Planting Seeds Of Happiness The Danish Way | Malene Rydahl | TEDxINSEADSingapore

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@Amoona851
@Amoona851 5 жыл бұрын
1. Trust 2. Freedom to be you 3. Finding purpose
@AnnHerbi
@AnnHerbi 5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. Thank you 🙏
@brucebarker176
@brucebarker176 5 жыл бұрын
Wow even the pigs and dude in the. Norweigan beach pool are beaming wth Joy ! THE SEEDS OF HAPPINESS VIA SEEDS.FROM OTHER GENERATIONS ARE COMING TO FRUITION AND THE BABIES IN NORWAY ARE SAFE ANS SECURE TRUST FREETO BE YOU ,FINDING YOUR BEGGINERS MIND AFFECT ALL OF US .SOCIETY.
@Amoona851
@Amoona851 5 жыл бұрын
@@AnnHerbi you are most welcome
@afshah.7972
@afshah.7972 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the bullet points! ❤❤
@Amoona851
@Amoona851 5 жыл бұрын
@@afshah.7972 you are welcome
@Dimka2012Bo
@Dimka2012Bo 7 жыл бұрын
Came back from Denmark yesterday, it is absolutely fantastic, people are happy, talking to each other, no one is looking at the phones. I enjoyed it so much...
@beo191
@beo191 7 жыл бұрын
meanwhile denmark has high depression, high suicide rates and suffers from alcohol abuse.. are you sure you went to the right country?
@iSugarHeart
@iSugarHeart 7 жыл бұрын
Perkeren I guess it depeneds on what kind of outlook you have when you visit a country. If you go to a country hoping its a happy one you will be more likely to notice good things that affirm what you hoped to see. If you look for sad depressed people thats something you will notice 1st. Every country has good and bad so whatever you choose to see.
@Dimka2012Bo
@Dimka2012Bo 7 жыл бұрын
I didnt notice any of that, well they do drink a lot, but this is true for most of the countries i've visited. Suicide rate? Denmark is 105 country on the list with 9.1 per 100K suicides (south korea = 24) - so obviously you've got wrong stats.
@MsCrow34
@MsCrow34 6 жыл бұрын
Perkeren actually you are incorrect maybe it's a good idea to do a bit of research before you post? Actually doctors started prescribing high levels antidepressants mostly prescribed related to job stress or anxiety? Maybe it's because they are so efficient? As in Denmark they only work an average of 32 hours a week verses America's 47 hours (I used stats from gallop, most others sources had Americans working 50+ hours on average per week) Also part of the issue may be that Danes go to the doctor more because they have free universal health care, where as we Americans pay a lot to go the the doctor even with insurance. As far a suicide rate you are actually incorrect Denmark has a lower suicide rate than the USA. Denmark is at 9.3 deaths per 100,000 people, USA is at 10.3 per 100,000. So in short I'm not even sure what you are talking about? Not a single thing you said was correct.
@michaelgrant169
@michaelgrant169 6 жыл бұрын
@@beo191Going off the research, Denmark is one the best governed countries, possibly the best governed. Denmarks depression rate could be more of lifestyle or and an environmental problem rather than a political problem.
@eydnamortensen5985
@eydnamortensen5985 5 жыл бұрын
I have two daughters. My 15 year old daughter has for the past 10 years said she wants to be a doctor. I encourage her and tell her that she can be a doctor if she is willing to work hard for it. She gets good grades and she is very self disciplined. Gets up early every morning and gets to school on time without me having to nag her. She does her school work again without help. I do believe she has what it takes to reach her dreams. And as I tell her, if she discover along the way that her dreams have changed, that's alright too. My 8 year old daughter doesn't know yet what her dreams are, only that she would like to work with animals. I tell her that she has all the time in the world to figure it out. What ever she chooses to do she will be great! She is a good student too. She asked me once after big sister got a top grade if I was really proud of her. I told her that of course I was proud of her sister, but I was proud that she did her best and if she was a student that had a learning disability and got a much lower grade, I would be equally as proud as long as she did her best. It's not the grade, but the hard work I was proud of. Love from Denmark
@roselieber
@roselieber 5 жыл бұрын
Eydna, your girls are very lucky to have a loving and supportive Mom. Along those lines, I've always thought it was most valuable for the world to raise kind kids with integrity and compassion- with respect for themselves and others. Beyond that, who cares if they are a doctor or a dishwasher? What a wonderful world we would have if more Moms were like you. :-)
@roselieber
@roselieber 5 жыл бұрын
The world needs more Moms like you Eydna! I see success in parenting as raising happy, kind, compassionate kids with integrity and respect for themselves and others ~ who cares if they're doctors or dishwashers. :-)
@AlastairRosie
@AlastairRosie 8 жыл бұрын
Simplicity at its most brilliant. Added to my playlist.
@peteho3322
@peteho3322 5 жыл бұрын
Marlene rhydal . You're a wonderful and beautiful soul . Your words are so simple yet teaches us so much . You're a great ambassador of not just for the Danish people but also for many Scandinavian countries . The rest of the world should now try and learn and adopt some valuable lessons from these happy Scandinavian countries and societies if we are to evolve into a humanitarian society . You're also a great and humane teacher and the world needs more people like you more so today . Hope you continue to impart and spread your humane wisdom and hope you will one day be awarded with a Nobel peace price for all your tireless efforts .
@tarahshaw9089
@tarahshaw9089 6 жыл бұрын
Wow! What an amazing speech. This has really made me really happy. I've always wanted to be a writer and a gardener. Fiction and flowers are like my favorite things. I graduated as the salutatorian of my class and I could feel the tension and wonder on other people's faces when I told them I liked horticulture and I want to be a writer. This speech has really empowered me to strive for what I truly want and not be shaken by people who think I'm silly. Doing what you love is really one of the best ways to be happy!
@Tainira94
@Tainira94 6 жыл бұрын
Best of luck, darling. I believe in you! ;)
@Urania4007
@Urania4007 5 жыл бұрын
You already have the title of your book: "Fiction and Flowers." I'd read it
@imajinallthepurple
@imajinallthepurple 4 жыл бұрын
Hope you're staying true to yourself. Good luck and happiness from yet another dane. 😉👍🇩🇰❤️
@rebeccalarason306
@rebeccalarason306 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this talk. It is awesome to know that there is a place where trust is the normal way to act.
@GabiRuska
@GabiRuska 5 жыл бұрын
I came here because I love Danish culture, style and history... I found this lecture one of the best I ever listen to.
@lydiarowe491
@lydiarowe491 5 жыл бұрын
Becoming you is one of the hardest things to achieve....planting seeds waiting for germination is what makes purpose so worth while...thank you for this ted talk..reminding us that anything is possible..⭐
@birgittevoilquin4501
@birgittevoilquin4501 8 жыл бұрын
Perfect Malene! Please do keep planting seeds of happiness around the world! Du er super!
@Flongowild
@Flongowild 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, hun er dæleme bare super og fuldstændig spot on! :)
@marcoscampos1110
@marcoscampos1110 2 жыл бұрын
6 years a go and still magnific thank you Miss Dane !
@vedawattieram15
@vedawattieram15 5 жыл бұрын
I love this discourse. I know she means well. I am working on local council development. People are content with misery. Hopeless about their leaders' ability to make signicant changes. Yet, happy to vote for them to serve again. Our culture here is to be miserably happy.
@DIAMOND-gj2zy
@DIAMOND-gj2zy 2 жыл бұрын
Actually she gave us a simple way to finding our own happiness but I assure it's an effective method, we need to be ourselves, we need to trust ourselves and others, for me she presented the solution to our problems perfectly.
@duygumordogan
@duygumordogan 3 жыл бұрын
Waking up to a rainy morning, it is a blessing. The fresh air and the smell of earth elate souls:)
@momadshonoy4683
@momadshonoy4683 3 жыл бұрын
Know after I watched this video 😊 and based on details provided, danish people are amazing to let a freeway to human fall into there interested pattern of life this is a freedom country this is a great nation made by great people, what a great nation who understands that life is temporary and we must respect each other support each other and watching successful stories all over the place my respect and gratitude to all danish citizen keep it up mates 😊
@ayopacheco1
@ayopacheco1 5 жыл бұрын
I was in Denmark last week and it was fabulous. There's a lot to learn from the Danes.
@MassihMayeli
@MassihMayeli 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk and very profound reflection on how the Danish society functions with high level of trust and freedom of being you, unmasked.
@redfern3876
@redfern3876 2 жыл бұрын
This speech is happiness radiated. Such a strong one!
@mikimeadows
@mikimeadows 5 жыл бұрын
So often we choose to do what will keep a roof over our heads- because being homeless is not a path to happiness for most people. One of the problems with the culture I live in is not believing all persons involved in a project (company) have a great value and are necessary for the project to be accomplished, not wanting to pay them a "living wage"
@77777aol
@77777aol 4 жыл бұрын
Planting seeds = creating value - Creating value for self and others, bringing our talents to bear in our immediate environment, having meaningful dialogues and contributing to our community. One Summer I worked as a cleaner in Denmark. It was one of the happiest times of my life. I often describe Denmark as my second favourite country. 'What is my favourite country ?' you may ask; as yet, I haven't decided ! Trust through friendship, peace through trust.
@77777aol
@77777aol 4 жыл бұрын
In a world of choices, humanism must win. It starts with winning over ourselves.
@mo_7199
@mo_7199 4 жыл бұрын
We have something like this in rural India. (Particularly in the south). In small towns and villeges, we all work together and there is a strong sense of trust and community I don't see in the US. The air is fresh, the sky is blue, and the Earth is right beneath your feet. It's quite beautiful. I would recommend that if you have the time and resources, take a trip to rural India. Take a trip into the mountains of East India. You won't regret it.
@acer4237
@acer4237 2 жыл бұрын
Every country has a downside far from perfect. USA proud, why many flock here …we have beautiful geography and people,but it’s what we make of things!
@ffreshfields5211
@ffreshfields5211 2 жыл бұрын
@@techcontinuum7421 you feel attacked instead of take the invitation to find out. Have you been in India? Have you asked the commentor if they speak from experience as well? If you want to show yourself as trusting, then you can begin there perhaps.
@Piscesgyal26
@Piscesgyal26 5 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring and aligns with my core beliefs. Thank you for the reminder!
@thomasb.2506
@thomasb.2506 5 жыл бұрын
Live in peace with nature. Treat animals respectfully, carry spiders outside unsteady of hoovering them away, go for a walk in the forest every day, only speak kindly and look for the good in others, make your house/flat a home, every now and then invite someone in your home, grow some veggies in your garden or some herbs on your balcony, cook and eat together with friends, family or strangers, read the bible, listen and dance to music, get up early to watch the sunrise, go to church and pray - and you will be happy, no matter where you live. It's not about living in Denmark or being a Danish person, it's about living in peace with yourself, other human beings, God and the nature and animals. ♡♡♡
@robyndismon394
@robyndismon394 5 жыл бұрын
To Tommy and Layla. Your comment was as beautiful as the Ted talk. So well put and full of keen observations and wHAtS more, all most if your suggestions cost nothing more than time. Thank u both 4 reiterating some of the practices I've come 2 understand as pivotal in living as one with ALL living beings. Peace and love.😍
@thomasb.2506
@thomasb.2506 5 жыл бұрын
@@robyndismon394 ♡ thank you ♡
@thomasb.2506
@thomasb.2506 5 жыл бұрын
I need to add something: Its not the plain reading of the bible, instead it's fellowship in talking with God, the created of this universe and allowing him to love you/me 😍 And I guess then everything falls into the right place :-) I just believe that living in harmony with nature and animals makes One happy because it's God creation 😍
@thomasb.2506
@thomasb.2506 5 жыл бұрын
@@robyndismon394 Oh I am glad that you also live this way - it's the simple life ♡♡ And as you said, it costs nothing. If we had all the money of the whole world, it would bring us no happiness if we were not in peace with nature - that's what I believe at least. I believe that living in harmony with nature and animals makes One happy because it's God creation and so it seems like a heavenly law to me that humans must treat nature and animals (and obviously those around them) with love 😍
@Kewonerdk
@Kewonerdk 5 жыл бұрын
I think you should leave god out, because most of denmark is completely atheist. We are one of the most atheist countries in the world! We believe and concentrate in you and me, not fairytales!!
@navdeepsingh-wd8dz
@navdeepsingh-wd8dz 8 жыл бұрын
great speech..........best part was the freedom to be u.............very few get the support for being what they want to be.......i hope people change their minds.....anyways keep inspiring...
@EliOceans
@EliOceans 8 жыл бұрын
Very glad I watched this
@carolinefrisou9636
@carolinefrisou9636 8 жыл бұрын
Bravo à vous Malene, vous êtes réellement inspirante et lumineuse !
@GladiolaSunfresh
@GladiolaSunfresh 8 жыл бұрын
I feel this way about my son, I have noticed even intelligent, caring, gentle parents have ideas of what their children should be. What a waste of time! I would tell these parents to achieve their own goals and set their own intentions for themselves. It is not my responsibility to tell my son what area he should go into, he belongs where he is guided by his own mind.
@jamesmcmurtry3958
@jamesmcmurtry3958 6 жыл бұрын
Mary--very healthy attitude. Check out Gibran's "Your Children are not Your Children..." I'm tempted to quote the entire poem here. If someone requests it, I will.
@carolgieschen4056
@carolgieschen4056 5 жыл бұрын
@@jamesmcmurtry3958 you should!... its an education for those who dont know it.
@carolgeorge6409
@carolgeorge6409 5 жыл бұрын
Please do
@neginaf3356
@neginaf3356 4 жыл бұрын
Mary Nu THANK YOU FOR BEING A GREAT PARENT. THANK YOU❤️
@ambalalgurjar62
@ambalalgurjar62 3 жыл бұрын
It really feels like home.
@mama--rua
@mama--rua Жыл бұрын
Happiness is not a goal for most governments. It is imperative. Do it for yourself and expect the law of attraction to amplify joy in your life. Some people might enjoy Tame Iti's Tedtalk on Mana. It is marvellous.
@wellbodisalone
@wellbodisalone Жыл бұрын
Finding a purpose in life is actually helpful. You wake up every morning thinking about your goals and ways to be a better person.
@HagamosLoImposible
@HagamosLoImposible Жыл бұрын
I am Argentinian, living in Copenhagen, and I feel is like a dream.
@josephinewliu
@josephinewliu 11 ай бұрын
amazing talk. i learned so much from this talk.
@young-jooshin8236
@young-jooshin8236 8 жыл бұрын
Hi from Korea....GREAT..Hope Korea can be like that..some day..We will keep it up, for that..
@NaughtyCapricorn
@NaughtyCapricorn 6 жыл бұрын
young-joo Shin you should come visit dk then :-).
@pranoti27
@pranoti27 2 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS AN EYE OPENER :)
@oriond1934
@oriond1934 3 жыл бұрын
The goal for anyone should be to minimize suffering on themselves, each other and animals.
@alicequayle4625
@alicequayle4625 2 жыл бұрын
Watched the Tour de France in Denmark yesterday 🇩🇰 and the commentators commented how happy the big roadside crowds looked. A sea of cheerful faces and Danish flags. 🇩🇰
@leenaparsons5178
@leenaparsons5178 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, I can't imagine the person I would be today if I had been taught that my skills were of equal value as a child...I think I would probably have a lot less problems lol
@muffinthecat4706
@muffinthecat4706 5 жыл бұрын
Why "lol"???
@Tim_G_Bennett
@Tim_G_Bennett 5 жыл бұрын
Same I left school a broken person.
@jamietodd9741
@jamietodd9741 5 жыл бұрын
as an american i was taught the belief you can do anything you put your mind to. it has had me feeling inadequate for life for not doing anything difficult and superior
@Strongflower1
@Strongflower1 5 жыл бұрын
@@jamietodd9741 That's because in the USA we have systemic problems without systemic Solutions. Instead our society has been trained to blame the individual for systemic problems. Elites decided it was easier that way.
@mededmoon6265
@mededmoon6265 4 жыл бұрын
@@jamietodd9741 So why not put your mind to something and stop being inadequate. No pain no gain.
@belovedchaos1
@belovedchaos1 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, needed this today. ❤️
@MeCrazy516
@MeCrazy516 7 жыл бұрын
the reason they are happy is their government works for them and they do not have to live a life of worry
@WeileWorld
@WeileWorld 7 жыл бұрын
Mark YES
@iSugarHeart
@iSugarHeart 7 жыл бұрын
We can find reasons not to be kind to others but just striving to do good in adverse surroundings will make our life quality higher and maybe like half the people wont appreciate it but some will + its great way to meet people you actually want in your life.
@spencersloan79
@spencersloan79 7 жыл бұрын
Their government works for them? I think you lack basic understanding of economics.
@jankovac1
@jankovac1 7 жыл бұрын
Mark maybe their government isn’t as corrupt as ours
@beo191
@beo191 6 жыл бұрын
they are some of the most depressed people in the world, you are lying look up the amount of anti depressants usage in denmark
@candyengelhardt
@candyengelhardt Жыл бұрын
love this talk
@socialdiving2305
@socialdiving2305 6 жыл бұрын
Thank to Melene for this video. Though, to be pioneer of this values is so hard in surrounding of mistrust and abusement
@selinaona3323
@selinaona3323 5 жыл бұрын
Such an inspiring talk! Miss Denmark. Best wishes from Zürich.
@annasujatha
@annasujatha 5 жыл бұрын
My father’s youngest sister married a Danish poet. They were lovely people. Had 3 children. I have been in Denmark many times, and loved it.
@user-lo1wd6nh8r
@user-lo1wd6nh8r 3 жыл бұрын
Trust, Enthusiasm & Wellbeing 🇩🇰 in our society we enjoy today & Looking forward. Which in fact is a way of life. We recognize the ability to reach individual definition of success. In Denmark growth is not the goal. Our ideology is mainly freedom. Next year or next season is a positive path. Just try not to Take it for granted. We trust eachother by being “naive” or vulnerable individuals. If you cheat us you make a failure against us. I believe in everyone untill they show me the opposite manner in life. Tolerance. 🇩🇰 Whenever We celebrate our goals or achievements. Next year or decade We never Take for granted. In some countries it might be standard to calculate in growth. Just imagine if you lower your Expectations a little. 🇩🇰 Your effort remain the same High level. Then when you reach a level of success and not taking it for granted. That makes you pretty close to happiness when it occurs.
@deasmiles
@deasmiles 8 жыл бұрын
A wonderful presentation by a lovely lady.
@beo191
@beo191 6 жыл бұрын
shes spreading a lot of lies, sorry but thats not wonderwful
@ingehelmuthlarsen7197
@ingehelmuthlarsen7197 5 жыл бұрын
Hygge... what is it .for me living in Denmark .most of my life but also having resided in the states and japan and traveled to many countries it is the place where you find a moment of peace. Where you sit and relax without thinking of choirs, time or worries. It is right now when i am writing this, it is in 5 min when i have taken my shower and sit and enjoy my cup of tea . It is when i read a book or take in a movie or when i put candles on the table tonight and have a nice dinner with a talk of how life is going with my son and daughterinlaw... hygge is what you make it to be. To be in the moment. To listen to the People that join you. To hear them speak to listen to their voice to feel them... that is hygge.. to take a blanket and curl up on the sofa... to go to the beach for a barbacue in good company.. to have a birthday party in the woods with family and friends... that is hygge... and never rush off to the next thing... the next person... the next spot... be in the moment. And enjoy where you are and with whom you are
@exploringtheroad8935
@exploringtheroad8935 5 жыл бұрын
Watching this, from the UK, and picturing our nation being this content... Might have helped if we could have aired this to our MPs and citizens before and during the Brexit debacle. I feel like we've lost our purpose a little
@redroots3103
@redroots3103 5 жыл бұрын
This talk genuinely made me feel so happy 😀
@weragoda98
@weragoda98 5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! Be a part of a solution, but not a problem.
@cassandramitchell3295
@cassandramitchell3295 5 жыл бұрын
Omg 💯 Danish people are just so blissfully accepting
@MyMomWifeLife
@MyMomWifeLife 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like 1 & 2 are sooo huge in raising happy children - and I feel like they can be hard to carry out in the USA. I want to give my kids some more freedom, to trust them, and to trust my neighbors that we can all look out for each other's children.
@neridabaker-dyson7702
@neridabaker-dyson7702 8 жыл бұрын
Hygge
@Geo408
@Geo408 7 жыл бұрын
Nerida Baker-Dyson Hygge
@beo191
@beo191 6 жыл бұрын
take your anti depressants
@jonasmejerpedersen4847
@jonasmejerpedersen4847 5 жыл бұрын
Hejsa jeg er dansker
@summydots
@summydots 5 жыл бұрын
Isn't that Netherland?
@mimipigen1937
@mimipigen1937 5 жыл бұрын
Jingle Jungle nope it’s a danish word
@finnophilepodcast
@finnophilepodcast 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk.
@cdc1566
@cdc1566 5 жыл бұрын
I love this talk; thank you for sharing.
@henriklarsen5613
@henriklarsen5613 8 жыл бұрын
Garbagemen actually makes a good salary,about 80.000$ a year.
@henriklarsen5613
@henriklarsen5613 8 жыл бұрын
Oswald Mosley The are paid well,the same as a teacher/engineer.Strong union,bottleneck occupation.
@ssmatthews6798
@ssmatthews6798 7 жыл бұрын
Now Theres one of the points you have missed in what she said. The Money does not go to the goverment, but to the society. So in their eyes they make 80.000$ a year, in which the donate roughly 48-49% to the society. The goverment isnt the enemy in Denmark, like it is in many other parts of the World because corruption is as low as in can get (there are always bad seeds out there).Atleast this is my opinion :-)
@MikeSantis
@MikeSantis 7 жыл бұрын
Good said Michael :-)
@HumanbeingonfloatingEarth
@HumanbeingonfloatingEarth 6 жыл бұрын
its an important job .
@Gasp7000
@Gasp7000 5 жыл бұрын
I don't have a Clean-Up Engineer, I live outside of city boundaries, so it isn't included in my services--I'd have to hire a private company, and wouldn't THAT be a privilege! I am very thankful for those to do this work. With my husband and I doing it ourselves, recognition for the blessing of having help is keen in us. Everyone on earth who contributes to peace and order is doing something highly valuable, recycling being part of this particular thing.
@123saycheese
@123saycheese 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine if every single parent from all over the world started planting these 3 seeds in their children, what a safe, peaceful and wonderful world we would all live in!! Just wishful thinking here...
@hollybobs4888
@hollybobs4888 8 жыл бұрын
This is such a good presentation
@beo191
@beo191 6 жыл бұрын
not really, it completely misrepresents the country
@sebastianjense919
@sebastianjense919 6 жыл бұрын
@@beo191 well no, it's totally on point, do you even live in Denmark or are you just not trust worthy like the rest of the Danish population i trust and love my country 🇩🇰🇩🇰
@gulumayroz
@gulumayroz 5 жыл бұрын
nice...for me this points to the power of , collective agreement over values. Living values in moral isolation is heroism, and therefore not a practical social solution. Creating some sort of moral collective support group, is.
@bobjacobrowe
@bobjacobrowe 7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!
@mira970
@mira970 5 жыл бұрын
A lot of people seem to be missing the message that it is up to the individual to spark change in their life. In any democratic society, there exists the privilege to enact change within a system. I would argue that even when your life is threatened every day by being born into a society that does not value you - even then you have the ability to control your own actions and perspective. People from every culture like to blame the system that they are in because they want to be valued but they do not want to value others. Attitude is everything.
@workwillfreeyou
@workwillfreeyou 4 жыл бұрын
To wake up to Malene.
@meisamrasouli4269
@meisamrasouli4269 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this great speech.
@f1nn0
@f1nn0 3 жыл бұрын
Trust? Once in Caracas Venezuela I needed to go to the bathroom. So I asked a guy beside me to guide my luggage. When I came back he was proud nothing missing. It IS possible to learn to trust people :-) (Finn/Denmrk)
@aspromonte5179
@aspromonte5179 4 жыл бұрын
I don't normally post irrelevant comments but I can't help myself this time. During this whole video, I kept thinking to myself "paradise would be living in Denmark with this beautiful intelligent woman" lmao
@Flongowild
@Flongowild 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a Danish man and i think that Ms Rydahl expresses Danish values very spot on and she just radiates the soul of Danishness ... Such a woman is what we call "the song of Denmark" ... Indeed, she easily would fit as a stand-in for The Little Mermaid LOL
@aspromonte5179
@aspromonte5179 4 жыл бұрын
@@Flongowild Yes, I think most of all you can just tell she is genuinely happy with her life and radiates positive vibes. Might I say that I am a huge fan of the way your country does things. I haven't been yet, but everyone I know who had has remarked on how peaceful people seem to be there.
@perjrgensen8280
@perjrgensen8280 4 жыл бұрын
Super godt, hvor er du god til at forklare det.. En fornøjelse at se dig på youtube, en helt almideligt tirsdag aften, og syntes liiige jeg måtte se, hvad du fortalte... :) Hilsen fra en glad dansker.. :)
@sohailahmedkhan8982
@sohailahmedkhan8982 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Malene
@anandramanathan9416
@anandramanathan9416 4 жыл бұрын
Great message. Thanks
@sachinkumar-rt6xj
@sachinkumar-rt6xj 4 жыл бұрын
it's what we do not what we think make difference.
@veroniquedy6375
@veroniquedy6375 8 жыл бұрын
Vidéo très inspirante ! Cela vaut le coup de regarder.
@MP-rf9bn
@MP-rf9bn 8 жыл бұрын
Veronique Dy N
@neginaf3356
@neginaf3356 4 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this talk. thank you 💜🌸
@followmejesussays9726
@followmejesussays9726 5 жыл бұрын
Loans without guarantee! Wow🤩😘 Trust whether the person is worthy of trust or not. I must choose to react right, plant seeds, though change takes time but no matter how long it takes it, the seeds will grow.
@sengadesmontagnes836
@sengadesmontagnes836 5 жыл бұрын
YES !!!! Merci !!!
@D4NC3Rable
@D4NC3Rable 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful.
@kaffekaffekaffe5225
@kaffekaffekaffe5225 6 жыл бұрын
Denmark ❤️🙌
@SolSkinn
@SolSkinn 6 жыл бұрын
I'm the product of one danish and one Norwegian parent, and I live in Arizona. Very hard to find hygge when it's 120°F.
@Kewonerdk
@Kewonerdk 5 жыл бұрын
Ms Heather Monroe well you are living in the wrong country, but manly you idea of hygge is wrong, it can be done in any weather or conditions.
@tinamontano2355
@tinamontano2355 5 жыл бұрын
This sounds like Iowa! More pigs than people. Denmark is on my bucket list... And I'll be moving back to Iowa next year, my mini Denmark.
@gnawershreth
@gnawershreth 8 жыл бұрын
Well, I'm Danish and I don't really disagree with what she says. Similar things has been said by plenty of other people before. We do indeed seem to be very trusting compared to most other nations in the world. We don't assume people will want to do bad things. Like the whole baby in a stroller thing for example. The thought that someone might steal a child would never cross my mind. Why would they do that? I wouldn't want to steal a child so I guess I just sort of assume my fellow Danes feel the same way. However, I do think she just saw an opportunity to make some money and went for it. Apparently she left Denmark twenty years ago. She's not part of what makes Danes or Denmark trustworthy then, is she? She's not a part of that trusting nation at all and hasn't been for 20 years. And if she hasn't lived there for 20 years, why on earth should she be the one telling you how Danish people are? lol It seems to me like she's just copying what other people are saying and pretending she has some sort of special insight into it. She left as a teenager. If you should pick someone to tell the world the truth about your country, your people or your culture, would you pick a teenager? Her only experience of living in Denmark is apparently as a child and teenager. How much did *you* really know about what makes your nation work, about what makes your culture the way it is etc. when you were 18? :P
@bojman
@bojman 8 жыл бұрын
You are right. There are many people trying to write some books or produce something to sell, to be able to leave their day jobs and be more independent. Ted(x) is also nice place for selfpromotion. Have already checked, her book is going to be available in jan 2017. That means this is a kind of book selling campaign. But looking at this video I want to learn more about danish way to happiness.
@squatch545
@squatch545 7 жыл бұрын
You don't actually have to live in a country to know something about it. She did grow up in Denmark (Aarhus), so she has first hand experience with the culture at least.
@gnawershreth
@gnawershreth 7 жыл бұрын
+Joe Smith Yes, the culture from 20 years ago. You think time stood still for 20 years? And the culture as experienced by an angsty teenager with no obligations and no clue about much of anything besides where to get cheap beer. An 18 years old may never even have paid a bill in their life, they may never have had to buy toothpaste, they may never have voted (voting age is 18 so depends if there was an election the year she left) and an 18 year old sure as shit doesn't have any insight into the general Danish sense of trust or of leaving children outside in their strollers. She probably never even noticed it when she lived here as it had zero relevance to her teenage life.
@squatch545
@squatch545 7 жыл бұрын
You think Danish culture completely changed in 20 years when it comes to trust? Please cite your surveys. Also, what makes you think she has no relatives living in Denmark or does not communicate with people in Denmark? If the culture of trust has changed so much, don't you think her friends or relatives who live in Denmark would say so?
@gnawershreth
@gnawershreth 7 жыл бұрын
No, of course I don't but a small thing like leaving a kid outside in their stroller and similar minor issues can completely disappear in that time. Or new minor things could pop up. My problem isn't that she points out a fact that still exists. My point is that she knows nothing about it. She's just copying what you can find other people saying, what you can read about, what you can take a vacation to Denmark and see for yourself. She has no special insight. Do you honestly think that a person between the age of 0 and 18 thinks knows how Danish society works, why we trust each other more than others, even thinks of the stroller thing as something special etc? Of course they fucking don't. They just see it as a norm. When she grew up the internet wasn't really a "thing" yet. You could't just go online and see KZbinrs talking about the strange (to them) Danish traditions etc. She likely assumed that the entire world did the same as us... If she ever even thought about at all. She was a child ffs.
@brendadrew834
@brendadrew834 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent~ spot on~ Bravo!! Thanks for sharing~
@b1b9z1n3
@b1b9z1n3 7 жыл бұрын
here we got a women, telling about the way of livin in a free world/country. well, she is just telling you, how it is to live in a free country. i dont see anything unusual. it is the way of living in Denmark.
@NatalieGennaoui
@NatalieGennaoui 5 жыл бұрын
I would love to have pigs as my neighbors. They are so precious! I know that’s not the point of this video. Thank you for sharing these values. I am going to try what you said.
@jameseverett9037
@jameseverett9037 5 жыл бұрын
Pigs make good pets. Get some. Now.
@emilyirizarry6365
@emilyirizarry6365 4 жыл бұрын
She is such a great speaker. Loved this TED talk.
@frankyandme2
@frankyandme2 4 жыл бұрын
This is just brilliant. I've shared it on FB. I too, live by this philosophy.. :D
@LamiNalchor
@LamiNalchor Жыл бұрын
Well, she should mention that the high taxes are specifically balanced with high wages.
@Treeofthewood
@Treeofthewood 5 жыл бұрын
Trust is an earned thing.... Not too many trustworthy people out there....😥
@paulmaking1980
@paulmaking1980 7 жыл бұрын
Hygge Lifestyle!
@valdemarjensen1064
@valdemarjensen1064 4 жыл бұрын
det er ikke sovjet
@adys6115
@adys6115 2 жыл бұрын
This lady talks a lot of sense.
@لينهباغ
@لينهباغ 5 жыл бұрын
Very true .... I like Denmarlk
@stewartthomas2642
@stewartthomas2642 5 жыл бұрын
Love your stuff kick on love it
@anacastillo2206
@anacastillo2206 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@1Lightdancer
@1Lightdancer 6 жыл бұрын
Lovely piece!
@unzahid
@unzahid 4 жыл бұрын
powerful.
@reginasemenenko148
@reginasemenenko148 4 жыл бұрын
How exactly does one plant the seeds? What does that really look like????
@deboraveiga8072
@deboraveiga8072 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you, thank you. __/\__ Loved this talk! I wish I had been raised as a Danish... Only now I'm looking for my seed. Better late than never, right? ;)
@perjrgensen8280
@perjrgensen8280 4 жыл бұрын
Greetings from Denmark, to you.. :)
@emmeliehardinglund
@emmeliehardinglund 6 жыл бұрын
Amezing!❤️❤️❤️❤️
@laurenell1112
@laurenell1112 5 жыл бұрын
As an American who has lived in Sweden for years, I am really tired of surface conversations regarding Scandinavia's "happiness" without explaining demographic or historical background. What is Denmark's immigration history? What is the variation of Denmark's population? How was Denmark plagued by poverty and illness at one point that sent people fleeing to other parts of the world? She mentioned how a woman was arrested for leaving a baby alone in New York. The state of New York is one of the most diverse states in the United States (one could say one of the most diverse places in the world) with a long history accepting immigrants from all over the world, and has much higher criminality compared to Denmark. It also has approximately three million more people than Denmark. What would be the fate of Denmark if it became as diverse as New York? It's ideal to discuss highlights of Scandinavia, but be sure to mention how it is different than many countries in regards to population, immigration, history, religion, etc.
@erasmoc.9514
@erasmoc.9514 5 жыл бұрын
excellent
@crazycats6354
@crazycats6354 4 жыл бұрын
Hygge...life's so good♥
@im_just_serious
@im_just_serious 3 жыл бұрын
Play back speed x1.5 starts at 6:00 your welcome
@samkassam1889
@samkassam1889 7 жыл бұрын
people have been burnt every day by trusting other people. My life would be better if I had little bit of suspicion and a little digging.
@f1nn0
@f1nn0 5 жыл бұрын
That is part of the trust thing. Chose the right surroundings - and know whom you meet and trust ...
@stegy7413
@stegy7413 7 жыл бұрын
The problem is nobody is real free to do what wants. In the real life you can't choose who to be or what to do. I am not a pessimist person but realist.
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