8 Signs You Are Too Nice For Your Own Good

Are you constantly putting others before yourself, devoting to them your time, energy, and attention? Do you go out of your way to make sure all their desires are fulfilled, but never once ask for anything in return? We made this video to help you recognize when you or someone you know may be too nice for their own good. Share this video if you find it needs to be watched!
Credits
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Storyboarder: Yi Lin
Animator: Gabriella
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
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[@Psych2go]

Thank you for all your support!

[@FunBun7]

The only reason I'm alive is because theirs a vent server in my discord lmao

[@ssww3]

Love you psych 2 go

[@teaganlambert1443]

Love y'all!!!

[@osamaalqurneh6122]

I relate to mostly all of it

[@luxqas]

No problem

[@marief.4427]

the fact that this video was recommended to me is already a sign...

[@onlyjoyyt]

Yup...

[@jayceekxd9666]

Samee

[@BoBBumz]

Saaaame 😑😑

[@macekreislahomes1690]

Welcome to the club.

[@Mryey121]

Relatable

[@barackjoe-mama2872]

Psych2go: "Saying sorry too often is a sign of being too nice" Me: "Oh, im sorry.... dammit, sorry about that ,, FUU.."

[@justicedreams]

Love your username

[@barackjoe-mama2872]

@@justicedreams thx XD

[@Ok-sl1wj]

@@barackjoe-mama2872 say that some toxic kid on Roblox

[@lilmeow4829]

TRUEEEE

[@kpro_1188]

S A M E

[@seatea3128]

I’ve learned that being nice has gotten me absolutely nowhere in life. Only pain and guilt. And it sucks. The moment I’m not nice, it’s “Whoa man, what happened to you?”

[@ngalahansel6066]

Yeah I know that feeling

[@ML-xh6rd]

Same here...

[@TitaniumTronic]

Yeah for me they gonna be like "you're so annoying now"

[@afallenhuman]

@@TitaniumTronic Exactly. What do they want from us?, ._.

[@cathytee6024]

That’s true for me too. But we should still be nice to other people, but also care about ourselves, that’s still some thing I’m trying to work on. 😅

[@beegachax9789]

Small fact: The people you care about most can shatter your self esteem with three opinions about you and things you like

[@TitaniumTronic]

Oh they gave me a hundred probably why I feel like Im the most inferior piece of shit in this world

[@TheMsr47gaming]

Can't when your set up for failure, my brain don't work like should.

[@user-zw9kq7vm2z]

The nicest people get hurt the most

[@snowwhite5887]

😞true

[@prajaktadandekar9297]

Sadly it's the truth.

[@testkinam8536]

Yeah thats true

[@letswinwin_9298]

:( so true

[@Nanachise]

Yep, but they won't never know.😔

[@salmaaajuji]

“You are constantly saying sorry “ sorry, I’m Canadian.

[@user-cw7my7tj2z]

?

[@angelikaa4230]

@@user-cw7my7tj2z as a Canadian, people often make jokes about us being so nice and saying sorry all the time. Not sure if it's true though. 😂 Canadians can be mean sometimes, but we do say sorry often. Lol

[@6_killerbuttrtfly_945]

I’m Canadian to and we always say stuff like good mourning or hello to mostly some people that walk up or just smile at each other XD

[@user-cw7my7tj2z]

@@angelikaa4230 okkkkk

[@cupcakegirlplaysroblox2172]

In America people don’t say sorry they are mean

[@vionidantisara]

Number 5 hit me hard Grewing up in the household where stating an opinion is equal as being rebelious and disobeying parents.. really takes toll on my adulthood..

[@ngalahansel6066]

Yeah I know what you mean

[@justwallywally386]

Same here.have an opinion of your own and its like you committed a grave sin

[@leefarr8136]

Yes, yes and again yes!!

[@OceanicPearlz1]

…same here

[@notaperson7129]

**gets hit by a car** Me: Im sorry 😳

[@TitaniumTronic]

Sorry I went in the way :(

[@TitaniumTronic]

Sorry Im in my balcony and you hit me inside my property :(

[@bvnny1379]

Why is this true?

[@schiandaasheep554]

Me when I got hit by a car: sorry, don't tell my mom she will be mad

[@user-us7nh6ro5m]

i'd probably say sorry for your loss to that guy's family

[@hoshi3168]

1. You dont prioritize your own needs. 2. You constantly say sorry. 3. You agree to things you dont want to do. 4. You often say yes immediately. 5. You dont tell people what u want. 6. You have a strong need to be liked. 7. You are very conflict averse. 8. Others often take advantage of you. *I hope these helped some people! :D*

[@n0vag4ming]

I'm 2, sometimes 4, 6 and 8

[@darwina1907]

Thank you so much!

[@undercoversmonk5712]

Almost every single f ing one of these things apply to me. Im too nice and i already noticed why that is a problem

[@JayJuliaKay]

All of those are me...

[@archs1ay3r3]

I’m 2,3,sometimes 4, and 5

[@s0539a]

Psych2Go: You often say YES immediately- I mean- Yes but- 👁👄👁

[@josiah8453]

rin [was mirakii] yes- i mean nice comment heheheh......

[@its_nicole07]

Same i cant say no to people... that can also be anxiety... but like one day I'm going to get in a bad situation since i can never say no to anyone..😂😔

[@RobinParravel]

Yes I do that...Sorry...

[@cheezy8094]

go back to ur tiktok

[@s0539a]

@@cheezy8094 I dont have tiktok..

[@ieatkids2345]

“Your constantly saying sorry” Sorry for saying sorry Dang it- I am so sorry for saying sorr-

[@Preppy.Girl.Kesley]

Aw I feel sorry- wait, sorry- I mean, I didn’t know I said sorr- ;-;

[@cubesolver2564]

Someone, you gotta help us break the cycle!

[@I_like_bagels._.]

That is my every day schedule

[@arvinjayumayam8811]

I just only say sorry when after saying a bad word. I do to when i make my way over-

[@fyzziii]

@@I_like_bagels._. same...

[@shannongrummisch8881]

"You never tell people what you want" me who doesn't tell people what I want because I don't know what I want.

[@inaayasiddiqui6380]

You don’t know what you want because you were too busy making sure you considered everyone else’s decision that at some point you forget what you really like

[@Trooper50000]

Relatable

[@Trooper50000]

@@inaayasiddiqui6380... Relatable

[@hackanimator12]

Relatable

[@jeyu8802]

Literally anyone: Dude u gotta stop saying sorry, it’s annoying. Me: *sorry*

[@bangtankookies8551]

Omg that’s me

[@krabcuno7113]

That's me

[@sunitajaiswal7713]

That's what my friend does and it's actually annoying😂

[@thegamingflutist482]

That's me

[@ruhi1390]

Lol that's me.. it's just so satisfying saying sorry, otherwise the guilt will eat me alive, if I don't say sorry.. 😅

[@alishaparekh6433]

"Don't over apologize" Me: Apologizes for saying sorry after being told not to say sorry so much

[@girliluvitwhenweahh7256]

So relatable!

[@katakurithecalamity9840]

i feel you

[@amandamcdonald4815]

Me too

[@toteekeepoo]

same i-

[@notyoshikagekira7539]

Sorry

[@richie616]

The great double-edged sword of being nice is that, all too often, you attract people who are *not* . This is because nice people strive to see the good in others because we want others to do the same for us. The problem is, a lot of people don't meet even that simple criteria. Being nice is admirable -- noble, even -- but you have to be careful, lest your blessing become a curse. I've often felt that many people who come across as mean, or bitter, or unlikable probably were actually nice people once upon a time... but were wronged one time too many.

[@jennifercox4781]

Oh! So true! It's like you took the words right out of my mouth! Yes! 100 times yes!

[@aganib4506]

Yes. On reading your last sentences, I have to learn that we need to set boundaries for the sake of our mental health.

[@angelacasein7059]

Yeah give yourself the care you give dysfunctional people see your life improve

[@bloomingrat1634]

"You don't owe anyone an apology for things that aren't even your fault." *Canadians gasp simultaneously* (I'm Canadian and that would be hard lmao)

[@heethan2274]

Me being too nice: **Getting taken advantage of** Me being a bit selfish for my own good: **Getting called mean** Me:...Bruh...

[@aathira9101]

Same problem..I can't understand what people are saying

[@divy0613]

@@aathira9101 ohh i see what you did the

[@dudeitsjessica]

this !!!!

[@lyranunan]

and then you feel bad and blame it on yourself? Yeah me to.

[@MR_3001]

If you're being too nice to someone, and they called you selfish or mean for prioritising yourself, chances are, that person is trying to manipulate you by constant guilt-tripping. Here's a small tip from Psych2Go, if you prioritise yourself without putting others in a major disadvantage, that's not selfishness. If you still feel unsure about it, try to look for an unbiased outside opinion.

[@user-mk2et9vb5e]

me : *being nice to everyone* friends : *take the advantage of that* me : *not nice* friends : *OH WHY ARE YOU SO RUDE?* me : *BOI WHAT DO YOU WANT OMYGOD-*

[@alyssa3605]

lol that's the unfair reality of being too nice

[@spermchef2731]

Just take advantage of someone taking advantage if you

[@jadeo7931]

HONESTLY THOOOOO🥺

[@chooseyourgiftquiz]

Reality 😭😭

[@somebodygill8666]

Find balance. Be nice but think about yourself too. Don't be rude but don't be over-nice either.

[@fatjoker6949]

I know a person this nice...they are a precious friend to me...and I never want to let them go...we always understand each other...we have never fighted and we always ask for each other's opinions. They have never called me an name and I always try to show them that I care about them and never wishing to hurt them...they are truly wonderful people that I don't want to lose! ^-^

[@andyokus5735]

You are very lucky. When you have something most people are jealous parasites who aren't happy unless they've destroyed you. Believe me I've been through it many times. My only comfort is watching their demise.

[@youknowwhoyouare11]

People tend to respect a person who stands up for themselves (even when they fall out because of it) and tend to pitty a person who can't (even if they stick with you). Choose yourself. People come and go. A person who loves you will never resent you for speaking up.

[@minervaargo8758]

Preach!!

[@aganib4506]

Amen on that.

[@dom3855]

my friends: “stop saying sorry omg” me: “sorry” 👁👄👁

[@justme-ew3ri]

Li-

[@Pearl393]

LMAO ME

[@zinat1759]

It's literally me lok

[@beth24421]

same

[@shaylee1348]

My friends started betting on how many times I’ll say sorry in a day and I didn’t know for like a week....

[@maya_hossain]

1. You don’t prioritise your own needs 2. You are constantly saying sorry 3. You agree to things you don’t want to do 4. You often say YES immediately 5. You never tell people what you want 6. You have a strong need to be liked 7. You are very conflict averse 8. Others often take advantage of you

[@gloriannadest]

Didn't have to call me out like that💀💅🏾

[@ramgonz1005]

this is literally me but im trying to learn how to be rude and sarcastic becuase i've been used by other people.

[@bananaorangel123]

FRICK. I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS TOO NICE

[@igot7armytaekook308]

In middle I couldn't say no, even if I didn't want to, so some people in my school would make me throw away their food tray, after they are finish eating and my friend would scold me for not saying no

[@noahhh2736]

Thats me becuse my freind said that about me

[@colleenoldham1245]

My husband and I can relate to this video. We have helped many people who took advantage of us . We have finally learned that you have to do what is right for you no matter what others think. We get to do us now and it feel real good!

[@437bonnie]

My mother's last words were " I'm sorry." What a load to put on someone. A vicious cycle of low self-esteem, insecurity and ridiculously high expectations. It's taking a lot of work to get rid of all the crud that has been layered on over the years. But these little vids do a good job of highlighting an issue in small doses. Thank you for all your effort and time. Much appreciated.

[@idioticarus]

Okay but get this: _I feel selfish and arrogant every time I put myself first so I just dont_

[@MySUHIT]

Same

[@mrzukunft]

Sometimes you have to put YOURSELF first. If someone jumped off a bridge, would you jump down too to maybe save them? Okay, bad example, but you get the idea 😂

[@justinl2009]

@@mrzukunft Nah, we're jumping together.

[@rainyday-fs5qe]

@@mrzukunft yes. Yes i would.😂.

[@littledebhehe1685]

Same

[@gavantha]

When you constantly act “Too nice” because you’re worried you’re not nice enough

[@goldenthusiast]

Same

[@undercoversmonk5712]

That is...me. But dont worry, im already working on myself so i will one day finally stop being too nice.

[@livelovemove]

U just hit that exact dart for me

[@googleuser4034]

YES. THIS.

[@undercoversmonk5712]

@@googleuser4034 YEEEEESSSßAJAHNFH

[@losfreeman4010]

I constantly always say sorry cuz I don't want to hurt people's feelings it makes me feel mean and bad😔

[@beverlyhepworth2952]

I was brought up to be nice and polite, and not to hurt people's feelings. I've learned to say no to people. If you can do it once you can do it again.

[@jsuwheiwnwsa3570]

Me: Having dinner at a friend’s house and they have loads of really nice food left over. I don’t want to eat anymore because I’m worried I’ll look greedy even though I’m really hungry but I feel really guilty because it will go to waste. My friend’s mom: “Are you sure you’re not still hungry?” Me on the inside: AAaAaaAaAAaA SAY YES I’M SO HUNGRY. Me on the outside: Yes, definitely. Thank you very much for lunch. *Silently sheds a tear as the food goes into the bin*

[@Le0n0r27]

Sameeeee

[@ML-xh6rd]

I so relate to your comment. Sometime in our development we learned that our thoughts of others perceptions of us are reflections of who we are, when that isn't true. When we project our thoughts of ourselves we are often wrong. For example, if you had said something like "this is the best meal I've had in a long time" or "the chicken was so delicious" your having another serving would most likely be seen as a compliment to the cook rather than as a greedy guest. Being gracious while being honest at the same time is something that is learned. If we didn't learn it as children it's something that feels unnatural as an adult. However with mindful practice we can learn to express our wants confidently, sincerely and appropriately while at the same time being respectful, gracious and grateful. It takes effort and intention and is a worthwhile endeavor for it will allow us to be less critical of ourselves and not let opportunities, like a delicious meal or something else, pass us by or go to waste.

[@russtralia6428]

who would do that? Why wouldn't they just put the food in the fridge

[@jsuwheiwnwsa3570]

@@russtralia6428 Actually I hadn’t thought of that, I think it’s because in my country there is a very wasteful attitude and people (especially the rich) can’t be bothered to put leftovers in the fridge cause. a) they are too lazy b) they want fresh food everyday c) they don’t want to fill up their fridge

[@jsuwheiwnwsa3570]

@@ML-xh6rd Sorry for late reply, it seems like KZbin didn’t put it into my notifications, thank you for your wisdom; I will try and work on that.

[@tobinixsun9355]

“Don’t over apologize.” Me, who apologizes for apologizing: *sweating intensifies*

[@pablovaldes2810]

I disliked to show i am not nice and nonsupporting, now i'm like spongebob when he got his abrasive side

[@mandisbandis1194]

Oh my god that is so me 😂

[@terencerandolph7721]

Same-

[@brocanujustbenicepls2944]

“Stop apologizing” “Okay sorry”

[@Mikiluvsu]

Same

[@tunafish1106]

Psyc2go: don't over apologize Me: *has literally apologised for apologizing too much*

[@AgentFauchi]

Ugh same! It happens all the time!

[@somepersonwholikestomaketh1351]

Yep that is me XD

[@Rosiee._.21]

Same here

[@alex-hp8qk]

Same

[@liviannebrown5458]

Ikr...

[@paulfisherman4254]

Some people think I'm nice but they don't know my dark side and he's healing.

[@fwMMVII]

"Sorry." "Stop saying sorry." "Oh, okay, sorr- I mean, uh, alright."

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Don't compromise yourself - you're all you have.” ― John Grisham

[@kitkatxo]

That's a new perspective! Thank you for sharing this. 🙂

[@Kcali111]

😀

[@becca_rose_x]

A lot of people think of themselves of being “too nice” but they actually aren’t. People always think of themselves of being something wonderful. Me however.. I KNOW I’m too nice. I have been walked over far faaar too many times. I have never and I mean never been able to speak up to people (apart from family) i have never been able to speak up to friends or cried or showed anger in front of them because I have such a strong want to be liked and I don’t want to upset anyone’s feeling. I’ve had people pick me up and shove me in a bag, I’ve had friends that would throw trash on the floor and then make me go pick it up and treat me like a dog saying “go fetch.” I have even lost £300 to a scam because I was too nice. I’m so fed up with people in these comments saying “I’m ToO nICe” or “I GeT wALkeD all OvEr” because no most of you don’t. Far too many people think they are a nice person and flatter themselves at how “nice they are.” No you’re not. 😠😒

[@becca_rose_x]

L Franco I’m not friends with them now. They ended up betraying me and started ignoring me, leaving me out, deleting me. I wish I had spoke up to them before they left. So many things was left unsaid and I never had the confidence to say a word.

[@EndogenG]

@@becca_rose_x I'm going to be slightly passive-aggressive, but I hope you don't get mad, but don't you think it's kind of contradicting to say you're so fed up with people saying they are "too nice", or "they get walked all over", but at the same time you post a comment about being "too nice" and "being walked all over". I think you shouldn't assume people are lying because I know people do, but not everyone does. sorry if I was rude.

[@channalmath8628]

If you're too nice, you can't learn who really likes you and who just wants to take advantage of your niceness. And realizing this will make you lonely. You need to know your friends are true friends

[@tinas9604]

Indeed. Either you will feel like everyone is out to get you (everyone is lying, trust issues..) Or you become bitter (since so many people took advantage of you and your sense of trust is distorted)

[@becca_rose_x]

I physically can’t get angry at people. I have never shown anger in front of friends. And what you said is true!! People who are too nice, often find it hard to see who really likes you and who is just taking advantage of your niceness. Most average people would notice that, and speak up. And If you guys have had conflicts/ fallings out with your friends- you lot are normal. You are not overly nice, because you are still able to show anger and speak up for yourselves. You are still able to stand up for yourselves and say no to something you really don’t agree on. If you never never ever have had a falling out, it probably means you are too nice because you never want to say anything to upset them and want to be liked. Most people think they are “too nice” but most of the time they aren’t, because they still have some idea of who they are and to stand up for themselves when it’s needed. People who are too nice, don’t do that.

[@tinas9604]

@Matt Ludwig It is. I can speak from personal experience. At the time i has this terrible friend (looking back)and always wondered why she was liked more that me even though she wasn't so nice. Turned out, years later she told me that being too nice may seem like you have an ulterior motive

[@ginthemaid112]

Real friends call you out on your shit- Ruby from On my block

[@justfair4882]

Real Friends vs Fake Friends Choose Real Friends

[@naria2224]

I used to have a problem with the whole “you’re too nice “ thing as well as the “ you’re too much of a good girl” thing . But then I realized that the real problem is not the nice person/good person, it’s the people who take advantage of that.

[@charalisseensomo5226]

Well this "taking advantage of you" actually suits me. I always pay for my classmates who can't pay for something this had gone for years now that whenever there's something to pay they turn their heads on me expecting me to pay for them but if I don't they'd get mad and ignores me for the rest of the day even says mean things like " she's so selfish" etc. And I don't like that I don't like people not liking me so I go ahead and do what they ask of me. I would go home without any money left when my mom ask I would lie saying stuff like " I was hungry and my food wasn't enough ".

[@Ririiiox]

I can relate to your comment a lot! I always feel like i have to say yes and if it helps them or be brightness their day i'll be happy to do it! But sometimes people see that as a way to take advantage of me i've noticed it a few times but i've never pointed it out because i just can't do it i often sometimes feel like my opinions don't matter so i prefer to keep my opinions to myself it's really hard to know that your being taking advantage of but yet you don't do anything about it because you don't want to seem rude or anything

[@serepasaribu9275]

“It’s not selfish to take care of yourself” me: “okay” **takes care of myself for 5 minutes** my family and “friends”: “yOu’Re So sElfIsh” edit: thank you for supporting me

[@chery7353]

Sere Pasaribu I can relate soo much

[@avatarandarmy485]

@@chery7353 ikr😣😣😥😥😔

[@InshasChoice]

Newsflash: this world is full of selfish people. You have to love yourself first

[@chery7353]

Insha I wish I could I feel so trapped in my house I can be “rude” I’m seen disrespectful

[@serepasaribu9275]

Insha i wish i could. i really do. but you know...stuff

[@dwightk.schrute162]

When your entire friend group is like this so you can never make any decisions and no one knows what anyone is thinking...

[@auroramorrison1431]

Omg YES 😂 lol!

[@hi-rz6oo]

OMG I AGREE. Everyone in my grp dropped out from a few popular grp for this reason so we made this current friend grp and this is the biggest problem we face😂

[@shadowj4879]

Mines said I’m just tooo nice

[@aashij2426]

yes!!

[@navyblues7123]

Even if I have strong feelings that fake friends are nearby, I’m still nice to them and talk to them when they start a conversation. I still hang out with them even if I feel somewhat uncomfortable or empty. I get so mad at myself for it.

[@petersophic]

“Why” is a very powerful question that can lead you somewhere.

[@theforgotten8931]

"It's not selfish to take care of yourself" Words I really need to acknowledge in life

[@Leftover_Toast]

Me: Yeah, well, I don't think I'm nice at-- "One: You don't prioritize your own needs." Me: I'm sorry, but-- "Two: You're constantly saying sorry." Me: Okay, but I-- "Three: You agree to things you don't want to do." Me: Well, yes, but-- "Four: You often say YES immediately." Me: Uh-- "Five: You never tell people what you want" Me: sToP cALLiNg mE oUt

[@-aboodfrost-2779]

😂😂😂😂

[@meijiplayz_gachauwu673]

same qwp

[@Alester008]

This is great

[@nicolewang8941]

too true

[@jaiss3025]

Lol same 😅😂

[@miacara17]

Me: *reject their demands* They: you've change I don't know. Thats word kinda hurt me.

[@s0539a]

right!? My reputation is that I'm a sweet, shy and kind girl... So, if I ever say "No" to ANYTHING people look at me like: 👁👄👁 yOu'vE cHanGeD

[@chimmyjoo8922]

do whatever the fuck you want. it’s a long process to finally say no to people’s demands, but it’s a healthy habit and good for your mental health. People who say that you’ve changed and give a negative connotation to that didn’t deserve you in the first place, so it’s a good thing that they showed their true colours to you. Keep saying no and putting yourself first, bc being selfish is not a bad thing.

[@s0539a]

@@chimmyjoo8922 ty for that

[@diamond.4040]

Pfft screw them! Don't be a doormat, if they can't accept that you won't do their every need then you obviously don't need them! I haven't met you but I but you're super nice! Don't let it hurt you that they said that! Everyone changes at some point, right?🥰😘

[@mio_sehenomamonjy]

@@chimmyjoo8922 But what if I find myself being alone at the end? :< Especially as a student, I can't imagine myself feeling so lonely again

[@alyssadestany]

“People should like you for who you are, NOT what you can do for them”

[@rachelcopper7415]

im extremely introverted, my therapist told me that i’m anti social and suffering from anger issues and i related to a lot of these, what could get worse.

[@est.hernandez]

-You don't prioritize your self.x - You say sorry constantly.x - you agree to soon into decisions. -You say YES to everything.x - you never say what you want.x - You have a strong need to be liked.x - You don't like conflict so u give in.x - ppl often take advantage of you. edit- First off damn. Yall need to prioritize yourself. Don't be scared of cutting off ppl who aren't good for u. If u feel like ur being taken advantage of at first then -please- follow that instinct please, who cares if its misunderstanding, u can clear is up later. if u dont catch it at that time and only realize later, let them go, and if they come around be very observant and tell them off or leave when they do it again. They did it once they will do it again. *IN SHORT* BARK BACK even if the first word is f*ck u or f*ck off. That's how I started. Say what u need to. I am sure u are all very sweet, but it's okay to be bitter and ppl not like u. Ik its hard but, it will get better. If they cut ur wings, dont forget u have claws, use them. Second of all dayum 1k thank u guys! Funny. I wrote this as a personal note to myself for growth.

[@anataliomanibo6083]

Why did i look at this but thx....

[@est.hernandez]

@Rahul Gaikwad thanks I feel special! LoL

[@LuigiKaweege]

Wow I’m like most of these

[@gektoast4968]

I am pretty much all of these except the last. I don’t let people walk on me or take advantage of me. I may be nice but I’m also confident and I’m not taking people’s bullshit

[@est.hernandez]

@@gektoast4968 then your just a humble person trying to get by without ppls bullshit rubbing off u? ( Cuz I relate to that¯\_༼ ಥ ‿ ಥ ༽_/¯)

[@georgiak.551]

I’m the “therapist friend” of my group, or so they call me. I am, in no way, qualified to make *anyone* less anxious or depressed, but my friends always dump their problems on me anyways, and they get mad when I don’t console them in the right way, even though, like I said, I’m NOT a therapist. Whenever I try to explain to them what *I’m* going through, like when I lost my grandfather last November, they always compare it to something they’ve gone through and turn the conversation to themselves. I hold everyone’s problems, plus my own, and I feel like I’m only in the friend group to do just that. I’m talked over, ignored, and I’m only there to be a dumping place for everybody else’s problems.

[@akshatap5096]

I relate so much, I know exactly how you feel. After years of going through the same thing and I still do I’ve realized that for some problems you just can’t help the other people and just have to let them figure it out of their own. Though as you said it’s impossible to discuss our own problems hopefully you found some friends who can help you with this but if now I’m always around 😁

[@rinabobina8453]

Sorry about your grandfather. Virtual hugs🤗 i completely understand where you are coming from. Especially when your feelings are invalidated by toxic positivity. Like damn, i get it. Someone has it waaay worse than me; however, jus let me have my emotion so i can get over it. Let me be sad, let me mourne, let me complain and vent so i can get it out my system. So i feel you. I wish you all the positive energy.

[@rosesrubies283]

Same! I can totally relate ! They just want you to listen to them but they never listen to you! and that is so unfair ☹

[@treblemaker7353]

Same

[@sleepy5975]

I can really relate 😞 I’m so sorry about what happened to your grandfather..

[@notkhl9e]

When you have all 8 signs: I should fix that **someone bumps into me and knock me down* Sorry-

[@resetmyzen1585]

I am overly nice because I grew up in a extremely aggressive household. I never had a voice because it was not allowed so to try and escape all this aggression I just became a overly nice person and it has reeked havoc in my life. I crave balance, I want to be respected and I am trying to set boundaries but no one is taking me seriously so I become extremely avoidant. I don’t want to live this way anymore it’s extremely stressful but I’m taking it one day at a time 😅

[@brainless6532]

Even though I consider myself to be nice, I still have plenty of anger issues/anger outbursts now a days *_Anyone relate to that?_*

[@ShinoriDelfrim]

Yes

[@xXCocoHimeXx]

Me

[@dominikmoner675]

Is it strange that i feel kind of „better“ after an outburst?

[@Kamkkko]

It’s okay to be angry

[@feeganthevegan]

Yep

[@saraeva1197]

"prioritize your own needs" me: sorry I'll try harder next time

[@ahhwe-any7434]

My neighbor and her kid are such moochey energy. No you may not use my wifi. No you may not use anything. & I really dont want them bugging my pets either. I let them borrow a fan, thats it. I kind of have a feeling i wont get it back either. Im sorry... But theyre not my problem. Shes my same sign :/ & even tho we have some similiarities, other qualities arent. Id be way too prideful to bug ppl the way she does. Shes like a bug a boo. "Go make your own case a deal ahs ✋..." First off) wait for an invite. You cant just show up at ppls place like that. 2nd) idk how all she operates but we have a slum lord. She just goes about doing things all wrong... 3rd) maybe she shouldve had things aligned before sh went down. Dont ask another struggler for sh. Bc when i say i like being by my lonesome, i actually meant that.

[@RemyWillard]

That sounds just like my closest friend. She's always apologizing, even when things aren't her fault. I tell her that her apologies are often cute but that she should do so less often because, as this video explains, apologizing as frequently as she does is a sign that she isn't looking out for herself.

[@zjpcreeper2626]

Me:

[@tallestpersonalive]

I feel like me and my friend are being too nice to each other, I usually just say, “Whatever you want!” and my friend says “No it’s ok I’ll do whatever you want!” 😔

[@AM21706]

You shouldn't feel like that....it only means you got yourself a real friend

[@WeadleOof]

Thank you for making this. I had a lot of the signs..Now I’m trying to stand up for myself! :)

[@nicolezhangg]

‘saying sorry to much’ me: **sweating intensifies** im sorry- wait no no sorry- SCREEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[@parasocks1613]

“*Nickita_ Chan_.• has stopped working”*

[@kallashiOfficial]

so do I XD

[@eve_loves_cats7814]

Same thing hppens to me.

[@estherpachuau4114]

@@parasocks1613 yeah okay good idea 😁

[@manbruh8791]

Literally me

[@massimooneill2784]

“Saying sorry too much is a sign of being to nice” Canadians: *sweating intensifies*

[@strawberry6176]

that is me- My dad asks me to stop and I apologize for it xd

[@garggarg6113]

@Bill Byrne I don’t know? Because I don’t even know I’m saying sorry I just say it lol

[@ajn__]

I had a friend in first grade and we got into a lil fight,so i told sorry,but she told me to hold my ears,and stand up and down constantly to be forgiven, and I did so,after I finished writing whatever ma'am gave in the whiteboard,I did whatever she told me to do,I did see the teacher watching me,but I didn't care,when we had a break and was standing in the line,the teacher told me to not do that again,but I don't quiet remember what she told me.

[@CrumpetCraig]

Brits: *sweating intensifies but not as much*

[@Hey-jw3dm]

@@garggarg6113 yeah like your situation

[@tastabassum1487]

Thank you for making this video. It was very relatable and made me feel less alone. I really appreciate it! 😊

[@denisemain1028]

I can certainly relate to this situation..the nicer or kinder you are the more people take advantage of this and see you as a soft touch!Trying to change this is so difficult especially when it's built into your personality!

[@ives3572]

I'm nice to the right people: I choose the people I'll be nice to.

[@izzyxx4654]

Naaah... I am nice to everyone. I don’t choose who I’m nice to, because that is a little immature in my opinion. I go by the quote “never stop being a good person, because of bad people.”

[@justfair4882]

So your only nice to the right people.

[@starwolf8499]

I'm also nice only to nice people. If a stupid bully gets on my nerves, I try to get on his/her nerves

[@alexissysabellbroas3359]

strike6tutorials nice is more on being polite and treating people nicely while kind is when you care about people and show you care. You can be nice without being kind. You can be kind without being nice. I hope I explained that properly ☺️

[@GoofyAhhh442]

I cant choose😭

[@kingzqueenzp6616]

I think I became too nice because of my parents ways of parenting me: They don't let me explain (if I do, they will call me disrespectful for talking back at them) or sometimes they ignore me if I want to share something because they're too busy looking at their phones then I end up not sharing

[@ST-yc7uj]

I started ignoring them in return and if they got pushy or pouty I start screaming,storming out...like a big baby. I hope to exit this phase soon and that adulthood on both sides will be reached soon:)

[@angelina-lw1lm]

omg wait we’re living the same life

[@najnis3174]

*this is exactly what happens and it's scary like it's nice to know that someone relates because my friends dont have parents like mine and they don't understand*

[@angelina-lw1lm]

Najms Nisa aww :( yeah everyone i knows has both parents and are super happy with their family. i never had that

[@LM-xc6bb]

my mom does the exact same thing, and she'll tell !e to shut up and sometimes just looks right past me like I'm not there when she doesn't want to listen.

[@Poyni]

This channel helps me not to feel like I’m being selfish for taking care of myself or feeling like I’m attention seeking because I want to feel accepted since I grew up with little of it

[@DrGhost-rs6wz]

Being one of the nicest is a blessing, but also a curse.

[@leviboulter3766]

The hard part is trying to change being too nice, when you have set everyone’s expectations so high for yourself that when you don’t meet them people think something is wrong or they don’t want to be with you because things arnt the same, you no longer give them everything they want. So the leave.

[@divy0613]

Or they will say you have changed, you were so good before, it hurts

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

If they leave we are more lucky without them bc they didn't want the best for us like we wanted the best for them.

[@ElephantPatronus]

So true. It's a hard lesson to learn. When the pattern repeats itself over and over (because we keep attracting the same sort of people) it can be quite a painful and lonely realization to come to.

[@dojascat6488]

That means they were taking advantage of you.

[@gurlperson89]

The only people who will have a problem with your new boundaries are people who benefitted from you not having any at all. Fuck them.

[@LindieBotes]

Welp. I feel attacked

[@25ksubswithoutanyvideoscha65]

You’re not the only one 😂

[@uvy3908]

Same 😂😂😂

[@Mikiluvsu]

Same

[@gilgaladinfp8452]

Whoa you are here. . . I'm a subscriber. . .

[@timwar7690]

I'm sorry 😞

[@kelliecole8235]

Excellent video I'm one of those people and boy do they take advantage of you, another term is wearing your heart on your sleeve, they see coming a mile away!! It was really hard for me to get it through in my head that there was such a thing as too nice or too giving, that's bad but oh so true! I don't have a problem with confrontation or saying no, but my biggest problem is how it really feels good inside of me to give, so I give and I give and I give and everybody else just takes, they use, they take advantage of me, and they never give back! I think I need to surround myself with better people, that would probably help to!! Thank You For The Great Video!!

[@zacharydassonville8736]

Life is making me into someone I don't like and Its kinda sad to watch cuz all I've ever wanted was to respect and be respected. Inspire and be inspired.

[@vivinotfromloona]

me: *has all of these signs* my brain: you're not nice enough

[@Jana-py1vy]

Lmao why is this so true

[@angelcomesdown]

yes. this is me!

[@jasonparker4910]

H zed zed zed zed zed zed zed zed zed zed zed zed zed zed zed

[@salmasalam9648]

Yep

[@lillyyes9257]

Same

[@peppybreyer88]

“You have a strong need to be liked” I feel like I’m doing everything I can possible to be a good person and I still have no good friends. I’ve tried being myself and no one likes that either. I can’t win...

[@zangfai226]

Sounds like me🙂

[@amare2691]

Yeah same :(

[@fxjrulpzxi]

I have no friends, either. It sucks. But I’m 31 lol

[@MySUHIT]

I even hate myself for that.

[@ahhwe-any7434]

I didn't watch. If this is one of the reasons then I must be an Uber bitch. Alotta ppl operate on superficial leachy bs alone and I just can't.

[@BrianSmith-lj6ug]

Good words & i listened to everyone.Saying Sorry constantly is my main problem.Thank you.

[@mostannoyingscaramain]

“The loneliest are . The smile the brightest. The most damaged are the wisest. All because they don't wish to see anyone else suffer the way they did.” - Jellal Fernandes. T-T

[@kittyplays_uk1729]

*My story!* I used to be too kind for my own good, I cared way more about others then myself. In fact, I hated myself and I would often hurt myself on purpose because of this. My friends and family would ask why there was a new mark on my arm everyday. I just would answer “I’m just clumsy that’s all.” Sometimes my friends would catch me hurting myself and ask why I’m doing it. I just answered “My arm just stings, it’s fine.” It got to the point people would worry about me, but I would try and keep pretending I was perfectly fine. I cared less about myself, and made others needs mine. I didn’t know who I was because I was too caught up in what people want me to be. I began to get depression when I didn’t have a distraction. My family didn’t know much of what was going on, and why I wasn’t so cheerful anymore. “I’m just a little sick, I just have to go to bed.” is what I would always say. I would spend most of my time on the computer and iPad, so I would get a distraction from how horrible my life was. Soon I began to find friends online who cared for me and had the same needs. My depression soon became no more. I always knew that I didn’t know who I was talking to. But I knew I wouldn’t find someone like them in real life. *I hope you found my story interesting, tell me your stories in the reply section!*

[@Monster_Knight]

low life haha

[@the_ffca_me]

I'm so sorry you went through this. I really hope you never go back to such a state. It's really hard for me to endure the thought of someone hurting themselves....... I don't really have a story likes yours, but I guess it's worth a shot to share..? I can relate to some parts of your story. I definitely think I care about others more than myself. When I was younger, I would always do what others wanted me to. I'd always play what the other kids wanted to. Them: Hey, let's play this game! Me: I don't really want to... Them: No, come on! You gotta hang out with us. You barely do. Me: Alright.. But I'll leave after a few rounds I never really suggested playing games either. I just went with whatever everybody else wanted to do. The conversations went something like that because I didn't want them to think I didn't like them or something. And let's say I'm eating something. If someone asks me for a piece of it, I give it. I have a really hard time telling them no and that it's mine. I guess I just don't want people around me to feel sad. For me, I also watch on KZbin and use the internet a lot. It's my getaway. I watch when I feel empty because.. I guess you could say I don't have anyone to talk to? I'm not so sure how to word it correctly. I did hurt myself purposely once, with this multi-use metal thing. It was like, a knife, a letter opener, bottle opener, etc. all in one. I cut my finger slightly with it. I got asked why I did it, and all I could come up with was that I just wanted to see if it was really sharp or not. I don't think I really wanted to hurt myself though. I think that maybe I just wasn't thinking at all. Nowadays, I don't really mind if I get scars. Again, I don't think it's because I want to hurt myself purposely, but because I just don't care. I just don't care. (But I'm starting to. I'm slowly learning to love myself and put my needs and desires before others.) I think I still have a problem about caring what other people think about myself. I know I did definitely change myself for others. But like I already said, I'm learning to put myself as my #1 priority, and learning that it's okay to say no. I think I'm a pushover. I always did what others wanted. Isn't that what a pushover is? I have this one friend who I've known for about 8 years, and we've gotten really close. So close that we have slept on the same bed, went on family trips together, shared the same spoon, and told each other our secrets. Lately, she said she didn't want to be my friend anymore because I was toxic. She also gave me very invalid reasons and cursed at me and my other friend. Story: Me and her were hanging out, probably for 2 hours? I saw my other friend, and they don't like each other. I ASKED her to go hangout with the other friend, she said sure. (She never told me that she didn't want me hanging out with the other person at all. She just seemed blank when she said sure.) Anyways, we hang out, and over text messages, she tells me I'm toxic for ditching her basically. Not even to my face. Just texting. She calls my friend who I left with the b word, etc. Also, days after we had that argument, her and her other friend were being suspiciously weird. You know, whispering, running away from us. As me and the friend I left with were walking a few days later, there was a rock thrown at me. I turned around to see her and her friend running away. I'm glad they missed. Otherwise, I really would've been so pissed. They've also done things like ding-dong-ditch, which is where you knock on someones home and run away. When we had arguments before, I would always be heartbroken. I even cried once when she got angry at me. I felt so guilty and bad. But when we had this argument that completely ended our friendship, I wasn't at all sad. I felt more.. free? Like I had gotten chains off. I'm glad we're not friends anymore, because to be honest, I felt like she used me. And she blamed our argument on me. She told me I made it unnecessarily bigger and how I started it, etc. Anyways, I'm so sorry for ranting all this! Wait, no I'm not. xD Sorry. OMG [I need to get ahold of myseld xD] Have a{n} (awesome) day! I don't know you, but I'm confident that you have a beautiful soul and body.

[@kittyplays_uk1729]

ROBLOX_Variety That’s such a sad story! She didn’t deserve you, I’m happy that your finally free! If you want I can teach you a bit more on how to love your self more than you love anybody in this world. Trust me, I love myself more than I love chocolate milk, and boy do I love chocolate milk XD

[@the_ffca_me]

@@kittyplays_uk1729 xD Yes, please! That would be amazing, thank you :D

[@kittyplays_uk1729]

ROBLOX_Variety Okay then! First step : Look at yourself in the mirror when you wake up and sleep, and though the day. This will help you love how you look

[@summer19846]

The video should be titled: “The life of a passive person explained in 5 minutes”

[@kazbaz8645]

Its when you try not to be passive and be assertive people dont like it - especially when the people are aggressive and think you should do what they say or think. They should respect our thoughts too.

[@magentaMegi]

Naomi Summers, I have seen other videos from this site, somehow trying to divide people into numbered categories and people going along with it. I've also seen some miserable comments from some younger, teenager or adult type, trying to put themselves into categories while they should be creating a personality of their own. The real truth is that most people are conformist and some aren't. And btw passive and nice are not synonyms. You can be actively nice to someone to give them a boost, or you can be passively difficult to someone, while trying to play nice.

[@revloubowah7734]

lmao fax

[@mabelidove6813]

@Naomi Summers, your comment created a nice comment section 💝

[@gorthorki]

@@kazbaz8645 THAT'S THE POINT, DON'T BE SUBMISSIVE TO THEM JUST BECAUSE THEY GET AGGRESSIVE WHEN YOU'RE NOT THEIR BITCH.

[@fl4gfl0ck92]

thank you I really needed this

[@jessiglow7292]

Thank you very much for this video.It's really useful

[@josinad2410]

Personally, I think a lot of these traits come out in a person because of their childhood. I can relate to this because my parents were blaming me or taunting me for my shortcomings. Needs were not prioritized...in short, narcs. As a result now I'm one of these people who'll try their best to adjust with everyone, see that nobody is uncomfortable because of me, even if that compromises with my requirements. I've been trying to break off from that habit, let's just say I'm making progress :)

[@RoopeshRanjan47]

Hello josina D, you wrote the same thing which was going through my mind after watching psych2go videos😊,That's great that you are improving and I hope you will get all the things which you want from your life 😄

[@vinzpantino6659]

Yes :)

[@jokhasaid3499]

Me too!! I had an abusive mother growing up too!!

[@kaishatumangger6319]

I'm sad because I just realize that I have the same situation as you, let's change together! ❤️

[@elizrebezilmadommdo1662]

I'm like this a lot of times too, but then I've had a few other friends who are/were the same way, and I end feeling weird because I know that they're just trying to do or agree with whatever I'm saying to make me happy. It seems disingenuous, even if they're just trying to make me happy and just aren't good at letting themselves have a say, and it makes me feel bad as their friend. Because of this, I'm trying to change so I don't make my friends feel weird too.

[@alicec.6195]

My gravestone will say: "She bothered no one."

[@ankitguyquad4064]

And I think mine will be "Sorry, If I ever bothered you".

[@lukeskywalkerjediknight2125]

xD

[@secondemail8242]

😂😂😂😂

[@Bianca-jr7du]

@Matt K LOLOLOLOLOL

[@potentialrizing1949]

@Matt K 😅

[@auroraslytherin3426]

Thank you for making this video, I really relate it so much and I just realised this is why my friends always use me TwT

[@mightymobtv478]

One of the best quotes that stuck with me about saying sorry is the more you say it the more it loses its meaning.

[@Elizabeth-eb9il]

Whenever I'm at a friend's house and I'm thirsty or hungry, I say hey, are you hungry? And if they say yes, we both eat, if they don't I just stay hungry, that's how shy I am.

[@makoaquest7756]

Mmmhmmm

[@abouttogiveyasomefacts5574]

I was taught not to accept food from strangers but I somehow included family lol

[@Noah-hx9oi]

@@abouttogiveyasomefacts5574 Same. Or if I'm walking somewhere and someone I know asks if I want to be dropped off somewhere I was taught to say no.

[@winshizuka7315]

BOI SAME I CAN RELATE🥺😭

[@jindora_thee_explorer7244]

That's adorable :( don't worry bun if I became one of you're friends I'd feed you every single meal I'd cook 🥺💜

[@sonia888]

"Don't over apologize" My mind: sorry This is what came into my mind when they said not to over apologize😅😂😐 I'm scared because I relate to them, not all of them, but most of them.

[@tanelivarila7723]

Yeah thought about the same too. But now you have self awareness about it, which usually makes it easier to find out what works the best for you.

[@MoonlitReverie]

I do the same thing! I can't help it It's really just my natural response Xb *Also I must add I love your Taiga profile picture*

[@boogalumpa7421]

The people better be lucky because we are super nice😃

[@sonia888]

@@boogalumpa7421 yes :)

[@sonia888]

@@MoonlitReverie thank you!

[@pixxa_time]

Thank you! I needed this video 😊

[@somepotato1743]

I totally agree with all of this, I feel like I’m covering my actual self because I try to be nice. And I’m too nervous to say how I actually feel, and when I do it’s extremely hard to do so.

[@archieb1]

"Are you contantly putting others before yourself?" Yes. My therapist said that's called self-abandonment and that it can be solved by setting boundaries for myself. I may be too nice for my own good.

[@brandonmartinez9447]

Oh damn. Hearing the name makes a lot of sense. It's great to be positive, but TRUST me, not only do you burn yourself out, your positivity will run out quick and SOME people around you probably won't know what to do. I suggest planning at least 2 things per day for yourself. It doesn't matter what it is. Good luck!

[@graciekerr3137]

✊👏

[@LadyKay9190]

I’m glad you’re seeing a therapist and being honest with them. May you continue to make strides towards being healthy. ♥️

[@ashgarden5863]

Waaait is that bad? O_o

[@LadyKay9190]

Ash Garden no. It’s not bad

[@collinsolanrewaju9283]

I was like this before and that's why now I'm dealing with anxiety... Being too nice is not good for the mental health.

[@hannahshilen5941]

🤧🤧 same and i deserved it. because i was too coward to ask if i did the decision making very bad or just 🤧

[@deliveryguyrx]

Agreed.....it can drive you fkn insane!!!

[@stardust942]

So true :(

[@tehreemfatima4225]

Same, My friend is dealing with extreme anxiety and she is too nice I mean TOO nice to the point that she does assignments of her best friend. ( I'm not her best friend).

[@cytrixchannel6956]

Same and I agree to that.

[@flodavis1561]

Thank you! Your videos help me so much

[@anahita974]

Sometimes we only need someone who listens to us, every time someone is upset I hear them discuss their problem and i talk less listen more, but when I used to talk about my problems, the other person turned the conversation to how THEY also relate to it and this and that.... and again start talking about themselves and their problems OR they start making jokes or change the topic to “cheer me up”..... When I used to tell my parents they called me emotional and sensitive, so I don’t talk about it anymore and here I am....

[@salalal7491]

“You say sorry too often” Ya, that’s true, sorry- wait-

[@salmaramy1888]

happens alot sorry

[@jakeofalltradesmusic]

PsychToGo: Do you find yourself displaying any of these? Me: ALL. OF. THEM.

[@Lena-xy3kz]

FR ME

[@lunaeaetherias5765]

100%

[@-goldenflowertea-]

Same

[@graciekerr3137]

😭✊

[@devidaughter7782]

when I stopped saying yes to all her requests of me, she stopped calling me. the thing I had feared - of falling out of her 'good graces' - happened. its hard to see how someone I liked and admired so much, wanted me only for how I could benefit her, and when I was no longer providing free supports for her, she no longer showed any value for me. this was SO painful, and is still.

[@stuartmorgan6271]

Thank you so much for your videos and content, you cannot possibly imagine how much your videos have helped me through so many different issues, I absolutely adore this channel, thank you so much, Amanda your voice is so calming and soothing it just makes me feel so relaxed and especially with the excellent content you show, I can never thank you guys enough for doing what you do

[@silverleaf15]

Omg I’m horrible at setting friendship boundaries. I either give out too much of my energy to help everyone or isolate myself and don’t talk to anyone at all lol 😂

[@SS-ci8yk]

Same same

[@leannemicallef2593]

Samee! 😂

[@wonyo1086]

samee

[@elsavillarreal7952]

I relate to this sooo much.

[@christensession3458]

Relatable.

[@rehanashaikhomaar6081]

Thank you for bringing out these points as I'm all guilty of these. But thanks a million to make me aware. Now I'm wise and ready to set healthy boundaries. Thank you , x.amillion🥰👍

[@SAM-dm5qg]

Thank You For Sharing ❤

[@icelemon6085]

I used to be like this. I went from that to a more confident person. Learn to love yourself and you'll come to see you have more worth than you thought. Voice what you need and want, you know yourself best, so don't make yourself your enemy and be the object of your objectives.

[@rainadatkween7959]

Thank you mr. FBI agent :D

[@christianpatrickfernandez62]

FBI peeps been depressed lately.

[@justfair4882]

We'll good

[@Megaman-kk1lu]

Well said💪💪

[@zwoz1574]

• FBI AGENT • same

[@zwergz1122]

Sign #9: when everyone from your family to your friends and coworkers say you're too nice, people thinking you have some underlying motive for being nice when you're just being nice because it's who you are, not because you're trying to gain trust easily.

[@damara5618]

That is literally me

[@justfair4882]

Sign # 9 ? ONLY 8 SIGNS FOR THIS TOPIC.

[@Marciav12]

What a great video!! I fit most of them and agree that people take advantage of me often and I get angry. I've discovered this trait earlier am working to make myself happier. Thank you for reminding me how to say no and be stronger.

[@Canadian_Girl27]

I love this so much!

[@skiddoodle7935]

“ Don’t over apologize. “ Me: * sweats nervously and quietly sits in the corner crying *

[@Fedrone]

•djwolfpack9 • them: "oH My gOD aRe yOU CryInG aGAin ?!" Me: "I'm sorry, I'll clean your whole house and buy food just don't stop being my friend, I'm lonely af"

[@InshasChoice]

There there, apologise if it makes you feel better

[@Bruh-bb5tn]

The Canadian life

[@lna_tch095]

The problem is that when I take care of myself first I feel selfish and arrogant 😅😭

[@haneenasad]

SAMEEE ☹️😭

[@randomtoasty]

omg saaaaaame here

[@bottled_unicorn]

Me too

[@edv15]

Wy ??

[@bottled_unicorn]

@@edv15 because we're all selfless. We take care of others before we even think about ourselves. So taking care of ourselves first is foreign to us.

[@kitsune_hikari441]

I understand now, thank you!

[@RamonChiNangWong078]

Thanks for explaining all these points on what makes a "nice" guy