People Who FOUGHT Back

[@heart_miffy_matzz]

I love how the brother in the first story stepped in to not get his sister in trouble for a stupid reason. honestly, I feel bad for the sister because as a female if I didn't have my sisters I wouldn't even know what a period was and my sisters helped me out a lot. Edit: Ummm.... so I didn't think this was gonna get that much attention so thanks I guess?? Edit 2: 1k likes????

[@amateurflor13]

my father raised me and any time i tried to even remotely say something super basic, like at the smallest level, he'd end the convo immediately. then he gets annoyed that i feel too awkward to ask for pads so i just struggle and figure it out myself. i mean now i'm working and am in college n whatnot but it was so difficult to be comfortable early on.

[@ruchikajain8269]

Moaaa

[@bangstanforever9226]

Armyyy

[@heart_miffy_matzz]

@@ruchikajain8269 (:

[@heart_miffy_matzz]

@@amateurflor13 wow that must have been hard for u ): but im glad ur better now! also plz stay safe while working!

[@_Hyuckle_Beary_Channie]

The audacity fr. The last story: Husband “Because of YOUR cancer, I don’t know how to cook!” His lack of competence in feeding himself is staggering.

[@Kyutie.]

right?! EXACTLY!

[@jaecityzen3415]

Not to be that person😭 but I like your pfp😎

[@timetravelingpenguin]

Exactly! Like if he hates frozen food so much why doesn't he just grow up and learn how to cook for himself? It's not that difficult Also him saying his health is declining just because of some frozen food, while his wife is standing right there with cancer

[@topaz9655]

honestly if i was the wife i probably would have just said "i have cook books if u need them, but i'm surprised a grown man can't fend for himself. what will u do if this cancer takes me?"

[@_Hyuckle_Beary_Channie]

@@jaecityzen3415 💚💚thanks, right back at you haha

[@gaxalee7392]

One time when I was on my period, I accidentally dripped a little blood on the toilet seat, and because I didn’t notice it, I left it there. My brother went to use the bathroom and noticed the blood. He calmly and politely told me about it and asked me to clean it up. I was around 14-15 at the time, and he was around 16-17. That “man” in the first story is an immature loser and a disgrace to the very idea of manhood. Also, the amount of people who think giving birth is some kind of spectator sport and not a dangerous and traumatic experience lacks some of the necessary components to be a good spouse/parent. If you aren’t the one giving birth, you don’t decide who can be there.

[@McFlurrArtt]

yes, and watching someone be in pain and potentialy crap themselves while giving birth is weird enough yet wants someone in the same room, the person giving birth isn't comfy with.. ridiculous

[@tyna3778]

RIGHT OH MY GOD

[@swingingduck8960]

I like to imagine him taking her to court for it (for whatever silly reason🤡🤡) and the judge just being like “lol silly man you’re not the one birthing babies”

[@Mythical4227]

The first one is like being mad that your kid starts bleeding after being cut and was throwing away bandaids. “How dare your body bleed?! That’s gross! Don’t let me see that! Not like you can just stop bleeding from the cut because it’s natural!”

[@Kyutie.]

that's such a good analogy!!

[@heart_miffy_matzz]

ikr?!!? LIKE WHAT KIND OF PARENT IS THAT???????

[@Stariii_]

@@heart_miffy_matzz a bad and immature one

[@eiyyi9738]

EXACTLYYYYY UGHHH IT'S NATURAL AND WE CANNOT JUST CLOT EVERYTHING IN OUR PATHS-

[@Jacob-he3sn]

If the dad was someone that could not stand the sight of blood like phobia bad, then I suppose he wouldn’t be so bad. Problem is I don’t think that’s the case, so yeah he’s being immature.

[@insertusernamehere3173]

Half these people felt bad for literally just telling people to be decent humans. It makes me sad.

[@mingfanzhang8927]

XD

[@estherwinterflood3299]

Sadly that's what gaslighting does T-T

[@jrooksable]

I'm a guy who grew up with 3 brothers, no sisters, I sired 2 sons no daughters & even I knew better than to berate a girl for menstruating!

[@jrooksable]

I even understood why when the younger daughter on The World According To Jim the older daughter got SERIOUSLY distraught because her younger sister started menstruating first!😇

[@kimtaehyungswife9272]

The first story was my favorite. Honestly, I love guys that are kind enough to help a girl through periods. I’ve never had a brother, but I applaud the brother in the first story for helping out his sister and standing up for her.👏🏻Thanks for another video, Kyutie! I love the pink hair too, by the way! You look absolutely gorgeous!😀

[@mingfanzhang8927]

Same

[@heart_miffy_matzz]

same. also love ur name

[@animeowokage-san89]

Same. I think it's sweet for guys to help girls with their periods. I honestly hate that prank where girls tell guys fake female product names they need to make a guy look stupid at the store, when they were nice enough to try looking for it in the first place.

[@winniethepooht5776]

Absolutely. If I had a brother, I would want him to be like that. The son was more of a man than the father, sad. Also, Tata is mine, girl, you're too late.

[@markcollins2666]

Growing up, my Dad did all the household shopping, because he drove, and my mother didn't. We kids loved to go along to help carry everything. So I was familiar with Mom's special items, long before knowing what they were for. Most importantly, I never learned to feel guilt or shame, to purchase such things, as a male. How silly!

[@Jayy_Zz]

I almost cried when the guy said all that stuff to the girl in the last story. I feel so bad for her! She deserves better than that piece of garbage. If my partner had cancer, I would shower them with love and take care of them until they recovered! I think everyone would do the same thing.

[@wynxus]

Well,unfortunately the Earth isnt the Earth without hard headed and ignorant people.

[@tintinismybelgian]

I'm reminded of the movie 50/50.

[@generalhellcat7047]

yeah like he's going around parading ''my life is also affected too'' like it's anywhere near as bad as OP's because mofo had to eat a fkin microwaved meal like oooh noooo get over yourself man

[@michaelajefferson2874]

Honestly he has no excuse to be stressed my grandad rest in peace. Was sick for as long as i knew him. He was on dialysis until he died. However he never raised his voice at my grandma. He was always fixing up the house. Mowing the lawn as weak aa he was. My grandma ended up with breast cancer. Even while he was getting his treatments he got up and took her to all her appointments. On days he was too tired and weak to move. They were taking care of each other. My grandma couldnt bare the stress it was on him. She told him that she was gonna stop treatment. He told her no and said your treatment has an end date. Mines dont mines wont be ovee until i die. So yes im tired but you gonna keep going. She kept fighting because she had to take care of him. Shortly after he passed away but at least i still have my grandma. And grandad suffering finally ended.

[@anagharao4170]

I had heard of dads and other male family members not really helping or understanding their daughter/sister's period and considering it taboo. After hearing that first story, I feel pretty fortunate that my dad was so understanding. I do have my mom around, so she did help me a lot with understanding how my body worked, but my dad was usually the one who would research what pads were best for me or if I was ready for a tampon and overall help me out with my period when it started(he's a stay at home dad, and my mom goes to work. So he'd be around most of the time when it started). So I thought it was super sweet that the brother was mature enough to understand and help his sister through her first period😃

[@maxstone6545]

Aww, your dad sounds fantastic! It’s so ridiculous how taboo periods are, it’s pathetic. We don’t get a choice, these things just happen to us, it’s not our fault! We don’t deserve to be ostracized for something we can’t control. Again, your dad sounds so amazing. I’m really happy for you :) the first story warmed my heart too haha

[@alanabanana752]

The lasts story makes me sick. How dare he guilt his wife into feeling bad about a sickness that is literally killing her. The fact that he seems more upset by how her cancer is inconveniencing him than her, the one who is actually physically and probably mentally suffering and the one who actually HAS IT. What is wrong with people, and how long had he been saying these kinds of things for her to FINALLY snap, along with the fact that she even felt bad afterwords? Smh.

[@nekomataumbreon]

I've gone through something similar, except I don't have cancer and I wasn't a s.o. My grandparents conditioned me to believe that I should feel bad whenever I get sick and that I'm not worthy of medical attention. Joke's on them, now my lungs don't work well and they're on the verge of losing everything.

[@alanabanana752]

@@nekomataumbreon I’m sorry that you’ve had to go through that. No one should blame another person for something they can’t control, especially a child. Stay strong! ❤️❤️❤️

[@kimtaehyungswife9272]

The story of the woman with breast cancer broke my heart and made me mad. My mom has breast cancer for the fourth time and it’s metastatic, and one thing I’ve learned is to appreciate people around me, especially my mother. My mother often asks me to go pickup her medicine, and I never complain because it’s just a simple errand and not to mention it’s what’s keeping her alive. And I do my best to never argue with her and I do my best to never make her feel bad. I feel so bad for that woman with breast cancer. I wish all the best for her and for everyone out there dealing with this horrible disease. Stay strong.💪🏻

[@autumnblackbull8798]

(not related) but no I’m taehyungs wife bro 🥴

[@winniethepooht5776]

@@autumnblackbull8798 no, I am! Jimin is in your pfp, take him, they're all a good choice. Leave me and my man with a perfectly symmetrical face alone.

[@autumnblackbull8798]

@@winniethepooht5776 i meannnn jimins still my bae 4 life so iguesss 😩😩

[@winniethepooht5776]

@@autumnblackbull8798 wow, most armys would've put up more of a fight. 😕Well, now I feel kind of....empty....no fight...no struggle...is this what life would be like if the internet were polite?

[@jadedawes2556]

I totally agree. It reminds me of how my Grandad treats my Granny (lung cancer, not breast cancer) and it's disgusting. Like, sure, it's stressful for everyone involved, but the person with cancer is going through it more. They're the one who has to do all the stuff, take all the medicine and could die...

[@piegirl8263]

That last one filled me with rage, you don't take out your rage on someone like that especially when it's something they can't control

[@vcandrewsfan12]

The husband can decide who is in the delivery room when HE is the one who carried the child and is the one delivering the child.

[@annhans3535]

I was thinking the same thing. Also, it seems like his mom does not even want to be in the room. He wants fairness, he should spread his legs apart and have OP's mom look at his manly bits.

[@marshmallowsaremyrolemodel6406]

Exactly! If he was carrying the baby, he could decide who’s in the room. But he is not, therefor, he doesn’t have a say.

[@fredericksaxton9782]

??? Okay. But people with penises don't have a choice at all then, even though it's also THEIR BABY. I understand, but I also feel like people don't understand it's men's babies to, even if they literally physically CAN'T GET PREGNANT. Heck, if he could I'm sure he would, but you're asking for a biological impossibility. It's completely bias.

[@anonymouse2059]

@@fredericksaxton9782 but she is the one going through the stress, and if someone in their gives her more stress(eg the mother in law), she can choose to not have her their cause she make her feel uncomfortable

[@joelroman6839]

I had no friends or sisters when I started my period at 12, and having autism did not make the adjustment any easier. My dad already left my mom the year before, but I can’t IMAGINE what it would be like if the roles were reversed and if he made me feel ashamed for having to go through a natural part of life.

[@iwasthebugatsowoozoomuster2021]

I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. I hope you are doing okay now. Cheer up coz the fact that we are alive is enough for us to be respected and loved as humans. More power to you.

[@joelroman6839]

@@iwasthebugatsowoozoomuster2021 Thanks

[@bichitenshi6696]

Last story pisses me off so much. She is absolutely valid to react to his "vents" in such a way. It's not a healthy thing to do if it requires you to demean your partner and blame them for something they have no control over.

[@madelinevance8954]

I'm pregnant. I don't see why the husband thought it was such a big deal to have his mother there. It is a big deal who you bring in the delivery room, but not because those people are more special than anyone else. You bring them because they make you feel comfortable and calm and who will encourage you during the process. I will have my husband, mom, and sister there because they are the three people who I feel the most comfortable around. I have two other sisters, but neither of them are very positive people. While I love them both very dearly, I wouldn't feel comfortable giving birth with them present, and I'm pretty sure they don't want to be present either. The one giving birth should be the one to decide who she gives birth around.

[@shadowboxer1]

0:05: Just imagine how pissed the dad would be if the girl flush her you-know-what down the toilet. 4:06: The woman absolutely has the right who get's to be in the room when she gives birth. 7:04: That self-absorbed jerk of a husband doesn't even realize that it wasn't her choice to get cancer.

[@phoenix5719]

Did that man-child in the last story really didn't think this through before marriage? Did he not know that his partner is a human and can fall ill? People like these should stay lonely their whole life. And that's not called venting, it's called complaining and blaming. He should put himself in her shoes and see how it feels. I will not be surprised if this dude divorces his wife in her tough time and give up on her in midway.

[@Mary-zj9jz]

yes venting if you say something like(talking more to the cancer that her)then say sorry that was wrong to keep saying while doing things to make her life easier learning to make a least easy meals for the both of you, keeping the house up so she can rest and just being there.

[@L0LB1TPL3AS3-STAND-BY]

Okay for the last story, my mom had cancer, I didn’t understand it at the time but I never blamed her for not being able to do stuff with me for months. I cried without seeing her yet I didn’t say everything like that. I went through half if not all of first grade without a mother figure standing waiting for me at home. It hit harder because she was a stay at home. I cannot believe some people.

[@phoenix5719]

I believe that the woman in the last story is also stay at home, since she spoke about warm meals and all and her husband mostly stays out for business.

[@L0LB1TPL3AS3-STAND-BY]

@@phoenix5719 That sucks man she deserved better 💔

[@Mythical4227]

Best brother award goes to~

[@Kyutie.]

i know right!!

[@Mythical4227]

@@Kyutie. love ur vids btw!

[@leighlasley4746]

With the first story I get the dads frustration, but the way he dealt with it was horrible. He should’ve calmly explained to wrap the pad up in toilet paper. (This is common practice, atleast where I’m from. Not just to hide the sight and mess of blood, but also the smell.) Yelling at her when she’s already stressed about the situation happening (it being her first) isn’t going to make anything easier. Just say “You need to wrap up your products before you throw them away baby” it’s that easy.

[@sofiamahon6098]

but the thing is she DID she wrapped them in toilet paper

[@leighlasley4746]

@@sofiamahon6098 I don’t think she did, the paragraphs said there was just paper on top. If she’d wrapped it, they wouldn’t have seen blood unless there was so much it was seeping out of the sides of the pad and through the wrap. (Which in that case, is a little bit concerning 😅)

[@sofiamahon6098]

@@leighlasley4746 I must have misread it, but still, she had no other woman to tell her to wrap it up. And it shouldn´t have a big deal anyways.

[@leighlasley4746]

@@sofiamahon6098 That’s exactly what I said in my original comment, it should’ve just been a “make sure to wrap your products up” not a yell at her like she’s committed a crime.

[@cloudiiblossom]

@@leighlasley4746 Where i live, we dont really do that so its not common practice everywhere. Just fold it up and put it blood side down

[@harryboyes2812]

First story. As a guy with a lot of female relatives, and who has cleaned public toilets for a living, in the process coming across used pads, used tampons, and from time to time blood all over the cubicle, I can say that father is a wimp. It's part of a perfectly natural process and if he can't handle it, then yeah he needs to grow up. Last story. Is that fool for real? His wife didn't choose to have cancer. I've lost far too many people to it, and his gripe is pathetic.

[@penguinz3438]

I hate how they feel bad for it. Like, they’re all in such toxic situations and them feeling bad for fighting back REALLY frustrates me.

[@giannaeevee664]

Love you, Kyutie! You always make me feel better, and your videos make me laugh so much!

[@Kyutie.]

aww yay thank you!!!

[@thaobui7805]

you laughed????

[@alizakhan7586]

The first story is my favourite it melts my heart of how an amazing brother he is and he looks out for sister and he learing her about her period. He will be an amazing husband, dad and uncle

[@lkayh]

Being a caregiver for a loved one is stressful, and it’s normal to feel some frustration and resentment. Feelings aren’t fair-the caregiver is usually giving up their own needs to care for the loved one and it’s hard. The trick is to find ways to vent those feelings without dumping them on the loved one, who is also struggling. Sounds like that husband needs a caregiver support group, or to bring in respite care for a day or two and go fishing-anything to get his head on straight so he can be strong for his wife.

[@umasvlogsanddisabilityreso9377]

The first story: Good on the brother for helping his sister when she probably confided in him on her first period and he helped out getting her tampons, pads, or whatever she uses now. Honestly if Dad was having that much of a bad day he shouldn’t be punishing his daughter about her FIRST PERIOD. She wasn’t going to foresee it days beforehand but she now likely does because of PMS and because of the calendar built in app she may have on her phone or apps like Clue and Flo. If no one who lives with her is a woman, all men could do (dad and brother) is live with it and help out during her first few periods and get her her products when she runs out of them and they’re at the drug store. I get Dad was in a bad mood but kudos to big brother for sympathizing with her!

[@umasvlogsanddisabilityreso9377]

Second story: Honestly the wife is right in this situation. I’d want my blood relative (mom or closest thing to a mom blood related or not) to be with me. My mom died when I was 10, heck I’d have my dad or stepmom if they don’t die by the time I have kids. Mom shouldn’t have someone who makes her uncomfortable in the room while she pushes a baby out. If the husband can’t respect that and leaves her over it, wow….

[@umasvlogsanddisabilityreso9377]

Third: This husband should be supporting his wife, not treat her like she’s the cause of all his problems. My grandfather has had early stage cancer pop up everywhere 25 ish times and he’s still with us even with a tiny piece of lung left that survived COVID because he’s vaccinated but now we’re watching his lungs like hawks at his check up in a few days because that’s how bad his lungs cancer and COVID made them. Grandma gets stressed but she doesn’t blame his chronic health issues on HER problems.

[@staciecarrel4492]

For a lot of girls period tracking and predicting apps wont be of any use for at least a couple of years after their first period. It takes awhile for a girl’s body to get into any sort of rhythm that can be predictable, some never have regular periods their entire lives. I never did, and no one in my immediate family does either.

[@umasvlogsanddisabilityreso9377]

@@staciecarrel4492 true, they don’t work for me but it’s different for everyone

[@tortoisejojo5253]

omg YOUR HAIR LOOKS SO GOOD

[@JesusKreist]

First story: He would only have been wrong if he slapped his dad, as then he would have shown that he is not more mature than his father. Complaining about used hygiene products in the closed trash bin that your own daughter needed is _very_ childish behavior. I suspect this isn't the first time the dad acted irrationally, only the latest example.

[@mejustaverage9927]

Hello Kyutie✌️🤗 #1- In my opinion, the dad was being too much, like the pad is in the trash can, why is he freaking out, and it's hard for the sister because it's her first time having her period, the least he could do is be supportive #2- I feel her husband is pulling a stunt to get his way, to make her rethink her decision, tbh she shouldn't, he's not going thru pain for a second time, and his mother makes his wife uncomfortable and they don't really like each other, so the wife isn't in the wrong, the husband is being childish #3- who asked him to quit his job? Who asked him to drive and get her medicine for her? No one but he decided to do it for her, and now he's complaining for something she can't control, there are things you can't control and can't plan for, she didn't ask for cancer but she got it and all she needs is support, not disgust

[@LonelyWriter26]

I could never fight with my parents, I get in so much trouble lmao. It's safe to say I wouldn't be watching these videos for a long while if I did that.

[@iloveplasticbottles]

That cancer one... I get that it can be hard to see a loved one go through cancer, but there's no reason for you to take it out on them.

[@Lelianora]

"Your cancer" thats one hell of a way to find out he never really cared about you. I hope she survived and left him.

[@aisadal2521]

Fighting with parents is a lost cause; the moment you talk back is when you lose, sad as it is to say. They know enough tactics to guilt trip and shame you into backing off, so really, you're better off keeping quiet, as much as it sucks to say

[@mingfanzhang8927]

XD

[@jrooksable]

You obviously don't have adult children!😱

[@marshmallowbautista9559]

depends on your realtionship with your parents

[@phoenix5719]

@@jrooksable Doesn't work, I'm 21 and live with my parents (India). If I protest for as simple things like a bit of privacy, they start guilt tripping me like - 'I carried you for 9 months and this is how you treat me?'.

[@jrooksable]

@@phoenix5719:trust me ma'am(?)...you've never been in trouble in your LIFE as intimidating as being in trouble with your adult children!😜

[@DeletedUser_0000]

The first one is so wholesome! The brother deserves the world

[@BlairHatchet-childofapollo13]

It happens monthly! He can just deal with it or he shouldn’t have had kids!

[@julie-fz3cl]

hi kyutie! I’ve been watching your videos for maybe an year now. your content just keeps getting better! love u and keep doing what u love ❤️

[@Kyutie.]

thank you so much for sticking around!!

[@frith.calluna]

Judging from the last guy's behavior, I wouldn't be surprised if he is or is on the brink of becoming physically abusive. He laid the groundwork by planting this seed in OPs mind that it's somehow her fault and hoping she'll believe it. Then he can use that to justify his abuse. This is honestly one of the most upsetting stories I've heard in a while. Not to make light of OPs illness, but I think it's fair to say OPs husband is like a second tumor and I personally think she should leave his butt before this escalates. Someone who would say something like that (continuously!) is only going to make things worse in the long run. Also, side note, why is he so upset that he has to eat a microwave dinner because OP can't cook? Does he not have hands?? I can't cook but even I would either try to just make a dish myself or shut up and just eat the microwave dinner if I was in his situation. What a clown.

[@pinetree9475]

I LOVE THE NEW HAIR OMG

[@sravyapatibandla4259]

My dad is strict, whenever I do something wrong he wouldn't mind to give me a slap. And I'm used to it so it's ok. But he is super gentle and polite when it comes to periods. He never complained and he just made sure that I was always ok. and when I get cramps he never hesitated to comfort me an help me. Yes I do sometimes hate my dad because of other reasons but I'm glad that he knows how to cooperate

[@thelordnaevis4946]

Hello Ellen, I just wanted to say that I love that you post everyday and I love watching ur vids, I hope you keep this channel growing

[@airasyifaathaya8920]

The first guy's definitely a man. Hope he gets a partner he deserves.

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

I hope your day is going well kyutie! ❤️❤️

[@quietworld2267]

The sister is lucky to have a brother like that, who would help her out- 🥺🥺 STAN HIM

[@julianbigelow2794]

8:30 If only there were some magical way for him to cook food for himself.

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

I love this video! The first one: the brother is so nice and mature, and the dad, well, not so much😅😅

[@julianbigelow2794]

5:42 The husband left the house and the wife has not seen him since. I do not know the full story, no one ever really will. However, unless his safety was threatened or some illegal activity was going on, I say that walking out on his pregnant wife was an over reaction.

[@snastheskeledude4905]

The last lady needs to get a disvorce, you can' be happy with someone who constantly blames you for something you can't control. >:((

[@nada401]

Yay new video!!! You look amazing btw 😭💖💕💕💕💕

[@Kyutie.]

yay!! aw thank u!!

[@mayonnaiseandbaloney6642]

SELF DEFENSE!!! WOOOOO

[@duaaouznali1176]

27 minutes ago and we stand for the 1st guy!

[@arcticxabyss]

the dad's reaction to seeing his daughters used pad in the trash is immature and childish. he should've been happy that she at least threw it into the trash, instead of acting like it was the literal worst thing that he's ever seen. nobody is forcing his childish butt to look at it. as for the other brother, kudos to him for handling his little sister's first period in a mature way and educating himself on what all he needs to do to be able to 100% help her. the way he handled was VERY impressive and it's great that he was able to help his sister not feel like garbage for something that's a million percent normal.

[@qbbi]

ooh I love stories like this!

[@rahafalali1911]

All the ppl who were being bleeps can go and suck it up, like they're not the ones going through all the pain that the women in this story are going through.

[@ruby2340]

your new hair looks really good :))

[@huddifyx5550]

Husband forgot about the "in sickness and in health" bit

[@powerofk]

Looks like all these people being snapped at have underlying issues. Doesn’t make their behavior acceptable, but other stuff is going on. Okay, story 1 - Dad’s really just not ready to accept that his baby girl is growing up. And probably not really confident in his ability to help. Story 2 - sounds like hubby is missing his mother, who he hasn’t seen or talked to in a while, and probably figured that her 2nd grandchild’s birth would be a great opportunity for him to see her. Story 3 - hubby is dealing with caregiver burnout. He’s been so focused on caring for his wife that he hasn’t been taking care of himself.

[@topaz9655]

these people need therapy

[@quit83636]

WOW! these people have some nerve… but I’m glad these people stood up to them

[@CarlosArturoVelarde]

I can’t believe a grown man would have an issue with a little blood! That has never stopped me from doing anything I wanted to do. “A period stops nothing but a sentence,baby girl” is one of my favorite memes.

[@cloudiiblossom]

No, the cramps hurt too much for me to do anything. ;-; But i get if he had a phobia of blood but he can simply explain to THE TWELVE YEAR OLD to wrap it in toilet paper (she covered it but its always best to wrap it)

[@yeet8627]

the first story pissed me off so much oh god 💀 it’s not like the daughter wanted to have a period. and where is she gonna put the used pads aside from the trash bin??? what throw it into the neighbor’s roof?? it’s not like she can stop it. props to the brother for sticking up for her tho

[@cloudiiblossom]

And if she flushes it the dads gonna be even more mad for clogging the toilet

[@leigh-anjohnson]

Girls have to deal with living with this issue as early as age ten, but this grown ass adult can't handle seeing a little bit of it. The dad seriously needs to grow the f up. That's his child. Everything that she has to deal with is for the parent to help her deal with.

[@cloudiiblossom]

Plus, as someone with a period its not that much blood.

[@QuittedBye..]

Happy Star Wars day Kyutie

[@mingfanzhang8927]

XD

[@Emily-eq1ts]

Oh my god the husband is not even an eighth as affected as his wife! She didn't choose to develop a life threatening condition!

[@mishtip2476]

You are one of my favorite KZbinrs kyutie! Keep up the amazing work!!!!!!!!!

[@julianbigelow2794]

4:50 Husband: It seems unfair that your mom gets to be in the delivery room and mine does not. Wife: It sounds about as fair as us both getting to be parents to this child while only one of us has to push it give birth.

[@nicolevose3066]

The clamoring for complete equality of outcome is selective.

[@AllyBubblesSpriggs]

1: Your sister appreciated you yelling at dad. 2: Divorce! Not cause of the argument, but vanishing like a spoiled kid. 3: DIVORCE!!!!!!!

[@bqshka2434]

I love this channel even more now that its a bit quieter

[@YourFavRatQueen]

For the first story there was only one adult in the house and it wasn’t the dad

[@eileenhathaway1674]

I was taught to wrap the tampon in TP before throwing it the trash and when I switched to pads I just kept the plastic wrap it came in and wrapped the pad up in that. It is not that hard and this shouldn't be a issue. Nice brother!

[@bruh-js7tz]

the husband in the story about having her mother in law be there when she gives birth, imagine how much stress she felt of the chance that he was gone for good, and that she had to raise her children alone. it's disgusting that the husband would even pull something like that.

[@allisonickes8173]

I lobe the fact the brother helped his sister. The fact that he called and asked hus female friends for help also amazing friends as well. She didnt have a female to go to her brother made sure she did

[@kaneki18-d1t4]

As for someone who had a mother who suffered from breast cancer I can understand how his wife's condition was dragging him down. I know it's not easy but that's no excuse to be an abusive partner. This woman clearly deserves someone better than him

[@julianbigelow2794]

5:10 Husband: Since you to choose who was in the delivery room last time, I should be able to choose this time. Wife: Since I had to push a human being out of my vagina last time, it is only fair that you should give birth this time.

[@SavouryGalette]

That last story's husband really cares more about his job than his own wife.

[@sassbrat]

My dad to this day will get me my period products, granted he does get the wrong ones all the time but they last until i can get to the store. The looks he gets make him a little made but he tells some men that called him some names that at least he is a man that will do anything for his daughter and that he loves her more which is more than he can say about you. The other fathers and guys shut the heck up and walk away. Yes he does have issues with some of the products laying around but he's not a jerk about it.

[@julianbigelow2794]

3:10 Ellen would never be able to tell her parents to grow up. That is unfair, parents tell their teenage children to grow up all the time. This is usually said by parents who treating their teens like little kids. You, the child, are constantly told to grow up, and most of the time you didn't even say or do anything, the parent is responding to the goblins in their head. However, if you say "grow up" to an adult who totally had it coming, that is not cool?

[@nicolevose3066]

As someone who dealt with harassment and verbal abuse perpetrated by teachers as a kid, this resonates with me.

[@riah2302]

First story, I relate to. Except for it was my ex-boyfriend's stepdad. I had started my period in the middle of the night while staying over at his house for the night and his stepdad decided to get mad at me and started screaming at me. Told me I had to clean it up instantly even though I was feeling sick to my stomach and was about to puke because it hurts so bad. I literally cried for like 3 hours and ask for my mom to pick me up. I don't understand what the hell is up with men sometimes.

[@rebeccarankin9455]

The husband in the last story is venting to the wrong person. He needs to tell those things to a therapist or a caregiver's support group, or even a friend. He is allowed to have feelings and be upset that his plans and life had to change also, but definitely needs a third party to express those things to instead of making his wife feel guilty.

[@tintinismybelgian]

Someone else's cancer cannot affect you as much as it does that person. You cannot die from someone else's cancer. That person can.

[@astrovoid9393]

YOUR HAIR!!!!! LOOKS AMAZING!!!!!

[@bembolbug]

Geez, these people istg… now i have to look at puppy and kitten videos to destress with all that

[@topaz9655]

the father in that first story shouldn't have been allowed to have a daughter. it was just me and my dad growing up so i didn't have a woman to help me so when my dad thought i was old enough, he sat me down and explained what was going to be happening to my body soon and that it was normal. when my period started and i tried to cover up the blood but could still see some of it, he didn't freak out. he just gave me some useful tips on how to better cover them up. he even told me "i personally don't care to see blood. but if we end up going out in public or to someone's house, it's just common courtesy to make sure that is completely covered up." i never felt ashamed of my periods, just that the blood shouldn't be visible to everyone

[@gabbyberry8438]

Your hair looks amazing

[@dBlackPaperMoonb]

Guys - doing the minimum shouldn’t be that praised. As a guy, I help my sister through her period too. Bc she is my sister. It’s the same thing as if she is sick. I would bring her tea etc. that what a older silbling has to and should do.

[@cloudiiblossom]

yeah but yk he actually talked to female friends and stuff to help instead of buying random pads and giving them to her. a TINY bit more than the bare minimum

[@tiffanyhaddox7499]

I have money on the guy in that last story trying for a divorce, but not wanting the narrative to be that he left her because she was diagnosed with cancer.

[@numberoneDazaiDefender]

the second story makes me so mad. giving birth is such a dangerous situation, and it’s traumatic for the mother. she gets to decide who is in there to make her feel comfortable and safe, not the husband, and if he doesn’t respect that- divorce.

[@demille333]

I am in LOVE with ur new hair

[@silverstarmoon5802]

The first story, this is what father (who is narrowed minded toward their daughters and blaming them for their natural bodies functions) lose their daughter and wouldn't surprise the daughter cut contact on their dad.

[@peachbunni3]

The period story was shocking. What kind of father would act that way? She’s gonna grow up feeling ashamed about her monthly. Not okay. When I met my husband and I had my period for the first time around him? I had dropped a little blood on the floor (without knowing) and he just cleaned up and let me know later. I was so apologetic and embarrassed and he just said “Honey, calm down. It’s natural. It’s only gross when it’s a stranger. Not a lover or a family member.” I am proud to be having daughter’s with him in the future, and sons. With him none of our children will feel shamed or feel grossed out by it.

[@marytichelaar7225]

Okay first story, that's brother is awesome! He's setting a good example for what guys should be doing during a girls period! Second Story it's up to her who she has in the delivery room, the husband has no right to be so butt hurt about not being able to have his mom in there. Grow up And finally the third story! She has cancer be supportive! If you want to complain it do it to a therapist not your wife who has cancer, and who by the way needs your support! You are correct that this is your problem too, however it's incorrect to not be supportive and help her as she needs it and not complain about her cancer every day as though it was her choice! It wasn't her choice if she had her way she wouldn't have cancer at all. In a fantasy setting that is what her desires would be to not have cancer at all. But that's not the reality of it, the reality is she has cancer! And you complaining about it every single day is not helping mr.! So do yourself a favor stop complaining and be helpful!

[@estherbatesel8627]

Unfortunately that is exactly what happened to me. My step mom made me take mine out to the dumpster in our appartment no matter the weather or the time.

[@Bendythedancingdemon-gc7zy]

For the first story, I’m a female and I can’t help getting periods, I get grossed out by them too, that’s no reason for the dad in the story to be bitching and complaining about it

[@latebloomer9839]

Sometimes I forgot to put the used pad in the trash can and leave it on the toilet seat wrapped in paper or plastic. My younger brother often see that first and ask me normally to take the pad from there. He is 8 years younger than me and I started my period at quite young age ( 9years old) . At first my brother didn't have the idea what is pad or what's inside the packets sometimes he find in bathroom. He just ask my parents or me about that. My parents are also cool about the incidents. We taught him gradually about the male and female body differences and other things. He is quite understanding and smart compared to his classmates. I am so proud of him.

[@lightningsamurai4482]

I've had to fight back people a couple of times. I won't mention names, but I had a heated argument with them, which I won't go into details. The next day the person threatened to send me to the hospital. I told him that he didn't scare me. He got angry & threw the 1st punch & couple of more after that, but didn't hit me. I kicked his stomach & he fell down out of reflex. That was during the time I was at my old dojo & the reason why I mentioned that part is because when you properly train in martial arts your reflexes do increase & I'm not saying not just in fighting, but other things in general. I was a white belt in Karate at the time. The school was called Christian Karate Institute, which was in Belleville NJ USA, but it's been shut down for quite a while now. The instructor was Michael Morris. Back when I was younger, 1 kid put a tootsie roll in my nose. He tried to do it again, but I twisted his hand & threw him. We were both at a school bus when this happened. The teachers knew that he instigated the fight because he had a track record of starting fights & I didn't get in trouble for it. When I was on a computer I was pushed off. He was walking away, but went after him & then kicked him in the back. He didn't fall down, but it got his attention. I ended up getting a black eye, but I ended up choking the adams apple, and made it harder for him to breathe. He was complaining about it later on & a specific person didn't believe him, but then years later I admitted to actually doing. It wasn't a laptop. It was 1 of the old '03 or '04 Dell computers where they had .

[@michaelajefferson2874]

The first story is baffeling to me cause my dad never freaked out. He even goes and by me pads when i nees them. He also makes sure pain medictaion is in there. When i get sick from being on my period he gets me cough medicine. People are really weird and i dont understand it.

[@karasanchez9720]

Love it ellennn 💜💜💜

[@AlexJReil]

Inviting someone into a delivery room is not like inviting someone to your wedding. It’s not ‘sure come on in and be part of this special moment with me’ it’s ‘I’m doing something hard and overwhelming and need to be surrounded only by those who will make it easier for me.’ You aren’t hosting anything and it should not be treated that way.

[@4dystopian_edits6]

I read the original AITA post for the second story. God I hate her husband so much and I’ve never met him.

[@alexismyers6053]

If the last guy was my husband, he would have been put in his place the first time he said that by my guard dog of a grandma who would have absolutely torn up one side of him and down the other before telling me to pack my bags because I was staying with her until he learned to be a man.

[@mintiecandaycaynsantieclau3134]

It just seems like a lot of entitled people in the stories (not counting the victims)