Heated Debate on Pornography w/ Dennis Prager

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Pints With Aquinas

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Chapters
00:00 - Discussion about Jewish and Christian views on adultery
06:35 - Sexual desire and lust can be distinguished, but it's okay to have some objectification in sex.
12:21 - The pornification of society is a scary thing
18:12 - Pornography perverts the natural end of sexuality and is a difficult thing to define.
23:22 - Pornography is a slow poison to a marriage
28:40 - Objectification of a spouse
34:38 - Pornography and masturbation are controversial topics
40:01 - Masturbation and pornography are considered disordered as they take a natural act and thwart the end of it.
45:33 - Make love outside the bedroom and have sex inside the bedroom.

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@PintsWithAquinas
@PintsWithAquinas Жыл бұрын
If you're a KZbinr, make a response video to this one. Critique what I did poorly, articulate what I could have articulated better. Pornography is evil and never acceptable. Let's shout that from the mountain tops while showing kindness and compassion to those who are currently ensnared in it. Freedom is possible.
@iamneverwrong6635
@iamneverwrong6635 Жыл бұрын
He’s going to hopefully come around. You can’t defend the indefensible. Pornography is something that promotes deviant views of women, takes God out of the sacred sexual union of a man and woman and destroys families. Period.
@racheljames7
@racheljames7 Жыл бұрын
I can't see how anyone could fault you here. You did superbly well, Matt. I'm proud of you.
@richarddeerflame
@richarddeerflame Жыл бұрын
@@jeffgough I have done it... its realistic and its entirely possible to turn of all sexuality when its not for Procreation or with ones Wife. People think things are impossible only because of their view on the topic... all things are possible with God... And trust me... the freedom from it... I am Married and we are so happy..... without Sex! ( We hug and show that affection physically yes) . The fact I am able to ... just proves... we do have self control and abilities that are powerful.... we cannot say we dont and then make things "Ok" because of this or that.... an excuse if you will. Humans as a whole and im not judging you or pointing at you... im saying generally.. people are good at making excuses for lack of control. It's a human trait.... But when you have something powerful to live up to from Gods Laws... I tell you this... Anything is possible... Every man has access to learn how to control himself... it's not for specific people only.... it's free for all. Believe me .
@racheljames7
@racheljames7 Жыл бұрын
​@@jeffgough if you're at an age where your wife has alzheimers, your lust does not need quenching in the same way a verile young man's does. Matt is right. It's a sin and there's no excuse. We can't say it's OK for this person or that person to do it, but not that person. Its not alright full stop.
@timobrien72
@timobrien72 Жыл бұрын
I'm very much ensnared (good term) in it. I'm hopelessly addicted to it and have been for so many years. I'm married, although not a Catholic marriage ( which we are going to put rihgt ) please have understanding and compassion for those of us that have this disease. I use pornography and I'm trying to be a good Catholic. I don't list after a beautiful woman on a train and then masturbate. I use this to deal with life. I need prayers
@mollym6375
@mollym6375 Жыл бұрын
This really opened my eyes to how conservativism, without the light of Christ, cannot be the solution to our problems.
@smolrat159
@smolrat159 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you 💝
@Harvdigity
@Harvdigity Жыл бұрын
Amen
@jared0817
@jared0817 Жыл бұрын
This statement sums up it very nicely. I might still the quote. 😊
@radfoo72
@radfoo72 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Our politics cannot save us. It is by Christ alone and through him our politics can have a morally acceptable foundation.
@riverebec1
@riverebec1 Жыл бұрын
Please explain what you mean by that.
@youngKOkid1
@youngKOkid1 Жыл бұрын
This discussion is a great example of why I'm moving from Judaism to Christianity.
@youngKOkid1
@youngKOkid1 Жыл бұрын
@@NorthCountry84 Thanks, I'm still undecided as to Protestant vs Catholic vs Orthodox, but keeping my mind open!
@Wilkins325
@Wilkins325 Жыл бұрын
Praise God. Happy to hear that.
@pmlm1571
@pmlm1571 Жыл бұрын
youngKOkid, I have been a longtime listener to Dennis' fine radio show--he is a real champion of truth and goodness in many outstanding ways. But he finally always failed me when the discussion turned to human sexuality. I came to realize he had some kind of global error in his thinking. I am guessing that judaism includes no account of natural law. If you do not think things have inbuilt-nature and inbuilt purpose, then there is finally no way to know if you are rightly using the thing--in this instance, sexuality--or abusing it. Judaism is the preparation for Christianity and Western Civilization from which we here--and the world--have benefited. Christianity knows--through Aristotle through Thomas Aquinas--that virtue is honoring the nature of whatever thing we are considering, its design and purpose. And vice is using a thing for other than it was designed for, or contrary to its design (sodomy being an example in sex, lying an example in speech, bulimia an example in eating, etc). With thanks to Judaism and the Old Testament, I encourage you to keep coming, for Christ made all things New.
@hellooutsiders6865
@hellooutsiders6865 Жыл бұрын
Praise Yeshua! Wait until the Revelation clicks, then you will have no trouble accepting Jesus as the king of the Jews and the Gentiles.
@Thagomizer
@Thagomizer Жыл бұрын
Because you hate your own genitals?
@maddihuskergirl
@maddihuskergirl 9 ай бұрын
The line, "if adulte adultery is the shot in the head to marriage, then pornagrphy is the slow poison..." really got me
@DRSTRANGELOVEIN
@DRSTRANGELOVEIN 9 ай бұрын
Having lived the life of a sexual deviant, I can promise you “it’s okay to make lust” is not a phrase I would tolerate in any church I’d be seen in.
@currentlyAddictedToKebab
@currentlyAddictedToKebab 9 ай бұрын
well said, Dr. Strange Love
@thefacelessquestion3333
@thefacelessquestion3333 9 ай бұрын
A woman once said "my husband doesn't mind where the hunger starts as long as I come home to EAT." what say you to this?
@DRSTRANGELOVEIN
@DRSTRANGELOVEIN 9 ай бұрын
@@thefacelessquestion3333 I’m not a hundred percent certain but I guess the analogy is saying “wether you love me or are just horny, so long as we have sex at the end.” If that is indeed what the analogy is referring to I’ll simply put it as this. Intent is everything. Matters of the spirit tend to revolve around the spirit. If an unmarried couple have not taken their vows, but truly love each other, they look upon each other with the grace and understanding of their Heavenly Father, and they express that love physically through sexual intercourse, I don’t see anything sinful in that. Inversely, if two people married twenty years, don’t talk to each other, don’t relate to each other, don’t even really like each other, but they both blow off steam by reducing themselves to base, primal, mutual masturbatory tools, there is something sinful about that.
@thefacelessquestion3333
@thefacelessquestion3333 9 ай бұрын
@@DRSTRANGELOVEIN I don't think Matt's gonna agree with your first thought of an unmarried couple with "great intent" being intimate. I see your point tho
@DRSTRANGELOVEIN
@DRSTRANGELOVEIN 9 ай бұрын
@@thefacelessquestion3333 You have a point as well, it might be that such an idealized scenario is virtually impossible because of our fallen sinful nature. I personally feel that in those blind spots is where grace falls. And we must have grace for each other as all of us fall short.
@zachvanmeter1154
@zachvanmeter1154 Жыл бұрын
“What we once called hardcore we now call softcore; what we once called softcore we now call Netflix.” Straight facts.
@feslerae
@feslerae Жыл бұрын
Underrated comment
@johncassani6780
@johncassani6780 Жыл бұрын
It wasn’t too long ago that polite society considered what’s now on Netflix to be hardcore.
@josephbrandenburg4373
@josephbrandenburg4373 Жыл бұрын
This is true - but I don't think Matt Fradd has an objective standard for what he calls pr0n other than his gut feeling. He's really inconsistent on this point in all his material on the subject, and it frustrates me to no end. How can he say that the Sistine Chapel is art but the Victoria's Secret fashion show is pornography? By what standard? It's not good to let our standards change due to culture, but when our standards are based on vague feelings rather than objective observations, they're gonna slide ans slide.
@robynbeach3198
@robynbeach3198 Жыл бұрын
TRUTH
@mrbaker7443
@mrbaker7443 Жыл бұрын
What we once called hardcore is now children’s TV.
@rosedevine440
@rosedevine440 Жыл бұрын
"If adultery is the shooting of a marriage in the head, then pornography is the slow poisoning of it" 🙌
@colasfalon6470
@colasfalon6470 Жыл бұрын
It's a pretty cool quote, and I think I can accept some aspects of the sentiment, however in both parts of that quote, the gun is being blamed for the murder.
@1guitar12
@1guitar12 Жыл бұрын
@@colasfalon6470 Interesting that’s how you see it, as compared to the gun and poison as tools used by the sinner. I see the tools as the clear means and not the deception
@colasfalon6470
@colasfalon6470 Жыл бұрын
@@1guitar12 From your reply, I am not certain whether what precisely we disagree on. If I might clarify, it isn't actually the "adultery" nor the "poison" that actually CAUSES the death (as the ultimate cause), but the individual's eventual need for the utilization of them. Perhaps a better analogy might be the farmer putting down a lame/sick animal, in which it makes no difference whether it is the shotgun or the arsenic...they are only a means to finalize that which was already inevitable. Nobody thinks that the shotgun or arsenic are evil (at their core nature) nor that those tools are the ultimate cause (even thought they are the proximal cause) of the animal's demise.
@1guitar12
@1guitar12 Жыл бұрын
@@colasfalon6470 Yea I think we’re on the same page
@connorcreegan
@connorcreegan Жыл бұрын
There's just one problem: viewing pornography in the context of marriage is adultery.
@Texasguy316
@Texasguy316 10 ай бұрын
I can assure you even 80-90% of men who watch pornography acknowledge it’s evil and feel ashamed afterwards. It’s why they hide it. Defending pornography as “not evil” is absurd. Seriously. Pray for those who are tempted.
@pitfighter871
@pitfighter871 9 ай бұрын
its not evil. no matter how much you imply it is. its the shame ONTOP the compulsive behavior that makes people so exhausted they cant go find people to be in a relationship with this shame alone makes it evil. because the evil is the undue and unwieldy restraint that leads yo a broken life. the detriment alone is crippling, adding embarrassment upon, enforces a guilt- matrix so complex that alter egos are created to "appear" valuble, which guarantees the behavior by creating self-policed people who are operating within a society of restrict victorian codes (codes the aristocracy enforce and happily break and mock privately) repressing and falsely appearing to their friends and neighbors while they have a high sex drive, btw, unlike others who have low sex drives, easy to say its wrong when you have no dog on the fight. furthermore the shame makes ones hide for fear of failure to live to the standards and so they adopt a persona that isnt aligned with their true drives all to justify a culture that benifits (rewards) those who are either good at lying about sex or have little to no sex drive meanwhile the supposed Christian society is the highest consumer of sex and its no mystery and the hypocrisy isnt suprising. because its all demonic to use the shame against each other but why is it necessary? if a healthy life was within reach wouldnt it be affordable? food, education, self-employment. my point is not only is The US not Christian as it claims. but it is actively Satanic, demonic, and inhumane and sadistic to people who are uninitiated and outside of wealth
@user-od5fh3gn4d
@user-od5fh3gn4d 9 ай бұрын
Meh, not in my experience: the ones I’ve known were proud of their “collections”, sharing it with friends, and coercing their female partners to re-enact what they saw in corn with threats of “I’ll cheat on you if you don’t comply”. They don’t care. Now many of them openly admit they’d prefer secks robots and artificial wombs over women, even the conservative ones.
@emanuelbotello23
@emanuelbotello23 9 ай бұрын
You never watch it and say yeah that was great. It’s shameful not because society deems it, but because at the root of it is pervasive way of looking at another human being. It’s reducing a person doing these acts of pleasure as an object for self gratification. The act of union is marred by one self satisfaction. Your are saying no to God by using a gift given to share in creation, to do as you please. It’s an abomination and those who do not see it that way have convinced themselves that their sin is not a sin.
@marshallmussarela943
@marshallmussarela943 9 ай бұрын
​@@pitfighter871It's still evil
@Mindmartyr
@Mindmartyr 9 ай бұрын
It's evil & absurd.
@RRYYAANNK7
@RRYYAANNK7 9 ай бұрын
We need much more of these conversations highlighting the MAJOR differences between Judaism and Christianity.
@jessicarowley6010
@jessicarowley6010 Жыл бұрын
I think his dad looking at porn shows how you can desensitize your children to sex. This is exactly why parents are concerned about sexual books in the schools and libraries.
@tesladrew2608
@tesladrew2608 Жыл бұрын
The easiest way to desensitize someone to sex is for them to have sex, then they realize how Meaningless it is
@brittoncain5090
@brittoncain5090 Жыл бұрын
@@tesladrew2608So the act that creates human beings is meaningless?
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek Жыл бұрын
Women with high body counts destroy their ability to form deep relationships. Because women often feel something for those they sleep with.
@Ana_Cecilia615
@Ana_Cecilia615 Жыл бұрын
The problem too is that Dennis won't admit magazines featuring naked women are porn. It's a form of prostitution. If he thinks women in Playboy were just posing for photos, then he is either a coward that won't face the reality of the darkness behind it, or he has a serious problem with lust and won't admit it. Either way, he's not being honest with himself about why it's wrong. He is accountable to God with 613 laws and yet he wants to manipulate his way out of lust. It's really quite gross behavior to be proud of yourself for behaving well socially, but dwelling in dark and nastiness inside of you. I don't want a husband with that kind of mind. I'd rather be single and pure.
@aalliaandreadis5109
@aalliaandreadis5109 Жыл бұрын
@@nightmareTomek this is true about men too. I've rejected promiscuous men repeatedly. It's disgusting. It's also very unmanly for a man to use women in that way and it shows that he separates his mind from his body easily and he disrespects his own body just as much as the bodies of women he has casual sex with. Yet this is the role model men have been fed by the powers that be through the media. In reality, a lot of promiscuous men have trouble connecting with women in bed, secretly hate them and some of these men come out as gay later in life. Sad but true.
@heavymetalmusichead4969
@heavymetalmusichead4969 10 ай бұрын
I am convinced that Prager's defense of porn is a defense of his own sin.
@MrSmith-zy2bp
@MrSmith-zy2bp 9 ай бұрын
Look into who runs the p*rn industry. You'll find more coincidences there.
@lapinchechismosa
@lapinchechismosa 9 ай бұрын
Those types are always guilty
@terrorbellidecuspacis
@terrorbellidecuspacis 9 ай бұрын
Yep… just take a look at his friends too, brother.
@BestMom96
@BestMom96 9 ай бұрын
I see it as a defense of his upbringing. If he was raised that something was okay, he’s not going to find issue with it. Is it still wrong? I believe it is.
@mider9996
@mider9996 9 ай бұрын
where did he defend porn?
@athanasius333
@athanasius333 6 ай бұрын
The difference between lust and sexual desire is this: Lust controls you and can't be satisfied. Sexual desire doesn't control you and can be satisfied.
@tanmac4138
@tanmac4138 9 ай бұрын
Love the distinction Matt made between sexual desire and lust. This is why I believe Christianity is superior to Judaism. Christianity looks at the essence and roots of sin to destroy it while Judaism only looks at sin's fruits. This will inevitably leave someone struggling with evil their whole life. Oh, and did anyone else think that Dennis constantly interrupting Matt while he was trying to explain was very rude? Seemed like it was constant.
@ragamuffin2829
@ragamuffin2829 7 ай бұрын
Yes, it frequently frustrated me that Prager seemed unable to hold his tongue long enough to hear Matt's response.
@meganstutz625
@meganstutz625 5 ай бұрын
Agreed. With Judaism everything is based on works not faith. Very interesting how he justifies the difference between a “behavior” and acting on something.
@leegrant7333
@leegrant7333 5 ай бұрын
I don't believe he meant it to be rude but indeed the action of interruption was guilt.
@christianalvarez197
@christianalvarez197 2 ай бұрын
Prager doesn't speak for all Jews. Also... Cope harder.
@inrisalvatore9520
@inrisalvatore9520 7 күн бұрын
I didn't get the difference between sexual desire and lust. Can anyone explain to me?
@braydb83
@braydb83 Жыл бұрын
"...pornography trains us in selfishness" Spot on Matt. Thats truly at the heart of the matter
@humpteedumptee8629
@humpteedumptee8629 Жыл бұрын
people were already and will always be selfish. we use to get wives but literally just taking them.
@tanislater6845
@tanislater6845 Жыл бұрын
​@@humpteedumptee8629 That doesn't negate the truthfulness of the statement, sex shouldn't be selfish and neither should marriage. If it's all about yourself then you won't be able to maintain a lifelong relationship and the sex will be meaningless
@humpteedumptee8629
@humpteedumptee8629 Жыл бұрын
@@tanislater6845 no saying acting like your not going to be selfless indefinitely is silly. that's why we have compromise. because people by default want things their way.
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek Жыл бұрын
"...pornography trains us in selfishness" is people dictating how others should behave. I consume lots of porn, but I do lots of things for others without asking anything in return. I must be so selfish, right? If my love and care isn't accepted because of some side activity, then marriage is a leash. Dunno how it's different from one person in the relationship telling the other what friends he is allowed to have.
@brittoncain5090
@brittoncain5090 Жыл бұрын
@@nightmareTomek"Pornography trains us in selfishness" doesn't say anything about what others should so. It merely describes the effects of what someone has already chosen to do.
@brendan.j.t
@brendan.j.t Жыл бұрын
Prager seems to think the pornification of culture is evil, but doesn’t mind men indulging in porography… seems like cognitive dissonance. Terrific job Matt 🙏🏼 glory to Jesus Christ
@vizuz
@vizuz Жыл бұрын
@@Gt3ch The fact that Prager couldn't even define his position at all, just shows how much he's arguing on shaky grounds. It's like saying I'm against abortion but only after 16 weeks, why 16 weeks? Because it's 'less bad' than killing a baby at 26 weeks, or 36 weeks. Just because it's 'less bad' doesn't make it not bad. But Prager was very hesitant to even calling the 'less bad' as bad.
@brendan.j.t
@brendan.j.t Жыл бұрын
@@Gt3ch fair. just, "it's less sinful, so eh whatever," is such a bad point, as Matt I think made clear. Especially when it can and often does lead to or involve such greater evils.
@marchess286
@marchess286 Жыл бұрын
@@vizuz - so there are no gradations of bad or evil? Dante Alighieri, call your office!
@Gt3ch
@Gt3ch Жыл бұрын
@@vizuz I don’t know what you mean by saying he "couldn't even define his position at all.” Maybe you missed it? While the abortion example is faulty yes there are different levels of sin. Even Matt said there are varying levels to murder as patricide is worse than killing a stranger.
@Gt3ch
@Gt3ch Жыл бұрын
@@brendan.j.t Well yeah- they barely touched on a couple topics that really needed to be expanded more for their positions to be clearer. One is all the evils and damage related to the production, dissemination, and consumption of even the soft core images Prager is referring to. The other is the damage to the psyche and well-being to a person with a high sex drive that is getting insufficient sexual outlets - like his devoted father or a disabled/disfigured person who is unable to have a loving relationship. So where it stays is that they both agree on what is ideal. Frad is saying anything other than the ideal is intolerable and forbidden. Prager is saying life is messy and we are all sinners and there are circumstances of minimal harm where we should be charitable and be more concerned with graver sins.
@abutler8888
@abutler8888 9 ай бұрын
Goodness, I’m 21 minutes in and I’ve lost so much respect for Dennis 😢 his ideas about lust made me so sad. He’s lost his way on this. It’s also clear he doesn’t understand female feelings. I don’t understand how his mother could have been ok with having to view playboy with his father. I grew up hearing my father constantly comment on other women to my mother and be very open about his appreciation of them. All the while he constantly professed his fidelity and threw it up to her as a virtue she should be grateful for. It was sad to watch my mother pretend to be ok with this just to keep the peace in our home.
@artaxerxes360
@artaxerxes360 8 ай бұрын
Your mom should confront him, tell him how she feels. Misunderstanding should always be resolved. If he yells or anything, remind him you're an armed citizen.
@bluesdealer
@bluesdealer 8 ай бұрын
Women don’t understand the male mind. Nothing new here
@kathyhansen2820
@kathyhansen2820 Ай бұрын
@@artaxerxes360 I always enjoyed saying "remember who does the cooking in this house".
@Thedolirionn
@Thedolirionn Күн бұрын
Female feelings? Is he simping or what?
@digitalwasabi2
@digitalwasabi2 10 ай бұрын
Dennis told a story on his radio show a few years ago, about how his father joked about wanting his casket open at his funeral so he could peek down the blouses of the women passing by. Dennis thought it was cute and funny, and played it down like he does here. I thought it was a bizarre thing to say and share.
@gabrielhoxie346
@gabrielhoxie346 8 ай бұрын
Not the most proper thing to say. However that made me laugh.
@bluesdealer
@bluesdealer 8 ай бұрын
That’s actually really funny.
@godschild2432
@godschild2432 7 ай бұрын
Unrepentant perv???
@mr.frolicyoutube
@mr.frolicyoutube 6 ай бұрын
It’s called a joke snowflake
@fallen0851
@fallen0851 4 ай бұрын
A bit weird but kinda funny
@MattFoote
@MattFoote Жыл бұрын
The problem with Dennis' ideology here is that he's preoccupied with what he would consider evil and not what God considers evil.
@WhoTouchMyGun
@WhoTouchMyGun 10 ай бұрын
This is the exact issue Judaism has had since time immemorial. All through the Bible, especially in the Torah, the Jewish people have tried to define what is good based one what they find objectionable, not based on what God, their God and the God of Christianity, considers good. This is why they struggled with idol worship and the punishments that came from it. This is why they were forced to wander the wilds for forty years, because they were more preoccupied with what they considered right than what God considers right. You can see this is Dennis' view as he doesn't view encouraging thoughts of evil things as being unacceptable, merely that they're less ideal than not having them.
@malcolmfreeman7802
@malcolmfreeman7802 10 ай бұрын
given the bibles unclear and conflicting ideas - they have to be interpreted by man
@MattFoote
@MattFoote 10 ай бұрын
@@malcolmfreeman7802 to which ideas are you referring to as conflicting?
@highinfovoter8909
@highinfovoter8909 10 ай бұрын
@@MattFoote I've noticed, when pressed, no one ever has concrete examples when they mention things like what Malcom said about the Bible.
@fxstsharley
@fxstsharley 10 ай бұрын
I don't think the purpose of this debate was to figure out what evil is. What I took from this debate is what is the best we can do as human beings, Not saints. I thinknthats where Denis was coming from. The other guy calling master--------- evil and saying people should control themselves while smoking and drinking is more than a bit hypocritical LOL. (I smoke and drink a bit also but)
@andrefouche9682
@andrefouche9682 Жыл бұрын
Now I see the difference between true Christianity and so called American conservativism. Well spoken Matt.
@GothVibeWars
@GothVibeWars Жыл бұрын
Really it’s mostly Judaism
@mnmmnm925
@mnmmnm925 Жыл бұрын
prager represents judaism and neoconvervatism
@doctoreggman21
@doctoreggman21 Жыл бұрын
sexual debauchery and degeneration of society is okay as long as we have da jobs!!! 🤡🤡🤡🤡
@jarlaxle150
@jarlaxle150 Жыл бұрын
(((American Conservatism)))
@Daniel_Abraham1099
@Daniel_Abraham1099 Жыл бұрын
American Conservativism = Neocon = Judeo-Christian = Judaism
@Jackfrost24
@Jackfrost24 8 ай бұрын
Speaking as a Protestant I have never encountered ANYONE who would say stealing a stapler is the same as child molestation. Clearly the Old Testament teaches us that different sin results in different punishments. What I hope those people were trying to say is that ALL sin separate us from God and we ALL need a saviour, regardless of nature or frequency of sin
@kathiehill165
@kathiehill165 9 ай бұрын
I'm shocked! I didn't realize Dennis held such beliefs.
@ninjanutzforfun1105
@ninjanutzforfun1105 8 ай бұрын
He's jewish
@doctor.dickface
@doctor.dickface 7 ай бұрын
You wouldn't be so shocked if you had any knowledge of the talmud
@jad77777
@jad77777 7 ай бұрын
‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭11:14‭-‬15‬ "And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works."
@IHavAnAkimbonr
@IHavAnAkimbonr 5 ай бұрын
I mean… he’s J-ish so this is pretty much right in step with what they believe. You should check out the quote from Al Goldstein on why they are seemingly so prominent in the industry. REAL eye opener.
@WarriorWoman321
@WarriorWoman321 4 ай бұрын
Check out his animated video on adultery….I unsubbed after that one. I can tolerate a great many things, but I draw the line there.
@cfradd
@cfradd Жыл бұрын
Thanks for loving me Matt & not lusting after me!! 😊
@Darthmaul756
@Darthmaul756 Жыл бұрын
You truly are blessed to have Matt ❤
@steele8280
@steele8280 Жыл бұрын
Why is this not a pinned comment?
@dandersen464
@dandersen464 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha I saw this and didn’t see the name first and about lost it 😂
@edwarddelman5287
@edwarddelman5287 Жыл бұрын
You guys are so awesome god bless you both
@charlesthin4621
@charlesthin4621 Жыл бұрын
Beet comment.
@KyleWhittington
@KyleWhittington Жыл бұрын
Matt, thank you for having the courage to stand up for the truth.
@johnnastrom9400
@johnnastrom9400 Жыл бұрын
You mean standing up for his opinion.
@KyleWhittington
@KyleWhittington Жыл бұрын
Thank you faceless stranger for sharing your own opinion of what you think that I meant.
@TickleMeElmo55
@TickleMeElmo55 Жыл бұрын
@@KyleWhittington Haha yea, Nastrom is a number of posts on this video being passive aggressive towards posters who back up Matt, saying that Catholics can't defend their "opinions" on porn. I mean, as if Nastrom himself has properly written up a rebuttal (which, most likely, he hasn't).
@julius43461
@julius43461 Жыл бұрын
@@richardhead-sw2qc In what way does it points to Jesus? This made me curious.
@iwacu123
@iwacu123 Жыл бұрын
How is he “standing up for the truth?” God *created* male sexuality, it is totally normal, healthy and natural. Sick of this prudish and judgmental shaming of male sexuality. It’s so unhealthy, oppressive, against nature
@frankharet8865
@frankharet8865 8 ай бұрын
Matt crushed this - great job, very impressed with how articulate Matt is.
@leegrant7333
@leegrant7333 5 ай бұрын
YOu mean how smart he is
@pera.j.andersson
@pera.j.andersson 3 ай бұрын
Articulate? Smart? With all this cigar smoking?
@tlm57
@tlm57 9 ай бұрын
With one word (No) Dennis Prager outed himself as a porn user, destroyed his career, reputation and brand. "There is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be made known and brought to light."- Luke 8:17
@thomasthellamas9886
@thomasthellamas9886 Жыл бұрын
As a man who has struggled with pornography in the past, the ever so slight justification of that addiction and those purely evil chains is, without a doubt, disgusting.
@Musicienne-DAB1995
@Musicienne-DAB1995 Жыл бұрын
It's the 'ever-so-slight-justification' that leads one rolling down the hill to full-blown slavery.
@Thefloridarepublic
@Thefloridarepublic Жыл бұрын
For sure. Been there. Please God that I'm rescued forever.
@bboness713
@bboness713 Жыл бұрын
Our behavior follows the thoughts of our mind. If you can't win the battle in your own mind you have no chance curbing the behavior.
@TheGoreforce
@TheGoreforce Жыл бұрын
the only time it's considered an addiction is if it's getting in the way of your productivity, if instead you'd read a book or watch tv, you're not addicted.
@frankjennings4489
@frankjennings4489 Жыл бұрын
Personally, when I stopped associating sin and shame with pornography, I was no longer really tempted by it. In that respect, regarding every gradation of porn as purely evil only adds to its power. It was never a really serious problem for me, so everyone’s different, but I think we can often take our own experience and mistakenly think that it applies to everyone.
@HarrisonTheGrey
@HarrisonTheGrey Жыл бұрын
Prager: "Here's an emotional example." Also Prager: "Don't bring up emotional examples."
@mariapankrath5845
@mariapankrath5845 Жыл бұрын
Prager: "I'm not advocating porn!" But then he's saying porn is ok🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️
@kadenkohl782
@kadenkohl782 Жыл бұрын
Gradually i began to hate them
@comicsans1689
@comicsans1689 Жыл бұрын
@@mariapankrath5845 The tribe always advocates for porn.
@lolboy546
@lolboy546 Жыл бұрын
It wasn't an emotional example. He was asking Matt what the husband should do in that situation.
@samueljimenez7420
@samueljimenez7420 9 ай бұрын
The boldness and the bravery of the interviewer is convicting to me and I’m grateful for a wonderful example of it. It’s easy to stand against those who vehemently oppose it. I find it difficult to be bold against those we consider friends.
@juliasquier3894
@juliasquier3894 7 ай бұрын
I've been listening for 5 min and subscribed. Dennis displayed the typical human being's mental gymnastics of justifying themselves in thoughts and behaviors vs. Justification through Jesus's finished work and then letting The Holy Spirit guide you in love in all your relationships. What a stark difference. He can't seem to make the connection between lust and what it can lead to.
@juliasquier3894
@juliasquier3894 7 ай бұрын
Also, I appreciate your steadfastness in confronting his loose position that doesn't seem to be based in any teaching. The way you described sex as God designed is biblical and beautiful and Dennis misses it. So, he can say Man lying with another man is wrong but not other sexual immorality. You handled this topic, and every point he made seamlessly, staying true to Christian values as outlined in the Word.
@Wonderpattypatty
@Wonderpattypatty Жыл бұрын
“I think that pornography trains us in selfishness“ bravo, Matt!!! 👏👏👏
@thecarlitosshow7687
@thecarlitosshow7687 Жыл бұрын
Christ made this clear in the Spiritual interpretation of "Thou shalt not commit adultery." It is selfishness.
@bluesdealer
@bluesdealer 8 ай бұрын
@@thecarlitosshow7687literally nobody here advocated for adultery. Masturbation is not adultery. How absurd
@brittoncain5090
@brittoncain5090 5 ай бұрын
@@bluesdealerI wouldn't call it adultery, but it's still a form of sexual misconduct in a marriage.
@CyberFighter-hu7xo
@CyberFighter-hu7xo 2 ай бұрын
I think that female emancipation creates the need for pornography’
@user-je9bg4lm7e
@user-je9bg4lm7e Жыл бұрын
I am a marriage and family therapist and the damage of porn on marriages can not be overstated!
@Musicienne-DAB1995
@Musicienne-DAB1995 Жыл бұрын
I can imagine. From every angle-- psychological, neurological, social, moral, ethical... there's just no defence for pornography.
@creationdesautels9891
@creationdesautels9891 Жыл бұрын
@@Musicienne-DAB1995 Correct, there is no coherent moral defense for porn. Sadly, the sweeping normalization of porn has made it appear to harmless even to people of faith. And in faith communities that are reluctant to speak and shroud sex and sexual issues in silence and shame, porn is both rampant and wildly destructive!
@AI-lr9sb
@AI-lr9sb Жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this.
@user-je9bg4lm7e
@user-je9bg4lm7e Жыл бұрын
@@AI-lr9sb my pleasure. My clinical specialization is sex and sexuality. Not that many of us about, so I feel obligated to be vocal.
@militantnormal428
@militantnormal428 Жыл бұрын
Which is worse than a sexless marriage where a woman withholds sex?
@user-vv4rg7xw9h
@user-vv4rg7xw9h 9 ай бұрын
Wonderful debate, thank you so much!
@skepticalbutopen4620
@skepticalbutopen4620 9 ай бұрын
Wow, this is an amazing discussion. So interesting. I don't consider myself religious, but I find these discussions very enlightening. Just subscribed.
@reillycassel3574
@reillycassel3574 Жыл бұрын
This was like reading the dialogue between Christ and the Pharisees. Christ taught us that sin is more than the physical action it is also intent. Prager even goes as far to say that the intent is not sin. This conversation has shown me that a life lived without belief in the Incarnation is depressing because a man will spend his days justifying the evil he holds within. Your work fighting pornography has led me to confronting addiction. Thank you very much Amazing job Matt.
@bdavis105
@bdavis105 Жыл бұрын
Well modern Judaism was created by the Pharisees.
@nullus8717
@nullus8717 Жыл бұрын
Funnily enough, it is indeed a dialogue with a *literal* Pharisee!
@anneinohio8232
@anneinohio8232 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully written, and an incredible insight.
@Wonderpattypatty
@Wonderpattypatty Жыл бұрын
💯 🎯 👏👏👏
@isidoreaerys8745
@isidoreaerys8745 Жыл бұрын
Lol did you watch the video. Also you’re probably not addicted to pornography. This dude is a charlatan convincing you you have a disease so he can sell you the cure. Hm just like Christianity.
@udmgraduate
@udmgraduate Жыл бұрын
I’ve never been more proud of Matt Fradd than right here in this interview. He didn’t soft-pedal. He grew such a pair and stood up for the faith so strongly. Most masculine I’ve ever seen him.
@gloryghassan1460
@gloryghassan1460 Жыл бұрын
This is his playground
@isidoreaerys8745
@isidoreaerys8745 Жыл бұрын
Dennis prager made him look like a brainwashed fool.
@shellydickinson8598
@shellydickinson8598 Жыл бұрын
I agree! I wasn’t expecting much on his end but he really stepped up and stood his ground!!
@raulrovelo5544
@raulrovelo5544 Жыл бұрын
@@gloryghassan1460 his years of working against porn really show here!
@RegularHunter
@RegularHunter Жыл бұрын
I mean. Matt's a masculine dude. I'm not sure why we’re setting the bar so low? I expected him to throw bombs
@tanmac4138
@tanmac4138 9 ай бұрын
After seeing this interview all the way through, I have developed a profound disrespect for Dennis. Particularly because of his views on animated child porn. I'd like to see him say that to the face of Tim Ballard. The man who has to deal with the results of crap like that on the Internet. The next step after animated child porn is REAL child porn. It creates pedophiles and for Dennis not to acknowledge this makes him a fool.
@SistaOtis
@SistaOtis 9 ай бұрын
Maybe more than a fool! I wouldn’t let him babysit my kids, let’s put it that way.
@mattwhite1244
@mattwhite1244 7 ай бұрын
Yep. That was horrific.
@BeeBlot
@BeeBlot 6 ай бұрын
What's crazy is that it's AI animation of real life photos that people post on their social media, of their children, it's grafted onto the AI. Then the perps can graft their images onto the adult in the scene. Pretty disgusting stuff. Also, the majority of dudes who watch this stuff move on to real life r*ping of children.
@jimpopsicle9702
@jimpopsicle9702 5 ай бұрын
I just started watching the video and came here for that clip and part. Could you timestamp it for me please?
@PatriotLady1991
@PatriotLady1991 9 ай бұрын
Bingo! And there it is. He's justifying Playboy because his dad subscribed to it, and he viewed it as a teen. Hefner was a despicable man and by buying it, subscribing to it, viewing it, you are supporting it.
@bingus2464
@bingus2464 Жыл бұрын
Phenomenal performance by Matt, this entire conversation felt like Dennis trying to distance himself from positions that he does hold, and Matt not letting him get away with it. Well done
@racheljames7
@racheljames7 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. It must have been a huge embarrassment for Prager knowing he's the guy who is defending wanking to porn (even in the cases of nonces viewing animated CP 🤮) and not the guy who is trying with all his might to be heroic and virtuous.
@TrustJesus333
@TrustJesus333 Жыл бұрын
Why does anyone listen to Mr. Prager? He is a liar, following his father, satan. It is not gray! He is not a child of God.
@michaelinminn
@michaelinminn Жыл бұрын
Yes! Dennis was doing 'okay ' until the end. Might be time for him to leave the memory of his doting mother and amoral father, and cross the Tiber.
@ML-rd6ci
@ML-rd6ci Жыл бұрын
Pornography should be absolutely avoided. From my personal experiences, it's toxic and good for nothing. Nobody should touch it.
@TrustJesus333
@TrustJesus333 Жыл бұрын
@@ML-rd6ci Thank you so much for The Truth.
@OPiguy35
@OPiguy35 Жыл бұрын
Thanks to Dennis for coming on the show! But Matt, thank you for defending the truth that porn is sinful and harmful to our souls and it’s perpetuation of evil beyond ourselves
@rosehannah4845
@rosehannah4845 Жыл бұрын
He actually cared about how it would hurt his wife instead of feeding his lustful desires. I was attracted to women since age 12 (bisexual) I prayed and prayed to be set free. I am free from this sin. We should not give in to our sins but pray for help to overcome. Jesus has the power to help us overcome sin. Prager cannot tap into this power as he doesn't have the Holy Spirit, he is a fleshly man, a natural man. The natural man is an enemy to God and cannot know God. The Holy Spirit however, can make a new heart in us, and now there are ads of naked women everywhere, and I have no lust. It's just looking at a sister. Thank God i'm free from that sin.
@kendallandrews8691
@kendallandrews8691 9 ай бұрын
He absolutely bodied prager
@SvanTowerMan
@SvanTowerMan 5 ай бұрын
@@rosehannah4845 Thank you for having the courage to see the error of your ways instead of seeing it as an identity like the world wants to teach.
@304youngblood
@304youngblood 10 ай бұрын
I've stumbled upon this video because I was watching the exodus series. I actually read the porn myth several years ago so it was cool to hear from the author. This is a brilliant debate and conversation!
@susanthompson2988
@susanthompson2988 8 ай бұрын
Well done Sir!! Your wife is a very blessed woman to have you as her husband!! We need more men like you with a strong and fierce Christian faith! 🙏🏻🕊️
@kristenbrotemarkle7562
@kristenbrotemarkle7562 5 ай бұрын
Amen! Agreed. This really increased my respect in Matt and his ability to have a heated, respectful discussion while maintaining his convictions for moral truth.
@deirdrefinnegan5436
@deirdrefinnegan5436 Жыл бұрын
No, Dennis, women are heartbroken about porn for so many reasons. He is so far off. Thanks, Matt.
@rosehannah4845
@rosehannah4845 Жыл бұрын
100%
@marcoz5857
@marcoz5857 Жыл бұрын
can you give an example that was not addressed in his speach?
@deirdrefinnegan5436
@deirdrefinnegan5436 Жыл бұрын
@@marcoz5857 - the degradation and humiliation of porn, the abuse that is inherent in the industry, the objectification of women as toys to use, the immaturity of men who think porn is harmless, the fact that is just another addiction, I could go on for pages. Prager makes it seem like women are just worried that their husbands likes the porn star better. His views on how men and women view sexuality are also very limited.
@marcoz5857
@marcoz5857 Жыл бұрын
@@deirdrefinnegan5436 yea, i think the discussion was a little more sophisticated than how you are presenting it in your comment.
@deirdrefinnegan5436
@deirdrefinnegan5436 Жыл бұрын
@@marcoz5857 - Well, good for you! We disagree.
@catolico97
@catolico97 Жыл бұрын
My wife and I just watched this video together and couldn’t be more proud of the amazing responses Matt gave Dennis. Thank you Matt for defending women dignity and the sanctity of marriage .
@Bluemoon98-2
@Bluemoon98-2 Жыл бұрын
At what point Dennis didn’t not defend women dignity and sanctity or at what point he showed the opposite?
@Conky-or8ic
@Conky-or8ic Жыл бұрын
LoL. Meanwhile your wife is cheating behind your back.
@jrgarciab
@jrgarciab Жыл бұрын
I think Dennis' comments about his father's magazine subscription were off putting. But other than that, he never said it was OK to treat a woman in an undignified way. The Catholic unwilling to please his wife in a small way seemed undignified. Keep in mind, there was no mention of kink or any kind of immoral behavior. If a young man about to get married watched this, I think he might walk away confused by the Catholic's arguments.
@ZapparoniWorks
@ZapparoniWorks Жыл бұрын
@@Bluemoon98-2 The part where he defended porn.
@Bluemoon98-2
@Bluemoon98-2 Жыл бұрын
@@ZapparoniWorks I will watch it again to see where he defined port. ..I do not think k he did . The second guy kept referring g to everything as porn and sin. Where Denis makes distinguish netizen. Levels, not because he think some porn are okay ..because in realty you have to choose what to go after . It is not fair to say he demanding work or because the second guy think everything is sin..he on the other hand hero the defend women dignity.
@thekelliestark
@thekelliestark 9 ай бұрын
I’m so lost in this debate and I can not follow Dennis & his logic.. something seems odd about his interview. It’s very uncomfortable in my spirit. Plus Dennis constantly interrupts which to me is a red flag 🚩
@DanielCanepa331
@DanielCanepa331 9 ай бұрын
When he cannot call pornography or worse "animated child pornography" evil, and uses all his intellect to negotiate this pure evil, that's when I look in his eyes and tell him his father is the devil and end the interview.
@christywoelfel838
@christywoelfel838 9 ай бұрын
A very sad truth
@longwing2011
@longwing2011 4 ай бұрын
Don’t think that is what Prager said or means. He said at the end, IDEALLY he agree with the host, he is just more realistic.
@user-zi7gd9pn3l
@user-zi7gd9pn3l 4 ай бұрын
@@longwing2011 No. Realistic is knowing that animated child porn leads to real child porn which then leads to child rape. Stop trying to defend the Synagogue of Satan.
@samanthawise8991
@samanthawise8991 Жыл бұрын
My husband was addicted to porn and I tried to justify it because it was hurting me and I didn’t know why. Now I understand why. When he looked at porn my thought were “How can he be attracted to me when I don’t look anything like the women in porn that arouse him?” “Why doesn’t he pursue me for sex? Why does he always go to porn before even asking if I’m in the mood too?” “I’m not enough. He wants these other woman and I will never be able to look like them.” “How can I compete with a buffet of women? If he wants a blonde, Boom there she is. If he wants big breasts, Boom there she is. I can’t be all of those things when ever he wants. I’m not a shapeshifter.” Now as follows of Jesus Christ we understand why porn is wrong and he has taken steps to deal with his addiction. Our sex life is so much better now because he is treating me like his wife and not as an object for his sexual pleasure. We are satisfied with each others pleasure instead of just our own. I no longer feel like I have to compete with other women.
@mikepastor.k6233
@mikepastor.k6233 Жыл бұрын
You should get someone that doesn't put porn and sex on such a high level. In reality is doesn't mean a lot and never used to. Only in a post ww2 era has pornography become what it is and made men into what they are..
@kaitlint3987
@kaitlint3987 Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear
@andyzinterer2964
@andyzinterer2964 Жыл бұрын
@@mikepastor.k6233 It's crazy for you to tell someone to leave their husband based on reading a short paragraph. Especially when it ends with them working through a problem and having a stronger relationship because of it. Never give advice based on the presumption you know better than them.
@justinmartin4662
@justinmartin4662 Жыл бұрын
You sound like these guys, someone who loves to talk about their religion and how obedient they are at obeying it and it’s prophets while obviously not knowing really anything about what it actually says. If you think pornography is such a problem for women then you really should actually read your Bible and what it says about women and wives especially. I mean, who are you to even judge him at all considering how clear the Bible is that wives are supposed to be obedient to their husbands? It sounds like you want to be treated like an equal or something like a partner…. I don’t understand why you and probably 99%, literally if not 100% of so called Christians in the west claim to be religious and a follower of Jesus and then so obviously live by secular laws in a secular society that literally means it impossible to live as Jesus says to. If early Christians were like modern “Christians”, they never would have had a problem in Rome, never would have been persecuted or fed to lions.. What makes that even sadder or more ridiculous is that they and the Christians from then all the way to around the beginning of the enlightenment and even modern Africa obviously obeyed much of the commands and laws in the Bible, even though they were mostly illiterate, while you and pretty much every single so called believers today can read the scriptures and yet instead of obeying the laws and commandments you all either completely ignore them or make the most ridiculous excuses and mental gymnastics as to why it doesn’t say what it actually says. Like claiming Jesus and the religion are peaceful, even though their history is soaked in blood and Jesus himself states he didn’t come to bring peace, but the sword, and to turn families against each other so father turns against son and mother against daughter… because you know, when he says he didn’t come to bring peace what he really meant was that he did come to bring peace and the sword was simply just a metaphor… It couldn’t mean what it actually says and what Christians actually lived by for 1700 years at least… If you think porn is so bad why are you a member of a religion whose scripture says things like rapists should be punished by forcing them to marry the woman they raped? Porn might not be the best thing, but compared to what the Bible says it’s nothing..
@justinmartin4662
@justinmartin4662 Жыл бұрын
Also… Do you know what a father giving away the bride means at weddings? The Bible describes wives as literally being the property of the husband, the father is literally giving her away to the husband. The same reason why before divorce was made legal and socially acceptable if a man wanted to get rid of his wife he could and would literally take her to the market and sell her to another man. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wife_selling_(English_custom)
@jaupper
@jaupper Жыл бұрын
Dennis doesn’t seem to recognize that porn/masterbation in most cases leads to more serious evil. Evil begets evil. Sin begets sin.
@Mk-qb2ny
@Mk-qb2ny Жыл бұрын
No it doesn't
@tygaclericuzio4130
@tygaclericuzio4130 Жыл бұрын
Dennis is a Marxist/Communist what you expect.
@tylere.8436
@tylere.8436 Жыл бұрын
Depends if you are proud of your sins. I don't think a lot of guys and gals out there masturbating are doing it with glee and pride, it's depravity and sadness. It's why most don't go out in public and ask others if they masturbate, they would feel shame.
@markislivingdeliberately
@markislivingdeliberately Жыл бұрын
His point is… what if it doesn’t and you never cheat on your wife. THAT is what matters most. Again, Jews are concerned with actions and deeds. They aren’t pretending to have no bad thoughts so they can go to heaven. They don’t believe in heaven or hell. Those are found on earth during your lifetime. So Christian’s live more in their feelings and head and Jews live in the real world. Which is the best way? Dunno. But they’re different perspectives and I think should probably both be respected.
@PointReflex
@PointReflex Жыл бұрын
@@tylere.8436 No one goes to public asking random people if they masturbate because 90% of the human race already masturbates or enjoys lust in a defacto way. Nor people goes out asking married couples if they had sex that week nor in what position, it is assumed that it happens due to experience in life. Plus, masturbating or having lust for others, even to the point of reaching some kind of plathonic love, is not depravity nor sadness, in reality is an expression of a very simple impulse from the mind that we inherit from our ancestors, reproduction. For every "I truly love you" there is the desire to have sex, that's a given in any kind of people (exceptions my vary), therefore is a normal impulse. The problem starts when a group in sociery, specialy with political or religious power, starts to hack out those pleasures, forcing an entire group of people to restrain themselves from enjoying their private lifes.
@thomasschoofs5229
@thomasschoofs5229 9 ай бұрын
Matt was amazing in this debate...subscribing for how he handled that. Dennis made me feel super slimy. Like an older man trying to justify what he has done in his life.
@user-eg4nj5mw1d
@user-eg4nj5mw1d 10 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this dialogue between you both and respected what you each said
@jericaraniego
@jericaraniego Жыл бұрын
This conversation made me realize that Christianity really is the most morally superior religion.
@bendover9620
@bendover9620 Жыл бұрын
Well I mean, what other religion got a torture device as a religious symbol or a deity coming down from heaven to become a human being so said deity could die on aforementioned torture device because He loves His creation?
@matheusfay6082
@matheusfay6082 Жыл бұрын
@@bendover9620 what a weird comment… if you’re mocking it, stop it. If you’re not, it sounded as if you were.
@ZiplineShazam
@ZiplineShazam Жыл бұрын
This conversation made me realize that the god of the bible must want everyone to arrogantly suck on big. . .brown. . .cigars.
@mikeyerian2562
@mikeyerian2562 Жыл бұрын
@@bendover9620 Actually, the crucifix is the religious symbol and it's meaning is to show us how Jesus died for our sins. Yours, too. And of course God didn't die on the cross. Jesus did. Jesus was fully man and fully God. They killed the body. The spirit will never be killed.
@bendover9620
@bendover9620 Жыл бұрын
@@mikeyerian2562 Dude, if God did not die on the cross, then what's the point of His death? I don't know what sect you are within Christianity, but Christ died on that cross, went to hell (well at least not Gehenna) to save those in Abraham's bosom, for the wages of sin is death, and now everyone has a chance to enter the kingdom. For God to be punished with death; a punishment only given to sinners and the defiled, out of love for His creation is the cornerstone of Christianity. Now, of course God's spirit did not die on the cross since the Holy Spirit is another form of the Trinity, however, for you to say that God did not die on the cross is theologically incorrect since as you have said, He is fully man AND fully God. Christ is God, he died on the cross, now therefore, God, in the form of Christ who is both God and Man, died on the cross. You trying to degrade Christ to merely just His corporeal body, different from his spirit which is God sounds so heretical I'd slap you irl. It's even ironic that you say that He's 100% God and Man afterwards.
@davidrojas6457
@davidrojas6457 Жыл бұрын
So Prager is basically saying he's primarily concerned with maintaining a nebulous, mediocre, and relatively neutral sense of "good". This is why I'm so glad to be Catholic, because we aim to be with the highest of highs, never satisfied with the neutral "good" of this world. And while some might say that is unattainable, we have clear examples of the contrary. Never settle, my friends!
@alisterrebelo9013
@alisterrebelo9013 Жыл бұрын
Prager is literally modelling the Pharisees talking to Jesus by refusing to accept that God has updated the rules. Faith counts for a lot now, not merely action. He knows this to be true as he's effectively said it is an ideal but admitting it would be him converting to Christinity. Fradd mightve completely finished him off if he asked, 'Does God not want us to constantly pursue the highest ideals?'
@Alwayslearnimg
@Alwayslearnimg Жыл бұрын
As Catholics, our hope is to become saints. And we are definitely never called to be mediocre in the faith. I have not watched this yet, but in reading the comments, I can’t wait to hear Matt.
@ThatOneFam
@ThatOneFam Жыл бұрын
Your comment is awesome. Thank you for taking the time.
@Musicienne-DAB1995
@Musicienne-DAB1995 Жыл бұрын
There are Jews who disagree with what Dennis Prager has said.
@ThatOneFam
@ThatOneFam Жыл бұрын
@@Musicienne-DAB1995 That's comforting.
@nigiel23
@nigiel23 4 ай бұрын
First time watching you debate very impressed. You just made a fan!
@Saltheart_Foamfollower
@Saltheart_Foamfollower 10 ай бұрын
First watch, new subscriber. Spectacular conversation; a model of the distinction between the Judaic and Christian understandings of "righteousness". I am surprised that word did not enter the discussion, but perhaps it will in the longer version of the episode.
@jessicareasor8577
@jessicareasor8577 Жыл бұрын
Matt, everything you've said here is spot on. My husband had an adulterous affair last year, and it was largely due to, I believe, his lifelong addiction to porn. It was slowly poisoning our marriage for years, until last year when he finally acted on those desires. Our marriage is falling apart, and I am completely heartbroken. Porn destroys men and then it destroys families. That's a hill I will die on.
@raechelpalmer6482
@raechelpalmer6482 Жыл бұрын
My heart breaks with you, I'm so sorry you have had to go through that.
@efreshwater5
@efreshwater5 Жыл бұрын
So sorry, Jessica. My first wife was an adulteress. I'll pray for you and just know that you will heal. It will take time and it is not fun, but you will heal.
@jenns6063
@jenns6063 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry, Jessica. You will be in my prayers.
@lisaarenholz1464
@lisaarenholz1464 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you, sister.
@markperez9002
@markperez9002 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@vinniecox874
@vinniecox874 Жыл бұрын
I am an extremely loyal Pints fan. Watched every episode. While I appreciate Matt always erring on the side of charity, I am absolutely thrilled to see him embrace some confrontation here. What an absolutely splendid defense of God’s commandments. This has finally swayed me to become a paid subscriber on locals.
@bobclift444
@bobclift444 Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the club!
@anzot6903
@anzot6903 Жыл бұрын
Confrontation is not contrary to charity. In fact, in our society, we err so close to the side of niceness that we are often uncharitably leaving our brothers in their sin to wallow and fester. Shame on us.
@MeanBeanComedy
@MeanBeanComedy Жыл бұрын
@@anzot6903 Well-said. However, I don't think he meant charity. There's a better word for it somewhere. Agreeableness? 🤔
@davidmcpike8359
@davidmcpike8359 Жыл бұрын
"on the side of charity" -- i.e., on the side of wishy-washy pious-sentimental bullshit? He's a good host, could be a better philosopher.
@housecry
@housecry Жыл бұрын
​@@MeanBeanComedy Charity means love. Love of God for his own sake and love of neighbor as ourselves. I'm assuming he's using the word as Catholics use it.
@autumnjim8616
@autumnjim8616 9 ай бұрын
This was excellent! Thank you!
@davidsalsedo6765
@davidsalsedo6765 9 ай бұрын
Terrific Show!! Thank you for solid Catholic virtue clearly expressed in this public forum. IHS
@Neb-ie5mj
@Neb-ie5mj Жыл бұрын
Keep the discussion going, porn destroyed my life, please everyone, never tire of pushing back against porn. It's evil, pure and simple, full stop.
@canibezeroun1988
@canibezeroun1988 Жыл бұрын
It hasn't been destroyed yet. You're still with us. Just wanting you to keep looking forward. Confession is invaluable.
@Neb-ie5mj
@Neb-ie5mj Жыл бұрын
@@canibezeroun1988 Thanks! Confession has been the game changer for me, I still live with tremendous guilt, but through friendship and a 12 step program, I'm working my way back towards the light. I appreciate your kind words, never stop being a positive light in the world.
@Musicienne-DAB1995
@Musicienne-DAB1995 Жыл бұрын
@@Neb-ie5mj Totally understand about the tremendous guilt. Keep going!
@michaelbeben757
@michaelbeben757 Жыл бұрын
This debate really makes me thankful for Aristotle and Aquinas as logical powerhouses for framing these debates. Matt thanks for being so humble and letting the Holy Spirit work through you. I’m praying for Mr. Prager that he has his Damascus moment.
@isidoreaerys8745
@isidoreaerys8745 Жыл бұрын
He’s not humble at all. He’s dogmatic and prudish. He’s a busybody.
@gillethsandico
@gillethsandico Жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@michaelbeben757
@michaelbeben757 Жыл бұрын
can you provide some literature to advance your point?
@johnnastrom9400
@johnnastrom9400 Жыл бұрын
" I’m praying for Mr. Prager that he has his Damascus moment." -- And I am praying Christians will come to their senses and focus on the real evils of the world and not about men having sexual thoughts.
@michaelbeben757
@michaelbeben757 Жыл бұрын
@John Nastrom as summarized by Mr. Fradd: porn, lust, masturbation, and improper use of means is the evil with varying levels of morality. Not “sexual thoughts” in general. There is a difference. They discuss ordered sexual nature between married man and women.
@lionheart2211
@lionheart2211 8 ай бұрын
great debate! Matt, very great stance and points as always!
@sammodread7188
@sammodread7188 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the content this presentation of perspective was very interesting
@adennyh
@adennyh Жыл бұрын
Dennis argued that he had seen his parents marriage going well despite his dad openly consuming porn. Does he really know what his mom had been feeling about it though? Or perhaps it's just that his mom never brought up how she really felt? I am highly skeptical that anybody could be genuinely fine seeing his/her spouse lusting over another person. They might tolerate it, but tolerating is different than genuinely being fine with it...
@zapazap
@zapazap Жыл бұрын
I guess all we can do is speculate. But I would assume that Prager would be in the better position to observe than any of us. Cheers!
@OneSparrow-76
@OneSparrow-76 Жыл бұрын
@@zapazap, you have really no idea how much hurt a woman can disguise for the love of a man…especially in the time period they would have been living…
@zapazap
@zapazap Жыл бұрын
@@OneSparrow-76 It is still sheer speculation that hurt was a factor in this case. Also, is not 'disguising' here a species of 'lying'? Cheers!
@zapazap
@zapazap Жыл бұрын
@@OneSparrow-76 Friends: it is not amazing how much a person can presume to know about someone they never met? Cheers!
@orchadorkification
@orchadorkification Жыл бұрын
I had the same thought. A child is not equipped to really accurately observe the feelings of his parents. His mother may have tolerated it BECAUSE she loved her husband and simply didnt want to wreck her family. But as a married woman, I would struggle to believe any woman would really not care at all, Christian, Jew, or otherwise.
@dontpooponmeplease
@dontpooponmeplease Жыл бұрын
The "whose women do you want them to look at" is such an amazing response question for this.
@laraluna9365
@laraluna9365 Жыл бұрын
I had to pause the video and that moment and laughed. Btw your user name is hilarious. My daughter said it should go down in history.
@alqoshgirl
@alqoshgirl Жыл бұрын
Exactly! That is someone’s daughter. Someone’s sister. To think that some women should be sacrificed and dehumanized for the sake of men’s desires is disgusting.
@LegacyFarmandFiber
@LegacyFarmandFiber Жыл бұрын
What if it's pictures and videos of your own wife?
@Thagomizer
@Thagomizer Жыл бұрын
@@alqoshgirl To infantilize women like that is incredibly patronizing. Eventually, your daughter and sister will become adults and think for themselves, make decisions on their own, and might find that they have different beliefs and values outside of the asexual prepubescent hinterland you'd rather keep them in, and might even find that they are all the better for it.
@rosehannah4845
@rosehannah4845 Жыл бұрын
@@alqoshgirl Great comment.
@rich4444hrsm
@rich4444hrsm 8 ай бұрын
This was a great interview, very nice!
@dsurfer
@dsurfer 8 ай бұрын
I love that there is such open and intelligent communication. Even to go discuss he they define words to reach a more complete understanding.
@user-lt7yu6ey7s
@user-lt7yu6ey7s Жыл бұрын
As a young Catholic woman, I was very put off by much of what Mr. Prager said. He was very ambiguous and most of what he shared was just plain creepy. I am glad this debate aired so we now know how we can pray for this gentleman. Hats off to you Matt for defending the Catholic teaching and hopefully educating many who have been misled. God bless!
@rosehannah4845
@rosehannah4845 Жыл бұрын
His poor wife. Despicable behavior. Jesus: "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." Prager needs repentance. His excuse that all men HAVE to have variety is unexcusable is not love for your wife. His poor wife.
@Thagomizer
@Thagomizer Жыл бұрын
​@@rosehannah4845 Jesus also said "If your right hand should cause you to sin, it is better to cut it off and throw it away", "If anyone does not hate his father and mother and all of his brothers and sisters he is incapable of being my disciple", and "I came not bring peace, but a sword", so it's pretty clear that we can't take everything he said at face value.
@Nacny215
@Nacny215 Жыл бұрын
@@johnnastrom9400 why would you tell a Catholic to watch the videos of an atheist Jew? All truth lies with God. Nothing factual can come from an anti-Christ in regards to Jesus, it’s just the opining of man. And if you say the apostles were just men, yes, but they were given the power of the Holy Spirit to continue the work of Jesus.
@Nacny215
@Nacny215 Жыл бұрын
@@Thagomizer your point of scripture is completely out of context and understanding.
@comicsans1689
@comicsans1689 Жыл бұрын
​@@Thagomizer "If your right hand should cause you to sin, it is better to cut it off and throw it away" Jesus is telling us to cut out sinful temptations and occasions of sin from our lives. "If anyone does not hate his father and mother and all of his brothers and sisters he is incapable of being my disciple" Jesus is telling us that following him will put us at odds with the world and even our own family. Sacrifice is a key principle in Christianity "I came not bring peace, but a sword" Jesus wasn't a hippy coming to spread the summer of love like many supposed Christians believe. What Jesus was teaching was such a revolutionary doctrine that it stirred up a lot of conflict and strife. Our Lord caused a great deal of commotion in Jerusalem. It turns out that a lot of people back then, and even to this day, are not ready to detach from sin, love their neighbor, or to bear their cross. "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." Jesus is warning us that indulging in wicked thoughts will put us on the path to wickedness. If a man constantly indulges lustful thoughts in his mind about other women, he is going to neglect his wife, or at the very least not treat her with the full love and respect that she deserves. He will have one foot out the door at all times, waiting for the opportunity to finally indulge in his lustful thoughts. And if a man is single, this is still sinful because indulging in lustful thoughts will tempt the man into sin. Deliberately allowing yourself to be tempted into sin is a sin in itself.
@bigga5406
@bigga5406 Жыл бұрын
The emotional side of spouses using porn is simple to me (as a man). I ask myself, would I appreciate my wife pleasuring herself to a jacked dude behind my back? The answer is no, it at all. That would hurt me pretty deeply. Maybe it would motivate me to be more fit but maybe it would depress me. Pornography has literally destroyed even the most honest men, myself included, and I’m in the process of sensitizing myself to this smut, and re-programming all over again because I grew up like it was literally not a big deal AT ALL.
@Musicienne-DAB1995
@Musicienne-DAB1995 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Turn it around, and the vast majority of men would be hurt and angry if their wife was seeking sexual stimulation from other men. And so many people have been desensitised to the evil of pornography, so you are hardly alone there. Our culture has been poisoned by liars who claimed that releasing porn was necessary for dealing with sexual repression. The consequences are horrifying to watch.
@loganjackson675
@loganjackson675 Жыл бұрын
This comment makes me wonder if the same negative psychological and physiological effects of modern porn exist in viewers of the “old school” porn that Prager is talking about. I’d be willing to bet that it has a significantly different effect. Most men have felt the desensitization first hand, but I haven’t encountered people saying anything similar about older/simpler types of porn imagery. Also I definitely think that the first statement you made could actually be a decent argument in favor of Prager’s point, because I’d be willing to bet that it would be contextual for you as well. From a practical perspective, given that your wife will likely fantasize about other men at times in your marriage, would you prefer she masturbate to some jacked dude who is a designated sexual object and she will never meet, or to the idea/image of some jacked dude at the gym? Obviously most guys would prefer the porn, because it’s drawn as distinct from real life in a way that other fantasies aren’t. There is no threat of some porn star stealing your wife, but presumably the jacked guy at the gym could pose a threat. Does this make porn good or acceptable? No, but maybe it’s practical for some people to accept as an isolated sexual outlet that keeps the fantasies away from their real life relationships and lives. I’m not convinced by that but it is an interesting position
@bongwaterbojack
@bongwaterbojack Жыл бұрын
What about guys who are not bothered by it?
@jr9779
@jr9779 Жыл бұрын
Prayers+ for you!
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek Жыл бұрын
@@Musicienne-DAB1995 Women don't watch porn behind a mans back, but do you know what they do instead? They often drop a healthy relationship to date a guy with high market value, with the delusion they're gonna form a relationship. Then the high market value guy sleeps with the girl and drops her, too, and often she returns to the previous guy, crying. You think, this isn't even more hurtful? Even has a name, it's called monkey-branching. I'd prefer my girl to watch some porn and be honest about it, that'd be sexy, but sadly it's far less common than monkey-branching.
@MerryMayhem
@MerryMayhem 6 ай бұрын
This is sort of shocking to me. I never dreamed Dennis Prager would hold a position like this.
@hazyday8736
@hazyday8736 2 ай бұрын
Totally unsurprising
@DMacLean15
@DMacLean15 2 ай бұрын
I’m not that shocked by it. Did you know that a rabbi owns PornHub? Look it up if you don’t believe me. Jews love pornography.
@kathyhansen2820
@kathyhansen2820 Ай бұрын
I'm not shocked at all.
@Sunshine-bh1ww
@Sunshine-bh1ww Ай бұрын
He's disgusting I feel sorry for his wife
@kathyhansen2820
@kathyhansen2820 Ай бұрын
@@Sunshine-bh1ww I've lost respect for him.
@Wolly735
@Wolly735 9 ай бұрын
I am so happy to have found your channel. New and excited subscriber here!
@podawe8051
@podawe8051 Жыл бұрын
Dennis is so obviously wrong here it's amazing watching him try to defend it
@coolpilot5694
@coolpilot5694 Жыл бұрын
On porn, yes, at the beginning, no. I don't see what's so bad about lingerie in the context of marriage.
@racheljames7
@racheljames7 Жыл бұрын
​@@coolpilot5694 I'm more concerned with what he said about pedophiles jerking off to animated CP. Any respect he had left there was flushed straight down the toilet.
@missnthrop5763
@missnthrop5763 Жыл бұрын
When will Christians realize their their views are never going to align with a Jew or Muslim or Hindu, etc. Debating as if common ground can be found is ludicrous. Just accept the fact that the beliefs are different and treat one another with respect, it's really not that complicated.
@coolpilot5694
@coolpilot5694 Жыл бұрын
@@missnthrop5763 I'm gonna have to disagree with you on this one. In terms of religious people vs. atheists, it would make sense for the differences to be nearly absolute. But when one half of the Bible is the Torah, Jews and Christians are going to necesarily have a lot of overlap in views.
@ethanml33
@ethanml33 Жыл бұрын
@@coolpilot5694 Jews don't follow the Torah, they follow the Talmud. Look at what Jesus says about Talmudim. These people rejected Christ and followed the Talmud and the Pharasees for 2000 years, there are consequences to rejecting truth
@carissa4081
@carissa4081 Жыл бұрын
This was such an interesting debate to watch. As an adolescent, my first inclination with regards to p*rn was that there was something wrong with it. Our culture slowly changed my mind though to the point where I defended it to friends who thought it was wrong! That also led to thinking hook-up culture was acceptable, marriage was bondage and a whole other host of wrong-headed beliefs. That was very much intertwined with my left-leaning political beliefs. I only questioned all of this recently. It seems to be the Catholic views on the above are correct. My natural inclination was correct and hearing this debate has further solidified this for me. Our society has cheapened the most precious gifts we can have as humans. Thanks for the debate. These discussions are so important.
@PintsWithAquinas
@PintsWithAquinas Жыл бұрын
Carissa, so lovely to see you here in the comment section. Know that I'm praying for you on your journey no matter where it takes you.
@carissa4081
@carissa4081 Жыл бұрын
@@PintsWithAquinas Thank you, that’s so kind. Your viewers have been so supportive too and I am enjoying the journey.
@gene2049
@gene2049 8 ай бұрын
Love to hear the truth of our Catholic faith. You did well. Love this channel and it’s helping me. God bless ❤
@bluesdealer
@bluesdealer 8 ай бұрын
Y’all have a huge blind spot when it comes to sex within marriage, though. To call even the use of contraception somehow “objectification” does not logically follow whatsoever. It’s a huge equivocation and Matt just glosses over it without acknowledging the flaw in reasoning
@user-zi7gd9pn3l
@user-zi7gd9pn3l 4 ай бұрын
​@@bluesdealer You're purposefully and actively going against God's will. If you block the process of creation, you are always rejecting the will of God in the sexual act. If you use contraception you turn sex into only an act of pleasure/bond and you get rid of God's ability to create and give life. It would be like giving a potter clay but taking his water so he can't use the clay to make a vase, you're purposefully trying to counteract God's will of creating. Also every Protestant church always believed contraception was a sin until about the 1930s and the sexual revolution. Now almost no Protestants believe contraception is a sin.
@Treverbarlow
@Treverbarlow 9 ай бұрын
I love the respect that these two men show each other even though they disagree. Both were ACTUALLY trying to understand. Very articulate and respect debate!
@ImToastAlso
@ImToastAlso 8 ай бұрын
Dennis Prager deserves respect for what he has sprouted off about here?! The devil can speak in soft tones also. My respect for a person has to do with their values and behavior. I’d rather have a shouting, righteous man, then a reasonable, sounding pervert.
@bluesdealer
@bluesdealer 8 ай бұрын
@@ImToastAlsoor maybe work out your own salvation with fear and trembling rather than accuse someone having an honest discussion of intrapersonal ethics of being the devil.
@hannahdavia8791
@hannahdavia8791 Жыл бұрын
Before converting I used to listen to Denis Prager and Alison Armstrong answer these questions ( and I consumed all Alison's Understanding Men products). I cannot tell you what untold damage their advice did to my new marriage. We are still suffering from the trauma of it. Thanks be to God for the teachings of the Catholic Church. Let us pray for their conversions so that they stop wounding women and men and destroying marriages with their dangerous advice.
@CanisDei
@CanisDei Жыл бұрын
❤️🔸🔸🔸✝️🔸🔸🔸❤️
@kaiserdamasus1978
@kaiserdamasus1978 Жыл бұрын
100% glad you found the Church and got out of that.
@kiana653
@kiana653 Жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@pkredbrooke1772
@pkredbrooke1772 Жыл бұрын
My respect and admiration for Matt has gone through the roof. Not easy debating with Dennis and keeping it dignified and kind. Ultimately Dennis feels there is a place for pornography in the world, not so, its all evil. Well done Matt.
@johnnastrom9400
@johnnastrom9400 Жыл бұрын
"pornography in the world, not so, its all evil" -- No. Why don't you explain what it is "all evil"? Because you can't.
@marvalice3455
@marvalice3455 Жыл бұрын
@@johnnastrom9400 oh sure I can. evil is a privation of the good. porn is evil because it preys upon the weaknesses of both the performer and the consumer to degrade them. it degrades the subject, because it takes what should be private intimate parts of their life shared with someone who loves them to strengthen that bond, and turns them into a commodity to enrich others. by doing so, it inflicts further evil by deminishing that persons self worth, their reputation, and their future prospects. habitually making oneself the subject of porn causes a person to see their intimacies as cheep, and lose their sense of dignity. it also inflicts evil on the consumer by preying on their vices and encouraging compulssive behavior which lkeaves the consumer more vulnerable to oither forms of exploitation. habitual use limits a persons will power, desnsitizes them to increasingly unnaturalk situations, and lowers their ability to endure hardship gracefully. all of this is without even touching how ubiquitous human tarafficing is n the industry, or how many rapists and murderers report having been addicted to porn before doing anything illegal. it's evil. just because you enjoy it doesn't make it acceptable.
@sethgyan
@sethgyan Жыл бұрын
I don't think he says it's good. I think he means context is more important. His definition of porn is quite nuanced.
@TickleMeElmo55
@TickleMeElmo55 Жыл бұрын
@@johnnastrom9400 What makes you think the poster can't unless you see no issue with porn - in mainstream entertainment and online.
@Thagomizer
@Thagomizer Жыл бұрын
What about the Cerne Abbas Giant? Would that qualify?
@1967bridges
@1967bridges 8 ай бұрын
Great GREAT discussion!!!… i’ve decided to subscribe to your page!
@msptkp
@msptkp 9 ай бұрын
Prager clearly doesn’t understand the issue. He doesn’t understand sin. He doesn’t understand the definition of objectification.
@trulsrohk1
@trulsrohk1 9 ай бұрын
I think he does understand objectification. I didn't hear any convincing argument from Matt as to why it's a bad thing in a marriage.
@bobbyboygaming2157
@bobbyboygaming2157 Ай бұрын
He does but he probably owns shares of a company that produces and distributes the content. He is basically presenting a "It doesn't affect me, so I am okay with it" argument.
@Hamann9631
@Hamann9631 25 күн бұрын
@msptkp, great comment! You can add lust to the list. No husband lusts after his wife. Lust is for a thing which should no be done.
@ChaseJackson94
@ChaseJackson94 Жыл бұрын
Matt, this was a perfect example of humble, loving correction. You sacrificed your social comfort and potential strain of friendship for Dennis’ good. Thank you for modeling this.
@nojo1986
@nojo1986 Жыл бұрын
MATT. THANK YOU. SANITY. As your average woman in 2023 who has been scathed by pornography in my life and marriage, I think by just hearing Matt defend the dignity of women and children, I have healed more from this interview than I have in years of therapy. THANK YOU.♥️
@cheyk.6153
@cheyk.6153 Жыл бұрын
Well said!!!!!!
@nojo1986
@nojo1986 Жыл бұрын
@Upper Class Homosexual many of the women and individuals in porn are being trafficked and abused.
@alicevill2259
@alicevill2259 Жыл бұрын
@UpperclassHomosexual what??? Porn makes people rape kids, only you don't know cause most of the kids don't talk. All this perversion if it didn't exist we wouldn't have all this different sexualy perverted ideas such as gender ideology. I was 4 years old when I found my parents porn you can't come back from that. Porn is evil. Too much musterbation castrated me no longer can have a decent orgasm. Not to mention the fact that I grew up thinking I was into girls and I was in a wrong body. I blame pornography for destroying innocence and families
@regaliaretailfashionmerch4314
@regaliaretailfashionmerch4314 Жыл бұрын
​​@Upper Class Homosexual that's untrue. Porn increases sexually deviant behavior. This is what studies show. This is what Bundy confessed to. You're creating a false dichotomy to defend the porn industry. Stop spreading lies
@justinmartin4662
@justinmartin4662 Жыл бұрын
You’re joking right? If you think porn is bad how can you not have a problem with a religion or it’s scriptures that have caused so many innocent people to be killed for the most ridiculous reasons for over 1000 years? Do you have any idea how much damage was done by Christians when they burned down the library of Alexandria in the 4th century and flayed the women there to death because they were studying “witchcraft”? If you think the modern religion these guys represent is anything close to what the scriptures actually say it’s supposed to be and how it was for well over 1000 years until the enlightenment and secular revolutions started making people sane again. From the people of Salem demanding the clergy stop killing what we now know to be innocent people, to the ending of slavery, and now the pope even saying the religion actually doesn’t have a problem with people being gay or getting married and joining the church after 1700 years of persecution and violence towards them…. All while the scripture remains the same, with all those death penalties still there, including simply for being gay and the commands for believers to enforce those laws or be sent to a lake of fire… It should be obvious by now to anyone who cares enough to actually learn about the religion and it’s history that it’s very much man made and the drastic changes over the past four centuries has been on a public level with the churches then eventually jumping on the bandwagon at the tail end while claiming to have been those directing the change… Even though it’s obvious they do so only after kicking and screaming and while it directly contradicts what their own god supposedly says in their scripture.
@christywells2707
@christywells2707 8 ай бұрын
It wasn't ok with his mother. She felt forced to accept it
@kathyhansen2820
@kathyhansen2820 Ай бұрын
Or she didn't give much of a hoot about her husband and so didn't care what he did. Just because a marriage lasts for decades, it doesn't mean it was all that good.
@melissapearson6067
@melissapearson6067 9 ай бұрын
I lost some respect for Prager after this conversation. Not only did he come off as very misogynistic, which is not a word I use often, in the way that he summed up that "men love women and women love a man" as if women aren't capable and don't often also get tempted sexually by other men, but he also just seems to be defending something because he personally does it. Women can sexually desire other men outside of their marriage just as men do, women just (sometimes) seem to be more in control of themselves. I wonder how he'd react to knowing his wife also desires men outside of him. I feel he would think differently of that.
@perrybb2
@perrybb2 8 ай бұрын
It's interesting that young men seem to have a much more profound and deep understanding on the dangers of cornography than older men typically do. Growing up we were told it was wrong but nobody ever told us why or explained it to us so we disregarded their warnings and now we are suffering the consequences firsthand. I believe a sign of a great wife is one who is not afraid to take a strong stance against this
@sunshinegirl4660
@sunshinegirl4660 Жыл бұрын
To Matt’s wife - you are beyond blessed to have such an upstanding guy who truly gets it. I pray his words reach every man on the planet! May God continue to bless and protect your beautiful marriage! 🙏🏻❤️
@ShalomDove
@ShalomDove 11 ай бұрын
Amen 💜💜💜
@christinajones4233
@christinajones4233 11 ай бұрын
Each person has their own challenges. I'm sure many husbands have a way that captivates others, however, I understand your point and I also appreciate Matt. Also, being fortunate to have a remarkable partner probably goes both ways! :)
@wendyfaustin8269
@wendyfaustin8269 Жыл бұрын
Matt I’m an Evangelical but thank you so much for defending purity!!
@DFMoray
@DFMoray Жыл бұрын
Why do you feel the need to proclaim that you are an evangelical?
@Ezekiel336-16
@Ezekiel336-16 Жыл бұрын
​@@DFMoray Perhaps as a sign of sincerity, and not just blind agreement like some of us Catholics might give?! In Christ, Andrew
@wendyfaustin8269
@wendyfaustin8269 Жыл бұрын
No real particular reason, other than to say I wanted to lend support from someone who is representative of another body within the Christian world. I have a ton of respect for Dennis Prager but I think Matt was rightly pointing out that Jesus was always seeking to point out that sinful actions always originate in the heart so he went deeper than just trying to modify sinful actions. But certainly I didn’t mention that I’m an Evangelical as a means of any opposition to Matt as a Catholic.
@valkyrieloki1991
@valkyrieloki1991 Жыл бұрын
@@DFMoray Maybe to show people from different backgrounds can agree on things without subscribing to one particular denomination or worldview.
@omarharo3132
@omarharo3132 Жыл бұрын
Prayers
@coypu2005
@coypu2005 8 ай бұрын
Fantastic intelligent dialogue!! Love it! ❤
@jgrady7779
@jgrady7779 9 ай бұрын
This completely changed my view on Dennis Praeger. Wow.
@ramonmoodley2462
@ramonmoodley2462 2 ай бұрын
How so?
@mvvss429
@mvvss429 Жыл бұрын
This interview makes me so grateful for Catholic teaching, especially regarding the dignity of man. Great job Matt!
@s7m21b3
@s7m21b3 10 ай бұрын
Matt- you are strong in heated debates. Don’t shy away from them, you did well.
@randomworkings3600
@randomworkings3600 7 ай бұрын
I’m more and more impressed with Matt the more I watch him. He has such a gift for engaging in conversation and debate regardless of his own views. Here is he of course actually arguing his own beliefs as he disagrees with Dennis. However, Matt is also great as prodding and posing difficult questions to those he agrees with as well. He’s a great thinker!
@leegrant7333
@leegrant7333 5 ай бұрын
He's strong because of the intelligence of his Faith
@bakekay21
@bakekay21 9 ай бұрын
Dennis took it too personally. His mother & father loving each other & sharing a sin wasn't the topic at hand.
@SourBuddha
@SourBuddha 4 ай бұрын
This discourse is an embodiment of the absolute fact that the term "judeo-christian ethics" is a figment of the mind.
@edulopb1487
@edulopb1487 4 ай бұрын
Por supuesto la ética judía no tiene nada que ver con los cristianos
@ReverbCanvas
@ReverbCanvas 4 ай бұрын
💯
@danielcartwright8868
@danielcartwright8868 Жыл бұрын
What Dennis seems to be ignoring is that behaviors come from thoughts. People don't act out of nowhere. Good job Matt.
@BlGGESTBROTHER
@BlGGESTBROTHER Жыл бұрын
Sorry, but that just simply isn't true. Thoughts are not the equivalent to actions. We all have thoughts about doing bad things sometimes but we use our moral agency and reasoning to stop ourselves from doing them. Obviously there is a difference between the man who thinks about murdering someone and the man who actually murders someone. This is why we don't have thought crime legislation; because we recognize that those two things are not equivalent.
@kg9409
@kg9409 Жыл бұрын
@@BlGGESTBROTHER : 1. The person who never thinks about murdering is VERY UNLIKELY to murder. 2. The person who has an intrusive thought about it once in a while is SOMEWHAT UNLIKELY to murder. 3. The person who HABITUALLY FANTASIZES about murder is VERY LIKELY to murder!!!! @danielcartwright8868 you’re right, I was thinking that when Dennis was talking about how he doesn’t care if people dislike Jews (or other group) only how they treat them- as if fostering those thoughts/views isn’t eventually going to lead to their logical conclusion 🤯
@Beelcheenrea
@Beelcheenrea Жыл бұрын
​@@BlGGESTBROTHERPlease take time to watch police interrogations of murderers, pedophiles and violent criminals. You will hear the majority of them convey these acts began as simple thoughts, then obsessive thoughts and fantasy, then for some research, then for some planning and finally acting out. It always begins with a thought.
@dogsandyoga1743
@dogsandyoga1743 Жыл бұрын
​@@kg9409 I went for years fantasizing about murdering an individual, even planning it out in my head. Needless to say, it never went beyond the realm of my mind...
@Thagomizer
@Thagomizer Жыл бұрын
@@kg9409 If that were true, then video games should have created the biggest epidemic of mass murderers in world history.
@carniedph
@carniedph Жыл бұрын
For those watching this debate: There was a 6 month period where I lived by what Prager was saying. It completely messed up my life. Fradd is 100% right.
@talostheking8529
@talostheking8529 Жыл бұрын
I still struggle with porn and it's been really bad for my marriage. I don't think Prager understands the consequences of his words or of justifying porn.
@doneuplikeakipper6512
@doneuplikeakipper6512 Жыл бұрын
The jewish revolutionary spirit is always subversive. Thank you so much Matt for standing up to him and take his mask off for everyone to see
@IsraelCountryCube
@IsraelCountryCube Жыл бұрын
Same it's nothing to bragging about. I've said it hundreds of times because I objectively want it to be felt as compelled evidence by my testimony and obviously male. It is 99% male practically. Realistically who suffer more. There's atheists that can seemingly abandoned pornography and realize that it's harmful but I don't know if it's easier or harder for them withought God. But since I've been a 11 year old male pornography up to age 20 has all since then destroyed my life. I've never felt the sexual touch of a female. My mother by proxy of course being brithed and I guess other than my father in moments of procreation. I'm strange but I don't think so. Although sin has corrupted me I realize that Jesus Christ has made me whole..and atheist conservativitism is thievery from and against Christianity! I feel compassionate regardless with any male who *realizes pornography is more than evil but Malevolent!* I'm not a female so I wouldn't really typical care so much because as logically as I think about it..if males consumption of pornography are reduced then actually I automatically advocate for females who also wouldn't become so abused. Nor would males from any human also sexually abused. Amen it's hard to kill pornography. And lust. But I'm gonna do what Jesus CHRIST SAID AND THAT'S TO STARVE HUMAN BODY AND PRAY!!! Christianity is to be taken seriously! I'm no longer willing wanting to exist *withought* Serious Action. And prayer. A shame prayer has been taken out of public school. Indeed a objectively mistake which proves to be true a error. Church and state are harmful. Since thousands Christian churches have closed. Ironically proven to be truly harmful to Christianity. Atheism and islam false. Wether they love it or not. God demands we look for truth. And it's very lame I don't see Giants of Christianity going after the most hateful religious tenants of atheism! Every aspect of human nature has a religion. Atheism is no different..they believe in God the Christian subconsciously and of course because they hate him so easily proven. And also although they acknowledge he exists withought knowing it outwardly with words and thoughts by partly thinking how loving he is. They worship other smaller gods of course. Loki thor movies. Irony is everything bad evil Malevolent and everywhere. Pornography though in the objective eyes of man as it should become a Malevolent goddess of death. That demon will be slayed at which time Heaven will become on earth! Amen!
@kamesojeefe7244
@kamesojeefe7244 Жыл бұрын
Then you were not living by what Prager is saying. He's anti porn. You just, as do many uniformed people reading your comment, want to hate him.
@awuriefnejqwjmnwn4960
@awuriefnejqwjmnwn4960 Жыл бұрын
​@@talostheking8529he may very well. But you cant trust jews, they preach one thing and do the other
@nathaliadamatta1269
@nathaliadamatta1269 9 ай бұрын
This is totally disgusting. It's not something that should even be debated.
@kambasworld1
@kambasworld1 8 ай бұрын
This was a very good conversation. Very intelligent way to discourse and disagree
@graysonmichael9696
@graysonmichael9696 Жыл бұрын
I'm a fairly new subscriber to Pints With Aquinas, and I must admit, this conversation has shown me just how sharp Matt is intellectually. Also, it's refreshing to see this kind of content among the many "progressive" Catholic channels on KZbin, which frankly drove me away from KZbin for several years. You have given me a reason to come back.
@joshuasy10
@joshuasy10 Жыл бұрын
How is Pints progressive?
@graysonmichael9696
@graysonmichael9696 Жыл бұрын
@@joshuasy10 sorry, I wrote the comment very quickly on a phone so it’s a little unclear, what I meant was - *with so many “progressive” Catholic channels on KZbin, PWA’s content is so refreshing to watch*
@jordansehn
@jordansehn Жыл бұрын
Yes Matt is awesome!
@janedoe3648
@janedoe3648 Жыл бұрын
Matt Walsh and Michael Knowles, check em out😊
@joshuasy10
@joshuasy10 Жыл бұрын
@@graysonmichael9696 thanks for clarifying
@WhosInABunker94
@WhosInABunker94 Жыл бұрын
This is the perfect example of why Catholicism is the perfection of Judaism.
@IconoclastX
@IconoclastX Жыл бұрын
Christianity in general
@christopherpavesi7245
@christopherpavesi7245 Жыл бұрын
The only Christian religion is the Catholic faith.
@IconoclastX
@IconoclastX Жыл бұрын
​@CJ P. Jesus said, "Do this in remembrance of me" and protestants do take communion in remembrance of Jesus. This is such a theological nitpick, I as an avid philosophic and overthinker am having trouble understanding the minute difference between the two views. Let alone, how this somehow means that protestants are not the perfection of Judaism. As if Marian Dogmas and Eucharist are elevated over the essential teachings of Christ.
@raffiklausner5016
@raffiklausner5016 Жыл бұрын
Dennis Prager does not speak for Orthodox Judaism. In the Jewish tradition there is a negative commandment against shifkhat zera' levatala (spilling seed in vain), which means ejaculation in situation other than the proper sexual act. Similarly, there is a concept of shmirat eynayim (lit. guarding of eyes), requiring one to avoid staring at something lewd or indecent.
@slynt_
@slynt_ Ай бұрын
@@raffiklausner5016 You are describing physical acts only. What about the mental state of lust?
@LiveWatched
@LiveWatched 10 ай бұрын
I loved this discussion! Mature, logical, touched on many topics in a well spoken manner.
@avalerie4467
@avalerie4467 7 ай бұрын
With all due respect for Dennis, i don't know if he thinks porn is only "Playboy", which really is pretty tame. I wish Dennis didn't frame his point of view as " in Judaism we. . . " There are multiple probibitions against sexual immorality. Looking at any woman who is not your wife is forbidden !! We don't even shake hands with opposite sex !!!
@carinesabourin68
@carinesabourin68 Жыл бұрын
Great job Matt! As a woman and as a wife, THANK YOU, for helping restore the sacredness of procreation and defending the dignity of women.
@Prince_Sheogorath
@Prince_Sheogorath 10 ай бұрын
What about the dignity of MEN? Circumcision is male genital mutilation and men don't even own their own penises. We're treated like masochistic beasts of burden and many people do not even care - just seeing men as tools to use, and when they have dysfunctions, we shame and blame them. Circumcision. Genital mutilation. It's misandrist mutilation that needs to be banned on minors. The film, "American Circumcision", by Brendon Marotta, needs to be viewed en masse, too. A preverbal somatic trauma, an adverse childhood event. Look up Dr. Peter Levine of Somatic Experiencing, Irene Lyon, Gabor Mate - what you do to babies matter. This country mutilates boys' genitals then asks them to fight and die and sacrifice for it? Men and boys are treated like slaves and boys are trained form birth to be masochistic blue pilled beasts of burden. Mutilate a boy's genitals, then force him into Selective Service as an extra "thank you". Such "Liberty and Freedom". What bullshit. Foregen is a biotech company that is reversing circumcision with regenerative medicine. Look them up. ~12-14 sq. inches of densely innervated highly erogenous healthy tissue. Over 6500 species of mammals have foreskins. These animals don't make soap, have running water or live in the suburbs - dogs, bats and whales do not suffer. European men, Japanese men, the majority of the world's men do not suffer. MEN SHOULD OWN THEIR OWN COCKS. Circumcision is male genital mutilation, a human rights violation that degrades and reduces sexual pleasure. Foregen, within the next year will have fully reverse circumcision with regenerative medicine. The underlying technology is already approved, phase 2 of 3 animal trials is almost concluded, phase 3 of 3 human trials starts soon, and well over $1 Million dollars and counting have been donated with many loyal monthly donors. BOYS SHOULD OWN THEIR OWN COCKS. Americans need to learn how to take care of intact baby boys. They're not dirty. The foreskin is fused to the head of the penis at birth, many in the USA do not know that, even healthcare "professionals", so they forcibly retract the foreskin and cause a tear in the baby boy's foreskin which is painful, causes bleeding, injury, scar tissue, an a higher likelihood of phimosis, inability for the foreskin to retract at a later age because of the scar tissue making the foreskin less elastic. By age 7, 40% of USA boys have been forcibly retracted and injured! (Source: Intact America website) AMERICAN IGNORANCE CAUSES FORESKIN ISSUES. Europe knows better, they know that the foreskin is fused to the head of the penis until around age 10.5 on average, it is there to protect the penis like the girl's hymen protects her vaginal canal from waste products like urine and feces. The foreskin is adhered to the glans head of the penis like the nail is adhered to the finger. USA healthcare workers are NOT TAUGHT THIS, they are taught that boys ought to be mutilated because they are dirty. American ignorance causes foreskin issues. Further, the inside of the foreskin has the same cells as the inside of the eyelids, mouth and vagina - the inner mucosal lining. You do NOT use soap, that disrupts the pH balance because soap is basic, and the inner mucosal lining is slightly acidic. This also dries out the inner mucosal lining and causes irritation and foreskin issues! AMERICAN IGNORANCE from forcible retraction and the use of soap is the problem. You only clean what is seen, and with lukewarm water. Women do not use soap inside of the vagina. Americans are ignorant about the male anatomy and most men do not know what they are missing in this country. It's uncomfortable, but we need to end this garbage.
@loganblackwood2922
@loganblackwood2922 10 ай бұрын
Defending the dignity? Women have continuously voted to do away with shame so that they could pretend to have dignity no matter how depraved they act.
@stephtimms1776
@stephtimms1776 10 ай бұрын
Amen. He represented the Christian viewpoint well.
@loganweaver5404
@loganweaver5404 9 ай бұрын
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@werkzeugmann6224
@werkzeugmann6224 9 ай бұрын
We just need to stop women abusing their brothers by exploiting mens sexual weakness.. Why would a woman show herself naked to a brother? They knowingly exploit mens weakness for their own enrichment... That's not loving their brother, that's exploiting their brothers natural tendencies to want sex--Women should STOP IT!
@Maria_J_
@Maria_J_ Жыл бұрын
46:35 “When people say ‘I’m only human,’ what they really mean is ‘I’m only animal.’” - Fulton Sheen
@robbhays8077
@robbhays8077 10 ай бұрын
Here's why it's bad: you shouldn't share sex with others. It's reserved for your spouse. Playboy exhibits the human body for sexual pleasure. The model is inviting you to engage with her sexually. Only your wife should invite you to do that. And you should only engage with your wife in that way. That is why it's bad.
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