Paying Rent To Parents, Toxic Parenting And The 37” TV|W/@Bigmanyus

Great Episode About Paying Rent To Parents, Toxic Parenting And The 37” TV|W/@Bigmanyus
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[@leathalv]

Shout out to the 90's baby's for starting the TV shaming

[@CHZO.]

Me and Temi laughed for a whole day about it 😂😂😂

[@missbrownskin0]

“You have now started working. The light doesn’t light itself” 😂😂😂 Gabriel is too funny! It’s also crazy that all of our experiences growing up in an African household were exactly the same 😩

[@tyronedouglas3556]

This convo is relatable to all African/Caribbean kids 🔥 but i think discipline is needed it doesn't mean that you beat your kids when your angry/drunk or anything like that but kids need just a little more than timeout when they do something wrong.

[@patrickfrench5156]

Can relate to so much in this episode - No TV, sneaking out, not allowed to join sports teams, getting beaten. Definitely made our generation mentally strong.

[@kenediii_ryan]

As an aside, I'm learning a lot from Gabriel about conversational skills & how to ask leading questions, so a big thank you for that. Also, I haven't really paid attention to Yusuf on social media, I just thought he was another posing "muscles-pretty-boy" type, but goes to show I was wrong to judge a book by the cover, and still waters run deep! Keep up the great convos Chis! I love that it's guys working out & chatting, so your thoughts are free-flowing, rather than a scripted set-up.

[@bigmxnyus]

Peoples perception of me will always make me laugh lol, I'm glad you were able to see a different side to what you perceived

[@AbdulRasheed-jq9xi]

I love the conversation about parents being present yet there not really being a relationship, I’m 21 and reflecting I’ve always had my parents in my household but there was never a real relationship but from the outside in it was a perfect set-up

[@number1outlaw123]

Man like Chiso on his way to 10k subs! Shout out from Toronto bro. Watching ur growth has motivated me in a different way fam. Your platform is motivating n more important that u even know. Real men talking bout real shit! No bubble gum shit! We need more content like this!

[@CertifiedBrokie]

Big man Yus is still talking about this T.V! Big man leave it alone! 🤣😂🤣

[@bigmxnyus]

They brought it up not me lol

[@jonathanbeek5254]

I clocked it, Chis said “you should have arm wrestled for it” 😂😂

[@revival45]

Really appreciate this convo. And the fact that it's men sharing and chopping it up is brilliant. As an African I understand the all they were saying and the appreciation of the 1st generation is true. They did well in spite of all the circumstances they faced.

[@almurabitun]

Asian guy here but there's so many parallels that African and Asians have its mad. Man's on this podcast in general are all go-getters and dropping gems for man to learn. Respect brothers.

[@reelestate1897]

African dad's just be hating. Simple. Not all. But most.

[@tommysawyer9680]

Hear the joketing... if i wasn't paying my mum rent i'd already be on the property ladder myself! making my children pay rent is something i'd never ever do

[@MobEra89]

It depends on the financial situation of the household - ideally they should be in a position where the mortgage is paid off or nearly paid off by the time kids start working but as an adult asking you for a contribution is nothing wild - if u was living on ur own u would be paying more in bills

[@tommysawyer9680]

@@MobEra89 but I’d be living on my own with my own equity under my own rules. That’s a far better situation. It shouldn’t be a child’s responsibility to pay a parents mortgage. For right or wrong in West Indian and African families the money travels up and backwards instead of downwards. There’s pros and cons to this. We don’t put our elderly in homes we generally look after them and keep them in the house. White people put their elderly in homes and don’t watch them again. However, we send money back that we could instead use to invest or start a business or pay for a training course to get ourselves ahead. In the long wrong as bad as it may sound it’s better for the black community to make the money travel downwards and forwards than upwards and back.

[@MobEra89]

@@tommysawyer9680 yh i agree - it shouldnt be the child responsibility to pay for a parents mortgage but thats a deeper issue in the black community around generational wealth - there are many reasons around that as not everyone had papers when they arrived so ownership was difficult

[@tommysawyer9680]

@@MobEra89 Good points. I'm referring specifically to our parents generation that were able to get a mortgage though. But yes there are far deeper issues to generational wealth within the black community but i really do feel like our generation can break the chains

[@MobEra89]

@@tommysawyer9680 yh bro ideally you should stay at home and put your money 100% of saving for a deposit so when you leave your leaving for ownership - renting is one of my biggest regrets especially when you dont have to

[@TheOracle_1]

Shout out to the 'Sunset Beach' watchers .. lol Cole & Annie ...#IYKYK ... #ClassicTv ... 💫

[@CHZO.]

I hate Cole and Annie kmt they took the years of my childhood that I could have been playing computer games like everyone else

[@christiem8332]

Can’t believe he said that’s 14 years, your tv is in high school Lool 😂😂😂

[@loyaltypaysalways]

this is a great channel Chiso, keep going! 👊🏾

[@kenediii_ryan]

Beating is a lack of parental self-control 100%. The "I was beaten, with belts, slippers, a fridge, and I'm FINE!" narrative (predominately in the afro-caribbean community), has always irked me.

[@ooa3056]

couldn't agree more. I dont have the time nor the characters to do a full deep dive into it now. But I'm convinced a large reason why our parents, many of which were either born in Africa / Jamaica etc or grew up over there is due to the disconnect they felt with us as children who grew up over here, have the ideals of the UK and generally prescribe (at least when we're young) to many of our British (not necessarily white I'm referring solely to the cultural aspect here) counterparts ideologies. I believe 'beating' is them venting this frustration and an attempt at them bridging the gap between our upbringings. To add I don't necessarily believe they're consciously doing this btw. I hope that made sense.

[@tysonadeyemi3726]

I am grateful for all the beatings I got. That shit straightened me!

[@IUChn94GofDsDdNes7QD3lSEg]

@@tysonadeyemi3726 We're at a point where we need to start breaking cycles of trauma. Often time we neglect our parents are just grown kids with un-dealt traumas they pass down to their kids. Even though we may have worked out fine, I dont think we hear enough stories of people who went left because of it. We can do better I believe. But I feel you in terms of the beatings straightening you. Sometimes I rather firm a beating than get grounded and have my game console taken away.

[@MobEra89]

Beating children instils in them that violence is the way to correct wrongs and it carries out into the adult life with relationships etc if you cannot control a child verbally thats poor parenting

[@glowingup3767]

Good to see Yusuf. Love his podcast!

[@bigmxnyus]

Thank you!

[@DavidMalbranque]

Yus wasn’t able to land the whole video 😒

[@bigmxnyus]

I felt the same tbh, Gabriel kept cutting me off LOL

[@DavidMalbranque]

@@bigmxnyus at one point, I was seeing if I could count to 5 before they interrupted you lol

[@jammerman860]

Gabriel's quote: "Money nah follow you naw" You are my best friend and you don't even know it. LOVE

[@Wakandas_Finest]

Bruh that parental pressure when you finish uni doing a degree you wanted and don't have a job the next day I ended up taking some next bad grad contract for 2 years or a 12k fee for leaving early just to say I got a job now🤦🏾‍♂️

[@ImadeOriginal]

Nah Yus gotta detail that swingers 😂

[@bigmxnyus]

Nah I can't do pops like that lool

[@user-hh4tk6ht7s]

Big man yus swinging it out with his pops 😅 same thing happened with me

[@bigmxnyus]

Growing pains

[@teamwipe4210]

Hoodie is fire Chis! Dope eppy as well gents! Views are coming along still!

[@Lolaorchid]

I can relate sooo much to what chiso said about being told to stay in your room. So unhealthy especially as an only child.

[@CHZO.]

I can't lie it has made me semi anti social most times I am out I want to just chill in my little circle and that's about it. As I am adapt to being by myself.

[@Lolaorchid]

@@CHZO. yup, overtime you learn to like it lol. I've had to force myself to be an extrovert, mostly for work. But apart from that I like my own company.

[@CHZO.]

@@Lolaorchid and people will call it being stoosh but not understanding where it came from

[@darray.]

Yus’s dad sounds like my mum 😂. But great episode/convo

[@kateasheley7404]

We shouldn't forget that parents are humans too lol. They might have all these things they want to do but can't because your living in their house at 28. It can build up to some kind of annoyance. I think it's important for young people who live at home and don't pay bills to have a plan e.g. save up for three years and invest, start a business, pay off student loans etc.

[@AbdulRasheed-jq9xi]

Could you put the audio on Spotify please, love this & would like to listen on the go

[@CHZO.]

Unfortunately the content is visual based it's not meant to be a traditional pod setup the facial expressions and hand movements etc can't be picked in audio

[@ElleC318]

Great channel!! Topics are fire, and your consistency is A1. Cant wait to see this blow. 10k by the end of the year for sure!

[@djmdot2434]

Man said ‘you don’t have the DNA’ 😂😂😂

[@queenirmamay]

Get your pastport, driving license, build your credit save your home renting or buying but there comes a point when you have to contribute to the home if you are a grown ass adult because you I/your mother the Queen of the home is cooking and washing for you

[@Teetee_joliee]

I love how men argue it’s hilarious 😂 that’s how you know the love is real

[@christiem8332]

Great episode love how open you guys were

[@splhomes1282]

Really enjoyed this one!

[@BetterThanDaAverage1]

In another life Chis could've been balling like Salah if he was allowed to play football. I'm finished at the story about the Dad coming home from work being on smoke lol

[@psawz7187]

Haha Classic Nollywood, my Mom used to rinse that channel 😩😅

[@Joe20209]

NO WAY! This is going to LIT 🔥

[@thinkkingjay4919]

Good episode 👊🏿

[@Jbofficial29]

14:36 “Was you good though?” I was good!! 😂😂 Quality banter

[@SummerTyme2023]

Really relatable episode 🥰

[@88boxfresh]

Lol man said does your TV pay ULEZ

[@tysonadeyemi3726]

4:50 Hahaha I reckon the reason I got hench quads is from all the Angle 90's I did growing up!

[@Ibe72891]

Chiso Playing running back would be unfair lol

[@htalks600]

this is quality content

[@kwameopoku3576]

Big nan yus u kna

[@CeeCeeOj]

16 contributing to bills!!! I dont get the mindest of some parents...why are you putting that type of financial pressure on your kids😑

[@ramansb1008]

Chiso is a real g

[@AbenatheActress]

Gabriel you were very troublesome in this episode ooooooooooo!

[@emekaegbuonu6132]

Nwane, great episode as always. I once said " THE FIRST MAN SHE LEARNT TO FORGIVE FOR HITTING HER WAS HER FATHER....." ji sike. I'll stay locked in.

[@vaskovekta]

That Lakey tracky Yus got on is wavy

[@msdeangelox]

16:15 the scream 💀

[@JJROBLDN]

Chis takes the piss 😂 man said “still doing pick pin” 😂

[@kwameopoku3576]

Gt a council flat at18 parents cudnt chat to me afta

[@MobEra89]

Council flat is not a flex sorry - only flex is ownership

[@kwameopoku3576]

@@MobEra89 to you

[@kwameopoku3576]

@@MobEra89 u were prob late getting one

[@MobEra89]

@@kwameopoku3576 never had one and never will

[@kwameopoku3576]

@@MobEra89 im baffled y tho if its to help u in long run u cud buy it out at discount price

[@saav1385]

Is there a part 2 to this?

[@CHZO.]

7pm

[@goodmusic210]

Damn! I thought us Asians had it bad

[@LastRolo0]

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