7 Signs You Hate Yourself

[@Psych2go]

Hi everyone! Do you unintentionally hate yourself or know someone who does? We to all some extent lack a bit of self love, so that's why this video is made to help us recognize times when we may not be doing ourselves a service. If you resonate with any of these signs, know that you are not alone. We can only grow when we are self aware. Quick favor! We're launching a channel that makes our content more accessible in Korean. But on top of that we will be doing movies reviews from a psychological perspective. If you're interested, do consider supporting us here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hHyvnJ2Kj5Kpr8U on BPD. We have the English subtitles too!

[@TBSG707]

Nice

[@Bobby_mc52]

I hate myself but not unintentionally

[@frontallobotomy03]

I still can't tell I'm wondering if I'm in denial or not

[@mariomaster101official]

I hate myself and any version of myself after oct 20th

[@TBSG707]

@@mariomaster101official what happened on October 20th

[@Poyhrulu]

When I get confident about myself, it disgusts me that I felt like that.

[@moodybash7334]

Same. I feel like I shouldn't. But sometimes I wish it to be like that everytime, so that I can be true to myself

[@moodybash7334]

@Phoenix Wolf ikr? And then talk about why we hate ourselves then help each other out

[@ollienang7253]

I get that all the time or more so that i feel my problems are insignificant in the larger scheme of things.

[@rangeofthem00n45]

Who doe QwQ I'm very confident and Happyyyyy UvU I hate sadness I would murder that emotion if I seen it . I actually wouldn't murder the emotion sadness I like it cuz well in Anime it's so dramatic and in movies it's also dramatic :))

[@endergenesis2618]

I mean there's group therapy, meeting random people on the Internet is probably gonna get someone killed like it or not

[@midori58]

the worst part is that I am 100% self-aware of all these things, yet I still do nothing about it.

[@applesource8261]

And I will get annoyed when someone tells me that I may have a problem or even gives me suggestions on how to get better. And I am 100% aware that this reaction makes absolutely no sense. Maybe thats just another symptom we have.

[@harper6032]

It's like you hate yourself so much you don't feel like you deserve to get better, so you don't try to get better. But at the same time, you feel awful and want to get better, but you did this to yourself anyway so you deserve the suffering, and on and on and on goes the never ending cycle of hell

[@mirkohoble]

@@harper6032 jajaj yes, that's exactly the whole problem!

[@Mansi_19]

Same story Bro😶😶

[@noimdirt]

Same, like it says in the video I feel like I don't deserve happiness sooooo

[@liscan8978]

Whenever someone compliments me, I feel like they're lying

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

they may be right in some aspect

[@quantumslime7265]

I am wary of compliments not for that reason but because i think its only a matter of time before they start to hate me or become disappointed in me.

[@scissorluv4583]

When ever someone compliments me I feel really awkward and I tell them if they are serious,then they reply with yes and then I feel depressed cause I know they're lying

[@phintrobopsphintrobops132]

What’s that

[@mitskisson]

Y’all are getting complimented?

[@nathanielfrancisco9768]

1. You tear yourself down - true 2. You feel insecure around others - true 3. You neglect your self-care - Kinda 4. You don't let yourself be happy - true 5. You isolate yourself from others - very true 6. You put on a facade for others - true 7. You're afraid to dream big - not true I feel like my self hatred comes from how useless I am as I person. I could accomplish whatever I want, but it won't matter if the two people I love suffer. I'll continue to hate myself until i've achieved more important goals.

[@Ur_so_skibidyy]

Your not useless I promise ❤❤

[@tuckernutter]

Similar struggle, but we can't give up.

[@himi513]

Very true for each point

[@shadowclaws2250]

​@@Ur_so_skibidyy Are you sure about that

[@Ur_so_skibidyy]

@@shadowclaws2250 yeah

[@oiradzenitram]

It’s not a coincidence that this was recommended to me.

[@Psych2go]

indeed.

[@s5.bryant]

@@Psych2go 😂😂

[@omokaede]

Yep

[@mariomaster101official]

Here before this comment gets 1K likes

[@bibule]

I just got the notification

[@domenicaa.2055]

It's really sad how we can be really supportive with everyone, but harsh with ourselves.

[@lenie447]

I agree with you like no one knows that from the outside I may smile or look happy but inside I'm crying and just want to die

[@mauriciofreitas3384]

@@lenie447 so true

[@Finalizor]

i couldn't agree more

[@kerayupp]

@@lenie447 this is such facts. And I'm scared to tell my mom

[@maxbunting8996]

Yeah, I just put on a smile and try and make everyone else happy. I don't want them to feel the kind of internal pain I do...

[@JamPirateTrue]

"You put on a facade because you hate the real you" I feel called out.

[@artstudentwannabe]

same 💀

[@fearthetoast]

me too 🥲

[@rickshaw6271]

Yeah, it stings.

[@khyati404]

its at69 likes let me ruin it

[@freckles3100]

Same

[@JustaPotato-ee2sc]

I wanna give everyone who feels this a warm long and big virtual hug

[@Coolkrobird]

😢actually crying

[@dynamicgamesyt3]

i decline but thank you

[@gigatombstone7773]

Thank you for the offer, but you deserve it more than I do.

[@brianadean9066]

​@@Coolkrobirdsame 😢

[@FriendThebluesheep-e2j]

🫂

[@yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520]

Okay, KZbin, it’s starting to get personal now.

[@gargiraj77]

Incredibly personal

[@peepuwu2354]

too personal 😭

[@its_mya1267]

Agreed, but I don’t mind lol

[@dimbxr]

unbelievably personal, youtube.

[@artiv117]

So its true that you all got on recommended?

[@rachelcantread7001]

I didn’t need a sign that I hate myself. This is just the cherry on top

[@Finalizor]

same lol........*crys*

[@francescaa8331]

You already know what's going on. Learning to love yourself can be a project, but it's worth it, hope you can find some good advice here on KZbin.

[@Yourhopelessbookworm]

Ahahaha can relate

[@Finalizor]

@•Honey Potter• thx lol

[@lavstoybox]

@•Honey Potter• Nagitoe but actually •Honey Potter•.. I like it.

[@Syn]

it all start from clicking this video

[@astupidperson3464]

Bruh 1 minute ago

[@arcsyn6379]

Your nick is what i use usually lmao

[@lock5171]

bruh 6 days ago

[@lock5171]

btw legend sy verified people never reply to people in they reply to they comment

[@lucifermorningstar3637]

uhh

[@benji89917]

I ABSOLUTELY HATE getting any kind of compliments.

[@Hexarius01]

I don't get those often (once yearly at best) like that time it happened was 2 years ago, because some girl told me that my wallet looked good (i tough it wasn't directed to me, but apparently she did talked to me)

[@misery7897]

1. You tear yourself down - ✔ 2. You feel insecure around others - ✔ 3. You neglect your self-care - ✔ 4. You don't let yourself be happy - ✔ 5. You isolate yourself from others - ✔ 6. You put on a facade for others - ✔ 7. You're afraid to dream big - ✔ Damn, first thing I got perfect score from.

[@cshuffler232]

Oh damn bro

[@clarefernandes5955]

honestly its the same for me too

[@darkrider189]

fr 😭

[@欧清波]

🖐 high five

[@Ilikebread879]

Savage self-burn - ✅

[@eiffel108]

The weird thing is I get so happy seeing others being confident about themselves and will always go the extra mile to hype people up but I’d never do that for myself

[@sawyerkirby8988]

And hello my clone 🤣

[@nobodycares3959]

same

[@SVT_sleeper_4v]

Yeah that's me right there!

[@kingcoins3391]

Same

[@imFxnrir]

I hated myself. I never wanted to be happy. And I would never change that till I die. I never want to care about myself *FOREVER!*

[@배슬기-r2t]

“She hates her life, not because it was bad but because when you hate your mind and your body it’s hard to enjoy the rest” :/

[@sarau2034]

euphoria😭❤️

[@cadence4674]

The fact that this is so true-

[@Luffy-Taro]

@@sarau2034 i didnt expect that lmao

[@whoswhoo]

But you can change how you think about yourself you can learn to love yourself . Dont compare yourself to others thinking I wish I looked or behaved etc like them .learn to accept yourself that you're ok as you are and start with little steps towards positive change ...

[@youmatter8138]

You are beautiful

[@abbypaulwalker07]

as someone who’s autistic and feels insecure everyday, i can confirm that this is true. since i was 11, my parents got divorced and i had to see them back and forth every day and week, and it’s tough. i was a happy child back then, now i feel scared, and alone. i don’t know what to do anymore. i expect tears in my eyes everyday, but they don’t come out. sometimes i feel emotionless. but i know everyone that tries to do everything for me are amazing people, they do the best they can to help me feel secure and joy everyday and im grateful for that ❤️❤️❤️ god bless from sunny florida 🌴❤️

[@sarahiari]

your language skills are perfect

[@abbypaulwalker07]

@@sarahiari thank you!! :)

[@izzyk6388]

Why is your comment exactly me but the only differences are that they divorced before I was born and idk if I am or not but I'm pretty sure I'm autistic but I do have combined type adhd and anger issues

[@abbypaulwalker07]

@@izzyk6388 you might be autistic cause i have anger issues too and that's okay, cause we are all different and that's a beautiful thing :)

[@izzyk6388]

@abbypaulwalker07 ty, but do u know why people always say the complete opposite of what they mean it's so fucking annoying 😒

[@feroltra9340]

1. You tear yourself down 2. You compare yourself to others 3. You neglect your self care 4. You don’t let yourself be happy 5. You isolate yourself from others 6. You put on a facade for others 7. You’re afraid of dream big

[@willgamer0849]

The only thing I don't do is comparing my self with others, The rest I do them all.

[@peculiarduckmaster1778]

Wait- everyone doesn't do this already!? Wait I though it was normal? 💀

[@kaztheterriblecommenter3229]

@@peculiarduckmaster1778 oh yeah it's normal don't worry people are just a bit more depressed since covid-19 like you so don't worry about being different

[@tuisuki]

oh no ; ;

[@HFAdelto]

I think i don't do 6. Well it depends of your definition of a facade. My friends know that I hate myself and/or I am depressed but when I'm around them I'm trying to go along with everyone's mood and not embarass everyone with my state of mind does this count as a facade ?

[@theimpossibros39]

1) You tear yourself down. ✅ 2) You feel insecure about others. ✅ 3) You neglect your self-care. ✅ 4) You don’t let yourself be happy. ✅ 5) You isolate yourself from others. ✅ 6) You put on a facade for others. ✅ 7) You’re afraid to dream big. ✅ The test result are ready. You were right.

[@randomfollower1931]

Same here! :) I just don't think I'm important or good enough XD I'm just wearing a mask hiding me

[@C0wp0ke.]

Yeah same..

[@this_channel_is_dead_3660]

Same lol but can anyone tell me how to fix this ? XD

[@biggestfan-lw2pr]

Heck

[@ftintin1]

Hey! It's my personality!

[@hxneyoats]

This entire video really said: “this you?”

[@SEHLACE]

My response is: yes.

[@darkfame1499]

What's the name of your profile

[@Imsomeloner]

Everything except the 7th

[@hxneyoats]

@@darkfame1499 it’s “hxneyoats” the hxney part means honey. so just read it as honeyoats. I just thought it would look better with an x. I hope that made sense lol😭

[@insertusernamehere8575]

Who dis

[@CoperXYZ]

This might be the most calm comforting voice I’ve ever heard

[@Hexarius01]

true, but what she says hurts me ):

[@agfromtheeast4456]

you know sometimes i wonder how does it feel to be someone who loves themselves and or like genuinely happy

[@lasvegaslincoln1769]

Me too

[@olafgurke4699]

It's a mystery, ain't it?

[@DisturbedGeneration]

Pfft. It's about a big a mystery to me, as what's beyond death is to science..

[@bedheadren7893]

Oml, same-

[@akaiyukihana]

Seen that kinda person tho... They're like a different specie...

[@leahfenn9558]

I *know* I hate myself, I'm just fact-checking at this point

[@sofiamarielsantanadavalos444]

Lol same

[@itz_unknown924]

same

[@NorielBenMiel]

Same

[@kzzra]

same

[@death_thatsme2128]

same....🥺💔

[@finnishsniper2958]

“You isolate from others” It’s not that I hate myself, I just hate people

[@aubree7524]

Honestly tho 😂

[@lenoremunoz2407]

Haha this deserves more likes

[@bringmethatcoffee5235]

Or love. You know. XD Bc Corona.

[@MeemahSN]

Very true, very true

[@chrisbova9686]

Psychologists are stuck trying to take any action to protect yourself from society as a flaw in yourself, not the society that is perverse.

[@shad0w.0n.pawz00]

y'know what hurts most? when you relate to all the signs.

[@The_silly_uza]

Yep-

[@showedits2062]

i’m straight up embarrassed to around anyone bc i feel like i’m too ugly. i hate when people say nice things ab me bc i feel like they are lying but if someone says something bad about me it lingers with me constantly.

[@NorwayWarrior]

Same! This girl says I'm cute when I blush and think she's just saying that to tease me. But when someone jokes about my face, I think about it for MONTHS.

[@iamagirl9938]

I had this friend I've never fought with, but once I made a joke that made her uncomfortable and for the first time in my life I heard her raise her voice, and I was the only person she yelled at. A part of me knows she is still my friend, but another part is always eating away at me because I did something to make her yell at me when she had never yelled at anybody. A part of me can't stop but think I don't deserve her friendship.

[@avennie6356]

Fr everytime I go outside I get so uncomfortable, nervous and very insecure to the point I cant focus and almost got ran over. I appreciate people saying kind things to me but I feel like their only saying this in pity because they feel bad for how bad I am lol.

[@Anobluu]

Same...

[@chloegilbert6336]

@@iamagirl9938 i bet your friend forgot about that lol we are always so critical on ourselves. sometimes if you think of yourself as a friend you’d be like “oh I would forgive them”. like we are really our own enemies

[@ottakilla9707]

I knew I hated myself, but I didn’t know I hated myself to the point where I relate to absolutely every point in this video

[@lul3093]

Absolutely "hate" myself but I can just cover it up with "Every person might differ from each other but at the end the grave is all we get"

[@NotRuyaki]

I relate to this video by 80% i hate myself alot :/ but i dont isolate myself

[@ilikeice450]

Same bro.. Ahahahhaah- sobbing

[@arianne1206]

Same 😗🤚

[@florence.066]

relatable

[@kahokohino8573]

i'm not even joking when I say that this video has literally summed up my whole life

[@hopefulfox4931]

mine too

[@Mar-rg1cq]

Same

[@goodmusicman5254]

Amen

[@damian8267]

Dang

[@ClayLud]

I think A LOT of people feel the same way. Hell, ALMOST EVERYBODY, if we were to truly admit it. That's why life is such a challenge my friend.

[@Tuck149]

When people compliment me like “You’re really good at ___” and I WANT to be happy about it, but instead I say/feel like “Thanks, but I’m really not that good”

[@Gues21ng_tpwnn]

It’s like what they always say: “you can’t kill what’s already dead”

[@Michelle_Zeus003]

FNaF Afton family vibes..

[@rainobi5346]

"You can't kill me, I'm already dead inside"

[@michellenichols1190]

Aka, my self-esteem

[@BlueRGuy]

You can kill a zombie though

[@SunBug12]

yep

[@gardnerfrost2198]

I hate the fact that I hate myself but I can't do anything about it because I feel like I deserve it.

[@pluto3194]

I feel this comment. I hate myself but feel bad that I hate myself, especially if I mention it because I feel like I'm doing it for attention and that I'm not worth worrying about.

[@kenemesay]

@@pluto3194 this is why I don't tell anyone about anything about myself

[@zulaikhailhamm]

I hate myself and I feel sorry bcs I feel like I’m being unfair to myself. But I think I deserve it. So yeah

[@plumpushenchman8871]

@@solux902 Yeah, I feel good about my hatred for myself too...I know that’s bad but who honestly gives a crap?

[@sanariyadilman1114]

Hating myself has became so much of a habit it feels normal at this point I do it because everyone has worse and I deserve it Everyone else is more popular than me because they aren't overrated unlike me Everyone else is more talented than me Etc

[@keirabrogan8303]

Whenever I talked to my friends about my problems, I instantly regretted it, because I knew it was uncomfortable for them and I was putting too much pressure on them to help me. I know I'm not good at lifting someone up with my words, so I feel awful for not being able to help them in return.

[@alexdaniel5641]

if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help

[@kennethmeyer3961]

I didn't read all of it but it sounds more to me like you need to rethink who your Friends are if your friends care they care and they want to listen they want to be there to help

[@mrdino3050]

@@alexdaniel5641 Some problems aren’t temporary my guy

[@mrdino3050]

@@kennethmeyer3961 True

[@treble_exists]

Well , I understand that and it's really sad . There r many people out here who support u . If it gets 2 overwhelming, feel free to talk about any of ur problens on these comments 😁

[@baklavabelle]

I used to feel this way so much in my early 20s. I look back and regret not turning my life around sooner. 10 years later, I'm in a much better place. I feel more grounded, I've accepted who I am, and realize that I'm not always perfect but I don't need to be. I dont need to please anyone but my own self. For the first time in my life, I like who I am.

[@chickennuggiechan4851]

Crying while watching this I honestly don't wanna be here anymore but that one comment that said "KZbin its kinda getting personal now" made me cheer up

[@janblau4839]

Same

[@nuggets4357]

Its going to get better God loves you and will never leave you trust me ❤️❤️❤️

[@nuggets4357]

@@janblau4839 its going to get better trust me my friend God loves you and Will not leave me or you or anyone ❤️❤️❤️

[@accountabilityisadmirable]

Hope your feeling better. 🤗hugs

[@Alex-kn4gk]

I love how it’s the comment above you lol

[@Unscather]

"You think they're better off without you." I related to the full list, but this hit the hardest. Like you get a strong feeling that they would be happier and more free if they didn't have to worry about you.

[@twistoffate4791]

Yup, pretty much. People always let me down & then get mad at me if I point it out. That's when I know I have no true friends & people would rather I be gone.

[@koffee.kookie]

And they will.

[@bradoncrandall6840]

My whole life in a nutshell, I am a waste of space and I know it. My only option is to slowly withdrawal so I don't disturb their, "peace."

[@teirusureynard9279]

Same.

[@TheAsianKiwi]

Well I cried when I watched the video because I relate and I don't want to relate, but then I cried when I read this too Unscather, ur comment hits so hard

[@mouhousilhem5156]

“You're not comfortable letting other people help as you feel your problems are yours alone and you deserve them” This explains a lot actually, I thought I just had trust issues that's why I don't open up to people even if they’re close to me

[@14yr]

Not accepting the compliments but holding in the criticism is the most relatable thing I’ve ever heard. I started crying when you said that.

[@spaceflight1019]

Because my old man once told me that no matter how good I thought I was there is always someone better than me?

[@grqndecat9862]

@@spaceflight1019there could be, but that doesn’t mean your accomplishments aren’t valid

[@spaceflight1019]

@@grqndecat9862 Thanks for the encouragement, but when I look back at my "accomplishments" all I can see is a lot of obsolete equipment and things that aren't there anymore. Nothing lasted. Let me give you the "road map"... Cheswick Power Station 2013-2021: currently being demolished. Elrama Power Station: 2008-2013: demolished in 2023. Space Shuttle program: ended in 2011. Orbiters in museums. Process Instruments: 2000-2008: sold and moved. Westinghouse Instrument Service Company 1983-2000: sold to Siemens in 1998, shuttered in 2005. US Steel Homestead Works: 1978-1981: Long gone Westinghouse Electric East Pittsburgh: 1978: Long gone. Union Switch and Signal: 1977: Long gone. You see, there is no place for me to take my grandchildren to and say "I used to work there." I could focus on the minutae, and delude myself by thinking that what I did made a difference while I was working there, but if I had truly made a difference those places would still be there.

[@vegetablesoupfortheteenage1167]

🤗

[@vaibhavagarwal4637]

My mom told me specifically that my brother is better at me than everything

[@luxyn528]

That part when she said "you stay back, because you feel like they'll be better of without you" is actually true for me. I feel like my energy/ vibe or whatever is only bringing my group of people down and making everyone feel weird or awkward so thats why I prefer to be the least participative or just separate myself so that they can actually have fun and be chill

[@davebrenner7347]

Yea, I totally feel that too. But the rational part of me knows that sometimes how we feel about some things are not what they are. But then feelings and rational thoughts do have their differences :/

[@luxyn528]

@@davebrenner7347 i think being rational is part of when we reflect about it. That can be after the situation or before the situation, but there's a high chance it will be a diferent story when faced with the social situation.

[@Noah_Existence]

Yea. There have been so many times we went out and I killed the vibe. Just feel like my presence is bad. Even my parents told me "you ruined today. We went out happy and you ruined it"

[@bbk6848]

Same...I make it uncomfortable for the ones around me...it's just hard to be ....its hard..no one understands.. I don't want anyone to understand either...it's just disgusting how my mind works...good vibes to you though

[@davebrenner7347]

@@bbk6848 Good vibes to all of you. But it's comforting in a way to know that so many people experience this too.

[@slinkyspore8935]

I actually cried from this, not because it makes me feel bad, but because of how true it is. This hits so hard, and yet it's so hard to fight this self-loathing mindset.

[@duality2398]

I mean, aren’t we all? I, myself, have cried from this multiple times because of the same reason you have-

[@moosecaboose599]

im glad to see i wasn't the only one that cried while watching this. i want this life to get better but i don't even see myself as a person anymore i talk about myself in the 3rd person like im a character. i think about killing myself and everyday that goes by it seems like a better option. i like to think im better than people by being smarter but im not smart i like to think that so i have a reason not to talk to people but its because im empty uninteresting and awkward. i see extroverts effortlessly being charismatic and making people laugh and i just think to myself like oneday ill be like that but i know i won't

[@duality2398]

@@moosecaboose599 I really hope your life gets better, you seem like you deserve it

[@duality2398]

@@moosecaboose599 I’ll be wishing the best for you and many others who are stuck in the same situation as us!

[@MaraudersRevenge]

I can relate to this.

[@chadpeters7255]

I hate when the solution to things like this is “just live yourself”. But what if you really have behavioral issues and it not just you “needlessly beating yourself up“?

[@Coolkrobird]

Or ur brain is wrong so it doesn’t let you

[@awhataboutyou]

in fact, this is the only solution. you need to start loving yourself with small things - play sports and/or do exercises, take care of yourself, compliment yourself, eat healthy food, sleep properly, do not compare yourself to others, communicate openly, do not lie to yourself and others, be able to say no.. and much more. start with the smallest and continue to love yourself

[@kohji_y]

Finally a test even I can get full marks on!

[@mitchellbarton7915]

God, this actually made me laugh a little through the tears. I'm glad people with humor like you exist. Thank you.

[@vickigoguen9398]

😂. Thanks I needed that.

[@kohji_y]

Heads up to the both you above this, shit'll get better for all of us, eventually ♥

[@mitchellbarton7915]

@@kohji_y I made the sad mistake to give up hope and it led me down a dark path. I'm still slowly working on myself and piecing things together. I don't have all the answers, but at least with the internet; it's up, it's up forever. There will be that mark for everyone to see we tried. We can slowly become the majority of true empaths and see a world where no one will be misunderstood. Even if I fade into obscurity afterward, I can rest knowing I either helped ignite the spark of change; or I died trying.

[@coloradostatesenatorsteven7443]

@@mitchellbarton7915 pathetic

[@sophiee__]

"as a result, you isolate yourself to refrain from inconveniencing others with your presence." *this sentence literally describes my life.*

[@BJ-zd2or]

I actually have reached other people, and the result is push away and ignore. So my isolation is due too the fact not refraining, trying to be in the presense of others as the "right and correct" isolate others.

[@JHay-fn5mj]

I actually feel I'm a burden to my family,and i try to be perfect,but it never ever works...

[@JordanKalelOlds]

@@stargirl3459 you make me sick to my stomach instead of trying to manipulate people into a religion why not try to convince them not to hate themselves give good reasons not just lies....

[@heatherglover7789]

yup

[@heatherglover7789]

Sometimes I feel like I give too much of myself and start to sound either too big for my boots or on the flip side, too desperate for attention after craving it for so long. I hate to inconvienience someone, ANYONE even if they have told me more than once that they are there if I need them. It's just that by the time "I need you" comes around, often it turns out to be bad timing for them, so I don't reach out which then means that soon after I fall to pieces because I then suddenly go from feeling supported to feeling alone.

[@fellamcgee]

Me: “Huh, I guess I hate myself now” Also me: “Don’t worry I hate you too”

[@insertasmartusername]

I don't know what to say lol

[@IanRD277]

My subconscious: I guess that makes 3

[@nebiat5663]

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[@Lratiobozo]

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[@setapart2serveministries]

Lol.

[@aaronandroid9239]

The feeling I get when I look in the mirror is one of total contempt.

[@user-fm8jo9uc6l]

to summarize: 7 signs you may be suffering from self-loathing 1. you tear yourself down 2. you feel insecure around others 3. you neglect your self-care 4. you don’t let yourself be happy 5. you isolate yourself from others 6. you put on a facade for others 7. you’re afraid to dream big

[@riarising8630]

Thank you

[@ambursugar]

Thank you

[@resilententity470]

o shizz 5/7 definite yes's. At least on auto mode

[@alienishere002]

3, 4, & 5. I don't trust people.

[@somerandombug69isbusy20]

Lol how’d you know what’s on my resume

[@hash6680]

*Me who watches it anyway despite fully knowing how much I hate myself:* Just making sure- (Edit: I never realized I resonated with so many people, lol. I hope you're all doing well to do better and wish you good luck. Be nice to people and, well, live laugh love.)

[@taehyplant4160]

i hope you're better now!

[@nowie4007]

i wish life would get better for us!

[@taehyplant4160]

@@nowie4007 we all wish that 🥶 but it gets better!

[@asvuksi42]

Same lol, and there is literally no way to overcome this because it's a paradoxical situation where it's impossible to not want to hate yourself when you already hate yourself.

[@taehyplant4160]

@@asvuksi42 yea

[@YukioMH]

I've never been so offended by something I completely agree with. This was honestly touching.

[@saikii6349]

It is.

[@antwan7836]

Yeah I had to cry smh

[@89ksokd91]

It is offensive to watch if this is the result of psychological warfare, abuse or trauma. I'm seriously trying to understand how many people just naturally hate themselves without anything from external people causing it. It's against survival to hate one's self. I think this is the narcissistic narrative of self hate. Imo.

[@theymissmeagan]

Same lmfao

[@khumalo6619]

Well said

[@goldola1935]

I never thought I could reach this point in my life 💘. I don't even know what my emotions are anymore. I am busy battling narcissists every month 😭.

[@dawn6949]

You know my favorite quote," Nobody can hate you more than you hate youself."

[@tigerslikewater]

Yeah

[@tammid8423]

Hitler Seriously do I need to say more

[@havesabrpatience518]

@@tammid8423 no ya dont lol

[@red-headedabigail5794]

@@tammid8423 😂

[@ihatemaxx]

thanks dora

[@felynecomrade]

Anyone else pretty much immediately brought to tears by this?

[@camillesantana4610]

me, still crying

[@catzlove616]

Ya I just started crying in one part of the video 😢

[@darkblade69696]

iam

[@xoxo_radiohead]

this hit so personal I started crying

[@RepaApache]

Me

[@beckaronibean]

I'm a weird mix of absolutely hating myself and being totally chill with who I am. It's really freaking weird

[@thevilemac8743]

I'm learning self love but I haven't unlearned self hatred. Maybe it's like that?

[@beckaronibean]

@@thevilemac8743 I hadn't thought of that. Thank you!!

[@despacito2271]

It is man I have bad deeds I've done and regret I can't ever sleep but I accept what I've don't and try to move on but yet I still feel guilty

[@Darima2]

Same. I do my own thing and I'm very different for a female in many ways and I like many things about me. I think the occasional self loathing is due to childhood conditioning and not achieving certain societal expectations. It's confusing 🥴

[@bffforlifeandafterlife8764]

Yah like I tell people this how I am I'm proud and ashamed at the same time wtf

[@Rosewolf29]

That…hit home harder than I thought it would.

[@ameliakaiser9295]

I literally don’t remember what it feels like to love myself and I’m genuinely curious how people do it

[@mikepiccoli6378]

just realized i never have …every time i tried someone called me cocky and made me feel like shit

[@jout738]

It feels okay. Loving yourself makes you more intrested to have great sex and love some other people. I dont blame my body for anything, when nothing is my body fault and I dont blame myself also, when to hard situation in life to get was not my fault, when others screamed over me to tell how their always 100% right, so I never myself felt guilty in anything, when I had not any annoying childish prideful personality that made me do something to feel guilty.

[@laifyo]

same, like how do you not notice all the flaws in your body or personality and just ignore them- i dont think thats possible

[@takestwo8331]

I feel constantly feel like a doormat for everyone’s emotional need. I used to love myself but I don’t know anymore. I just sometimes have strong urge to just die so I don’t have to feel so much all the time

[@enjyali3359]

maybe start by complimenting yourself everyday when looking in a mirror. do it even if it feels weird or too egotistical.

[@boxpin8967]

Me throughout this whole video: “I feel like everyone does that... right?”

[@clammqwq]

Same F

[@unkownanon3098]

Yes but apparently no

[@laylamarin7211]

Same.. i hate myself :/

[@chibikenma]

I mean it's pretty normal in our generation but it's not supposed to be

[@boxpin8967]

@@chibikenma that’s true. A lot of people (not all) do feel these ways because of things like school or work

[@VunnyArts]

"You're wary of compliments or praise because it seems mocking." I literally didn't need to be called out this way--

[@PnPride]

I feel you, this whole video seems like my biography.

[@salimg9534]

@@PnPride I swear

[@micrhymer4062]

Maybe we all did so we can fix it, I know I want to feel better about my existence

[@hinatalovetonaruto]

Im wary of compliments they way they given to me. Instead of sincere i feel like the mocking me or treating me like a baby or incompetent

[@-Investia]

Hey, if you ever get lonely or need someone to talk to, respond to this and I can help. Smile :) it looks good on you

[@lunaguerrierhuman68]

1. You tear yourself down - kind of true 2. You feel insecure around others - true 3. You neglect your self-care - Kinda 4. You don't let yourself be happy - sometimes 5. You isolate yourself from others - I am an introvert 6. You put on a facade for others - true 7. You're afraid to dream big - not true how do I stop self hatred

[@Hexarius01]

for me : 1. yes 2. way too much 3. too much 4. yes (rearely leetting myself to be happy) 5. introverted (my muscle memory makes me automatically cold whit other when they try to talk whit me, even if i want to talk to them) 6. i actually never am myself, maybe a bit online or in bed when i'm about to fall sleep 7. well, kindoff, only big dream i have if leave this place to be somewhere where no one knows me so i work daily, get home and stay home till next work day

[@myaedentty149]

I always said, "I should love myself" but the fact is it's hard to love yourself when you have low self esteem.

[@Gatzucortezemmanuel357]

It’s tough… I don’t even think I’m deserving of any love, especially for myself.

[@phaedraremington6247]

My therapist had me write a mantra for myself. One that I need to say three times a day. I can tear myself down like a champ. If it were a sport I'd come in 1st place in my division. It is very awkward to say kind words for oneself but over time it's supposed to get easier. I do think it is starting to. If you choose to try it also start with something positive but not overly so you don't feel overwelmed. Something you will feel a little awkward saying but not something you find outlandish. Maybe something like, "I am worthy. I am worthy of love and affection. I am worthy of my love and affection." Use no negatives. Don't say, "I am worthy but..." Just use, "I am worthy..." I wish you nothing but the best. Be kind to yourself, even though it can be terribly hard. We can all get through this together. Have a beautiful night, dear. 🩵

[@Gigiinmylatinaeyes]

That’s what I feel, every time I try to say “I love myself for this” but every time I look at myself I just can’t disagree that I never like the way I put things, because after I’ll have to do more of it if it collapses

[@cadavercakes]

This.

[@sync2597]

It's impossible to love yourself when everyone else is so much more than you

[@nemuim]

“So when you look in the mirror, all you see is a haggard reflection, unworthy of love, and that’s how you like it.” This hit me harder than it probably should have..

[@thebestofthebest6233]

Same still does

[@flameingarrow]

when i look in the mirror i see a mess of a youtuber that cant keep a consistent schedule and hide themselves in public because o one will ever love them because all they are is a little brat and the world would be better of without them. but what do you see of yourself?

[@rookiedriver6672]

same, thats why i try to get away from mirrors

[@johnD1998]

Me too. How y’all doing?

[@HE4RTS4EM1LY]

I see a stupid ugly rat in the mirror ;(

[@MrJohnManiac]

The line at 4:23 hit so hard. "You isolate yourself to refrain from inconveniencing others with your presence." What a perfect way to describe my social life.

[@OrangeDragon04]

I know you expected this, but: Yeah, same.

[@pairofsocks0119]

Same

[@akshitagupta6015]

exactly like at this point idek if i'm an introvert who doesn't like people or i just hate myself too much to burden them with my company

[@AnOriginalBreakfast]

mood

[@SpiritOfHalloween31]

This is me in a nutshell. I nearly cried.

[@EagererShark]

I’m not lying when I say this, I was praying today and after praying I just got on KZbin and immediately this video was the first thing that popped up. Literally every single symptom that was named in this video is exactly what I’ve been going through for years now, and I know enough that I don’t need a doctor to tell me. My friends have been trying to help me get into different, careers, jobs, and etc. I still don’t want to accept the help because bro honestly I do not want anybody to see the real me because of the stuff I try to put down and hide about myself. God bless this video and the creator of said video because this helped me a bunch.

[@SadGirlNoceda]

me, watches "7 Signs You Hate Yourself" already knowing i do: me, after finishing the whole thing: wow, i didnt know i hated myself. i must say, i am surprised.

[@jennaabdeljawad9026]

bro same

[@julianocean1734]

You must be young? When I was a teenager or in my 20’s I was in denial. When I turned 30 I accepted the fact I deeply hate myself so now I am open about it. It takes time but at some point you accept the truth.

[@idkdem8667]

Me too

[@lordkremit6535]

Same

[@pinkfoxboi1331]

Honestly many of these r true for me and I didn't notice and IVe been doing self luv everyday but I guess it'll be a while till I finally luv me

[@kicksandtricks3887]

1. *"You tear yourself down"* 2. *"You feel insecure around others"* 3. *"You neglect your self-care"* 4. *"You don't let yourself be happy"* 5. *"You isolate yourself from others"* 6. *"You put on a facade for others"* 7. *"You're afraid to dream big"*

[@onlyvirly2c]

Great I hate myself.

[@sk1ttlz904]

I got everything but 7. Lack of 7 is what started this whole mess.

[@onlyvirly2c]

Mine are more of a 1 and 4 type problem

[@ethel1011]

Thank u for listing them like i didnt want to watch it again 💕😂😪

[@matea443]

I guess i hate my self ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@WhYnOtgAcHa]

"you think you don't deserve their love" I can relate to this 💯 This is actually true af I started crying idk why

[@AngelAdzayi]

i understand, you have all rights to be sad wfter hearing that..i can relate🙂

[@JuiceDaddy804]

You and me both😔i gotta fix myself😖

[@5tup1t11ii]

Yeah anytime I get a compliment it's just a "uh... thanks" from me

[@randommemeaddict249]

Sometimes emotions just come out of us. When I had depressive episodes that happened often. The important thing is that you let yourself express these things.

[@debeb5148]

I destroy love, so yeah I don't deserve it lmao and anyone like me here deserves the same

[@Arty-j7t]

Dysphoria, anxiety, and depression is a brutal line up. I swear god knew I'd be too powerful without all my mental disorders.

[@arcticwlfy6394]

“ I don’t wanna live but I’m too scared to die “ describes me all the way.

[@ICY-gd9bx]

Yeah

[@arcoiris890]

God loves you so much, he sent his Son to die for you, to pay for your sins, so that you can live. You are loved.

[@adamhernandez7183]

Yeah, that sentence hit a little to close to home for me.

[@7_7_5]

Same

[@Yumehana8]

Same.. :c

[@murcury906]

Finally, someone who knows just compliments won’t work.

[@GoldenUnlimited]

I know right?

[@NarutoUzumaki-pk7gb]

So true

[@deborahkarcher6123]

I think people give me complements but I don’t remember them.

[@fangservicex2964]

@@deborahkarcher6123 didn't think about it so much but now after reading your reply, I don't remember anyone giving me compliments either, even tho I know I've received atleast a few over the years. Yet I still can't remember anything, most likely because none of them were really true, or they were aimed at my false self, my outwardly appearance. I reject any and all compliments simply because I know myself, I know they are all empty words, even if the person meant them genuinely.

[@PandikawDraws]

My family always compliments me, but, it's just not enough...

[@sofyloaf]

FOR THE PEOPLE WHO JUST WANT THE LIST 1. You tear yourself down - quick to blame yourself, don’t commend yourself, too hard on yourself 2. You feel insecure when around others - you’re constantly comparing yourself to them 3. You neglect your self care 4. You don’t let yourself feel happy - you take others’ criticism to heart but don’t really take compliments 5. You isolate yourself from others - struggle to make friends because you don’t consider yourself good enough to receive love, you believe that your presence is holding them back 6. You put on a face for others - You hate who you are, you wish you were someone else 7. You’re afraid to dream big - it scares you, you think you’ll never be able to achieve them so what’s the point

[@rachelsimbhu4383]

You've described me to the T ! Thanks very much !

[@paulaliepark2230]

3, 5, 6 that describes me well, and as for 2 I could say half and half

[@NAMINE0306]

Yes to all of the above

[@_yellow]

_Inwardly harsh, outwardly forgiving_

[@aqmareesyaanuar4105]

All of those Match with me!🐻

[@eqwort8386]

I like watching these types of videos because of how much I don't relate to them anymore, it reminds me how much progress I've made in my life and how change is always possible. I am so glad I don't hate myself anymore.

[@Adailyy_]

"You don't sleep well" Me watching this at 2am : this is fine

[@shtrki8334]

me watching this at 4 AM: 🙂

[@putthatjellyinmybelly9698]

5:33 AM here..

[@shtrki8334]

@@putthatjellyinmybelly9698 it's 9 AM now and I didnt sleep all night :)

[@meganbowden8651]

i stayed up until 3 watching stuff, then i let my adhd take control, and danced until morning. beautiful.

[@architaborah4496]

Its 2:30 here

[@dlhsimon8404]

i’m tearing up watching this because u described everything i’ve done to myself

[@justdayana_]

Right..🙁

[@rayherver2572]

I'm with you, friend. I wish you get better.

[@spiritsofwolves]

They only described one for me so i guess i dont hate myself

[@isaacsaunders6843]

You're not the only one

[@rachaelhammond6069]

She just described me exactly

[@dia4805]

"I'm a blackbelt when I'm beating up on myself, but I'm an expert at giving love to somebody else."

[@awsomepeep]

This song actually gets me out of my negative mindset. Especially when she says “all the times I went and fucked it up, I wonder if I love me was enough?” It’s so true though! I feel like I self sabotage and tear myself down before I even try but I give everyone my love and support. It’s like “why can’t I take my own advice already??!!”😂😂😂

[@dia4805]

@@awsomepeep i know right! i feel like i always give advice, but never use that advice upon myself! 😂😂 i love that song, and i love demi :)

[@zayna8517]

No kidding I listened to that song the entirety of Quarantine cuz I related so much lol. My friends tell me that I'm great at giving advice and even if that's true, I suck at taking it. I truly wonder when I love me is enough 😂

[@RosheenQuynh]

This is an amazing quote

[@dia4805]

@@RosheenQuynh ahaha it's a song lyric from demi levato's song "i love me"!

[@polt3732]

I can’t even watch this video because as soon as someone starts talking about something negative like struggles, my trauma makes me want to watch something happy and I just can’t try to be happy anymore. *im just sad*

[@uatu3751]

I have absolutely zero confidence in anything about myself, and the world did a good job at making me feel like I'm right to feel this way. I don't know how to break out of it

[@manellemaiouf7389]

Same..

[@gooditwoshues3863]

One thing I've learned, is if you pretend to be confident, even when you are not, you will eventually grow accustomed to being confident and it will be easier for you.

[@d2heffz231]

Blames the world lol.

[@ImmortalChanger]

Same

[@ImmortalChanger]

@@d2heffz231 and is right

[@pufferfishparty]

I don’t feel like I hate myself, but I just don’t feel like a person...

[@xxshadowblossomxx2392]

I feel both

[@shuttfupupig2791]

Same

[@wantedapple144]

I'm the best and the worst.

[@xxshadowblossomxx2392]

I 20 percent hate myself

[@nope9592]

mmmm it's okay if you arent comfortable answering, but do you mind if I ask what it means to feel like a person from your pov?

[@deeprajadhikary]

I’ve never been able to take a compliment . Every time someone compliments me or my work, It weirds me out and makes me think that I don’t deserve it.

[@thunderdex9930]

I just say "thank you" in a very neutral way because I dont actually know what am I suppose to say

[@Williamafton197]

Man I dont even get compliments

[@hypersonic9394]

I try to give compliments to others in order to make myself feel better. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t.

[@NotbiasedJz09288]

I hurt myself even for just a tiny mistake. This is me. I don't dream big anymore. And I see myself failing on everything that I will do

[@himanshirehani6327]

The 7 signs are: 1. You tear yourself down. 2. You feel insecure around others. 3. You neglect your self-care 4. You don't let yourself be happy 5. You isolate yourself from others 6. You put on a facade of your face for others. 7. You are afraid to dream big. ( They gave so many signs..we didn't even see the signs..only swifties can get this 😂) Thanks for the likes ! Also it hurts me to see so many people disliking themselves...just change whatever YOU dislike about yourself..not OTHERS..♥️♥️♥️

[@multicreativeartist6579]

All of these are true except 7 because I dream every day of becoming a movie director

[@baphometwingsof666]

I have 1,2,5,7.

[@NickRHT]

I guess some of us really don't see the signs 🤷‍♂️

[@susux9558]

I got 1, sometimes 2 but it's getting way better, 4 (sometimes), 5 sometimes

[@feet71]

@@multicreativeartist6579 Same for me. I wanna be an engineer or soccer player but the rest are definitely true for me

[@atomicjunebug288]

"you're a pessimist who's quick at finding the negative aspect in every situation." wow. way to call me out.

[@breadmixer]

strongly agreed

[@gacha-muffin372]

She’s just trying to help..

[@theaverageone3809]

Hey it's not our fault this world has sucked since the beginning of time lol

[@rexeno]

Ikr

[@hidayatkhan412]

i searched for it

[@gmmicha]

I just broke down while watching this, I thought it was normal that everyone blames themselves for everything and is always insecure

[@CheezedOut]

It's okay just remember one thing you are loved 💓💓💓

[@kahokohino8573]

Same here, i've really hated myself since childhood coz i've always been aware about how my parents will never love me as much as they love my sister, and i dunno, it's like this video validated my thoughts even more and i just kinda internally crumbled

[@Merreth]

That's what I am wondering tho. Isn't it normal to a certain extent or are there people who can not even remotely relate to this? I'm so confused.

[@anniedick9699]

@@kahokohino8573 same

[@willbessent]

Please get help IMMEDIATELY. And I mean RIGHT THIS INSTANT! Please. 😢💔

[@fLoOr8008]

I commented on this a really long time ago. I didn’t remember that I watched it and I didn’t know how one day I just got better and I talked to someone, but I’m watching it and I realized I commented on it and I’m pretty sure this is how I knew I got better. Thank you

[@blxdyxlux8507]

“You hate yourself, that’s why you hurt others. You do it because you know the pain it brings you is far harsher than the pain anyone else can do to you” - Misato Katsuragi

[@Dipshit619]

Holy,its true me...

[@soldierbr8726]

ouch too true

[@digitalcthulhu143]

Noooo, not the eva references I'm not ready to begin to think about the ending again

[@KrazyKirbyKid]

Yep that is me I like to argue for some reason this explains.

[@soldierbr8726]

@@KrazyKirbyKid well are you sure about that? some people think arguing is fun or useful

[@swordsman220]

I've hated myself for as long as I can remember and I can't imagine ever not feeling that way.

[@anna-mx6qr]

Same

[@agentkirai]

Same

[@FrozenMermaid666]

Funny how they claim 'this video is made to help us recognize times when we may not be doing ourselves a service' but, it's when humans become entitled and thinking they deserve things they clearly don't deserve that they are not doing themselves a service, because they become an impostor wanting that which is not meant for them, and, it's a fact that the 🔥 is waiting for all imposters trying to steal my place after the system change -- the only humans that are not going to be severely punshd are the humans that stay humble and know their place and do not misuse my big terms/names/compliments and only weer suitable/simple cIothes and no high heels and no gold/jewelry/diamonds and no shiny/glittery/luxury/pretty/s3ksy stuff and no makeup etc or other unsuitable items (that are only meant for me) and that do not pluck/destroy flowers/trees/nature etc and the humans that do not try to date/steal moments that are not meant for them, but only for me...

[@FrozenMermaid666]

This type of videos are only misusing big terms and trying to get broads and betas to become more entitled, when it's perfectly normal for humans to h8 themselves and to know the fact that they do not deserve anything and that they should not want that which is not meant for them, but only for me the only lovable being -- all males subconsciously h8 womyn and all betas consciously or subconsciously h8 themselves, which is why they date/drill broads in the first place, despite the fact that broads are not date materiaI because they are not love materiaI, instead of just using their hand...

[@FrozenMermaid666]

And humans have no idea what love is, and what humans have is the exact opposite of love -- love is an absolute feeling that only exists for me the absolute being, and love can only be felt by my pure protectors aka the alphas for me only, myself being the only lovable/loved/lovely being and the only being who reflects big terms and compliments and the only being who deserves everything!

[@achamalucha8755]

I’ve never liked myself, from the way I look, speak, hear and move. Every time I look in the mirror I could never be happy. I don’t bother talking to anyone when I feel depressed because the people around me don’t like listening to me. I have a big family but none of them are comforting to me when I’m sad. It’s had because I’ve learned to hold in my feelings my entire life even though I know I should love myself.

[@stars.inmyhair]

Just in case you'd need a random person to talk to, I'll be here ÔuÔ

[@notforeverhere]

People will always fail you... But God is your heavenly Father who will never leave you nor forsake you, and you will never be alone as long as you trust Him

[@makakowsky7042]

I've always felt like people don't listen to me. Because they don't. Because the vast majority of us are terrible listeners. Which is why one day I chose be an active one. It changed my life.

[@uneelfe4021]

I don't like the way I look, speak, hear and move too. But my boyfriend do. And my friends. And they help me a lot to accept myself. Even if it's hard. In 2016, I was depressed, without any friends, I was all alone. Speaking to no one for days, for weeks.

[@herosama19]

What a coincidence that i holded my feeling because of a fucking girl i hade crush on

[@doggo3]

I have most of these. Thank you for bringing my issues to my attention. I will continue to learn from you. Thank you.

[@codstudz8051]

As bad as it is, this made me wanna cry. Never heard someone explain how I've thought and felt about myself for so many years.

[@mikotheraskum2014]

Same :')

[@muggy87]

U didn't cry? 😭

[@catracademon843]

To hear someone else vocalize so many points and disturbing thoughts is terrifying and relieving. It also helped me come to terms with it a little more and acknowledge I need help.

[@lillimationhi4922]

Same I almost cried at the realization

[@doublev4409]

Yep. I thought I loved myself bcz I think I'm awesome...but that's only one side of me. Every single word she said felt like a hammer to my skull...I wanted to push this video aside but I kept watching bcz if this is me I need to accept it now. Yep, I cried. It hurts because I don't have anyone by my side, and I now know a lot of it was my fault. Naturally, I'm going to readily accept that fact.

[@shilohsmischief]

I wish the phrase “I hate myself” hadn’t become so normalized. It’s taken away the weight in which you feel it. It is impossible to get help these days when you struggle with communicating your feelings

[@_aiko020]

this :(

[@JizzyF83]

You are enough

[@shilohsmischief]

@@JizzyF83 thank you ♥️

[@Fenthule]

100%. The issue can and often is, getting that help though. The hoops you have to go through sometimes is unreal. money can buy you an express route but many people struggling with these thoughts/feelings don't have access to those kinds of luxuries.

[@excusemeeeeimlachimolalasl9575]

Hey!!! I'm also facing this but, if you're comfy enough, you can share it with me..whatever your problem is, you can tell me...I'd be glad to make you feel better as I feel you 🙂🙂💜💜

[@AvocadoToast06]

This made me cry at the end. Every time anyone talks about 'loving yourself' I get really emotional, it sounds like such a happy and beautiful thing I can never get...

[@leorichard7955]

if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..

[@justdayana_]

Right ,just knowing I can’t get it makes me so sad🙁

[@daysyt9619]

same i can never get thing right

[@sydswakening6255]

Same here... 🥺

[@owen_lol2850]

Same here...

[@KaydenceChandller-f9n]

I had a feeling that I hated myself but this just makes it a fact

[@TheReneej19]

Cried through the whole things because it’s true. Thank you I needed this.

[@payepagua221]

Same, big tear spot in my pillow rn

[@shoomboom]

same, ugly crying all the way through...

[@annanishikinomio3060]

Same especially the one were you downgrade yourself really hit towards me

[@devil_duck2.048]

Yeah me to hope your okay tho 💕

[@amber1164]

Yep me too.

[@JustAWeirdo_123]

“What’s going on?” “I’m in this photo and I don’t like it”

[@seanbean5915]

Same thing with me,i deleted all of my pics of me on my moms old phone that she gave me

[@komapilled]

Litteraly me

[@zivakrasna3534]

no, I hate it. Its not just not liking

[@smilemar8272]

Same I don't have photos of my self on my camara roll because I always think I look ugly😊

[@IntheMOMENT22173]

When I first read this I saw, "I'm a potato and I don't like it" lol

[@twistedmarshmellows]

I can't believe we have so many people here who relate to this video... my heart goes out to y'all

[@aceflair7875]

Bruh it is what it is

[@RikaMiarunua]

Thank you, and I hope that you have hugs too. (If your the kind for hugs.)

[@ParrotsAccount]

thanks 👍🏻

[@BreannaLeanne09]

This comment is at 69 likes heheheheehehh😄

[@angieang26]

I must of hate myself too. Because I isolate myself and I like to dress like a homeless woman even though I'm not homeless.

[@Ashlego]

“I think you’re actually a really nice guy and just acting like you’re mean.” I never acted to be mean. I actually thought I was being nice holding open doors, picking up after people, and being honest, but I was actually just wasting my time being a people pleaser. That was that last “complement” I ever got and I’ve kept that living in my head for 6 years. I’ve hated myself since because I always think I’m being too mean by not helping people, yet at the same time, I don’t wanna come out as a people pleaser.

[@lilacywong1596]

I really envy my friends when they say "I would never change something of myself." Then i wonder what it feels like. It must feel nice

[@dragoncove5308]

I'm not sure that's healthy either.... having goals for growth is part of living. If you didn't want to change anything about yourself, then you probably are not looking at yourself the way you should see yourself. However, you should see these things as a way to grow, not inherent flaws in you. Learning to love yourself is also allowing yourself to grow. Allowing yourself to become what you think your 100% is.

[@pina4583]

I would say this is my case, as I would not change anything of myself or my past or anything not because its perfect, but because of the opposite, the imperfections made me who I am, and this is the starting point from where to build up from, making slight changes towards any goal in mind so as to become a better person, I hope some day you will be able to be comtempt with who you are and achieve anything you set yourself to do! Just one step at a time you will finish the marathon

[@debeb5148]

It's not always a good thing. I don't change myself because I can't change lol. So i'd tell you I wouldn't change myself

[@anastasiasmith2495]

the amount of money i would pay just to change a specific thing about myself is crazy

[@clairsmiley8053]

When I feel down I watch puppies on UTube

[@varshashaw3747]

Time stamps! 0:55 You tear yourself down 1:44 You feel insecure around others 2:16 You neglect your self care 3:02 You dont let yourself be happy 3:46 You isolate yourself from others 4:29 You put on a facade for others 4:55 You are afraid to dream big

[@jjspade81]

Mine originally came from external sources unfortunately. There's no way to heal from that if you're stuck with those people.

[@mkupity]

6/7. damn it.

[@kaylih5043]

7/7, fudge.

[@Vellinniix__]

6/7 uhm-

[@xuavrice2338]

God when it’s laid out like this it feels like you’re describing the way I feel about myself

[@georgettea7836]

I'm in my 40's but the voices of the 5year old bullies are still in my mind everyday ! I can't escape them.

[@Cahibonara]

I hope u get through it...

[@mssx2022]

Hi ....your living in the past. Let it go ! Time has moved on and U should too !

[@joelhc9703]

It's normal. They were not better than you not were you worst than them. We all are together in having, imperfections, flaws and weaknesses, it's shared humanity. Not even in how you felt are you different to the rest. You are not special nor are they. You are just unique and that uniqueness is what your anger tries to protect plus you feel guilty because you didn't meant to hurt or harm no one. Hope any of that helps.

[@georgettea7836]

@@joelhc9703 Thank you for your reply. Its not something I think about consciously. I came from another culture and in Australia in the early 80's I was in an Anglo culture. Of course I was strange to the other children. But as a child I couldn't understand. I don't think about it everyday but it affected my confidence. But it has given me empathy for those who feel isolated and are suffering. Life is hard but time gives you perspective and I am grateful that I am healthy and have a great family. Thank you for your reply. You are very wise and perceptive.

[@emerylsg]

this is why anti bullying is so important. shit like that sticks with you for years, or forever. they can quite literally shape who you are and how you see yourself. the people who don't realize this never experienced it

[@Khushehe.797]

This video explained me more than I could ever have explained myself.

[@dragondelsur5156]

Even if I am self aware of my own hatred, I can't get myself together. When I started feeling better about myself, I got back to square one and hated myself for my failures. I started believing that there's no point of loving myself or improving when I'm just destined to fail.

[@alexdaniel5641]

if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help

[@tomabarauskyte8393]

You're not a failure. It's okay to fail and learn the lessons. You are awesome and I wish you the best ❤️🙂

[@catsinwonderland7473]

Failure is a natural and important part of life. It doesn't mean you are horrible, it means you are human.

[@gliiitched4429]

@@alexdaniel5641 i can’t trust anyone, i feel like i’m using my friends as therapists, and my “”””””””family”””””””” is what helped push me into this mess

[@rominadavila7475]

@@gliiitched4429 Hi! It’s the therapist job to help people, they studied the human mind, so why don’t you just try? Good luck! 🍀👍

[@ouopa]

1) You tear yourself down 1:00 2) You feel insecure around others 1:48 3) You neglect your self -care 2:22 4) You don't let yourself be happy 3:05 5) You isolate yourself from others 3:50 6) You put on a facade for others 4:30 7) You are afraid to dream big 4:56 💕

[@naya-qw8gf]

Thank you ❤

[@Anonymousboredom]

Thankyou

[@undead_6662]

W-w-wait...... Isn't that normal tho?

[@yetanotherretroreview4476]

7 out of 7....ooof

[@ragecounterfit309]

3/7

[@meriac7204]

Me: clearly knows I hate myself Me again: **clicks video just in case**

[@yeongweunbi]

omg that's me lol

[@shuoyt3]

Bts annoys me so no thanks (no offense to bts just not my thing)

[@charlottedekievit3874]

@@btsbutter2405 I love them but unfortunately still hate myself

[@btsbutter2405]

@@shuoyt3 It’s ok as long as you respect them:) And I hope you have a nice day thank you☺️

[@btsbutter2405]

@@charlottedekievit3874 Try digging deeper into their message and try understanding them more.

[@leafyprogamer9681]

Damn, I thought I was too arrogant until I watched this... I thought I loved myself. Because I encouraged myself to do well. Now..? I realize that I was just manipulating my own emotions... Thank you... This video is a big help.