Overcoming INSTAGRAM ANXIETY 😩 (So You Can Actually POST without FEAR or Insecurity)

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Erin On Demand

Erin On Demand

Күн бұрын

INSTAGRAM ANXIETY IS A REAL THING
Many times before I post, I take a deep breath. For a while, I had a weird relationship with IG and wasn’t posting very much. It’s so crazy that Instagram has turned into this crazy big deal in our lives.
“Is my feed good enough? Wait, does this pic go with my feed?” Or not feeling like posting bc you haven’t done anything “post-worthy” lately. Not wanting to post because you already posted in that outfit. Or just fearing judgement and criticism. I GET IT! I’ve been there.
This video, I shed light on some fears I’ve dealt with and some action I’ve taken to overcome my post-anxiety.
// IN THIS VIDEO I SHARE:
1. What is Instagram Anxiety
2. Top 3 fears that keep people from posting
3. How to overcome it
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@freecvpid
@freecvpid 4 жыл бұрын
Pretty sad how we had to search this :(
@Katch3
@Katch3 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@Dafina2002
@Dafina2002 3 жыл бұрын
Fr tho 😔
@whoismaxamillion5832
@whoismaxamillion5832 3 жыл бұрын
No comment
@Adam-hr4bm
@Adam-hr4bm 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah 😔
@WD-rg9hd
@WD-rg9hd 3 жыл бұрын
😔
@edwardmendez2236
@edwardmendez2236 5 жыл бұрын
I feel so insecure when I post and I just feel so anxious
@nelle3856
@nelle3856 5 жыл бұрын
Norman Delly me too sis and then im like “why i lost all these followers??”
@yalexaalvarez3410
@yalexaalvarez3410 4 жыл бұрын
yo fr
@rihem77
@rihem77 4 жыл бұрын
Me too I feel like I want to post but I'm so scared
@oomelette
@oomelette 4 жыл бұрын
literally same, for the entire day i feel nauseous
@uchihamadara7880
@uchihamadara7880 4 жыл бұрын
@@oomelette i'm even scared to make an instagram account then i see 7yrs old use instagram but me not lol
@paupao9547
@paupao9547 4 жыл бұрын
Everytime I post something on instagram i can literally hear my heart racing shm
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679 4 жыл бұрын
Same !
@ashi7725
@ashi7725 4 жыл бұрын
All the time I feel sick
@manifestationhappiness705
@manifestationhappiness705 3 жыл бұрын
Me too I can’t believe I thought I was the only one
@---qu9uf
@---qu9uf 3 жыл бұрын
me too :/
@sanyasharma9702
@sanyasharma9702 2 жыл бұрын
I delete so that I can check the comments after some time and unfortunately there are no replies
@sophie-xq8mh
@sophie-xq8mh 4 жыл бұрын
I end up overthinking and I feel like everyone will judge me and notice all my imperfections
@Ellysse1
@Ellysse1 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, if people are really that bored and miserable to have to look at your imperfections (which everyone has) they are the ones with insecurities, not you! They are just hating you because you have the freedom to be yourself.
@myfakeniceties
@myfakeniceties 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ellysse1 thank you for this. 🥺
@maleekadavis4823
@maleekadavis4823 3 жыл бұрын
Sameeeee🥺🥺🥺 I have so much anxiety
@lawrencechukwuemeka93
@lawrencechukwuemeka93 2 жыл бұрын
And so I deleted it.
@zoegyal1032
@zoegyal1032 2 жыл бұрын
Riiiiiight
@beautifullykayla
@beautifullykayla 3 жыл бұрын
I always feel like my photos aren’t “insta worthy” enough
@Rachel-sf3ml
@Rachel-sf3ml 3 жыл бұрын
Same!! I feel so ugly in my pics 😭😭
@dev_sagar543
@dev_sagar543 2 жыл бұрын
Same here 😭😞😞
@cookie-jk4yw
@cookie-jk4yw 2 жыл бұрын
Same😭
@charitykagendo8606
@charitykagendo8606 Жыл бұрын
Same problem 😭😭
@nadineh4767
@nadineh4767 9 ай бұрын
SAME
@elyssofea378
@elyssofea378 4 жыл бұрын
i feel so happy to be in this comment section knowing im not alone. all my friends have no problem posting and i have such a big issue with it. if ur reading this u deserve so so much love in ur life forever!! i hope we all overcome this anxiety one day
@Lol-md6xs
@Lol-md6xs 3 жыл бұрын
seriously! All of my friends are so happy and have no problems posting theirselves but when it comes too me I get so scared !
@lawrencechukwuemeka93
@lawrencechukwuemeka93 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you hv the anxiety commenting.
@BingeNews
@BingeNews 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Hope you do too!
@ttamcc.4674
@ttamcc.4674 Жыл бұрын
They do trust me they just aren’t telling you about them
@ttamcc.4674
@ttamcc.4674 Жыл бұрын
@@Lol-md6xs trust me they do they just aren’t sharing it
@riavinod27
@riavinod27 4 жыл бұрын
Actually my problem is so weird , like when I take a pic and for me it's a boom pic but then I start to question myself that the person in the pic doesn't look like me and looks really good and I don't look that good in real life and that's when I don't want to post that pic anymore 😅
@shivaniginnela464
@shivaniginnela464 4 жыл бұрын
omh me right now idk what to do
@mirandajoy779
@mirandajoy779 4 жыл бұрын
Glad I'm not the only one..
@thandekam3491
@thandekam3491 4 жыл бұрын
OMG!!! Me
@un4thi
@un4thi 4 жыл бұрын
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO THINKS LIKE THIS LMAO
@tayyabayousaf8562
@tayyabayousaf8562 3 жыл бұрын
Glad I’m not alone
@faz3662
@faz3662 3 жыл бұрын
I actually fear of judgment. Like I always have this catastrophe thinking. we are afraid that people will judge our picture but if they really judge it, so what? They’re opinions are not our problems however they will forget it in a matter of minutes. If they’re think about our picture 24/7 i can approve they’re our fans.
@freehuggos7766
@freehuggos7766 4 жыл бұрын
I'm always too scared that people would judge me..
@Rachel-sf3ml
@Rachel-sf3ml 3 жыл бұрын
Literally me 😭
@nikkinorman4254
@nikkinorman4254 2 жыл бұрын
And usually they don't lol
@zoegyal1032
@zoegyal1032 2 жыл бұрын
Soooooo me
@itspinklover
@itspinklover 2 жыл бұрын
Same 😭
@yalexaalvarez3410
@yalexaalvarez3410 4 жыл бұрын
I get scared to post a new photo.. like
@Sonya-gf7bh
@Sonya-gf7bh 4 жыл бұрын
Yalexa Alvarez you are not alone
@reese6833
@reese6833 4 жыл бұрын
My problem is I feel like people are judging me about posting on it, especially my family cause I have many older (like grandmas and great aunts and uncles) relatives on there am so feel they r judging me for my posts
@user-ll5lq4gl6i
@user-ll5lq4gl6i 3 жыл бұрын
same!!! i have a lot of my moms friends on insta and i feel like they will judge me?? idk why but yes I relate
@aliibilli
@aliibilli 3 жыл бұрын
The restrict button exists
@almab888
@almab888 3 жыл бұрын
@@aliibilli where do we find it and how do we use it ??
@priya3300
@priya3300 3 жыл бұрын
@@aliibilli omg what where is it bc i need that rn
@emma-sc5fp
@emma-sc5fp 2 жыл бұрын
@@almab888 you can just block them if you want
@arielb98
@arielb98 4 жыл бұрын
finally, someone made a video about social media anxiety I've been dealing with this for years since high school. i want to be a content creator and do youtube but posting anything gives me anxiety.
@visibilityfran3885
@visibilityfran3885 2 жыл бұрын
you got this! You are not alone! Social media can be an overwhelming space!!!
@adeliachamberlain7367
@adeliachamberlain7367 Жыл бұрын
SNAP! Yes I'm with you on this I too I'm suffering with this issue. It's like standing on the edge of the cliff wanting to fly but no wings xx hope we get over this
@denisefrancisco3864
@denisefrancisco3864 4 жыл бұрын
I have that problem, I start thinking what ppl will think about my posts and etc. Social Media Anxiety is real sis!!
@suga5383
@suga5383 3 жыл бұрын
I get asked soo many times why I never post.I’ve had my IG for 2 years and literally stressed about what my profile picture should’ve been. Now I struggle with actually posting, I struggle with how to pose and that mixed with my lack of confidence is a hot mess
@manifestationhappiness705
@manifestationhappiness705 3 жыл бұрын
You’re beautiful girl! Look at your profile pic it’s gorgeous I know how you feel I hope you overcome the anxiety of posting more
@suga5383
@suga5383 3 жыл бұрын
@@manifestationhappiness705 Thank you so much 🤍 it’s more so a weight issue with me, I would like to gain weight but as time goes on I realized that the thoughts were created just because of what I was told by people that I know and “friends”. Finally starting to live for me, and one day I’ll get to 100% confidence, I’m gradually progressing 🙌🏽
@ebonylynette
@ebonylynette 5 жыл бұрын
ERIN!!!! Girl! 🤦🏽‍♀️ I seriously just came to the conclusion that I’m choosing to NOT be caught up in what I need to do for an algorithm!!! Its not that deep. People will either stalk, like or follow. I can only present my best...I appreciate this video!!!
@TysonMichael77
@TysonMichael77 4 жыл бұрын
XO_EbonyLyn _ yes I feel this and love your energy
@Ali1u585
@Ali1u585 Жыл бұрын
What makes me anxious is that people watching my story and not reacting to it , but at the same time they're gonna talk about it or not going to acknowledge what im doing or just ignoring me like i don't matter... I don't wanna feel that way , so i never post
@INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED
@INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED 5 жыл бұрын
‘IG is not about to rule my life’ ❤️❤️ Love the yellow! Fear of self promotion is real...you don’t want to seem arrogant however, how will people know what you do ya know? Keep it up sis
@ErinOnDemand
@ErinOnDemand 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! It's so real! Thanks for your continued support xo E
@INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED
@INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED 5 жыл бұрын
Erin On Demand Of course! I genuinely live for your content especially in a KZbin world of house tours and make up hauls.
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so anxious when I post on Instagram because I fear people will think I'm an attention seeker or a negative person. Because people started rejecting me because of that. So basically it is fear of judgement
@Ellysse1
@Ellysse1 3 жыл бұрын
Be yourself! I had that same fear, and once I got over it and chose to be myself, life got so much more peaceful. People only judge when they secretly want to be as free as you are to be yourself.
@luana-wj2sr
@luana-wj2sr 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t even post a story
@raquelval8310
@raquelval8310 4 жыл бұрын
Me either, like i take cute pics but like.. i cant post cus Im so scared and it's annoying
@Ellysse1
@Ellysse1 3 жыл бұрын
Why? You're beautiful! post to your stories! and let all the haters hate, and remember, if you don't have haters, you're not doing anything!
@Ellysse1
@Ellysse1 3 жыл бұрын
@@raquelval8310 Don't be scared Love! I used to be there and now that I overcame that fear, life is 10X better!
@orsomething3442
@orsomething3442 3 жыл бұрын
same not even on private..😞
@sage2476
@sage2476 3 жыл бұрын
Same .. I haven’t posted in like a year already..
@zainabsoofi3637
@zainabsoofi3637 4 жыл бұрын
i get so nervous after i post something. i just don't feel like i'm as pretty or thin as all of my friends and i'll go for weeks afterwards thinking on how different it is or how my face looks different that i end up deleting my whole feed too often honestly.
@visibilityfran3885
@visibilityfran3885 2 жыл бұрын
You are amazing because you are you! Don't let comparison bring you down!
@twilightandmileyfann
@twilightandmileyfann 4 жыл бұрын
“There is power in being authentic” wow I love that, such a great video 😊
@rheamccants2227
@rheamccants2227 4 жыл бұрын
After you post something...... It feels like you made a performance & are waiting for your score from The Judges. 😅😅
@kamogelolegoabe8459
@kamogelolegoabe8459 8 ай бұрын
Yesssss! 😨
@PJ-lw6ng
@PJ-lw6ng 2 жыл бұрын
i miss when instagram was casual when people just posted whatever they felt like when they felt like :(. seems like every picture you post nowadays has to be your very best
@chaiboix
@chaiboix 2 жыл бұрын
^ this !
@CNM2326
@CNM2326 4 жыл бұрын
For me its because iv been bullied before so tend to not want to be cyberbullied too...putting myself out there is tough. the other thing is even with my whatsapp picture that i think looks great my mother and aunt always have something to say like omg your skin its bad or edit it etc then i get discouraged. third is the constant pressure to buy new clothes so that i can post nice pictures... im not a makeup artist or a fashion guru and its hard to pair up some clothes shoes and accessories. Plus i dont have a job yet so yey me... sigh
@KenLuciano300
@KenLuciano300 3 жыл бұрын
Who is bullying you I will fuck them up
@usernotfound162
@usernotfound162 2 жыл бұрын
How old is you
@muffingangayye5770
@muffingangayye5770 4 жыл бұрын
Yesterday I posted a silly video edit on my page With out even thinking because I was in the moment but a couple of hours went by I had so much anxiety!!
@stac1465
@stac1465 3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t posted on my page in 4 years. I feel like nobody would like my stuff. It sucks that i feel this way
@penny4756
@penny4756 3 жыл бұрын
same here
@ni4em1
@ni4em1 3 жыл бұрын
sameee i haven’t posted a thing since 2016/2017 :(
@MzFaithluvly
@MzFaithluvly 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I feel like that for all social media platforms. Sometimes you feel like you're the only one. But, no we're not. This video was much needed. You should make more videos like this it was so helpful.
@andreac6594
@andreac6594 4 жыл бұрын
i havent posted in 2 years cus the thought of it makes me so anxious :(
@nenaacquaviva9884
@nenaacquaviva9884 3 жыл бұрын
I get made fun of for not posting on instagram a lot. People make me feel as if i have no personality or hobbies just because i don't share it on the internet. But posting something and getting no likes or comments makes me feel so worthless:(. I want to challenge myself this year (2021 resolutions) and start to post on instagram...until i can say it no longer makes me want to throw my phone out the window:D Your video is very comforting. Just knowing i'm not the only one who has those feelings:) All of us "social media anxious" people should just follow each other, support and hype each other up:D
@jaye8475
@jaye8475 2 жыл бұрын
As a man.. this hit on a different level. I am so happy to know I'm not alone in this struggle. I JUST deactivated my Facebook & Instagram accounts. I'm just going to take some time off & work on being more intentional with my post. I love the part about TRANSPARENCY. I can agree that the comments/captions section is where you really shine. It's where you give your pot a bit more context. Great video.
@princesslove5973
@princesslove5973 5 жыл бұрын
I have Instagram Anxiety I’m trying get rid of it it comes from being judged in bullied by people most of my life so when I post I get aniexty or keep looking at the pictures then I end up getting in my head in delete the pictures gonna watch video take mental notes hope it works 🤞🏽😊
@cocopops6064
@cocopops6064 3 жыл бұрын
Idk if this sounds conceited but I genuinely think I’m pretty attractive but I still get so anxious to post even tho like it’s a nice photo, I just have no idea why I’m like this. Like I haven’t posted in a whole year..
@reya6126
@reya6126 3 жыл бұрын
me too you're not alone :(
@julissac4260
@julissac4260 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@leekssinclair3903
@leekssinclair3903 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, it’s truly been so helpful, anxietyhas it’s way of making you think that your the only one going through it but it’s nice to know that I’m not the only one, I have this habit of posting things and then immediately deleting it, I don’t know why I do it when really Instagram is just a place full of pictures and videos, I am definitely going to give these tips ago as I am so ready to get rid off this social anxiety 💕
@iammichaelamonique
@iammichaelamonique 5 жыл бұрын
Erin, I feel like you were talking directly to me.. as someone who was not on social media for the past 3 yrs because of the negative effects it had on my self esteem... i find myself struggling as ive been active on social media now to promote my youtube channel. Its like i care about things i used to not, including what others think of me. I’m going to incorporate some of these strategies into my life. I really needed this message & thanks for sharing 💞
@Tiaalexander007
@Tiaalexander007 4 жыл бұрын
Girlaaaahhhhh! You are magic! These topics are spot the freak on. Sooooo much anxiety and mental health issues but feel so pressed to try and keep up with what it demands. Thank you for talking about this! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 seriously rooting for you to get on a network! Manifesting this mess for you! You are so helpful!
@LegendaryRob
@LegendaryRob 4 жыл бұрын
Tia Alexander 📠
@DocMortsnarg
@DocMortsnarg 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this video helped me feel better about my relationship with social media. It's like a warm hug when I'm feeling low
@40EntrepreneurDrive
@40EntrepreneurDrive 5 жыл бұрын
I never really considered that I had any anxiety with Instagram, but #2&#3 are something I actually struggle with. Self-promotion is a necessary evil but it still makes me feel weird.
@TysonMichael77
@TysonMichael77 4 жыл бұрын
This made me feel good Erin.I love your content. I’m a young motivational speaker and I feel myself focused so much on growth instead of enjoying the process. I loved when you said to turn off notifications I think that will help me for sure 💕 I love you and your content! Thank you
@TysonMichael77
@TysonMichael77 4 жыл бұрын
Tarihya Janae exactly!!
@KeishaSparkle
@KeishaSparkle 4 жыл бұрын
This was SO helpful, especially during the pandemic. I took two months to figure out exactly how to deal with this anxiety and to come back stronger. This gave me so many great ideas, thank you ❤️🙏🏾
@beingtorirenee
@beingtorirenee 5 жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am hair and makeup ! I love this so much !
@ErinOnDemand
@ErinOnDemand 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks darling! xo E
@saltyhttps
@saltyhttps 4 жыл бұрын
the honestly! thank you for being brave and posting something that myself and i’m sure many other people are dealing with 👍🏼
@Tiaalexander007
@Tiaalexander007 4 жыл бұрын
And yesssssss learning how to be ok with self promoting is a struggle. I am a model and still have a hard time promoting my success and other project endeavors. Glad you shared this piece
@Seazured
@Seazured Жыл бұрын
One reason why I'm so anxious about posting on IG is because almost nobody have any post in their profile or only like 4 pictures. The fact that people kept archiving their post holds me back from posting.
@lettyb_
@lettyb_ 4 жыл бұрын
Currently binge watching your videos as i have just come across your page! But i think this video i relate to the most! Everything u said i go thru & gradualky trying to overcome and deal with it, so thank you, i dont feel so alone for feeling this way and for your helpful tips!
@misselenita
@misselenita 3 жыл бұрын
So glad to know i’m not alone! thank you so much for sharing 💕
@ShenekaBabyyTV
@ShenekaBabyyTV 5 жыл бұрын
yesssssss Erin for this bomb ass content!!!!!! Love the setup
@ayankarmakar2291
@ayankarmakar2291 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for putting the prespective in the right track!! It helps me a lot.😁
@vir1966
@vir1966 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing these kind words and giving people who went through the same stuff an opportunity not to feel alone, it may seem stupid but this kind of things really f*ck with your mind
@demidoes9902
@demidoes9902 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss!!! I so relate to everything! Thank you for the motivation! ❤️❤️❤️
@arionwheeler
@arionwheeler 4 жыл бұрын
I really like this video. I believe that IG anxiety is real. I went through it for a season and I am now coming out of it, but still deal with it daily. I also like the idea of turning off IG notifications but like you said It goes to show that IG can rule your life but its our choice to not let it..
@MrsMine-bo2lb
@MrsMine-bo2lb 3 жыл бұрын
this video is so timely and timeless!!!
@nicholsmerin
@nicholsmerin 3 жыл бұрын
I have been waiting for this video for yearsssssss🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🧘🏻‍♀️🌿
@buildingwithJesus
@buildingwithJesus 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this. Although we're now in 2021, I definitely found myself feeling Instagram anxiety today. I didn't post for months and so I had a whole bunch of negative thoughts just fill my mind. But you said something that's so important. Unfollow people that you feel you have to compete against or that you're jealous about. That definitely helps. And prayer lol. Thank you!
@riddlemyfiddle
@riddlemyfiddle 5 жыл бұрын
I actually have a fear called visiobibliophobia, it is a fear if posting stuff on social media or the fear of pedophiles texting you on social media’s, that’s why I don’t like social media😢
@NicoleDMunoz
@NicoleDMunoz 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing. Love this and needed to hear this 💖 Thank you!
@kaykayscofield
@kaykayscofield 5 жыл бұрын
Someone being honest!! Refreshing 🙌🏾
@LovelyFlyShy
@LovelyFlyShy 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I’ve always struggled with feelings of not being good enough, not looking good enough or simply not fitting in. The likes play a huge part in that as well! I’m also very afraid of self promotion. I’m currently writing a book and working on a documentary and I’m terrified of sharing this with people. As when I was younger and tried to on Facebook, I was looked at as weird or a loser. Btw you are beautiful!
@azanhysn
@azanhysn 2 жыл бұрын
Omggg! I just came across this video! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences! I deal with it as well and watching this video really inspired me! Keep pushing sis! 💕
@kaylamitchell742
@kaylamitchell742 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this for sure. I’m currently trying to revamp my page surrounding my business and it’s been so nerve wracking because I have so many reserves about Instagram from the past
@EstherBonsu
@EstherBonsu 3 жыл бұрын
This video is so good!! Literally spoke to deeply to me beyond just Instagram ... thanks for showing up sis 💖
@ralphguzzoactorproducercom4417
@ralphguzzoactorproducercom4417 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent - yeah I know what I go through - and fear , ageism, worry over being vulnerable - you name it . Great share , more talk needed on this as we are in a very different time of social media and technology as worthy of respect just as our speech is power filled. you exibit both imo - thank you .
@etuholevaendwanawa9182
@etuholevaendwanawa9182 4 жыл бұрын
I just watched like 10 videos😂🙌🏽❤️ so glad I came across your channel... you just schooled me on so many things. Thank you Erin... Love your channel ❤️❤️
@whitneysworld8623
@whitneysworld8623 3 жыл бұрын
This was on point! Not enough people talk about this
@candacetroystudios
@candacetroystudios 2 жыл бұрын
So glad I found your video Erin. To begin with, I am fairly new to Instagram so there is a learning curve I have been going through. I go through phases of posting often, to hardly at all. Then I began looking at the reasons. One, since I do art, I would either forget to film or run out of ⌚ (posting at a regular time all the time) I then began to realize I was anxious about all of it, procrastinating more and more. Oh and then checking out comments and likes began to stress me out. I really want this to be a fun experience.
@anisahk.9897
@anisahk.9897 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I didn’t even know I needed to hear this.
@johnnydunbar680
@johnnydunbar680 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you talking about this. Thanks!
@ryssaexplainsitall
@ryssaexplainsitall 4 жыл бұрын
Alll of this !! Needed this 🙏🙏
@Mich2Paris7
@Mich2Paris7 2 жыл бұрын
Wow I needed this video so much!! Thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️
@user-uq9oh4yg2z
@user-uq9oh4yg2z 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know,i feel so insecure of posting myself or even taking pictures of myself...i just don't wanna be on the school ugly page or get bullied for being ugly 💀😔
@Ellysse1
@Ellysse1 3 жыл бұрын
You're not ugly! the people making you feel that way are, post what you want! and feel good doing it
@ShellyNicole
@ShellyNicole 4 жыл бұрын
I have anxiety and experience social media anxiety especially recently....i have a art and makeup channel but have been wanting to in corporate some video gameplay videos there too because it’s apart of who i am, but i didn’t want my channel to be all over the place but i feel like a lot of people who i follow they don’t just post about just ONE thing. And most of the time they have nothing to do with each other, where as gaming i can play the games or whatever then get inspiration to draw a character or scene ya know? But I’ve been think hard on it and i came across this video 💕
@madant22
@madant22 5 жыл бұрын
i feel u IG anxiety is a real thing. I feel it ever since i signed on to it. Idk what to post. n going live forget. it i hate it when ppl i know are watching me. Then if my hair n close is good is another issue i have. n i'm afraid of wearing the same clothes more than once on the gram. So this Ig anxiety is real for me defiantly. KZbin is the same thing.
@alliec3483
@alliec3483 5 жыл бұрын
Love,LOVE,lOve your content. I look forward to working with you in the future! ❤️ from Flint :)
@tinytina7447
@tinytina7447 4 жыл бұрын
I have a KZbin channel and I’m so scared to share it on Instagram. Why am I so insecure? Helppp!!! Anyone else feel like this, you don’t want your friend to find out
@lucias2424
@lucias2424 3 жыл бұрын
I totally feel the same!! I seriously regret deleting a video a made before quarantine started :( If they are your friends, they will support you. Take a risk!
@cassandrafinch991
@cassandrafinch991 3 жыл бұрын
Great tips Erin. I was getting ready to post and I needed some motivation
@gaylemarie94
@gaylemarie94 3 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful. Definitely struggle with this. Thank you so much!
@whoismaxamillion5832
@whoismaxamillion5832 3 жыл бұрын
You ain’t never lied girl !
@caroc1630
@caroc1630 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I took a break from social media for a year and now I am working on my business and the anxiety about posting is real. Specially on Facebook it has too many options and little buttons that make me go crazy. And on Instagram I feel like everything has to be perfect so it’s worth to post it. 😩😩
@1fashionbliss
@1fashionbliss 2 жыл бұрын
Erin I love your channel bc you always keep it 💯 ❤😊
@shayna2430
@shayna2430 5 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone 😩
@Joneses22
@Joneses22 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!!! By the way I looooove that lip color on you honey!! 😍
@Chelle1Love_
@Chelle1Love_ Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your tips. I definitely have difficulty with self promoting. That's the only thing I want to utilize social media for. Thank you
@saffire00
@saffire00 3 жыл бұрын
Girl these videos givin me life
@zoegyal1032
@zoegyal1032 2 жыл бұрын
LOVE THIS VIDEOOOO!
@lulu19922
@lulu19922 4 жыл бұрын
This helped me so much. Thank you! God bless yoy. Ps. you are gorgeous!!!!! omg so cute
@joshuanette
@joshuanette 3 жыл бұрын
You are not the only one. I now OVER THINK all my post. it can be so annoying but i am working on it
@bulumkonapakade7314
@bulumkonapakade7314 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been on a social media hiatus for almost a year after a pretty hard break up (for me at least) and I realized I wasn’t centered as I allowed social media to control the way I think and influence my relationships (as the people I was close to incl my ex were so immersed in social media) I developed like a wierd PTSD about being on social media and posting. So I’ve deleted the apps and completely deactivated my twitter account Real talk this has been amazing for me mentally and spiritually and I’ve gotten to a point we’re I’d like to get back on social media to leverage it to create authentic engagement between my craft/businesses and a community that I’d like to cultivate... in so glad I’m not the only one who had this exact anxiety... definitely coming back with a bang but very different with ten approach thanks for the advice
@earthintuitiontarot1946
@earthintuitiontarot1946 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I have social media anxiety about to post videos and I'm like, blech, I ramble too much, my voice is not interesting enough ugchhh. Thank you for this I'm working through these feels right now. I still get in these ruts sometimes, thank you for this video
@tania2299
@tania2299 3 жыл бұрын
i cant even repost a post on insta like i get scared w whoever views it
@sage2476
@sage2476 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@mariahkristinerealtor
@mariahkristinerealtor 4 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel & so glad that I did ❤️❤️❤️
@sarahtirado4658
@sarahtirado4658 3 жыл бұрын
Y'all are GORGEOUS
@nataliedvorakova575
@nataliedvorakova575 3 жыл бұрын
This is a great video Erin, I whish more people with social media anxiety see this! :) ;)
@tonysteel1377
@tonysteel1377 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve viewed your cool content here on the KZbin platform, and actually you don’t need social media validation to such extreme degrees; so please don’t overwhelm yourself. As it comes to IG, many are severely superficial. Many will even pose prosperous but are the fake rich, with far more followers than dollars. Stay gorgeous love! 💛
@jedinethomas543
@jedinethomas543 4 жыл бұрын
Yess I have this trying to be more open
@AnaDeLucaMusic
@AnaDeLucaMusic 2 жыл бұрын
i’m an artist and im being held back by the fear of posting, mainly on tiktok… i wish i’d post everyday but i’m just too afraid… though by reading the comments and watching this and other videos, i’ve realized at least i’m not alone… i just need to get over this asap😭
@KRCHNG
@KRCHNG 4 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful, thank you.
@chefm624
@chefm624 5 жыл бұрын
Sis I am on a social media detox at the moment. Right now I’m looking to develop my brand with cooking but on camera but I’m shy when it comes to speaking on camera. I found your channel and you have helped me so much in just one day especially your business videoed. Wow. Thank you for sharing your wealth. And I really love the content on your channel. Please keep going sis! 🙌🏽💛😊 Love and Light. 🧘🏽‍♀️
@ErinOnDemand
@ErinOnDemand 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching! Sooo glad to hear my videos are helpful to you xo E
@ImJazzmineLeigh
@ImJazzmineLeigh 4 жыл бұрын
Chef M don’t forget about the possibility of starting with voiceovers. That might make you less nervous to start, & then as you grow more confident, you can come & talk on camera more.
@chidouria
@chidouria 2 жыл бұрын
this is an older video but still tysm for this, i just posted on ig and i was feeling superrr insecure abt it so i started searching up vids like these
@eleanorbxo3044
@eleanorbxo3044 4 жыл бұрын
i’ve just taken like the best picture i think i’ve ever taken of myself, full insta glam and a dress (i NEVER wear them) but now i think i’m doing too much and i feel like i look so strange in it and ahhh, can’t post it because i’ll definitely get made fun of :(
@rdufunfitnessdancesession4322
@rdufunfitnessdancesession4322 4 жыл бұрын
Hey. I like you, because you come across genuine in what you do. Keep up the good work. You are someone that I have decided to subscribe to. Thank you for stepping up and stepping into your passion. Bless you. You mentioned about over sharing. Now I am not social on social media and am sick n tired of that. I plan to post on my feeds 3 times a week. How does that sound? plus since I am going to be using my IG more, should I post on my stories everyday or can I keep that to 3 days, like I will do my feed. I look forward to your response. Peace.
@anigiri989
@anigiri989 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your advices♥️
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