Don't waste your time on jealousy Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind The race is long and in the end, it's only with yourself
@claudiabergstrom96837 жыл бұрын
how did u know that I needed to hear this today??! thanks
@akshaydeenoo7 жыл бұрын
same here :o he read minds :D
@tianamelton49014 жыл бұрын
Same😅
@tiktok_ets23 жыл бұрын
Mw too
@devonmclaughlin72297 жыл бұрын
Your a breath of fresh air, I wish I had someone like you to talk too everyday, I think my life would be less frustrating, and would think things through with out getting mad at my self, you have a wonderful gift 👌love your videos
@watersister7 жыл бұрын
I have often thought of jealousy as some unmet need in myself. Once I see that I am not working to meet my own needs, I can move forward. This was a good suggestion, Brendon. :)
@Marilynstone13 Жыл бұрын
Best advice on jealousy I’ve ever heard. Thank you.
@lovemecom38327 жыл бұрын
Jealousy is just normal in every couple but learn to put limitation on it.
@nishantpradhan13406 жыл бұрын
What would you say in the case where the girl says that she's got only guy friends and no girl friends?
@evo6832 жыл бұрын
@@nishantpradhan1340 oof same
@Straingelove5 жыл бұрын
Best advice and insight on this subject by far. Thank you for this!!!!
@anna_kozlovskaia7 жыл бұрын
Brendon, you are the best!! Thank you thank you thank you! I've met this guy...And we fell for each other right away, but after a week he flew to another country (far far away) for several months. He's there now and I'm flying to visit him in 3 weeks but OMG these 2 months that we haven't seen each other were sooo difficult for me because of my jeaousy. Because of my insecurity. I couldn't stop thinking about my previous experiences and how much it hurt. After watching this video I feel much better. I know how to talk to myself about it now. Thank you!!
@keineanjos63287 жыл бұрын
Anna Kozlovskaia. Anna, I'm Brazilian and I do not speak English well but I understand everything. I had a big problem with jealousy because of past traumas. But I identified where it all began and decided to go back in time and release forgiveness for the person who hurt me. We need to step back and then move on. We have many memories inside us that are real trash and are useless. Give up the memories and live that love that you have available to you today and be happy. Kisses. God bless you.
@lizw39887 жыл бұрын
Seriously this is exactly what I needed today. Wow.
@bryrayne96665 жыл бұрын
No matter how good you are to someone and that someone doesn't appreciate it, it means your with the wrong person. Only the right person will appreciate what you do and do the same for you. I love your advice. Thank you. You've helped me so much tonight.
@pa51797 жыл бұрын
Brendon, your energy in this particular video was through the roof!!! Amazing content 😄 Thank you so much for sharing!
@azechu5 жыл бұрын
The only person on KZbin that I feel like I'm actually conversing with. I keep nodding and burrowing my forehead HE FEELS SO REAL
@Anonymous-nw8kh5 ай бұрын
No jealousy, no hate, no harmfulness just safety, security, healthiness, real ethical justice, timelessness, truth, serenity, miracles, love, holiness, nice circumstances circumstances
@edt8535 Жыл бұрын
Dude, that was AWESOME!!! If you’re still out there and you can read this, I thank you from the bottom of my heart!!
@TheLisaTorres3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Your transparency is very refreshing. Fear is the true factor.
@Oscar-im2xi5 жыл бұрын
1) awareness 2) remember your strengths
@siphavyhem7807 жыл бұрын
absolutely love. simplicity and conviction. thank u.
@doaaamir62447 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video Bredon! Well done! Please make us a video on "how to love yourself". I never really understood what that meant exactly. Thanks! 😁
@anee71637 жыл бұрын
Wow 😊 You are a great man! Your words effected me in a highly positive sense. Made my day. Thanks . Keep guiding us ❤
@Zoe.TheBody3607 жыл бұрын
Great video. Its something a lot of people have to work on constantly. I envy people who have no jealousy....they lead a much more happy life.
@tanyatrujillo6717 жыл бұрын
I love you so much you don't understand how much you're helping me change
@esesmmee5 жыл бұрын
🥺hopefully it helps me
@seankort25914 жыл бұрын
Girl I agree
@mattymobbs51253 жыл бұрын
I'm 42 and I still get hurt over my girl thank you more on this please most dateing people say if you treat them to nice women cheat on you
@shay87363 жыл бұрын
My therapist recommended me this video and wow I feel so much better!!!! I needed to hear this today
@agnesbunnie7 жыл бұрын
This was spot on for me today! Thank you Brendon!
@nancychilimboyi75797 ай бұрын
I love how this man talks
@mikhunter24 жыл бұрын
Brendon! Your content and energy rocks!!! Thanks a million!
@annagray1226 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking your time into making this video, This is very helpful and eye opener!
@mtl79926 жыл бұрын
This is amazing advice!!!! You are so good Brendon!! 😀👍👍
@Hi_Brien7 жыл бұрын
Oh I see. I finally understand this whole Jealousy thing. It never made sense to me.
@JulieAnnStone7 жыл бұрын
Brendon I love your pep talks! You are amazing.
@uddhavsurve29745 жыл бұрын
3:53 is the key take away for me here, thanks Brendon 🙂
@spruceguitar Жыл бұрын
To always say “with or without the person I married I’m fine” as you suggest … Can get to be draining. If you see after years of marriage that your wife is attracted to men from another race - Although she may not be acting on it. It is something hard to “not focus on.” Much as you try to focus on your qualities.
@stephanieporter3549 Жыл бұрын
You are truly amazing. You are a great support person and show how to be open about yourself.
@silvanaromanzanatta7 жыл бұрын
Brendon you are wonderful anoud for me it's very important listen y!!!! Thanks for sharing your experience and knowledge. Love
@julietimperial2153 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I understand it right know and what i must do " love my self first"
@ar10-osiris92 жыл бұрын
Uh oh... Listening in 2022.. The Chad will love this video advice.
@PowerlinehealthProducts7 жыл бұрын
Gay Hendricks in his book The Big Leap would say it is an "Upper Limit Problem". When you are successful and you aren't used to being successful - you don't know how to just enjoy that success you "find problems" to bring you back down to your old unhappy self. Find the things that make you happy in life - make YOU feel fulfilled in life and stay there just as long as you can...
@lifeline17027 жыл бұрын
Omg ! been searching for this for a while ! Just Love u Brandon !
@SeattleLightWarrior7 жыл бұрын
Awesome stuff here! 💜💜💜
@dr.deepuvisweswar82094 жыл бұрын
Dude , you made my day , took out all this stress , I love you
@TheJane17757 жыл бұрын
You are amazing! Thank you so much Brendon!
@genasoriano5593 жыл бұрын
Wow! Your message is very encouraging and very powerful.. I really learned so much from your video. I could keep on listening watching your video on and on . You make me feel stronger 👍 Thank you for sharing this powerful video.
@Dailyps7 жыл бұрын
Good stuff Brendon! Very strong points.
@madsjensen77536 жыл бұрын
What If its both? Both earlier behaviour but also insecurities?
@jennyjanegarcia97156 жыл бұрын
it goes through my bones thank you so much sir brendon.
@KweenBriii7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Honestly and truly. It's exactly what I needed to hear.
@giovicblanco88716 жыл бұрын
He looks so good. I'd enjoy having lunch with him. This is so helpful! Thank you Brendon
@janethompson7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me take care of my side of the street.
@genasoriano5593 жыл бұрын
Wow! I like your approach👍you make me feel stronger with your advice. Thank you for sharing it.
@esesmmee5 жыл бұрын
Wow...this really helped..words are so powerful..i can feel the energy
@namelastname85697 жыл бұрын
my god your perspective makes dealing with things easier
@tinacooper15215 жыл бұрын
Thanks. 👍🏻 Great video
@iselaocampo22557 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! You always lift me up! Thanks Brendon!
@annagray1227 жыл бұрын
I love this video, I'm so going to try this and I can't wait because I know I can do it! Thank you for this!
@thehouseofmy35167 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on self conflict with careers and worrying about money?? Love your videos and i find them very helpful!
@yoyalovee4396 жыл бұрын
just what i need it to hear!thank you so much👏🏽🙌🏽
@millerturq44187 жыл бұрын
They might leave, but you won't be rekt.
@charleshurstreinvention39592 жыл бұрын
If you don't compare yourself to others you will never be jealous. The world is rough and mean. As Jordan Peterson said, "the world is against you . . . obviously." But as I told my own subscribers, many times the greatest enemy in life can be yourself. And you make yourself an enemy by comparision to others. If you make 80K a year and have 200K in the investment arenas you will feel badly if you have a friend who makes 250K and has a million in his. But you will feel good about yourself if you compare yourself to someone who makes 30K and has nothing in his accounts. But maybe that 250K person works 80 hours a week and hasn't had a vacation in ten years. The point is, your journey is yours. How much you want to work and gain to get the greatest benefits you can from your short time on earth---and most of those benefits, my friends, are not financial. Hope this helps someone----Charles
@cahiteshsachdev3 жыл бұрын
This made total sense sir!!! Thank you so much..
@pmlbos72805 жыл бұрын
I need this I love my ex so much she means the world to me I love her so much and I don’t want to ruin what we have from my insecurities
@billy9423 жыл бұрын
What happened
@ikcytom7 жыл бұрын
You are always spot on, I truly appreciate your videos
@reginavilla67697 жыл бұрын
Wow I really needed this today because I feel like my sister gets all the attention and I got a little jealous and I remembered this video I will be happy no matter what I will love no matter what I will be kind awesome and amazing and confident I will not be afraid to show my love for people thank you I needed this today
@paintingzoneart40263 жыл бұрын
This is a tricky one. Thank you Brendon.
@christinashantha86017 жыл бұрын
You really made me realize,how i can turn things around in my life,with your powerful Words. Tks so so much :-)
@thethrillz32047 жыл бұрын
Thanks Universe and thank you. I'm Grateful.
@mutungiian14167 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brendon..Just More Recharged Again
@keineanjos63287 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. I am Brazilian but I watch your videos and love it. Thank you for everything. God bless you.
@leslieoconnor19022 жыл бұрын
I Don't Have To Work And Volunteer Its a Free Country
@Rnx135 жыл бұрын
Thank youu very much
@MarcosAlexandreTerapeuta7 жыл бұрын
Great advice!! Now, how to overcome envy? What to do when we feel others have it all and we don't?
@MarcosAlexandreTerapeuta7 жыл бұрын
Paul Gardiner Great answer. Thanks!
@arc05927 жыл бұрын
Paul Gardiner Arguello UP TOP 🙌🏾
@Tony-vf3sg6 жыл бұрын
Great response Paul. That helped me too. Thanks
@joekingman46544 жыл бұрын
Great video, very helpful. Thank you!
@timefast32333 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother
@wyethhan74344 жыл бұрын
Wow..this video is what I need..thank you!
@omgitsmelnz41917 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today. I have always been insecure and had low self worth etc. Thanks Brendon x
@meirabalderas91933 жыл бұрын
Awesome Brendon!!
@MuchFoodLondon7 жыл бұрын
wow, this video made me cry, the words touched me and opened my mind differently. thankyou for this video (':
@BrendonBurchard7 жыл бұрын
My pleasure thanks for commenting
@courtneycourtney60674 жыл бұрын
So happy I found this today, Thank you.
@lemonx44677 жыл бұрын
Great time management tips. Do a video about it and also I liked the videos where there was music it made the videos more watchable
@rashidsifat19862 жыл бұрын
Very helpful......thanks bro
@theamericanchannel39216 жыл бұрын
You are doing a very great job bro. Thanks a lot. Keep it up 😀😇
@sandhyalinda49153 жыл бұрын
Wonderful idea. Thanks brother.
@fiachramacaonrae54492 жыл бұрын
You make lot of sense..!
@Elevatorbakery2 жыл бұрын
I needed this today, thx u
@robelynsilverado37652 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir!!
@sidrasabir47477 жыл бұрын
I actually listened to you! You are amazing!
@DanielleHamlin7 жыл бұрын
My man, thank you for all of your wisdom ☺️🙏❤️
@relaxwithme__5 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom!!! Ahh!!
@AjayYadav-pr4zw7 жыл бұрын
thanks. .....
@lucybenjamin8766 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful man!!
@joysanchez32567 жыл бұрын
Ive always been waiting for your next video :-) nice background btw
@remmyk58342 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You inspire!
@81enki5 жыл бұрын
You have a beautiful soul.Thank you
@nutandighe7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brendon... you are awsome 👌👍👍
@jasweet122 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏🏾
@nKnOfficial4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@quicodlp5 жыл бұрын
Such a great and joyful video
@antoniaweir53283 жыл бұрын
Thank you it really was a beautiful way to help
@ceciliacruz48847 жыл бұрын
Excellent Brendon, thank you!!!!!
@ukghconst2 жыл бұрын
That's fine when your from the same country and race. I'm white now live in Africa, there's such a big difference in emotions feelings. I show mine, I show my love happiness my sadness pain hurt, whereas the majority of Africaians don't, the think it's weakness, especially males, women to don't always show their true selves.