O.O B-But I am not an alien (mind: Oh no, Almost busted my cover. O.O)
@wesley-zl6gf3 жыл бұрын
lol
@DomiAnimations4 жыл бұрын
Here’s all the tips if ya want (: 1. Call them by their name 2: Give genuine compliments when they across your mind 3. Spend more time with them 4. You don’t need to be perfect, so stop acting as if you are. 5. look to the positive first 6. You actively listen and let others talk about themselves too
@aubrey03244 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@mellowblueu4 жыл бұрын
i actually hate my real life name. so, whenever someone calls me I think it's something bad. my name is cursed.
@lenovovo4 жыл бұрын
Thanks SuperRguy3000! :-)
@BrenAriTv4 жыл бұрын
:]
@venomg57994 жыл бұрын
@@mellowblueu awww. If you hate it that much, is there a nickname you can go by?
@ICEcoldJT4 жыл бұрын
“There will always be someone who can’t see your worth. Don’t let it be you.” 🙏🏽
@Dayserking4 жыл бұрын
We are our worst enemy 😔
@Kat-pb5lc4 жыл бұрын
@@Dayserking and our best allies
@arianacaro55794 жыл бұрын
Ouch
@juliakay74464 жыл бұрын
Too late....
@clarkmagdadaro514 жыл бұрын
My mum and my crush
@memor222 жыл бұрын
"people who are happier make people happy just by being next to them" that just warmed up my heart, i have never felt more confident being myself! thank you very much
@blankslate8002 Жыл бұрын
You rock!
@utube898 Жыл бұрын
You're awesome!
@Xx_TmTess_xX9 ай бұрын
You're the best!
@pranavgundale49619 ай бұрын
You're the bestest!
@nicoleonfeels4 жыл бұрын
Imagine shifting the narrative of “will they like me?” to “will I like them?” 🤔
@_the_priwinl_13744 жыл бұрын
Yes maybe I'll dont like them 👉🏻👈🏻🤣
@tommygunn69014 жыл бұрын
Yeah! That's a good way to approach that.
@loaf38764 жыл бұрын
@@thewriteinpresident wtf
@FriedFreya4 жыл бұрын
Ugh ikr ;-; 💔
@tohi17674 жыл бұрын
*Mind blown*
@booppow74973 жыл бұрын
Me when I was 5: Making friends with people. 13 yo me: not able to socialize unless someone starts a conversation.
@raccoon69973 жыл бұрын
Same
@mohammadabdullahi93083 жыл бұрын
Same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@lovelykitty423 жыл бұрын
starting a conversation is low key kinda hard
@azukichiu3 жыл бұрын
People are more likely to care about what others think of them during teenage years:) it's completely normal!
@MGrace-bu3le3 жыл бұрын
I have no idea what happened!! Same
@arandomyoutubeviewer36944 жыл бұрын
I like the fact that this is one of the few communities of KZbin that are non-toxic 😌
@NobodyQuio4 жыл бұрын
True
@womq4 жыл бұрын
yeah
@mercy31064 жыл бұрын
Ya I can name a couple others that are chill for different reasons. Moist critical, jshlaght. And every other comedian KZbinr. every thing is a joke. Dont recommend if you have e strong opinions about something. Cocomelon. Pink pong. And nursery rhyme makers. Most videos dont have commentary but the ones that do are mainly parents thanking them for helping crying children. And math related videos. Some teachers suck. So if you stumble across these guys they probably saved your grade.
@eddierayvanlynch61334 жыл бұрын
👍
@Scouse.raver14 жыл бұрын
Yes I've found too tho that the tropical fish keeping community on yt are very nice and friendly too check it out maybe best wishes to you and family 🙂
@amie33653 жыл бұрын
1. Call them by their name/say their name. 2. Give genuine spontaneous compliments. 3. Spend time with them/have a quick chat/develop familiarity. 4. You don't have to be or look perfect, nobody is perfect and people don't really care that much. Keeping it real may be more attractive. 5. Positives first, only show negativity when needed. 6. Actively listen, let others talk. 7. Be you!
@Ann9634 ай бұрын
Thank you! ❤
@LogicPsycho14 жыл бұрын
“At age 20, we worry about what others think of us. At age 40, we don’t care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover they haven’t been thinking of us at all.”
@Thegentechgamer4 жыл бұрын
i must be 60...
@mehmetgurdal4 жыл бұрын
Well I dont care and know that they dont care what the others think about me at all :D I guess I hit the jeckpot on the xp :D
@Exhilarate2454 жыл бұрын
True lol
@MF175mp4 жыл бұрын
I have skipped a good 40 years ahead
@Wingbar4 жыл бұрын
I’m 17 but apparently I’m 60 😂
@unicorncrafter30344 жыл бұрын
Introverts like me: *Write that down, write that down!*
@Commielyn4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@heemeen52024 жыл бұрын
There is a chance u might like me instantly because i read your comment
@potatoe13194 жыл бұрын
OK that was funny I'm a little introverted I'm social but I get burnt out easily and like my alone time I'm glad my school friends know that and let me be alone when I need it
@skone37914 жыл бұрын
yesyesyes
@kusuragikun37174 жыл бұрын
Why must you call me out
@cherriesontop12263 жыл бұрын
"The person you end up sitting next to might be your best friend!" Me sitting at the wall: Ok, good to know.
@makotonaegi76493 жыл бұрын
Walls are very loyal, they never leave! You'll have a best friend for life!
@cherriesontop12263 жыл бұрын
@@makotonaegi7649 me next year in a new class: so long my loyal wall, i will always remember you...
@blabbleblabble3 жыл бұрын
@@makotonaegi7649 omg it's you... Makoto... you're here
@IAmConsecrated3 жыл бұрын
@@makotonaegi7649 unless they get "killed" or the school was changing the wall or maybe they are constructing it to become a building or something
@slushyzack3 жыл бұрын
lmao this is so sad
@DJ_not_DJ3 жыл бұрын
If anyone else is like me and trying to change from an introverted person into an extroverted person in order to become more interesting to others and make friends definitely follow the tips about being positive and actively listening to others. These two have definitely been helping me quite a bit lately when meeting new people or even in current relationships
@curlyfriesss2380 Жыл бұрын
You don’t have to be extroverted to become more interesting :) I’m personally an introvert but I have made many friends as time went by you could say I’m a loud introvert, don’t change urself to make others like u, yes u can improve on yourself if you feel the need to but the best people come for the real u it’s great that the tips have helped u, but please please don’t change urself just to make friends sorry for this I just felt like saying it 😅
@KevinDuckworth-ov2pe Жыл бұрын
Exactly, being an introvert doesn’t mean you have to be bad with social skills or the like, it just means your personality and stuff is different, plus no one is really completely an introvert or extrovert of course
@vxnuex9365 Жыл бұрын
YESS FR THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IM DOING
@Gaytotoso10 ай бұрын
Trying to change who you are is just the stupid of stupid. You can improve on your flaws and try to change for better but why change the someone you took literally your entire life until now to build? You don't need to force changes, time will do it for you. What you're trying to do is to have a mental breakdown, I think you're not far from it.
@emmalabrador77903 жыл бұрын
"Call them by their name" Me, who can't remember names unless you tell it to me 10 times or made an impression: **chuckles** I'm in danger
@ayumimaxinerallos28243 жыл бұрын
(2) Amen.
@quipped-op5xh3 жыл бұрын
Why did i read it as the chorus for montero
@jumanahidris74323 жыл бұрын
It can help that as soon as they tell you their name, you immediately start using in around them :)
@emmalabrador77903 жыл бұрын
@@jumanahidris7432 Thanks, I'll do that next time I need to :)
@cansets16923 жыл бұрын
Agreed-
@mousegirl82863 жыл бұрын
How is no one is talking about how beautiful her voice is!?
@danishdubey3 жыл бұрын
who cares {POV: did I , a nobody ,just start a war in the comment section because of a hate comment. People truly have so much time to waste nowadays!! None can just ignore)
@akhmeth90703 жыл бұрын
Literally in every video there's some guy says : why is no one talking about the great voice ' Dude. YOU are THE one.
@catbarhitsugaya4223 жыл бұрын
Because- Society: *SIMP!!*
@shaigamer01393 жыл бұрын
@@danishdubey bruh her voice is calming
@TheStrongestBaka3 жыл бұрын
Voice of an angel, honestly.
@SamElle4 жыл бұрын
A compliment goes a loooong way! When someone compliments me, I’m happy the rest of the day and honestly I remember it for a long time!!! Compliments don’t come very often so when it does, I definitely cherish it
@tommygunn69014 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna guess that you like words of affirmation?
@sugarandpie91234 жыл бұрын
Gosh, that's the same case with me.
@SamElle4 жыл бұрын
@@tommygunn6901 mhmmm!
@SamElle4 жыл бұрын
@@sugarandpie9123 ya but I would say I’m pretty good at giving people compliments!!!
@tommygunn69014 жыл бұрын
@@SamElle good to know 😊
@savibanana2 жыл бұрын
A tip for #6: Repeat what they say back to them. This not only confirms that you haven't misheard anything, but also lets them know that you have been paying attention
@waveiiyt3 жыл бұрын
The “call them by their name” thing- i legit thought about this yesterday, when people call me by my name it makes me feel as though they care about and like me more so that makes me like _them_ more, its so true
@cyndigooch11623 жыл бұрын
Waveii I totally agree with you and this reminded me of my ex who didn't call me by my name, so I asked him if he knew it one day! He did call me bub, which I thought was a special nickname, until I found out that he said it to many women, even ones he didn't know. I'm so glad he's an ex now and I won't go into the many other reasons why that's the case. 🙂
@saswatmishra56443 жыл бұрын
@@cyndigooch1162 how in the world was he ur bf if he didn't even know ur name?!!
@benma22413 жыл бұрын
@@saswatmishra5644 she forgot duh
@birdboy10923 жыл бұрын
9 times out of 10 I just get startled when someone says my name. I am really really jumpy.
@shaigamer01393 жыл бұрын
I need to practice I just call my crush bestie bcs we r besties
@Jared-qu6eb4 жыл бұрын
As an introvert who struggles making friends, this is very helpful
@evlysian76704 жыл бұрын
while im here a introvert with too many people trying to be my friends or get close to me want to switch?
@noorsabah17664 жыл бұрын
Same
@marylu22164 жыл бұрын
@@evlysian7670 I was just about to say the same thing. I am also an introvert who attracts people and I hate it😄 Im not looking for new friends nor for attention from others yet the more I runaway from it the more it chaces me😕😂
@amirothmiredith5794 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Jared-qu6eb4 жыл бұрын
@Khunsha Mir aww thanks:)) I hope you have good luck with friends too!
@rustinstardust20943 жыл бұрын
I personally react to hearing my name in a conversation across the room as a survival instinct. I'm not flattered - I'm fearful about what they might be saying. I can't be the only one who feels this way...
@batgh0ul3 жыл бұрын
Nope, I'm with you there. It always makes me anxious to hear my name anywhere far from me, especially since my name isn't really a common one so it's most likely me they're talking about. Is it good stuff? Is it bad? Well I'll never know, I'm too shy to ask
@avamiller2413 жыл бұрын
Yeah this happened to me a couple days ago
@Treeckogeek3 жыл бұрын
TRUE
@wubgwhshb3 жыл бұрын
Same
@melonagbaby3 жыл бұрын
exactly it gaves me anxiety instead haha buit what about if it is your crush does that means he is tying to get your attention or just put you in the friendzone?
@ABiblicallyAccuratePigeon11 ай бұрын
Having ADHD makes it feel difficult to fit in But recently I’ve been watching a few of these videos and now I’m feeling much better about myself and made myself some new friends
@ComedicalBystander4 жыл бұрын
"call them by their name" me, who can't remember names at all:
@rosytellez214 жыл бұрын
I have this weird thing where I ask someone's name and I DONT LISTEN. so I can't remember. It's the weirdest thing. No matter if I'm aware and I try to listen I still don't.
@rowena76553 жыл бұрын
A little trick I learnt is after they say their name you repeat it in your next sentence like "I'm Connie" "Nice to meet you Connie. I'm Harriet" for instance. That way your brain registers the name properly.
@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl62063 жыл бұрын
I can remember names but when it’s certain people
@balmisia3 жыл бұрын
Me who can't remember what I did and hour ago
@DhrithionVocals3 жыл бұрын
@@rosytellez21 I can somewhat relate but when I ask people their name I pay attention but I don't hear what they said and I don't want to ask them to repeat it cuz it's awkward 😂😂
@hollowsongs35043 жыл бұрын
"We like our names" Everyone who dislikes their name: Am I a joke to you?
@im-a-mistaked77923 жыл бұрын
_when you get called by your dead name_ ;-;
@imeverywhere55183 жыл бұрын
Ikr, haha
@living_the_fun_life80683 жыл бұрын
My parents got my name from a hooters calendar 😬✌🏼
@subzeroissupreme33593 жыл бұрын
Dude the guy named Dick Thunder must love his name
@Gonelmfaogoodluck3 жыл бұрын
Lol me
@hilucy47474 жыл бұрын
I'm shipping Susi and Derrick they are cute as hell together 🥺🥺
@ananyanyan4 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@umii._.z00mii4 жыл бұрын
Yes 😭💖
@sameerakhan74554 жыл бұрын
Thank GOODNESS I'm not the only one. I felt I was being weird lol😂😅
@Pansotii4 жыл бұрын
Would'nt it be really cute finding Susi and Derrick in another Psych2go Video?😍
@peterellsworth9873 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss
@airtiger45772 жыл бұрын
As an introvert, I see method 6 as a win
@GummyDaCow9 ай бұрын
Same lol
@diane73714 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go: don't talk too much Me: doesn't talk too much! People: Why are you so boring??
@mellylivestreams20084 жыл бұрын
why are you so quiet im the only one talking
@KP-tm9ro4 жыл бұрын
That's one of my problems too 😞
@Pete...NoNotThatOne4 жыл бұрын
Beware the quiet man. For while others speak, he watched. And while others act, he plans. And when they finally rest… he strikes.
@ShivangiVerma114 жыл бұрын
Same with me....I'm a introvert.....usually a quiet person....I give people first chance to speak...but I think people don't want to be around me cause they think I don't talk cause I don't have any thing to talk...more like I'm boring
@minniemouse79484 жыл бұрын
@@ShivangiVerma11 omg same here.
@sal41133 жыл бұрын
When someone asks me. “So tell me about yourself”.... Me: *panics because I forgot who I am* uhhhhhh....
@neelmarisiddaiah6123 жыл бұрын
The amount of times this had happened to me I swear
@dragonsaway97103 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I'm not the only one
@mikasaackermann50803 жыл бұрын
Ikr. But I guess it's because the question itself is sooo weird. How am I supposed to know where to start and what to say when my knowledge of myself is so broad. It's a little like I have to spontaneously make a speech in class >.
@ameena7183 жыл бұрын
Fr, i Don't know who am I
@abi54313 жыл бұрын
Ikr how am supposed to answer that anyway? 😑
@SodaliteSushi4 жыл бұрын
This video: Sociopaths: *write that down write that down*
@laszlo92854 жыл бұрын
this, but unironicaly
@mindworms51814 жыл бұрын
Hi welcome to my school where everyone is a sociopath
@augwa56454 жыл бұрын
sToP PErSonALly AtTacKinG mEeeeEeeeeEeEEEEEEEEE
@melaniescribbles4 жыл бұрын
Don't forget the rest of the dark triad, you can practically hear them scribbling down notes in the distance.
@lemonwater71694 жыл бұрын
😂
@purpleperruche54332 жыл бұрын
It's pretty hard to improve my social anxiety but I'm slowly working on it and I see improvement. I changed my class at school bcs I was very unhappy where I was. People here are nice and friendly and my best friend noticed that I'm more relaxed now. I'm happy that I'm changing for the better and it's all thanks to my amazing classmates! I never had such nice classmates🥰I'm even afraid of the day we are gonna go to our own paths.. But at least I can anjoy the time we have left togheter🥰
@duchessofpotatoland4 жыл бұрын
I was literally acting out conversations with people in my head and how to make people like me more than I already am this video suddenly popped up lol
@Mikadiaries4 жыл бұрын
omfggg
@dooodette89504 жыл бұрын
Law of attraction! 😻🎊🙏
@islabuck84414 жыл бұрын
Me too
@RajeevKumar-og5ep4 жыл бұрын
I also do the same, acting out conversations in my head especially with my crush 😆😳
@amnbvcxz86502 ай бұрын
Are you a couchland potato? 😅 We need to go outside sometimes
@artsdesire71203 жыл бұрын
I’m not here watching this not just to make new friends. But to be a better friend. Everyone gets stressed once in a while and that’s how I’ve been and I realized I wasn’t acting as nice as I usually do. I’m going to try to implement talking about positive things and giving compliments more often
@untilted52163 жыл бұрын
Aye that’s some good character development
@kealiechristophe35093 жыл бұрын
Good job my baby! I’m so very proud of you! God bless uu cutie mwah!
@JS-td7dg3 жыл бұрын
i had the same thing. Bur for me its too late bc i already lost my 2 best friends bc of that :(
@kealiechristophe35093 жыл бұрын
@@JS-td7dg don’t worry! You got this at least you changed for the better! You’re still amazing regardless:$
@darthmaul20053 жыл бұрын
That’s good, I hope you can be the person you want to be
@mf_lucielangelo4 жыл бұрын
my introverted, shy, socially akward ass after watching this: oh yeah, i perfectly know that i'm *not gonna do any one of these.*
@_mimmisue_mixed_up_18774 жыл бұрын
Felt that xD
@prajwalvsangam92343 жыл бұрын
yoo.. same here
@ti-fi1qx3 жыл бұрын
Ok, you PERFECT HUMAN BEING 😕😕😕😕😕😕 bruh, why don't u just SPILL THE COFFEE BRO!?
@mf_lucielangelo3 жыл бұрын
@@ti-fi1qx 😀?
@nickrogen51383 жыл бұрын
@@ti-fi1qx excuse me?
@anbufox98893 жыл бұрын
As others have mentioned, your voice is very calming, and it makes people (in my opinion) much more open! Thank you for making this video!
@LadyLynette_4 жыл бұрын
Me: see's Dream and Technoblade on the poster Also me: "Wait a minute-"
@ash-ib7zc4 жыл бұрын
OMG IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED THAT
@tabjay72444 жыл бұрын
Glad I'm not the only one who noticed
@laurapotatoleech14434 жыл бұрын
Noticed it right off the bat
@Kazam1004 жыл бұрын
i thought it was fnaf 4 AND dream for some reason
@knightbrickfilms384 жыл бұрын
IM NOT A L O N E, Y E S!!!!!
@juf90553 жыл бұрын
“Others love to be around people who are happy” Welp guess I’m not making any friends
@lonestrela3 жыл бұрын
lol, I completely understand you, but, something that actually works for me is look the positive things, you can be in a certain way ironic too it'll works
@Marky16083 жыл бұрын
Yep. Same :')
@jamieraynor79413 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way as you
@nothere19263 жыл бұрын
@Profile Name f*ck money, make friends
@frenchrevenge64063 жыл бұрын
Me neither
@ItzKawaiiKitty3 жыл бұрын
All of that sounds nice but it’s really hard to make friends, in class especially. Everyone already has friends and when i want to join a conversation i always feel like I’m just bothering them
@dkdjososls89723 жыл бұрын
same
@bsangel933 жыл бұрын
I was in a similar situation when i was younger, I found out later that people-for whatever reason-found me intimidating. Perhaps it’s the same for you. Try to show you aren’t
@dradenlol86673 жыл бұрын
The trick is making what you have to say worth the bother :) if you have something funny or intriguing to add to the conversation, people won’t mind the bother and might actually like you more for being brave and interjecting :)
@dradenlol86673 жыл бұрын
Also, a good trick for becoming a part of a conversation is to laugh at something funny they’re saying. If you laugh, it tells them you were listening but that it wasn’t in a negative manner. They won’t think of your eavesdropping as a bad thing. They might even direct their next joke at you, since they know you find them funny.
@corzon62753 жыл бұрын
Something that I used to do is when the person is alone I try to go make an excuse on why I'm with them like you need a partner or you need help on something. Also once you get the hang of it just approach a new person and introduce yourself.
@Bumble_bee.tl33 жыл бұрын
8:00 THIS! This is also great dating advice. Especially if you're still in the getting-to-know-each-other-phase or on dating apps. Never has someone been more dislikable if they only answer your questions and never ask any of their own
@ramona86674 жыл бұрын
I HATE hearing my name. It makes my stomach turn and I start sweating and laughing nervously. I wonder if it has to do with people saying my name only when I was in trouble, as a kid. I'm changing my name.
@stormyinspace64223 жыл бұрын
I changed mine for this reason, I recommend it for real. good luck!
@kittyisme52973 жыл бұрын
Same, I go by a nickname since freshman year and rarely go by my real name. When people call me by my real name it feels odd..and i'm in trouble.
@Relle.3 жыл бұрын
Heal your trauma 💚
@angelicachand74523 жыл бұрын
don't change your name
@kerrinbennett283 жыл бұрын
Sorry bout that. I get so annoyed when a new person I meet calls me Karen and then puts the stereotype of a Karen on me. First of all, that’s not even my name! And second, I don’t act anything like a Karen, I’m a fricken teenager...
@autumnfox49064 жыл бұрын
I honestly feel weird when someone calls me by my name when I haven’t personally met them. If you haven’t talked to them or they haven’t told you their name. Please ask before you call them by their name or say “Your name is (blank) right?”. Just my advice for making the first tip work without creeping them out.
@KanaYukino4 жыл бұрын
Well that makes you unapproachable. Especially if you make a face when they are trying to be friendly.
@autumnfox49064 жыл бұрын
@@KanaYukino it’s not like I’m mean about it. Someone I had never met before called me by my name. Would you not be uncomfortable if that happened? I don’t get mad at them, I just feel weird.
@elainadunn82093 жыл бұрын
@@KanaYukino sometimes when someone you've never seen before calls you by your name out of nowhere, it can be somewhat unsettling
@lemone76373 жыл бұрын
I think the video focuses on getting the people you already know / who know you like your classmates or co workers, I think that is actually a good tactic to get people to like you . But ofcourse, random people calling you by name can be a bit unsettling especially if you haven't introduced urself to them or aren't familiar with them .
@malevores3 жыл бұрын
@Unknown550 you must be great at parties
@Delia-ou1ju4 жыл бұрын
As an introverted person having to “spend time with others” or having someone, spontaneously ask me out for coffee is something I only see in my worse nightmares....
@archovens3 жыл бұрын
Im an introverted too and this is so true like while they're asking me i act normally but in my brain im like: PANIC
@jennifergraceh3 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@BalgaBear3 жыл бұрын
Literally so much anxiety and just bad feels. Then you feel bad for not going, but you know you'd feel worse if you did.
@daniellaelizabeth586 Жыл бұрын
I was told by a certain person who I deemed a friend that I’m a wayyy too happy person and that was the reason why I was avoided by the shops ☹️ so sometimes people just prefer negative energy and it’s not at all your fault ✌🏼
@jocelynhyde21973 жыл бұрын
*I can see a growing romance between Susie and Derrick.*
@havaniceday57893 жыл бұрын
😂yes😂
@lilacing33663 жыл бұрын
haha fr
@cantkeep3 жыл бұрын
Tru
@chargingnoisesintensify63353 жыл бұрын
lol sussy
@eve310103 жыл бұрын
The blush and hearts gives it away :3
@mehmeh93764 жыл бұрын
People: "Why are you so quiet?" Me: "I have nothing to talk about". Always works. (God dayum so many likes)
@zsomborkovac52513 жыл бұрын
Its always good to be honest
@divyamahadik60843 жыл бұрын
Lol
@yourfavecancer3 жыл бұрын
I said that to a dude that I never talk to and he just said: Oof
@coffeeboi1583 жыл бұрын
@@jjphillips2648 Having a stroke buddy?
@BearHawks3 жыл бұрын
Ha!! My hubby never talks to people he don't know. He's quiet around strangers.🤷♀️
@keinsatzohnetippfehler3 жыл бұрын
Fair warning: be a little careful about that name thing. One of my colleagues overoes that. Sometimes he calls people by their names every other sentence, which gets really annoying. One of our customers even got really mad and asked him to stop saying her name so often. People know about the positive effect of using names and start to feel manipulated or patronized if you use their names too often in one conversation.
@brychaelbruh Жыл бұрын
Ye, tbh reading this made me remember the times that I basically do that here and there, although I have no ill intention usually when doing this. I understand why it can be annoying. 8)
@thenameless24 Жыл бұрын
I have found it best to use it once or twice to get there attention and leave it at that
@andrewsteavpack9079 Жыл бұрын
I almost never use peoples names in conversations other than to initiate or get their attention because of this. I typically don’t trust people if they use my name more than once or twice in a conversation
@indridcold8433 Жыл бұрын
It is actually better to not try to make friemds actively. Let it happen without intervention. Most people are the type you really do not want to know. Why chance meeting that type of person. Not making an active effort to make friends gets a lot less people to talk to you, thus less undersireables. The very few that will talk to you first will be a lot less likely to be undesireables, though they will still be many of them. Should it happen that nobody starts a conversation with you, that is good also. If you have no friends, you will gain incredible benefits in the form of extreme self-reliance, resourcefulness, independence, freedom, and resilience that no social person could ever match. Either way, you win. Since I am ugly, taking the passive approach to making friends did not yield any potential friendships. Nobody wants to be seen with an ugly person, whether for a friend or boyfriend / girlfriend. Thus, I was not approached. But, I gained the enormous benefits I mentioned. So, it is okay.
@kokomi6172 Жыл бұрын
trying to get someone’s attention is a good chance to use their name such as saying “i like your shoes, [name]” or “hey, [name]!”
@lizapiza11112 жыл бұрын
Holy ***! I watch these all the time but this is the first time they really helped me understand people's view on me. I love this channel ❤
@abookoholic62523 жыл бұрын
What I learned from this: spill coffee at the end of my next job interview
@apoleyash68523 жыл бұрын
Hahaha. I'm just not sure if spilling the coffee is the best idea, mostly when your boss is a berserker type.
@onebadapple50533 жыл бұрын
Anyone with REAL cojones will spill the coffee before, during, and after the interview
@Veratheprettiest3 жыл бұрын
@@onebadapple5053 this chaotic energy 😂😂😂
@mirrailieva11113 жыл бұрын
Not if you are applying for barista..
@RoyalLegend10003 жыл бұрын
@@mirrailieva1111 lol
@r4venblu34 жыл бұрын
This video: * Exists * My single, lonely self: _Well if that isn't what I need then-_
@-randomuser-48974 жыл бұрын
[Y] S ame
@waffleman45664 жыл бұрын
"The algorithm knows best"
@r4venblu34 жыл бұрын
@@waffleman4566 A very wise quote
@lemonwater71694 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ataldr48024 жыл бұрын
3:47 is that techno and dream
@bonithechubbypotato51004 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@Biskqi4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!
@conefiend25704 жыл бұрын
Y e s s s
@heyhihello77354 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes it is.
@GL-GildedLining4 жыл бұрын
Yup. Psych2Go's animator Evelvaii is easter-egging SAD-ist, the animator who made the now-famous super bishi short for that $100,000 Techno v Dream battle earlier this year. Nearly ten million views since September! Totally deserved!
@ShyamkrishnanNair2 ай бұрын
Definitely relatable! The idea of using someone's name or letting them talk about themselves might seem small, but it really creates a strong connection. I remember trying out these tips, especially giving genuine compliments and staying positive-it’s amazing how people warm up to you! These techniques feel like a kind of Sense of Humor Improvement Program for making friends because they bring out the best in people. Excited to try more of these and make new connections!
@adityashaw96314 жыл бұрын
Hey stranger , hope u have a nice day.
@undertaleiskindaepic43254 жыл бұрын
Thank u, u too
@harshtandon93094 жыл бұрын
Thx man
@itsmarialifestyle43554 жыл бұрын
Hey Aditya, have a nice day too!
@arnabmusouwir90184 жыл бұрын
This deserves to be the best comment in here. You have an even nicer day
@piesayshello55094 жыл бұрын
Merci, toi aussi!. (You too)
@angelaproductions62484 жыл бұрын
can I just say Susie is absolutely adorable I can't- 🥺💗
@itsarali4 жыл бұрын
IKR I think I have a girlcrush. ...orrr an actual crush lol I think I’ve been in quarantine for too long 😅
@buddyboiwrath4884 жыл бұрын
As guy yes she is adorable
@MoonPotato3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to high school in the next semester, and I’m a really introverted person, and I feel pretty alone sometimes. Hopefully, these tips will help me in high school :)
@germanvargas29653 жыл бұрын
same🥲
@mushroom76043 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@whosmka3 жыл бұрын
I feel you, man😔🤚
@muktashukla18063 жыл бұрын
Mee too introvert but i like to.be alone.
@hunterglass10153 жыл бұрын
Go get em man
@kattnip44603 жыл бұрын
For the people who do more listening than talking in person its ok to voice up and talk about yourselves too. You should remember that you matter. Your opinion, voice, thought, action, feelings and health matter.
@monthy63283 жыл бұрын
Just wanna point out, that this video has one of the best romance plots than actual films
@aberdeentheoneandonly41653 жыл бұрын
omg i'm loving the chemistry between derrick and susie here, LOVE IT
@houtarou60723 жыл бұрын
Listening to Amanda's voice after a long day of being a mentally unstable just warms my heart , especially with such a great video topic and examples
@internationalentertainment69062 жыл бұрын
#METOO
@Jlahandle4 ай бұрын
Remember their names and use a person's name in greetings and goodbyes. It's such a simple thing but SO SO important!! Plus listen to what someone is saying with genuine interest. Knowing these basic tips has held me in good stead all through my life ..
@sunniesclementine97894 жыл бұрын
I've been told I'm a boring person- Sister: bts got nominated for a grammy! Me: that's nice. Sister: I'm having a bad day today Me: that sucks. She's not wrong. I'm a boring person.
@dangerawaits_bbx4 жыл бұрын
No you're not boring. We just have different social tastes.
@zsomborkovac52513 жыл бұрын
Your not boring, I felt like I was boring and it was because I wasnt interested in what ppl were talking about and I responded with very simple answers. Nobody is boring, when they are talking about something they are interested in
@booppow74973 жыл бұрын
My so called “ Best Friend “ said that I’m boring because I don’t wear eyeliner. It’s not my fault I can only draw on a flat surface!!!!!!
@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl62063 жыл бұрын
Nobody who has attained 69 likes could never be boring
@righteousone51193 жыл бұрын
I do that too and I always think I'm boring.
@LurFrLif3 жыл бұрын
3:49 “men in masks” That’s Technoblade and Dream ....in Psych2Go form
@river_girl123 жыл бұрын
i have successfully found an mcyt enjoyer, perhaps? Was going to comment something similar!
@icydude8353 жыл бұрын
I was searching the comments for anyone to mention it ya know?
@susii33983 жыл бұрын
I don't blame you for misspelling sych2go, it took me a while to spell phihc2go.
@ember113 жыл бұрын
I was scrolling to see if anyone caught that XD Edit: always great to see a fellow myct fan.
@icydude8353 жыл бұрын
@@ember11 same
@springsprungedits94934 жыл бұрын
Wow, that introduction is me on so many levels. I tend to focus on one person that I want to be friends with, then end up missing out on loads of people that I could build relationships with
@dinashisha5193 Жыл бұрын
It is not the behavior. It is the feeling that comes behind the behavior. This is so accurate!
@sunshine-df3tc4 жыл бұрын
I just realized that I always do all of the mentioned things but people still don't like me and tend to judge me before even knowing me. This truly breaks my heart..
@SeanPrescottyolo4 жыл бұрын
Same. Well. Almost. They all probably don't always judge me before knowing me. But the judgemental society throurough the years partially made me paranoid about what people think and now I'm even more closed in myself (was already introverted) and avoiding others. At least I'm glad it somehow keeps magnetising me to people who really don't judge others like that and thanks to that I became friends with few wonderful people. Sorry for shitty english, I'm from Alpha Centauri :P
@someguyintheuniverse4154 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the decent human beings club.
@shamsulaizan4 жыл бұрын
this happen to me .. they r just jealous dobt be friend with them ... happen to me they dont want to be my friend just cz my father rich
@sunshine-df3tc4 жыл бұрын
@@someguyintheuniverse415 I feel honored 😊
@KanaYukino4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I've met people like that. They usually think like you are trying to suck up to them tho. That's what happened in my highscool where I had fake friends and I was being all goody goody to them just to stay in the circle OTL. Don't do that.
@cmoi82824 жыл бұрын
3:46 *YO THAT REFERENCE*
@eskaywai4 жыл бұрын
IKR
@kenzilees3 жыл бұрын
IKKKK
@NoName-pf3zi3 жыл бұрын
Yyeeaaaahhh they made in hehehe
@leafy_potat52243 жыл бұрын
Yeahhhh it’s crazyyyyy!!
@sakuraelo91593 жыл бұрын
YASSSSS I KNOWWW
@Ambermeow3 жыл бұрын
The Techno vs. Dream reference was wonderful and I'm here for it
@plebthepebble38773 жыл бұрын
yep i read this when it came lol
@Craazygirl3 жыл бұрын
The one comment that I was looking for
@Linkshmink3 жыл бұрын
@@Craazygirl same
@jolina35303 жыл бұрын
Ok so I'm not the only one who noticed:)
@merelmoukje22293 жыл бұрын
I just gasped I just watched techno
@HalfAHooman17 күн бұрын
2:16 I LOVE GIVING COMPLIMENTS TO STRANGERS! SEEING THEM SMILE AND BEING SURPRISED IS MY FAVORITE PART! I'm a bit awkward so I'm not always able to gain the courage to give people compliments, but it's always a pleasant experience when I get to see them smile and know that I made their day just a little better.
@JoyxStyx4 жыл бұрын
Even tho I got anxiety, I love giving compliments to strangers! It always makes them smile and I can tell that they are happy even when it's just a tiny moment. When I was at my workplace a girl came up to me and said that she loved my hair colour. I was so happy that I smiled for almost the rest of my work time!
@sirenmarissa2 жыл бұрын
Yes I once lost my bag at a store and was freaking out but when I was asking a girl if she’s seen it she said no but she thought my outfit was cute the first and only complement I’ve gotten in public and it’s been like 1-2 years and still remember it
@delafontainedoes3 жыл бұрын
This eased my nerves so much. I'm going for my training shift at a new job tomorrow and I'll be buddying up with someone the whole time - hearing that people actually prefer flaws to perfection made me feel so much better. Thank you!
@ender87593 жыл бұрын
How was It?
@justaperson82642 жыл бұрын
How have you been?
@YeshuaIsTheTruth4 жыл бұрын
This was friendship advice, dating advice, and interview advice all in one 10minute video! I love Psych2go, you ladies always state things so gently and purely, and I appreciate you and this channel very much
@Midnightgaming-s9q9 ай бұрын
I’m an extrovert but I’m super nervous about going to junior high bc I’m going to be moving away and I’m scared that I can’t make friends. This video really helped
@KingExor4 жыл бұрын
wish i knew this before i made others dislike me instantly
@kurosade36234 жыл бұрын
You caused that on yourself I lot of people like me
@bonithechubbypotato51004 жыл бұрын
I see.
@thewriteinpresident4 жыл бұрын
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@nickie27364 жыл бұрын
It's not to late to turn it around. The school bully in my primary school was hated by almost everyone at first. Over time he became more kind. By the end of the school year pretty much everyone was good friends with him.
@kurosade36234 жыл бұрын
What you even do to make people hate you
@cristi373 жыл бұрын
“People want to see that your intelligent” Me: *Inhales* THE FOSSIL OF THE DEADLIEST PREDATORS ON EARTH COULD BE UNDER THE FEET WE WALK AND THE GROUND YOU WALK ON COULD BE WHERE PEOPLE ONCE FOUGHT
@loveangel65623 жыл бұрын
Now i just feel inferior
@cristi373 жыл бұрын
@@loveangel6562 if you want to learn this magic, you must watch documentaries, which I did do at the age of 5 seriously and read and watch a lot of history, which I didn’t do when I was 5 but I still did see some, since I literally did walk in a town where there was war. Next, be YOU.
@cristi373 жыл бұрын
@@loveangel6562 I am very sorry if I make you feel inferior.
@montanabirdmommy3 жыл бұрын
Derailing valid conversations to show off that you watched documentaries as a child is far from clever, Cris Dob. You also failed to make your point and left your readers confused. Just stop. Do you really feel that entitled? Lots of us grew up on documentaries, yet we do not feel entitled to interrupt and attempt to derail valid discussions. Why do you think that is, Cris?
@cristi373 жыл бұрын
@@montanabirdmommy I’m sorry if I make myself look entitled. Entitlement is the very thing I want to take away so I can make myself equal with other people. Thank you for pointing that out, I wont do it again. And I will remember to talk more clearly and to stop interrupting, I had this problem many times.
@alastor15964 жыл бұрын
3:47 me immediately: DREAM AND TECHNOBLADE
@sakuraelo91593 жыл бұрын
YASSSSSS
@MothMedusa3 жыл бұрын
ME TOOOO-
@sanket1433 жыл бұрын
meee toooooo
@yoani57993 жыл бұрын
YES
@neelmarisiddaiah6123 жыл бұрын
Yo I saw that too
@Pure_Racing_editz Жыл бұрын
There’s this girl I like, and I watched one of these videos and heard that you should ask them questions about themselves, because like you said, people like talking about themselves. It’s been about a week now and I can already notice she’s wanting to spend more time around me.
@sneakyfoodie3 жыл бұрын
Extras- - Constantly ask how they’re doing - Show then you appreciate them - try to remember things like their birthday, zodiac, last name, and etc. (It’ll show that you payed attention)
@NatureLover-pj2qe4 жыл бұрын
I’m autistic and struggle with making friends
@ijustexist67874 жыл бұрын
Me to! As an autistic I became better at making friends from the past few years.
@rachelhoughton98674 жыл бұрын
Me too, I get really enthusiastic if someone initiates a conversation about something I can relate to or that I'm interested in, and often forget to let them talk... This has meant people unfairly brand me as "arrogant" :(
@Idiotboiy4 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@Jogadora_1094 жыл бұрын
I have autistic family members and I love them deeply. They have gifts I wish I had. I hope you find a community but I also hope you know you're amazing and have a lot to offer the world.
@princessnovainacottage33263 жыл бұрын
I'm also autistic and you're not alone
@areallysmallburger54974 жыл бұрын
I will try this Edit: I got called simp
@otterboy14524 жыл бұрын
Jfisjdhds
@rulercamelot36874 жыл бұрын
This is a most unfortunate outcome.
@yeetdelete8514 жыл бұрын
Lmao, sorry to hear though.
@sleepywolf45404 жыл бұрын
Bro who the fuck would call a nice dude trying to get along a simp like wha???? Dw bro u good
@noobishnoodlestheattackhel40404 жыл бұрын
*Same*
@Gyum-gk8nc4 жыл бұрын
Society: *Puts people down* Other People: *Depressed* Me: *Adds 10 new tracks to my Diss Album*
@crazyformyself31054 жыл бұрын
Guess ur an army too..btw I can totally relate
@heatherheinz24554 жыл бұрын
Society: Why are people so depressed?
@Gyum-gk8nc4 жыл бұрын
A lot of people say my name a lot. I don't really think they like me since they call me racial slurs. I think they see me more of a subordinate.
@juliakay74464 жыл бұрын
Borahae 💜
@Joe-ou1iw4 жыл бұрын
what does this mean
@waytoohypernova4 жыл бұрын
food for thought: we all have worries in common, and those can cancel each other out food for thought 2: setting boundaries doesnt make you unlikable, it shows that youre strong and cool B) people will respect you more too if you show them that you respect yourself. so set boundaries always.
@oro86564 жыл бұрын
compliment people as the thought crosses your mind: me when you are around your crush: *aha, no.*
@smileyface50283 жыл бұрын
I compliment people as it crosses my mind because I'm a nervous wreck and my brain starts running out of words
@NorthernStarseedTarot3 ай бұрын
I love this. I do this anyway. I just give people random compliments wherever i go. If I love someones hair, I tell them. If they are wearing a pretty dress, same. That could be the nicest thing somebody said to them in a while 🙏🏻
@a-goblin4 жыл бұрын
hell yeah, i'm gonna spill coffee at every friggin job interview
@elation.e3 жыл бұрын
U go get em i bet every company will be dying to hire you
@pagreyson4 жыл бұрын
I used ALL of these on my crush. He’s my boyfriend now EDIT: omg thanks for all the likes I’ve never gotten this many likes before and our first date is in a few weeks ❤️ I’m so glad that I have him in my life 👱🏻♂️❤️🧑🏻🦱
@someguyintheuniverse4154 жыл бұрын
Well good for you! 😃👍
@Riborwahz4 жыл бұрын
Wait you're a female You're fearless
@milio_Durston4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@mellylivestreams20084 жыл бұрын
omg congrats
@kpopismyworld94974 жыл бұрын
So lucky you are! Congrats!
@dailydoseofmedicinee4 жыл бұрын
Spend more time around the people you're hoping to befriend. Compliment other people. Try to display positive emotions. Be warm and competent. Reveal your flaws from time to time.👍
@Keep_Cozy4 жыл бұрын
I like ur pfp and name lol
@showtime26022 жыл бұрын
Your voice is like so calming and angelic
@kenrickbautista61414 жыл бұрын
"Do people like me...?" Ask myself that every day.
@sharkytheshark72834 жыл бұрын
I'm asking it to myself too but usually i can't answer it
@AutomaticDuck3004 жыл бұрын
Validation is like money in the bank. If you don't have any, nobody will give it to you. If you have a lot of it, people are lining up to give it to you. Switch it on its head and say instead "I don't need the approval of other people. Other people need my approval." It sounds arrogant but honestly, it means that you start to validate yourself. You start thinking "You know what, I'm not that bad really." Try it out and see how people react to you. Just don't tell them this is what you're thinking.
@kenrickbautista61414 жыл бұрын
@@AutomaticDuck300 ok.
@kimberlybogert-nemeth47604 жыл бұрын
Yeah..I wonder the same thing every day..😌😔
@someguyintheuniverse4154 жыл бұрын
Well, at least I know the answer! N o
@haphuongle29203 жыл бұрын
I found it is more relatable to people who made mistakes, even sinned, yet owned up to their failures and made great efforts to improve. This make me respect them even more. My secondary school head teacher was like my role model. When she shared with my momn I and her students about what she did wrong and how she overcame those failures, I respect her even more.
@tiamoybrown25074 жыл бұрын
Who else thinks her voice sounds so soothing
@simitete1527 Жыл бұрын
I am really like this . Till now i had no idea why people were drawn to me even when i was awfully quiet . Moral of the story : even when your quiet these options will definitely work for you . Dont forget to give compliment to them , never hide your mistakes and just be yourself you will eventually become a happy person 😊❤
@deanj67224 жыл бұрын
Your voice is an "Anti-depressant"!! i can listen to you all day!!!
@susanazurita14274 жыл бұрын
Me: sees video Also me: realises that i have no friends at my new school for 5 months Me: *clicks instantly*
@brokeneggshell50413 жыл бұрын
comment how it went if it worked
@jennifergraceh3 жыл бұрын
Awww, I’m sorry! I hope you can make some friends soon! Just be yourself! 😊
@citeouse38473 жыл бұрын
I hope you make some friends broski😸😸😸😸
@ditimohite1133 жыл бұрын
Don't worry dear I can be friends with you . You are no more alone dear 😇😇😉😉😉
@maryschuett15553 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh same
@Helen36913 жыл бұрын
Call people by their names. Depends on who’s talking. Absolutely cringe when a salesperson calls me by my first name. Instant hate.
@birdlover68423 жыл бұрын
So true.
@jamssy34093 жыл бұрын
How would they know your first name
@carlossandoval68583 жыл бұрын
I guess thats why this is focusing on friends...
@ladyalicent7053 жыл бұрын
Yeah but I just hate salespeople in general. So fucking annoying.
@svp5thechad4083 жыл бұрын
*Instant karate chop
@pizzacarter97773 жыл бұрын
I try to binge every episode of this channel because I think there is hope for me, but I am just wasting my time because people will hate me no matter what. However I don’t regret watching these, as her voice is very soothing.
@giac4644 жыл бұрын
“Call me by your nameeee” and “that is a great film” Oh god I’m dying.
@amishamaisarah17513 жыл бұрын
and the peach reference 💀
@IceBeast50003 жыл бұрын
The “calling them by their name” is very good I realised whenever i get called by my name by a girl its so much better than just suddenly talking to me.
@edwardsabbagh41753 жыл бұрын
I loved the "Call me by your name" reference hahaha
@YaksHearNoises3 жыл бұрын
The peach!
@levidarling5107 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ma’am, my one biggest flaw is me being so heck-bent on being perfect, I literally go insane after a single and slightest of goofs. This helps me feel better about making a goof in front of friends. Thank you!
@kittycornme74783 жыл бұрын
This is the only channel I feel like I can be open to. And seriously. That's true for me
@noorprincesskiller49684 жыл бұрын
I don’t need someone to like me first I’ll have to learn to not just like but love my self ❤️
@nakedshot58133 жыл бұрын
OMG!!! Kudos for the artist of this video. Susie, Derrick and everything is so cute! Especially when Susie is slow walking towards Derrick and falls!! That's me EVERY SINGLE TIME I try to impress someone. Love and more love to everyone.
@nurfarida20046 ай бұрын
It motivated me to be more positive person. Thanks a bunch❤
@lightningchef27524 жыл бұрын
Freshman students: this will help me a lot!!!!!! Students from previous years: too late! I'm already unpopular.....😔
@ashwinidongarwar97164 жыл бұрын
It's true but we can change it 👍🏻😏😌
@SoldierOfFate4 жыл бұрын
This doesn't apply in high school. These tips apply more to the later years of postsecondary or when you come into the real world.
@bruhhhebrooo52694 жыл бұрын
@@SoldierOfFate actually it can apply to highschool too, it honestly depends on the person's situation and what type of people they're surrounded by, even in highschool
@ashwinidongarwar97164 жыл бұрын
@@SoldierOfFate well it's kinda true but this is also applied in school and high school and colleges etc . Almost every where 🤷🏻♀️😅🙄