Preparing to Cross the Atlantic to an UNKNOWN WORLD ... (Sailing Brick House #74)

[@lydiaajohnson]

Thanks for letting us know how you’re doing. You are amazing, and will pull your 50% when you can. Don’t beat yourself up when you just can’t. That’s sailing. I can’t imagine how it must feel to leave SA-all things considered. I like Michael because he knows how to laugh instead of getting angry at work that has to be done regardless. That’s healthy. The change of person is scary, but you’ve chosen well. Much love and support. 🌺

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Lydia. I think so too. It’s all far from perfect right now...but at least we are going forward...

[@tarivard]

Michael appears to have the patience and optimism needed for your adventure. Great to see you smiling and happy.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...he needs a lot of patience..that’s for sure!

[@jeremyanderson1248]

Rebecca, I just discovered your channel and want to let you know what an inspiration you are! A TRUE LEGEND! I'm 38 and have lost both my parents. After my mom died I refitted a 31 ft. camper trailer replacing everything and making it a home for me, my 2 dogs and a parrot. I set out to explore the continental US, that journey has come to an end and as I set my sights on the next chapter of my life-Which will be sailing I find the challenges to be a bit more foreign and seemingly insurmountable but draw inspiration from you and your story. The dogs and bird have all crossed the rainbow bridge to join my parents. Being alone sometimes makes things seem even harder but you finding Michael and me finding your channel has reminded me the universe and God work in magical mysterious ways so i will never give up on my goal. I wish you the happiest of lives and the most amazing adventures! Please keep sharing and be safe out there! BTW my parents are also named Rebecca and Michael.

[@chaswarren7239]

Patrick would (I'm sure is) very proud of you. That nagging voice you hear every now & then is his guidance. I think you are the new Captain of Brick House & you are & will be more than your 50%. I know that feeling of responsibility when you leave harbour - watch any skippers face , but trust yourself & enjoy.

[@Ricovandijk]

So good to see you smiling!

[@Sailrbean]

Carry on the beautiful dream that Patrick started for you... Michael is a good man for taking the plunge and help you keep the dream alive. Be blessed sweetie.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks. He’s such a good guy and took a big plunge..but we aren’t getting on so well I’m afraid...

[@jamesceastep8874]

Watching Michael througout this episode (my first with him involved) showed me, very early on, that he is a gem of a partner, for ANY endeavor, especially one with the challenges of sailing, and the added benefit to you, HE IS VERY EASY ON THE EYES! I'm sure you also see many of Patrick's best attributes in him every day. Best of luck to you both. I look forward to a restart of your regular episodes. We need you to achieve our own vicarious sailing aspirations!

[@RVLifeNOW]

thanks - I see some of Patrick in here, but in reality- polar opposites...

[@jamesceastep8874]

@@RVLifeNOW Rebecca. I hope all goes well, but I would like to suggest that you need to keep Patrick in your soul, but to recognize Michael in first person (you), not third (he, Michael) especially when he is standing there behind the camera acting as your video crew. Sometimes we don't recognize what wonderful people we have at our side until we loose them. Don't let that happen with Michael. Speaking from experience, of course. If MIchael is the polar opposite to Patrick, embrace those differences. Diversity is one of the spices of life. Who can't appreciate spice? Let's see some more outstanding videos of your adventures, but now, with Michael. Fondly and with encouragement, Jim

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Ah I’m Sure you are right. But it’s not working sadly. He has so many good things, but sadly missing some important things. Very sad for both of us.

[@nealeburgess6756]

I like Michael's manner in front of the camera. He makes a good co-presenter.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes..he is great in that way...a real great actor and photographer! A natural!

[@svbarryduckworth628]

When the head breaks it automatically becomes the top priority on a boat short of keeping it afloat and navigating. It seems to always happen when there is a nice day and fun activities planned -or in the middle of another project with the boat already torn up! Sometimes having a second head is a nice thing to have. A bucket doesn't really cut it in port -especially at a nice marina. If you ever want to be invited back, at least. I used to be a commercial electrician before retiring and cruising. I have seen and even participated in a lot of bad and stupid mistakes that caused major damage and even injuries in the job. When people are exhausted and have been working hard and pushing their limits is when something small but dumb gets overlooked. It can easily be something like leaving a ladder in the wrong place near moving machinery, or putting a wire through the wrong opening. Or leaving a wrench or screwdriver inside a large high voltage switch gear waiting to fall between two busbars when things vibrate a little or a heavy 2000A switch is thrown and snaps shut, shaking the whole works. Been there, done that, had to fill out the incident report form. Experienced and competent workers are not immune to this even knowing and having seen "it all" and being constantly on the lookout for these things. Fatigue and stress are killers on any worksite and it is what bites you in the ass when trying to beat a deadline or a tight schedule. Mistakes get made, especially when rushed to finish a job. We have a saying that we never energize or start heavy equipment on a Friday afternoon. It is always a recipe for disaster trying to make a deadline like that. Waiting until Monday morning after going over every inch of the work again to visually inspect and hands-on check all important components before startup almost always turns up something that was done wrong or was not fully completed. Sometimes it is little stuff that isn't going to cause a disaster, but on others it catches something that definitely would or could. Even professionals screw things up, as you know, especially when on a deadline. It might not be your deadline -younnever know what Deadlines the people you hire to do a job are under from their bosses back at the office. Deadlines are just as dangerous on a job site as they can be in passage-planning and cruising. They push people into taking marginal options & making iffy decisions for the sake of keeping to a timeline and making said deadlines. When tired and stretched, even the most competent among us turn into complete idiots, and the worst thing is we can't even always properly recognize it is happening to us. It is similar to being intoxicated. Taking that extra day to go over every inch of a project pays off as it did for you checking on your rigging work. I am so grateful that you caught these mistakes before they caught you. A bladeset on a wind turbine is small potatoes (Thank the sea gods nobody was hurt by flying fiberglass fragments) In the end it is YOU the individual who is responsible for everything in your own life(s). Trusting others is OK to an extent -only it is "trust but verify." It's your life, it's your boat, it's your big plans to continue cruising. Nobody is going to care about these things nearly as much as you do. But you have to be in the right head space and not impaired by lack of sleep/rest/time to do it right and proper. Never turn on new equipment on a Friday...

[@RVLifeNOW]

That’s all great information..thanks for taking the time to write it. You are absolutely right. Nobody loves your sailboat or sailing as much as you do!

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

Well said !!!

[@stonetoolcompany3649]

The amazing courage and commitment of two people having just met to decided to take up a life together and put the past behind is inspiring. You apparently crossed paths at just the right time. Obviously Michael was ready for a major life change, I hope it works out well for both of you. Life is too short to pass up adventure. Having been in business myself for nearly 40 years, I'm ready for change before long.... But I don't know if I'd have his courage. The lesson about not trusting professionals is one I learned long ago...... Employees are the problem. I've not had employees for many years now. It's impossible to make sure everything is done right when someone else is doing it. I found that eliminating employees and doing things with my own hands ended any problems.......I can't afford to do things wrong, or carelessly or make mistakes...... somebody drawing a wage seldom has that level of commitment. It's just a job. When doing an important job you have to put everything else out of your mind and focus on doing it right. Most people cannot compartmentalize and focus on the job when doing the job, on the personal life when not on the job, etc..... or simply don't care for anything but a paycheck.

[@RVLifeNOW]

So true about employees, and I’m quite sure it was this when things went bad. Regarding the courage. As a man once said to me when I was switching careers from a $12,000 a year job to the potential for a $100,000 a year job...how can you afford NOT to come to this school!?! Life is short...how can anyone afford to NOT go for it...to NOT have the courage to make the change!!!

[@donnamass9576]

Thank you, Michael. Happy to see you both preparing to journey and good to see you back, Rebecca.

[@mickeyironeye]

You are welcome Donna!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks!

[@mikeluckham5518]

You lucked into a real gem with Michael, good luck on your voyage!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks..I think so too...

[@SteffanAtherton]

so nice to see you have a new friend in your life, he seems like a really lovely chap.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yeah..he’s a good guy...

[@robinpatterson2972]

Life, what a wonderful mystery and joy and pain. You definetly will be separating your memories of Patrick, with leaving on this new voyage. You speak so well of your thoughts and likewise does Michael. You are very fortunate to be with him. Don't forget to got your cabin once in awhile and just sit and talk with Patrick. Have a short cry and have a private time. We all need this. I'm quite impressed with the strength of Michael's thoughts and character. One other little thing, , , , , , ,remember that you are also so Wonderful. You are a very strong beautiful woman. Do well and I wish you a wonderful new adventure. BE WELL. talk with you again soon

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Robin...didnt see this earlier....

[@nebinskip1010]

So impressed with how well you guys seem to gel together, the dynamic on video really seems very natural, and just so happy for you guys. Fine winds and clear waters always.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. I’m lucky that Michael enjoys the camera thing so much.

[@sandybremner5502]

Great episode- good reminder of some of the bitter realities of cruising life and the worries as well as the need to step back and appreciated the things we should be grateful for

[@RVLifeNOW]

So true!

[@JimJocrusin]

We are so happy for you Rebecca. Your new Captain seems like a capable guy and we hope that you have an enjoyable Atlantic passage. Don't worry too much about the percentages of who does what while sailing, it's not about numbers, it is just about getting things done to keep yourself, the crew and the boat safe. You are more capable than you think, we would sail with you anytime! Best, J&J

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks guys! Hope you are right!

[@mikejelinek1413]

What a painful yet beautiful story. The first episode I saw was when Patrick passed and that was heart-wrenching. I have a connection to you because I went into a coma from Covid, I was healthy as a horse and it almost killed me. Five weeks later I was out of the hospital, I'm so sorry about your Patrick, may he Rest in Peace always. Michael seems like a wonderful person and I wish you two the best of times! My plans are to buy a sailboat and retire in the Caribbean sailing maybe we will run into each other one day.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Mike…I’m glad you made it through. Covid was particularly tough in the beginning I think. Michael is the best guy imaginable… lucky to have him in my life!

[@nearlynativenursery8638]

Very sorry for your loss Rebecca.Super glad you are continuing your circumnavigation. sure wish I could have joined you. fair winds and challenging seas.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. Still sailing..yes…

[@christip20]

You’re great inspiration and I for one don’t have any doubts about your abilities or his. You’re good together and you look happier and rested..

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks. It’s been a struggle in reality.

[@colinunderdown1758]

Who would want to sail with a new widow you ask, I think there was a long queue who would have been keen to try. Fair winds to you both and good luck.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Hee hee. But the reality...nobody can really drop their lives and start a new one :) Michael could and did.

[@1SeanBond]

@@RVLifeNOW amazing truly!

[@girlmom5580]

So glad you two found each other. I wish you two nothing but the best. Micheal is such a kind, calm and patient man. What a great friend you found. I know Patrick will always remain in your ❤️ Safe travels.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks. He is indeed...

[@johnbecay6887]

I am so sorry for your loss. you are a brave couple. I wish you well.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks John!

[@freeholdtacticalmed]

Way to go Rebecca! I’m glad to see you still sailing. Strong work with the stack pack/lazy jack’s/dodger/plumbing...I’m emptying a homuse to move aboard my ketch...I completely agree with Michael’s description of moving. Boat soon! I’ll keep my eyes out for Brick House on my AIS when I get to the South Caribbean before Hurricane season. SV Shayndel

[@mickeyironeye]

Good luck Paul - hope to see you out there!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Hey we are in Grenada…where you?

[@AirnFire1111]

If Michael's camera personality is the real deal, you have a real keeper and you both are blessed. May you both have wonderful future together. Fair winds & calm seas. S/V Misty Blue Yonder

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Kurt! Reality TV :)

[@abdulkkhan5095]

I truly miss Patrick Childress. One of America's finest and most inspirational sailor. God be with Him.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes ..it’s been a year now...and god I miss him so much. Crying a lot these days as we pass his anniversary.

[@hrhplease9119]

Patrick is so proud of you❣️You’re an inspiration & I’m so happy to see you continuing your journey with Michael. I don’t believe in coincidences . I can feel the genuine good vibe between you two, and I’m sure Patrick had a helping hand. We only get one round, So do it well. Thinking about you guys & wishing you safe passage. Hugs xoxoxo

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. Sailing off again this next week for the big jump! Sailing across the atlantic!!Yeah! Thanks for watching!

[@sailingrollingstone8723]

I too am an old Cape Town boy...so lovely to meet Michael I feel like I know him already. Rebecca you are looking beautiful and animated and excited...its wonderful to see. I am sure you will more than step up to the mark and be everything you need to be. I am in Dover (UK) doing all those final preparations myself ready to leave just as soon as they will let us. Many wise words in this episode that I have taken on board. 'It's so heavy' yes indeed.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...so heavy..thanks for seeing the importance of that. Glad I could help :)

[@billwilliams9527]

Way to go girl, so how fortunate were you to find this sailor to fix and guide you on this journey. Sailing off alone, good grief, that's almost a death wish. Fair winds on your journey and may you both be safe and have lots of stories to tell.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you. Yes. If not a death wish to sail off alone...a miserable 2-3 months! Sailing with friends is always better!

[@markrutlidge5427]

Looks like you found a jem of a sailing companion, good luck with your adventures.

[@mickeyironeye]

Thanks Mark....I think we both did!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Ah. Michael…didn’t see this comment til now…you are right…we both got lucky…me probably luckier.

[@elizabethmaggs3412]

Also the video was so full of joy ! It made me happy watching it. Thanks so much for sharing with us. Lisa burns xxx

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much for watching.

[@jiefflerenard1228]

I have to admit I was bluffing a bit when month ago I said you would come out of this tragedy stronger happier and more beautiful but there you are . Your energy is contagious Thank you .

[@RVLifeNOW]

Oh....that is so nice. Nothing is perfect or stupendous....yet...but it will be!

[@francismontocchio9910]

Congratulations, Rebecca, you’re looking great and as an ex-Capetonian I can really relate to Michael - he seems to be a fantastic guy. All the best to both of you!!!

[@RVLifeNOW]

He is :)

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

She is so blessed to have found him !!! Actually I think they are both fortunate to find each other, I hope their relationship blossoms and they make a great life together !!!

[@catherinehackett7722]

Rebecca you have absorbed more than you know from Patrick and he will always be there to send little reminders. You will pull your weight in this crew, I have no doubts. I’m glad you have such a good sailing partner in Michael. Safe passage!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Catherine..I’m glad I have Michael here too!

[@michaelcarron3418]

Rebecca, I think you have a good man there, Mike has a good cheerful manner and can do knowledge, and can do dishes too. Lol. You are right to double-check all work done by so-called professionals. A good tip is to run the engine for at least 20 minutes before casting off., bleed the fuel filter some to get any condensation out, before starting the engine, all ways check all through holes valves for leakage and correct position. plus any water in the bilge. Secure the anchor and all loose equipment on the deck, lines, fenders,etc fuel & water cans/jugs. You have a beautiful SMILE.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Micheal..thanks for that list..I just put it on our to do list hanging on the wall. And you are so kind to tell me what a beautiful smile I have. Your timing was oddly good..just what I needed to hear tonight :)

[@gilcore5245]

I loved this episode. i once messages you Rebecca about being widowed as i am and not letting other people determine your time line to recovery. Yes i had tears during the show but also laughs. What a GREAT job you have done to move towards making these videos your own! Michael, well i think he is great and deserves the title of courageous. He seems to be gladly letting you deal with your loss as well as giving you a way forward. God bless bless and fair winds!.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks...all of that and more...thank you so much!

[@neilclark9298]

Fascinating story to watch and was a rollercoaster filled with emotion, joy sadness and laughter. Being an ex Capetonian, lived there for over thirty years of my life, surfing, sailing, diving and now stuck in London I'm itching to get back on the ocean again and make the dream come true. I'm looking to buy a Contessa 26, fit it out and sail away soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys and only hope the best sailing days, fair winds, love and great adventures for you both. Bon voyage 🇺🇸🥂🇿🇦

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for watching...and feeling :)

[@stinkintoad]

My God, the scenery and view from your marina is jaw dropping.

[@RVLifeNOW]

It really is. Cape Town is a beautiful place, no doubt!!

[@fairwayray]

Good luck, Rebecca and Michael! It's a good thing you checked the rigging! Mike seems to be a good man. He has made a big move selling all of his tools. To a craftsman, that is a heartbreaker. I had to leave my shop and get rid of most of my tools. It still hurts.

[@mickeyironeye]

Thanks Raymond! I can testify I dont think I will ever recover from selling my tools. All my hand / power tools went to my son for safekeeping....hoping he gets to use them, and if I ever return to CT, I will have access to the basics.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for watching! Yea…it was bold and daring. A Mike is a great man and I’m lucky to have him in my life.

[@clayfarnet970]

I didn’t know Patrick, but his knowledge and advice is priceless. Checking the rigging may have saved your lives. Fair winds!

[@mickeyironeye]

Thanks Clay.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yea… you are right about that!

[@rickkwitkoski1976]

I watch several sailing channels and heard about Brick House through those. So sorry about Patrick, Rebecca. I have a friend who died from COVID just three months ago. I finally decided to sit and WATCH an episode of BH. THANK YOU! I am now subscribed. I am looking forward to following your adventures. I followed SV Delos up and across the Atlantic where you are kinda going and enjoyed their stuff so much. I know you will be different but I am looking forward to some similar stuff.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Rick. May be a bit til I do another one...we start the big leg tomorrow!!!

[@towhitby1]

Michael is a gentleman and a scholar - he'll take good care of you. I'm following a few weeks behind!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Are you? Where?

[@XHansCoché]

Well Rebecca and Michael I wish you the best in your continued travels. I'm sure the two of you will persevere and enjoy. Above all, you both seem to be very happy with a good sense of humor.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Sense of humor is an important ingredient for a sailing team!

[@beigenomadscaravangroup8171]

Good luck you two. Hope to hear how you progress is going. Stay safe.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. You can follow my track at www.WhereIsBrickHouse.com

[@dwightwheeler6806]

The best of luck to you and Michael, you are very courageous, I know it will be hard for you to leave Patrick behind, I'm sure he would want you to move on and start the next phase of your life with Michael, you two seem to be great for each other, it maybe scary ,but also exciting at the same time, don't worry about your 50% stand tall and greet each challenge with an open mind, and you will succeed, my heart is with you on this voyage, just think of it as a new adventure.

[@mickeyironeye]

Thanks Dwight!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...Patrick would want me to finish my circumnavigation. Gonna try hard for my 50% so that I know I can!

[@nmsspacedude9799]

Well done that crew and Captain...shaping up nicely! Fine sailing to you and all who sail with you!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks!

[@rebelmusikworldwide9749]

" forward ever, backwards never." we say in jamaica... Rebecca i was so saddened about Patrick but was more ever so worried that we would loose you and brick house.. You go girl .. chase the horizons and remember all those broken things..someone was pointing them out to you for a reason. welcome michael, you seem to be a great character for us all to enjoy.

[@mickeyironeye]

Thank you - much appreciated! Hoping to get to Jamaica someday!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Sorry..just saw this now…thanks for watching!

[@shurppa64]

Glad to see you forg forward.

[@RVLifeNOW]

thanks!

[@gunghoadventures871]

Awesome news .

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks

[@NorthPoleTime]

Fair winds and smooth sailing!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks...hope so!

[@thesailingkiwi]

After a terrible year you look almost happy, life is an amazing journey, fair winds

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks. Yeah..I am almost happy!

[@dougford5691]

So happy for you and I look forward to following your adventures with Michael. You will be good together!! Sail on.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much Doug! It’s a struggle worth fighting for!

[@SeaDarer]

You nailed it Rebecca. Have others do things for you and then say to yourself: "What if it goes wrong - how can I cope with it?" If you can't answer that, then check again and prove to yourself that it is all done correctly the first time. Looks like you are doing that and that's the best. Good luck and enjoy.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much Seadarer. I learned it from Patrick...though I have to surrender more to others than he did!

[@jamesrichardson1]

Michael is a great guy.

[@mickeyironeye]

Thanks Jim!

[@RVLifeNOW]

He is, indeed..I’m finally coming around :)

[@tonycotto8073]

Don't throw him overboard on the crossing, he looks like a keeper.

[@RVLifeNOW]

I will try not to. He has his days :)

[@rickkwitkoski1976]

@@RVLifeNOW Don't we all!!

[@Tampo-tiger]

A kipper!?

[@jessilopes]

Safe travels .. see you out there !

[@mickeyironeye]

Thanks Jessi

[@RVLifeNOW]

Hope so!

[@stimpacat]

Told you that you have been blessed. Now you have an angel watching over you. Everyone likes Atlantic crossings.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes..this is suppose to be the real milk run of my circumnavigation. Fingers crossed for a great run!

[@sailingavocet]

So absolutely proud of you Rebecca.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Ah...

[@jerrywilson589]

Great core removal and epoxy backfill tip!

[@jeremybentley820]

God speed to you both... May Sailing Brickhouse stay a household name once again...Those of us that followed Sailing Brickhouse were all so deviated at Patrick's untimly death, and so worried about you and your stricken state, yet you showed your true metal Rebecca... well done. To hear how you and Michael have managed to forge a new working relationship is just to wonderful for words. Its the best news ever for us. God bless and keep you both safe well and happy. May you have many many magical years of exploration ahead. Please do keep us informed as our hearts are with you both. Those of us here in SA that have followed your incredible progress around the world feel privaliged to be watching Brickhouse begin her next set of global adventures. Here is wishing you both a wonderful passage. The life and times of Sailing Brickhouse continues. please keep the adventures coming for there are lots of us that vicariously love what you do. God speed...

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much Jeremy. Appreciate all of the good will and wishes from South Africa...my heart will always be there!

[@karitane]

Being 50% of a 2 man crew goes like this. Never stop observing, never stop listening, never stop asking questions. Always demand respect and never belittle or put your self down or diminish your own worth, have fun. And then one day you will own it. Love and take care of each other and bon voyage. You will one day start to meet people who ask you xx

[@RVLifeNOW]

Happy to say..I was definitely 50% or more on this trip!!!

[@sailingsomeday5975]

Bon Voyage - I look forward to following your new adventures! Stay safe and stay happy!

[@RVLifeNOW]

look forward to meeting you sailing someday!

[@ruaraidhmcdonald-walker9524]

Well when you put it like that...... ;) You both look very relaxed and happy! Fair winds Rebecca!!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for watching!

[@Kathleensailorgirl]

Wonderful to see you looking so beautiful and excited for your next adventure, Michael seems like a great guy and companion. Wishing you fair winds, be safe ⛵️⛵️⛵️😘

[@RVLifeNOW]

He is awesome indeed. Though not every day :)

[@rumblechick73]

@@RVLifeNOW Is anyone?

[@todpatn9782]

It’s good to see you have a new mate. Seems to me he’s a pretty good hand with a boat. Enjoy your your new journey, each other , be happy. Again I’m happy for you for you both.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Tod.

[@danerlandson5596]

Can’t wait to see your first post on this side of the Atlantic!

[@RVLifeNOW]

me too - halfway across now - uploading a video now - may take days at this rate!

[@elizabethmaggs3412]

Fantastic video! Thanks so much. It brings back many happy memories of cape town and the passage you are about to make. Working in Port Owen as a charter skipper and doing yacht deliveries with my husband Bob Burns was the happiest time in my life! Have a great passage! You look like a very happy crew! Best wishes Lisa Burns.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Lisa. Hope to have a good sail.

[@timhardman4764]

Good luck on your passage. Every time you get pissed at Michael for some little thing (like a wind generator blade) please remember he climbed the mast, he checked the pins, he saved the mast and all the terror, heart break and broken dreams that may have died with that kind of a set back at sea. It's great to see you stepping up and wanting to learn more about actually sailing the boat as Patrick did. I hope you can learn over time to get semi-comfortable with single handing this boat so you can perform a man overboard retrieval in heavy seas and poor conditions as well as single handing if Michael is sick or injured and can do nothing but sit in the cabin. And Michael needs the same skill for a reversal of the scenarios. Best of luck, it will be a great adventure. I think your current skill sets will compliment each other. Stay happy, have fun...the adventure continues. Also, great camera work and editing. Your skills are already at a pretty high level with this.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes...gotta remember that...he is the one that found it. Gotta have lists, or something will get forgotten!

[@steveburton5825]

Rebecca, you've come a long way since your initial reluctant but tolerant appearances on this channel with Patrick! Bon voyage, fair winds and following seas.

[@RVLifeNOW]

It’s still a bit reluctant I must admit. Michael always seems to have a camera in his hand...sometimes at very bad times!!!

[@cessnapilot8656]

I wish you two all the best and look forward to your next video ,clear skies and following seas

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks..may be a bit...crossing an ocean ..the big passage, in just a day or two!

[@henryrossouw930]

Sorry pressed wrong button before I could finish my comment and check for spelling.Anyway may you have a wonderful new chapter in your life and godspeed to you two.Yes Covid has completely changed our way of doing things but dont let that stand in your way of enjoying life.Michael seems to be a great companion.Greetings from Wellington just outside Cape Town.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks Henry... doing our best :)

[@Shaz-on-Adventure]

Fantastic episode. Wishing you both fair winds and happy sailing. Love watching your story unfold. Looking forward to follow your adventures further. Blessings

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much! Thanks for staying with me!

[@williambunting803]

A good toilet is vital, so well worth the time. Earlier boat outfitters have a lot to answer for. I am moving through-hull fittings to places where they are readily accessible by anyone, while also reducing the number of fittings. I finally settled on the through-hull fitting material and am replacing all fittings with titanium fittings (not as expensive as you might think). If you get to installing an electric toilet one thing I discovered is that if you run the electric pump in the wrong direction it maserates far better while still pumping the material albeit at a slower rate, so toilet to waste tank the material is far less likely to cause clogging. Also I feel far better about releasing material as a cloud than floating chunks. What? People don’t like talking about that? We are boaters and so are a lot closer to the reality of our life style than landlubbers. And in the galley I installed a water trap on each sink to all of: stop the back flow from one sink to another; stop the smell from the pipe filling the boat when I am away; and to trap grease which causes blockages. They have really compact easy to install traps here in Europe for less than Euro 10, which work extremely well. A huge improvement. I developed an instant hate for Lavac toilet pumps with the first attempt to replace diagrams and valves. That made it very easy to go electric, but out of laziness with the aft head i left the pump in the line, and that turned out to be the smartest thing as i now pump the line dry every time when using that head, and if there is an electric problem the hand pump still works as normal requiring only the addition of water. I’ve yet to re install the hand pump in the forward head. I still suffer at 70 from the joint damage caused by trying to reshape my body to fit where i could access the original toilet parts, so I empathize with Michael and that stressed look. Bill

[@mickeyironeye]

The original bulder would have connected the plumbing with the counter top off....then sealed it all up making maintenance a serious challenge....I have had to apply a totally more zen approach to boat maintenance than to general household fixes.

[@williambunting803]

@@mickeyironeye That Mickey is definitely how my Southerly was made. They gave zero thought to how things would be accessed. When my boat comes out I will be turning the toilet valve through 180 degrees so I can have the toilet waste valve in a position where i can extend the valve lever to outside the cabinet it is in so it can be right beside the toilet itself. Then when the lever is down to floor level the valve is off and when it is up out of the way the toilet is working. They put in a plumbing access panel behind the toilet at above seat level then sealed it up and put the basin waste valve and shower waste in the next cabin under the bed ???. I’ve removed the screws to that panel and fitted a latch and hinge, and now the water feed pump, the shower drain pump, and the two valves are there where they can all be easily accessed. It’s almost like the designers didn’t talk to each other. Very frustrating, but all part of the adventure, particularly when little changes can make a huge difference.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for watching :)

[@howardwhite9773]

Very kind to see important things breaking whilst at the dock. We'll tune in for the post crossing report for the list of that which broke on the crossing...

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yeah..not a matter of it it broke..it’s just a matter of when :)

[@SailingChannels]

Congrats to both of you. Rebecca has a glow in her eyes which is quite comforting. Fair winds

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. Not always good...not always bad either, which is a step in the right direction...

[@TwoGetLost]

Wonderful, it's so lovely to see you back and smiling. I know how hard that must have been. Sending love

[@RVLifeNOW]

Still is difficult..but we will get there...thanks!

[@andyadams1222]

I’m so happy to hear. that your moving on .. life is to short.. you must go enjoy life

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes…enjoying my life despite a few obstacles.

[@rodwilliams2782]

Wow I can remember when we swam with the tiger sharks in Mexico it was a wonderful, memorable experience. Safe sailing.

[@cory0702]

I'm so happy to see you about to start a new adventure. Best of luck.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks.

[@klemenprezelj]

U guys have healthy attitude. I don't worry too much about your compatibility on a long sail. There is always a dispute,but u will overcome it. Happy sailing U2. Best regards from Slovenia.

[@mickeyironeye]

Thanks Klemen!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks to you in Slovenia!

[@barrysummers1622]

I wish you the best of luck Rebecca, happy sailing, stay safe and well.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks for that!

[@janewright6926]

Hi Rebecca, wish we'd met at RCYC as I've recently joined in order to learn to sail and one day head off like you have done. I have met someone to do it with, so will watch and learn as we go. Have also met your friend Cecile in Richard's Bay. You're brave and intrepid that's for sure - enjoy your new life with Michael. xx

[@rienvanutrecht3398]

Good to see you are well on your way to get back on your feet, the hardship wont be over, you'll still encounter tough time's, butt I am convinced you'll get there. Have a safe and beatifull sail. All my best wishes

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. Indeed the hardship is not over...sometimes it is actually worse than it was 6 months ago. But there is not choice...I must go forward if I value life at all.

[@Pinnacleair1]

Good for you! Fantastic

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you

[@erich9244]

Bless you both so much for setting a new direction and moving forward. Certainly seems like you have a good crewman if not a phenomenal partner Rebecca. Remember that when your 50% of the crew that team work makes it easier not harder. SO between the two of you there is probably 120% capacity when you need a 100%. No one person can be good at everything, we keep striving for better than tomorrow is about all one can do. Fair Winds and gently following seas Rebecca and Michael. I pray for your safety and hope all is well.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much Eric. You are right...

[@robwestern7702]

Just seeing you happy again is the best feeling may the wind always be at your back and the seas calm

[@RVLifeNOW]

Glad you are happy for me..thanks for that!

[@209turtleboy]

Rebeccaa~~I'm smiling at you and proud of your progress, Happy Sails. 🌬🌊⛵

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much. I am too :)

[@jvodan]

Glad to see you happy

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank you

[@davidolson7575]

Well Rebecca its nice to see your smiling face along with your new sailing companion!!! Looking for more frequent videos.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Wish I could...still a struggle to make them nice to watch :) Sailing out Friday morning for the big passage so none for a couple months.

[@davidolson7575]

@@RVLifeNOW Thanks Rebecca please be safe and take care. We all will be looking forward to your next video even if it’s just a little short clip from who knows where.

[@tonystanney3804]

A new crew-member, a new adventure and....... a new wind-vane blade! I'm so glad you've picked yourself up with a determination. Looking fwd to following your adventure! Stay safe.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Hanks Tony!!!

[@larryhill7563]

Brick House what a great name for a boat. I'm glad to see you doing well, your very strong.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much!

[@reloadncharge9907]

Great video!, stay safe! We are all behind you! Best....Andrew

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thank goodness for that!!! My family...my community...I’d be nowhere without you all!!!

[@troycurrie7784]

Anytime you do electrical wiring on the boat make sure you use heat shrink on the connections to keep water out much better and longer than just tape by itself.

[@RVLifeNOW]

Yes....so true...

[@press1776]

I absolutely believe you are a strong intelligent capable women. ..we are all constantly learning. Just go wherever the wind and weather takes you .

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much… gonna keep sailing..gotta finish my circumnavigation…

[@henryrossouw930]

Fair winds to you two Rebecca and Michael.Sooo glad to see you happy again.ont feel bad about eaving Patruck behind cause Patricks spirit will be with you wherever you go.

[@jamesallen712]

Good luck on the voyage. Fair winds.

[@mickeyironeye]

Thanks James

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much James.. yes..please let there be fair winds!

[@press1776]

We have all been there.. its nice to see you smiling while fighting the wires. It really made me crack up ..

[@RVLifeNOW]

Ooh maybe I forgot to crop that out???!!

[@RVLifeNOW]

Oh those wires..I was thinking you just saw the new video ;)

[@craigkaschan4822]

You got yourself a good bloke in Michael he will be a great ship mate. I admire, envy and respect what you are doing. Have a safe and happy sail to wherever you are going. Patrick would approve with what you are doing. Looking forward to your next video 👍🇦🇺

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks arraigned. Patrick is definitely pushing me forward. He wants me to finish my circumnavigation.

[@davidbarlow2435]

rebecca you will be fine you will be surprised how much you will remember patric would wish you to do it and it was realy nice to see you back onutube good luck and big hugs. david

[@RVLifeNOW]

Thanks so much David. Gotta do what ya gotta do!

[@sietuuba]

Oh I like Michael's demeanor, what are the odds of landing a skipper candidate of his caliber anyway! Patrick would be pleased I'm sure. Seems like you're all set for any and all repairs downwind. Upwind too, if need be. Bon voyage!

[@RVLifeNOW]

No upwind allowed on this passage across the atlantic hahaha