Psychological manipulation: An expert explains parental alienation to "48 Hours"

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@happyone444able
@happyone444able Жыл бұрын
I have been through this evil. My first son had been groomed by the alienators (my ex and his (now deceased) mother). I have been in mourning for over 20 years now, and sadly have no hope of having a healthy relationship with him. He married someone with the same energy as his father, so he will continue to be manipulated as he has been his whole life. It baffles my mind how souls blindly believe the lies and never question. My own mother was the same way, turned/groomed against me, her only daughter. This life on earth has been HARD. Just know you are all not alone in your suffering. The courts don't do their job, in my case police lied, doctors lied. My ex's Aunt had $$ and could buy the opinions of others. It's crazy and I never saw it coming.
@juliaa4213
@juliaa4213 Жыл бұрын
😢sadly yeS
@jherboss2516
@jherboss2516 10 ай бұрын
Maybe you should reflect on why people don't like you instead of blaming other and turning to an unproven theory
@hollicoolword3804
@hollicoolword3804 10 ай бұрын
Yeah and u taking the time to comment, Maybe if ud been there and seen her struggle to keep her rights at fair standard visitation been party to the case then ud have the right to say she's blamed everyone else !! My children aunt paid for their dad custody situation and I cdnt afford a atty to match theirs status and they left me stuck n a unworkable order using legal tactic abuse !!! Yes people can even still own up to their mistakes and say ok let's fix this but when u being stone wall no communications from the other party just speak with my atty and they tell u I'm can't discuss anything due to client privacy u on a hamster wheel !! Their atty said those people said I need to do z y and z to get outta supervise visit 's but their atty won't work with me to prove I'm meeting Their request and told me hire another lawyer 💔!! To the point that I don't even want b here anymore so broken 💔 & finally $$$$ spent too !!!
@hollicoolword3804
@hollicoolword3804 10 ай бұрын
💔
@rohinisingh6856
@rohinisingh6856 8 ай бұрын
@@jherboss2516 sounds like you are just like her ex-husband! Disgusting.
@mattstorey7256
@mattstorey7256 Ай бұрын
She left out a crucial part in her biopsy of what parental alienation is. One of the biggest enablers to the ability to do it is: Proximity and time. If one parent has physical custody and/or able to minimize the other parents parenting time. It far easier to achieve alienation. The whispered and voiced opinions that eventually becomes the child's perception of the other parent is greatly aided if the alienating parent has custody. By the other parents absence, they can feed the child tripe about how the other parent don't really love them, way else aren't they there. Every tardiness, every slight is explained to the detriment of the non-custodial parent. "They didn't get you the Little Suzy Real Life Doll, I told you they didn't love you." "Mommy WOULD have taken you and your friends out to the movie that you wanted to see, but Daddy, he don't love you, he don't pay enough child support so mom can take you like she wanted to." What does a child know about child support or how much one parent should pay the other? And yet a child will repeat to a social worker their feelings of not being loved by the parent, since they didn't pay enough. She says judges and other court personnel see it, but don't know what to do. A rather easy first step would be to limit the access to the child thereafter. Cut the time the parent doing the alienation has to actually do it. If a custodial parent, once accused of it, shows evidence of actually doing so, remove them from their custody...IT'S ABUSE! Do you leave the child in the custody of a physical/ sexual abuser? Then why would you a psychological abuser? The courts are so wedded and biased to the perception that one parent is biologically/ emotionally better, more "fit" to be a parent than the other, that they are loath to mess with their preconceived notions, even with the evidence in their face of abuse.
@reallue
@reallue 9 ай бұрын
Parental Alienation, at its core, is child abuse. When one parent decides to decrease the pool of love that their own child has available to them, that's Abuse. Especially when the alienated parent has done nothing to deserve that. It's pettiness. It's anger. It's hatred. All feelings the alienating parent has towards the alienated parent. & they use their child, not as a separate entity from themselves, but as a weapon against the other parent. As a parent currently being alienated from his son, I will NEVER understand why she would hurt our son, in order to hurt me. But it's doing way more damage to our son than its doing to me. Idk why she refuses to acknowledge that.
@newlin83
@newlin83 4 ай бұрын
This really shows you the darkness of the human condition. She truly thinks it's your fault, others may side with her, and nobody cares about the pain the child feels, or the pain of the alienated parent.
@ParentalRights.Alabama
@ParentalRights.Alabama 2 ай бұрын
@virginiahart4480
@virginiahart4480 Ай бұрын
My Ex openedly admitted he was going to weaponize our children against me and he did it by alienating all 3 of them against me, brainwashing all 3 of them and by willfully, knowingly and intentionally withholding ALL of my Parental Rights, without legal justification and/or cause, even though I had Joint Custody. I have since discovered that the Judges (multiple) are his actual life-long friends, as was my own d*nm attorneys (multiple). I have actual photos of the Judges with my Ex, pre-trial. Undeniable evidence of blatant Policial Corruption and Deprivation of Rights, Under Color of Law. What they have done is evil and punishable by minimum of 50 years imprisonment up to and including, the very real death penalty. I also have photos of my Ex with my Attorney. My case is now a Federal Criminal Case. True story.
@kassieme
@kassieme 11 ай бұрын
Some parents dont even realize the psychological damage they are doing to their children.
@mattelja4425
@mattelja4425 10 ай бұрын
Yup
@tommypearson9260
@tommypearson9260 8 ай бұрын
No they realize they simply don't care they want to make a point at all cost no matter who it effects
@BossFight101
@BossFight101 5 ай бұрын
@@tommypearson9260You want to make a point at all cost no matter who it affects.
@newlin83
@newlin83 4 ай бұрын
They truly believe it's the fault of the other parent, these people are so unwell that they truly think the other person is terrible. That's why judges need to step in and tell them no. Unfortunately judges encourage bad behavior rather than punishing it.
@billykaysie1325
@billykaysie1325 Ай бұрын
Giving increased parenting time to one parent for children's increased anger and refusal is absurd.
@Thepathof77
@Thepathof77 27 күн бұрын
I went through this for almost 10 years. What a nightmare that was. While my children and I still aren’t 100%, I am so thankful for women like this lady. Her videos got me through some seriously dark times. If you’re going through this get started on therapy for you ptsd now. You think that’ll you’ll be fine if you just get your kids back and while that’s partly true, the ptsd from the entire event continues to plague you. The depression doesn’t just disappear. It’s been a year since I got my kids back in my life and December is when they both left me. I’ve had panic attacks for the last 2 months and had a meltdown Xmas day when I thought they weren’t coming to my home. I had myself convinced that they weren’t coming both about to walk back out of my life. Putting people, especially children in this situation is so evil of one parent to do
@nin9249
@nin9249 4 ай бұрын
Why do i love this presenter so much ? For some reason i read such deep kindness and empathy in her face
@rodneynicholson2018
@rodneynicholson2018 7 ай бұрын
It is the worst thing ! I’ve been through it and still it continues.
@Yurkidding
@Yurkidding 9 ай бұрын
This is abuse. No too ways about it. Its a crime. Its defamation, slander, manipulation, exploitation, They force the child to adopt the hatred and contempt the alienating parent has for the other parent, and force the child to actually abandon them and any life the child once had with them , and in severe cases the child is threatened to comply or face the consequences. Why dont judges know what to do? What?? Im stunned. When has parental rights superseded ‘do no harm’? Ok judges Listen carefully, I am going to tell you what to do. This is a child PROTECTION issue, NOT a custody issue. Your first and foremost objective is to ensure the safety and well being of a child. A parent will fall into two category’s. Dumb or ill. Ignorant or willed. An ill parent deliberately hurting their child? You do not allow unsupervised visitation. Period.
@hasegawataizo4069
@hasegawataizo4069 7 ай бұрын
Parents that do that to their children should be in prison for the rest of their lives. It is one of the most evil things that you can do to alienate a child from their family. It is evil. Even if you are able to reconnect with a parent, the brainwashing is never really gone. It is pure evil.
@newlin83
@newlin83 4 ай бұрын
Blame the judges, not the parents. They choose to do nothing when they see this in their courtroom.
@hasegawataizo4069
@hasegawataizo4069 4 ай бұрын
@@newlin83 Blame both. Take responsibility.
@COFEEBEAN123l
@COFEEBEAN123l 3 ай бұрын
​@newlin83 The Court expects Parents to be grown up and not come before them acting like petty petulant teenagers
@theresamartinez7313
@theresamartinez7313 2 жыл бұрын
I’m going this right now and it’s the most horrific thing I’m going through. Grieving the loss of your living children 😢
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 Жыл бұрын
Domestic abuse has Never been higher, A+ quote from " Billy Bollen" very COMMUNISTIC
@Tracyanderson-n5w
@Tracyanderson-n5w Жыл бұрын
Me too 13 YEARS she's now married at 27, my ex not let me at wedding
@vidwest8978
@vidwest8978 10 ай бұрын
Me too. 21 months into being abandoned and it feels like an impossible situation. I don't know how to fix it.
@ellenmartin875
@ellenmartin875 10 ай бұрын
Me too right now
@altariel1442
@altariel1442 5 ай бұрын
Me too. 8 years for my eldest, and a year for my son and daughter in law. I went from “we’re going to make you a granny and you’ll be a great one” to getting married, inviting the whole family except me and them both blocking me - in the space of 6 months. It’s crazy making. I’ve got the perfect house for grandkids, I’m a retired teacher, I’ve spent my life bringing up my, and everyone else’s kids, I’m a fabulous cook and have just come into an inheritance,so I’m in a position to help. I divorced the ex 34 years ago, and he has never moved on, Although I took all the responsibility and did all the work, they are now “his” children.
@AnEventfulYear
@AnEventfulYear Жыл бұрын
My mother kept my father away and went out of her way to alienate him. It caused tremendous damage. Then as an adult, my ex abducted my children, and of course, since I'm a man, the system failed me and it was decades before I could find my children. By then, the damage was done. She cheated and was abusive. But I'm the villain. The system is a disaster, and encourages this sort of behavior. I've been a victim of both ends of it.
@BeingVeryWell365
@BeingVeryWell365 11 ай бұрын
It seems like no matter how cooperative or cordiial and thoughtful I am regarding my efforts to make sure that the kids and her life is disrupted as minimal as possible, simply because I left her its still not enough. I could have taken more than half and had her paying me child support and the fact that I walked away from all of it is still not enough. She still does this with my kids. I have a number of text conversations of her trashing me to me my son. She doesn't care about anyone as long as she is right. For those of you who are dealing with this at the moment you may want to look into what is known as Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder.
@silverpairaducks
@silverpairaducks 11 ай бұрын
Your sperm donor was a monster
@rootintobeing
@rootintobeing 8 ай бұрын
Children who are alienated from a parent have a 50% chance of being alienated from their children.
@lotusmccary9365
@lotusmccary9365 7 ай бұрын
It happens to women too in court
@newlin83
@newlin83 4 ай бұрын
Same life story, my mom did this to my dad, and my ex wife is alienating our daughter from me. Happens quite often, it's terrible grief and pain you live with silently.
@Apollo-fo4ie
@Apollo-fo4ie 10 ай бұрын
Both my biological daughter and son were severely brainwashed by their mother, my ex, against me. Both kids almost as soon as they turned 18 completely dumped me and willfully had themselves adopted by their stepfather. After being a loving, caring, and great father to them for over 18 years, I am left with nothing but a broken heart. It's disturbing how evil and selfish my ex was to have completely turned my kids against me all when I was an amazing father to them.
@mickeysammy5169
@mickeysammy5169 9 ай бұрын
I am so sorry. I am the female version of exactly what you experienced. I breastfed my two kids for 1 yr each, changed all of their cloth diapers (and hung them on a line to dry, as we couldn't afford paper diapers), made homemade food for them, I drove them to school and picked them up everyday for 6 years ( even when I was sick) helped in their classrooms, worked at night to buy them Christmas gifts each year, planned their birthday parties, put my family first throughout their lives- BUT when I went back to school (which I paid for without any help from him) He took over brainwashing my teenagers against me. I felt like a scapegoat and could not figure out why they would treat me so badly. Fast-forward 25 yrs. I was discarded by my husband after 40 yrs of marriage- very brutally and cruelly on false charges. My adult children will have nothing to do with me yet have never heard my side of any of it. This whole thing was planned by him as he hid all of the assets over the years. So, yes this happens to both males and females- We are tricked into believing in faithful marriage, yet are deceived by evil people. Losing your children to parental alienation is far worse than death. 🙏🙏🙏
@elmahdi5
@elmahdi5 4 ай бұрын
@virginiahart4480
@virginiahart4480 Ай бұрын
​@@mickeysammy5169My heart goes out to you and all alienated parents. ❤😢 My Ex did the same thing to me. I no longer know where any of my 3 children are. I was a Stay-at-Home Mother when we were together. He CHOSE to refuse to come home most nights, until the middle of the night, when everyone was asleep. As it turns out, he was money laundering and stealing my identity, forging my signature and committing massive crimes and frauds, using my stolen identity with my own birth family and others. His and his organized crime group belong in prison and I intend to put all of them there, not out of vengeance but for the safety and well-being of all of society. Upon discovery, I reported what I discovered, uploading over 3,000+ pieces of actual, hard evidences, thus far. My case is now a Federal and International case, as he and his many criminal co-conspirators have committed massive crimes and frauds against me personally and against the United States, Internationally and Domestically. True story.
@Skyisnotalimit
@Skyisnotalimit Ай бұрын
It’s hell, I know. The mother of my daughters got police attention by social care for domestic, still she managed to ”change” my daughters story to clear her self. She’s going on some kind of revenge for me telling the law enforcement about her abusive behavior. It’s a nightmare.
@GamingMusicTechAndLife
@GamingMusicTechAndLife Жыл бұрын
This is the silent American pandemic
@BeingVeryWell365
@BeingVeryWell365 11 ай бұрын
Also known as social media, and the result is a Narcissistic Pandemic
@obscurum6
@obscurum6 6 ай бұрын
Not just in America. 😡
@virginiahart4480
@virginiahart4480 Ай бұрын
It is a pandemic that needs to discussed and dealt with properly. Yes, it happens worldwide, to all races of people. It is truly evil.
@albertzee8510
@albertzee8510 Ай бұрын
@@obscurum6 in western countries and western culture, women are too narcistic
@jessieb7290
@jessieb7290 Ай бұрын
Happens all over the world. Toxic parents exist all over the planet.
@Noname11364
@Noname11364 Жыл бұрын
This is happening to me right now.
@TaiAnLugoRamosREIBO
@TaiAnLugoRamosREIBO 11 ай бұрын
Me too 😢
@Noname11364
@Noname11364 11 ай бұрын
When did you find out it was happening to you?
@irvingpollard2961
@irvingpollard2961 11 ай бұрын
May the mercies of god shine on you
@tylerbenrich
@tylerbenrich 11 ай бұрын
You’re not alone. Stay strong we have to keep fighting don’t you dare give up
@Noname11364
@Noname11364 11 ай бұрын
@@tylerbenrich thank you. Im not sure what to do anymore, but I won’t give up. My son hates me so much and he’s an adult so my hands are tied. I want to text but it just makes him angry. He won’t answer my calls or reply, so I don’t know. Thank you for the encouragement.
@fightingtosurvive6527
@fightingtosurvive6527 Жыл бұрын
I went through this in the 90s and now have adult children who are just full of anger and hate. Children rarely come back around if they've been brainwashed their whole life by the other parent.
@EllenCPickle
@EllenCPickle 5 ай бұрын
I have been alienated for the last 15 years. It worse now they are adults than when i was married to him. Its one of the biggest struggles in my life
@chrissimmons3213
@chrissimmons3213 9 ай бұрын
I have a big problem with the courts telling a parent that if they haven't seen their kid in over 7 or 10 years (although that parent has made attempt after attempt ...but due to the alienating parent no contact has been made ) that it's not good for them to come back into their life because quote" it's been too long," I'm going to say here today that there is no amount of time that is too long. That if a parent has been alienated for let's say 10 years that is not a justification for not allowing a child back into the parents life. First step dad's or stepmothers are allowed to come into a child's life , somebody they never known before and that's all the sudden okay it may be 10 years later after a divorce a stepparent comes in and nobody says anything about that. Even if it's been a 10-year span the biological parents still have tenure over the stepparent. But I see in case law courts saying to biological parents it has been too long that it would be detrimental now..... That should not possibly be true if on the flip side you're okay with allowing a stepparent to come in out of nowhere and it's suppose to be okay when that happens. Step parents come into kids lives sometimes when kids are turning all different ages . Why is it detrimental for example for a biological parent to reconnect after 10 years .....but if let's say the mother remarries when her child is 12 .... This 12 year old knows the biological parent even if it was for one year ( parents divorced at age 1 hypothetically speaking) how can it also not be detrimental for the step parent to all a sudden show up in this child's life ? A total stranger although the biological parent is the one who gets told us detrimental....this is total BS . Second we see Air Force pilots who were shot down in war.....and spent time as a prisoners of war... Some who even they thought were dead come back 15 years or 20 years in one article I read and when they have been absent out of their kids lives and return their kids love them so you can't tell me that it's detrimental because of time time means nothing under these circumstances.
@michellegutierrez2119
@michellegutierrez2119 10 ай бұрын
In my personal experience I’ve seen in my own family members , who have used their child as a form of control to control , the dynamics of the relationship and the situation of the family, of the the loved ones, either by not allowing the other parent to see the child , or turn the child against their own parent , many games and forms of manipulation , that will have a lasting and profound impact in the lives of all involved, many people who have been through this experience . I’ve seen either walk away or are still dealing with it in their own way but indirectly so as to remain in their children’s lives , unfortunately the selfishness of the individual who is not thinking about the child , if they were they would not be doing such acts , both parents being a part of a child’s life is a big part of their lives granted both are healthy individuals…
@virginiahart4480
@virginiahart4480 Ай бұрын
My Ex is part of a very real Organized Crime Group that has specifically targeted me. I am a Former Federal Employee and a very credible Whistleblower against Organized Crime, including, but not limited to, Extensive Political (Both Parties) and Public Corruption at the Federal, State and Local levels. They are retaliating against me for reporting their Organized Crime Group in the most cruel and inhumane ways imaginable, including, but not limited to, alienating my children and systematically brainwashing all 3 of my children against me. It is cruel and evil beyond words and yes, it is child abuse. My case is now a very real Federal (and International) Criminal case. They have committed massive crimes and frauds against me personally and against the United States in multiple jurisdictions in multiple States and in multiple Countries, of which I have reported, giving actual hard evidences (over 3,000+ pieces, thus far). To anyone that is experiencing such evil as Parental Alienation, I pray that God will Intervene on your behalf and your children's hearts, eyes and minds be open to the truth and to you, once again. Sending my love to all Alienated Parents. ❤
@marshiathomas8804
@marshiathomas8804 8 ай бұрын
I have been dealing with this for many, many years! I am the Mom and my ex, who was an alcoholic, systematically groomed my two sons to hate me! I was doing so much better after years of therapy, in dealing with the hostility. I was at peace and just accepted the fact that, no matter what I do, it is always wrong. Unfortunately, my oldest son,, who is also an alcoholic with an explosive temper,, was diagnosed with cancer 6 months ago. He let me know this, even though he never includes me as his family and makes me upset every time I talk to him. So, now, I am pulled back into his horrible behavior. He never fails to call his wife and kids but doesn't include me as "family" I am now, extremely depressed again and cry all the time! I honestly don't know what to do!!
@KFMunozArt
@KFMunozArt 8 ай бұрын
I'm sorry you're dealing with this love. But the best thing you can do is pull back. You've already mourned once for him. Why mourn twice again? If he continually refuses to see the truth.. then its time to move on. You deserve to live your live without having to seek validation from someone whom you already opinion doesn't matter because it mirrors the abuser they had as well. Im not saying to hate him. But to give yourself the space and peace you so deserve.
@juliaa4213
@juliaa4213 Жыл бұрын
Heart Wrenching😢 More prevalent than we realize.. ...
@oh_look_a_nerd384
@oh_look_a_nerd384 8 ай бұрын
We cannot ignore the people that claim this with no backing, yet are coddled by the court as if it was true. My mother never did anything along the lines of this, yet she has been accused of it for years due to be denying any contact with my abuser.
@lotusmccary9365
@lotusmccary9365 7 ай бұрын
@@oh_look_a_nerd384 Me too
@BeingVeryWell365
@BeingVeryWell365 11 ай бұрын
They always place the man as the culprit.
@rwsimonds
@rwsimonds 6 ай бұрын
Fathers are overwhelmingly the targeted parent… I was one. My kids and I have been on the mend for several years now, but it was a dark, helpless time for too long.
@Tigernut84
@Tigernut84 6 ай бұрын
Yea and statistics are men the ones being alienated . Pisses u off huh . Me to . Time for the lies to stop
@tommypearson9260
@tommypearson9260 8 ай бұрын
I been Alienated for 20 years made to pay support and earned a crap ton of interest because of it . I have lost jobs reported it and they just kept the ball rolling but if the other parent had hardships they would understand. Been given up on the fact i'll never see my first born and i am not going to look for him either. At this stage of my life i just want this child support over so i can move on with my family that i created after all the hell i been through ,This is the main reason why the younger generation will not be having children and this country will regret destroying people like this. Soon they will be crying for people to have children and all men will just say no because it's not worth the emotional and financial damage and well being and then that's end human race over because of greed and manipulators 💯
@surewave8202
@surewave8202 8 ай бұрын
This happens during marriages and is often the cause of the divorce - when the other parent finally figures out what is happening (and then it is often too late to change it).
@keyaolson991
@keyaolson991 7 ай бұрын
I'm going through this right now with an ex that displays narcissistic and misogynist behaviors hes grooming my daughter to say things that never happened ,and speaking for her so he can remain in control .Two weeks without her at our home where she has lived for 4 years!!!! It should be illegal
@Skyisnotalimit
@Skyisnotalimit Ай бұрын
Same here. I’ve got two twin teen daughters who I rarely being able to speak with. They never call, never message, if I call they’re annoyed over me calling them or just don’t answer. If there’s any contact, i have to make it. I miss them every day, thinking about them all the time❤❤
@ChildOfFatherGod
@ChildOfFatherGod Жыл бұрын
My son was just fine 2 day ago when I spoke to him he even ask for me to say my number to him and now today he talking about how he don’t care about me and how he don’t care I didn’t let it get to me because I prepared my self for this I know it not my son I know his evil dad is teaching him the wrong stuff
@OG_DMZ
@OG_DMZ 4 ай бұрын
Sadly the Judge doesn’t want to acknowledge it when there’s behavior and evidence. I tried to fight the aliennation in court. But the court allowed my ex wife to disallow the psychologist that would have helped not just the situation but help my son. My son was seen in the hospital twice with suicidal thoughts. My son did not speak to the medical staff. Only my ex-wife did and told them that he was depressed because he was being forced to see me. That was just horrible and for any kid would be untrue, especially when you’ve never done anything to make them feel that way.There should be jail time for parents that do that.
@PatienceScholl
@PatienceScholl 3 ай бұрын
My mother is currently doing this to me with my oldest son (15), and my 3 year old has started making comments to me that he has heard his big brother and his grandma say. I'm so lost as a mother right now, and have contemplated taking my youngest and running away. Not telling my oldest son and mother where I was going and never going back. This is the most painful thing I've ever experienced.
@kevinproulx9137
@kevinproulx9137 9 ай бұрын
God with us all still going through “Parental Alienation” and dealing with our ex spouses who cause the damage (Been almost three years and I am still fighting to see my two teens son & daughter) ❤️🤘✝️
@virginiahart4480
@virginiahart4480 Ай бұрын
Been over 20 years and I don't even know where my children are anymore. They are all completely brainwashed against me.
@mindmoney-p7r
@mindmoney-p7r 11 ай бұрын
To day is my birth day of my kids . last call i did was in novemebr when she said to my son to call me with my first name !! I was devastated , Now I will sue her in the court for parental alienation , and more if I could just put her to jail I will do , some souls never learn love or care for another person,
@erniemillomeda4512
@erniemillomeda4512 Ай бұрын
I got a brain tumor because of parental alienation. My mental health was severely affected. Till now I cannot connect to my daughter, her mother keeping her out of my radar. My brain tumor was removed 5yrs ago. All I can say, please protecr your peace at all cost.
@tapiwasachatayi2082
@tapiwasachatayi2082 4 ай бұрын
Going through a divorce with a narcissist. Expecting this. Don’t know how to counter
@BobBuilder-mq9wr
@BobBuilder-mq9wr 4 ай бұрын
Same and the grandparent and sister are massive controllers I'm very worried
@lawshark
@lawshark 7 ай бұрын
In other countries parental alienation is a crime.
@virginiahart4480
@virginiahart4480 Ай бұрын
It's a crime in the United States also but when the Judge is a close friend/criminal co-conspirator of my Ex, they won't do a thing about it. I base that statement on actual fact. I have undeniable evidence against at least 5 Corrupt Judges and multiple Corrupt Cops. They are retaliating against me personally for reporting their Corrupt a**es and using my children as pawns in their retaliation. 😢 To all targeted, alienated parents, I am so sorry that you are enduring such a heinous, evil crime.
@Norwegian733
@Norwegian733 6 ай бұрын
My ex did this to my children. And to our fellow friends. An evil narsissist. She loves it.
@rewelldrums
@rewelldrums 4 күн бұрын
Sadly my brother is going through this with his bitter ex wife she won’t let him see my niece and my niece now ignores him. He’s trying and is continuing to fight.
@DrLisa-zr2sp
@DrLisa-zr2sp 4 ай бұрын
Sometimes the parent alienates the child because the child is abusive to the parent and after 15-20 years of abuse, abuse in many different ways decides to take back their life and let the child move through life without them. Self love is important...
@virginiahart4480
@virginiahart4480 Ай бұрын
My heart is always open to my children, however, I will not tolerate their continued hateful comments/false accusations and blatant disrespect towards me! Their Father is part of a very real International/Domestic Organized Crime Group that I discovered and upon discovery, reported, giving more than 3,000 + pieces of actual, hard evidences. Those involved are retaliating against me personally for reporting what I discovered, upon discovery and using my children (now adults) as pawns in their retaliation. Yes, self-love and self-respect are important. The alienated parent's life is just as important as the other parent's life. I have been led to believe that I am some horrible human being because I chose to report crimes and frauds, upon discovery and that I am unlovable, unworthy of basic respect. Very true, horrifying situation.
@CelesteWhoknows
@CelesteWhoknows 4 ай бұрын
I just posted a video about a counselor who's claiming parental alienation DOESN'T EXIST! Insanity..
@christineplaton3048
@christineplaton3048 9 ай бұрын
Please be aware that narcissistic siblings do this ALSO.
@chadwinbush6562
@chadwinbush6562 Жыл бұрын
Let’s be honest, women do this to men often! Why are they using this case to push a stigma against men and marketing it!?
@neumaticimpact
@neumaticimpact Жыл бұрын
Because no one can ever tell the truth about women in a public space
@robbytheartist3997
@robbytheartist3997 Жыл бұрын
Women do this more in my experience. It's to gain custody often times.
@chadwinbush6562
@chadwinbush6562 11 ай бұрын
thatscorrect @@neumaticimpact
@DragoSarghi2507
@DragoSarghi2507 9 ай бұрын
Because that fits the agenda to this heartless evil creatures. I hope God will make justice for all the men (60-70% of the cases).
@shawnmurray9964
@shawnmurray9964 9 ай бұрын
@@DragoSarghi2507 here you mention that statistic again, where did you get it?
@Jackknife-TV
@Jackknife-TV 10 ай бұрын
I just gave up 🤷 14 years of BS at this point I felt it was more in my daughter's best interest and my best interest if I just gave up full custody and told my ex and her never to contact me again 😞
@docmediaMlambo
@docmediaMlambo 10 ай бұрын
And how has it been? How is it going? I am about to make this decision myself...does it get any easier?
@ceceparra
@ceceparra 10 ай бұрын
Honestly, I feel like I’m at that point as well. My ex has the millionaire parents that pay for his attorney fees and the judge is onto starting to realize it now but I have a hearing in a few weeks where I can present all the ways my ex has alienated me from my child.
@artermys
@artermys 8 ай бұрын
Don’t give up
@Best-dad-y3d
@Best-dad-y3d 7 ай бұрын
It’s been 4 years since my daughter alienated from me
@keturahholmes2070
@keturahholmes2070 8 ай бұрын
My partner is going through this with his two kids . With two exes he has . It’s crazy their actually people would consider making their kids feel like they don’t have another parent . Also they get the entire world to believe that something is wrong with their other parent . The oldest has done some evil things with her mother and mother has also done some evil things to my partner. They coming around to make it look like they want civil relationship with my partner and my partners family but personally don’t trust it because his ex has caused so much damage to my partner . I don’t think it will ever end with his children but sure let’s me know that she was very abusive to him before she started to use the kid against him and his other ex was too . We have been to court with his oldest many times I will definitely needs to be trained professionals working in these courtrooms and everything about self esteem, depression also anxiety we know his oldest goes through it .
@Apollo-fo4ie
@Apollo-fo4ie 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your reply.
@jennifera2349
@jennifera2349 4 жыл бұрын
This syndrome resembles Stockholm
@theothersideofpleasant
@theothersideofpleasant 4 ай бұрын
My mother is sending videos like this to my husband now to get it in my head that I went no contact for no good reason. Is it possible that the parent alienated hurt the child that much?? Take accountability.
@Ysomultilingual
@Ysomultilingual 8 ай бұрын
I am going through this right now and neither the therapist my child has (on the contract the therapist is contributing to it) nor the guardian ad litum.
@SamanthaS278
@SamanthaS278 26 күн бұрын
I’m gonna use myself as an example. What about if let’s say you have 2 toxic parents and your mom doesn’t care for you since youve been born and your dad doesn’t help at all. And keeps you 2 from having any relationship. I can relate to the last part.
@Isa_is_me1021
@Isa_is_me1021 7 ай бұрын
i fully realized like a few days ago that i was brainwashed and manipulated when i was a kid (2012-2015). it was by both my mother and her now ex husband.
@zenbailamami
@zenbailamami 3 ай бұрын
I'm dealing with this with my youngest son 15 years old 💔
@GavinByrne1808
@GavinByrne1808 6 ай бұрын
I don't know what these women's life stories are. But you're only an expert on this subject if you've lived through it. You don't learn this from a book
@mrpowerfader7962
@mrpowerfader7962 3 ай бұрын
Men suffer this more often than not with most breakups/divorces. The most evil person doesn't care if they destroy their relationship with a person meant to assist and support them. Also evil to find contentment in destroying a child and/fathers loving relationship. Who will love a child more than their own parent.
@Tracyanderson-n5w
@Tracyanderson-n5w Жыл бұрын
NEEDS TO CRIMINAL CHARGED LAWS NEED CHANGE
@ParentalRights.Alabama
@ParentalRights.Alabama 2 ай бұрын
Very good description
@mdjesse1
@mdjesse1 3 ай бұрын
I am reading a lot of “I gave up” or “I will never see them again” or “I told them I was done” in this thread. This what I did. “I promised you that I would love you forever. I am here whenever you need or want me. I will always help you. Because my love for you is forever.” She is very much in my life, even more than she was before. The children hear what is said and as long as you don’t prove the other parent right it will never seem true. Do you have to deal with the negative and not fun visits, yes. But if you are the “good” parent you win the adult that your child will be. That right there is why The WHO and both APAs shun this theory. The only way it works is if you play the game. APA recommends loving unconditionally. You do that you win the adult child, who hopefully is with you for 60 years before you die. Meet hate with love.
@virginiahart4480
@virginiahart4480 Ай бұрын
My Ex willfully, knowingly and intentionally withheld ALL of my Parental Rights, without legal justification and/or cause in retaliation for me reporting his involvement in a very real Organized Crime Group. The Corrupt Judges (multiple) are also willing, knowing and intentional part of his criminal network. They are retaliating against me personally for reporting their criminal network, upon discovery, giving over 3,000 + pieces of actual, hard evidences. It is impossible to love through the hate when being denied basic Parental time and the Court is also retaliating! My children don't care about the truth. My children (now adults) are completely brainwashed against me now. I am a Former Federal Employee with Secret and Top Secret Clearances. I am a Whistleblower against Organized Crime, including, but not limited to, Extensive Political and Public Corruption (Both Parties). My children are not better off in the hands of criminals, no matter how much money said criminals have.
@FutoXar
@FutoXar 2 ай бұрын
How about when older sister or brother uses old parent to turn them against you?
@NikaBurns
@NikaBurns 9 ай бұрын
My veteran husband is experiencing this from his ex. Can anyone please help?
@amadislugo5334
@amadislugo5334 8 ай бұрын
Fellow Veteran on the same boat here.
@NikaBurns
@NikaBurns 8 ай бұрын
Honestly, I just know that if you document the text, know your disability rating (my husband is 90%- includes PTSD/Depression), see a VA therapist and be totally honest/factual and play hopefully the cards right… a lawyer could use it BUT it cost. We are still looking 😢 too. Just start there. Thank you for your service and I am proud of you. Don’t stop fighting, I stand by you sir!
@NikaBurns
@NikaBurns 8 ай бұрын
Also, if you have depression/ptsd, you could claim “intentional emotional distress”.
@nornalhumsn7167
@nornalhumsn7167 Ай бұрын
My family was alienated really bad. Ever see a car do the puddle thing they put on movies for dramatic effect? I was homeless for years. And the only way I can eat today is to suffer the trauma of knowing I am making the same mistakes without a choice, I can't work without eating and I can't get a job while stressed from not having a safe place to live. Someone do something about that, then we can talk about how my mom makes me distrust sobriety from an ethical perspective.
@nornalhumsn7167
@nornalhumsn7167 Ай бұрын
900 a month for a one bedroom where I can't order Chinese delivery and I can't get a car without selling my security for rent debt with late fees. I can't imagine the social justification landlords have over me. I guess they must have been pimped out by salvation army too.
@scottbrooks711
@scottbrooks711 Ай бұрын
The mother of my child does this ! A parent should never talk ill of the other parent. But the other parent doesn’t all ways have the same look on the subject. I’m not perfect but I’m not the bad guy .
@arleneholt1015
@arleneholt1015 6 ай бұрын
Can parental alienation include one parent always siding with the kid(s) in complaints against the other parent?
@sylvias2062
@sylvias2062 6 ай бұрын
It can , but the mindset of a manipulator is complicated as often is the case it has been handed down for generations . The basic motivation of a manipulator is fear they themselves were exposed to . It is not uncommon to move from one generation to set the target onto the next .
@thehubrisoftheunivris2432
@thehubrisoftheunivris2432 7 ай бұрын
How can I counter this?
@dynamitedingo7720
@dynamitedingo7720 7 ай бұрын
Regardless of if the parent did something wrong or not parents should not make the kids hate the other
@sandymyers3148
@sandymyers3148 2 жыл бұрын
My husband is dealing with the madness of some people! weird people
@stephenmarshall2980
@stephenmarshall2980 3 ай бұрын
I love how you use the father as the evil person yet in 90% + of cases it's actually the mother who alienates the child again the father
@oldhippie4206
@oldhippie4206 5 ай бұрын
30 years still today Experience it Involves grandchildren dangling strangers It's abusive, Blaming me Nev once been around anyone or my family In forever grateful my family won't pursue anything from them today it's deserved life,It's devastating experience heartless cruel but they blame away still today hahaha Narcissistic Victims Keep each other Please.
@leejarviscomedian3936
@leejarviscomedian3936 3 ай бұрын
Works both way more so in way of mum towards dad
@ultimate8550
@ultimate8550 Жыл бұрын
This "expert" gave away why the concept is problematic within the first 30 seconds. She says its a family dynamic in which a child has been manipulated to reject the other parent "who did nothing wrong". And how exactly are we differentiating between a parent who did nothing wrong, vs a child that has legitimate concerns due to actual experienced abuse? According to alienation experts, children who have been alienated will exhibit the exact same symptoms as a child who has experience legitimate abuse from a parent. So how are we making the distinction if the behaviors are supposedly the same? As it turns out....courts don't make the distinction very well. So what you have is situations where a protective parent (usually mom) is trying to save their child from further abuse, but then the guilty party (usually dad) will counter claim that the protective parent is trying to "alienate" the child "for no good reason". This tactic overwhelmingly favors fathers in these cases, and these cases are basically ground zero for this nonsense. The appellate courts are already starting to catch onto this trend, hopefully its only a matter of time before the lower courts figure this out.
@Dietconsulting
@Dietconsulting Жыл бұрын
It is worth looking at the literature for this. The most pronounced feature is the "all bad" perception. Even children who are abused will be able to recall good days with the abusive parent A second important feature is the child knowing about and using language that suggests age inappropriate knowledge of the parents relationship.
@ultimate8550
@ultimate8550 Жыл бұрын
@@DietconsultingIn our case, we showed that the child DID love and want to visit their father (This is when we had primary physical custody and she wasn't seeing him as much). The child's therapist at the time even said as much when she talked to the parenting coordinator involved with the case. So if they were alienation experts, shouldn't the child saying anything positive about the father be proof that alienation is not occuring? Keep in mind this is the same child that made disclosures on 3 separate occasions about her father abusing her. However, that was still twisted as us "contradicting" our story and coaching her. So again, even by the supposed criteria of how to differentiate alienation from actual abuse, they failed to do that. Because again, there is no agreed upon, clinical definition. Alienation can basically mean whatever the lawyers, judges and evaluators involved want it to mean.
@ABlessman
@ABlessman Жыл бұрын
Lord, please help to establish government-funded and protected trained specialists for this pathology in all areas of the world (need government funding as narcs go after therapists who successfully deprogram children... causing many therapists to step away...
@silverpairaducks
@silverpairaducks 11 ай бұрын
But only to punish men
@bookman2407
@bookman2407 8 ай бұрын
The term Parental alienation was coind by a discrased phycologist Richard Gardner. He thought it was ok for adults to have sexual encounters with children, and removing them from a sexually or physically abusive parent was actually worse than letting them endure abuse.
@DonaldWomels
@DonaldWomels 2 ай бұрын
So this video ends with the female Councilor specifically pointing out the father! Statics show PAS (parent alienation syndrome) has a 80% likelihood of being initiated by Mothers!
@Gen_XGal
@Gen_XGal 3 жыл бұрын
Is this Amy Baker?
@MycSailor
@MycSailor 6 ай бұрын
Sadly women do it way more often than men and the women have custody which means they are doing very often
@OttoHuszti
@OttoHuszti 7 ай бұрын
I need advice my BM IS DOING this right now
@RunDCM
@RunDCM 6 ай бұрын
Women are the main alienators and leave it to CBS to showcase a male alienator.
@silverpairaducks
@silverpairaducks 11 ай бұрын
We must find a final solution to the white male question
@Reck12358
@Reck12358 4 ай бұрын
More like the other way around!
@Koh569
@Koh569 5 ай бұрын
Sound like my mother.
@inthepipeagain
@inthepipeagain 7 ай бұрын
Of course they speak of this from a womans point of view ..SMH
@bobby8737
@bobby8737 Жыл бұрын
0:52 As if the mental torment to the adult is not enough
@neumaticimpact
@neumaticimpact Жыл бұрын
Right she replies with this question "Why does this matter?"
@briangorman2189
@briangorman2189 3 ай бұрын
A very sexist one sided view video
@bobisbob646
@bobisbob646 11 ай бұрын
They are talking about this as if it is a 2 directional thing. It's women alienating fathers. Every time.
@ceceparra
@ceceparra 10 ай бұрын
You should meet my ex. I have been alienated from our daughter who I raised for the first 8 years of her life and have been stripped away from her for the last year. Only recently has the court started to see what he has been doing but it’s not enough, at least it doesn’t feel like it.
@ceceparra
@ceceparra 9 ай бұрын
@@jmah5553 thank you for saying that. It’s getting a little better each day. We have a Guardian Ad Litem now that I fought to get and he is making some huge changes so I can be in my daughter’s life again and I’m grateful for that. Now I can have calls with my daughter which wasn’t happening before so I’m grateful. Evidence. Evidence. Evidence my friends.
@reallue
@reallue 9 ай бұрын
​@@ceceparra U just described exactly what's going on w/ me, a father, being alienated from my son. It's not that it can't happen to some women. It's that 98% of the time, it's the father that's alienated.
@ceceparra
@ceceparra 9 ай бұрын
@@reallue and that is horrible. Parental Alienation whether it’s the father or the mother is wrong and it should be illegal. Honestly I think if prison sentences were filed for it, maybe it would happen less.
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