Prison Love | Talks with Tony

[@m.l.5230]

As a man who has been locked up.....EVERYTHING Tony Gaskin is telling ya'll ladies is ABSOLUTELY TRUE.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

Thank you for the confirmation... Some people need that second motion.

[@lei673]

Character development

[@m.l.5230]

In the light that my comment is so popular let me clarify my point: No disrespect to the brother referred to in the letter, I don't know his circumstances or his character but I do have prior experience regarding relationships behind bars. As a Christian himself I have heard of ONE testimony about a Man who had been locked up in his teens for murder (sentenced to LIFE imprisonment who came to the LORD because of the experience) enter into a deep relationship with a woman which blossomed into a beautiful marriage with kids when God opened the door for his release. I can testify that yes, God himself is THAT deep regarding some things. His name is Ron Olivier and his testimony (about how the Supreme Court overturn the State of Louisiana regarding of it's decision to impose Life Sentences on Teenage Offenders) is the exception to the rule regarding these type of relationships. What I am trying to say is, do these relationships work? Yes some do. (By some I mean ONE from my personal experience.) MOST OF THEM DON'T. In my incarceration I have witness many of the fellow peers engage in having these relationships with complete strangers they met over the phone, through the newspaper, on the internet etc. The vast majority of the narrative that is fed to these women isn't the reality of the situation. You just don't know the factors behind the man because the man is behind bars. 1) You don't know if he's playing you for money (I met guys doing this to desperate woman, it is absolutely disgusting) 2) You don't know if he's exclusive (Man times guys are saying the same story to multiple desperate women) 3) You don't know if he's clean (I know of MANY MANY guys who would facetime with females over the phone, get there juices running and then go use a punk for release) I will spare you from the horror stories I've seen and heard while locked up. This brother proclaims himself to be innocent. IF he is, his ass shouldn't be focusing on no female while he is LOCKED UP. His primary concern should be marching his ass EVERY MORNING down the law library to fight for his FREEDOM. A relationship shouldn't even be a concern for him. And with all respect to the sister in this letter, she NEEDS to take this into her heart as well. She needs to know that his primary focus shouldn't be HER but his FREEDOM. It sounds like both parties have genuine feelings for one another, but both of ya'll need to be pragmatic with the situation. She wants him to commit before she continues to open herself to him and it sounds like he doesn't want to commit. In reality HE CAN'T. Ya'll can't meet each other needs, that's the reality of the situation. I don't know if the case is Federal or State, but there are NO Conjugal visits in Federal prisons. And even if there are conjugal visits, a relationship is more then just a few days of sex sprinkled throughout a year. From my own personal experience: I was 100% GUILTY of my crime, when I was sentenced to half a decade behind bars I immediately ended my relationship with my girlfriend to do my time. It was a pragmatic decision because I saw the reality of the situation, I told her that she DESERVES a BETTER MAN to take care of her and I wasn't in the position to do that. If I told her anything else it would have been a LIE. My primary concern with my bid was: 1) How to get out of this situation ALIVE 2) How can I get out a BETTER MAN That was my whole concern. Self Improvement and Character Development. That needs to be every dude's mindset in prison instead of thinking about HOW TO GET LAID. I made that my priority over the three women that had developed feelings for me while I was lockup. It wasn't always easy, it's pretty chaotic in the field of love and war but I'm reaping the rewards of investing in those choices. I left prison transformed physically, mentally, emotionally to the point where even my PUBLIC DEFENDER said I was a new person (he literally couldn't recognize me.) I am thriving in a pandemic working a decent paying job from a well known company in a field that was supposed to be IMPOSSIBLE to get a job because of COVID. I became a pillar of my Church's Men's Ministry and became a P-1 Level Martial Arts Practitioner of Krav Maga. Currently I'm laying the ground work for starting a career as a Cinematographer/Entrepreneur with the life purpose of creating a NPO to help other offenders in prison make a better life for themselves upon release. I managed all of this roughly 18 MONTHS after my release. Am I perfect? No. But I'm definitely trying to be a better man for that woman I'm waiting for and whose waiting for me.

[@tjsmagicalgametime2916]

Matt L - bless you... Thank u for that insight. Very helpful & interesting.

[@77massage]

Gurl gurl gurl run run 🏃‍♂️ don't fall for the okie doke please listen with your brain and not your heart listen to Tony and the brotha that commented below I'm praying for you.😇

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“When a man behind bars, you do not know him.” TG

[@vondorarose7688]

“God do not have your husband sitting behind bars.” LOUDER!!! 🗣👏🤣💀💀

[@TaughtbySala]

When a man says ‘’He doesn’t want a relationship with you’’ listen to him, he doesn’t want you…that’s point blank period. Tony God bless you for all you do.

[@blacksongbird100]

Ok?! You better listen. They don't want you but they will put you on your back! 😳

[@kikic7637]

Yes, that "with you" is silent

[@ellaesparza3151]

True. If he says he’s going with the flow, he doesn’t want you either.

[@ellaesparza3151]

@@kikic7637 I just said something similar before I read your comment

[@preangelamarks8474]

@@kikic7637 nahhhh it's loud af

[@kikic7637]

Now, this is a FIRST... I've never heard of the jailbird saying he doesn't want a relationship😩 Most string you along for money on books, phone calls, etc. He is actually telling her right. It's her that's holding on to nothing. Chileeee🤔

[@VintageAfro91]

Right! I’m like sis, count your blessings and RUN!

[@pinkishdiamondz]

You ain't never lied smh

[@nikkyshamz2696]

For real, that's exactly what I thought cos he could easily be stringing many ladies along, getting money, and he has enough integrity to not want to do that to this lady, and she won't take the hint😱😱😱 I'm shooketh.

[@aliciag946]

Sis she need to thank God that he was even that honest to tell her!

[@amilllion1]

He got a man!

[@kikic7637]

Times is VERY hard when getting dumped from someone in PRISON...😩

[@pinkishdiamondz]

It's a MESS out here smh

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

GURL!!!!!

[@katelinparks9536]

Chile!

[@NutsNBerries]

😂😂🤣

[@Dearest_Kenyetta]

This made me HOLLAR! 🤣

[@Fasting_Decluttering_Elevating]

Prison letters are THE most poetic, passionate, breathtaking words you will ever read- and every letter of it is bs. It's game. They prey on desperate (no offense) women.....and men.

[@slothisasin8240]

They really do have time to come up with poetry and even proof read though!!

[@Arizona_lilly]

Rhey are and relationships r deep from inside out... if it works its awesome but really they got nothing to do.

[@beautyfulldrey]

I be crying when you do that stare 😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you already saying so much without saying nothing

[@nettas5437]

Girl! Crying 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TiffanyFG]

I'm going through the comments and I can't believe it-- I think I spotted my cousin @Beaudrey... Lol If so-- happy to see you getting the game and from a man of God. God bless you

[@beautyfulldrey]

@@TiffanyFG hey cousins ! I love this man’s videos . He is the straight truth ! He is truly a angel 😇

[@DahBeezKneez]

Omg yesssss

[@TiffanyFG]

@@beautyfulldrey HEY! Yes he IS! Nothing but the TRUTH. Hope you are well.

[@karamelbuttafly3624]

"Ladies, never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn't want you." - Judge Lynn Toler Sistah, the cage bird is singing! Can you hear?

[@soulRegal08]

I’ve had so many aunties and older ladies tell me that.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

🗣🗣🗣🗣

[@shellyannrichards6565]

That Long stare into the camera after reading the letter. "PRICELESS!!"

[@Ms.Haleyy]

I think that’s the longest stare I’ve seen him give

[@shellyannrichards6565]

@@Ms.Haleyy I agree.

[@Dearest_Kenyetta]

It spoke volumes 🤣

[@Mirror_My_Ambition]

There is NO way I could even consider a male in jail. He meets NOT ONE! standard. You cannot build anything with him. This is soooooo SAD. She's better off with a homeless man. JS

[@preangelamarks8474]

😭😭

[@MoniqueD305]

Right. Atleast he’s free and can apply for a job. Mercy.

[@sharoncobb2547]

Lol cant help it!!

[@VintageAfro91]

Amen, sis! Never in life!

[@nikkinanette8807]

😩😂🤣😂

[@blacksongbird100]

I be laughing sooooo hard during these videos. BUT I promise you I learn SO much from every last one of them.

[@chynadoll77cyn59]

Lmao I know right 😂, sometimes I wonder 💭 is this real and they basically literally be asking they’re own questions..

[@blacksongbird100]

@@chynadoll77cyn59 right. Quite often they answer they're own questions. Lol I tell you what, these letters answer any questions I could possibly have. Lol

[@Stayyyonit]

Lmaoooooooooooooooooo me toooooo

[@msnishao]

Go off Tonyyyyyyyy!!! “Yo family don’t love you” 😂😂😂

[@deetoopretty6099]

She isn't going to listen because he has her mind gone. You can tell. I can tell. I've been there and will NEVER go there again. One of my emails sent to TG is about a love that I had with a man that was locked up. So I'm not saying what I heard. He is giving her an easy out with he doesn't want a relationship and she needs to take it. He already has a woman that he is giving his time because she is giving him money, time, and phone sex if he isn't in a conjugal state. Leave lady. I waited 7 years and he got out and moved in with another woman and played me another 2 years because I allowed him to. Please listen sis...before he NEEDS you and then you'll be caught up in his lies that he WILL tell you. Leaaaaaavvvveeeeee!

[@coachalexiseanes5505]

Ladies please listen to Tony!!! I used to work at the prison. Y’all think men getting your pictures and they don’t even get them. They get thrown in the trash. On top of that these men have more than three women at a time. The things I’ve seen women do is crazy.

[@PrettyReddTheDoula]

LISTEN, STAY OUT THE PENITENTIARIES!!!!!!! Men definitely stop growing in the pen. Real talk!

[@anointedstilettos]

They definitely do.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

Absolutely

[@Ms.Haleyy]

& backtrack even

[@PrettyReddTheDoula]

@@Ms.Haleyy Absolutely 💯

[@mareelovely]

Sis...ain't this dude locked up?? What is all this talk about feelings and boundaries...he in prison, girl!!! I don't understand...what are we doing here?

[@blacksongbird100]

Conjugal visits? He got good pipe?

[@MichElle-py8lk]

Yep I agree!

[@mareelovely]

@@blacksongbird100 I'd actually understand if it was good pipe. But you gotta be married to get the conjugals!! This a WHOLE fake fantasy relationship sis done formed in her mind.

[@anointedstilettos]

@@mareelovely They have prison marriages. He just don't want her.

[@mareelovely]

@@anointedstilettos How the prison dude got options? How the convict get to pick and choose?? We out here free in long dating droughts, these prisoners got them lined up like bouncers at the club. All is wrong in the world, I tell you...

[@LadyTrucker43]

Run and u ain’t got time to get your purse 👜!😆

[@myfingoodies]

Leave that purse alone and run 🤣

[@SixFootofFitness]

😩😩😩😩😩

[@kayrawlins7719]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sharonkeggins290]

😇😇

[@VintageAfro91]

😂😂😂😩

[@tmaggie2107]

A man will surely show a woman his love if he sincerely wants her. There will be no questions or guessing. I hope the young lady finds her worth.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Amen

[@spiritualbae90]

What if he shows you he wants u but yet and still he's behind bars🤔

[@katelinparks9536]

@@spiritualbae90 Still run. He is no position to date you or anyone else

[@jayneirajames792]

That one dislike is from someone in a prison relationship

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

"Ok.. I'm just gonna draw a ship ⛵" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@goldencox954]

I’m crineeee 😂

[@thatgirlcocoa]

Why did I think Tony froze after he read the letter and stared into the camera 😂

[@alyssakalette]

I did too! 😂😂

[@Getitgirl816]

😆

[@nandyzoo]

Heee

[@sharonkeggins290]

Brother did that Sis🙏💕

[@nettas5437]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thatgirlcocoa]

“Your business is for the skreets”🤣 “The man was short and ugly” 😂

[@IamKarryanne]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@bwilson2097]

I have burned ALL of my dinner while cooking and listening to Tony!!!!😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@kikic7637]

@@bwilson2097 Be too good to pause, been there😁

[@mareelovely]

You know it's bad when Tony doesn't even bother to say 'Looks Challenged.'

[@cathrinet6298]

😂😂😂

[@breewelch5982]

Agreeing with you Tony! We have to stop allowing these men to take up rent free space in our minds! Sis every time you start thinking about this man or have the urge to write him a letter replace that time with something that feeds you mentally, spiritually or physically. At the end of the day you will be better & further from this soul tie! Encourage yourself & stay positive, God has a spouse for you!

[@justliss1827]

He said, "Your family don't love you."😂😂😂 Tony is telling the truth. No real family member would want you with someone that is locked up. They are "prophelying" to you! RUN!!!!

[@ysmithriley]

Sis, HOW MANY TIMES and HOW MANY WAYS he gotta tell you he D-O-N-T W-A-N-T Y-O-U!

[@Glamrocs]

Seriously 😒 the desperation is terrible

[@indyTyson]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Getitgirl816]

Sis., you forgot the claps..."👏🏾HE-👏🏾DON'T-👏🏾WANT-👏🏾YOU!!". 😆

[@ysmithriley]

@@Getitgirl816 Thanks, I knew I forgetting something. TOO SAD! 😭

[@pinkishdiamondz]

@@Getitgirl816 YEEEES, the claps 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ericabarnett1059]

I just about died when Tony looked at the camera after reading that email. Already knew what he was about to say😂

[@VintageAfro91]

Right! His face said it all.

[@Hejejevhejes]

😂😂me too lol

[@Somuchtotalkabout]

The way Tony looks at the camera after he finishes reading.....😩😩😩 I have to laugh out loud!!! I love these Talks with Tony ❤️

[@leighdemissie4115]

Bruh when he said kim kardashian I almost fell out on my jog don’t make me spring my ankle uncle tony u hear me 🤣🤣🤣💀😩

[@hypnotqgreen]

Right? 😂 😂 😂

[@leighdemissie4115]

@@hypnotqgreen almost took my ankle out laughing and jogging 🗣u hear me (in my uncle tony voice) 🤣🤣🤣💀😩🤭

[@DimpledNatural]

I burst out laughing!

[@Themostmercifulrabb]

Talks with tony= Education & comedy combined , the best ! 🙏

[@MichElle-py8lk]

After watching all the Love after Lock episodes that really opened my eyes to finding "love" in Prison and it's a definite NO from me. The men are messed up 🙅🏿‍♀️❌🚫⛔ As Tony said run 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🌬️🌬️🌬️

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

Don't even bother putting on your shoes on getting your purse. RUN!!!!

[@Southgate210]

So are the ladies!

[@dayciajtalk88]

Lack of self love, if you have to ask a man if he love you the answer is NO!

[@1moniqueceleste]

“God bless him & whoever he dealin with on tha yard”💀💀💀😂😂😂😂

[@CuratedFlix]

Dear Men, If you ever go to prison for life and you love a woman; have enough love for her and be unselfish to the point where you tell her to go on and be happy with someone else. It’s just not fair to try and be with someone while you have life in prison. You can’t give her the things she needs! Let her go on about her life and be happy. I say this with humility, but before someone commits a crime they also must think about the the people that will be hurt if they go to prison! Blessings..

[@ysmithriley]

@Curated Flix, honorable intentions Sis, but I doubt many men will take you up on this plea!

[@dnatural753]

Sadly I know all about those "prison talk" or "prison love" 😭🤣 ... But that's those teenage days I'm celibate now🤷😂😂

[@preangelamarks8474]

Yes sis I'm celibate too now

[@my.0224]

I too played the fool for a jail bird in my younger days and he did exactly what Tony described with his sisters with the exception that he received very few funds from me. Actually ended up call me stangy. Talked about how bad his kid’s Mom was and reconciled with her upon his release. Don’t do it Ladies! Not worth the 💔.

[@thegreatandsigmaticgiants8307]

Smh😂🤣

[@Azizajewelry]

Talks with Tony is better than TV🍿

[@breanna7245]

Talks with Tony is better than TV. Tony is too funny 😂😂😂

[@Synquette]

😂😂😂yoooo when Tony said dude gonna draw a ship 🚢 to spell out relationship, I’m done with you! But keep these coming!

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

😂😂😂⛵ yess, I was DYINGGGGGGGGGG laughing

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

@@Jay-ro1vn yesss, EXACTLYYYYYYY! Pure comedy at its finest 😂😂

[@NutsNBerries]

😂🤣😂😂

[@dreek89]

She has a serious soul tie to this man. It has hindered and held her back for 20 years. She needs to pray that it is broken.

[@ClassyBaeCollection]

Crystal Clear that’s exactly what that is! ...only a prayer away

[@lashandataylor8265]

I hate it here!!!😂😂😂 you be so on point, more people need to listen and learn!!!!

[@cindeed4422]

That slight look and groan at the camera at the beginning. lol Tony. That long look again 😄 after reading the letter. Listen to a man when he’s says He don’t want a relationship. He doesn’t. He’s not free.

[@sharonkeggins290]

That was funny 🙏💕

[@Leelang931]

What I’m confused?? He actually doing her a favor and she not accepting it, most men will ride that emotional boat with a woman to keep money on his books.

[@heyyashleyyy2669]

Exactly. He blatantly told her what it is. “I don’t want a relationship”, and he couldn’t answer a simple question when she asked him. No answer is also an answer.

[@Glamrocs]

He really doesn’t like her at all. Because he would at least play on her emotions for the money.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

@@Glamrocs right, that's gotta be tough, but she has to accept that

[@Glamrocs]

@@pinkishdiamondz Rejection doesn’t feel good because it plays with your self esteem and self confidence. But, the man did say it several times. He may not ever see the free world again.

[@7RB373]

@@Glamrocs I feel like he DOES like her enough to be honest and not mess with her head.

[@deborahndagire4243]

Omg Tony’s face after reading the email is deep enough to speak volumes 😂😂😂💀😂😂😂 love it love it 💯

[@brendapage6927]

Tony, when you started speaking in tongues, that did it for me🤣🤣🤣. Keep giving us the truth! Blessings to you and your family.

[@avianne]

The fact that a man who is locked up has to tell HER, a free woman that he doesn’t want her is astounding. Women...womennnnn, we need to do better. This is ridiculous now. If I didn’t know what Tony was about I would’ve thought this was a joke. You need coaching, bae. All the best.

[@MichElle-py8lk]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@missmarya747]

Clearly she’s broken, thats deep.

[@joanna6570]

Haha when you started speaking tongues. You play too much 😂😂

[@mz.didithedaughterofzion]

Hi Tony! It's time to get edified. WOO-HOO🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@tropicalgyrl]

This is one of my top two favorite “Talks with Tony”.

[@j-tenn226]

I still replay it when I need a good laugh

[@nandyzoo]

50 shades of black and white like that note book paper y’all writing on 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@stargoldqueen5894]

As I saw the title, just knew. Been there and done that. No thank you! Listen to what he's saying, sister!

[@Azizajewelry]

This video took me out. 😂😂😂I laughed so hard I lost at least a pound 😂😂😂

[@mareelovely]

Oh LordT. Here we go....

[@PeaceBeStill-]

That's what I said 😄

[@blacksongbird100]

😆 Don't y'all be mean. Lol

[@PeaceBeStill-]

@@blacksongbird100 It's all in love 😁💘

[@queenofthesouth4205]

gurrrrrrrrl

[@thecuretmj]

R-e-l-a-..Let me just draw a ship 🛳 😂

[@deelizy1]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kikic7637]

😩🤣🤣🤣

[@anointedstilettos]

I was hollering 🤣🤣🤣

[@cocoj2252]

💀💀💀

[@LaTishaSoReal]

When Tony said give him a extra biscuit 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@IamKarryanne]

Usian Bolt 🇯🇲 😂😂😂....my eyes couldn’t stop rolling 🙄 listening to you read this one .

[@Cartersjourney15]

Don’t let a man tell you he don’t want you more than once.

[@Dearest_Kenyetta]

Okkkaay..... It ain't rocket science. Talking bout "What is he NOT saying?" 😑

[@beautyfulldrey]

I miss the hour videos. 😥 crazy , we take it for granted ! But Tony thank you anyway ! God bless u 🙏🏽

[@jabarismama]

Young Gun.....you are, CRAZZZYYYYYYY!!!!!! I, LOVE you! Thank your parents, on my behalf, for you. See you tomorrow.

[@KandeeKane85]

Mannnn Tony Gaskins is WILDDD and I’m hollering! I knew this was going to be hilarious! +I’m married and been in long term relationship for 10+ years but trust me when I say ladies this content is golden! ✨

[@annebryant7844]

I almost spit out my water 🤣 Tony is hilarious.

[@my.0224]

😅

[@SAGScorpionActionGhana]

I could listen to you talk all day just for the voice/accent!

[@Glamrocs]

What is the man not saying to her ? 🗣HE SAID HE DOESN’T WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU 🗣 He may like menzzzz now.

[@JamaicanBeauttiiiii]

Lmao 😂😂😂

[@coily84]

😩😆😆😆

[@Ms.Haleyy]

I’m telling you! One of my neighbors had that same thing happen then asked me if it was a red flag that when he got out that the first thing he went for was back there. Look, it’s a red flag that you don’t know my answer too! I just asked her who she was talking to?! Girl plz

[@Glamrocs]

@@Ms.Haleyy Lol....all that time and he didn’t want to swirl his cinnamon stick in peach cobbler? That not just a red flag it’s all the colors of the rainbow 🌈🤔.

[@cherh]

😂

[@reinaquisha9418]

Tony found his headphones (👛) 🤣🤣 🤣 I noticed that yesterday.... Hey blessed tribe 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

[@anointedstilettos]

👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

[@_yvonnesworld_]

😂😂😂 that headphone purse..

[@diamonddiva9787]

I am a avid watcher of all your video's and they really have helped me along my journey in dating. I usually don't comment..But as a woman who has experienced this and have had plenty of male family members that have been locked up for extensive periods of time..that put me up on game..you are totally right!

[@maewilliams5505]

He didn’t won’t to her hurt feelings, Tony have said this over and over again!!!!🤭

[@yom8058]

*want

[@maewilliams5505]

@@yom8058 you are right! I, should have double check it!!

[@aracelimedina9087]

Tony thank you for opening my eyes I got out of a almost 2 year prison relationship I will never forget what you did for me!!! God bless you 😊

[@Shiasospiritual]

Omg why is this video so funny 😂😂😂😂 Tony is a comedian on the side lol this video kept me in tears 😭...

[@dietdrpepper3763]

Ahhhh! The impersonation of the correctional officers 😂😂😂😩 so funny

[@janieh3950]

Bro. Tony we know you got a life. If the folk don't, they'll be aight. I appreciate any time you give to teach. I was lost, and now I'm found @what a man is really like. Praise God, for me accidentally (God's intent) subscribing to your page. I have learned so much. Often times I can place myself in some of these scenerios you paint. Again, thanks bro. Tony I appreciate you.

[@pksensation]

If I have time ever, I will put together a Tony Talks Dictionary of Imaginary Words. "Free World Men" or "Milkshake" or "Hangela" or "Manglish" or "Block!" Get your Dictionary today!! Seriously, I used to get letters from men in jail when I was in high school. My sister showed my picture to her future ex husband she met in jail, he showed it to others and then I got letters. Creeepy!

[@j-tenn226]

I am in tears 🤣🤣🤣 Tony you are a comedian

[@yvette-yourfavoriteauntie247]

My cousin was in the same situation and she fought along with some agency to get her “man” released. He was in for murder. He got out, moved in with her, actually got a good job and ended up cheating on her and he got another woman pregnant. My uncle went to visit her and caught the other woman in her home. We all tried to tell her, but she wouldn’t listen. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@fa_lee_lee2133]

Dang I got played like your mom Tony!!! But this guy was in the military.. The entire time he was overseas, I made sure he had everything he needed.. Come to find out he was engaged to marry another woman!!! I had no idea I was the side chick!!! Maaaan.. NEVA again!!!

[@katalystinkpresents...4493]

There are so many layers of truth to this video. But at the same time, every situation is different and complex. At the end of the day, while there are successes, there are more failures. The person's expectations beyond the wall are different than the person behind the wall. Been there, in that and overcoming while mentoring and ministering to women with incarcerated husbands, fathers, and sons. My message is you have to love yourself more and let it go.

[@beatricebrownsnipes1337]

Thank you Tony for the truth and all you do...women are being set free and helped.

[@missj5564]

Why is this lady so desperate. This man is in jail and is telling her to go on about her business and she is not listening. There must not be any single man in her city, smh.

[@j-tenn226]

I’m crazy laughing 😂 You hear me? Your comments put me in tears

[@Tashanicole]

💯 Facts!!! The way you put it was hilarious, sad, and true all at the same time. Thank you Tony for always keeping it real!!! 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

[@dayciajtalk88]

OMG😂 I’m in here doing life with you this man is so funny but he is keeping it 💯

[@jam1369]

Loving all I am learning on Talks with Tony! God bless!❤

[@hypnotqgreen]

Can we all agree that Tony is extremely talented at freestyle comedy? I get lessons in every video but I equally have moments where I laugh out loud. For one, how he bring Zane into today’s video? And then the part where he decides to draw a ship instead of spell out the word. I have pulled my coworker over to my desk (with my mask on 😷) to have her listen to something Tony said that almost made me forget I was at work and laugh too loud. I realize that I should have used Grammerly for that last sentence but I’m listening to this video for the second time in my car.

[@angelasmith4064]

Tony I am in tears..."Imma just draw a ship, she'll understand"...oh my God you just to funny...😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😜😜🤪🤪🤪

[@myfingoodies]

I was just watching Murder she wrote when I got the notification clicked so fast. The scenarios are hilarious, the accuracy has me rolling laughing 🤣🤣🤣

[@sadelynn2235]

The look 👀 he gave her after he read her email, I fell out laughing 😆. All these dang a Lang men 😳😩😂🤣. He guard reading the letters..cracked me up. Be blessed y’all might.

[@aliciag946]

He told her straight up.. He don't want a relationship.. Case closed plus like Tony said, he will be doing that time, No jail birds, peri-od..... Sis move on, please!

[@michellebattle6356]

Tony, Thank you so much for continuing to encourage us as women, vulnerability is not a good thing and all that you share you won't spare all from unnecessary hardships, only a BRICK WALL BE BLESSED.

[@mbalienhleearrings1289]

When Tony gives you that stare 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 just know you've blundered 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and should have went on about your bussiness 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@marieb6381]

Always wisdom and laughs when I listen in. God bless you Tony!

[@jzzsuccess]

😂🤣😂🤣lmbo...”when sumin ain’t life threatening...” and after... whooo weee I wasn’t ready😅 I watched it twice. @DaniellesComp that’s compilation worthy sis.

[@daniellebenning5706]

Seriously funny! It’s a sad situation, but your lite humor makes it bearable for someone to listen and learn. Why is it soo hard for women to see they are getting played!!

[@shegotstandards]

Oh my gosh! That look that Tony gave after he read the email I was rolling on the floor. In my own words, look honey the Caged Bird done sing and the lyrics said he doesn't want you. Take Tony's advice and run!

[@paulak6062]

Been through husband locked up and the adjustment after was something he couldn’t imagine n I was like who is this man . The trauma that they have to transition in prison smh , devils be jumpin on them without them dicisplined with God. The brains get distorted. See he was husband n best friend thru life and God is taking it one day at a time . When u put your word on something I am delingent to see it thru if God allows

[@ebonymcmillan4355]

Sis, listen to Tony, I have worked in a jail. I have seen it all... I have seen wives and girlfriends come to visitation on the same day. And he out there on yard letting tt braid his hair...

[@NutsNBerries]

That’s wild

[@tejuanahardison7516]

Tony’s expressions after he read the letters, I be in tears laughing 😂😂😂

[@califresh8023]

Oh my gawwwd I miss watching these videos... love Tony Gaskin he says it how it is 💯😊😊

[@TingleTherapyASMR1]

Tony is so animated but I appreciate the honesty .. I died when he said "my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard" lmao

[@dezdez7541]

I pray to God I marry someone like Tony. I love his humor, confidence, and faith. Ain’t nothing better than a God fearing man. I’m still young so I know my turn will come one day. God bless you and your beautiful family. I wouldn’t be sane without your wisdom.

[@Mo-bz6zf]

Hold on Tony I had to pause the video and get my popcorn I know that this is serious but you had me rolling the whole time you are the realest life couch/comedian I watch on KZbin

[@sylviasalcedo8569]

Yes! Just stare into the camera! We know Tony! 🤣

[@yolondaspencer6097]

This was so funny but, real. I have not laughed so hard in a long time, Thanks Tony I needed that.

[@anointedstilettos]

You got me over rolling Big Brother Tony 😂😂😂😂