is why I advise you. I implore you to reflect before it is your funeral. O People of the Book! Do not go to extremes regarding your faith; say nothing about Allah except the truth. The Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, was no more than a messenger of Allah and the fulfilment of His Word through Mary and a spirit ˹created by a command˺ from Him. So believe in Allah and His messengers and do not say, “Trinity.” Stop!-for your own good. Allah is only One God. Glory be to Him! He is far above having a son! To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. And Allah is sufficient as a Trustee of Affairs. An-Nisāʾ, Ayah 171
@iamsherlocked875
@iamsherlocked875 7 ай бұрын
​@@EquinoXReZ your belief n your people are nothing but mean , no love and full of scary ppl
@LongDaysPleasantNights
@LongDaysPleasantNights 7 ай бұрын
​@@EquinoXReZ This brave woman had her steadfast faith in Christ in these circumstances and you *still* came here trying to flog your own beliefs. That's a new low, but I expected nothing less, honestly
@EquinoXReZ
@EquinoXReZ 7 ай бұрын
​@@LongDaysPleasantNights What benefit do I gain from "flogging" my own beliefs here? I felt from her comment that she has a good heart and so I wanted to share the message that has brought me so much peace in my life. I am only asking that you reflect on what you believe in and only worship the One who created everything alone. I get no benefit from your faith, it is for your own sake. All I hope is that you sincerely reflect, and if you still differ then you have your way and I have mine, no problem.
@LongDaysPleasantNights
@LongDaysPleasantNights 7 ай бұрын
@@EquinoXReZ Editing your original comment doesn't make this any better and my point very much still stands. This woman had her faith in Christ and you can never change that, nor can you change the faith of the millions who don't share your beliefs. There is no need to 'reflect' when people are steadfast in their beliefs, like Mike was. This is not the time nor place to be trying to do this. You said it yourself - "And if you still differ then you have your way and I have mine" Why feel the need to come to a video like this then, with a woman who clearly believes in Christ and who has passed away, to try and advertise *your* own beliefs?
@marcusaurelius5149
@marcusaurelius5149 3 ай бұрын
We tried to do this for a dear friend of ours but he didn't make it. The tumor was pressing on his brain and causing blackouts. He passed away two weeks before his celebration of life. We held it as scheduled and it was amazing to see everyone together. Most of us were friends because of him. Thank you Spence! I love you, brother.
@niamtxiv
@niamtxiv 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@karencrazy5106
@karencrazy5106 Ай бұрын
May your dear friends rest in peace🤍
@heidiallen4563
@heidiallen4563 7 ай бұрын
My mom had COPD. She was put on hospice. About 11 days in, she woke up and told me she was done fighting. I called the fam and we essentially had a living wake for her. She didn’t want a funeral, no obituary. She said if anyone couldn’t come see her when she was alive, she didn’t want them crying over her when she was dead. She slept for that last 3 days and passed peacefully with the ones who loved her most in attendance. Death doesn’t have to be this big, scary thing. My mom embraced it, said it was part of life and nothing to fear. I can only hope I’m that brave when it’s my time.
@jarrodhall3686
@jarrodhall3686 7 ай бұрын
Beautiful. Her final lesson to you was to show you it was alright.
@daniellekrishnanair4961
@daniellekrishnanair4961 7 ай бұрын
She was fearless brave lady ! Am sure that you will be like her !
@flazada
@flazada 7 ай бұрын
My mom passed 4 years ago from COPD & emphysema. It was terrible. I'm so sorry for what you've been through
@hautesauce
@hautesauce 7 ай бұрын
My dad had emphysema and he did his best to prepare us for his departure. I still wasn't ready
@MartimSmith
@MartimSmith 7 ай бұрын
Keep lying to yourself that death can be "peaceful",reality will kick your ass at the end
@deeb.9250
@deeb.9250 7 ай бұрын
Her acceptance makes this event possible. Living funeral so she can meet everyone, hear everyone, and everyone remembers. She seems to have so much energy here. I care for a terminal relative and they still can't come to term with the end, and have all kinds of anxiety and panic.
@Maderlololohio
@Maderlololohio 7 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear it sending hugs to you both ❤
@Trike.
@Trike. 7 ай бұрын
Has your family member asked Jesus Christ into their life and forgive them of their sins? If you pray with them to receive the Lord Jesus Christ into there lives thern they most certainly will make it to heaven and be safe forever . Jesus said he that has the son has life, but he that does not have the son shall not see life . Just a simple prayer is all it takes to know jesus and to be forgiving a life time of sins. God is willing that none should perish but all come to repentance.
@MissTXTee
@MissTXTee 7 ай бұрын
It might be beneficial for your family member to talk with a therapist who works with terminal clients.
@oliviastar3812
@oliviastar3812 7 ай бұрын
@@Trike. Amen
@oliviastar3812
@oliviastar3812 7 ай бұрын
I pray you see the message from commenter Trike and pass it on to your relative. God bless you both.
@skullcandy15151
@skullcandy15151 7 ай бұрын
This living funeral concept is beautiful.
@oliviastar3812
@oliviastar3812 7 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the book of Job, when his friends came.
@veronicafernando-oj4er
@veronicafernando-oj4er 7 ай бұрын
I also want this to happen..God' s permisdion..if ever He will calls me.
@Katjust0407
@Katjust0407 7 ай бұрын
I’ve always said this is a great idea as the people actually get to see and hear how much they are loved.
@BrightAmbition
@BrightAmbition 7 ай бұрын
I think a living funeral is a great idea. Get your flowers while you are alive to smell them.
@Justin-uc8sc
@Justin-uc8sc 7 ай бұрын
It’s not a funeral. The definition of funeral literally says service held shortly after ones death.
@Sharibaby80
@Sharibaby80 7 ай бұрын
My dad passed away this morning. I'm trying to get through this and finding comfort everywhere I can. This helped. Thank you Mike. 🕊
@msveliz01
@msveliz01 7 ай бұрын
I am sorry for your loss😢
@myriamtouil3347
@myriamtouil3347 7 ай бұрын
WE LOVE YOU , TIME WILL HEAL ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤you are important and love and needed don't give up ❤❤❤
@samarislam371
@samarislam371 7 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away from Covid three years and three months ago, and I still can’t get through it. The wound is still fresh; it’s still painful and it still hurts. My condolences to you and your family. Take care.
@Christianguitar206
@Christianguitar206 7 ай бұрын
I know how you feel. My dad passed away 5 months ago, a day before my birthday. I miss him so much.
@jesslam6275
@jesslam6275 7 ай бұрын
*Super big hug * ~~ you are not alone ❤❤❤❤
@1101G12646
@1101G12646 7 ай бұрын
I could be wrong but I can definitely tell she's using every fibre left in her body to hold back all her tears. What a soul, I wish her a happy new life in a better place.
@D1vid3By0
@D1vid3By0 7 ай бұрын
Or maybe ran out of tears a while back. This is so tragic, but she's so right. We need the clarity of death to see life clearly. I'm going to remember her for this.
@josephmarzullo
@josephmarzullo 7 ай бұрын
there is no "better place" LOL
@1101G12646
@1101G12646 7 ай бұрын
@@josephmarzullo True. It’s not a “place” I guess
@xyzzy0077
@xyzzy0077 6 ай бұрын
She's on fentanyl. That definitely affects one's mind
@laobok
@laobok 6 ай бұрын
@@josephmarzullo Why don't you go and check for us?
@jennh2096
@jennh2096 7 ай бұрын
As a hospice nurse, this is one of the most beautiful things Ive ever seen. We are all going to be there one day, dont fear it, instead look death in the face by living every day like your last. Dont wait, no one is promised tomorrow
@izwanizi
@izwanizi 7 ай бұрын
Offcourse la have to fear..20years ago...i got too many sins and wrongdoing..especially to my all ex-gf..Now got no face to ask them for forgiveness since all of them already had family..
@n.c.4829
@n.c.4829 7 ай бұрын
​@@izwanizi Jesus can forgive anyone. You're not too far for redemption, and you don't have to fix your life before coming to him. He already knows everything you've ever done and still died for your sins. Surrender your life to him today where you are, and he will redeem you.
@RosinDaddy5280
@RosinDaddy5280 7 ай бұрын
​@@n.c.4829God can forgive not Jesus
@Micah-v2i
@Micah-v2i 7 ай бұрын
Yeah truly, reality speaking we all are gonna go that point in God’s time. It is quite admirable that someone openly accepts the endpoint of life May God embrace and comfort the family of Mike
@Amaling
@Amaling 7 ай бұрын
⁠@@izwaniziwell buddy if you believe in Christianity all you have to do is say you apologize and believe in the power of Christ and you’re good ;) Alternatively you can yknow choose to believe that there is no eternal damnation because you cheated on past partners More importantly you still got the rest of your life to live and can choose to be kind to others now
@vp108
@vp108 7 ай бұрын
This video proves that you don't need to know a person personally, for their story to bring tears to your eyes😢 RIP Mike ❤
@amonratpeavy9717
@amonratpeavy9717 7 ай бұрын
😢true b/c we can related to sadness.
@Maria-n6t2d
@Maria-n6t2d 7 ай бұрын
Amen, she seems to be a lovely, kind, and obviously beautiful woman. I pray for her loved ones. 🙏🏼🩷🌸🪽
@mimimiao6921
@mimimiao6921 7 ай бұрын
I cried too.. she’s so brave.
@ejkamus2006
@ejkamus2006 7 ай бұрын
Humanity
@angeladorsett1159
@angeladorsett1159 7 ай бұрын
I know how it feels to lose a family member to ovarian cancer, also list family to other cancers rip mike 😢
@Kittensinurface
@Kittensinurface 4 ай бұрын
My cousin died on June 29, 2024 from lung cancer. She was 44 and had two teen daughters. Please pray for them to be strong throughout their lives.
@LadyCLR
@LadyCLR 4 ай бұрын
❤ Prayed and trusting Yah for their strength
@pattip8110
@pattip8110 3 ай бұрын
🙏🏽❤🙏🏽
@Thanos-ce5jh
@Thanos-ce5jh 3 ай бұрын
God bless her children
@LadyCLR
@LadyCLR 3 ай бұрын
@@Thanos-ce5jh Amen
@Katy_aloneINDIA
@Katy_aloneINDIA 3 ай бұрын
Hare Krishna
@irishka_zolotse
@irishka_zolotse 7 ай бұрын
She passed 10 days after this event 😢😢😢, thank you, her friends and family for being there for her, with her, comforting her in her last days... she is such a strong woman, such a stron spirit, she is with Jesus now, we will all meet again! RIP sister, no tears no more ❤❤❤
@anenlongkumer4224
@anenlongkumer4224 7 ай бұрын
So sad so strong lady
@TitusMatthews-x4h
@TitusMatthews-x4h 7 ай бұрын
, rip condolences, family members, friends
@mrobinson1682
@mrobinson1682 7 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss, condolences to the family. This was really beautiful and touching. RIP 😔.
@subbaalka8500
@subbaalka8500 7 ай бұрын
Rip🕊️
@subasthapa4839
@subasthapa4839 7 ай бұрын
@missyd394
@missyd394 7 ай бұрын
Alot people don't get the chance to know you will die ..its a privilege to say goodbye to everyone you love it is a pure gift
@simpleperson3517
@simpleperson3517 7 ай бұрын
True. Life is anyway short. So, the best we can do is, to make the most of it, not to hold grudge or hate and spread peace, love and happiness. It is either others or us, who will depart early even if we are unsure of the time and circumstance.
@leonardmulrooney3806
@leonardmulrooney3806 6 ай бұрын
I don’t agree that it is a some type of gift to know when you are going to die. You can always tell people you love them even when you are healthy.
@eleone8
@eleone8 5 ай бұрын
On the contrary, I think it's a blessing to not know and have it happen spontaneously. Having to live your every waking hour seeing your loved ones grieve for a loss that is yet to come, whilst feeling yourself slowly waste away, is horrible.
@userunknownspeechlesswhistle
@userunknownspeechlesswhistle 5 ай бұрын
So, what to do other than create more ways to cope? We’re all oppressed, and many of us are in our minds, and many of us at the edges of the cliff, while several others have seen death in their sepsis dreams whispering to them if they’re reading to come home.
@lisaandrade2195
@lisaandrade2195 Ай бұрын
I absolutely agree
@1nePercentJuice
@1nePercentJuice 7 ай бұрын
Some people, like this woman, go towards death with such courage and strength. I really admire her for that.
@oneseeker2
@oneseeker2 7 ай бұрын
She .said she was anxious
@1nePercentJuice
@1nePercentJuice 7 ай бұрын
@@oneseeker2 who wouldn't be anxious? Are you saying that negates her having courage and strength?
@Stolimel
@Stolimel 7 ай бұрын
This is quite admirable and I would consider this if presented with a terminal illness. My mother passed in hospice and for the 2 weeks she was there she was visited by all that loved her. We would then meet at my sisters house for dinner and do it all over the next day. Some days she was able to be present towards the end we would just watch over her and share memories or just be. I find it similar to her story. Thank you.
@rosaa658
@rosaa658 7 ай бұрын
Wow thank you 🙏🏿 Michelle ( mike ) family & all her loving friends . For sharing this sad 😢 & precious intimate moment ! And to be honest I wouldn’t mind to have a living funeral like hers , because what she said it’s so true ! That when a person dies , it’s just the viewing followed by the person been buried . And the person that dies , doesn’t have the chance. To say goodbye to friends & family members , that perhaps 🤔 you haven’t seen in a long time . Having this live funeral , gave mike a chance to remember all the memories shared . With family & all friends , but it’s so sad 😭 that she was so beautiful . And so young only 30 years old , I would‘be like to know what was her diagnosis ?? I heard Cancer , I hate CANCER it has taken my mom & other family members unfortunately ! And I can’t wait till scientists 👩‍🔬 find a cure for it , but I know Michelle it’s in heaven . No more pain , but I’m sure her immediate family & friends missed her terribly ! May you Rest In Peace ☮️ ✌️ Mike , God earned another Angel 👼 ! 👼😭❤️🙏🏿🥰☮️✌️❤️🙏🏿
@mykiea5156
@mykiea5156 7 ай бұрын
@@oneseeker2right this person thinks what they said is so profound but I have watched people die and yes they accepted it but if they had a damn choice they would not accept it , like I can’t stand people and their stupid “profound” words ugh
@imaczech
@imaczech 7 ай бұрын
Don't take things for granted until you lose them. Appreciate the ability to breathe the air, see people, spend time with the loved ones, and do things you enjoy. It's really a mental shift, but adopting this mindset can lead to a more fulfilling life.
@criscryspy
@criscryspy 7 ай бұрын
Rest in heaven Mike
@joytotheworldddd
@joytotheworldddd 7 ай бұрын
I had cancer when i was 18. I truly understand how cancer and death feels like. I really appreciate and see my life at a different angle now. Not to be too harsh on yourself, live and let live. Be happy and love life. These are the things you will truly understand once you had been through the harshest. I will be turning 29 this year.
@shalinifernando4204
@shalinifernando4204 7 ай бұрын
Wishing you best in your life. RIP Mike
@emelinekoch4752
@emelinekoch4752 7 ай бұрын
I see
@blah23865
@blah23865 7 ай бұрын
Have to agree with you... I had lymphoma cancer in 2020 and reoccurred in 2022. Even though its was an early stage but its a moment where you felt hopeless and scared. Now, I truly feel appreciate with my life even though I still struggle getting my life back😇😇
@J.G.817
@J.G.817 7 ай бұрын
Amen..I can relate to what all of you are saying, testicular cancer at 26,1986 and bladder and prostate cancer in 2022.Now cancer free, and you do put things into perspective after facing death,you love life so much more.Thank you Lord Jesus. R.I.P Mike.🙏
@J.G.817
@J.G.817 7 ай бұрын
Amen..I can relate to what all of you are saying, testicular cancer at 26,1986 and bladder and prostate cancer in 2022.Now cancer free, and you do put things into perspective after facing death,you love life so much more.Thank you Lord Jesus. R.I.P Mike.🙏
@leebings7443
@leebings7443 7 ай бұрын
“You need the clarity of death to help you see clearly in life”. Let that sink in.
@bobafett5757
@bobafett5757 7 ай бұрын
Too deep lah can please explain its meaning
@oneseeker2
@oneseeker2 7 ай бұрын
Words
@kevinng8061
@kevinng8061 7 ай бұрын
@@bobafett5757when u are diagnosed with cancer, u will understand. I had been at the edge of the cliff before, I need no explanation myself.
@retrovox
@retrovox 7 ай бұрын
If that is true, everyone would die a wise person.
@bobafett5757
@bobafett5757 7 ай бұрын
@@kevinng8061 What is the first symptoms u felt so bad that u think its cancer cos I am actually scared to face it ?
@senorita1983hbl
@senorita1983hbl Ай бұрын
20 years ago my dad had 2 months left to live but the day I started reading the Bible 10 chapters EVERYDAY in faith and prayed for him DAILY 2 hours, my dad too began reading 8 Chapters of the Bible EVERYDAY. There was no trace of cancer within weeks. All clear reports. The cancer vanished. He is alive and well until today ❤❤❤ WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE 🙌🙌🙌
@megsoju
@megsoju 7 ай бұрын
When she talked about wishing she could have children, take her parents on holidays, continue to go cycling, I just hoped she could feel the joy of all those things by being surrounded by her loved ones. As someone with depression, I often want to die. Seeing people who have so much love for and in their lives makes me wish I could give them whatever time I have left. The way her friend hugged her as if she could keep her there just a little longer shows how loved and cared for she is. The way her brother held her hand and spoke about his fear of navigating life without her shows how much impact her presence has. A life where people come together to hold you tight one last time is a life that should go on. I hope she is resting peacefully now and that her light comforts those who had to let her go. ❤️‍🩹
@DorothyAnneIcal
@DorothyAnneIcal 7 ай бұрын
Praying for you too. Having depression is not easy.
@albabjigarandrabi3166
@albabjigarandrabi3166 7 ай бұрын
You're a light too my dear!
@sanchitasengupta5702
@sanchitasengupta5702 7 ай бұрын
Very nicely written...
@youcanfindshoof
@youcanfindshoof 7 ай бұрын
You are worthy and there are people who care and love you too
@chrislee4485
@chrislee4485 7 ай бұрын
She has time to say a decent goodbye. Can't say the same for the 17yo girl victim in Tampines car accident.
@hellraiser1306
@hellraiser1306 7 ай бұрын
Why you recommend this video at 2 am, youtube? Now i'm crying so much. The first tear is when her brother said he knew her for 22 years. I can't imagine losing my siblings who i knew my entire life too... I am an atheist but she believe in God. Then i hope she is in heaven with God and the angels. Happy and laughing without pain or suffering anymore. Rest in heaven, Mike.
@JMatt.
@JMatt. 7 ай бұрын
I urge you to believe in God as it doesn't cost you anything. The same energy for unbelief is the same energy needed to believe. And if there is no reason to believe there is life after physical death, since nobody really knows what happens after, at the least, your belief can be an option to secure your spot in the afterlife in case the surprise springs up. I say this with utmost respect for your decision.
@bri420x
@bri420x 7 ай бұрын
@@JMatt.beautifully said 💕
@Daniel-ld7xs
@Daniel-ld7xs 7 ай бұрын
I pray that hopefully one day you will be able to turn to God. However long it will take.
@1saamor897
@1saamor897 7 ай бұрын
guess, what she IS in Heaven. Happy Resurrection Sunday! Jesus is ALIVE
@tab5470
@tab5470 7 ай бұрын
​@@JMatt. I respectfully disagree! If there's a god, mothers and fathers shouldn't have to bury their children! My children who were introduced to religion and went to religious school since age three, and they do not believe in god. I introduce them but encourage to think for themselves!
@marykeria200
@marykeria200 7 ай бұрын
What stands out for me is when Mike says that the memories she clings on to the most are "running and cycling". We too often take our health and ability to get up and move for granted, assuming this ability will last forever. Mike's story has reminded me that wellbeing is a privilege not a right. Rest easy Mike, and much love and peace to her family and friends. ❤
@miav7160
@miav7160 7 ай бұрын
Agreed. I started doing Pilates, weight lifting and speed walking for weight loss, but over the years; I’ve come to realize how lucky I am to be able to move my body independently. ❤
@iSheree
@iSheree 7 ай бұрын
Yes as someone who was born disabled (spina bifida and Deaf) developed chronic health issues along the way, and now cancer, I look around and see so many people taking it for granted.
@JimStanfield-zo2pz
@JimStanfield-zo2pz 7 ай бұрын
I wouldn't say it's a privilege or a right. It's just the way a healthy body operates until it breaks down and dies. It's the basic function of a healthy human body. Yes it comes to an end. But I wouldn't call it a privilege. It is more of a necessity for a human being to face the challenges of maintaining life until they successfully reproduce.
@KoalaBeer.
@KoalaBeer. 7 ай бұрын
@@JimStanfield-zo2pzso you live healthy and die well damn , eat bad and probably live
@yupyupyupnope
@yupyupyupnope 7 ай бұрын
Yeah, that wasn’t the answer I was expecting to hear, but it definitely hit me in the very different way. I could see her looking back her every day life she had when she was healthy and able to move her body like we all do. 😢
@escallite
@escallite 3 ай бұрын
She is ok now. She is with Jesus. God wiped away her tears and she is happy now.
@BonazaiGirl
@BonazaiGirl 7 ай бұрын
This popped into my recommendations on Easter and now I’m trying to fight off tears. May Mike rest in peace and her family heal from the loss of such an amazing person.
@rocknflip66
@rocknflip66 7 ай бұрын
same, was just watching my everyday go to videos on YT and this popped up, a beautiful soul
@shinetalab8305
@shinetalab8305 7 ай бұрын
same 🥺 Speechless just 😢😭
@someone7554
@someone7554 7 ай бұрын
The video was posted three days ago. Maybe she will also be resurrected on this day
@bento3142
@bento3142 7 ай бұрын
same, hesitated but i watched it. beautiful story
@manitamao6564
@manitamao6564 7 ай бұрын
Same right here. It was really sad and beautiful to watch
@Whippy99
@Whippy99 7 ай бұрын
Thirty years old. Younger than both my children. Michelle was obviously loved tremendously. What a brave, beautiful soul. ❤
@st4r444
@st4r444 7 ай бұрын
She loved bwc too
@faraazmulla412
@faraazmulla412 7 ай бұрын
@@st4r444 Tf?
@FarmGirlFlipFantastic
@FarmGirlFlipFantastic 7 ай бұрын
29?
@fungustheclown666
@fungustheclown666 7 ай бұрын
​@@st4r444 I think you're projecting your desires, dingleheimer. Crawl back into your loveless cave and realize that you'll never have anyone care about you like this family cares about her. You won't be found immediately, your funeral will be silent, nothing, your grave unkempt and dead. Sleep with that in mind please.
@decemberkat
@decemberkat 7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@Marrivaf
@Marrivaf 7 ай бұрын
Oh my god her saying she holds no resentment just sadness over missed opportunities broke my heart. I needed that reminder I’m so so sorry that In this lifetime she never got to live out those things.. truly heart wrenching
@sal78sal
@sal78sal 6 ай бұрын
Good lesson for all of us. cancel the yoga class and bike riding and dove time to finding a partner and having kids
@camarojai6832
@camarojai6832 4 ай бұрын
When my cousin very young had an aggressive form of breast cancer we had a “slumber party” like we did as kids…we kept the sadness is other rooms only surrounded her with smiles stories and her favorite things just like Mike request…soar high Mike, double squeeze your brother’s hand 🕊️
@susanlucas1125
@susanlucas1125 7 ай бұрын
Beautiful woman and too young to die...I just lost my brother to pancreatic cancer and very difficult seeing such a vibrant person become very weak and ill. I hope she is able to run and cycle in heaven with the stars around her. RIP.
@22ergie
@22ergie 7 ай бұрын
So sorry about your brother, Susan. Love and prayers from Laura in EU.
@devilambrose
@devilambrose 7 ай бұрын
Hug, sorry for your lost.
@im_me_mini
@im_me_mini 7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your brother
@skycloud4802
@skycloud4802 7 ай бұрын
Cancer is such a horrible infliction. I hope gets consigned to the history books one day.
@b.i.k.i.b.i.k.i
@b.i.k.i.b.i.k.i 7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry about your brother. May he Rest In Peace. My mum passed away from pancreatic cancer in January this year. Watching a loved one in so my pain is the hardest thing. Sending you prayers of comfort 🙏🏻
@ghostie7790
@ghostie7790 7 ай бұрын
Her birth year was 1994, so we are the same age. I cried like a baby when her brother spoke because that's how I feel about having my twin brother in my life too. She looks so tired so I am happy that she got to do this. I'm happy she can rest now.
@KillberZomL4D42494
@KillberZomL4D42494 7 ай бұрын
She's same age as me too, that's still too young to die.
@DrTLEvans
@DrTLEvans 7 ай бұрын
😭 she was a year younger than my oldest son. I can’t imagine. I love the way she celebrated her life and made memories why she had time instead of feeling defeated.🙏🏾❤️🕊️
@kianathomas851
@kianathomas851 7 ай бұрын
This is a special year for us ‘94 babies… I want to remember Michelle this year ❤
@blaz3127
@blaz3127 7 ай бұрын
Me too born in 1994
@TheIgdrasil1
@TheIgdrasil1 7 ай бұрын
I am also born in 1994. I can not even comprehend how it would be if I were dying. When I look back, my life is actually good, but I wasted almost all of it on worrying, hating myself, wanting to change. Unsatisfied. I am ashamed before those who left this beautiful Earth where bloom freesias.
@bernadettevelasco6323
@bernadettevelasco6323 7 ай бұрын
I lost my only child, my son to covid in 2021. By the time i was driven to the hospital, he had already passed away. I scream cried, and went into shock. The chaplain said he could still hear. So i told him how much i loved him, and thanked him for being my son. That was in Dec, 2021, days before Christmas. I still feel raw, like it was ystrdy. Pls keep both john, and me in your prayers. God bless the beautiful young kady who died, her friends, and family. My milestone bday is 4/3. Yet celebrating without john is very painful.
@lakermark2006
@lakermark2006 7 ай бұрын
My condolences to you. I hope you find peace one day and know that he would want you to find happiness.
@winterwildflowers8439
@winterwildflowers8439 7 ай бұрын
Sending love to you mama. He is with you today and always 💛
@Angie-fe8yd
@Angie-fe8yd 7 ай бұрын
Sending Love 💌& hugs🫂 to you...I have a 32 year old son my heart goes out to you...🙏May you one day find peace 🕊 Your son would want the best for you❤️‍🩹🫂
@iambrandin_
@iambrandin_ 7 ай бұрын
Sending love to you and John Happy birthday ♈️🩷🥳
@mercydabbs3330
@mercydabbs3330 7 ай бұрын
Accept my condolence and may the Lord console you and give you strength. When I see the way people live their lives post-covid, it feels like the ravaging illness never came into human history yet, people who went unscathed refused to take a lesson from its tragedy!
@hopestephen2012
@hopestephen2012 7 ай бұрын
I would love to hold a meeting like this for my dad who is battling with stage 4 cancer. How I wish his friends and loved ones can show up.
@lickkkkit
@lickkkkit 7 ай бұрын
"I'm descending from my throne!!" that made me laugh while crying. Mike, I hope that your soul is running and cycling and smiling. Rest in peace, thank you for sharing your journey because you've touched me and many others by doing so. I hope your friends, family and loved ones are coping well, I'm sorry your life was tragically cut short, fly high angel.
@tea-and-biscuits
@tea-and-biscuits 7 ай бұрын
Shocked to see how young she was, just aged 30. As a 32 year old, it reminds me: Life is fragile, love and laugh and live. Don't sweat the small stuff...
@RonLarhz
@RonLarhz 7 ай бұрын
My older sibling survived stage 4 cancer @ 25+ and got more toxic instead. 坏人都长命百岁。🙄🙄🙄
@tobyc8668
@tobyc8668 7 ай бұрын
@@RonLarhz How old is he/she now?
@rosyxue1785
@rosyxue1785 7 ай бұрын
​@@RonLarhzNot sure how true but heard old people say because bad people will need to live on to suffer more/ longer before their life journey ends.
@Theminnieminx8
@Theminnieminx8 7 ай бұрын
@@rosyxue1785like the saying “the good die young”
@freshtapcoke
@freshtapcoke 7 ай бұрын
I thought wow, she looks reallly so young for her age, assuming she was in her 60’s or something. I can’t believe she was so young; so not fair. 😭😭😭
@zadventi3996
@zadventi3996 7 ай бұрын
I am honored to be a part of a group that watched this video. Mike, i never know you personally, and probably never will, but just so you know, i am thankful to witness the life of yours and your family while you were still alive, you will never be forgotten Mike, rest well. ❤
@cholehart5811
@cholehart5811 7 ай бұрын
@shyhi4695
@shyhi4695 7 ай бұрын
RIP with God and the angels 🙏🏼💗
@JoannaDias-x4v
@JoannaDias-x4v 7 ай бұрын
Nonsense, this shows that she doesn't have faith in God, n miracles.
@Rayvn.
@Rayvn. 7 ай бұрын
@@JoannaDias-x4vpeople are born and people die, god cannot do anything about that.
@lauren_WI
@lauren_WI 7 ай бұрын
Beautifully said ❤@zadventi3996
@ЕленаШатравка-ц5з
@ЕленаШатравка-ц5з 4 ай бұрын
She had so scared eyes. But she was wonderful anyway. I wish her all the sunshine and all the warmth. RIP, Michelle🙏
@catherineepommett8526
@catherineepommett8526 7 ай бұрын
I have stage 4 ovarian cancer, have had a basketball size tumor shrunk with chemotherapy, then was gutted in the OR. Happened upon Mike’s video and it has given me much to think about.
@puzzletherapy4u
@puzzletherapy4u 7 ай бұрын
Try the carnivore diet with just plain meat, salt and water. Look up the KZbin videos about healing cancer with the carnivore diet. Good luck!
@snailart14
@snailart14 7 ай бұрын
Sending love your way. I hope you can find some peace. That's really scary.
@wittie28
@wittie28 7 ай бұрын
I am not a Chinese medicine doctor, but my Chinese medicine doctor told me cancer like wet and cold body environment (Chinese medicine theory, please talk to a Chinese doctor). You can watch your daily diet and check your tongue to see if your body has too much moisture. Anyway, take care and God bless you. If you live in San Francisco area, I can recommend you a good Chinese medicine doctor.
@KazukoLight
@KazukoLight 7 ай бұрын
Sorry, I hope you find peace!
@hawkmoths
@hawkmoths 7 ай бұрын
@@puzzletherapy4uJust so you are aware, comments like these are not helpful. I am a biochemist and very knowledgeable on cancer and metabolism, and the carnivore diet absolutely cannot help put cancer in to remission. Giving advice like this without prompt to do so is harmful to the person commenting because it places the blame of their health worsening on them entirely, instead of being helpful to their woes as you may think it could be.
@NovahLia
@NovahLia 7 ай бұрын
This randomly played via autoplay. You don’t know how much I needed this video. As someone who was recently diagnosed with an illness that will eventually take me soon. I’m so scared. This gave me a different view. Thank you, Mike. May your soul rest in peace.
@halroxdynasty8683
@halroxdynasty8683 7 ай бұрын
Im so sorry to hear that stay strong ❤
@Scoobiekittydoo
@Scoobiekittydoo 7 ай бұрын
Much love to you my friend ❤I’m very sorry for your pain I’ll be keeping you in my prayers and I hope you have an amazing day today ❤
@dimmacletus882
@dimmacletus882 7 ай бұрын
You can be healed!
@ebbiemusumali8301
@ebbiemusumali8301 7 ай бұрын
Hugs to you..and May I please take this liberty to mention the Lord Jesus Christ? You can call his name and tell him that he is Lord .And that God the Father raised him from the dead.🙏
@mlut81
@mlut81 7 ай бұрын
I'm praying for you
@Dawn-kv2et
@Dawn-kv2et 6 ай бұрын
I hosted a final farewell cookout party for my mom before she passed. It was beautiful, and I'd do it again if God allowed. I miss you so much mom. 😢
@joselito7776
@joselito7776 7 ай бұрын
What a brave woman. And there was something different about her glare, like a part of her was already on the other side, but she was concentrating on keeping her still 'living' part grounded despite the irresistable pull of what comes next. RIP.
@thepowerfulkiller8474
@thepowerfulkiller8474 7 ай бұрын
Especially when passed just a week after this….the possibility u stated is even more truer than ever, RIP Mike
@karmak8006
@karmak8006 7 ай бұрын
That's the look you'll see in many patients who are dying. The body is slowly giving away. If you've witnessed enough deaths, you'll understand. Cheers to life and death.
@sapphirerain70
@sapphirerain70 7 ай бұрын
My condolences ❤ way to young😢 watching this video, she is now part of my journey through life. What a beautiful woman ❤
@vintagebrew1057
@vintagebrew1057 7 ай бұрын
"Like part of her was already on the other side" that moved me very much. 😥
@ew7512
@ew7512 7 ай бұрын
Yes that look, a sort of half-detached look, is common in dying people.
@thrumewindow
@thrumewindow 7 ай бұрын
I’ve met Mike once in November 2022. She was very sweet and friendly towards me even though we just met. RIP Mike.
@momonomay3011
@momonomay3011 7 ай бұрын
She is clearly not herself here, but you can tell she was beautiful kind soul
@kashnimago2096
@kashnimago2096 7 ай бұрын
Im so sorry for your loss. He is with you always. Lots of love and strength to you and your family.
@thelostremainunfound
@thelostremainunfound 7 ай бұрын
I hope she passed as peacefully as possible. It was clear that she was starting to go from what we see at the party but she tried very hard to be present with them and that is admirable. May her family know peace and her memory be a blessing.
@oaktharas
@oaktharas 7 ай бұрын
When legs swell up like that, she really has very little time left. One month tops, if not one week.
@saa8160
@saa8160 7 ай бұрын
@@oaktharas Why is that?
@uvevau
@uvevau 7 ай бұрын
​@@saa8160organs are starting to fail and water accumulates
@yivmaiden
@yivmaiden 7 ай бұрын
​@@saa8160probably signs of kidney failure
@zolofting
@zolofting 5 ай бұрын
⁠@@saa8160usually heart failure; its not working efficiently so blood/fluid pools in the lower extremities rather than circulating
@jamiea7521
@jamiea7521 4 ай бұрын
“You need the clarity of death to see clearly in life” is so profound. It really encompasses how I feel since losing my dad last year and gave me the words I couldn’t find. RIP Mike, thank you for sharing this piece of your story for us to bear witness to
@markharrisllb
@markharrisllb 7 ай бұрын
My best friend arranged a party to say goodbye when he had cancer of the oesophagus. He became unwell before the party and was taken into hospital, I said I’d go to hospital to visit him. Being northern men we never said a nice word to each other but he was out of it that night so I thought I could get away with saying "You are the best friend a man could hope for." Then as clear as day he said "So are you." He passed that night, as his family were celebrating the man he was.
@carlitobecool
@carlitobecool 6 ай бұрын
Wow man. That's really beautiful
@jancraig9298
@jancraig9298 6 ай бұрын
I’m literally crying with tears from reading your story . This was beautiful
@ayannaafiya599
@ayannaafiya599 6 ай бұрын
Teary eyed fr fr when i read it as well ​@@jancraig9298
@karencrazy5106
@karencrazy5106 Ай бұрын
May your best friends rest in peace. I am so sorry for your loss.🤍
@fefemyluv
@fefemyluv 7 ай бұрын
I don’t quite understand yet why I needed to see this on Ressurection Day, but I’m sure it will come to me. Thank you, Mike, for your testimony of life and death. May you rest with our Lord. May God cover your family in comfort and remembrance.
@MrsSurrealista
@MrsSurrealista 7 ай бұрын
Same thought I had. God bless you
@furiousram3577
@furiousram3577 7 ай бұрын
Same
@cwgu4693
@cwgu4693 7 ай бұрын
Hope you get out of that oppressive cult of lies someday! We're waiting for you.
@mark1542
@mark1542 7 ай бұрын
The beautiful thing is Jesus defeated death on the cross, this flesh is mere mortal but through him our soul can live forever with him in heaven
@prkremer
@prkremer 7 ай бұрын
@@cwgu4693won’t you be surprised!? I guess billions of people got caught up in a cult. I’m sure it wasn’t the anything goes, you can be anything you want to be, go with the flow, Mother Nature, new age kind of cult that the dark side embraces. If good is not real, then neither is satan. And convincing you he doesn’t exist is ok by him. After all, he who dies with the most wins, right?
@kel2700
@kel2700 7 ай бұрын
I’m from America 48 yr. old female. This popped up. What a beautiful & brave woman prayers to the family & friends.✌🏼❤️
@manikyum
@manikyum 7 ай бұрын
Why do you have to mention your age
@fwdflashwebdesign
@fwdflashwebdesign 7 ай бұрын
What is beautiful about this? It is absolutely horrible!
@bryy4272
@bryy4272 7 ай бұрын
@@manikyumit’s just a way people introduce themselves, no big deal
@bryy4272
@bryy4272 7 ай бұрын
@@fwdflashwebdesignwhy can’t those two things coexist at once?
@t4ngnam671
@t4ngnam671 7 ай бұрын
​@@fwdflashwebdesignin my opinion, its bittersweet
@myraw2849
@myraw2849 3 ай бұрын
R.I.P. Mike. Thank you for your bravery and sincerity to share it with all of us. ❤
@Makkar0onii
@Makkar0onii 7 ай бұрын
Michelle ‘Mike’ Ng passed away on 2nd January 2024. A little over a week after her living funeral which was held on 23rd December 2023.
@prinzexisalowqualityytber
@prinzexisalowqualityytber 7 ай бұрын
dammit, i wish her the best of lucks in her next life
@shortyass001
@shortyass001 7 ай бұрын
May her soul rest in peace in heaven ❤
@chantalsscaleisafibber
@chantalsscaleisafibber 7 ай бұрын
What a fun person she appeared to be RIP Mike.What a great idea for a living funeral to basically see all the important people in your life.
@LeeLeeCRN
@LeeLeeCRN 7 ай бұрын
It's almost like she purposely waited to ring in one more new year 😢 I work in hospice n I've seen ppl hold on for a certain day or a certain family member to arrive. RIP ❤
@kckfen
@kckfen 7 ай бұрын
RiP. Beautiful soul.
@nataliesoutlet
@nataliesoutlet 7 ай бұрын
What a beautiful and special video. Thank you Michelle and family for allowing us to be a part of this moment. The brother hand squeeze broke me down 💘
@inkspooky7244
@inkspooky7244 7 ай бұрын
RIP Mike
@Restyoursoul287
@Restyoursoul287 7 ай бұрын
I never met this woman in her life time, but God, her transition was so moving. A human soul creating a beautiful space to say goodbye ❤.
@RequiemJr
@RequiemJr 3 ай бұрын
I lost my sister on 7/30/24. I said goodbye to her. I can't stop crying. It's been days. Why God?!
@FORTUNE_SUPPORT
@FORTUNE_SUPPORT 3 ай бұрын
So sorry about this dear 😢. May her soul rest in the evening lord
@sallyflores2374
@sallyflores2374 3 ай бұрын
God will help you with the pain of losing your sister. I lost mine and God helped a lot as the time went by. I promise you everything will be alright also the sunlight helps a lot to heal sadness ❤
@terryklassen4401
@terryklassen4401 3 ай бұрын
So she wouldn't have to suffer and could show others that there is life after death. It is beautiful to be able to say good by to the ones we love.❤
@teacheryang6976
@teacheryang6976 2 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss.
@thomastheman7331
@thomastheman7331 7 ай бұрын
So many came to mom’s wake but they never came to visit her before she died. Both are important.
@floriettamarshall5277
@floriettamarshall5277 7 ай бұрын
Something I have always reflected on.
@mayunderwood4120
@mayunderwood4120 7 ай бұрын
That's why when my father in-law died only the family were invited because others didn't do anything with him before he died. makes sense to me.
@pingteo6104
@pingteo6104 7 ай бұрын
One of my relatives just passed and we were so pissed off by some who never kept in contact, but came in hopes of benefiting in a way or another.
@triggabun
@triggabun 2 ай бұрын
It's difficult for people too. I saw a friend a few months before he died and it haunts me still. No everyone has the emotional capacity to handle such. Just meet people where there at.
@Chris-pb3se
@Chris-pb3se 7 ай бұрын
Stories like hers are a rare gift to the rest of us. If you’re watching this you’re probably counting your blessings, you’re appreciating small things and letting go of things you should. By allowing this video Michelle has shown us some special truths
@appleme5438
@appleme5438 7 ай бұрын
Strongly agree ❤❤❤
@elisha9946
@elisha9946 7 ай бұрын
Every time i think my life is hard or I have nothing to look forward to please remind me to come and watch this again, to be grateful to be alive, have my people around me. May your beautiful soul rest in peace love ❤️
@fwdflashwebdesign
@fwdflashwebdesign 7 ай бұрын
Yes!
@Omavertelhetmij
@Omavertelhetmij 7 ай бұрын
I'm grateful to be alive ❤
@chili7947
@chili7947 4 ай бұрын
黑暗與光的那段比喻真的發人深省,因為有死亡的存在,我們才能了解生活的意義;每個人都恐懼死亡,而Michelle用一種特別的方式直面它,由衷敬佩,也願她在天家一切安好,R.I.P.
@adhiantos
@adhiantos 7 ай бұрын
I only get to "know" Mike in these 17 minutes. But I can already tell that she was a great human being. Kind, strong, determined and loving. This has truly opened my eyes. I think we need to make this a normal thing. To celebrate one's life when they're still here, instead of sobbing beside their coffins, wishing we could turn back time. "If there's no death, you don't know what life is". Rest in peace Mike.
@LampardCF
@LampardCF 7 ай бұрын
This is the by far the heaviest but most necessary kind of video that I have ever watched, literally could cry at any point in the video. Life is short, and we take too many things for granted. Thanks OGS for this reminder and lastly, RIP in MIKE.
@Fionn-Greyship
@Fionn-Greyship 7 ай бұрын
This is not a funeral. This is a celebration of life… and the realization that one’s life is finite make it very much poignant
@hanzhang1025
@hanzhang1025 4 ай бұрын
I cant stop my tears.. wish I had done this for my dad who passed away from lung cancer
@reza.valianton
@reza.valianton 7 ай бұрын
Damn, i am a big man and I'm crying while watching this. I have liver and kidney problems, most of people with my kind of problem rarely surpass age of 45, and now I'm 32 years old. I considering myself have around 10 years to live. When you realize you have that kind of countdown on your life, it will change the way you see the world. I am feeling more alive now than before, and this video remains me the good side of humanity and consciousness. It's beautiful.
@anonymous_.9524
@anonymous_.9524 7 ай бұрын
Hey man, I hope you’re your doing great and hope you get to live a long as healthy life as possible :)
@ecstacyosunde7493
@ecstacyosunde7493 7 ай бұрын
Same
@Chichibu01
@Chichibu01 7 ай бұрын
Hug to you 🫂 May God heal you and give you many more years. Nothing is impossible with our God. 🙏
@Becsturf
@Becsturf 7 ай бұрын
hey, you know you can reverse liver and kidney problem. See an osteopath. best wishes
@madeleineprice3556
@madeleineprice3556 7 ай бұрын
God bless you, I will pray for your health and healing
@snowwhite5842
@snowwhite5842 7 ай бұрын
My aunt did this and it was beautiful. She was absolutely radiant and appreciative of everyone gathering in her honor. People laughed with her, prayed with her and cried with her. So much better than filing by a casket with an empty shell in heavy makeup.
@Derlei
@Derlei 7 ай бұрын
The last 5 mins broke me. It always pains me to see young lives gone due to cancer. Gone way too early. Michelle, I am sure you will be missed and remembered by all your love ones.
@catcatcat14
@catcatcat14 5 ай бұрын
she was such a wise and sweet person, i can see it clearly. RIP Mike
@NewAccountWhoDis
@NewAccountWhoDis 7 ай бұрын
My friend from college did similar. It was beautiful. She even led her service with pre-recorded messages and letters to everyone. She had cancer twice before and knew the odds of beating in a third was near impossible. She took care of everyone even in death 🙏🏾
@hillareeexd
@hillareeexd 7 ай бұрын
beating cancer twice? your friend's very strong to survive two! may her soul rest in heaven ❤❤
@OMGPWNTATOECHIPZ
@OMGPWNTATOECHIPZ 7 ай бұрын
She seemed so graceful. She must have spent much time reflecting as she had profound words to share. I'm sure she is at peace now, and she is walking with God. Much love to her friends and family. "May this goodbye be only momentary."
@jeanlewis7379
@jeanlewis7379 7 ай бұрын
What did that lovely lady die from
@HaileyNicole-23
@HaileyNicole-23 7 ай бұрын
@@jeanlewis7379ovarian cancer
@Dah_S.S
@Dah_S.S 6 ай бұрын
​@@jeanlewis7379 I've read some comments and they said it's pancreatic cancer
@serenatsanglao
@serenatsanglao 7 ай бұрын
Crying for strangers is my passion.
@carlitobecool
@carlitobecool 6 ай бұрын
So tru
@LuvBlue24
@LuvBlue24 3 ай бұрын
A good heart is a gift and a curse ❤
@exhaustedeloise
@exhaustedeloise 3 ай бұрын
me too bestie, me too
@Lorna1111
@Lorna1111 7 ай бұрын
This video shows Mike was loved so very much. Rest in Peace and bask in the light of God’s Kingdom 💕🙏
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 7 ай бұрын
She's very lucky to have so many who cared for her before she passed🌸💐🌸
@Debweb95
@Debweb95 7 ай бұрын
I have not seen a living funeral before. She has so much courage to host it. May her sould rest in peace 🤍
@adamk.3229
@adamk.3229 7 ай бұрын
As someone struggling with depression and thoughts of death... Thank you. This video helped. Life is short, yet deep.
@vasanthidoraisamy2856
@vasanthidoraisamy2856 7 ай бұрын
Rely in God for love, peace and comfort
@Dakingofheart
@Dakingofheart 7 ай бұрын
She has cancer and she fights hard, never give up
@maicajapanmoments
@maicajapanmoments 7 ай бұрын
take it one step at a time, fellow human. one step...
@kitharpang6651
@kitharpang6651 7 ай бұрын
Do you remember Mike said "God is with us"? He is with you too. Talk to Him. Ask Him to help you. He will.
@JuicyManuk
@JuicyManuk 7 ай бұрын
Life is precious, it's too short to throw it away
@LindoDansoh
@LindoDansoh 12 күн бұрын
May your lovely soul rest in eternal peace - rest in the bossom of the Father. Emmanuel you claimed your own - purified and loviing soul. Thanks Mike for making us part of your wonderful life. - taken away but still very much alive in my heart even if i do not know you.
@justevalang9473
@justevalang9473 7 ай бұрын
Wow my sister just passed away a week ago from agonizing pain and suffering from uterus cancer. This VIDEO touched my core IT IS SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL . RIP ❤
@Omavertelhetmij
@Omavertelhetmij 7 ай бұрын
RIP My condolences to you ❤
@im_me_mini
@im_me_mini 7 ай бұрын
My condolences to you
@juddakooda9520
@juddakooda9520 7 ай бұрын
Sending you love My grandpa also past last week 💓💓💓
@NadjibSamsung
@NadjibSamsung 7 ай бұрын
Sorry for your lost.
@ClearGalaxies
@ClearGalaxies 7 ай бұрын
She shouldn't have been allowed to suffer like that
@JoyCassi
@JoyCassi 7 ай бұрын
It’s Easter Sunday and this time is hard. Thank you Mike for showing me not to fear death and love while you’re here. You touched so many lives. Including mine. You truly were and are an angel.
@angijac18
@angijac18 7 ай бұрын
I like when she said she was descending from her throne! Her eyes were so wide and intense, she was taking in every last moment with complete mindfulness. Her personality was so cute and kind and loving. Rest in peace beautiful soul 🖤
@KhayeBarrera
@KhayeBarrera 7 ай бұрын
How strong she is .❤❤❤sending hug and prayer
@Hiswordandme
@Hiswordandme 7 ай бұрын
When she said "God is with us... Emannuel" tears welled up. What a bitter sweet event. God bless them all...
@SwimKam
@SwimKam 7 ай бұрын
Friend asked for this. Was so glad. Miss her. She was wise to do it so she we could tell her exactly how deeply she was loved by everyone
@misstinahamilton5714
@misstinahamilton5714 7 ай бұрын
As an RN who has worked in hospice and palliative care for over 17 years - this is beautiful . Please don't ever take the experience of death away from those that are dying . I say this because I encounter clients and their loved ones will often say - " don't say the word hospice , don't say they are at end of life - they will just give up etc.... " I have no choice but to comply but it's very difficult for me . Because guess what? The patient already knows . I've had patients at the end stages of dementia tell me " I know I am dying ." Rather than hide what is happening - be honest - start processing and celebrate the life that is left !
@amiraj4394
@amiraj4394 7 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing
@laurenjhjh
@laurenjhjh 7 ай бұрын
When my dad was dying, we had to organize for hospice to come to our house every day. The moment he thought hospice was coming - the look in his eyes chanced and he became so scared. We told him it was just a nurse from the hospital visiting so he wouldn’t have to go there, and he was so relieved. Every patient is different, but my dad was petrified of dying and we just wanted to help relief a little bit of his stress. The thing that kept him going was the hope he would beat the disease.
@misstinahamilton5714
@misstinahamilton5714 7 ай бұрын
@@laurenjhjh Every patient is different - but dont ever underestimate the power of what a terminally patient already knows instinctively . Im sorry for your loss .
@russoul575
@russoul575 6 ай бұрын
Gentle, beautiful woman. Every one of us has had a touch on the world, bringing change to all around. That is life. Rest in peace.
@sam76861
@sam76861 7 ай бұрын
I think this wonderful. I have stage 4 breast cancer and I really don’t want a funeral. I think something like this would be much nicer.
@lovelikeyoudo7377
@lovelikeyoudo7377 7 ай бұрын
Never lose Hope hun ❤ God is with you Im sending you my prayers 🥹🫶🏻
@annakorfa
@annakorfa 7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤🫶🏾
@ulinino
@ulinino 7 ай бұрын
@leekaijie1367
@leekaijie1367 7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@Van-KhanhNguyen
@Van-KhanhNguyen 7 ай бұрын
Be trong, God is always with us
@mythoughts6922
@mythoughts6922 7 ай бұрын
Too pretty, too young, too smart! Sorry for her family's loss and her loss. A big gain for heaven.
@lauren_WI
@lauren_WI 7 ай бұрын
Beautifully said ❤
@mythoughts6922
@mythoughts6922 7 ай бұрын
@@lauren_WI Awwww thank you Miss Lauren.
@pinkblossom8401
@pinkblossom8401 7 ай бұрын
I don’t think I’ve cried so much for a stranger before. You were obviously a beautiful human being and evidently, you were loved by many and I’m sure missed enormously by your friends and family. May you rest in peace.
@ezrar.yansomong3220
@ezrar.yansomong3220 2 ай бұрын
I realised I haven't cried for a long time now. This video really made me bawl my eyes out. I lost my sister last year and didn't had the chance to say goodbye. I'm so glad Mike spend the last days of her life recreating memories with friends and family. What a wonderful way to spend the last days of life. Sending my deepest condolences to family and friends. And you sweet angel, rest easy Michelle 💙💐✨
@bpdslayer
@bpdslayer 7 ай бұрын
I'm 45 year old bloke and I like many here teared throughout. Beautiful soul Mike is, Rest in Peace ❤
@ixora3956
@ixora3956 7 ай бұрын
Rest in peace Mike. Back in 2016 we were in the same group for Athletes in Christ camp. May God bless her soul and Condolences to her family
@thereisnoaddress
@thereisnoaddress 7 ай бұрын
Rest in peace Mike; seems like she went back to Jesus right around Christmas. Thank you for inviting all of us internet strangers into the final moments of your life, and thank you to the OGS crew for documenting it so beautifully with respect.
@elbowstancenow1519
@elbowstancenow1519 7 ай бұрын
Talk about Jesus and his mercy
@ilmnt.guidance
@ilmnt.guidance 7 ай бұрын
@@elbowstancenow1519i consider myself atheist and totally despise the organized religion. But if this helps someone to console the end of someone's life, i think... Whatever that helps her no?
@1saamor897
@1saamor897 7 ай бұрын
HAPPY RESURRECTION SUNDAY@@elbowstancenow1519
@KayLeeHoward-vc2ph
@KayLeeHoward-vc2ph 7 ай бұрын
Not like a dog is relative anywhere near a persons life but our adopted dog got one last Christmas with his first family before we got him and he now has prob ten or more Christmas with us I don’t think I can have kids so he is one of my many fur kids
@mattiabonora2894
@mattiabonora2894 7 ай бұрын
R.i.p Mike ❤ what a wonderful soul
@jnhpan
@jnhpan 7 ай бұрын
not only she created loving memories and shared her final days with her loved ones, she also shed the light of living GOD and how it would be after with her end of life journey... simply beautiful and very touching!
@keshontashontel
@keshontashontel 7 ай бұрын
My Sister has been gone only 3 months from cancer and it’s been hell without her. Memories are the only thing that keeps me going and some days even that’s not enough. I pray for peace and comfort for you and your family.💕
@Dawncochraneking
@Dawncochraneking 7 ай бұрын
I pray for your peace and comfort as well.
@keshontashontel
@keshontashontel 7 ай бұрын
@@Dawncochraneking thank you 💕
@exp-io853
@exp-io853 7 ай бұрын
i cant stop crying...i cried not a month ago because my ssiter fly out the country for her work...cried once but feeling lasted few days but its still there...i cant imagine any of my siblings passing...i always wodnered who out of 8 of us would go...the thpught makes me appreciate my family despite our fights....May your sister rest in peace..sending love and hugs ❤❤❤
@keshontashontel
@keshontashontel 7 ай бұрын
@@exp-io853 thank you for your kind words. I definitely broke down watching this video because she reminded me so much of my sister from the symptoms to the acceptance of no longer being here and they both exited this world with grace. Grief is hard, but it is a journey that each of us may some day have to take. I’m grateful that my sister left her legacy through her children and each each day that I get to see them I’m always reminded of her💕
@LairenBB
@LairenBB 7 ай бұрын
What she said about her memory of Running and cycling.. this is so true, I was very sick back in 2011 with a rare kind of Tuberculosis, doctors didn't believe I would make it, I was so weak and hopeless, I envied people around me for just being able to get up and do chores, simple things like walking, eating, washing myself. Fortunately, I was healed by God. He gave me more time to walk this earth. I will forever remember how God sent me a msg through Mark 11:24 when I desperately wanted to believe in something. Our God is good, may you rest in eternal peace Mike.
@egr3071
@egr3071 7 ай бұрын
Amén 🙏🏽
@elriane94
@elriane94 7 ай бұрын
Are you sure it's not the doctors who healed you lmao
@LairenBB
@LairenBB 3 ай бұрын
​@@elriane94 God healed me, I am sure of that. May God bless you abundantly.
@jryland6
@jryland6 7 ай бұрын
I couldn’t finish watching, it broke my heart for someone so young to be ravaged by disease that affects anyone, at any age. I cried for her having to leave her life of being with wonderful family & friends. Mike, some people who knew you, posted sweet, endearing messages to you. You were truly loved. Maybe, somehow you’ll know that. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@medusa1719
@medusa1719 3 ай бұрын
A beautiful testament to living and being loved. May her family and friends cherish their memories with Mike. I know I’m better just having heard her share bits of her experience in this video. Rest in divine peace, Mike.
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