Hey Paul glad John is squared away now what surprised me most is all the nasty comments where is the compassion today the Christianity I think there were more mean comments and mean people than anything else thank you for helping you’re a good guy😀🌴🌴🍺
@cber50772 жыл бұрын
A good guy? He got an 18yo Filipina pregnant and then he couldn’t afford to take care of her and the kids. Not only that, his first Filipina wife was like 16 when he married her. Chances are he will find a new teenager when he moves back in a few years. He’s taking advantage of the goodness of others.
@ananumatanu76212 жыл бұрын
@@cber5077 Why do you just soley blame John for?... It takes two to tango as they say, and if she didn't want kids, then she should of said something before the deed happened - I don't care whether you say she was to young or not educated enough to understand; thats just a load of hogwash... Also, how do you know that they are miserable because of them having children? You don't, it's just you're petty assumption. You think this is bad, you should go visit some Asian countries and see how bad off some parents are... I tell you now, it's 100x worse than this.
@stanlysteemer48722 жыл бұрын
Johns playing well meaning people for suckers.
@jessieball61952 жыл бұрын
@@cber5077 you misunderstood-he said that PAUL is a good guy, not John.
@NeverGiveup-go7og2 жыл бұрын
None of you could resist a beautiful Filipinas bed stop being so judgmental and jealous. I’ve been to the Philippines 18 winters in a row from America it takes a hell of a lot of experience to live like a Filipino i’m sure none of you could’ve done better 😀🌴🌴🍺
@richardbatten42402 жыл бұрын
The only reason why John is doing well is because of what you and your friends did for him so amazing you guys are like family
@whatsnext-0072 жыл бұрын
You guys did a great job in helping John. Not making excuses for him, but after two strokes, one cannot expect him to be the man he used to be. As you said, the wheels could fall off for any of us. I've seen changes in people from other health issues...it is never easy to see the changes, but we shouldn't judge. You guys and the support group did an outstanding job and I commend you all.
@-whackd2 жыл бұрын
Yes he is clearly mentally ill from strokes or whatever
@Dana-ie2bh2 жыл бұрын
Let's go Brandon !
@sandrabentley81112 жыл бұрын
@ Outbound. Best comment so far!
@yorkiephil77442 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself - if at age 58 I’m chasing teenage Filipinas and getting one pregnant while not having a pot to p*ss in then please shoot me rather than excuse it away as “the wheels falling off”. John was a disgrace to himself and 100% the architect of the sorry situation he created for himself, his partner and two babies.
@homelessjesse94532 жыл бұрын
Agreed. My father had one stroke back in 2015, and he's basically retarded.
@herminiasalas6000 Жыл бұрын
nice to see that men took actions to assist John.
@marieriddick83887 ай бұрын
Paul, Jim, I'm just seeing this video. I think what you two did to organize the return of John back to the U.S. was awesome.
@philcolwell37612 жыл бұрын
I wanted to thank each and every person involved in the "front end alignment" of John. Such compassion is rare in this day and age, and I appreciate how all of you great guys so respectfully pulled John up from what obviously was going to be a fatal disaster for John. I've watched John's story via Paul's channel since the beginning. John is in no way the man he was prior to his strokes and only these compassionate heroes could have pulled this off for John. This was handled with charity, dignity and respect for John which says much of all of your characters. Can't provide enough kudos. Thanks very much for the journey.
@rickylee61292 жыл бұрын
AGREED 👍 👍 👍
@jayjay_yah2 жыл бұрын
I think it shows the respect , that all the guys have for paul
@jeffreykostbar98592 жыл бұрын
NO NO NO - Do not stop the updates please. Give us an update every 90 days! You have got us all watching for so long and we are hooked. We should all be updated at this point. Even every 30 days. Maybe this will be a success story, but not likely. We need to be updated please. Keep up the reports!
@Mhel20232 жыл бұрын
That would be a great idea if Old Dog has time. I'd love updates as John works himself back to the Philippines
@yorkiephil77442 жыл бұрын
Is your life so empty Jeffrey that you need to enliven it with the (mis)fortunes of a work-shy rather pathetic 60 year old who has a predilection for teenage Filipinas? Paul should let the ‘story’ wither on the vine and return to his pre-John content imo.
@jeromeburdine966 Жыл бұрын
Every 90 days? I was thinking daily, lol. 😂
@alphi1012 ай бұрын
Same here. Something interesting about John's journey. Keep the updates coming please.
@_apey2 жыл бұрын
Old Dog, PLEASE don't let this be the last update on John. His story is very interesting. Personally, I look forward to each new update!
@yuma4202 жыл бұрын
John is this channel's cash cow. There will be plenty more updates, I suspect.
@Misiaczek622 жыл бұрын
@@yuma420 really, that's all you can come up with? 😭
@sandrabentley81112 жыл бұрын
What a group you guys are! You've all done such a great job of helping him out, not just financially, but morally, mentally and emotionally, the whole deal. Much respect to you all for helping out a fellow human in such a way.
@Hans_Franzen Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@BULLARDtheOKIE2 жыл бұрын
Wow A Degree in Finance and a good work History! Prayers for John's Health and future decisions. We could all fall prey to health earthquakes and hard times. Yall made the puzzle fit together
@yorkiephil77442 жыл бұрын
Nah, still doesn’t smell right. The first ‘John’ video (early 2020) was before he had is stroke yet while physically fit, John gave no impression that he was a high salary calibre guy. Also why did someone who has a ‘degree in finance’ and had earned 77k x 20 years have only $30k to his name at age 58 and decide that it was sufficient to live on for four years? Again, he took that decision BEFORE his stroke.
@watersbey252 жыл бұрын
@@yorkiephil7744 Ask any middle school student in the USA. They will give you the answer.
@mohnkhan8 ай бұрын
I don't know why KZbin recommended this. Now I am going through the whole series; Thanks for helping others. Wish to meet you in person just for coffee and hugs Paul
@elterrifico95222 жыл бұрын
Never a dull moment with John. Keep the updates coming, Old Dog.
@montel111 Жыл бұрын
I am impressed and SURPRISED with the community support. Let's not forget the expat's money, time, effort, and gas put into supporting John. Sometimes, I can feel the frustration in Paul's voice, but he kept trucking along!! That is the most incredible thing to me!!
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Жыл бұрын
We were able to get him home 🏡
@johnserraticadventures45722 жыл бұрын
So glad things turned out the way so many of us recommended months ago. Our comments were not "mean" or "nasty." Kindness and compassion without firmness and direction is just enabling. This story has been entertaining and inspirational. Well done Paul and everyone who helped this decent man.
@YAlaskaAndPhilippines Жыл бұрын
I’m glad John chose to return too the USA. So he could be stronger for his family. I’ll pray God takes him in the direction he needs. I’m thankful there were so many good people still in this world that helped him.
@elephant6372 жыл бұрын
( To Johns Helpers ) I really have to say that all those people that helped John throughout this ordeal are hero's. If you people didn't help him, he'd probably be dead ( malnutrition ) within a year, and quite possibly his two kids would've died. You guys have helped to save 3 lives. Kudos to you all. God Bless each one of you.
@edithaheinitz65912 жыл бұрын
Impressive kindness and support given to someone in great need. God bless you all for what you've done!
@virginiaalcantar5443 Жыл бұрын
I am so tough by your compassion Paul and rounding up a support group to help you get John see what he cannot foresee the direction of his life is going. God Bless you all🙏 to open your hearts and wallets, guide John with some resistant to get him regroup, work and save some money. From my point of view as Filipina here in the state. First, she is too young for him and just want to have somebody to support her financially and also her family. Diana is young and probably looking for another man. She sees the weakness in John as a man, no dominant personality that can be easily manipulated. John thinks that when he gets his SSI that everything will be fine… I don’t think so… that’s not enough … to feed the whole family and more… he needs to think of his health and not rush to go back. Work hard for maybe three years or more to save up and increase his SS…
@carlalandrau6033 Жыл бұрын
I'm sure these guys in military. May not be but family but he does American family.
@ericx47252 жыл бұрын
John has had blessings. So nice to hear so many good people out there that helped him to get his life together.
@charlie67512 жыл бұрын
It's restores your faith in humanity that there are still kind people in this world as the help you get from your own embassys overseas is zero they are despicable when it comes to helping there own citizens
@alecleamus32807 ай бұрын
Earlier today I watched the distressing video of John when he’d lost so much weight. I made a comment expressing a comment about the possibility of the 🇺🇸 community helping him out with a little food each week. And, boy, you guys have delivered in spades, such a wonderful effort that I can’t praise more highly. I’m glad things have worked out so well, and hope that John makes good choices in the times ahead. So, congrats from one impressed Brit to you all, and may you all continue to thrive and support one another in times of need. 🇬🇧 🇺🇸
@martingaunt599 Жыл бұрын
Well done, I lived in the Philippines for over 5 years and for 2 years before that I was back and forwards. This was in the 90's we had no internet in those days. Sadly I had to leave, I was in my 30's but had to leave my wife and 3 kids in the end as we just could not make enough money to live, no matter how many businesses we had. I could write a book. It took 9 months to get my wife and 3 kids over to England, 25 years later the kids are all set up, and the wife and I have been together for over 30 years. Having an income coming in that is not generated in the Philippines is key unless you have a good amount of cash in the bank. There are many other things but you need that basic setup to have a got start at living in the Philippines.
@gabalot108 ай бұрын
Glad to hear about John. Good job guys.
@greenarmy5612 жыл бұрын
You guys are awesome group, John will find his way back after the 16 months. We will remember what you’ve helped. Be safe, enjoyed watching your video.
@ginasantamaria75552 жыл бұрын
None of this would have been possible without your kind heart and spreading the story about John. Any Christian person who followed this story who has compassion would do the same. This is what God teaches us. John has nothing because of his kind heart. God Bless You all. I pray for all of you ❣️🙏
@amyholto17262 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy John made it back and has found a job ! It's amazing that all you gentlemen gathered together and just rallied around him and got him to this place All of you are his Angels ! I hope and pray he's able to stand on his own two feet and come home to the Philippines and take care of his beautiful family
@Dhspat Жыл бұрын
Awesome kindness by the Church Group and Salvation Army and all who helped John and of course you and the support group. ☘️☘️☘️
@JH-wg2lo2 жыл бұрын
Y’all demonstrated the essence of human compassion. Thanks for having the courage and the heart to help in this situation. Hope none of you ever need reciprocation, but that if you do, your need will be met.
@daffaellong6557 Жыл бұрын
America is all about giving help ,, I salute these two fellow Americans for arranging assistance for John to get back in the US ... im proud of you guys .
@rickmir41002 жыл бұрын
Congratulation to you Paul and your group for helping John getting back to a better life. God bless you all for being so compassionate. Keep up the good work and
@paulinthephilippinesolddog92342 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
@Mike-z9g7m8 ай бұрын
Wow, just saw the video of John u did and now this follow up. Just Awesome the caring for another person every one involved good karma headed your way. Good for all of you.
@daviddunn31792 жыл бұрын
It’s refreshing to know that there are good people in the world like those who are helping John . I hope he turns his life around .
@Hans_Franzen Жыл бұрын
I can't believe how great you people are. Thanks so much for your great kindness! 👍👍
@mr.bullion67862 жыл бұрын
John did everything wrong and you guys saved his life, no doubt.
@Dana-ie2bh2 жыл бұрын
He wouldn't have been missed; people die every day.
@FaithL052 жыл бұрын
@@Dana-ie2bh 💀
@carmelaelliott227 Жыл бұрын
Blessings you guys, so admirable what you guy’s doing helping one another helping John. Thank you.
@markdittbenner99492 жыл бұрын
My hats off to all of you that helped... Doing something that really matters helping your fellow man helping the stray animals in the Philippines.. helping clean up the barangay truly makes life worth living.. living a selfish life just worrying about yourself and your everyday pleasures is worthless
@zucan1008 ай бұрын
Paul & Jim you two blokes should be commended for your empathic look at John's situation. There is no point crying over spilt milk and there are babies involved. Mistakes have been made and now it's time to look forward. Well done for being good humans.
@Robin-xt7yo4 ай бұрын
💯
@stevew31962 жыл бұрын
It was an amazing and humbling thing you did for John. It's good to hear he made some progress and has some prospects. You gave him a foundation to build on. As it should be his destiny lies in his own hands he seems to have good intentions and I hope things work out for him. The acid test, I guess, will be a return to the Philippines.
@linhaton49572 жыл бұрын
Glad the US is requiring a DNA test.
@johnstengel32052 жыл бұрын
Thanks Paul and Jim for "A Fabulous Job Dealing with John and his Many Trials and Tribulations! To God Be The Glory!" 😇🙏
@cliffpearce90432 жыл бұрын
Yes Paul a live chat with John, when he gets situated would be a great idea, what would you even be better is the day he arrives back in the Philippines,
@lindenbutters9396 Жыл бұрын
I wish there were more good folk like you in the world.
@dazamistwalker Жыл бұрын
This is why I became a subscriber. Anyone can share their budgets, give information, give advice. But not everyone can share the stories, and certainly not everyone can tell a story while actually making the story! You all did a great job coming together, and I hope the community y'all formed doesn't just melt away as that might the most invaluable resource to anyone coming to the Philippines -- or trying to leave!
@verreal Жыл бұрын
Yeah, you're right. Even though I've been in another Asian country, married with kids, for a couple decades, I've seen some of those channels, and it's not realistic just with a budget. You convinced me to sub even though I don't really need this type of advice at this point.
@realandsurreal Жыл бұрын
You are good guys! Many people would not have done what you have done to help John and his kids.
@kenny4real6962 жыл бұрын
Paul and Jim great job helping a fellow American. I've been waiting for this update for a few weeks. Awesome story. I think the hardest moment for John is gonna be in 10 months or so when he has a few thousand saved and he misses his kids and wants to fly back... Best wishes for John.. Be well Paul....
@michaellukehart42762 жыл бұрын
PAUL...Thank you for the update on John...Thank You to everyone that stepped up to help...Thank You Jim...It took a Small Army to help John...But you All Did it...with Compassion and Respect...Like You said Paul...Things happen that are totally unexpected...John was Fortunate to Have ALL of You That Helped him... NOW...ITS UP TO YOU JOHN.. PRAYERS FOR YOU ALL...
@kolkattaindia2 жыл бұрын
This is awesome report of John. He is on his way to recovery. With God nothing is impossible. Sure many have prayed for him. Thanks to you Paul & Jim for the effort you put into getting his paperwork done, to get him back to America. And of course keeping your viewers posted. Would love to see John live online someday with you Paul. God bless us all. 🙏
@patrickquinn37878 ай бұрын
Paul you and your TEAM ROCK THE WORLD NEEDS MORE OF YOUR KIND A OUTSTANDING GROUP EFFORT 👏👏💥
@brucehaines64592 жыл бұрын
I can tell by as many videos of yours that I have watched how good of a person that you are, you're real and very honest and by helping this man you did what the most important thing in life is is to help others, and I could tell by watching the videos it was not an easy chore, great job Paul, you can be proud of yourself and everyone else that helped, keeping this man from falling down you lifted him up and that's what a good person does, I was over there short while ago for a visit for a few weeks it certainly is a different country than the US, a lot of what I've learned about the Philippines is from listening to you, I did not get to doing maybe another time I would feel an honor someday to meet you and buy you a cup of coffee or two, it's always a pleasure listening to your thoughts and information good job buddy
@terrydale22873 ай бұрын
Great job John & the support group, real humans coming through.
@Jose_Jimenez2 жыл бұрын
I can see why he was acting the way he was, those strokes can reek havoc on the body. Why didn't he seek disability through Social Security? If he had his stroke before going to the P.I., he should not have gone. He was extremely lucky for the help, he'd be in a Philippine cemetery by now. You guys actually saved his life. If he sends money back to the Philippines, it's sad because the kids won't see much of it. Hope the family is not blood suckers. You guys did great.
@JohnSmith-cx7zt Жыл бұрын
Great news , Americans helping others. Good will and it will come back 100 fold . I love America. Maybe I will visit all if you in the Philippines.
@Roland_Rohrle Жыл бұрын
Thanks for stepping up, assisting and getting him back to the US. Let's hope he recovers well and his next stay in the Philippines is more harmonious for all concerned.
@user-po3mh4dy9r3 ай бұрын
My hat is off to all of you guys who rallied to John’s support. I was one who was critical of John’s actions because there is little doubt that he is the architect of his own demise. I hope that he gets counseling, but that is going to be hard to find in America for a man. What makes me feel good is seeing a community of men coming together to help a fellow man! All a woman has to do to get rescued is to drop a handkerchief, but people turn their backs on men in need. I just hope that he takes this amazing gift and redirects his life! He is already using his undying love for his kids as a noble excuse to jump right back into the cesspool that so many people have gotten dirty to drag him out of. John really needs some TOUGH love right now! It sounds like he is getting some counseling from all of you, which is the greatest gift of all. I genuinely hope that John sees the light and hits the reset. I genuinely wish him well. As others have said, I would like to know how this turns out.
@OneJuanWon2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this update - it sounds like John is getting sorted out in the States and knows what to focus on for the next 1-2 years. I hope his health issues are behind him and he can focus on earning and saving up some funds for his family. This whole ordeal has been very eye opening about the importance of realistic planning if considering relocating overseas for an extended period of time (or permanently). John's intentions were good, but he got caught up with a bad group of people and we can all take some important lessons from this. A big thank you to Paul as well as everyone else who got involved which made the positive outcome possible. Cheers to you sir. 👍
@timothythompson40362 жыл бұрын
Paul you guts did a great job helping John. Also, you are showing both sides of the Philippines, both good and bad. At least John is manning up and supporting his new family. Paul and Jim, God bless you.
@travelwithcraig12 жыл бұрын
Awesome News, we have all needed help from time to time, you guys coming together shows there is still hope in this ever changing world. Glad to hear the news and it wouldn't surprise me to see him tap back into his degree's God willing.
@lulumontoya9492 Жыл бұрын
Proud of you guys helping John back on his feet again. Clearly a lot of lessons learned fr his experience most impt is the realization of everything that happened.
@jazzpianoman012 жыл бұрын
You guys did a great job helping John; hope he will get in his feet soon.
@Blue.aka.Sharky2 жыл бұрын
You know I think the world of you guys for getting John back home
@brianandlynphilippines2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to hear you clarify that the man suffered strokes. The comments were brutal that did not comprehend or take those afflictions into account. You may have a stroke and be perfectly fine, others may have a stroke and be utterly devastated, and all the outcomes in between.
@clivehowis71332 жыл бұрын
Paul and all the guys ,well done, excellent job , that is what Christian charity is all about. It is great to see that good samaritan movement that materialised.
@originalm32332 жыл бұрын
Paul, you and the other expats did a great thing for John. All of you helped give him another chance at life. Even if John goes back to the Philippines, it will be much harder for him to repeat the same mistakes simply because he will not be going to the Philippines with a lump sum. The Social Security payments are a monthly disbursement. The Social Security Administration will indirectly be acting as a money manager for John one month at a time. Sure, John could still piss away money in the Philippines, but he won't be able to screw up his future by blowing a lump sum savings like before.
@verum_audiri6 ай бұрын
Angels all of you. What you did is probably saved a man's life. Looking at John's condition at his lowest point was heartbreaking even to see on video. He would have broke mentally, suffered another severe and final stroke or worse possibly taken his own life. You pulled him out of a deep dark hole. And brought him back into humanity.
@James-nb9xz2 жыл бұрын
Im happy to hear johns on his feet, I did'nt know about john having 2 strokes which does explain things to a certain point. He's obviously a good man having worked in the care sector and im suprised about his degree. Well done to all who have helped john and his family.
@Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father2 жыл бұрын
He already had a stroke prior to coming to the Philippines. He was already in a semi-bad shape health wise, not realizing that stroke comes in tandem, sometimes several after shocks.
@edwardcorrea33502 жыл бұрын
Hey oaul, im a retired Social Worker. U just wanted to compliment you in the awesome job you did coordinating services for John who was down & out. Good job. You will receive an avalanche of blessing for such. Keep up the good work. Job well done.
@danielroque85042 жыл бұрын
Outstanding! The stars were aligned, he got on that plane, and good things greeted him. Kudos to the support group(s), good deed accomplished!
@netwonc2 жыл бұрын
I was once told by a mentor of mine that "you cannot help anyone else until you help yourself first". I have found that to be very true during my 80 years on this earth. You gentlemen are angels from heaven.
@philipmasie2 жыл бұрын
I guess this is encouraging that you guys really made a difference in his life and that America is still a land of opportunity for someone down and out. May God bless John and continue to guide him to get back on track.
@reneearce1667 Жыл бұрын
all the members of the expat specially Paul and friends who help John survived was the hero on this final recap of the story
@brad2772 жыл бұрын
I really admire how u & others helped John. God Bless you and the other's.. Really look forward to future videos especially medical videos. Thanks
@deanc2000 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad John is making some progress. Great work Paul and John's supporters.
@rwm32422 жыл бұрын
It is reassuring that there are compassionate souls who still exist in a world full of hatred and judgement. Thanks to all who stepped up to help John. I hope he can recover fully.
@winchill20022 жыл бұрын
He ran into many Angels Thank you guys so much for giving me this happy feeling. I needed it at the moment.
@leedensmore59702 жыл бұрын
I'm glad this story is turning out okay. I am especially proud of all of the guys for helping John. Hopefully when he gets his finances straightened out and stabilized he will come back to the Philippines and do the right things with taking care his family.
@metrocomoj9 ай бұрын
Well Done Gentlemen, well done.👍🙏 God Bless.
@matthewdurkee56732 жыл бұрын
You all did an amazing job helping John . Especially you Paul getting everything started. I think this has been a very good learning experience for anyone heading to a foreign country. Thank you all.
@Baloybeach2 жыл бұрын
Paul, you and your band of brothers will always stand tall in the minds of many. Well done gentleman!!!
@TWCH2 жыл бұрын
All that John received from you gentlemen was catalyzed by KZbin, a pretty remarkable thing I'd say. Well done guys. You have a nice community there.
@elvesaaragon7522 жыл бұрын
Kudos to all of you intelligent and kind expat and citizens of USA for helping and assisting John.
@Lollipop_Lexi2 жыл бұрын
At first I was angry that people were helping John. We all struggle-I thought-why should this guy get any help? But now I’m pleased to see that there are still humans who care about others and will help them in their time of need. Good luck John.
@kevinr68712 жыл бұрын
You have a good hearts folks. Thanks for lending a helping hand to get John back on his feet.
@tryscience2 жыл бұрын
I had no idea the challenge was as steep as you just described in this video. It sounds like John was his own worst enemy for a bit. But it seems he eventually recognized that you're all pulling for him and giving him another chance to succeed. It's refreshing to see him make the most of it, and I'm humbled by all of your generosity and kindness. You are what is best in men.
@georgejohnson9258 Жыл бұрын
I am so glad ,I am proud to be an American because I was ready to buy him a ticket and be someone who knew him and everything because his is a humanbeing and we all just want to be happy ,I wish I could have helped you a great guy Paul, man I can't wait to get to the Philippines knowing people like you will be around to give me some pointers ,
@canderson7182 жыл бұрын
After following this story and reading many of the comments, what sticks out to me in regards to John's situation and what got him there is...the difference between a lapse in judgement and "character". After following this story so closely, I personally believe it was one and not the other that got him in this situation.
@TropicoDreams2 жыл бұрын
He's nuts, it's that simple
@canderson7182 жыл бұрын
@@TropicoDreams 😄😄
@josephputnam75862 жыл бұрын
So glad to hear things are coming together for John.
@cber50772 жыл бұрын
You and the group are very kind hearted and generous, and John was very lucky to have you. Hopefully you haven’t been scammed and he will do what’s right from here on out.
@louieadam251 Жыл бұрын
Good job and for your compassion and support for all Americans living outside the US.
@Willow191002 жыл бұрын
I’m pleased to hear that John is back home and doing as well as possible. To all the ex pats (and no doubt other’s also) for the incredible help/advice/money etc that was given to enable John to return to America until he makes a final decision when he will return back to the Philippines. John firstly needs to get healthy and he seriously needs to make a decision whether to stay with Diana! Personally I believe that Diana, his wife is staying with John for financial gain! Plus the fact he was also used by her family as a ATM machine! In the last few videos posted before returning to the US you can clearly see in her face she’s not in love! John was literally a broken man. Should or when he returns he needs to be a much stronger man and if she/family doesn’t like it hard luck! It’s obvious John will always support his twin girls but in my view he has no obligation to feed/house/purchase vehicles for Diana’s brood!! I wish him all the very best in the future. 🇬🇧🇬🇧
@trainrecked2 жыл бұрын
Well said...there are users, and then there are ungrateful users..Thats where Diana needs to wake up, grow up and tell her family "We are pathetic losers to use this guy!" She needs to recognize her faulls.. She either becomes a loving wife and supporter or let him go..For John, it shouldn't be that hard..but , I do get he loves his kids too.
@magiwebdesign38492 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched the same content as you on this topic and I don’t get any negative impressions of Diana. Careful about throwing stones in glass houses. Beta males do not have healthier relationships in the West.
@phil-be-health2 жыл бұрын
@@trainrecked she's still barely 20. Way way too young to handle life yet. John is 60 and way out of her league and mindset and stage of life. Disaster will continue if he insists on being with her knowing she just wants a pay day and nothing else.
@Aeon10192 жыл бұрын
@@phil-be-health this comment with truth simply shows you how SICK and desensitised humanity has become. The age gap is disturbing, she is a CHILD, and its a form of Pedophilia but because Society has accepted this as Social Norms, folk will Reap what they have sown!
@Plough78 Жыл бұрын
@@phil-be-health Ain't against a significant age gap but 60 / 20 is kinda nuts. A forty ish year old scorcher would make sense. Late thirties at a push. *Crap Game*
@cyndig16702 жыл бұрын
Thanks to all that have helped! Those babies need to be taken care of. You are so right Paul that John needs to get strong to be able to be a leader of his family. God bless all of you!
@euromazing12 жыл бұрын
You guys did a great job, showing compassion and guidance to John. Hopefully you can continue your guidance so he can live in Phillipines, be self sufficient and keep his partner and kids away from the destructive environment he found himself in.
@deanduggan29152 жыл бұрын
Im so glad john is doing well god bless you guys for helping him i wish him well best wishes and i hope him the best god bless
@offthecuffadventureswithjamie2 жыл бұрын
Thats great to hear guys. Never look down on a man unless you're helping him up
@davidfaigle8374 Жыл бұрын
Old dogs are the goodest dogs... Seems like youve got a G.O.D club going.. This not only helps John but gives us (I plan to be one soon) expats a "gooder" reputation.. Thanks Paul.. C U in Dumaguette someday (soon i hope)... Sincerely, Sickntired of being sickintired, Dave
@spincube57342 жыл бұрын
I have nothing but praise for you, Paul, and your friends for all you've done for John !!!!
@GordonMelsom2 жыл бұрын
Great job Paul and supporter's
@stephencohen47622 жыл бұрын
Expat John! I have traveled the world and I have lived in the Philippines while working for the US Government in 1970's. I left my job and returned back to school and subsequently became an attorney. First, let’s get the facts straight! The Philippines is a country with extreme poverty as a result women for the most part are willing to engage in sex or do whatever they need to do in order to survive. When I mean survive, I also mean support their own families which include their mothers, brothers, sisters, their children and yes even their husbands just to name a few. Of course, they will tell you they are single when in reality they are married with children. For a man over the age of 50 to go to Philippines and expect to fall in love with a 20-year-old something and maintain a loving relationship for a substantial period of time, is not only INSANE it clearly shows you lack common sense. If you think it is possible then you are kidding yourself and you will fail in the end. There is always an exception! The odd of that exception is like winning a million dollar jack pot. The reason you go to the Philippines is for SEX! DO NOT FORGET THAT! It is possible to enjoy a short-term relationship providing you incorporate some common sense. The laws, the police, and the court in the Philippines makes it very difficult to invest or own a business or property in the Philippines if you are a foreigner. If you have rights such as citizenship, then that is a different ballgame. You will find that most countries protect their own citizens over foreigners which lack citizenship. Without citizenship you are nothing more than a guest in a country of which that relationship can be terminated on the spot. First Rule: Never loan money or invest in a business or property of any kind without first seeking the advice of a reputable licensed attorney in the Philippines who is willing to protect you legally. Find out what your rights are and if worse case scenario, how do you collect if the other parties do not perform. In short, what is your security for your hard-earned money? If you are unable to get the protection of the courts, then PASS on loaning money, or making investments in the Philippines. DO NOT mix a climax with your hard-earned money and remember there are no exceptions! Second Rule: Individuals that Lie and or engage in FRAUD! When you have individuals living in extreme poverty, they will do whatever is necessary to get ahead for themselves or their loved ones and that includes fraud and untrue statements and falsehood. You think this specific woman loves you and will always be honest with you. You forget she has family, friends and others who educate her long before she met YOU. I can’t count the number of ex pats that I have run into that have been screwed because they lack common sense. This also includes individuals that want you to invest or puchase a business and or property. Third Rule: You will never make an income in the Philippines! To be fair, there are rare cases where this is not true. One exception is a programmer that makes his living from customers outside of the Philippines while he lives in the Philippines. To reside in the Philippines, you will need at least 88,167 Pesos per month. In USD that is $1,500 per month. That also takes into consideration, unexpected expenses such as medical, supporting a girlfriend and emergency traveling as an example. Fourth Rule: Always have emergency money hidden, or in a bank in case of worse case scenario. Everyone has access to a bank account somewhere and that includes you. What this means is open a bank account. If necessary, in your own country. Put emergency money in that account. That should include moneys for airfare, hotels, food, cloths, medical for at least a 2-month period. You should be the only one that has access to those funds. Fifth Rule: Trust NO ONE! In law the first thing they teach you is how to do due diligence. What this really means is believe nothing until you can verify through a valid source. Sixth Rule: Go to the Philippines knowing and accepting these rules and enjoy yourself on a day per day basis. Finding nice people and enjoying their company is wonderful. Set rules for yourself and remember to always protect yourself. My sole intent is to educate you and others.
@jeffsea64902 жыл бұрын
Good Advice 👍🇺🇲
@thomasauslander37572 жыл бұрын
Thanks..🙏👍🙏
@ILTOMBA Жыл бұрын
I went to the Philippines (42-year-old male) with no interest in any sex at all, I can find that at home. I just wanted to see Palawan, Bohol and other beautiful places. I didn't experience any of that kind of tourism (I did see some white men walking around with younger females). In my opinion, the Philippines has much more to offer than girls or sex. It is no Indonesia but I still found it an interesting culture.
@mimi1o8 Жыл бұрын
Right on! When American guys go to poor countries, they must be prepared to marry a whole family not just a woman, hence if you are on a fix income, your money will not last long .
@geoffdevore6321 Жыл бұрын
To be honest, I think your just trying to belittle other people in a passive/aggressive way.
@ezkul958282 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping John. I've been curious about John in the states. You guys did a fabulous job.
@CruisnChris2 жыл бұрын
Hi Paul, not sure if you will see this. But I work for the airlines (United Airlines) They are hiring as many people as they can at the moment in Denver, Colorado. You can have as many hours as you want to work. Even double shift everyday it is up to you. Starting pay is about $20 USD an hour. Also you fly for free and United goes to the Philippines.The family also can fly for free. If he can't make it to Colorado the airlines in general are hiring at the moment. I can help give you all information on how and where to apply if interested.
@frankkluz9787 Жыл бұрын
All you guys involved are to be commended for the efforts required with this endeavor needed for John ! --- As a 2 stroke survivor myself I can tell you all that I am certainly not the same and am a fraction of my former self. Something perhaps unknown to most is the fact that stroke survivors never recover to their former selves - regardless of the severity of the stroke !
@orangetabby32292 жыл бұрын
Paul, you and the other Americans who supported John through his many issues and crises are the real deal. The way you gave of yourselves, having coffee with him, offering common sense steps and wise counsel, short-term financial help with accountability, logistics, just brings a tear to my eye. You guys are salt of the Earth Americans. God bless 🙌 🙏 🇺🇸
@edgardocastillo19682 жыл бұрын
Paul, thanks for helping the other people like John, my name is Ed, FilAm watching from Colorado USA 🇺🇸 God bless you guys.
@MrSridharMurthy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Paul and Jim for the update on John's welfare! You answered all my questions in this video and I am so glad John is on his way back to redemption! God Bless!