"Outcast" Flies Home to Murder Entire Family and Later Blames Father | Emory Futo Case Analysis

[@esteemedmortal5917]

For all the planning required to kill four people in three different locations, he really didn’t plan the ‘getting away with it’ part.

[@williaroberts2945]

😂

[@kenwillis8487]

I know right! He could have bought a used car on Craigslist for the price of a round trip ticket. Then drove thru the night committed the crime and drove back. All while camping, though he would of needed to establish the camping alibi better. Maybe found someone who knew how to lie for him! Left his vehicle and phone in California at the campsite and the person giving the alibi to pretend their him! (assuming he found someone who looked like him )! I’m not post planning his alibi or projecting in any way only speculating what he could have done!

[@esteemedmortal5917]

@@auntiefan4202 I suppose I don’t. But I assume part of the motive was to enjoy the inheritance he would have received and, you know, enjoy spending it

[@Fractal_blip]

​@@kenwillis8487craigslist in 1991?.....did we watch the same video lol

[@murphychurch8251]

And he wasn't even considered to be the mentally challenged one of the brothers 😳

[@facemuscles9]

I had a childhood like this. I can understand those feelings. I use my energy to help psych patients recover from similar circumstances.

[@nancyayotte2297]

💜 thank you honey . Sometimes I need psyche help and I truly appreciate people like you. Also I'm terribly sorry about what happened to you. Every child deserves love.

[@jenanne31]

"Does anybody think I killed them?" Nothing suspicious about that! Thank you for yet another illuminating glimpse into a dysfunctional psyche, Dr. Grande.

[@elhuddleston17]

From someone who has made that same remark when a woman I knew years ago was murdered in Belton Missouri in 1991. She was 61 years old she was excited about the next year because she couldn't wait to retire. She held down three jobs. One was at Price Chopper in Belton Missouri as the head Baker I was her assistant working her two days off other wise with her, her second job was on the Base of Richard khabar Airport in Grandview Missouri at a hotel for Marines as a clerk, I worked there part time as a room cleaner, her third job part time was a golf club in Grandview Missouri plus she fit in going to the Casinos in the area. At first we got along then when we was alone she started to belittle me. Because I had been bullied most my life by people who thought I was below them I could handle her actions and criticism. When others was around she was sweet as pie to me. This was working together at Price Chopper we worked at night. This went on till I got sick of it so I would tell her Flo you need to watch who you talk to the way you talk to me because someone one will hurt you are kill you because you don't know a person behavior if they are on drugs or alcohol or just plan crazy. She slipped one time around 4am one morning when we was working together a cake designer came in early because she had some extra work to get done, in doing so Flo was digging stuff out of the freezer just going on at me the cake designer you could tell was shocked. When Flo stepped out you could tell she could go through the floor. Time would go on our lives continue the same then one day I heard she was having a problem with her granddaughter she was kicking out on her two following days off. The night before her first night off before she planned to kick her out I said Flo you may not want to hear this but are you kicking her out for good? You better change your locks plus is she in to drugs? She said everything was fine. So I baked her first night off and was sitting in my home and the cake designer called me. She said did you hear about Flo (my thought was I hoped she had quit) I said no she said she got murdered last night. I said what? She said I know you didn't like her...I said wait a minute I didn't kill her are people saying I did? I don't even know where she lived. She told me the granddaughter did it with two friends she was stabbed 27 times she crawled out side fell in a ditch and her granddaughter just stood over her.

[@jenanne31]

@@elhuddleston17 Wow, that's one amazing story. I guess what's appropriate depends on the circumstances. Karma got Flo!

[@elhuddleston17]

@@jenanne31 big time. If you wanted racist she was that is the part that really took her out plus she would say I don't have to watch anything I say. I told her even back then you do now. That's even more today.

[@jm4236]

​@@elhuddleston17Im not reading that. Jesus, get your own show.

[@Gingerwhale]

Emory stated that as a child he was hospitalized on four different occasions following his father's physical mistreatment. Where is CPS (Child Protective Services) when you need them?

[@JPage-fj7mb]

In the 70's and 80's? They were nowhere, basically. Notoriously lazy and incompetent in most states.

[@Survivin2Thrivin]

Dr Grande has the BEST sponsors that I've never heard of beforehand.

[@istateyourname4710]

Dr. G consistently cranking out the analysis for our education & enlightenment.👍

[@clarencegboddicker8144]

It’s not educational anymore, if it ever was. This is pure entertainment!

[@WilliamSussman]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@simrdownmon6431wtf are you talking about? How is he “selling fear” , it’s not like he’s promoting psychological services…

[@BrowniExpress]

@@simrdownmon6431you dumb af

[@thealexanderbond]

This is light entertainment, nothing more.

[@jm4236]

He definitely educates on the subject/cases. Its pretty much all facts/information with some light humor.

[@BigZebraCom]

Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video: only speculating about what could be happening while a slow-motion cactus ho down rages in the background like this.

[@elizabethhamm5320]

He got the gun, arranged the flight and traveled about 2000 miles. However, he didn’t come up with an even halfway believable story. He might be telling the truth when he says that he sustained brain damage

[@Flamsterette]

I've never heard of this case before. Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande.

[@srsusansummers3070]

My daily dose of Dr Grande 😃

[@rahrahrah8405]

Pent up rage from being made to feel scared and weak.

[@Deadthing]

I hate myself for how hard I laughed. “His friend said he gave him a ride to the airport.. to St. Louis.”

[@hmmmmm64]

Doctor Grande even manages to make the words from his sponsors interesting 😊

[@louisal7185]

And i thought i was the only one who loved that quick side -glance while saying " im only speculating ....in the situation.... always makes me smile 😊

[@rhondasisco-cleveland2665]

I said almost the exact same words to my abuser when I finally fought back. Funny how when you fight back they suddenly get control of their violent behavior. 😑

[@ceo_of_fascism]

Such a victim

[@jeannesnodgrass8073]

My stepdad would beat us to relieve stress. When my second youngest brother (my youngest brother had already passed) was twelve he picked up a chair (as a weapon) and told him “That’s the end of that.” Amazing how he could control himself after that. We all left home as soon as possible. It was much easier to get along after that.💕

[@rhondasisco-cleveland2665]

@@ceo_of_fascism ?

[@mjanny6330]

Where are you mentioned in this video?

[@divyatulsi1520]

​@@mjanny6330They're just giving their insight on having experienced a situation similar to a seemingly unique incident mentioned in this video, what's so hard to understand?

[@Alice-ui9oy]

What a messed up case. Thanks for the analysis. On the base of that, I think Emory likely still would have received life in prison, but I imagine he may have also obtained a lot more sympathy, and perhaps even possibility for parole, if he hadnt wiped out his whole family but instead fulfilled his homicidal urges by just focusing on his previous abuser- his father.

[@girlwhomustnotbenamed4139]

Yeah, unfortunately in most cases the cycle of violence doesn't work like that.

[@rw7975]

The family got what he never did and their existence simultaneously taunted him while offering targets to hurt his father.

[@stephenbarone4053]

Yes, but his real motive was money.

[@small_joys2022]

If the father was indeed an abuser why did the other sons stay with him way after adulthood? Its a complete lie concocted by the murdering son to garner sympathy. The cousin should be grilled in this regard to let the truth come out.

[@rw7975]

@@small_joys2022 It's called a scapegoat dynamic in a narcissistic family; one child is 'elected' to receive the entirety of the abuse and blame for the whole family's shortcomings. In malignant narcissistic households you see a phenomena called "extreme parental alienation" - severe cases can include matricide and patricide. It's essentially when you hear or see on the news someone showing up and brutally killing their father/mother/whole family... which is what happened here.

[@Buddhabellie]

There's a guy who just drove 3700 miles to knock on his brother's door and shoot him, his wife and get killed by cops. Wow. These really freak me out

[@kdnick8584]

Who remembers being able to fly without identification? I do. Seems almost unbelievable today when your every move is being tracked.

[@jayjaynella4539]

I remember those days.

[@757Princess]

I remember flying to Jamaica with my mom as a child with no passport

[@kdnick8584]

@@757Princess those were the days, my friend. We thought they'd never end.

[@SundayMorningRunner]

Surveillance is not for your safety but to keep a vigilant eye on you. We used to have freedom. True freedom.

[@persephoneszeliga]

@@polarbearsrus6980you grow up.

[@Meela234]

I believe he was abused by his father but I don't believe it's the primary reason he murdered his entire family. I could understand if he killed his father for being abusive and his mother for failing to protect them, but why his brothers who also suffered abuse? He wanted the money and I believe his hatred of his father just made it easier for him to do.

[@acdcmiami]

I agree with you.

[@garmind4868]

exactly

[@annelawrence9127]

I have to wonder if before the murders, he relived in his mind the abuse -like a flashback as he was watching his own son grow up then couldn’t shake it. Like looking at his son and thinking over and over ‘I remember at that age, dad did etc…’ -maybe having his own son made his own childhood abuse ever present.

[@lisacolledge7624]

What a genius plan. I dont know how law enforcement cracked this one. 😊 Dr Grande, you're friggin fantastic! "I guess he wasn't a happy camper after all". I reckon at 1.5 million subs you could reward us with all your bloopers. Whatdoyareckon? ❤

[@michael-m]

My day & weekend is now officially done. I mean it when I say that getting the notification of Docs new video gives me joy & in all seriousness this is the best way to close out a day. As per usual, thanks Doc. Stay well everyone and we'll see y'all at tomorrow night's video. Hope yall have a fantastic week ahead.

[@jackiegrice714]

So…the called the cab and took it to the airport part of the story never changed. Thank goodness he was consistent with that detail. Otherwise we might never know what really happened. Thanks Dr. Grande.

[@zenawarrior7442]

I'll never understand how you can shoot or stab anyone, let alone your own family; that's beyond diabolical. Great points & analysis again. Thanks Dr G😊❤❤

[@sirbader1]

Do you really not understand though? Ignoring this case, you don't see how someone could kill in defense or anger?

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@sirbader1 Never a reason to kill unless your life in eminent threat. Do you really not understand it's murder most of the time?

[@TheAlj35]

Then consider yourself lucky you were never SA'd by your own parent. Unless youve lived it, your opinion is invalid

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@TheAlj35 Not sure wtf SA 'd means but I grew up in a very controlling & abusive household so my opinion is NOT invalid, actually very valid. I never would murder anyone. Stop being an argumentative jerk....no one likes that.

[@rememberbancroft8617]

Dr grande. perfect timing.

[@bunnymad5049]

Sadly, it seems Emory was actually just like his father, only, he went a step further. As for protecting his son? His wife and that poor little boy will be utterly heartbroken from it all. I hope that history stops repeating right at this point.

[@annazaman9657]

Why didn't I know about this family annihilator? I don't think childhood abuse was the motive, it was the money and nothing else.

[@veroniquendambo3242]

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[@LDiamondz]

That's what I think too. Everything he said was a lie.

[@AnnaBelll.e]

Thanks, Doc! You're the best!

[@stathamspeacoat]

Camping has to be one of the favorite covers for murderers

[@tessaducek5601]

I noticed that. 👌👌

[@eucliduschaumeau8813]

The Susan Powell case.

[@Kattakam]

You are priceless with analytical perfection. Thanks for your hard work in the profession.

[@tanmaygaur2194]

Hey Dr. Grande, first of all I'm a huge fan of your work!!😊And I was hoping you would analyze this case in one of your videos- a woman in Korea dubbed as "chip chan" by the internet community. She has livestreamed her life ceaselessly for decades, rarely ever leaves her apartment, sleeps for hours on end (some claim 20 hours a day) in uncomfortable positions, and claims she is being held hostage by a "corrupt police officer" known only as "P". Furthermore she claims she is being mind controlled through a chip implanted in her body. I think it's a case that desperately needs your analysis.

[@sludge8506]

I sleep 16 to 19 hours a day. I wonder if anyone would be interested in my story.

[@Crmson117]

Be careful of the monstrous things you do to your children otherwise you may one day rely on the mercy of a monster.

[@ninagargon9926]

It would be interesting (at least to me - lol) to find out if there were any hospital records of Emery Jr.’s injuries to substantiate his claims of being beaten as a child. Or, perhaps statements from witnesses that he had such injuries as a child.

[@stargazer7341]

Your version of the possible scenario sounds more likely & convincing to me.

[@parrotletsrunearth1173]

I know a few friends who grew up in situations like this with crappy parents but none of them turned into murderers.

[@barneyronnie]

I became a junkie, but still held a career as a professor. After retirement, I got back on methadone.

[@Mr.Morden]

I knew someone who nearly decided to murder a family member and horrendously cruel abuser. It's amazing these murders don't happen more often, maybe the cops decide to turn a blind eye at times?

[@lanierosenberg]

Back in the good old days when I was a kid, a neighbor girl was molested by a guy. Cops found the guy, brought him to the girl's house for ID, then told the girl's father they needed to go on another call and would be back. When cops returned to arrest the perp, he was in pretty bad shape. Justice delayed is justice denied.

[@megatherion2695]

As always, thanks, Doc!

[@cliffthecoolcat]

You are so funny and sharp Dr. Grande. I love the dry sense of humor. You make me bust out laughing.

[@dyates6380]

I never even heard about this case until I saw the heading on this video, and went and read a fascinating news article written by a reporter in St. Louis who was contacted by this guy only three years ago or so. Incredible story. The allegations of sexual assault are enough to make you vomit. HOW could parents do that to their own kids and grandson?????? NOT condoning killing anyone ever, but damn.

[@BrandyTexas214]

Hey Dr.. you should do one of these episodes on the mental illness issues Farrah Abraham has. Starting way back from her 16 and pregnant episode to her recent arrest.

[@pamelahaze3211]

"Spare the rod..spoil the child" Was never a reference to beating. It refers to guidance..not violence. And the word discipline means "to teach."

[@christopherfritz3840]

I was familiar with a family that had four boys (no girls). OH BOY! Man was there some major highjinks in that home. Constant.. competition mainly. One ended up in jail on a manslaughter charge and one died prematurely.

[@rw7975]

Outright strikes me as a scapegoat dynamic gone bad - "extreme parental alienation" phenomena with a malignant narcissist father.

[@jeremyhall7495]

Excellent analysis, as always! Thanks!

[@bettinabarry8423]

Inheritance was my first thought! Thanks Dr.Grande, for a common sense approach to your analysis of this cold-blooded crime 👏

[@tirkentube]

1970s-80s: When everyone turned 43 their senior year.

[@LDiamondz]

lol. It looked that way to me, too! Even when Dr.G talked about each child being born they looked 45. Ridiculous. 😂

[@TrentAdam]

I noticed that in my parents yearbook and I still just can't figure it out. I feel like I looked 14 and they literally looked 30 at graduation.

[@samlsd9711]

Wow never been this early, just wanted to say thank you Dr.Grande, and love the new studio.

[@cindyflores564]

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[@buttercatpaws9674]

Doc, I like the way the cactus came together. It has been a minute since the old desk As always love ya 🐈🐾❤️

[@gaiaiulia]

Dr Grande, master of shade and the one-liner. 👍 If half of what Emory said about his parents was true, it would have scarred him for life. But why would he wait till he was on the other side of the country and years later to annihilate his whole family? I think there must be more to this than meets the eye. Now there's only one person left who really knows. Of course, I'm merely speculating on what might have happened.

[@garmind4868]

merely.

[@LuciFeric137]

I would love the good Dr to analyze me. He cuts through all the nonsense. And that lovely quiet professional delivery is calming even when discussing the most horrific human acts.

[@tessaducek5601]

He could describe the making of a peanut butter sandwich sound interesting and analytical .

[@justnoted2995]

Hi dr. Grande. This case analysis must surely set the record for "alternative" stories generated by a killer

[@elizabethwarman9028]

Hi Dr. Grande, excellent analysis. Why didn't Emery when he was in school tell his teacher what was going on? As always I learn something new from your videos. Have a wonderful evening

[@bdmenne]

Children of abusers take responsibility for the abuse Seeing themselves as clearly inferior and flawed or the abuse wouldn’t be happening. There is no chance of telling anyone out of this highly embarrassing self-loathing shame. Especially if they are smart. They would rather hide than have their “hideousnes” exposed to the rest of the world.

[@LDiamondz]

Maybe he made the abuse story up. Like he did with everything else.

[@SpiritofAloha11]

When do we get the ultimate review: Dr Grande analyzes... DR GRANDE!

[@nhmooytis7058]

But is only speculating 😂

[@JasonMaloney-gw1br]

Could you do a video on Stacy Lannert? She was a young woman in missouri who after years of abuse from her father killed him and was pardoned. !! Thanks Dr. G !

[@katalac]

Love this analysis ❤

[@infinitejest441]

Good assessment of the situation Dr Grande.

[@lusomarga]

Dr. Grande you literally changed my life with your sharp analytic videos! Thank you!

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[@jpc3603]

If he had just murdered his father while horrific, a part of me would understand as domestic violence and violence against children is also horrific, scarring and extremely traumatic however murdering his whole family is incomprehensible so maybe at the end of it money unfortunately was behind his offences.

[@shellyharry8189]

there's nothing worse than an incompetent criminal

[@lisasmith7]

Your thoughts are exactly what I agree happened. Sad story.

[@nhmooytis7058]

Major lesson from true crime vids: PICK A STORY AND STICK TO IT.

[@zippermonster9596]

Never talk to the police … oh… and your friends are not your friends… haha😅

[@Voytaz1985]

How about not doing crime? 🤔

[@nhmooytis7058]

@@Voytaz1985 well sure but some folks do 😉

[@lynnmothibeli325]

Hi, Dr. Grande! Thanks for another video as usual. Also, who tf are these people down the comments section? Since when has this channel become flooded with trolls??

[@ds7900]

This incident reaffirms that you should never tell a lie. Granted this was a doozy, but lying is still bad, nonetheless. Oh yeah, and you should never kill your entire family.

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[@rullvox5912]

The money....period.

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Love you Dr.Grande!

[@EasrterRising1fan]

I believe his 2020 confession. May God have Mercy on his soul. And those murdered.

[@suzanneharris8339]

It's certainly possible that physical abuse occurred within the family 👪. But 2 of the sons remained in St. Louis, & one moved far away. The killer. 🤔

[@bdmenne]

The comedy was golden on this one. Well done on a stark dreary topic.

[@DMS20231]

I don’t have a problem with revenge. The courts don’t give justice and the universe demands justice. Just deserts are sometimes absolutely called for.

[@Amila-ym7ny]

I’m from St Louis and idk why i always get excited hearing people discuss STL 😭

[@aarondavis8943]

So according to Emory's first story, his brother was shot during a drug deal gone wrong, and his parents were separately murdered by unknown persons, _completely by coincidence._ That's some extraordinarily bad luck right there 😂

[@sunnycatc6491]

It's really hard to make gravy from scratch without lumps. No reason to give the cook lumps though.

[@danielghosn6529]

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[@Viewer92136]

@DrGrande I am not sure how to send you a message, so I hope you look over your comments. Would you consider covering/analyzing the Chowchilla Kidnapping - both the kidnappers and the victims/survivors? Thank you. You have one of the best YT channels.

[@steveeuphrates-river7342]

Amazing how these guys change their story and expect the police to believe them

[@jasonsmith373]

Nobody except Dr. Grande could deliver that "exceedingly high lump-free standards" line. Instant classic. 👍

[@JaimeBrame]

This is great info! you should do the beever family murders in broken arrow Oklahoma in like 2015. Pretty crazy for the city.

[@Sarcastic165]

June, Ward, Wally and the Beaver?? 😂

[@birdworldist]

Yes king go off

[@Swansong321]

This reminds me of Jeremy Bamber..killing his mum, dad, sister and baby nephews..and THEN blamed his poor vulnerable sister..serving a whole life sentence..some lunatics actually still believe that he's innocent!😜😜🙄

[@freeeedommmm]

Why do the same intro and same eye movements in each video? I'm not diagnosing, only speculating, that something is not right with the doc.

[@gerry2345]

I like this vid. Good insight and great analysis.

[@tammyhoward2811]

Well Doc I hope moms and dads pay serious attention to this story. Not all kids grow up fine and heal after living with abusers. To all the mothers out their...if you won't stand up for your children and you know your husband, their father is beating the hell out of them then you may end up like these bad parents. Just saying. His brothers also failed him. They were abused too, but they couldn't carry out the revenge. What a sad dilemma. 🙄

[@user-xg3uy6hq9g]

Emory also worked for Anheuser-busch, metal container wasa subsidy at the time

[@seascape1016]

Money the root of all evil. Haven’t heard of this story. Thanks Dr. Grande

[@dammitamber]

It be like that sometimes 😒

[@thelocalmaladroit8873]

Something tells me this isn’t going to be one of those warm and fuzzy family stories.

[@elco2737]

I thought in the U.S. that due to "double jeopardy" laws, a person cannot be tried twice for the same crime? How did they re-try him on the same charges after his conviction was overturned?

[@nhmooytis7058]

I didn’t like my family but they’re not worth a plane ticket let alone life in the pokey.

[@kimberlykees9163]

I do have a quick question: was “killed her by surprise” because she was not expecting it that day or did he in fact surprise her to death?

[@littletinker3346]

Similar to Jeremy Bamber, killed his family blamed his sister

[@timmcdraw7568]

I am in no way attempting to make some sort of flimsy justification here for the murder, i just want to point something out to those of us who experience trauma in childhood. While its true that a man living in St. Louis poses no real or present danger to a man living in California, its also true that until childhood trauma is confronted, and a person learns how to regulate their nervous system, the memories and self-talk exists in our body as danger and CAN feel real and present. Obviously for most of us, when the internal experience of past trauma begins to burn us from the inside out, it leads us to seek help by means of mental health help (usually after self medicating brings us to our knees). Anyway, yeah, highly dissuade anyone from seeking revenge as it is a tres bad look.

[@hoibsh21]

I was actually kinda feelin sorry for Emory until his scheme to collect the 350K interitence was revealed.

[@jhoughjr1]

Anyone from St Louis knows the state streets are where a lot of the danger is. Used to be a nice area in the 60s-70s, then something changed. What changed, is an exercise left to the reader.

[@KoolT]

Also do you know about the PIPER ROUNDTREE murder. It was a long distance murder as well.

[@emilyburton4095]

To HIM and his brothers. Dude.

[@waxestlowa732r6]

Thank You

[@marlinfisher2529]

Dear Dr Grande it goes to show the tragic consequences of not ensuring the gravy is lump free. Great episode with a sad outcome, but in my opinion a correct court verdict twice.