Messing With An Ex

[@crystalshaw8744]

Low self esteem is always the issue no matter what they say.

[@mrshappilymarried1]

It's flat out ridiculous

[@alyssahamlett]

A lot of people don't even realize they have low self esteem when I was in my early twenties I thought I had good self esteem because I was OK with what I saw in the mirror but what I didn't realize was I wasn't OK with just who I was as a person I hadn't found myself yet..caused some stupidity for sure but recognizing the problem was the key to fixing it!

[@KeyvonGreen]

Nah I don’t think so I think she accessed her opportunities in mates and choose someone about station and used money to keep him interested… not knocking it but let’s call it what it is

[@Kayla-rd5jd]

@@KeyvonGreen i’m sure that plays a part but having to essentially bribe a man to stay with you despite him just wanting to be friends with benefits shows a clear lack of self esteem and desperation. people are so quick to be nasty about ppl like her but it’s honestly just sad. she shouldn’t be paying to keep him around and interested and he shouldn’t be using her for money. it’s commendable that he was honest about not wanting a relationship but he knew she caught feelings and kept going anyways. they both have some issues to sort out & are stupid for staying in the situation. it’s just sad to see

[@aries4901]

Loooooow Self Esteem

[@66jlunsford]

It’s him lying about no woman being there and we all seen her 😂

[@jncuttie]

Clear as damn day

[@zaiturcotte1576]

No girl! Friends don’t use you, friends don’t see a single mother and take from her, get some self esteem please💕

[@payableondeath9091]

She doesn't get it,HE SAID I JUST PULL UP🤣👏💀

[@LawsonPatterson]

It’s so ridiculous when you’re purchasing a boyfriend (or regular booty call), and then end up having buyers remorse. That’s exactly what happened here. She would not only let him in if he knocked on her door today, she would sleep with him, and she would give him more money. 🤦‍♂️

[@delenareed9731]

"Buyers remorse" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 to bad he didn't come with a warranty!!!!

[@lindam4953]

Lol true!

[@Black_and_Green]

She buying a stop by guy

[@tiffanycurtis4794]

That’s a big bootie call 🤣🤣🤣

[@NubianP6]

So, he’s your friend…your “best friend”, (let you tell it), and he’s willing to sit on TV and lie about the money you gave him, and essentially, take food out of your kids’ mouths? Well hell, I guess if *you’re* willing to take food out of your own babies’ mouths, then you’ll accept your “friend” doing it too. 🙄 Sis, pick your standards up outta the dirt, and move on from this 🤡.

[@alyssahamlett]

😂😂 I see no lies here

[@kay3221]

She still thinks she can change him. She's going to continue to get disappointment

[@sueriansean]

Best underrated comment!!!!!

[@ms.imakeitmybusiness]

That makes her the bigger 🤡!!! 😂

[@looknbakatu]

along with gaining some self esteem & self respect too!😳

[@deidrab4421]

As women we never win when it comes to things like this. She gave up her money and body to this man. I wanna feel bad for her but I don’t. It’s even sadder that she’s going to continue to see him.

[@Channel-JJ]

This isn't an issue of women or men this is an issue of the foolish.

[@mrshappilymarried1]

I definitely don't feel sorry for her. I do feel sorry for the kids...she said he's her Best Friend. Lord have mercy she's delusional...

[@KeyvonGreen]

I think she probably doesn’t want a mate who is one her level financially and physically…. She could have picked a less attractive partner where it would have been less one sided. I think it a conscious decision my problem is that she is crying about it in court… she knew what she was doing….

[@LawsonPatterson]

@@KeyvonGreen Less attractive than an average looking, overweight, unemployed, can’t afford my daily life, guy? I didn’t know they came less attractive than that 😂

[@SweetandSassyRedhead]

Amen sister

[@SweetandSassyRedhead]

We teach people how to treat us. Ladies STOP doing this. These guys are NOT WORTH IT...let them figure it out themselves. PUT YOURSELF AND KIDS FIRST! Please.

[@SV28888]

She seems very sweet. I hope she finds a real best friend who will uplift her and look out for her.

[@luxvella1598]

She seems very stupid. She doesn't need friends. She needs her brain checked.

[@gtsound12]

A lot of women like men like that. Because they want to be needed.. and women like to chase. If they find someone who doesn’t need them and are all about them they get bored. It’s a common story.

[@wb3381]

May separate Real from Fake

[@LMVCORP]

She would still open the door for him if he knocked?! ☠️🤣

[@mrshappilymarried1]

Unbelievable 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@pandagomoo]

"WHOSE THE WOMAN WHO JUST PEEKED OUT FROM THE THRESHOLD?" JUDGE MILIAN!!!! 💀💀💀

[@payableondeath9091]

👀

[@jorieraudenbush8726]

Lmao I cannot believe he tried saying no one else was there 😂

[@ananabi9910]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Queen-bi1bd]

Hit ‘em with the code word 😂 Slaughterhouse

[@sosobeautiful7]

😆 🤣 😂

[@BigLoBabyLo]

When she said "He's my bestfriend..like family.."🥴 Sis I'd hate to see how your enemies treat you if this a friendship..

[@barbikinkin]

It’s amazing how we devalue ourselves…how does she not feel she’s worth more than that

[@dellahicks7231]

It is sad how she tries to portray that it's "All good!" however you can sense the pain coming from her. As JM stated, if that's how the defendant rolls, then fine. However he is playing on her emotions to get to her bank account, he knows exactly what he is doing, and what does that say about his character? And she needs to find someone that will love and respect her, but not charge her for it!

[@peryole]

if she's foolish enough to support him, let her. just full of stupidity.

[@Lolalenice]

She allowed all of this

[@dellahicks7231]

@@Lolalenice The fact she did allow it to occur, does not go to the 'Why?' of her allowing it to occur, which was my point. An individual has to have low self esteem and little self worth, amongst other issues, to allow this type of behaviour to be directed toward them. I truly hope she was able to extricate the defendant from her life, and learn to care for herself.

[@aberobinson1]

She has a good spirit.. not mean and angry. She's too good for him

[@katymcginn4644]

BEAUTIFULLY SAID! SHE IS A VERY PRETTY LADY, I THINK HER DIVORCE DID A NUMBER ON HER SELF-ESTEEM. SHE CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER THAN THIS JOKER! HES A DISGUSTING USER! USES HER LIKE A ATM & SPERM BUCKET. HAVE MORE SELF-WORTH WOMAN!

[@soloseraphimheartsong3710]

That dude isn't even that cute for all this drama.

[@loveyoutube2177]

She is so sad. Didn’t get the money and still willing to crawl into bed with him. Lack of respect is saddening. 😢

[@Pr0jectbb]

When she said “Terrell is my friend” At the end she’s lying to herself

[@Bigmuffin8]

It takes a lot of courage to broadcast this to the world! I pray the plaintiff is okay after this. Sending you love queen!!

[@marthaduran6010]

Queeeeen??? 😂🤣😂😂😂🤣

[@Bigmuffin8]

@@marthaduran6010 yes Martha QUEEN lol everyone is a queen even if they mess up 🥴🥴😂😂😂

[@marcdinsmore8690]

Courage? Nah. Ignorance.

[@Bigmuffin8]

@@marcdinsmore8690 🥴🥴😩😩

[@delenareed9731]

Plaintiff has a hole in a heart and trying to buy a man ain't gonna fill up that hole💔💔

[@brinaj778]

"What woman?" lol 🤡

[@meeksluvspink9047]

Its seems that she really doesn't want the money back. She just wanted to prove a point to other women that he messing around with, that she still in the picture. She means nothing to him.

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

If this is your BEST friend, girl you need to reevaluate what friendship really is. Friends don’t do this.

[@cynthia1974]

So sad to call him your best friend. He doesn’t care for you. Move on girly 😢

[@poohkahnah]

I don’t feel bad for her, sorry. Any man that’s taking from you and your kids, is not it. I’ll be damned if I give a grown man that’s not my husband my hard earned money. I’m glad my dad taught me well.

[@georgiapeach31027]

Hell sometimes you gotta watch out for husbands too smh

[@payableondeath9091]

@@georgiapeach31027 giiiiuuuUuuRl

[@lokita6192002]

When you’re under a spell like this and wake up, ain’t shit u can do but learn and move on

[@Fluffyzk]

Wow, she had $3000 to give, imagine what she could of done if she spent that money on her kids! The defendant is the lowest of men, asking money from a single mom. She needs to raise her standards on how friends treat her. But I think deep down she was trying to buy his relationship…poor girl

[@rennibrown]

I was feeling bad for her until she said “That’s my friend”. Allowing herself to be used SMH

[@wb3381]

It's a psychological sickness loving someone who makes you feel good emotionally and sexually but the inability to process intellectually she is being manipulated or exploited resulting in codependency

[@baboytablo5735]

it is funny that the whole idea of "chasing" has drastically changed in the last decade

[@suvariboy]

He’s your friend? Friends don’t abuse people like that. The plaintiff is WHACK!

[@shabazbaptiste688]

If ANYONE moves in with you within a few weeks of knowing them… 🚩. Be weary if people that can literally drop everything and up and move in with you.

[@Nevaeh1]

And on top of that her children were living there

[@shabazbaptiste688]

@@Nevaeh1 exactly!

[@alyssahamlett]

💯 no one w any worth as a partner can pick up and move in within weeks! That's someone looking for a come up

[@carneliagipson5212]

Yep. That means they were homeless or about to be

[@judithdavis3902]

Go back for more money defendant lol

[@JollyGoodJewWitch]

🤣😭

[@bassdmin7436]

The defendant is nothing but a user.

[@MBCrusin]

You know what… I’m glad the ruling went the way it did. Because this man owes you all this money and you on national tv saying you’ll let him in your bed tonight in spite of. Ok sis, you do you.

[@shabazbaptiste688]

Girl… you can have company and comfort without paying for his life. Single moms always the victims of this because they’re lonely and thirsty for a male presence. Worry about healing and getting yourself together first 👏🏾.

[@kaybryan7530]

She need help. She'll still open the door for him. Tell me she not sick in the head to keep herself in a painful situation

[@dspenderella9671]

13:30 "Oh yeah, he's my best friend..." This fool has learned absolutely NOTHING. A best friend doesn't use you. A friend doesn't know he owes you, but pays you nothing knowing you're a single mom with kids to take care of. I think it's good she didn't win any money back; she'd only give it right back to him 🙄.

[@Ororeoalpha]

It's crazy cause I just went through a similar relationship. Girl LEAVE you will feel so much lighter and happier without him in your life I PROMISE

[@arianefr78]

If a man doesn't want to be loyal to you and only you, then he doesn't respect you and never will, so get some self-respect and tell him you deserve better than him and say goodbye. HE is NOT her best friend, he uses her money and he uses her body, friends don't do that to each other. Friends GIVE, they don't TAKE...

[@bridgote]

i just really hope that the defendant realizes how beautiful she is, and that she deserves so much better.

[@TammieR-B]

I'm waiting for Adrian's thought on this

[@ChelseaNicole94]

I haven’t watched yet but I’m guessing something like, “when will we as men learn, we don’t need women just each other”

[@TammieR-B]

@@ChelseaNicole94 😂😂 probably

[@NubianP6]

Girl, *pleease* don’t be summoning “The Prince” up! 😂🤣

[@missbeauxbaby]

I love that he is known amongst us all here in the comments! 😂

[@theindiejurnee]

Omg I was thinking the same thing...I know he will say something just like that

[@34stzoo]

1:30 the face of a person with low self-esteem and a narcissist she takes no blame for her actions or situation. While it's true the defendant is a piece of crap, he did what she would let him do.

[@sueriansean]

AMEN!!!!

[@susanstribe4914]

Ladies and gentlemen aim higher. Its better for your mental health and well-being!

[@Channel-JJ]

and for the kids

[@phoenixrising1242]

16 mins in and I stopped the video. This is truly sad. I hope this young lady learns that she is worthy of so much more than this guy.

[@samantham2693]

I agree you shouldn't let money mess up a friendship. But that is when there is a misunderstanding and you both eventually work it out. This wasn't a business deal, the money has everything to do with the "friendship". In this case, even the plaintiff thinks the man was taking advantage and using her. And then further disrespects her by denying he owes her anything. He is definitely not a friend, and they kind of family you avoid! Maybe she's lying about him still owing her and just like he said she woke up mad one day.

[@buffalowill2789]

"best friends" LMAO

[@writeart7636]

Imagine going through a divorce and still no learn nothing 😕

[@jodybillings3841]

wait you say your like family. Ok, I'm not sure what families have bootie calls. LOL

[@MEEK484]

“He needed stuff” MAAM.. SO DOES YOUR KIDS!! SO DO YOU! ugh, I swear sometimes I’m seeing hands embarrassed… this is just too much stupidity!

[@wb3381]

Can someone define Friends or best friend ? I think I lost the concept 🤣🤣🤣

[@Channel-JJ]

Another woman who puts mothering a half man ahead of her own children. She doesn't really seem to care. I hope her children aren't expecting a college fund or any other help after school because Tyrone, Bob, Big Mister, Steve or whoever is going to have that money.

[@ayetam_aye]

Men who asked me for money has always turned me off! I immediately ghosted them😒 it’s just so unattractive!

[@Laura-tp8wz]

Absolutely agree!!!

[@mrshappilymarried1]

A single mom spending money on a dead beat dude. It's ridiculous! She was still married but yall was vibing. Vibe with your children and get some self esteem! These cases end up on the News because the crazy boyfriend kills the mom and the family has the burden if raising her kids. Sick if these desperate women. VALUE YOUR KIDS LIVES IF YOU DONT VALUE YOUR OWN!

[@delenareed9731]

I'm trying to figure out if she learned a lesson from her previous marriage....if she with a joka like the Defendant she still got learning to do!!!!

[@dance4life1208]

I never understand single mothers giving bum men the money they could spend on the child

[@mirsan6705]

Exactly it's so sad omg! It's mentally sick

[@ladyempire5921]

Just an Embarrassment to women. How tragic for her children and she still think He her friend. Poor lil tink tink didn't learn a dog gone thing

[@momoboolman8820]

She's his Shugga Momma. Straight up. For better lack of being lonely. She's taking from her kids. I'll be damned is I let a man have mines and I'm giving him money... YA RIGHT! 🤣

[@shenitabell-victor2280]

So you let him move in your house? Sorry but you set yourself up for that foolishness

[@osomartinez]

Plaintiff has no respect for herself. Please know you do have agency in your life.

[@yellarose48]

SIS, HE AIN'T YOUR FRIEND!! FRIENDS DON'T TAKE FOOD OUT OF YOUR KIDS' MOUTH! HE SEES YOU AS A "MONEY COW". You're beautiful and kind but please figure out your worth.

[@highlander666]

She and all the other gullible women out there need to stop letting these ticks feed upon them

[@Maqqin]

Poor thing doesn’t even know what a real friend is.

[@rosej5029]

A REAL man DOES NOT OPEN HIS MOUTH TO ASK A MOTHER W/ MOUTHS TO FEED FOR MONEY AND DOESN'T ACCEPT MONEY FROM A MOTHER IF SHE OFFERS IT TO HIM. This male is a boy.

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

He shouldn't ask any woman for $. He should have male friends/ family members to ask for $.

[@delenareed9731]

@@sophisticatedmm3632 no this so called man should get a job, 2 jobs if need be to support himself.

[@katymcginn4644]

HE IS A DEAD BEAT! PERIOD. HE DOESN'T PAY HIS CHILD SUPPORT, THAT'S WHY HE WON'T WORK! HAS STUPID WOMEN LIKE THIS THAT PAY HIM MONEY FOR NOTHING!💰 🤑 HE'S ABSOLUTELY WORTHLESS

[@elainepinnock2933]

What’s wrong with these women

[@Channel-JJ]

They never received any good adult training from responsible family members.

[@bunnibrick]

She is pitiful I’m sorry…

[@carlpotter007]

I felt bad for the plaintiff at first when the judge ruled against her. I thought that the messages were clear and this guy promised to pay her back. The judge was trying to teach the plaintiff a lesson - though I think the judge should make this guy pay back the money since it is clear he was fleecing her. But then when she admitted that if the guy came back around she would let him in to her apartment - it is clear she hasn’t learned a damn thing. I now side with the judge. This woman is delusional if she thinks she and this guy are friends. He is just using her and came to court and essentially spit in her face by claiming she was only suing him because she wants to be with him. This is no friend. So yes judge - this woman needs to learn that tricking off her money on bums will cost her.

[@vivoyeur]

Women, men too but especially women, please know your worth. If you have children, they are watching how much/little that you do. She made up excuses for herself, to make sense of all the nonsense she allowed herself to go through and with him being "family," that kind of family member I would never want. He'll be back and will receive more money and booty because she still lacks the strength and value she should have grown.

[@onetiredgirl2]

This was some BS. She’s made others pay with less evidence

[@Fluffyzk]

Yea cuz in a couple of texts she told him when are u gonna pay me back. So I was surprised on the verdict

[@talexander2302]

She is wasting the courts time, she is going to continue sleeping with him and giving him money and that is the bottom line. CASE DISMISSED

[@jameekagillis]

Plaintiff: Ohh, he like family. Me: Sooooooooo, y'all kissing cousins??🙄🙄🙄

[@antdogg5041]

Never take anything from someone you don’t have intentions with. I was seeing a woman who kept trying to give me gifts. She got mad because I wouldn’t take a pair of $300 Jays she surprised me with. I ain’t gonna lie I wanted them shoe but I could her my mama saying people don’t give you things with expecting something in return.

[@justterri443]

Why would he get a job if he has you?

[@Love1010P]

😂😂😂 that’s petty how that woman peeped out 😂😂😂

[@maryjones6115]

She was an idiot. He is a user and she laid down and was used. She went in with her eyes open. No pity for her

[@shanicedarby1647]

Oh thing for sure, JM dislikes it when women take care of a man.

[@qirlswaqq2010]

She needs to cut that man off. She’s clearly trying to buy his attention & affection and is prob hoping he’ll change his mind and want a relationship one day. He’s going to always just play with her & get whatever he can out of her. He knows she has a soft spot for him and is taking advantage

[@shenitabell-victor2280]

She sounds ridiculous...

[@JacksQueen.]

She sounds like a fool calling this dude her friend.

[@Lolalenice]

I know exactly how this one became a single mom. When men say take accountability these are the scenarios they talking about. She opened this door pretended she was ok with being a booty call and then tried to buy his time and now regrets it

[@MoniquaWilliams]

I have been in that situation and learned, I don't have any sympathy for anyone who repeatedly makes the same mistakes

[@nicklebaby]

She needs God. If he was your best friend he wouldn't put you in this predicament. He would have paid you back.

[@StarC2233]

This!!

[@tiffanyr3218]

Women stay giving up their power

[@allieb770]

He's a jerk for always taking money....

[@angelicrealtor1]

How NASTY of her to sleep with a man knowing that he was promiscuous. Hasn't anybody heard of SAFE sex or ABSTINANCE? How about Aids and other diseases. Why did it take her to figure out she was being used to the tune of $3K. Girlfriend was desperate for a man or a "sex buddy" and got played. It is what it is but I hope she gets her money back. Either way it's a hard lesson learned. Please don't do it again!!! By the way the Defendant is UGLY anyway!!!

[@ElLiSe..]

Best friend, girl go get a next friend

[@Enemyatg334]

I wanna know too who the woman was peeking round the doorway

[@tanishasummage3094]

Girl Bye!! That bomb is not your friend. So sad!! 😂😂

[@jpharleyd9325]

When will some women wake up and realize that if they're constantly borrowing money (they'll say it's a gift), or you have to buy them things like cell phones because they're credits bad, they're shiftless and useless to you as a partner. When they've used you up, they'll move on and you're left holding the bag.

[@5minuteswithdainee]

I'm happy I'm single, single, single!

[@YarnieGirl]

"Terrell is my friend...".

[@lolamaude3449]

Over and over the women try to buy these men and the men only use them. Very sad, ladies.... stop it!

[@pchelloo]

This needs to happen to many, many more walking, talking ATM's....uh, I mean women. Teach all these dummies an expensive lesson: *You give up your body and your money, all you're getting back will be your used up body.*

[@Talkswithtee302]

She’s silly and naïve! She definitely was with a con man and manipulated

[@minicortiz4474]

She is something else it's called cut him off and move on not adopt a grown man

[@midwestdrama1913]

Find a boyfriend or girlfriend that can take care of themselves! If you need a loan then go to a bank. If you can’t get a bank loan then we aren’t going to make it anyway. I don’t need an adult dependent.

[@naijaprincess5311]

Iyanla needs to find this woman and bring her through one of her courses😒

[@looknbakatu]

he’s TRIFLING!🤨

[@ElLiSe..]

10:00 woman peek in 😂

[@ladybrown4056]

Unfortunately you paid for emotional support during your divorce…it probably would have been more beneficial and cheaper for you to get a therapist…jokes-on you boo

[@bruthamann5697]

Sometimes low self esteem and having money can be a bad combination. 💯

[@korimoore1691]

As a lover at one point and as a friend a best friend he still don't see the need to pay you back anything!! that doesn't sound like he cares about you in any area to say hey I borrow this money or you gave me this money let me give you 20 on it every other week he's not even saying that girl let it go that is not your friend he's your foster child 🤣🤣

[@dianeallen5803]

Where do these people come from??

[@onecuet]

Don't let a mooch use you. No matter their gender!! Your kids deserve better role models!