Professional Wingman Helps 26yr old Begin Conversations Inside NYC’s Chelsea Market

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The big lessons on this episode:
1. When meeting someone new, you need to take the lead. Never expect the other person to lead a conversation that you asked to begin!
2. When you are feeling anxious, it's difficult to make an interaction fun. The trick to fix that is to consciously turn it into the "fun lane" by practicing the world's most simple method to humor: "Lie and then take it back."
Doing a show like this is so different from how I usually am coaching-only because of the time limit. I have literally 24 hours with this guy-no more. And we have cameras following us the entire time. So I am trying to find ways to give him the biggest change in the shortest amount of time. But fear is fear is fear. And fear doesn't die easily. And it gets in the way of being able to progress with relationships.
But regardless, my favorite thing about The Wingman is getting you to see how easy it can be to meet new people. It's the funnest thing in the world to connect with someone you have chemistry with. Better than video games, better than chocolate bars. Because two people finding that buzzing energy between each other, and then going even deeper after that is what life is all about. That's why I say, "Relationships are everything."
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[@AnthonyRecenello]

WHAT DID YOU LEARN TODAY!?

[@bigchad7052]

Anthony Recenello you gotta take control

[@diogoviveiros8132]

I really liked the approach of conscious lying! It makes the interaction very spontaneous, natural, not forced. It seems to me that the other person will perceive ourselves without filters. And i feel like people nowadays like genuine people, who are not trying to be accepted and can disagree and say "no" several times. It kind of breaks the ice, all this conscious lying skill, I guess. Love your videos and spotify podcast! Keep up the amazing content, can't wait quarantine to be finished, so I can put into practice your advices hahah! Btw, hope you can do a "classic charm" episode on Zayn Malik, as I proposed.

[@andresu1234]

you have to be confident and fully committed

[@Josyeliel]

You have to see this streamer. He is a cool guy very awesome dude. But he is extremely shy and very self deprecating. You will no want to miss this interaction he had with an egirl kzbin.info/www/bejne/oqu6apekftiVbck you could react to it too

[@emirhancanbaz6169]

tuğçe ? ilginç. what ı learned is we are out there we could fin in just as her even if we come from tuff nation. and just a little courage to say hi would be enough for me

[@theGAUSIN]

I learned that Matt just needed more practice , and someone to make him do it. I think everyone needs this, not necessarily talking to the opposite sex but just opening conversations every time you have the chance.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yup. You’re so right angel

[@goddess117A]

These are kinda fun to watch. If you really get that people are people, talking to someone interesting looking isn't scary. For some reason this became really obvious to me when I traveled abroad for the first time. It was like I momentarily dumped my previous narrative and could be myself. It's really the characters we've allowed into our minds that hold us back. Also, I think genuinely not having expectations of the other is important. I can feel when someone is trying to get something from me, and it's a huge turn-off.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I super agree Ashley!

[@nellybarrett7]

Matt seems like a sweetheart I like how Anthony helps highlight the best part of people’s personality and teaches them to use it to their advantage so genuine great work!

[@evomannyg]

Dude awesome vid. I’m really impressed with your coaching. I’ve seen other coaches do this type of coaching and by far in my opinion I really like the way you coach. Super chill and fun my guy! Destroying the like button on this.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Woot woot thanks Emmanuel!

[@katieakin1091]

I’m pretty insecure, and I also don’t really have a social life (work, college, gym), but this video momentarily boosted my self-esteem 😄

[@alimesemenli59]

This is so true!! You have to act like you own the situation and make everyone feel safe, relaxed, and interested. This is something that can be applied to any new situation, I think, and not just dating!! I feel like with time, the confidence becomes more and more real and feel less forced/fake. He was amazing and really fun. Small detail I realized was that he was thinking about what to say next and not really listening to the answers the second lady was giving and women can tell haha! But it makes complete sense since it was his first real attempt and he still did such an amazing job and the advices were fire, as well🤟🏼

[@ananiasford]

I have been binging this channel and I love everything about it. I like how you start with general lessons as in how you should express yourself. You then hone in on specific tips to make a conversation more enjoyable and less akward. I also really appreciate the insight with the people he spoke with, since its hard to know their impression on Matt mid-convo. Not to mention that you're just a great person to watch and listen to.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@dad4378]

I learned to lie today without feeling guilty :)

[@AnthonyRecenello]

haha 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@ZukunftBilden]

Man I wanted to see him using the concious lying. He was so amazingly funny and charming doing that.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yeah me too, Momo. But we have to acknowledge that this is the first time he's ever approached spoken to strange women in his entire life. Just the fact that he was holding a normal conversation with them is an achievement for Matt and I'm proud of him.

[@pedroloto]

"Single in New York? Come on!" Poor guy, she roasted him xD

[@asmrshannon9082]

I really enjoyed watching this video and seeing you at work coaching him and helping him open up when talking to girls!! It was very inspirational and entertaining!!!👏💞 I know if it were me he came up to and started talking to I would of been so awkward cuz I'm an socially awkward person as it is becuz I have social anxiety!!😥 But to answer your question Anthony, what I learned is that you have to push pass being uncomfortable to eventually become more comfortable in any situation in life!! Looking forward to the next one!!!😊

[@cat-stacks]

This is so good. I hope you do more videos working with everyday people learning how to start conversations and etc because it's so cool to see. It'd be awesome to see a similar video coaching a woman, too. Or even anyone with social anxiety on how to make new friends. Your enthusiasm and realness as you teach and lift people up is really motivating me to push myself out of my comfort zone (even just writing this comment is proof of that, lol #anxietyproblems). Anyway - thanks for all of your free expertise you are sharing with the interwebs!

[@ashashish3796]

Anthony i love this concept of lying to loosen up. But i need your help on..how to gain there trust and make both of us really comfortable around each other..also i love you man 😘

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hey Ash. You gain trust by expressing yourself fully during interactions and won’t negatively judge them.

[@armandmarin7357]

Great video you really helped this dude.He really needed it.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks Armand! Really apreesh

[@WithAngelWings]

I love this series!!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thank you it doesn’t get much attention

[@WithAngelWings]

Anthony Recenello before I wrote this comment I was thinking the same thing! I think if you slightly tweak the title you could get this series more attention! I feel like it’s something a lot of people would love to watch. “PROFESSIONAL WINGMAN COACHES ______________” , or even just moving the title around so that “The Wingman” comes first. Or even simpler than that you could add colorful words to your thumbnails that would catch attention like “Dating expert”, “rejection? 😱” “success?😍” , “did he get her number? 👀” so that people get pulled in from the thumbnail and know exactly what’s going on. Don’t be discouraged!! I can tell this series took a lot of effort and once people become aware of it I think it will be a hit!! 😊

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Sarah G great idea I’m gonna change it to that thank you!!!!!

[@charlesfromm6133]

@@WithAngelWings wow Sarah you came in clutch with the title suggestion

[@mgf2089]

Love your Wingman videos more than your Reacts videos... not sure why they don't have as many views. I feel like I see more of your true self in these videos, it feels less staged. One bit of advice to you though is to loosen up even more while you're filming, we love your personality and want to see more of it!

[@zarahshabs7936]

Love thisss Love the specific advice

[@luliana8116]

Can you do a Classic Charm episode on Aubrey Plaza or Shawn Mendes? It would be very interesting to hear what you’ve got to say about them :)

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Def Aubrey Plaza sometime soon

[@natedawgproductions]

this is like a tv show lol

[@jossa7183]

Love this series, the hair is looking good Anthony! Am considering on growing it out as well.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks jossa I need a haircut tho

[@thesuperfilms]

how do you film strangers being approached right in front of their face? Do you tell them ahead of time whats going on? in which case this would just be acting? Or what im confused.

[@BlafeBala]

If forced, I can approach girls and start a conversation but that's all. I can't continue from there. I get more and more nervous from there. So this video is helpful. Thanks!

[@Icecrax]

I don't undestand why there is a camera in his face and the person to whom he speaks with.

[@jameslillie5445]

@18:50 Did he say he got a couple of kids along the way? 0_0 Maybe this advice works too well. XD Thanks for posting this up. I've had a really hard time finding video of someone walking up and initiating where the whole thing didn't just feel staged for some reason.

[@laudieloo4784]

Hi Anthony, I’m from a small town and I’m looking to talk to new people. Dating apps arent used here, do you rec talking to people on chat rooms online? Tips on using Omegle/Chatroulette/other website like that if you rec it

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yeah Lauran, use Omegle. If you're looking to date, use Tinder and then get them on Facetime. This is a great time for meeting new people.

[@dad4378]

Talk about social distancing 😂

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Just meet people online right now and facetime them.

[@barnabykilby-pollard3600]

I'm not sure if you were implying this or not NCK19, but i'm pretty sure these episodes were recorded a little while ago- he's not going out during lockdown (along with hundreds of other people) to do this

[@senju626]

Didn't get the take the lead part, or don't know how to do so :c

[@auesbekovstar2232]

Anthony, can you please make a video about Louis C.k? He is the most charming comedian!

[@Blayne-Bennett]

Dose anyone else feel like there intruding on there conversation with the camera and its make me feel hella uncomfortable ngl

[@elitessmess9222]

I like your videos... Just one thing. Don't lose your soul.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

NEVER EVER EVER EVER. thanks elitess

[@ririabz1393]

would love if you could do videos for women as well :)

[@nickmaster7976]

Awsome

[@TheTheawesomeguy35]

When She's out of his league you mean lmao (update the title)

[@AnthonyRecenello]

ok

[@kayligo]

I think he’s handsome

[@TheTheawesomeguy35]

@@kayligo i don’t even remember the context of my comment

[@audreyd1787]

I think he should also work on his head movements, the back and forth bopping of the head can surely get annoying. I would also recommend that he finds clothing that do not appear cheap & basic.. finding his own sense of style would help in addition to cleaning up his facial hair. Looking clean cut is important for a man as well since it is indicative of a healthy mental state. We always try a bit harder if we have more energy + are feeling more optimistic. At least in my case, if a man approached me looking in this way I would not want to pursue due to these reasons. His posture is also important, it shows that he does not feel comfortable.

[@s7s7Joy]

Gotta say this. The woman from Turkey ("Sousha" I think her name was) is really pretty and too cute.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

GO FIND HER!

[@axps4964]

It sounded like "Tuğçe" to me. Thats a Turkish name but I dont know

[@s7s7Joy]

@@AnthonyRecenello I don't know. Isn't that "stalking"?

[@whatdoyoulivefor735]

He’s sooooo cute

[@mercelina3195]

MAKE A REACTION VIDEO ABOUT LARRY STYLINSON, PLS.

[@opinionatedape5895]

Look at how much he nods with women vs talking to the guy. Nodding too much is visual anxiety.

[@cchampa17]

do tyler the creator for your next charm video. something about him draws people to him. he's super abrasive and combattive with people but its not awkward because he does it with confidence with the intention of forcing people to be authentic.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

interesting thanks cameron

[@gabrielguzman6018]

That dude is scary and creepy

[@yassinesousi949]

can you do the camila cabello and lauren jauregui (camren) tell us that camren is real

[@tusharadhikary8785]

👍

[@zachgarcia1128]

Zachary

[@FishingwithGreeley]

He just could not open up

[@saeedah9298]

lmao pls tell me that intro is for comedy purposes only bc wtf with the editing ??

[@AnthonyRecenello]

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