Being a Gold-Digger

[@missy67]

If the defendant didn't want to hang out with the plaintiff anymore, she shouldn't have accepted the money. She was using him, and it was apparent by the text JM brought up in court. And calling him a loner that sits in his car to embarrass him - she just showed what type of person she is.

[@payableondeath9091]

💯She is what we call a 🐍

[@small_joys2022]

I think she believes she is irrestible and would get away with making a sucker out of him. Hopefully seeing this video has made her realise otherwise.

[@2ShayZeeGe]

He's too old to be trying to buy 😹 this is the second episode of an old man trying to buy love. Hate the player not the game

[@kdmac7425]

@@2ShayZeeGe If a man does it to a woman is it okay 👍

[@missy67]

@@2ShayZeeGe Whatever his intentions were, she agreed to pay him back, and she didn't.

[@jessicaflagella31]

It's so funny how people become stalkers after they get their "gifts" 😭😂 but not when they're trying to give you the gift

[@3vrodriguez]

He shouldn’t be embarrassed for using his time the way he wants. He’s doing nothing wrong.

[@Geronimo2Fly]

Yep. I take care of both of my elderly parents, as well as work full time. When I have free time, I love to sit on my recliner with my feet up, watch TV, munch on snacks and cuddle with my pets. I don't care what anyone thinks about that. If the man wants to sit in a Walmart parking lot and listen to the radio as his way of relaxing, then good for him.

[@VirtualLunacy]

As someone who spends day and night looking after my bed-ridden mother... If I have 15 min to go to the grocery store and just walk around chatting with humans, I do it. I know people there must think I'm a loser, and I probably am, but that's about all the time I have for social activity.

[@pinkyshoes22]

Her moral compass is broken. If you know someone likes you and you take their money, you’re just wrong

[@chrispellicci6587]

She divorced and in whore mode.

[@tozieasmr7375]

🙏 exactly

[@raisatalavera2350]

Omg!! Literally what I just told my bf before the episode ended!! Yes!! Yes!! And yes!!

[@RoyalPurpleStar]

It’s not broken, she just doesn’t have a moral compass to begin with. She deliberately tricked the poor guy into “giving” her the money and cried foul immediately after because she never intended on paying him back in the first place. She’s one of those most despicable individuals I’ve seen. She disgusts me!🤮

[@Jahmai203]

How would he have known the EXACT amount to give her for her divorce if she didn't initiate the conversation? Soon after getting that money, he became a stalker and weird. Shame on her.

[@DeeLow120]

Stole my comment

[@rosariofrancis464]

I watch Judge Judy and she would have handled this woman more sternly. Piece by piece. Why would anyone want to pay for someone else’s divorce or back child support? I guess loneliness does that to us. I see case after case of lonely young women desperate for company doing this. The minute I am asked for money it’s bad sign.

[@b.j.817]

People like her don't have any shame.... Or soul

[@susiesolangesimpson2828]

You gave him a “ love is brewing” cup but y’all didn’t date? AW OK.

[@SimplyStay]

People kill me when they say “I didn’t ask for the money” as if that excuses them from paying it back. She didn’t turn it away, she didn’t give it back OR say “I can’t pay this back so IM NOT TAKING IT!” and walk away either! She KNEW what she was doing.

[@greenenergysolutionsteam]

Omg I just said the same thing.

[@traceyaz125]

Right! If she thought he was such a creep she would have refused when he “offered” the money. She knows she asked to borrow it and then decided she would stuff him. I’m glad he pursued it.

[@Geronimo2Fly]

Exactly what I came here to post. So many defendants use that line. It doesn't matter if they asked, or if they accepted an offer. Either way, they took the money and they have to pay it back.

[@marlenedonner4]

TRUTH!

[@thelmadickinson6811]

She has every excuse to not repay the money she borrowed.

[@talenttrading]

She’s got an excuse for everything else too

[@Alesana907]

She sure didnt have a problem taking the money from the "weird stalker"

[@tahjjj1488]

EXACTLY!🤔🧐

[@kacym.118]

As a 58 year old woman who in my younger days used a poor guy because I knew he was lonely and had a crush on me, I can spot a female like this from a mile off. I’m definitely NOT proud of how I treated this guy from my past. I changed. And guilt eat me up to the point of reaching out to this man and not only apologizing profusely, but paying him back with interest. Some women (like Ms. Prim & Proper) here, never change. She saw a man who is so obviously lonely and was attracted to her, and did just what women like this do. And she has likely been doing this since she was a young girl. I hope he finds a nice lady who sees his heart for what it is, and offers him the love he deserves. I hope she grows a conscience and never does this kind of thing again. Because she knew exactly what she was doing. Sad.

[@delenareed9731]

I applaud you @Kacy M. for acknowledging your past behavior and what you did to make things "right".👏👏👏👏

[@kacym.118]

@@delenareed9731 Thank you for your kind words. I don’t know if you’re a Christian or not, but God is Who changed my life and my heart.

[@delenareed9731]

@@kacym.118 yes I am a Christian....and I always believe in "do unto others as you would want others to do unto"....🙌🙌🙌

[@kacym.118]

@@delenareed9731 That’s a good way to live life. God bless… 💜✝️💜

[@rosariofrancis464]

Exactly.

[@jncuttie]

This woman absolutely used this man. She is gross

[@augustmoon9973]

I love how she tried belittling him, saying that "his big excitement is sitting in the Wal-Mart parking lot listening to the radio". 👁👁 Look honey, don't knock it until you try it, cause I sit in my car at least an hour after shopping watching KZbin before going home lol! 😁

[@lisavee4670]

True

[@WeezyJeffersonYo]

🤣😂 Me too, but we do that alone, right?

[@payableondeath9091]

They even have a designated area in their parking lot for vehicles that do that WALMART KNOWS ITS CUSTOMERS 🤣

[@belleame1064]

I've sat in the lot many times after an argument. Lol. Self care.

[@Jahmai203]

Exactly! And I'm nowhere near his age. 😂😂

[@SavageJunky]

"Give me your money and GTFO!" -Defendant

[@carolharris5455]

Can anyone imagine how deceptive the defendant was in her young years

[@MrXbeast4]

She ain’t worth no 5k and a house she tripping 😂

[@RoyalPurpleStar]

That’s exactly what I was thinking!🤣

[@pammy22]

Her ex husband will be very happy at the judgement 😂

[@annsayger5842]

She is way to old to be playing ole school games. 😂 No relationship...but can take $5, 000 + from him!!! She knew exactly what she was doing she's been around the block!

[@survivedandthriving]

Agreed. Young toxic people grow up to be old toxic people, and usually become more toxic as they go along. And this one is a toxic user. The plaintiff is way better off without her.

[@traceyaz125]

You can tell she thinks she’s all that and that he would roll over after fleecing him of five grand. She’s ridiculous.

[@pamelajordan2890]

He could buy something else a lot cheaper and a lot hotter,if you catch my drift..she was definitely using him..

[@christopherchance4860]

Remember you are paying her to leave, not for the "experience"

[@scotthewitt258]

And who would have actually delivered what she implied!

[@ThePracticalDog]

"I think he was trying to buy something else" 🤣🤣🤣 Trust me woman, you don't carry a 5K price tag, given what you bring to the table - you're on the clearance rack.

[@RoyalPurpleStar]

No kidding!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mamasaidknockyouout9335]

She bought him a mug & he fell in love. Imagine if she'd bought him a matching spoon to go with it. 😂😂😂😂

[@aderonkesalisu4035]

😂😂😂

[@francisbouwman5287]

🤣😂🤣😅

[@bruthamann5697]

She didn't ask for the money but she let him know she needed it. That's what Judge Mathis calls " Dry Begging " 😅

[@RoyalPurpleStar]

Dry begging? Ha, love it because that’s exactly what it is!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@looniebinn]

I kind of feel bad for the guy. She knew exactly what she was doing and seemed to "prey" on the guy to get that money. Once she got it, she ghosted and kicked him out of her life. What an absolute piece of trash leading him on like that. I hope he finds some friends or groups to get him socializing again to get his self esteem back up.

[@kydrasims9734]

He seems like a good guy too:(

[@z_ed]

Meh, dont try to date your co-workers estranged spouses 🤷

[@nycmamii]

I feel kinda bad for the plaintiff. She clearly took advantage of him. Hopefully he finds a nice & genuine lady… that’s NOT a coworker’s wife. 🙂

[@gtsound12]

She definitely used him. I’m sure she was interested until after she got the money and then he became annoying. SMH. Plus she started talking to another guy as well so she was a busy old lady.

[@CleveNative]

She was busy and bopping all around town 😂

[@AC081361]

Wow she’s a real piece of work 😮

[@Begotts]

You know you’re gonna lose when the judge calls you sweetheart!

[@grizzlyg4008]

I feel bad for that lonely old man.

[@NubianP6]

Poor guy. Hinging his hopes on a “Love is Brewing” mug. 😕 She clearly used him, but if we’re really being honest here, what kind of friend is he to go after HIS friend’s wife, while they were still married? 🤨 You got the mess that you signed up for. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@86bIDO52JF]

Exactly!

[@2ShayZeeGe]

Exactly

[@chrispellicci6587]

You wonder why guys give women these names

[@AP-xw5px]

@@chrispellicci6587 no we don’t. And this is not exclusive to women. Men use women all the time for sex it’s literally the biggest universal stereotype for men when it comes to women.

[@mamasaidknockyouout9335]

She bought him a cup & he fell in love 😂😂😂😂😂

[@NKMK7]

She is clearly lying . Even if it’s a gift. Still give it back if he wants his gift back.

[@Wlk1022]

Well legally, you can't ask for a gift back. But morally, if this was a gift, she should have given it back because she used him.

[@ajqueen31]

The fact that she insists she said she didn't have the money to pay him back to the plaintiff implies there was expectation for the plaintiff to be paid back because that amount of money is too much to be just a gift.

[@rosariofrancis464]

Exactamente.

[@survivedandthriving]

@7:11 (paraphrasing below): JM: are you saying that he wanted to buy your love so much that he just gave you $5000 for your divorce? Defendant: I think he was trying to buy something else, more than just attention. But I'm not that way and had no interest in a sexual relationship with him. OK, so basically the defendant is going through the trial with this smug little smirk on her face, and making this type of declaration as if she has some type of moral high ground. But, instead what she is saying is 'yes, Judge I knew this guy wanted more from me than I was ever willing to give so I played him, used him, and took advantage of him for $5000.' Yeah, lady that manipulative behaviour gives you (lady) only low moral ground, if you have any ground at all. And really, after talking about how she broke shutdown by having people come over to party in her basement she was already in the basement (pun intended) with her moral grounds to begin with. The plaintiff is better off without this toxic person in his life.

[@rosariofrancis464]

That’s why I say that when you meet someone new and they start asking for money, run fast in the opposite direction. They are in the relationship to use you as a bank. The borrower will always claim it was a gift and that the lender is a stalker for desperately trying to get the money back.

[@manthony777]

Adrian needs to set both of them straight.

[@ruhernan78]

😂😂

[@vidamccurdy9764]

Lol,true,well said

[@LeolaGlamour]

😂

[@Wlk1022]

Did Doug really question him about listening to the radio in the Walmart parking lot like it's just the craziest weirdest thing ever?!

[@jonnell9633]

Once a scammer always a scammer. If someone sees this and dates her it's all their fault

[@taylakurner]

I haven't even watched this yet, but seeing the title and that woman's sly smile, I could tell immediately she was up to no good 😂

[@CleveNative]

She's too old to be running game. Lady, pay up and stop making excuses!

[@justanothersmith6012]

I just don’t understand the mindset of people like this woman. Not only did she take advantage of him , likely pretending they had a future together, she’s just bold face lying about what her texts are referring to. 🤥 You can’t buy love.

[@barbarapaton4005]

Why did the defendant accept a ‘gift’ of $5000 if she thought the plaintiff had ulterior motives?? Give it back I say

[@RoyalPurpleStar]

The despicable defendant deliberately tricked the nice plaintiff into “giving” her the money and deliberately tried to embarrass him by telling the entire country that he had nothing to do but sitting in his car. She’s evil and disgusting!🤮

[@ThePracticalDog]

She took advantage of him being smitten with her, and he was a blind fool. If someone tells you they need money for a divorce and will pay you back in a month after they cash in their retirement, the response should be "cash in your retirement and THEN file for divorce" That way you're covering and paying for your own life decision and mistake - and if it's waited all of these years, it can wait another month.

[@tahjjj1488]

I agree with all but I don’t think he was a blind fool. This poor man was lonely and smitten. That lady is a user.

[@lisavee4670]

Doug is SO messy asking the Plantiff why he's in the Walmart parking lot listening to the radio... I would have said None of your business, DOUG!!!🤣

[@delenareed9731]

Doug is the best part of TPC!!!!

[@karenmccareon7325]

He's always trolling them in the hallway. I love it.

[@delenareed9731]

@mia nothing wrong with a lil alone time....just you and the music 🎶 😌

[@tahjjj1488]

That’s probably how he unwinds. Pre pandemic I would walk through Walmart to unwind. Now I listen to audio books.

[@Samirah313]

If he shows that mug ☕️ one more time, I’m going to find where he lives and go to his house and break it!!!

[@mangoyacho]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shellwilliams6306]

Doug....do you really have to add salt to the wound? "....you have to live with it"🤣🤣🤣

[@rayannesheahan7908]

I "gave" you $5,000 & all I got was this lousy mug 💀🤣

[@mangoyacho]

Thats so funny!

[@ChocoBeauty8]

She had his nose wide opened, and they just kissed straight finesse

[@CleveNative]

😭😭😭😭

[@HARRIS4276]

This lady is too told to be so full of it.

[@nberger6984]

He was trying to buy something …. But she’s not like that…. But she took payment lol

[@bertdonley513WHODEY]

Wow, someone is full of herself 🤣😂 JM the sexy and delicious took me! That was gold!

[@emilydevlin2961]

This guy is too nice for her! She seems like she thinks she's better than him, & is trying to embarass, shame him, & she is a bold-face liar! Disgusting! Somebody rains love, attention, affection, & money on you, & you put him down on nationaltelevision?! I would be happy to find a nice guy who treats me like this!

[@calilinda8397]

She’s a trick 🤦🏻🤡🤦🏻

[@debrahill2272]

To the Plaintiff, Everybody plays the fool sometimes..🤔🙄😬

[@looknbakatu]

“no exception to the rule”

[@debrahill2272]

@@looknbakatu So I take it you've heard the song by, ,The Main Ingredient..😃

[@chadbloomfield3510]

She claims that she couldn't get cash from her pension because she was in the middle of the divorce, but then talked about selling her house to him?? Her whole story makes no sense.

[@janets9179]

Why would you worry about your taxes in July when your tax return is due in April? If you are getting a retirement check, have 10% withheld, then calculate what you owe when you file your tax return.

[@jazzymoni7750]

He seems like a really nice, well-intentioned guy. He's probably very introverted and obviously read more into it than she did. She's a scammer who got what she wanted from him and then tried to play him. She clearly led him on. Girl, bye.

[@florcanela49]

I bet she took her ex for all he got, honey if you don't want men to think they have the right to ask you what kind of underwear you are wearing, then don't accept 5,000 from them. No one goes around throwing $$$$ for nothing. Someone will wipe that smirk you have and think is cute, if you keep on using people!!!! 😒

[@mamasaidknockyouout9335]

16:28 Doug: _"One more thing, she said that 1 of your favorite things was to just sit in the Walmart parking lot listening to the radio. Is that true? And if so, why?"_ 🤣🤣🤣 Oh the shadeeeee! Doug is ALWAYS trolling litigants after the cases are over. I'll bet plenty of people have cursed Doug out, but production people edit those moments out🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@djretro83]

This isn't the first time I've seen a negative response about him. Personally, I can't stand him (on the show). Maybe he's different in real life but the condescending attitude he gives both parties at the end is ludicrous. They're well over the age of infancy so stop talking to them like that, Doug.

[@lawjd96]

😂

[@delenareed9731]

This case should have been titled....."My love does cost a thing"🤑🤑🤑

[@looknbakatu]

😂😂😂

[@janets9179]

She was calculating. Had it planned from the beginning, how to separate him from his $$$.

[@toaugiewitluv3197]

Doug NEVER talked with someone this much

[@susangenry6497]

Then why did you accept that MONEY, he couldn't have forced you to accept that...USER

[@tozieasmr7375]

Suddenly that guy is a friendless loser once she owes him. That woman is ruthless and selfish. She totally led him on.

[@thelma8485]

He seems like a nice guy, she used him and I hope he finds "that lady" he deserves it♥️ so what how he spends his quiet time. Maybe he's an introvert trying to find some quiet time.🤔

[@skyelersullivan7336]

“I didn’t ask him” no but you were sure quick to accept it!!!!!

[@gan-ban6083]

He takes care of his momma. 😭 she is a conniving fool.

[@jewelmay9100]

Grandma tried it.💀😂

[@gracej384]

Barbra is a city girl 💅🏽

[@jb3702]

😆😆

[@CleveNative]

She belongs to the STREETS 🤣

[@LeolaGlamour]

😂 I need her secrets

[@mochasoqrimey]

@@CleveNative 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083]

This was the most corrupt Gold Digger I've ever seen on one of the judge shows! Judge M was reading her correctly right from the start. Why don't I think this was her first marriage either. The plaintiff is just too nice a man!

[@granitemoss1451]

I don't look down on him for being a loner but I sure do think she's a horrible person for stringing him along. Loners are hands-down better than users ANY day.

[@jessicamcgaughey8551]

And I think most loners are men, and in this screwed up society, for good reasons as sad as it is.

[@francevenezia]

He does taxes for a living and he didn't get an agreement in writing for what he says is a loan?

[@WeezyJeffersonYo]

Not the cup that says "love is brewing ".....well, in that case.....

[@vanessawilliams7676]

She didn’t ask for the money but she was pouring all her life problems in his lap. In the words of Judge Mathis, her ass was dry begging cause she knew he was sweet on her! We have to remember in life, what goes around, definitely comes back around🙄

[@cmilla2013]

😂😂😂

[@tahjjj1488]

Yes! I was looking for the dry begging comment!

[@melwesley7578]

I had no intention of sleeping with him I just needed the money? 😂

[@chelseavasquez7484]

If you think someone is trying to buy your body, how about don't take the money....

[@Cscott1821]

In middle school a boy I didn’t like tried to give me a bracelet, i didn’t accept because even then I knew it was wrong to exploit someone’s feelings for me. It baffles me when so many people on these shows use that as a defense. Outside of that though, I think she’s a liar, he was rightfully owed his money, and people need to stop acting like they’re appalled when sex is expected in exchange for outrageous favors. Most people don’t do someone thing for nothing. She shoulda just gave that old cat up or never dry begged for the money in the first place.

[@hateisforlosers6116]

Why do we women take the man's money ,when we know he has interest in us. You know he's not just helping. Nobody just gives you 5000 dollars and not want anything in return!!!!

[@highpretty]

Lmao why yall got that lady looking sneaky in the thumbnail 😂 Edit: Ms. susan is a whole city girl in these streets tho 😅

[@ChocoBeauty8]

Straight finesse

[@KPbouj]

Yes I said this looks spicy chile lemme click 😂

[@tamikathomas6040]

Lmao...😂😂😂

[@taneshacanzater1048]

Lady… if he was just gonna drop $5000 for “something else”, don’t you think he’d want that “something else” to come in a much younger, prettier, firmer package..?

[@sunnyscott4876]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@djretro83]

I was thinking the same thing. If I was willing to waste 5k on some 'tang (not the breakfast drink), it'd be on some that didn't look like the #3 at Arbys.

[@sunnyscott4876]

@@djretro83 🤣🤣🤣

[@LeolaGlamour]

Obviously not for him. I’m sure had she just thrown him a bone he’d have forgiven the loan.

[@DC-rd6oq]

I offered to loan money to a friend. She said she would only take it if she signed a promissory note and if it included interest. That's a good friend. She paid back the money, with interest, and we are still friends.

[@102tatertot]

lmfaooooo doug just standing there quietly and letting the guy detail the entire sexual history at the end is so funny god i love him

[@pammers5588]

This woman does not seem to have a moral compass. She should be ashamed of herself. Thank goodness for the Judge. I love watching People's Court.

[@johnsradios484]

She acting dumb and just taking ! That’s a gold digger!

[@patim5953]

She didn't think anything bad about him before she borrowed that money. Always the same line from people that borrow,,,it was a gift. Pay the man.

[@Lolalenice]

Why is it always harassment when people want their money back

[@mmmfun77]

I had a roommate who became a lawyer. No thank you. I chose to be a 🦷 dentist. Hard work definitely pays off. ♥️ from Phoenix, Az

[@ElsaFriost]

If it's even worth it to buy that "old other thing" she is talking about? Old and wrinkly 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@granitemoss1451]

Who else bets he won't toss that love is brewind mug even now that this is done?

[@whosaidwhat8704]

She seriously believes he was willing to pay $5,000 for her 'favours' ? LOL!!!

[@MikeNelli-uq2wl]

I see y she is divorced how did anyone even marry that

[@susangenry6497]

She knows she took that money and had no business taking!!!

[@Hatokirei]

She tried painting him as a loser but she had to borrow money from him and now wants to say he would pay 5K for "something" like she's worth that. Lol!!

[@mamasaidknockyouout9335]

I think it's beyond tacky for Marilyn to call litigants names like "sweetheart, girlfriend, honey" etc....but you know DARN well that if any of them ever called HER that??????? 🥴😳🤯 Need I say more? (And please dont come at me with any of that "well it's her show she can do what she wants." It's the PEOPLE'S court.) *gavel bang*

[@looknbakatu]

gold digger?!, more like old digger!😳🤨

[@ernestogarcia2964]

They said it 100% correct at the beginning “a gold digger” that’s exactly what she is.

[@janets9179]

Would be good to know how many times she's been married. I'm guessing 6.

[@onasamaya1]

“And i am not like that”😂 yah lady you are not like that, you just take 5k and out the door. Wonder how many men she was asking $$ for her “divorce”

[@karenrhodes9973]

I detest women who use a man for their own personal gain. If you are not interested in a romantic relationship then don't accept gifts from the man. Simple. If you do accept them when not interested expect to be called a gold digger. Or worse.

[@granitemoss1451]

Me too. Shows such a lack of character, to play on someone's emotions just to use them.

[@Channel-JJ]

Mustang Sally is a nasty woman. Not only a scammer but then she's going to talk smack about him and you know she's already told all their common friends things.

[@thereichscollector]

Dang. They got obsessed over that good good! Lol

[@getin3949]

This is going to sound awful but don't be especially nice to any man you don't find attractive because they may have something else in mind than what you do. It's best to stay clear. Rarely can women and men just be friends.

[@303Kelly303]

He seems like a gentleman looking for something serious and he’s ready to dive in. And this lady just took advantage of his heart. /: