Overcome Speech Anxiety INSTANTLY!

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Improve Your Voice

Improve Your Voice

Күн бұрын

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@vocabilities
@vocabilities 21 күн бұрын
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@memesouls8653
@memesouls8653 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an extremely extroverted person and love talking to people. I have no problems conversing and cracking lame jokes, but as soon as I have to follow some criteria of reading off of a paper or slideshow my heart just goes into overdrive and I can’t think when I speak. Usually I do fine but I still hate the feeling.
@aadyamahipal5502
@aadyamahipal5502 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ilikelebronjames6426
@ilikelebronjames6426 2 жыл бұрын
Yea there’s something about not having any control over how long you have to talk that makes it so much worse
@EbrahimKa
@EbrahimKa 2 жыл бұрын
Me too. I tend to approach and socialize with a group of people. But as soon as i stand up in front of 15 or more people and have to make a speech, my lungs start losing air, the pitch of my voice goes higher, tongue feels heavier, and my mind goes through a complete breakdown because it notices that they are staring at me while I’m going through that horror. 😂 20 seconds later, i feel much better and i finish my speech with no problem. My problem is just the first 20 seconds.
@levizinfindal
@levizinfindal 2 жыл бұрын
This explains my issue exactly.
@Bulleyes666
@Bulleyes666 2 жыл бұрын
Neither am i
@SecretlifeofIsha
@SecretlifeofIsha 11 ай бұрын
I have gone through the comment section and realised that there are so many people out there facing the same problem as me… it feels good and bad at the same time 😭
@k.nongrum6930
@k.nongrum6930 4 ай бұрын
@@SecretlifeofIsha yes my friend you're not alone:)
@The_GuvnerTG
@The_GuvnerTG Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Equizmaa
@Equizmaa 9 ай бұрын
Bro this happened to me last year and I haven’t been the same since. I’m now determined to overcome this by volunteering to read as much as possible. The feeling is awful and it won’t go away 😢
@SunshineSyzygy
@SunshineSyzygy 7 ай бұрын
this is not a scientific response, but there seems to be a loophole in my speaking anxiety. If I see or imagine someone who is way more anxious than I am, I take on the responsibility to calm them for the both of us. There's a person at school who shakes with anxiety when talking to people and somehow the compassion I feel towards them calms me, and I'm able to be calm talking to them and to others. IDK why or if this will work or you, but I'm just throwing it out there because it's immensely helpful to me
@Equizmaa
@Equizmaa 7 ай бұрын
@@SunshineSyzygyOmg this definitely helped. Today I read out two paragraphs and IT WENT AMAZING. TYSM! I ACTUALLY THINK MY ANXIETY GONE-
@FloraBG947
@FloraBG947 2 ай бұрын
i was always good at debate i won multiple prizes but after quitting debate this year i tried to debate in school and holy my hands and legs were shaking and i made a fool of myself my classmates cracked jokes about me and since then my anxiety started and im dying to get rid of that feeling the loud heartbeats,shaking hands,fast talks
@YRTEverything
@YRTEverything 2 жыл бұрын
Straightforward and helpful. But the most effective way to deliver a speech without anxiety is to not give a fuck about what anyone in the audience thinks about your appearance and the arguments you are making. You are not interested in being right or wrong, you are focused in delivering your points.
@zodumolunika1063
@zodumolunika1063 9 ай бұрын
I’ve always known this is a solution but my problem is the “HOW”😂
@SunshineSyzygy
@SunshineSyzygy 7 ай бұрын
@@zodumolunika1063 I imagina them having massive diarrhea or taking a big shit. Every human in that room has had something embarrassing like that going on and it helps put things in perspective
@starfish9928
@starfish9928 3 ай бұрын
Woah lovely
@MohitPurohit-qt2of
@MohitPurohit-qt2of 3 ай бұрын
​@@SunshineSyzygyi will try this😂
@OkIPullUp.
@OkIPullUp. 8 ай бұрын
One tip I found very helpful is to replace your anxiety with excitement. They are similar and with practice you can turn your anxiety into excitement and it really is a game changer.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 8 ай бұрын
I have a speech about this and even made a video on it! Totally agree 👍
@MojaveCrestGardens
@MojaveCrestGardens 2 жыл бұрын
I feel extremely terrible when it comes to public speaking. I hear it is a common thing with many people. The funny thing is, however, i have never met anyone with this issue other than me. Therefore, either it isn't so common (and that would make me feel worse) or the extreme emotions within aren't that noticeable. Either way, this feeling of the lack of control sucks! I wish you all the best.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 2 жыл бұрын
Very common and very normal! You are NOT alone 🙏
@Matelyus
@Matelyus 9 ай бұрын
You are not alone i reel it very deep
@kevinsonnenberg2868
@kevinsonnenberg2868 8 ай бұрын
You are not alone, whatsoever..
@tabbylivvy
@tabbylivvy 4 ай бұрын
You are not alone…. I have the same issue.
@SoniaSohal-uh2ux
@SoniaSohal-uh2ux 10 ай бұрын
Just applied this method right before a phone call with an HR. I found myself more confident and not trying to floundering for words.. Great technique indeed.
@pradeepness
@pradeepness 7 ай бұрын
I am feeling the same. I am stuck to take actions. I feel nervous to attend or answer HR call. I can speak decent in english language but whenever I try to speak with HR or reqruiter, I get stuck.🥺
@kikigondwe2529
@kikigondwe2529 6 ай бұрын
I don’t think you understand the feeling. Heart pounding, getting hot while it’s cold, ears hot and ringing, shaking (my hands). Mind you, I have to present tomorrow! In front of about 30 of my peers. I hate the fact i have speech anxiety it’s so embarrassing. Im 18 and never seemed to overcome it. I have my presentation ready but when I get on the stage I freeze. Gosh if I could, I’d take all my anxiety away. Literally crying rn because I have to present in a few hours but I’d rather skip out on school than do it.
@Cobrakai2934
@Cobrakai2934 4 ай бұрын
I'm also really scared of presenting but I'm fine with talking to people in public I don't know. This year I'm having 11 presentations and 1 of them is going to be a portfolio presentaion which I have no idea what is it but we will go in a giant classroom with chairs and I will have to present to 10 or more families and a few high schoolers. I'm rlly scared even tho it's in like a year or to, also I'm in 7th grade right now.
@KhallelaB.
@KhallelaB. 4 ай бұрын
@@kikigondwe2529 I get you. I’ve had this issue my whole like and I’m 25 right now. I will say that I’ve noticed as I put myself outside of my confort zone more and more in low-stakes environments I improve a bit more each time. Good luck!
@ThiagoCT9
@ThiagoCT9 2 ай бұрын
I’m 22 and at this point I’ve probably done it more than 20 times in my life (once last week one more to go tomorrow ), but still always get very nervous when going up on stage and a bunch of people stare at me.
@Tangomangley
@Tangomangley Ай бұрын
I'm only 10 and Im having these speech anxiety and the feel I had is terrible it's like my voice starts to shake and can't control crap to my voice my legs started to shake INFRONT OF MY WHOLE CLASSMATES and I still have speech anxiety It sucks.
@547YG
@547YG Ай бұрын
How did it go?
@chxzzh
@chxzzh Жыл бұрын
Tomorrow I have a presentation and I’m watching a ton of videos to help me overcome my anxiety. I’ll try this
@antetony83
@antetony83 Жыл бұрын
Did it work?
@neerajdevarajan5364
@neerajdevarajan5364 8 ай бұрын
Do u remember how it went ? Just curious
@chxzzh
@chxzzh 8 ай бұрын
I really tried to follow the advices but actually the professor took a point out of my note because I couldn’t kept eye contact
@projectchad_24
@projectchad_24 8 ай бұрын
@@chxzzh tomorrow i have presentation 😭
@ApsaraMunjal
@ApsaraMunjal 7 ай бұрын
😢i have a presentation tomorrow
@falconx6696
@falconx6696 2 жыл бұрын
It really works. In my first presentation I was very nervous and my hand was shaking.Then I applied this technique before my 2nd presentation. Surprisingly I was calm and was less nervous than before. The presentation went very well.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 2 жыл бұрын
Boom! So you’ll use it again then right?
@ItzCalamityYT08
@ItzCalamityYT08 2 жыл бұрын
@@vocabilities I am gonna try it for my presentation tmrw My school is fairly large and about a 1000 people are gonna be present. I have rehearsed a lot but still I have butterflies in my stomach and I can't sleep
@Evan-py8oz
@Evan-py8oz 4 ай бұрын
​@@ItzCalamityYT08 How did the presentation go?
@kabeitirapatience8838
@kabeitirapatience8838 8 ай бұрын
My God just even by reading these comments and thinkinga bour it brings tears and makes my heart race.
@sanjayk3094
@sanjayk3094 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ..... I saw this video 3days ago before my interview ... I cracked my interview and got my first job. I kept doing this all the way through my waiting time. Ty so much❤❤❤❤
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 ай бұрын
Great job!
@ijustluvxoreos1925
@ijustluvxoreos1925 Жыл бұрын
I have a speech tomorrow... i get anxiety and fears they builds up like ur body is dragging u to the bottom of the ocean. This helps me i got a clearer mind and told myself, "Be calm no matter just speak normally and loud enough" this helps me a lot for tomorrow. Though I have a phobia of speaking in public like a public crowd, It's super-duper scary for me. Thank you so so much for this strategy!
@jasonyoung9329
@jasonyoung9329 Жыл бұрын
I’m an hour away from giving a 20min presentation and I’m shitting myself 😅
@ijustluvxoreos1925
@ijustluvxoreos1925 Жыл бұрын
@@jasonyoung9329 lol
@andys3035
@andys3035 Жыл бұрын
​@Jason Young it's so stressful. Hope you did well.
@imortalXsoul
@imortalXsoul Жыл бұрын
@@jasonyoung9329 Hope it went well!
@dusty_telescope
@dusty_telescope 3 жыл бұрын
I have a speech in less than an hour. The timing of this
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Great 👍 remember to hold that exhale out as long as you can first! 🤜🤛
@timmypannu
@timmypannu 3 жыл бұрын
Hopefully went great huh?
@dusty_telescope
@dusty_telescope 3 жыл бұрын
@@vocabilities Thanks! It definitley helped!
@dusty_telescope
@dusty_telescope 3 жыл бұрын
@@timmypannu Great might be an exaggeration but I did survive :D
@baylorsailor
@baylorsailor Жыл бұрын
Public speaking literally makes my throat close up. And the only way I can talk is to constantly clear my throat, or force the words out which makes my voice crack and shake. I have a local history presentation coming up in October. Something I want to do but I'm already terrified. To the point that I'm having difficulty preparing. I know if I don't make myself do it I will only regret it. 😞
@vocabilities
@vocabilities Жыл бұрын
Have you ever tried hypnotherapy? Can be very useful in these circumstances!
@kasiak1288
@kasiak1288 7 ай бұрын
I have the same, sometimes my throat just closes
@neishalandle3896
@neishalandle3896 7 ай бұрын
Definitely will try this later today . I have extreme anxiety while public speaking . It’s So bad my voice will tremble all the way and cold sweat all over 😢 no matter how much I try to calm myself
@marymwangi8851
@marymwangi8851 5 ай бұрын
Same here. My voice trembles hard. Sometimes I even forget what I was saying and I can't construct a word in English or any other language.
@zainulabdin9098
@zainulabdin9098 2 ай бұрын
Same with me as i am extremely introverted person
@trentc6069
@trentc6069 2 жыл бұрын
I did this without even having a presentation yet and I feel really good. Thank you for this
@zerefhitomi177
@zerefhitomi177 2 жыл бұрын
First day of class be like Teacher: okay class please introduce yourself Me: 😰😰😰😰😰😰😰
@thebossgoat115
@thebossgoat115 6 ай бұрын
😭😂
@puppysm5075
@puppysm5075 3 ай бұрын
I fucking hate it damn. I'm like why why WHYYYYYYYY 😂😂
@saferoundhouse5910
@saferoundhouse5910 2 жыл бұрын
Trying this one out next Tuesday for my presentation. Hope this helps, it's always so frustrating and discouraging when you've prepared really well but speech anxiety causes you to mess up in the end...
@growqueen
@growqueen Жыл бұрын
How did it go.
@saferoundhouse5910
@saferoundhouse5910 Жыл бұрын
@@growqueen Quite well actually, I was still nervous but I didn't freeze up or anything, so definitely better than usual!
@liberteindependante8255
@liberteindependante8255 Жыл бұрын
@@saferoundhouse5910 glad to hear!!, keep it up man
@andys3035
@andys3035 Жыл бұрын
I'm the same way. I get a lump in my throat and it's literally hard for me to breath. I hate it. I've had good and bad meetings which I don't get why I can't just get over it since I've done it good many times. But that fear of that "one time" I messed up cripples me.
@bidfca5980
@bidfca5980 Жыл бұрын
@@andys3035same problem. how long have you been attending meetings
@WisdomWeaverBitcoinBruv
@WisdomWeaverBitcoinBruv 3 ай бұрын
"Don't give speeches." Thank you! I needed this wisdom today.
@o.oswift181
@o.oswift181 2 жыл бұрын
I have this presentation for my avid class and ive literaly dreaded this whole week. Ima very outgoing and loving person and i love cracking dumb jokes with my friends in public and heck sometimes i even do something embarrassing but there's something i cant describe abt the certain type of anxiety that public speaking brings me. I had a previous traumatic experience while presenting earier this year that i think made me traumatized because i was totally fine before but ever since then i feel like all my confidence for public speaking has been taken away from me. its really affecting my mental health and i told my teacher but since this is a class for geting u ready for college his theory is that we have to practice public presenting now. So now hes forcing me to present unless i lose credit for the whole project which he graded 50/50 points for on google classroom. its so wack but i literally hate the anxiety that one event caused me.
@tenbandz6488
@tenbandz6488 2 жыл бұрын
how did it go
@teipmaan
@teipmaan 2 жыл бұрын
I have exactly the same! How did it go?
@business9737
@business9737 2 жыл бұрын
Im exactly the same. I dropped out of the class the first day and ever since then my anxiety and nerves have overtooken everything from me
@o.oswift181
@o.oswift181 2 жыл бұрын
I guess I should probably update you guys on how it went. I didn't present. I felt bad but I knew I wasnt ready and that was ok. Sure I might not like this version of me but if I dont love it no one will. So im working on my self esteem and people skills to overcome this. I have avid again next year and even though im nervous im Sure ill be ok.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 2 жыл бұрын
It’s good that you recognise this my friend. Time will help you ease in to future situations. Working on your self is so crucial for us all! 🙏👍🙏
@indrakumar8414
@indrakumar8414 4 ай бұрын
This actually works, i have tried this earlier during my interview, i cracked the interview ...❤
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 ай бұрын
Boom! Tell your friends :)
@yumtaco7376
@yumtaco7376 2 жыл бұрын
I just messed up my presentation. Although I’ve memorized everything very well, one thing could easily drag the other. Keep in mind I spoke in English during my presentation and that it is my second language, so I am sure that played a factor into why I wasn’t confident of my speech even though I’ve made sure of everything, but still it felt like I was doing something wrong or was missing something
@Xyro043
@Xyro043 3 ай бұрын
@@yumtaco7376 i hate myself i also feel the same thing as you
@diegolara4202
@diegolara4202 6 ай бұрын
I am going to give a bible study this Friday and even though I have done this various times this time it's different. I don't know 90 percent of the people who will be there, so I am afraid of being judged. This is the anxiety and nervousness I get but I know ones I get started it will all go away, and everything will be fine.
@majamay7399
@majamay7399 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, the only technique so far that really prevents me from hyperventilating.
@krystalphillips1204
@krystalphillips1204 4 ай бұрын
I curtsied at the end of an internal job interview. I CURTSIED 🥴 i already work full time with this organization and part time with the department I interviewed for. I knew the interview panel and have conversations with them regularly. My thoughts and answers were scrambled eggs. I was goofy and weird because of my severe anxiety with public speaking and fear of not appearing competent. Enneagram 5 here! After the interview, as I was replaying it over and over in my head, I realized I WAS THE ONE WHO CREATED THE INTERVIEW QUESTIONS AND PROCESS 2 years ago during a project to create this department… I don’t even want to show my face at work and am so disappointed in myself for fear I let them down with my poor performance. I am always complimented on my work ethic and job performance and received a stellar employee evaluation for the 5th year in a row. I already know the job and do it well. I am terrified that my poor interview performance will affect both areas of my job
@itloggirl122
@itloggirl122 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this fast, clear and simple exercise. I have two important presentations coming up with a series of video consultations before those. Def saving in my downloads for reference when I need it.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent! There’s a whole bunch more in the free breath week if you sign up below! 🤘😁
@itloggirl122
@itloggirl122 3 жыл бұрын
@@vocabilities I signed up. Excited to hear more.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
Cool 😎
@nikovelikov
@nikovelikov 3 жыл бұрын
Once I was so scared that I took a shot of vodka before going to the stage. It worked, but it's not very sustainable!
@ascia158
@ascia158 3 жыл бұрын
i will try it for sure..i have a presentation on Wednesday..thank you
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
Great! Let me know how it goes. Or perhaps even sign up to the week on breath as that will help!
@Zapgod
@Zapgod 7 ай бұрын
Man i had to give a presentation today but didnt realize i prepared the wrong thing until i was in the classroom. Each person went up and had done their 3 min. Presentation and i was the last one. Knowing my presentation didnt follow the guidelines, i had to wing it and conform my presentation to the guidelines. I went up all nervous, heart pounding, and the minute i started talking i could hear my own voice. All i could focus on was my voice and had to look at my notes just to go back on track. To top it off, when i started to crack jokes noone laughed! I have never felt that nervous in my life. My instructor told me she didnt know why i was nervous, i presented well and that if i had prepared my presentation well in advance(mind you it was an prepared the prior day) that i wouldve killed it. At the end of the presentation, my nerves calmed down and realized i was overthinking it.
@Pipper373
@Pipper373 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this it really helps Even though I speak in front of real crowds all the time, I still get really nervous and and it affects my performance on stage
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 22 күн бұрын
I’m glad to hear it. Still happens to me too. Especially when singing 🙄
@kasiak1288
@kasiak1288 7 ай бұрын
I just write down What I need to say… as usually have online presentations… I know it’s not perfect but it helps, I use it as prompter and not always follow the script. Add things so it doesn’t seem like reading.
@kabeitirapatience8838
@kabeitirapatience8838 8 ай бұрын
My biggest problem is when im given attention and my mind knows that everyones attention is on me thats when i freeze, sweat,my voice becomes weird. God help me this is my goal for 2024 to overcome my fear, because Gods purpose for my life is to speak to people
@Jonathan_benitez
@Jonathan_benitez Жыл бұрын
it's easy for me to have a conversation with people or a small group but when it comes to me being the center of attention and people start cheering and clapping my face starts doing weird expressions showing the anxiety i'm feeling and I can't control it, I had enough today got home mad because of it.
@rahulkathania5765
@rahulkathania5765 3 ай бұрын
I am a very introverted person and tomorrow I am going to give a speech, today I am very nervous.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 ай бұрын
Just breathe out more every time then anxiety builds. It will lessen when you don’t feed it! 😉
@daniell4419
@daniell4419 2 жыл бұрын
I got a 2 page speech to give this Wednesday...wish me luck
@Tom-jx9te
@Tom-jx9te 10 ай бұрын
Wow, and I thought I was the only one who gets nervous😅 This video is very helpful. Along with some of the other techniques. And for those who make these videos, the experts, if they’re under like three minutes, they’re more likely to give me to watch them.😊
@Kan-hp5ne
@Kan-hp5ne Жыл бұрын
Ps/ did my unnecessarily public speaking today, still nervous and shaken . My speech was unnecessary but I still did it so that I can overcome it . I fear I’ll be worse
@Kan-hp5ne
@Kan-hp5ne Жыл бұрын
I have my 2 hour presentation in two days again I spoke today so that it will be easier the day of presentation. I’m not even energetic to prepare it anymore
@fashiontrend3289
@fashiontrend3289 2 ай бұрын
I do well with presentations and public speeches because I love passing a message to the audience. However, tomorrow I'm gonna do a presentation for a larger number of people than I am used to, in a place where I'm only used to being in the audience, not on the stage. I am not an anxious person, I'm indeed really calm and chill but the more I think about tomorrow, the more unprepared I feel. I am afraid of forgetting everything.
@BeUrOWN-hp4qk
@BeUrOWN-hp4qk 8 ай бұрын
I Often feel anxious at certain places, and cant talk properly at that time.. I always talk unclear words and pronounce the words improperly. I am still struggling with it, but i am trying to change it.. May be in future i will manage to change it
@kachinsong94
@kachinsong94 11 ай бұрын
I can't control my fear when giving presentations 😢. My voice begins to shake and my faces turns dark. I don't know how to control. I think most people don't understand how I encounter.
@itznot_chi
@itznot_chi 25 күн бұрын
@@kachinsong94 you're not alone
@machobaba6882
@machobaba6882 2 жыл бұрын
If u have anexity being social , it means u have given wrong and feearful emotions , to your mind ... Try to replace it slowly by exiting , happy experiences related to stage speaking ...this willl surely help.......small Good experiences created good moments. ...it's all about what story you tell ur brain , it won't accept the god story now , after a time ofcourse yes
@gellertbiro8067
@gellertbiro8067 8 ай бұрын
I recently have this issue while I need to present something during work. Can't wait to try this out.
@sumitgond9813
@sumitgond9813 7 ай бұрын
Does it work?
@iandniells9681
@iandniells9681 6 ай бұрын
How does it went?
@MP3_bludd0
@MP3_bludd0 2 жыл бұрын
I have a important presentation next year in may. I'm a very introverted person. I don't have any friends and i never speak at school. ok, when i have to speak with the teacher i speak with them but also very silent. but if someone tries to talk with me, is it a teacher or a student, i cant open my mouth. i'm starting to feel anxious, very warm and i'm starting to shake a bit. i have this feeling everytime someone speaks to me, someone looks at me for a long time or when i hear people talk about me. but mostly when i have to talk. i think many people in my class never even heard me speak. i also never eat or drink when people are nearby. i'm so fcking scared about the presentation. I'm really scared because I'm scared that I won't be able to open my mouth during the presentation
@user-ox5lk2ze2b
@user-ox5lk2ze2b 2 ай бұрын
@@MP3_bludd0 My symptoms are very similar to you. I am 32 years old and my life is stuck because of these issues.
@brunooka
@brunooka 7 ай бұрын
I used to talk a lot to people and do presentations very easily back in 2016, 2017... 2019. But suddently I started to have anxiety attacks every time I had to present something to more than 2 people. I don't think it's a panic attack because I don't feel like I'm gonna die. But I literally lose my breath and can't speak, it's ridiculous
@Spooky_Fiendz
@Spooky_Fiendz Жыл бұрын
This really works😭 Tysm!
@JRich90
@JRich90 6 ай бұрын
I regularly hold meetings, but all of a sudden I can no longer make it through a meeting and have to quickly end it. I’ll start reading from my notes, then suddenly the words don’t come out, my voice goes shallow and I’m trying to push the words out. Then I get an overwhelming feeling of dread, and everyone is looking at me and noticing, then my eyes start to well up. It’s ridiculous and cannot understand why this now happens to me. I take CBD oil, Ashwagandha and I meditate. Does not help. I know it’s not ideal but I’ve started taking propranolol before a meeting, and am now cutting out coffee before holding a meeting. This doesn’t get rid of the anxiety but it enables me to finish my meetings. I will now try the breathing technique! Anyone else the same or have any other tips?
@justinjoe2749
@justinjoe2749 3 ай бұрын
Just came from a presentation where I was soooo nervous and it went terrible:( but I’m gonna do better!!
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 2 ай бұрын
Yessss!
@ChristinaCantrell
@ChristinaCantrell 2 жыл бұрын
I have a presentation i have to do in my english AA, I'm worried about it bc usually when I do it, I run out of breath really fast, my voice sounds really shaky, and my heart pounds so much, what can help with this, I really need to do something about that before I do my presentation in 2 weeks
@AbdulSamad-bk7ub
@AbdulSamad-bk7ub 8 ай бұрын
I'm watching this video because I've a speech today I've to share about me and about my background in front of Americans and it really make me nervous But i hope I'll do my best Inshallah...........❤
@brandomaximus5940
@brandomaximus5940 3 жыл бұрын
:/ idk if I have this anxiety but I have a mumble,stutter, mummer etc issue whenever I speak and I find myself having to rehearse the simplest lines for everyday life in order to say them properly. It feels like my mouth muscles are just spasming. Idk if that's an anxiety issue or smth else.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
They can be interconnected. Why don't you try the week on breath and see how it affects you?
@brandomaximus5940
@brandomaximus5940 3 жыл бұрын
@@vocabilities sure thing!
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
See you there!
@SuperKaner1
@SuperKaner1 3 жыл бұрын
I used to stutter often, and then it reduced when I stopped trying to fix it. When you allow what you fear, the fear no longer has no control over you. Rigid beliefs of " I must not stutter" or "I absolutely must not make these mistakes", make us focus too much on what could go "wrong", and the fear then makes it harder to behave naturally, and authentically. When you make friends with your fears, they immediately stop being being fears.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
Great words. Your mind will go where you focus!
@Kumariello
@Kumariello 13 күн бұрын
They way i take my anxiety away before presentations is thinking that all these people are less knowledgeable than me , thats the reason I'm doing this presentation and explaining them something they don't know 😂 It works
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 13 күн бұрын
Nice one. as long as you don't start talking to them like they're morons lol!
@tomchapmangcse
@tomchapmangcse Жыл бұрын
Have a presentation tomorrow, wish me luck 🤞
@charlotteselig6584
@charlotteselig6584 7 ай бұрын
I tried doing everything to help me deep breathing grounding and nothing makes my anxiety go away
@roi7926
@roi7926 2 жыл бұрын
This might sound ridiculous but i just got a from home call center job & for now im in the training period. The problem is every time im asked to read something out loud for my team i lose it: i start shaking uncontrollably, i can't breathe in at all & i can't focus on what im reading thus making mistakes and stuttering. Idk why that happens because i have no issue of casually speaking with my team. Do you think this exercise will work in this scenario?
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 2 жыл бұрын
If you can control your breath then you can control the physiological symptoms of anxiety and that can have a direct impact on your psychological perceptions. Try it out!
@SharonMcCue
@SharonMcCue 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way.
@JG-kq5el
@JG-kq5el 4 ай бұрын
My main issue is that I forget words and sometimes jumble them up, like I'll say something like 'speak it over' instead of 'talk it over'. I catch it and correct myself when I can and it's not too late, and usually I'm not speaking with a native English speaker so it's fine. It's a growing concern of mine. Maybe it's just having been surrounded by so many non-native speakers. Perhaps they've destroyed my English!
@Gamebred19964
@Gamebred19964 Жыл бұрын
Im a talkative person, but when it comes to presentation or even my prof ask me to read the first paragraph of the discussion, i always feel nervous, my mouth dry, and my voice sounds like im going to cry.... Fuck that feelings
@danielbaguma4912
@danielbaguma4912 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Darren for this
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! 🙏
@JayPadroso
@JayPadroso 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I have a question, I'm a bit shy and when I talk to other people I tend to start talking faster and faster to the point that the other person can't understand a single word What can I do to help me talk slower? I do this very often and It's something that I really want to change.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
Actually breath control is still the best option in that scenario! Check out the week on breath via the sign up. It’s really useful stuff! 👍👍👍
@JayPadroso
@JayPadroso 3 жыл бұрын
@@vocabilities Thank you! I'm definitely going to do that.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 жыл бұрын
See you there!
@simplyroxyhappynovember7814
@simplyroxyhappynovember7814 10 ай бұрын
I’m so scared I used to not be a quiet person but idk why I became one and now it’s hard not to be quiet anymore and in class I have to give a presentation tomorrow and almost everyone in the class knows me as a “quiet student” so I’m so scared and I am going to try to do this I hope it helps 🤞
@MountainMXOfficial
@MountainMXOfficial 11 ай бұрын
Thanks man, its works.
@ilikelebronjames6426
@ilikelebronjames6426 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks I will try it for my Spanish presentation tomorrow
@MbarkAitsaadoun
@MbarkAitsaadoun 7 ай бұрын
My voice is so low and I need this types,
@romankhan9120
@romankhan9120 Жыл бұрын
And how about when someone by direct speach and suddenly happens this body troath chest sensations ? There is no chans to do this ecercises in front of ppl when ppl watching and whaiting for the speachs
@M.SDhanjal-xw6gt
@M.SDhanjal-xw6gt 8 ай бұрын
The feeling of anxiousness comes back every single time, hate it.
@-souleyes
@-souleyes Ай бұрын
When talk in person my voice sounds normal and on the deeper side but when I’m talking online with a headset I find my voice being more hoarse and croaky sometimes cracking, does anybody know why this is.
@roydelixhub
@roydelixhub 9 ай бұрын
it makes me slightly dizzy, but i will try this next time before my set in open mic comedy
@gottastudypractice
@gottastudypractice 2 жыл бұрын
I really need this for speech in class cause I'm running for business manager wish me luck and I hope this help
@MillionaireRai
@MillionaireRai Жыл бұрын
So I should do during meeting
@grime7002
@grime7002 Жыл бұрын
This good for GAD in general!
@simmy7212
@simmy7212 3 жыл бұрын
Hey! Can u make a video on how to dpeak with a russian accent, I really wanna learn
@kartikeyashukla9646
@kartikeyashukla9646 4 ай бұрын
I always ended up speaking something that even i can't remember. When i start speaking , i know at some point I'm using non logical word but still i try to keep going the conversation but at the half of my speech i starts to regret about my previous mistake and i ended up forgetting what i have to speak now everything went blank like idk what to speak anymore then I'll be like aah uuhmm yeaah😔
@LitterallyFalcon
@LitterallyFalcon 4 ай бұрын
I'm trying to make videos with voice and I struggle so much, tysm for solution
@silverbackanimal7215
@silverbackanimal7215 2 жыл бұрын
This doesn’t work because I’m shaking
@dbdbdjdndbdndbdjdn7839
@dbdbdjdndbdndbdjdn7839 Ай бұрын
i am on the phone a lot at work and i panic about having to do it in an office. i usually drink extra water just so i can nip to the toilet for 4 or so minutes and try to refresh
@waqar32193
@waqar32193 Жыл бұрын
Im very nervous to talk someone idk how to remove this habit
@kumipermaecovillageghana
@kumipermaecovillageghana 3 жыл бұрын
Great tip. Thanks for sharing
@ganeshgunagi1573
@ganeshgunagi1573 4 ай бұрын
Do daily meditation for 10-15 mins
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 3 ай бұрын
Good one!
@kingkolt886
@kingkolt886 Жыл бұрын
My issue is introducing myself in front of a small to large group. Heart pounding and my words just don’t come out as smooth.
@vocabilities
@vocabilities Жыл бұрын
Especially if your last right?
@Millwall42
@Millwall42 8 ай бұрын
Yes
@ajinkyakhandare4748
@ajinkyakhandare4748 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Daren ❤
@luvs4m_
@luvs4m_ 5 ай бұрын
thank you ❤
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 5 ай бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@gunner5711
@gunner5711 3 жыл бұрын
I am really bad at explaining things any tips for this problem sir?
@Equizmaa
@Equizmaa Жыл бұрын
Expand your vocab by reading more books
@alfredjohnson4911
@alfredjohnson4911 5 ай бұрын
I am still struggling with this problem.😢
@babygirla6630
@babygirla6630 Жыл бұрын
Great. So when I need to talk to people I'll just make them wait and say I need to breathe out so I can talk.😒
@caryalva
@caryalva 5 ай бұрын
i have to give a speech in class tomorrow,it's really a bad feeling for introvert peson like me,hope this method can help me:(
@Deepika-gx1cg
@Deepika-gx1cg Ай бұрын
@@caryalva did it help you?
@naseerrusthum6311
@naseerrusthum6311 4 ай бұрын
Glossophobia - fear of public speaking
@bunnygirlpinky1512
@bunnygirlpinky1512 Жыл бұрын
Tomorrow iam having i will try this Iam soo sacred..
@growqueen
@growqueen Жыл бұрын
How did it go.
@bunnygirlpinky1512
@bunnygirlpinky1512 Жыл бұрын
@@growqueen it was good
@growqueen
@growqueen Жыл бұрын
@@bunnygirlpinky1512 so glad to hear this. I have a presentation I have just been asked to do on Monday. Literally no time to prepare. Hopefully, it will go well.
@bunnygirlpinky1512
@bunnygirlpinky1512 Жыл бұрын
@@growqueen just dont be nervous and prepare well All the best..
@growqueen
@growqueen Жыл бұрын
@@bunnygirlpinky1512 Thank you
@mominahkhan9003
@mominahkhan9003 2 ай бұрын
Im feeling so so lost... if anyone can help me by giving any helpful tip or diagnose me with something... you are more than welcome I used to recite in my class, im the best student to do so, my teacher regularly asks me to help the weak students, im always reciting loud and clear , ive been doing so for 6 months, and have no difficulty in it, and enjoy doing so But from the past 1 week, im insufferable, like im sitting fine, but whenever my teacher asks me to revite suddenly my heart beat is too high , i lose control , my mind goes blank, my body is sweating and shaking, my voice is heavy im on the verge of tears breathless and cant recite even 2 3 lines... its really embarrassing as well as shocking for me as this never happened before... im unable to recite now and feel extremely embarrassed so if anyone can tell me to do something to calm my heart down a bit so that i can have some air in my lungs to recite those 2 3 lines it will be super helpfull.. No i do not think what others think of me or that others are judging me
@saraswatilamps
@saraswatilamps 17 күн бұрын
you have to breath 4 seconds deeply before reciting , and this might be your case that your subconcious mind remind you of your good past performance and it's the fear of losing that legacy is what maybe fearing you inside
@mominahkhan9003
@mominahkhan9003 17 күн бұрын
@saraswatilamps thank you so much i feel really out of breath I do try deep breathing
@okuscomedy
@okuscomedy 2 жыл бұрын
Nice job.
@michaelbalsamo6964
@michaelbalsamo6964 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! 😊
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome
@Guitarists1
@Guitarists1 Жыл бұрын
Wow thank u
@cloudywhiskers9863
@cloudywhiskers9863 2 ай бұрын
Do you know why every time i try to speak in front of someone or a class my throat will start hurting and feels likes I can't swallow then when i try to say something my voice goes really low where its hard for people to hear me. I want to be able to read my bell ringer answer to the teacher to get extra credits but it always happens.
@fashiontrend3289
@fashiontrend3289 2 ай бұрын
Anxiety. Once you start facing your fear it slowly goes away.
@cloudywhiskers9863
@cloudywhiskers9863 2 ай бұрын
@@fashiontrend3289 Oh ok thank you
@Crookedtail1122
@Crookedtail1122 Ай бұрын
I tried so hard to have friend because since i was little i was very lonely,but when i try to speak in front other people,i feel nervous and my voice sounds very weird,it makes people laugh at me and thought im a weirdo.😢😢
@olivegarden322
@olivegarden322 3 жыл бұрын
Hi could you do a review on the Amazon Halo Band tone analysis feature?
@Likebeggardestroyer920
@Likebeggardestroyer920 2 ай бұрын
Another problem is that I'm the only one that has speech anxiety in my class🤦
@Ncp.Richard
@Ncp.Richard Ай бұрын
Recitations...
@gerriroberson4831
@gerriroberson4831 2 жыл бұрын
AWESOME! Thanks! :)
@mudai_
@mudai_ 5 ай бұрын
at 0:45 I was expecting something else to happen and discover the video was posted on april 1st 😂
@vocabilities
@vocabilities 5 ай бұрын
Nothing “happens” until you take action!
@ASH-01511
@ASH-01511 2 ай бұрын
am I the only when that cant imagine life after the presentation day. It feels like I am preparing my selft to die or something. I dont like this feeling.
@cynth3150
@cynth3150 2 жыл бұрын
i dont know what to do i cant even see if im writing correctly and i see everything in two because im blinded by my tears have to do it tomorrow and im really good when im alone or with a friend and the teacher saw me and has really high expectations for me, but the problem is this teacher has never seen me persent and so i actually stop breathing and choke up and my legs shake really badly and then im told to look at the audiance so what do i do?. I hate my voice because of this one person who calls it annoying and i have a lisp and my face shape makes it hard for me to talk in a mask (my voice is already quiet but the mask mutes me)
@Millwall42
@Millwall42 8 ай бұрын
Really sorry bud... I can imagine it went worse.. Are you recovering??
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