Girlfriend Disaster STOP Making These Rookie Mistakes at the Airport!

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Paul in the Philippines Old Dog New Tricks

Paul in the Philippines Old Dog New Tricks

Күн бұрын

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@racerx428
@racerx428 2 ай бұрын
Paul, good info video. I had a LDR 4 yrs pre-covid. She met me at airport and stayed with her a whole month traveling Philippines. Came back to US and 7/2023 started K1 process. 9/2024 she finally made it here to the US. Just got married and in process of submitting change of status... 😊. Bright future here and possibly relocate to Philippines in 10 yrs. Every relationships are different... do what is best for you.😊
@makiavelli6101
@makiavelli6101 Ай бұрын
You made the biggest mistake bringing her to the states to live......
@LesRafton
@LesRafton 23 күн бұрын
I agree 100%
@vgshwk
@vgshwk 2 ай бұрын
After a long flight or flights across the pacific I don’t want to meet her or her family at the airport and them possibly being late. I just want to get to the hotel and chill.
@kennethsmith8134
@kennethsmith8134 Ай бұрын
Gentlemen, get your own resort hotel reservations so if you meet her at the airport, you would go to YOUR room, then let the show begin 🎉
@Tyler6Keen
@Tyler6Keen Ай бұрын
Where i am it will be 26 hours of planes and layovers. I think a day to get your head screwed on right is minimum
@mrrandysgt
@mrrandysgt 2 ай бұрын
I like the new Roy Orbison look Paul,,speedy recovery my friend
@andyswan88
@andyswan88 2 ай бұрын
Agree. I was going to say he was getting the band back together, but Orbison also works.
@BruceCinader
@BruceCinader 2 ай бұрын
Makes a lot of sense but I did the opposite. I sent airfare to the girl to have her travel to Manila from her island to meet me at the airport in Manila. It worked out well though, we have been married now for 25 years.
@linkinemerson8620
@linkinemerson8620 2 ай бұрын
Congrats Bruce! I would say though that taking a 25 year old example of a good story before bots, scammers, dating apps, heck it was before youtube or any social media at all. Myspace was invented in 2003 & your marriage dates back to 1999, give or take a year or 2 of course Im not trying to corner you. But today the internet is entirely different from what it was when it was barely getting started pre Y2K. If your dates are correct the fact that you somehow even met a Filipina with internet is extremely amazing way back then lol. May I ask, where did you guys meet online exactly?
@digimaster7393
@digimaster7393 2 ай бұрын
Same with us here and still together after 20 years now ❤ But to be fair, times have changed since then and TRUST and commitment are rare Attributes to find these days...
@BruceCinader
@BruceCinader 2 ай бұрын
@@linkinemerson8620 Actually I did not meet her online. A friend of mine met and married a Filipina, one day he showed me the picture of this beautiful young girl on his lap and said he married her in the Philippines and will soon have her here in the USA with him. He knew I was divorced from my American wife of 26 years and suggested that his wife had some friends looking to meet some of his friends. So we were introduced to each other thru our friends, pretty much like it would happen here in the USA. We wrote letters and eventually made phone calls and when he went back the the Philippines to escort his wife to the USA I went with him to meet the girl that I had been communicating with. We got along great so I went home and filed the papers to bring her here to marry me and live in the USA. I met her in 1998 and by the time the papers were finished we married here in the USA late in 1999.
@PaulM745
@PaulM745 2 ай бұрын
​@linkinemerson8620 Did he say he met on the internet? There were other ways to meet before the Internet. The term "mail order bride" gives a little hint...
@linkinemerson8620
@linkinemerson8620 2 ай бұрын
@@PaulM745 I leaned heavily on the differences with the internet, but I didn't mean to signal that I thought it must be how they met. I think with Pauls video explaining his situation with online scammers, I leaned toward that assumption. My meant to highlight how different wife hunting is now compared to 25 years ago. The level of possible scams is more than 1000x greater easily, but its all based around the new technology. Perhaps it was mail order with some company out there that had a good track-record of really having women interested in going etc.
@mduckod992
@mduckod992 2 ай бұрын
Whilst I agree with you on slow down advice, I was one of those who met my fiance at the airport, I flew into Cebu from Ireland and she flew in from Calbayog. We met and stayed together in Cebu for a week or so before flying back to Samar to meet her son who is only 4, I met all her family there too, all of whom I had spoken to online before coming over. We stayed in Samar for another week and then headed back to Cebu with the wee fella. I don't regret a single minute of doing it that way, maybe I'm one of the lucky ones. I'm nowhere near retirement yet and we've been doing LDR for over a year now, we speak 2 or 3 times a day and they're both coming over for a couple of months to Ireland in 2025. It works for us. She talks to my kids one of whom is the same age as her, 30 and my kids love her. Each person is unique and every situation different. I do understand that all too often people get fleeced coming over, but on the flip side of that many a Filipina has been promised the earth and left barefoot and pregnant by a gwapo westerner, who is not seen for dust when the child comes along
@secretagent86
@secretagent86 2 ай бұрын
Also. BY pinoy
@mduckod992
@mduckod992 2 ай бұрын
@secretagent86 yes but pinoys don't come out saying that Filipinas are the scourge of the world, taking advantage of them and scamming them. Article 195 of the families act can be implemented more easily against a pinoy who impregnates a Filipina, whereas with a foreigner who disappears after doing the deed leaves a woman with the inability to lodge an international case against her former partner due to the financial implications. Yes I do understand that some countries have entered into a unilateral agreement namely the Hague Convention on the International Recovery of Child Support, but to get such proceedings started by a single mother with minimal or no income is near impossible.
@mikelit-e9q
@mikelit-e9q 2 ай бұрын
But he's on about western men, most go to Philippines for boom boom,​@@secretagent86
@johndoh5182
@johndoh5182 2 ай бұрын
I did basically the same except my children didn't talk to her before she came to the US. She's lived in the US for 17 years now and has a really good job. The one thing about me going there the first time was I felt comfortable meeting her at the airport but we had to talk about how much I would send to her to pay for her getting to Manila. She had to accept a limited number of people that would be with her at our first meet. She didn't live on a main island so me trying to navigate to where she's from would have been too hard so I gladly accepted meeting her at the airport. We did have a few money talks though.
@offthecuffadventureswithjamie
@offthecuffadventureswithjamie 2 ай бұрын
Many times if you’re met at the airport it will be with the entire family. They may arrive in a rented van and so starts the big trip lol. Be aware. Get to the hotel alone. Shower and sleep. Walk before you run always!
@SalingSamantas
@SalingSamantas 2 ай бұрын
Romance was not what I was looking for either. I was single and quite content to be single but somehow before I ever got to the Philippines I met my Filipina. That was actually exploring real estate looking around online and was contacted by a real estate agent looking to sell me a condo. We got chatting. Realize we had the same religious beliefs and one thing led to another. We've been together for 17 months now. And the future looks bright.
@SalingSamantas
@SalingSamantas 2 ай бұрын
And no she did not meet me at the airport lol
@mariomejia1701
@mariomejia1701 2 ай бұрын
Welcome back Paul… glad you are better 😊
@unoblaster
@unoblaster 2 ай бұрын
thank you for your wonderful and calm approach to life here in philippines... thanx.. for you coming back! i been here 9 months and before i came here i promised to myself.. i'm gonna wind down here.. but my mindset was toxic before arriwal (very common). i still have hard time to learn how normal human behaves here. but i really see the benefits of throwing the western stressfull mindset away since most of it is just forced rules anyway :). i start to LOVE all here... takes me back to the roots where humanity was priority.. Love it deeply.. even its flaws :)
@ricksdestinationcebu
@ricksdestinationcebu 2 ай бұрын
Paul,at the end of my dating profile,my last sentance was "My favorite number is 56,remember this so I know you read my profile",,,any female who knew not my favorite number was immediately deleted Still took 2 years to find my now wife
@gordonb1737
@gordonb1737 2 ай бұрын
That's a great idea
@simmorg290
@simmorg290 2 ай бұрын
I've also seen filipinas do that so it works both ways at least for the guys who are players.
@davidfisher5140
@davidfisher5140 2 ай бұрын
I did something less stringent. I used 3 codewords on a Slavic site previously (100% fails indicating scammers) but on Christian Filipina, I used TWO different things. 1st I shared a riddle, but put the answer at the bottom. Second, I included a paragraph about "MANDATORY PRENUP" in near the end. Then, I wrote a lengthy profile in the middle that included some personal details, some goals but not too much info. I shared some strong opinions too. Why? The goal of a dating profile should not be to attract, but to CHASE AWAY those who are unqualified. Length means the low intellect women are intimidated and flee plus those with language shortcomings are warned. Any man who likes chatting with his lady should include tests to determine her ability to sustain chat. 3+ years for me, but I am a super picky man.
@joseph1150
@joseph1150 Ай бұрын
I just said on my profile to not ask me for my whatsapp until we've talked to each other for at least 2 weeks. if they didn't listen to that they got blocked.
@Electrichead64
@Electrichead64 2 ай бұрын
Its just like anything else, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. The only rule is to pick the right girl.
@ghostwriterinme5050
@ghostwriterinme5050 3 күн бұрын
Your words are straightforward and to the point. Honestly, truer words are rarely ever spoken. Theses are words to live by.
@keep-going
@keep-going Ай бұрын
Paul, I'm from Scotland, and what a long flight it was to Manila. When l got there, l couldn't find my woman for about 40 minutes. There were hundreds of women waiting and claiming to be my Lilibeth. When l found her, we had to board another flight to Cebu. I must have been stinking. But 23 years later, we are still married and together. But l would do it your way if l had my life to live again, as l was absolutely shattered when l first met her at the airport.
@DShizzel
@DShizzel 2 ай бұрын
I met my LDR at Manila Airport, in July of '23. We jumped over to the other terminal and flew to Dumaguete. Stayed in an Airbnb for 30 days, decided it was a good 30 days, and I came back here January, 24 -- renting the same (no longer an Airbnb) place in Dumaguete. Still together after 10 months.
@MirettaRS
@MirettaRS Ай бұрын
Happy for you! Similar story myself - guys like you that have done it before gave me the inspiration to follow in your footsteps. Keep spreading your story, maybe you'll inspire someone else to take the leap too.
@greenraider44
@greenraider44 2 ай бұрын
Another reason is you don’t want to short change yourself. So many guys make the mistake of going for the first girl they meet and then when they arrive they see there is a plethora of options available to them, and now that first girl will not let you go. Sure you can cut ties but it’s best to avoid the drama and get there first and see what’s out there before committing
@Ego-Kills
@Ego-Kills 2 ай бұрын
Welcome back Paul. Happy to see you in a good health and still keeping jokes going.
@ricksdestinationcebu
@ricksdestinationcebu 2 ай бұрын
Old Dog is back in da house!!!!😊 Wife has been here in Ohio 6 years and she can't wait to get back to the Philippines,,bout 24 months out.
@abielpaz3187
@abielpaz3187 2 ай бұрын
Hello, where in Ohio, I lived in Bowling Green like 14 years
@david-dy4ie
@david-dy4ie 2 ай бұрын
Some hidden gems in those stories with advice.....Thanks for sharing Paul....
@dave_in_florida
@dave_in_florida 2 ай бұрын
Hi Paul, good to see you’re back on. I just spent 2 weeks in Cebu preceded by 6 months on line CF trying to find a girl and no luck. Quite disappointing. Are there girls really out there?? I feel like Alex (Living Abroad) these girls are all scammers, and there’s a reason why there online trying to meet you.
@TexasT-Bone1970
@TexasT-Bone1970 Ай бұрын
I lived in Cebu for one year. Found a girfriend after 6 months. Didn't use online apps. I met people through friends of friends. We will be married in 2025.
@richardcompton-xk7fj
@richardcompton-xk7fj 2 ай бұрын
Glad to see your still kicking it!Keep on keeping on!
@daveh5947
@daveh5947 2 ай бұрын
You're right Paul. I never arrive in a Country until I've escaped the Airport, found a Taxi to Hotel and closed the Room Door behind me....end of journey!
@Billy_B_Goat
@Billy_B_Goat 2 ай бұрын
Paul you're a wealth of knowledge and a good story teller. Hope I can benefit from all some day soon. Get well soon. Peace and Love, B Goat
@gibblespascack1418
@gibblespascack1418 2 ай бұрын
I know what you are saying. I use to be young and stupid. Now, I am not so young... Have a good day...
@davidfisher5140
@davidfisher5140 2 ай бұрын
ahahahah! TY for that! YUP!!! That is the sort of honesty we MUST have with ourselves. We made mistakes before but the only way to avoid repeating mistakes is to guard our weak spots. Our weak spots are those things that can make us repeat stupidity of the past.
@ALBATH12345
@ALBATH12345 2 ай бұрын
Another informative vlog Paul. Good to have you back and healing.
@bayoumanbryan
@bayoumanbryan 2 ай бұрын
My wife met me at MNL with the sister of my American Filipina friend that introduced her to me. i stayed in the Phils 3 weeks. weve been married and living stateside for 14 years. although i dont recommend bringing your gf/wife here to the USA. Shes the best wife ive ever had by far. and the longest marriage by 5 years. my family loves her and she's now taking care of my bed ridden Mother that had a stroke.
@korlingpa
@korlingpa 2 ай бұрын
I'll never understand the don't bring her to the USA mind set.
@bayoumanbryan
@bayoumanbryan 2 ай бұрын
@@korlingpa They change. they become like American woman. i joked that i told Lea (my wife) that Oprah and dr Phil were devil worshippers and not to listen to them.
@Smuggler169
@Smuggler169 2 ай бұрын
Im staying off the dating sites. I would rather meet a fellow expat and get settled in. Then meet someone there.
@MirettaRS
@MirettaRS Ай бұрын
I think you should try talking online first - don't go in with the mindset of meeting the right person, just try to get to know a few girls and have some video calls with them. With no expectations, you're free to experiment and refine your approach, try new things. Who knows, maybe you really do hit it off with someone. It'll be less intimidating when you finally do get boots on the ground.
@phyconautwaterworld198
@phyconautwaterworld198 28 күн бұрын
For decades I flew around the world on business trips and I learned early on to avoid being met or sent off at/from airports. What you said about personal encounters equally applies to business encounters. Also I tried to travel solo whenever possible. It is good to control your own schedule and, as you say, to meet people when you are ready and willing to do so.
@jspice-kl2wc
@jspice-kl2wc 2 ай бұрын
Great video and a really great story, thank you.
@MichaelMelvyn-e6s
@MichaelMelvyn-e6s 2 ай бұрын
Very well done presentation! I'm always happy to sit and listen to your advice and wisdom, and really get a kick out of you spontaneous humor!! I Hope Paul your recovery 🙏 is going well. God Bless you!
@williambreeze2659
@williambreeze2659 Ай бұрын
Solid point about slowing down and not being in a rush!
@tobiasmichaels1050
@tobiasmichaels1050 2 ай бұрын
dudes they meet you at the airport so no other woman can snag you. yes thats how many there are. take ur time and enjoy the different flavors of the women.
@nalansmartt5901
@nalansmartt5901 2 ай бұрын
Greetings Sir .That’s valuable information. Thanks for sharing. Be blessed.
@MoorDragon
@MoorDragon 2 ай бұрын
I met my now wife online while she was an OFW in Singapore. We didn't meet in person until a year later in Manila...at the airport. 🙂 We've been married 5 years now! Sometimes it works out!
@chocolatecookie8571
@chocolatecookie8571 2 ай бұрын
Many times it works out. But these bloggers lilke to select drama for views.
@MirettaRS
@MirettaRS Ай бұрын
Congrats on 5 years, wishing you many more happy years together!
@keithsmith7031
@keithsmith7031 2 ай бұрын
Great advice Paul, mine was and did meet at airport. We been happily married 2 years now and have a child together ( he just turned 3 months old and a jabber box to boot 😁 . Wouldn't change a thing for myself. Its different for each person
@CrisRanzenberger
@CrisRanzenberger 2 ай бұрын
Great advice. I had planned on landing in dumagette and doing what you said about spending the first few days just chilling out and resting up. Then try to figure out what is up.
@dovoso5685
@dovoso5685 2 ай бұрын
Hi Paul, good to see you. Thank you for sharing.
@AdoboJoeRetire
@AdoboJoeRetire 2 ай бұрын
Hey Paul, Sunglasses look great. Older version of the Blues Brothers 😁
@karlenzmann
@karlenzmann 2 ай бұрын
Hello there Roy Orbison! Interesting topic. I’ve experienced a little bit of what you are describing. It’s live and learn for sure. I’ve got 1 week in Bangkok, and 3 weeks in the Philippines coming up in March. This will be my 1st trip over where I won’t have someone meeting me at the airport…I am looking forward to the change, and I’m looking forward to my vacation! Continued good luck with your recovery!
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
Thanks
@Bitcoin-Carnivore
@Bitcoin-Carnivore 2 ай бұрын
PAUL ALWAYS HAS GREAT ADVICE
@jefferymurray7742
@jefferymurray7742 2 ай бұрын
Great video. Probably one of the most informative videos I have seen so far about coming to and or retiring in PI. Thanks
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, I appreciate the feedback
@markthomson170
@markthomson170 2 ай бұрын
I met my bucket at the airport . She is the best .still rocking after 5 years.
@davidwright3222
@davidwright3222 2 ай бұрын
Thanks Paul. Good words of wisdom. See you at the Crusty Crab
@whiskers78753
@whiskers78753 2 ай бұрын
Will be arriving in Cebu next week and will not meet anyone at the airport. I will look for a girl once I am there; I learned from the first time.
@clarkgaither
@clarkgaither 2 ай бұрын
Welcome back, Paul!!
@loneranger668
@loneranger668 2 ай бұрын
Paul: Hope you feel better. By the way, I think you've covered this subject and experiences before! You guys take care.....
@ninjask8ter
@ninjask8ter Ай бұрын
I've noticed the same phenomenon on LAC whereby I'm receiving messages on the platform, yet it is rare that the female actually checked out my profile. Very few profile views compared with several messages.
@paulphilippines8981
@paulphilippines8981 2 ай бұрын
Lol . I recently looked on dating site she lives in valecia and said I will meet you at the airport the second time we had a conversation I told her no need she asked why I told I have been to Duma 3-4 times a year for 4 years I have not heared from her since that day and the cheeky mare blocked me 😂😂😂😂😂
@One-12937
@One-12937 2 ай бұрын
She thinks you a player dawg and not serious or she knows she can’t string you along for financial aid because eventually you’ll meet up and she don’t want that. She just wants the money.
@MrMannyvillegas
@MrMannyvillegas Ай бұрын
Excellent advice
@TexasT-Bone1970
@TexasT-Bone1970 Ай бұрын
Took me 6 months to find someone. Never used dating or social media apps. Just made friends and then met friends of friends which eventually led to my current relationship.
@marcprobin1659
@marcprobin1659 Ай бұрын
Great advice!
@Danno_A_Jyd
@Danno_A_Jyd 2 ай бұрын
I guess I got lucky. My airport meet happened in Hong Kong and she did show up ... with 2 of her friends who took pictures and video's of the meeting. I should post the airport meeting. I already posted the wedding and reception. Good information, Paul! I'm glad I did not watch this before I met my Snow White pinay princess. HA!
@daboogiemansass
@daboogiemansass 2 ай бұрын
Glad to see you back pau.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@bayoumanbryan
@bayoumanbryan 2 ай бұрын
Paul i had to wear sunglasses for several years after Cadillac surgery/with RK surgery even indoors because the lights hurt my eyes. this is not an isolated result i found out. my cousin had to buy good name brand sunglasses Ray Ban and wear indoors for years afterward. no big deal for me, i looked cool in them instead of regular eyeglasses.
@pilotmark2861
@pilotmark2861 2 ай бұрын
Also depends on what part of Philippines. More advanced people in the Luzon near Manila
@cooliipie
@cooliipie 2 ай бұрын
I've had a few meet me at the airport. Always a fun time. Keep an exit plan ready!!
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
It sure can be!
@AidaJof
@AidaJof 2 ай бұрын
Pauley, Not advice, but good words to live by. Have a good one🙋‍♀️
@abkeener81
@abkeener81 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice, Paul. I’m Andrew. I have no plans to relocate to The Philippines 🇵🇭. But I do want to visit. And it might be to meet someone I may meet online. I never thought about it like that. I owe you a hug and coffee whenever I get there. Though I don’t have concrete plans yet.
@MirettaRS
@MirettaRS Ай бұрын
Don't wait, sign up somewhere and start chatting to people. Even if it doesn't work out, you'll have met someone as soon as you arrived and figured out what you like, what went well, any red flags etc. That'll save you time when you start trying to meet in person once you get there, especially important if you're only there for a limited time. Who knows, maybe you get lucky, meet the right person and you've got the whole trip together then! That's what happened for me
@dave_in_florida
@dave_in_florida 2 ай бұрын
Hi Paul, good to see you’re back on. I just spent 2 weeks in Cebu preceded by 6 months on line CF trying to find a girl and no luck. Quite disappointing. Are there girls really out there??
@jeffreygreen9057
@jeffreygreen9057 2 ай бұрын
Been there... done that. Great vacation in Manila May 2010 🤔
@jerrymarshall2728
@jerrymarshall2728 2 ай бұрын
Always the good advice, Kuya Paul. No matter how many times I've heard several variations of the subjects. 😉 Hope to see you without the shades pretty soon 🤞
@machuugooc8938
@machuugooc8938 2 ай бұрын
glad your back we missed you. My health to bad to ever come to Phillipines but I love watching your adventure.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, I'm glad to be back!
@RetiredArmy2012
@RetiredArmy2012 2 ай бұрын
hey at in general 62 live that dream and do what makes sense to you no one else whatever it takes to get the job done
@homebasebelgium359
@homebasebelgium359 2 ай бұрын
Glad to see you are feeling better Paul! You may look like Ray Charles, but you are still the same eloquent you! 🙂
@SoCalDad91932
@SoCalDad91932 2 ай бұрын
I've had 2 good experiences meeting LDRs at the Airport in Manila.
@davidfisher5140
@davidfisher5140 2 ай бұрын
2? Well, it seems your goals might differ a bit from a wife hunter?
@SoCalDad91932
@SoCalDad91932 2 ай бұрын
@davidfisher5140 2 was just for Philippines
@davidfisher5140
@davidfisher5140 2 ай бұрын
@@SoCalDad91932 Sooo what? Are you openly admitting to being an international romance scammer who convinces women all over the world they are special ... only to dump them once you visit and get your little ego boost??? I'd recommend you delete your words because several nations have laws on the books that allow LEOs to seize you upon return to their country after previously being a womanizer there. PH is one of them.
@kwokweng76
@kwokweng76 2 ай бұрын
Glad to see u back paul......❤ I love ur videos
@williamwick8641
@williamwick8641 2 ай бұрын
Fantastic informative video !! Lots of pertinent information.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@oliviar267
@oliviar267 2 ай бұрын
Glad to see you back making videos - stay strong 💪
@henrycarlson7514
@henrycarlson7514 2 ай бұрын
So Wise , Thank You
@brianstevens8554
@brianstevens8554 2 ай бұрын
Good video Paul. Your a good storyteller. Krusty Crab is very popular.. Take Care..
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@DistraitW
@DistraitW 2 ай бұрын
Hey Paul, I feel your pain. I entered an agreement to finish a bare unit I had purchased in Duma. After more than 5 months of no physical progress I decided to terminate the contract. The contractor only agreed to return about 35% of my (sizeable) deposit. Next month it will have been a full year since I requested my refund and I have not seen a dime to date. Emails get ignored for weeks or months on end, then I get a response it will be paid "this week" followed by ghosting me again for weeks or months. I sincerely hope your build goes well in the future. Thanks for your videos! All be best to you and Mae.
@desgoulding7154
@desgoulding7154 2 ай бұрын
Great video Paul, as usual very informative.🎉Keep them coming mate.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
Thanks
@nicklopes7519
@nicklopes7519 2 ай бұрын
Good advice. Thanks Paul.
@jimmyg4428
@jimmyg4428 2 ай бұрын
Great advice from an OG in the PI. Stay well
@josephgrudza3873
@josephgrudza3873 2 ай бұрын
Glad to she the Devil Dog back at work.
@andrewtaylor6737
@andrewtaylor6737 2 ай бұрын
Good to see you back Paul! No intensions of a relationship when I get there, I will leave that to other sad men!
@Celwood
@Celwood 2 ай бұрын
Yeah... You say that now...
@mick-berry5331
@mick-berry5331 2 ай бұрын
Hope you feel better, the sunglasses inside give you a touch of Hollywood director ! You lost a little weight, looking good. Good advice, as always. 😊
@MrPat-UK
@MrPat-UK 2 ай бұрын
Eye wear is fine Paul,perfectly normal after surgery, respect to you, keep the eye shaded ,it will heal up quickly, 👍
@daviddubois5123
@daviddubois5123 2 ай бұрын
Good advice, hope your still smoke free and you recover from your medicals quick, keep on keeping on 🙂
@tilapiadave3234
@tilapiadave3234 2 ай бұрын
Hope he smokes so he can enjoy life and not suffer the consequences of giving up 25 years TOO late
@AresGodofWar
@AresGodofWar Ай бұрын
Looking forward to seeing Silver Play Button accompanying Gaylord on the sofa. Congrats on the 100k.
@georgefair3244
@georgefair3244 2 ай бұрын
Hi Paul, I can remember my Filipina meeting me at the airport, out in the middle of nowhere in Mindanao. She was on Filipino time and called her Brother to meet me until she got there thirty minutes later. Lucky for me, she is even more Wonderful in person. We will be getting married in 2025 when she comes to Ohio. You can take a boat ride to Dapitan City Mindanao from Duma for about $10 and it is about a five hour trip. But take a bus then to Dipolog City about thirty minutes away.Take care.
@rosemalibu6477
@rosemalibu6477 2 ай бұрын
Boys listen to this Godfather he is on point! I was first in Ph in 1980’s n lived in Asia till now. Don’t listen to the lottery winners, who if they went slower probably would have had the same outcome, with much less risk.
@KennethIverson-d3j
@KennethIverson-d3j 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the info.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
Any time!
@kevink1214
@kevink1214 2 ай бұрын
Filipinas will normally be leary if you fly in and do not want her to meet you at the airport . More than likely they are gonna think some other female is meeting you. 😆 Agree, slow down and enjoy your time here.
@Michael-h3t
@Michael-h3t 2 ай бұрын
Filipinas seem to lean towards the leary.
@TumbleweedRocks
@TumbleweedRocks 2 ай бұрын
Interesting content. Foreign men are similar to a tad pole in a shark tank, it seems. Gotta be careful as heck. Thanks Paul….your shades make you look like another Paul…Newman or something 😎
@danielhuntington2116
@danielhuntington2116 2 ай бұрын
"A tadpole in a shark tank." 😂 😂 😂.....great line!!!
@indaychangtexas1046
@indaychangtexas1046 2 ай бұрын
Actually did meet at the airport... NAIA to be exact... however was Nov 2004, things are a bit different now. Chatted via yahoo chat approx. 2 years prior to meeting in person. Smart phones have changed things for the worse in my humble opinion... Side note that was the first and last trip I made to Maynila. Would recommend anyone to avoid Maynila and fly into Cebu... beautiful, efficient modern airport.
@mduckod992
@mduckod992 2 ай бұрын
Mactan-Cebu Airport is amazing, the architecture is stunning and extremely well laid out
@josephcmcauliffe1706
@josephcmcauliffe1706 2 ай бұрын
Another awesome video 📸
@LeslieEaston
@LeslieEaston 2 ай бұрын
Welcome back Paul. Hope you feel better soon T/C
@scottbrown321
@scottbrown321 2 ай бұрын
Great advise, even tho you don't give advice, ha!
@bobdodge2159
@bobdodge2159 2 ай бұрын
Great vid and lesson Paul!
@Kenny-d7u
@Kenny-d7u 2 ай бұрын
Matter of fact don't meet her at the airport you may meet the filipina of your dreams at the hotel, walking down the street. As much as you like the online dating, once in ph explore all your options once there then she's the backup plan. Don't go anywhere with her, have her follow your lead or get lost she's only one out a million
@bigolmeanieful
@bigolmeanieful 2 ай бұрын
I met my girlfriend for the first time at the Manila airport and when she showed up she showed up with two of her friends. I was very very tired and very self-conscious about my hygiene after that long flight I took them all to dinner I really didn’t wanna do because I was so beat up, then we went back to the hotel said goodbye to her friends and spent our first night together good thing about meeting her at the airport was that she stopped me from being scammed for $50 for a 400 peso cab ride. Long story short I’ve been back three times and will retire there in less than three years. I’m very very happy with my relationship with this sweet girl and feel blessed that I met her.
@dannymckenzie3676
@dannymckenzie3676 2 ай бұрын
Stop it Paul dropping those gems!!!
@AussieTonythemexican
@AussieTonythemexican 2 ай бұрын
I holidayed recently there, i didn't want to be highjacked by a Filipina. Got around myself, worked things out, enjoying it. Recon mission. Looking forward to moving over permanently soon 😊
@NotinKansasanymore
@NotinKansasanymore 2 ай бұрын
Man, I can’t tell you how glad I am to see you back Paul and I hope everything works out with your health. I really do. I know that when I had the cataract surgery it was a rough couple of months as far as why I’m coming over there. I think I’ve told you this before, if I meet somebody that’s fine if I don’t that’s fine. I was married for almost 30 years and I raised two children and put them into college and I’ve done all of that. Been there done that what I’ve if that means sharing it with someone fine if it means a bunch of one night stands I’m OK with that as well if it means being alone, which I have been for the past 15 years, I’m fine with that too but what I want most of all is to just get out of this rat race over here and be able to just sit back and relax
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate the support, brother, and I hope you enjoy the trip!
@Eugeniusvlog
@Eugeniusvlog 2 ай бұрын
Glad you’re back
@tommoskal9365
@tommoskal9365 2 ай бұрын
Hi Paul you may want to post this TV segment about dating a married woman its on KZbin Locked Up Abroad 6 - Prisoner of Love a lot of false info from bloggers lately about dating married woman in the Philippines this is what can happen
@Stetsonhatman
@Stetsonhatman 2 ай бұрын
Good stuff Paul.
@fanaticforager6610
@fanaticforager6610 2 ай бұрын
As per Usual, Valid Points 🧮 Elder Ray Charles 🎵🙏🏼😎 ➕Hope that your housing project is making progress, Be Well Contender, Aye 😉🖖🏼🦘
@danitzm
@danitzm 2 ай бұрын
Great stories. They replay very well.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 2 ай бұрын
You betcha! It's been fun!
@danelionheart5881
@danelionheart5881 2 ай бұрын
Hey Pauly because of the topic of you guilting smoking I got to thinking. I have quit a few times before and to be honest I had no intentions of quitting. But I have that need to know thing and well I sort of need to know if I wanted to quit can I do it. I do have a start I am prepping already so I have the mind set this is what I wish to do. I know it is going to be a long road and I know it will take a while to be smoke free But I want to try and I fail so what try again.
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