How Jealous can Filipina's be in a Relationship?

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[@MultiPasswordman]

I met one girl who always took what I said out of context. If I said I wanted to go to the gym, she said I wanted to go to the gym to look at girls. If I said I wanted to swim, she said I wanted to look at girls. If I used the bathroom, once I got out she accused me of talking to girls. I got rid of her and then she started her gossip with her friends and family, saying she was doing all these bad things and thats why I left. It was like dating a girl with the maturity of a 12 year old. Needless to say, it didn't last long.

[@ScottieMitchell-f8y]

Lol. That's overly jealous

[@mrbHanoi]

You two are always so nice and respectful to each other. Agree culture is a bigger obstacle than language.

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Hi Mr.B Thanks you! ❤️

[@charlesc.9572]

Gary, I call it "environmental awareness." My eyes constantly survey my surroundings. (Mainly for safety sake.) When it comes to seeing a beautiful girl in my line of sight, a friend (girl) once told me "It's okay to look once, but not twice." She also said, "It's okay to have your head in the clouds as long as your feet are planted firmly on the ground." She and I are the best of friends.

[@tonyh7390]

What a great and insightful video. I just watched it with my new Pinay and it's like you were describing her! Jealousy over past ex's is really a big deal. When she asks about something from my past, I have started to say no, but she insists, so I tell her, and she gets mad about it! But 5 mins later she's kissing me telling me it's OK. I'll admit, it's a struggle. However, she has never once accused me of looking at other girls, so that's a plus.

[@martinharvey9039]

@@tonyh7390 Get some sunglasses then you can look😀

[@TheyCalledMeT]

men looking around is a part of their survival instinct, it is actually crucial to spot a potential threat before it becomes one for you or the people you intent to protect

[@salvadorsepulveda6415]

Like you have said, jealousy is insecurity. 🎉

[@marchoman1776]

I was in a relationship with an insecure filipina. Between month number 2 and number 3. Tampo four times. She said I was flirting with other women. Nope, not true. I saw my future.😂😂😂😂. Nope, I left her. I'm now on a relationship with a filipina. That knows her value. Life is good again😊

[@robertpiekarski6115]

Filipinas are in constant fear and insecurity that another Filipina is going to steal their man. Now after several years in this culture I realize the reason they feel that way is because its mostly true, and happens a lot.

[@Tangatarapupono-lb4lq]

Thanks guys. Leah a good man takes his job of protecting you from everything, to do so he must always know what is happening around you, hence looking around.

[@whoknowssuchthingsidonthav574]

I love how she looked up at you after she said if you're interested, let's get started It warmed my heart as if an angel touched me 😇

[@puppyupper4565]

God has blessed you. Thank you for sharing this.

[@PEKing672]

Another awesome video! Thanks guys for the insight. Question: Who is the artist? I really like the painting.

[@charliewilliams7861]

Thank you Leah for sharing the editing app with me! God bless you all!

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Thank you, Godbless!

[@Grandpa_Mike]

Nice video👍🏼 You’re a lovely couple!

[@TruthFinder7839]

Jealous behavior characteristics are universal for women generally, then add to it the scarcity feeling for Filipinas for the ideal foreigner partner that’s within their life and getting to know each other. 😅

[@urnobick]

Gary is a complete beast of a man! Totally solid and speaks such common sense.

[@bradleymiller7375]

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@bradleymiller7375]

​@@jl909-nr5vxand hypocrite! He's no Christian!

[@finalcountdown7658]

So is your mouth.

[@urnobick]

@@finalcountdown7658 Ok?

[@finalcountdown7658]

@@jl909-nr5vx That's the best you can come up with? An unimaginative and lazy word? Lol Yes, I am one. The word stems from the Spanish and Portuguese word for black. You're going to have to try harder.

[@rolandmueller7218]

I have been dating my Filipina girlfriend for 3 years. I noticed she is probably more jealous of other Filipinas than American women.

[@rowdybroomstick6394]

Are you stateside?

[@paulruano1903]

Lol. Why would a filipina be jealous of american women? Come on!. Even filipinas can see how toxic these oompa loompa tomboy western feMales are.

[@Ramxie35]

@@rolandmueller7218 lmao

[@fightingmenofrhodesia]

Talking about miscommunication, my Filipina had been away in the province for a while, and I said "I can't wait to see you again!". She replied "Why can't you wait? Don't you want to see me?" Full-on tampo session ensued, lol.

[@bradleymiller7375]

😪😪😪

[@finalcountdown7658]

😂

[@jakewarren74]

Reminds me of that scene from the movie Grown Ups where the guys take turns looking at the pretty girl trying to not get caught.

[@RatdogDRB]

Ladies, YOU also need to be aware of one of the things WE (as men) are continually doing when our eyes are scanning our surroundings, we're looking for a potential threat. So not EVERY woman whose presence enters our field of view is being targeted for gawking at. For those instances in which we ARE actually taking notice of a woman who catches our eye, we're also considering whether a shopping trip should include a similarly cut of clothing to get which we think is going to look great on you. We're visual and looking at what catches our eye, but not all of us are good at picking out things hanging on a rack, or knowing what goes well with something, or whether it'd compliment your features. What seems to be a common theme is that due to a woman's insecurity (her problem), by default, our behavior (whether real or perceived) is wrong and must trigger a hissy fit to beg our way out of. Uhhhh.... no. Totally different than some dog getting caught talking her up and trying to catch a feel. But if that's what a man is consistently being accused of, you might be sabotaging the relationship by making him think that if that's what he's being accused of, why not get a little enjoyment from actually doing that. It's that whole "a woman's fears/anxieties/insecurities being present is by default validated by the mere existence of a man being a man", that's the very behavior that drives a man into becoming a "passport bro". Don't BE a western woman. You want to be trusted, learn to give the same level of trust you wish to receive. Men, don't be dogs when you have the chance at a good woman, BE what attracts her. It's definitely a two-way street.

[@mikemcghee3492]

By the looks on the thumbnail, Leah is not someone you want to piss off🤣

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

😂🤣

[@PhilippinesMyParadise]

Another great video! Watched the “How Jealous can Filipina's be in a Relationship?”... Full support as always! Best of luck and regards /Ned 👍👏👍

[@saulgoodman7221]

I’m a people watcher. They are fascinating to watch sometimes.

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Thank you so much!

[@robertpiekarski6115]

Great video great topic. Been there done that. Particularly remaining "friends" with a past female in your life. That's a none starter.

[@ronprince1478]

Leah, speaking directly to you. Gary is responsible for your safety and wellbeing, as a man he is (like all good men) looking and scanning every body and every thing so he can be prepared for any situation that arises. Eg. If there is a loud drunk person around Gary will keep an eye on him just encase he needs to step in. It’s being aware, and if he stairs at a pretty girl you can always slap him.🤔😉

[@RonaldApril-k5b]

Gary was very candid and honest about his ex wife

[@knarlisrocks]

My least favorite mistrust/jealousy issue with a Filipina is the age old 'You were with someone else." In her dreams. Like you wake up and it's crying tampo.

[@stevef5812]

@@knarlisrocks the answer to tampo is, “there is the door, close it on your way out, it will be opened for you when you can discuss the situation like an adult”!

[@George-ux6zz]

Hi guys, good evening 🙏

[@LaurensDekoekkoek-xy7vm]

It’s so true I innocently look at people and don’t think anything off it

[@Glenn-in-the-Philippines]

Today English is taught in school with the Philippine langauge. Has been for decades now😊

[@segarnyagold1014]

And I agree with Gary. My pictures / memories of my past are a big deal to me. It’s who I am. It’s who she is. Women should, IMO NOT be worried about the women in a guys past. But they should be worried about a woman who will treat him better than she is, that includes not being so disastrously jealous. :)

[@gregbaker2788]

As an older man, it is hard enough to get a woman to understand that we mean exactly what we say, in the way we said it. We have learned to be very very precise when communicating with women due to their love of interpreting "what you really meant" (UGH!). Throw in a foreign woman from a different culture and it becomes mind numbing how they are able to interpret from a direction you never saw coming. I have been in heated arguments that took both of us a while before we recognized that neither of us, at that point, were talking/debating/defending the same issue. It is not easy and takes a lot of patience and an openness to communicate and LISTEN to each other.

[@Blackmick21]

Praise be Jesus Christ. Thank you.

[@tsunamiiwinterz-px7oz]

amen

[@stevenrobberts3238]

Situational awareness. Especially prior military. My Russian wife is the same, and yes, it is insecurities on her part.

[@alanjones7878]

Just do what your told and you'll be fine, even on this video every time you mention your Ex,s I can see you partner looking not comfortable about it, it's a life long thing jealousy get use to it and expect lots of TAMPO

[@markmcdougal1199]

I liked your vid, thank you for sharing. I would like to see your thoughts about ways you can build up a Philippina's confidence, that might be a good subject for a vid. Different ways of making her feel secure, valued, and also a prize.

[@margiecastro8907]

That is why if you enter in a relationship make sure that you are already healed from your past because if you still living from the past it will affect your new relationships. Trust is very important. It's okay to get jealous because for me is a sign of love but too much jealousy will kill the relationship.

[@tedrobertson1344]

OMG, this is so true 😮

[@dwaynemaxwell5274]

It is natural for man to observe any and all its way to protect

[@scottbaird5674]

Big time my wife of 17 years can get offended easily especially if I joke on her in front of other Filipinos. If we are alone she does not care.

[@TheOriginalRick]

Mrs. Rick is probably the least jealous Filipina ever. Not that I gave her any reason to be so, but due to my work in the entertainment business, many of my coworkers were exceptionally beautiful, and talented women. It never bothered her at all.

[@paulruano1903]

No. Keep your exes away. Delete etc. Its baggage. Ideally people should be vurgin when marrying. But as a minimum, when finding and knowing going to have a serious new relationship. You will need to delete exes etc from your life. Thats baggage that a new spouse deserves better from you than having to include that with you into a new marriage.

[@jigenprime6613]

I do understand Leah’s point view about jealousy.. Gary doesn’t have to worry about Leah’s ex because unfortunately Bless’ father passed away.. I wish you all the best..

[@non-monogamousmark]

Having loving relationships with bisexual Filipinas it is a lot of fun for me and my Filipina lovers to go out looking at beautiful young Filipinas.

[@rocket9580]

I was expected to wear blinders like a horse..and was threatened with a knife to "cut it off"..(male private part)...finally had enough and left...no more walking on egg shells for me!

[@jazelynruela5266]

Speaking of misunderstanding, to all the Filipinas out there having an expat boyfriend and husband even though the common language is English, we really need to study their expressions (idioms) . In each country in which English is the mother tongue, there are still different kinds of expressions. If your boyfriend is from Ireland, never use the American expressions you learned. Study their expressions and culture.

[@danielmapes6598]

This had me laughing alot! Thanks

[@geraldwilliams8189]

Haha! Gary, looking too long is completely subjective!!

[@koufax174]

Men play with fire dating Filipinas. You don’t know them truly for a long time. Complex landscape with how they were raised, pacts they have with family, potential hidden pasts, emotional stability, and more. Men need to take full responsibility for their choices, conscious or unconscious

[@jamessisson9543]

What Americans think as being funny but to a filipina it can be insulting very easily. Americans have so many different slangs. Americans need to think things out before rattling off smart comments

[@paulruano1903]

...or learn her language. Filipinas also loves frienfly cheeky banters. But it is that they are not able to understand the slangs (as you said), and thereby also difficulties in understanding fruendly banter, sarcasm, joking and flirting with cheekyness etc. When both properly understand each other languages and eachothers energies..m thats when it can be heated in a POSITIVE way:)

[@andrewcrimmins8173]

you know, if the wife is triggered at a restaurant like that it is good to just voice it. I would rather walk in the girl says, nope and you go somewhere else! or you eat there, it's voiced, and you don't choose that restaurant again. That's all. Easier to avoid the problem then to flirt with a line. And yes, some restaurants try to build a customer base on not only pretty girls, but provocatively dressed. I would never go to the hooters or tilted kilts type restaurants with my girl, bc it's #1 not worth it, and #2 you are usually paying a premium for that type of environment. I'd rather have a good burger more reasonably priced somewhere else than paying for the atmosphere of a flirtatious waitress staff.

[@MKMNK-sr8nv]

That's one of my reasons why I'm looking for a bisexual girl,hoping she won't be so jealous

[@MikeD-jb1jd]

I wish this video had been out before I met my Filipina GF last year! Even though she has lived in the US for 50 years, she was still so jealous about everything to the point of "jealous delusional disorder" episodes that simply never happened... sad, since I am a westerner, it totally ruined our relationship. I had to get out of it... she was divorced, me a widower.

[@penntuckeybackwoods8201]

If someone pulled a machete on me their gonna have a real life problem

[@ph7715]

I've got a 19 year old girlfriend. I am 47. I believe she genuinely does care for me and loves me. So shy, It took a long time for me to win her over. I'm pretty good at judging people. Even before I started helping her out financially she showed interest in me. However some Filipinas, it's all about the money. So you have to pick your poison.

[@ruidemelo5258]

Just looking 😊, yep, that's what I tell my wife also 😂.

[@YuckMouthMedia]

I going to be 50 and my wife will be 44 we been together going on 4 years my wife knows my eyes and heart never roam. I like to people watch. I understand the ladies though.

[@kronoswolf8335]

you never keep up or even on your phone photos of your old girlfriends. put the photos on a memory card and put that card someplace away from your phone, place the photos from your wall in a box and put them away. That is what a normal person dos.

[@bronkonovak6555]

Jealousy from any woman or man is NOT acceptable end of story..

[@Troy_KC-2-PH]

I experienced the same thing with my ex wife from Mexico City, OMG she was very selosa.

[@Dutchy-1168]

Lucky Guy

[@RodrigoSellio]

Wow dabis

[@segarnyagold1014]

Question: it’s seems a catch 22. If a Filipina is so jealous that her man may be unfaithful, she may ruin the relationship with her jealousy. Her fear of losing the relationship, destroys the relationship. Is this very common?

[@bradleymiller7375]

My wife doesn't get jealous, i ask her why, and she totally trusts me! As i do her! Trust, firm foundation to great relationship!

[@michaelschaffer9165]

My wife once had a dream that I was having an affair. She was angry for most of the day and I didn't know why

[@michaelhawley1677]

Whoa - that thumbnail was kinda scary. I hope Gary never makes you jealous - the good lord only gave him one banana😂

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

😂😅

[@RonaldApril-k5b]

Just wondering is Gary English? How old is Gary? How old are you?

[@TreyTreydawg]

On the flip side, I am curious to know if Philipinas admire attractive guys, do they notice, do they look and admire them, or are they just not equipped to do so because it is not culturally appropriate, I think guys might get a little irritated with that kind of behavior, generally there are not a lot of attractive guys walking around, so probably not much of an issue with the guys, but could you comment, do Philipinas look at men.

[@ningayeti]

My filipina girlfriend got jealous and tampo just because I slept with her sister. I tried to explain to her that it was only because her sister was prettier than she was, but she just wouldn't listen.😜

[@paulruano1903]

Oh... she listened! Thats why she got jealous, angry, etc. If she had more selfrespect though, then she would just dumped you imediatly.

[@ningayeti]

@@paulruano1903 You realize that my post was a joke I hope ...Hence the smiley emoticon.

[@marcprobin1659]

Will a Filipina get jealous of pictures of my wife that passed away? She was my soulmate so I will not delete her pictures because she get jealous. What you guys think?

[@ronfesta771]

Me thinketh more and more we., talks this one sounds more and more like a..........player!@!?😉😃🤪

[@empire7446]

I am a non-believer and I don't cheat on my wife. We also have morals. Just saying

[@americanchristianinphilipp960]

Even though you are a non-believer it doesn't change the fact that God exists and your values are from him, that's why they are objective which means they are true for everyone whether or not they believe. However, if I am wrong and you are right then you could not possibly have objective moral values, only subjective which means you alone decide what your morals and they would be different for everyone. But as God does exist then Objective values have to be true and we all have a sense of right and wrong proving that point. God Bless.

[@empire7446]

@@americanchristianinphilipp960 Let's be real here, there is no fact that god exists, it's all about faith. And if god exists, which one is it? Do I have to follow your god rules, or let's say the Muslims' ones? It's immoral to have more than one wife for your god but not for them. So does morals really comes from god? You can just follow the rule: don't do to other what you wouldn't want other to do to you. It makes sense, even without a god. Peace.

[@Jay-u1c5f]

If you dont or cant trust your partner there is no relationship. I wouldn't waste my time on a jealous relationship

[@mollyg4100]

I look at sexy girls, BUT I wouldn't want my girl or wife to dress the same way.

[@mrshawnceo]

That look at 14:34😂

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Lmao🤣😂

[@RobertBone-k4k]

Keep digging that hole. Lol

[@halfbreed4711]

I'm sorry, but because you're "Philippina" doesn't give you green light to overreact. I would have let her assume the worst. I wouldn't have given her a second of explanation. You act like that, deal with it.

[@danleep1185]

OK...misunderstandings! How in heaven's name does anyone, especially a man, convince his partner that she is totally misunderstanding that which you have said and that she is wrong in her reaction and thoughts? I, being 80 yrs. old and reasonably satisfied with my married life of 25 years, have never been able to convince my woman or change her thoughts when she is hell-bent on believing one and only one thing...that she is correct and I am wrong, when it is my mind that knows the truth and she has never been in my mind to 'see' this. How in heaven's name is anyone able to convince anyone with such a stoic attitude? It can't be done! I have been a victim of misunderstandings many times in my life and it simply tends to destroy my mental health when this happens. This I know...truth is neither positive nor negative...it just is...but truth is all too often an objective condition rather than a subjective condition being often, impossible to prove, especially when truth is within someone's mind and impossible to open this truth to another person unwilling to even begin to consider an alternative. TAMPO...not only Philipina's issue but just as hated and destructive. When a woman 'knows' she is right, SHE IS RIGHT! and nothing anyone can say or do to change this corrupt and juvenile opinion, for it seldom is truth and harmful to everyone involved and she doesn't care! As for Gary 'looking around'...I look around all the time, everywhere and so does my wife. If she sees something 'interesting', she most often will point it out to me, and vice verse with neither of us [in this case] Tampoing each other. I tell my wife that just because I see something beautiful, that doesn't mean that I want it! Like a painting on a wall, I may like it but I don't want it. I also routinely walk up to folks that I don''t know and talk to/with them, male or female. We smile, make light jokes and enjoy the moments. Wifey is used to me doing this, and has never taken a misunderstanding about it. And, so, you Gary shared your past relationships with your wife...and survived? Being 80 yrs. now, and happily married, I don't play around, but in my youthful past, I was a big player. What I am getting at is that at no time when I was with another female, did I recall/relate/discuss any past encounter/relationship...never. First of all, the one that I was with was the only one that I was thinking about at that time. Secondly, essentially, no female wants to hear about a man's past relationships, regardless of what she tells you! None of them! Perhaps your wife is different, but never in my experiences and to date, with my current wife, holding true to my construct and, in fact, seldom ever think about any past experience. You must be a better man than me... Oh, one last thing...how you two manage to engage in this video construct without a knock-down, drag-out fight is beyond me! To me, it appears as if Leah is absorbing everything that you are saying, just to [sometime in the future] resurrect it into a Tampo and use it against you, Gary. I know, I am overthinking, right? [Maybe not...]