Parenting Guide: How to Help Your Child Break a Video Game Addiction

[@potapotapotapotapotapota]

Yep people love to address the symptom rather than the actual cause of the problem. The fact is that kids turn out exactly the way you raise them. It's your fault how they turn out. If you abuse them then they will become abusive. But if you love them without condition then they will reciprocate. Treat others the way YOU would like to be treated, especially your kids.

[@RealLoveCompany]

LoveandTeach. We have to heal first, with love and some teaching (duh) and suddenly, like magic, we can take new skills to our families and help them heal, and grow into cooperative, confident and creative humans. Win/win.

[@diyanair1884]

I really need help. My only son who is 17 yrs old says he wants to become a doctor; but he can’t stop gaming. He doesn’t prioritise studies over gaming. Even during exams, he wants to play and when I tell him to understand his priorities, he says I am being unreasonable and says he enjoys gaming and can’t be without it. He only plays on the weekends, but looks forward to gaming again. If I let him, he would play endlessly and not study at all. He doesn’t care about his results and doesn’t realise that by the time he understands that gaming is detrimental to his progress, he would have missed the bus. I m tired of arguing with him and have a child who doesn’t understand that I only mean good.

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Diya, I'd bet you feel pretty hopeless and alone trying to help your son with his gaming. You're battling with an industry that designs video games to trap your child, make your child dependent on their product (an addiction) and keep them from you. Horrifying. Parenting today has all the responsibilities it's every had PLUS now your home has to be a rehab center. It's too late to avoid it, so you have to choose what you're going to do. Your son might have to suffer more before he's willing to do to the hard work of detoxing from gaming. If YOU have hope that this can and will eventually get resolved, then you can also anticipate seeing the "value" in this life lesson. That could make it easier on you. Here are the resources we have to offer. Help yourself to anything that suits you. I made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and www.realloveparents.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already. We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company and Ridiculously Effective Parenting You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompany facebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE If you can manage to read some books or watch some streaming video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompany www.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/ www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/ www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@heyletsplay8579]

This addiction came into our kids when the lockdowns happened! I still can’t make them get rid of it even after coming back from school they want to jump on it and it’s ROBLOX

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Let's play. This is Donna Baer, Greg's wife. Electronic addiction is a beast. And the lockdowns really made it worse. Only you can make them not jump on them when they get home. No one else can or will. I know it's hard. We're here to help if we can. Here is a generic list of the resources we offer, most of them free. See if any appeals to you. Contact us if you have any questions. We're happy to help. Greg made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and RealLoveParenting.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already. We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company and Ridiculously Effective Parenting. You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE. But it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streaming video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompanywww.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@tanktalk2.088]

Then lay the law down on them and take that shit away they'll get over it

[@trevorphillips2868]

Yup! I pretty much had to get rid of his iPad.

[@Luksu00]

Roblox is fire duuudeee

[@toml5828]

The country should get rid of ROBLOX, it's drugs company for kids.

[@EnchantedRealm888]

This type of training is essential for todays day and age - too bad it’s so expensive - we’re living in times where the necessities are a challenge

[@RealLoveCompany]

Yep, we have to charge for some things. There are LOTS of resources and lessons we give away. You can check them out here on KZbin, and on RealLove.com and RealLoveParents.com.

[@RealLoveCompany]

I'm adding this next bit as information only, for you and anyone who is reading your lovely comment. The price for the training is $495. This will also provide you with some access to Greg personally. To put it into perspective, it's about the cost of an average car repair, yet you'll have lifelong access to this training.

[@ChisaiKo]

The majority of the video is rambling over the same 2 points and a lot of it is way too nonspecific, but I'm gonna be honest, this is a really nice change of pace from the usual "The kid is lazy and misbehaved, just take the games away and punish them until they listen".

[@RealLoveCompany]

Punishment can get a child to move, but it won't teach them anything but to fear you. Instead, think of gaming like "pain relief", not unlike about a hundred other ways to relieve pain. Deal with the pain and the need to relieve it will vanish.

[@triptybarua4899]

I am facing my son acutely addicted to gaming....he is in college...he was good in studies before covid times....I am working as a teacher.... He has started neglecting his studies...he has stopped attending his classes online...his exams are near and he is short of attendance...he keeps awake till4am in the morning.... doesn't do studies at all...we as parents have tried allthe methods to stop him...but he will not listen....instead he has become very agreesive and violent...he won't goto councelling...He says I am absolutely fine...I will make a good career out of this...his all class friends, most of them are doing this...we do not have any other child of his age group in our apartment...he simply won't go out to play...2-3children ask him to come and play outside...but he doesn't go...if we persuade him, he gets agreesive....he has started demanding money...if not fulfilled, he starts blackmailing....so far we have been very loving to him....now we are getting mentally drained....tried to take our friends help...he will promise evryone to be good and quit....but moment they will leave...he will start his gaming....we are losing our health but he doesn't care.... please advise...feeling stuck and trapped by these gaming companies, doesn't know how to bring my son back to the real world 🙏

[@shrasai]

@@triptybarua4899 you are right. Gaming companies spoil our kids

[@KannadaveeNithya]

@@shrasai yes you are right. There is no regulation on this domain. People are happy seeing future generation going in drain.

[@lubna347]

That is true and great, BUT it takes a whole community movement or huge cooperation with everybody around and everything involved in our life and our children, starting from home and family members and not ending with school and the outside environment. I have tried many times to bring my children back to their natural habitat. I even traveled to another country to cause the change and spend more time with the. The fact is, it can't be done individually. There are a lot of factors and the most difficult is the financial one. Let's just face it. Thank you for the video though. It is definitely an eye opener for many parents.

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Ruba. This is Donna Baer -- Greg's wife. Can you imagine a world (or a village) where cooperation and mutual problem solving were simply expected? Bliss. In the meantime, we find the help we need and do the best we can. Let me know if I can help you. Here are the resources (family of resources) we've made available to you. Many of them free... Greg made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and RealLoveParenting.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already.We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company and Ridiculously Effective Parenting.You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVEBut it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streaming video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompanywww.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@ania_p_w]

I agree. I was actually going to ask here, what does a parent do, if he/she does listen to the advice here, changes his/her parenting ways BUT the other parent keeps parenting the old way, what if the other parent loves conditionally and is unwilling/unable to change?

[@georgechristoforou991]

How do you know? Does it actually work? Okay, unconditional love is good. But that will not stop your children from being addicted to computer games.

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi George. Unconditional Love isn't just "good", it's everything. I think our definition is different from your definition. Ours is not soft, which a lot of people think. Here is a generic list of the resources we offer, most of them free. See if any appeals to you. Contact us if you have any questions. We're happy to help. Greg made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and RealLoveParenting.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already. We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company and Ridiculously Effective Parenting. You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE. But it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streaming video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompanywww.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@jayitachoudhury8035]

My nephew is totally addicted to video games. Can't hold him back from the games with even love. Now he has failed in his exam and is shameless about it even. What to do?

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Jayita. Video game addiction is real, and awful. I recommend that his parents watch this video, which is also on www.RealLoveParents.com. Then, watch it a second time with their son. At the end of that video there's a way to watch a 1.5 hour lesson. They should watch that as a family, too. It's free, and it's complete, meaning it's not a trick to get you to buy something in order to get the answer. The lesson is complete, and CRITICAL for all ages. If they like what they see, they can decide if they want to get the full training. Here's a list of resources I send to people... I made a Master Index (free) from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. reallove.com/master-index/ Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, (free) and RealLoveParenting.com www.realloveparents.com, (free) and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ (free) if you haven't already. We have (free) conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. These are by telephone, not a video call. We don’t keep records of who called and then bombard you with emails, or anything shady like that. The call dial-in number and the schedule are in that link.(I set an alarm on my phone for all five calls. That way I can choose to join the call if I want. I never miss the alert, and I only have to set it up once using the 'repeat' function. It's very easy to turn off an alarm and I never miss a Call notification.) You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. If you want to learn more about coaching with me, learn more at reallove.com/interventions/. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company facebook.com/TheRealLoveCompanyRidiculously Effective Parenting facebook.com/RidiculouslyEffectiveParenting You might like one of our ‘private' groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is my personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with me first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE There are many ways to spend time with me. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streaming video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of (free) hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get (free) blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompanywww.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/ Love, Greg

[@stxrmyloll]

In less words - a waste of time.

[@xdegor6599]

Im a child and i understand what im doing with my life and my mom wants to help me but i can't stop.Im trying to stop myself and spend more time with her but i just can't because of the games.After this video ill apologise to my mom and dad that i havent seen in 1 and a half year and try to stopp this addiction.

[@xdegor6599]

a.My handwriting is so bad ;-;

[@kellymaisonet2039]

Wow, how incredibly mature if you.

[@RealLoveCompany]

That's an impressive response. If you and your parents are going to dive in deep with this recovery, and Real Love® seems like the thing to "replace" the addiction (because you'll need something to fill the void -- the void WILL be filled, either on purpose or by whatever flows naturally into it, like video games again -- here are some resources we offer (many of them are no charge) that might interest your family: Greg made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and RealLoveParenting.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already. We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company and Ridiculously Effective Parenting. You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE But it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streamed video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. And the big finale is The Ridiculously Effective Parenting Training (which covers screen addiction) that you can learn about (and watch the first lesson free) at www.RealLoveParents.com Good luck. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompanywww.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@RealLoveCompany]

That's an impressive response. If you and your parents are going to dive in deep with this recovery, and Real Love® seems like the thing to "replace" the addiction (because you'll need something to fill the void -- the void WILL be filled, either on purpose or by whatever flows naturally into it, like video games again -- here are some resources we offer (many of them are no charge) that might interest your family: Greg made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and RealLoveParenting.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already. We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com . We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company and Ridiculously Effective Parenting. You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove . If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE But it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streamed video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/ . Read them, and read the follow up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. And the big finale is The Ridiculously Effective Parenting Training (which covers screen addiction) that you can learn about (and watch the first lesson free) at www.RealLoveParents.com Good luck. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompanywww.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@KannadaveeNithya]

To feel the unconditional love, they need to come out of that mindset. That’s the problem here. How to bring them out of the video game.

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Deepa. You're right. It's going to require WE PARENTS get out of the mindset that "video games" are the problem. It's our job to LoveandTeach our kids. The world is changing so fast, with so many distractions, we need to be especially mindful of what's needed and how to make it happen. Hence, The Ridiculously Effective Parenting Training at RealLoveParents.com Let me know if there's anything I can do to help you.

[@KannadaveeNithya]

@@RealLoveCompany thank you for the response. I will think over your points.

[@jemilagulston7742]

My child was never a game addict until covid came. This is the worst but God can do anything. By the way all you said make sense cause when I shout at her she tells me control my anger issues but when I speak smoothly she complies.

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Jemila, What you said makes perfect sense. COVID has wide reaching side effects. Children do respond better with a calm, confident parent. That's what we teach. Did you watch Chapter Zero (free) of the parenting training? It was listed in the video you watched. That will help you a lot. Here are some other resources we offer: Greg made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and RealLoveParenting.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already. We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company and Ridiculously Effective Parenting. You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streamed video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompanywww.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@bruh1400]

Just ask him or her not to play for more than 2 hours a day

[@Defiance8o8]

god damn this is the most realistic talk I have ever heard from someone that does not talk about how their child should be because of expectations.

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Defiance808. This is Donna Baer, Greg's wife. Glad you enjoyed the video. In case you find our other resources interesting, I'm going to post them below. I have no expectations, I'm just passing along information, most of which is free. Greg made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and RealLoveParenting.com www.realloveparents.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already. We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com.We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love CompanyRidiculously Effective Parenting You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE But it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streamed video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. You could get coaching from him, reallove.com/interventions/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompany www.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/ www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/ www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@mabelosagie1768]

How much is the game

[@RealLoveCompany]

FREE! Lots of free resources to help you child break their video game addiction. 1. Here's a Free Report about a revolutionary explanation to "Addiction" reallove.com/addiction/ 2. Watch the first free lesson of The Ridiculously Effective Parenting Training at www.RealLoveParents.com If I can help, let me know.

[@EnchantedRealm888]

Does anyone have any advice on how to restrict gaming in a living way without it seeming like a punishment and techniques to help the child respond in a positive way to the restrictions??

[@RealLoveCompany]

Add Real Love®. Your job as a parent is NOT to make your child respond in a positive way. Your job is to LoveandTeach your children. If you're just "teaching" and not "loving", it will likely be harsh. You need to explain (once) why you're making the decision about their gaming, stick to it, and help replace the part you're eliminating with something that will add to their life. If you care about their happiness, you will teach them to be loved, loving and responsible. Those are the ingredients to happiness. Have you watched the first lesson of The Ridiculously Effective Parenting Training? It's a complete lesson, not a trick to purchase anything. It will teach you how to eliminate one behavior, a behavior that is the gateway to ALL harmful behaviors, no matter the age of the child. You'll find it at RealLoveParents.com.

[@RealLoveCompany]

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[@bruh1400]

I am a kid and I play An online mobile game after my classes for almost 1 hour and another half an hour in the evening after studies is that bad?

[@RealLoveCompany]

I can't answer that. It depends on a lot of things; the game, your overall sense of responsibility, your attitude about other things... blah, blah. Just keep observing your involvement with your screen, and your involvement with real people.

[@bruh1400]

@@RealLoveCompany thanks, I have deleted the game for exams which are starting on Monday I will play again after exams get over And I will keep social interaction and screen time balanced thank you😊

[@TessaJonker-fj2rn]

What has happened with discipline? With tough love? With protecting your child from danger, bad habits, self destructive. Gaming to escape pain? Sorry. Impossible to agree. Sorry just impossible. I need to hear many testimonies from parents who have done this and succeeded. So far not one😢. I ll keep looking for those parents. 🤞🏿

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi TessaJonker-fj2rn. Help me understand your question. I think we agree on more than you're imagining. What I'm saying is that excessive gaming is one of MANY habits/addictions that are dangerous to children (and adults, but a parent's responsibility is towards those under 18 years old). I'm asserting that gaming IS dangerous, a bad habit, and self-destructive. Furthermore, simply removing gaming will leave a void in the child's life or soul that needs to be filled, so removal alone won't effectively solve the issue. If you don't help fill that void with something healthy, they will. And it likely won't be exercising, studying and eating right. In my career of assisting parents, I mosty observe a lack of understanding regarding their responsibilities in raising children. Consequently, MANY parents overlook or ignore signs of potentially life-threatening behaviors. I'm dedicated to helping if I can.

[@VANCOUVERHOUSEFINDER]

How is gaming behaving badly?

[@RealLoveCompany]

Good question, Hani. This is Donna. I'll be responding to your comment. "Gaming" is not behaving badly, until it gets in the way of living. Gaming has become addictive to many people. It's designed to be addictive. All addictions make happiness impossible. That's the short answer. I'm going to add a generic list of resources we offer (mostly free -- loads of choices for you). I hope you find things you like and are helpful to add to what you're learning to make your parenting effective and fun. This is what I recommend: Go to realloveparents.com and click on "Start Here". Then watch a video that describes something you want help with. It might be the same video you saw already, or pick any of the others. It will lead you to a free lesson from our parenting training. We call the free lesson "Chapter Zero". It's a complete 1.5 hour lesson, not a trick to get you to pay money to get the answer. If you do ONLY what you learn from that lesson you and your children will transform. What you'll be learning is the GATEWAY behavior that is at the core of every bad behavior for every person, young and old. Greg made a Master Index (free) reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, (free) and RealLoveParenting.com www.realloveparents.com, (free) and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ (free) if you haven't already. We have (free) conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. These are by telephone, not a video call. We don’t keep records of who called and then bombard you with emails, or anything shady like that. The call dial-in number and the schedule are in that link. (I set an alarm on my phone for all five calls. That way I can choose to join the call if I want. I never miss the alert, and I only have to set it up once using the 'repeat' function. It's very easy to turn off an alarm and I never miss a conference call alert.) You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. If you want to learn more about coaching with Greg, write to him at [e-mail]. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company facebook.com/groups/reallovecompany Ridiculously Effective Parenting facebook.com/RidiculouslyEffectiveParenting You might like one of our ‘private' groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompany facebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE. But it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streaming video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has been proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of (free) hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. You could get coaching from him, reallove.com/interventions. I highly recommend you get(free) blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompany www.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/ www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/ www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/ Love, Donna

[@swatta-3069]

Tnx a lot sir.... That's a reason he or she has becoming adicted gaming that how much response to them having a good parrent to expectation a good child

[@RealLoveCompany]

My pleasure. You'll find a LOT of practical information on RealLove.com and RealLoveParents.com

[@NYCsantiagoMusic]

If you’re so concerned why not just give the course away for free?

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi NYC. This is Donna Baer -- Greg's wife. We wish we could give it away for free. Really. We can give these things away for free, however, and it's a lot. The most valuable thing we give away for free is "Chapter Zero" of the Parenting Training (what you're lead to after watching the video you watched, or available on RealLoveParents.com). It's a complete lesson without a trick to get you to buy something to get the answer. It teaches about the gateway behavior that leads to all other unproductive (bad) behaviors. If you really learn how to manage that one lesson, you will forever change your children, and yourself. It's as effective for adults as it is for children. Parents, though, have a responsibility to teach their children, so it's directed to parents. Here are some other things we give away for free... Greg made a Master Index reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, and RealLoveParenting.com, and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ if you haven't already.We have conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. You can hire a coach by going to RealLoveCoaching.com. We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company and Ridiculously Effective Parenting.You might like one of our ‘private’ groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is Greg's personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with him first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVEBut it's WAY better to spend time with Greg than it is to spend time with me or anyone else. So if you can manage to read some books or watch some streaming video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompanywww.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/

[@NYCsantiagoMusic]

@@RealLoveCompany Thank you Ma'am.

[@Meme-or2gb]

What if he knows he’s loved unconditionally? What if he’s just too spoiled?

[@bazinga8865]

As a teen the reason that we ignore a person it's because it's online you can't pause a game so don't talk to us while we are playing. And don't take the person's phone or controller it will become worst. Thank you

[@russellschaeffler]

It can be paused very easily .... Block the router.

[@bruh1400]

@@russellschaeffler sorry but you look like a strict dad in your pfp

[@RealLoveCompany]

@@bruh1400 I hope so. Strictly live the laws of happiness so you and your family will thrive.

[@ElJaxxes]

good luck bc never gotta break me addiction of game

[@RealLoveCompany]

I believe you.

[@mamamia12378]

Great

[@RealLoveCompany]

Glad you liked the video, Zainab. If you want to watch the first free lesson and learn how to help a child (or yourself) overcome the "gateway behavior" that leads to behaviors like Video Game Addiction, click realloveparents.com/video-games-addiction/ Let me know if you have any questions.

[@chingneihkhawl8361]

Parents solution just pause the game wtf if I could pause that I would pause my online class while I was going to toilet and play it again after am finish

[@RealLoveCompany]

So, you're saying pausing the game isn't possible? Help me understand what you mean.

[@chingneihkhawl8361]

@@RealLoveCompany like can we pause MLBB, COD, Fortnite, Pubg their all multi and online playing game can't pause when started to battle

[@RealLoveCompany]

@@chingneihkhawl8361 Now I know. I guess you have a decision to either play, not play, or turn it off. There's a price for everything.

[@stxrmyloll]

@The Real Love Company its an online game which involves other real people. What would happen to them if you pause it? It would be paused for them too, cause it's a real time thing. That's why there is no option to pause.

[@parisjej]

@@RealLoveCompany And these responses confirms exactly what you said, these games are purposely created to keep ppl from “pausing” You see how ppl care more about their online avatars instead of their reality smdh Pray for us who is parenting a child with a father who is addicted to gaming, smoking, and dranking.

[@KaraokimiSharëssa]

I love this! Thank you so much for giving this perspective.. I will adjust myself,. My goodness my poor baby...

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Sharessa, I'm glad this video helped you. We're not talking about a small problem here, and I'm glad you're seeing it. I recommend you watch the next lesson described in the video, it's free. It will help you with the resistance you'll likely get as you help your child. My contact information is on the website. Let me know if I can help.

[@RealLoveCompany]

Hi Sharessa. I hope you and your family are well.

[@MiraKeo]

Thank you very much for great message

[@destroytheboxes]

You can’t teach parent to love their child. You can maybe modify their behavior in the child’s presence… possibly resulting in a more compliant child… this is Pavlov. This is manipulation and the parent grows only to a more condition based love. Christ is the only One who can do what you’re peddling.

[@RealLoveCompany]

I think I understand what you're saying. When I work with parents, I DO teach them how to unconditionally love them children "better" and "more consistently". It's imperative that the parents first get loved themselves, healing the wounds that keep them feeling fear and pain. When fear and pain are gone, love fills in the space. Then it's easy to love and teach anyone, including children. The next step is learning WHAT to teach them, and I do that, too. Check out The Ridiculously Effective Parenting Training on www.realloveparents.com

[@rokljhui864]

Turn the game off. Next.

[@parisjej]

I keep trying that but my 9 year old game , alcohol, and smoke addicted father keeps embracing it bc he is addicted. His excuse is our son can become a great game or app developer bc he is good at gaming🙄🙄🙄 I’m so tired, I’m about to let him have his son since ehe keep saying Im abusing him by taking his game away.

[@RealLoveCompany]

@@parisjej Good for you for seeing the truth about this situation. You're being bullied. Of course you're tired. You're right. I just want someone to tell you that. You're right about this. Being tired is not a good enough reason to stop being a good mom, though. You just need more support. Do you have support? Can you get support, meaning, develop support with friends and family who will help you stay strong while you LoveandTeach your son? You can use all the (mostly free) resources we have. I don't see how you are going to do this alone and be happy at the same time. You're at the tipping point right now. What are you going to do? Save your son? Or let the games consume your son? If there's a case for becoming an app developer, research that with your son and his father. What's that job like? I think you will be shocked at the reality of that career choice. As opposed to say, code writing, or program development, or website development, or internet marketing, or cyber security. Those career choices require more than playing games to be employable, and the people (generally) are happier with their career choice for lots of reasons. What your son's father is describing it the dream that so many father's have of their child becoming a famous athlete -- a one-in-a-million chance. Like winning a lottery as a career choice. If you son loves computers/electronics, have him study them, not just play them. Compare that to a person who loves to eat food, to the person who learns the science behind preparing food. Anyway, I'm blabbing. Here is a list of most of the resources we offer (invite your son's father to join you with this, or have him read what is written above. Just a thought -- get him onboard and excited about your son's future.): I made a Master Index (free) reallove.com/master-index/ from all the books, blogs, etc. Refer to it a lot. Also devour RealLove.com www.reallove.com, (free) and RealLoveParenting.com www.realloveparents.com, (free) and see if there are any resources you think would help you. Sign up for our monthly newsletter reallove.com/newsletter-signup/ (free) if you haven't already. We have (free) conference calls reallove.com/conference-calls/ five times a week, hosted by Certified Real Love Coaches. These are by telephone, not a video call. We don’t keep records of who called and then bombard you with emails, or anything shady like that. The call dial-in number and the schedule are in that link.(I set an alarm on my phone for all five calls. That way I can choose to join the call if I want. I never miss the alert, and I only have to set it up once using the 'repeat' function. It's very easy to turn off an alarm and I never miss a conference call notification.) We also have two Facebook Pages you might like: The Real Love Company facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyRidiculously Effective Parenting You might like one of our ‘private' groups where people can practice Real Love principles. The benefit of being in one of the groups is that you can post a request to join an in-person group in your area (or find out if there is one), or join a Skype group (there are several of those), or use the private groups to get/give support. This is my personal Facebook profile facebook.com/gregbaerreallove. If you want to be in the group make a friend request with me first. facebook.com/groups/reallovecompanyfacebook.com/groups/LovingParentsLIVE.If you can manage to read some of my books or watch some streaming video bookstore.reallove.com/ that has proven helpful to people. Or watch the HUNDREDS of (free) hours of recorded material reallove.com/video-chats/. I highly recommend you get (free) blogs reallove.com/blog/ by going to our website, or by having them sent to you by email. Here's a link to all five Free Reports reallove.com/real-love-free-reports/. Read them, and read the follow-up emails that come with them. Read them as a family if possible. There are other resources for you. Go to RealLove.com and then go to the "Learning Center" and "Services" tabs along the top to see more. I recommend you subscribe to our KZbin channel and all our social media sites where you find additional Real Love lessons and support resources. www.KZbin.com/c/RealLoveCompany www.LinkedIn.com/in/reallove/ www.Instagram.com/reallovecompany/ instagram.com/ridiculouslyeffectiveparenting/ www.Pinterest.com/reallovecompany/