Dating Coach Reacts to DATING TIKTOKS #2

🧪 JOIN THE DISCORD! 🔬
recenello.com/discord
☎️ FOLLOW ME ☎️
Instagram - jo.my/arig
Tiktok - jo.my/tik
📺 SUGGESTED VIDEOS 📺
CHALENGE: SHOW YOUR ATTRACTION (EDUCATIONAL) | The Wingman: • Dating Coach Helps Sof...
Analyzing The Magnetic Attractiveness of Timothée Chalamet: • Analyzing the Magnetic...
🎧 FREE AUDIOBOOK 🎧
Iconic: Learning From The Greats - recenello.com/audiobook
🤨 WHAT THE HECK IS A DATING COACH? 🧐
Okay I get about 30 comments a day on this question. I'm a social skills and relationship coach. I've been doing it for 15+ years (since 2005).
I help men and women get into the relationships they've always wanted by improving their Confidence, Charm, Conversation, Body Language, and most of all… Individuality.
You can find me at bars, clubs, parties, parks, and live events coaching my clients to meet and connect with people. The New York Times wrote an article about me-you can read it here: www.nytimes.com/2014/05/18/ny...
You may have seen me on TV or magazines on CNN, FOX, PIX, VICE, USA, and more, recognized for my work in dating, charm, and social development. ( • CNN asked me to COACH ... )
There are two ways clients can work with me: My mentorship program where I coach men and women 1-on-1, or my Soulmate Method program, a three-month online video class that gives you everything you need to get into your dream relationship within a year. Get a glimpse of that program for free here: www.SoulmateMethod.com
I'm humbled to have successfully transformed the lives of thousands of people over the years and am constantly finding new ways to make you better with people. If you're interested in long-term private coaching, set-up a time to chat with us at www.recenello.com.
⏱ UPLOAD SUBSCRIBER COUNT ⏱
64,578

[@gracer5320]

a quote from a TikTok that I love is something along the lines of "some guys are always confused when girls date feminine men like they don't realize women like guys who don't think femininity is bad"

[@sauumyechauhan9999]

I have seen that video. It is so true!!

[@almaerica563]

yeah

[@zarahshabs7936]

Yess

[@jalenhill7598]

I’m not gay but Anthony would be the best boyfriend...

[@lievenbeckert3133]

lmaoooo facts

[@philosopherkurdmuffins9835]

jalen hill, sorry Jalen, but he has a girlfriend

[@tinybrambles9581]

Same!!

[@bearbenton5945]

As a southern bearded man, damn right he would be. He's the guy I want my daughter to date one day. Somebody who's 100% real, compassionate, and attractive. Yes, before you ask, I want my daughter to find someone she finds very attractive both physically and mentally. I want her to be a happy and healthy person with a healthy life. Dudes these days think you gotta be an ALPHA.. like the lady said, you don't need to tell the world you're a lion if you are one. Keep it real, folks.

[@isabelcarvajal7591]

Look dude, I would rather someone be a good partner and give me a 20$ ring than buy me a $10k ring. A ring is so insignificant to me. How my partner treats me and values me is more important to me.

[@chloejones519]

I like the idea of spending the money on something to improve the world and then have like a simple and inexpensive ring just to show the commitment it the relationship

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yes you

[@Cocolicious1111]

Same here

[@justanotherhomosapian5101]

True. The more expensive the ring does not mean the longer the marriage.

[@GreenGoblinDaughter]

I have to agree here. A cheaper ring is great, because although it is a material item, it holds much value for its significance. Plus it sends a message to other men and women (that they are serious and intend to spend the rest of their lives together).

[@trdxxl]

His voice is so calming like it soothes my soul lol

[@christinebihasa6863]

He sounds like steve carell. Kindda looks like him too. Might be a distant relative

[@shahraj5428]

Listen to sykkuno once

[@starheartskull15]

Ok but the guy saying instead of an engagement ring, build a school and name it after your gf, it’s kind of a huge interesting sweet idea😂

[@xenoswarrior6900]

I feel like the main difference between your content and other "dating experts" content is not that your tell me some "world breaking truths!" all the time, but that you say the things my brain knew, but just needed to rehear in a very understandable way. Your videos are not only relatable and informative, but I feel like your very skilled in personifying my thoughts and needs while at the same time breaking apart the questions I'm unable to answer, specifically about confidence and such. I'm partially introverted, but your explanation of "engagement not performance" hit so close to home. I just wanted to say, even if it gets drowned, your videos are so respectable, and I hope you realise how helpful you are, at least to me and my thoughts.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks man. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@xenoswarrior6900]

@@AnthonyRecenello Of course.

[@leonidbrain]

I've always felt that way about the whole engagement ring tradition; I personally don't like to wear jewelry, and feel that there's no reason to be spending thousands of dollars on a ring that's supposed to signify my commitment to that person. I would much rather have an "engagement house" or an "engagement car" or now that I've seen this tik tok, I would MUCH rather prefer to have a school built in my name. That's beautiful. That is love.

[@vallano8970]

But an engagement house or car cost even more 😂 which takes away the whole point which is literally to avoid needlessly spending money to solidify a bond. Unless you mean that him AND you pay

[@uncleiroh4650]

Unique Ace I think she means just buying a house for them to live in or a family car, not just a house to use for an engagement, lol. The point being it’s something actually useful (a home) rather than just a thumbtack sized rock that costs 1 third of your salary

[@greatestever5383]

True

[@lauraberg6272]

My fiance got me a 90 dollar ring set from Wal-Mart, CZ, and people would stop me at work (I was a cashier) and show their husbands. It's an ascher cut vintage themed ring with pave stones. I love the ring, no one knows it's not made of diamonds. I'd be concerned about conflict over the diamonds if it was. I'd want conflict free stones used if I did get another ring.

[@vallano8970]

@@uncleiroh4650 I know that's exactly what she means but that's still doesn't change the fact that it cost much more 💀 if you already had a home and u were letting her move on that's a given. But obviously not everyone getting married is going to be able to say "let's buy a house". I see no problem with it though if both people are paying for it considering that's kinda the whole purpose of marriage.

[@ella-lr2jb]

‘build her a school’ *this is genius*

[@seurn7801]

i'd rather the school than a stupid dumb ring, at least I know my marriage gave kids education lmao

[@bound6172]

My girl gone still be in school 😏. (THIS IS A JOKE I AM NOT A PEDO)

[@ella-lr2jb]

Guy on the Bike HAHAHAAHAAH

[@francescamaffioli5689]

I actually like the idea of wearing some sort of ring or object that represents the bond I have with a certain person, but I don’t understand how the cost of it or how precious the diamond is could make it better. Btw if someone built a school in my name I would forget about every other possible gift in the World

[@francescosorrientino3503]

I think we need to get to the core of what traditions are and what they are suppose to represent. Act on this kind of mindset instead of blindly going through the motions.

[@AmbiCahira]

When I see a guy trying to act "alpha" I think either one of two things. Either 1 "I wish he didn't feel insecure in himself" or 2 "douche alert" depending on how pretending or full of himself he seems. Edit: There's definitely a similar I see and think in women too where I see overpretending for sure.

[@WiBaueh]

There's a KZbin channel called Alpha M. and he's supposed to teach men how to be "alpha". Everytime me and my friends hang out we watch a couple of his videos and laugh until we cry. Every. Single. Time.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

That guy is CGI I think.

[@Tera4all]

@@AnthonyRecenello Can you explain to me pls what CGI means?

[@AlphaNinjaFTW1]

@@Tera4all I don't know if there is another term that uses CGI, but usually it mean Computer Generated Imagery

[@Tera4all]

@@AlphaNinjaFTW1 I searched that too,but i thought it means something else.Thanks man.

[@AlphaNinjaFTW1]

I also realize how ironic my name is for this content. I literally made it when I was like 12 and in reference to wolves and transformers

[@chironmartini5459]

Honestly dude finding your videos was one of the best things to happen to me this year. I'm a high school student and until finding your videos I feel like I had such a warped view of what it took to build attraction and connection with people. Since discovering your message it's honestly just felt like such a relief to not feel like I have to act fake or anything like I did before. I especially love how in one of your videos you said something along the lines of "the best way to not be self conscious is to focus 100% on the other person". I just want to say thank you. You've honestly changed my life if even just a bit and are continuing to do so.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Beautiful 🙏🏻

[@theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella]

I need to screen shot that last part. "The best way to not be self conscious is to focus 100% on the other person." 👌

[@pialabsis8844]

@@theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella (just did)

[@theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella]

@@pialabsis8844 very helpful, I say.

[@pialabsis8844]

@@theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella doesn't have to be

[@dhruvprajapati8801]

I am soo glad to find you. It feels great to finally meet a real expert rather than some fake guy with no experience

[@karla.15.21]

Do I want a ring, YES ! Do I need a 10 000$ diamond ring, NO. A less expensive ring is just as special

[@user-gj5uv7un2r]

Ring pop ?

[@karla.15.21]

It works too if it means something

[@sabahhasbi3765]

I once noticed that my married female teacher was wearing a simple ring, like just a diamond-less simple ring, and I absolutely LOVED it!!! And it's not like a money issue, she genuinely liked that ring

[@EricWen]

One of my favorite videos from you man. Truly hilarious. You had me cackling multiple times this video. Keep calling these people out and the ring bs so much of garbage out there makes zero sense. So glad we have you redirecting the conversation.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🙏🏻

[@menollymarechaltanona1556]

When we got engaged my fiancé and I, we really talked it through. I also hate the tradition of buying a ring as a surprise. I showed him what I wanted, which was on sale, under a 1000$. He wanted us to match, so we found a great esty shop for his own engagement band. We did it like we wanted and to this day it was the best decision ☺

[@ktsb1563]

Imo your engagement ring will be one of the most valuable pieces of jewelry in your collection (next to your wedding band) regardless of whether your partner spent $100 on it or $100k on it. My dream ring would likely be a vintage one that was passed down from a family member. Also, like, screw diamonds; it's a horrible industry and most people cant even tell the difference between a real diamond and lab grown diamonds.

[@thepovdweller]

Or even glass😅

[@amandam4937]

15:06 I tell people all the time that I want to be proposed to with a ring pop. I dont think the ring should matter it's the action and emotion behind the question that should.

[@florapetal811]

Anthony should react to " R/arethestraightsok" And or love languages and how they work id love that

[@gemmasalmon9667]

This video serves another purpose: why I don’t use tiktok.

[@offensegamingastronaut6386]

Gemma Salmon lol so truee

[@omerperlman7254]

17:33 I’m a huge Star Wars fan and if a guy or a friend showed me that I would freak out bu the way he said “so you think I’m gonna get some puss?” really threw me off...

[@thelittlescenes1185]

I love the ring tradition, especially when I see my grandma wear her wedding ring + the one she picked for her anniversary. She really cherishes those and I think it's an object that is very practical to have on you at all times- and reminds you of the commitment you've made. Yes, we can build new traditions and people shouldn't follow this tradition just because it's expected (though I don't think that's why the rings are still a thing). But I don't at all think it's dumb.

[@SapperSapperSapper]

In my opinion, I’d rather save the money from the ring and expensive wedding to put it towards a BOMB honeymoon. Like a 2-3 month trip across Europe or something. It would make the event so much more special than buying an expensive ring and wedding and not having a memorable first experience with the person.

[@oliviacarl5278]

You should react to Heath Hussar and Mariah Amato's relationship.

[@nikistinchcombe8553]

Should have been called Anthony’s love lab 😂

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Omg

[@louisebuchanan566]

Has anyone ever told him that he looks like Bob Morley (Bellamy Blake from the 100)

[@AnaHernandez-rn8vs]

Omg I never notice

[@bound6172]

Yooo he does

[@Paritheplatypusss]

I KNEW HE LOOKED FAMILIAR

[@zimizatu]

Louise Buchanan FUCKING FINALLY I WAS WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO SAY IT

[@romka8263]

this didn't age well..

[@caitlinwilkinson3110]

I really really like you voice, its so soothing. it kinda reminds me of my favourite teachers at school.

[@savanna1601]

I do like the idea of getting a ring but definitely not for that much money it’s crazy

[@Whipiih]

What a great timing, I just watched the part 1 and immediatly part 2 pops up in the sub box.

[@kiram.3619]

Great video, great vibe and great advice. Thank you so much!

[@extremlp6457]

Mate ngl found your channel 3days ago and instantly loved your videos i‘ve seen like 15since then, all of them amazing!

[@Pikahopp]

24 year old woman here: Yeah, an expensive ring is really ridiculous... Sure, a small pretty one for symbolism, sure, but anything over 100$ is just crazy!

[@simonelammerse5391]

After watching your videos, I hear your voice in my head like the angel on my shoulder where my anxiety is the devil on the other shoulder in situations that make me anxious. You explain human behavior so well and you make it very easy to apply in the real world. Love your content!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

thanks simone!

[@gabygaray7304]

Anthony we adore you, you can react to anything & I’ll watch it ❤️✨

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

Can't wait for your book!! omgg

[@lin8966]

I wish anthony would do the audio for audio books, such a good voice!

[@antoniaalvesschlunzen5325]

U got a very gooood point about those rings... never thought of it like that!!! Getting her something the world could benefit of (like a school) is soooo much better and really proves love

[@Mothmaam]

i'm using my grandmothers wedding ring, but if my husband had built a school in a third world country instead of getting me a wedding ring, i would've been STOKED! that's a great idea! i should save up to do that instead of what i've been saving for

[@alessandra13318]

26:37 "the only people that care about masculinity are men" Facts.

[@CliCKBATEandFAKENEWS]

I want to see him do a Classic Charm about Jason statham, that would be so cool Jason is so charm and charismatic he’s like James Bond come to life.

[@rishaa682]

your videos are an under-rated gem imo

[@ariannejames2748]

I think that for a lot of women expensive wedding/engagement rings become a security if/when the marriage goes south. In particular I mean cases when a woman is looking to leave her spouse and sell the ring for the money to get away or start over. In that sense theyre invaluable.

[@schlemony]

Anthony : I’m too old to know ages anymore. ._.

[@bbspooks]

LGBT+ content would really versify this channel

[@iamyou141]

I started to develop my own style and to gain an actual opinion things and BOOM! ✨confidence✨

[@brianafoster9552]

I’d rather have a school built for me than a ring. All I would care about is the person I love and if he did something so thoughtful for others for me, I would find that attractive.

[@blacklivesmatter9531]

Yes, I am here

[@katybeth8289]

You have such great advice. I ended my last relationship because he got me a ring instead of helping me get out of my abusive household. I admit, I wasn't a great catch, I was barely supporting myself, paying rent while living at home and all I wanted was to be saved from that. But the lack of care for me on a personal level is really where I understood that our relationship had no future.

[@peachpaty8873]

I hope you sold that ring to get extra money for yourself, you really needed someone to care about you :c

[@dranupam301]

Very wise words.. Happiness is the only attractive quality. If you are looking for joy in your life, start spreading Joy first. And see the magic 🙏🏽

[@emersonbrown3792]

I agree with the ring thing. I don’t even wear jewelry unless my mom makes me and I’m already at that age where I’m supposed to like it yk. But I just don’t really like expensive things. I feel uncomfortable when people spend a lot of money on me especially for something that isn’t going to do anything like getting me a ring. I would rather have like a 20 dollar metal ring so that if I lose it or something... we aren’t wasting a bunch of money, we’re just going with the flow

[@francescacamara8274]

You can adopt/ sponsor/ name a animal from a sanctuary instead of a ring, that would win any animal lover’s heart!

[@linusbauer6133]

Well I sure as hell am looking forward to that book !

[@katyad6876]

“BuT hOw DoEs SoMeOnE kNoW i’M mOdEsT iF i DoN’t TeLl ThEm i’M MoDEsT “ A legitimate thing a boy said while I was talking with him about being too cocky.

[@user-qi5fg4ex1j]

you know the ring is symbolic , it’s something you always wear and basically have with you, if it’s a good quality ring then it will probably last for ages, it’s really a good symbol of something priceless and strong. Also when a woman wears a ring she kinda shows every other men that she is taken and belongs to her one and only husband. Yeah probably you shouldn’t buy a ring that is ridiculously pricey so you can’t even afford it, but if it’s a gold and diamonds it will stay beautiful for ages really due to gold and diamonds do not get rusty or break, unlike silver or other cheap stones. So yeah buy your wife a beautiful ring and she will love it.

[@lightshadowed]

Honestly, the irony of the ring debate is that men used to give women rings to indicate to others that she's "taken care of" so no one else will make a move. Rings really only hit the mainstream in the 1920s, and I think war separation probably really influenced the popularity of the trend for the next 30 years, until it became tradition. I don't really endorse the whole wedding ring industry (plus I hate diamonds), but every guy I've ever dated or even thought of dating found this off-putting and wanted to slap a cheap ring on me down the line to mark me as theirs 😂

[@cholecraig3540]

What I like about this content is that very often when you see guys making dating content it usually has sexist undertones or negative generalizations. I notice a lot of guys make dating content an its really just sexist "be an alpha and abuse her" stuff. I appreciate the change.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

yeah its cringe af

[@Vincisomething]

~30:30 I've seen some people who are deadpan and sound monotone, but still have a level of charm and confidence to them. And they still can convey emotions or at least how they feel in some way

[@oopsneha]

Many ppl weird off at pick up lines but for me really use em, it softens the atmosphere to so much extent, u both break out laughing and maybe go chaining ahead thru one pick up line. It's such a great starter, idk why ppl hate em. But use a sincere pick up line, don't use something that indicates u wanna get in the pants but a mild and innovative one would do wonders

[@lynnes1864]

Pick up lines are cheezy, even when they would otherwise be funny in a video or something. They only "work" when the speaker is so ridiculously good looking that he doesn't need a line. Picking up on something in common, even if it's a stretch, is better. As a woman, I sometimes joke that my last best pickup line was "hello" but I'm an introvert and don't usually say hello first. But he was cute, and dressed up compared to everyone else there.

[@erickwaitforit]

Holy shit, I clicked for just a fun tik tok video with Anthony's personality, but what I got where some fucking bars on true happiness at the end.

[@Nrmo9]

Karisma king getting casually destroyed hahaha. Edit 1: Just finished the video loved the rant at the end. Happiness is key! Edit 2 : see you on the discord people!

[@natshevchik]

I completely agree with you on the ring thing

[@1amandathomas]

Marriage is about the person you are committing your life to. That's priceless in my opinion. A nice expensive ring is nice, but maybe we would have less divorce if we shifted the culture to showing off the great person we are going to marry over how big the ring is. Every successfully married person I know says they would of married that person with or without a ring.

[@rachaeleldermusic]

I totally agree that the whole idea about needing a fancy/expensive ring is so superficial. That should not be the focus on either side when it comes to proposing/saying yes.

[@anitagara2386]

I remember that I somewhere read about all diamond ring tradition. I don't remember years when it happened (maybe 1920? Not sure). Diamond fabric was on a brick of not being able to actually sell anything and their market strategy was "diamond ring for your only one or something like that''. Probably it's just something I remember from one of the books I have read and not true, but if it's true- it should be still somewhere in the Internet.

[@meganbyrd8715]

the start was hilarious🤣🤣

[@Tinymouseknits]

I one-thousand percent agree with the whole ring thing. My husband and I only got each other a simple wedding band for the sake of just getting married in the court house. We also share the same feeling about extravagant weddings it’s honestly just ridiculous. We rather invest in the quality of life we want to be happy together, instead of a ridiculous things like a ring or a big wedding so people can say “ I was there”.

[@asuryan]

0:20 You underestimated the power of our multi-accounts

[@marie6551]

10:52 This smile and these eyes thoooooo 😍

[@seurn7801]

7:52 omg Brandon Calvillo lmao, and his vids are still the same vine shit he uses. Pretty nostalgic but I miss vine now even though I hated it at first.

[@gyusfluffysocks]

I joined the discord server! Everyone’s so friendly

[@DaJukezz]

I noticed my problem is that I was so stupid to follow all the bad advices in all those tiktoks and other youtube videos. It really helped me that you explained that it just doesn't work that way, and that I just need to be me

[@rianneroo]

That alpha girl tiktok is the B E S T!!! I was cackling and going YAAAAS the whole time haha!! Good luck with your book, Anthony!! Get that loaf!!

[@crystalschneemann668]

I just foud this channel. Y'all are weird, I like that.

[@calebrobinson4616]

Very underrated channel

[@anonymouscreature9483]

A cheap but durable rings with nothing on it would be perfect for me. Your actions and the meaning of something is more valuable than the money you spend on me.

[@jonahlindzius5472]

The ring tradition started in the 20th century when diamond companies made advertisements saying that only real men give a ring to the person they are proposing to, or something similar to that.

[@parkerengeland3543]

I wanted to add that for most women (at least that I know) the ring is the important part in all countries, but the cost isn't important. I personally wouldn't accept an expensive giant diamond ring, because I see that as wasting money that they could have put towards our house payments or the wedding itself.

[@sehbie]

Can you react to tiktok couples cause those i find real interesting.

[@PRIMELIFELIVE]

When I got engage with my hubby we didn't want to give into all the wedding marketing traditions. The only reason expensive rings became a tradition is because of a comerical telling men to buy their rings for proposals. He gifted me a simple $400 dollar sapphire ring (my birthstone) that I love because it came from him and his beautiful heart.

[@sarutucigash]

Please react to Dating Around from Netflix! There are a lot of scenes from dates to analyse

[@zorianthezeus3265]

Ive been shareing the shourtney vid so it gets more views so you can make a part 2

[@mistyubelhor4307]

7:57 "uhm i know how that feels..."

[@pmagsaibot]

Nice video! @Anthony Recenello what do you think about how far the younger generation can go with the trying to free oneself from the old and long overdue traditions in dating and building a relationship. Especially across cultural differences from family side like religion. For example: Christian to Muslim... Can the younger people just say: Well it's 2020 it's ok to get together or are there higher powers at play?

[@meg2282]

Omg a boook yasssss Im so excited imma buy it as soon as it’s out ahahahhas

[@pialabsis8844]

I am on the same mood for the ring

[@low-key5512]

A school would freak me out, but so would a fancy ring given I don't really wear jewelry lmao. So long as you're on the same page with your SO, that's all that matters

[@IdkCeez]

i think it's not the genders that have an advantage it just depends on what the personality types come together and who really has a better understanding of the relationship

[@emilykhalil7635]

I totally and completely agree with you on the wedding ring thing. I really do think it's kind of ridiculous along with a lot of other traditions. Like you were saying, if you think about it practically, why do we celebrate certain holidays and in the way we celebrate them. Like even birthdays if you really think about it practically.

[@tessparke4704]

can you do chris evans and scarlett johansson?

[@jxderin]

lmao i know that you probably don't even know this person, but if you and tristan paredes did a collab i would probably die from the amount of soothing vibes in the air

[@yeehaw564]

PLEASEEE do a classic charm video with Timothée Chalamet!! Literally every girl is in love with this boy! Including me but help me understand😂

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Ok I just made it for you. Go search my channel. I promise.

[@goncalonunes411]

Would love to see an analysis on Alexandra Daddario and zac efron

[@jona2497]

The man got a word. Thanks Anthony XD

[@elxerfire5177]

You should react to more Shartney (Shayne topp and Courtney Miller)

[@emilyevette]

me having a mental breakdown at 3 am: 32:32