Parents: Stop Being Hypocrites to Your Children - Omar Suleiman

[@supes7]

I wish every parents see this...

[@nayev118]

**muslim parents (only they will understand

[@SadMemoriesGone4Ever]

What are Muslim parents? Of virtue, not with a mere label. Humble, never aggresses, never verbally abuses, and follows the rules of equal respect, or kind/fair treatment. Isti'adha.

[@Penn.obsessed]

@unusual score I agree das a big problem. I hate ma father. He doesn't abuses me, but he's never there & he's da biggest hypocrite I know. I misbehave fo a reason & his parents blame ma mom for ma raising. They don't understand dat ma raising is ma fathers duty as it is to ma mom. Oh well, I just feel like I have no father. & Inshallah he gets held accountable fo all of dis.

[@mikeconroe3328]

They wouldnt

[@faerie2497]

Ya Allah😭😭😭 Help me with my family who are making my life a living hell. Make all the evil away from me InshAllah 😭

[@za4198]

anonieme gebruiker amen

[@abdi5817]

Zizi Ali Ameen*

[@hamdiomar7559]

Ameen and me too

[@sirajahmed4129]

Ameen

[@AA-wu3bj]

Amien 🤲🏽

[@Super-Shafs]

As youngest in the family, my parents are very hypocritical. My parents physically beat me, blamed every problem on me, said I wasn't theirs, all of it. I turned away from Islam as a child, even considered myself a deserter, but I have returned to see that I was born in hypocrisy and corruption and can see the truth for what it really is, Alhamdulilah

[@pinkstalker9615]

When your parents tell you not to swear but you see them do it everyday

[@trying1407]

Mhm

[@Sarahh_]

Exactly. It's so stressful trying to be good to your parents when all they do is curse and yell. I hope Allah witnesses this and doesn't take our good deeds away because we get angered by it. Wallahi it's struggle to have a good relationship with high tempered parents. I hope it's all a test whichever of us experiences, passes. Ameen

[@irimfiaz951]

Yas!

[@FunTime-uu7tu]

I know

[@abdiraufabshir3467]

Definitely you do see that. That's what my parents or I should say it's one I've seen. They tell other people not to gossip and then you see them talking about others.

[@waleedawan3616]

My parents gave me every thing in this world everything but at the same time they don't treat me with respect,they don't feel my importance , they judge me ,demotivate me insult me infront of others ... They are helping me the very best but at the same time they trying to make me feel they have done so much for me and they trying to realise me that they are the boss and they would treat me in any way they want ...and it stresses me that they won't listen when I say anything to them ,they won't care ,they won't listen what I say and they care the words of other people. All I'm stressed about they just don't give me importance. This is making me feel from the inside hurting that they helping but keep on talking stuff which makes me realise I'm good for nothing and it makes me depressed by their behavior. They listen to others ,they are happy and funny with others , they treat nicely to others and with us with me specially my father never motivate or encourage or support me in making my own decisions or saw me as nothing like I don't exist or say something that is totally not fair being rude with me all the time,I spoke to him nicely but in response I've been given a answer rudely..

[@safiya8930]

Hi waleed. Allah SWT knows how you are feeling and sees each individual’s actions. You will get more reward if you are not rude to your parents. This is a test of your iman and Allah knows how you feel. Allah is the most Benevolent. Allah SWT loved his prophets so much yet they went through not even one but many hardships. This was a test of their character and faith. Inshallah your hardships will in return give you peace and joy either in this world or the akirah if you maintain your belief in our Lord Allah SWT. Allah does not break the promise He made to the humble and believing. Please Waleed, if you strengthen your faith, communicate with Allah: pray, read Quran, make zikr. Insha Allah you will feel better. Please learn to love Allah more than your parents. And make dua for your parents regardless as you will gain more reward from this. And repent to Allah if you were ever disrespectful towards them. Try your best with your parents, in your interpretation of best. For everyone it is different. And have faith in Allah and insha Allah, He will regain your self-confidence. Remember the most precious thing to you is your iman; your faith in Allah is only yours. Pray to Allah that your parents start showing more compassion towards you. Alhamdulillah and all the best.

[@safiya8930]

Uchiha Madara I don’t know how to reply to two people at the same time but Uchiha if you didn’t see the reply I gave to Waleed, then Nouman Ali in this video explains how to deal with abusive parents beautifully. Please watch this kzbin.info/www/bejne/rou4gpKvr9qYirc Jazak Allah Khair

[@safiya8930]

waleed awan sorry- I forgot to add may peace and blessing be upon them after I wrote prophets. Prophets SAW.

[@waleedawan3616]

@@safiya8930 okay noted...thanks for the advice and guidance...thanks

[@Beasttest-o4h]

@@waleedawan3616 tell them how you feel, dont be scared and lets see how they react, Allah is the judge. but your job is to be nice and respect them in any circumstance.

[@natemorgan1996]

Something about parenting being hypocritical to their children that sets me off in some ways, i also hate how they think that just because they're your parents, they can treat you in any goddamn way they want, sometimes they need to realise that their children are not afraid to say no to them period.

[@nooraabdurahman4313]

May Allah guide our parents. I chose not to go out n work but to stay home n maintain my hijab n do my salah on time. So now i m not their favorite. They never appreciate what i do. They compare me with my cousins n friends who r out there working in banks n offices without hijab. I feel very sad n heartbroken. I feel useless. May Allah keep my faith strong

[@rahatahmed6188]

May Allah honour you sister.

[@anzilpathan5987]

@Mansour Afghan they are comparing with those who are working in a bank ( which is haram if it is not following islamic rule) which is definitely wrong and i can feel that pain because same happens with me.

[@abdiraufabshir3467]

Allah already guided them sister they chose to behave this way.

[@mariakhan2662]

For me its the otherway round I been forced married to the spouse they picked for me.now in trying to be happy and maintain that marriage they won't allow me to be happy they abuse him talk about him behind his back with me I told them to back of respectfully and to not get in between us because its making us argue but because of that im a bad person.i not only wear the hijab I cover head to toe.i don't work because they don't allow me.i live in their home because my husband is from Pakistan and can't afford to move.but they interfere in eveeything and its getting hard day by day I think about death and dying. Its so hard to control anger and im so hurt because they verbally abuse me and criticise me.but for allahs sake I take it in even though its stabbing me in the heart it hurts soo bad .i don't go out with friends even though I'm a married woman because they wont allow me.i can't dress how I want even tho I dress modestly outside I even listen to that.i never studied never went college living in UK because they never allow me. married their choice who turned out to be a very good person and im trying to make it work they laugh at him behind his back and to my face and if I was to defend him they get mad and critisize me and verbly abuse me.now im the bad person in all this.they talk to me with so much hatred in their hearts I can feel the hate in there tone.this is just half of what Allah is testing me with the rest is health. May Allah make it easy all I want is for my mum to be happy with me whole heartedly.only thing I fear is will I go to hell even though I have done nothing and they are unhappy with me because im no matter what I do they are not happy.may Allah make it easy for us

[@seetruth304]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqm9ZKN5irqBp7c Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage

[@ivyw1tch]

When ur parents always blame u but they never blame themselves for being smtg they shouldnt. Lol

[@fearlesssoul3517]

I always remain silence whenever my mother abuses me but sometimes when I reply back with angriness ,then she starts to Insult me so soooo much that no one would insult even their enemy, I am so so tired of this for years and years , nobody listen or can feel this, she starts cursing me and complaints to God to punish me and destroy me for no reason

[@captain6876]

Same here brother. My mother is an important person in my life, but at the same time she curses me so much that it is having a negative effect on my carrier

[@exceritex5284]

I understand brother... It's a horrible thing... Some parents just shut their kids up by beating as well... They don't want to understand that they are growing up and can develop a different mind set

[@mistyxflowerr2734]

My parents do this to me all the time, and then when I point it out they excuse is *because I’m your parent and you should listen to me*.

[@CreativeSarah983]

This is totally wrong! That’s nonsense “because I’m your parent”………blah blah blah

[@farhanahussain87]

Can we just appreciate his glowing face,, Stan a king 🌟🌟🌟

[@seetruth304]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqm9ZKN5irqBp7c Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage

[@اطلبالحقوالرحمة]

This is not only parents, the teachers in the school are sometimes a bad example too! May Allah guides us

[@nayev118]

may allah bless this guy.

[@angelsangels8583]

The worst part is secret oppression. Its bad enough that you're being oppressed. Its worse that they secretly believe they have the right to oppress. They may simply be idolators/not believers. Wanting most or all the respect only Allah deserves. They regard material duties over moral responsibilities. But the greatest duty is to obey the rules of morality. Kind words with forgiveness are better than charity with secret abusiveness. Obstinate verbal abuse is bad enough to send its perpetrator to Hell. Equal respect/fair treatment for humans. Humblest/highest respect for only Allah's rules. Stand up for justice against parental tyrants. Audhu billah.

[@linkzellda]

You know! It bother me how parent can exhibit hypocrisy and double standards to their own children or love-ones. They thing they have the right to asks their children with who they are hanging-out and where they are going but when their children do the same thing to them, they'll get defensive or tell me that it is not a big deal or isn't their business. I've observed and experience that a lot of adolescents and pre-teens experience this, since psychologists have found that youths of that age are able to sense fairness and unfairness very well. I sure a lot of people will tell me that parents are human too, they're not perfect, that they make mistakes and that we all should accept them for who they are, and not hold them to such high expectations but honestly that just an poor excuse to justify their action, since they should be modeling good behavior to us, and I sure there is going to be some idiot that they are going to tell me that parents can treat their children whatever they want, that they are not equal to their parents, and that they are just going to have to deal with it unless they can move out and live in their own. 　 But I'm gonna go ahead and call that bullshit on that one as the fact that these parents don't love their children if they believe they can do whatever they want with their children. Dear parents when you live in a house with impressionable children who look to you as the model for their behavior, you need to tone your rock star behavior down. Like, all the way down. Forget about whether the amp goes to 11 or not, it's time to turn the amp OFF and stop acting like a hypocrite person because you're planting a bad seed on your own children, and be hypocrites it's not part of your job it's just another lame excuse to justify your stupid shit and immature behavior. Your children will do what you taught them and the most powerful parenting doesn't come through a parent's words, it comes through the behavior of the parent and their action. Children observe how the adults around them behave and they take on and repeat those behaviors, even when they have been instructed not to do it. 　 Lead by example: *If you don't want your children to be late at home then do not do the same thing!* 　 *If you don't want them to curse then don't curse.* 　 *If you don't want them to quit then don't quit.* 　 *If you want them to be kind to others then be kind to others.* 　 Teach them to rise above adversity, animosity and to have a positive outlook when things are bleak. Don't be a hypocrite with them for whatever reason you have because you're planting a seed of hypocrisies and a superiority-complex to them, I mean if your children are getting grounded for drinking or smoking this becomes confusing when they witness these same behaviors in their parents. If parents are partiers and get late at home your children will do the same and they will see drugs and/or alcohol as feasible options for coping with stress and/or for having fun. 　 Most of you parents expect your children to follow through on your commitments, and yet many of you parents back out on commitments for your own benefit. When you parents never answer your child call, when you parents keep secret to your children, when you parents don't keep promises to show up and take part in your child's life, you are teaching your children that they are not worthy, and all this lack of commitment, punish them for something that you are also doing can also be demotivating for your children it could also elicit rebellion in important areas such as their own parents, school, sports, chores, and friendships. 　 If parents argue and fight with each other or with other or with their own children this is the exact behavior that children will repeat back to their parent and/or others. When your child is being attacked in any way, she/he immediately puts them on the defensive, and emotions are contagious so the child will take on the energy of the parent to defend themselves, and then get in trouble for it which it only going to cause more problem that fix it. If a parent doesn't want their children to fight and argue then the parent cannot show them this method of behavior as a viable option by using it themselves, and I sure that many parents believe that certain behaviors are exclusive to them because they are the adult but that is not true. 　 Think about how your actions influence your children and remember that children do what parents do and not what they say. I've seen an amazing amount of anger and resentment occur in children when they are corrected or get in trouble for doing the things the parents are doing, or act the way the parents act. Well at some point, your own children will begin to recognize the hypocrisy in your life specially when they reach teenager ages. I mean how many parents smoke while telling their children never to do it? How many parents drink while telling their children never to do it? How many parents condemn their children's lies while telling lies of their own? How many parents are asked by their children, *Did you do it when you were my age?*. 　 The stupid and illogical philosophy of do as I say not as I do will not work not only because it's 100% illogical is also because your children will call you on the carpet. They will use your hypocrisy to discredit your authority, spoil your influence and they will not listen to you anymore. So, my point here is if you don't live on what you taught to your children, your children will disregard what you say and instead listen to what you do. Even knowing this, some parents makes critical errors in judgment in trying to justify or excuse their lifestyle to their own children. Don't think that your children will be convinced by your words when your actions tell a different tale. 　 Because remember that actions prove who someone is while words prove who they wanna be, and sure we all are hypocrites to some degree or another. But most people will admit that they believe in their hearts that something is wrong, yet haven't found the character or desire to stop doing it themselves because either they are pathetic or stupid. So, my advice is *Let your children inspire you to be person you want them to be*. It's not too late, you can change, learn and grow together! Also if my words anger you, and if my words sting? Let them. Someone need to give all you a reality check about parentis with *The Reason You Suck Speech*.

[@farehakhan9199]

Same

[@larryjones2178]

Preach

[@santinoofnapa566]

A-fucking-men. This needs to be spread to every corner of the Internet. The oppression that children suffer (and as a result the oppression they inflict on others in adulthood) needs to end, right now.

[@iloveyouuu2223]

@@1nsta528 That's just toxic honestly. Don't worry you'll get older. And you'll prove her wrong. Don't let you're mom affect the way you socailize. Work hard to prove them all wrong. Let her see you aren't jusr a toy. And talk to her. Don't be scared. Most parents read one verse of the Qoran: Parents have Jannahh under their feets. But they don"t read the rest. Parents shouldn't treat their kids like their nothing. Like they won't get anywhere. I myself don't exprience what you do. But you should try and get out. Unless you really have no place to stay. If you got to school try atleast to make friends secretly. Later on ask if you can stay over at their homes and say what you're mom does. If you really want to get out. Try and get out. If you're 16 or somthing you can atleast try and get out.

[@zoymindset]

My father is the most worst person I have ever seen. He destroyed my mom's life including me. He makes hell in our home 24/7. I wish I had a option to change my father. I'm going to be mad day by day 🥺😭😭

[@o_o-037]

Your father is Allah's test placed upon you, and Vice versa. The key is learning how to make him a better person without him knowing. Constant dhikr and dua will eventually help him become better. Remember, Ibrahim (a.s) was making constant dua to Allah to have a son until he was 80 years old, even after his wife was infertile, Allah made her fertile, as a reward for his patience. Also, Ibrahim (a.s)'s father was an idol worshiper who threatened to stone him to death, but he never gave up on helping his father until Allah revealed that he will never accept his massage. And mind you, Ibrahim (a.s) was 11 - 15 years old at this point in time. Since it is objective fact that the prophets were the most tested, You can take solace in the hope that Allah will better your father's behaviour in less time. It won't happen overnight, but In Sha Allah, constant dua to better his character will eventually be granted.

[@zoymindset]

@@o_o-037 I believe so. Thank you for your words. May Allah bless you.

[@ashish01997]

Similar for me, what he'd been doing with me has made me suicidal..

[@seasons1146]

Get a job get your mom and move out. Take a break while still doing khidmah to your father. But still start living away from him to keep your mom safe.

[@HomeFrendsten]

Parents who provide everything ,should treat children well ,

[@explorenxaencantaja1093]

Parents must be a role model to their children..

[@abdiraufabshir3467]

You're right but we don't see that for some parents.

[@seetruth304]

@@abdiraufabshir3467 kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqm9ZKN5irqBp7c Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage

[@1ecstasyy]

I'm a girl and my mum said i cant hang out or i cant move out when I'm older When i tell her that it's not a sin in Islam to do that she says it might not be a sin but ur a girl and people will talk abt it When i say that those ppl who talk abt me are judging me and judging is a sin (im not sure if it is) She just says ur so disrespectful and stuff like that. Am i not even allowed to defend myself if i know ur in the wrong? This makes me cry tbh i cant even defend myself in this world bc im a girl

[@seasons1146]

Sis have patience. Things will turn around in no time.

[@marioisawesome8218]

Parents are the worst hypocrites.

[@nanan3521]

not all parents are like that. you will be a parent oneday if Allah wills. so does that make you a hypocrite. parents are human too some are good some are bad😐 but if thdy are bad dont follow their bad example. but if they are good follow their good example may Allah helps us all. without Allah we are nothing

[@marioisawesome8218]

@Subarashii Ningen by that logic if i get on my knees and beg for forgiveness (so i dont instantly die), i can relentlessly torture my children in the future then ridicule them for not loving me because of my "broken past" and it being their responsibility to fix my problems even though it's none of their business to do something like that because i was the one that brought them into this world, not themselves. am i correct?

[@AlberTesla1024]

Whenever I point out the mistakes of my father, he reacts as is he is the most righteous person in this world and he gets angry and calls me mad, brainless guy etc etc

[@iwashere7042]

Ya Allah I’m praying that you help me with my mom that’s always calling me useless and telling me that everything I do is always wrong😔 but somehow she always asks for my help but i help her anyways bc ofc i do for allah (swt)

[@iwashere7042]

Anna Lara no i’m only 14

[@faizadaud4085]

Have patience teens. It’s a great test for me.

[@seetruth304]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqm9ZKN5irqBp7c Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage

[@sal.b]

I love Omar Suleiman

[@lama-qg7fn]

Basically this is my story, im a kid who likes to play alot and i dont like studying or i dont like studying much, ik this might harm me when i grow but i cant stop doing it so some pepole goes to courses that are for subjects so i go to science, and ict so basically before my teacher told my mom that i was a bad person in the place and that if i will a playness person i will not come again, so basically my mom started telling me ”shes right you never study” ”mashallah look at those kids who can read” and she was calling me bad names swearing at me as ”kalba” ”hamara” alot of swearness she usually show more attention to my older brother and i feel like im useless and she doesnt like me i have a overthinking cant make me live my life how can i heal it? I dont know! And i should not say much guys cuse i think its haram but anyways 🥲

[@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7]

Indeed so true.

[@yousraadly7341]

So true and totally agree , children dont listen to what parents say they listens to what parents do , A muslim should act like what they would want their children to be it , dont lecture them about prayers let them see you perform it ,automatically they will follow .

[@Mustafa20007]

I want to have an enormous land,where will be in it many huge buildings for people who wish to leave toxic/abusive/Narcissistic Parents.Let's build a life without them!

[@pujamondal177]

My parents demotivate me most!!

[@guitarguy7847]

Yes! I’m atheist but thank you man! This guys is on point!

[@sidiculous8869]

agnostic living double half life under strict muslim parents who disowned my twin for leaving islam.

[@jr-assassins-4u]

SidSpeaks you sure they didn’t try to disown you

[@zubair1658]

SidSpeaks I understand you’re difficult situation but you shouldn’t let your parents behaviour dictate your loyalty of the religion. Try to keep in touch with your twin and see what wrong and take in to account the relationship between the twin and your parents to see what went wrong. All I can say is Islam doesn’t approve of autocracy from parents to their children. Unfortunately some parents make mistakes in how they are with their children but that should be the reason of agnosticism. Rather you need to deal with all wrongs in the relationship with an objective approach.

[@creekpeektvu1238]

My mom gets mad at me when I fall asleep but when she falls asleep nothings wrong :/

[@abdiraufabshir3467]

How hypocritical of her.

[@moizhassan3086]

What

[@jefrreyjeffery2192]

Mad at falling asleep?💀

[@idris0786]

Very well said Mashaallah. May allah protect us all. Ameen.

[@seetruth304]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqm9ZKN5irqBp7c Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage

[@sannachoudhry7]

I need my mum to take care of my kids I am a single mum. She shouts at me a lot. I got shouted at when I said to her bye as she dropped me off for my work meeting. She shouted go leave me in peace. What can I do to make things good in my life?

[@SadMemoriesGone4Ever]

Active resistance.

[@yourmom3480]

Oh if I sent this video to my parents... Can't anyway they'll flip lol

[@kaiserairsoftentertainment1129]

I'm not even Muslim and I agree with this.

[@TheLaughingComedian]

Omar sulieman spitting facts.....

[@rajahanan742]

My father is an egoistic man who thinks Allah has made a man dominant and a woman a subordinate and that's how he treats my mother. He also disrespect her. What should I do?

[@anasmohammed5415]

If you don't like then leave Islam Islam is perfect

[@gallaxseizor9216]

Hypocrites will be held in the lowest Hellfires, so kids instead of blasting your parents, correct and guide them too as you should yourself, because trust me you don't want to see them get cut up or tortured in some horror movie type stuff in Hell

[@mahmoodkhan2012]

Today partiality by parents between their children is a common problem in our society, but mostly Scholars don't raise this issue.

[@maida4608]

I know, and it’s so sad honestly.I mean sometimes I really question myself why they don’t talk about it. It’s not like oh their gonna get killed or something smh.

[@mahmoodkhan2012]

@@maida4608 right. Only Scholars can raise this issue. Because If Children (Aulaad) raise the same, everyone will bad to Aulaad

[@mahmoodkhan2012]

@@Musaiftekhar yaa right. Why they do partiality with their own children.

[@momin7741]

May Allah forgive our parents too if they are not best in their role....most of the time their intentions are honest..they are failing to change their habits. & WISH good FOR their kids.. i mean they want ther kids to do better ...so here comes role of intelligent kids to get better & help parents get better ... Alhamdulillah am mother of teen kids ..am overweight & my daughter Alhamdulillah encourages me to do exercise & makes jinger lemon water for me....she motivates me.. So if u r kid with bad parent/parents..Allah wants u to help them ..& earn rewards do for the sake of Allah

[@aidenstine9560]

The difference is we can't do anything to stop our parents from doing it

[@zoecpt1496]

"Protect us from being exposed in front of our children" shouldn't one be living a model life for their children, as children learn more from example than anything else, not hoping that their children don't see the truth?

[@arifsa7138]

We are not perfect for god sakes so dont try to be.... so yes indeed may allah cover our shortcomings

[@angelsangels8583]

Who obeys the rules of morality is better than who performs material duties. Doing respect/justice is better than the shopping, laundry, cooking, cleaning, shopping, paying the bills, or any material thing. Who's simply doing respect, and true worship? SubhanAllah.

[@sidra7941]

Amazing 👍

[@erwinsmith5381]

اللهم صل وسلم على سيدنا ومولانا محمد عبدك ورسولك النبي الأمي وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم

[@uchihadilini9688]

Please reply this. I want to do my exams and take a scholarship. But my parents want to me to get married. But I don't want to marry. They say I am a very bad person, God will never listen to my prayers. Is that true? Am I doing wrong?

[@mickeymousefaus5015]

you should marry

[@maida4608]

@@mickeymousefaus5015 Wtf-that’s such terrible advice. You shouldn’t ever force you’re child to do something they don’t want to.If he/she doesn’t wanna get married at that very moment, they so be it.When he/she feels comfortable or is ready then they can smh.

[@abelievereverrising283]

They have no knowledge on whether or not God will listen to your prayers. And have no right to lie about Allah like that.

[@MohamedAmin-zz8wo]

So whats wrong if the child calls out the hypocrites

[@antoniokim8033]

I’m not a Muslim or I don’t study Koran but I respect this man for his message. Actually Koran is so similar to the Old Testament Bible mostly the Torah. I don’t know in detail or in depth but I see great teachings coming from both beliefs. You don’t have to be associated with Muslim or Islamic or Christians to know what is right and what is wrong. It all starts from your house. Too many American society have no father figures in their homes which is the reason they don’t know how to learn from other race or other beliefs. If someone doesn’t have same beliefs as them they automatically make you their enemy. Why? Because they’re not taught the way of respect in their homes when they were a child. That’s why you see kids disrespecting parents, teachers, and including the presidents. Back when I was growing up we were told to respect elders or those in power or in position that’s greater than you. Presidents whether good or bad should be respected I mean that’s like a King in the old times. Thank you for your message. As a Christian I endorse your message. I respect you for your message for the youth and fathers alike. It’s pivotal to all races and beliefs. Respect your elders and parents remember don’t be a hypocrite.

[@adnanjaan7671]

Hello, you really should really read the 19th chapter of the Quran, it's called Surah Maryam (Mary) Likewise, you can also watch on KZbin. Have a nice day.

[@Hell...FireIsReal]

Indeed

[@reple489]

Omar understand the struggle of having toxic parents.

[@Zerin666]

I have a question.So, we have been given the proper education regarding Islam from our parents.My question is even if I am sent to Hell based on my life choices, will my parents go with me?Please clarify because they have taught me everything.

[@adiibaz8828]

2013...😢

[@TheSuperNuggetDude]

He was in qatar

[@ntgangster1]

Open your Mind.

[@benyn_866]

I really need someone to talk to right now. I wanted to get a job at a coffee shop because I am a teenager and I thought that having extra cash and something to write on my resume would be good for my future. I also wanted to be like others my age who are becoming more independent. So I told my mom about this job, and my dad was also there. He suddenly turns around to me, speaking in a very strict voice, saying how stupid I sound. So I try to understand what he is saying. And he starts telling me about how shameless I am and how cheap I am for wanting to work in a coffee shop, because in his eyes, only poor people and people who are "less worthy" works at such places. He even went so far to mention how dangerous the idea to work there was, and basically humiliated me in front of my mom, just because I wanted to be a little more independent. He was almost shouting at my face, and saying how daughters should not sell their dignity by having such a job. He said that my ideologies are too western and that I should stop even considering working at all, because if I wanted a job, then it should be something of a higher status. I got very mad because first of all: he looked down on people who are working, second of all, what does pride have anything with working to do, pluss, I live in a country were working as a teenager is encouraged because it brings experience and stuff. Only teenagers works as baristas and places like those. Im super scared right now because my parents are keeping an eye on me and I have to just pretend like I am sleeping, but I need to do my homework that is due tomorrow but now I cant because they are constantly checking up on me. The worst part was probably when my mom did not defend me, and sided with my dad. I want to have my own money so I can achieve my dreams but if working is seen as something shameful then I dont knlw what to do. I really need help but I have no one to talk to. If you took time to read this I hope you have a good day

[@maida4608]

Salam, sorry this such a late reply.I had just came across you’re comment.But anyways I am terribly sorry that you have to go through something like that, literally no person deserves that.But I’m here now, I’m here to help you with anything you possibly need. And most importantly I’m here if you ever need to talk about anything, btw I’m a sister.

[@muminahzahid541]

I have the same problem

[@dmc7890]

I wish my language had "hypocrat" in the vocabilery

[@curryfood7001]

I dunno wat to say just rely on Allah that's wat am doing. My parents have severe double standards and severe control issues it is hypocrisy n children learn from there parents it's hard because I go through it daily my parents doing something thrm selves n sayin y I did it n controlling there kids marriages breaking them up funny thing is I realised I have no one to help me no friend no family member relative anyone but Allah I gues the only thing I can do is keep praying n keep patient I do feel like I am at breaking point but have to swallow that anger its painful. Just trust in Allah only he can help us if there's anyone going thru similar situations keep patient if u get angry hold it in I no it hurts n read quran. N pray for me also Thnk u n my family. Ameen.

[@Sebir5y]

Hypocrisy is about what ? If they lie to you .

[@kevintakeover]

My dad says that we should have manners at the table,but then 1 minute later he screams,farts and start talking to imaginary people...

[@sayrasayyad1403]

Anonim Tv Farts? XD That’s sad tho

So true

[@shakos4105]

Not gonna lie, that weed dealer guy is really smart with his words

[@SadMemoriesGone4Ever]

Beliefs speak nobler than actions. Korans speak realer than words. Qur'an 18:103 - 105 The losers are those whose deeds come to nothing due to their disbelief in Allah's revelations. Isti'adha. Only Allah only Your Help is the greatest Help. Only Allah only Your Justice is the greatest Justice. Only Allah only Your Forgiveness is the greatest Forgiveness.

[@mahdi1sh39]

Assalamualaykum and I know that the chances of you seeing my message is very low and I hope you will be able to answer my question. Before I was born,my father really wanted to have a son and because of that,he promised the Almighty that if he was given a boy,he would make his son as an Ulama but as I grow older,my dream is to become an athlete but they would often say that I have no future in it and they would often tell me that if you become an Ulama,you will have a high place in the hereafter.Its not that I want to reject the words and the teachings of the Almighty in fact,I love Islam and I want to discover it however,I want to be able to discover Islam because my heart wants it,not because I was forced and pressured.I really want to know more about Islam but not to the point where I would become a religious leader/scholar because I just want to be a normal Muslim in our society that has high fate in Islam and also one of the reasons too is I don't want to be separated from all my love ones just because I was forced to do something I didn't want. I would just like you to be able to give some tips,advices and suggestions if its possible... I wish that you will be able to answer my questions:)

[@mahdi1sh39]

thank you.❤

[@mahdi1sh39]

can you please send your answer again because I can't read it.I think there was an error:

[@omarismail6617]

Message to the story of the hypocrite parent in this video. Before you become hypocrites to your children, read this ayah of the Quran: ۞ أَتَأۡمُرُونَ ٱلنَّاسَ بِٱلۡبِرِّ وَتَنسَوۡنَ أَنفُسَكُمۡ وَأَنتُمۡ تَتۡلُونَ ٱلۡكِتَـٰبَۚ أَفَلَا تَعۡقِلُونَ﴿ ٤٤ ﴾ • Dr. Mustafa Khattab: Do you preach righteousness and fail to practice it yourselves, although you read the Scripture? Do you not understand? Al-Baqarah, Ayah 44

[@FunTime-uu7tu]

My whole family is a hypocrite

[@muqadaasali7131]

Do you believe in the Qur'an and Sunnah.

[@abdiraufabshir3467]

I like how you change the subject.

[@1nsta528]

My mom tells me it’s ok to lie to her

[@aminmaxammed4448]

She's confused just like my mum trust me dads are the best i love my dad so much my mum raised me like an orphan ffs but yeah she lies about loving me shes delusional.

[@farehakhan9199]

Save me sir..my parents are very abusive..

[@sammerramoumand6451]

Check Nouman Ali Khan's response on this topic of abusive parents. You are the amanat of Allah. They have no right to treat you like that. No matter how many Hadith's and verses they pull out. They will never talk about the rights that their children has on them. They just want an easy oppressive system created to benefit them only. Save yourself NOW! My prayers are with you.

[@sammerramoumand6451]

They named you Fareha which I think means happiness and they took your smile away. How ironic! Check Mufti Menk's lecture about this topic as well. While so many scholars love to focus on the respect ur parents part very few talk about the other side which is respect your kids and don't take their rights away.

[@salyoutube7023]

Jack The PBS Kid sometimes I feel like running away

[@FAISAL-eu5ve]

If a drug addicted man and a postritute woman marries each other they can also be parents.

[@Ishbu101]

Is this the guy that stabbed people on the London Bridge.

[@HomeFrendsten]

There should b improvement in parent child relationship in india

[@Syed-do6fj]

Lol my dad kicks me in front of everyone

[@anasmohammed5415]

Good, parents should beat children

[@secretagent7219]

@@anasmohammed5415 no shutup its abuse

[@anasmohammed5415]

@@secretagent7219 no it isn't

[@secretagent7219]

@@anasmohammed5415 it is what the heck so u want the kid to have trauma pls dont be a parent

[@anasmohammed5415]

@@secretagent7219 in Islam you can beat your kid

[@Rache_777]

😂👌🏽love it

[@JahannamHellfire]

Fathers nowadays: sellingdrugs, drinking alcohol, smoking, got mortgages and interest money from banks, date women, do sahrik and then it's my right to do polygamy marriages because Allah swt said!

[@faizan418]

Marijuana is illegal, alcohol is not.

[@mizaahmed4025]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@momin7741]

Parents r also human beings..with lots of shortcomings.. Always make Duaa for them.. If they give birth to u..gave u good name..did aqiqah tryied to give u Islamic education ..Alhamdulillah ..be thankful..... Giving u food , supporting ur career ..making duaas for u .be grateful..thanks Allah & see lives of orphans !!!

[@seetruth304]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqm9ZKN5irqBp7c Reminding children that living in their parent's house after puberty is a privelage

[@stoneworshipper2599]

Jesus and Mohammed lived in two different periods. Mohammed is known to have lived 600 years after Jesus. Jesus and Mohammed had different views and also propagated different philosophies. First of all, let us look at the death of the two great souls. Jesus is known to have resurrected from His grave on the third day after the Romans crucified Him. On the other hand, Mohammed is known to have died in the arms of one of his wives poisoned to death by a lady whose entire family was killed by Muhammed When Jesus heard God speak to Him, He went into the desert very boldly to be tempted. But when Mohammed heard God speaking to him, he was frightened and even wanted to commit suicide. Jesus has called Himself the Son of God and Mohammed called himself as the messenger of God. When Jesus got instructions directly from God, Mohammed received instructions from an angel. Jesus had never married and always respected women whereas Mohammed had 11 wives and even used to keep sex slaves. Jesus is known to have performed many miracles which included raising people from the dead, healing people, and calming storms. Mohammed is not known to have performed any miracles in his life. Jesus is known to have never sinned in His life. Mohammed had taught that salvation was possible by following the Five Pillars of Islam. He said that salvation depended on one’s own efforts. Jesus had taught that God created human beings for a relationship with Himself, and He adopted human beings into His abode as His beloved children. While Jesus was teaching love, grace, forgiveness, and tolerance, Mohammed is said to have gotten permission from Allah to wage war for protecting the religion and uniting the people. Summary: 1.Jesus is known to have resurrected from His grave on the third day after the Romans crucified Him. On the other hand, Mohammed is known to have died at the hands of one of his wives. 2.Jesus has called Himself the Son of God, and Mohammed called himself as the messenger of God. 3.Jesus is known to have performed many miracles, but Mohammed is not known t o have performed any miracles in his life. 4.Mohammed was a mortal man who sinned like others, but Jesus is known to have never sinned in His life. 5.Jesus had never married whereas Mohammed had more than 11 wives and sex slaves. 6.Muhammed killed more than 800 Jews and others.

[@ErenYaegerPhilosophy]

Why are you using English to speak. Its western and haram You should only speak in Arabic like your pedo prophet did.